The Alpha Male Coach Podcast
The Alpha Male Coach Podcast is the only podcast that guides intelligent, spiritual men who are awakening to their predicament of living in a limited reality. As we continue to grow and learn through life experiences, we become increasingly aware that there is more to life than what we've been told and taught. Questions like 'Who Am I, Where Am I From, and Why Am I Here" are all a part of this beautiful awakening process. Master Life Coach and Spiritual Guide Kevin Aillaud combines neuroscience, quantum physics, mysticism, and coaching wisdom to teach men just like you how to...
Tue, October 01, 2024
Episode 307: The Alpha Male Coach Podcast
Brothers, today I want to give you a big-picture view of what this podcast has been about, where we've been, and why we've been here. Over the past six years, we've explored some of the deepest concepts around the mind, energy, and the nature of reality, all with the goal of elevating your alpha. Now, it's time to summarize it all, and let me tell you, it boils down to three main points. First and foremost, this podcast has been about service. At its most obvious and superficial level, my goal has been to help you. It’s about simplifying complex ideas—whether it's mind management, self-mastery, or the frameworks we’ve explored like spiral dynamics, human design, and Krishnamurti’s work. My role has been to take all that complexity, all that information, and make it understandable and applicable for you. But here's the thing, brothers: while that service has been real and important, it's rooted in duality. There’s the assumption that I’m the teacher and you’re the student. It’s useful, but it’s just one layer, and it’s the most surface-level reason behind this podcast. Now, let’s go a bit deeper. Beyond service, this podcast has been a personal journey for me. You've been with me, witnessing my own evolution, my growth. From the very first episode, I came to you with my own perspective—one that was built on the foundations of philosophy, religion, quantum mechanics, and more. But as we moved forward, you saw my mind evolve. You watched as I investigated new frameworks, learned new concepts, and questioned old beliefs. This podcast has been a platform for me to share my personal journey, and you've been a part of that every step of the way. For that, I am grateful. So, while I’ve been serving you, you’ve also been witnessing my transformation. It’s a journey we’ve taken together. And finally, the deepest layer, the most subtle point, is that this podcast has been about the release of energy. Karma, brothers, means action, and everything we do is an expression of pent-up energy. This podcast, these teachings, these conversations—it’s all been a process of letting go, of releasing energy that had to come through. From the beginning of time, this was always meant to happen. It’s been part of the cosmic plan, part of the energy that flows through each of us. At its core, this podcast is an expression of that flow—moving through me, through you, and into the world. So brothers, to wrap it up: the purpose of this podcast has been threefold. First, service—simplifying the mind and its complexities to help you on your journey. Second, my personal journey—an evolution you’ve been a witness to. And finally, the release of energy—because everything that’s happened here, from the very first episode to today, had to happen. It was always part of the plan. Until next time, brothers, elevate your alpha.
Fri, September 27, 2024
Episode 306: Skills vs. Systems
In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the key aspects of Human Design: the difference between skills and systems . Now, as many of you know, I’m a projector, and this really shapes how I’ve experienced life, especially when it comes to learning new things. I’ve spent years living in different countries, totally immersed in the culture, working hard to learn languages like Spanish and Chinese, and yet—I still don’t speak them fluently. But then, I see my friends who are generators, picking up these skills almost effortlessly in a fraction of the time. It used to frustrate me, but it all makes sense once you understand the Human Design framework. Generators are built to master skills . They’re the doers. They have this natural energy for repetition, for practice, for honing in on a specific task until they perfect it. They’re like the chess pieces on a board—each with their unique strengths and abilities. But what about us projectors? Well, we don’t operate like that. While a generator might be able to dive into a skill and refine it, we’re here to see the big picture . Our gift lies in understanding the system behind that skill, in seeing how all the moving parts work together, and guiding others to their mastery. I’ve experienced this over and over in my life. Take music, for example. I’ve tried to learn instruments like the piano and guitar. I could sit there and practice for hours, but no matter how much time I put in, I just couldn’t get past being average. But here’s the thing: I understand the system of music perfectly. I can read music like the back of my hand. I know the notes, the rhythms, the scales. I just can’t play them well. And the same thing happened in sports—like when I was a competitive shooter. I never ranked high in competitions, but I could teach people how to shoot, and they’d become champions. Why? Because I understood the system behind shooting, the strategies, the techniques. This episode is about embracing that difference. As projectors, we’re not here to grind through skills and become masters of them ourselves. We’re here to guide . We’re here to teach . We’re here to see the big picture and help others reach their potential. It’s like the chessboard analogy: the generator pieces are focused on their individual moves, but we’re the player—we see the whole board and guide them to make the best moves. But I’m not saying projectors can’t learn skills or that generators can’t master systems. What I’m saying is that we have different strengths, and when we lean into those strengths, we thrive. Projectors need to stop feeling like they have to keep up with the generator hustle. Likewise, generators can benefit from having a projector to guide them through the systems that govern their world. Ultimately, it’s about celebrating
Tue, September 17, 2024
Episode 305: Compassion vs. Pity
In this episode, we take a deep dive into two critical concepts: compassion and pity —and why understanding the difference between them is essential for your spiritual journey. On the surface, these two ideas may seem similar. Both involve recognizing someone else's suffering and taking action, but the energy and vibration behind them are completely different. Brothers, this is where the real work begins. Let’s break it down. Compassion comes from love, unity, and an understanding of the oneness of all beings. It recognizes that suffering is a projection of the mind—an illusion. When you see someone experiencing pain, you know it’s just a story they are telling themselves, just like the stories you tell yourself. Compassion isn’t about agreeing with the story; it’s about seeing the deeper truth. When you act out of compassion, you’re acting from a place of love. You help because you know that everything is connected, and by uplifting someone else, you uplift yourself. There’s no fear involved. It’s pure love. It's knowing that the person you’re helping is just another version of you, another aspect of the oneness we all share. Now, contrast that with pity . Pity comes from fear. You see someone suffering, and your mind immediately projects onto them, thinking, “I don’t want that to be me.” Pity stems from the fear that you might end up like the person you're helping. So you act, but your action is driven by fear, not love. You believe in the illusion of their suffering, and by believing it, you reinforce it. It’s still action, but it's not coming from the highest place. And brothers, if you’re acting out of fear, you’re still trapped in the lower vibration of the third dimension. You're reacting to the illusion instead of rising above it. This distinction is crucial, not just in how we interact with others, but also in how we treat ourselves. Are you practicing self-compassion or self-pity ? When you’re in self-pity, you’re telling yourself a fear-based story, feeding into the illusion that you’re not where you need to be, or that you’re not enough. But when you practice self-compassion, you acknowledge where you are with love. You recognize that, yes, maybe you made a mistake, but that’s part of the process. It’s part of the illusion. There’s no fear in self-compassion, only love and growth. Throughout this episode, I challenge you to examine the root of your actions . Are you acting from love or from fear? Are you truly in compassion, or are you coming from a place of pity? This is the deep work, brothers—the spiritual practice of elevating your vibration, of shifting from fear-based action to love-based action. It’s easy to think you're being compassionate, but if there’s any fear involved, you're still stuck in pity. <br
Wed, August 07, 2024
Episode 304: What Matters?
Elevate Your Alpha: Embrace the Now and Forgiveness In this transformative episode of Elevate Your Alpha, we delve into the importance of maintaining a high vibration and embracing the present moment. Our host emphasizes letting go of past regrets and the negative impact of holding onto self-judgment and resentment. By focusing on forgiveness and love, we can elevate our energy and lead a harmonious life. This episode explores the teachings of Jesus and Buddha on forgiveness, love, and the impermanence of life. Jesus taught unconditional love and forgiveness, while Buddha highlighted the emptiness and impermanence of the external world. Both perspectives converge on the importance of maintaining a high vibration and living in the now. We discuss the significance of monitoring our vibration through mindfulness and meditation, starting with a focus on the body’s sensations. This practice helps us stay attuned to our feelings, allowing us to let go of negative emotions quickly. By doing so, we prevent the external world from affecting our inner peace. Practical examples, such as dealing with road rage, illustrate how being aware of our body's sensations can help us let go of agitation and maintain a state of peace. The episode also touches on the concept of death and the importance of facing it with acceptance and a high vibration. Whether one believes in reincarnation or other afterlife concepts, the key is to transition with a peaceful and loving energy. Join us as we uncover universal truths that transcend religious boundaries and offer practical steps to live a more mindful, loving, and vibrant life. Whether it's overcoming buffering behaviors, dealing with daily stressors, or contemplating the inevitability of death, this episode provides profound insights to help you elevate your alpha and embrace the now. Subscribe to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast to stay updated on future episodes where we continue to explore ways to elevate your life and energy. Until next time, keep your vibration high and elevate your alpha!
Mon, July 15, 2024
Episode 303: Neutrality To Knowledge
Hey brothers, I want to dive deep into a concept that might sound counterintuitive at first: the idea that depression is actually an upgrade for the human species. I know it sounds crazy, but stick with me here. When we start to move from our conditioned beta state towards neutrality and beyond, we begin to pierce the shell of our ego, our "I-ness." This initial breakthrough can feel like entering a dark, cloudy, and rainy world where nothing matters, much like the downtrodden side of the meme where a person is slumped over and unhappy. When you first confront the realization that nothing matters, it often leads to a state of depression. This isn't a bad thing. In fact, it's an important step in our evolution. Depression signals that our crisis monitoring system is lowering, helping us recognize that nothing, indeed, matters. This realization aligns with what mystics, saints, and sages have always known: everything is empty, a hologram, a dream state. We start to understand that our ego, our attachments, our possessions, and even our relationships don't really matter. Many people are uncomfortable with this idea because it contrasts sharply with our conditioning, which tells us that our lives and identities are supremely important. But the truth is, nothing matters. And that's liberating. It's the beginning of moving from ignorance to knowledge, from ego to true self. I know some coaches will tell you to strengthen your ego, to build a strong persona. And that's okay; it's not wrong. But if you want to move beyond the ego, to break through to the other side, you must let go of the idea that your ego matters. When you do, you’ll experience what’s on the other side of the meme: bliss, harmony, and love. Moving from ignorance to knowledge is like returning to the Garden of Eden. The story goes that we lost our true knowledge when we ate from the Tree of Knowledge and became aware of our ego. But when we regain this knowledge, we understand that nothing matters, and we can embrace this truth joyfully. This understanding leads to liberation and, ultimately, to a state of nirvana or heaven on earth. To know you’ve moved from ignorance to knowledge, look for that sense of bliss that isn’t tied to circumstances. It’s a bliss that comes from ego death, from truly understanding that nothing matters. This state can be reached through meditation, breathwork, plant medicine, or even listening to this podcast. When you get there, everything around you – the colors, the sounds, the mundane things – becomes vibrant, magical, and awe-inspiring. You merge with the world, experiencing its perfection and realizing that you are one with it. Doctors and scientists know so little about the body, just as we know so little about the universe. The arrogance of claiming we fully understand either is a product of our ego. But when we let go of the "I," we see the body and the world as the magical, vibrant entities they truly are. <p
Fri, June 28, 2024
Episode 302: Guideposts On The Path
Brothers, today I want to share a journey that transcends the surface of our daily struggles. This is not about acquiring more, but about transcending the very need to seek and cling. Our minds, if left unmanaged, lead us into cycles of suffering. They trick us into chasing pleasure and avoiding pain, keeping us trapped in a perpetual state of dissatisfaction. Recognize the Source of Suffering The first step on this journey is recognizing that our suffering is not caused by external circumstances but by our reactions to them. Life is not about the content we experience but the dualities we create—pleasure and pain, good and bad. This duality is an illusion created by our conditioned mind, which is always seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. Step into Neutrality By stepping into neutrality, separating thoughts from facts, we begin to see clearly. This is crucial, brothers. You must understand that your feelings are not dictated by the world around you but by your mind's interpretation of it. When you learn to separate your thoughts from facts, you gain control over your emotional responses. This is where true freedom begins. Ask the Fundamental Question: Who Am I? Once we achieve this state of neutrality, we delve deeper, asking the fundamental question: "Who am I?" This is not a mere intellectual exercise but a profound inquiry into the nature of the self. You are not your body, your mind, or the story you tell yourself. Everything is in a constant state of flux. The body, the mind, the story—all are impermanent. When we grasp this, we gain knowledge. And with this knowledge comes liberation. Understand Impermanence Impermanence is the key to understanding the nature of reality. The body you had yesterday is not the same body you have today. Everything changes, and nothing remains static. This knowledge of impermanence is what moves you from ignorance to enlightenment. It liberates you from the suffering caused by attachment and aversion. Liberation Through Knowledge Liberation is about recognizing the eternal and infinite nature of our true self. It's about understanding that while our individual experiences differ, at the core, we are all interconnected. This realization dissolves the boundaries of self and other, leading to compassion and unity. You see, brothers, we are all part of the same divine mind. The individual mind, with its fears and desires, is just a small part of this greater whole. Commit to the Spiritual Journey Commit to this spiritual journey, brothers. This is not a hobby or a side project but a lifestyle. It's about consistent practice, mindfulness, and self-awareness. Begin by acknowledging the dualities in your life and move towards awakening. Recognize that the only constant is change, and with this knowledge, you will find peace. Embr
Fri, June 14, 2024
Episode 301: 3 Levels Of Understanding - The Remix
Brothers, the journey to true self-understanding is profound and multifaceted, spanning three distinct levels: devotional, intellectual, and actual understanding. Let’s explore each level deeply and clearly. 1. Devotional Understanding : This is where most people start, accepting knowledge from authorities without personal inquiry. Think of the flat Earth belief or following health guidelines without question. In terms of self-knowledge, many rely on religions or influential figures to define who they are. It’s effortless but superficial and highly prone to error. 2. Intellectual Understanding : This stage demands personal engagement, research, and critical thinking. Imagine Galileo challenging the flat Earth theory or an individual diving deep into the science behind health guidelines. For self-knowledge, this means actively exploring various paths and philosophies. It’s deeper than the devotional level but remains theoretical, forming an intellectual comprehension of the self. 3. Actual Understanding : Here, knowledge is gained through direct experience, fundamentally transforming one’s perception. Picture astronauts seeing Earth from space or someone experiencing the effects of a well-researched health practice. In self-knowledge, actual understanding comes from inner experiences—meditation, mindfulness, personal insights—that reveal the true self beyond intellectual constructs. The Path to Self-Knowledge : Most people never ask, "Who am I?" They’re consumed by survival or distracted by trivial pursuits. Those who do ask this profound question are rare, and even fewer move beyond devotional understanding, often adhering to a religion or philosophy without deeper inquiry. For the few who seek intellectual understanding, there are many paths. The journey is unique, requiring perseverance and openness to different frameworks and philosophies. But intellectual comprehension isn’t the end. It must lead to actual understanding through direct experience. The Actual Experience : True self-understanding is the ultimate goal, transcending intellectual theorizing and marked by personal experiences revealing one's essence. Historical spiritual figures like Buddha, Christ, and Krishna reached this level, but each seeker’s journey is intensely personal and unique. The Effort and Commitment : Moving from intellectual to actual understanding demands dedicated effort and continuous practice, leading to inner transformation. It involves transcending suffering, ignorance, and superficial desires by cultivating wisdom and deep self-awareness. My wish for you, brothers, is to find true peace and happiness through this profound journey of self-discovery. Move from devotional and intellectual understanding to the actual experience of knowing yourself. This path, though challenging, leads to the deepest fulfillment. Elevat
Fri, June 07, 2024
Episode 300: 3 Levels Of Understanding
Alright, listen up, brothers. Today, I’m breaking down something crucial for your journey—whether it’s a literal trip from Portland to Seattle or your personal path to enlightenment and success. Imagine trusting someone like Kevin, a well-traveled guy, to guide you from Portland to Seattle. You might start with faith in his directions, but real understanding comes when you take the trip yourself. This is a metaphor for our spiritual and intellectual journeys. There are three levels of understanding: devotional, intellectual, and experiential. Devotional understanding is when you put your faith in an authority—be it Christ, Buddha, or even Kevin’s travel directions. You believe because they said so. But here’s the thing: faith alone isn’t enough. You need to verify, to engage intellectually. Look at the map, cross-check the directions, gather insights from multiple sources. But don’t stop there. The real transformation happens when you experience the journey. Get in the car, drive the route, face the challenges, and make it your own. This is where you truly understand, not just theoretically, but deeply and personally. And let’s be real—not everyone who starts this journey finishes it. Some get lost, some turn back, some settle along the way. But every experience, whether it leads you to Seattle or somewhere unexpected, is valuable and unique to you. Now, here’s the call to action. I’m inviting you to enroll in the Academy. Why? Because this is where you move from intellectual and devotional understanding to actual experience. Join us for webinars, coaching calls, and community discussions. Engage with mentors, share your journey, learn from others. This is where you’ll become the best version of yourself—mastering your mind, emotions, and actions. It’s about balance. Manifest your desires but also learn to surrender and go with the flow. Live a life of peace, harmony, joy, and love. This is what we’re here for, and this is what the Academy offers. Sign up for a consultation call—it’s an investment in your future, credited towards your time in the Academy. So, brothers, take this step. Don’t just listen to my words—live them. Experience the path yourself. Join the Academy, and let’s walk this journey together. Your best self awaits. Be the Alpha.
Fri, May 31, 2024
Episode 299: Anicca (Impermanence)
In this enlightening podcast episode, we journey through profound spiritual teachings to uncover the wisdom of impermanence and the intricacies of manifestation. Our host delves into the Buddhist concept of the five aggregates—form, sensation, perception, mental formations, and consciousness—highlighting their ever-changing nature and how this constant flux defines our existence. By recognizing the impermanence of these aggregates, listeners are invited to question the very essence of the self and understand how attachment to these transient components leads to suffering (dukkha). We then explore the practice of observing life without judgment. Judgment is deeply tied to the ego, perpetuating suffering through desires and aversions. This segment emphasizes the importance of detaching from judgment and simply witnessing experiences as they unfold. By doing so, we reduce the grip of cravings and aversions, finding a path to minimize suffering. Our host draws a clear distinction between wisdom and manifestation, underscoring that while wisdom involves accepting impermanence, manifestation focuses on creating desired changes in one's life. The episode also addresses the challenges and opportunities inherent in the manifestation process. Understanding that striving for goals can introduce a different form of suffering, our host provides practical insights on managing this suffering by bridging the gap between current and desired states. The discussion extends to the spiritual journey, touching upon reincarnation and the significance of our human experience. Whether or not one believes in reincarnation, the essence lies in making the most of our time as human beings, embracing the fullness of our journey. Listeners are reminded of their divine nature as observers of life’s impermanence. The ultimate goal is liberation from suffering by recognizing oneself as the observer, detached from the ego and transient identities. This episode offers a balanced perspective on how to navigate the realms of wisdom and manifestation, encouraging a conscious and fulfilling approach to life. Join us in this deep exploration of spiritual wisdom and practical guidance, as we learn to observe without judgment, embrace impermanence, and master the art of manifestation.
Fri, May 24, 2024
Episode 298: Anatta (Egolessness)
Language shapes our perception of reality and keeps us within a limited framework. By constantly using the word "I", we reinforce the illusion of a separate self. Some Buddhist or Hindu monks avoid using "I", saying "your monastery" instead of "my monastery" to emphasize that everything belongs to everyone. This practice challenges the notion of ownership and self-identity. Feelings, like thoughts, are patterns of conditioning. They are not who we truly are but rather responses shaped by our past experiences. Our goal in the academy is to liberate ourselves both consciously and unconsciously. Conscious liberation involves understanding our thought patterns, while unconscious liberation involves recognizing the processes we aren't fully aware of, like our heartbeat or breath. These processes are automatic and reflect a deeper level of existence that we want to be in touch with. Suffering arises when we identify with our feelings and thoughts, thinking they belong to us. We crave good feelings and avoid bad ones, which keeps us trapped in a cycle of desire and aversion. To free ourselves, we must detach from these feelings and thoughts, recognizing them as temporary and conditioned. Our sense of "I" is made up of five aggregates: the physical body and four mental states—cognition, recognition, sensation, and reaction. The body is ever-changing and not a permanent self. Similarly, our mental states are impermanent and influenced by our conditioning. Cognition is the direct experience, the neutral opening of a window to the world. Recognition is the meaning we assign to these experiences. Sensation is the emotional response, and reaction is the action we take based on these feelings. None of these are the true self; they are just processes. By observing these processes and recognizing their impermanence, we can begin to detach from the false sense of a permanent self. Changing habitual patterns, like waking up at a different time or using the opposite hand, helps us understand the depth of our conditioning when we are aware of the craving and aversion patterns. Ultimately, wisdom comes from moving beyond intellectual understanding to experiential realization. By living the truth of impermanence and non-self, we can reduce suffering and elevate our awareness, leading to greater freedom and interconnectedness.
Wed, May 15, 2024
Episode 297: Dukkha (Suffering)
Brothers, I want you to listen closely because what I'm about to share is something that can truly transform your life. It's a pattern I've seen over and over again, and it's critical to understand if you want to break free from suffering. Let’s talk about the four quadrants of attachment and how they govern our experience. When you have what you want—money, relationships, status—you're attached. You fear losing these things. This fear leads to suffering. It's a desperate clinging, a hoarding mentality that controls you. You're afraid to lose your bank account, your job, your relationship. The fear of loss is ever-present. Now, shift to the top-right quadrant. You want something but don’t have it. This desire, this craving, eats at you. You compare yourself to others, believing your life would be better if you had more money, a better job, a loving relationship. This constant comparison and craving create immense suffering. Let's move to the bottom-left quadrant. Here, you have what you don't want. Maybe it’s a debt, a physical condition, or a difficult relationship. You resist these realities, and this resistance breeds anger and a victim mentality. You think, "My life would be better if I didn’t have this." This aversion to what is causes deep suffering. Finally, the bottom-right quadrant: you don't have something, and you don't want it. You're afraid of getting what you don't want—disease, financial ruin, a bad relationship. This fear of potential future problems keeps you in a state of anxiety. Here’s the key, brothers. We've been conditioned to focus externally, to see everything through the lens of these quadrants. But there's a way out. The solution is to shift our focus internally. Understand that your thoughts and senses are external stimuli. By redirecting your consciousness inward, you can break free from these patterns of attachment. In the academy, we teach cognitive mastery and emotional ownership to help you make this shift. By embracing the present moment and accepting reality without resistance, you can end your suffering. Elevate your alpha by focusing internally, brothers. This is the path to true freedom and peace. Until next week, elevate your alpha.
Fri, May 10, 2024
Episode 296: Manifestation vs. Equanimity
In this podcast, Kevin delves deep into the intricacies of manifestation, self-knowledge, and the liberation from suffering. He begins by contrasting the common experience of individuals who struggle with manifestation against those who seemingly effortlessly achieve their goals. Kevin highlights the role of ego and conditioning in shaping desires and how they often lead to suffering when not balanced with equanimity. Kevin draws parallels between the state of mind necessary for successful manifestation and the concept of the "balanced mind." He discusses the magic square of desires and outcomes, illustrating how attachment to desires or aversions leads to suffering. Through examples and analogies, he emphasizes the importance of maintaining a state of equanimity, where desires are observed without attachment, and outcomes are accepted with neutrality. Throughout the podcast, Kevin emphasizes the impermanent nature of reality, both external and internal. He encourages listeners to observe their thoughts and emotions with detachment, recognizing them as transient phenomena. By understanding the illusion of continuity and the ever-changing nature of the self, individuals can begin to free themselves from the grip of ego-driven desires and aversions. Furthermore, Kevin underscores the transformative power of self-knowledge and the journey towards liberation from suffering. He invites listeners to enroll in the academy, where they can embark on a path of self-discovery and cultivate a balanced mind. Kevin suggests that through this process, individuals can align themselves with the natural flow of existence, leading to effortless manifestation and liberation from the cycle of suffering. In essence, Kevin's podcast serves as a profound exploration of the human experience, offering insights into the nature of desire, suffering, and liberation. Through his teachings, listeners are encouraged to embark on a journey of self-discovery and inner transformation, ultimately leading to a state of equanimity and harmony with the universe.
Fri, May 03, 2024
Episode 295: Coach Brent, Part 3
In this enlightening podcast episode, Kevin and Brent engage in a deep dive into the complexities of navigating life's uncertainties with grace and empowerment. Through candid conversation and personal anecdotes, they explore the concept of victim mentality versus empowerment, urging listeners to reframe their perspectives and embrace life's challenges as opportunities for growth. Central to their discussion is the notion of mind management and its transformative power in shaping our experiences. Brent shares his own journey of transformation, highlighting the profound impact that learning to rewrite his stories has had on his life. From overcoming feelings of victimhood to embracing a mindset of trust and surrender, Brent's insights offer listeners invaluable tools for navigating life's twists and turns. Throughout the episode, Kevin and Brent emphasize the importance of choosing love over fear and trusting in the inherent perfection of the universe. They invite listeners to reflect on their own thought patterns and consider how shifting their perspectives can lead to greater fulfillment and peace. With warmth and authenticity, Kevin and Brent guide listeners on a journey of self-discovery, inviting them to explore the principles of mind management and empowerment. Whether you're facing relationship challenges, career transitions, or simply seeking greater clarity and peace in your life, this episode offers practical insights and guidance to help you navigate life's uncertainties with confidence and resilience. Don't miss this empowering conversation that promises to inspire you to elevate your mindset, embrace uncertainty, and live a life filled with love, joy, and purpose. Tune in to gain valuable insights and tools for navigating life's challenges with grace and empowerment.
Fri, April 26, 2024
Episode 294: Coach Brent, Part 2
In this illuminating episode of The Alpha Male Coach Podcast, Brent returns in Part 2 to share profound insights on embracing uncertainty and surrendering to the flow of life. Drawing from personal experiences and spiritual teachings, Brent delves deep into the transformative power of faith amidst life's uncertainties. The episode opens with a warm welcome from Kevin, acknowledging Brent's previous appearance on the podcast and inviting listeners to explore his journey from a spiritual perspective. Brent reflects on the nature of uncertainty, describing it as a natural part of the human experience that often triggers feelings of fear and doubt. However, he emphasizes that uncertainty also holds the potential for growth and self-discovery when approached with faith and surrender. Throughout the conversation, Brent and the host engage in a thought-provoking dialogue about the choices we make in the face of uncertainty. Brent shares personal anecdotes, including his decision to leave a stable job to pursue entrepreneurship, and reflects on the role of faith in guiding him through challenging times. He emphasizes the importance of staying present and embracing the unknown, even when it feels uncomfortable or unsettling. Brent explores the concept of enjoying the journey amidst uncertainty, highlighting the beauty of life's unpredictable twists and turns. He encourages listeners to let go of the need for certainty and control, and instead surrender to the flow of life with an open heart and mind. Throughout the episode, Brent's words are infused with wisdom and compassion, offering listeners a sense of comfort and reassurance in uncertain times. His reflections on faith, surrender, and resilience serve as a guiding light for anyone facing uncertainty in their own lives. In conclusion, this episode of The Alpha Male Coach Podcast offers a powerful reminder that uncertainty is not something to be feared, but rather embraced as an opportunity for growth and transformation. Brent's message resonates deeply with listeners, inspiring them to navigate life's uncertainties with courage, grace, and unwavering faith.
Sat, April 20, 2024
Episode 293: Coach Brent, Part 1
In this enlightening podcast episode, listeners are treated to an engaging conversation between Kevin Aillaud and Brent Smith, a coach at the academy. As the discussion unfolds, Brent shares his personal journey of growth and self-discovery, offering insights gleaned from his experiences as a financial planner and his profound reflections on success and fulfillment. Central to Brent's narrative is the theme of letting go of control and learning to trust in divine timing—a journey marked by a profound shift in perspective and a deepening awareness of the power of raising conscious awareness. The purpose of the academy emerges as a transformative platform for dispelling societal conditioning and embracing authenticity. Brent emphasizes the importance of stepping into personal power and living life on one's own terms, free from external expectations. Through anecdotes and practical guidance, he encourages listeners to examine their motivations and approach adversity with compassion, ultimately fostering a deeper connection to themselves and those around them. A key focus of the conversation revolves around navigating challenges related to time management and control. Brent invites listeners to explore the deeper meaning behind their desires for control and offers strategies for cultivating a sense of peace and resilience in the face of uncertainty. Drawing on his own journey, he shares valuable lessons on embracing authenticity and letting go of non-serving beliefs, urging listeners to embark on their own path of self-discovery and empowerment. As the episode draws to a close, Kevin and Brent reflect on the profound impact of the academy's mission, expressing gratitude for the opportunity to share insights and wisdom with their audience. Whether seeking inspiration or practical guidance, listeners are invited to join Brent and the host on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, as they navigate the complexities of modern life with courage, compassion, and authenticity.
Fri, April 12, 2024
Episode 292: Relationship Yoga
Dive into the latest episode of "The Alpha Male Coach Podcast" and unlock the secrets to profound relationships and personal growth! In this captivating installment, host Kevin delves deep into the intricacies of human connection, offering invaluable insights into the transformative power of authenticity and mindfulness. Join him as he explores the concept of the "sacred union," where love becomes a catalyst for inner healing and evolution. Through engaging anecdotes and thought-provoking analysis, Kevin challenges conventional notions of relationships, inviting listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and emotional liberation. Discover how embracing vulnerability and authenticity can lead to profound transformations in your personal and professional life. Drawing on real-life examples and timeless wisdom, Kevin illuminates the path to meaningful connections, highlighting the importance of inner work and conscious communication. Whether you're navigating romantic relationships, friendships, or family dynamics, this episode offers practical guidance and actionable strategies for cultivating deeper connections and fostering personal growth. Join Kevin as he navigates the complexities of ego, trauma, and healing, offering listeners a roadmap to navigate the depths of their souls and unlock their true potential. Through introspection and mindfulness, listeners will learn to transcend egoic patterns and cultivate a more profound sense of love and connection. Don't miss out on this enlightening exploration of relationships, spirituality, and personal evolution. Tune in to "The Alpha Male Coach Podcast" and embark on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and transformation. Remember, true connection begins with the courage to elevate your alpha. Listen now on your favorite podcast platform and embark on a journey to unlock the full potential of your relationships and personal growth!
Fri, April 05, 2024
Episode 291: Lava Lamp Of Life
Welcome, brothers, to the profound teachings of the lava lamp analogy of life. In this enlightening discourse, we delve into the timeless wisdom encapsulated within the rhythmic rise and fall of the bubbles in a lava lamp. Just as the wax in the lamp flows and morphs, so too does our existence unfold in a series of neutral events, relationships, and lessons. Firstly, let us explore the concept of neutrality. Picture the wax and the backdrop of the lamp – they represent the canvas upon which our life experiences unfold. Understand that each bubble, each event, holds no inherent judgment or bias. They simply arise, play their part, and subside, much like the ebb and flow of tides. Embracing this neutrality frees us from the shackles of attachment and empowers us to navigate life's twists and turns with equanimity. Next, contemplate the notion of completion. Just as every bubble in the lava lamp reaches its pinnacle before gracefully descending, so too do our experiences, relationships, and lessons reach their natural conclusions. Instead of mourning these endings, let us rejoice in the opportunities they present for growth and renewal. For every completion heralds the dawn of a new beginning, a chance to embark upon fresh adventures and embrace the mysteries of the unknown. And finally, ponder the cyclical nature of existence. Life, like the lava lamp, operates in cycles – constant, rhythmic, and eternal. Each bubble that bursts is swiftly replaced by another, symbolizing the perpetual motion of creation and transformation. Whether consciously or unconsciously, our actions contribute to the intricate tapestry of karma, shaping our experiences and propelling us ever forward on our spiritual journey. In essence, the lava lamp analogy of life offers us profound insights into the nature of existence – its neutrality, its completion, and its cyclical rhythm. By embracing these teachings, we can cultivate a deeper sense of peace, understanding, and alignment with the divine flow of the universe. So let us journey together, my brothers, as we elevate our alpha and awaken to the boundless possibilities that await us.
Fri, March 29, 2024
Episode 290: Does Environment Matter?
Does environment really matter? This question, sparked by discussions in our group coaching sessions and academy, digs deep into the relationship between our surroundings and our state of being. As we navigate through this inquiry, we're challenged to redefine our understanding of environment beyond mere physical spaces. You see, it's not just about where we are geographically or who we're with—it's about the energetic dance between our physical presence and the cosmic forces that shape our reality. We're talking about the interplay of material and spiritual energies that influence our thoughts, emotions, and actions. To unravel this cosmic conundrum, we first explore the concept of the "alpha state" and the "beta condition." Picture it like this: the alpha state is the actor playing the role, while the beta condition is the role itself. Neither is inherently good or bad; they simply exist within the grand theater of life. Now, back to the question at hand: Does environment affect our alpha and beta states? Well, it's a bit of a paradox. On one hand, yes, our physical surroundings—the people, places, and situations—can influence our state of being. For instance, being in nature might evoke feelings of peace and connectedness, while a bustling cityscape might trigger stress and agitation. But here's where it gets juicy: our environment isn't just limited to the tangible world around us. It's also influenced by the cosmic currents of the universe—the ever-shifting energies of the cosmos that swirl around us, shaping our reality in ways we can't even fathom. So, when we ask whether environment matters, we're not just talking about the here and now. We're talking about the infinite dance of energy and consciousness that permeates every aspect of our existence. In the end, it's not about finding a definitive answer—it's about embracing the journey of exploration and self-discovery. So, fellow truth-seekers, join me as we embark on a quest to unlock the mysteries of the universe and uncover the secrets of our true nature.
Thu, March 21, 2024
Episode 289: It's All In The T Line - Part 2
In this segment of the Alpha Male Coach Podcast, Kevin delves into the intricate dynamics of relationships through a lens blending spirituality and psychology. Kevin begins by expressing gratitude for listener engagement and addresses a previous technical delay, emphasizing the importance of audience feedback. Central to the discussion is the concept of the "T-line," representing thoughts in a model of alignment where thoughts influence feelings, actions, and outcomes. Kevin highlights the significance of understanding this framework in fostering healthier relationships, challenging listeners to embrace discomfort as a catalyst for personal growth. Kevin introduces the notion of conditioning and the "beta" mindset, characterized by ego-driven reactions and societal expectations. He urges listeners to reverse engineer conditioned responses and adopt a "super alpha" mindset grounded in self-awareness and intentional choice. The conversation explores the role of feelings or vibrations ("F-line") in shaping relational dynamics, prompting listeners to consciously choose their state of being in interactions. Kevin underscores the importance of recognizing projections onto others and practicing mindfulness to navigate relationships authentically. Practical exercises are shared, including observing emotional responses in triggering situations and intentionally choosing one's state of being. Kevin emphasizes that personal growth requires ongoing practice and self-reflection, advocating for viewing relationships as mirrors reflecting one's internal state. Through relatable anecdotes and insightful analogies, Kevin illustrates the transformative potential of adopting an alpha mindset rooted in unity, compassion, and self-awareness. He concludes by urging listeners to elevate their presence in relationships and embrace the idea that perceptions of others are reflections of their internal landscape. Overall, this episode offers valuable guidance on cultivating deeper connections and personal fulfillment through mindful engagement in relationships, empowering listeners to embrace authenticity and conscious growth in their relational journey.
Wed, March 20, 2024
Episode 288: It's All In The T Line - Part 1
In this captivating podcast segment, Kevin delves into the intricacies of human relationships, urging listeners to rethink their approach to getting to know others. With an engaging and thought-provoking style, Kevin explores the concept of self-presentation, suggesting that individuals often reveal selective versions of themselves while interacting with others. He challenges listeners to question the authenticity of these interactions, prompting them to reflect on the motivations behind their self-disclosures. Central to Kevin's discourse is the idea that all relationships, whether with strangers or close companions, are interconnected reflections of the self. He encourages listeners to view social interactions as fluid narratives rather than rigid truths, advocating for a more lighthearted and open-minded approach to interpersonal dynamics. Throughout the segment, Kevin emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and introspection in navigating relationships. He suggests that by cultivating a deeper understanding of themselves and others, individuals can foster more authentic connections rooted in empathy and understanding. Drawing on both philosophical insights and practical advice, Kevin offers listeners a fresh perspective on interpersonal dynamics. He invites them to engage in introspective practices and observational awareness to gain deeper insights into their own behavior and that of others. As the segment concludes, Kevin hints at future discussions on practical techniques for applying these concepts in everyday life, promising listeners a deeper exploration of self-awareness and personal growth. Overall, Kevin's podcast segment offers a captivating exploration of human relationships, challenging listeners to reconsider their approach to getting to know others and encouraging them to cultivate deeper connections rooted in authenticity and empathy.
Fri, March 08, 2024
Episode 287: Setting Up A Spiritual Calendar
In this enlightening episode, Kevin breaks down the day into four pivotal segments, offering a strategic approach to living with purpose and fulfillment. The first segment, "Filling the Battery," explores the art of motivation. It's not just about feeling pumped up; it's about finding your compelling reason, immersing yourself in new experiences, and learning skills that invigorate your journey. It's the ignition switch to becoming an unstoppable force in chasing your dreams. Moving on, discover the brilliance of "Trickle Charging" during routine tasks. From commuting to meetings, Kevin reveals how to infuse every daily activity with intention and purpose, transforming the mundane into opportunities for growth. It's a paradigm shift that turns your everyday tasks into stepping stones towards your goals. The third segment, "Maintaining the Identity," dives into intentional models of alignment. Align your thoughts and feelings with your goals, ensuring that every action resonates with your true aspirations. This isn't just about living; it's about living with clarity, direction, and a deep sense of self. And then, Kevin introduces the concept of "Focused Time," your gateway to mastering schedules and conquering tasks requiring willpower. It's a guide to turning dreams into tangible achievements, one intentional step at a time. But the journey doesn't conclude with the podcast; it extends an invitation to the Academy. This isn't merely a program; it's a transformative hub offering personalized coaching and a supportive community to accompany you on your journey. The Alpha Male Coach Podcast transcends the boundaries of an ordinary podcast. It's a dynamic companion on your path to greatness, offering inspiration, guidance, and actionable steps in each episode. So, if you're ready to break free from the ordinary, embrace intentional living, and unlock the Alpha within, hit play now. Your transformative journey awaits, promising a thrilling ride into a purpose-driven life.
Fri, March 01, 2024
Episode 286: Plan Ahead Or Go With The Flow
Embark on a riveting exploration of personal growth and manifestation in this transformative podcast segment. The speaker, with wisdom and eloquence, unravels the intricate dance between masculine and feminine energies, offering profound insights into intentional creation and healing presence. Using the analogy of planning a trip to Hawaii, the masculine energy is portrayed as the visionary planner, meticulously crafting goals and executing steps to bring dreams into reality. It's a captivating journey into the intentional manifestation process, emphasizing belief, planning, and execution. Conversely, the feminine energy is introduced as the observer of the present moment, a healing force that operates through heightened awareness, discernment, and surrender. Relationships take center stage as fertile ground for practicing feminine energy, providing mirrors reflecting aspects of the self and valuable feedback for growth. The speaker delves into the importance of being hyper-present, allowing external experiences to become profound teachers. The podcast unfolds as a guide to navigating consciousness, encouraging listeners to be conscious of thoughts and feelings without falling into the trap of judgment. Going with the flow is illuminated as a healing and liberating process, where surrendering to the present moment facilitates the release of burdens and acceptance of guidance from the universe. The profound message reverberates through the idea that failure is a disguised form of success, an integral aspect of the growth process. Listeners are prompted to embrace failure as a lesson learned, fostering resilience and paving the way for future endeavors. At its core, the podcast champions the notion that authentic desires may not always align with perceived wants. The universe is depicted as an unwavering and supportive force, guiding individuals toward their true path. The narrative fosters openness, resilience, and the harmonious integration of both masculine and feminine energies for holistic personal growth. In this captivating episode, listeners are invited to join the speaker on a journey of self-discovery, where the realms of planning and surrender converge, leading to an authentic understanding of the self and the intricate dance of manifestation and personal evolution. Tune in for an enlightening experience that transcends the conventional boundaries of self-help podcasts.
