Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens
Welcome to your weekly dose of personal development, mindset coaching, and biblical encouragement.On this podcast, Destiny Pickens shares hard-won wisdom and faith-driven insights to help you unlock your full potential across all areas of life. With refreshing vulnerability, Destiny will inspire you to stop playing small and start operating in your zone of genius.You'll gain strategies to silence negative self-talk, overcome imposter syndrome, and show up as the boldest version of yourself. Whether you're scaling a business, spearheading a movement, or simply craving a bigger impact, The Uniquely You Podcast will equip you to lead with conviction and...
Fri, April 25, 2025
#127: When Faith Meets Action: Taking the Leap Toward Your Calling
Have you ever carried a dream that feels deeply connected to your purpose, yet you’re stuck between inspiration and implementation? You’re not alone — and you’re not behind. In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast , Destiny breaks down what it looks like to move from dreaming to doing, and how to take that first step with confidence, clarity, and faith. This is more than motivation — it’s a call to action. You’ll learn: The difference between passion, gifting, and assignment How to recognize when a dream is actually a divine invitation Practical mindset shifts to overcome fear and procrastination Biblical encouragement that will strengthen your courage to move Simple, actionable steps to begin stewarding the vision God placed on your heart Whether your dream is to write a book, launch a business, step into leadership, or finally move forward on that idea you've been sitting on — this episode is the nudge your spirit has been waiting for. Scriptures Referenced: Psalm 37:4 James 2:17 2 Timothy 1:7 Ephesians 3:20 💬 Let’s Connect: Follow me on Instagram @msdestinypickens Surround yourself with other faith-filled, purpose-driven women who are walking this same path. Click here to join the Elevate Community now! Interested in 1:1 Private Coaching with Destiny? Click Here Send us a text Support the show
Fri, April 11, 2025
#126: Is That Really God… or Just Me? How to Discern His Voice with Confidence
Have you ever prayed, “God, I just want to hear You clearly… is that really You speaking?” Maybe you’re facing a big decision, or simply craving clarity for your next step. In this episode, Destiny walks you through five practical, biblical keys to discerning God's voice with confidence. You’ll learn how to: Tune into God’s guidance through stillness and scripture Recognize when He’s leading you by peace Overcome doubt and second-guessing Build spiritual confidence through prompt obedience Align your decisions with the truth of His Word If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s God or just your own thoughts—you’re not alone. This episode will empower you to quiet the noise, press in with faith, and follow His lead with boldness. 5 Keys to Hearing God’s Voice: Create Space to Listen Know His Word Follow the Peace Seek Wise Counsel Obey Promptly Scriptures Referenced: John 10:27 “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” Matthew 6:6 “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” 2 Timothy 3:16 “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” 2 Timothy 1:7 “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” Proverbs 15:22 “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” 💬 Let’s Connect: Follow me on Instagram @msdestinypickens Join the Elevate Online Community! Surround yourself with other faith-filled, purpose-driven women who are walking this same path. In the Elevate Online Community, we grow together, pray together, and support one another as we rise into the women God has called us to be. 👉 Click here to join the Elevate Community now! Interested in 1:1 Private Coaching with Destiny? 👉 Learn more about Promise & Purpose Coaching Here 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review: If you're loving The Uniquely You Podcast , don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it helps more purpose-driven women find this empowering content. Send us a text Support the show
Fri, April 04, 2025
#125: No More Guessing: How to Identify Your God-Given Gifts and Calling
Have you ever felt stuck wondering, “What is my purpose?” or “What gifts has God truly given me?” In this powerful and heart-to-heart episode, Destiny Pickens helps you silence the noise of confusion and comparison so you can step confidently into the calling God designed just for you. Through biblical encouragement, mindset-shifting truths, and relatable stories, you'll uncover how to identify your spiritual gifts, walk boldly in your unique design, and trust God's timing every step of the way. Whether you're in a season of discovery or needing a fresh reminder of your worth, this episode will leave you feeling seen, spiritually grounded, and ready to take action in your calling. 📖 What You’ll Learn: How to shift from confusion to clarity about your purpose The power of recognizing and honoring your unique gifts Why your obedience is more impactful than perfection How to silence self-doubt and embrace your God-given identity Practical faith-based steps to start walking in your calling today Scripture References: Ephesians 2:10 Romans 12:6 2 Corinthians 12:9 Galatians 6:9 💬 Let’s Connect: Follow me on Instagram @msdestinypickens Join the Elevate Online Community! Surround yourself with other faith-filled, purpose-driven women who are walking this same path. In the Elevate Online Community, we grow together, pray together, and support one another as we rise into the women God has called us to be. 👉 Click here to join the Elevate Community now! Interested in 1:1 Private Coaching with Destiny? 👉 Learn more about Promise & Purpose Coaching Here 🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review: If you're loving The Uniquely You Podcast , don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review—it helps more purpose-driven women find this empowering content. Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 28, 2025
#124: Overcoming Indecision and Making Bold Choices with Confidence
Are you stuck in a swirl of overthinking, waiting for the "perfect" time or a crystal-clear sign from God before you make a move? You’re not alone—and today’s episode is here to help you break free! In this episode, we’re diving deep into how to overcome indecision and confidently make bold, God-aligned choices—even when you’re unsure. Whether you're navigating a big career shift, starting a ministry, or simply trying to take the next right step, this is your invitation to get unstuck and move forward in faith. You’ll learn: Why we get trapped in cycles of indecision (hint: fear, perfectionism, and lack of trust) Biblical truth that will anchor your decision-making 5 practical, faith-based steps to make confident choices A real-life story of breakthrough from one of my coaching clients A simple weekly exercise to help you take action right away 💡 Key Scriptures: Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in the Lord and He will direct your path Romans 8:28 – God works all things for your good James 1:5 – Ask for wisdom, and He will give it generously ✨ Weekly Challenge: Identify a decision you’ve been avoiding Pray over it and set a clear deadline Seek wise counsel from 1–2 trusted people Take one small step forward this week Resources & Links: 👉 Connect with Destiny on Instagram: @msdestinypickens 👉 Leave a review and let me know how this episode blessed you 👉 Want personal support to overcome indecision and walk confidently in your purpose? Learn about my coaching program here . Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 21, 2025
#123: Clearing Your Mental Clutter
Do you ever feel like your mind is constantly buzzing with to-do lists, worries, and distractions? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens , Destiny explores how mental clutter can rob us of peace, clarity, and the ability to hear from God. She offers practical, biblically grounded strategies to help you create mental space and emotional balance. Destiny shares four transformative steps that support a decluttered and spiritually centered mind. First, she emphasizes the importance of mindful surrender, encouraging listeners to give their worries to God through intentional prayer, as described in Philippians 4:6-7. Next, she introduces the concept of decluttering your thought life with tools like a “brain dump” and the “Philippians 4:8 Test” to help filter thoughts through a biblical lens. She also highlights the power of stillness and reflection, referencing Psalm 46:10, and encourages daily moments of quiet to better connect with God. Lastly, Destiny discusses how simplifying commitments can significantly reduce mental stress, helping you align your time and energy with what truly matters. Throughout the episode, listeners are reminded that Jesus modeled the importance of rest and solitude, often withdrawing to pray and reflect, as seen in Luke 5:16. By following His example, we too can cultivate emotional clarity and make wiser decisions. Destiny challenges her audience to reflect on whether they are reacting out of stress or responding with wisdom. She encourages everyone to choose one strategy from the episode and implement it throughout the week as a step toward greater peace and purpose. 🔗 Resources & Links: Connect with me on Instagram: @destinypickens Apply for 1:1 coaching with Destiny Pickens at www.Promisepurposecoaching.com Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 14, 2025
#122: The Art of Saying No: Protecting Your Purpose and Priorities
Have you ever felt overwhelmed because you said yes to something you really didn’t want to do? If so, you’re not alone! In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens , we’re diving into The Art of Saying No —why it’s essential, how it protects your purpose, and how to do it with confidence and grace. Saying no isn’t about being selfish; it’s about being intentional. Every time we say yes to something outside of our purpose, we are saying no to something God truly wants for us. Today, we’ll uncover biblical wisdom on boundaries, learn how Jesus modeled saying no, and go through practical steps to help you set healthy boundaries—without guilt. By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with: ✅ A biblical foundation for setting boundaries ✅ Practical phrases to say no with grace ✅ Strategies to release guilt and protect your time ✅ A challenge to start implementing boundaries this week Are you ready to take back control of your time, energy, and peace? Let’s dive in! 🔗 Resources & Links: Connect with me on Instagram: @destinypickens Promisepurposecoaching.com Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 07, 2025
#121: From Procrastination to Progress: Overcoming the Barriers That Hold You Back
Do you struggle with procrastination? Do you find yourself putting off important tasks, delaying your dreams, or feeling stuck when it comes to pursuing your God-given calling? If so, you are not alone. Procrastination is more than just a time management issue—it’s a mindset barrier that can keep you from stepping into the purpose God has for your life. In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, we dive deep into the root causes of procrastination, including fear, overwhelm, and perfectionism. You’ll gain biblical insights and practical strategies to break free from hesitation and start making steady progress in your personal growth journey. If you are ready to move from procrastination to productivity and start walking boldly in your calling, this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The real reasons why we procrastinate (and how to overcome them) How fear, self-doubt, and perfectionism keep you stuck Biblical principles to help you take action with confidence Simple, effective steps to stop delaying and start progressing How to shift your mindset from hesitation to momentum Bible Verses Mentioned: Proverbs 13:4 – "The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied." 2 Timothy 1:7 – "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." Proverbs 16:9 – "The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps." Ecclesiastes 4:9 – "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor." Philippians 1:6 – "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion." Subscribe to the podcast and never miss an episode Stay Connected: Follow me on Instagram: @destinypickens Visit my website for more faith-based personal development content: www.destinypickens.com Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps more Christian women find this encouragement Send us a text Support the show
Fri, February 28, 2025
#120: Are You Thinking or Just Reacting? The Power of Mindful Thought
Have you ever responded to a situation in the heat of the moment, only to regret it later? Do you feel like your emotions, fears, or self-doubt often dictate your decisions? In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, we’re diving deep into the power of mindful thought—how becoming aware of your mental habits can help you break free from reactive cycles and make more intentional, faith-filled choices. Join me as we explore the difference between reacting and thinking, the role mindfulness plays in rewiring our thought patterns, and the biblical principles that support intentional living. Plus, I’ll be sharing practical steps you can take to slow down, reflect, and align your responses with God’s truth. If you’re an emerging Christian woman leader who’s ready to overcome mindset blocks and step boldly into your God-given calling, this episode is for you! What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The key differences between reacting and intentional thinking How Christian mindfulness helps you take control of your thoughts A powerful case study on the impact of mindful awareness Biblical wisdom on renewing your mind and making wise choices Practical steps to cultivate mindful thought in your daily life Key Bible Verses Mentioned: Proverbs 14:29 – "Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly." Romans 12:2 – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." Philippians 4:8 – "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Resources & Next Steps: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode! ✅ Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today. ✅ Connect with me on Instagram @DestinyPickens and let me know how you’re applying mindful thought in your life! ✅ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more faith-driven women find this content. Send us a text Support the show
Fri, February 21, 2025
#119: Your Brain on Belief: How Your Thoughts Shape Reality
In this episode of the Uniquely You podcast, host Destiny Pickens dives deep into the fascinating connection between your thoughts, your brain, and the reality you experience. Have you ever noticed how a single negative thought can derail your whole day? It turns out, your thoughts have the power to physically change your brain. Destiny breaks down the neuroscience behind belief, explaining how neuroplasticity works and how your brain rewires itself based on the thoughts you focus on. But it doesn’t stop there—she also shares practical, Biblically-grounded strategies to help you replace limiting thoughts with the truth of God's Word, creating lasting transformation in your mind and your life. If you're ready to take control of your mindset and align your beliefs with God's truth, this episode is for you! Key Takeaways: The neuroscience of neuroplasticity and how thoughts physically rewire the brain. How your beliefs shape the way you experience the world. The power of God's truth in transforming your mindset. Practical steps to start rewiring your brain for success and peace, based on Biblical principles. Scripture References: Proverbs 23:7 – "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he." Romans 12:2 – "Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." Psalm 139:14 – "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made." Hebrews 11:1 – "Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." Connect with Destiny: Instagram: @Msdestinypickens Website: www.Destinypickens.com If you’re ready to transform your mindset and live a life of purpose, let’s connect! Visit my website or follow me on Instagram for more resources and coaching opportunities. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode! Send us a text Support the show
