Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo. Strap-on sex is a seductive, passionate option to add to your treasure chest of possibilities as a sexually adventurous couple or a sexually explorative single. This podcast explores the physical, emotional and psychological aspects of pegging. Pegging has the potential to be a powerful tool in revitalizing or adding spice to almost any relationship. Strap-on sex involves role reversal. The penetrator becomes the penetrated. The one usually receiving is giving. The one usually in control is not. All kinds of exciting and sometimes...
Sun, January 19, 2025
Masculine Surrender Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here. A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called 'virginity'. I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but especially for the intensely masculine receivers. Allowing a bit of feminine in to help find balance can be refreshing, wondrous and healing. Not having to be in control can be a relief, startling in contrast to the daily expectations of society. And the stuff about 'virginity'. Whew. Perhaps it was an innocent question, but the word itself represents so much bad stuff, and not any good that I can see. Educate yourself. Carry the good forward and discard the bad. The concept of virginity isn't doing anyone any favors. You'll hear this in the recording, but I will be leaving Instagram and Threads today, the 19th. There are a lot of reasons, most of which many of you will also be familiar with. I will not participate in a social media platform that simply doesn't care about hate speech and misinformation. Since most of my connecting with you lovely folx happens on Fetlife.com and Reddit, I can make this move and not have it affect me negatively. I'm really liking BlueSky. Give it a try - link below. Info and Articles The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter - Article Bend Over and Take it - Article Virginity and the Hymen Myth - Article by NZ Sexual Health Society Here I am on BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/rubyryder.bsky.social Here are my TikTok videos <a href="http
Sun, December 29, 2024
taking a longer dildo when pegging Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms! Rectosigmoid Junction Injury - seeking information Condoms on toys? Receiver feeling clingy and needy after pegging Articles and Information Rectosigmoid junction article Removing odors from silicone toys Pegging and aftercare In this short take you will find an attempt at crowdsourcing for a gentleman who had a depth play injury at the rectosigmoid junction. He also had a horrible experience with an MD who couldn't get beyond his own discomfort to give good care. Next, she wonders why all people don't use condoms on toy? Finally, he's new at pegging, and was very surprised at the emotional fallout afterwards. Namely, feeling clingy and needy for a couple of days afterwards. This question was on Reddit and one commenter responded so well I felt like you all needed to hear it. That link will take you to the original post. Sale of all 3 of my Webinars good through the end of the year! You need this is your sex education library! Here's to much more pegging in 2025. I think we can all, or almost all, toast to that! Happy Holidays to you all and may you enjoy the loveliest celebration(s) ever. The post Short Take on Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Sun, December 15, 2024
He wonders what to say in the moment for givers who are beginners and asks what I might have wanted to hear! He's puzzling out the details of how to take a bigger toy. The lube must be slippery and they need the right harness so the new toy is over her bits! Articles/Information Different Ways of Opening Up For Pegging - Article Reddit post about Silolis Anal Training Plugs All About the Rectosigmoid Junction - Article Equipment Fukena Sliquid Silk X-Lube CBD Butt Stuff CBD Palm Grease Extra Greasy Silolis Anal Training Sets Aslan Leather Commando Harness Square Peg Slink Hosed Tapered Flexible Silicone Anal Hose Tantus Snake Tantus Cones Banana Pants Bumpher - to grind against Banana Pants Lippi grind with or without vibe Best vibe for Lippi <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/nu-sensu
Thu, December 05, 2024
Initial Insertions require good foreplay! Initial Insertion Short Take Jessica's question is common for new Givers. She's concerned about g etting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion doesn't need to be unpleasant for the receiver. For the giver, when you take the right steps to open up the ass , initial insertion goes more smoothly. This can give you more confidence in that all-important moment of sliding it home! WTF are Short Takes? This is the first of what I am calling my Short Takes. Shorter audio clips and more often is the goal. Hope you enjoy. Might be easier to listen to shorter podcasts as well. Having a tough time at the family gathering? Take 10 minutes out and listen to me talk about dildos and asses! I plan to drop these on no specific schedule, but will strive to satisfy all you listeners who have been so deprived on my podcasts. Upcoming Sale Advance notice of year end sale on all 3 of my Webinars. The Premium Pegging Package will go on sale December 15th through the end of the year, discounted from $99 to $75. This will enable you to have a complete educational pegging library on hand for new partners, additional partners, or your own review.The best part about the recorded webinars is the on-demand flexibility that allows you to view them on your own time frame as opposed to when I have a webinar scheduled. Dr Carlton's Butt Clock Happy Pegging and No Shame! The post Short Take on the Initial Insertion appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Wed, February 14, 2024
Pegging Paradise Podcast #303 Just when you wondered if you'd lost me... Another podcast pops right up! Both sides of an amazing pegging story Some new toys after the ANME show! All 3 Webinars are now recorded and available for on-demand viewing Happy Hour Chats with Ruby are now a thing Private consultations can be scheduled here Information/Articles All 3 Webinars Recorded Happy Hours Equipment Strap On Me Unique Harness dual penetration one size waist 25 - 35 Strap On Me Tapping Wave Dildo 6" x 1.5" suction cup waterproof Strap On Me Realistic 6" x 1.69" suction cup dual density Tantus Uncut Realistic O2 #1 ~8" x 1.75" no suction cup Tantus Uncut Realistic O2 #2 6.4" x 1.6" no suction cup Tantus Anal Training Cones Small, Large, and Squat
Mon, October 16, 2023