Thu, February 22, 2024
Episode 285: 5 Habits That Will Change Your Life
Today, let's dive into five game-changing habits that'll turbocharge your life. First up, let's talk about reclaiming your mornings and evenings. No tech for the first hour when you wake up and the last half-hour before bedtime. Seriously, keep those phones and laptops away! This sacred time is all about you, your energy, and setting the right tone for the day. Harness that untapped potential by giving yourself the gift of tech-free mornings and serene, device-free nights. Next on the list is a month-long challenge: ditch the caffeine. Yeah, you heard me right. Cut the ties with that java for a while. See, caffeine doesn't magically pump you up; it just masks your fatigue. So, let's be strategic. Save that cup of Joe for the afternoon when you're already dealing with adenosine build-up. Trust me; it'll give you the boost without messing up your precious sleep. Now, let's talk calendars. Get organized, brothers! Plan ahead and throw everything on that calendar of yours. The power here lies in not just creating it but trusting it like a well-oiled machine. Imagine waking up, checking your calendar, and just rolling with it. No energy wasted on figuring out what to do – it's all laid out for you. Feeling a bit stagnant? Here's habit number four – stand up, move around. Take breaks, do some jumping jacks, whatever. Just shake up that snow globe of energy. Move your body, move your mind. It's a game-changer for creativity, focus, and overall well-being. Now, the grand finale – produce more than you consume. Yeah, it's time to shift gears. Instead of being a passive consumer, be an active creator. Whether it's videos, blogs, or just sharing your insights, the act of production is a gift to yourself and others. It's about contributing, sharing your unique gifts, and making a positive impact. Oh, and speaking of impact, I've got something special for you. You've got four months to enroll in the Academy for Conscious Expansion before we unveil a new pipeline. It's a chance to dive deep into cognitive mastery, emotional ownership, and personal development. Become a big brother, help others rise, and stand tall on the foundation you've built. Don't miss this opportunity, brothers! Elevate your alpha!
Thu, February 15, 2024
Episode 284: How To Be Consistent
This podcast episode challenges conventional views on personal consistency and identity. Kevin introduces the concept of daily "body swaps," where each day brings a new version of oneself shaped by energetic vibrations. He urges listeners to recognize the transient nature of identity, emphasizing that who you think you are is not a fixed entity but a dynamic process. The core message is grounded in the idea of being fully present in the current moment, understanding that control over tomorrow is limited. Kevin contends that true presence involves making conscious choices in the present, influencing the experience of the next energetic being that inhabits the body. The podcast is sprinkled with metaphors, comparing life to an 84-year poker game or a rental car, encouraging listeners to see existence as a temporary custodianship of the present moment. A recurring theme is the importance of self-love and compassion, embracing the idea that consistency involves setting up a better future for the next energetic being that comes along. Kevin suggests that making positive choices, completing tasks, and setting the stage for a more fulfilling experience for the next version of oneself contribute to a richer human experience. Throughout the discussion, Kevin illustrates his points with examples like water polo line changes, video game scenarios, and workplace metaphors. He encourages listeners to treat life as a team sport, where each person, or rather each energetic being, plays a part in the collective journey. The inconsistent nature of identity, as Kevin describes it, is met with a call to action – to be consistent in setting up a positive future for the next version of oneself. The narrative is threaded with a paradoxical concept: the only way for an inconsistent being to be consistent is to set up consistency for the next energetic being. Kevin delves into the notion of presence and self-control, stressing that delaying tasks until tomorrow is counterproductive since the version of oneself that shows up tomorrow won't be the same. Ultimately, Kevin's perspective revolves around the transient and ever-changing nature of identity, encouraging listeners to embrace change, make choices that positively impact future experiences, and cultivate a consistent approach to living in the present moment. The podcast serves as a motivational piece, challenging individuals to elevate their lives by being conscious custodians of the now.
Thu, February 08, 2024
Episode 283: Self-Control
In this podcast, Kevin engages listeners in a comprehensive exploration of self-control, dissecting the intricate relationship between emotions, awareness, and behavioral regulation. He begins by advocating for an approach to emotions that involves fully feeling and understanding them without judgment or reaction. Kevin highlights the common tendency to buffer emotions by engaging in distracting activities like scrolling through social media or consuming substances. The theme centers around the importance of awareness in emotional regulation, stressing that resistance or avoidance weakens self-control. Moving into the discussion on stress, Kevin illuminates how stress acts as a counter-force to self-control by redirecting awareness externally. Stress, he explains, pulls attention away from the internal conflict monitoring system, thereby hindering self-awareness. The antidote presented is a shift from external to internal focus during stressful situations, reinstating self-control through heightened awareness of internal processes. Challenging the concept of self-control as an abstraction, Kevin posits it as a measurable skill contingent on internal awareness. He dismisses the notion of merely "just doing it" without understanding the underlying conflict monitoring system. Kevin draws from ancient wisdom, particularly yogic and Buddhist traditions, emphasizing the age-old principle that awareness precedes control. Practical strategies for enhancing self-control emerge, such as thought downloads, journaling, and meditation, all aimed at intensifying internal awareness of thoughts and emotions. Throughout the podcast, Kevin dispels simplistic notions, urging listeners to delve into the complexity of their internal worlds. The key takeaway is that genuine self-control is not a mythical trait but a tangible skill cultivated through continuous internal awareness and understanding of one's thoughts and emotions.
Thu, February 01, 2024
Episode 282: Relationship - The Beginning
Welcome to a transformative journey of self-discovery, my brothers, where we delve deep into the recesses of our inner landscape, stripped of societal interpretations and personal biases. This is not just a podcast; it's an invitation to unravel the threads of conditioned thinking and embrace the unadulterated truth within. In the pursuit of true understanding, Kevin passionately advocates for a fearless exploration of the self, urging us to discard the lenses of judgment and preconceived notions that often cloud our perception. The essence lies in observing without interpretation, listening with a quiet awareness, and experiencing our inner wisdom in its purest form. Relationships, often seen as external entanglements, are reframed as mirrors reflecting our inner selves onto the canvas of the world. Kevin challenges the conventional narrative by asserting that the most crucial relationship is the one we cultivate with ourselves. This, he argues, isn't a selfish pursuit but an acknowledgment of the oneness that ties everything together. The recurring analogy of dreams weaves through the discourse, emphasizing that our outer reality is akin to a dream projected by our inner consciousness. Detachment, even in the pursuit of enlightenment, is discouraged, as it negates the interconnectedness of our existence. Chakras come into focus as symbolic energy centers shaping our perceptions. Whether rooted in sacral desires, power dynamics, or possession quests, these energetic vortexes mold the way we view the world. It's a fresh perspective on how our energetic selves dictate our interactions and shape our reality. The conventional alpha male narrative is dismantled, making way for a redefined alpha—one not defined by external markers but characterized by virtues like love, joy, and self-control. This alpha transcends societal stereotypes, inviting us to live in alignment with our true nature. As the discourse unfolds, Kevin introduces The Academy for Consciousness Expansion —an opportunity to embark on a path of cognitive mastery and mind management. The invitation is extended with a generous offer, encouraging potential seekers to enroll in this life-altering experience. The promise is clear: a chance to elevate one's consciousness, rediscover their alpha essence, and forge a connection with the authentic self. This podcast isn't just a monologue; it's a call to action, beckoning all those ready for a radical transformation to step into the realm of self-discovery and elevation.
Thu, January 25, 2024
Episode 281: A Final Word On Money
Brothers, gather 'round as I unravel the shackles that bind our minds to the illusion of money. Let me paint a picture where money is but an abstraction, a concept no more tangible than inches or meters. True wealth, my brothers, encompasses the trinity of material resources, energy, and intelligence. Money is a mere measurement, a way to quantify this authentic wealth. I beckon you to ponder the purpose of technology, artificial intelligence, and automation. These marvels were not birthed to enslave us in mindless toil but to emancipate us from the burdens of labor, offering a life adorned with pleasure and leisure. Imagine, my brethren, a world where machines toil ceaselessly, and we, the beneficiaries, bask in the fruits of their labor without the chains of traditional employment. Now, let your minds dance with an alternative economic melody. Envision a government generously issuing credits, currency, or money, tied to the total goods and services orchestrated by our mechanical comrades. In this utopia, taxes become relics of an archaic era, replaced by a system where individuals revel in a minimum income, irrespective of traditional employment. But ah, my brothers, to achieve this utopian vision, we must undergo a profound psychological metamorphosis. We must unshackle ourselves from the 17th-century mindset, for we find ourselves in the 21st century. The purpose of work is not to fester in unnecessary toil but to embrace pleasure, freedom, and the true alpha state of bliss. In my passion, I extend a fervent invitation to my academy, a haven for those seeking liberation from societal conditioning. Here, you will find the keys to unlock the door to a new reality. The world may scoff, but I implore you to recognize that inches, meters, and yes, even money, are but arbitrary measurements. It's time to break free, my brothers, to embrace a life where work is a choice, not a necessity, and where the pursuit of pleasure reigns supreme. Until next week, elevate your alpha, for the truth shall set you free!
Fri, January 19, 2024
Episode 280: Thoughts, Words, and Actions
Brothers, in 2024, relationships are the one topic that we’ll keep revisiting throughout the year because everything is relationships. When we greet each other, we always say, “How are you?” But this question is hollow, a mere formality, and we should rather lead with a question of intention, “How do you feel?” But even then, we feel differently from moment to moment, and in our response, we need to detach from all preconceived models of understanding and consciously examine our body’s state at that moment, and only in that moment. Because consciousness drives our thoughts, words, and actions. And guess what, brothers? Consciousness is energy, energy is conscious; therefore everything we think, say, and do is all energy as well. And energy is real. From the alpha perspective, our goal is to have all these energies in alignment, where they are all the same, where they are all operating on the same frequency. And alignment is simply saying what you think and doing what you say; your thoughts, words, and actions being of the same energy. So we start with thoughts, and you need to be very aware of what you are thinking because it has so much power. After all, everything comes from thought. And because thoughts are energy, they are real, so what we think affects every other thing in our lives and even the lives of those we project our thoughts onto. Then we try to explain our thoughts with the symbols that we call words, and we need to have the same intentionality with the words we use because being of the same energy as our thoughts, they carry the same power. I’m sure you can now see where this is going and how everything I’ve just said pertains to your actions as well. But of the three – thoughts, words, and actions – actions are the least powerful. And that’s not to say that actions don’t affect your experience, they do, but there is no action without thought. So, we need to control our thought energy, we need to improve our cognitive mastery, and then we need to align our words and our actions with the thoughts that allow us to live in the universal truth of oneness and love – because it’s all love, brothers. Until next time, continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, January 12, 2024
Episode 279: Love Your Enemies
Welcome, brothers! Today\'s episode delves deep into the power we have within our minds by exploring the profound impact of our thoughts and energies on the world around us. Our thoughts are not insignificant. They carry immense weight that is capable of shaping the reality we live in. Think about it, brothers. Although we may restrain ourselves from lashing out physically or verbally, monitoring our thoughts remains crucial. Our thoughts emit vibrations that reach others, subtly molding their perceptions and interactions with the world. It is an incredible responsibility; our thoughts have the potential to heal or harm, to connect or divide. This episode sheds light on an experience I had with a tenant. Despite legal issues, I chose a path of understanding and acceptance, opting for a settlement grounded in compassion rather than anger. What followed were dreams that spoke volumes and served as reminders that beneath all actions and words, love persists. It is a potent reminder that love resides within us all, guiding our interactions and decisions. It is a reminder to love your enemies. Remember, brothers, we are not our minds or the stories we tell ourselves. We are the navigators of our consciousness, the alphas capable of transforming anger into love and chaos into harmony. Stay rooted in love, compassion, and understanding to elevate your alpha!
Fri, January 05, 2024
Episode 278: A Confession of Faithlessness
Welcome to 2024, my brothers. The last few episodes of the year were a little heavy, I know, so today, I’m taking it easy on you. Today, it’s all about storytelling. In this episode, you’ll hear my confession of faithlessness. Before I tell you this story, it’s important to reframe the commonly held definition of faith. When people think about faith, they tend to think about religion, believing in things they can’t see, and anthropomorphized deities, which is to say gods with human characteristics. That is not the kind of faith I’m talking about. When I talk about faith, I mean knowing, being, and resonating with the fact that everything is love. Everything is one. Everything is safe and perfect. Now, not only will you learn about the bonafide miracle that served as an important lesson in faith for me, but I’ll also tell you how faithlessness can manifest itself in the outcome of your attachments using my brother’s fear of losing his job as an example. Remember, brothers, the universe wants what you want because what you want is love. You already have everything you think you want. It is already right here. To hear my confession of faithlessness and the story of the miracle that reminded me not to force my attachments into being, that helped me dissolve the illusion of ‘I’, and trust in the indestructible truth of who we really are, be sure to tune in today.
Fri, December 29, 2023
Episode 277: The Karmic Clock – Part 3
Happy holidays, brothers! And that’s to all of you. Whether you’re celebrating Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza, or whatever. Even if you have no religion at all – this is a message of love for all. Keep moving forward in your perfection. Brothers, I want to wrap up the karmic clock because now I think we’re beginning to understand that we all have our own karmic journeys to fulfill, that everyone’s journey has pitfalls, and that eventually, our souls will atone for the karma of every lifetime; even the lives we don’t remember. That is what I want to hone in on today, brothers; the fact that our suffering is not caused by what we’ve done in this lifetime. Our suffering comes from being kicked out of the Garden of Eden, from being separated from God, from being separated from unity and love and oneness. And all we are doing in our 60, 70, 80, 90 years on this planet and every other lifetime that our souls have lived is trying to get back to the source, trying to get back to the perfection of oneness. But we should all be doing more for our brothers who are in need because the best way to slay the demon is with love. We see people tripping and falling all around us – falling into crime, falling into lust, falling into sickness and disease – and our duty is not to kick them while they are down, but rather to extend a helping hand. Because we understand that they are suffering, we know that they feel that separation from oneness, we understand that that their souls have been suffering for more lifetimes than we can imagine since the beginning of time. So brothers, when you’ve become self-aware and when you’re living in enlightenment, use that liberation to help free others as well. And when someone kicks you while you’re down? Pray for them, wish them well, and say “Forgive them for they know not what they do.” Because they don’t, and neither do you, and neither do I, but we are all in this together. We are all one. We are all divine perfection. And we all deserve a whole lot of light and love. Enjoy the holidays, brothers, and continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, December 22, 2023
Episode 276: The Karmic Clock – Part 2
Brothers, today I want to expand on the karmic clock because I really want to go deeper into nonjudgment, go deeper into acceptance, go deeper into love, and go deeper into understanding where people are. And for this, I’ll use an example, because you all know that I’m a man of stories. By now, most of us have heard of Andrew Tate, and most if not all of us have judged him, condemned him, and deemed him as bad or wrong. But here’s the thing that we’re forgetting, brothers: there is no right or wrong; good or bad; pure or evil. Everything exists in perfection, and it is only our perception of the illusion and our conditioning that makes us think that anything could be better than any other thing. The key here is to ask “why”. Why did Andrew do the things he’s been accused of? Why does anyone – thief, molester, murderer – do the things that they do? It’s because of their own suffering. It’s because of the suffering their souls have endured up to the point of their actions. And your body does not atone, brothers, your soul does. Your soul atones during your every reincarnation. We simply cannot understand the suffering that our souls are carrying from previous lifetimes, and all of us are still trying to recover form the original trauma of being kicked for the Garden of Eden. But instead of showing love, we’d rather condemn and shame. Instead of extending grace, we’d rather punish. And the only difference between you and me and Andrew is where we are on our karmic clock. Andrew may be operating between 12:00 and 1:00 while you may be at 6:00 and I may be at 4:00. But it doesn’t mean that one is better than the other, I am better than you, we are better than Andrew – it just means that we are at different points of our karma at this moment. What Andrew goes through at 1:00 will serve him as a lesson when he reaches 3:00. It’s just about understanding where you are on your karmic clock, allowing others to experience their own journeys, and leading with love and acceptance over judgment and condemnation. We are all learning lessons through our actions, and instead of kicking a brother when he trips and falls and is already down, extend a helping hand and show him that we’re all in this together. Because we are all in this together, brothers. We are all one. And when we start moving back to our oneness, back to unity, back to understanding, back to love – that is how we elevate our alpha. Until next time, I love you.
Fri, December 15, 2023
Episode 275: The Karmic Clock
At the beginning of time and indeed at the start of our lives, everything is one in harmonious unity. There is no division, there are no constructs of understanding – everything is as perfect as it should be. Then, as time goes on, we begin to develop our own perspectives, and this is when our karmic clocks begin to tick. You see, brothers, understanding perspective is a spiritual journey. It is freeing yourself from your modals of conditioning and finding the path to not only the perspective of others, but the perspective of all things. Because that’s all we’ve been doing as humans since the day the apple was eaten in the Garden of Eden – trying to find our way back to the perfection of before that first bite. And everyone’s journey is different therefore everyone’s karmic clock is different. If we look at the 12-hour clock face, I may be at 8 o’clock which is moving closer to enlightenment and understanding all perspectives, whereas someone else may be at 4 o’clock and are experimenting with agents of enlightenment like ayahuasca or LSD. But it doesn’t mean that they are wrong and I am right, or vice versa. Because the truth is, there is no right or wrong. Everything exists in perfection and we are merely here to experience it. And when we get closer to 11:59 on our karmic journey, we begin to realize that there is no returning to the divine unity of the first hour. Instead, we start to acknowledge and accept perspective, oneness, and our inherent divinity. And when you let go of what you think you know – when you forget yourself and let your ego die – that is when you remember that everything is already perfect, which is the first step, brother, toward to elevating your alpha.
Fri, December 08, 2023
Episode 274: Warm Hands, Cold Hands
Welcome back, brothers, and here’s the truth: Nothing is good, nothing is bad – everything is perspective. When we come across something that we strongly agree or disagree with, we begin to elevate our opinions as facts and place falsehood on the other viewpoint. But there is no right or wrong in any given situation, it’s all a matter of perspective, and perspective comes from the viewpoint of our conditioning. And that’s how conflict arises, right? It’s funny, I was meditating in the park and I was distracted after overhearing this couple who were nearby. The pair were obviously very much in love; very connected, but then they began to have a bewildering argument about whose hands are the right temperature. The man insisted that his hands were the right temperature and that her hands were cold because she had them out in the open air. The woman, of course, said that her hands were the right temperature and that his hands were only warm because he had them in his pockets. You see, something so simple can cause a divide in an otherwise happy relationship, and all because we are too afraid to accept another’s perspective above our own. We see this play out in political divides; disagreements that lead to war; the sports teams we support; and even in our food and entertainment preferences. But I can’t tell you that your taste buds are wrong and you can’t tell me what music to listen to, because it’s all a matter of where your viewpoint has been established from. Brothers, this episode is a just prologue; a reminder of certain themes and terminologies that will be prevalent in the next month of the Alpha Male Coach Podcast. I won’t tell you what we’ll be discussing in the coming episodes, that will remain a surprise, but I do want to come back to and discuss the fallacy of coincidence. You see, the idea that every action has an opposite but equal reaction is flawed. It may be true in a mathematical context, but it does not engage with the fact that every moment is the cause of every other moment. And this had nothing to do with time, brothers, because time itself is a fallacy. This is about energy and understanding that whatever is happening is a result of what has already energetically occurred here; what has already taken place in the spirit. And the conflict comes when we try to make sense of it and when we try to find a reason. But the reason doesn’t matter, brother. All we need is to be grateful for each and every moment, no matter how good or bad we perceive it to be. And I know this may be hard to understand now but as we get through our December episodes, I promise you, the picture will become much clearer. And on that cliffhanger – continue to elevate your alpha, my brother. I love you.
Fri, December 01, 2023
Episode 273: Reproduction Of Life
In today’s episode, I continue our “Of Life” series by focusing on the reproduction of life. Now, when I talk about reproduction, brothers, I do not mean biological reproduction. Instead, I am talking about reproducing another being, or life. A good reproduction can encompass many things, like a painting, photograph, or recording. In order to understand the reproduction of life we need to revisit the earliest examples of art, which dates back thousands of years to prehistoric cave paintings. These people weren’t called artists, but iconographers, because they were creating icons of things, not images or copies. Their purpose was to trigger a sense of divinity or spirituality. Next, we take a big leap, brothers, to the Renaissance, when artistry and representation changed dramatically. Portraits, sculptures and other works of visual art were made to be incredibly lifelike and realistic. This realism took yet another leap with photography, ever since which human representation has become evermore realistic. But with photography, brothers, we’re not fully capturing the essence of a person, just one aspect. We\'re not truly getting what it\'s like to be around or with or have an experience with this person. Which is where film and cinema enter the picture. And film, of course, has also evolved over time to become more fully representational, incorporating sound, better picture quality and even three-dimensional experiences. Finally, these images entered our living rooms with the invention of television. But even as we pursue ever more realistic reproductions, like holograms, we can never truly recreate something fully. It’s just energy and electricity, brothers. It’s ultimately an illusion. The true question is ‘What does this reveal about our reality?’ Join me today brothers, for a deep dive into the many facets of reproduction, and the deeply surprising possibilities of what our reality could be!
Fri, November 24, 2023
Episode 272: Letting Go
Hello brothers, it’s Kevin Aillaud, your host here of The Alpha Male Coach Podcast. Before I get started, I want to dive into something with you today that\'s a yearly tradition for me, Black Friday sales! All my courses are discounted from now till the end of the year. This isn\'t just about sales; it\'s about answering that inner call you\'ve been feeling. We are conditioned to fear spending and to think we can\'t afford growth. That scarcity mindset. It\'s holding you back. And that\'s why I drop these prices once a year. It\'s about breaking barriers. So, if you\'ve been eyeing the courses, now is the time. It\'s not just about discounts; it\'s about answering that inner pull toward growth that we often ignore. Now for today’s topic. I will be delving into the concept of \"letting go” or “detachment.” When I say that, I know it stirs up different thoughts. But letting go isn\'t about loss or becoming someone else. It\'s a shift in perception, a shift in consciousness. I am going to tell you stories about letting go without giving up, without becoming a different person. These stories come from my teacher, Ram Dass, who spent time with Ramana Maharshi in India. These stories aren\'t just miraculous; they challenge our perception of power and conflict. For example, there are people who could end wars but choose not to because conflict is part of a larger harmony—a karmic function. And this idea challenges our notions of what should and shouldn\'t be done. Brothers, join me as I explore the concept of true detachment and how it can help elevate your alpha!
Fri, November 17, 2023
Episode 271: TV of Life (a.k.a Who Am I? Part 2) – Part 2
We begin part two of our TV of life with a deep dive into the astral. This is channel five, the channel of human design and energy. It is your star sign – your connection to astrological energy. As we flip through the channels, things become less dense. That’s to say that we move away from form and the physical and closer to what we cannot see – closer to the truth. Channel six is the mirror channel, and this is where the illusion disappears. This is where you begin to recognize that everything is one. You and I are one. The tree and I are one. That squirrel and I are one. We are all one. And I’m not talking about building relationships and making friends, right? That happens in channels two and three because it is all about ego. All relationships are formed through ego because that is when you accept the stories that the other tells you about themselves. But channel six is not accepting or accommodating anyone – it is about being aware of the universal truth that everything that exists is one – and this is where souls are awakened, this is where miracles take place. Which brings us to channel seven: The void; the nothingness. You see, channel seven is who you really are. Every other channel is a rental. You are renting your mind and your body. They are still yours, it is still you, but when your body dies, you give everything back and all that remains is the nothingness you are and always will be. You are not your thoughts; your thoughts are helping you to create and shape reality. You are not your emotions; you merely experience them. You are not the identity of your name or your star sign; those are borrowed tools to help you navigate this realm we call Earth. You need to move away from the idea of who you think you are and detach yourself from the channels you are stuck on. This is cognitive mastery, brothers, this is emotional ownership. And this is how you elevate your alpha.
Fri, November 10, 2023
Episode 270: TV of Life (a.k.a Who Am I? Part 2) - Part 1
Understanding ourselves is the first step to true awakening, and brothers, that is why I spend so much time on it. Today, I will be expanding on the “Who Am I?” episode to bring you another analogy that hopefully explains this rollercoaster of life: the television. You see, TVs, much like radios, connect to different frequencies to tune you into your channel of choice. Obviously, this is before the internet and Netflix and streaming and content on-demand, but rather a time when you had to pick up the remote and change the channel to something you’d enjoy more than what you were watching. So in life, we tune into different channels, different energies, and different frequencies, and those become life’s focus in that moment. There are seven channels to life and the first is that of form which is closely followed by the second channel – the perception of our awareness related to that form. And our individual channels are all different. In channel two, I may be focused on my height and my crooked nose and how that may hinder me from finding a sexual partner. But my friend’s channel two is all about aging and how she can’t stand her wrinkles. Both are still about our perception of form but how we relate to and engage with it is completely different. Channel three is ego and identity and how we’re attached to the identity that’s been explained to us from birth. But you see, brothers, these are all models of alignment, models that we do need to break free from in our quest for true awakening. And the same is true of channel four – our emotions – because we often believe that we are what we feel and what we think. And that, brothers, is how we get stuck. And when we get stuck, the real work begins. Whatever channel we are stuck on is an opportunity to switch frequencies and that change can only come from within. No one else has the remote for your life, so it’s up to you to decide which frequencies you tap into. There’s so much more to share about this TV we call life so be sure to tune into part two. Until then, and with love, continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, November 03, 2023
Episode 269: Causality is a Fallacy
Today, we’re going to talk about causality as a fallacy. It is an illusion to think that the present is the effect of the past. It’s an erroneous belief that the future is the effect of the present. Time is not something we can understand intellectually. What if the past was a result of the present, and the present a result of the future? Brothers, in reality, there are no separate events. When does an event truly begin? There are many different theories. Separate things and broken time are illusions many of us buy into. Nature is in a constant state of movement. There are no nouns in nature. Only verbs. Everything is in motion. There is no steady state. In the world of form, everything affects everything else. But to say that what you do today will be the effect or cause of what happens in the evening, is really to think that you are on a ship in the ocean. Right behind the ship, there’s a big wake, and as the ship gets further away from it, the wake gets wider and wider, telling us where the ship has been. But as we go further into the past, we always reach a point where all traces of the past fade away. Where the ship has been does not determine where the ship is going. The present begins in the present, it does not begin in the past, and if you insist on being determined by the past, you can play that game, but the fact of the matter is it all starts right now. You can use the past to explain the present, but that’s really just delaying a true explanation. The mind is so locked into time because everything comes from nothingness. All of life emerges from nothing. An organism-environment field is really the real me. That is all the things that happen to me, and that is the sense of karma. That is a sense of action, a sense of spontaneous action. It’s your mind that’s locked in time. Your body is always here. Get into the habit of thought in terms of which you don’t define yourself in terms of what you’ve done before but in terms of what you’re doing now. That is freedom, brother.
Fri, October 27, 2023
Episode 268: What Is Karma?
Words are only as valuable as the meanings we bestow upon them. If I say “tree”, we may have a similar idea of what a tree is, but you could be envisioning an oak tree whereas I am seeing a tree in a tropical forest, and someone else may bring a baobab tree to the forefront of their mind. We can have multiple understandings of the very same word, and few words are as misunderstood as karma. Many believe that karma is an action of cause and effect: I do something good, so something good will happen to me in the future, and vice versa. But this notion of karma barely scratches the surface, as karma in its entirety is our attachment to the energies of life. You see, everything in life is cyclical. Seeds grow into trees that produce flowers and fruit that contain seeds, and when the seeds of the flower and fruit meet the ground again, they grow into a new tree. We can see this cycle in everything in life. Why, then, do we separate human existence from this cycle? Why do we only see human life as linear with a beginning and an end? To answer these questions, we must first explore reincarnation. We need to accept reincarnation as a universal truth because when we die, we are released from consciousness and awareness. There is nothing. To be alive is to be aware, so to die is to be unaware. But just because we can’t remember doesn’t mean that we didn’t travel from one life to the next; we simply cannot speak on something that we were not aware to experience. What does that have to do with karma? Well brothers, if we follow the mirror principle and the inversion principle then we know that we are here for ourselves and that what we witness in others is their own karmic release, not ours. That means that only we can control what we give to the world and what we choose to accept from it. Karma is what we choose to attach ourselves to in this world. It’s the shiny things that keep us trapped in cycles of lust, greed, and envy. When we reincarnate, we do not receive blessings from all the good we’ve done. Rather, we reattach ourselves to what held our attention in our previous life. Ultimately, the only way to release karmic tension is internally. Today, you’ll learn how to identify and acknowledge your karmic attachments and begin the work of release and surrender; to merge back with the source of the divine being that you are, accept that you cannot change anything, and embrace it, then release it and let it go. When you heal yourself, you heal the world. Until next time, brothers, I love you.
Fri, October 20, 2023
Episode 267: Attachment
In the candle of life, our fire of existence can be found in the flame that never dies. That is our oneness – the spark of life that can be seen in absolutely everything on Earth. It is our connection to the universal truth and confirmation of our inherent divinity. Now, problems arise when we forget our divinity and instead choose to focus and fixate on things that do not matter. This is attachment – attachment to form (like the candle), attachment to the illusion of the matrix of existence, and attachment to the outcomes that we simply cannot control. This is karma, and karma is the barrier to love; it’s the barrier to experiencing the truth; and it’s the reason why we are disconnected from our divinity. There are five hindrances of karma: desire, anger, resentment, laziness, and doubt. And we as humans are here on Earth to release these karmic energies but instead, we’ve chosen to hold onto them. We hold onto lust and gluttony; we cling to resentment; we immerse ourselves in doubt, and all because we are attached to the outcome. We believe that if I do this X, then Y will happen. If my wife complains of back pain and I give her a massage, then I will relieve her pain. But we need to let go of the outcome, and the way we do that is by remaining present. We need to first recognize that we are human and embrace our humanity. Then, we need to figure out why we are losing our presence at any given moment and bring ourselves back to that moment. Instead of focusing on the outcomes of the massage, be fully present in the experience of the massage itself. You see, brothers, by being fully aware of and present in each moment, we allow what is to be, with the understanding that we cannot change what always has been. This is how we burn the impurities of karma and chip away at the marble to reveal the David that always was. So brothers, that’s the practice: whenever you lose focus, ask yourself why, and bring yourself back to that moment. Developing this habit will definitely get you one step closer to elevating your alpha.
Fri, October 13, 2023
Episode 266: Candle Of Life
As you know, brothers, I love a good story. Stories are the way in which we process the world around us, and I hope that today’s story is jarring for you. Not jarring as in uncomfortable or unpleasant, but jarring you into awakening; jolting you into action. Because when we are stagnant, we are stuck. And when we are stuck, we cannot live in abundance. Today, I want to show you what life is through the analogy of the candle: the candle of life. You see, there are three spheres or three planes of existence: the egoic (physical) plane, the soul plane, and the plane of full awareness; of oneness. Now, the candle itself, that’s the physical, that’s the ego, that the thing that wants to be in control. The wick? Well, that’s the soul; that’s your life’s fuel and purpose and strength. The flame is that third plane, the plane of full understanding, oneness, and surrender. Here’s the problem, brothers. We are so caught up with being the candle and trying to be the best candle, the thinnest candle, the happiest candle, or the most spiritual candle, that we forget that none of that really matters. That is all background noise. The only thing that matters is the eternal flame burning bright. That is life. Everything is the flame. You are the flame. I am the flame. The birds, bees, trees, and mountains are all the flame. This is what it means to understand the universal truth that we are everything and everything is us. When the candle (your body) comes to an end, there’s nothing to fear because the flame burns on and is eternal. We suffer when become attached to the form, when we are stagnant in our understanding of oneness. The call today, brothers, is to unburden yourself from the constraints of the candle. You are so much more than wax! You are the wick that sustains. You are the fire that gives life. We are all one fire and that fire cannot die, so there is no need to fear what happens beyond the body of wax because, just like the flame, you will live on.
Fri, October 06, 2023
Episode 265: Stuck Energy
Welcome back, my brothers, to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast. Today, I have an episode that\'s going to take your mindset to the next level. I am diving deep into the fascinating concept of \"stuck energy.\" Have you ever found yourself unable to let go of past events, replaying them endlessly in your mind? In this episode, we\'re going to explore the concept of rumination and how it holds us back from experiencing life in the present moment. I\'ll provide you with actionable strategies to break free from this cycle and release that stagnant energy, allowing you to embrace the here and now fully. We\'ll also uncover the thought-provoking habit of creating problems just so we can be the ones to solve them. It\'s a pattern that many of us unknowingly fall into and I\'m here to help you break the cycle. Join me for this transformative journey, where you\'ll gain insights into the cognitive mastery and alpha mindset required to become the confident, influential man you aspire to be. It\'s time to elevate your alpha and unleash your full potential!
Fri, September 29, 2023
Episode 264: Who Am I?
Brothers, as Columbia is fully booked, many of you have been asking about the next retreat and when registrations will open for that one. Well, I can tell you, brothers, that the next retreat will be in mid-2024, and registrations will open early next year. But you can still visit awakentheoneretreats.com and your registration will automatically be transferred to next year’s retreat. Until next year, this is me, Kevin Aillaud, signing off from all retreat talk. Today, we are getting philosophical as we dive into another thought experiment. And these esoteric explorations are just like listening to music because it’s the silence in between that’s the loudest, not the musical note itself – it’s the spaces in between our layers of existence that draw us closer to that universal truth of oneness. When someone asks, “Who are you?” what do you say? You could say that your name is Kevin, and that is true. You may say that you’re a Taurus, or that you’re feeling nervous about something, or that you are the aching leg that’s been bothering you for the past month – all of those are accurate definitions of who you are because you are everything. You are your body, you are your star sign, you are your name, you are the summation of your bodily experiences, and you are your emotions and feelings. But you don’t remember this because you’ve chosen to forget your inherent divinity, because seeking answers is more thrilling than knowing the truth. So when we project our thoughts and feelings onto others, we forget that we’re doing this because we see ourselves in them, which is only natural because, after all, we are all one. So the work then, brothers, is to first realize that the answer to the question, “Who am I?” is simply: everything. And once you recognize that everything is layered, you can then begin the work of peeling back the layers and playing around with them, and being responsive instead of reactive as you unpack the essence of your existence. Because you are breath itself, you are life itself, and you are yet another step closer toward elevating your alpha.
Fri, September 22, 2023
Episode 263: Abundance Is Change
First, I\'ve got a quick update to share. Our upcoming retreat is officially closed, and it\'s amazing to see the next one filling up fast too. I truly appreciate the overwhelming response. Now, let\'s get to the heart of today\'s discussion: abundance. In today\'s episode, I am diving deep into a topic that\'s been heavily misunderstood, especially in the Western world: abundance. This word has been misinterpreted in many ways, particularly in the West. When you look it up, you often find definitions like \"a copious quantity of something\" or \"having a plentifulness of the good things in life.” But what if I told you that abundance isn\'t about hoarding or accumulating more of the good stuff? It\'s about change. It\'s about flowing with life\'s constant fluctuations, just like your breath. You can\'t hoard air; you breathe it in and release it. Abundance is that constant state of change, whether it\'s in your thoughts, emotions, actions, or even your physical health. In this episode, I explore the true essence of abundance and why understanding it from a flow perspective can profoundly impact your life. I’ll discuss how it applies to money, relationships, and health, and why trying to control or fix these aspects can lead to suffering. So, join me as we unravel the mysteries of abundance and learn how to live in harmony with the ever-changing dance of life. It\'s a journey worth taking, my brothers!
Fri, September 15, 2023
Episode 262: Better
There are just a few spots remaining for the upcoming Awaken the One retreat, and I want to offer it to you, brothers. It’s exciting to do this retreat in particular with you, brothers, since it’s an initiation process where you can invest more deeply in who you are, rather than just going through the motions. This life-changing journey to Columbia kicks off on October 8th, so be sure to book now so that you have ample time to prepare before we set off. Today’s episode is all about betterment, brothers. Now, I\'m not suggesting that you need to change or be better. This idea of being \"better\" or wanting \"more\" is relative. In fact, I believe that the entire notion of \"betterment\" is just a marketing ploy, an illusion, a Ponzi scheme. Everywhere you go, you have advertising designed specifically to make you feel like you need to be better. And I’m not saying you shouldn’t try to do things that might enrich you, what I’m saying is that you should ask yourself “Why?” Because what does it even mean to be better? There’s no level of accumulation or betterment that can transform you into a concept that exists only in the realm of illusion. Brother, striving to be \'better\' is futile because the \'you\' we often refer to is just a narrative. If you aim to improve within that narrative, you\'re simply enhancing the story. In reality, by telling yourself you\'re inadequate, you\'re complicating your story, turning life into a game of constant betterment. It\'s a choice you\'ve made about life. But what if we could choose simplicity over complexity? Acceptance over betterment? Join me as we unravel these thoughts and embark on a journey of deeper understanding. And don\'t forget about our upcoming retreat – it could be the transformative experience you\'ve been searching for. Listen now, and let\'s continue to elevate our alpha, together!
Fri, September 08, 2023
Episode 261: Casting A Net
The cutoff for the forthcoming Awaken the One retreat is fast approaching and there are only a few spots left! September 11th marks the final day for sign-ups, ensuring you have ample time to plan your journey to Columbia on October 8th. With limited slots left and not much time to go, move fast! I eagerly await our collective transformation. Last week I began exploring the concept of casting a net as an analogy for what you allow to impact and govern your thoughts, and by extension, your life. You have the choice of which coastlines to throw your line from, the type of fish you aim to reel in, their quantity and size, and it\'s up to you to adjust your net to grow as an individual. Today, I delve deeper into this concept, starting with quantum physics. And specifically the mathematical side of it, because that’s the real root of quantum sciences. What quantum physics shows us mathematically is that at the most fundamental level of everything, what we find is unity and oneness. And that\'s the beauty of it all, brothers. We are interconnected with each other, not just on a physical and atomic level, but on an energy level that we can’t even begin to understand, because we come into consciousness through the human realm of separation. Now, when it comes to casting our nets we are doing so in a vast and endless ocean. The sea is undetermined; it is pure potential. It can literally be anything. It is our thoughts, the nets, that limit what the ocean — and by extension, the world — can be. The fish is what we draw back, and what we get from our thoughts and beliefs, the way we experience the world. That’s where we experience the sea. But we don\'t experience the sea in all its infinite potential. We only experience the sea based on what we pull out of it in our nets. And we make assumptions about the sea, based on what we get from our nets. Limiting ourselves in the process. But we can learn to change this! So join me today brothers as we embark on this journey where we learn to change our thoughts, and as a result, our reality too!
Fri, September 01, 2023
Episode 260: The Universe Is Determined By Consciousness
Brothers! The registration deadline for the upcoming Awaken the One retreat is fast approaching. September 11th is the last time you can register for the retreat, because I want to give you all a fair chance of planning your trip to Columbia on October 8th. There are only a few spots remaining and two weeks left to register, so act quickly – I can’t wait to transform with you. Now brothers, today I will give you a truth that will blow your mind: The universe is not discovered by consciousness; the universe and everything in it is determined by consciousness. That means that nothing exists until we observe it; until we make it real through consciousness. Sounds fantastical, I know, but quantum physics has actually proved this recently. And it’s only crazy if you don’t fully understand the universal truth of oneness. You see, two main mythologies govern our lives. One, that there is a higher power looking over us who created everything and is controlling everything, and two, there is no higher power, and everything that exists is only what we can see and touch. But I think that both these views are flawed because they both ignore that it is, in fact, our thoughts and intentions that determine reality. Answers only come from within. Science, religion, education, sports, government systems – they’re all trying to achieve the same goal, which is to give us a better understanding of life, of the human condition. But they do not give us understanding, religion and science do not give us peace, they are merely a reflection of our own inner duality. But we’ve been coached in these models by the education system and by our parents to believe either this or that; that there is only up or down, left or right. But as perfect, infinite beings, we know that there are a million ways to go up and a trillion ways to go sideways, so the only real fundamental truth is that we can only fully understand the world internally, through mental and emotional self-management. It’s like casting nets, brothers. Let’s say that everything in the world is a type of fish – science, religion, the music that we listen to; it’s all fish and we cast out nets to pool together what we like, while removing what we don’t. And we will cast the same sized net, using the same technique, in the very same waters every day, and yet we expect the seas to change. But brother, you are holding the next. You can determine which shores to cast from, which fish you want to catch, how many or how little, how big or how small – you are in control of adjusting your net in order to evolve as a being. The net does not exist without you; your very thoughts brought it into existence. You are magical. So, what changes will you be making to your net today in order to elevate your alpha?