Fri, January 24, 2025
#118: The Growth Goals Series: Part Three - Professional Growth
In this third and final installment of our "Growth Goals Series," host Destiny Pickens explores the importance of professional growth goals for Christians. Building on the foundation laid in the previous episodes on personal and spiritual growth, this episode delves into how believers can approach career development with a Christ-centered mindset. The Story of Joseph Destiny begins by examining the story of Joseph from the book of Genesis, highlighting key principles for professional growth: Trust in God's plan, even when your career path seems uncertain Excel in your current position, regardless of its prestige or alignment with long-term goals Maintain integrity and faith in all circumstances Recognize that success ultimately comes from God, not just personal efforts Practical Applications 1. Align Your Career with God's Purpose Exercise: Write down three ways your current or desired profession can be used to serve God and others. 2. Identify Your God-Given Talents and Strengths Exercise: List five of your strengths and pray for guidance on how to develop and use them in your professional life. 3. Set SMART Goals Grounded in Biblical Principles Exercise: Create three professional goals for the next 12 months. For each goal, find a supporting Bible verse. Recite both the goal and scripture aloud each morning. Work with Destiny: https://elevateinnercirclecoaching.com/main-page Send us a text Support the show
Fri, January 17, 2025
#117: The Growth Goals Series: Part Two - Spiritual Growth
As we embark on a new year, it's the perfect time to reflect on our faith journey and set intentional goals for spiritual growth. In this second installment of our three-part "Growth Goals Series," we explore how to align our aspirations with God's plan for our lives. The Importance of Spiritual Goals Setting spiritual goals goes beyond personal improvement—it's about drawing closer to God and living out His purpose for us. By creating spiritual goals, we make a conscious commitment to prioritize God in all aspects of our lives. This intentional focus helps us: Strengthen our relationship with God Develop a more consistent prayer life Increase our understanding of Scripture Apply biblical principles to our daily lives Cultivate spiritual disciplines Ultimately, it's about transforming our entire way of living to align with God's will. Steps to Set Effective Spiritual Goals Pray and Reflect: Before setting any goals, dedicate time to prayer and seek God's guidance. Ask Him to reveal areas where He wants you to grow, ensuring that your goals align with His will. Be Specific and Measurable: Instead of vague goals like "read the Bible more," opt for specific objectives. Make Goals Achievable: Set goals that challenge you but remain within reach. Remember, growth is a process, not a race. Start with small, attainable goals and gradually increase their complexity as you progress. Align with Biblical Values: Ensure your goals are grounded in Scripture and align with God's teachings. Review and Adjust Regularly: Set aside time periodically to review your progress and adjust your goals as needed. This flexibility allows you to respond to God's leading and changes in your life circumstances. Send us a text Support the show
Fri, January 10, 2025
#116: The Growth Goals Series: Part One - Personal Growth
Today on Uniquely You , we're diving into part one of The Growth Goals Series, Destiny’s blueprint designed to help you break free from stagnation and step into the most powerful version of yourself—a version that is not just surviving, but truly thriving. Key Topics Discussed: Self-Awareness: Understanding your thoughts and emotions as a foundation for personal growth. The "Who Are You?" Exercise: A practical exercise to enhance self-awareness by repeatedly asking yourself "Who are you?" for three minutes without overthinking or repeating answers. Emotional Intelligence (EI): The importance of EI in navigating social situations, building relationships, and making balanced decisions. Physical Health: The necessity of prioritizing physical well-being through exercise, nutrition, and rest. Joy in Growth: Recognizing joy as an essential component of personal development and rediscovering what brings you happiness. Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com Send us a text Support the show
Fri, November 22, 2024
#115: Distractions in Disguise: Staying Focused on Your Calling
In this episode of “Uniquely You,” host Destiny Pickens explores the concept of distractions that come into our lives disguised as good opportunities. Drawing from biblical stories and personal reflections, Destiny helps listeners identify these distractions and provides practical strategies to stay focused on their true calling. Work with Destiny Join The Elevate Community Send us a text Support the show
Fri, October 25, 2024
#114: The Benefit of Power Thinking
In this episode, Destiny dives into the concept of Power Thinking, a transformative mindset practice that helps individuals reshape their thoughts to foster confidence and overcome self-doubt. Key Topics Discussed What is Power Thinking? Power thinking involves creating supportive narratives and recognizing that thoughts can be shaped to benefit us. Benefits of Power Thinking: Overcoming Limitations: Encourages action and creativity, breaking free from fears and self-limiting beliefs. Enhancing Emotional Well-being: Promotes mental toughness, resilience, and better decision-making. Facilitating Behavioral Change: Empowering thoughts lead to positive changes in behavior and attitudes. Steps to Practice Power Thinking Self-awareness: Observe and categorize your thoughts as empowering or disempowering. Thought Reframing: Replace disempowering thoughts with supportive narratives. Make it a Habit: Regularly practice these techniques to develop constructive thought patterns. Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com Send us a text Support the show
Fri, September 27, 2024
#113: Dreams Deferred: Understanding God’s Timing in Your Journey
Have you ever felt like your biggest dreams have been tucked away, gathering dust on a shelf? In this powerful episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens challenges listeners to revisit those audacious goals and visions that once ignited their passion. Embracing God's Immeasurable Plans We kick off by exploring Ephesians 3:20, reminding us that God "is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine." This sets the stage for a deep dive into how our lives often take unexpected turns, aligning us with a higher purpose we may not have initially envisioned Common Roadblocks to Pursuing Dreams Destiny addresses two major obstacles that often prevent us from chasing our dreams: Fear of Failure: We're reminded that our ability isn't the deciding factor – it's God's power working through us, as stated in Philippians 4:13. Overwhelm: The sheer magnitude of our dreams can paralyze us. Destiny offers practical advice on breaking down big goals into manageable steps Rekindling the Vision As we dust off our shelved dreams, Destiny encourages listeners to: Approach their vision with fresh eyes and an open heart Reconnect with the initial spark that ignited their passion Embrace any evolution or new dimensions of their dream Connect On the Gram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Work With Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com Send us a text Support the show
Fri, August 16, 2024
#112: Focus on the Moment: Strategies for Being Mentally Present
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Sat, July 20, 2024
#111: Seven Ways Self-Reflection Plays A Strategic Role In Effective Leadership
In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens explores the transformative power of self-reflection in leadership. Drawing insights from interviews with top corporate leaders, Destiny emphasizes how self-reflection can enhance leadership skills and foster a deeper connection with teams. Key Points Discussed Definition of Self-Reflection: - Self-reflection involves pausing to examine thoughts, actions, and experiences, akin to holding a mirror to one’s leadership style. Benefits of Self-Reflection: Self-Awareness Continuous Improvement Better Decision-Making Emotional Intelligence Integrity Adaptability Big Picture Focus Destiny concludes the episode with a reminder that self-reflection is not about self-criticism but about growth and alignment with God's purpose. She encourages listeners to embrace their unique gifts and continue their journey of reflection and leadership. --- Connect with Destiny On Social : - Instagram: [@MsDestinyPickens](https://www.instagram.com/MsDestinyPickens) - Facebook: [facebook.com/coachdestinypickens](https://www.facebook.com/coachdestinypickens) Send us a text Support the show
Fri, June 28, 2024
#110: Three Biblical Habits of High Performing People
In this episode, we explore three powerful habits that high-performing individuals use to live out their faith effectively: Consistent Prayer Start each day with intentional prayer to center your mind and strengthen your spiritual foundation The Prayer of Jabez (1 Chronicles 4:10) is highlighted as an example of bold, purposeful prayer Diligent Planning and Goal-Setting Break down God-given visions into actionable steps Set deadlines and stay accountable View planning as partnering with God to bring His vision to life Embracing Challenges as Growth Opportunities See failures and obstacles as stepping stones to success Understand that God can use every experience for good Allow challenges to refine your character and skills Work with Destiny Connect with Destiny on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, June 14, 2024
#109: The Real Reason You are Procrastinating and What to do About It
Today we're tackling a topic that plagues so many of us - procrastination. We've all been there, putting things off until the last minute, letting tasks pile up, and then feeling stressed and overwhelmed. But do you know the real root cause behind why You procrastinate? In todays episode we will dive into that plus Destiny shares some practical tips for overcoming this productivity-killing habit once and for all. Procrastination is often rooted in deeper fears, such as the fear of failure, fear of not being good enough, or even fear of success. When we avoid a task, we don't have to face those fears head-on. Procrastination gives us a false sense of security and control. To overcome procrastination, we need to: Identify the root fear causing the procrastination Ask yourself: "What am I afraid of regarding this task or goal?" Journal about your thoughts and analyze if they hold any truth or align with your values and vision. Pray and give that fear over to God Fear is a natural human emotion, but it should not be the driving force behind our decisions and actions. Break the task down into manageable steps Visualize the task as a staircase, and focus on taking one step at a time. Confront your fears with resilience and determination Recognize that the potential rewards of facing challenges outweigh the temporary discomfort. Work with Destiny Connect with Destiny on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, June 07, 2024
#108: Managing Stress: Proactive Steps for a Healthier Mindset
In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens delves into the topic of stress, exploring its effects on our mindset and discussing actionable strategies to prevent it. Stress is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn't have to control us. Destiny shares three proactive steps to combat stress and achieve success in various aspects of life, including business, ministry, and personal relationships. Proactive Steps to Combat Stress: Prayer: Bringing our burdens to God through prayer can provide peace and clarity. No issue is too big or small to bring to Him. Prioritizing Wellbeing: Taking care of our bodies by staying hydrated, eating clean, moving, stretching, and getting enough sleep is essential to prevent unnecessary stress and burnout. Trusting God and Living in the Moment: Focusing on the present and trusting that God is in control helps reduce stress about future uncertainties. Connect with Destiny: www.DestinyPickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, May 24, 2024
#107: Grace Over Grind: Releasing the Need to Constantly Strive
We've all been there - caught in the endless cycle of striving, hustling, and proving our worth through sheer effort and busyness. Whether it's at work, in our relationships, or even in our spiritual lives, the pressure to perform and accomplish through our own strength can be overwhelming. But what if I told you there was a better way? A path to true peace, joy and freedom that doesn't depend on your self-effort? In this episode Destiny shares four practical steps that have helped her move from striving to grace: Identify striving patterns and triggers Practice being still and present Surrender plans/tasks to God's strength Extend grace to yourself Work with Destiny Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, May 03, 2024
#106: Prioritizing Mental Wellness in Entrepreneurship
Title: Prioritizing Mental Health as a Kingdom Entrepreneur May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and today we're diving into a crucial topic: the importance of prioritizing mental health as a Kingdom Entrepreneur. As Christian entrepreneurs, our faith serves as the cornerstone of our work, but it's also essential to take care of our mental well-being amidst the challenges of entrepreneurship. Breaking the stigma surrounding mental health is vital, especially in the context of building a thriving business. In today's episode, we explore practical strategies and insights to help nurture your well-being while pursuing your business goals. Join us as we delve into the significance of mental health in entrepreneurship from a Christian perspective. Learn how to integrate faith in your work while also prioritizing your mental health for a balanced and successful entrepreneurial journey. Work with Destiny Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, April 25, 2024
#106: How Can We Learn To Focus On The Present And Enjoy The Moment? (ENCORE)
Today we are talking about how we can focus on enjoying the moment instead of worrying about the future or dwelling on the past. We are constantly living in one of three states, the past, the present, or the future. And unfortunately, a lot of us spend most of our time living in either the past or the future. We either dwell on past mistakes or hurt, or we worry about what's to come. So how can we change this? How can we learn to focus on the present and enjoy the moment? Here are a 5 tips: Pay attention to your thoughts and watch for negative patterns. Make a conscious effort to focus on the present moment. Acknowledge and accept your feelings, but don't dwell on them. Find things to appreciate in the present moment, no matter how small. Enjoy the journey of Gods plan for you. Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support
Sat, April 20, 2024
#105: Aligning Talents and Passions with Purpose
