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Tripp Lanier has coached Navy SEALs, best-selling authors, and entrepreneurs to align their lives with their career and relationships. He covers topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. Each episode consists of real world, practical advice so guys can get out of the rat race and live a life of purpose and meaning. Guests range from Tim Ferriss to Laird Hamilton to Navy SEALs to zen masters to “ordinary” guys living extraordinary lives. Topics include: mindset, purpose, power, relationships, sex, overcoming fear, lifestyle design, and spirituality. Read Tripp's latest book, This Book Will Make...

Tue, April 08, 2025
Dealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions? If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag? And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame? Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/04/dealing-with-blame-and-emotions COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, March 25, 2025
Striving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
What does it mean to 10X your life? Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially? And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more? Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/set-for-life COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, March 11, 2025
They Cheated on You. Now What? — Adam Nisenson, A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal
If your partner cheats on you, can the relationship be repaired? Is it your fault if your partner cheats? And how do men respond differently to being cheated on? Adam Nisenson is the author of A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal — a book specifically for men whose partners have cheated on them. We discuss why he calls infidelity a “death experience,” why it’s such a blow to our self esteem, and what not to do if you find out your partner has betrayed you. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/03/cheating-guide-to-betrayal-nisenson COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, February 25, 2025
Can Your Sex Life Be Saved? — Ruth Ramsay
Is sex a source of frustration with your partner? Do you feel sexually rejected by them? And if you don’t push for sex, will your partner ever initiate it? Many folks — too many folks — are unsatisfied with their sex lives. This can be a huge source of frustration and resentment between partners, which can ultimately lead to affairs or divorce. But does it have to be this way? Ruth Ramsay is a sex educator, coach, and creator of a TED talk that has garnered millions of views. She’s seen inside the sex lives of many people, and today she’s going to help us understand why sex is so challenging as well as what we can do to make it less frustrating and more fulfilling. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/sexual-rejection COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, February 11, 2025
Struggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you struggle with spirituality? If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus? And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks? Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spirituality. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/02/struggling-with-spirituality COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, January 28, 2025
Randy Blythe (lamb of god) on Drinking, Death, and God
Do you believe you need alcohol or some other crutch to function at your best? Do fears like imposter syndrome or stage fright ever completely go away? And is it still worthwhile to be generous and kind? Randy Blythe is best known as the vocalist for the metal band, lamb of god. He’s spent decades making records and playing to massive audiences all around the world. He’s also just another guy you might see surfing. That’s how we’ve become friends. Today we dive into his new book of essays, Just Beyond the Light and his difficult path of sobriety. We also discuss how, after a fan lost his life at a show in the Czech Republic back in 2010, Randy chose to face trial when he could have found a way out. If you enjoy gritty stories, stick around and consider picking up his new book. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/01/randy-blythe-just-beyond-the-light COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Mon, January 13, 2025
Feeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change? Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money? And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now? Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is really an invitation to get out of the shallow end of the pool. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/01/feeling-stuck COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Mon, December 30, 2024
Why Finding Your Purpose is So Frustrating — Jordan Grumet, The Purpose Code
Does it feel like your life is on hold until you figure out your purpose? What’s the real reason many folks are driven to be wealthy? And why do so many “successful” people feel burned out and empty? Dr Jordan Grumet returns to The New Man to discuss what many believe is the key to their fulfillment — purpose. He’s got a unique experience of being a doctor who helps people at the end of their lives, and he’s also a popular financial podcast host. This means he sees the gap between what is driving so many of us to be wealthy and what really matters. He’s written a new book called The Purpose Code that I love. It strips away the magical thinking BS and drills down to reveal what purpose and meaning really are. The result is a framework we can all use to do more of what we love, spend time with the people we love, and enjoy the precious time we have on this planet. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/purpose-code-jordan-grumet COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, December 17, 2024
Why People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is it normal for you to forget things until someone nags you about it? Do you ever wonder why your relationships seem shallow or you miss out on career opportunities? And what does this all have to do with brown M&M’s? Today Alyson and I talk about people pleasing, nice guy syndrome, and how being checked out is killing your sex life and career. We discuss the dangers of transactional relating, why the little things matter and how you can become more trustworthy simply by saying “no” more often. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/people-pleasing COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, December 03, 2024
How Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Are you devoted to anything other than money, security, or status? Does living with an open heart make you weak? And how is staying guarded killing aliveness? I grew up guarded and armored. For many years, I thought it was necessary and strong to cut myself off from emotional vulnerability. The truth is that I was fragile and incapable of being in emotionally challenging situations. That way of living almost destroyed me. For the last 20 years I’ve watched my wife Alyson navigate life very differently. She’s one of those rare few that can effortlessly disarm people and help them access their own hearts. Her strength in emotional situations is inspiring. It’s her superpower. So is this just something she was born with or is it a skill that she’s developed? I’ve always wanted to know but never asked. Until today. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/12/being-guarded COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, November 19, 2024
Are You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Are you the best lover your partner has ever had? How could you ever be sure? What if they preferred having sex with someone else more than you? And is sex a place where you strive to prove that you’re good enough? Today we talk about feeling jealous about our partner’s sexual history. We explore what drives that insecurity, how neediness is repulsive, and why trying to prove you’re a rockstar in bed is a big mistake. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/jealous-about-sexual-history COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, November 05, 2024
Rickson Gracie - How to Find Comfort in Darkness
Is a lack of confidence your worst enemy? What does it mean to develop mental, emotional, and spiritual strength? And how does accepting death make you stronger? Jiu Jitsu legend Rickson Gracie returns to The New Man, and we dive into the deeper topics from his new book with Peter Maguire called, Comfort in Darkness. Rickson wasn’t just a devastating opponent in the ring, he’s also a teacher that draws from a deep well of wisdom and intuition. He goes far beyond the mechanics and fundamentals to help others face their fears so that they can discover just how strong and capable they are. Today we discuss what he calls “Invisible Jiu Jitsu” and how we can all utilize it to become mentally, emotionally, and spiritually powerful. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/11/rickson-gracie-comfort-in-darkness COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, October 22, 2024
Am I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do obstacles mean you're on the wrong path, or are they simply part of the journey? Is the universe conspiring against your dreams, or is it just your own fear holding you back? And what can you do if you’re struggling to find motivation or inspiration? Whether you're questioning your career path, second-guessing a major life decision, or simply feeling stuck, you’re bound to experience doubt and resistance. In this episode, we discuss finding your calling, facing inner resistance, and the fear that we might be heading in the wrong direction. And we also explore ways to keep moving forward, even when the path ahead seems uncertain. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/overcoming-resistance COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, October 08, 2024
Build True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
What’s the common link between workaholism, greed, and love addiction? Does your sense of self worth go up and down like a rollercoaster? And is there more to life than protecting our egos? If you’re like everyone else on the planet, then you’ve probably struggled with feeling “enough.” Today Alyson and I dive under the hood to discuss Terry Real’s unhealthy forms of self-esteem so that we can all understand what kills our true confidence. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/10/workaholism-greed-love-addiction COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, September 17, 2024
Dealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
If you’re angry, is it better to bottle it up or lash out in retaliation? Do you get stuck in a loop thinking of things you should say to that jerk who pissed you off? And how is emotional constipation draining our aliveness and motivation? In this conversation, Alyson and I discuss the problems that arise with anger. For many, we feel stuck — if we say something with anger it might make the situation worse. But if we bottle it up, we become a toxic balloon that could burst at any moment. So today we explore what really drives our anger in hopes that we can find a more productive way to deal with it. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/dealing-with-anger COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, September 03, 2024
Avoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives? Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others? And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships? Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/09/feel-empty COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, August 20, 2024
Facing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Are you with someone because you really want them or because you’re more afraid to be alone? Are you settling for junk food relationships that never satisfy and leave you feeling empty? And how does loneliness drive us to choose lousy partners? Relationships are hard and the only way to learn is to get in the mix. Today Alyson and I find some friction when it comes to dating and playing the field. We also discuss how we’ve helped ourselves and others face their loneliness so that they don’t have to settle for lousy partners. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/fear-of-being-alone COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, August 06, 2024
Is Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? We talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. Is there another possibility? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, July 23, 2024
Can a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Can a nerd become a stud? Alyson and Tripp react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and handling our inner critic. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, July 09, 2024
Can You Learn to Trust Your Gut? — Mark Divine (Uncommon: Simple Principles for an Extraordinary Life)
Do you trust your gut when making decisions? Author, entrepreneur, and former Navy SEAL commander Mark Divine (Uncommon: Simple Principles for an Extraordinary Life) discusses the power of embracing our emotions, intuition, and spirituality. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/mark-divine-uncommon COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, June 25, 2024
Sebastian Junger’s Near Death Experience — Sebastian Junger (In My Time of Dying)
What’s going to happen to you after you die? Is death something you ignore or something you use to enjoy your days more? And are near death experiences proof of an after life or just the brain going apeshit because it’s losing oxygen? Sebastian Junger is no stranger to death. As a war correspondent he survived an IED attack on his vehicle and spent a grueling stint in the treacherous Korengal Valley of Afghanistan. But in 2020 he came face to face with his own mortality in a very different setting. At home. With his family. And this brush with death shook him much, much deeper because of what — and who — he saw at the threshold into the unknown. In this discussion, Sebastian shares his amazing story and most importantly how his near death experience has shaped the man he is today. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/sebastian-junger-near-death-experience COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Thu, June 13, 2024
Feeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time? Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges? And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better? Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it possible to get things on a better trajectory? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/pressure-to-marry COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Thu, May 30, 2024
Motivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is FOMO driving you to constantly be busy, busy, busy? Is it scary to admit that the hustle and grind is killing your motivation? And when is our resistance trying to help us? Today Alyson and I discuss motivation, resistance, and the cult of success. We talk about how it’s necessary to learn how to thrive in the world, but ultimately we have to stop jumping through hoops, forge our own path, and create success on our own terms. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/motivation-success-resistance COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, May 14, 2024
Finding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life? Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing? And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure? Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, April 30, 2024
Spiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life? Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God? And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru? Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms. If some of these ideas are helpful for you then great. And if they don’t align with your views, then please toss them aside. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/spiritual-but-not-religious COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, April 16, 2024
Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
Tue, April 02, 2024
Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Alyson and I try to help someone who is at odds with his partner about porn. Instead of debating who is right or wrong, what if we understood what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/porn-cheating What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, March 19, 2024
Is Healing for the Weak? - Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)
Navy SEAL Jeff Boss struggled to find his way as a civilian. Self-medicating with booze and women, he believed healing was for the weak -- until he couldn’t take it anymore. Today he helps those who struggle with the demons that plague us all. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/jeff-boss-healing-warriors What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, March 05, 2024
How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS? And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache? Tripp and Alyson discuss past relationship failures and what it may really mean to have a soul mate. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/soul-mate What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, February 13, 2024
Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alyson and Tripp discuss trying to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. What really helps us attain the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring? Plus, embarrassing stories about Tripp's many blind spots. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/02/at-war-with-yourself What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, January 31, 2024
Less Information. More Taking Action. — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Do you have an amazing collection of books but suck at taking action? Today’s call is with a personal growth junkie. He can easily spend hours pouring through books and podcasts, but when it comes to taking action it’s like pulling teeth. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/taking-action What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, January 17, 2024
Commitment Issues: What Would Make You Excited to Commit? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Commitment Issues: What would make you excited to commit to a relationship? In today’s coffee date, Alyson and Tripp Lanier talk about radical honesty early on and why being out of alignment on the big stuff dooms us to struggle with the small stuff. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/commitment-issues-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, January 02, 2024
Getting Your Partner to Change — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you wish you could change something about your partner? Alyson and I flounder through a conversation about commitment, refusing to be the bad guy, and why it’s so important to keep your side of the street clean. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/changing-your-partner What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 19, 2023
What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is meditation just a way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? Today my wife Alyson talk about what drew me into decades of spiritual practice. There’s the good and the not so good. So why do I keep doing it after all these years? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/meditation-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 05, 2023
Making Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alyson and Tripp Lanier share a coffee and discuss Tripp’s spiritual path, making sense of science and spirituality, and white guys with dreadlocks. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 21, 2023
Needing the Approval of Others — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
What truly motivates us to be more successful? An emotional call with a guy who has a checkered past plus damage to repair with his family. We start off talking about making money but quickly reveal what’s driving his need for success. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/11/approval-of-others What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 07, 2023
Are You Playing the Wrong Game? — Brian Johnson Areté
Ever feel like you’re playing the wrong game in life? Heroic CEO Brian Johnson on his new book Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential plus a challenge that nearly sank his business — and millions of dollars — days before the product launch. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/11/brian-johnson-arete What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 24, 2023
How to Beat Procrastination — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
How to Beat Procrastination. Today’s call is with a guy who’s sick of allowing procrastination to get the best of him. He sets tons of goals but doesn’t follow through. We look at his mindset, his excuses, and punch through his resistance. Immediately. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/10/procrastination-action What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 10, 2023
The Workaholic Curse — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Do you feel like everything will fall apart if you don’t bust your ass everyday? A workaholic with no life beyond the office and home is tired of the never-ending grind. We challenge his fears so he can free up his time and live more purposefully. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/10/workaholic What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 26, 2023
Stop Running Away from Your Problems — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
When today's caller feels challenged he numbs himself with weed or food. This may provide temporary relief but it's making his anxiety and marital problems worse. We discuss his self-sabotage and lay out steps to live with more integrity and peace. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/running-away-from-problems What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Thu, September 14, 2023
