Robin picks up the conversation from last week with Sex & Pleasure specialist, Whitni Miller, in this Part 2 episode of Coming Out Late. Please Rate & Review the podcast and share this episode with a friend. Enjoy!

In this episode, you will learn…

• The #1 question that Whitni gets asked, A LOT! (Hint: it’s about sex!)
• What is “sexual desire discrepancy”?
• Be upfront about how important sex is to you w/potential new partners, ASAP. Know yourself and the depth of your sexual appetite/desire. 
• Don’t think that ‘attraction’ to each other is going to make your libidos match - that’s not going to work. You can be highly attracted to each other, but desire and the arousal that fuels all of that desire is way more nuanced than just being attracted to one another.
• How do you feel about sex? How do you feel about yourself? And, how do you feel about yourself having sex?
• Our sexual desires are NOT our partner’s responsibility - they are ours!
• The difference between ‘spontaneous desire’ and ‘responsive desire’ - and that neither is ‘right’ or ‘wrong’, AND, that you can be both! 
• What’s more important than desire and arousal? (The answer is SO simple, yet so true!)
• What is ‘sexual temperament’?
• Everything affects our sexual desire - what are some of those things?
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