Each of us possesses unique abilities and strengths that, when utilized in harmony with our passions and aspirations, can lead to a sense of fulfillment and success. Join me on today’s episode as I share three ways to actively align your passions to your purpose. Self- Reflection The connection between your interests, talents, and greater purpose lies in finding the intersection point where they all align. This is why self reflection is crucial to identifying what that looks like for you. Set a clear goal Focus on this goal and then break it don into smaller task. Write all the things you need to do in order to achieve this goal. Take Action It’s important to give yourself deadlines because it keeps you focused and accountable to yourself. When we align our talents and skills with our purpose, we are stepping into the unique calling and mission that God has prepared for us. Ephesians 2:10 & 1 Peter 4:10 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, April 12, 2024
#104: Embracing Failure: The Stepping Stone To Growth & Success
Hey there, Join me on todays episode as we discuss a topic that often makes many of us uncomfortable – and that’s failure. Failure, a word that carries a heavy weight in our society. We're taught from a young age to avoid failure at all costs, to strive for perfection, to never settle for anything less than success. But what if I told you that failure is not the end of the road, but rather a stepping stone to growth and self-discovery? Scriptures Mentioned: Psalm 73:26 & Romans 8:28 Support The Show: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast Work With Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 29, 2024
#103: Reflections on Good Friday: Finding Hope and Resilience
Join me on todays episode as we take a moment to pause, reflect, and ponder the deeper meanings of Good Friday. Good Friday serves as a powerful reminder that through our faith in Christ, we are blessed with resilience - the inner strength to withstand trials, grow from our experiences, and emerge with a renewed sense of purpose and conviction. Today, as we take a moment to pause, I invite you to reflect with me on two introspective questions. Question #1: What lessons can I learn from Christ's unwavering faith and courage in the face of suffering and betrayal? Question #2: How can I embody the spirit of sacrifice, forgiveness, and love demonstrated by Jesus on the cross in my daily life? Support the Podcast: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 22, 2024
#102: Redefining Impostor Syndrome: A Catalyst for Growth
In this episode, Destiny Pickens explores the concept of imposter syndrome and how it can be turned into a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery. She shares practical advice on how to use imposter syndrome as fuel for growth and reflects on biblical examples of overcoming self-doubt. Scriptures Mentioned: Exodus 3:11, Exodus 4:10 Support the Podcast: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 15, 2024
#101: Own Your Brilliance: Building Confidence in Your God-Given Gifts
In today's episode, I talk about the importance of embracing your God-given talents and overcoming doubts and insecurities that may hinder your ability to recognize and utilize the gifts that have been given to you. As human beings, it's natural to question our own worth and capabilities. However, it's important to remember that each of us has been uniquely designed by God with a specific set of gifts and talents that are meant to be utilized in fulfilling our purpose in His grand plan. Key Take-Aways: - Acknowledging Moments of Doubt: It is common for individuals to experience periods of self-doubt and insecurity when it comes to their gifts and talents. - Divine Design: It is essential to remind ourselves that God has intricately created each of us with a unique set of gifts and talents specifically tailored to fulfill our purpose within His divine plan. - Shifting Perspective: By shifting our focus to a higher perspective, we can appreciate that we are individually designed by God with a distinct purpose and a unique set of gifts ideally suited for fulfilling that purpose. Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 2:10 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com Support the Podcast: www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, March 08, 2024
#100: Celebrating 100 Episodes of The Uniquely You Podcast
Today marks our 100th episode on the show, making it a special day for us. It has been an incredible journey. On today's episode, we will be taking a trip down memory lane, revisiting the top five most downloaded episodes as chosen by our amazing listeners. Episodes Mentioned: #82: Permission to Stop People Pleasing // LISTEN HERE #41: Choosing faith Over Fear // LISTEN HERE #83: Breaking the Stigma: Let's Talk Mental Health with Dr. Sheri // LISTEN HERE #1: 3 Powerful Ways to Deal with Stress // LISTEN HERE #67: How to give yourself grace when you feel like you are falling short // LISTEN HERE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY VISITING WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COM/UNIQUELYYOUPODCAST JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY GROUP HERE OPENING FRIDAY, MARCH 15TH 2024 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 29, 2024
#99: Embodying Your Identity in Christ: Keys to Living a Purposeful Life
As a believer, embodying your identity in Christ is crucial as it serves as the foundation for shaping your core beliefs, values, and actions. It is not enough to simply believe in Him; you must actively demonstrate His love, grace, and teachings in everything you do. To help you authentically reflect your faith in your daily life, here are four key ways in which you can embody your identity in Christ: 1. Love: Show love and compassion to others, just as Jesus did during His time on earth. 2. Integrity: Ensure your actions align with your beliefs, and let your character reflect the values of Christ. 3. Service: Serve others selflessly and with a spirit of humility, mirroring Christ's servant leadership. 4. Joy: Find happiness and contentment in your relationship with Christ, allowing His joy to be evident in your life. By embodying these qualities in your identity as a follower of Christ, you are not only living out your faith but also inspiring others to see the light of Christ shining through you. Embrace these practices, and let them guide you towards a purposeful and fulfilling life in Christ. Scriptures Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 22, 2024
#98: Building Resilience: 3 Proactive Strategies
In this episode, Destiny reveals 3 powerful methods for proactively building resilience. 1. Anchor yourself in God's Word. 2. Cultivate a mindset of gratitude. 3. Embrace opportunities for growth to strengthen your resilience. Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 08, 2024
#97: Love God, Love You & Love People
Love is an extraordinary force that possesses the ability to change lives and bring about meaningful transformations in the world. It goes beyond being just an emotion; it is a conscious choice and a powerful action. In this episode Destiny emphasizes that by embracing love, we can experience profound personal growth and contribute positively to our communities. Loving God: The first pillar of love is loving God. This foundation is rooted in the belief that connecting with a higher power and experiencing divine love can bring immense purpose and fulfillment to our lives. By nurturing our relationship with God, we can tap into a limitless source of love and draw strength from it in our daily lives. Loving Yourself: The second pillar focuses on the importance of loving yourself. Self-love is not selfish but rather a vital aspect of personal growth. It encourages readers to embrace their unique qualities, appreciate their strengths, and forgive their flaws. By practicing self-compassion, we become better equipped to extend love and kindness to others. Loving Others: The third pillar the significance of extending love to those around us. By fostering genuine connections and acts of kindness, we can create a ripple effect of love that positively impacts our communities and the world. By embracing the three pillars of love - loving God, loving oneself, and loving others - we can unlock the transformative power of love that resides within each of us. Let Connect: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 01, 2024
#96: Unconditional Love: Embracing God's Perfect Acceptance
In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens delves deep into the concept of unconditional love and how it can be embraced in our daily lives. While unconditional love may seem elusive in a world filled with conditions and expectations, Destiny explores how we can experience God's perfect acceptance and love without boundaries. Three practical ways to embrace God's unconditional love: 1. Acceptance: It is crucial to accept ourselves just as we are, recognizing that we are loved and accepted by God unconditionally. By understanding our inherent worth, we can let go of self-doubt and embrace the truth that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. 2. Self-Love: Showing ourselves the love we deserve is essential. This includes taking care of our spiritual needs, physical health, and emotional well-being. By prioritizing self-care, we can nurture our relationship with God and experience His unconditional love in a more profound way. 3. Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges, resentments, and past failures is vital to fully experience God's unconditional love. By forgiving ourselves and others, we release the burdens that hinder our ability to embrace love freely. Forgiveness opens the door to healing and allows us to move forward in God's love. Scriptures Mentioned: John 9:1-38; Romans 8:38-39 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 25, 2024
#95: Overcoming Negative Thoughts and Cultivating Joy
Join Destiny on today’s episode as she shares practical tools to help you identify the source of your negative thoughts and how to combat them. The first step in overcoming negative thoughts is to recognize their source. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." We must understand that negative thoughts often stem from the enemy's attempts to discourage and distract us from God's truth. Once we recognize the source of these negative thoughts, we can combat them with the power of God's Word. In 2 Corinthians 10:5, we are instructed to "take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." This means that we have the authority to reject negative thoughts and replace them with God's promises and truth. The practice of speaking biblically rooted affirmations is a powerful tool for overcoming negative thoughts and cultivating a healthy mindset. By consistently speaking affirmations, we can train our minds to focus on God's truth and overcome negative thinking patterns. Scriptures Mentioned: Ephesians 6:12, 2 Corinthians 10:5, Romans 8:37, Psalm 16:11 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 18, 2024
#94: Aligning Your Life with Your Core Values and Beliefs
Core beliefs serve as a compass, guiding us in making decisions and setting goals that are in line with our values. Living in alignment with these beliefs provides clarity and helps us stay focused on what truly matters to us. How can we ensure that we are living in alignment with our core beliefs? The first step in evaluating our values is self-reflection. Once we have identified our values, the next step is to align our actions with them. Third is to remember that discovering our values is an ongoing process. As we grow and evolve, our values may shift and change. It's important to regularly reassess and reevaluate our values to ensure that we are still living in alignment with our core beliefs. Scriptures Mentioned: Proverbs 3:5-6 Let's connect! Visit www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 11, 2024
#93: Choosing A Word For The New Year
One popular practice that has gained traction in recent years is choosing a word to guide you throughout the upcoming year. This word serves as a focal point, a reminder, and a source of inspiration as you navigate the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. On today’s episode Destiny shares three questions for you to answer to help you select your word. Question #1 What areas of my life do I want to focus on and grow in this year? Question #2 What character traits or qualities do I want to develop or embody? Question #3 What themes or intentions align with God's purpose for my life? Once you have chosen our word, you can incorporate it into your daily life. This word can serve as a reminder of our intentions and a source of encouragement throughout the year. Let's Connect: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, December 22, 2023
#92: Keeping A Healthy Mindset During The Holiday Season
The holiday season can be a whirlwind of activities, obligations, and social gatherings. It's easy to get caught up in the busyness and spiral into overwhelm. On today’s episode I share a proven strategy to creating and maintaining a healthy mindset: •Take time to reflect How can we seek moments of reflection during the holiday season? 1. Carve out intentional time for solitude. 2. Write or journal. 3. Be present. Scriptures Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 13:5 Mark 6:31 1 Kings 19:11-13 Links: Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 07, 2023
#91: Mastering The Art Of Self-Talk With Melissa Holy
In this episode Destiny interviews special guest, Melissa Holy. As a former CEO and owner of a California-based staffing and recruitment firm, Melissa Holy is dedicated to empowering women to leverage their profound self-influence and amplify success across their careers, businesses, ministries, and lives. Melissa’s passion lies in pioneering innovative, faith-infused strategies designed to strengthen self-leadership, drive transformation, and blaze a trail of positive change. Through the principles in her best-selling book, "Signature Self-Talk: Master the Art of Influencing Yourself," impactful speaking engagements, and specialized consulting services, Melissa equips women to reach their aspirations with unwavering confidence and purpose. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 30, 2023
#90: Celebrating Two Years Of The Uniquely You Podcast
The Uniquely You Podcast is celebrating two years of being on air! I am so incredibly grateful to each of you that tune in every week. On todays episode we will rewind time and I will share 5 of my all time favorite episodes. Episode #72: How to Overcome Anxiety Using God’s Word Episode #67: How to give yourself grace when you feel like you are falling short Episode #83: Breaking the Stigma on Mental health With Dr.Sheri Episode #70: Breaking free from All-or-Nothing Thinking Episode #82: Permission to stop people pleasing Thank you for being a listener of the Uniquely You Podcast! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 23, 2023
#89: Happy Thanksgiving From The Uniquely You Podcast
Happy thanksgiving from the Uniquely You Podcast Team --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 16, 2023
#88: Building True Confidence
You see, when we rely solely on ourselves for confidence, we are limited by our own abilities, experiences, and perceptions. We become vulnerable to the opinions and judgments of others, and our confidence becomes fragile. Question: How can we build our confidence upon God's Word? First, we must understand that God's Word is the ultimate truth. Second, we need to align our thoughts with God's thoughts. Third, we must surrender our insecurities and weaknesses to God. Scriptures mentioned: 2 Timothy 3:16-17 Romans 12:2 Psalm 139:14 Proverbs 3:5-6 Links: WORK WITH ME INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 26, 2023
#87: Pivoting And Embracing Change
Pivoting And Embracing Change Links: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 12, 2023
#86: The Unexpected Blessing Of A Wilderness Season
