Different, not broken
You’ve spent your whole life feeling like something’s wrong with you. Here’s a radical thought: what if you’re not broken - just different? Welcome to Different, Not Broken, the no-filter, emotionally intelligent, occasionally sweary podcast that challenges the idea that we all have to fit inside neat little boxes to be acceptable. Hosted by L2 (aka Lauren Howard), founder of LBee Health, this show dives into the real, raw and ridiculous sides of being neurodivergent, introverted, chronically underestimated - and still completely worthy. Expect deeply honest conversations about identity, autism, ADHD, gender, work, grief, anxiety and everythi...
Bonus · Fri, April 25, 2025
The importance of chosen family for building community
I have two cousins. Two. And I didn’t even meet them until we were all adults. So, yeah—when people talk about the support they get from big, extended families, it’s not exactly the world I know. The importance of chosen family You want to talk about family? Mine has never really fit the greeting-card mold. Forget the idea that blood is always thicker than water. Turns out, the people who pick up the phone, drive hours at the drop of a hat, or tell you that you’re not the crazy one? Sometimes, they’re not even related to you. Sometimes, they are a middle school friend of your mom’s. Let’s get real: not every family is safe. Not everyone gets the shining, warm, leave-it-to-beaver home life you see on TV. (If you’re sitting there thinking, “well, my nuclear family is...fine?”—hold onto that. There are therapists out here with new boats thanks to all of us with tricky dynamics.) So, what do you do when your 'people' aren’t your people ? What does it mean to build and value chosen family—for neurodivergent folks, folks on the margins, and, well, anyone who’s ever needed someone on their side when the world doesn’t play fair? In this episode of "Different, not broken", I’m sharing real, maybe-too-honest stories about losing someone who was never 'official family' but was instrumental to my life. About generational differences in holding onto friends, about the random soulmates and honorary aunts you collect along the way. The secret sauce of having someone who just believes in you—often long after you stop believing in yourself. About how you can cobble together your own safety net when the original factory settings are...suboptimal, at best. If you’ve ever wondered where you fit, or have mourned the distance (or absence) in your 'real' family, or want practical hope that you can find your people, this one is for you. Consider this your permission slip: family isn’t always about who shares your last name, but about who shows up, sees you, and gives you space to be exactly who you are—even if that means starting a new job at 69 or reminding you to tell the world to get lost when you need it most. Hit play to find your new favorite survival strategy for living different—not broken. Because you deserve more than 'good enough'—you deserve family that’s actually safe . (And maybe a few wild stories about just how weird and wonderful that can look.) As always, your support helps keep the podcast going, keep assessments accessible, and keep a whole lot of therapists’ kids in college. Every listen and share goes further than you think. Let’s take down the 'real family only' myth, together. And then be sure to get yourself signed up for all our updates! Newsletter In case the link is broken - <a href="https://differentnotbrokenpodcast.
Wed, April 23, 2025
They Call Me 'The CEO Who Says "Fu*k" On The Internet' - but why?
I’m all about showing up as my true self, and yeah, that means I drop the F-bomb like it’s confetti at a party. Some folks might be turned off by that, but honestly? I couldn’t give a f...! We need to all be about embracing who we are, flaws and all, and that includes my colorful vocabulary. So in this episode, I want to talk with you about how being authentic can actually draw the right people to you – those who vibe with your unapologetic self. So, kick back, grab your jar of fu*ks, throw one straight into the garbage, and let’s get into the messy, beautiful world of just being real! Takeaways you'll learn from listening: Being unapologetically yourself is powerful, even if it includes a few f-bombs. Using humor and raw honesty in conversations can break down barriers and connect people. Your quirks and differences make you unique; embrace them instead of hiding them away. Cursing can create a sense of comfort in tough discussions about mental health and well-being. And if you offend someone, they probably weren't your vibe anyway. Newsletter If the link didn't display properly, here's the naked link - https://differentnotbrokenpodcast.com/newsletter Our patreon - https://patreon.com/elle_two Mentioned in this episode: Sign Up For Our Newsletter Stay updated on all the things! Get added to our newsletter mailing list. Newsletter
Bonus · Fri, April 18, 2025
They Shot Him in 12 Seconds — Because He Couldn’t Speak
This episode is a rallying cry for empathy and understanding, especially for those who are non-verbal or struggle to communicate. Stop calling the police on Brown and Black people Did you catch the story of Victor Perez? If you didn't, I urge you to do so. In this bonus episode of "Different, not broken" I want to explore the layers of miscommunication that led to his death and how society's perception of 'threat' is often skewed by race and misunderstanding. We have an urgent need for crisis intervention resources that do not involve police, but instead spotlight community-based alternatives. The tragic reality is that in just 12 seconds, a life was lost due to a system that is ill-equipped to handle individuals in crisis. This bonus episode intends to share resources and insights that aim to educate and empower you, as a listener, to advocate for change and compassion in your community. Links referenced in this episode: dontcallthepolice.com autismandrace.com
Wed, April 16, 2025
What is different, not broken? And why am I mortified by it?
Hi, I'm Lauren Howard. You can call me L2. Everybody does. I'm the CEO who says fuck on the internet a lot. We'll get more into that later... Our podcast "Different, Not Broken" isn't fucking about. We'll explore the often-overlooked dichotomy between being different and feeling broken. It's my jam to recognize individuality, particularly among those who have been systematically marginalized for their unique traits. This episode serves as a foundational exploration of this podcast's ethos: to challenge the pervasive narrative that equates neurodiversity and other forms of individuality with dysfunction or inadequacy. I'm starting as I mean to go on here. I'm owning how mortified I am to be hosting a podcast. I believe we all have this shared human experience of wanting to belong while grappling with the pressure to conform. Anyway, words. I'll explain more in the episode, so time for you to listen. Click play. And please do hit the follow button in whichever app you're listening to this on. Thanks. Love you, mean it. Newsletter Mentioned in this episode: Sign Up For Our Newsletter Stay updated on all the things! Get added to our newsletter mailing list. Newsletter
Trailer · Thu, April 03, 2025
Different, not broken (Trailer)
You are different, not broken! And this podcast is for you. The podcast delves into the profound notion that societal norms often dictate how individuals should perceive themselves and their identities. The speakers assert that the premise of conformity is fundamentally flawed; they challenge the idea that one's inherent characteristics warrant correction or modification. Through candid reflections on personal experiences, they explore the concept of embracing one's 'boring' life as a means of healing. The discussion emphasizes that what might seem unremarkable or mundane can, in fact, serve as a sanctuary for mental wellness. The narrative is anchored in the belief that many individuals have been subjected to the erroneous notion that they must alter their authentic selves to gain acceptance. This podcast serves as a rallying cry for those who have felt marginalized by such expectations, reinforcing the idea that being 'different' is not synonymous with being 'broken.'
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