Putting Yourself Out There — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put fear in perspective, find courage, and even have fun taking action. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/putting-yourself-out-there What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 29, 2023
Feeling Like You’re Not Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
A retired entrepreneur feels like sh*t because he thinks he hasn’t accomplished enough. We explore a future where he’s no longer bullied into proving he’s enough, and he’s finally allowed to create what brings deep satisfaction. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/08/feeling-like-youre-not-enough What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, August 16, 2023
Fighting Resistance and Laziness — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Is it okay for someone to do whatever they want with your partner, your kids or home? Today’s coaching call is with a man being pushed around by laziness. I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he would fight for his family. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/08/fighting-resistance-laziness What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 01, 2023
Rat Racer Mentality: When the Best isn’t Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Do you spend more time worrying about the future vs enjoying the present? Do you fear that your success could be snatched away at any moment? This rat racer biz owner never feels like he's done enough. We clarify a success he can actually enjoy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/rat-racer-mentality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, July 19, 2023
Moving from Anxiety to Confidence — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Are you wasting time on the wrong path? An ER surgeon wants to change careers. We identify the limiting beliefs killing his confidence and learn how clarity and integrity provide satisfaction — even if he hasn’t crossed the finish line yet. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/anxiety-confidence What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, July 05, 2023
The Need to Be Legit — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
On this coaching call, a former client with too many options but not enough time. Luckily, we identify the mindset that’s draining her energy and provide a new way of approaching work so that it doesn’t devour her life or peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/need-to-be-legit What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, June 21, 2023
Coaching Call: The Pressure to Succeed — Tripp Lanier
How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? In this call, I talk with a father who feels an immense fear of failure. We take a look at what drives his perfectionism, and find a more playful way to provide. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/pressure-to-succeed What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, June 06, 2023
From Rumination to Mental Strength - Anson Whitmer (Calm/Mental App)
Is Huberman's approach over the top? Why should we never go "full Goggins"? And is there a better way to train our minds than the macho-achiever-bro-approach? Neuroscientist/Founder Anson Whitmer (Calm, Mental apps) walks us through Mental. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/mental-app-anson-whitmer What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, May 23, 2023
Imposter Syndrome and Proving Your Value — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Is imposter syndrome driving you nuts? In this conversation, we talk with a guy who’s convinced his success will come crashing down if he doesn’t constantly prove he’s legit. We reveal what’s truly driving his exhaustion and an unlikely solution. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/imposter-syndrome-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, May 09, 2023
Coaching Call: Why Goals Are Exhausting You — Tripp Lanier
Is the pursuit of your goals exhausting you? Are you unwilling to relax because something bad will happen? I talk with a high achiever who’s uncertain about where to go next in his business and life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/goals-lack-motivation What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, April 25, 2023
Coaching Call: Dealing with Burnout — Tripp Lanier
Are you dealing with burnout? Stuck in a "same sh*t different day" routine? In this coaching call, we see how one man reclaims his fire when he sees through his own BS. Plus, what life lesson can we learn from a six-year-old girl? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/dealing-with-burnout What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, April 11, 2023
Coaching Call: “I’m Stuck and I Don’t Know Where to Go Next” — Tripp Lanier
In this coaching call I talk with a high achiever who doesn’t understand why success isn’t as satisfying as expected. Instead of helping him pursue a life on “easy street”, we visit the place he’s been fighting like hell to avoid. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/face-your-fear What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, March 28, 2023
Coaching Call: Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — Tripp Lanier
Dealing with Marriage Money Drama -- I coach a married guy facing financial challenges. We discover there's something far more toxic poisoning their relationship. We discuss ways to shut down the drama so that both partners can have what they want. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/finances-marriage What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, March 14, 2023
Coaching Call: Fear of Failure | Why Is It So Hard to Commit? — Tripp Lanier
Does the fear of failure keep you from making a commitment? And what can the honey badger teach us about getting over ourselves? In today’s coaching call, we explore a strange way to overcome the fear of failure and truly commit to our work. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/fear-of-failure-4 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Mon, February 27, 2023
Old is Just a Mindset - Steven Kotler
Is getting old just a mindset? Steven Kotler (Gnar Country, The Art of Impossible, Flow Research Collective) discusses the new science of peak performance aging, why flow is critical for aging well, and ways to deal with fear and self-doubt. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/steven-kotler-gnar-country What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, February 15, 2023
Coaching Call: Have You Outgrown Your Career? — Tripp Lanier
In this coaching call, I talk with a guy who's built a successful business. The problem? It’s killing his soul. He’s lost touch with aliveness and meaning. How can he turn this around without blowing everything up? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/outgrow-your-career What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, January 31, 2023
Can Sexual Attraction Be Repaired? — Shana James
Can sexual attraction be repaired? Shana James (Honest Sex) talks about what really opens the doors to have more frequent and better sex. Hint: it's not about being jacked or more “masculine” — whatever the hell that means. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/sexual-attraction-repair What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, January 17, 2023
Coaching Call: When Your Business is Choking You — Tripp Lanier
Are you meant to do something else professionally? And how does nice guy syndrome show up at work? In this coaching call, I talk with an overwhelmed entrepreneur who's wondering if she should consider another business. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/overwhelming-workload What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Mon, January 02, 2023
Mark Manson Made a Movie — The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F
Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F is now a movie. Mark and I discuss making the film, what makes him feel insecure, and what Will Smith taught him about fame. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/mark-manson-movie What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 20, 2022
Coaching Call: How to Deal with Money Fears — Tripp Lanier
How to deal with money fears. Are you sick of your 9-5 day job? Is money a mysterious force that seems to always have power over you? In this coaching call, I work with a woman who is tired of feeling dragged around by her finances. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/how-to-deal-with-money-fears What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 13, 2022
Phil Stutz + Barry Michels - The Tools to Defeat Your Inner Enemy (Encore)
“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz (Stutz Netflix documentary) and Barry Michels discuss building energy, overcoming your worst habits, and the danger of your fantasy future. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/phil-stutz-barry-michels-coming-alive-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 06, 2022
Coaching Call: How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome — Tripp Lanier
Does your partner want to solve problems or win arguments? What can you do if you feel trapped in a relationship? And how can you challenge your partner to step out of a victim mindset? In today’s coaching call, I talk with a man who’s got business challenges, two daughters, and a divorce to finalize. He’s at a pivotal point in his life as a man, and in this conversation we choose to focus on the challenges he’s facing with his new girlfriend. We use his anxiety as a doorway to deal with nice guy syndrome. And we address his people pleasing in order to create a pathway to the wholeness and the relationship he truly wants. Note: What you’re about to hear is an actual coaching call. The person being coached volunteered and gave explicit permission to have our conversation recorded for this podcast. In this interview: Nice Guy Syndrome Feeling responsible for her emotions Getting grounded and present Stop trying to do relationship over text Having a “high maintenance” partner Plus: Being yourself vs playing a role to be liked Being a leader in your life and relationship Creating a vision for the relationship you want Immaturity vs maturity in relationships Being on the same page with your partner https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/nice-guy-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 29, 2022
Phil Stutz + Barry Michels on The Tools (Encore)
Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Stutz Netflix documentary, The Tools, Coming Alive) on how to deal with procrastination, grudges, and all kinds of negative thinking. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/phil-stutz-barry-michels-tools-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 22, 2022
Coaching Call: Am I Stuck in the Wrong Career? — Tripp Lanier
Are You Afraid You May Be Stuck in the Wrong Career? In this coaching call, a former golf pro now has money and stability. But something’s missing. We connect the dots between playing it safe, risk, and doing what makes him feel truly alive. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/stuck-in-wrong-career What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 08, 2022
Coaching Call: The Painful Reason You’re Burned Out — Tripp Lanier
Is your drive to be productive burning you out? Does the idea of relaxing create anxiety or guilt? In this coaching call, I help a man explore what drives his deep need to be productive. Also: how we use work to escape emotions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/burned-out What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 01, 2022
Integral Theory and The Cultural Dumpster Fire — Jeff Salzman, The Daily Evolver (Encore)
Bored with the whole left vs right gridlock? Could this culture war make us stronger? Jeff Salzman (The Daily Evolver) discusses Ken Wilber’s integral theory and how it can help us navigate a conflicted world. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/integral-theory-jeff-salzman What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 25, 2022
What is Mastery of Self? — don Miguel Ruiz Jr. (Encore)
Don Miguel Ruiz Jr (Mastery of Self, The Five Levels of Attachment, The Mastery of Life) discusses how to stop taking things personally, scarcity mindset, and how to forge your own path. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/don-miguel-ruiz-jr What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 18, 2022
Pressure, Anxiety, and Doing What You Love — Chip Conley (Encore)
Chip Conley (Wisdom @ Work, Joie de Vivre Hotels, Modern Elder Academy) discusses anxiety, workaholism, finding a calling, success and making sense of your emotions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/chip-conley-leadership What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 11, 2022
How to Train the Brain to Overcome Fear – Jaimal Yogis (Encore)
Jaimal Yogis (The Fear Project, All Our Waves are Water, Saltwater Buddha) on how to train your brain to overcome fear. Discussed: building motivation, transforming bad experiences, dealing with rejection.ww https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/jaimal-yogis-fear You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 04, 2022
Should You End Your Relationship? - Alyson Lanier (Encore)
How to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s time to leave the relationship. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/end-your-relationship You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 27, 2022
Mark Manson on Why the World is Going Crazy - Mark Manson (Encore)
Mark Manson (The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, Everything is F*cked, Will) slaughters our sacred cows. Also, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success was so difficult for him. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/mark-manson-interview-2 You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 20, 2022
How to Have (Really) Difficult Conversations – Mark J Silverman(Encore)
Mark Silverman (author and coach) talks about having difficult conversations — Here’s what he’s learned after pulling back the curtain and telling his wife, co-workers, and sons he was gay. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/having-difficult-conversations You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 13, 2022
Why Do Dolphins Get Stoned? The High Performance Benefits of Altered States - Jamie Wheal (Encore)
Jamie Wheal (Stealing Fire, Recapture the Rapture, Flow Genome Project) discusses altered states, flow, and how Navy SEALs accelerate learning. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/jamie-wheal-altered-states You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 06, 2022
How to Turn an Enemy into an Ally – Bill Shireman (Encore)
Bill Shireman (In This Together, Future 500) discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, how we're played by political polarization, and finding purpose in chaos. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/bill-shireman You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 30, 2022
Why We’re All Full of Sh*t - Jonathan Haidt (Encore)
Jonathan Haidt (The Righteous Mind, The Happiness Hypothesis, The Coddling of the American Mind) discusses why groups get crazy, our fear of rejection, and the mindset that makes us weak. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/jonathan-haidt-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 23, 2022
The Way of the Peaceful Warrior — Dan Millman (Encore)
Are you more afraid of rocking the boat or looking like a wimp? Do you see your current life as a diversion or as the training ground for being your best? And how can you walk the razor’s edge between being a passive wimp and the aggressive tough guy? In this encore episode, legendary author and peaceful warrior Dan Millman is on The New Man to help you confront your fears, quit settling for less and live this life in the moment. In this episode: What is a peaceful warrior and why should you care? How to live your life as a peaceful warrior Is spirituality just some idealistic, high level, pie-in-the-sky cream dream? How to tell the difference between objective and subjective fears What to do if you’re on the fence or have a difficult choice to make Plus: How to find a teacher How to tell if you’re on the “right path” or not How to handle confrontations How important is the body in walking the path? Can Dan Millman take Deepak Chopra in a cage match? The single practice to help you get the most out of this life https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/dan-millman-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 16, 2022
Dial in Your Money Psychology — Brent Kessel (Encore)
Are you more comfortable talking openly about sex or money? Does the topic of money conjure up feelings of struggle and difficulty? And why does your romantic partner seem to play the money game exactly the opposite of how you would play it? In this encore episode, author and financial planner Brent Kessel discusses how a four year old is probably running your financial life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/money-psychology You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 09, 2022
Defending the Ego Makes Us Weak — Aubrey Marcus (Encore)
What would your buddies think about you if they knew other men were sleeping with your wife? Are you only valuable if you’re working hard? And do you only do things that you know you can do well? Aubrey Marcus has had business success while also being outspoken in areas that challenge the ways most people think. In this encore episode, we talk about lessons he’s learned from open relationships, rituals with plant medicines, and how we find true strength when we stop defending our egos. In this interview: What is Total Human Optimization? How most high performers are driven by their demons Having success and wondering “Now what?” The danger of seeking validation through success, sex, etc. Why “tough guys” are tortured Plus: The deep pain Aubrey felt in his open relationship What really scares Aubrey? Does enjoying your life threaten your ability to be successful? “When you quit defending stuff you’re no longer vulnerable.” Phil Stutz: “Only the dead survive” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/aubrey-marcus You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 02, 2022
Is Money Killing You? - Jordan Grumet
Is money like oxygen for you? Is money the reason why you feel stuck? And will we care about money in the last days of our lives? Today’s guest has helped many, many people die. And in those moments, money wasn’t a concern for them. Jordan Grumet aka Doc G returns to discuss his new book Taking Stock. It’s about all fun stuff like money, death, and what we may regret at the end of our lives. Luckily he’s here to share his unique wisdom as a hospice doctor and personal finance expert. Today we’ll learn how to focus on what’s most important, put money in perspective, and prepare for a peaceful exit. In this interview: What do the dying regret about their lives? How does death change our views on money? What a hospice doctor does Why Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs requires an update How much is enough? Plus: Why did he panic when he realized he was financial independent? Why do our “wins” feel empty? Why are people scared of being “content”? The key to making life more playful and alive Why making money is a huge distraction from the important stuff And: Resisting the next phase of our lives Should we live for the future or go YOLO? What’s wrong with the FIRE movement? Does your passion need to pay the bills? How can we die with a sense of peace? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/08/jordan-grumet-taking-stock You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, July 26, 2022
How to Identify the Drama Triangle and Get Yourself Out — David Emerald (Encore)
Could you be a drama queen without even knowing it? Are you focusing on your problems or the outcomes you want? And how does playing the blame game kill your passion for life? In this encore episode, The Power of TED author David Emerald is here to talk about drama, victimhood, and how you can stop pointing fingers and empower yourself in any situation. In this interview: How knowing the Drama Triangle can change your life The difference between victimization and victimhood The key to creating passion in your life The simple way to create empowerment The small steps to a big vision When being a supportive friend doesn't help One thing you can do today to shift your mentality https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/david-emerald-power-ted You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, July 19, 2022
Is There More to Life Than Winning or Losing? — Shaun Tomson (Encore)
Would you buy a shotgun to defend your career? How could facing death help you be stronger in other areas of your life? And how do you know when it’s time to bend and when it’s time to stand firm? Author and surfing legend Shaun Tomson discusses winning, surviving horrendous loss, and how you can make sure you’re not one of the million people who will die this year because of bad choices. In this interview: Shaun and his shotgun on the North Shore of Oahu Preparing to die for what he loved Facing death and never giving up And Dealing with the loss of his 15 year old son Accepting the brutal reality instead of living in fantasy How to write your own life code Plus Lessons learned after being sucker punched Battling a scarcity mindset Building courage and optimism https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/shaun-tomson-life You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, July 12, 2022
Always Worrying About Money — Michael Neill (Encore)
Do you think you can solve money worries simply by making more money? Do you think you need to struggle and endure self-criticism and pressure in order to be happy? And what’s the most effective way to regain a sense of control when things get bumpy? In this encore episode, Michael Neill (world renowned transformative coach and best selling author) talks about some of the life changing ideas in his books The Inside Out Revolution and The Space Within. In this interview: Dealing with money scarcity The most effective way to feel in control Recognizing what is really stressing you out Beating yourself up in order to be successful The guy who makes 7 figures who is worried about money https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/inside-out-revolution-michael-neill You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, July 05, 2022