Fri, August 25, 2023
Episode 259: Spiritual vs Cellular Consciousness
It’s the six-week countdown to the Awaken The One retreat happening this October in Santa Marta, Columbia. Brothers, this is a transformational retreat aimed at awakening the one in you; the Neo in you, if you will. And I guarantee that in one week, you will leave the retreat as a completely different person from when you arrived. And life is all about transformation, which can only come once we’ve been made aware of the universal truth, and once we understand the matrix in which we exist. And we tend to lean on science as the truth, but science is not the truth, science is merely a guiding tool to reveal the truth that always was – the truth that is within. You see, brothers, the entire human body is a compilation of cells. Cells have their own consciousness because they need to know how to grow, when to heal, and when to become anew. But our cells carry memories and emotions of the past and try in all their power to revert to what they know and what is comfortable. This cellular consciousness is the beta state. It is looking at the past and the future whilst ignoring what matters most – the here and now, the present. Now, when we begin to tap into our spiritual consciousness, that’s when we are moving toward the alpha state. This is being aware of the universal truth and accepting your divine oneness. It is living in the present in every single moment. It is striving for potential over position. It’s moving energy rather than focusing on the matter of identity. All this comes down to inner self-management, brothers because the truth has always been, and always will be, within you. Until October my brothers, continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, August 18, 2023
Episode 258: Let\'s Carve A Spoon
Brothers, October is fast approaching and I’d really love to see you in Cartagena, Santa Marta. The Awaken the One Retreat is exactly that: an awakening; an awakening of consciousness, and it’s bound to be a life-changing experience, regardless if this is your first retreat or your 100th! There are only 12 spots and some have already been taken, so be sure to sign up as soon as you can. I can’t wait to be there with you. Now brothers, I recently went on a camping trip with a friend and it opened up new ideas about manifestation and creation. Because we are inherently creators. We manifest through our thoughts and intentions to create something that wasn’t anything before. Shortly after arriving at camp, my friend said, “Let’s carve spoons.” Bothers, I have never carved a spoon in my life, but this experience brought up six very important life lessons that I just had to share with you today. Firstly, say yes. Try something new. Trust the universe to provide you with good things and have the courage to embrace any new process. And once your intention is clear, start! Manifestation needs thought but creation requires action. The next three lessons go hand-in-hand: Be present in each and every moment, adapt to whatever life may throw at you, and rid yourself of all distractions. Clarity and focus only come with being present, change is one of life’s only constants so be ready for it, and out in the forest with no WiFi or phone signal, it was easy for me not to be distracted, but what can you do for yourself to ensure that you’re in a space optimized for creation? Lastly, brothers, nothing is ever complete, nothing is ever perfect. But whoa, flip that, because (insert the mystery of duality) it is always complete! I could’ve spent a lifetime chipping away at the spoon, but it would be no more perfect than it was after the 18 hours that I did spend on it. So embrace imperfection and understand that once (you think) you’ve mastered something, there’s always still more to learn. Keep creating, my brothers, as you continue to elevate your alpha. Once you shift your frequency, brother, once you change your vibration, it\'s not a matter of doing. You are already traveling.
Fri, August 11, 2023
Episode 257: Multiverse Travel
Brothers, welcome back to the Alpha Male Podcast as today, I take you back to being versus doing; energy versus matter. Because brothers, that’s the basis of everything we do, right? It’s our awakening to the universal truth that our thoughts inform our actions which in turn create our results. It’s shifting our vibrational frequencies to enlightenment; it’s energy moving matter. Now, brothers, we don’t see ourselves as interdimensional travelers because we are rooted in the third dimension. We are grounded in the matrix of our bodily experience, forgetting that we are, in fact, beings of light who are capable of reincarnating into a new dimension at any given moment. Because we are inherently reality-creating machines – we birth things into existence with our thoughts. And that is because of our consciousness; it is because of our capacity to lead with intention; it’s because of the gift of choice. You see, scientists embarked on an experiment to try and unpack the concept of randomness. They created a random effect generator – a machine wired to produce random sequences – and discovered that from the completely randomly generated results of 50-50, a person would lean more toward one side when given a particular intention. Isn’t that wild, brothers, that objective test results can be swayed by the whispers of one’s mind! And that is what it means to be a multiverse traveler. You are already an interdimensional being, but fear and doubt are holding you back from unleashing your full potential. That is why we are going to Columbia in October: to help you see the matrix, to help you realize that we are so much more than the third dimension. And when you tap into the universal truth, when you are awakened to the model of alignment and are living with intention, then you will be well on your way toward elevating your alpha. Once you shift your frequency, brother, once you change your vibration, it\'s not a matter of doing. You are already traveling.
Fri, August 04, 2023
Episode 256: Daily Reincarnation
Brothers, today I want to talk to you about change, because that is what the Elevated Alpha Society Spartan Academy is all about, that is what the upcoming Awaken the One Retreat is all about, and change is what life is all about. Let’s first begin with understanding what power is. Many of us think that power comes with some sort of elevated position and status; “I am a doctor, therefore I have power.” But power is far greater than a mere rise in societal rank, power is the ability to adapt to change and create change with intention. We all have this illusion that we are linear beings and that life plays out in a straight line from birth to death. But if you believe in the universal truth of oneness, then you’d know that this is not the case. We cannot be dimensional beings while being trapped in living on the linear because in the universal truth, in oneness, there is no time, time isn’t real, everything exists all at once. You see, every time you make a choice, you are not affecting a linear narrative of right now. Instead, you are creating another branch-reality of your being in the unlimited potential that is the multiverse in which we exist. And that is how we reincarnate daily, brothers. It’s not only through death (although, you can consider each choice as a mini-death of its own), it’s by stepping into new dimensions and creating change with intention. There’s nothing wrong with reincarnating who we were the day before, who we were before the choice. But if you seek change, then you must be reborn anew with each new day, with every choice, and at any given opportunity because this is how you expand your consciousness. By keeping your mind fixed on the choice you made, on the new version of yourself that you birthed into a new dimension. Don’t be afraid to be uncomfortable, brothers. All things take time. So when you make the change, the choice, be intentional, and give your body time to adjust to this new version of you, this changed you. Lean into that discomfort and watch your life transform right before your eyes.
Fri, July 28, 2023
Episode 255: Celebrate – Part 2
Welcome back, brothers. Your timing is perfect, because today, I am going to rattle the very foundation of your core beliefs. Today, we are diving deep into the conceptual as I challenge you on what you believe to be possible and true, for you to break free from whatever limitations you’ve placed on the expansion of your consciousness. By now, you already know about the nature of duality. I want to focus on the separation of religion and science, theism and atheism, and how they relate to the function of our consciousness. We’ve been conditioned by two seemingly opposing yet highly similar explanations of what the world is. As you’ll discover, theists and atheists are two sides of the same coin; they are two arsonists lighting fires in different rooms and then asking each other who burnt the house down. Religion and science both enforce the same belief: that you have to sacrifice and suffer now in order to experience joy and celebrate in the future. Neither of these perspectives makes room for celebration in the present. Instead, they rob you of your experience of the now, the divine and immutable present moment. This is how we’ve been conditioned. These are the models in which we exist but consciousness is not meant to merely affirm our status at the top of the food chain. Consciousness is there to increase our capacity for gratitude, for it is only through gratitude that you have a clear path to heaven, whatever heaven means to you. Gratitude is the gateway to celebration as we begin to accept the safety of oneness. Brothers, I’m suggesting a complete reset. A complete system reboot and resetting of the canvas. A complete wash to start over and redefine our version of reality. We need to let go of everything we think we know and surrender to the mystery and safety of the unknown. Each day you wake up, you need to reincarnate instead of constantly reliving who you were yesterday. A great way to start this journey of enlightenment is by joining our upcoming men’s retreat in Columbia this October, so keep looking out for more details. Until then, my brothers, continue to elevate your alpha!
Fri, July 21, 2023
Episode 254: Consciousness Expansion: Part 2
Our focus today, my brothers, is back on the mind and its power, as we dive into the second part of the theme of consciousness expansion! This all-important causal part of our existence, the inner world, is what determines our outer world, and it is only with this expansion that we can bring about change, and make incremental progress towards events that we know will happen. In today\'s episode, I will be sharing some of the experiments that ground this lesson, and showing how we can use this as the anchor to transcend fear, depression, control, anxiety, guilt, and more! Most of us experience life primarily through our five senses, but expanded consciousness is so much more than that! It enables us to live better and longer and is so much greater than all the other abilities we might have. Expanding the mind gives us so much power, brothers, to move beyond limiting factors, and escape the situations and states we do not actually choose for ourselves. If we want to experience real change, we have to start with our consciousness, because we are always creating, whether we are aware of it or not! So if you want to take charge of this process and your reality, and wake up from victimization and reaction, this lesson cannot be ignored. For so much of humanity ignorance is a prison, and something that we create for ourselves, join me today to break this cycle and begin this empowering process.
Fri, July 14, 2023
Episode 253: Stop Trying, Start Trusting: Part 2
Brothers, there is no time, time is one, and your future self already exists. When you seek the unknown, it is imperative that you let go of all of the beliefs that keep you stuck in the prison of safety and familiarity. Is it going to agitate you? Will it be uncomfortable? Yes. But then, you will see and will awaken to the truth and truly be astounded. You will move mountains with your new perception of the world because you have a closer connection to the truth of what is, and have a direct link to the source. Today we dive deeper into part two of the Stop Trying, Start Trusting series. As you may remember, I opened up a very conceptual, esoteric, spiritual, and perhaps energetic concept which includes a large shift in consciousness from trying to trust. Brothers, there are two things that stand out. First, that trying is matter moving matter, and second, consciousness, and manifestation through consciousness is a large reason for our being. Today, we’re going to build a foundation for the coming generations. A foundation of how energy moves matter. Now is the season for you to begin to awaken your intention for the Men’s Retreat, from the 8th-14th of October in Colombia. I promised you all that I\'d get around to completing all part two\'s of every series, so next week is part two of \"Consciousness Expansion.\" Until then, brothers, continue to elevate your Alpha.
Fri, July 07, 2023
Episode 252: The Famous Double Slit Experiment Explained
Welcome back to the show, brothers. Today, I’m going to explain the universal truth from a different perspective, by showing you how the famous double slit experiment is proof of the universal truth of oneness. Now, to understand the experiment, you need to first understand the distinction between particles and waves, and how they work differently. A particle is simply something that holds its shape; it is matter, so anything like a marble or tennis ball or pebble. On the flip side, waves are infinite energy and cannot be seen by the human eye. The scientists conducting the double slit experiment shot electrons through single, then double slits and monitored their patterns of behavior from launch, passing through the slit, and when hitting the back wall. What they noticed is that when given one option, the electron remained a particle to pass through the slit. But when presented with multiple possibilities, the electron disappeared and instead became a wave; an infinite wave of potential. The electrons also changed their behavior after being observed. What does this mean for us, brothers? Well, firstly, it teaches us that anything is possible as we exist within a limitless wave of potential. Secondly, this experiment proves our oneness and confirms that we all have a collective consciousness. The electrons changing their behavior is an indication that even matter is conscious, and we are all of the same matter, therefore we are all of the same consciousness, and understanding this universal truth is the foundation required for elevating your alpha!
Fri, June 30, 2023
Episode 251: Stop Trying, Start Trusting: Part 1
The world we live in today is full of time-consuming projects that don’t take us anywhere. That is because we’re going about it all wrong. We’re trying and trying and trying to no avail when all we really need to do is trust. You see, brothers, change and manifestation are the same because we consciously manifest change. Whenever we want to change our behavior, experience, or circumstance, we do so consciously. We manifest the change. That is because we are creators, brothers. We were created by the creator to create. And our creations create as well. This is the fractal of existence. Now, there are two ways that we can create: by matter moving matter or by energy moving matter. Matter moving matter is the one that takes time. It’s the one that relies on something physical in order to exist and its process is slow and ineffective. This is what I call trying to no avail. This is rolling the rock up the hill. This is the unconscious way. This is the old way. This is the beta condition. What we want is energy moving matter, because this is the alpha way. It is using meditation to regrow your thyroid gland without any medical intervention! It is using meditation to reduce the crime rate in a city plagued by violence. It is knowing and feeling your future self and trusting in the universal truth to help you along your path. Because the truth is that you are the creator; you are the all-oneness. And when you practice connecting to energy and feeling in your future self, you will be one step closer to elevating your alpha.
Fri, June 23, 2023
Episode 250: Consciousness Expansion: Part 1
There are many challenges that are posed by the use of language and symbols, and today brothers, I want to take this opportunity to do a little bit of redefinition. If we want to better understand things we need to constantly be refining and clarifying the terms we use to communicate them. Clear communication has always been one of my main goals with this podcast, as it is essential in the expansion and awakening of the mind. We have often spoken about the spiritual man and the spiritual lifestyle, and although this is just a story that we use, it is completely necessary in order to share powerful ideas. Spirituality and consciousness have a strong relationship and even some overlap, but they are also distinct. I want to remind you, brothers, that consciousness is the foundation for everything, and that the alpha man is always conscious! Stories enable us create pictures in the mind and follow the arc and content of those ideas. This is consciousness expansion! Tuning in, you will be hearing about how all of these pieces fit together, and how energy and conscious complement each other and relate to the divine. Along the way there are reiterations of action\'s neutral value, reality\'s illusions, and why the lover and loved are both love, created in order to experience itself!
Fri, June 16, 2023
Episode 249: The Greatest Alpha Move Ever
Today we will be talking about what is probably the greatest alpha move ever! This is the foundation of spiritual development. By understanding this one principle and utilizing this tool, skill, or truth, you become invincible and invincibility is a part of oneness, part of being in the alpha state. And it\'s as simple as this: not getting offended. In this episode, brothers, I talk about how words are representatives of ideas, and ideas cannot hurt you. Only manifestations of ideas can hurt you. We can be so offended by words, and this offense leads to division, which ultimately leads to greater conflict. I explain how this relates to the duality of being with regard to the victim mentality of being offended or the service mentality, or the higher vibration of recognizing that it isn’t about you at all. I also discuss how this relates to the inversion and mirror principles and how, by utilizing these principles, we can move up the wave, raise our vibrations, and reach our true selves and the alpha state. I shed light on how the identity, or the ego, is not real. It’s a construct and therefore there is no actual real entity that can be offended. I then give practical steps of how you can go into a relationship with intention where you can overcome your beta condition and your victim mentality. I also remind you, brothers, that you can only learn. You can’t fail. Everything is unfolding with perfection, unity, and universal love.
Fri, June 09, 2023
Episode 248: Making the Shift
The journey of this podcast is all about the shift that happens when you embrace cognitive mastery. There’s only one way, and that’s within. Anyone who tells you differently is sharing their way with you, which is never going to work. Although I share my way with you in this podcast, I’m really pointing you toward finding your own way as an individual. It must come from within. Brothers, words come from the mind. They come from the experience of separation and judgment. In the military, we say, the map is not the terrain. In the same way, words will never be enough. We need to have a direct experience of ourselves as the source, as the divinity itself. The key is to use words for what they are useful for, but not overvalue them. The real cannot die, and the unreal has never lived. Meditate on that, brother. The energy of you cannot die. It has always existed. As a species, we might deny it, but it will never deny us. There is one dreamer dreaming the landscape of all that we are. This analogy can help us to understand the ocean of oneness which contains everything and excludes nothing. The truth of who you are and forever will always remain. Choose to see what has always seen you, and you will realize the truth that has always been true. The first 100 episodes focused on cognitive understanding. This episode is a call. Are you ready to accept and embrace it? Or will you reject it? Rejection can only happen through the mind. You’re going to wake up. It’s inevitable. You can’t ignore the call forever. You are what is seeing. Spend at least ten minutes a day, not to see what is in front of you, but to become aware of sight. Become aware of being. Instead of focusing your eye on separation, focus your eye on what is aware of the seeing. This is the gift that has been freely given. Now you can learn to give what you have received. Look around you and see everyone as a mirror of yourself. See them as they’re seen from the state of the dreamer. Imagine knowing that this is all one! You are always interacting with yourself. See the divinity of the one energy. Feel your way through and around all relationships. See the dreamer. See the love, and you will see that nothing else exists.
Fri, June 02, 2023
Episode 247: A Relationship With Mirrors
Brothers, today I want to explore the mirror principle and how it relates to oneness. Because I get a lot of questions about, “Why would I want to live in oneness?” And brothers, that’s insanity; it’s like never wanting to learn how to read. And I can’t answer that question any more than I could explain sight to a blind person. But examining the mirror principle and its role in oneness may paint a clearer picture of why understanding the universal truth is something to aspire to. The mirror principle is simple. It states that everything you think about someone else says nothing about them and everything about you. That’s just one way of putting it, brothers. Words are merely symbols to which we assign meaning, and I could’ve as just as easily said that in the mirror principle when you say “I love you” to someone else you’re actually saying it to yourself. Let’s go deeper there, brothers, and explore the opposite iteration, “I hate you.” Because when you hate someone else, you’re really only hating yourself. The projection of our emotions onto the other is living in duality, in the illusion that you are one thing and the other person is another. But that isn’t true. You are everything, you are oneness itself, so you are everyone and everyone is you. So you see, brothers, duality only offers a route for hate to exist. Because if you understand oneness, if you understand your perfection, then you will begin to love everyone else just as you love yourself. You will stop blaming everything around your for the obstacles in your life and begin to see them as just that — obstacles. Merely pitfalls on the road from which you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep on moving. Because brothers, everything you give to others is what you give to yourself, and understanding that is a vital step towards elevating your alpha.
Fri, May 26, 2023
Episode 246: Cellular Memory
In this episode, we are diving deep into the enigmatic realm of cellular memory. Brothers, prepare to unlock the mysteries held within the very fabric of your being as we explore the intricate dance between science and spirituality. Join me on this captivating journey as I unravel the profound truth that science is merely a vessel to measure what has long been known on a spiritual level. From a spiritual perspective, cellular memory dances to the tune of an intriguing belief—that within the intricate fabric of our being, our cells hold sacred echoes of ages past. Beyond the realm of mere genetics, this captivating notion suggests that our cellular tapestry carries the imprints of long-forgotten memories, ancestral whispers, and the residues of former lives. With every stride science takes, it aligns more closely with the timeless wisdom imparted by spiritual teachers throughout the ages, shedding light on their profound teachings that were often misunderstood or misinterpreted. In this episode, we embark on an expedition into the depths of cellular memory, discovering that memories reside not within the nucleus but within the delicate embrace of the cell membrane. We\'ll explore the awe-inspiring notion that these memories are triggered by our interactions with the external environment, unlocking the gateway to unconscious memories that can spring forth without the involvement of our conscious minds. I will also delve into the fascinating duality of the beta condition that is deeply rooted in the body, and the ethereal alpha state, soaring towards the realm of spirit. We\'ll explore how the beta condition is influenced by childhood memories and genetic coding passed down through ancestral lineage, intricately woven into the very cells of our being. I will also uncover the six core human wounds: repression, denial, shame, rejection, guilt, and separation which act as echoes that reverberate through the generations. Join me on this awe-inspiring voyage as we bridge the realms of science and spirituality, unravel the secrets of cellular memory, and witness the transformative power of ancestral healing. This episode will expand your horizons and leave you with a profound understanding of the intricate tapestry that shapes our human experience. Brothers, get ready to step into a realm of profound self-discovery, healing, and liberation, and elevate your alpha!
Fri, May 19, 2023
Episode 245: The Universal Truth
Welcome back to The Alpha Male Coach podcast, brothers. If you are familiar with the show, then you know that I always talk about the universal truth. But for any new listeners out there, I thought that now would be the perfect time to recap the universal truth as a reminder that this is the most important concept to understand. Now, cognitive mastery is the most important skill, and part of cognitive mastery is having a clear understanding of the universal truth. The universal truth of how life works is simple, brothers. It is that everything begins as a thought, our actions determine our experiences, and finally, everything is one. Everything is everything, and you are everything, brother. You see, life is really just a series of relationships that begins with a circumstance, a thought. Everything that happens afterward is all in relation to that thought. Now, the mind’s only job is to make these thoughts real, which is different from the brain’s function of keeping the body alive. The ego, which doesn’t exist, only serves to feed the illusion of separation by giving the heart and soul an identity within the body because your heart never dies, your soul never dies, and you never die; it is only your body that will one day decay as your energy lives on in all its perfection. So, the alpha state is the soul, your heart, that part of you that is a being of enlightenment, perfection, and oneness. The job, then, is to align the mind with the heart. That is cognitive mastery brothers; that is emotional ownership. Remember to return to the fundamentals of the universal truth, brother, as that is your ticket to elevating your alpha!
Fri, May 12, 2023
Episode 244: 4 Desires of the Soul
Brothers, let’s dive right in and get to it because you already know about duality versus oneness, beta versus alpha, the ego versus the soul. And while the ego has needs that it wishes to fulfill, the needs of the mind, of the psyche; the soul does not have any needs as it’s already complete. But, the soul does have desires. Now, our souls use our bodies as vessels, as a means by which to experience the world. Therefore, the soul’s desires can be found in the body as it’s using the body for its experience. And I’m not talking about desires with attachments, because that’s expectation, that’s lack. But the soul lacks nothing and therefore its desires are purely rooted in experience, removing itself from its oneness to experience itself in human form. Stay with me here brothers, because here are the four desires of the soul: The desire to fulfill its energetic purpose, the desire for a means, the desire for pleasure, and the desire for spiritual fulfillment. Now, your ego is trying to get you to understand those terms in relation to the body, but let me explain what they actually mean for the soul. The soul’s energetic purpose is its drive to fulfill its potential. In this case, that means taking in the full extent of its experience in the body. Because the desire for pleasure governs all our actions, so when the soul seeks pleasure, it seeks the abundance of the bodily experience. I’m talking about the physical matter, the things we can see and touch. In order for the soul to experience the body it needs to have the means to do so. Brother, you already know the difference between the true pleasure of the soul and false pleasure of the mind, even if you think you don’t, you do, just like you always know what is up and what is down, that cannot change. So, that fourth desire of spiritual fulfillment is a longing for liberation, for true freedom, and that, brothers, is as simple as remembering. It is remembering that you are an enlightened being. It is the soul, in all its oneness, reconnecting with itself and its oneness. It’s the acceptance that we are energy and everything is energy, so we are everything. It is the soul reflecting back on its oneness so that all the oneness can experience all the oneness. And if you are accepting yourself as a perfect, eternal, omnipresent energy, then you are well on your way toward elevating your alpha.
Fri, May 05, 2023
Episode 243: Insanity
Brothers, I am insane. Yes, you heard right, straight from the horse’s mouth. I, Kevin Aillaud, am insane. But before you laugh it off and declare that I’ve lost the plot, let me first explain to you what I mean by insanity. Because the truth is, in today’s world, insane has been made normal and sane, abnormal. You see, words are merely symbols that we use to communicate our intentions and ideas. But these words exist in duality as they always point to a preferred condition. Therefore, every word has an opposite or contrasting implication. But the words themselves do not have meaning. They are merely symbols and could mean nothing to the next person as much as hieroglyphics are gibberish to us. But we, as humans, give words their meaning and assign their value. Now, because of their duality, we cannot communicate effectively with words as they could mean anything. Literally anything, brothers, depending on the intentions of the speaker and receiver. So, the words we speak do not accurately convey our true state of oneness. Because when everything is one, there is no duality as everything is the same energy, the same love. Brothers, what is natural and what is normal are two very different things. Natural cannot change, it is what has been created and it is what will always be. Normal, however, is determined by society, by our conditioning, and by the fear that governs our lives. And our drive to normalize the unnatural means that we as humans now see what was previously insane as sane. So if sanity is upholding normal perception, behavior, and standards, then brothers, I am insane. Because I do not believe the stories of “not good enough” that you tell yourselves, I do not live in the split mind that says I need to have more and do more. I, just like you, am an enlightened being, and I can live in both have and being. And by answering the universal call to serve and give, I can live in full abundance. I am proud of you brother, for understanding your oneness, for living in abundance, and for taking the necessary steps to elevate your alpha.
Fri, April 28, 2023
Episode 242: Celebrate – Part 1
Brothers, last time I spoke about the three positions, the three states of being that we as humans can find ourselves in: the low position, high position, and superposition. Today’s episode will be part one of two as I begin to explore the superposition of vibration: celebration. Now remember, the superposition is accepting and embracing your oneness, and living only in the here and now. The aim is to transmute through the positions and go from the low position of fear and resentment to the superposition of accepting that you are everything and everything is one, and you will never die. What I mean by “never die” is that you are energy and energy never dies. Your body may decay but you will live on forever, brother. We have become so attached to desire and expectation and trying to influence the world around us. All day long we wait and hope for a better day, a better moment, a better life, instead of reveling in the beauty of right now. And that’s okay, brothers. All low vibrations have their purpose. Low positions merely present us with the opportunity to elevate as we begin to remember that we are already enlightened and that we are eternal while also detaching ourselves from desire and expectation. And detachment cannot be forced, brothers, but it must happen. Once you detach yourself from the illusion of expectation, you will make more room for celebration as you take one step closer to elevating your alpha. Tune in today to learn more.
Fri, April 21, 2023
Episode 241: 3 Positions
We are going on another journey today, brothers, as I teach you about vibration, emotion, feeling, and experience. I might as well have used one word for all four because they are all the same. They are synonyms of each other. So, when I speak of one, just know that I am also talking about the other. Vibrations are really just our patterns of experience. Our frequency is determined by our thoughts which, as you know by now, also make our experiences real. A low vibration would be living in the beta condition, living in fear, anger, and resentment. Vibrating on a high frequency is moving closer to your alpha state, which is living in gratitude, humility, and love. But what we’re really trying to achieve is the superposition, which is when you accept your oneness, your light, your love, and live only in the here and now. That is what is causing us so much grief and suffering as humans, brothers: not living in the present moment. It is our inexperience of the now that wreaks havoc in our lives. We are so distracted by doing and busying ourselves that we forget the only thing that is real, the only thing that matters, and that is the present moment. It’s everything that is happening right here and now because that is our natural state. Everything we experience now in this world may seem normal, but it is not natural. It can’t be natural because it is not real. It is a mere construct of our minds to help us deal with the illusion of separation. But you are an enlightened being. You are already eternal. Energy never dies and you are all energy. It is the fear that holds you back. The fear of the past, present, or future, and the fear of time running out. The fear of death is what is holding you back from living in this moment. In order to move toward the superposition, we need to change the way we think and engage with the world around us. We need to move away from the low vibration of negative emotions and toward the high frequency of positive emotions. When you do this, everything around you will change for the better, because as we all know, like attracts like. So, it’s time to forget the duality of the low position which floods your mind with so much junk that all you can think about is survival. Let us rather embrace the high position of service, care, and an appreciation for the life that you have, one that so many would literally give anything for. Even better still, if you pursue the superposition and accept your openness and your enlightenment and your love and your divinity, then you’ll be one step closer to elevating your alpha. Keep raising your vibrations, brother!
Fri, April 14, 2023
Episode 240: Courage
Brothers, do you remember The Truman Show? Well, life is very much like that Jim Carrey movie in that it’s all about how we see ourselves through the relationship of others. Everyone you meet is there to help you on your life’s journey, to teach you something about yourself that you did not know, or to confirm what you already knew. And what is that relationship? A relationship of love, of course. Love is the only thing that exists, that is real, because everything is one and everything is love. But what about courage? Well, courage is acting in the face of fear. It is knowing what you’re afraid of, feeling the fear, and choosing to take action anyway. But remember, brothers, that fear is an illusion. It is not real. All fear comes from our fear of death, the fear we have of time running out. All fear can be distilled to that one great fear, the fear of death, the only fear that is. But death is an illusion, brothers. It is a construct of the ego to try and help us make sense of the matrix, which also isn’t real. But energy never dies, and you are all energy. Therefore death is not real, and neither is our fear of it. So courage, dear brother, is letting go of the very concept of death. It is stripping yourself of everything you’ve learned, everything you’ve been taught by the models, and choosing to live in every moment, to exist only in the here and now. You are eternal, brother. You are already enlightened. Courage is a mere reminder that you are already awake, and it is one of the 12 steps toward elevating your alpha.
Fri, April 07, 2023
Episode 239: The Restaurant of Life
Brothers, I am back with another edition of the “of life” series and today, I’ll be walking you through the restaurant of life and how that can help you better understand the inner workings of your mind. So, if you think of your mind as a restaurant, there is one meal that you keep ordering that you don’t even consult the menu for. That is your beta condition operating in familiarity and within the models that have been taught to you by your family, religion, the government, and the rest of society. It’s where you feel safe. But brothers, we cannot be transformed in safety. We have been blessed with the gift of choice and we must use this blessing to be brave. The menu provides a template for the options available to you. But unlike a standard menu, the menu options of the mind are unlimited. Your gateway to life-changing transformation is opened by you being willing to experience something new, a meal other than the one you’ve been conditioned into eating all your life. So, the mind is the menu and it can access an infinite amount of potential meals, and you can choose any of them to taste an infinite potential of thoughts, ideas, and identities, and you can make any of them real. Because that’s what the function of the mind is, to make your thoughts real. The trick, dear brother, is making sure that the menu is always in your hands and understanding that this infinite number of choices is always available to you. Brothers, we’ve come full circle as I proclaim that everything is one. You know this, we’ve covered this. Therefore, you are the restaurant itself and everything in it. The people around you, the staff, and even your table placement are all illusions made real by your mind. Changing tables could be like moving to a new city, a new seat could be a new job, but it is all still you and it is all a projection of what your mind has made real. It’s time to awaken from your dream state, brother. Because that’s what life is, a dream made real by the mind. And when you realize this, you’ll be freeing yourself from the illusions of the ego and the matrix. So, continue to elevate our alpha. I say “our” because, brother, we are one.
Fri, March 31, 2023
Episode 238: Oneness
Brothers, throughout the history of this podcast, I am always reminding you of the universal truth that everything is one, everything is perfect, and you are in control of living your life of perfection. And today, we will be diving deep into the first part of that truth, which is oneness. Everything that exists is one. You are one. I am one. We are one. And in your oneness lies love and perfection. Now, that may seem blasphemous to you, to state that you are oneness itself, and that’s okay, that’s you living within the models of construction. What I want for you is freedom; an escape from the lies being told to you by the ego and the matrix. And to achieve that freedom, you need to first understand the function of the mind in order to surrender it from its seat of power and authority over your life. The mind only exists to make your thoughts real. That’s it. That’s the entire function of the mind. We live in a dream state made real by our minds as they feed the illusions of the matrix. But you are not your mind. You are your heart, your soul, and you are perfect in your oneness. Once you understand that, brother, you will be on the path to freedom. Brothers, do you wake up from a dream and accost yourself for the action you took in that dream? Of course not! So, you need to stop beating yourself up about your past, about not living up to societal expectations, about upholding the standards you set out for yourself. Because those are all constructs of the mind, brothers. They are not real. You are perfect exactly as you. So I implore you to enroll in my course, take the necessary steps to begin your journey to freedom, and continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, March 24, 2023
Episode 237: Perfection
Brothers, last time we looked at emotional responsibility and how you are in control of how you think and feel. Today, we will be looking at perfection and, more specifically, how perfect you are. But first, you need to understand that everything that exists is one, and everything that is one is perfect, and you are in control of your life of perfection. Now, it is the ego that tells you that you are not perfect. The ego uses the illusions of death and time to fabricate stories of being unworthy, of not living to your full potential, and of highlighting your many flaws. But let me tell you this, brothers, even your flaws are perfect. You are perfect in your every imperfection. There is nothing that you can do to make yourself more perfect. Society will tell you that you have to do this in order to be that, that your actions determine your value and worth. But this is a lie, brothers. This is living out the manuals that we have been conditioned with since birth. This is why we compare ourselves to each other and compete against one another. But we are really only competing against ourselves because society cannot tell that you need to do better and that you need to do more when you are already perfect just as you are. We live in an age of punishment as taught to us by our parents and the government and religion. And now, you have assumed that manual to punish yourself for not waking up at 5 am every morning, for not going to the gym every day, for not eating healthy like you’re “supposed” to. But brothers, here’s the secret: All you need to do is acknowledge that you’re perfect and declare that you are indeed a perfect being, and watch perfection begin to follow you everywhere you go. So stop trying to be perfect, brother, and just accept that you are perfect. When you accept the truth of your own perfection, every thought, action, behavior, emotion, and vibration, everything will become a byproduct of that truth. And once you begin living in this truth, you will be on the right path as you continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, March 17, 2023
Episode 236: Emotional Responsibility
Today’s discussion is extremely important, brothers, as we tackle emotional responsibility. Too often, the spiritual and practical are separated from one another, but I’d like to set out that we’ll be engaging with emotional responsibility on both the spiritual level and with regard to its practical applications. What we’re really talking about is emotional ownership, which can be split into two parts: emotional intelligence and emotional responsibility. Emotional intelligence is the ability to feel more within the infinite number of possible emotions and feelings. Emotional responsibility is understanding that you, and you alone, are responsible for your thoughts and feelings. Now, brothers, we cannot assume emotional responsibility without first admitting the universal truth, without first subscribing to the model of alignment. We need to know and understand the process by which we experience the world. Everything begins as a thought, which then creates a feeling, which in turn drives action, and this action will lead to a result. That’s it. That’s the model of alignment. So no matter what external event we are forced to grapple with, how we feel about it and how we respond is ultimately down to ourselves, to our own thoughts and feelings. Nothing can make you feel a certain way. The sun doesn’t bring you joy. A breakup doesn’t make you sad. Only you can determine what your emotional response is. Our feelings come from our thoughts; they do not come from the circumstance. Brothers, we need to let go of the manuals that govern our lives, the things that we’ve been taught as fact when, actually, they are mere societal constructs, they are not real. We need to get rid of our own manuals and the manuals that we project onto others. You are perfect. Nothing and no one should make you believe anything different. You need to let go of complexity and embrace the simplicity of surrender, brother, as you continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, March 10, 2023
Episode 235: Simplicity: Time Part 2 - The Plan
Brothers, welcome to the final lesson of our Simplicity series as I offer you some simple ways in which you can work with your time. Let’s begin by remembering that time is merely the vehicle through which we experience all energies, including the energies of money and food that we previously explored. We cannot control time. Instead, we must allow ourselves to be lost in time to enjoy the freedom of living in the here and now. As I’ve mentioned before, brothers, I am a Master Mason. And one of the best demarcations of time can be found in the Masonic 24-inch gauge. This is the process of separating the 24-hour day into three equal parts of 8 hours. That means 8 hours for service (to God, community, etc.), 8 hours for usual avocations, and 8 hours for refreshment and sleep. The problem here, dear brother, is that the lines between these too often become blurred. So, to help bring you back to clarity, it would be wise to set a calendar. This means plotting your day so that every single hour is accounted for. Time is the most precious thing we have on this earth so not a second of it should be wasted. And when you begin this practice of cognitive mastery, brothers, you will find that you actually have more time than you bargained for. Just be sure to honor your calendar, and if you need a bit of help in this regard, remember to pause. Pause, reflect, experience, be. Taking moments out of your day to just stop, relax, breathe, and exist will help you regain clarity of purpose and help you realign with how you’ve chosen to spend your day according to your calendar. Brothers by stripping everything away, even time itself, you’ll be able to revel in the full glory of the internal light that burns within you as you experience every moment for exactly what it is. And as you keep living in the here and now, continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, March 03, 2023
Episode 234: Simplicity: Time Part 1 - The Cosmic Joke
Time is an incredibly vast topic and an unparalleled mystery. And today, brothers, we’re going to dive deep into life’s great illusion. But first, you’d do well to remember that everything that exists is a thought. We manifest everything through our minds first, and that is why we cannot separate ourselves from thought. Now, time moves horizontally in our minds through fear. That is our linear understanding of time, which ultimately leads to our end, to death. This is the Great Fear, this is what we spend our entire lives running away from. We create the Great Illusion that time will never run out as a coping mechanism for our fear. But time always ends, brothers. And that is why every religion has its own story about what happens after death because to free ourselves from the fear of death is to liberate ourselves from all fear. When we process time with love, we do it vertically in our hearts. This is how we can be present in every moment and live a life without fear. And brothers, presence is where true power lives. There is no fear when we are living in our experience; there is no fear when the movement comes from within. Brothers, here’s something that might sweep you off your feet: nothing is ever really occurring. Everything we experience is a fabrication of our minds leading us away from our fear of death. This is the cosmic joke. There is no progress or growth or evolution. Legacy is an illusion. Death is an illusion. But through celebration, we can be truly awakened and live fluid, playful, unpredictable lives without fear. Until next time brothers, elevate your alpha.
Fri, February 24, 2023
Episode 233: Simplicity: Food Part 2 – The Plan
It’s great to have you back, brothers, as we wrap up our simplicity series on food with three simple ways to change your relationship with food for the better. Now food, just like everything else in life, is energy. So, it’s all about how you take that energy, absorb it, and allow it to positively influence your energy output. Food is not your entertainment, brothers. It is not meant to save you from boredom, that would be an unhealthy relationship with food. A healthy relationship with food starts with how you think about it, and from there you’d be wise to create a simple routine for how you consume food. The constraint you show in your routine will add much value to your relationship with food. Brothers, just like any relationship with other people or your pets or anything else, your relationship with food needs to come from a place of love and gratitude. Love your food the way you love yourself, after all, the food you eat becomes you. Be grateful for what you eat and verbally express your gratitude. If for nothing else, then at least be grateful for the convenience of grocery stores, that you do not have to hunt and gather for your food. You’ve all heard the saying, “Time makes the heart grow fonder.” Well, again, the sentiment applies to food as well. By fasting and taking conscious breaks away from food, you will begin to truly appreciate it and your relationship with it will grow ever stronger. So, brothers, reexamine your relationship with food, make it simple, allow your love to flow through, take breaks and fast and meditate, and continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, February 17, 2023
Episode 232: Simplicity: Food Part 1 - It Doesn’t Matter & It Matters
Welcome back to the show, brothers, as we continue our pursuit of a simple life. Today is all about food and how it both matters and doesn’t matter at all. Sounds like a contradiction? Well, that’s because it is, and I’m here to help you make sense of it all. Brothers, you’d do well to remember that everything in life is energy. Our bodies, plants and animals, molecules, inorganic matter, emotions, and thoughts are all energy. Everything is energy, and that is the simplest way of explaining the truth. Now, how we relate to the energy around us begins with our thoughts. Our minds control how we receive, transfer, and experience the energy that surrounds us. The same is true when it comes to food: our relationship with food starts with our thoughts. No matter what diet you’re on, or what the nutritionist says, or what your die-hard vegan sister insists; it is your thoughts about food that will determine your experiences with it. Any diet can be great, and any diet can be detrimental; it all depends on how your thoughts direct the energy received from what you eat. Brothers, everything is energy, and all energy tells a story. How a cow is bred will determine the taste of the beef, and the growing conditions of a tree will determine how juicy its fruit is. So, keep it simple, relinquish control, and allow the energy to flow through you as you continue on your quest to elevate your alpha.
Fri, February 10, 2023
Episode 231: Simplicity: Money Part 2 - The Plan
Brothers, we all deserve to live a life of wealth and abundance. We have the right to financial freedom, having money work for us instead of slaving away daily, only to be undone by the taxman or poor money decisions. So today, in the second and final chapter of our money conversation, I will be showing you my simple system for money management. First, you need to understand what wealth and abundance are, and how they differ from one another. At the end of the day, brothers, wealth, and abundance are a mindset. They are a choice. And if you begin by changing your mindset, then you have a much higher chance of attaining long-lasting wealth and abundance. Now, my system for money management is simple yet highly effective. It’s all about percentages, brothers. After dealing with your tax, you then need to ascertain your disposable income and expenses, separating your expenses into categories: necessities, giving, rewards, growth, investments, etc. Once you’ve sorted through those complexities, the next part starts with ensuring that your necessary expenses only require 40% of your disposable income. When your necessities are within 40% of your disposable income, then you can start having fun with your money. You can open separate accounts for each expense category and enjoy the benefits of the different institutions. And remember to always give freely, expecting nothing in return. And brothers, this is guaranteed to change your relationship with money, for the better. I can’t tell you what to do, brothers. I am merely showing you what has worked for me and how the same principles could work for you, too. It’s time to abandon your poverty and scarcity mindset and choose a life of wealth and abundance, as you continue to elevate your alpha.