"I love seeing you like this." My interviewee, Steve, has heard these words many times while receiving pegging from his partner. We hear Steve's story about how he began walking down the path of pegging and how his experience has evolved over the years. He speaks eloquently about what he loves about pegging, and his explorations into crossdressing and chastity. This podcast might be a reassurance to pegging givers who are concerned when their receivers express a desire to crossdress. Hearing personal stories can be heartening and enlightening. Enjoy! Information/Articles Toxic Toys - Article Girls on Porn Podcast Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted,Too - Article Chastity and Pegging - Article Nicole Prause on Neurohackers Interview , Medium , Another Intervie w Equipment SpareParts Joque Harness Fuze Tango Strap On Me Vibrating Double Strap On Me Dual Density</a
Fri, August 18, 2023
Pegging Paradise Podcast #301 Prince of Pegging Dogs and Cars and Escapes Email lists and marketing Pretty Dildos! Pegging Celebration Time! He finally asks for it and gets it plus more! Vagus Nerve considerations post heart attack He discovers real femdom exists and I talk about consent He is so giving to her that she revisits his love of anal play and he's hopeful Podcast #112 is a lighthouse for him is so many wonderful ways He seeks a solution to a complicated toy issue Information/Articles Dr. Joe Kort on men wanting to feel desired Paper - Anal sex after Cardiac event Podcast #112 Equipment Andrew Christian Jock Straps! Unicorn Tongue Dildo 2.3" x 7.4" Mr Hankey's Toys Beefcake Small 2.2" x 6.44" Alien Breeder Small 2.18" x 7.5" Kthulu Small 2.4" x 7.5" Banana Pants dildo covers Bumpher - cover <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/bumpher-shagger-dildo-base/#rubyryder" target="_blank" rel="
Mon, July 10, 2023
More dominant, please - the thought going through many receivers minds. The magic of Pegging, in my opinion, is that it is a customizable sexual activity. Pegging can look many different ways depending on the desires and leanings of the people involved. One couple might enjoy a sensual, love-making experience while another might prefer a full-on BDSM scene with restraints, impact play , and humiliation. A desire I see expressed often by receivers in pegging groups on Reddit , and in emails sent to me is for the giver to be more dominant. "How can I get my partner to be more dominant while fucking me?" "Sometimes I really wish she would just grab me and fuck me and act a little more dominant." "I've asked my partner to be more dominant, but she said she doesn't know how." This is a common desire in the world of pegging. So how can couples best navigate this added aspect to their pegging play? I recorded my thoughts on this subject for you all. The answer is more involved than you would think. Good communication is essential. Knowing what you like and dislike is also important for both givers and receivers. Remember, the willingness to explore is commendable and a true gift to your partner and your relationship! You don't know whether you will like it if you have never tried it, right? Happy Pegging! The post How to Be More Dominant While Pegging Your Partner appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Sun, July 09, 2023
Soft Cock Week is Coming! Podcast #300 Part 2, where Michelle and I continue the conversation talking about responsive desire, celebrating people's no, and more. We explore touch, awakening the prostate, foreplay in solo anal exploration, and giving yourself permission. And don't forget, Soft Cock Week is coming again November 5 - 11, 2023! There are so many subjects around soft cocks that we discuss. Even how the word cock seems to be more favored by one racial demographic - with no studies to prove it! Articles/Information E mily Nagoski - Come As You Are Cuddle Party Soft Cock Week November 5 - 11, 2023 Soft Cocktail Mixer 2022 Barry McCarthy - Coping With Premature Ejaculation Mark G
Sun, July 09, 2023
Presenting Podcast #300 Presenting Podcast #300! I am joined by Michelle Rene, sexual surrogate, sex worker, intimacy guide, human connection coach and creator of Soft Cock Week. We talk about many. many things. You will surely find some nuggets in there for yourself. Thanks for listening! Articles/Information Pegging Gangbang Interview #146 Part One Pegging Gangbang Interview #146 Part Two Podcast #200 Part One And Podcast #200 Part Two Podcast #200 Part Three Stan Tatkin - Wired For Love Jessica Fern - Polysecure - Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-Mono <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/polysecure-attachment-trauma-and-consensual-nonmonogamy-jessica-fern/14490
Sun, June 11, 2023
Pegging Paradise Podcast #299 She used to peg him but not anymore. Advice? He wonders if pushing the cock and balls back behind the legs has a point? He wants to find the right formula to increase her enthusiasm and pleasure Pegging Celebration Time! He has Equipment questions after their first 3 times He comments on my article and tells a story Seven words and a grammar lesson Shout out and a question Sub seeks prostate orgasm and wants more pleasure for his mistress He's post-op prostate cancer, seeking advice about a strap-on for him He's a virgin looking for a dominant partner, advice? She said no, he made a Funky Rocker! Articles/Information Review of Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Review of Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double Sign up for my webinars! Chairman Position Givers Discord Chat - email me: Ruby@ PeggingParadise.com Midori's DIY Scarf Harness When Dominant Women Suck Submissive Dick Cam Fraser Interview Mish Middelmann The Case For Cock Owners Using a Strap-On Equipment Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Double <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/strap-on-me-bendable-vibrating-
Fri, April 07, 2023
Podcast #298 features talk of the JimSupport Sex Sling Pegging Paradise Podcast #298 Consultations with Ruby are now easy to schedule! PCT! He tells his story, from anal play to pegging PCT! He shares his journey from diet to exploration to pegging! His reflections after one year of pegging He shares his experience with Snug Plugs 1-4 and bicycling! They are exploring more and more. He’s excited and terrified all at once! Articles/Information Zoom Consultations with Ruby Review of JimSupport Sex Sling Breathtaking Butt Plug Article Pegging Positions for Beginners More Pegging Positions Article - Asking Her to Try It Equipment Aneros Prostate Massager Sex Card Games Jim Support Sex Sling <a href="https://enticeme
Mon, March 20, 2023