How to Approach Women Without Being a Moron — Shana James (Encore)
Do you wish you could approach any woman, any time, anywhere? Do you get stuck planning the perfect thing to say so you don't screw up? And how do you let her know you want to be more than just friends? In this encore episode, coach Shana James shares her feminine perspective to help all guys -- single and married -- let go of the mind games and have more confidence, freedom, and connection. In this interview: 3 ways to start conversations without using pickup lines Why "getting it right" gets it wrong What makes connecting with women easy When and how to integrate your turn on Dealing with the discomfort of sexual attraction Attracting a quality woman vs the distracted party girl https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/07/approach-women-dating You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, June 28, 2022
JP Sears Wants You to Get Offended - JP Sears (Encore)
(Very) controversial YouTube comedian JP Sears talks about laughter, getting offended, and how you can be better than everyone else in this encore episode. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/jp-sears-get-offended You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, June 21, 2022
How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker (Encore)
In May of 2007 Dave Baker should have died from a massive heart attack. This is his unbelievable story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he refused to just “exist” after getting a second chance at life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/heart-attack-recovery-encore You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, June 14, 2022
How to Reinvent Yourself – Steve Chandler (Encore)
Drugs, alcohol, failure — In this encore episode, coach/author Steve Chandler tells the insane story about turning his life around. If you get easily rattled, you may want to sit this one out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/steve-chandler-author-coach You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, June 07, 2022
How to Make a Big Life Change - Robert Greene (Encore)
Is it really too late to make a big change in your life? In this encore interview Robert Greene discusses power, mastery, and how he wandered through dozens of jobs before finding success as a bestselling author. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/06/robert-greene-daily-laws You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, May 31, 2022
Sex, Drugs and Escaping from Life – Junpo Denis Kelly(Encore)
If you make enough money, have enough sex, do enough drugs, meditate, whatever -- can you escape the frustration of living? The late Zen Master Junpo Denis Kelly discusses his life, sex, LSD, running from the law, anger and fear. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/05/jun-po-denis-kelly-heart-blown-open-encore You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, May 24, 2022
Greg Long - How to Come Back from the Dead (Encore)
Please enjoy this encore episode of The New Man Podcast. Afraid to take risks? Afraid to admit you’re afraid? Greg Long nearly drowned surfing Cortes Bank and went Christmas shopping the next day. Recovering mentally and emotionally was a much more challenging ordeal. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/05/greg-long-big-wave-drowning-cortes-bank You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, April 13, 2022
How to Beat Mental Resistance + Wannabe Rock Stars — Tripp Lanier
If your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path? How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidence? And what does this have to do with Tripp’s wannabe rock star days? In today’s video we discuss how to beat mental resistance. We’ll learn some basic steps to overcome self doubt and do what truly matters. In this video: Tripp’s wannabe rock star days Why mental resistance shows up The 3 commitments that keep us stuck The cost of letting resistance win 5 steps to get back on track https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/04/how-to-beat-mental-resistance You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, March 30, 2022
The Ego is Not the Enemy? — Tripp Lanier
What if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes? A deeper look into IFS and Richard Schwartz. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, March 15, 2022
Startup Founder Mindset - David Perel's Racing Rollercoaster Continues
Have you ever had your dream opportunity pulled out from under you? Do you try to do everything yourself or do you train others how to help? And if you’re moving into the next phase of your professional life, how can you leverage your existing skills to your advantage? Professional racing driver and startup founder, David Perel is back. His last interview was one of my favorites. It’s such a crazy story full of ups and downs. I highly recommend you check that one out. Well, since that last talk, things for him got even wilder. Today we’re going to hear how his dream to race at Le Mans was crushed not once but twice; the emotions he felt when that dream became a reality; and how Covid challenged him to unexpectedly build a business that ended up exploding in growth. But beyond that we’re going to drill into his mindset as a startup founder and competitor. We’ll learn how he’s had to mature and tame some of his demons in order to grow instead of become a liability to himself. In this interview: - Would you skip meals so you could pay to do your dream job? - Learning to recognize opportunities - How his opportunity jeopardized his future marriage - Do you act on your ideas quickly or do they just fade away? - Leveraging previous experiences and expertise Plus: - Do your insecurities hold you back? - Who are you afraid will judge you? - Finding motivation - Dealing with loss as a professional - The brass balls of racing drivers like Kevin Estre and Laurens Vanthoor https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/startup-founder-mindset-david-perel You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, March 01, 2022
Kelly Slater and a Healthy Competitor Mindset — Tripp Lanier
Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition? In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way. In this video: - Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters - Burnout from competitive mindset - Why losses can sting so bad - Reinventing ourselves - Another way to approach competition https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/competitor-mindset-kelly-slater You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, February 15, 2022
The Magical Steak Story: Dangers of a Magical Mindset — Tripp Lanier
Do some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet? Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill. In this video: - Putting people on a pedestal - How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality - Hiding under our mother’s skirt - Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill - One of my disgusting pranks https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/magical-mindset You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, February 01, 2022
The 3 Keys to Clarity: Finding Direction and Alignment - Tripp Lanier
Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind. In this video: - Why so many folks feel lost - Why I was terrified after selling my first company - Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap - How does money impact a purposeful life? - Why procrastination isn’t always lazinesst https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, January 18, 2022
Why Did They Call Me Cat Squeeze? Productivity and Outgrowing Your Life — Tripp Lanier
Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do. In this short video: - My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him - Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough - Striving for more, more, more - Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations - 3 steps to shift into a more powerful mindset https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/outgrow-your-life You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 14, 2021
Dealbreakers: Are You Roommates or Lovers? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates? Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought? And what puts the brakes on your sex life? Today Alyson and I talk about the roles we play in our relationships — being roommates, business partners, co-parents, buddies — and how these roles kill our sex life. We also discuss ways to put our relationship problems into perspective so that we can identify what is truly a dealbreaker. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/12/sex-life You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 30, 2021
My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Are you holding yourself back from the life and work you truly want? Do your fears of rejection or going broke keep you playing small? And would others think you were weird if they knew what truly lights you up? Today, my wife Alyson challenges me to go big. In this conversation, she pushes me to be more transparent about the work I feel called to do, we explore what keeps me playing small, and you’ll hear why IFS founder Richard Schwartz probably won’t talk to me anymore. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/self-leadership-ifs You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 16, 2021
Do You Fear Your Ambition? (Part 4) - Brian Johnson
Are your goals too ambitious or are you holding yourself back? What is the opposite of imposter syndrome? And is there anyone in your life who challenges you to get out of your way? Optimize and Heroic founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 4 in our series that explores his growth process for launching a company aimed at changing the world. In today’s conversation we talk about ambition, assessing risk, and ensuring that we’re operating from our inner wisdom instead of our inner Johnny Knoxville (no offense Johnny). Brian has recently unlocked his flagship program Optimize. This incredible collection of book summaries, courses, and masterclasses is now completely free. It’s an incredible value. You can learn more by visiting optimize.me/thenewman. In this episode: The fear of going big Imposter syndrome Working with Phil Stutz on ambition Tapping into infinite possibility The key to confidence Plus: How do you build trust within yourself? Who within you is setting your goals? What are you called to do? Assessing risk Are your risks dumb or courageous? And: Are you willing to eat “death cookies”? Do you only listen to people who agree with you? Who challenges you to think big? Is your ego an enemy or an ally? What do you do to access your most confident self? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/brian-johnson-ambition You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Thu, October 28, 2021
What Would You Die For? - Sebastian Junger (Freedom, Tribe, The Perfect Storm)
Are you lost or do you have a clear sense of purpose? Do you seek or avoid risk? And do you feel that you’re part of a group that you would die for? Sebastian Junger is no stranger to danger. As a war reporter, he experienced intense combat in Afghanistan and nearly lost his life in other parts of the globe. He’s documented his experiences in gripping films like Restrepo and Korengal as well as books like War, Tribe, and his latest Freedom. And — oh yeah — he wrote a book called The Perfect Storm which you may have heard of, too. Freedom is his most recent book where he discusses what he calls The Last Patrol. It’s a long hike he did with several other veterans along the railways of America. In the book he describes the history of the land, what freedom really means, and the best ways to dodge authorities trying to arrest them for hiking next to speeding trains. Today Sebastian and I explore why humans benefit from danger, our need to belong to a group, and what he saw in the moments before his death. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/sebastian-junger-freedom You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 12, 2021
Why Avoiding Conflict is Creating Conflict - Jayson Gaddis (Getting to Zero, The Relationship School)
What if avoiding conflict was the thing killing your relationship and sex life? Are you being fake with your partner because you’re afraid to tell the truth? And is it possible to end a relationship with peace of mind? Relationship School founder Jayson Gaddis returns to discuss his new book Getting to Zero. Today he and I explore how conflict — especially avoiding conflict — is killing the relationships, trust, and sexual experiences we’re trying to protect. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/jayson-gaddis-getting-to-zero You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 28, 2021
From Inner Critic to Inner Peace - Richard Schwartz (IFS, No Bad Parts)
Richard Schwartz introduced IFS or Internal Family Systems many years ago. Since then, the process has been used to heal, strengthen, and align the minds of many people — including myself. I use IFS daily in meditation as well as in my coaching practice to help clients confront their fears and get out of their own way. When it comes to being productive, I’ve found that IFS works much, much better than forcing our way through resistance. And it’s amazingly effective at helping us cut through the noise so we can connect to what some may call our essential or spiritual Self. Schwartz has a new book called, “No Bad Parts” and today we’re going to explore the inner critic, our addiction to achievement, and getting out of our own way. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, September 14, 2021
You’re Being Hormonal - When Heated Talks Turn into Fights — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
When you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames? Why do heated conversations have a tendency to spiral into infernos? And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution? It’s not always sunny in the Lanier household, and on this particular day, I stepped on a landmine. After the fire was brought under control, Alyson thought it might be helpful to turn on the mics and explore what caused the fire - as well as what we did to put it out. But to be honest, like a moron, I ended up pouring gas on it again during this conversation. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/fighting-with-your-wife You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 31, 2021
Adrian Grenier: Success, Failure, and Rebirth
Adrian Grenier (Vincent Chase from HBO’s Entourage). While Chase’s life was a fantasy, Adrian’s life behind the scenes had its share of ups and downs. Today we dive into his insatiable need to prove himself, the event that kicked his ass, and the way that he’s redefined himself since. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/adrian-grenier-investing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Sat, August 14, 2021
Rickson Gracie - How to Win Without a Fight
If you’re even remotely familiar with the world of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu then you know that Rickson Gracie is nothing short of a legend. He has a new book called “Breathe: A Life in Flow”. It’s a fantastic read not only because his life story is so interesting but also because it provides insights into what it means to be a spiritual warrior in our modern times. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/rickson-gracie-breathe-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, August 03, 2021
This Doc Wants to Wake Your Ass Up - ZDoggMD Zubin Damania
If you speak the truth could you lose your career? Is there more to life than striving for something we don’t already have? Dr. Zubin Damania aka ZDogg MD aka Doc Vader on breaking the mold, playfulness, and waking up. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/zdoggmd-zubin-damania-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, July 21, 2021
Imposter Syndrome - Is it You Against the World?
Ever feel like it’s you against the world? Does imposter syndrome give you the sense that at any moment it’s all gonna come crashing down? And how does this pressure to perform put us in a version of hell? Today we talk about pressure, perfectionism, and why we need to tune into our bigger selves to pull us out of hell. In this video: Dealing with pressure, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome Always needing to “get it right” How protecting, pleasing, proving makes us weaker Getting out of our fearful, prey mindset Accessing our deeper, higher selves https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/07/imposter-syndrome You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, July 06, 2021
How to Anti-Fragile Confidence (Part 3) - Brian Johnson
Are you focused on what’s important or just trying to put out fires? Do you ever get overwhelmed by all of the ideas in books and podcasts? And what does it mean to be ruthless? Optimize force of nature and CEO Brian Johnson and I catch up after his new venture, Heroic made history by becoming the first company to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. Today, we discuss dealing with pressure, distractions, and developing anti-fragile confidence. FWIW, this conversation took place after I had to reschedule because the 5G vaccine nano-bots hijacked my brain. Let’s dive in. In this interview: When the finish line is really a starting line Dealing with pressure The importance of a big “why” Finding the sweet spot for your big goal How do you train a hero? Plus: What’s the game you’re playing? How to deal with doubt Developing anti-fragile confidence Dealing with discomfort Does discomfort mean you’re on the wrong path? And: Self-betrayal and grinding vs self-alignment and grit What if the thing that scares you is the thing that will energize you? What’s the question that gets us out of a victim mindset? How do you figure out what to delegate? What does it mean to be ruthless? As well as: Are you reactive or focused? Are you fierce with your focus? Doing what’s right even when you don’t feel like it What’s the fastest way to make a big change? Getting stuck between optimizing and maximizing https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/07/brian-johnson-antifragile-confidence You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, June 23, 2021
How to Level Up Without Burning Out - Steven Kotler (The Art of Impossible)
Are you trying to achieve the impossible or just get through the week? What are the necessary keys for turning your work into play? And is grinding yourself to a pulp really the best way to accomplish a big goal? Best selling author and Flow Research Collective guru, Steven Kotler returns to discuss his new book, The Art of Impossible: A Peak Performance Primer. Today we explore the basics of peak performance, burn out, and goals. Whether you’re trying to change the world or just get through a lousy week — these are the keys to leveling up without burning out. In this interview: How to level up without burning out What is peak performance? What are the two types of impossible? Why is a good mood so important? Is grinding the best way to accomplish a big goal? Plus: How much meditation and exercise is needed to regulate your nervous system? How can you ensure that you don’t burnout? What are the 4 elements driving peak performance? What are the keys to setting goals? How do you know when your day is done? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/06/steven-kotler-art-of-impossible You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, June 09, 2021
What if Surrender is the Opposite of Defeat? - Kute Blackson (The Magic of Surrender)
Are you fixated on who you should be or who you truly are? Are you exhausted from trying to control so many things that seem out of your control? And what if your goals are really just lies rooted in fears and wounds? Kute Blackson returns to discuss his latest book, The Magic of Surrender. Today we dive into the crazy belief that it’s us against the universe, and we’ll learn why the key to putting on our big boy pants is embracing the unknown. In this interview: What is surrender? Feeling exhausted from trying to control life Hustling and forcing what we want What’s trying to happen without your control? What’s in the middle between controlling everything and doing nothing? Plus: How is surrender like surfing? What is life trying to create through you? What keeps us stuck in our own prison? How is your pain or frustration information? What has us seek drama or toxic BS? And: Do you have a sickening feeling that you’re living a lie? How is life our classroom? Have you outgrown your current level in life? Can a crisis be a blessing? How important is grieving to our growth? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/06/kute-blackson-surrender You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, May 26, 2021
How to Stop Bitching and Create What You Want - Shana James, MA
Does your partner give you a hard time because you want more sex? Do you blame your work or family for getting in the way of what has you feel alive? And what do power and pleasure have to do with us becoming grumpy old men? Shana James has coached many guys over the years through the intersection between owning our power and having the experiences we most want. She’s got a new book called Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident and Satisfied Lover and Leader. Today we talk about how to shift our mindset from frustration into greater aliveness and fun. In this interview: What is pleasure? Is power about dominance? Being responsible vs having fun “What do I actually enjoy?” Why all of us have a bit of “nice guy syndrome” Seeing frustration as information Plus: Feeling guilty about wanting more pleasure What’s your role in your level of unhappiness? Waiting for someone to tell you what to do Are you a bad husband or father if you want time for yourself? Are you afraid to bring what you want to your partner for fear it’ll cause a problem? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/shana-james-power-pleasure You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, May 11, 2021
Psychedelics and Getting Out of Your Own Way — Will Van Derveer, MD