A wilderness season in one's spiritual walk with God can be seen as a blessing in disguise. It is a period of time where one feels isolated, disconnected, and uncertain about their faith journey. However, this season can also be a time of immense growth, transformation, and deepening of one's relationship with God. In the wilderness, one is stripped of the distractions and comforts of everyday life. It is a place of solitude, where the noise of the world fades away, and one is left alone with their thoughts and emotions. This solitude allows for introspection, self-reflection, and a deeper understanding of oneself. Moreover, the wilderness season is a time of testing and refining. Just as Jesus was led into the wilderness to be tempted, we too face trials and challenges that test our faith and character. These trials can be painful and uncomfortable, but they also provide an opportunity for growth and refinement. It is in the wilderness that our faith is tested, our weaknesses are exposed, and our reliance on God is strengthened. Furthermore, the wilderness season is a time of dependence on God. When we are stripped of our usual sources of security and comfort, we are forced to rely solely on God's provision and guidance. In the wilderness, we learn to trust in God's faithfulness, to seek His wisdom, and to surrender our own plans and desires. It is in this surrender that we experience the true power and presence of God in our lives. The wilderness season is a time of preparation. Just as the Israelites wandered in the wilderness for forty years before entering the Promised Land, our wilderness season prepares us for the next chapter of our spiritual journey. It is a time of pruning, refining, and equipping for the tasks and challenges that lie ahead. In the wilderness, we learn valuable lessons, develop resilience, and acquire the spiritual tools necessary to fulfill our purpose. Scriptures Mentioned: Deuteronomy 8:2 2 Corinthians 4:18 Lamentations 3:22-23 Links: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 05, 2023
#85:How Your Mindset Affects Your Mental Health
The significance of mindset lies in its power to shape our thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes, which in turn affect our behaviors, emotions, and overall mental well-being. Our mindset not only influences how we perceive and respond to external circumstances, but it also shapes our internal dialogue and self-talk. How to cultivate a Christ-centered Mindset: It first starts with challenging negative thought patterns. From a Christian perspective, the role of self-talk and negative thought patterns in shaping our mental well-being is significant. The Bible emphasizes the power of our thoughts and the importance of renewing our minds. Scriptures Mentioned: Proverbs 23:7 Romans 12:2 Links: YouVersion Bible App Work with Destiny Instagram Facebook --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 21, 2023
#84: How to Biblically Deal With Difficult People
We all encounter difficult people in our lives – those who challenge us, push our buttons, or seem impossible to get along with. But as followers of Christ, we are called to respond to difficult people in a way that reflects God's love and wisdom. The first key principle: Pray for those who persecute you The Second key principle: Respond with kindness The Third key principle: Set Healthy Boundaries The fourth key principle: Forgive Them Scriptures Mentioned: Matthew 5:44 Proverbs 15:1 James 1:5 Matthew 10:14 Ephesians 4:32 Links Website Instagram Facebook Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 14, 2023
#83:Breaking the Stigma: Let’s Talk Mental Health With Dr.Sherri Yoder
Mental health is a vital aspect of our overall well-being that influences how we think, feel, and act. It encompasses our emotional, psychological, and social well-being, affecting our daily functioning, relationships, and ability to cope with life's challenges. However, despite its significance, mental health remains stigmatized and often overlooked in society, especially in the Christian community. Understanding and addressing mental health is crucial not only for individuals but also for promoting healthier communities and societies. Dr. Sherri Yoder is an Author, Coach, Founder, and Executive Director of Thriving Thoughts Global. She refers to herself as a seeker of God's wisdom and the sharer of that wisdom. In this episode, we talked about her journey to becoming a coach and helping women operate from the place of a renewed mind after quitting her job as a clinical psychologist. We also discussed mental health extensively; Common misconceptions The role faith plays How to protect your mental health. Scripture mentioned Roman 8:28 Links If you are inspired by this episode and wish to support the show, please click here To learn more about mental health and about Dr. Sherri's non-profit, visit Thriving Thoughts Global Connect with Dr. Sherri on: Facebook: Dr. Sherri Instagram: Dr. Sherri speaks Connect with Destiny Pickens on: Facebook: Destiny Pickens Instagram: Destiny Pickens Subscribe and share this episode and don't forget to leave a review. Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 07, 2023
#82: Permission To Stop People Pleasing
People-pleasing has become deeply ingrained in our daily lives. The desire to gain acceptance, approval, and validation from others often leads us down a path of sacrificing our own needs, values, and boundaries. However, there comes a point when we must pause, reflect, and ask ourselves: Are we truly living our lives to please others, or are we unintentionally neglecting our well-being and potentially undermining our relationship with God? In this episode, I shared 3 ways that we can stop people-pleasing and please God instead. I also shared some effects of being a people pleaser. Recognize the patterns that lead to the desire to please people. The first step to stopping a bad habit is to identify the habit. This ideology works for the desire to please people. Take a moment and try to pinpoint the times you have done things or said words to satisfy others or gain validation and then trace out the situations surrounding these happenings. When you have done this, it would become clear that you don't need the validation that is not coming from God. Set Boundaries You are your person so allow yourself to say "no" sometimes. We have been called to serve and be our brother's keeper but God didn't ask us to do this at our detriment. You don't have to agree to everything or do everything you are asked to do. If it doesn't align with God's plan for you, don't let it overpower you, say no and move on. If you fail to draw the line, there are tendencies you go overboard with your actions and lose touch with the reason why you are serving. Be in the right company No man is an island of himself, if you don't have good people around you, you would not be able to tell how deep into people pleasing you have gotten into until it is too late. Having people who share the same beliefs, faith, and values with you is very important because these people are there to draw us back when we are doing too much, they help us to love ourselves more and they remind us that the only thing we need to be focused on is what God says about us. You can reach out to me via: Website Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support <a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2381913/open_
Thu, August 31, 2023
#81: Eliminating Distractions: 3 Scriptures To Help You Focus
In today's fast-paced and technology-driven world, distractions seem to be everywhere. Our attention is constantly pulled in different directions, making it challenging to stay focused on what truly matters. So In light of combatting distraction , on today episode I share 3 scriptures that can help you regain your focus. Psalm 46:10 Matthew 6:33 Philippians 4:8 Links: Website Instagram Facebook Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 24, 2023
#80: Practical Steps To Nurture Transformation
If you've been longing to experience God's abundance in your life, this episode is for you. We'll explore 4 actionable steps that can help you step into the abundance that God has in store for you. 1. Cultivate a mindset of gratitude Gratitude opens our hearts to receive God's blessings and shifts our focus from scarcity to abundance. 2. Align your actions with God's principles Seek His guidance through prayer and study of His Word. As you align your decisions and actions with His teachings, you'll find yourself walking in His will and experiencing the abundance He has in store for you. 3. Identify and release any limiting beliefs Take time to reflect on those beliefs and challenge their validity. If they do not align with Gods word, Replace them with empowering beliefs that are rooted in God's truth. 4. Take intentional action First Identify areas in your life where you desire abundance, whether it's in your faith, career, relationships or personal development. Then, Set specific goals and create an action plan to achieve them. Break down your goals into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate each milestone along the way. God's abundance is not just about tangible possessions but also about growth in your relationship with Him. Scriptures Mentioned: 2 Samuel 12:24 Romans 12:2 Links: Website Instagram Facebook Episode 69: Gratitude: The Attitude That Changes Everything Podcast Insiders Club Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 17, 2023
#79: Leading with Grace: Empowering Christian Women in Leadership
Join me on todays episode as we explore God's unique design for leadership and how we can lead others in Grace. Leading with grace and making a positive impact in various spheres of influence requires intentional actions and a mindset focused on serving others. Here are some practical tips to help you lead with grace and make a positive impact: 1. Cultivate self-awareness: Start by developing a deep understanding of your own strengths, weaknesses, and values. This self-awareness will help you lead authentically and make decisions aligned with your principles. 2. Practice active listening: Truly listen to others with an open mind and without judgment. Seek to understand their perspectives, needs, and concerns. This will foster trust, empathy, and effective communication. 3. Show empathy and compassion: Treat others with kindness, empathy, and compassion. Seek to understand their experiences, challenges, and emotions. Show genuine care and support, and be willing to offer a helping hand when needed. 4. Lead by example: Be a role model for the behavior and values you want to see in others. Demonstrate integrity, humility, and ethical conduct in all your actions. Your behavior will inspire and influence those around you. Remember, leading with grace and making a positive impact is an ongoing journey. It requires consistent effort, self-reflection, and a genuine desire to serve others. By embodying these principles, you can create a positive and transformative influence in your sphere of influence. Links: Coaching Instagram Facebook Website Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 10, 2023
#78: How To Overcome Any Obstacle You Face (Encore)
Have you ever faced an obstacle in your life and felt like giving up? I'm sure we all have. As Christian women, we face many obstacles. But we have to remember that we are not alone. God is with us always, even in our darkest hour. On today's episode, we will be talking about how to overcome obstacles as a Christian woman. I will be sharing 3 ways to overcome any obstacle you may be facing today. www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 03, 2023
#77:Balancing Ambition And Contentment
As humans, it's quite normal to be ambitious. We wake up every day with a drive to achieve our set goals and it's in our nature to be competitive. What happens when things do not go as planned? We feel rejected and frustrated and this comes from a place of lack of contentment. We tend to go overboard most times when we forget to acknowledge our achievements and be happy with them. For some of us, striking the balance between being ambitious and content is a huge problem and the way to overcome this problem is staying aligned with God's plan for us. In this episode, I will be sharing practical steps to balancing ambition and contentment while staying focused on God's plan. ● Seek God's guidance When we spend time with God's words and in deep meditation, He will always help us to make plans that are following His will. ● Define your values and purpose What is your purpose? What have you been called to fulfill on earth? When you find answers to these questions, your ambition will automatically be geared toward the direction of God's plan for you. It is also advisable to write out your core values, they will constantly remind you of God's place in your life when you make plans. ● Practice gratitude Appreciating God for the things he has blessed us with opens the doors to receiving more. When we are focused on the blessings of others, we miss the entire point because we can only trust God's process and plans for us if we acknowledge and are grateful for the things he has done for us. ● Embrace patience and trust It is important that we are patient and we wait for God because He is always working in our favor. Scriptures Mentioned Proverbs 16:3 Romans 8:28 Links Check out the Uniquely you all access insiders club to join my community and support the show www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 27, 2023
#76: Recognizing Your Value and Worth as a Child of God
In a world that often emphasizes external validation and fosters comparison, adopting the self-worth mindset helps us break free from the cycle of seeking approval from others and instead find validation within ourselves. This mindset shift is crucial for personal growth, resilience, and overall well-being. By understanding and recognizing one's worth, we can build a solid foundation of self-confidence, pursue our passions, and navigate life's challenges with a sense of self-assuredness. In this episode, I would be sharing practical tips on how to adopt a self-worth mindset, so if you have been struggling with appreciating yourself no matter what season of life you may be in, this episode is for you, grab your journals, and let's ride. Self Reflection A constant reminder that you are enough is a huge step to take and this can be achieved by frequent reflection. When you spend time by yourself and embark on a deep soul search journey, you will gradually get into the self-aware realm and this is all the assurance you need that you are indeed worthy. Also, you can never know the depth of your existence as a human if you don't ask yourself questions. Sometimes, it is necessary to take yourself through a question-and-answer segment while you are reflecting and these questions about your values, fears, and your limitations, would challenge your spirit and remove the layers that guide your emotions while leading you through a self-discovery journey. Self Compassion Having compassion for yourself would help to overcome self-criticism and foster self-love. Don't be too hard on yourself and ensure that when you make a mistake and go of course, you take a deep breath and try to understand where you're coming from. When things seem to be wrong, encourage yourself for doing well in previous times at least, and when you get criticizing thoughts challenge them and do not be discouraged. Links You can reach out to me via: Website Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 20, 2023
#75: Discovering The Unique Biblical Gifts Of A Woman