Fri, February 03, 2023
Episode 230: Simplicity: Money Part 1 - Abundance
Today’s episode marks the first in my series on simplicity. The opening installment of which will be focusing on the subject of money and the essential relationship it has with abundance. While money is something that almost all of us need to earn to survive, it is something few of us use to actually live. I have often said, brothers, that the path to prosperity lies in changing our relationship with money. Many of us have been conditioned to have a scarcity mindset, especially when it comes to our finances. We hoard what we can out of a sense of fear and attachment, denying ourselves the opportunity to pursue our passions and serve a higher purpose. However, once we are able to view our mindsets, and the habits we’ve accumulated, with clarity, we can begin to let go of the anxiety we feel around money. And it is only by cultivating a mindset of abundance, that we can let go of a scarcity mindset, along with all its limitations. Because the truth, brothers, is that abundance is all around us. It is natural to be abundant. All you need to do is observe the world around you, from the blossoming fruit tree to the oceans teaming with life. Abundance is a flow state of being that embraces the natural order of the universe. And when you are true to yourself and serve the higher purpose of your being, you open yourself up to all the prosperity the world has to offer. Money is simply a part of the free flow of experience that moves through life, and it exists for all of us to share and experience. Join me today, for this first installment in my series on simplicity, and discover what it means to shift your mindset from one of scarcity to one of abundance. I look forward to our next installment where I’ll be talking about how to put into practice everything we’ve learned today!
Fri, January 27, 2023
Episode 229: The Emperor\'s New Clothes
Brothers, we humans tend to make things complex and in our complexity, we get caught up in worry, self-doubt, and rumination. We worry so much that we begin to drown our inner voice, which makes us doubt our intuition or ignore our inner voice altogether. The world teaches us to listen to everyone around us; parents, teachers, law enforcement, and the government. But we are rarely taught to listen to the only voice that matters, the only voice that holds truth: the voice that comes from within. Instead of listening to what you’ve been told to listen to, brothers, it’s time to go within and listen to yourselves and trust what you hear. Now, the way to gain control of your life is through cognitive mastery and emotional ownership. That means not conforming to what’s been programmed in you since childhood, and instead using your intuition to guide you to the truth. It also entails ignoring the seeds of doubt and fear and “I’m not good enough” and instead meditating on the real truth of “I am perfect,” because that, brothers, is your true nature. The genius mind of Hans Christian Andersen gifts us with profound life lessons in his tale, The Emperor’s New Clothes . What we learn from the story is that, even when the truth is plain to see, humans will still believe the lies they are told. This is because we either look to others to give us the truth (informational social influence) or accept what others say to be liked and accepted by society (normative social influence). This is using fear to rationalize the lies we hear. This is living in complexity and rumination. Brothers, it’s time to put unwavering trust in your inner voice and allow it to connect you to the divine oneness, to the source. Your voice is the only one that won’t lie to you and once you remember this, you will be empowered as an alpha man. Don’t trust me, trust yourself, and elevate your alpha.
Fri, January 20, 2023
Episode 228: It’s All Just An Idea
Enlightenment is a state that can be reached by everybody on the planet. Yes, brothers, every single one of you has the capacity to unlock the codes that exist within you and become full of light. And I’ll let you in on another secret; you don’t have to live in solitude or meditate for hours every day to get there. Brothers, does it seem impossible that you could live your life in a blissful state regardless of your circumstances? If your answer is yes, you are not alone. But I want you to understand that the only reason you believe this is because of an idea planted in your mind a long time ago that distorts your version of reality. This idea is the cause of all the suffering in the world today, and it’s time to let it go. It’s time to remove the obstacles that are preventing you from becoming the best version of yourself. It’s time to elevate your Alpha permanently!
Fri, January 13, 2023
Episode 227: Doubt
Brothers, let’s talk about doubt. Rather, let’s have a discussion about using manifestation, unwavering belief, and the conviction of knowing to eliminate all possibilities of doubt. You see, like all of you, I too am a doubter. I am also half-hearted in my commitments, and my resolutions are constantly being tested by the distractions all around me. But living in doubt is not the route toward embracing your alpha. In fact, brothers, it’s quite the opposite. Doubt is fear. Doubt is using force. Doubt is listening to the people around you and ignoring your own desires. Doubt is the enemy of progress. To free yourselves from the shackles of uncertainty and welcome peace and conviction into your life, you need to prioritize three things. The first is knowing what you want. You need to know what you want out of life and from the universe and declare it to yourself and to the ether; loudly and without any shame! Then, you need to believe in your heart and mind that what you want is already yours. It has already been done. This will shift your vibrational frequency to attract the very thing you’ve already professed. This, brothers, is how we can move mountains and turn water into wine. Yes, that power is not only for deities. You possess it too! Lastly, let go. Let go of your attachment to your desired outcome. Let go of fear, internal and external judgment, guilt, shame, all of it! Let go and allow your conviction of knowing to permeate through your body, as you witness your mind’s manifestations unfold before your eyes. Tune in today to learn how to alter your thinking, change your actions, and of course, elevate your alpha.
Fri, January 06, 2023
Episode 226: Everything
Everything is. And that’s the end of the sentence, brothers. Everything is love, everything is source, everything is perfect, and everything just is. Understanding exactly what this means will help you in your spiritual journey and allow you to embrace your alpha state. Brothers, it’s important to remember that the only energy that exists is the energy of the now. The past, present, and future are all experienced right now, in the energy of right now. You need to live in the energy of now to unlock all the gifts of your alpha state, to live to your full potential. Now, in the beginning, everything was one. It then became two, vibration and consciousness, and this was the first duality. Vibration then became three parts, which lead to the four elements, which gave rise to the five senses, and so on. What you must remember, brothers, is that even though we experience life on multiple levels, it is all still part of the one: the everything that is. The matrix of life forces you to pay attention to certain holograms of being and ignore the others that make you whole. This is living an unconscious existence. Being conscious means that you have cognitive mastery and emotional ownership, seeing everything for what is and accepting it as is, for all the good and the bad. This, brothers, is living in your alpha state. Join me today as I explore everything and how it pertains to what I call the movie of life. It is time to wake up and realize that you are both the movie of vibration and the audience of consciousness! We are all everything experiencing everything, and fully understanding that, brothers, is how you will elevate your alpha.
Fri, December 30, 2022
Episode 225: Desire
Desire is everywhere. We desire money, wealth, women, fame, notoriety, power control, relationships, and leadership. Then, as you age, it starts to shift. We desire stability, security, safety, groundedness, and assertiveness. But every seeker only seeks one thing, and that\'s the end of seeking itself. Today, I\'m going to talk about desire as a low vibrational energy that exists in the Astral plane and how the alpha approach to cognitive mastery and emotional ownership can allow the vibrations into your body, how you can surrender to them, and accept them instead of letting them take over or repressing them. We\'re here to learn from our desires, not avoid them, resist them, or beat ourselves up for having them. When you surrender to them, you experience a shift in your frequency, transmuting the low vibration of desire into a high vibration. You begin to lighten up. You realize that this is just a playground. This is just a place to enjoy, not through your desire but through commitment. In this, you can let the desire go.
Fri, December 23, 2022
Episode 224: Uncertainty and The Paradox Of Knowing
Everything is love. From solar flares to the first cry of a newborn baby, everything is everything and that “everything” is love. We are called, brothers, to live a life of purpose in accordance with love, chosen to serve humanity with our spiritual gifts. Now, when I say serve, I do not mean slavery or being forced to do what you don’t want to. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. It is freeing ourselves from the societal shackles of structure and certainty and embracing everything in life with gratitude, while being generous in mind, body, and spirit. Brothers, there are frequencies in which we exist. This is the energy that surrounds us and which governs our lives. Low frequencies fill the mind to the extent that we cannot focus on anything else. Higher frequencies are sources of liberation, allowing us to exist in our true natures, giving us access to transformational epiphanies. Today, I will be talking about how uncertain life is and why the unknown should be more revered than feared. In a world that constantly pushes us to conform, it is the rebel within us (knowing our true nature) that will help us drown out both the internal and external noise, giving us access to our inner wisdom and transforming our very DNA to allow for a life of peace and happiness.
Fri, December 16, 2022
Episode 223: Commitment
Life is all about making decisions. Whether we make small decisions or big decisions, we must stay true to the outcomes of the choices we make in the present moment. But the truth is, my brothers, we don’t know where our decisions are going to lead us. The future is an illusion in the same way that the past is dead and gone. All we have is the present moment, and when we are half-hearted in our decisions or we focus too much on future expectations, our life force withdraws from the present and we become victims of our choices. One of our greatest lessons in life is to give ourselves totally to every experience, to surrender to every moment. This is the gift of commitment. Now, when I talk about commitment, I am not talking about obligation or any kind of external control that is enacted upon you. The commitment that we explore in today’s episode, my brothers, is an internal one. Tuning in, you’ll learn about the energetic relationship between half-heartedness, commitment, and devotion, and I’ll show you how to look inward, make decisions from a place of profound inner certainty, and commit fully to the present moment. Remember, you can only be an Alpha in the now! I offer this podcast episode to you as it relates to the Impossible Goal work that we’re doing here in the Academy, but you will find it deeply relevant to any goal work you\'re planning for 2023. Everyone is welcome, my brothers!
Fri, December 09, 2022
Episode 222: The Impossible Goal 2023
Over the course of my life, I have had many different job titles. I have been a student and an athlete, a soldier and a teammate. I have been a bodyguard, fitness instructor, business owner, cognitive mastery coach, and spiritual guide, but none of that is what I’m here to do, brothers. You see, your occupation, your identity, your purpose, and what you are here to do are distinctly different facets of who you are. While I maintain that it is important to remain in the now, to stay in the moment as we talk about the Impossible Goal and move forward into 2023, I’m going to suggest that we break for a moment from the now and contemplate the future. When determining your Impossible Goal for 2023, my brothers, you first have to learn how to confront the challenge that is presented by the low vibrational energy of complexity, embrace it, and transmute it into simplicity. You cannot ignore or resist this vibration! It is the key to your gift of wisdom and it is specific to you. Join me as I guide you through the process of self-realization and inner freedom through the attainment of your Impossible Goal, and help you make the shift from struggle to wisdom, from shadow to gift, and from low vibration to high vibration. To learn more about discovering your unique energetic blueprint, unlocking your unique gifts, and walking the alpha path, make sure to tune in today!
Fri, December 02, 2022
Episode 221: The Mountain Of Life
We are all on a journey, brothers, alone yet together. I have personally completed a huge upgrade in my personal journey, and it was by no means devoid of challenges. Today I’m going to share with you the Mountain of Life analogy to help you along your spiritual journey and put suffering into perspective. Our instinct, as humans, is to wish away suffering, but we need to learn to embrace the challenges that come our way because suffering is grace! Without suffering, we can’t fulfill our purpose on earth to transform lower-frequency shadows into higher-frequency gifts. It is on the pathway to the summit where we find our deepest connections! Join me as I guide you through the Mountain of Life meditation. The pilgrim\'s journey up the mountain is inside us, along with all the ancient wisdom readily available to us. Remember, brothers, that upward is inward, and we need to have the courage to embrace and move through life’s challenges, pausing to feel along the way. I look forward to sharing my learnings with you!
Fri, November 25, 2022
Episode 220: Love & Freedom Part 4: Unconditionality
Welcome back, brothers! Today I\'m continuing our exploration of the concepts of love and freedom and unpacking their relationship to each other and the idea of unconditionality. I will be exploring how these polarities are accessed through your alpha state and sharing some examples of how to apply these concepts in your life too! The main thrust of today\'s episode is around how love determines our reality and gives power to our thought, and then how we need to temper our love by setting our thoughts free. The power lies in balancing these two sides of the same thing, brothers. Remember, attention and awareness are the truest forms of unconditional love, and it is through this love that the process of manifestations happens, where our thoughts take form. We all have to cultivate our thinking and summon this power with love, a skill that is available to us all. This is not about controlling circumstances, that is not the alpha way, this is about learning and harnessing our patterns of thought. I will also be explaining the relationship between love and unwavering attention, and how these contrast with their opposite: unconditional freedom. It is so important to learn this part too; to allow thoughts to be gone from our awareness at the appropriate time. You can set anything free brothers! And this rule is a big part of emotional ownership and maturity, relying on the non-resistance, and cognitive mastery of the true alpha male. Join me today to hear more!
Fri, November 18, 2022
Episode 219: Love & Freedom Part 3: Science
Today, I will continue the discourse and explanation on love and freedom. In past episodes, I have explained and provided insight into the various concepts of love and freedom, but in this episode, I will go into detail about the science behind the concept of love and freedom. As I am sure you all know, all the ideas I teach are firmly rooted in science, and love and freedom are no exceptions. It is vital you understand the science of love and freedom, as this will help you perceive reality correctly. First, you must understand that we have been conditioned by the concepts of Newtonian physics. Although these concepts are correct, they do not provide the full picture of our reality. Through this conditioning, we perceive energy and the world around us as particles, but this is not entirely correct. Instead, it is like dropping a pebble into a pond where the energy is localized at one spot and then radiates outwards, affecting all around it. In terms of love and freedom, remember that placing your attention on something or someone is love and being able to let it go is freedom, the duality. This is also true for our reality which behaves like waves and particles. Brothers, this is the key to manifestation and understanding the balance between love and freedom. Join me today as I explain the science of love and freedom, quantum mechanics, and wave-particle duality as we continue down the alpha path!
Fri, November 11, 2022
Episode 218: Love & Freedom Part 2: Relationships
In my previous episode, I went into detail about the concept of love and freedom as energetic opposites, what it has to do with awareness, and how this differs from the other dualities I have spoken about in past episodes. Before I get into the topic of today’s show, I will briefly recap the main takeaways from the previous episode, as I know the content is vast and heavy. Once I have done that, I will delve deep into today’s theme, love and freedom in relationships. When I say relationships, I do not necessarily mean with people. It could also be with money or yourself. Love and freedom are essential components of any relationship and are needed to manifest the experiences we want in life. In order to manifest what you want, you must keep a balance between love and freedom in a relationship. Love is choosing to place awareness on that relationship, while freedom is the ability to let go and trust that the relationship will still exist even if you draw your attention away from it. I like to use the analogy of a bee. If you are having a conversation and a bee starts flying around you, are you distracted by it? Do you stop the conversation and focus attention on the bee and how to get away from it? Although it’s good to be aware of the bee, becoming distracted takes your awareness away from the conversation. On the opposite side of the scale, if you don’t notice the bee, it may result in you getting stung. This episode is full of analogies, examples, and personal stories that I use to unpack the concept of balancing love and freedom in all types of relationships. Brothers, join me today as I guide you through how you can love everything and at the same time be free of it all!
Fri, November 04, 2022
Episode 217: Love & Freedom Part 1: Awareness
In this episode, I am going to explain a significant facet of what it means to walk the alpha path. Today, what I want to talk to you about is the balancing of duality. Balancing duality is something that every religion has taught in some form or another. Being able to balance duality is another step towards cognitive mastery, enabling you to live a life of confidence, love, and freedom. Today, I will offer you another type of duality that differs from what I have previously spoken about, love and freedom. This is a relationship episode because love and freedom are determined by our relationship, not just with people but with the world around us. First, it is essential to remember the difference between the beta and alpha way; the beta is the worldly path, and the alpha is the spiritual one. Healing the duality in our lives is the spiritual path and focuses on releasing blocked energy within ourselves. The dualities I have spoken about before require a choice, but the duality I will offer you in this episode is a function of both. Love and freedom are not feelings. They are an energetic duality. From the alpha perspective, love and freedom are energetic opposites, just like the sun and the moon is. I know this might be a difficult concept to grasp as love and freedom are perceived together, but I am talking about them on an energetic level. The alpha way is to choose to put attention or focus on something or someone, choosing to be aware of that energy, and choosing to love that energy. Freedom is choosing to let that energy free, however, what you need is a balance between the two. Brothers, join me as we explore love and freedom as an energetic duality and take another step along the alpha path!
Fri, October 28, 2022
Episode 216: The Nature of the Alpha Part 2
Embodying the nature of the alpha requires practice and discipline and for us to become comfortable with being uncomfortable. In today\'s episode, I will be carrying on what I began the last time, and this second part builds on the ideas through some practical examples. I will be sharing an example from my own life brothers, one in which I struggled and eventually was able to elevate my alpha. I have recently been staying with my brother during the summer months, which is my usual routine at this time, and when I encountered a hurdle, an unusual and disarming one, it immediately made me feel defensive. Now, as you will see brothers, this was a normal situation, and my reaction came entirely from the beta mindset. We need to become masters and learn how to react to different and difficult situations. There are so many examples of how our masks and guards come into play. All of us, even me, fall into these traps. That is why I wanted to share this story. The message here that I want to underline is that there is never a problem, there is only energy, and you have the power to harness that and change your reality and your relationships. This is what happens when you choose the spiritual path and align with the universe, brothers. Join to me hear more!
Fri, October 21, 2022
Episode 215: The Nature of the Alpha Part 1
Today\'s episode is a deeper, esoteric one, brothers. I have broken up this subject into two parts because this lesson goes way beyond half an hour of talking. We are getting into the nature of alpha, the new possibilities for your journey, letting go of attachment, and getting away from the noise, identities, constructs, and labels! That\'s right, we are setting off at the beginning of the path of the alpha, and redefining the term along the way. The alpha meaning that which comes first, the primordial self of spirit, because we cannot forget that this is a spiritual path that we are on. A path of clearing out blocked energy, and escaping the suffering, doubt and shame that comes with it. As I have said before, everything is energy, all things around us and in us, and that we as humans are a special kind of energy. We are the energy of awareness, and as you know, awareness is love. So if you want to get to grips with this, brothers, and are interested in a reminder of what is known and proven, but often forgotten, namely our nature and composition, join me for this episode and make sure to come back for part two next week.
Fri, October 14, 2022
Episode 214: The Alpha Path vs. The Beta Path
I will be talking about a simple choice that each of you needs to make, and it is a choice that will determine how you perceive and experience the world around you. This will tie into what I have been talking about previously, which is the duality of the human condition. Another duality is the beta or alpha state. Today’s episode will set the foundation for when I teach you about the perspective of the alpha state and living the alpha way. Ask yourself, are you living as a beta or an alpha? Let me be clear that there is no right or wrong choice, but how you decide is essential in determining how life and experiences will serve you. This episode is not for people experiencing the human condition and enjoying it. This episode is for my brothers living a life of suffering. If you are unhappy with your life, you need to consider a different approach or path, the alpha path. The alpha path is essentially spirituality, but it is probably not the definition of spirituality that you are thinking of. People often think spirituality involves either giving something up or doing something that enlightens you. It is neither. The spiritual path is about finding peace in the inner world so that you can live your full potential in the outer world. Brothers, join me today so I can help begin your journey along the alpha path and lead you to a life of happiness, love, and fulfillment!
Fri, October 07, 2022
Episode 213: The Third Duality
Today we are exploring the third duality: power and shame. We have already talked about scarcity versus abundance, and pleasure versus pain, and this piece of the puzzle is all about action, brothers. As I mentioned before we can split these dualities according to their types of energy, either blocked or flowing, and I am here to tell you about how you can get into an empowered, flowing state of action! The message here concerns movement and willpower. We should not misunderstand power in this instance as power over something or someone, but rather the power to do and to take steps in our lives. This is strongly linked to our sense of self-esteem, and when we are in alignment, nothing seems difficult or impossible. When we develop our power, and a sense of our own individual decision-making, we do not need to conform in any limiting way. Cooperation and collaboration are such wonderful things, but blind conformity never serves us, brothers. I want to teach you how to exercise inner power in integrative and healthy ways, and this is where power becomes a verb. It is all about getting back in touch with our true selves, and shedding the shackles that hold us back!
Fri, September 30, 2022
Episode 212: The Second Duality
Last week I talked to you about the first duality, scarcity, and abundance. The first duality only exists on the mental plane; it is entirely within the mind. It helps paint a picture of your external reality, ultimately determining how you see the world. Today, I want to talk to you about the second duality, which exists as vibration and manifests within you as pleasure and pain. Before we delve into the topic, it is essential to remember that all three dualities exist within you as energy, which can be blocked or flow through us freely. You do not need to grasp the concept of the first duality to understand the second and third as they exist within us simultaneously. The coexistence and interplay between these realities shape our perception of the external reality. The second duality, or the foundational duality of the vibrational realm, is the duality between emotional pleasure versus emotional pain. Do not confuse emotional pleasure and pain with physical pleasure and pain. Physical forms are messages sent from the outer world into the body through one or more of the five senses, such as an embrace from a loved one or the sound of music. That\'s very different from the emotional energy of pain, which is vibrational energy. For example, the experience of grief does not originate from the senses but a vibration. It\'s coming from a wave of energy. It\'s coming from that astral realm of emotion, of feeling. Just like our need to survive, people are hard-wired to avoid emotional pain and chase emotional pleasure. Once you feel nourished and fulfilled, you establish a foundation for power, love, creativity, and meditative contemplation. This is achieved through understanding the nuance of the second duality. How high are you choosing to cultivate your astral vibrational energy? Brothers, I want to help you comprehend the concept of dualities because once it becomes clear, you will have the ability to rise above the emotional pain and blocked energy. Join me today and continue the journey towards cognitive mastery by learning the dualities of our existence. I will help you transcend the vibrational pain, take ownership of your emotions, and elevate your alpha!
Fri, September 23, 2022
Episode 211: The First Duality
I want to talk to you today about dualities, which can manifest in many ways. For my example, consider a glass of water on a table. How you view the glass is determined by you; it is subjective. You can choose to view the glass as half-empty or half-full. How you view the world around you is determined by how you interpret the world around you. In the next few episodes, I will be taking a deep dive into this subject. To grasp the concept of this and future episodes, you must remember the differences between the realm of existence and consciousness. The realm of consciousness represents vibration, and the realm of existence is the physical form that vibrations manifest into. These different realms are a part of the materialization process and are where the first duality exists. The first duality is the idea of abundance versus scarcity. During the early life history of humans, most of our energy was focused on surviving, such as hunting and finding shelter, all of which required energy. The past was a time of scarcity. However, as we evolved, we replaced that need for survival with another; money. Money now represents all those basic survival needs, as money can be used to buy food, shelter, warmth, and so on. Today is the realm of abundance. Both of these, scarcity and abundance, are foundational dualities that exist for us to choose. There is no right or wrong approach; there is only the viewpoint that you choose. By making that choice, you manifest that reality in your life. Therefore brothers, do you see the glass as half-empty or half-full? How you answer that question represents the external, which reflects the internal condition. How you view the glass of water on the table mirrors what is happening within you. Brothers, join me today as we unravel the concept of the first duality and begin your journey of shedding the cognitive conditioning of scarcity as I help elevate or alpha!
Fri, September 16, 2022
Episode 210: Age of Punishment
Hello again, my brothers! Welcome to another episode of The Alpha Male Coach. Today, I\'m zooming out to look at the big picture, talking about general concepts associated with an alpha male lifestyle. Now, you already know the universal truth about circumstance and existence being neutral, and that our consciousness is then laid on top of this, and how this leads to the duality of oneness as our thoughts experience themselves, and how in turn, this drives our actions and creates a self-perpetuating loop. What I want to get into today is how we make changes to our T line, our thoughts, and what this enables us to then do. You’ll come to understand that the only way to change thoughts is to replace them with other thoughts, and when we make these adjustments, it takes time to form a new belief. There is a natural progression from thought, to feeling, to action, to belief; we have all experienced this. What I want to propose, brothers, is to rewire this loop so that we can escape the age of punishment, and move into a new world of information and transparency! This means that we need to reimagine our instinct to blame ourselves and others when things “go wrong.” This is our conditioning and is rooted in the illusions that we absorb through socialization. One of the biggest effects of this is our tendency to hide in fear of punishment, and our connection to ideas of shame, blame, lying, and so on. What I want to underline here is how our understanding of the quantum field can help us escape this paradigm and move into a reality of perfection and acceptance of that! Tune in today to learn more.
Fri, September 09, 2022
Episode 209: How To Have Amazing Relationships
Today’s episode is about how to form incredible and romantic relationships. Connection is vital and is a part of the reason we are here. This episode is not just for brothers that are seeking relationships; it is also for those who are committed to their significant other. This episode is for everyone. I am going to tell you about how we can expand our relationships and how to find the person that matches your energy. You achieve this through establishing your values and vision. Brothers, when it comes to amazing and romantic relationships, she will choose you. You are going to do the work to get her attention, but ultimately it is up to her; she decides. The way that you get her attention is by working on yourself, and the way you work on yourself is through values and vision. This is what I am going to offer you in today’s episode. By working on your values and vision, you will be able to connect with your masculine energy, the alpha state. Self-mastery leads to you being intentional, focused, and driven, making you a confident, sought-after male. The most vital component of any relationship in your life is you and what you want. What we think we want is often a result of conditioning, the programming of culture and society. The culture of relationships is most likely based on the culture of the place you live in. For example, in America, the culture is to meet someone, get married, and settle down. This differs from place to place but usually involves some form of a monogamous relationship. However, it does not have to be that way, and you can have whatever type of relationship you want. Therefore, the first question you should ask yourself is, what do you really want? Answering this question is the first step to catching her attention. You need to have a solid foundation of values. Values give you stability and let you know who you are. You can change these values, which is okay, but it is essential to identify your current values. Values are energetic; it is not a behavioral aspect. Our values are the vibrational energy that attracts people to you. Who you have in your life is based on your values. Next is vision, which is purpose. The reason why vision is so important is that it determines what your goals are. Your goals don’t necessarily mean your job or what you contribute to the world but are more personal. Your goals are why you get out of bed in the morning and what keeps you motivated. Goals drive action and remind us who we want to be. Your values and vision culminate into what you bring to the table as a man, and she will recognize that; the divine, masculine energy. How your masculine energy manifests will make her feel a certain way, such as protected, loved, safe, and so on. When your values and her values align, she will begin to feel that femininity within her. It is her femininity that will make
Fri, September 02, 2022
Episode 208: Money Scarcity
The mindsets we have around scarcity and abundance determine so much of how we experience and act in the world. Today, brothers, I want to unpack these themes a little bit and approach each of them individually, focusing first on why scarcity and abundance are not good or bad, but just opposites. Clearly, most of us would like more abundance and more freedom, and it is with that in mind that we can set out on this path together! Scarcity and abundance can be material or they can be mental, and after delving into this, we get into how money plays into these dynamics. In the end, it is all about the data collection we do when we have the experiences and keep moving. There are some really important lessons here around why we prefer abundance, why we do not have to hate scarcity, and how the universe reaches back towards us, reflecting our actions and thoughts. As I have said before, it is only when scarcity no longer serves us, that we are able to recognize and accept abundance, and this is related to the ways in which we have been taught and conditioned. Following this path with curiosity and non-judgment is one of the routes to nirvana, but for today, we are purely focusing on setting out! Join me today, brothers, as we look at the examples of air and salt, and how our perceptions of abundance can change the world around us and reinforce what we already know!
Fri, August 26, 2022
Episode 207: The Morning Routine: Part 2
Welcome back to the second half of my morning routine series! Last week I gave an introduction on why it’s important to design a morning routine that matches your energy along with a breakdown of the elements that we need to awaken within us to thrive as human beings. In today’s episode, I will be picking up where I left off. Tuning in you’ll hear me give a detailed account of my morning routine, which is not something I do very often since I don’t really believe in giving advice. This is because I know that you have, within you, all the answers that you will ever need! For today’s installment, I will be giving you guys a lot of practical information, along with some examples, and a breakdown of my routine. But that doesn’t mean that you need to do exactly as I do, brothers. This is something for you to create for yourself so that you can wake up the consciousness within you, the skill set of manifestation, as well as the movement of energy that you have flowing through you at any time. My morning routine is about three to four hours, but there are some days where it can extend even further. I realize that for many this amount of time isn’t practical, and I don’t expect anyone to wake up at 2 AM to squeeze in this routine! You can condense your routine into 30 minutes if you need to. As long the intentionality behind it is there and you are conscious of what it is you’re doing, you\'ll reap the benefits of implementing this type of routine, even if it’s shortened! The first step in your routine should connect you with the recognition of total consciousness. Meditation is a great way to do this, and I always start my day with 30 minutes of a transcendental type of meditation. As you continue your routine it should follow the elements, namely ether, air, fire, and water. Once you grasp this natural pattern you will be able to build a routine that matches your unique energy to help you connect with total universal consciousness. Whether you already have an established routine or are only just getting started, today’s episode will give you fresh insight into what your morning routine can do for your consciousness and your life. Remember that we are all microcosms of the universe. And while it may be easy to get swept up in the details and frenetic energy of everyday life, our relationship with the universe is always lying just under the surface. It’s just waiting for us to connect with it. This is a spiritual practice that creates real results in the material realm due to the nature of manifestation itself. So make sure you tune in today and give it a try!
Fri, August 19, 2022
Episode 206: The Morning Routine: Part 1
I have done over 200 episodes and, in all of those, I don’t think I have ever covered a topic like this before. In this episode, I will tell you about my morning routine. Some of you might already have a conscious morning routine, while others might not. Either way, it is essential to listen to this episode. In future episodes, I will cover the details of my morning routine but, for today, I explain why I practice my morning routine the way I do. Hopefully, by understanding the motivation behind it, you can find the morning ritual that works for you. We are microcosms of the universe. We are microcosms of everything. We have achieved some incredible feats in science, such as understanding how energy and consciousness are related. It is important to realize that energy and consciousness are integrated; one cannot exist without the other. Remember that thought begins in the realm of consciousness and, through our feelings, vibrational energy is slowed down and manifests itself through action. This action is the moment that your soul seeks to experience. The soul acts as the messenger to all oneness. That’s why we are here, brothers! We are here to experience and add our experience to the collective knowledge of everyone. By exchanging information, we evolve and begin to forge a path to the ultimate truth. However, when we become unconscious, we repeat certain actions because we are not learning from that experience. The universe will continually put us in that circumstance until we wake up and realize what we need to take away from it! This is what you may regard as the spiritual side of your existence. Ensuring that you are always conscious of the moment and the experience your soul desires is where a morning routine comes in. You must set up a morning routine that engages the different components of your energy. Correctly engaging your energy will help you become aware of the elements you need to wake up within your soul, causing you to manifest them through action. This continual loop of manifestation and experience is how we grow and eventually become free. Brothers, join me today as I explain the philosophical reasons behind my morning routine to help find what engages your energy and elevates your alpha!
Fri, August 12, 2022
Episode 205: Everything Is For You
Today I will cover a topic that means a lot to me, something you can realize on an intellectual and experiential level. I recently had the honor of an experience from a divine source, which was a message. Brothers, I want to share that message with you today and delve into what it means. This will be challenging because it is difficult to describe an experience with words. I am going to share a universal truth that will change your life when you experience it, which is everything and everyone is here for you. As I said, this will be a difficult challenge as words are insufficient. Using words to explain and experience is like explaining what a rainbow looks like to someone who has been blind their whole life. That person will only truly appreciate the beauty of a rainbow once they see it for themselves. The same as riding a bicycle is different from understanding how a bike works. To begin your journey to universal truth, you must first comprehend the difference between understanding and experience. The universal truth is this; everything is for you. Everything is here for you to learn from, such as your friends and enemies. Both of these people act as a mirror to help you identify and realize the emotions and thoughts within you, to help you grow and expand your consciousnesses. That is true for everyone on this planet. We are magnets attracting the experiences and people our souls want. We move away from each other to experience and then find each other again to love and learn. That is our true purpose of being; to learn from our experiences and each other. Our souls are forever seeking new life lessons, eventually leading them to become complete, which takes many, many lifetimes. However, only once you understand the concept can you begin to experience it. Brothers, join me today as I help you understand so that you can experience what your soul is looking for as I help you elevate your alpha!
Fri, August 05, 2022
Episode 204: 12 Responsibilities Of Mastery
If you are to become an alpha male, and take your human experience to the next level, there are important areas of your life that have to be mastered, brothers. Today I am continuing on from the episode a few weeks ago in which I shared the twelve attitudes of mastery, and broadening the picture through the responsibilities we need to take on. If you can make these a way of life, and focus intentionally over time, you can elevate and expand yourself! As we go through this list of responsibilities, you will recognize familiar themes and ideas that we have often covered, from escaping victimhood, and finding personal freedom to taking accountability and living with integrity. You will hear about how to live with more intention, and the foundation of spiritual connection that we all have to find within ourselves. Other areas that we get into include, living with generosity and appreciation, accepting the timing of the universe, expressing and exercising kindness, using our best sense, and much more. All of these twelve responsibilities are laid out in order for you to escape the beta condition, heal yourself, and transcend an entitled state of being. Join me to hear it all!
Fri, July 29, 2022
Episode 203: Time Travel
Hello and welcome back, brothers. Today I want to share some powerful messages that I recently received while in the jungle. These downloads are always pieces of huge experiences and I want to give as much of that to you as possible in this format. The message of today\'s show deals with time, and our relationship to what we perceive as the future and the past. I want to offer you a new conception of time, and relay to you the vital message of time\'s vertical nature. That\'s right, brothers, time is not a horizontal line as we experience it by default. As we begin to understand this truth we also start to unlock the power of making real whatever we can conceive of, whether it is world peace, curing disease, or political change, we can manifest our reality by remembering the future! As I have said before, the past and future have a strong relation to our ego and the beta condition. This requires that we start to let go of the fear associated with the illusion of time, and I will be introducing this process in this episode, brothers. If we can accept the infinite possibilities of the present, and halt our need to \'get somewhere\', we in turn realize how everything has already happened. The only reason we do not already know this is because experiencing everything all at once is too much for the human mind, and so it takes practice to increase our knowledge of reality. We do not have to wait for things to occur, because they have already, and we can catalyze our wins by celebrating them now! When I received this clear message that everything has already happened, it also became apparent that all problems we perceive in the present have been solved. Imagine this, that everything you wish for has already come true, and it is only the illusion of time and separation that is standing in the way of knowing this fully. Through the experience of celebration, it will be complete, first in thought, then belief, and lastly, behavior. That is the message I want to leave you with brothers, that you can bring anything into our reality by knowing it.
Fri, July 22, 2022
Episode 202: The Body Is A Temple
The title of this episode could trigger many different thoughts and ideas about today\'s topic. Let me be clear from the start that this episode is another analogy for being. This will be different from my other episodes, which delve into the game and puzzle of life. This episode is not an analogy for creation or existence. Instead, I will provide you with an explanation of the body and the three ways we experience our soul. The soul is our true self which is the alpha state. Imagine that you are a white light being diffracted through a prism and broken into other beams, colors, or frequencies. The different frequencies represent the various dimensions of existence. Diffraction is how our soul experiences other ways of existing and different ways of experiencing itself. The first layer of this experience is the mind layer which comprises all our thoughts and ideas. The thoughts that are closest to our soul are the ones that will resonate with us the most. Brothers, you must remember that you choose your thoughts. The next dimension, layer, or frequency is the astral dimension. The astral dimension is lower vibrational energy that moves like a wave. Much like a thought, this wave is invisible and exists everywhere. It is all around us. Think of how all the water in the ocean is a part of what it is. This is like the astral realm. All energy in the astral realm is infinite and layered on top of all the other dimensions. We perceive these as emotions, and to master this domain, we must practice emotional ownership. Finally, there is the physical dimension which is our three-dimensional existence. Also important to remember is this is only an illusion. The realm of thought is the causal realm, the realm of energy is the astral realm, and the realm of form is our physical existence. All three are layered on top of each other, existing together. This is the trinity, the three dimensions we are experiencing as the human soul. Brothers, join me today as I explain why your body is a temple and help you elevate your alpha!
Fri, July 15, 2022
Episode 201: As If Your Life Depends On It
Has anyone ever asked you, “If you had six months to live, what would you do?” The replies are usually superficial nonsense that does not encompass our true intention. The question invokes answers of scarcity related to the amount of time left on this earth and not our true intentions and beliefs. Brothers, this is what today’s episode is about, harnessing the power of intention. Intention is a powerful aspect of the physical realm aimed at belief. It is essential that beliefs encompass intention because intention helps us manifest our desired outcomes. Therefore, when we learn to believe, we must also learn how to direct our focus and intention to achieve our goals. People think that action creates results, which is not true. In reality, this is a perverse outlook brought about by illusion, forgetfulness, and unconsciousness. Today, I focus on intention and how to be hyper-focused in the moment. I am going to suggest a different question, “What if your life depended on it?” This question evokes a way of thinking not based on time as a commodity. It reveals intention, and this simple exercise will make fundamental changes in the physical realm of your life. It is imperative to use your energy and mind to focus your actions and give them power. Commit to each action you take as if your life depended on it. Brothers, I know this is a difficult concept to grasp, but it is essential to understand the power of intention. Giving each action your full attention will help you achieve excellence and make the action becomes virtuous. Brothers, join me today for another step in our journey to cognitive master as I teach you about the power of intention, and help you elevate your alpha!
Fri, July 08, 2022
Episode 200: Everything Is Energy
In this episode, I will follow up on a concept I covered in previous episodes regarding energy and take it a step further so that you have a more fully developed picture of what energy is. It is important to remember that we are spiritual beings having a human experience. What I will talk about in this podcast may not make sense initially, and you may need to listen to this episode more than once to grasp the concept. The current dimension of our existence, which is 3-dimensional, has clouded our understanding of who we really are and our true purpose. This is a result of cognitive conditioning from the third dimension, which creates resistance to the concept of energy, and in turn, causes us to live unconsciously. Those who are not living consciously and do not understand that they are a being of energy from a higher dimension, live unhappy and unremarkable lives. What I am going to offer you in this episode is a way of believing that frees you from all forms of control and low vibrational existence. It will free you from the suffering we experience in the third dimension. What is the real you, and how can you find yourself? The truth is, brothers, we can transcend all low vibrational energy. You\'ve heard me say many times that emotional contrast is essential and that we seek emotional balance. The truth is you are a 12-dimensional being having a third-dimension experience. The realm of energy is an infinite ocean of potential and has no beginning or end. Once you fully grasp that concept, the next step is to embrace that energy is vibration. We can control those vibrations to create beauty and love. I\'m not talking about the information field that brings matter into manifestation. I\'m talking about a field of vibration, a field of formless energy. Brothers, join me today as we delve into the mystery of who you are and how to remember, as I help you elevate your alpha!
Fri, July 01, 2022
Episode 199: 12 Attitudes Of Mastery
This is the next step on your journey to the alpha state, brother, and I am so excited to continue this mission of teaching and guiding you on your way! Today, we are exploring the 12 attitudes that you can foster in your spiritual practice to elevate your alpha and attain a life beyond fear and hate. This list is a suggestion, an offer for you to implement things in your life and escape the illusion of duality and separation, because that is not the reality, brothers! Let us begin with the foundation of the kingdom of heaven and its residence inside you. That\'s right. It is nowhere else but inside your own soul. From there, we can kick off our list with the first and most important attitude which is, of course, love! This is what holds everything together and, tuning into this discussion, you will hear how it relates deeply to the next 11 attitudes of mastery. I cover grace, gratitude, reverent respect, responsibility, trust, accountability, impeccability, mindfulness, fearlessness, engaged detachment, and lastly, joy! Remember, brothers, this is not evangelism. It is merely me sharing the truth with you and allowing you to do what you will with it. I would love to see you connect with the heart of God, escape the algorithm of fear, and wake up out of conditioning and ego, but the choice is and always will be yours. So, to set out on this path together and begin to live the life that all of us deserve, join me on the Alpha Male Coach!