If you were wearing blinders, how would you know? What if your perspective on the world — instead of the world itself — was the thing truly holding you back? And why do some psychedelics have such a profound, lasting impact when combined with certain types of therapy? Dr. Will Van Derveer returns to discuss the pros and cons of psychedelic-assisted therapy as well as the possibilities for those of us who want to challenge our limitations. In this interview: Michael Pollan’s How to Change Your Mind The pros vs the “Backyard Shamans” Who’s a candidate for psychedelic assisted therapy? Understanding the ‘default mode network’ The problem with meditation and ayahuasca retreats Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Dick Schwartz Plus: What’s it like to take ketamine? What are the legalities of psychedelics? What is ketamine and how does it impact the mind? Neuroplasticity and changing the brain What makes these changes stick? Antidepressants vs dealing with the root cause https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/psychedelic-assisted-therapy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com
Mon, April 26, 2021
Is Believing in God Dangerous? — Jamie Wheal, Recapture the Rapture
Is it dangerous to believe in god or something bigger than yourself? What do Mars colonization, cults, and the pursuit of heavenly salvation have in common? And why are so many of us feeling spiritually lost? Jamie Wheal is the co-author of Stealing Fire and the executive director of the Flow Genome Project. He’s returned to discuss his latest book, Recapture the Rapture. Today we talk about the world’s crisis of meaning, why groups sometimes make us dumber, and trying to fill the god-shaped hole in our hearts. In this interview: Rabbi Zalman Shachter, LSD, and being a Jew Trying to ignore our faith When Buddha, Lao Tzu, and other traditions don’t fit Why so many of us long for god Being “cosmic-orphans” Plus: Why we’re in a “meaning crisis” Our longing to escape the grind of life The power of the death-rebirth experience Communities that mean good but go bad Why cults are a feature of being human Do we get dumber as members of a group? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/jamie-wheal-recapture-the-rapture You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, April 20, 2021
Go From Poopy-Pants to Power — Tripp Lanier
Tired of feeling uninspired or “meh?” Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain? And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” In this short video, we explore a simple process to use our mood to our advantage. In this episode: Why do moods matter? What causes our moods? Why are we giving up our power? The 3 step process to shift a lousy mood into empowering action Why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/use-mood-to-your-advantage You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, April 06, 2021
Aren’t We All a Little Crazy? Mental Illness to Peak Performance — Keith Kurlander
What if your normal level of stress, anxiety, or depression didn’t have to be normal? Do you feel like you’re using work, alcohol, or something else to outrun the uncomfortable thoughts in your head? And how can we use our stress and darkness to help us live a more full, rewarding life? Before Keith Kurlander became a founder of the Integrative Psychiatry Center, he struggled with serious mental health issues. He ran away from the promise of a highly lucrative life on Wall Street to find relief on a path which took many, many turns. He worked with everyone from yoga teachers to therapists to meds to shamans to psychedelics to you name it. He tried it. But none of those approaches alone worked for him. These days he’s dialed in his brain, his body, and his behaviors and his life is back on track. So what worked? What had him go from struggling to get off the couch to being a husband and father leading two companies today? Today we explore his story and the reality that all of us deal with some form of mental illness on some level. Here’s to all of us realizing that maybe, just maybe we don’t have to hide, outrun, or settle if we don’t want to. In this interview: What if everyone has a bit of mental illness? Trying to outrun our inner critic, dark thoughts, emotions Moving from mental illness to peak performance The stigma of struggling with anxiety and depression Do we have to blow up our lives in order to make a change? Plus: Running away from Wall Street and a lucrative career Keith’s experiences with mental illness and bipolar disorder Seeking relief through spiritual growth How ayahuasca effected Keith’s brain Keith’s experience with meds And: What approaches help us heal mental illness What is integrative psychiatry and why is it so powerful? Why you need to be the authority of your path Integrating psychedelics, ketamine, and functional medicine with traditional therapies And then: Betraying ourselves and pushing down that inner voice Wound worshipping and getting stuck in “healing” Mental disorders are chosen because we get something from them What is spiritual bypassing? What to ask yourself if you’re tired of feeling stuck https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/mental-illness-peak-performance You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, March 24, 2021
Build Confidence: There is No Secret Sauce — Tripp Lanier
Do you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal? In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process. In this video: Lacking follow through on the important things Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies Comparing ourselves to others Putting others on a pedestal Looking for the “secret sauce”, hacks, or cheat codes Also: Building confidence through consistency Staying the course Making sure goals don’t drive you into the ground Getting through the tough stuff The key to peace of mind https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/build-confidence You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Mon, March 08, 2021
How Do You Deal with Criticism? (Part 2) – Brian Johnson
Are you following the herd or taking the lead? What’s driving your chronic dissatisfaction and frustration? And how can rubbing people the wrong way be an indicator that you’re on the right track? Heroic Public Benefit Corporation founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 2 in our series. Today we talk about trolls, anger, and using our deep fear of being misunderstood for a greater good. When we see someone do the extraordinary, most of the time we only see the impressive outcomes while the gritty, uncomfortable, awkward stuff stays in the shadows. This series is a behind the scenes look as Brian undergoes his own hero’s journey to bring Heroic into the world. As a coach, I help people navigate this uncertain, challenging terrain everyday, and my hope is that by witnessing Brian’s ups and downs, we can take away some wisdom for our own journey’s. At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic. In this interview: Why do we criticize people who are more courageous than us? How to tell if you’re playing the victim? How can anger and criticism be used for good? Are you defensive or curious? Can you learn to challenge others without vitriol? Plus: Ken Wilber “No one is 100% wrong.” How to address toxic comments on social media? What kills a democracy? What is Cosmic Rage? How to combat the erosion of common decency? And: What’s beyond attention economics? Why become a Public Benefit Corporation? How do you act in a sacred environment vs social media? What’s the difference between anger and aggression? How to feel more full and satisfied on a daily basis? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/brian-johnson-heroic-2 You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Wed, March 03, 2021
Competitive Mindset: Is There More to Life than Winning and Losing? — Tripp Lanier
Make the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, February 16, 2021
Is There More to Life Than Chasing Money or Importance? — Doc G
Do you worry that you’re on the wrong path in life? Are you focused on goals and outcomes or doing what you actually enjoy? And what if there’s more to life than chasing money or the need to be important? Before Doc G became a writer and host of the Earn and Invest podcast, he was like many doctors. But after years spent chasing outcomes, money and building an ideal version of himself, he realized he was in a trap. Today we discuss how he reinvented his personal and professional life based on what gave him a sense of aliveness and meaning. We’ll also dive into our fixation on money, safety, and why death can be a wonderful teacher. In this interview: Is life forcing you to change? Who are you if you’re not chasing money? Joseph Campbell on feeling alive Doing things to prove we’re enough Why ego gets in the way of meaning or purpose Plus: Why Doc G got depressed once he was financially free Thinking if you were someone else you’d be free once and for all Redefining your life based on what brings aliveness and meaning Chasing outcomes instead of enjoying the process Dealing with resistance and self-doubt Searching for “hacks” to avoid discomfort, risk, and vulnerability And: How dealing with death on a regular basis impacts our ability to live What is hospice? What is the dying process like? How does spirituality affect our ability to die peacefully? The fear of dying with peace instead of regrets https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/doc-g-earn-invest You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, February 02, 2021
Winning Your Inner Civil War (Part 1) – Brian Johnson
Do you have a sense that something is rumbling in your soul, trying to get out? Do you feel confused about who you are professionally? And are you waiting until you feel ready, or are you building the world you want to live in? Philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson is back. This time he’s set his sights on an ambitious goal to create a company that will change the world. The Heroic Public Benefit Corporation is a platform that will provide the tools for optimal living as well as an online community that will become the answer to The Social Dilemma. At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic. Now if you’re like most of us, you may have a sense that there’s something calling you to the next level of your life. Perhaps you’re not clear about the role you’re supposed to play or maybe you just don’t want to rock the boat. Brian is no different. And so as Heroic finds it’s footing in the world, he’s agreed to pull back the curtain and let us in on his personal process. Throughout this series of interviews, we’ll ride along with Brian through his hero’s journey — and find our own gold along the way. In this interview: Heeding the call to go big Dealing with ambivalence “Am I a philosopher or a CEO?” “What one can be, one must be.” Maslow Walt Whitman, “Simmering, simmering, simmering…to a boil” “What kind of world do I want to live in and what am I going to do about it?” Building the answer to “The Social Dilemma” Plus: Confronting self-doubt Meditation to increase personal power Phil Stutz and leaning into the things that scare you Does pain or discomfort mean something is wrong? Wanting to find the hack, cheat code, or short cut How do we know if we’re on the “wrong” path? And: Trusting yourself instead of doing what makes others feel comfortable The key to becoming anti-fragile Hustling and success that makes us “weak” Burning ourselves up and out in order to impress others Is ambition a dirty word? Living and working in service of something bigger than yourself No more waiting to lead https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/brian-johnson-heroic You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, January 19, 2021
Are You Selling Your Soul? — John Jantsch
John Jantsch (The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur) discusses how our deeper values play a role in our success. If you’re tired of the typical, hyper-achievement BS that passes for business advice, then this conversation will be a breath of fresh air. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/Self-reliant-entrepreneur-john-jantsch You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, January 05, 2021
The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss (Replay)
Neil Strauss (“The Truth”, “The Game”) discusses the gritty truth about his experiences with infidelity, sex rehab, sex clubs, open relationships — you name it. Enjoy this classic interview from The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/neil-strauss-the-truth You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 15, 2020
The Tools to Get Out of Your Own Way – Barry Michels (Replay)
We revisit Barry Michels’ classic interview on The New Man Podcast. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/barry-michels-tools-coming-alive You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 08, 2020
Not Everybody Gets to Be King: The Mindset Difference Between a Leader and a Follower — Tripp Lanier
Not everybody gets to be king. What’s the mindset difference between a leader and a follower? Are you a king hiding out as a knight? And how do we define success on our own terms? In this short lesson, we explore the major mindset differences between a leader and a follower. We discuss why so many of us are “kings in hiding,” as well as some practical tools to own our creative, visionary energy in service of something greater than ourselves. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/difference-between-leader-follower You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, December 01, 2020
Motivation Beyond Fear: Underachievers vs Overachievers — Tripp Lanier
Finding motivation beyond fear. Why underachievers and overachievers are typically driven by fear. Developing self leadership skills to get out of feast or famine and “never enough.” Also: turning pro, finding flow, and tips to follow through. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/12/motivation-beyond-fear-underachievers-overachievers You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 24, 2020
No More Mr. Nice Guy – Dr. Robert Glover (Replay)
No More Mr. Nice Guy (Dr. Robert Glover) What is Nice Guy Syndrome? Why do nice guys struggle in relationships and work? Plus, the four steps for getting out of Nice Guy Syndrome. (This is a replay of a previous episode.) https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/no-more-mr-nice-guy You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 17, 2020
Am I With the Right Person? — Tripp Lanier
Why we get stuck in unsatisfying relationships. Understanding the purpose of your relationship, tips for creating more alignment so you don’t have to settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/relationship-struggles You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Fri, November 13, 2020
How to Meditate for Mindfulness — Tripp Lanier
What’s the point of meditation? How does it help us bounce back from fear and reactivity? And what’s it like to meditate in a room full of farting people? Today, Tripp Lanier shares some insights gained from 20+ years of meditation plus why he insists that his coaching clients develop a coaching practice. In this video: Why bother meditating? Why your hobby isn’t a meditation Flow states vs meditative states Different types of meditation Developing the “witness” or mindfulness Plus: A basic overview for how to meditate Meditating in a room full of farting people The upside to having a consistent meditation practice How meditation helps us become better leaders Become the “chairman of the board” in our minds https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/11/how-to-meditate-for-mindfulness You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, November 03, 2020
The War of Art, Fear, and Resistance (Replay) – Steven Pressfield
Steven Pressfield The War of Art. Ready to turn pro and do the work? Legendary author Steven Pressfield talks about beating resistance, getting out of your own way, and finding your calling. This is a replay of the classic interview from The New Man Podcast. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. https://dangerousbookstore.com
Tue, October 27, 2020
Why You (Probably) Don’t Need to Be More Productive — Tripp Lanier
Are you busy but still feel like you’re not doing enough? Does it seem like it’s all on you to keep things on track? And do you think that being more productive would solve all of these problems? Today we explore the possibility that our desire for greater productivity may be rooted in fear and delusion. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, October 20, 2020
Divide and Conquer: Avoid the Trap — Tripp Lanier
Are you sick of the pissing match being played out in politics and the media? Can you no longer be friends with folks because you have differing political views? And what if it’s possible that we’re being manipulated to believe this funhouse mirror version of reality? Today we take a look at some practical ways we can reclaim our power and peace of mind while the media and masses act like turd tossing toddlers. Feel free to keep whatever ideas work for you and discard the rest. In this interview: Tripp’s history in the dark underbelly of politics Why we’re far more similar than different Why some actively want to “divide and conquer” How to tell when we’re being manipulated Ways we can drop the drama and focus on solutions instead You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, October 13, 2020
Integrity: What if We Weren’t So Full of Sh*t? — Tripp Lanier
A quick dive into the uncomfortable topic of integrity. Let’s shine a light on the ways we fudge the truth, the costs of doing so, and the opportunity to use honesty to great advantage. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, October 06, 2020
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k (Replay) - Mark Manson
We revisit one of Mark Manson’s interviews on The New Man Podcast. Do you ever feel like you must be living your life the wrong way? Do you compare yourself to others and then feel like shit because you believe they have something you don’t? And is it possible that your frustration may be rooted in a hidden belief that you’re entitled to more than you’re getting? Mark Manson wrote a book called The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck. He’s here to tell us why many believe being average is a failure and why we’d be better off if we weren’t so focused on being so special. In this interview: What the title of his book really means “Don’t be special. Don’t be unique.” Do you have bad values that are driving you nuts? Why striving for a positive experience creates a negative experience Plus: Why learning how to accept negative experiences is the path to what you truly want Using personal development to escape negativity and vulnerability “If life is hard then I must be doing it wrong” How to tell if you’re entitled You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, September 29, 2020
Is Playing it Safe Killing Your Motivation? — Tripp Lanier
What’s killing your motivation? Is there more to life than making money or being exceptional? And why do so many fathers and husbands forget how to feel alive? Today we’re going to discuss how to rebuild our inner fire and why too much of a good thing is not a good thing. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, September 22, 2020
Why Bother Loving Yourself? (Replay) - Kamal Ravikant
We revisit one of Kamal Ravikant’s classic interviews on The New Man Podcast. Can you actually learn how to build confidence and get in the zone where good fortune seems to flow your way? Is being happy or content for losers? And are you creating what you really want or are you just avoiding failure? “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It” author and renaissance man Kamal Ravikant is here to discuss the dangers of being driven by fear plus a simple practice to build confidence and bounce back after a challenge. In this interview: How is fulfillment different than being happy? How to build confidence Why things just seem to go your way when you're not really trying Plus: The difference between self-love and narcissism The danger of a "finish line" mentality When failure is okay How to tell if you're being driven by a fear of failure You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, September 15, 2020
Using Play to Deal with Stress and Anxiety — Jason Goldberg
What if life and work could be less draining? Do you ever catch yourself taking things too seriously? And what if you didn’t depend on fear or scarcity for motivation? Coach, speaker, and author Jason Goldberg is here to discuss the dangers of taking ourselves too seriously. We dive into what life could look like if we weren’t afraid of negative emotions, the real power that comes from putting fear into perspective, and why true peace of mind comes from remembering that we can take a punch. In this interview: The importance of play and humor How being serious kills our creativity Goofiness vs enthusiasm Dealing with anxiety, stress, and depression “Am I always going to feel this way?” Plus: Remembering that we’ll eventually be okay “A clear calm mind knows exactly what to do next” — Byron Katie The myth of “burning the boats” What if you weren’t afraid of your feelings? How do you impact others in a positive way? Referenced in this interview: The problem with Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill Brian Johnson’s Philosopher’s Notes - Click here for Brian’s note on Tripp’s This Book Will Make You Dangerous (https://www.dropbox.com/s/jhq8g6q3rnc8oay/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous.pdf?dl=0) Dr. Peter Gray’s work on play (link to podcast) Alan Watts “The opposite of serious is sincere.” Being attracted to Byron Katie You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, September 08, 2020
The Obstacle is the Way (Replay) - Ryan Holiday
We revisit Ryan Holiday’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. Do you think some folks are just magically able to bounce back from adversity or did they just practice something you can learn, too? Do you think other people are successful because they’ve figured out a way to avoid problems? And what can you do the next time life serves you up an unexpected challenge? Ryan Holiday is here to discuss how you can turn adversity into advantage and why the obstacle is the way. In this interview: -How getting clear about what you can and cannot control gives you power -Why chasing perfection is paralyzing you -Why anyone can learn to face problems and move through obstacles Plus: -Why it’s time to stop avoiding the things that scare you -How the stories you tell yourself determine what’s going to happen -Why true power and bravery may not appear the way you think it should You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Mon, August 31, 2020