In the vast tapestry of human history, women have played a pivotal role in shaping societies, cultures, and belief systems. Throughout the ages, their voices, contributions, and biblical gifts have left an indelible mark. From the strength and wisdom of biblical heroines like Esther and Deborah to the nurturing and compassion exemplified by figures such as Mary Magdalene. Women have been central figures in the narratives of faith and spirituality. God has blessed the entire woman race with gifts and abilities that some people die without discovering and by tapping into these gifts, women can find inspiration, guidance, and strength to overcome challenges and achieve spiritual growth. One of the greatest disservices you can do to yourself as a woman is to downplay your abilities. In this episode, we will explore the biblical gifts bestowed upon women and discuss how they can be harnessed to solve questions and tasks that arise in our lives. The unique ability to nurture Like Mary the Mother Jesus, we have been given the unique gifts to nurture. We have the desire to protect and nurture those that have been placed under our care. The ability to give wise counsel Like Deborah, God has filled us with the wisdom to speak and think wise things. The willingness to persevere Whenever we are down, we always rise, that's one of our unique gifts. We have the spirit to fight for what we want and we strive till the end The prophetic and leadership abilities. Like Mariam, every woman can hear from God, we also make good leaders. God carefully deposited all these gifts in us to ensure that society is properly shaped. You can reach out to me via: Website Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 06, 2023
#74:The Freedom Of Surender
If there is one thing we fear as humans, it's the unknown and this is why we want to be in control of everything that happens to and around us. In our quest for understanding and fulfillment, humans have long grappled with the desire to control aspects of their lives. We yearn for a sense of power and influence believing that the ability to shape our destiny will bring us closer to the lives we envision. However, it is in recognizing the limitations of our control that we can truly embrace the effects and grace of God's help. There is a need to surrender and completely trust God's outcome because it is only then that we can experience true peace and genuine growth. Do you have an A-type personality or know someone that does? This episode has been designed to help you understand perfectionism from a perfectionist point of view. In this episode, I shared: 1. A practical way to start embracing the unknown and letting go. 2. Some benefits of letting go and trusting God's outcome. Links www.DestinyPickens.com Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 29, 2023
#73: Prioritizing Self-Care
In today's fast-paced and demanding world, the concept of self-care has gained significant recognition as a vital component of overall well-being. We are constantly bombarded with responsibilities, obligations, and societal pressures, often leaving us feeling overwhelmed and drained. However, taking care of ourselves should never be seen as a luxury, but rather as a necessity for maintaining a healthy mind and body. Ironically, the mere mention of self-care often evokes a sense of guilt in many individuals. Deep-rooted societal conditioning and the notorious adage "putting oneself before others is selfish" loom over us, making us question our right to prioritize our own needs. However, it is essential to understand that self-care is neither frivolous nor selfish, but an act of self-preservation and nourishment that allows us to function at our best and positively impact those around us. Nurturing the mind and body encompasses a wide range of activities and practices aimed at restoring and rejuvenating our physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional well-being. It involves carving out moments of solitude, engaging in activities that help us unwind, pursuing hobbies, practicing mindfulness, adopting healthy habits, seeking support, and setting boundaries that protect our mental and physical health. This journey towards self-care can be challenging, as it often requires breaking down internal barriers and overcoming the deep-seated guilt associated with taking time for ourselves. In this episode, I shared faith-based practical ways to nurture our mind and body and be at our optimum best always, and also tips to overcome the feeling of guilt when you choose to prioritize self-care. Scripture Mentioned Mark 6:31 Links You can reach out to me via: Website Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 22, 2023
#72: How To Overcome Anxiety Using God's Word
One of the emotions naturally expected of humans is the feeling of worry and unease. It is difficult to know what the next day has in store for us so we go about carrying the burden of uncertainty. While this is not so bad, allowing this burden to overwhelm us would cause a drift in our relationship with God. Anxiety is a common experience for many people but it can be particularly difficult to confront alone. Thankfully, the Bible offers comfort and encouragement to those who suffer anxiety. It is not God's plan that we are troubled about things we have no control over. When we worry, we are simply ignoring the supremacy of God. We must understand that the moment we become Kingdom children, the reins of our life are held by God and He is in full control of our affairs. In this episode, I shared 5 scriptures that can help us overcome anxiety. Scriptures Mentioned Philippians 4:6-7 Matthew 6:25-34 Isaiah 41:10 Psalms 56:3-4 1st Peter 5:7 Psalm 56:4 1st Kings 19 Job 13:15 2nd Corinthians 11:23-28 Matthew 6:25-34 Isaiah 41:10 Links Are you currently dealing with anxiety? I will be more than glad to hear from you and walk through this journey with you. Reach out to me on my website www.destinypickens.com Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 15, 2023
#71: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
Have you ever just looked at yourself and out rightly down played on your abilities? God isn't ordinary and so nothing he has created is ordinary. You have wonderful gifts and abilities deposited inside you, don't you think it's an insult to your maker as a child if God you constantly doubt yourself? A lot of women are held by the chains of imposter syndrome and as believers, one of the ways the devil takes over our life is to fill us with insufficient thoughts that makes us doubt what God says about us. In this episode, I shared the characteristics and roots of imposter syndrome and most importantly, 5 ways we can overcome imposter syndrome as children of God. Recognize your identity in Christ The knowledge of our identity in Christ is where our assurance lies. When we know who we are and whose we are, it is very difficult to look down on ourselves and down play our Gods given gifts and abilities. Renew your mind with God's truth God's word, the Bible is never changing. This is food for our mind and soul. When we constantly meditate on God's word, we will be filled with so much positivity and would be renewed and armed with the appropriate weapons to fight the enemy when he comes to sow seed of imposter syndrome in us. Embrace your weakness Embracing your weakness means submitting to God's supremacy and acknowledging that it's only in him that we draw strength. We can overcome our fears and insecurity when we submit to God's strength. Practice humility When we accept that there are others better than us and we submit ourselves to the learning process and be of service, it becomes difficult for negative thoughts to find expression in us. Trust Gods timing God's time is indeed the best. We can't do anything on our own and we certainly can't overcome imposter syndrome when we try to fight it on our own. When God promises a thing, he does it. Scriptures Mentioned Romans 12:2 2nd Corinthians 12:9 Links If you are inspired by this episode and wish to support the show, please click here If you are struggling with overcoming imposter syndrome, I will be more than glad to help. Reach out to me on my website www.destinypickens.com Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: <a href='https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquel
Thu, June 08, 2023
#70: Breaking free from All-Or-Nothing Thinking
All-or-nothing thinking can be a harmful thought pattern that can limit our ability to see things from a different perspective. When we engage in all-or-nothing thinking, we tend to see everything in black and white, and we might get stuck in a negative pattern that can lead to stress and anxiety. A lot of Christians have lived a huge part of their lives nurturing and exhibiting the all-or-nothing pattern of thought. In this episode, I shared some consequences of having a black-and-white mindset and 3 practical techniques to attain a more balanced perspective. Challenge your thoughts To overcome all-or-nothing thinking, it is important to challenge our thoughts regularly. One effective way to challenge our thoughts is to ask ourselves empowering questions. "Is this thought true?" or "What evidence do I have to support this thought?" Once we have questioned our initial thoughts, we can begin to expand our thinking and look for alternative responses. For example, if we're stuck in the belief that we're not good enough, we can challenge that thought by thinking about all the things we have accomplished in our lives, no matter how small they may seem. Embrace grey areas Bible stories have shown that nothing is black and white and by learning to appreciate the complexity and ambiguity of life, we can begin to let go of our need for certainty and control. Embracing grey areas means accepting that there are multiple perspectives, that there is no one "right" answer, and that uncertainty is a natural part of life. It means letting go of the need to always be in control and learning to tolerate a certain amount of unpredictability. When we allow ourselves to embrace grey areas, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and experiences. We become more flexible and adaptable and are better equipped to handle life's challenges. Focus on progress and not perfection As long as you are moving from one level to the other, that's all that should matter. The desire to attain perfection when it becomes extreme, can be dangerous. Progress doesn't have to be visible big leaps, it could be baby steps and shouldn't be overlooked or trivialized If you are struggling with All-or-nothing thinking, I will be more than glad to help. Reach out to me on my website www.destinypickens.com Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Supp
Thu, June 01, 2023
#69: Gratitude: The Attitude that Changes Everything
Gratitude is a lifestyle. It goes even beyond words and one of the ways to get more is appreciating the things you have gotten. Despite the knowledge of God's love for us, you might wonder why certain situations escalate for the worst or why bad times exist but have you thought that ingratitude might be the reason? It is only common sense to expect more after you have shown gratitude so when you find yourself complaining about things going wrong, take a minute and acknowledge the times they were right and be grateful to God for the good things you enjoy. One thing I like about living life on God's terms is its positive outcome which doesn't only take effect in our relationship with God but also how we interact with one another. The Bible encourages us to give thanks in all circumstances and adopting this lifestyle enables us to have a life filled with positivity because one thing that gratitude does is to discourage negative thought patterns. We will also find out that our relationship with family, friends, neighbors and colleagues will be strengthened and made beautiful. In this episode, I shared some physical and health benefits of gratitude and also how to overcome obstacles that try to stop us from being grateful. If you think you have lost the will to pursue certain things in your life, you need to listen to this episode because it might be just what you need to ignite that spark. Scriptures Mentioned Psalms 100:4 Colossians 3:15-17 1st Thessalonians 5:16-18 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 25, 2023
#68: 5 Scriptures To Hold To When You Are Going Through A Challenging Season.
Imagine going through a rough time and how just knowing what God says about that situation makes your faith stronger. When we give our lives in total submission to God and His will, it doesn't make us immune to difficult seasons. What happens is that the rate of temptations we encounter just went up. What makes all these beautiful is that God empowers us for these situations even before they come. There is absolutely nothing new under the sun. The word of God is alive. Think about any problem at all, there is a scripture in God's word, the Bible that talks about that problem and offers the solutions and encouragement we need. In this episode, I will be showing you a road map of scriptures that would help to keep your faith strong when you encounter challenges. Scriptures Mentioned Psalms 46:10 Philippians 4:13 Isaiah 41:10 Psalm 37:23 and 24 Psalm 34:18 Links Are you in need of prayers? I would love to pray for you. Visit my website and select Request Prayer. If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me, I can't wait to hear from you. Visit www.DestinyPickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 18, 2023
#67: How To Give Yourself Grace When You Feel Like You're Falling Short
We all have bad days, days when we feel like we're not doing enough to get the best results. It's very normal to experience this but what's not normal, is how we let our flesh handle these situations. As a kingdom child allowing yourself to experience grace on days like this is the best way to handle it. Divine grace comes from God, but we will be cutting ourselves some slack when we allow ourselves to experience some of these grace's. In this episode, I have put together some ways through which you can allow yourself to experience grace. If this is one of your struggle points, do well to tune in. Understanding your imperfections We are all flawed. When you remember this, you'll find yourself taking life easy. We all move at different pace in life One of the reasons we think we are not going enough is because we compare the speed of our journey with others. When we bring to our focus that we are all moving at our own unique pace, allowing ourselves to enjoy grace becomes easy. Embracing setbacks One of the ways God empowers us is when we encounter setbacks. When we read the Bible, we can see that God doesn't promise us a smooth ride but He promised to be there with us when the ride becomes bumpy. Forgive yourself Sis, you beat yourself up too much. Be in touch with your human side and allow yourself to experience grace by forgiving and being kind to yourself. Three journaling questions: What has God been teaching you lately? What challenges have you been facing? How has He been working in your life? Scripture Mentioned John 16:33 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Instagram Facebook Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 11, 2023
#66: From people-pleasing to living for God
Do you find yourself prioritizing the needs of others over yours? This is a sign of you being a people pleaser. Not only are you neglecting yourself, over time, you'd place God below the needs of other people and this can cause terrible damage to your emotional and spiritual state. It's just a matter of time before it causes psychological harm to you. Remember God didn't say "love your neighbor above yourself", He said “love your neighbor as yourself ”, so there should be a balance between both spectrums. In this episode, I talked about ways we can go from being people pleasing to living for God. The core of our existence is God and our lives revolve around him, so there is absolutely nothing we can do without God. If you are struggling with this, tune in to this episode to learn more. Make a decision When we decide to get God involved in everything we do, it makes it easier to manage our people's pleasing attitude and it doesn't get to the extreme, like allowing others to determine how your relationship with God and the church is. Identify the problem The areas where we tend to people please need to be identified. This is the problem and the first step to solving a problem is first identifying it. Laying out a boundary keeps you from going out of your way for others at your expense. Scriptures Mentioned Matthew 22:37-39 1st Thessalonians 2:4 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 04, 2023
#65: From Self-Doubt To Self-Confidence: How To Shift Your Mindset From Thinking You're Not Good Enough To Believing That You Are Worthy And Loved.