Fri, June 24, 2022
Episode 198: Money is an Energy
Hello, my brothers, and thank you for joining me again as we continue our journey of cognitive mastery. In today\'s episode, I switch gears and talk about something that I have not spoken about for a while: money. Specifically, I will talk about your power, responsibility, and abundance regarding money, which I think is important given these difficult times. I was in the US recently, and I could feel the vibrations of confusion, worry, doubt, and scarcity when I left. It is important to remember that the universe does not make mistakes. We choose our relationship to the outer world, which is also a reflection of our inner world. Keep these aspects in mind when listening to today\'s show. Everyone has a different definition of money. For some people, it is time, freedom, and power. These are common misconceptions. Money is energy that manifests through vibrations, which are in turn formed from our thoughts and relationship with the inner and outer worlds. Money is a visible, molecular object that has slowed down from the realm of invisible, higher vibration. All things come from the invisible realm of infinite potential and are slowed down through the medium of thought to become physical objects in the realm of matter and density, which we call reality. In this way, money is a mere representation of energy, our most basic needs, such as survival and subsistence. Understanding these concepts ultimately leads to the question: what thoughts manifest money? Money holds a place in our minds that represents our ability to survive, provide, and create impact. We need to master energy to achieve its true purpose in the physical plane, which first comes through mastering thought! If you are struggling financially, it is because you manifested the situation through your inner thoughts. However, you have the power to change your reality. Brothers, as men, we are here to master energy in the form of money in the physical realm. Cognitive mastery is our purpose. Join me today as I help you understand what money is and what it takes to manifest it through your inner thoughts and help you elevate your alpha!
Fri, June 17, 2022
Episode 197: Gratitude Is The Gateway
Hello, my brothers and welcome to another episode of The Alpha Male Coach Podcast. I have received positive feedback about the previous episode, The Movie of Life, which explored the concept of starring in a movie as an analogy for the human experience. Although we were able to dive deep into the idea, I was not able to say everything I wanted to. So today, I want to add three additional concepts to the previous episode before exploring today’s topic, gratitude. Remember the beam of light from the projector? That beam of light is everything. You, me, and everything in between. It is also important to remember that you can change the theater and the movie of your life at any time. It is crucial to remember to watch and act in movies that you want, and not for anyone else. Accepting these truths allows us to grow closer to the creator and master our cognitive abilities. This brings me to another important aspect of the human experience that I want to speak about with you today, gratitude. Gratitude is the gateway. What do I mean by that? The standard definition of gratitude is limited as it does not include what we have to be grateful for or the experience of the energy, the vibration of gratitude. To master the spiritual plane we must first master the physical plane, and gratitude is the first step towards this and attracting abundance on the physical plane. If your mind is stuck in the thought pattern of ungratefulness, then you need to shift your mindset to a mindset of being grateful. Once you have achieved this, you can move towards being grateful on the mental plane. Mastery of the mental plane is a momentous leap from the physical plane and requires immense discipline. Brothers, today I will also talk to you about how to master the mental plane through active meditation. I explain in detail what is required to be grateful on the mental plane, which is being grateful for each moment that life gives you. Be grateful for your sight, for the rain, for the ability to walk, for everything little thing that life bestows upon you. Although this is difficult, it is not as challenging to master as the energetic plane. The energetic plane is our feelings, the vibrations of life and emotion. Brothers, I have said this before, but we need to learn how to feel so we can be truly grateful on the energetic plane. My brothers, it is imperative to remember that this takes immense work and time. Do not expect immediate results, as it is constant work. It is what our soul needs to evolve and grow and ultimately reach God-consciousness. True emotions are a vibration. I ask that you join me again today to continue our journey from the last episode as we learn how to be truly grateful and open up the gateway to the universe.
Fri, June 10, 2022
Episode 196: The Movie of Life
In past episodes, my focus has been on cognition and provided listeners the tools to expand their experience on a deeper level within the physical and mental plains of consciousness. However, if you have been asking even deeper questions, you have taken another step forward to finding the truth. Thank you for joining me on this journey as we continue to evolve and awaken together. Brothers, today I ask you to dig a bit deeper with me. What is the human experience? This is a question that people have explored in many different forms, from books to movies. The consensus is that you either have to renounce all of your earthly-bound possessions and go live in solitude or dismiss the idea entirely. Then there are the more practical people who explore the duality of the inner and outer worlds while maintaining a balance with their everyday existence. The modern world is full of examples of the duality of life, such as movies. Movies are being projected onto a blank canvas just as we, the audience, are being projected by a beam of light from the creator. Just like we experience life through a movie, so does the creator through us, who is projecting what they want to see. The arc of any character in any movie is through conflict and resolution, which helps the character grow and evolve. Brothers, this is the same for us, as we experience the ups and downs that life gives us, which help us grow and learn to become better. However, this is only achieved by being present in the moment and fully understanding the human experience. Join me today to continue our journey as I help you learn and understand the movie of your life.
Fri, June 03, 2022
Episode 195: Indomitable Self-Confidence Is NOT A Feeling
We have just entered the month of June at the academy and that means we are focusing on indomitable self-confidence for the next thirty days. Today on the show I want to delve into the truth about indomitable self-confidence so that you can begin to resonate with it on a deeper level and access your own indomitable self-confidence. Too many of us, especially men, have forgotten how to feel. This is why our training at the Academy always starts with understanding how we’ve been conditioned to deal with our emotions. Our feelings are our state of being. This is why it’s so important that you remember how to feel all your emotions, because this is the language of the soul, the language of your alpha state. The beta strives to separate you from your alpha state by seeking pleasure and avoiding pain. But the truth is that you don’t need to be afraid of feelings like anxiety and discomfort, they are all equally valid. Brothers, I want you to understand that when you accept all your feelings and stop judging certain emotions as negative and others as positive, then you allow yourself to access your alpha state, which in turn will allow you to access your soul and attract the health, wealth, and love that you deserve. Tune in today as I unpack the truth behind the misconceptions we’ve been conditioned to believe and what indomitable self-confidence truly means!
Fri, May 27, 2022
Episode 194: The Science of Creation and Attraction
I\'ve had a few brothers ask me some questions about the process of creation itself, about how creation works as a force. Well, brothers, today I am going to explain. In this episode, I talk about how creation remains to be one of the most important forces in the universe. I explain, brothers, how the explosion caused by the Big Bang expanded everything that existed and separated it into two groups, creating a basic duality of quarks and leptons. You’ll hear about the neutrino field of information that we live in and how in the same way that a fish swims through water, we swim through a field of data so small that not only can we not see it, but it permeates every cell in our body. In addition to that, we are embodiments of pure light and raw energy, and when an electrical field generated by our thoughts is aligned with the magnetic field vibrating from our hearts, we become machines of creation. Brothers, I want you to understand that whenever what you\'re thinking and feeling is in alignment, the neutrino field responds to it and moves whatever it is that you are asking for through your electromagnetic field to you. Tune in as I attempt to explain these deeply complex concepts in a way that aims to make them understandable in just 30 minutes.
Fri, May 20, 2022
Episode 193: Right And Wrong In A Neutral Universe
When people start to practice living through the universal truth, they often think that this philosophy appears to give them license to act in ways that would be harmful to others. Today, brothers, I want to clear up this misconception of the universal truth by offering what it means to determine right and wrong in a neutral universe. In this episode, you’ll learn that the transition to the alpha state is the movement from ‘I and other’ to ‘inner and outer’. You’ll begin to understand the experience of oneness, where what is within me is being reflected outside of me, and what is outside of me is demonstrating what is within me. Everything is you and you are everything. There is nothing but you. Tuning in, you’ll hear a recap of what the universal truth is before I explain why there is no objective morality, there is no objective right or wrong in the circumstance, in the universe, in what happens outside of your mind and outside of what happens in your body. You’ll start to understand, my brothers, that there is no such thing as right and wrong and the question instead should be, “How do you determine what is right and wrong from within you?” Today I explain that nothing is wrong as an objective permanent state in the outer universe. The way you then determine what is wrong is through an inner framework. Tune in today, brothers, as I explain what this inner framework is and challenge you to make a radical change in determining, with your own consciousness, who it is that you want to be!
Fri, May 13, 2022
Episode 192: Can Others Hurt You?
This month we are going deeper into relationships, brothers. As you know, relationships are the foundation of all the work we do here, as you cannot have a human experience without being in a relation to something else. Relationships are what enable us to experience, exist, and evolve; they are everything! Now, you know that others cannot hurt you, it is something I have said on the show many times, and in this episode, I will be clearing up some misunderstandings about the universal truth and the model of alignment. Join me to hear about those moments when we come into contact with others, how this can feel like it leads to harm, and how boundaries can be set. This all comes down to how we apply the universal truth, and through this, how we can be set free from being hurt by others. No matter where you are on your journey, you are able to begin a process of progress, we do not start at the top of the mountain. It is just a matter of realizing where the harm comes from, and there is no surprise that it is something inside ourselves. The purpose of our relationships is to help us evolve and release ourselves, they are about having feelings and working through them, and it is only through resistance that the same patterns of pain will continue. I am here, brothers, to help you become an emotional master, and this means being more predictable! The beta condition is what is unpredictable, always reacting to its environment and triggers. The only relevant question we need to be asking ourselves as we set out on this path is about love and how to do that more!
Fri, May 06, 2022
Episode 191: The Force of Creation and the Thought Upload
Observing the world around us, it’s impossible not to be completely in awe of the natural world. Brothers, creation is one of the forces for the universe. Star Wars has given us the perfect illustration of the way that forces operate in our universe. For example, gravity is a force in our universe that holds things together. Just like gravity, creation is a force that only attracts. This is important for you to know because gravity responds to actions. Whether we know it or not, our thoughts are always creating our reality. That’s why the most important skill that we can teach ourselves and our children is cognitive mastery. We know that creation exists. We don’t know what it is, but we know that it is there. We don’t need to know what these forces are, we just need to know how they work, and see the results they bring. All things will be revealed in time because all things exist now! What you do need to do, is to practice utilizing and engaging this force, and that’s how you will release yourself from the prison of forgetting. A simple meditation technique can help you to engage this force. First, you’ll find a comfortable seated position, before starting to focus on your breathing and then moving into a body scan. Your body is a cellular vehicle; a group of cells held together by energy. When we go into our bodies and experience this energy, we enter a meditative state. The five-part process begins with recognition, by engaging with the experience of yourself, and the world beyond. You can use the mantra ‘it is’ to help you to expand to all of everything. The second step is unification. The ‘I am’ statement is the most powerful in all of life, because it reminds us that we are not separate from the universe, and so we move from ‘it is’ to ‘I am’. We dwell on these for up to 15 minutes. There’s a state of being you’ll slide into where your brain waves actually change, and you begin to experience an expansion into everything. You lose a sense of boundary, a sense of body. Next, we move into declaration or command. The same way gravity responds to our actions. The force of creation does the same thing with our thoughts and beliefs. We declare from a place of having happened, having already occurred. Do this without self-judgment. If you create with judgment, your creation will be confused. Brothers, you can be anything. Through these thought uploads, you can heal yourself. We do this according to three specifications: it is positive, it is in the present moment, and it is for the common good. Even though the force of creation is impersonal and neutral, the more we begin to heal, the more we will experience that revolution externally. As it is said, it is done. We move into gratitude, the gateway to the soul. Gratitude i
Fri, April 29, 2022
Episode 190: The Mystery Of Time (Part 1)
Brothers, time is a mental construct. Today, the goal is to offer insight into what that means, and how it affects our lives. The first step to understanding this, mystical as it may seem, is that there is no time. What we consider the future, is in fact the present, because everything exists in the realm of vibration, of sound, and from that realm, we bring forth the realm of form. A true understanding of time allows you to live much more peacefully within your realm of relativity. It is not time that is moving, but you that is the mover. This is not something you don’t know, it is something that we have forgotten. When we stand still within time, we experience those life-defining moments. What is a year? 365 days. What is a day? We have decided that a day consists of the time it takes for the earth to spin one complete revolution on its axis towards the sun. We have gone ahead and subdivided that into hours, minutes, and seconds, and it’s all completely arbitrary when it comes down to it. So too with years, days, weeks, and months. The theory of relativity tells us that the universe is expanding. And time is relative to that distance. Einstein recognized that it wasn’t time that was moving, but himself. The bottom line? Time exists only in our minds! When we take our place in space, we see everything, as it is, right now. Brothers, if this sounds like you are powerless to change your path, you are mistaken! You are always in a place of free will and total choice. If you see something you don’t like in your future, you have the power to change it. What you do not know, you have forgotten, and remembering is what makes it so. The forgetfulness we all experience is the great secret of life. If you don’t like what you sense about your future, you step away from that. It is impossible to change the future, but it is possible to create the future you desire. By changing what the “you” in front of you experienced then the “you” behind you may never have to experience it. It is by this device that your soul evolves in the same way that the future you got help from did. With an alpha mindset, you are a spiritual being, capable of having more than one experience at a time. Although you may feel that you do, the truth is that you have no limitations! You get to choose who you really are, and become that person. You have the power to manifest and become that highest version of yourself, and that’s an ongoing process. In our linear reality, we see things as past, present
Fri, April 22, 2022
Episode 189: The Mirror of Life
It\'s time for another thought experiment, my brothers. You know I love these, as they can be such a powerful means to explore the mysteries of the universe! We’ve already looked at the dream of life, the puzzle of life, and the game of life, and today I want to get into the mirror of life. Using these lessons we can continue to expand our understanding of the world and our lives, and this episode is the introduction to beginning to practice this principle. What I really want you all to be able to do is reverse the effect of the illusion of separateness. The mirror principle is one of the alpha male tenets, and we have spoken before about how it helps us correct the misunderstanding about duality. The truth is the oneness, and in the oneness, there is always the trinity. There is ourselves, what is outside ourselves, and what is between us and something else. What is between is what binds us, unites us in universal oneness, and without accepting that we will live in false isolation forever! You are not separate from anything, you know that you are everything and that everything is a reflection of you! When we feel separate, it leads to certain kinds of behaviors and relationships, ones in which we compare and distance ourselves. We can relate this back to the lesson about the dream of life, and how we need to awaken ourselves to the reality of oneness, brothers. So join me today, for an important lesson, and to begin the process of recognizing the reality of oneness.
Fri, April 15, 2022
Episode 188: The Esoteric Universal Truth
Whatever circumstances you experience in your daily life may seem as though they are happening to you, but in fact, every circumstance that you find yourself in is something that you have manifested through your thoughts. Whether consciously or unconsciously, you are the creator of your thoughts, and therefore you are the creator of your circumstances. This is the Universal Truth, and brothers, I want all of you to understand it because it will be life changing for you when you do. Your state of being is your truth, and whatever it feels like, even if it\'s an uncomfortable feeling, you need to feel it, because that is what you have chosen for yourself and you wouldn’t have chosen it for no reason. There is so much power in feeling. For those brothers, who are new to the Alpha journey, if this is blowing your mind, don’t worry, you’re on the right track by being here, and if you’re ready to take things to the next level, the Academy is ready and waiting for you!
Fri, April 08, 2022
Episode 187: Find Your Tribe
Everything that we perceive is created by consciousness; by our beliefs. All the systems that were designed to elevate us as a species are failing us, and it’s hard to believe, but it’s our very beliefs that are the cause of this failure. Deep-seated beliefs are hard to shake but let me assure you, brothers, it is not impossible! Beliefs are not created by proof, they are created by desire, and all we need to do, as a collective, is change our desires in order to change our collective outcomes. Group consciousness is powerful. So powerful, in fact, that it can easily override the individual consciousness. That is why it is so important to strive to find your tribe and expand the group consciousness of love, harmony, and abundance. If you, yourself, are not conscious, you may get swept up by a collective consciousness that perpetuates harm. Simply by practicing cognitive mastery and raising your own consciousness, you will attract like-minded individuals who are operating on the same frequency and, in truth, your tribe will find you! Most people are satisfied with the way the world operates, championing separation over similarities. But, you see, the thing is, brothers, that separation breeds indifference and false superiority, whereas unity breeds compassion and genuine equality. Uniformity is not unity! Thus it is up to us to step out and find our tribe and accelerate the process of enlightenment for all. Join me to find out more about how simply raising your consciousness and existing in the alpha state can help to shift the collective reality!
Fri, April 01, 2022
Episode 186: Health Is An Effect
Welcome back, brothers. Today I will be exploring some potentially controversial waters, but this is important stuff that I feel I need to talk to you about. You will likely be accustomed to me taking a counter-intuitive path on this podcast, and today is no different! These revolutionary ideas can take your life from one blighted by sickness and disease, and transform it into something blossoming and beautiful, and as usual, it all starts with our beliefs. The foundation of what we are talking about is the universal force of creation, and once we understand what the causes and effects are, we start to see how everything we experience is an effect of what we think and tell ourselves. This is why worrying is what makes us sick. Not what we eat, or how we choose to spend our time. The story that keeps playing in our heads is what determines whether we are healthy or unwell! So my message to you is this brothers: when we stop worrying we can begin to be healthy. Worrying is what happens when we do not understand oneness, connection, and love. All those dangerous parts of our thinking: worry, hate, fear, anxiety, bitterness, impatience, unkindness, judgment, and condemnation can destroy us, and attack our very cells! We need to escape the life of a mental leper and realize how this all combines in the three aspects of the self and our alpha state. Tune in to hear all about it!
Fri, March 25, 2022
Episode 185: How To Do What You Love To Do
Brothers, all of you are a triumvirate; made up of mind, body, and spirit. The way to reach true alignment and to experience life in your Alpha State is to get to the point where all three of these elements of the trinity that is you, are acting in harmony. When you achieve this, you will understand that what you do is not important, it\'s how you do it. Too many people are obsessed with doing, when really what we should all be focusing on is being. We are human beings after all. Right, brothers? Every circumstance that you find yourself in is something that you’ve attracted and chosen, but even though your spirit has guided you to your choice, it is not able to impose your experience of that choice onto you. That is up to your mind. If you\'re worrying about what you should be doing with your life, stop. Think about who you are instead. If you\'re unsure of who you are, I\'ll tell you; love, that\'s who you are brother, and you have a right to feel joy, compassion, gratitude, and kindness.
Fri, March 18, 2022
Episode 184: Why You Can\'t Have What You Want
I\'m going to be honest with you, brothers, today\'s message might seem a little wild at first! But it is something that is central to becoming an alpha male. We all have to accept the truth that wanting and having are opposite forces. What I mean by this is that when you want something you are engaging your belief in a lack or scarcity of it. When you have something, you are in the mind-state of abundance, and so by understanding that you already have everything, you are welcoming and creating space for everything in your life. There is a direct link between abundance and our ability to be unconcerned by desire. My message to you here is to first and foremost experience and appreciate what you have, which turns out to be everything! In today\'s episode, I will be explaining how wanting something pushes it away from you, and why our words are so powerful in the world we create for ourselves. I will be delving into what happens when we repeat stories and thoughts about our desires, and how this exemplifies the creative power we possess. It may be difficult to understand completely right now, but I promise you, brothers, that it is amazing how certain things can stop concerning you. It is a beautiful evolution and one which leads to experiencing more of the world. In essence, this is the discovery of our creative force, and more of what is out there and available to us. So, make sure to join me for this vital discussion to hear about the gateway of gratitude, and even what I call, the \'gratitude sandwich\'!
Fri, March 11, 2022
Episode 183: Obligation vs Opportunity
When we stop to examine the beliefs that underpin our society, we will find that many of them are pernicious and jeopardize our ability to attain the Alpha state. One of the biggest areas that this plays out in is the way we approach relationships. Many of us believe that the purpose of relationships is to find completeness, but what I am here to tell you today is that this is a complete misunderstanding. When two people enter into a relationship with this type of expectation, the relationship is based on obligation. The results are that the relationship becomes filled with resentment and neither partner is given an opportunity to grow personally. The real purpose of a relationship is to decide what part of yourself you\'d like to give, not what part of the other person you can capture. It is only when we approach our relationships with the intention of what we can give rather than what we can take, that they become an opportunity to grow and a crucible for the attainment of our highest selves. Nowhere in your life do you have more of an opportunity to reach your Alpha state than in relationships. In today’s show, you’ll hear how to approach relationships with five goals in mind: personal growth, self-expression, attainment of your highest potential, healing, and ultimate reunion with the universe. To learn the true purpose of relationships, be sure to tune in today with me, Brothers.
Fri, March 04, 2022
Episode 182: You Can Never Do Anything Wrong
You might feel some immediate resistance to the statement in the title of this episode: you can never do anything wrong. I realize it’s a bold statement to make, my brothers, but as you’ll discover today, creation acts like a cosmic mirror that is always offering us the image of ourselves and the pain we are suffering from so that we can see it, so that we can become conscious of it, and so that we can heal from it. That is the lesson of creation and that is why you can never make the wrong choice; because the universe will always teach you. The universe will always love you. A student of mine once asked me how he knew that he was making the right choice and, brothers, I’m going to tell you what I told him: the point of life is not to get anywhere. It’s to notice that you are already there. You are always and forever in the moment of pure creation. The point of life is to remember and create who and what you are, and then to experience that fully. Remember, when presented with a decision, the alpha is the one who always comes up with the same answer, and that answer is always the highest choice. In this way, the alpha is completely predictable. An easy way to measure your progress on the journey to elevating your alpha is to simply notice how reliably you make the highest choice when responding or reacting to any situation. Now, you may be asking: what is the highest choice? Well, brothers, just by asking yourself that question, you’re already on your way to elevating your alpha state. Listening in, you’ll learn more about choosing love over fear, abundance over scarcity, and making decisions that result in the highest good for you. A final reminder: you can\'t do anything wrong. You can only learn from the choices you make. Tune in today to find out more!
Fri, February 25, 2022
Episode 181: I AM Statements
I am back to share some of my knowledge with you, brothers! What you take away and play with is your choice, but remember, this experiment called life is an adventure that you get to explore through your own free will. Today we are going deep; deep into the fundamental nature of creation and our part in it. This episode is all about the power of what we think, say, and do, and about how remembering who you are can bring certainty and strength into your life, banishing fear and pessimism forever! No matter how we name the different parts of ourselves, we are all made up of the trinity, and harnessing creation and creative energy is the bringing together of these three parts, through thought, words, and actions. It starts with thoughts, then moves into words, and lastly becomes action! When we do not act, brothers, it is because we are missing belief and certainty. I am here to show you a new world, one that is filled with fruits from a firmly grounded tree. The roots of this tree are the \'I AM\' statements we make. These exemplify the power of our thought and are what change our thoughts into actions. If we can start with gratefulness for creation, harnessing acceptance and thankfulness for everything that already is, we are able to take action and change what we desire. It is through these new thoughts and new actions that we can call forth a new reality, and it all starts with \'I AM\'!
Fri, February 18, 2022
Episode 180: The Dream Of Life
Most of you listening to this will be under the illusion that you are living your life when the truth is that you are actually dreaming your life. I understand why this may be confusing brothers, but give me a chance to explain it to you in full and it will all become clear. There are two parts to the Dream of Life; the first is the setup and the second is the awakening. What you experience as reality is actually all in your head, but just like lucid dreamers can become conscious in their dreams, you can become conscious in the greater Dream of Life and therefore create the life you truly want. In other words, you can learn to ‘lucid live!’ But before you can do this, brothers, you need to remember and understand who you are, and that is where I can help you. If you are ready to get to the core of your true self and use the power you have within you to build the life you deserve, I implore you to enroll at the Academy. Words don’t do justice to what it feels like to live in your Alpha State, and I want all of you to be able to experience what I do on a daily basis.
Fri, February 11, 2022
Episode 179: Decision Making with Raphael
Welcome, brothers, to the final interview episode of The Alpha Male podcast. Today’s guest is someone I am so proud of, a brother who has truly embraced the alpha male way, and who has now turned to teaching those the light. Raphael Roman was on the fence about joining the academy initially, however, he took the leap and has not looked back. He went from being in a beta mindset in an unhappy relationship and an uninspiring job to being an alpha male who can stand proudly on his own while building the career of his dreams. Tune in to hear how Raphael discovered Kevin’s teachings, and what tipped him over the edge in the decision to enroll in the academy. Raphael describes why it’s so important that I don’t give you the answers, but rather train you to make the choices that are best for you to embrace your alpha male state. Raphael tells us the most important lessons that he learned from the academy (how to walk away when you’re giving too much), and why he wants to complete the certification course (to help others). If you have wondered what the difference is between what is learned from the training course and the certification course, brothers, then this episode is the one for you. As an alumnus of both, Raphael describes what he has learned in both, and how he applies them to the people and relationships that surround him. Remember, brothers, that recognizing your own thoughts is the first step to enlightenment and evolution of the mind. If you are on the fence about changing your life and enrolling in the academy, Raphael’s advice will convince you to take that leap, because you never know what is around the corner. Join us to get to know a true alpha male, and to understand how you can build a life that is better than the one in your dreams. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, February 04, 2022
Episode 178: The Power of Action with Shawn Heshmatpour
Today’s guest, brothers, is one of the students who has learned the most from the Academy, and who I have, in turn, learned the most from. Shawn Heshmatpour joined the academy in 2021, seeking a purpose and passion for his life, and wanting to get in touch with love and intimacy. Through his learning, he sought a deeper truth and continued with the certification course. Within a year, he has grown into a life coach where he continues the cognitive movement using his own experiences and words to find the light within others. In this interview, Shawn opens up about why he had so much self-doubt around love and intimacy and how he realized that his biggest block to finding passion and his own inner peace was that he was not listening to himself. We have all been conditioned throughout our lives to seek external validation, to live our lives according to other people’s timelines. And for what, brothers? The “aha” moment that Shawn had during his time in the Academy is one of the most important lessons we can learn about listening to your inner voice and living life as we want to! Join us, brothers, to hear what Shawn learned from the academy and how he entered the certification course to continue to sink deeper into understanding our cognitions. We reveal why it’s your mind that interrupts your goals and how your inner voice is telling you the truth. The lessons learned from Shawn were manyfold, and he brings his unique perspective both to our teachers and his students. He also explains why he loves what he does and why you should lean into the fear of uncertainty and just do it, so listen in today to hear why you should just do it ! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 28, 2022
Episode 177: Businesses and Brotherhood with Brent
Welcome back, brothers. Continuing in my series of interviews with academy and coach certification course students, today I talk to Brent Smith who is in both programs. Before coming to the academy, Brent was always chasing an idea of success, of material wealth, a better life, and wanting more for himself, without really knowing why. He had a good job, was dating pretty women, and had a successful life, but he still felt an emptiness and a lack of fulfillment. In this interview, Brent shares with us his reason for enrolling in the academy and how in his time as a student, he’s started to see a path and understand how to accept life as it is and spend much more time in a state of peace. He explains how he’s learned the ability to trust in the universe, trust in God, and accept that even though he may think that a certain outcome is going to make him happy, that regardless of what happens, everything plays out exactly as it should. Brent talks about his experience in the academy and what it is like being a part of it. He chats about the friends and support system he has found in it, how it has impacted his romantic relationship, and how it has benefitted him in different ways. We also talk about the universal truth and oneness: how you are the entire universe in a part and the universe loves us because we are the universe and we are love. Brent explains how the realizations of these truths have taught him about unconditional love and overcoming fear. Join us, brothers, to hear about all this and more! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 21, 2022
Episode 176: Releasing Anxiety with Bob
Brothers, I spend a lot of time speaking about the mindset shifts that I teach, but today it’s time to hear testimony from an actual student of mine. In this episode of the show, we invite Bob Lincoln to talk about how he found out about the Spartan Academy and the shifts that have occurred in his life since enrolling. Bob is in fact a two-time student of mine because he firstly completed the Academy and then moved onto the Coach Certification Course, which he is currently enrolled in. We hear from Bob about the beginning of his inner search which began as long as 15 years ago, the struggles he was having in his life then, and how the stories he was telling himself were holding him back from unleashing his Alpha. Bob talks about how he was unsatisfied with the results of his search, causing him to go down a rabbit hole that ended up in him finding the Alpha Male Coach Podcast. Bob explains that the content he heard on this show was like nothing he had encountered before, and that a failed relationship caused him to finally take a leap of faith and enroll in the Academy. We ask Bob what changes he underwent after experiencing his training, what advice he would give a seeker of the truth who has misgivings about signing up for this program, and the main differences he has uncovered between the Spartan Academy and the Coach Certification Course. In our conversation, Bob talks about how his training helped him overcome anxiety, feel more confident to be his authentic self, and realize that his emotions were his own and could not be influenced by outside circumstances. We speak about the ripple effects of these changes on his life more broadly, changes in the way he relates to his kids, employees, and even the woman that triggered this whole journey. Tune in for a real story about how the Spartan Academy changed Bob\'s life. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 14, 2022
Episode 175: More Money, More Time, And More Me with Jay
Welcome back to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast, my brothers! Over the next few weeks, I will be living off the grid in the Amazon rainforest, which is why I’ve put together this series of conversations with some of my Spartan Academy and certification course students so that they can share their firsthand experiences with you. Today, you’ll hear from Jay Chekansky, who has been doing amazing work in the Academy for over a year now. He shares a bit about his story with us, from why he ended up joining the Academy to how it helped him break free from what was expected of him and overcome his previous money scarcity mindset. We discuss the generational healing that Jay has facilitated by refusing to accept his conditioning, how he learned to have faith in himself, and why ‘doing the work’ was a critical component of elevating his alpha. Jay speaks candidly about the biggest challenge he had to overcome during his 15 months at the Academy, how he was able to step into being the kind of man he wanted to be, and what his Impossible Goal for 2021 taught him about the power of abundance. He also shares his advice for you, my brothers, before you enroll in the Elevated Alpha Society Spartan Academy and emphasizes the importance of being honest with yourself about your goals. To find out how Jay discovered more money, more time, and more self-actualization (and how you can do the same), make sure not to miss today’s insightful conversation! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 07, 2022
Episode 174: The Great Divide
The thing I am going to help you all understand today, brothers, is the cause of all suffering and how to overcome it. This is a topic for the new year and something I am going to explore deeply with the podcast and the academy moving into 2022. Put simply, we suffer because we are out of alignment with what is. Our minds invent a set of narratives about reality, and when things don’t go the way it wants them to, we resist, and this is the birth of the suffering we feel. When we are presented with a circumstance, and the thoughts we have about it are in resistance, we suffer cognitively. When we are feeling the chemical reaction of emotion, and the thoughts we have about it are in resistance, we suffer emotionally. When we are disconnected from the information field of oneness due to our attachment to thoughts, we suffer spiritually. The key to escaping this cycle of resistance is learning to accept that circumstances are true and perfect. Our journey to the Alpha state is learning how to recognize that these feelings of misalignment are the universe’s way of telling us that we are not living in truth. When you have completely detached from engaging with the thoughts that pass through your mind, you will begin to become aware of the truth that is all around you, which is an information field of vibration, an information field of oneness and love. This is just a taste of what you will learn in the academy, and when you are ready, we are here to welcome you to the brotherhood of humanity. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, December 31, 2021
Episode 173: 2021 – Year In Review
In celebration of the end of 2021, I am going to do things a little differently and spend this episode sharing some of my personal story with you, my brothers. You all know I don\'t like to brag or boast and I generally try to steer clear of making this podcast too much about myself, but today, as we look back at the year we just had, I thought that using my story would be a welcome contrast and provide some useful encouragement to all of you. I hope that through sharing how I managed to rebuild and the important steps in my process that I can inspire you on your own journey! Before I focus on this year and the amazing time I have had in such an unusual period of history, I want to take us back to 2016. To me, this feels like a lifetime ago, but also feels like it was only yesterday. I was arriving in Australia after my time setting up a CrossFit gym in China, and from there I went to Arizona with very few material possessions and little definite direction. It was during this time that much of my life as I knew it changed, and I ended up living with my father, depressed, confused, and broke. It was during this moment of despair that I had a huge realization about the nature of my reality, and how all the things that I was experiencing were in my mind. This catalytic moment set me on the path to where I am today and the amazing year I had in 2021. I started down a path that was not easy, and all through 2017 I worked on it. I had epiphanies in 2018 and went on to make some major moves in 2019, and what I want to show you, brothers, are how these humble beginnings grew into my life and business today. My life is proof of how the darkness can lift and the sun can come out. So, join me to hear all about this and more! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, December 24, 2021
Episode 172: Buffering - The First Barrier To Meeting Your True Self
We are returning to the subject of buffering today, something I have spoken about on this show before on a few occasions. I have also tackled this important theme in the courses at the academy. Removing this barrier to the self is central to the work we do together. Removing buffering habits is something I have done personally, brothers, overcoming unhealthy relationships to marijuana, pornography, oversleeping, exercising, social media, and most recently, digital gambling. Essentially, buffering is an avoidance of the truth and who you really are, and I want to help you get back to those vital things! Our avoidant behaviors have internal and external dimensions, with buffering landing in the external arena. I will talk more about resistance in a future episode, which is a form of internal avoidance. Simply put, we need to start processing our emotions instead of running away from them and when we stay in the moment, we are in the alpha state, with buffering being the opposite of this. There are so many examples of how we buffer, from overeating and drinking to working out, to sex, to watching television, and even with the use of stimulants such as coffee. I often say that we are supposed to enjoy this life! It is an important part of my philosophy, brothers, and with that in mind, I will be taking a slightly different angle on buffering today, and supplying you all with some more guidance about how to get past these barriers. This is a simple protocol for cleansing yourself from habits that keep you from the self, and through some simple steps and a little effort, you can once again engage with yourself and the moment! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, December 17, 2021
Episode 171: Ownership
These episodes have been getting a little wild recently and this one is no different! I know that many of you, brothers, want practical and actionable advice and strategies for how to apply these teachings. With that said, we are going to be diving into the subject of ownership today, and to kick this off I want to present you with the idea of the process, that every moment you are living your purpose. We all have to suffer to grow and evolve, and as soon as we accept that journey and embody that self-knowledge, we can get away from victimhood! There is a lot of confusion about ownership and to gain some clarity, we need to get away from our dependence on outcomes. We do not own anything, ever! Owning and possessing relies on the idea of separation, which we know is false, brothers. You are everything, and the idea that you own things that are separate from you is the biggest illusion. It is better to understand what we use and hold as \'on loan\', because nothing is truly ours, and it cannot be. As I have said before, our true selves have no beginning or end; when we start to understand that and get to the real nature of things, we can know ourselves and the universe. There are three expressions I want to share today that can be helpful in this regard. The first is that everything is one and that we cannot disconnect from the world around us. The second is to consider the breath; the simple act of breathing is the most profound lesson about the nature of the universe and eternal life. The third and last is a message to simply love because through the power of love we can achieve any goal and unlock more power than we can imagine! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, December 10, 2021
Episode 170: The Game Of Life
Brothers, what I want to introduce you to today is a thought experiment called the Game of Life. It is designed to help you understand why it is that you are here on this planet: to live the life you’re meant to live, not the life you’ve been conditioned to believe you should be living! These concepts are highly complex, cognitive, scientific, and spiritual, so we will use storytelling and analogy to help us understand. I warn you, we’re going to get wild today! There is nothing separating you from me, except for the limiting beliefs and conditioning that we have attached to our lives, and that is what this analogy is all about. Your true state is the alpha, the self that came into the world before all of your conditioning. The identity you have created for yourself is your beta. This only exists as long as you are living a human life, and passes on when you do. Think of life as a board game, but the rules haven’t been written yet, and you have no idea what’s going on in the game. There are a few words, but they’re impossible to understand. As your body ages in the realm of form, you continue to play this game. As time passes, more words appear in the instruction manual, and you’re making sense of them with your own limitless imagination. One day, you wake up and find you can read and understand the words. That’s when you start to have beliefs. On the first pages, you find the ‘Rules from Self’ chapter. Reading ahead, you’ll see ‘Rules from Others’ and you start to feel confused by the fact that some of these rules are in conflict with each other. So you go back and try to find another way to play, but you find yourself breaking some of the rules. Others start to judge the way you are playing the game and in return, you judge them too. Brothers, when we turn against the Rules of Self, we harm the soul of the self and live through the beta condition. If you’re a seeker, you’re looking for a way to return to the rules of self. You’re seeking a pathway to return to your source. There are no answers in the rule book that will bring you joy, and the loving Universe answers that the true way is to write your own rules. There are two players in the Game of Life: those locked into the ‘have to’s’ and those who have freed themselves from the rule booklet and are playing the game according to their own choosing. You’ve spent your life playing the game, now it is time to understand it. There are no rules you haven’t made for yourself. You are here to write the rules of the game you are playing. Stop playing by other people’s rules. Start writing them yourself. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a <a href= \"htt
Fri, December 03, 2021
Episode 169: The Impossible Goal
It is December again, Brothers, and I am so excited because this means we are in the month of the Impossible Goal. This is the time of year where students of the Spartan Academy begin their journey toward self-realization and inner freedom through the attainment of their Impossible Goal. Much of what humanity used to think was impossible has now been proved to be very much in the realm of the possible, and it is the same with our minds. The brain has its own personal ideas of what is possible and impossible. Each of you has your own stories, your own limiting beliefs on what is possible and what is impossible for you. The impossible goal is truly about releasing you from the bonds of what your brain is telling you is possible, through the conditioning of what you’ve been told is impossible. It is about freeing yourself from the stories you tell yourself, about yourself, and the world. It is a tool of self-discovery and self-knowledge. It is a tool that opens you up to the present moment, the here and now. In today’s show, we break down the process that the students of Spartan Academy go through on the way to their accomplishment of the Impossible Goal. You’ll see that students often start out with a particular goal in mind and then undergo a deeper existential realization as they set out to achieve it. You’ll get to hear an example of how this happened to a past student of mine, and how he discovered the true source of his power as a result. We then move on to the deeper purpose behind the Impossible Goal, which is to realize that time is an illusion and that the life of your dreams is the one that you’re living. The impossible goal is less about building the future of your dreams and more about waking up to the possibility and potential of what you’re capable of in the here and now. So join us today and learn how you can use cognitive mastery, emotional ownership, and massive action to accomplish your Impossible Goal and become who you were always meant to be. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, November 26, 2021
Episode 168: 03 - Vibrational Perception
The truth is, whether you’re 20 years old, or 40 years old, the volume of conditioning that you have is the same. That’s because you are really only physiologically conditioned once every seven years, and psychologically in significantly less time. That means that the cognitive limitations you perceive about your life are nothing more than perceptions. The prison you’re living in is purely a projection created by your mind. The good news, brothers, is that enlightenment can happen in a moment. It’s not a matter of force, but a matter of awakening. You will understand when you are ready to understand! Being an alpha male means releasing yourself of the external authorities and deliberately choosing to be authentic and impact the world around you. Stepping into your identity as an alpha male will reveal to you that you are an independent and unique being, free from being a slave to society and its culture of ignorance. The final perception we use to observe the mind as a passenger of our consciousness, along with primordial and visual perception, is vibrational perception. Wild as it may sound, spiritual or vibrational perception can be the best tool available to us. It is somewhat akin to emotional ownership. Allowing emotions to rise within you, and letting the body perceive the energy around you have many similarities. This is a form of observation that allows thoughts to move through your mind without engaging with them because you are a passenger of consciousness. Brothers, it\'s important to distinguish between physiological emotions and vibrational truths. When the mind encounters energy vibrations, it wants to create a story, and that\'s how interconnection overt happens, which are erroneous conjectures used to explain vibrational energy. We aren\'t introverts or extroverts like the story tells us. Instead, we receive or transmit vibration from our mechanical energy. None of it comes from the mind. It comes from the realm before the mind. The realm of vibration. Once you\'ve understood this, you can begin to manage your energy accordingly. Begin with non-judgment, let go of the analysis of why, and allow the vibration to pass from you as a transmitter or to you as a receiver. You\'re not judging, but calibrating. Think of it like tuning an instrument. Once the mind is free and released from its own prison, we can transition into a plane of vibration that allows us to bond with each other in a completely different way, a way that is so foreign to the current way we relate to each other. Self-discovery, and elevating your alpha is not about esoteric mysticism, but rather to wake you up to the truth of who you are and live the life you’re meant to live! I’m not here to
Fri, November 19, 2021
Episode 167: 02 – Visual Perception