Are Weight Lifting and Cardio a Waste of Time? — Dr. John Jaquish
How would a scientist approach getting stronger and leaner? Is cardio getting in the way of your fat loss goals? And do we really need things to be a struggle in order to prove that we’re smart, special, or strong? Dr. John Jaquish is a scientist, inventor, and author of “Weight Lifting is a Waste of Time: So is Cardio, and There’s a Better Way to Have the Body You Want.” He’s very outspoken about how the fitness industry is a failure, and he believes he has the scientific data to back up his claims. He invented the X3 home fitness product which can fit in a bag. He claims that, along with an unconventional diet, by using this thing for only 10 minutes a day you can have the body of someone who spends hours in the gym every week. Full disclosure: I don’t own the X3 product at this time, and I was not compensated in any way for conducting this interview. In this interview: Why is weight lifting a waste of time from scientific perspective? How does cardio keep you fat? Why “no pain, no gain” is outdated Why muscle soreness has nothing to do with a “good” workout The 99% failure rate of the fitness industry Plus: A complete workout in only ten minutes? Why some folks make life harder than it needs to be Eating 4 steaks everyday Working with Tony Robbins on OsteoStrong How to knock a deer out of your garden You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Wed, August 26, 2020
Tim Ferriss (Replay) - How to Be Kickass Fast
We revisit Tim Ferriss’s classic interview on The New Man Podcast. In this conversation, the 4-Hour Workweek and 4-Hour Body author discusses how to learn anything quickly, dealing with fear and failure, how to gain confidence, and the mindset for success. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, August 18, 2020
Give Up or Stick it Out? Tough Love Swimming Lessons and The Hollywood Montage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp Lanier
Did you have a terrifying experience when you learned how to swim? Does learning a difficult task feel the same as doing it well? And what life lesson can we learn from cheesy 80’s action movies? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we talk about the desire to quit, the magical, hollywood montage, and my covert black ops swimming lesson. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Should we give up or stick it out? Learning something vs doing something well Old school “tough love” swimming lessons Why we bail when we’re in the learning phase How to embrace the parts the make others quit You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, August 11, 2020
Motivation, Clarity, and Why Kids Suck (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp Lanier
Do you depend on motivation or confidence to do what’s best for you? What if you’re stuck because you don’t know what to do? And why do kids suck? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we take a quick look into the myth of motivation, the best way to find confidence and clarity, and why it’s important to face the fact that we all suck from time to time. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Are you waiting to feel passionate or confident before you make a change? How to take action even if you’re not motivated How clarity can be a myth The danger of researching or gathering information How to create clarity and certainty Plus: Why do kids suck? Success looks like failure in the middle Did you stop learning when you finished school? How to embrace the learning process Are you going to play defense for the rest of your life? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, August 04, 2020
Dealing with Analysis Paralysis and Self Sabotage (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp Lanier
Do you believe you have commitment issues? Why do we sabotage ourselves? And how can we overcome analysis paralysis so that we can start taking meaningful action today? In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, I’m going to share the reasons why we hit the brakes when we’re trying to make a positive change, and we’ll also begin to understand the invisible force of resistance so that it doesn’t keep us stuck. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Why won’t a man commit? What keeps someone from committing? Why do we get stuck or fail at making a change? Why do we sabotage ourselves? What drives analysis paralysis, excuses, and resistance Plus: How can we learn to identify our resistance so that we don’t let it hold us back? Are you convinced something terrible might happen if you were to make a big change? What if the fear holding you back isn’t so bad after all? How can we get out of analysis paralysis and into action today? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, July 28, 2020
Is it Time to Redefine Yourself? — JP Bouvet
JP Bouvet is a world class drummer that has lived through one of my recurring nightmares — twice. In this talk we explore our fear of face planting in front of others, the importance of meaning in our work, and why he’s chosen to redefine himself professionally. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Wed, July 22, 2020
Why Comedy Will Save Your Sanity - Kyle Kinane
Comedian Kyle Kinane (Comedy Central, Trampoline in a Ditch) discusses why we need to laugh at ourselves, getting caught up in comparisons, and confronting our fear of rejection. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, July 14, 2020
Mindfulness, Meditation, and Riding Emotional Waves - Jaimal Yogis
Jaimal Yogis (Saltwater Buddha, The Fear Project) on mindfulness, meditation, and riding emotional waves. Also discussed: fatherhood, common misconceptions about meditation, and the trap of trying to outrun what makes us uncomfortable. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, July 07, 2020
Fear of Failure and Choosing to Play Big (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp Lanier
What if the fear of failure wasn’t the thing holding us back? Could the freedom we deeply want be available to us right now? And how could we quickly shift into a perspective that challenges us to play big? Today we’re going to zoom out and see our problems and lives from a perspective we rarely take. In this excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous, we’ll tap into a universal view to minimize fear in order to access greater freedom and power. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: What is freedom? What would life be like without proving and defending? The fear of failure Why we’re not a big deal — and we never will be Learning how to play big even though we are very small You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, June 30, 2020
What Can a Porn Star Teach You About Sex? — Erik Everhard
Erik Everhard, author of Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers has been in the porn industry for over 20 years. He’s had sex with over 4,000 women. Today we discuss what it was like to have such a unique career, how he ended up feeling lost, and how he found his way again after learning how to help others. You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Mon, June 22, 2020
The Key to Negotiating and Resolving Conflict - Kwame Christian, American Negotiation Institute
Do you get pissed off when someone says something that goes against your values? Do you believe that negotiation is all about winning and getting the best of the other guy? And is calling someone out the best way to make positive change? Kwame Christian is the Director of the American Negotiation Institute which means he knows a thing or two about resolving conflicts and finding solutions. Today he’s going to share some basic tips that will help us navigate challenges online, at home, at work, and in our neighborhood. In this interview: How to approach difficult conversations “We’re always negotiating.” Why most conversations are doomed to fail The 3 main goals of any negotiation Why negotiations are 90% ego or emotionally driven Plus: Calling out vs calling in Why “calling out” typically backfires Virtue signaling and performing instead of persuading What to do if you’re actually trying to inspire change What’s the number one goal of power? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Mon, June 15, 2020
Is it Safe to Talk About Race? — Mark Palmer
Does it seem scary to talk about race? How is racial tension similar to an uncomfortable Thanksgiving dinner? And what if the thing that would make a difference is much closer than we could imagine? Recently I learned a valuable lesson: that I could actually talk to my black friends about their experiences instead of making assumptions and relying on the media or some idealogical group to tell me what to say, think, or do. Having these individual conversations has been revelatory for many reasons — one of which was realizing again how much simply being curious and paying attention could have a huge impact. I learned that it was safe to ask questions and to simply listen. That I wouldn’t be attacked because I was white or if I didn’t get it politically correct. One of the conversations that cracked my world open was with my friend, Mark Palmer. He’s an author and corporate leadership consultant, and even though we’ve known each other for many years, I’ve never asked him about his experience as a black man because it didn’t feel comfortable or safe. I’m glad that I finally did. After that first conversation I asked him if he would be willing to record another one where we could explore this topic a bit further. I didn’t know what to expect, but I’m glad we managed to share so many laughs along the way. Enjoy. In this interview: Is it safe to talk about race? The media being a funhouse mirror version of reality The importance of psychological safety The importance of humanizing race instead of making it about groups The fear of “not getting it right” Plus: The difference between anger and aggression “Anger can’t be the only voice in the room.” When trying to “fix” something gets in the way Why listening is a superpower Why it’s okay to faceplant You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, June 02, 2020
This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier - Starbucks Shootout
Have you ever wanted something so badly that you screwed it up? Why do our efforts to “get it right” usually end up with us getting it wrong? And how does fear block our ability to be more energized, creative, and bold? Today, we’re going to hear another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. In this excerpt you’ll hear how I found myself in a cinematic coffee shop shootout and why I almost blew up my marriage before it ever got off the ground. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: How our fear of screwing things up tends to screw things up. What kills our ability to be bold, playful, and creative How I survived a direct hit from a soy vegan latte with 3% dick sprinkles How my wife, Alyson saved our future marriage by humiliating me You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, May 26, 2020
How to Use Death to Become More Powerful (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp Lanier
Have you ever felt that you’re waiting to do what you really want to do in life? How could the fact that we’re going to die, help us live more fully? And what are the two key elements needed for us to step fully into our power? Today, I want to share another excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. First, you’ll go through a short exercise designed to help us create more alignment with what we truly want. And second we’ll discuss how giving away our power keeps us playing small. If you’re interested in the book you can learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this episode: Are you aligned? How to use your mortality to stop playing small Why be dead now? Tolerating the small stuff, scarcity, productivity issues 45 year old boys The (2) key elements required to step into our power You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, May 19, 2020
How to Stop Playing it Safe - Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier
Do you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex? Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?” And how can we make sure we don’t get stuck in a prey mentality? Today we’re going to listen in on a recent call I had with a coaching client. His work and sex life were feeling flat, so we explored some ways he could get out of his own way, stop playing it safe, and find that mojo again. In this interview: Feeling uninspired in our work and sex life Why playing it safe can kill our careers and relationships Trying to avoid being the “weird” guy The pressure of trying to “get it right” Are you aligned with what you want in life? Plus: Being a knuckle dragging romantic What keeps us in a prey mentality Nice guy syndrome What if it was okay to face-plant from time to time? How can post-it notes change your relationship? You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, May 12, 2020
That Time I Went to the Butt Doctor (This Book Will Make You Dangerous Excerpt) - Tripp Lanier
What does it mean to be dangerous? How can we ensure we don’t become grumpy, soft, and fragile old men? And could what you’re about to hear be the worst, most disgusting way to open a book? Today, I want to share an excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous. This is the introduction where we take a very unconventional look at expectations and clarify why I throw most success how-to books in the trash. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. In this interview: What happened when I went to the butt doctor Why I throw most success how-to books in the trash Is the pursuit of success making us weak? How expectations kill our peace of mind Are we playing a game we can’t win? The trap of seeking comfort and safety once and for all You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Wed, May 06, 2020
Facing Fear: Only the Dead Survive - Tripp Lanier Group Coaching Call
With so much uncertainty right now, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings that arise? What if it actually all came crashing down? What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare? Our brains are constantly scanning for threats — most of which never come true, but this constant worrying can kill the enjoyment of our short time to be alive. Today I’m sharing a recent group coaching call where, instead of running away from these scary feelings we chose to do something else instead. In this interview: Clarifying what’s at stake Getting hijacked by our fear Phil Stutz “Only the dead survive.” Tapping into a power we rarely recognize Learning to watch the theater in our minds Plus: How to pivot out of our fear Why trying to run away from fear creates more suffering What happens when we relax our need to control everything? The power of brotherhood How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, April 07, 2020
How to Confront Fear, Scarcity, and Pressure
Do we have to depend on fear for motivation? Can we learn how to put scarcity and pressure into perspective? And how can we learn to forge our own path instead of following the herd? Today, my wife Alyson and I discuss how fear can serve us — or work against us. On many levels we’re being challenged. For many this challenge is simply a matter of being uncomfortable or bored. Others are experiencing great uncertainty with regards to their professions and financial well-being. And then there are those who are being confronted by mortality itself. We can get caught up in the collective freak out or we can use this period as a wake up call. It’s a time to zoom out and reflect. The men I’m coaching all around the world are seeing this challenging time as an opportunity. It’s an opportunity for us to assess our lives and how we’re choosing to live them. Are our professions and relationships and lifestyle choices aligned with our deepest values? Or does today’s challenge help us see that it’s time to course correct? Instead of sleepwalking through life or settling for whatever gets slopped on to our plate, we can use this opportunity to tap into our deep desire. Instead of waiting for the perfect plan or the perfect time or the perfect opportunity, we can shift gears, take smart action, and create alignment with what truly matters today. No more waiting. No more excuses. Most men won’t do this. They’ll dismiss this opportunity. They’ll let fear get the best of them. They’ll refuse responsibility. But that doesn’t mean we have to live like most men. Today’s conversation was recorded before the Covid-19 virus became the major focus here in the US. Regardless, the core ideas of this discussion still apply when it comes to how we confront fear, scarcity, and pressure in our day-to-day lives. In this interview: Creating from fear, scarcity, and pressure Rat-racing and magical finish lines Why fear glorifies hustling How fear serves us and how it makes us weak We don’t have to freak ourselves out in order to be successful Nothing to prove Plus: Depriving ourselves now in order to get what we want later Get out of dumb goals and create smart goals Why a pain in the ass is valuable information Why perfectionism is a defense Why fixating on ourselves kills peace of mind and meaning You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/ This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
Tue, March 10, 2020
When Success is Unfulfilling
Do you think more success and status are the keys to lasting fulfillment? What happens when our achievements leave us feeling empty? And what does it mean to be dangerous? Today, my wife, Alyson and I explore a life beyond constant comfort and how most men are stuck in a trap — striving to play a game they can’t win. In this interview: Alyson recovers from her bathroom noises Getting over ourselves can be painful A threat to our self image feels like a threat to our lives What it means to be responsible for your life Tolerating bullshit vs saying “no” Plus: Settling because “this is just the way it is” Blaming others and playing the victim Do victims enjoy feeling powerless? Why someone with a victim mentality isn’t coachable The addiction to sadness and suffering And: When success leaves us feeling empty “What’s wrong with me? I thought I’d feel fulfilled.” What would feel expansive? What do I want more than being comfortable all the time? Developing a guidance system based on what you value most You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Tue, March 03, 2020
Maybe You Don’t Have Commitment Issues with Tripp and Alyson Lanier
If you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way? Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment? And what’s so wrong with trying to live happily ever after? Today, my wife Alyson and I explore the deep-seated fears that keep us stuck, the ways we operate from a prey mentality, and Alyson’s embarrassing bathroom experience. In this interview: “Why won’t a man commit?” There’s no such thing a commitment-phobe Competing commitments (Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey) What keeps us from having alignment with our values? When we believe that there are monsters under our bed Plus: The danger of “set it and forget it” Identifying our prey mentality The shadow to personal growth and self-help We’re forgetting how powerful we are And: Why seeking “easy street” is a trap Exoneration with Phil Stutz and Barry Michels Fragile egos and the “need” to prove our self worth Alyson’s body sounds You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Tue, February 25, 2020
How to Get Out of Your Own Way — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Do you want to make a change but believe you need the perfect plan before you take action? Does your work or salary or title determine your value as a man? And how do we know when it’s time to make a big change? Today, my wife, Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the episode entitled A Bold Way to Start a Relationship. We explore how I went from feeling very confident to very lost; how I spent years dicking around while waiting for the perfect plan; and how I finally pulled my head out of my ass and got back on track. In this interview: Stepping out of our comfort zone Being a small fish in a big pond When our work determines our self worth Dealing with uncertainty and self-doubt Waiting for the perfect time and the perfect plan Plus: Stuck in excuses Trying to predict the future Refusing the call to adventure Moving from “pre-f**k it” to “post-f**k it” Getting out of the bleachers and into the game You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Tue, February 18, 2020
A Bold Way to Start a Relationship — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Do you face your challenges alone or do other men have your back? How does our desire for a plan or vision become a trap? And what’s the key to making a commitment in relationships? Alyson and I continue where we left off in the episode entitled, Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? Today we talk about making bold moves, the value of a men’s group, and how I almost killed our relationship by acting like a nice guy. In this interview: Outgrowing a split lifestyle Starting Tripp’s first men’s group The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida A bold way to start a relationship Plus: Moving from discomfort into aliveness When trying not to screw it up starts to screw it up Wanting the truth vs comfort Making a smart commitment Waiting for the perfect plan is a trap You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Tue, February 11, 2020
From Imposter Syndrome to Being Unf—kwithable — Ash Ambirge