One of the feelings that rob us of getting the full benefits of being kingdom daughters is self-doubt. It goes as far as limiting us to a certain level. Self-doubt is that convincing voice that tells us that we are not enough, we are not worthy, of enjoying the benefits of being a kingdom child, we are not capable of getting certain great things done, and we're not worthy of God's love and forgiveness. As believers, we have been given a sound mind and a bold spirit, and as such, doubt shouldn't have a place of residence in our lives. In this episode, I shared 3 biblical ways to shift our mindset from being doubtful to having confidence. If you currently feel unworthy to be loved and cared for by God, this episode is for you. Remember God's unconditional love. Forgetting how the love of God brought down His son to die for our sins is one major contributor to having self-doubt. “When God looks at us, His love alone, covers the multitude of our past mistakes and our past failures” Focus on your relationship with God We can easily get carried away thinking that our work for God is equivalent to how He rates us to be. This is not true. Our focus should be on building an intimate relationship with God. It is not a competition. God is more interested in you than what you do. This is where our confidence comes from. “Your worthiness doesn't come from what you do, it comes from your relationship with God” Ask God to help you see yourself through His lens Reading the word of God helps you see yourself through his lens. We are easily swayed by the happenings around us and this is not entirely our fault but what point would doubt come in if you know that you are God's heir or that you are his workmanship? We must ask God to give us revelations of his word that speaks about what he thinks of us. “Do not let yourself be burdened by the yoke of slavery” Scriptures Mentioned Psalm 37:23 John 1:12 Romans 8:17 Romans 8:37 Colossians 3:12 Ephesians 2:10 Galatians 5:1 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Su
Thu, April 27, 2023
#64: How To Handle Overbearing Emotions
The ability to express good emotions is a beautiful gift from God but as with every other thing that exists under the face of the earth, we have bad emotions as humans. So how do you navigate this phase when it comes? One of the ways the devil gets to us is through bad options. He pushes us to react violently and most times in resignation, submitting to his will when these emotions become overbearing. This is why it is important as God's children to learn how to manage overbearing emotions. In this episode, I shared tips on how we can loosen the grip that emotions have over our lives. Anchor yourself in the truth The entirety of God's word is centered on the truth and God's word is unchanging. One of the best ways of overcoming emotions is trusting God and his world instead of the emotions you feel at a certain point because they cloud our sense of reasoning and deceive us into trusting them. Do not avoid or ignore your emotions Sonmanubelicers adopt the ostrich method of burying their heads in the same way when they get overwhelmed with bad emotions. Do you know that when you fail to put out the fire on your candlestick, it burns out, gets melted, and slowly burns your table cloth and eventually, the entire building is engulfed in flames? This is what happens when we try to bottle or ignore our emotions. It's better to feel and express them with the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Use Discernment As Christians, we have been called to apply the gift of the Holy Spirit and move through everything with discernment. Taking a step back to process what we feel and asking God for wisdom are one of the ways to use discernment. Notable Quotes “Feelings are an essential part of humanity and reflect one of mankind's direct connections to God” “The danger lies in when we allow our emotions to run the show” “We cannot allow our emotions to be in the driver's seat of our lives ” “Many times it's our emotions that highlight the areas we need to bring before the Lord ” “Discernment is a valuable tool and we can use it to navigate emotions” Scriptures Mentioned Genesis 1:26-27 Proverbs 28:26 James 1:5 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Please be sure to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support</
Thu, April 20, 2023
#63: How Memorizing Scripture Benefits Your Mental Health
If you're like most people, you probably have a lot on your mind. Whether it's work, family, or just everyday life, it can be hard to keep everything straight. But what if there was a way to help ease your mind and improve your focus? Would that peek your interest? On today’s episode we are diving head first into how memorizing scripture can do just that. If you’re ready to rewrite your thoughts and elevate your thinking, ITS TIME to invest in mindset coaching. Learn More: www.DestinyPickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Fri, April 14, 2023
#62: Training Your Mindset With Biblical Declarations
Are you currently struggling with keeping a positive mindset amid the chaos? It can be quite a dilemma to be faced with a dicey situation and still try to look on the bright side. Trust me, I understand, but it is a very tedious journey when you try to do it by yourself. Using biblical declaration as a kingdom daughter can help solve this problem. God's world is powerful. When you read the Bible, you get an insight into who God is. You are armed with the right tools; words, to counter negative thoughts when they come. You are made powerful and your days become even more beautiful because you learn how to declare God's word to yourself. It is also important to know that apart from trying to build a positive mindset about everything that surrounds you, biblical declarations are like barricades to wade off the devil. God's word is alive and active and constantly declaring them, believing every word as they pertain to your life with faith, would eventually build up your confidence in Christ and as a believer. If you desire to get on the journey of learning about biblical declarations and applying them to your life, I have put together some scriptures and promises to guide you on this path. Scriptures Mentioned. Psalm 139:14 "I am fearfully and wonderfully made." Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." 2 Corinthians 5:17 "I am not defined by my past." John 1:12 "I am a child of God." John 3:16 "I am loved." Colossians 2:13 "I am forgiven." 2 Corinthians 12:9 "I am enough." Matthew 6:26 "I am valuable." 1 Corinthians 15:58 "I am significant." Ephesians 1:4 "I am worthy." John 15:16 "I am chosen." Hebrews 13:5 "I am not alone." Jeremiah 29:11 "I am purposeful." Romans 8:37 "I am more than a conqueror." 2 Corinthians 5:17 "I am a new creation." Psalm 103:1 "I am blessed." Deuteronomy 28:13 "I am the head and not the tail." Deuteronomy 28:13 "I am above only and not beneath." If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Have you been blessed by this episode and the previous ones? Please leave a review and share it with friends. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: <a href='https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support' rel='pay
Thu, March 30, 2023
#61: The Importance of knowing who we are in Christ -Part 3
This episode is the conclusion of the 3-part series we have been on for a while now. By the way, if you haven't checked out the others, you should. In this episode, I would like to help those struggling with knowing how to live out their identity in Christ by sharing 5 practical ways to do so. If this is you, grab a seat and join me. ● Living in obedience. There are so many ways a believer can live in obedience to Christ. Thankfully, the bible, our guide, is always available to show us how. Our identity in Christ brings us to the consciousness that our work is for God and not man and that obeying God is one of the things we have been called to do. ● Living in a community with other believers. Planting ourselves amid the brethren is just as profitable as networking in the business world is. One of the good things about being a believer is that we are never alone. As Apostle Paul said, the church is meant to give us a community to live and grow. ● Serving others. As Christians, we have been called to serve and we can do this in so many ways. After knowing your identity in Christ, one way we can live in it and through it is by having the spirit of service for our brothers and sisters. “No matter how big or small, our acts of service make a difference to those around us”~ Destiny Pickens. ● Sharing the Gospel. While you are trying to live out your identity In Christ, one urge you cannot resist is the urge to share God's love through the Gospel. There are a lot of questioning minds around us and we can provide answers to them through the Gospel. You cannot spread God's word of love without having love to give, so you need to brace up to be filled with love first. “People need to see the love of Christ in you and your own life before they will begin to be open to hearing the message of the Gospel ” ~ Destiny Pickens. ● Addressing our thoughts. It's quite easy to let our thoughts run wide but another way of living out our identity in Christ is by filling our thoughts with positive and beautiful things. It is expected that we become so conscious of the things we allow to get into our heads and minds. “Make a commitment to taking your thoughts captive and making them obedient in Christ”~ Destiny Pickens. Scriptures Mentioned ● Romans 8:17 ● Matthew 25:40 ● Philippians 4:8 Links If you are struggling with identifying limiting thoughts, join my 3 -days training to learn my methods on redirecting limiting thoughts through the power of God's truth Click Here If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypick
Thu, March 23, 2023
#60: The Importance Of Knowing Who You Are In Christ -Part 2
When the enemy sows the seeds of confusion and doubts in us, his ultimate plan is to cheat us of the benefit of knowing our identity in Christ. In today's episode, I will share 5 benefits of knowing our identity in Christ as the second part of the 3-part series we started last week. The knowledge of God's word alone can save us from many things. Boldly appearing before God. A certain level of boldness comes with being sure of who you are. It is God's will that we are close and have an intimate relationship with him. When we go shaking in fear before God, it shows that we don't fully believe in our identity in Christ. By dedicating our lives to living as children of God, we have been given unlimited access, and we are expected to boldly utilize this access. The gift of walking in the spirit. As kingdom daughters and believers, recognizing our identity in Christ means we are no longer controlled by our flesh. The spirit of God takes control and leads us through everything. Receiving salvation means that we have been given access to His redemption power so that even when we fall prey to the enemy's antics, grace is sufficient, and the spirit of God takes the lead. Receiving rewards for our labor. Living life on our own terms can be overwhelming. Even with God, we find ourselves giving in to our flesh sometimes. It is essential to know that loving with the consciousness of our identity gives us our due rewards. This means that when we till the ground, we are assured of a timely and bountiful harvest. God will never allow us to labor in vain. Access to God's abundant resources. Being in Christ takes off the barrier of lack. Our God is rich in every resource you can think about, and He loves His children so much so He will supply our needs with abundance. When keeping close to our hearts our identity in Christ, we get automatic access to the riches of our maker, and irrespective of what your finances are looking like at the moment, trust God for a supply. Direct Access to God's wisdom. Realizing who we are and whose we would help us make decisions in God's wisdom. He knows the best for us and loves it when we apply wisdom to get what we ought to get. Scriptures Mentioned Ephesians 3:17 Ephesians 3:12 Romans 8:1 1st Corinthians 15:58 Philippians 4:19 1st Corinthians 1:30 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me at www.destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: <a href='https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support' re
Thu, March 16, 2023
#59: The Importance Of Knowing Who You Are In Christ - Part 1
What would you say if you were called upon to introduce yourself in a gathering, irrespective of its purpose? How would you go about it? For some of us, the only time an introduction of ourselves would include something other than our name and achievements is when faced with adversities. Then, we quickly remember the lines, "I am a child of God," but how much of God's child do you believe you are? The enemy is not a stand-up comedian. He is not out to make jokes with you. He means business. So you must know who and whose you are, and your identity in Christ must be topmost on your mind daily. In today's episode, I will share what it means to be rooted in our identity in Christ as part of the importance of knowing our identity in Christ. If you have been struggling with coming to terms with how much of Christ you have in you and what you mean to Him, get your writing journals, and let's get on with it. To be rooted in Christ means that; We are children of God. We are loved unconditionally. We are to live according to His purpose and plans for us. Scriptures Mentioned Ephesians 2:10 Romans 8:39 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me at www.destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, March 09, 2023
#58: Finding Perfect Rest In Christ
Oftentimes, we get so busy in our work for God that we forget the fuel needed to sustain our walk with God. As promising as being all over the place trying to promote kingdom messages is, it is very easy to feel overwhelmed. We worry a lot about the things we think need to be done and we forget that keeping chaos around us can prevent us from having an intimate relationship and fellowship with God. You can't be useful to kingdom advancement if you are constantly tired and to have the kind of rest that gives you renewed strength each time, you need Christ. This episode mirrors the lives of Mary and Martha as well as points out 3 ways you can deal with stress and experience rest that can only be found in Jesus Christ. Get into the posture of Mary. Living in this world is demanding enough and one easy mistake we make as believers is to allow ourselves to drown in it. We are privileged to have Jesus Christ, it's one of the packages that comes with being saved so instead of running around, why don't you rest at Christ's feet and experience lasting peace? Seek after Him. Our lives as humans and the need to excel at everything are like an inclined plane. We go from wanting to be the excellent spouse to being the best parent, top at our workplace, etc. At what point do you actively seek God? We get so busy with these distractions but intentionally seeking God is one way to experience rest. When we seek God, He seeks us. “ God is not some faraway big voice in the cloud that doesn't care about you, He is the still small voice that is there in your darkest moments.” Be open to receiving. Like Mary, resign yourself to receive from Christ. Ignore the chaos around you and put yourself at His feet. We work so hard that when we need gratification, we look to our work. What we would be concerned with is how green our relationship with God is and how receptive we are to receiving from him. “God's rest is something you receive not something you achieve.” Scriptures Mentioned Like 10:38-42 Jeremiah 29:13 Matthew 28:30 James 4:8 Links If you are ready to embark on the journey to living with a biblical mindset, reach out to me www.destinypickens.com Don't forget to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text <a rel="payment" href="https://www.buzzsprout
Thu, February 23, 2023
#57: How To Overcome Any Obstacle You Face
Have you ever faced an obstacle in your life and felt like giving up? I'm sure we all have. As Christian women, we face many obstacles. But we have to remember that we are not alone. God is with us always, even in our darkest hour. On today's episode, we will be talking about how to overcome obstacles as a Christian woman. I will be sharing 3 ways to overcome any obstacle you may be facing today. www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
S1 E56 · Thu, February 09, 2023
#56: 3 Traps Christian Women Often Fall Into With Their Mindset
Hey there in today's episode, we're addressing 3 mindset traps women often fall into and how to we can guard our hearts and minds against these traps as Kingdom Daughters of Christ. www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 02, 2023