Podcast #297 brings all kinds of good things, like putting on a show for your partner, thinking hard about the connection of bisexuality and pegging, and a deep dive (pun intended) into lube options. PLUS, I finally found a lube option for you wide toy aficionados that measures up to my lube snob standards - yay! If you are going to put something in your body, make sure it's safe. That axiom applies to toys as well as lube! For those of you interested in different techniques to help open up to pegging pleasure, I'm hooking you up with Dr Carlton's butt clock technique, too. So effective! Enjoy podcast #297. For Your Listening Pleasure! She waxes poetic about pegging, and wonders about positions and toys She wonders about the assertion that all men who enjoy pegging are on some level interested in the real thing Receiver/Giver Reddit shares of their first time pegging He discovers solo shower play and puts on a show for his wife! Discovering pegging at a later age has it challenges, and he’s looking for ways to make it easier and more enjoyable for her Lube info/opinions, from a man with decades of anal play experience! He’s having a hard time relaxing with solo play Articles/Information Pegging Positions Ciren Virde Interviewed by Leyna Nguyen of Consenting Adults Podcast Venus Cuckoldress Interviews Ruby! Reddit Forum - Straight Pegging Podcast #112 for the Givers The Webinars! <a href="https://peggingparadise.com/
Thu, December 01, 2022
Pegging Paradise Podcast #296 My interview with Zach Budd, and his reflections on consent, anal receptive play, and where the two meet, are an interesting listen. The journey he took that led him to take a deep dive into exactly what consent means in our world is fascinating. We discuss why guerilla ass play and stealth sodomy are never okay, and how an enthusiastic yes is the only true consent. Last but far from least, Zach shares the tip of the iceberg on the subject of anal receptive play for men in the back community, a subject many of you have wondered about. Enjoy! Movember Month End Push for the Bodacious Tatas! Wrap Up of Soft Cock Appreciation Week with Michelle Rene Interview with Zach Budd Happy Holidays! Articles/Information Consent, Kink and the Law - Zach Budd Soft Cock Week Resources! Gang Bang Podcast Part 1 - Michelle Rene Gang Bang Podcast Part 2 - Michele Rene Gang Bang Story From the Receiver Gang Bang Erotic Story Movember Donating Link Equipment <l
Fri, November 11, 2022
Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #295 Podcast #295 is my offering to Soft Cock Appreciation Week , the brainchild of Michelle Renee at HumanConnectionCoach.com . For too long, there has been far too much emphasis on erections, how to get them, what to do if you don't have one, and pretty much everything that surrounds the constant quest for an erection. Let's celebrate soft cocks in all their glory! It's not hard, head over to the website and check out all the offerings from so many different sex educators and sexuality professionals. Officially begins November 13th and lasts through November 19th, which is when there will be a variety of events, and there are already resources and offerings to explore; a wealth of information! Moved to donate to Movember? It's not hard: Click here to Donate to the Movember Fundraiser for Ruby Ryder AND Soft Cock Appreciation Week! Articles/Information Cam Fraser/Mish Middelmann Interview Rediscovering Life and Manhood After Prostate Cancer Movember's True North - Life After Prostate Cancer Treatment The Conscious Locker Room - Tully O'Conner - Podcast The Man Rules Podcast With Dan Griffin Movember Fundraiser for Soft Cock Appreciation Week! Soft Cock Appreciation Week The Case for Cock Owners Using a Strap-on </li
Thu, October 27, 2022
Mr Hankey's Long John Mr Hankey's Largo Pegging Paradise Podcast #294 My Interview with Lex, IMO an expert on longer and wider toys. With his background of product designer, engineering, artistic creativity, constant curiosity and a large dose of chemical and physical science, Lex takes us on a very deep dive (pun intended) into this more extreme toy play. This podcast is a long one (another pun intended)! Right as I was putting this podcast together, I received a promotional email from Mr. Hankey's, and both the Largo and Long John are on sale 15% off! Lovely coincidence. Articles/Information Sell used sex toys on Reddit Circumference/diameter conversion Sapiens - Book by Yuval Noah Harari Movember is coming! </
Thu, September 22, 2022
Podcast #293 - for your listening pleasure! He describes his sexual assault (trigger warning) Short and sweet happy news! He loves feminization and she's concerned He introduces us to the 'Peg Pal' term! Pegging Celebration Time! They pegged before, but not for a while. This time was amazing! Pegging Celebration Time! New relationship and pegging is a happening thing! Pegging Celebration Time! After 3 years, it finally happened Pegging Celebration Time! Peggers from Belgium - He tells their story! She wonders if he relaxes through the have to pee, if he will orgasm? Articles/Information The Truth About Strapless Strap-Ons Podcast #112 - For the Givers All the Pegging Paradise Podcasts! Equipment Lucky Glitter Dildo by Avant Pink Aslan Leather Minx harness Hope you enjoyed podcast #293! Two more things... Two Awesome Things - Sex Swings and Podcast #293! I have talked about my amazing sex swing before. You know, the one that doesn't require a hard point, is free-standing, and breaks down to a duffel bag so you don't have to have a dedicated sex play room...? I showcase it in every equipment webinar I teach, because besides being amazing for pegging, it's excellent for less able-bodied givers and receivers! A new company took over the brand, and now offers an affiliate program, which I of course signed up for pronto. They offer not only sex swings,
S1 E292 · Sun, July 31, 2022
Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #292! Podcast #292 brings you new toys, discussion about dominant and submissive labels, and much more! Ruby discusses Sexual Dominance, Submission and Labels Response to ED/age issues from #279 Response to wanting to feel pretty #291 His story about bisexuality and pegging with his wife He wants his wife to get pleasure from pegging New Strap On Me Clit Sucking Vibrating Double! Listener shares many thoughts revolving around pegging She wasn't fully on board with pegging and shamed/judged him... Now she's fully on board, and he doesn't trust her Articles/Information When Dominant Women Suck Submissive Dick Review Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Double Review Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Clit Sucking Double! The Truth About Strapless Strap-Ons Tom Ford Quote About Male Penetration 3D Model of Clitoris Dr Carlton on IG about Poppers </li