Welcome back, brothers, to part two of our three-part series on perception. Right now, we are living through a phase in our evolution where the mind has interrupted our ability to truly see the world around us and, therefore, our ability to exist in the Alpha state. The path toward the Alpha is clear though; we have to learn how to see with our heart, exist in the present, and stop allowing the mind to cloud our perception with its expectations and judgments. There are three ways to engage in the moment, to stay in the now, and to relate with yourself and other beings at the spiritual level through the realm of vibration from your Alpha state: primordial perception, visual perception, and spiritual perception. Last week, we spoke about how to activate our primordial awareness by working on our intuition and instincts. This week, we will be focusing on how to unleash ourselves from the shackles of the mind and engage at the moment through visual perception. We start with an overview of the journey we have come on as a species, starting out in a primordial phase before the mind where we existed in a natural Alpha state. We look at the birth of the mind and the gifts it has brought humanity, gifts which have also come at a cost, as they have injected humanity with the judgments and expectations of the beta state. We must learn how to evolve past this phase, and using our visual perception can help. Join me today, brothers, as we walk through a method for opening your eyes to see in a way that you saw before the mind was conceived! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, November 12, 2021
Episode 166: Primordial Perception
This is the source of all dysfunction and suffering in the world: the mind is the illegitimate king. To reach your Alpha state, you must become the master of your mind. Brothers, the mind is not evil. It is not the source of the suffering. On the contrary, the mind is a gift from the source. It provides us with a link to our true self in an unconscious way. It allows us to experience the blessing of the human experience consciously. Since we live in an experience of duality, there must be contrast. But the comparisons we make using the mind are an illusion. There is only oneness. And that is what we have to train the brain to perceive. It is impossible to be in isolation. As humans, we are always in relation to something. That is to say that we exist in relationship to things, people, and ideas. Brothers, to experience that oneness, we have to detach from our conditioning. There are three ways to do that. Primordial perception, visual perception, and spiritual and vibrational perception. What do all of these have in common? They all require us to let the mind go free and to truly align with the present. The mind wants to be free. But it doesn\'t know how to be free! Once you have done the work and detached yourself from all the things that limit your freedom, there is the potential for continued conditioning at all times and in all places. We are luminous beings, and the body is a vehicle we use to experience the world around us. All the matter, all the stuff that we experience is a function of the mind. We are beings of pure light in relationship to the one. Once you learn to let go of all the conditioning, you can start to observe the mind from a distance. This has to be done through relationships because differentiation is the human journey. Now, primordial perception is best-experienced one-on-one, in small groups, or alone in the sounds of nature. It involves tapping into the perception that existed before the human mind differentiated from the rest of the natural world. It is the thing we share with the rest of the world around us. It is based on instinct and intuition. We are disconnected from that ability, but we can regain it through training our brains in relationship to others. The purpose of it is to let your mind become a passenger of consciousness so you can live the life you\'re meant to, instead of the life your mind is dictating to you based on your conditioning. Through your experimentation, you will learn the power of living in your Alpha state, through a deeper truth in the world. The bottom line? As always, elevate your alpha! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a <a href= \"htt
Fri, November 05, 2021
Episode 165: 103 – Observation
Today, my brothers, we complete the third phase of our journey in the 1.0 Cognitive Mastery Curriculum by talking about observation; how the mind is meant to operate in its current function. If you haven’t listened to the previous episodes on awareness and detachment, the first two stages in the process of cognitive mastery, I encourage you to go back and do so now. Brothers, observation is how the mind is meant to operate in its current function. It is a passenger of consciousness. It is a messenger between the realm of vibration and the realm of form. It is impersonal and functions like a machine: input, output. What you put in is what you get out. This is why it is important to be aware without choice, because choice brings conflict. Only he who is confused chooses what he will do or won\'t do. He who is clear in his mind, detached from all conditioning, does not choose. He simply observes. Once you have freed your mind to pass back and forth between your true self and the world, my brothers, you are free to express your true self into the world from vibration to form. You can see the world as the perfect form of love, light, and wisdom that it is. But what comes next? How do you watch the mind fulfill its purpose without attaching to the stories of society, the stories of systems, governments, religions, friends, family, and other external illusions? It is through observation. Observation as a practice, however, is different depending on the person, and there isn’t just one way to observe the movement of the mind. In today’s episode, I introduce you to some of the ways that you can observe the mind without attaching to the conditioning field, to simply be aware of it as it passes through you so that you can engage with your truest self from moment to moment. I also offer you an explanation of how we are conditioned in our hero’s journey to be the hero, the victim, or the villain, but rarely, if ever, are we offered the option of being the guide, which can be the cause of great spiritual suffering to the one-in-five of us who are guides. Brothers, I am so blessed as a guide to be able to share my explorations and knowledge with all of you. Join me today to learn more about the power of the conscious mind versus the unconscious mind, how to fill the tunnel between vibration and form with beauty using the alpha male tenets, and thus begin the never-ending journey of self-discovery! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, October 29, 2021
Episode 164: 102 - Detachment
What is meant to be always comes along. It’s often the case that the longer you wait, the better the opportunities are that come your way. It’s easy to be blinded by the story we tell ourselves when we don’t have a mindset of abundant opportunity. Brothers, we’re all blinded by the wants and desires of the mind, when in reality, the universe wants to give us everything we need. The next level of cognitive mastery you will reach is detachment. Now, detachment is about letting go. It’s about detaching from your thoughts, beliefs, stories, expectations, and conditioning. Awareness is the first step, and detachment comes next. Brothers, most humans are comfortable in their suffering. They are either a victim of their own mind, or become a victim of addiction. The source of all suffering is the denial of the true self. When you detach from the truth of who you are and engage with stories of who you are not, you begin to suffer. We’ve all heard the platitude, discomfort is the price of growth. It’s often understood to mean that we should stay in our suffering in order to evolve. What if there was a different interpretation? What if you could lean into the discomfort of stepping into the unknown? Most people have settled into a heavily conditioned life. So much so that we no longer identify the conditions as what they are, and when we do, we consider them to be simply insurmountable. Once you leave the truths you once believed behind, you experience true discomfort which leads to growth. The path of self-discovery is not for everyone. But you wouldn’t be listening to this podcast if some part of you wasn’t seeking the truth. In the future, perhaps we will become a species that all live in harmony and freedom with one another. Until then, only a few will go on this particular journey. It’s not about religion, but rather, the path of enlightenment is about finding yourself within you. The alpha male is spiritual, but not religious. Moving between the realm of density and the realm of vibration can be exceptionally hard, especially as we age. Conditioning builds up over time and experience and disconnects one from the other, trapping you on either side. But finding harmony between these realms is so important to deliver the message from your vibrational self to your physical self. The first step is awareness, to realize that what you think is not who you are. Only once you’ve fostered awareness can you begin the process of detachment. You will be opposed. You will lose friends. You will lose your identity. But none of this will matter because you will be enlightened. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you
Fri, October 22, 2021
Episode 163: 101 - Awareness
The word \'awareness\' is often used in the popular lexicon, but how much do we really understand about what it means? These ideas of being awake or \'woke\', trendy terms that are thrown around, are different from being truly aware. In order to be properly aware, we need to understand the purpose and function of the mind, and today, brothers, we are starting this journey, as we unpack how we experience truth! Our conditioning lives in the mind and is determined by our experiences. The mind\'s conditioning thus blocks our access to the unfiltered truth, and becoming aware is then the pathway to discovery. We want to be able to set ourselves free from these confines through self-knowledge. Awareness is understanding how this conditioning blocks our access. This is a simple process, brothers, but it is not easy. What I am talking about here, is transcending the judgments of the mind, escaping the wheel of approval and condemnation. When we find this kind of awareness, it leads to learning and loving in all of our relationships. We are less concerned with comparisons and can begin to access the universal truth. So listen in with me, brothers, as we start this journey with the first step: awareness! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, October 15, 2021
Episode 162: Confusion Is A By-Product Of Conditioning
This episode serves as the foundation for the next six episodes of the show, broken up into two, three-part series! The first of these series focuses on developing cognitive mastery, which is essentially an overview of the 1.0 curriculum of the Academy. The second series will center on the emerging awareness configurations of the human being, so make sure to stay on track with all of this upcoming content. Today, as we enter into these topics, we build the basis of an explanation for why things are the way they are for you, and for the whole world. There is so much confusion in the world currently and this is mostly as a result of the transition we are making from a state of mental awareness to one of emotional awareness. Now, brothers, you have often heard me speaking about transcending our conditioning, but I am not here to tell you that your beta condition is bad . Let\'s be clear about that. It is the combination of the alpha and beta states that make up your life and experience. In order to really unpack this, we have to understand why the mind creates stories and false knowledge as a way to understand the external world. This is a method of protection, and this becomes your identity! And, most importantly, this is the seed of our confusion. It takes courage to confront this reality, and there are many traps that the mind sets in order to keep us in the state of confusion and conditioning that it governs. Remember, external conditions are not the remedy for our conditioning, and this is why when we turn outwards to fix what is inside, we come up short. We see this happening on many levels around us, and our leaders and gurus are just as confused as we are. We need to stop our mental movement and consider and enquire about our confusion, this is what it really means to wake up. So join me for this part of the journey brothers, to hear it all! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, October 08, 2021
Episode 161: Manifesting & Magnetizing Money
Today we are going to be doing a breakdown of the truth of abundance, and how your relationship to money is like your relationship to everything: solely dependent on your relationship to yourself! Brothers, this episode is for anyone who might have been struggling financially and can help you find the real cause of this, and we will be doing a quick deep dive on the process of manifestation, that you are not going to want to miss! You know that in all areas of our life, suffering is caused by misalignment, and it is the same with our finances. The way we think and act in relation to money is built into our energy mechanics, and no matter what stage of your money journey you are on, it is only up to you how you move forward. I have known what it is like to have nothing left, and also to make millions, and the only thing that can differentiate these circumstances is your consciousness around abundance and the constructed thoughts that are attached to this. So join me with this episode, brothers, as we unpack the illusion of scarcity, how to avoid this trick of the mind, how our energy frequencies play out in our bank account, and much more. In order to really get on top of this part of your life, it is vital to calibrate your inner truth, and this means accessing what real abundance means. I will be taking through the actionable, four-step process of magnetizing and manifesting money, looking at knowing what you want, believing you can have it, taking guided action, and changing your emotional charge. To hear it all, listen in with me today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, October 01, 2021
Episode 160: Fortitude vs. Faith
Hello brothers! Today I am doing something slightly different and sharing a personal story that I think is relatable and useful in important ways. Even if the particulars of the circumstances are not something you have experienced, the basics make it applicable and helpful to unpack. This is the story of some plots I wanted to buy in Tulum, Mexico, and what happened when things did not go as planned. This example can help us understand how to avoid giving authority to the mind, how to know which decisions to make, and most importantly, how to read the signs and act with faith and fortitude. We start off by differentiating between fortitude and faith, and why understanding their different roles is vital. Fortitude is about pushing back and onwards when we encounter difficulties or resistance. There are certain times when we should not compromise our vision or goal, and pushing back against a difficult circumstance will often bear fruit that makes the effort worth it, brothers. So how does faith fit into this then? Faith is the belief that an external future will be better than the mental projection of the internal future. For many of us, faith has a religious connotation, and I have spoken about faith at length on this podcast before, so you are encouraged to go back and listen to those episodes, if you have not already. As you will see in my example, there is a time to use faith, and the combination of fortitude and faith at the right time is what we should be aiming for. We cannot override all circumstances and using faith as a response, and knowing that the universe has something great for you, is the true power we possess! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Sat, September 25, 2021
Episode 159: A New Take On The Model
If you’re a regular listener, you’ll know that I’ve spent the last few months exploring energy mechanics. During today’s conversation, I want to revisit some of the basics of what I teach to lay the foundations for the truth. When you’re ready for more, I invite you to enroll in the Elevated Alpha Society Spartan Academy to delve into the details. Brothers, when we find neutral through cognitive mastery, we separate ourselves from the mind. It is powerful to find the place between the story and the thoughts in order to land in neutral through observation and separation. All other knowledge is built on the foundational universal truth that every circumstance and reality outside of you is neutral. Our thoughts create our feelings, our feelings drive our actions, and our actions determine our results, which are confirmation bias for our thoughts. The Model of Alignment helps us to make sense of this with five simple components: circumstance, thought, feeling, action, and result. If you’re a person who is harder on yourself than other people, I want you to understand that your actions are circumstances for others in the same way their actions and words are circumstances for you. It is important to understand that circumstances don’t change, and that they are perfect. Wherever you are is where you are supposed to be. Suffering comes when your conditioning doesn’t match your life, and the alignment models enables you to see what story you are telling yourself that doesn’t serve you. Your circumstances are perfect, but your story may need to change. Empower yourself to know that you are the one writing your story. You’re in control of the experiences that you determine to have in your life. Cognitive mastery and the intentional model have several uses, but they are not the end point. They are the foundation for the rest of your journey. Are you still living cognitive mastery? Do you still practice cognitive mastery? Are you ready to begin the initiation of the mechanical energy journey? Tune in to find out. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, September 17, 2021
Episode 158: Cognitive Mastery First, Energy Mechanics Second
As we all know, suffering is a part of life. But, brothers, today I’m going to tell you something that you may not know; this is not the way it has to be, we didn’t come here to suffer and we’re not meant to suffer. Suffering is a beta state, and it arises because of one thing and one thing only; misalignment. When we’re fully aligned and living in our alpha state, we end our suffering. The purpose behind my work is to help you end your suffering by directing you towards elevating into your alpha state. To do this, brothers, you have to detach from your thoughts, because your thoughts are what are holding you back and causing the misalignment which, in turn, causes your suffering. The foundation upon which I build my teachings lies in the Four Noble Truths; one, that life is suffering and will remain so as long as one refuses to recognize its own nature, two; this suffering has a cause, three; this suffering has an end, four, we can know the end of suffering in our lifetime by following a path. Brothers, the path is to develop cognitive mastery, and that path is within your reach. You deserve a life free of suffering and I know that you can get there. It may seem like you have to make massive changes, but really, it’s just about getting out of your own way! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, September 10, 2021
Episode 157: Energy Mechanics Part 3
Welcome back all my amazing brothers! Today we are finishing up the three-part series on energy mechanics, and stepping deeper into what comes after the first layer of cognitive mastery. Where do we find ourselves when we go beyond the surface-level binary? This is where we end up when we follow the development of the framework for cognitive mastery, and we need that foundation in order to arrive at this point. Before we can really engage with the power of energy and the mechanics behind it, we need alignment, and so we have to start with the mind. There is a general and common misunderstanding about cause and effect in the material world. When we stay in this illusion, we are able to shift responsibility, using the mind\'s story to explain the effects that we see around us. However, brothers, this is not the truth! This is merely the mind and the stories it likes to tell us. We need to step out of this game, this view of cause and effect, and begin to understand the universal invisible energy that governs all planetary bodies. This brings us to the concept of energy centers, and where these hubs reside in physical forms. We should all want to discover our unique energy mechanics, and in order to do this, we need to unpack how love, identity, and direction create perfection in the energy centers in you, and me, and everything around us. This is pure life, it is what remains when we strip away the lies and stories that crowd our vision and this step is part of the ongoing evolution we are experiencing right now. What a time to be alive! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, September 03, 2021
Episode 156: Energy Mechanics, Part 2
Having just returned from the jungles of Mexico, where I feel closer to life itself than anywhere else, I feel more inspired than ever to dive back into energy mechanics. Picking up where I left off last episode, today, I continue talking about this invisible but all-consuming life force. While so many people out there continue to deny the existence of energy, there is too much evidence pointing to its existence. Not only this but there are plenty of other forces, like gravity and electricity, that we believe in even though we cannot see them. Why then do we continue to deny the existence of energy? This is because so many of us simply live in our minds and our bodies, not understanding that this is not the essence of who we are. These are just the vehicles we have been given, but we are so much more than just these physical bodies. I have lost track of the number of times I have spoken about cognitive mastery, but this is not the final destination to get into the core of your energy. It is just the beginning! Mastering your mind is simply a gateway into the lifelong journey of exploring the true nature of the self. Energy mechanics are complex, which is why I am laying the theoretical foundations for you before I give you some actionable tips. I hope you come along for the ride, brothers! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, August 27, 2021
Episode 155: Energy Mechanics
Brothers, don’t let the title of this episode put you off. This is not going to be a physics lecture about the energy measurements of moving and stable objects. Instead, I’m going to teach you about a lesser-known type of energy mechanics. Be prepared to have your mind blown in this one. To borrow the words of another brother, “You are not a drop in the ocean, you are the entire ocean in a drop.” Although our experience of being human is separated into three separate entities; mind, body, and spirit, these are in fact all run by the energy mechanics of our spirit. You are not your mind; you are not your body. Your true self is the energy mechanics of your spirit. And, brothers, I’ve got even bigger news for you: Each of our individual spirit’s is connected and correlated to the universal spirit. We are all in the source, and the source is in all of us. This concept forms the basis of the content that you can expect in the 2.0 curriculum at the Academy. Brothers, this is the pathway to your Alpha state. If you have something that’s creating fear in your life, if you feel broken for any reason, if you don’t feel certain about things, if you can’t make up your mind, if you don’t know who you are, it’s time to enroll in the Academy. Don’t spend any more time in your beta conditioning, you owe it to yourself. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, August 20, 2021
Episode 154: The Nature Of Purpose
Today’s topic comes from a question posed by one of our brothers on Slack. It centers around how we think about the word ‘purpose’ and what changes when we define it as a noun or as a verb. I take you way beyond mind and cognitive mastery to let you know that within each human being is a framework that allows for an identity to form within a human lifetime. You’ll hear all about reliable and unreliable energy sources, how they differ from mentally constructed identity, and how each one works with the physical constructs of DNA. I unpack our primary identity in the oneness of everything and talk about what we are here for as humans: to participate, filter, and synthesize the energy of love as we float along a trajectory of personal and unique direction. If you have a reliable source of energy, you’re a teacher, and if you have an unreliable energy source, you’re a student. I unpack what this means, and outline what kind of guidance and awareness is necessary to determine your energy type. Perfection exists on either side of the binary. We have no choice in our direction, but we do have a choice in our cognition. You have to understand that love is the reason we’re here, my brothers, and that it has only one direction and no opposite, like gravity. I’ll touch on the questions that plague the minds of those with an unreliable energy source, and why, in order to know yourself, you must know your environment. I urge you to pursue a process of deconditioning to help you to see your energy source with clarity and emphasizes the role of teachers as love, reminding you that your purpose to be love and develop mental awareness. The barrier to you seeing, knowing, living your purpose is simply a lack of self-knowing. Join me today, my brothers. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, August 13, 2021
Episode 153: Intention vs. Expectation
Today’s episode is about expectation versus intention, and how society has done us a disservice by conflating the meaning of these two words to the point where even Google has the definition wrong. Expectation has become such a powerful force that it has overridden the value of intention, and in order to become our truest selves, we need to change this. Expectation and intention are not the same thing, brothers. After listening to this episode, you will understand why it is so important that we separate these terms and learn to live with intention, rather than expectation. Expectation comes from a place of lack, is results driven, and turns us into either people pleasers or manipulators. If we live with expectation, we are disconnected from the truth, which leads to cognitive spiritual suffering. On the other hand, when we live with intention, we are living authentically, though the primary principle, without judgement or control. This is the goal, brothers. In this episode, not only do I explain the theory behind the two opposing concepts of expectation and intention, but I also share with you a number of examples of how you can become more intentional in your day-to-day life, which is a fundamental part of your journey to reaching your alpha state. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, August 06, 2021
Episode 152: Selfishness vs. Selflessness
It’s hard to escape your conditioning, but that is the only way to see the truth. Today, I need you to let go of everything you’ve been taught to believe about selfishness and selflessness. At the core of this episode is a question: Are we, as individuals, the means of society, or are we the ends of society? What I mean by that, brothers, is, should we be sacrificing ourselves for the greater good of society, or does society exist so that we can achieve fulfillment? This question is such an important one because whichever one we believe to be true will give us an entirely different idea about how the world should be structured compared to someone who believes the opposite to be true. Tune in today to hear why I think the commonly used definitions for selfishness and selflessness are problematic. In this episode I share how we can reframe these concepts, and how doing so will allow us to shed our beta conditioning and truly embrace our alpha state. Brothers, what you are, the world is; the truth is within you and only within you, you will not find it by looking outside of yourself. That is why I cannot give you an answer to the question I have posed and I encourage you to look deeply within yourselves to find what resonates with you. I implore you to rid yourself of the opinions and influences of those around you, and decide how you want your life to look. Life is a puzzle, and every journey of discovery is necessary and important. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, July 30, 2021
Episode 151: Certainty vs. Uncertainty
Today we\'re going to talk about certainty. It\'s almost the great human condition to seek certainty or some fixed reality that can be relied on. The illusion that the moment is unsafe and uncertain creeps into the back of our minds and creates fear. The now is transient, the now is in flux, and that\'s dangerous. This is an illusion for most humans because, of course, the moment is certain. Today, brothers, we are going to talk about how the moment is what we have and the moment is where we find truth, but the mind rejects the moment and seeks certainty in the future or the past. This ties into the primary principle that everything is a story. Since our desire is to create certainty, we create a story in our minds that we bring into reality. We repeat that story so often and teach it to other generations and eventually, the story becomes a reality. We know that the more certain we are of our stories internally and collectively, the more we develop our rigid structure of the external world. Join me today as we examine certainty and what we can truly be certain of. We question if we can really be certain of the written past, or even our own direct experience when all we know is the stories we tell ourselves about the past and not the past itself. We talk about how uncertainty develops because there is a reliance on the certainty of that which is fundamentally uncertain, resulting in an underlying vibration of anxiety, doubt, and fear. We also discuss how by thinking that we can be certain of the future, this becomes another illusion that draws us into suffering. While certainty is not a necessity, nor even a possibility, brothers, today I want to offer that there is a place where we can find certainty. Tune in to find out how you can always be certain of where, when, and who you are. At every moment of time, you have a core or an anchor that you can be certain about. This is your inner authority and truth. This is your energy mechanics and alpha state. Listen in today to find out how you can be certain of yourself, live in the joy, love, peace, and freedom of the now, and rejoice in the perfection of what is being offered. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, July 23, 2021
Episode 150: The Importance Of Presence
Today on The Alpha Male Coach Podcast we\'re going to talk about the importance of presence and being in the ‘now’. For many people, the past is a limiting force in their lives. Many humans are living a life where they are unconscious of how much they are allowing their past to affect them in the present. Of course, we know that the past doesn\'t really exist. Because it feels real, it drives that suffering so strongly. Today we are going to talk about how this illusion that creates suffering comes from the beta condition. The past and the future are constructs of our own minds. The construct of how we imagine time has to be in a capacity to serve us when we learn from our past and set goals for our future. It can also hinder us when the beta condition escapes from the ‘now’ for an illusion of expectation around comparison or drives us into unconscious repetitive limiting beliefs. Today I suggest that the beta condition is a function of escaping the ‘now’ and the mind can only be in the ‘now\' when the alpha state is elevated. The mind wants to search backwards and forwards to make meaning and to seek for problems through the comparison of time. This is its primary function. We will discuss how this leads to the functions of escape and belief and how there is no place for the ‘not self’ in the present. Who you are not, cannot exist in the moment. Today I will talk about the importance of being in the now and developing the skill of cognitive mastery to prevent misalignments between the mind and the moment that result in a form of suffering and escape. I will also talk about how the present moment is the doorway to self-discovery, and how we discover the truth of who we are in two forms, the conscious and unconscious self. There is no greater outcome for developing the skill of cognitive mastery than living in, existing with, expressing from, and being a part of the oneness of the present moment. Tune in today as we discuss this topic that is so important in the process of self-discovery. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Sat, July 17, 2021
Episode 149: Transformation
Welcome back, brothers, to The Alpha Male Coach podcast. In today’s episode, I’m going to be delving into the concept of transformation and the process of inner self-discovery. I will be sharing the concept of the momentous leap and how it applies to the self, transformation, and society. First, we must remember that everything is created from an idea, that it always comes from a concept, imagination, and inspiration. However, the only way we can communicate and manifest this idea is by using spoken or written language. This is why the concept of the story is essential for communication. Today, I’ll unpack why it is that we can only reach understanding and true communication when we meet on the same level at the same time. Listening is an art form, my brothers. When your real attention is being given to something and you are in a receptive state of mind, you can achieve understanding with clarity. Unfortunately, many of us listen through our own beta conditioning. This means we don’t listen with our belief system. Instead, we listen with prejudice through our conditioning. This causes confusion in many of us and we often turn to the beliefs of external authorities to alleviate that confusion. This is the trap that I will be addressing today, brothers, because when you repeat someone else’s ideas and somebody else’s truth, you cease to understand your own alpha state. By appealing to external authorities, what we are really looking for is escape from confusion. When we do this, the inner authority loses significance and it is the outer systems that gain power and importance, which ultimately creates more confusion and suffering. We seek to escape through many things, like religion, work, or social activities. These are false realities. The truth is that there is no external authority. This is the transformation from the beta condition to the alpha state, the understanding is that there is nothing to seek. This is why today I will explain why there is nothing outside of you that will ever provide you with truth. I invite you to join me today as we shine a light on the metamorphic transformation that is possible for each of us and is the true evolution of our species! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, July 09, 2021
Episode 148: Everything Is One and Everything Is Love
Welcome back to The Alpha Male Podcast! In today\'s episode, I cover two primary principles, thus completing the primary principle series. Two weeks ago, I created a foundation by establishing the fact that everything is a story. Everything begins here. This is the singularity. All things come from this very foundation of truth. In last week’s episode, I covered primary principle one, which is that everything is perfect. Remember, brothers, perfect means neutral. It means that all things are in balance. In our experience of duality, perfection is two opposites held together in a constantly unfolding moment. All things exist at once in that moment and subjectivity only enters through our concept of time. By distinguishing the past from the present, we begin to experience cognitive suffering, which is what I refer to as self-imposed insanity. The present moment is the only place you can observe perfection, my brothers, literally see it, be one with it, and recognize that you were always part of it. It is only here that you can receive inspiration from the universal mind, the one mind, and come to understand the second primary principle; everything is one. We’re talking one mind, one time, one love, eternal and infinite. It is only when humans are ready to receive inspiration and creation that the individual mind accepts delivery from the one mind. When you elevate your alpha, brother, you will return to the present moment, recognize the perfection of neutrality in that moment, and have access to the infinite oneness of thought from the universal mind that you can then use to choose the story that serves you the best. Now, I’ll remind you of the universal truth, which dictates that thoughts create emotions. As there is an infinite potential of thought, there is also an infinite potential of emotion. That brings us to the third primary principle: everything is love. Listen in as I share simple analogies to help you understand the three primary principles, the role that gratitude plays, and some practical applications for realigning yourself with your purpose! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, July 02, 2021
Episode 147: Everything Is Perfect
In today’s episode, we’re going to talk about perfection. This past week, I\'ve been driving from Florida to Oregon. As I was driving through New Mexico, the car just blows. It stops. There\'s nothing I can do. I got it towed and now I\'m here doing this podcast in a very small town. I\'m going to use this story to help explain the concept of perfection because often when humans have a plan to do something, and we try to set it in motion, if it doesn\'t come out the way we expect it to, we think something\'s gone wrong. That, brothers, is the biggest misconception of the human experience! During July in the Academy, we focus on the past. We focus on how the past may appear to be affecting you today even though it\'s not. The past is never affecting you today, only your thoughts about the past are affecting you today. Last week we spoke about how everything is a story. We live in a story of our world as we experience it, it is a story we tell ourselves. Continuing from that, what I\'m going to introduce to you today in this podcast episode, is that everything is perfect. You may ask, “How can things be perfect when so much badness, so much wrongness, so much negativity is happening in the world?” The first thing I\'m going to do is to define perfection. I\'m going to define perfect for you because that\'s where the big misunderstanding comes from. I\'m offering you what the definition of perfection is: that every moment, every moment of our life, every moment of time as it\'s experienced through the now, is excellent or complete beyond practical or theoretical improvement. Now, just because everything is perfect, and nothing is going wrong, it doesn\'t mean that you don\'t want the experience to be something different. Today we are going to talk about how you don\'t need to agree with what is happening, it\'s about accepting what is happening as what is happening. Tune in to discover the power of working with what is happening as it\'s being offered to you in perfection, rather than pushing against it through resistance. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, June 25, 2021
Episode 146: Everything is a Story
In today’s episode, we wrap up the June theme of Indomitable Self-Confidence by returning to some fundamentals. I would like to remind you, brothers, of the most basic truth, which goes even deeper than the universal truth. When students approach me to discover themselves and learn about who they are and how to become the most amazing versions of themselves, I have a methodology to guide them along that path. What I wish to impart to you today, brothers, is that everything is a story. And the question is, where do your stories about the world and yourself exist for you? What are your convictions, what are the stories that you tell yourself about yourself, what are the stories that you tell yourself about the world? Most humans are seeking a better story, and that might be true for you also. That new story means different things to different people depending on their upbringing and conditioning. It could mean more money, a better relationship, or the safety of a stable job. Many of you already know from learning my methodology, that it’s not our circumstances that determine our feelings, it’s our cognition that does this. In today’s episode, I wish to emphasize that the aim is not to create a new story. The true aim is recognizing that all the stories are stories, that’s the primary goal of the academy. Today I will discuss two problems many of us run into when we try to adjust our stories. The first is the problem of new stories not ‘sticking’ and the second is that stories only form a small part of the truth. We must learn to recognize that there is nothing in your life that is not a story. There is nothing that is keeping you from doing or seeing or achieving anything except for the story in your mind because the world doesn’t have stories. It only has the stories that you assign to it. Join me today as we delve into the nature of stories and wrap up our month of Indomitable Self-Confidence! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, June 18, 2021
Episode 145: The Third Pillar of Indomitable Self-Confidence
Today we finish our series on the three pillars of indomitable self-confidence! Even before starting these three episodes, we have explored this subject a lot on the podcast, but it is important to understand exactly what we are referring to here, brothers. This is not conscious confidence, this is the next level of confidence, the one that is tied to the alpha state. The three pillars are as follows: the first is the cognitive aspect, the second is emotions and feelings, and the third, and our subject for today, is actions! The most important thing to understand going into this discussion is that actions are neutral. This stands for everyone\'s actions and all movement in the universe. This means that the premise for all actions is that they are objective, and we need to get away from the hypocrisy that is so common to human action. Remember, my brothers, you already know who you are, and you are not your conditioning. We need to separate between conditioning and the truth, and rather use our conditioning as the path to the truth! Most actions are conditioned based on personal fears, worries, and doubts. This is the story that we have to escape, and we do this by accepting the knowledge of who we are. So, what are the actions that come from a place of indomitable self-confidence? They are free, brothers! They are also neutral, and when we get to grips with the truth of this we begin to understand what that freedom really looks like. There are many questions that might arise about the ideas of freedom and actions, and how others might be affected. But for now, remember that other people\'s interpretations of your actions are determined by them, not by you. The last thing I want to underline today is around gratitude and detachment. When you have a true awareness and acceptance of who and what you are, you achieve the cognitive mastery and alpha state that is already within you, and you live the life that is actually yours! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, June 11, 2021
Episode 144: The Second Pillar of Indomitable Self-Confidence
Welcome back brothers, today we continue our month-long exploration of indomitable self-confidence. Last week I introduced you to the three pillars of indomitable self-confidence and discussed the first of these pillars, the cognition pillar. In this episode, I discuss the second pillar which is the emotion pillar. I want to remind you all about the nature of emotions. Emotions exist in the realm of form and because they come from the brain, they are tangible chemicals and send messages to the body to act. This brings us back to the universal truth, that thoughts create feelings and those feelings drive action. Emotions exist as one of the three pillars that form indomitable self-confidence. In exploring this pillar I wish to introduce you, brothers, to the concept that you are not your feelings. It is true that feelings indeed form part of the universal truth that informs your human experience, but this does not mean you are what you feel. In no way does this mean that we should be robots. In fact, I wish to emphasize that emotions are an essential part of the human experience, if we are here on earth to do anything it is to experience life, and emotions are integral to our experiences. After all, when life is good it comes from an emotional experience where we feel good. Our emotions are not stagnant and as our language has grown and evolved so have our feelings. This is because of the simple fact that the more we increase our vocabulary to describe things and feelings, it grows our capacity for describing the specificity of our emotions, from its variation in form to different levels of intensity. As we come to better understand that our emotions are a product of the mind it is important to remember that you cannot control the emotions of others. You need to allow them to feel whatever they need to feel. We all have the capacity to be empathetic, but to be a true empath requires deep self-knowledge. Discovering this self-knowledge is integral to indomitable self-confidence. Join us today as we continue on that journey! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, June 04, 2021
Episode 143: The First Pillar of Indomitable Self-Confidence
As we kick things off in our month-long exploration of indomitable self-confidence, this first episode that I want to share with all of you, my brothers, is focused on the first of the three pillars. The three pillars of indomitable self-confidence are as follows: the cognitive pillar, the emotional pillar, and the pillar of action. These pillars are built on the foundation of the immutable truth and law, the primary principle that everything is perfect. Atop these pillars rests the ceiling, made up of the state of wisdom, one which allows the truth of indomitable self-confidence to wash over us. With all that being said, brothers, today\'s focus is our thoughts and how we can put them in their rightful place. When we can change the premise, our starting point, to the truth that everything in this world and universe is perfect, we allow ourselves to enter the state of indomitable self-confidence. This is the removal of the cloud that obscures our view of the truth. Immediately we are able to experience a renewed sense of gratitude and confidence when we accept this truth, and the cognitive mastery that we exercise over our thoughts and the internal story is revolutionary. These instinctual thoughts, if unchecked can steadfastly block our way to the truth. So what are our thoughts? Well, brothers, they are the results of our conditioning, and we need to begin to separate ourselves from these thoughts that can trick us. That is the sickness, the confusion that we experience when we conflate our true selves with our thoughts. We can remove the anxieties and fears we hold, around other people\'s thoughts and opinions too. None of us are our thoughts and the centering of them in our lives will always leave us in the beta condition. Indomitable self-confidence is a deep knowing, and it goes beyond the information in front of us. This is the first step of the journey! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, May 28, 2021
Episode 142: Relationships With Others
Welcome, brothers. In today’s episode, I\'m going to be completing relationship month by discussing the topic of relationships with others. We will be continuing from last week’s episode, where we uncovered the truths of being in a relationship with yourself. This week, I’ll be diving into why it is not only beneficial to be in relationships with other people but also necessary and important. In this episode, I remind you, brothers of the universal truth of cause and effect, thoughts may come through the mind, but we must remember that they are not who we are. We must use our thoughts as a tool of the mind to make meaning of the human experience. What I wish to offer you in this episode is that the Alpha state is here to participate in duality. We are continuously living as both student and teacher, and we are all on a journey to self-awareness. Whether you choose to actively uncover self-knowledge is up to you. In our relationships with others, I encourage you to conceive of it as vulnerability because, when you are in your Alpha state, you are your true self. When you engage in relationships from your Alpha state, then there is no fear of what comes next, no fear of judgment from others or yourself, and no fear of rejection or failure. Listen today to gain a deeper understanding of the Alpha condition and how it frees you in your relationship with others! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, May 21, 2021
Episode 141: The Relationships With Your Self
As we move into a month focused on relationships, I wanted to share two episodes with you, brothers. This week we will be looking at the relationship with ourselves, and next week we will transfer this idea into the realm of other people. I want to be clear, this subject is not dealing with the ego and identity, but rather is me being bold and trying to explain something very difficult, something that is almost impossible to explain! There are many barriers to understanding this subject of relationships properly, and the chief among them is that this is something that has to be experienced and cannot just be told. The foundation of this episode is that relationships are thoughts, and are the way we think about and relate to the world and things around us. This is the way we perceive everything, through this lens. To help underline this message, I give you a quick reminder of the four layers of circumstance and how misunderstanding these can lead to disconnection and fear. The reality is one of connection and oneness, but it is easy to slip into a state of untruth and separation, this is part of being human! So ultimately we want to get back to love and truth, and this state is, yes, you guessed it, the alpha state! When we accept the alpha, we are able to be one with all in this way, despite the mind\'s tendency to separate. We can get to the bottom of the self, and address the feelings of imperfection and being flawed that arise out of the illusion of duality. These are the thoughts we have about ourselves, and thus are our relationship with the self. This episode can help you begin the process of freeing ourselves from the wrongful authority and enjoy true freedom! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, May 14, 2021
Episode 140: Attachment
Today, brothers, I am going to be talking about attachment, removing the connotations imposed on it, and working on deconditioning the beta condition. The beta condition is the conditioning of the outside upon the inside, it is mistakenly placing external authorities above your inner authority, so in this episode, I’m going to offer a perspective of how humans view dependence from the alpha state. This episode will aim to dispel some connotations created through external authorities. Looking at the words ‘codependent’ and ‘independent’, people often think there is a good way to be and a bad way to be. That’s erroneous! There is nothing ever wrong with any human being. Today we are going to be looking at the lack of self-knowledge as the only problem we have in relationships, the only problem we have in our lives and the root of all illusions. We judge and label our relationship behaviors because we don’t understand who we are individually or as a species. In this episode, I will explain how people are running a current of energy through their alpha state that is like a racetrack. We will examine the differences between humans with closed circuits and humans with open circuits, and how relationships play out between people with different types of circuits. The aim, my friends, is to discover who you are and understand who others are outside of the trained and erroneous beta condition, dispelling the lies created to judge ourselves and other people, and enabling real intimacy. Once you know who you are, once you elevate your alpha state, you will understand that there is nothing you need to do or change, so listen in today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, May 07, 2021
Episode 139: Inner Authorities
Here on the podcast, I have to get wild sometimes, and this, brothers, is to jolt you into a new way of thinking, into resonating with the truth, and escaping our conditioning! This week I am building on the last episode, where I dealt with external authorities and turning this inward, looking at inner authorities and how to manage these. All of our alpha states are different, that is what makes us individuals, but there are so many misconceptions around unity and harmony that we have to free ourselves from. Today I will run through three different types of inner authorities and how you can identify yours and begin listening to it in the right way! The single, greatest fear, we as humans have, is around who we are. We ask ourselves, \"Who am I?\" and this question drives so much of what goes on inside us. The beta condition is clearly not who we are, and we need to get past it to access our alpha state, our inner authority, and then surrender to it. As I often say, we have to keep the mind in its appropriate place, as a tool, but not in control, and find a way to listen to the right forces, competing within each of us, in order to make the best decisions possible. When we are able to listen and understand our inner authority, we begin to gain a new sense of self-knowledge and the first part of this is identifying the different types. The first is our emotional authority, which means riding these emotional waves in healthy ways. When you deal with your emotions properly you can ride these waves all the way to clarity. You can understand, accept, and eventually transcend the ups and downs, and this means waiting, allowing, and processing. Another inner authority is the gut feelings we get. Again this will take time to master, but if this is your authority you can learn to listen to it in the right ways. The last one I want to touch on today is the intuitive or inner voice we all possess, something that can be quiet and overshadowed but can also be immensely powerful. When we start to understand the physiological feeling associated with intuition, we are able to make fast and spontaneous decisions that suit us. Listen in today to hear about discovering which of these you should be listening to and how to give it its deserved importance. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, April 30, 2021
Episode 138: External Authorities
Welcome back, my brothers! Since I’ve started teaching you about the universal truth and the law of cause and effect, I have constantly integrated my messaging methodology with more self-discovery while I have been pursuing a deeper understanding of the heart of nature and the essence of being human, which is why this episode is on the external authorities that have been trying to determine who you are since birth. Today’s episode is a reminder that your alpha state is both as teacher and student. You utilize your defined true self to teach and your undefined true self to learn from others and receive from the world. We must recognize the rigid story external authorities have constructed that informs the story you tell about yourself, which causes separation between yourself and your true self. These external authorities attempt to define what success is and how to achieve it, but this can’t possibly be the same for everyone! Each of us are unique individuals who should be guided by our true, inner selves. It is my belief that, if we were all to live according to our inner authority, there would be no need for the institutions that exist to be external guides, because we will be guided by our true alpha self. You need to uncover this guidance through self-knowledge and understanding who you are. Once you do that, you eliminate the need for external authorities telling you what to do. Tune in today in as I offer you the tools to help you unlock your inner authority and free yourself from external authorities! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, April 23, 2021