#55: The Kingdom Daughters Edition To Becoming The Best Version Of Yourself
Society's idea of becoming the "best version of you" involves making the lives of others the standard and trying to live up to it. We are God's children. We shouldn't desire things God doesn't have in His plan for us. We should be intentional in living life in God's way. In this episode, we will be learning, in 4 ways, how to be the best version of the women God has called us to be. Being a woman of integrity. Living your life according to God's values and instructions is, in a nutshell, what integrity entails. Perfection is not a requirement with God involved. Walking in integrity is not getting stressed and burned out because we simply follow God's instructions. Being Content. How often do you take inventory of what God has done for you? Are you patient enough to explore the opportunities He has placed on your palms and the request He has granted, or are you in a hurry to ask for the next big thing? Being content tells a lot about where our heart is. The first step to practicing contentment as God's daughter is to believe that God is enough for you. Responding in humility. We have nothing to offer God that He doesn't already have. God doesn't need us to be who He is. It's a privilege to have a relationship with Him. The realization of this fact should bring about a humbling effect in our dealings with God. When we go before him, we should recognize His supremacy over all and act accordingly. Act in love. Love holds no bounds, so irrespective of our relationship with others, as children of God, we are expected to express love to everyone. Being patient, making ourselves available for service to others, and forgiving all rings are ways we can love others. Being the best version of ourselves doesn't stop at evolving in our crafts because, as Christians, we have been called to serve, so we are saddled with the responsibility of thinking about others when we think about making ourselves better. Scriptures Mentioned Proverbs 10:9 2nd Corinthians 8:21 Proverbs 22:4 2nd Chronicles 7:14 1st Peter 5:6-7 1st Peter 4:8 www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 26, 2023
#54: Three Truths Every Woman Needs To Know About Who God Created Her To Be
How often have you told yourself, "I am not enough?" How often have you decided against pursuing a dream or interest because you thought it would flop? As women, we have been in the habit of downplaying our abilities for a long time. We fill ourselves with false truths and run with them. These are limitations that hold us back. They stop us from reaching our potential and fulfilling our purpose. One way to address limiting beliefs is to be aware of them. Whenever a limiting belief gets to the surface of your mind, find its origin and ask yourself, does it align with God's plan for you? For this episode, I am bringing to your remembrance 3 truths you need to know about who God created you to be. These truths would help you tackle limitations in God's way. Your identity is found in Christ alone. When we accept Christ, we take up his identity, and as such, we can do anything we set our heart to do. We take up a new spirit, and our past no longer matters. Your worth is not based on your performance. We are of Christ. We don't need to compare our performance with others to rate our worth. It would be a waste of time to look at our accomplishments or shortcomings and decide how worthy we are because, as kingdom daughters, these things don't matter. Your mistakes do not change God's love or plan for you. God's love for us is unconditional. You don't need to impress Him, you don't need to beat yourself up over mistakes, and you don't need to go hard on yourself because it doesn't change how God loves you or His plan for you. You are enough for God. Scripture Mentioned John 3:5-7 www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 19, 2023
#53: How To Implement A Biblical Mindset
For a minute, imagine what you would look like eating without a proper diet plan or not eating at all, wearing tacky clothing, and mixing yourself up with criminals and people with questionable characters. It's a gory image to behold! The Bible says in Rom 12:2, "be ye not conformed to the things of this world, but ye be transformed by the renewing of your mind…". It is important to live our life with a biblical mindset; this sets us apart and directs our daily path. I understand how difficult it is, so here are 3 steps to implement a biblical mindset in our everyday life. • Consume the world of God every day. One major contributor to growth is food. Eating God's world from the Bible enhances spiritual growth. Good spiritual growth would show itself physically, so don't expect to grow when you starve your spirit, man. • Be prayerful. Are there things causing you to struggle? Take it to God in prayer. We raise our fears, weakness, and vices to God through prayer. It is also a channel through which we communicate with our Father. Not praying is like building a wall around you but constantly putting you in sync with God, and your thoughts would be continuously wired to His plans for you. • Be intentional about relationships. On your journey to having a biblical mindset, you must be extremely mindful about who you give access to. Some people are not meant to get too close to you because that would mean being carried away by distractions and losing focus on your purpose. Whether you like it or not, an enemy is watching and waiting for an opportunity to make you swerve off the right path so guard your space as you try to implement a biblical mindset in your activities. Scripture Mentioned • 2nd Timothy 3:16 • Philippians 4:6 www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 12, 2023
#52: Creating Vision And Purpose-Driven Goals
It's the start of a new year. It's a fresh slate you have been given to continue on the previous year's path or start all over with better strategies. It's that time of the year to start scribbling goals and resolutions. While you are about making those goals, I want you to remember the place of God. Relying on your abilities would see you hitting a brick wall. "When we set goals, purpose, and vision need to be accounted for." In this episode, I will share tips to help us meet our set vision-driven goals and, of course, with God's help. So if you have been struggling to tick off boxes on your goals list in previous years, I want you to sit back and follow this episode. How do we set vision-driven goals? Make sure your goals align with God's will for your life. Spend time in prayer before scribbling away. Ask God to reveal his vision for your life. Our goals should be based on our God's given talent rather than what we think we can do. We should seek to glorify God. Applying diligence in achieving our goals. It's not enough to write what God tells us for a particular season. We need to create a plan of action, be diligent, and be patient while we trust God for positive outcomes. " We accomplish big things, one step at a time." Scriptures Mentioned Proverbs 16:3 Philippians 4:13 Matthew 6:33 1st Corinthians 10:31 Proverbs 21:5 Proverbs 29:18 " The vision God gave you is much bigger than you. It is not bound to your resources. If God brought you to it, He would bring you through it." www.Destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 08, 2022
#51: How Can We Learn To Focus On The Present And Enjoy The Moment?
Today we are talking about how we can focus on enjoying the moment instead of worrying about the future or dwelling on the past. We are constantly living in one of three states, the past, the present, or the future. And unfortunately, a lot of us spend most of our time living in either the past or the future. We either dwell on past mistakes or hurt, or we worry about what's to come. So how can we change this? How can we learn to focus on the present and enjoy the moment? Here are a 5 tips: Pay attention to your thoughts and watch for negative patterns. Make a conscious effort to focus on the present moment. Acknowledge and accept your feelings, but don't dwell on them. Find things to appreciate in the present moment, no matter how small. Enjoy the journey of Gods plan for you. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 01, 2022
#50: Why It's Okay To Not Have Everything Under Control
Christian women are often told to have everything under control. There is constant pressure to be the perfect wife, mother, employee, and so on. But the truth is, you don't have to be perfect. And we definitely don't have to have everything under control. God doesn't expect us to be perfect. He knows that we are human and that we make mistakes. What he does expect from you and me is to try our best and to trust in Him. So if you're feeling like you're not living up to the impossible standards set for you, don't worry; you're not alone. We have a duty to cast all our anxieties on Him even as we remain humble under his mighty hand. This results in upliftment for us. Let's not exhaust ourselves when all we had to do in the first place was hand all over to our loving God. He is the one who works things out in our favor in the first place. Scriptures mentioned include: 1 Peter 5:6-7 Romans 8:28 Jeremiah 29:11 Deuteronomy 31:8 Genesis 21:8 John 15: 12 If you don't have a place to receive encouragement, I invite you to join my online community on Facebook HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 24, 2022
SPECIAL: Anniversary Giveaway
Congratulations to our winner and thank you to all of our listeners! We are thankful for each of of you and look forward to the future of the Uniquely You Podcast. May you have a blessed and joyous thanksgiving from our family to yours. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 17, 2022
One Year Anniversary Of Uniquely You
Woohoo, It's the one-year anniversary of Uniquely You Podcast! In this episode, Destiny reflects and shares some of her favorite episodes thus far. Thank you for your continued support and prayers. We look to the future with great anticipation of what God will do through this podcast. ENTER THE GIVEAWAY HERE ! Episodes Mentioned: #30: How To Be Confident In Knowing Who God Created You To Be. #14: Women Of The Word: 3 Lessons From The Life Of Queen Esther #41: Choose Faith Over Fear #35: From Trauma To Triumph With Gina Fox (Connect with Gina Fox HERE) #38: 10 Questions For Spiritual Growth Connect With Destiny on Facebook HERE Connect with Destiny on Instagram HERE Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 10, 2022
#47: Seasons Of Transition
In this episode, I will share three questions to ask yourselves to help you through God's transformation in your life. Are you focused on the past or the possibility of the future? We get carried away focusing on what could have been and is not, but we must focus on the one who knows just how well this season will turn out to be, God. What areas of your life do you need to let go of to embrace what is to come? We often want the transformation, but are we ready to experience it? We hold on to a lot of baggage that needs to be taken off so that God can have transformations meet us prepared. Are you actively pursuing God's counsel on decisions that are being made? We can't go through the transition season and call the shots; we need God's help. "If we go to a place where God had not intended us to be, we are not setting ourselves up for success." Scriptures Mentioned Mathew 9:17 Deuteronomy 31:8 Links You can connect with me at www.destinypickens.com . Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 03, 2022
#46: The Stages Of Spiritual Growth
Spiritual growth is essential in our walk with God. Without it, we are deprived of the benefit of advancing in God's kingdom. The previous episode explained the need for spiritual growth, so if you have yet to listen, I recommend you do so. In this episode, I will share with you 4 distinct stages of spiritual growth. Scripture Mentioned: 1st Cor 3 Hebrews 5:13 Ephesians 4:14 1st John 12:14 John 8:10 Philippians 3:15 Hebrew 5:14 Links Episode 45: Click Here You can connect with me at www.destinypickens.com Please click here if you are inspired by this episode and wish to support the show. My membership is open for enrollment! Sign up at www.bloomedingrace.com Please leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 27, 2022
#45: The Importance Of Spiritual Growth
Join the Bloomed In Grace Waitlist! Doors open on November 1st, 2022. Join by clicking HERE Growth is an essential part of every human existence. We are expected to keep growing until we take our last breath. "When we grow spiritually, it glorifies God. It brings Him honor and pleases Him when we as His children seek to grow in our knowledge of Him and seek after His very heart." I have put together 3 reasons why spiritual growth is essential for every believer looking to enjoy the benefits of being a child of God. It's through spiritual growth we advance our understanding of who God is. Through spiritual growth, our life will reflect the nature of Christ. Through spiritual growth, we become equipped to lead and disciple others. Scripture's Mentioned Hebrews 6:1 2nd Peter 3:18 2nd Peter 1 Links You can connect with me at www.destinypickens.com . Please click here if you are inspired by this episode and wish to support the show. If you are interested in working with me in taking your spiritual journey seriously, please join my membership waitlist, Bloomed in grace. Bloomed In Grace Membership Waitlist Link: https://destinypickens.ck.page/bloomedingrace Do well to leave a review, like, subscribe, and share this episode. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 20, 2022
#44: How To Become An Intercessor For The Women In Your Life
In today's episode, I will be talking about five ways to pray for the women in your life, irrespective of the position they occupy. Ways to pray for the women in your life: Pray for her relationship with God " To not love God is to simply not know him." Pray for the move of God in her life Pray for her husband Proclaim the promise that what God has joined together, let no one separate over her marriage. When her husband loves God and strives to make God happy, he will understand what it means to love his wife and lead the family on the right path. Pray for her health Pray for her mental health, and speak wholeness into her. Failing health comes with weariness, and in no time, she would become a shadow of her old self. Pray that God strengthens her. Pray for her finances The appearance of people easily sways us. Many people do not like to have conversations about money. Pray that God provides all her needs and makes her sufficient. Pray for her future Pray that God divinely connects her to people and opportunities that would propel her to a greater height. Pray that her steps are ordered according to God's aligned visions. When you pray, ask God for directions. Allow Him to place in your heart the woman you would be interceding for. We are called to pray for everyone around us. That's one of the ways to grow our community in Christ. Links You can connect with me at: www.destinypickens.com Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 13, 2022
#43: 3 Things To Stop Doing To Protect Your Gift Of Peace
In todays episode Im going to share 3 things that you need to stop doing for the sake of protecting peace. Scripture tells us that as children of God we have access to his Peace. We see many repeated times that when we are overrun with anxiety and weariness that we can go to our father on find peace and renewal. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, October 06, 2022
#42: Studying Scripture Using The H.O.P.E Method With Denise Walker
In this episode my guest, Denise Walker, shares with us how to use and apply the H.O.P.E method to level up your bible study time. Denise M. Walker is a minister and founder of Hope-in-Christ Ministries, Inc, a wife, a mother, an educator, author, and mentor. Through Hope-in-Christ Ministries, she evangelizes by taking the message of the cross to the world through speaking and teaching, through her blog ministry, her podcasts, Hope in Christ w/Denise and Building Literacy and True Identity and the Hope-in-Christ Book Club. In addition, Denise is an editor, writing coach and the visionary of the Scribes' Network writing ministry which are coordinated through her writing business, Armor of Hope Writing & Publishing Services. CONNECT WITH DENISE WALKER BY CLICKING HERE Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 29, 2022
#41: Choosing Faith Over Fear
We hear and see this saying more and more. But have you really asked yourself what it means to you? In todays episode I invite you into my world as I get vulnerable and share what it looks like in my own life to choose faith over fear. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 22, 2022