Wed, June 01, 2022
https://www.reddit.com/r/HiddenStrapon/ Podcast #291 Rolls Into Town! So - Some great stuff with this podcast. My fascination with vulnerability continues. So I gathered together a number of shares about the emotional vulnerability felt by receivers during pegging. And then we have a celebration, too! To begin with, more suggestions for incorporating pain with pegging Pegging after a prostatectomy? Pegging brings up his lack of vulnerability in his relationship Then, he sends a vote for men feeling sexy and beautiful! He feels shame with his solo anal (esp big) toy play He wonders about terminology for pegging partners He seeks info to begin exploring depth play Pegging Celebration Time! Their first time was so emotionally satisfying for him! He eloquently shares the intense emotions he feels from pegging He shares therapist's suggestion about shadow work And finally, he shares his anal story - from shame to thrills! Articles and Information Figging - Wikipedia Tiktok capsicum video removed, sorry! Aneros Forum - register and then search for 'prostatectomy' Podcast #35 - pegging after prostatectomy Podcast #109 - discussion about PSA and prostate cancer Podcast #168 - pegging after prostatectomy Cam Fraser/Mi
Fri, April 22, 2022
Monster Mitts Washable Vampire Gloves Letter from an appreciative Patron He struggles with shame due to pegging She wants to satisfy his desire for masochism during pegging He loves the anticipation and looking sexy for his partner He shares about letting go of the past and asking for anal play Pegging Celebration Time! Same couple! He shares their story Pegging Celebration Time! After a slow start, their pegging play takes off! Their partner has femininity concerns around wearing a strap-on He graciously consents to do a pre-pegging interview A BDSM scene goes wrong and he's at a loss, worried about the future Having done
Wed, March 23, 2022
Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #289 Podcast #289 is in the room and ready to play! No butts in the USA He discovers about real trust with pegging New to pegging but not solo play, he has size questions He lets go of the shame and guilt, and talks to his wife He has some questions about vibe vs no vibe She seeks a toy that has no curve He found Homme Mystere - men's lingerie! Pegging Celebration Time! After 9 years, he asks and she says yes! Articles/Information Podcast #112 - Introduction for Givers Trying Anal Sex - advice column reply Men's Lingerie and more! Homme Mystere KoalaSwim.com XDress.com Janet's Closet Crossdressers Boutique ActivSkin - Legwear for Men Secret Male Equipment Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Double Blush Impressions Vibrating Dildos <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/pegasus-harness-and-dildo
Sat, March 12, 2022
Ruby Ryder shares long legged woman in red latex stockings and red strap-on with dildo For your listening pleasure - it is indeed time to... Lend an Ear to Podcast #288! She offers more info re: chastity, cuckolding & humiliation questions He noticed men's clothing ads in the US don't show asses - WTF? Podcast #112 Story - He mustered the courage and she was receptive! From #286 - He suggests gussying up the harness that fits! Ruby was kicked off IG, and made another account (eye roll) Beginner's Webinar now Recorded and available On Demand! Articles/Information Pegging Paradise Podcast #112 Beginner's Webinar Recorded! Ruby's New Instagram account Ruby on TikTok Equipment Njoy Purewand Aslan Leather Commando Harness The post Lend an Ear to Podcast #288 appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Tue, February 01, 2022
NewTumbl.com Podcast #287 Greets the New Year! He sends fan mail! Encouraging pegging with his wife plus CD and ED issues He has lube and harness questions He has questions about the angle of toy vs rectum She checks in 5 yrs later on pegging, chastity & cuckolding He can relate to the term 'Man Box' Thoughts about the term 'just joking' He craves much, much, more pegging He wants pegging but doesn't want to push his wife Articles/Information Crossdressing Podcast #131 CD Podcast #182 Part One and Part Two CD Podcast #255 Part One and Part Two The Case For Cock Owners Using a Strap-On Silicone Lube and Silicone Toys Midori's DIY Scarf Harness All About X-Lube - Mixing, etc Midori’s Rope Harness - video AFemmeCock Rope Harness - video <a href="https://peggingpara
Fri, January 28, 2022
Podcast #112 for the Givers The Introduction The introduction of the concept of pegging is the hardest part for most hopeful receivers. Broaching the subject with their partner often requires courage and communication. That's exactly the situation that this podcast was created for. Since podcast #112 has gotten so much air time - I am reposting it so that the downloader apps will include it once again. (If you are looking for the podcast #253 for prospective receivers, click here .) I recorded this podcast for all you hopeful receivers. Use it to introduce the idea of pegging to your prospective giver. But please listen to it yourself first! Only you can decide if it is appropriate for your partner. If you decide that it is, the best idea is to listen to is together . That way you can pause the recording, if and when they have questions. This podcast will take them through the myriad of myths and misconceptions, and offer accurate information to replace them. Throughout, I emphasize the relationship above all. In this way your prospective giver will be able to respond to your request instead of reacting to it with any incorrect assumptions. There are never any guarantees, but this podcast has received rave reviews! I hope success is yours, and that you and your partner enjoy many pegging sexy times together! The post Podcast #112 – The Introduction appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Fri, December 31, 2021
Podcast #286 completes 2021 with style! Enjoy the pegging celebration stories, and everything else this episode has to offer. Happy New Year! Movember ends with Bodacious Tatas! New Article - Stigma of Big Toys Comment on ED issues from #279 Pegging Celebration Time! Beatrice & Dante do the deed a month after interviewing me! He wonders whether to explore pegging... She asked him about butt stuff! He is thrilled. A small toy left him sore - advice? Pegging Celebration Time! They rediscovered pegging - with excellent results! His partner is concerned about combining chastity and pegging He has questions about harnesses for her enjoyment Face down, ass up! Articles/Information Ruby's Bodacious Tatas Big Toys and Stigma Cheating on Fear Podcast #43 Chastity and Pegging Plastic bag hack for fabric harnesses Equipment Spareparts Sasha Dirty Darlings on Etsy Bumpher dildo base pad The post Podca