Episode 137: Gratitude
Welcome back, my brothers! Today we are rounding up the three-part series that started with \'surrender\', moved into \'faith\', and now ends with \'gratitude\'. The \'surrender\' piece of this puzzle is where we get into contact with the power of the alpha state, it means deconditioning the way we operate and letting go into an amazing sense of freedom! This new way of living leads us to and centers a different kind of faith. Not faith in the religious sense, but more about acceptance and trust in ourselves and the present moment. And this brings us to gratitude, its essence, and how it fits into our psychology. The judgmental beta condition that creates a false binary of good and bad is the most misleading of forces, and when we are able to surrender this way of being, we are able to put the mind in its proper place: as a passenger. The mind is then able to occupy itself with its true function and instead of trying to direct the course, it is able to observe and understand. We are then faithful to our inner authority and accept the truth of abundance. Faith is knowing through the knowledge of the true self, brothers! Gratitude is more than just a morning routine, and true gratitude can be present consistently in your life, following you through all moments and experiences. It is the awareness of this moment, its reality as a gift, and what it offers to us at every second. When we lead with this gratitude, we further solidify the mind in its place, using it to unpack the message of the world around us. The mantra is one of thanks, a constant \'Thank you\', to the present! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, April 16, 2021
Episode 136: Faith
Today we are speaking about faith, brothers, but not the kind that you have always heard about. The types of faith that we have been exposed to most of our lives either leave room for uncertainty or are too religiously centered. True faith is all about belief in and connection to the alpha state, and if you can access this then you will be able to create your reality and not be held down by self-imposed limitations. The universe is infinitely abundant, meaning that when we feel fear, we are believing a lie. Feeling afraid is faith misplaced, it is having faith in lack, but there is no lack to speak of in our infinite universe, only unlimited abundance. Your true self is composed of the same substance as the universe, meaning that trusting the universe is the same thing as trusting your true self. When we allow the Alpha state to take its rightful place as the authority in our lives, faith acts through intuition, there are no limitations and we create what are viewed as miracles in our lives. So join me today bothers as I walk you through the connection between the infinite universe, your true selves, and how you can use faith to channel this energy and make it your true authority so that you can make the invisible substance of your truth into the visible realm of reality. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, April 09, 2021
Episode 135: Surrender
Today\'s episode is all about the future, brothers. I want to help you let go of the past and move into the new you, the real you, the you that you want to be! I will be discussing the idea of surrender, and the first point in this discussion is to remove this word\'s negative connotation. I want us to reposition our understanding of surrender as ceasing resistance to oneself. We all encounter the problems and fallacies of trying to be what we are not, and what we are not meant to be. When we can truly surrender to the truth, we enter a state of awareness, where we are able to seek self-knowledge and inner truth! The best way to understand this all, is through the analogy of a car. I want you to imagine that your body is the car, the passenger is your mind, and the driver is your spirit. When we listen to the mind, we are taking direction from the wrong authority. The mind is misleading, brothers, and although it wants to help us, we should be listening to the soul, the actual driver. The mind is not the enemy, it is a creative force that we can work with, it is a powerful part of you that you need to keep in context and use with purpose. I have spoken before about where this need of the mind to control comes from, and it is rooted in our past, our need for safety, and from a place of fear. Letting the mind make decisions for us leads to people-pleasing and the need for external validation, exactly what you do not want! We all experience the external pressures of the world, when what we really need is to get back to our true nature and see through to our true potential. When we surrender to this, we decondition ourselves and meet our real self. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, April 02, 2021
Episode 134: 4 Layers Of Circumstance
Welcome back to the podcast, my brothers. Today we are going deep and this episode might get a bit wild, so hang on for the ride! I want to help you get past the illusions we so often refer to, to find the truth under the four layers of circumstance. As we know, when there is a mismatch between our true selves and our conditioning, we suffer. This is often the case, a default position in which humans find themselves. It does not have to be like that! The first layer of circumstance is our experience as humans, and this means it is experienced through the senses that we have as people. The way we see, smell and touch the world around us. It is also how we are able to describe and name what we sense, so it is not as it is, only as it appears . If this layer is peeled back we get to direct experience; which is similar to the first layer, but without human language. Thus it is the removal of the human story and sense of the world. Below direct experience lies the quantum layer, a space that is not accessible to us through our human faculties but that we know exists. In this layer of circumstance, there are only amalgamations of cells, and if we are able to break through to this layer we can begin to escape our conditioning. The fourth and final layer is the field of neutrino; this is the subatomic nature of the universe, where everything is a sea of information that is flowing and passing through itself. This layer is the truth, and the truth is love, brothers. We are all immersed in a never-ending sea of love that we cannot escape, and it is when we are able to surrender to that truth, that we can end our suffering! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, March 26, 2021
Episode 133: Interrupting The Universal Truth
When traveling down the path to your elevated self, we need to remember that the only barriers to a new belief are the old ones you hold on to, and today I will be talking about breaking these down, on the way to your truth. This episode serves to conclude the series on barriers and new beliefs, following on from the episodes on correlation and causation, and confirmation bias. I wanted to tie it all together, and round out your understanding of how we are conditioned by many external forces in our lives, and map out the process of moving past these towards a greater personal purpose! We all have a great power within us that we can access with the right tools, and one of these is found in understanding the model of alignment and its five components: circumstance, thought, feeling, action, and result. When we unpack this model it can begin to illuminate our conditioning, and when we interrupt the model, we can begin to change our results! In this episode, I talk about getting past old thinking and the \'old self\', and how it takes more than mere willpower to divert the direction of our universal truth. When we rely solely on willpower, we usually set ourselves up for some sort of failure or relapse. Real change only occurs when we tell ourselves a new story and fully adopt a new role in that narrative. Brothers, this is how you can properly alter the flow of your life\'s river, and this is what I want to share with you today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, March 19, 2021
Episode 132: Confirmation Bias 2.0
Today, I am diving into part two of the barriers to belief series and unpacking confirmation bias. Before I get started on this concept, I share some of the massive changes coming to the Alpha Academy. I want to give you the chance to get in on some of the action before everything goes live. Even though things may look different, the foundation of my training is the same; to help you see the world as it is and not through the lens of conditioning. Last week, I explored correlation and causation and the fact that we almost always confuse the two. We accept things as facts even though they are simply the stories we tell ourselves time and again. This is where confirmation bias, today’s topic, comes into play. It does not prove any truths but instead reaffirms the tales we believe are real. Even though we know that circumstance is neutral and the data is always there, once we relate it to confirmation bias, our circumstances are no longer objective but appear as a means to support pre-existing beliefs. When these paradigms and stories prevent us from seeing the world as it is, they act as a prison. While in many ways confirmation bias can hold us back, if we apply our elevated awareness, we can see it for what it is and move past it. We don’t have to accept stories as truth. It is possible to free yourself from the condition of the mind and the images that occur behind your eyes. Rather than having conditioning driving the vehicle that is your life, it is possible for you and the truth to take the driver’s seat once again! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, March 12, 2021
Episode 131: Correlation vs. Causation
Today, I want to discuss the barriers to creating new beliefs, and there are several barriers, of course. Essentially, the barriers to creating our new beliefs are our old beliefs that we have accepted as true. Sometimes we get to a point where we think our beliefs are true for everyone. When we get to this point, we move from beliefs to facts; and sometimes these are in the realm of politics or religion or, other times, it just means the beliefs we have about ourselves that we believe are true, and we\'ve accepted them as unchangeable. Then there is the ever dream-killing belief statement: I can’t do that. Today we’re doing to dive into correlation versus causation, a concept used in both science and philosophy. I also want to shed new light on the process of confirmation bias so that you can see how it will always prevent you from changing what you believe from an unconscious conditioned function to a consciously intentional function. Make a note to tune in to next week’s episode, where I’ll be diving deeper into the concept of confirmation bias and how you can use confirmation bias to your advantage to create new beliefs, even though it can be and often is another barrier to believing new things. For today, I’ll leave you with this before we start: Ask yourself, does A cause B? Is B the effect of A? Or do A and B simply appear together and, through the use of repetition and acceptance, I have mistaken a thought for a fact? Have you mistaken a correlation for causation? Let’s find out. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, March 05, 2021
Episode 130: The Story We Tell Others
Welcome back to the show brothers! Today I will be expanding on last week\'s topic of the stories we tell ourselves, and getting into how these become the stories we tell others. The response to that episode was so enthusiastic that I thought it best to delve a bit deeper into this resonant issue. As you probably already know, everything in the physical world of form begins with a story, and so is central to how we live out our lives. To start off, we look at the important truths that make up the foundation of our realities, and this comes down to how stories constantly inform our existence. The universal truth, as I have said many times before, is based on the neutrality of all circumstances. While the human experience might be an emotional one, without our perception of it, the world is a blank canvas, neither positive nor negative. It is time to take this momentous leap, where we take control of our stories, and thus our reality! The story is always cognitive, and it is always about ourselves. Even our stories about others are about us, and likewise, the stories we tell others are not for them but are part of our interior world. Fitting these ideas into the model of alignment will unlock a power to express your true self and dreams, and live out the alpha life you have always wanted, or never even dared dream about! It thus becomes clear that any meaningful change in our lives starts with our own story. And here\'s the key brothers: if you want the actions of your \'movie\' to be different you have to rewrite the script. You cannot make a movie that has not been written and does not have proper direction. Only then can it be acted out and become the reality of your everyday existence. So join me today, as we begin this powerful and metamorphic journey, starting from within. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, February 26, 2021
Episode 129: The Story You Tell Yourself
It is good to be back brothers, and it is even better that I have you with me on this incredible journey. Let’s cut to the chase: the matrix has you. Yes, the Matrix has you. This episode marks the end of our relationship theme, but let it be said: we cannot be in life without being in relation to something or someone, and that includes the Matrix. Where am I getting at with all this? We need to first understand what that Matrix is, which is the story you tell yourself about yourself. Friends, everything begins with an individual or collective story, and from there you find the evidence to support your story with a psychological term called confirmation bias. The important work that I do is to teach my students how to write their own story, and to escape conditioning where others are writing your story for you. In this episode, I talk about how this happens, and more specifically, how you can take your power back. Just remember, it’s the story that holds everything together, and it’s that same story that manifests our effect. Brothers, only you know who you are in expression of form; not me. But listen up. I’m here to tell you that you’re a creator; the most powerful organic being on this planet. Fish breathe underwater, birds fly in the sky, and you my friend, create the world we know as reality. So when you are creating your story, your reality, and you want to change its course, you have to start with a different input to get a different output. So I’m offering you a process that is split into four parts. Number one: bringing consciousness to unconsciousness. Number two: separate the story from the facts. Number three, ask: does the story serve me? Step five: change the story. Brothers, walk beside me as we follow the steps to write the story we each deserve. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, February 19, 2021
Episode 128: Love Languages 2.0
Love and relationships are a central part of what we work with here at the Alpha Male Coach podcast, and no matter where you are in your relationship journey, understanding how to navigate these spaces is of vital importance to the elevation of your alpha. I have spoken about the love languages before, and am returning to this topic today to do things a little differently. What I really want for you, brother, is to find freedom, love, and self-confidence! I start off today\'s exploration by differentiating between love and lust so that we can get clear on what we are really talking about. Lust is an excessive fixation on the external, which is clearly an illusion. Remember blood, the external world is perfect and lust exists only in the realm of form, the illusion is the idea of the form and possessing it. As I have often said, you cannot possess people and things, so we need to separate a desire for sex and the imagery of lust. This illusion is a false reality, it does not exist, it a distraction and the ghost of prior generations. This brings us to the five love languages, namely physical touch, words of affirmation, gift-giving, acts of service, and quality time. I want you to look at these a little differently and start to think about how you can give as much of each of these as possible without any expectation. Remember my brothers, we are the first men, and as an Alpha Man, we need to master ourselves and step out of the illusions of lust, wealth, and power! Love is the knowledge of oneness, understanding the perfection of reality, and by living through the laws of love you can bring peace to the world and yourself. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, February 12, 2021
Episode 127: Trust 2.0
One of the foundation elements of relationships is trust. And since relationships are a foundational aspect of life, we can see the importance that trust has in living meaningfully and truthfully. We are always in relationships, whether it be with other things and people, or more importantly, with ourselves. These two facts of the concept of trust are what I will be exploring today, and how trust in ourselves contributes to that all-important indomitable self-confidence. There is a counterintuitive quality to the way we trust others. Like so many things related to the universal truth, trust in others has nothing to do with them, and everything to do with ourselves! In the end, the trust we have in others is a subjective story we tell others, and is begging us to remember the universal truth, brothers! These stories we tell ourselves about others\' words and actions become a prison for them, and when they want to break free from this, we call it a betrayal. The true value of trust, and how it can be used in healthy and aligned ways is through self-discovery and personal evolution. If there is a person that you can actually have a firm belief in it is most definitely yourself, brother. This again comes back to self-confidence and that trust in self is what will help you build that! We need to avoid the confirmation biases that emerge from our conditioning and inform how we interpret others, this leads to fear and pain and is not in line with the universal truth. What I am saying here brothers, is not that you should not trust anyone. In fact, I want you to trust everyone, but that trust is in the universal truth and not in the stories you create about others. The events that occur in relationships are not outcomes, they are experiences, and we need to use boundaries and the reality of existence to live in harmony with others. When we do not do this, we live in fear of what our thoughts about something will make us feel, which is a classic behavior of the beta mind. The only way to make permanent change is through a real shift in thinking, and that starts here! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, February 05, 2021
Episode 126: Alpha Male Tenets 3 & 4
Welcome back, my brother! Today I continue my exploration of the alpha male tenets, looking at tenets number three and four. Both of these have to do with circumstance and mastering these will, in essence, aid you in finding abundant goodness and letting go of what does not exist! In order to break through our limitations and make actual progress, we need to get into a more open system, and these tenets are what allow us to do that. There are many more than just the four tenets I am focussing on in this mini-series of shows. But if you can take the lessons from this episode and the previous one, you will be on the right path to seeing things more clearly. Tenet number three states that we see things as we are and not as they are. This has to do with perception and reality, and the reality is that we live in a world made up of cells and molecules that our senses allow us to interpret and make meaning from. Our interpretation is not reality and is conditioned by our past, when in fact there is no separation in the way that we usually perceive. Tenet four can be quite a challenging one to internalize as it deals with the truth of the past and present. The truth is that everything that has happened, happened as it should have, and the proof of this is in the fact that it happened in that way! I know this can be tricky, but realizing the past is perfect is a profound form of acceptance and empowerment. Resistance to this will always cause suffering, and letting our perception get in the way of the gift of the present is a tragedy. These tenets come down to the choice to accept perfection and the universal truth. It means taking control of your subjective experience and getting away from a life ruled by fear and worry. So listen in today with me, brother, as I break it down! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 29, 2021
Episode 125: Alpha Male Tenets 1 & 2
Welcome back, brothers. Today we will be exploring the fundamental Alpha Male tenets, and this episode serves as one of a two-part series on the subject. Here we will be looking at the first two tenets and talking about how they work; remember these tenets provide us with the basis on which all of your work, as an alpha male, can stem from. The first and most fundamental and important of the tenets is something you have all heard me talk about many times. It is this: when we have a relationship, we are in a relationship with our thoughts about a particular thing, not with the actual thing. This is the illusion of relationships, and a primary hurdle to evade in order to have healthy and true relationships. Everything is an effect and is neither good nor bad, only neutral. If you can gain control of your thoughts, you will be able to manage and experience a relationship in the alpha way. The second tenet deals with results and asks you to allow the illusion of why we seek certain results to disintegrate. The universal truth states that we only want a particular result because of how we imagine that result will make us feel. It is not the result itself, but how results create an experience in our minds. This is not to say that results, goals, dreams, or however you want to frame them, do not matter. It is about living from knowing rather than wanting. When we are able to embody these two tenets, we can start to live the lives of our dreams, without our minds and beliefs standing in our way. Stay tuned, brothers, because next week I will be unpacking tenets 3 and 4, which you will not want to miss! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 22, 2021
Episode 124: The Puzzle Of Life
Welcome back, brothers. Today we will be discussing another analogy to help us understand the process of elevating our alpha states. This is the analogy of the puzzle, which describes the interconnectedness of all things, including us, and the role each of us plays in contributing to this wholeness. To understand this puzzle, we need to first review two foundational concepts. Number one is that all things are connected. This oneness can be thought of as being composed of three layers that describe the invisible being made visible through the law of cause and effect. The second concept is that truth is subjective, a state each of us has to define for ourselves. Only after having defined our own truth can we say we have reached our alpha state. The puzzle I speak about today is infinite, and composed of the three layers of oneness. The invisible truth is represented by the picture it displays, the law of cause and effect is articulated by the way the pieces fit together, and the visible realm of substance that all of us can see is analogous to the material that makes up the pieces. Each one of us forms a piece, and our unique truths, while being different, form a part of the image it displays. Using this puzzle analogy, you will learn three lessons that will help you to love rather than judge others, to realize that people are the masters of their own choices, and to understand that whether people are in their beta or alpha states, the puzzle is as it should be. These are key lessons that need to be learned in the process of understanding what it means and what it takes to elevate your alpha, so tune in and get ready to have your mind blown! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 15, 2021
Episode 123: Why Change Is Difficult - The Remix
Welcome back to the show, brothers. You better believe that for today\'s episode, we are getting wild, and going pretty far out! I am going to be talking to you about the unification of the mind, and how this can lead to living a better life, by the elevation of your alpha. This episode is a follow-on from the last one where we talked about cognitive dissonance, laddering, and bridging your thoughts. Welcome to the remixed version of Why Change is Difficult! As I have said many times before, you have to change your thoughts before any meaningful change can happen to your results. If you want permanent changes, you need to change your beliefs, as these are the source of your creative power! This is dependent on the constant law of cause and effect, and today I will be talking about its three components and the time and work it takes to get to a desired result. This show is all about harnessing the power of natural laws in order to achieve a desired result. Thought is a natural law, just like gravity, and in the same way as you can learn to work with or against gravity, you can improve your relationships with thought. Through purpose and practice, we can all learn to lift a weight that at first feels impossible, and the same goes for your thoughts! Remember brothers, this is a process, and making progress healthily takes time! It is not an instantaneous thing, in order to strengthen weaker parts of yourself you have to work with a desired belief and put in the hours. This practice can lessen the resistance we experience, and help you to get stronger in your beliefs too! When we separate thought from fact, we actually decrease the weight of the resistance we experience, and so what we are doing here is retraining the self and the beliefs we have learned. Join me for this amazing show and hear it all! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 08, 2021
Episode 122: Why Change Is Difficult
Welcome back my brothers, to another Alpha Male Coach podcast, and while we are here, welcome to the New Year too! I’m so excited about all the things I have planned for this year — not just in my own life, but also for all the things I will bring to you guys. Today I’m going to tell you about something called cognitive dissonance. Simply put brothers, cognitive dissonance is the parent that birthed the phrase, “discomfort is the price of growth.” But I’m going to dig a little deeper with you. Change is a simple action, but it’s made harder because of cognitive dissonance. ‘Cognitive’ refers to the mind — your thought. ‘Dissonance’ is the disagreement between two thoughts that you’re holding simultaneously in your mind. This is a problem. Why? Friends, your thoughts create your reality. Every time you want a new reality, you have to create a new thought, which can create mental discomfort, or cognitive dissonance. See what I mean now? To keep us on track, there is one easy thought to fill your mind: your dreams aren’t going anywhere. Cognitive dissonance is just a necessity for us to live the best version of your life, you just need to remind yourself that the things you see in the world aren’t necessarily what is going on. So here is what you gotta do. You need to decide what you want and practice believing it, even though it’s super uncomfortable. Plan for it to be there, expect its presence, and know that it is coming. Then, you’re going to want to disprove the current belief system that you do have. And I have so many more tricks to help you out with this. All you need to do is give me not even a half-hour of your time. Join me today! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, January 01, 2021
Episode 121: Setting The Tone For 2021
Welcome back, brothers. It is a new year and I am so excited to release this episode on the 1st of January because today I will be setting the tone for 2021. The truths I share with you are all about the law of creation and how you can tap into it using the alpha state and the model of alignment. Today, I remind you about how everything that exists in the universe is connected, is one thing. This oneness of existence can be separated into three parts because the invisible goes through a process of creation to become visible. Take electricity for example. It exists in pure form in an invisible state. We can’t see it but can create it using a set of processes governed by laws, after which we see its effects in the objects it powers. It is the same with humans. We bring our ideas to life through a process of creation. This applies to our lives too – we can create our lives to be whatever we want them to be through the same three-part process. If this process can be implemented with the alpha state as the internal starting point, the rest of your external life will follow suit because of the model of alignment. Using the alpha state as the invisible source of creation, we apprehend our individual truth that only we can know. We then materialize this truth via thoughts that become feelings that drive actions through cause and effect. Via the model of alignment, we thus fulfill the other two pieces of the puzzle, the process of creation resulting in the created result of our lives. Listen in today to learn more!
Fri, December 25, 2020
Episode 120: How I Evolved In 2020
Brothers, welcome to the final episode of the Alpha Male Coach Podcast in 2020. Now, I know that this year has been a ride for us all, but I wanted to put a different spin on things. I want to recap some of the great things we’ve covered and to tell you how I have evolved in the past 365 days. I’m going to start off by saying a huge thank you to all those who listen to The Alpha Male Coach Podcast, and an especially big thank you to those who have been with me since day one. We might have grown together, but you need to know that it’s all been you, man — you are 100% responsible for your growth and I won’t take any credit. One of my biggest areas of growth this year has been keeping optimal health. And I did this by keeping fit and eating healthy, and that formed an alpha state of determination and fortitude in my mind. On top of that, to keep my mind healthy, I kept traveling this year, albeit not internationally, but to various states around the country, and you can bet that I’ll be pulling out my passport in ‘21. I’ve also developed a huge amount of compassion this year, and I have so much of it for my brothers who willingly resign themselves to fear. And that is where my faith has come in too. I have needed to trust and believe in the completion of life and the illusion of death. An area where I have excelled in particular is my relationships with women. I’ve had two 90-day-plus relationships that have reached an end and I’ve learned so much from them. In this episode, I share with you all of my best experiences with women this year. This year was also an exceptional year for my business, and brothers let me tell you, creating financial success has been my mission, and through that, I have learned to become failure-proof. Let me leave you with this: fear is the only thing holding you back, and money-scarcity is a sickness, preventing you from creating an abundance of wealth. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, December 18, 2020
Episode 119: Applying The Law Of Cause And Effect
Today I quickly recap the universal truth of cause and effect. Everything that happens to or for you are just circumstances and they are neutral and out of your control. While circumstances do not create our thoughts or beliefs, they trigger memories and stimulate whatever we already believe. You have full control over your thoughts and can, therefore, choose what you think about the circumstances. When you subject your thoughts to other people’s opinions and dwell on the past, you are operating from your beta condition. Thoughts create beliefs, and beliefs create emotions, so when you think negative things, guess what happens? Emotions create feelings and it is feelings, not circumstances, that ultimately determine your experience. Feelings are what drive our actions, which, in turn, determine our results. The point is this: your thoughts determine your results. Now, in getting to the meat of the episode, there are two main things to note. Everything in life is an effect, and all effects have a cause. Everything you see, touch, hear, taste, and smell is an effect that has an invisible cause – nothing appears or manifests out of nothing. Our thoughts and the collective thoughts of people are the cause that determines the effects we see in our physical world. Your thoughts thus determine what you create and attract. When it comes to manifestation, we think both of the what – that which manifests – and the how, the way in which we experience that which is manifested. In this episode, I focus on the latter, uncovering how your feelings determine how you will experience your results. When you hold thoughts of prosperity and health, for example, this is what you will manifest. But how do you feel as you think about what you want? Do you focus on the how and panic about what might happen if you lose it, or are you at peace in the knowledge that your thoughts and feelings are already busy manifesting the thing you want? So, even if you manifest the what, the how – your experience of the manifestation – can still trip you up. That’s why it is so important to contemplate your intentions from a feeling of peace. Guys, this stuff changes your life. Be sure to tune in to learn exactly how.
Fri, December 11, 2020
Episode 118: What Are Your Bringing Into 2021?
What’s up my brothers? And welcome back to another episode of the Alpha Male Podcast. Today, we are going to cover a topic that’ll help lead you into 2021 with intention and with purpose. What we discover today is going to help you tackle the new year and make it your own. So how do you make sure that 2021 will be your best year yet? You start by asking yourself: “How was 2020 for me?” Now, this doesn’t mean I’m going to tell you what to think — no, I’ll never do that. What I’m going to do is tell you that you need to determine for yourself if what you are thinking is on purpose, or by conditioning. It’s about whether or not your thinking is serving your life, your growth, and leaving the world in a better place for having been here. We do this by doing something I like to call, “mind management.” First, you can separate your thoughts from facts, and second, you can choose to focus on the amazing things from your past. If you are going to master your alpha state, you need to think differently. By consuming fear, you’re only adding to the suffering on this rock we call planet Earth, and you’re not offering a solution. If a topic is that important to you, make it your purpose — this is called intentionality, and it’s only you can determine and change your purpose. You might be asking yourself, how do I manage the people in my life as well as my purpose? Well, my brother, the relationships in your life should be to support your purpose as you support the purpose of the humans with whom you chose to form relationships. And just remember, there is no past, and there is no future, there is only the now. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, December 04, 2020
Episode 117: Becoming Failure-Proof
In setting the tone for 2021, this episode is all about becoming failure-proof. What this means is that you no longer fear failure because it does not affect you. The more you build your resilience to failure, the better you get at resisting and ultimately transcending it. But how do we transcend the fear of failure? The first thing you’ve got to understand is that we are not born with a sense of fearing failure – it is something that we learn along the way. That’s why it is far easier to overcome it than, say, rejection, which is a primordial fear we are born with as social beings. Our society – parents, teachers, friends – constantly sends us messages about failure being a bad thing, so we begin to fear it. The truth is that we should be embracing failure because it helps us to grow. We seldom succeed at something the first time around, and it often requires many different actions for us to get to the desired result. We should therefore embrace our failures, as they get us closer to where we want to be. We should not be afraid of failure but rather of inaction. Taking action is what is required for us to move towards the intended outcome and the only way we can truly fail is if we do nothing or throw in the towel. As long as you are still taking action, you have not failed. Continuously taking action is what drives you towards your goal. Remember guys, it is not about the destination but the journey. It is about who you become in the process of working towards your goal. Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I’ll show you how this works!
Fri, November 27, 2020
Episode 116: Discomfort Is For You, Not Of You
Today we’re talking about feeling uncomfortable on purpose. Have you ever considered how discomfort is the price of growth or the idea that you cannot develop as a person while in your comfort zone? I bet you’ve heard this saying or versions of it many times. It is not a new concept – but it is still an undeniably true one. But why is it that discomfort is the price of growth? Many people say it but fail to explain why this is so. Today, I walk you through the idea that discomfort is nothing but an experience of the body. There is no substance to discomfort and it is not an ultimate reality, so why we are giving it so much power in our lives? There is no doubt that we have all experienced discomfort, even though it is illusory. It is helpful to recognize the appearance of discomfort while simultaneously separating that appearance from reality. As real and material as discomfort may seem, you must recognize it for the illusion it is. When you do this, you can work through the discomfort and ultimately grow. On the other hand, if you avoid discomfort and the pain that goes along with it, it is easy to return to buffering as a coping mechanism and you end up simply pushing the problem further along in the future. Conversely, when you confront the discomfort head-on, you end up transcending the problem and you will not have to return to it again later on. Remember that all the Alpha Male Coach courses are available at 50% discount until the end of the year, so grab the opportunity to achieve cognitive mastery now! Want to know more about what I do and how I can help you? Sign up for a free 45-minute session with me, and I ’ ll show you how this works!
Fri, November 20, 2020
Episode 115: Commitment In Relationships
Hello and welcome to another episode, my brothers. Today I am talking about one of the most misunderstood facets of the human experience, that\'s right, today\'s episode is about relationships. Specifically commitment in relationships, and what it means to commit and stay committed. The reason we have so much difficulty with this area of our lives is our misalignment with the truth, something I want to aid you in correcting! In order to experience healthy relationships and bear the fruit of our commitments, we need a better connection to the inner world. We need to more closely align with the commitments we make to ourselves because in the end, a relationship is more of a commitment to the self than to another. When our commitment turns into expectations around stories we tell ourselves, we are headed for disaster, brothers. I am here to explain how you can relinquish fear and control and allow trust back into a meaningful connection. It is asking the impossible of someone when we make and take vows. This is not what commitment means! Actions and thoughts that lead to guilt and anger have no place in a healthy relationship, and this ties into the role of boundaries and what we are prepared to provide for a partner. Join me today as I unpack this vital component of your alpha journey!
Fri, November 13, 2020
Episode 114: What About Anger?
Welcome back to the show, brothers. Today I will be addressing an important part of anyone\'s emotional landscape, and especially for a man looking to elevate his alpha. Our topic for this episode is anger, a subject that I have received many questions about, and one that is vital in your journey towards accessing your true purpose. To set the stage, we look at the three tiers of emotions. These categories help us to see how our emotions impact us and how we interact with them. Now, anger can fall into any of these tiers, and that is part of what we explore in this episode. If we become the anger that rises in us, the results of it will be very different from allowing and processing angry feelings we experience in a healthy manner. An important lesson from this discussion is that there is nothing wrong with anger in itself. But we all have better and worse ways of dealing with anger and the more we are able to exercise healthy habits around it and the array of emotions we feel, the more we master our world. Anger may occupy a useful place in your internal selves, and there is nothing wrong with that per se. You are the one who needs to choose your emotions and how you relate to them. Your anger can be powerful and even necessary, but remember, brothers, it can only be as strong as the control you have over it! For all this and more on such a vital aspect of our lives, join me today!
Fri, November 06, 2020
Episode 113: The Tools Part 3: The Matrix
In light of the election and many people’s strong emotions about the outcomes, today’s teaching comes at a great time. Whether you experience a sense of victory or loss – depending on who took the presidency – what you’ve got to understand that the outcome really has nothing to do with how you are feeling. The data is neutral; it’s all about how your thoughts are shaping the emotions you have. What I’m diving into today is the topic of creation. It is not about the created but the power of creation; the power is in the process itself. With people coming to me to lose weight, find a girlfriend, or quit drinking, it is clear that they are hoping for a change that happens from the external to the internal. But it doesn’t work that way and it perpetuates your suffering, my brother. You have to focus on the cause – not the effect. The cause is your belief, and this is what will ultimately determine the outcomes you get. The matrix is always a result, and it keeps you trapped in your beta condition. Remember that, in the realm of form and matter (the created), nothing is ever added or taken away. How the form and matter are presented is the only thing that changes. To us, it seems like ‘real’, tangible distinctions when, in fact, it is just a flux of energy. The created as we perceive it is thus temporary. Creation is the only aspect of importance. When you understand that the process of creation is in your hands, you step out of the matrix of the created and begin to change your life. Tuning in today, you will learn how you can tap into your identity as a creator and contributor. You no longer have to be satisfied with what comes your way – you can determine what you get by having the right thoughts. Let me help you transition from the compromised beta condition to the empower alpha state!
Fri, October 30, 2020
Episode 112: The Tools Part 2: The Alpha
Welcome back to the podcast my brothers, as we continue this important journey together! Today\'s episode is part two in our series on the tools of alignment and is all about what you need to get into touch with your Alpha and relinquish the control that the beta condition can exercise over your life! So what are we talking about here? The first part is about allowing the Alpha to determine your actions and teach the beta, in order to reach that all-important alignment. This comes with the power of knowing, and I really want to underline how this works and how we come to \'know something\'. As usual, this relates to getting away from fear and accessing that true Alpha state. This is a process episode and I will be trying to keep everything as concrete and actionable as possible for all of you! We even talk about the questions many of you might be asking around the possibility of reverse engineering this process from the results that you already know. Make sure to join me for this vital piece of the puzzle for elevating your Alpha!
Fri, October 23, 2020
Episode 111: The Tools Part 1: The Law
Today’s podcast is the first of three where we will be exploring some basic tools that you can use to help you see the truth of who you are and what you are capable of – which is exactly what you believe you are capable of. One thing we all need to understand is that the universe is governed by natural laws. For example, in the law of electricity, watts divided by amps equals volts, and volts times amps equal watts. There is also the universal law of cause and effect, and it is this law that governs the relationship between our thoughts and our lives. The law of cause and effect does not judge our thoughts. Like any law or system, it takes certain inputs and produces the appropriate outputs. Like a math equation, the law of cause and effect produces precisely the results that are appropriate to the force and frequency of the thoughts it receives as inputs. This law also creates a feedback loop, where the more we see how thoughts produced real events, the more we can believe that specific things will happen when we think specific thoughts. This law of cause and effect can be seen in action as it governs the results our thoughts produce, and today we go through some exercises that you can do to help you understand it better. These exercises are named the thought download and the unintentional model of alignments. Using them, we study how neutral stimuli that we receive through our five senses are interpreted by our thoughts, thereby producing feelings that drive action. Tune in to learn how to use these exercises to rewire your responses so that you can produce the actions required to change your life forever.
Fri, October 16, 2020
Episode 110: The Alpha State: Unconditional Love
To expand on the ideas of indomitable self-confidence that we explored in the last episode, I will be explaining the importance of unconditional love and how it fits into the model of alignment. The alpha state we are reaching for is within your grasp and this is just another piece of the puzzle for you to get closer to your goals. That version of yourself that you know you want to attain, the one with confidence and stability, honesty and power, contains, without a doubt, elements of unconditional love. This love can be directed at oneself, but importantly as you will hear, is also a means to deal with other people in our lives. When we accept the parts that make up the model of alignment, and we begin to see that none of us are our reactions or emotions, our mistakes, and successes, then it becomes that much easier to approach external forces and particularly people, with unconditional love and understanding. In this way we are non-judgmental and it is just another element of cognitive mastery. Stay tuned for this amazing episode, brothers, as I talk about saying yes to what is, getting away from a fixation on demonstration, and liberating yourself from the beta conditioning that can hold back your greatest self!
Fri, October 09, 2020
Episode 109: The Alpha State: Indomitable Self-Confidence
We are entering into new territory on the podcast today, breaking down indomitable self-confidence! By taking control of the three pillars I lay out in this episode, you can access never-before-seen realms of power and agency in your life. Indomitable self-confidence leads to our next topic to be discussed, which is unconditional love, to be explored further as we go deeper into the subject. Stay tuned for that! The first pillar of indomitable self-confidence lies in our cognition. This is the story we tell ourselves and how our thoughts interact with the raw data of the world around us. As soon as we start being able to separate our thoughts from the inputs we receive and make a choice around how we think about things, we begin to tap into unlimited potential. Our feelings make up the second pillar, brothers. I want you to understand that self-confidence relates to the way we handle our emotions and indomitable self-confidence means the strength to handle any emotions that arise in us. It\'s okay to feel sad or angry or joyous, but when you face the array of emotions you experience with the knowledge that it is under your control, those emotions lose their ability to run your life. The final pillar of this idea of indomitable self-confidence is around your actions. I have spoken about actions many times before and today is no different, it is how you show up, set boundaries, and follow through on your intentions. By standing strong in these three pillars we access courage we may not have known we had!
Fri, October 02, 2020
Episode 108: Show Me The Money Part 3: The Business
Following on from the first two parts of this series on money, today I will be unpacking what we can call \'the business\'. This is the part that is predominantly feelings and actions, and fits into the material circumstance and thoughts that we discussed in the previous episodes. These ideas are mainly geared towards those of you with your own business and projects — there is plenty of value here for everyone, but that is the focus of the \'business\' we talking about. To start off, brothers, we will be getting into the removal of limiting beliefs around your work and the value you have to offer. What matters here is the belief and the result, how you do it is just the equals sign, but what you think about it and manifest as a result, are what really count. Your business is a simple equation: Your offer, minus the number of nos you receive, will give you the business you do! It sounds obvious, but do not be fooled! This is the numbers game of business and it is no different from dating or any other time you may make an offer and wait for a response. What I want you to understand here is that in order to have a business and to make progress, you have to be making the offer. We get into what you are offering and who you are offering it to, and important aspects of your success such the knowledge of your value. There are so many great ideas for you here; why the nos you will inevitably receive have nothing to do with you, why quitting is the only way to really fail, how to go about accepting change and success, and how to get into an abundant mind frame around money. Tune in and elevate your alpha, today!
Fri, September 25, 2020
EP 107: Show Me The Money Part 2: The Budget
Guys, today we get into part 2 of the Show Me The Money series, and it’s all about budget. Now, before you switch to another episode, this one is not the normal budget talk – it will actually change how you view money. The first thing you’ve got to do is establish what your beliefs about money are and what your beta condition is telling you about it. You may be surprised to learn what kind of lies you believe. Then you want to look at the numbers and data, and this is where many people stop paying attention. We only want to look at money in terms of income, but it is vital to look at it in three ways: what are you creating, what is your spending, and what is your having (the total in your account). Then you are going to track your money and be intentional about it. What you’ll learn from this episode is that it is your belief about money, not your actions, that determine your money situation. Even if you do all the right things, if your thoughts are still in the beta condition, you will not see better results. You should look at your finances first from two main positions: responsibilities and abundance. The first is about your basic living expenses, such as food, mortgage, rent, and insurance, which makes up 90%. The abundance position involves giving a portion of your money (10%) intentionally to other people, and you will hear how this opens you up to receive in return! Later on, you can add other positions such as growth, experience, freedom, reward, and fun. When you decide only to experience joy when it comes to money, it makes paying for your groceries and home a delight, because you see how these things serve you. To learn more about creating an intentional alpha relationship with money, be sure to tune in!
Fri, September 18, 2020
EP 106: Show Me The Money
Today I respond to a common question asked by students and listeners, and it is all about money. The first thing you’ve got to understand is that money is a circumstance and it is completely neutral. Money doesn’t affect your feelings or determine your character or value: It is how you think about money that can change your experience of these things. You have to power to choose how you see and what you believe about money, and this will determine the results you have with it. Many of the common beliefs we have about money are untrue and just perpetuate the negative outcomes we keep getting. But having positive thoughts about money are not enough – thoughts have to be accompanied by actions. Guys, you can’t sit on a beach somewhere are think yourself into wealth; you need to do the work and create the right vibrations for everything to fall into place. That’s what it means to say that faith without work is dead. I was also perpetually broke and stuck in debt for a long time, but when I changed my beliefs about money, things in my physical world started changing. You’ll hear all about it today. Remember that actions are like the equal sign in mathematics. Your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs go on the left side of the equation, the actions in the middle, and on the right is the results you get. So, when the right beliefs, feelings, and thoughts and combined with actions, you get the results you want. My brothers, don’t wait for a second longer. Tune in to get a taste of what the alpha life has to offer you.
Fri, September 11, 2020
EP 105: The Universal Truth 2.0
Today we are revisiting the concept of the universal truth and building out our understanding of it, but be prepared that what you are going to hear is not common sense. We are conditioned to fear things, and this negatively impacts our lives because it results in us having victim mentalities and, turns out, a host of other problems. In this episode, I explain the universal truth of how life works, and it comes down to understanding that all circumstances are neutral and that it is we who ascribe meaning to them. We give meaning to situations by having thoughts about them; thoughts that come from our subjectivity. Our thoughts impact our body and emotions, which then dictate our behavior and actions, in turn determining the results we get! What then happens is that the results always somehow reinforce our beliefs, setting the process in motion again. What you have to understand is that the law of mind and belief is completely neutral. It acts according to the objective law and your subjective will, desire, and choice. The law, therefore, works according to your decisions and is a natural power that you can leverage for your benefit. But if this is true, why don’t we all have massive wealth and optimum health or the relationships we want? Because of the fear we have been conditioned into and our limiting beliefs. Even if you have all the right thoughts, if you fail to cultivate the beliefs, your aspirations will not come to fruition. Join me for discussions on all of this, and more!
Fri, September 04, 2020
EP 104 What Remains?