#40: Powerful Healing Scriptures
In this episode, Destiny shares 5 scriptures to speak over the areas that are in need of Gods healing touch. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 15, 2022
#39: A Ministry Born From 7 Days Of Prayer With Marquita Stevenson
On todays episodes we get to hear from Marquita Stevenson. She is a living testimony that with no background in ministry, and a father in prison, a wrecked home, and a start on her own that God can call you out of the rubbish to give you beauty for ashes and the oil of joy for mourning. Her ministry, Pure in Heart International was birthed in 2012 and it was established by 2013. She is the author of 2 books and is apart of a collaboration book, Prophetic Ethics Anthology, co-written by 50 authors. You can access Marquitas Books and learn more about her ministry, Pure In Heart Internationa l Here Grab your free Kindle copy of, Glory Prayers for Carriers of Glory Here Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 08, 2022
#38: Ten Questions For Spiritual Growth
In this episode, Destiny ask 10 questions to help you identify what areas you need to bring before the Lord and cultivate growth. Spiritual growth and maturity is an ongoing process but one that is essential to our walk with Christ. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, September 01, 2022
#37: Practical 10 Minute Pick-Me-Up’s
We all need a pick me up every now and then.So in this episode I share 3 of my go-to pick me ups that have made the most impact in my life and know they can do the same for you. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 25, 2022
#36:3 Biblical Methods for Handling Stress
In this episode, Destiny shares 3 biblical methods for handling stress. Please note, these methods are not groundbreaking and chances are you've heard them before. However, you may just need the reminder. They are tools that help us refocus our minds and hearts on God. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 18, 2022
#35: From Trauma To Triumph With Gina Fox
Gina Fox is the founder of Anchored by the Sword. She is a wife, writer, speaker, podcast host and nurse who lives in North Canton, Ohio. She has a strong desire to help men and women find freedom from the pain of their past or present so that they can live the future that God has intended for them to live. She has written multiple online articles and devotionals for The Grit and Grace Project, Little Red Bird Press, Inspire Within and She Found Joy. Connect with Gina Website: Anchored By The Sword Podcast: Anchored By The Sword Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gina.fox.2010 Instagram: www.instagram.com/anchoredbythesword Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 11, 2022
#34: Trusting Gods Process Through The Wilderness Seasons
In this episode, Destiny looks at the wilderness season from a different perspective and shares 3 scriptures to help you look at the bigger picture. Deuteronomy 8:2, 2 Corinthians 4:18, Lamentations 3:22-23 Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, August 04, 2022
#33: Meditative Postures Of Christ Centered Confidence With Amy Denney
Amy Denney is on a mission to harness energy for holistic healing. A certified Holy Yoga instructor, she owns Shine Light Therapy & Yoga using the ancient modalities of movement, light, breath and Bible-based meditation to heal stress and pain. She's married to Dan, has two adult children and a little one she homeschools. You can find Amy at http://www.shinelighttherapy.com and on Facebook and Instagram at Shine Light Therapy. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 28, 2022
#32: Living By Faith
In this episode, Destiny speaks to what faith looks like. How to gain faith and reframe our thoughts so we are able to grow even the smallest amount of faith. Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 21, 2022
#31: Building Wealth In Ways That Honor God With Charissa Quade
My guest today, Charissa Quade is a Biblical Money Mindset Coach and Speaker from Change Your Finances. She empowers Ambitious Christian Female Entrepreneurs to get past the beliefs that making money is bad, wealth is evil and other beliefs that keep them from scaling their business and multiplying their legacy in ways that honor God. By leveraging what the Bible actually says about money and business, Charissa is on a mission to teach 10,000 Ambitious Christian Female Entrepreneurs the powerful steps for overcoming the battlefield in their minds, so they can confidently multiply their legacy and wealth in ways that reflect God’s goodness and generosity. Get Charissa's Free Gift Here: www.changeyourfinances.com/uniquelyyou The Truth Behind Why You're Hitting a Revenue Wall, Playing Small in Your Business, and Limiting Your Legacy. Connect with Charissa Website: www.Changeyourfinances.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/changeyourfinances Instagram: www.instagram.com/changeyourfinances Connect with Destiny Website: www.Destinypickens.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/uniquelydestinypickens Instagram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 14, 2022
#30: How To Be Confident In Knowing Who God Created You To Be
In todays episode, Destiny share 3 scriptures to help you to have the confidence in knowing who God created you to be. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, July 07, 2022
#29: Why You Need A Prayer Journal
JOIN MY FREE MASTERCLASS: 3 WAYS TO START A PRAYER JOURNAL AND STICK WITH IT! CLICK TO REGISTER NOW: https://my.demio.com/ref/6gWEwN4daiBIKIe0 What if I told you that you can have a thriving prayer life that sparks inspiration and fuels passion into your walk with Christ. In todays episode we are talking about a practical tool and practice that helps us to do just that. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 30, 2022
#28: How To Respond To A Spiritual Lull
REGISTER FOR MY FREE MASTERCLASS, 3 STEPS TO STARTING A PRAYER JOURNAL AND STICKING TO IT, HERE: https://my.demio.com/ref/6gWEwN4daiBIKIe0 In this episode Destiny talks about how to navigate the seasons of hitting a spiritual lull. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 23, 2022
#27: 3 Scriptures To Help You Sleep
In todays episode Destiny gives you 3 Scriptures to read and speak over yourself before you go the bed each night. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 16, 2022
#26: The Power And Impact Of Our Words
It can be said that one single word has the ability to impact ones entire day. In todays episode we talking about power that words can carry. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 09, 2022
#25: Understanding Our Identity In Christ
FREE GIFT: https://destinypickens.ck.page/journalprompts In todays episode, we are talking about identity. Understanding who we are and more importantly Whose we are. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, June 02, 2022
#24: My Secret Weapon To Having Deeper Revelation, Less Stress and More Clarity
In this episode Destiny shares her secret weapon to having deeper revelation, less stress and more clarity! Her go-to activity that helps when studying and applying scripture. Helps promote having a more engaged prayer life and it even helps with decluttering mentally. MESSSAGE ME ON SOCIAL AT: INSTAGRAM.COM/MSDESTINYPICKENS FACEBOOK.COM/MSDESTINYPICKENS Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 26, 2022
#23:What To Do When You Feel Stuck
In this episode Destiny gives 3 scriptures to help you when you are feeling stuck emotionally or in a current season of life. WHERE ARE YOU LISTENING FROM? I'D LOVE TO SHOUT YOU OUT. LEAVE ME A MESSAGE BY CLICKING THE LINK BELOW: https://anchor.fm/destiny-pickens7/message Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 19, 2022
#22: How Do I Know If God Is Really Listening To My Prayers
In this episode, Destiny shares a scripture that addresses the question,"Does God listen to our prayers?" She shares the truth that we must pray for His will to be done in our life and not our own. Sometimes we can feel unheard by God, but we are. He is right there with us in the midst of our situation. WHERE ARE YOU LISTENING FROM? I'D LOVE TO SHOUT YOU OUT. LEAVE ME A MESSAGE BY CLICKING THE LINK BELOW: https://anchor.fm/destiny-pickens7/message Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 19, 2022
Uniquely You Trailer
Welcome to the Uniquely You podcast! I’m Destiny Pickens, a Christ lover, wife, certified transformational life coach and passionate entrepreneur. I made this podcast for the woman that has big dreams and even a bigger heart, who loves Christ and those around her. However, struggles to love and accept herself and feels like there’s a mental block getting in the way of her going after her goals and pursuing her God-sized calling. If that sounds like you, you are in the right place! The episodes on this podcast are here to give you the needed push to face your fears, gain more confidence and reignite the fire in your heart! You are not alone and you don’t need anyone’s approval to be the person God called you to be. I’m honored you are here and look forward to this journey together. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 12, 2022
#21: Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone
Today we are talking all about stepping out of our comfort zone and into the life God has called us too. In todays episode, Destiny shares 5 Scriptures to help you through this process. Deuteronomy 31:8, Galatians 5:1, 2 Timothy 1:7, James 1:22 and John 15:16. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, May 05, 2022
#20: Your Action Plan to Overcome Insecurity
**BONUS GIFT: FREE PRAYER GUIDE** CLICK HERE TO ACCESS IT: https://relentless-leader-4086.ck.page/7cc020757e In todays episode, Destiny outlines 4 practical steps to help you overcome insecurity. Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, April 28, 2022
#19: How Gods Word Can Help You With Insecurities
In this weeks episode we are diving into the topic of Insecurity. Destiny shares what scriptures you can remember when you start to feel insecure. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, April 21, 2022
#18: Expect The Unexpected
Life happens and things are not always in our control. However, there are foundational pillars we can set into place to keep us grounded and strong in every season of life. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, April 07, 2022
#17: God Picks You Again And Again
Do you feel like your living in the background of life? Going through the motions and feel unseen? In this episode, Destiny gives a word of encouragement to help bring clarity to the fact that God picks you. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, March 31, 2022
#16: Women Of The Word: 3 Lessons From The Life Of Prophetess Huldah
In honor of women's history month, we are looking at the lives of some incredible women in scripture. In this episode we look at the life of Huldah and pull 3 practical life lessons from her story. What were your thoughts on this mini series? Message me on social, I'd love to hear your thoughts. Connect with me by clicking the links below. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msdestinypickens/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/msdestinypickens Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, March 24, 2022
#15: Women Of The Word: 4 Lessons From The Life Of Judge Deborah
In honor of women's history month, we are looking at the lives of some incredible women in scripture. In this episode we look at the life of Deborah and pull 4 practical life lessons from her story. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, March 17, 2022
#14: Women Of The Word: 3 Lessons From The Life Of Queen Esther
In honor of women's history month, we are looking at the lives of some incredible women in scripture. In this episode we look at the life of Esther and pull 3 practical life lessons from her story. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, March 03, 2022
#13: 3 Practical Ways To Make Room For God
In this episode, Destiny discuss 3 ways to make room for God to work in your life. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 24, 2022
#12: Confronting The Fear Of Change
For better or for worse, change is destined to happen. In this episode we take about how in the face of change, we are never alone. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 17, 2022
#11: Why Insecurity Keeps You From Walking In Your Full Potential And What To Do About It
In today episode, we dive into the messy topic of insecurity. It's no secret that many women battle with this on the every day bases. We look to Gods Word to encourage and direct us on how to handle insecurities. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, February 03, 2022
#10: Iron Sharpens Iron: Why Connecting With Others Is So Valuable
We were created for connection! It is one of your physiological human needs, rather you want to admit it or not. In order to steer clear of loneliness, depression and anxiety, it is vital we have meaningful connection with others. On this episode, we dive into the heart of connection. We discuss why taking our precious time to connect with others is not a burden but a blessing. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 27, 2022
#9: 3 Tips To Avoid Living On Autopilot
In todays episode, Destiny gives you 3 tips to avoid living life in a state of autopilot. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 20, 2022
#8: 3 Reasons Why Christians Should Set Goals
In todays episode, Destiny gives you 3 reasons why you should be setting goals. It's not just practical, it's biblical. Don't forget to post your goals and tag Destiny. Instagram @msdestinypickens Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, January 06, 2022
#7: Success While Living True To Yourself
In this episode, Destiny gives you 3 keys to unlocking a life more joyful, successful and authentic. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 30, 2021
#6: 3 Questions To Help You Reflect
Well, you've made it! Another year has come and gone and we have so much to be thankful for. In this episode, I ask you 3 questions to help you reflect on this past year. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 16, 2021
#5: 3 Powerful Steps To Becoming Less Overwhelmed
In todays episode, I cover 3 effective ways to handle the feeling and stress of overwhelm. Step 1: Spend Time In Prayer Step 2: Declutter and Organize Step 3: Invest Time In You Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 09, 2021
#4: A Time For Rest
It's that time of the year when our calendars seemed to get filled quickly and there are not enough hours in the day. Well in the midst of your busy season, I want to remind you to rest. In Today’s episode we are discussing why you need to make resting a priority even when you feel there’s no time for it. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, December 02, 2021
#3: 4 Ways To Deal With Criticism
Criticism can come as a hard blow to our confidence, belief in our abilities and even our faith. It's something I feel needs to be talked about and In today's episode, I am going to give you four ways to respond to criticism. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 25, 2021
#2: By Prayer And Petition, With Thanksgiving, Present Your Requests To God
Do you ever feel a sense of guilt when constantly asking God to do things for you? In today’s episode we are talking about feeling guilty for asking God for the wants and needs of our heart. God actually takes Joy in hearing our needs. When we are constantly asking God to involve Himself in our life, it’s showing that we rely on Him and not on our own strength. And that in itself is a beautiful testimony to how He is working within our lives. Want to support the show? You can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
Thu, November 18, 2021
#1: 3 Powerful Ways To Deal With Stress
Hello and welcome to the very first episode of the uniquely you podcast! In today’s episode we are talking about dealing with stress.Here are the 3 steps we will cover so you can lessen the burden of stress. Step #1: Decide right now to release every thought from yesterday and be only mindful of the moment God has given you right now. Step #2: Pour your heart out to God. Step #3: Ask for God to intervene and disrupt the circumstance you are facing. If you enjoy this podcast, please consider supporting it through pateron. Want to support the show? you can by giving at www.patreon.com/destinypickens Audio engineering by Christopher Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support Send us a text Support the show
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