Wed, November 10, 2021
Pegging Paradise Podcast #285 Movember Ushers in... Trigger Warning: talk of suicide Movember ushers in thoughts of masculinity, mean's health, men's mental health and the Movember Foundation! This podcast is full of personal shares from men who have struggled with mental health, suicide, and life's hardships. They share with us stories of how they coped, what they learned and what advice they have for other men who are struggling. These were all taken from the Movember website. This is the month that I urge you all to take a good long look at the differences between how we raise girls and how we raise boys, and how boy's trauma of being disconnected from emotions and authenticity follows them through their lives, with disastrous consequences for everyone. Men's partners, children, friends and society as a whole suffers from the dominant, tough it out, competitive, 'never let them see your pain' rules instilled young boys. We can do better! Articles/Information Movember - Ruby's Mo Space! Please donate. Rapid, at home COVID testing by tele-med The Will to Change, "Men, Masculinity and Love" Bell Hooks Remaking Manhood Podcast wit
Mon, October 25, 2021
Reddit/Pegging Into your mailbox and straight to your ears? Are you one of those people who gets your notification that a podcast was delivered into your mailbox, and you immediately queue it up? Or do you save them to savor later? Either way...enjoy! For Your Listening Pleasure The clips/gifs/photos I send to patrons offer him an interesting opportunity He waxes poetic about their new love of 'leather strappage' He shares about age, virility, touch, and aftercare His eloquent story about a session solo pegging play A trans man wonders if my webinar could help him use a strap-on They've pegged, he wants more, she's not doing it, help? He finds reassurance in my website; he's not alone, & he's perfectly okay Articles/Information Ruby at Bawdy Storytelling Podcast #112 - for potential Givers Equipment Liberator Bon Bon Toy Mount Fun Factory Bootie Plugs Fuze Alpha Dildo Silicone cock ring More fun things will fall into your mailbox, soon! The post <a href="https://peggingparadise.com/2021/10/into-your-mailbox-falls-podc
Sat, October 16, 2021
reddit/pegging_unkinked Pegging Paradise Podcast #283 Presenting Podcast #283 for your listening pleasure! He wants to be slut shamed; she needs suggestions He masturbated with anal play in front of her, and has feels about it Trying to get his wife on board with pegging He's having trouble with penetration about 3-4 inches in He's curious about a cleaning bottle and toy sharing Pegging Celebration Time! He shares his love of anal play and then #112 sends them on their way! Articles/Information Dirty Talk Resources Pleasure Mechanics Podcast Dr. Liz Powell online course Dr. Liz Powell free handout Jordan Gray - article book Exhibitionism for the Shy book Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty Podcast #112 - For potential Givers Puborectalis Muscle Diagram <a href="https://www
Tue, September 21, 2021
NewTumbl.com Pegging Paradise Podcast #282 Want advice - When he asks for what he wants, she shuts him down She struggles with self-confidence and the learning curve He speaks eloquently about opening up and submission She understands her husband more after reading my story He wonders if pegging encourages cuckolding? Articles/Information Janet Hardy - The Sexually Dominant Woman Pegging Positions All the parts of the 'Being Seen' story for you! Part One - A Yearning to Inspire a nd Inform Part Two - Te ll Me What You Want Part Three - Use Your Words, Swee tcakes Part Four - A Sound Fucking Co mmences Part Five - Two Weeks of Fond Memories Part Six - The Shyne
Sat, September 11, 2021
NewTumbl.com Pegging Paradise Podcast #281 Ruby shares a few (more) thoughts on Pegging and Orientation Relax, Respond, and React got him to his first HFO! She shares her views on what makes a good bottom! He's on his butt path, pegging will happen soon, & she's excited! He lets go of his shame, is honest with his partner, and finds a measure of peace Pegging Celebration Time! He tells their story of erotic anticipation and the better-than-fireworks that followed He speaks of men's need for emotional, physical, sensual and sexual openness, and the orgasms (not ejaculations) that can follow Articles and Information Anal Pleasure and Health - Jack Morin Podcast #112 for the Receivers Bawdy Storytelling Podcast - Flashback - Ruby tells a Story! Equipment Shop a curated selection of body-safe, non-toxic, luxury pleasure products (including awesome pegging equipment) at EnticeMe.com Coupon code Ryder for free shipping! The post Podcast #281 Pops Up Like Magic! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Fri, September 03, 2021
NewTumbl.com Pegging Paradise Podcast #280 The need for receiver aftercare and what it can look like He's a newbie at prostate stimulation. First time kind of freaked him out. We all just want to be loved and accepted Articles and Information Tony Porter - A Call to Men Tony Porter - The Roles Men Play Podcast #250 Brené Brown Listening to Shame Sex Positive Therapist Dr. Tom Murray Equipment Shop for Pegging Equipment at Entice Me! The post #280 – The Need For Receiver Aftercare appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Sun, July 25, 2021
newtumbl.com She's puzzled and dismayed by the difficulties of searching for a partner at 65 My thoughts about the challenges older men face with intimacy and age-related ED His thoughts about being a good bottom, and trying to be authentic as a submissive man in the middle east He's arrived, after waiting too long, and puts his feelings into words My podcasts are like a window to his soul; reassuring him he is just fine, and not alone Articles/Information Ted talk - Tony Porter and the Man Box The Little #MeToo Book for Men Broken Boner Radio host interviews Dale Thomas Vaughn at the Good Men Project Tom Murray, sex-positive therapist Podcast #250 - TONS of links about Men's Mental health The Case for Cock Owners Wearing a Strap-on Equipment Spareparts Deuce Harness for Cock Owners Pure for Men Fiber Supplement The post Podcast #279 – Challenges for the Old Folks! appeared first on Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise .
Fri, July 23, 2021
Check the perspective - install a bar above the bed...? From r/Pegging_Unkinked Givers! I would love to hear from you - In your pegging world, what makes a good bottom? Of course it's very individual for each giver and each couple. So tell me, what does your receiver do/not do to make your pegging experience most enjoyable? In this episode I talk about what I like, as well as some generalities that might be true for most givers (but not all!). Help me add to this list, or just tell me your stories! Good Bottom Characteristics Responsiveness Communication Ability to relax Eagerness/enthusiasm to get fucked Expressions of dominance/submission Panties/garters/stockings Role play of your preference Care/cleaning of equipment before/after Cleaning out for a hopefully poo-free pegging Ability to allow vulnerability Willingness to communicate Making sounds/dirty talk Knowing how your body responds through experience/self-play Willingness to take a bigger toy - for me Be respectful/helpful of energy levels of the giver! Other News Thanks to patrons and donors! Phone number fully functional - goodbye Skype! Would love to hear experiences of submissive givers Articles/ Information Aneros Wiki - the Super-O Email me for a givers chat invite Invites to Discord chat co-ed and receivers only (805)500-6544 Donation Link The post <a href="https://peggi
Thu, April 29, 2021
Pegging Paradise Podcast #276 Pegging Celebration Time! Communication was key. He tells their long story! She wonders what the clear liquid from her partner is? She shares some helpful resources of their path to pegging They are inspired by the long story request, and tell theirs! He is courageous, tells his wife about sucking the toy and his bi-curiosity His wife is not interested, even in butt plugs. What to do? He wonders how the Tango and Tango X measurements compare She is injured and unable to peg him - he's desperate for a replacement Articles/Information Emily Nagoski - Book - Come as You Are Pleasure Mechanics Comparison Photo of Tango and Tango X Dr. Tom Murray - Kink-friendly, sex-positive Therapist Podcast #112 - For the Ladies Equipment Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double SpareParts Sasha Harness We-Vibe Vector Aneros Vice 2 <a href="https://enticeme.com/prod
Tue, April 20, 2021
Found this online and couldn't resist sharing. Check out the view from inside, and maybe from outside this hotel room, too! Hotel shenanigans can be very exciting, especially for exhibitionists! The post Check Out the View From This Window!! appeared first on Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise .
Mon, March 29, 2021
Pegging Paradise Podcast #276 His solo anal play now involves his wife, but still no pegging, help? She's feeling very left out with his newfound love of pegging He's concerned about large girth toys and potential damage He waxes poetic about his sex life and has a few questions, too! He seeks information about lubes He seeks books on female dominance and a clit sucking toy New Discord Chat Groups open to all! Articles/Information Podcast #112 Reddit Straight Pegging - discussion only Reddit Pegging - Porn only Reddit Pegging Unkinked - Non-BDSM Porn Dr. Tom Murray - Kink-friendly, sex-positive Therapist Podcast #271 - XL toy use info from listener (@end of podcast) Square Peg Width Play Square Peg Health and Safety Guide Bespoke Surgical About Anal looseness/care Bespoke Surgical How to Bottom Lube info from Tiffany <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/search?q=Sharyn+Ferns+FEMDOM&qid=e3guSgCRWs" target=
Fri, March 12, 2021
Pegging Paradise Podcast #275 Photo credit - PrettyDomme FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/9700337?sp=1 Only Fans: https://onlyfans.com/prettygfdomme Pegging Celebration Time! His first time causes a loss of his faculties! He wants pegging. She doesn't. He wants pegging. Her, not so much. Their Strap On Me Double and Joque have issues He wants pegging. She doesn't want to see him as submissive. Upsizing from 7 x 1.5 to 10.5 x 1.75. Advice? A couple of Reddit tidbits He wants pegging. She doesn't want to see him as feminine. He sends me his thanks for 'opening him up' My thoughts about realistic toys and more Articles/Information Dr. Tom Murray, sex-positive couples therapist AASECT Referral for sex-positive therapists Podcast #112 for the Ladies Cowboy position Reverse Cowboy Chairman Position The Man Box Equipment <ul class="
Fri, February 26, 2021
Pegging Paradise Podcast #274 - Great News! He shares his crossdressing journey! He and his wife had a go at prostate massage. Fireworks! He wonders about women who peg and don't judge. He asks if there are women who will teach guys pegging She's gone from hesitant to hungry for his ass! Pegging Celebration Time! His story of being Mounted in Michigan He has many questions about equipment He wants to explore pegging her - not so much Articles/Info Crossdressing Podcast #131 Crossdressing Podcast #182 Part 1 & Part 2 Crossdressing Podcast #255 Part 1 & Part 2 Reassurance for the Men Information on How to Find a Provider The Case for a Pro Podcast #112 - For the Ladies Dr. Tom Murray - therapist Exercises <a href="https://youtu.be/bMQHAmCXJAI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noope
Thu, February 18, 2021
I'm on Tiktok! He's seeking harness guidance He votes for listeners' whole (long) stories! She'd love some new newbie guidance He has equipment questions He enjoys dominant pegging with a little pain - it that healthy? He's got some questions about finding his prostate They love pegging & want to add dominance & submission Articles/Information Ruby on TikTok Strap On Me Vibrating Double Review Strap On Me Vibrating Double Testimonials The Sexually Dominant Woman - Janet Hardy Various books on Female Dominance - Sharyn Ferns Cowboy/Reverse Cowboy Position Chairman Position Corner of Bed Doggy - him doing the work position Equipment Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Double Aslan Leather Minx Spareparts Sasha <a href="http
Mon, January 11, 2021