Have you ever suffered from “imposter syndrome”? Are you okay with simply chasing money or do you want your work to be meaningful, too? And how often do you tell yourself, “I will figure this out”? Today, The Middle Finger Project author Ash Ambirge is here to discuss how she went from growing up in a trailer park to middle class success to sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot with only $26 to her name to eventually making seven figures. In this interview: Growing up in a trailer park Being mentally tough Being willing to rock the boat Striving for middle class Why becoming “normal” was so disappointing Plus: Dealing with imposter syndrome The feeling of “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do next.” Doing work you’re proud of Wanting our work to align with our values Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life And: Ash’s “sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot” story “I will figure it out.” The key to being “Unf*ckwithable” The trouble of not having your own money Learning how to provide value You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Tue, February 04, 2020
Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life? Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship? And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change? Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut. In this interview: Living a split life “Stop being a spoiled brat.” Focusing on problems vs solutions Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life Plus: Have you outgrown your life? The Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer Shifting from bitching to focusing on what you want Are you defensive or curious? The fear of being broke and alone And: “Do you feel like you’re settling?” The myth: “I have to blow up my life in order to make a change.” Are you being lulled to sleep? Waiting for the perfect, safe plan The phone call that changed Tripp’s life Interviews and videos discussed: David Emerald interview Drama Triangle video You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Tue, January 28, 2020
The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
How important is it for you to be in control? Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values? And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply? Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside. In this interview: Does Alyson have a fart fetish? Being a control freak Trying to outrun my emotional world Being afraid of women Navigating an emotional minefield Plus: Why I went to therapy Dealing with loss Considering suicide The difference between relief and peace of mind “The peace I was deeply wanting was on the other side of that thing I was avoiding.” And: Ken Wilber’s The Marriage of Sense and Soul Being out of alignment with inner values “They’re going to think I’m weird.” Playing it safe professionally “Is this it? What now? Why can’t I just be happy here?” You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Tue, January 21, 2020
How to Treat Your Body Like a Pro — Jon Mitchell
Lebron James spends $1 million dollars per year on his health. What do you spend to ensure that your body doesn’t hold you back? Functional Medicine Health Consultant Jon Mitchell is here to challenge the dogmatic, cookie cutter approaches so that you can dial in the unique protocol that works best for your body. In this interview: Why so many are settling for aches, pains, and low energy Why regular docs aren’t always the best resource Why chasing your problem with supplements isn’t sustainable Why cookie cutter diets don’t work for everyone Erectile dysfunction as it relates to your health Plus: Are you a liability to yourself, performance, and quality of life? Why health is the vehicle for having the life you want Peace of mind knowing that your body is on track Playing the amateur or choosing to turn pro Cutting through the noise of online experts and gurus and diets You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Fri, January 17, 2020
Neil Peart: Lessons Learned About How to Live Life On Your Terms
Tripp Lanier discusses facing our fears of failure and criticism. Here are a few brief lessons learned from legendary Rush drummer, Neil Peart about living life on your own terms. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, January 14, 2020
Productivity and The Shadow Side of Goals — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
As someone who makes a living coaching others to accomplish goals, Tripp discusses how our goals can become a trap. Plus: Glorifying busy-ness, how our mindless pursuit “more” is lazy, and why our need to prove that we’re not a failure is making us weak. In this interview: The trap of proving we’re not a failure Why protecting, pleasing, and proving kills our peace of mind Glorifying busy-ness Trying to carry 6 gallons in a 5 gallon bucket Plus: The shadow side of goals Having a great life that’s unfulfilling The difference between comfort and peace Using your emotions as information Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, January 07, 2020
Defining Success and Strength on Your Own Terms — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
After coaching successful men for over 15 years, Tripp boils down what kills our freedom, aliveness, and peace of mind. Does success really mean we’re stronger? How can we get off the hamster wheel of “more, more, more”? And what would it mean to define success and strength on your own terms? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, December 10, 2019
Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell — Dr. Eric Goodman, Foundation Training
Following Your Passion is Hard as Hell. My friend Eric Goodman is the creator of Foundation Training. He’s built a global movement by empowering people to overcome back pain. But like many passion-driven businesses, behind the scenes it’s been extremely challenging. Today we talk about growth, failure, chaos, and the fantasy that building a business around your passion should somehow be a cakewalk. #foundationtraining #doafounder #mindset #entrepreneur #business #motivation #success #entrepreneurship Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Mon, November 25, 2019
Bigots and Snowflakes — What Do You Have in Common? Integral Theory with Jeff Salzman, The Daily Evolver
Are you bored with the whole left vs right, culture war gridlock? What if there was a way that this dumpster fire could make us stronger? And could you possibly find common ground with your bigot uncle this holiday season? Jeff Salzman (The Daily Evolver) discusses Ken Wilber’s integral theory and how it can help us navigate our conflicted world. #integral #kenwilber #culturewar Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, November 12, 2019
Bold or Reckless? A Rollercoaster of Losses and Wins – David Perel, Pro Racing Driver
David Perel gave up his dream of being a pro racing driver and became a tech startup founder. But dreams die hard. In this crazy story, David recalls his bold (and sometimes reckless) choices to go against the odds to race at the highest level. #granturismosport #gtsport #ferrari #lamborghini #motorsport #blancpaingtseries #lemans Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, October 22, 2019
Metallica, Miracles, and the Megaforce of Will — Jon “Jonny Z” Zazula
Jon Zazula (Heavy Tales) and his wife Marsha are legends in the metal music industry. With Megaforce Records they discovered Metallica and launched a genre of music that marches on to this day. That said, the road to fame and fortune was a very rocky road. Today, Jonny Z and I discuss his path from Wall Street to jail to metal hall of fame. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, October 08, 2019
Can Masturbation Change Your Life? — Alyssa Morin
Could changing the way you masturbate change your life? Somatic Sex Educator Alyssa Morin discusses settling for lousy pleasure, what hipster beers can teach us about sex, and why trying to be a “sexual master” often backfires. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, September 17, 2019
Facing Fear Head On – The 3 Phases of a Challenge
How to face fear. Understanding the 3 phases of a challenge — When we’re in the creative process and we’re looking at the next scary step it’s helpful to understand what we’re really facing. Often this is where we drain ourselves and get stuck because we can only see our challenge from one perspective instead of three. In this quick podcast we break down our challenge into its three main parts so we can take action. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, September 05, 2019
Are We Making Life Harder Than it Needs to Be? — Brian Johnson
Brian Johnson of Philosophers Notes and Optimize.me discusses perfectionism, the inner critic, understanding the whole point of life, and why he blames Tripp Lanier for his $2 million dollar business “experiment.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, August 20, 2019
How to Find Your Zone of Genius – Gay Hendricks
What is your Zone of Genius and how do you find it? Do you have to blow up your life if you want to reinvent yourself? And why do some folks sabotage their success? Guest: Gay Hendricks (The Big Leap) Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, August 06, 2019
What’s the Difference Between Rich and Wealthy? – Brian Portnoy
Brian Portnoy, author of Geometry of Wealth discusses the difference between being rich and wealthy, funding contentment, and answering the question, “Am I going to be okay?” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, July 23, 2019
The Inner Critic: When Success Makes Us Weak — Dr. Michael Gervais
Dr. Michael Gervais is a high performance psychologist who works with the Seattle Seahawks and Fortune 100 companies. Today we pick apart the myths of being a high performer, understand the inner critic, and reveal the key ingredient to enjoying the life we want. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, July 10, 2019
Money, Mindset, and Comedy – Paul Ollinger
Paul Ollinger (Crazy Money Podcast) busted his ass, cashed out of Facebook, and became a stand up comic. Today we’re going to talk money being a major motivator, how our pursuit of a stress free life can burn us out, and why committing to success often makes us weak. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, June 25, 2019
Meaning, Strength, and the Wolf Connection – Teo Alfero
Teo Alfero The Wolf Connection: Creating a life of meaning and heart. Leaving home to work with Carlos Castaneda, building a wolf sanctuary, and rigorous shamanistic trainings. Plus: what keeps us from living extraordinary lives, dealing with spiritual forces beyond our understanding. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, June 11, 2019
Dating Essentials for Men Who Don’t Want to Be Jerks — Dr. Robert Glover
Robert Glover Dating Essentials for Men — Dating advice for guys who don’t want to be jerks. Finding high quality women, testing for interest, how to end dead end relationships with respect, and dealing with sh*t tests. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Fri, May 31, 2019
Excuses: How to Quickly Pivot into Power
Stop making excuses and quickly pivot into power. There are 3 main excuses that hold us back and have us play small. In this quick talk coach Tripp Lanier talks about how to identify resistance, confidence, motivation, and wisdom vs knowledge. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Fri, May 10, 2019
Mark Manson is Out to Kill Your Sacred Cows — Mark Manson
Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he’s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked. Today we talk about why he’s out to slaughter our sacred cows, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success was so difficult for him. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, April 30, 2019
Why Play Makes Us Stronger – Peter Gray
If you’re one of those guys who is struggling to find what has you feel alive, it’s probably because you’ve forgotten how to truly play. Discussed: How studies show why play is the key to leadership, innovative thinking, problem solving, and doing what has us feel alive. Plus: Why our highly structured, competitive environment is making us weaker, depressed, and breeding us to become robots. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Fri, April 19, 2019
Relationships, Fighting, and Lack of Sex: What Can You Do? — Jayson Gaddis
Jayson Gaddis discusses Relationship Warrior, why we tolerate draining relationships, fighting, and a lack of sex. Are we doomed to be dissatisfied as the wimp or the posturing jerk? Plus, why erectile dysfunction most likely isn’t a medical issue. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, March 28, 2019
How to Align Your Work with Your Values — Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine
Jon Mitchell put a lot of time, money, and energy into his career and then realized it wasn’t for him. Instead of staying stuck, Jon hired a coach, stopped hiding out, and created his own opportunities. In this interview we talked about how he shifted his mindset, turned pro, and took bold action to shift his career path. Also: How Jon Mitchell Functional Medicine Health Consultant helps people optimize their bodies, brains, and energy and combats chronic disease. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, March 05, 2019
228 What She’s Not Telling You – How to Communicate Without Arguing – Alyson Schwabe Lanier
Relationship Advice - How to Communicate Without Arguing. What is she not telling you? Relationships go off the rails when we believe we can’t talk about challenging things with our partner. We avoid certain topics because we’re afraid of a fight, strong emotions, rejection, or worse. In this discussion Tripp and Alyson Lanier share practical tips for getting relationships back on track. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, February 21, 2019
227 Intuition and Trusting Your Gut – Rick Snyder
Intuition and Trusting Your Gut - Rick Snyder author of Decisive Intuition: Use Your Gut Instincts to Make Smart Business Decisions. Why denying our instincts makes us weak. How Snapchat’s Evan Spiegel lost billions by using intuition incorrectly. How to use your gut to be more powerful in life, work, and relationships. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, February 06, 2019
226 Stuck: No Longer Passionate About Your Work? Time to Upgrade Your Mindset
No Longer Passionate About Work? An excerpt from a coaching conversation with Tripp Lanier. In this call, we explore some of the reasons why my client was feeling stuck and unable to see any attractive professional opportunities in front of him. Plus: How our mindset determines whether we’ll stay stuck doing the same old thing or if we’ll expand into the next phase of our lives. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, January 24, 2019
225 How to Stop Coddling Yourself and Others – Jonathan Haidt
Jonathan Haidt thinks we constantly lie to ourselves as a way to rationalize emotional choices. So should we become Vulcans, living lives devoid of anything rewarding? Or can we tap into our emotions so that we’re more powerful? Plus we’ll also talk about how good intentions are creating a generation of fragile young people. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, January 09, 2019
224 Motivation, Pressure, and Getting Off the Hamster Wheel — Craig Revord
Do you depend on fear for motivation? Do you make progress but still feel anxious, tired, or under pressure? And is success really just a strategy to outrun the things that scare you? In this conversation with Craig Revord we talk about how he’s learned to find power, face major fears, and get off the hamster wheel all while growing his business. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, December 19, 2018
223 Energy, Power, and a Wife That Wants to Go to an Orgy — Rob Kandell
What if your wife asked you to go to an orgy? Rob Kandell (Unhidden) explores why so many guys are feeling drained and exhausted in our relationships and work. Also: Is it a challenging time to be a man? Plus how to reclaim power, energy, and confidence. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, November 28, 2018
222 How to Live When You Should Be Dead — Dave Baker
In May of 2007 at the age of 49, Dave Baker, a competitive athlete and lifeguard, went through, let’s just say, an “incident”. This is his story — what happened, how he recovered, and why he refused to just “exist” after getting a second chance at life. Guest: Dave Baker, Wrightsville Beach Ocean Rescue Director Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, October 31, 2018
220 How to Drop the Negativity – AJ Jacobs
Human guinea pig and bestselling author AJ Jacobs (Thanks a Thousand) returns to discuss what he’s learned from his latest long term experiment. This time he’s set out to explore what will make him less grouchy — and it all starts with a simple cup of coffee. Also: Year of Living Biblically, Drop Dead Healthy Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, October 17, 2018
219 Using Failure and Loss to Become Stronger — Coaching Call
Why do we stay in jobs and marriages way past their due date? Why are loss and failure critical to future success? How do we unconsciously self sabotage? Tripp and a coaching client discuss how to become stronger after a business failure. Plus: Phil Stutz and “Only the dead survive.” Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, October 03, 2018
218 What Fantasies Reveal About Your Mindset – Group Coaching Call
Are your goals making you unhappy? Are you busting butt to create a future that may never exist? What do our fantasies tell us about what we truly want in life? Here’s a simple way we can learn how to tap into unconscious beliefs in order to strengthen our mindset. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, September 19, 2018
217 Is “Success” a Fantasy? Mastering Midlife – Mark Silverman
How to thrive as we age. Why guys can have a midlife crisis when they’re 30 or 50. Why hustling is often a symptom of an unhealthy mindset. Learning to master fear, uncertainty, and change. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, September 05, 2018
216 How to Get Your Life Together – Joe Bernstein
Mission, Money, and Meaning. How to get your life together; How to identify the mindset that keeps us playing small; Where we find the most satisfaction; And how Joe Bernstein reinvented his life after divorce, career change, and losing 150 pounds. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, August 23, 2018
For Coaches: Why Jerks Can Make Money
What’s the biggest threat to our coaching practice? And why can jerks make money? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/
Tue, August 21, 2018
For Coaches: Why Great Coaches Go Broke, Too
Why do some of the “best” coaches go broke? What else do we need other than coaching skills to have a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/
Thu, August 16, 2018
For Coaches: Why Most Coaches Won’t Experience 10X Growth
What can we learn from a professional coach who experienced 10X growth within 18 months? And why are so few coaches unwilling to do what it takes to create a thriving coaching practice? Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/
Tue, August 14, 2018
Overcome the Fear of Failure – You’re Not a Big Deal
What if you weren’t that big of a deal? What if your fear of failure was a waste of the precious time you have to be alive? Ideas for how to stop taking ourselves so seriously and make the most of our lives instead. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, August 09, 2018
For Coaches: Take the Sting Out of Rejection
Rejection stings. And avoiding rejection will kill professional growth, too. Today we talk about ways to take the sting out of getting a “no”. Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/
Tue, August 07, 2018
Making Excuses: Blowing Up Our Lives to Make a Big Change
Is it true we have to quit our job or jeopardize our family in order to create a big change? Let’s discuss resistance and the excuse that keeps us stuck at the starting line our entire lives. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Thu, August 02, 2018
For Coaches: Why You’re Not Getting Penetration
Why aren’t you getting cool opportunities and referrals? Let’s talk about the Professional Friend Zone. Plus more information about the Authority Program for Established Coaches — Visit https://www.tripplanier.com/for-coaches/ Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, August 01, 2018
Leadership Skills – Nearly Pissing Away Millions Because of Fear
How one of Tripp’s coaching clients nearly pissed away millions because he was stuck in fear. What happens when we play not to lose vs focusing on what we want? Plus: learning to lead instead of micromanage. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, July 25, 2018
Mindset for Success – Will F-You Money Slay Your Dragons?
Are you hoping one day you’ll be successful enough to finally feel free from life’s “dragons”? What’s the mindset to find lasting peace, freedom, and confidence? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, July 18, 2018
45 Year Old Boys – Why Some Just Can’t Grow Up
Why is playing the victim the most natural thing we can do? And why is bitching, complaining and protesting a false sense of power? Learn the two basic keys to step out of chronic anxiety and disappointment. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/victim-mindset-anxiety Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, July 11, 2018
Manliness – How Good Boys Become Manly Men
Why is the pursuit of manliness a trap? Who are the only guys who care about being ‘manly’? And how do we learn how to play our own game? Also discussed: don Miguel Ruiz and domestication. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/manliness Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, July 04, 2018
Personal Growth Jackass – How to Tell if Optimization is a Distraction
What can Kenny Powers teach us about personal growth? Is optimizing your diet, meditation, mindset, and exercise a distraction from what’s most important? Here’s how to tell if you’re spinning your wheels. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/07/optimization-playing-small Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, June 27, 2018
Hunter or Prey? How Are You Approaching Your Life?
When it comes to how we create our ideal lifestyle, relationship, and profession — are we acting like hunter or prey? Are we letting fear and urgency dilute our focus? Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/mindset-hunter-prey Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, June 19, 2018
Success or Failure – Why Most Guys Will Fail
Why are some guys able to make amazing things happen while most will not? Instead of making excuses, what if we looked between our ears? In this episode we talk about how to tap into greater power and identify the things that hold us back. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/ask-for-help Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, June 12, 2018
Why Tough Guys Make it Hard to Solve Problems
When you’re facing a challenge do you hide out and withdraw from others? In this video we talk about why “tough guys” aren’t so smart when it comes to solving problems. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/06/ask-for-help Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, May 30, 2018
Finding Your Purpose in Life – Stop Making it So Hard
Most guys are trying to find their big, magical purpose for life — the profession or calling that will make them plenty of money and getting up in the morning exciting. In this video I talk about why that’s a recipe for frustration plus what we can do instead to reveal what our purpose is without playing the victim. Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/05/finding-your-purpose-in-life Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, May 23, 2018
FOMO, Scarcity, and the Need for More, More, MORE
Beautiful bikini-clad women on the covers of magazines aren’t the only photoshopped BS that we’re consuming. Comparing ourselves to the distorted appearances of high performers is a recipe for feeling lousy, too. So how do we play our own game? When it comes to Purpose, how do we define what’s worth our time and energy? And how do we avoid the traps of FOMO, scarcity, and always needing more, more, and more along the way? Click here to watch, read, or listen now. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2018/05/fomo-scarcity Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, May 16, 2018
The Right Path: How to Tell if You’re on the Wrong Path in Life
How can you tell if you’re on the right path in life? What can you do if you believe you’re on the wrong path? In this video we discuss a simple tip to keep us from playing the victim. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, May 09, 2018
Goals, Grit, and the Hero’s Journey
Today we’re going to talk about goals, the hero’s journey, and what we can do to stay off the hamster wheel of scarcity and fear in our lives. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Wed, May 02, 2018
The Blind Spot: Watching a Guy Get a BJ at the Beach
What I learned from watching a guy get a blow job at the beach. What do our friends talk about when we’re not there? What keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns? And what do extraordinary guys do to keep it from happening to them? Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, April 24, 2018
Masculine Power: Why Won’t She Have Sex With Me?
Why would your partner want to have sex with you? How are you penetrating the world? Healthy masculine power, nice guy syndrome, and a practice that sounds insane — except it works. Crush procrastination and mental resistance. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//resistance
Tue, April 17, 2018
The Inner Critic and Self Love: How to Be an Ally to Yourself
How to tame our inner critic, what does self love in a practical way, how to be an ally to yourself, Kamal Ravikant - Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It
Wed, April 11, 2018
Anxiety: If You Don’t Want Anxiety Then Attack
If you’re feeling anxiety, let’s talk about a quick way to create some ease while gaining a ton of power and energy. It just may not be the way you’d think it should be. Say no to tolerating and avoiding.
Thu, April 05, 2018
Productivity Hacks: Why You Won’t Need Them If You Shift Focus
How to quickly become more focused and effective. Insights into why we’re busy spinning our wheels instead of getting stuff done.
Tue, March 27, 2018
215 What if Nobody Could Hurt You? — Aubrey Marcus
Aubrey Marcus discusses open relationships, why (most) high achievers are driven by demons, life balance, finding power in surrender, how plant medicine rituals help him stay out of the traps that brings down so many other men. Want to CRUSH procrastination and mental resistance? Learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, entrepreneurs, and influencers. Get started here: https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//
Wed, March 21, 2018
Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power
Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power — What makes us believe that we have to achieve perfection or have the perfect plan? And what can we do to step into power?
Wed, March 14, 2018
Motivation Hacks: Why Passion is Overrated
Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we can do what’s most important.
Wed, March 07, 2018
Dave Chappelle on Making Excuses and How to Quit
A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what strengthens us, and how to stop making excuses.
Thu, March 01, 2018
Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small
Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?
Wed, February 21, 2018
Ryan Gosling the Pick Up Artist? Standing Out From the Crowd
Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professional level. How guys are selling themselves out by playing a role in order to be successful.
Wed, February 14, 2018
Tough Love for Entrepreneurs – Find Your Beast
Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as men, forgetting out power, finding the beast within.
Tue, February 06, 2018
10 Years of The New Man: A Few Lessons I’ve Learned Along the Way
The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having better relationships, and the myth of being an alpha male.
Tue, January 09, 2018
214 Sex. Power. Desire. Danger? — Shana James
Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal with it? Healthy ways to deal with sexual desire and power.
Tue, December 12, 2017
213 Is Average Bad? External Validation & Comparing Yourself to Others – Barry Michels
Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — the trap that comes from the need for external validation and comparing yourself to others. Tips for finding power, freedom, and playing your own game.
Mon, November 20, 2017
212 Sex Tips for Men: Break Out of Your Sex Routine – Alyssa Morin
Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator - What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictable? Practical tips for keeping your sex life off of the back burner.
Tue, November 07, 2017
211 How to Avoid Communication Breakdowns – Alan Alda
Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerful with others.
Fri, October 20, 2017
210 How to Break Free from Negativity – Tank Sinatra aka George Resch
Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negativity.
Tue, October 10, 2017
209 How to Create Life Changing Experiences – Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments
Why do we remember specific moments and forget the majority of others? Can we design “defining” moments and experiences that change our lives? With Dan Heath co-author of The Power of Moments.
Thu, September 28, 2017
Part 6: What I Learned from Being Really Bad at My Job
Part 6 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/
Tue, September 26, 2017
Part 5: How to Tell if a Guy is Going to Fail
Part 5 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/
Thu, September 21, 2017
Part 4: The Mindset to Get Out of “Stuck”
Part 4 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. The Authority Group Coaching Program only opens once per year. That time is now. Click the link to learn more. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire/
Tue, September 19, 2017
208 The Tools to Beat the Devil In Your Head – Phil Stutz + Barry Michels
“The Tools” guys Phil Stutz and Barry Michels (Coming Alive) discuss how to have more energy, overcome your worst habits, what to do when you get knocked down, and the danger of getting your hopes up.
Thu, September 14, 2017
Part 3: Why Most Guys Don’t Get Stuff Done
Part 3 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program. https://www.tripplanier.com/group-coaching-questionnaire
Tue, September 12, 2017
Part 2: How Most Guys Give Up Their Power
Part 2 in a short series where we’re learning why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Authority Group Coaching program.
Thu, September 07, 2017
Part 1: How to Tell if a Guy Has Lost His Balls
Why most guys stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. An intro to Tripp Lanier's Authority Group Coaching program.
Tue, September 05, 2017
207 How to Create Your Own Opportunities – Mike Kelly Founder of Member Vault
Mike Kelly Member Vault Founder discusses moving from a job to starting his own company, creating your own opportunities, having ballsy conversations, and how to stop “hiding out” professionally. - https://membervault.co
Mon, August 21, 2017
206 What To Do About Your Family Problems – Eric Maisel PhD
Family problems? Do “normal” families even exist? What can you do to stay in your power? Discussion with Eric Maisel PhD author of Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation. - https://ericmaisel.com
Mon, August 07, 2017
205 How to Be Tough As Hell – Joe De Sena Spartan Race
Joe De Sena Spartan Race CEO and author discusses grit, obstacle immunity, hacking, business success, and how to be tough as hell.
Mon, July 24, 2017
204 How to Fall in Love with Fear – Akshay Nanavati Fearvana
Akshay Nanavati discusses: tips for turning fear into power, PTSD, addiction, ultra-marathons, the Marines, and finding bliss thru fear aka Fearvana.
Mon, July 10, 2017
203 How to Be Better Than Everybody Else – JP Sears
JP Sears How to Be Ultra Spiritual — Why you should get offended; Comedy; Sex, Tantra and Acro-Yoga; Finding a sense of purpose; Neediness; Spiritual Gurus.
Mon, June 26, 2017
202 How to Stop Making Life Harder Than It Already Is – Jaimal Yogis
Jaimal Yogis (All Our Waves Are Water) discusses why the 4 Hour Workweek Lifestyle is unfulfilling, Buddhism, escaping life’s problems, and comparing ourselves to others.
Fri, June 16, 2017
201 Should You Leave Your Relationship? — Alyson Lanier
Alyson Lanier (relationship and intimacy coach) discusses: hot to get your relationship on the right track, how to make a big commitment, when it’s time to leave the relationship.
Fri, June 09, 2017
How Anger Can Make Us More Powerful: Anger Management
Is anger management a bunch of BS? How can anger make us more powerful? Discussed: Anger vs aggression, Robert Augustus Masters, Equine Therapy
Sat, May 27, 2017
200 Hero’s Journey Through Addiction – Shane Ramer
Shane Ramer from Sober Guy Radio shares his hero’s journey through addiction to recovery. Plus: mindset, living for something bigger than your ego
Tue, May 16, 2017
199 How to Leave a Career That is Eating You Alive — Robert Kandell
Robert Kandell created One Taste with Nicole Daedone. Discussed: How the company was devouring his life, how he dealt with doubt/uncertainty, and how he learned from personal and professional mistakes.
Tue, May 09, 2017
How To Overcome Anxiety and Move Into Power
Tripp Lanier talks about how to overcome anxiety and move into power. Learn how to master dynamic tension, defeat powerlessness, and go all in.
Tue, May 02, 2017
Got Fear of Rejection? How To Stop Avoiding NO
Tripp Lanier talks about overcoming the fear of rejection and encourages you to stop avoiding NO so you can play at a higher level and feel more alive.
Tue, April 25, 2017
Stop Trying To Be Liked
Tripp Lanier talks about how to grow your business by taking the focus away from trying to be ‘liked’ and instead focus on serving others.
Tue, April 18, 2017
Is Following Your Bliss a Trap?
Joseph Campbell's quote ‘Follow Your Bliss’, how it relates to making money, and how it doesn’t guarantee you won’t have challenges.
Tue, April 11, 2017
Stop Being A Jerk: How Ego Is The Enemy
How ego is the enemy, how it shows up in self-deprecation and has you play small, and why you might be a jerk if you’re hiding out waiting to do good work.
Tue, April 04, 2017
David Lee Roth at a Strip Club – How To Have More Energy And Passion
Tripp Lanier talks about his experience with David Lee Roth at a strip club. Tips for how to get more energy, passion back into your life.
Fri, March 24, 2017
Stop Messing Around: Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
How to get out of your comfort zone and stop tolerating a life you don’t want. Tips to step out of your comfort zone and into uncertainty.
Mon, March 20, 2017
Why You’re Not Getting Cool Opportunities: How to Sell Yourself Better Than an Elevator Pitch
Tripp Lanier talks about learning how to sell yourself by taking responsibility to master your elevator pitch and tell your story so you can create cool opportunities.
Tue, March 14, 2017
The Drama Triangle, How To Avoid Drama, and Tripp’s 3-Way
Tripp Lanier talks the drama triangle, how to avoid drama and the time he wanted to have a 3-way on his honeymoon without his wife.
Tue, March 07, 2017
Get a Growth Mindset: The Magic of a Montage
Tripp Lanier talks about the growth mindset, learning as a key to growth, and why you need a montage to achieve your goals
Fri, February 24, 2017
198 Understanding the Mastery of Self – Don Miguel Ruiz Jr
Don Miguel Ruiz Jr: Mastery of Self, how to stop taking things personally, personal power, scarcity mindset, and how men become domesticated.
Tue, February 21, 2017
How To Be A Badass: Learn From Bruce Lee
Learn how to be a badass from Bruce Lee as Tripp Lanier talks about Bruce Lee philosophy and why being a badass requires you to be a whole person.
Tue, February 14, 2017
197 How to Benefit from Altered States – Jamie Wheal Stealing Fire
Stealing Fire Jamie Wheal discusses flow, ecstasis, startup founders at Burning Man, Navy SEALs using altered states to accelerate learning
Wed, January 25, 2017
196 Habits of Heroes, Strength, and the Trap of Manliness – Eric Davis (Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor)
Eric Davis Habits of Heroes: Navy SEAL Sniper Instructor discusses the trap of manliness, why most guys have no clue about strength, and what makes men weak.
Tue, January 03, 2017
195 Rebirth and Facing Fears – Kamal Ravikant
Kamal Ravikant Rebirth: How to face your fears, forgive, use death as a motivator, stay out of victim mindset, and walk the Camino de Santiago.
Mon, December 12, 2016
194 How to Optimize Your Mood – Dr Will Van Derveer
Optimize Your Mood. What’s really causing your lousy moods? Dr Will Van Derveer helps us understand what the brain needs so you can feel amazing. Also: MDMA being used to treat PTSD.
Mon, December 05, 2016
193 Women and Sexual Harassment at Work – Jeanine Becker
Women and Sexual Harassment with Jeanine Becker. How to be an ally to women at work. When can you tell her a dirty joke without losing your job?
Mon, November 14, 2016
192 The Subtle Art of Not Caring So Much — Mark Manson
Mark Manson author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F discusses why it’s better to be average, entitlement, bad values vs good values, and trying to avoid negativity.
Mon, November 07, 2016
191 Why Personal Growth Won’t Make You More Money — Daniel Priestley
Daniel Priestley on being a Key Person of Influence, why personal growth won’t make you more money, and why self deprecation is another ego-trip.
Tue, October 25, 2016
190 Can a SEAL Sniper Teach Parenting? – Eric Davis
Eric Davis Navy SEAL Sniper discusses Raising Men, lessons learned from SEAL training and taught to our sons and daughters.
Mon, October 10, 2016
189 How to Turn an Enemy into an Ally – Bill Shireman
Bill Shireman of Future 500 discusses how to turn an enemy into an ally, being played by political polarization, and institutions demonizing one another.
Mon, September 26, 2016
188 What’s It Like to Go to Prison? – Michael Kass
What’s it like to go to prison? What can we learn from a guy who made a big mistake and then paid for it with years of his life? Plus the danger of only living for a better future.
Wed, September 14, 2016
187 Doing Whatever it Takes – Tony Bonnici
Doing whatever it takes. Tony Bonnici discusses dyslexia, ADD, building a 7 figure business, and why he walked away from it all for a bigger mission.
Fri, September 02, 2016
Take the Quiz: Power, Success, Money, and The New Man
Are you the shallow rat racer or the broke spiritual seeker? How does The New Man approach money, success, and power? Take the quiz.
Wed, August 31, 2016
Part 5: Why Guys Get Stuck in the Professional Friend Zone
Why guys get stuck in the "Professional Friend Zone," how to identify and stay out of the professional friend zone.
Mon, August 29, 2016
Part 4: How I Had My Head Up My Butt
Avoiding lifestyle design professional failure: How I had my head up my butt, why it almost crushed my business, and how you can avoid this situation.
Sat, August 27, 2016
Part 3: How to Keep Your Work From Becoming a Trap
The 5 steps to Make Sure Your Work Doesn't Become a Trap. What it means to turn pro for entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and professionals.
Thu, August 25, 2016
Part 2: The 5 Mistakes That Punch Guys in the Nuts Professionally
Are you making the 5 mistakes that keep guys overworked, underpaid, and on a downward trajectory? Listen to find out.
Tue, August 23, 2016
Part 1: When Work Becomes a Drain
What to do when work is draining and dissatisfying. For solopreneurs, entrepreneurs, professionals looking for more balance, alignment, and impact.
Mon, June 13, 2016
186 Conflict and How to Confront Somebody – Geoff Hanzlik
Dealing with conflict or confrontation, how to confront someone, how avoiding conflict kills your business and marriage, basic steps for engaging a conflict
Mon, May 23, 2016
185 The KKK, Race, and Awkward Conversations – W. Kamau Bell
Comedian W. Kamau Bell talks about laughing with the KKK, racism, how humor heals, and how to have awkward conversations that initiate change.
Wed, May 18, 2016
184 Find Purpose From Pain – Dr. Eric Goodman
Finding purpose through physical pain, facing doubts, anxiety, the rat race. Also Dean Potter, Chris Hemsworth, and why your ideal lifestyle is much cheaper than you imagine.
Tue, May 03, 2016
183 How to Build Your Own Life – Kute Blackson
Kute Blackson discusses the power of commitment, stealing food to survive, and how he pissed off his father in order to build his own life. Kute Blackson You Are The One.
Mon, April 25, 2016
182 When Ambition and Drive is Weakness – Group Coaching Call
Why high ambition and drive is often rooted in fear and insecurity. A powerful mindset shift for lasting freedom and power.
Wed, April 13, 2016
181 How to Handle Stress and Scarcity – Michael Neill
What’s really causing your money fears and stress? And why positive thinking isn’t going to help. Michael Neill Inside Out Revolution author.
Mon, February 01, 2016
180 Mission and Purpose – What’s the Difference and Why Does it Matter?
Do you have a clear sense of purpose? What is your mission? And do you know what were you put on this Earth to do? How to find these answers.
Tue, January 19, 2016
179 The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss
Neil Strauss discusses the cost of dishonesty and what he’s learned from his journey through infidelity, sex addiction rehab, open relationships, polyamory, swinging, sex clubs, and now marriage and fatherhood. The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships
Wed, January 06, 2016
178 When Life and Work Get Out of Balance – Gerry Campbell
Work, family, and life out of balance? Gerry Campbell shares his journey through the early days of the internet, chasing big money, and how he’s bringing it all back into balance.
Mon, December 07, 2015
177 Chasing Success: Hard Lessons Learned from Making Millions – S Brian Smith
Before Brian Smith made his millions, he was struggling to be the guy who stood above the rest. The truth? He was barely scraping by, $250K in personal debt, overweight, under slept, and very stressed out. What has he learned from chasing success and trying to stand out?
Mon, November 16, 2015
176 When Do You Push and When Do You Course Correct? – Brian Johnson
Philosopher Notes Brian Johnson discusses his business course correction, making a big change with your company or life and honoring the people you care about, the difference between quitting and course correcting.
Mon, November 02, 2015
175 Career Transition: Will You Be a King or a Prince? — Marc David
Is it time to make a career transition? Understand what makes a guy a king vs a prince plus how to find the next chapter of your career without losing it all. With Marc David of Institute for Psychology of Eating.
Mon, October 19, 2015
174 Funny, Disgusting Stories and Spiritual Retreat Disasters
Tripp and Ray share embarrassing, disgusting stories from their spiritual retreat disasters. Consider yourself warned. Discussed: Meditation, Goenka, David Deida, Ayahuasca, men’s work, and more.
Tue, September 29, 2015
173 Make Love Not Porn – Cindy Gallop
Make Love Not Porn Founder/CEO Cindy Gallop — Porn vs real world sex, why you’re not satisfied sexually. Plus: making sex socially acceptable, the money to be made by gender equality in adult entertainment.
Tue, September 08, 2015
172 What Makes Change Stick: Mind Your Body – Joel Harper
Mind Your Body author Joel Harper (Dr Oz’s trainer) discusses why some get fit, make more money, and have better relationships — and why most won’t.
Thu, July 09, 2015
171 How to Have Difficult Conversations – A Gay Man Comes Out to His Sons
How to have difficult conversations. A gay man comes out to his sons. How he navigated addiction, building a family, divorce, plus switching careers.
Fri, June 26, 2015
170 Build Confidence: How to Stop Playing it Safe – An Excerpt from a Live Coaching Call
Are you playing it safe or going for what you really want? On this live group coaching call, Tripp coaches a man to take bold action and overcome limiting beliefs.
Mon, June 15, 2015
169 Dating: Starting Over After a Long Term Relationship – Shana James
Dating and starting over after a long term relationship. Starting conversations with women, sex and exclusive relationships, dealing with rejection.
Tue, May 12, 2015
168 Listen to a Guy Beat Procrastination, Fear, and Self Doubt – An Excerpt from Live Coaching Call
How to Beat Procrastination Fear and Self Doubt. Recording of coaching client taking action, confronting fear, self-doubt, and beating procrastination. Plus: Finding meaning by helping others.
Fri, April 24, 2015
167 How to Handle Negative Emotions – Todd Kashdan
How to handle negative emotions, fear, anxiety, guilt, shame. Become comfortable with what makes you uncomfortable with Todd Kashdan author of The Upside of Your Dark Side.