More input about ED after initial pegging Great description of prostate orgasm vs penile orgasm He shares the story of how they finally got to pegging He writes back with details of their first time! He reflects on their pegging, eloquently Pegging Celebration Time! She conquers her concerns, tries pegging and LOVES it He wants her to get more pleasure from pegging He wants to know if anal play every day is safe She's looking for distance play ideas He needs clarification about rectal douching Articles/Information Intimacy and Pegging - Article Strap On Me Vibrating Double Review 3D model of the clitoris Debunking the Existence of the G-spot Anal safety rules We-Vibe Vector reviews podcast #268 Distance Chastity Play That's Safe! Podcast #269 - Chastity Info and links How to Clean Out Your Ass Equipment Vanity Harness <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/spare-parts-deuce-harness/#rubyryder" target="_bl
Sun, December 06, 2020
Recap of Movember Mr. Hankey's Sale Pandemic Reflections New Strap On Me Harnesses! Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Nexus B-Stroker Plug She shares thoughts about her love of pegging Searching for a dildo that will insert her squirt! His personal experience and advice about huge toys They are searching for harnesses for XXL toys After hemorrhoid surgery his ass is too sensitive - advice? How to get hard when ejaculating while getting pegged? Is a guy who wants another guy just for sex treating him like a fetish delivery service? He seeks cleaning out info to get his wife past the ICK factor They are anally exploring. He needs help relaxing! Articles/Information Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Video Podcast - Can Pegging Cause Fecal Incontinence? Midori's Scarf Harness Aslan Leather Commando Harness Carmen Rivera Italian Leather Harness Search for 'Carmen Rivera' Hemorrhoid Information <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort/video/6902059726721387782?_d=secCgsIARCbDRgBIAIoARI%2BCjxdjcUvpH1AiI2qomrzDSnXpqFWjxVXGU0UjqFjGXBzm0Ystr7Utskab7QKRFoyLVmFg%2Bdu97hf533MDt0aAA%3D%3D&language=en&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAAVyUVVPP_KSyXkMplFX5C3Z0_gYl85SJjtnH6d0ls0I3FXYA34IgYYf2kxqeDaFsa&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAVyUVVPP_KSyXkMplFX5C3Z0_gYl85SJjtnH6d0ls0I3FXYA34IgYYf2kxqeDaFsa&share_author_id=6818367640672994310&share_link_id=58D69BB3-8EAF-44C6-8310-1D318
Sun, December 06, 2020
Recap of Movember Mr. Hankey's Sale Pandemic Reflections New Strap On Me Harnesses! Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Nexus B-Stroker Plug She shares thoughts about her love of pegging Searching for a dildo that will insert her squirt! His personal experience and advice about huge toys They are searching for harnesses for XXL toys After hemorrhoid surgery his ass is too sensitive - advice? How to get hard when ejaculating while getting pegged? Is a guy who wants another guy just for sex treating him like a fetish delivery service? He seeks cleaning out info to get his wife past the ICK factor They are anally exploring. He needs help relaxing! Articles/Information Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Video Podcast - Can Pegging Cause Fecal Incontinence? Midori's Scarf Harness Aslan Leather Commando Harness Carmen Rivera Italian Leather Harness Search for 'Carmen Rivera' Hemorrhoid Information <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort/video/6902059726721387782?_d=secCgsIARCbDRgBIAIoARI%2BCjxdjcUvpH1AiI2qomrzDSnXpqFWjxVXGU0UjqFjGXBzm0Ystr7Utskab7QKRFoyLVmFg%2Bdu97hf533MDt0aAA%3D%3D&language=en&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAAVyUVVPP_KSyXkMplFX5C3Z0_gYl85SJjtnH6d0ls0I3FXYA34IgYYf2kxqeDaFsa&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAVyUVVPP_KSyXkMplFX5C3Z0_gYl85SJjtnH6d0ls0I3FXYA34IgYYf2kxqeDaFsa&share_author_id=6818367640672994310&share_link_id=58D69BB3-8EAF-44C6-8310-1D3182721042&tt_from=twitter&u_code=dc31ak2d7f29a7&user_id=6818367640672994310&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=twitter&source=h5_m&sender_device=pc&sender_we
Thu, November 26, 2020
Movember Link to Donate How I Teach Webinars The Man Box My story about Frank My first awareness of the Man Box An eloquent share about the Man Box What can Men do? What can Women do? Reading from The Little #MeToo Book for Men Links for you - new Ted Talks! Articles/Information Movember Donation link for Ruby! Tony Porter - A Call to Men Tony Porter - The Roles Men Play Mark Greene - The Little #MeToo Book for Men Mark Greene - Remaking Manhood Mark Greene/Saliha Bava - The Relational Book for Parenting: Raising the Next Generation of Children to Connect, Co-create, Innovate and Change the World Ben Akers - How Do You Stop Men Taking Their Own Lives? Ben Akers - The Talk Club Ben Akers - Documentary - Steve Fraser Smith - The Male Identity Crisis Steph Slack - We Need to Talk About Male Suicide Gareth Griffith - Why Big Boys Don't Cry Judy Chu - When Boys Become Boys</a
Thu, November 05, 2020
Pegging Paradise Podcast #269 He writes back with more thoughts about cum eating A Taste Tester shares his journey He takes it to the level of pre-cum in a shot glass! His story about coming to terms with his love of penetration He is shy to initiate and girlfriend doesn't want to schedule. Help? They have take advantage of the lockdown. He shares! He's starting to crave playing with cocks and dressing, how to share with wife? Her bittersweet journey learning how to accept male anal play Igloohome Keybox3 is great for distance chastity play, but the company doesn't want to get sexy. Articles/Information Podcast # 112 Pegging Positions Article - Cellmate App Controlled Chastity Device Flaw! Review of the Igloohome Keybox3 Review of Collage Tattooed Dildo Collection Equipment Stabilizer Ring Fuze Wilde Pure For Men <a href="https://www.homedepot.com/p/igloohome-Smart-Keybox-3-Electronic-Lockbox-Control-Access-Remotely-and-Bluetooth-Enab
Mon, October 26, 2020
Ruby Ryder shares woman with corset and strap-on POV from spread legs and penis Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #268 A reaction to Aussie Man's story (#266) from another Aussie Man! His review of the We-Vibe Vector app-controlled Prostate massager My adventures with the We-Vibe Vector Pegging Celebration Time! They communicate, work through some stuff and it happens! Pegging Celebration Time! His sex life from losing his virginity to getting pegged! With an unwilling cock, he uses his wife's harness with great success He waxes poetic about his new partner, and their new toy! Articles/Information Reddit Prostate Play Reddit Cum From Anal The Case for Cock Owners Using Strap-Ons Podcast #112 For the Ladies Equipment We-Vibe Vector app-Controlled Prostate Massager Njoy P-fun plug B-Vibe plug Njoy Purewand Aneros Prostate Massager <a href="ht
Tue, October 06, 2020
Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #267! (Long Overdue) Pegging Celebration Time! They are edging into anal play on him and he's excited! Pegging happened! He has questions about making his GF come He wants his wife to have more pleasure during pegging She has fingered his ass - does that mean she's open to pegging? She shares Incredibly Eloquently about loving his vulnerability They are new to pegging. He has experienced ED the day. Why? He wonders what I think about Glycerol suppositories He's looking for a harness for his very petite girlfriend He shares thoughts/experiences about cleaning up the come His question is what direction should a curved dildo point? He virtually explores come cleanup with his partner - she's down! Articles/Information Podcast #112 For the Ladies Podcast #237 part 2 - ED after pegging the first few times (first question) Devils Films Creampie for the Straight Guy Donate to Movember! - Make me start exercising!! Equipment Cam's Choices ! Fuze Ten Ultra Realistic Dildo <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/aslan-leather-jaguar-harness/#rubyryder
Thu, September 17, 2020
Ruby Ryder shares woman with strap-on pegging man face down on bed Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #266 Pegging Celebration Time! He shares his story of their long, and finally successful, pegging journey He waxes poetic about men who like pegging not being gay Celt lass tells story of how she found her like-minded partner Pegging Celebration Time! Initiated in December, she gives him the best fucking of his entire life! An Aussie guy wants to share his story with you all Another male anal toy reviewer suggestion He shares a tip of using the Ergoflo Director Bulb Syringe He wants to know why I would want to risk breaking sphincters? A thankful Webinar attendee writes me He's freaked out about his possibly toxic toy after reading my article! He's waiting impatiently for the next podcast....!? They are looking for ways to make pegging more spontaneous Wife suggested pegging, he researched and is down, & suggests a pop filter for me! Articles/Information Male Toy Reviewer - SquirrelMunk Podcast #112 for the Givers! Podcast #253 for the Receivers! Toxic Sex Toys Bespoke Surgical Diet Education Equipment Ergoflo Director Rectal Douch <a href="https://enticeme.com/product/perfect-fit-ergoflo-direc
Wed, August 19, 2020
Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #265 Response to Manly Man's Man letter (podcast #264) Listener offers review of two toys!! (Godemiche Adam & Strap-On-Me Vibrating Double) He shares about pegging, with & without a prostate She feels betrayed by his lack of honesty about his butt plug He's having difficulty transitioning from 1.25" to 1.5" diameter - hints? He needs good positions for large height discrepancy couples He shares - Fucked by a Girl Cock Pegging Celebration Time! The Kiwis test the waters!!! From finding my podcasts to his wife buying equipment! He shares info about chastity and a healthy prostate He conquered his fear and now adores pegging! Anal Slut asks how to find random women to fuck him... Articles/Information Podcast #263 (Manly Man's Man story) Podcast #35 more sharing about pegging with/without a prostate My review of the Strap-On-Me Vibrating Double MojoUpgrade Relationship Sexual Exploration Tool T-Position Sides a ddle Position Corner of Bed Position Review of CellMate App Chastity Device <a href="https://pe
Fri, August 07, 2020
NewTumbl.com Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #264 New Toy Review! Strap-On-Me Vibrating Double A dominant man finds my erotica, with interesting results! He wants an app controlled cock cage to increase his productivity He wants to be fucked by his wife every day - advice? This man loves big toys and getting fucked more roughly - is he normal? He loves the idea of submitting through pegging - is he gay? Pegging is a relationship deal-breaker for him, how to date and find the right one? His butt plug is in, getting ready for his wife to peg him for the first time, and he writes to thank me. Pegging Celebration Time! They are both 62, and went from podcast #112 to pegging Pegging Celebration Time! She finally finds her pegging partner - and has an orgasm He wants to be his girlfriend's sex slave - how to get her more comfortable playing her part? Articles/Information Review - Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Double 3D model of the Clitoris Article - Debunking the Myth of the G-Spot PDF - same article if the link ^ above ^ won't open Power Play - Erotica Review - Cellmate App Controlled Chastity Device Podcast For the Gentlemen #25
Sat, July 25, 2020
NewTumbl.com Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #263 He experiences a Prostate Awakening! She does a 180 regarding pegging! He's beyond thrilled She tells the story of how she started pegging Manly man finds his fucking ass whore inside Toy questions for BBW during cowboy He wants to find reviews of toys by men who use them! Articles/Information Interview with Shawn, responsible for the word Pegging (Podcast #176) Crossing Paths with Dan Savage on SavageLove The Truth About Strapless Strap-ons Podcast #112 For the Ladies Reddit CumFromAnal Reddit ProstatePlay Reddit StraightPegging The Big Gay Review - Dildos Equipment NYTC Mason 8" 1.5" dual density Vixskin Slim 8" x 1.5" dual density Godemiche Adam 8" x 1.7-1.9" Enby External Clitoral Stimulation Lelo Tiani 2 Couples toy Blush Penis Extender The post <a href="https://peggingparadise.com/2020/07/pod
Mon, June 15, 2020
@PeggingWife Twitter Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #262 Trysexual's continued story! (Spoiler - his birthday was awesome) He's shopping for less expensive XL toys She's new & nervous, he's impatient with her learning curve She tried it. She doesn't like it. He wants only that. They pegged. Now he's saying no, he feels awkward. She wants to peg! He has equipment questions, amidst enjoying Masturbation Month! He needs tips for taking wider/deeper toys - it turns his partner on! Curious about the Bumpher and Sili Saddle He has questions about Fuze dildo placement He needs an affordable harness for big toys! Articles/Information Podcast #244 - detailed info Prostate Massagers Vector and Vice 2 Podcast #112 For the Ladies Podcast #253 For the Gentlemen Writing - For the Awesome Ass Men Audio Clip - For the Awesome Ass Men Equipment Square Peg Toys Mr. Hankey's <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https
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