The New Man

Dealing with Blame and Big Emotions in Your Relationship — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Striving to be Set for Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

They Cheated on You. Now What? — Adam Nisenson, A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal

Can Your Sex Life Be Saved? — Ruth Ramsay

Struggling with Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Randy Blythe (lamb of god) on Drinking, Death, and God

Feeling Stuck and Out of Alignment — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Why Finding Your Purpose is So Frustrating — Jordan Grumet, The Purpose Code

Why People Pleasing is Killing Your Sex Life and Career — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

How Being Guarded Kills Aliveness, Meaning, and Purpose — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Are You Jealous About Her Sexual Past? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Rickson Gracie - How to Find Comfort in Darkness

Am I On The Wrong Path? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Build True Confidence by Understanding Unhealthy Self-Esteem — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Dealing with Anger and Emotional Constipation — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Avoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Facing the Fear of Being Alone — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is Therapy Frustrating? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Can a Nerd Become a Stud? Reinventing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Can You Learn to Trust Your Gut? — Mark Divine (Uncommon: Simple Principles for an Extraordinary Life)

Sebastian Junger’s Near Death Experience — Sebastian Junger (In My Time of Dying)

Feeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Motivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Finding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Spiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is Healing for the Weak? - Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)

How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Less Information. More Taking Action. — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Commitment Issues: What Would Make You Excited to Commit? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Getting Your Partner to Change — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Making Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Needing the Approval of Others — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Are You Playing the Wrong Game? — Brian Johnson Areté

How to Beat Procrastination — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

The Workaholic Curse — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Stop Running Away from Your Problems — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Putting Yourself Out There — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Feeling Like You’re Not Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Fighting Resistance and Laziness — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Rat Racer Mentality: When the Best isn’t Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Moving from Anxiety to Confidence — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

The Need to Be Legit — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: The Pressure to Succeed — Tripp Lanier

From Rumination to Mental Strength - Anson Whitmer (Calm/Mental App)

Imposter Syndrome and Proving Your Value — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: Why Goals Are Exhausting You — Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: Dealing with Burnout — Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: “I’m Stuck and I Don’t Know Where to Go Next” — Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: Fear of Failure | Why Is It So Hard to Commit? — Tripp Lanier

Old is Just a Mindset - Steven Kotler

Coaching Call: Have You Outgrown Your Career? — Tripp Lanier

Can Sexual Attraction Be Repaired? — Shana James

Coaching Call: When Your Business is Choking You — Tripp Lanier

Mark Manson Made a Movie — The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F

Coaching Call: How to Deal with Money Fears — Tripp Lanier

Phil Stutz + Barry Michels - The Tools to Defeat Your Inner Enemy (Encore)

Coaching Call: How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome — Tripp Lanier

Phil Stutz + Barry Michels on The Tools (Encore)

Coaching Call: Am I Stuck in the Wrong Career? — Tripp Lanier

Coaching Call: The Painful Reason You’re Burned Out — Tripp Lanier

Integral Theory and The Cultural Dumpster Fire — Jeff Salzman, The Daily Evolver (Encore)

What is Mastery of Self? — don Miguel Ruiz Jr. (Encore)

Pressure, Anxiety, and Doing What You Love — Chip Conley (Encore)

How to Train the Brain to Overcome Fear – Jaimal Yogis (Encore)

Should You End Your Relationship? - Alyson Lanier (Encore)

Mark Manson on Why the World is Going Crazy - Mark Manson (Encore)

How to Have (Really) Difficult Conversations – Mark J Silverman(Encore)

Why Do Dolphins Get Stoned? The High Performance Benefits of Altered States - Jamie Wheal (Encore)

How to Turn an Enemy into an Ally – Bill Shireman (Encore)

Why We’re All Full of Sh*t - Jonathan Haidt (Encore)

The Way of the Peaceful Warrior — Dan Millman (Encore)

Dial in Your Money Psychology — Brent Kessel (Encore)

Defending the Ego Makes Us Weak — Aubrey Marcus (Encore)

Is Money Killing You? - Jordan Grumet