Today we are talking about what comes after you regain control of your habits and break the cycle of unconscious actions and buffering. We have spent a lot of time in previous episodes on the subject of buffering and how important it is to live with intention rather than through fearful and avoidant reaction. But when we are able to get a hold of our choices and live more consciously, what remains? The first thing you may notice is more time and energy available to you. This should come as no surprise, as cutting out time-consuming and draining activities would clearly lead to an increase in those valuable commodities. Another, probably less attractive, the result will be discomfort. Again, this is foreseeable, as our buffering habits are ways to avoid and protect ourselves from certain types of discomfort in our lives. If we are able to accept this reality and grow strong in that discomfort, which is an essential part of being alive, it is then that we are able to step into our purpose. It is then that we are able to truly exist and to begin to create with our true selves. This need to create is central to what it means to be human, and the connection between our thoughts and our creative actions is what makes us what we are. Tune in today, brothers, to find out more about getting in touch with this essence and elevating your alpha!
Fri, August 28, 2020
EP #103: How to Stop Buffering
As we enter into a new phase for the Alpha Male Coach, it is a great time to go back to the beginning and start with the basics once again. A huge part of elevating your alpha is about removing the need to buffer, in that unconscious and instinctual way that we condition ourselves to. So today we are getting into the process of retraining the brain, liberating ourselves from reliance on buffers and taking control of our actions! Whatever your buffer may be, from sugar and alcohol to video games and pornography, every time we unconsciously turn to that behavior as a form of escape we are training the mind to rely on that action. The buffer is not the action but rather the relationship your brain has with the action, and this is what we want to change. In today\'s episode, we break down three different methods for regaining control from your animal brain and putting the power in your prefrontal cortex, thus allowing your best, elevated self to make decisions. There is the \'buffer plan\', the \'exception plan\', and the \'upcoming event plan\'; and all three frameworks can help you on this journey, brothers, so make sure to tune in and elevate your alpha!
Fri, August 21, 2020
Ep #102: The Motivational Triad
What is it that allows some guys to achieve their goals and perform optimally while others keep falling short of their aspirations? Today we talk again about buffering and how it prevents you from becoming the man you want to be. We are all inclined to buffer but we do it in different ways – some of which you may not even be consciously aware of. While you don’t have to stop buffering to improve, you will not be able to achieve your alpha state without removing the barrier of buffering. In this episode, I walk you through the program that the beta system is built on and that keeps men trapped in their primordial, survival-oriented mode of existence. The system is called the motivational triad, and while it was meant to keep the body alive, it now perpetuates the beta condition in the 21st century when we no longer need to be running away from wild animals. The thee corners of the motivation triad are seeking pleasure, avoiding pain, and efficiency. When something in the environment elicits pleasure or pain, it signals to the brain to either repeat or avoid the activity. If we didn’t have those triggers, we wouldn’t have sex or eat food, which would cause our species to become extinct. And this is where buffering comes in: certain activities trigger your pleasure center and make you repeat the behavior, and this is detrimental to your journey of becoming an irresistible man of confidence. The good news is that we can leverage the motivational triad to reprogram our brains. By flipping the motivational triad on its head, you can rewire your brain and regain control over your thoughts and behaviors, becoming the alpha male you know you can be. If you want to learn more, be sure to check out this episode!
Fri, August 14, 2020
Ep#101 The Value of No More Buffering
We have gone over buffering quite a bit in many of the previous episodes. Today we are going to dive a little deeper into why this is so beneficial. We all have our methods of \"coping\" with emotions we don\'t want to experience, but does this really help us process the emotion? If you do not process the emotion, you will never actually move past it. Kevin talks about why we buffer, and how we can move past it.
Fri, August 07, 2020
Ep#100 Episodes in the Matrix
We made it to 100 episodes!! Now that we have come this far, we will continue the level 1material, but we will also start going deeper into the next level of the Alpha State. We are going to spend some time reviewing the what, how, why, and when of these last hundred episodes. We are also going to do this with a preview of the next hundred episodes.
Fri, July 31, 2020
Ep#99 Determine Your Purpose
In this final episode for July, we are going to start early on August\'s theme of purpose. We spent July understanding our past for what it is, and re-writing our pasts in order to change our future. Now that we understand how our story of the past can determine our present experience, it\'s time to figure out how to determine our purpose.
Fri, July 24, 2020
Ep#98 Direct Experience Part 2
This is part 2 of Direct Experience from 2 weeks ago. Today we are going to talk about how to use direct experience, and how to use this concept to move from an unintentional belief system that doesn\'t serve you, to a more intentional/deliberate belief that you choose. We mistake our stories about circumstances, for the actual facts of the circumstance. In reality, we only really know our own thoughts about the circumstance. We will go over how to understand a direct experience in neutrality, and how to move into a positive thought to change the way we feel about our past.
Fri, July 17, 2020
Ep #97 How To Re-write Your Past Part 2
We are continuing on how to re-write your past, and we are digging even deeper this time. Kevin goes over a question and some feedback one of the listeners had about \"how to re-write your past part 1\". The listener just happened to ask a question in which Kevin has direct experience. We will be going over Kevin\'s past and he re-wrote the past in order to elevate his alpha.
Fri, July 10, 2020
Ep #96 Direct Experience
We are going to go deep on these next 2 episodes! Today we are going to break down meditation as a tool, understanding its effectiveness and potential downsides. We are going to be challenged by these next 2 episodes to think a little more outside of the box.
Sat, July 04, 2020
Ep#95 How To Re-Write Your Past
In July we are going to be talking about the past. Your past only exists in your mind, all you have is the now. When we relate to the present from the past, we are creating a moment based on who we were . Your past is over, and doesn\'t effect you. The current thoughts you think about your past do effect you. If you feel that your past causes you pain today, know that it\'s only your thoughts about your past that is causing the pain. Your thoughts are optional, you can tell the story about your past in a light that describes you today.
Fri, June 26, 2020
Ep#94 What Does Confidence Feel Like?
In this last podcast of the indomitable self-confident month, we will be talking in detail about fear. Do confident people feel fear? When you feel courage, you feel fear. Consistently applying courage leads to more confidence. Fear is necessary to feel in able to understand the feeling of confidence. There is a healthy relationship you can have with fear, today we will be discussing how you can use this to your advantage instead of buffering.
Sat, June 20, 2020
Ep#93 What Does Confidence Look Like? ISC in Action
We will be finishing indomitable self-confidence month with looking at the A line in the model this week, and then the F line next week. To illustrate this, we will be making a comparison of Tony Stark (Iron Man) and Steve Rogers (Captain America.). This episode we will be going over the thoughts that each of these alpha males are having to display indomitable confidence. They both display confidence, and have thoughts that create their actions, but are actually thinking very different thoughts. Find out which one resonates with you!
Sat, June 13, 2020
Ep#92 Fear of Rejection
Last week we covered Indomitable Self-Confidence, this week we will be covering the opposite idea. If we allow our fear of rejection to be our dominant thought, we will never be able to understand what confidence feels like. Building confidence is actually about being able to put yourself out there for all to judge, and allowing yourself to feel the emotions that come with it. Do you process them, or run away from them? We are going to discuss mindset and some exercises you can do to move away from your fear of rejection.
Fri, June 05, 2020
Ep#91 Indomitable Self-Confidence
It\'s June, and we have a big month ahead! We are diving right into indomitable self-confidence. Self-doubt is innate, and many of us are not actively trying to build confidence. What is it about self-confidence that makes it such a sought after feeling? We want to be liked by other people, we want to have more friends, be attractive to women etc. You can\'t teach people how to feel about you, people think the way they think, that is the universal truth. The only move you can make to influence people to like you, is to like yourself!
Fri, May 29, 2020
Ep#90 Alpha Disagreements
Do you lose control of your emotions when someone disagrees with you, or do you listen calmly? In this episode Kevin goes over the difference in beta and alpha disagreements. We can have a difference in opinion, viewpoints and everything without having conflict. We are living in a time where there is more disagreement than ever, but we as alphas can learn to navigate around this to get the result we want to achieve.
Fri, May 22, 2020
Ep#89 Alpha Vigilance
Today we are going to talk more about relationships and how we communicate with others in the Alpha state. Do you hear the words people say, or do you hear your beliefs about their words? Kevin explains his 4 layers of communication based on the model to help us understand how only we have control over the way we feel, and not others. We will go over some tips to improve our relationships through understanding our brains, and their brains. Kevin also teaches the lesson of Alpha vigilance with sharing his experience and circumstance recovering from Bells Palsy.
Fri, May 15, 2020
Ep#88 Alpha Relationships
In this long awaited episode, Kevin finally breaks down what relationships mean in the alpha mindset. We have gotten a lot of hints from other episodes, but now we will dig deep in what it all really means. Not just for ourselves, but for our partner as well (no matter what the nature of the relationship is.)
Fri, May 08, 2020
Ep#87 Boundries and Future-Focused Thinking
Continuing with the theme of relationships in the month of May, we are going to get into the effectiveness of setting boundaries for relationships specifically. As we have been stating, we are only ever in a relationship with ourselves, and this will be how we discuss this. We will continue to go further into future-focused thinking and how we apply it to each relationship we have.
Mon, May 04, 2020
Ep# 86 The Illusion of Control
We are entering the month of May and the theme is: relationships. The human condition is the relationship we have with ourselves (know thyself.) The only 2 things we actually control directly are our thoughts and emotions, everything else comes indirectly. Trying to control everything else is futile. In this episode we talk about starting to let go of some of the control that we are trying to have over others.
Fri, April 24, 2020
Ep#85 Boredom
Today we\'re going to talk about boredom: what it is, and whether it is or isn\'t an actual problem, and how you can handle it. Is boredom a thought, circumstance, or feeling? Its only your thoughts that make something boring, or not boring to you. As long as you have a human mind, you don\'t ever have to be bored. One thing to also remember is that there\'s nothing wrong with being bored. On the other side of boredom is creativity.
Fri, April 17, 2020
Ep#84 The Abundant Truth
In the final part of this week\'s 3 part series, we will be talking about the Abundant Truth. This is the next 20% of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership and it combines with the last 2 lessons. We want to see this with no duality, no judgement, positive/negative etc. Our beta condition is viewing the world from where we are, instead of from what is. That\'s where judgement comes in, and we think that our beliefs are facts. First we have to know that we are having these beliefs. When we separate ourselves from duality, so we can see the abundance of what is neutral. When we see that, we can create anything!
Wed, April 15, 2020
Ep#83 The Emotional Truth (Part 2)
In part 2 we are going to be talking about the emotional truth. Human beings are emotional junkies, our actions always come through our emotions. We think we are after a result, but we are after the feeling we think it will give us. We run from, and run TO emotion. Everything in life is an emotional experience, good or bad. You have control over the quality of your life.
Mon, April 13, 2020
Ep#82 The Archipelago Truth
What\'s up guys! It\'s Monday again and we are going to be doing one more 3 part series! This series is on different truths. Today will be the Archipelago truth, Wednesday the Emotional Truth, and Friday will be Abundant Truth. In today\'s episode we are going to use the archipelago analogy to understand a truth about ourselves. The island is your potential, and there are 2 types of people: one who sit and wait on shore, and those who explore the island. Which one are you? There is no wrong or right choice.
Fri, April 10, 2020
Ep#81 Purpose - Worthiness
In part 3 of 3 this week we are discussing worthiness as it pertains to your purpose. We want to make the shift from selling our value through our time (to others), to using our time to create value for ourselves. When we are giving our time to others, and we are not in a state of passion, we often end up buffering after our job is over. Now is the time to work on ourselves, FOR ourselves. Stop trying to arrive to the place where you are \"good enough\", there\'s nothing you can\'t be/do/have that will make you feel more complete! We are already good enough, no one\'s life is more important than ours.
Wed, April 08, 2020
Ep#80 Purpose - Value
In part 2 of this week\'s 3 part series, we\'re going to be talking about Value. Understanding value is a big reason why this course was created. A lot of people have the idea that their purpose was created by them, that it is something they have to be told or discover. Purpose is defined by the reason that something exists, our brain searches for people who give us these examples. The truth of it is, we DECIDE what our purpose is! And one way we can start to decide is to figure out what value we want to add to the world.
Mon, April 06, 2020
Ep#79 Purpose-Time
It\'s Monday, and we\'re going to do another 3 part series! We are going to cover Time, Value, and Worth. Today is about time, one of the only things we can never get back. Even though we cannot get more of it, we can manage it so that we can create MORE within the time that we do have. Why is time important to you? We put time into the model, and think about how to create your results.
Fri, April 03, 2020
Ep#78 Training for Chaos Part 3
In the final part of the Training for Chaos series we are going to be talking about time. This is the best time to talk about what our brains are trying to tell us about time! Humans are a very tough species, and we are going to get through this. It\'s not the first virus we\'ve been through, and it won\'t be the last. Because we are all at home, we have more time than ever to work on our thoughts. What thoughts do we want to focus on at a time like this so that we can still produce value? When we are all going back to work, what can we do to add more value than we did before?
Wed, April 01, 2020
Ep#77 Training for Chaos Part 2
In part 2 of this 3 part series, we will be discussing money and scarcity in the economy. Many have slipped into a scarcity mindset in these trying times. Abundance mentality isn\'t about what\'s happening externally, it ALWAYS comes from the internal dialogue we have with ourselves. There are many examples in life where opportunity was created in times of lack. None of the people who capitalized on this could create opportunities if their thoughts were focused on fear, the economy, or scarcity. Within every single obstacle is a strategy for growth, strength, and elevating your alpha!
Mon, March 30, 2020
Ep#76 Training for Chaos Part 1
Kevin begins this week with a 3 part series titled \"Training for Chaos\" for the current situation we are all dealing with. We may be in a quarantine, but that isn\'t a reason to stop elevating your alpha! We will go over mind management, and why the world needs us more than ever.
Fri, March 27, 2020
Ep#75 Believing Hard Things
Kevin goes into his experience of radical change from victim (beta) to the alpha mindset. The progressive change of thought patterns that were the building blocks of the model.
Fri, March 20, 2020
Ep #74: Thinking vs. Believing
Continuing with beliefs this week, we\'re discussing how thoughts turn into beliefs. We use the brain to practice thoughts, in order to turn them into beliefs. We then use our belief to drive our actions, which will then reinforce the belief that gives us an emotion. In this episode we learn a technique called \"ladder thoughts\" and why it works better than positive affirmations. An overly positive affirmation is often rejected by the brain. Thinking a thought that\'s further than where you are, but close enough to your current thought will help transition your thinking into more positive thoughts.
Fri, March 13, 2020
Ep #73: Believing the Universal Truth
Continuing the belief series, we look at the benefits of believing in the model. The model reveals what our beliefs are, no matter how the beliefs affect us. We look at the idea \"thought-swapping\" and how it leads to different feelings, actions, and results. Our life doesn\'t happen to us, our thoughts happen to us. And when we start changing our thoughts, we change our life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/believing-the-universal-truth
Fri, March 06, 2020
Ep #72: Binary Beliefs
Last week we went over beliefs in a general overview, as we view them in the model. This week we are going to go deep into binary beliefs: why we believe something is \"good\" or \"bad\". We review how understanding that circumstances are neutral plays into the alpha mindset. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/binary-beliefs
Fri, February 28, 2020
Ep #71: What is a belief?
March is the month of creating new beliefs with the Spartan Academy. We are going to take a deep look at what a belief actually is, and the defining characteristics of beliefs. There is a relationship between your thoughts and beliefs that we will break down in this episode. You will understand that beliefs are NOT facts. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/what-is-a-belief/
Fri, February 21, 2020
Ep #70: Vulnerability and Intimacy
We often view vulnerability in away that makes us look or feel weak. In this episode, we talk about what vulnerability is, and how it fits into the model and how we can use it to live in a more authentic alpha state. We look at the challenge of being intimate without being vulnerable, and why we need them to work together. We make a comparison of the beta condition\'s view point on vulnerability, and the alpha updated definition. How we can go from giving away the keys to our emotions, to taking ownership of our emotions. We talk about strategies to make vulnerability less stressful. We\'re going to learn that having a better relationship with vulnerability through the alpha state can help us shatter limiting beliefs. After listening to this episode you will have a much better understanding of how necessary vulnerability is when to intimacy. You will understand how all of your relationships are effected by this idea, and how to get started on changing this in your favor.
Fri, February 14, 2020
Ep #69: The 5 Love Languages
February is the month for talking about emotional intelligence at the Spartan Academy and this episode is one that’s been a long-time coming: Love languages. This thought-model is based on an international best-selling book, yet it is clear as day that there are flaws with the thinking it’s based on it. While this is not a book review, we look at the ways that this type of thinking leaves you stuck in the beta condition. As the love language theory places our ability to feel the love in the hands of someone else, it immediately takes out of the alpha state. It not only abdicates emotional power, but it also does not fundamentally acknowledge that love comes from what we think, not someone else’s actions. In the alpha state, where you are mastering your emotional intelligence, you are fully aware of this. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/69
Fri, February 07, 2020
Ep #68: Emotional Intelligence
Our entire lives are controlled by how we feel. If we have not developed emotional intelligence, we end up suffering under the perceived negativity of emotions we think we have no control over. In this episode, we get into what it means to develop emotional intelligence and how it makes us free. We talk about how humans tend to seek out good feelings while avoiding bad ones, but how that tendency leads to buffering and addiction. A far superior strategy is learning how to manage uncomfortable emotions by seeing them as chemical reactions which are neither negative or positive. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/68
Fri, January 31, 2020
Ep #67: The Alpha Male Is Quantum
Recently listeners have been asking whether the Alpha state, due to having the emotions ‘under control,’ is, therefore, a purely rational state. In this episode, we discuss how the Alpha state, rather than being rational, is in fact beyond both rationality and the emotions. The Alpha state is a quantum state! We look at some concepts in quantum mechanics such as superposition and wave function collapse, discovering how the Alpha mindset works in incredibly similar ways. Rather than being in a beta place of restrictive, binary thinking, we begin to understand how we are completely free instead. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/67
Fri, January 24, 2020
Ep #66: The Alpha Mirror and Inversion Principles
Get ready to hear about two high-level concepts that can be applied to the process of developing cognitive mastery in this episode. These concepts are what we call the Alpha Mirror principle and the Inversion principle, and in the conversation that follows, we break down how each of them works. These concepts are implicated in thinking negative things about others, thinking others are having negative thoughts about ourselves, and feeling victimized in a situation where somebody says or does something mean to us. The central technique to rising above these perceptions is realizing that anything we think about others is actually what we think about ourselves. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/66
Fri, January 17, 2020
Ep #65: The Momentous Leap From Beta To Alpha
Today we take a deep dive into the abstract idea of what it means to operate from the alpha state. Remember guys, we are born into the beta condition, so the alpha state is one that we need to contend for. When we reach the final stage of beta development, we experience a period of turmoil during which we are uncertain about ourselves in the context of a community and have the sense that things are not as they should be. The good news is that once your consciousness of the alpha state is awakened, it cannot be undone, and you will no longer be satisfied with the beta state. The alpha state involves an awareness that you are an individual — apart from all other people — and that you are solely responsible for yourself. It cultivates the understanding that you are the master of your own mind and emotions and that having this control is more important than any result you think you want. When you are operating from your alpha state, you also refrain from judging people’s actions and you respect views, opinions, and beliefs that are different from your own. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/65
Fri, January 10, 2020
Ep #64: How To vs. Having Done
Brothers, it is an absolute privilege for me to be your guide to elevating your alpha once again on the show today. This week’s episode is all about switching from a limiting ‘how to’ mindset into a place of cognitive mastery and self-empowerment provided by visualizing oneself in a place of ‘having done’. We are currently living in an information age where the chances are very high that a resource exists which contains all the information you would ever need to accomplish anything you could think of. The problem is that for many of us, having the resolve and willpower to take the steps required to follow that resource is what is lacking. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/64
Fri, January 03, 2020
Ep #63: Benefits Of Conscious Action
Welcome to the fourth episode in our four-part series on the results and benefits of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership. Today we focus on conscious action and mastery of behavior. We come to understand their benefits and also hear two techniques that we can use to achieve them. We firstly talk about the central pillar in cognitive mastery, which is that thoughts control emotions and actions, and that thoughts themselves are controllable. The tree analogy helps us to understand cognitive mastery. Its roots are awareness of circumstance versus self-belief, and its fruits are future-focused thinking, self-confidence, amazing relationships, and mastery of behavior. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/63
Fri, December 27, 2019
Ep #62: Benefits of Indomitable Self-Confidence
Today, we continue to find out about the results and benefits of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership. This is episode three of the four-part series and it explores indomitable self-confidence. We’ve spoken about self-confidence a lot on the show and we all know self-confidence is the feelings we have about ourselves and all our feelings come from our thinking so what we think of ourselves comes from how we feel. We begin by discussing the five roots of the cognitive mastery and emotional ownership tree and the benefits of the tree. The skills that make this tree strong are awareness, thought choice, emotional processing, massive action and results production. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/62
Fri, December 20, 2019
Ep #61: Benefits of Amazing Relationships
Today we continue the cognitive mastery and emotional ownership series. This is the second episode and it explores the benefits of amazing relationships. Time and again we have spoken about relationships on the show. So, this is a dedicated discussion to the bounty of beautiful relationships. We begin by exploring what relationships are. We discover before you can enjoy amazing relationships, you must first cultivate one with yourself! This is a pillar of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership. You will learn why once this foundation is in place, fostering healthy relationships will come into your life with greater ease. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/61
Fri, December 13, 2019
Ep #60: Benefits of Future-Focused Thinking
We’ve just finished the four-part series on emotion and today we start our next four-part series on the results and benefits of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership. We talk a lot about why it’s an alpha trait to have cognitive mastery and emotional ownership as a skillset, but what we don’t speak about enough are the benefits this learning will have on your life. In this episode, we discover the first of the four benefits of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership: Future-focused thinking. Future-focused thinking is an alpha trait because it allows you to become the co-creator of your own life, lead your own path, and fulfill your reason for living. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/60
Fri, December 06, 2019
Ep #59: Indulgent Emotions
Indulgent emotions are those that you are comfortable with but don’t serve you at all; in other words, they don’t get you the results you want. Doubt is a good example of an indulgent emotion: it feels like it might protect you in some way when it fact it only prevents you from reaching your goals. Doubt is a beta condition that puts you in a place ahead of time, therefore anticipating an outcome based on the past. This outcome more often than not comprises failure, and therefore the doubt makes you fail even before you’ve tried! Comfort is another popular indulgence: we want to avoid the unfamiliar and tend to revert to the known whenever the going gets too tough. But get this, being uncomfortable is an inevitable part of growth. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/59
Fri, November 29, 2019
Ep #58: The Impossible Goal
Today I am taking a break from the emotion series to share something extra special and exciting with you! The idea of an impossible goal might seem difficult, it might seem like a waste of time, but I am here to explain to you, brother, about how I think it is absolutely necessary to your growth and success! Oftentimes we set goals and the lack of results deter us from pursuing them properly. The right way to go about it is to rather think about daily steps towards the goal and forget about the immediate results, you can achieve amazing and impossible things but it will take time. If you focus on the next step rather than the final result you can build a habit that will take you there! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/58
Fri, November 22, 2019
Ep #57: Social and Approach Anxiety
A lot of us struggle with social and approach anxiety, worrying and stressing about interacting with and meeting people. The good news is that this is a problem that you can overcome, just like I did! I used to find it very hard to attend gathering and parties and would find excuses to not go or drink too much when I did, to buffer these feelings. The main lesson here is to take ownership of our feelings and concerns. It can often feel like we know what others might be thinking of us or problems they may have with the way we look or act. As soon as you realize that these thoughts are not theirs, but yours, you can start to change these patterns and feel less anxiety. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/57
Fri, November 15, 2019
Ep #56: Shame
It is said that shame is the most human of emotions, something we all share. But that does not mean we cannot improve our relationship to this feeling and alter the path of where it comes from. Shame does not arise from things we do or experience, it is the result of thoughts that we have about ourselves and how others view us. As soon as we start taking control of these thoughts and rearranging our patterns of behavior in a more nourishing and intentional way, we can break free from the cycle of shame and hiding away from the world. The word shame is a derivative of the idea of covering up or staying hidden and this is what we do when we feel ashamed. It is also what continues the pattern! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/56
Fri, November 08, 2019
Ep #55: Loneliness
Contrary to what you might believe or may have been told, loneliness is not such a big deal. Like so many other things, we tend to think that changing our circumstances is going to make us feel less lonely. But the problem is never the circumstance but rather the thoughts we have about that circumstance. We often speak about loneliness as if it’s an all-consuming state of being, but it’s a time-limited feeling like any other. It’s fleeting. It also has nothing to do with the lack of people around you because it’s possible to experience intense loneliness while surrounded by people. We create this loneliness by alienating ourselves from others and believing that we are rejected or misunderstood by them. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/55
Fri, November 01, 2019
Ep #54: Understanding Emotional Ownership
Welcome, brothers. Today I am here to speak about the idea that controlling your thoughts can allow you to also control the emotions you feel on a daily basis. When you start thinking differently about the way you think, you start creating your life in a different, more intentional way. I talk more about the three steps you can take to reprogramming your thinking in order to get out of a victim state and into one where you are in charge of your feelings. These steps are emotional awareness, emotional ownership, and finally, cognitive mastery. Picture your emotions like drinks at a bar that you can order. You get to choose which ones you drink! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/54
Fri, October 25, 2019
Ep #53: Morning Thoughts Will Create Your Day
Today on the show I sit down to talk about morning anxiety-producing thinking and how it can be managed. I share some of the mental strategies that I have researched and practiced myself which have been very effective for me in learning to create more positive thought patterns in my life, which start when I wake up. Most of us wake up and immediately experience some kind of negative and obsessive thought pattern, which can often end up affecting the entire day. What most of us don’t realize though, is that these thought patterns are actually a natural brain activity called the Beta state. This is proven by the fact that even when outside events change or get better, the brain still tends to worry about them, or even finds new things to worry about. Coming to this important realization can help us to catch ourselves in that state, see it for what it is, and in doing so, step back from it. From this more distanced place, we can then actively change those thoughts from bad to good. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/53
Fri, October 18, 2019
Ep #52: Forging Alpha Men: Lessons from The First Year
Today is particularly special because we’re on episode number 52, which means the podcast has been running for a full year! I’ve helped many of you guys on your way to cognitive mastery, and today I’m going to be sharing everything I’ve taught myself and my students over the past year. How I will approach this overview is by going over each level of the model, namely circumstance, thought, feeling, action and result. But while it may be tempting to understand it in terms of positive thinking, it is not – it’s far more. It’s not about changing the way you think, but about changing the way you think about thinking! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/52
Fri, October 11, 2019
EP #51: How To Change Your Past
There are so many people out there who are hanging onto the past and defining themselves by what they did or did not do or what happened or didn’t happen to them as kids. It can be so easy to get wrapped up in thinking about the past, which is why in today’s episode, we are talking about how to get rid of it. The past can be 30 years ago and things that happened to us as children or it could be something more recent, such as choice we made five years ago that cost us the job of our dreams. What is so important to understand is that it is not the past that affects you, but rather the story you tell yourself about the past. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/51
Fri, October 04, 2019
EP #50: Money as a Circumstance
Money is not a problem in and of itself. It is a mere circumstance. We recently spoke about wanting from abundance and not scarcity, which basically requires you to stop thinking about everything you don’t have and instead focus on the things you already have – and wanting them! It’s not the money in your bank account that makes you feel either good or bad, but the narrative you tell yourself about that money – what that money means. Separating money from the thoughts about the money is an important step in breaking out of the beta mindset you have. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/50
Fri, September 27, 2019
Ep #49: Setting Alpha Goals
There is so much to be said about goal setting and its effects! There are even some schools of thought that would have you believe that goals might take you out of present focussed mentality. This episode is all about how you can remain in the present while setting up for the future you are dreaming of. Writing out goals that you have dreamed up provides the brain with structure, it creates a framework for us to move forward and experience progress. If we doing the imaginary and solidifying parts of this process correctly, we can train our brains to have more belief and stronger commitments to goals. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/49
Fri, September 20, 2019
Ep #48: Rejection In Business and Dating
Rejection is not about you. When someone does not buy your product or your service, or when that woman says no when you ask her out, it has got nothing to do with you. Regardless of how terrible rejection can feel – that energy that causes shame and makes you want to hide – it is not a message about who you are, your ability as a man or your worth as a human being. It is always about the thoughts of that person, and nothing more. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/48
Fri, September 13, 2019
Ep #47: How To Eliminate Procrastination
Let\'s face it, procrastination is a big problem for a lot of us! If we could just get things done without delay and stress our lives would probably be vastly improved. On top of this, the end product of our efforts, whatever we are working on will also benefit from healthier practices around creation and concentration. I have the answer to these problems and this episode is all about breaking through those bad habits that are keeping us from reaching our potential. The main issue lies in our fear and perfectionism, two related conditions. When we aim for perfection, we often are avoiding things that make us scared. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/47
Fri, September 06, 2019
EP #46: Productivity & Multitasking
Who doesn’t want to have an amazing day every day? You guys will enjoy this episode because I am going to be teaching you how to have consistently great days in which you get a lot of work done. For this episode to have its full impact, it’s imperative for you to have an organizational system in place, a calendar according to which your day is structured, so be sure to catch up with the previous episode if you haven’t yet. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/46
Fri, August 30, 2019
Ep #45: How to Accomplish ANY Goal in 30 Days
Changing your life begins with changing your mind. I get a diversity of requests from all of you guys on a daily basis, and the reason why I am able to help you in ANY of those areas is that I am a causal coach: I work with your internal process, with your brain. So whether you want to develop in terms of your finances, relationships or health, I can guide you along a path that has helped many others achieve their goals. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/45
Fri, August 23, 2019
Ep #44: The Perfectionist Illusion
There might be some of you out there who, even after listening to me for a while, still don’t believe that you can have the mindset that I talk about. You might think that it’s impossible for you to achieve your elevated alpha state, but this is simply not true. The fact that I’m able to teach all of this is because I’ve gone through it myself, so it’s possible for everyone. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/44
Fri, August 16, 2019
Ep #43: Jealousy and Envy
Jealousy and envy are powerful emotions, ones into which we men have been socialized. These emotions result from comparing our appearance, wealth and social status with other men and feeling the need to compete in these areas. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/43
Fri, August 09, 2019
Ep #42: Trust
What does it mean to trust someone? We have the misconception that trust is dependent on another person’s actions and that they are able to break or violate our trust. But this is the beta condition talking. Trust is determined only by the thoughts we have about someone. If we believe that they are reliable, honest, capable and strong, then we trust them, regardless of whether they actually are those things. If we believe it about them, then trust remains intact. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/42
Fri, August 02, 2019
Ep #41: How To Handle A Break-Up
All of our lives are relationships. It infiltrates every aspect of our lives and is, therefore, one of the most important parts of our existence. We are social creatures who are wired for these connections, so what do you do when a relationship changes when you don’t want it to? Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/41
Fri, July 26, 2019
Ep #40: How To Stop Watching Pornography FOREVER
We’re continuing our discussion on buffering, but today I specifically get into pornography, something that has affected many of our lives either directly or indirectly – mine included. As with many other buffers, pornography entraps us in a cycle of shame and guilt that only causes more negative feelings and an increasing desire to then escape from them. And we all know the downward spiral from there! Because porn is so easily accessible and always only a few clicks away, it has become a near epidemic problem that is causing massive rifts in our relationships with women and with ourselves. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/40
Fri, July 19, 2019
Ep #39: How to Stop Buffering
Buffering can be anything we do to keep us from really experiencing reality. I know I’ve done it in my life, and whether it’s pornography, food, alcohol, drugs, even people-pleasing, it’s fair to say this is something everybody on the planet has done at one time or another. And who can blame us? We live in a world where we can get a hit of false pleasure anytime we want. Well, brother, it’s not doing you any favors. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/39
Fri, July 12, 2019
Ep #38: How to Develop Optimum Health
Join me on the podcast today and discover some incredibly effective tools for dropping the unhealthy habits and adding new ones that contribute to you elevating your alpha and becoming the person you truly want to be. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/38
Fri, July 05, 2019
Ep #37: Health and the Brain
Tune in this week to discover why your brain actually always wants to be evolving and how your Beta condition gets in the way by setting the lowest standards possible for you. The best way to prove to yourself that you have what it takes to better your life is to improve your health, and I’m sharing the how and why today. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/37
Fri, June 28, 2019
Ep #36: Health and the Alpha Male
Tune in this week to discover why, in the Beta condition, you’ve got the concept of health all wrong, my brother. I’m covering why mental and physical have to be intrinsically linked, and why a true Alpha Male doesn’t need to prove his health to anyone. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/36
Fri, June 21, 2019
Ep #35: The Truth About Actions
Actions are neutral. Straight up, your actions and the actions of those around you are nothing more than neutral circumstances. Any action can be broken down easily into a mathematical equation. So why do some actions seem right or wrong, difficult or easy, and why does cognitive mastery make such a huge difference in how you view actions? Tune in this week to discover how future-focused thinking – thinking like the Alpha Male that you are – will make taking action something you don’t even think twice about. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/35
Fri, June 14, 2019
Ep #34: Leaving the Past Behind
Tune into this episode to discover how you can appreciate the past while not letting it define you altogether, how to elevate your Alpha state and start believing from a future-focused place. The Beta condition uses way too much of our emotional energy keeping us stuck, so it’s time to stop believing its stories and be the best man we can be. We owe it to not only ourselves, but the entire world to be an example of what is possible if we live truly 100% in our Alpha state. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/34
Fri, June 07, 2019
Ep #33: Beliefs and the Alpha State
Tune into this week’s show and discover how everything in your life is a reflection of your beliefs, and how monitoring your thoughts about what you believe is possible, what you deserve, and what you’re capable of will change your entire existence. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/33
Fri, May 31, 2019
Ep #32: Future-Focused Thinking
Tune into the podcast this week and discover what’s holding you back from becoming the best version of yourself, and more importantly, why your Beta condition is stopping you from even imagining what that dude is like. I’m diving into looking deep into yourself and setting yourself up for the external shifts you want to make and the internal shifts that will get you there. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/32
Fri, May 24, 2019
Ep #31: Therapy Vs. Coaching
As a coach myself (with three coaches of my own), I know how powerful coaching can be for everybody in all parts of life. Through coaching, you can learn how to move beyond wellness and start to be the person that you have always wanted to be in a way that works well for you. On this week’s podcast, join me as we discuss the value of coaching, how it differs from therapy, and how you can utilize coaching as a great tool for continuing your development to be the Alpha Male who is in control of his own thoughts. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/31
Fri, May 17, 2019
Ep #30: 3 Steps to Conquer Your Fear of Rejection
Join me on the podcast this week and discover why you make it mean that, when some girl in a bar doesn’t want to go home with you, she is rejecting you. You should know by now, brother, there is more to it than the first place your brain goes to, and hold tight because I’ve got the definitive three-step process that will allow you to never feel or fear rejection ever again. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/30
Fri, May 10, 2019
Ep #29: Irrational and Unnecessary Fear
Join me on the podcast this week and discover why we get scared, why fear is always a Beta condition manifestation, why living in fear is irrational and unnecessary, and how, step by step, you can process your feelings of fear when they occur in your life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/29
Fri, May 03, 2019
Ep #28: Why You ARE Capable of Indomitable Self-Confidence
Tune into this episode as I discuss what confidence is, what it is not, and how to achieve the self-confidence you’ve always envied in others. Confidence is the tool of the Alpha to achieve whatever he desires, and understanding it and doing the work will change your life, my brother. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/28
Fri, April 26, 2019
Ep #27: How to Love Unconditionally
Join me on the podcast this week to discover why, as an Alpha, you are perfectly capable of giving and receiving unconditional love. I’m discussing where the feeling of love actually comes from, and why it is impossible for the Beta condition to love unconditionally, and how you can show yourself love in spite of anything – and I mean anything – you may have done in the past. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/27
Fri, April 19, 2019
Ep #26: Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Tune in this week and discover how you can live a life where you are in control of your actions, not by forcing yourself, but by really wanting and believing what you are doing is the right thing to do. I’m sharing my three tips to elevate your Alpha and start taking action from a place of intention. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/26
Fri, April 12, 2019
Ep #25: So What?
The point of today’s podcast is to ask yourself, “So what?” When you start to learn how to separate thoughts from facts, you’re going to ask yourself this a lot, and this is just the start of how to frame the way you process the world around you. I’m sharing four foolproof ways you guys can take a look at yourself and the story you’re trying to tell, and form that you can distinguish what is BS and what isn’t. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/25
Fri, April 05, 2019
Ep #24: Manuals Vs. Requests
Listen in this week and you will understand how to get whatever you want from your interactions with people by removing the emotion from your requests. You do what you want to do, and the same goes for everyone else. Once you understand that, you can start to use it to your advantage. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/24
Fri, March 29, 2019
Ep #23: Bullies, Victims, and Vulnerability
We’re talking about bullies, the victims of bullies, and vulnerability. This is one of my favorite topics because it opens us up to a whole new way of thinking, especially contrasting this principle to what we’re taught as kids, and what we even tell adults who are “victims.” Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/23
Fri, March 22, 2019
Ep #22: Expectation Vs. Result
When we set expectations for what our actions will yield, this triggers a whole bunch of emotions about what it means if our expectations come to fruition, and worse, what it means about us if they don’t materialize. Join me on the show this week to discover five ways you can leave behind your habit of setting expectations for the actions you take and letting your emotions get caught up in things you have no control over. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/22
Fri, March 15, 2019
Ep #21: Blame Vs. Responsibility
Join me on the podcast this week as I explain the exact definition of taking responsibility for your decisions and actions. I’m breaking down, aligned with the universal truth, why the Alpha does not judge circumstances, and how you can embody this in order to elevate your Alpha. Betas blame – Alphas accept that they are responsible. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/21
Fri, March 08, 2019
Ep #20: Why Your Expectations Are Ruining Your Relationship
This week, I’ve got something for my guys who are in relationships. Whether you’ve just met or you’ve been married for years, we’ve all got things in mind we’d love our partners to do for us, right? Making requests of your girlfriend is fine, but when you make it mean something emotionally for you when they don’t do it, then we have a problem. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/20
Fri, March 01, 2019
Ep #19: Sexual Market Value and the Alpha Male
Join me this week on the podcast to discover how to approach whoever you want to, with complete confidence. Using The Model, you will see why you are worthy. You might think you’re too short, unfit, poor, or whatever, but by elevating your Alpha, you will see that you are more than worthy of any woman you want. When you implement this in your life, your results will change forever. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/19
Fri, February 22, 2019
Ep #18: Why Should I Elevate My Alpha?
Listen in on the podcast today as I break down all of the reasons we stay in the Beta condition that we’re born with, and even why it makes us feel safe. Once you know what this looks like, working on elevating your Alpha becomes an absolute breeze – trust me. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/18
Fri, February 15, 2019
Ep #17: Real Life Alpha Superhero Mindset
Join me this week for a unique insight into the mind of the Alpha and the Beta in a totally relatable way. Whether you’re a guy who’s into superheroes or not, trust me, this will provide unbelievable clarity on how your thinking about your circumstances determines the results you get in this world. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/17
Fri, February 08, 2019
Ep #16: Achieving Your Alpha State
Join me on the podcast this week as I quantify the Alpha state for you and discover how you can achieve your Alpha state. Whether you want to find the woman of your dreams and settle down, whether you want a different woman every night, whether you want to buy yourself a Ferrari or a Volvo, this is the secret to achieving exactly what you’ve always dreamed of. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/16
Fri, February 01, 2019
Ep #15: Beta Condition Manifestation Part 3: Wealth
Join me on the podcast this week to discover how having an Alpha mindset when it comes to earning and spending money will change your life, and how the Beta gets into trouble, even if he has money, through making choices that revolve around scarcity. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/15
Fri, January 25, 2019
Ep #14: Beta Condition Manifestation Part 2: Health
Tune into this week’s episode to discover why the way you think about food and exercise has the power to overrule your appetite and even your physical state, allowing you to change your life for the better forever. Get full show and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/14
Fri, January 18, 2019
Ep #13: Beta Condition Manifestation Part 1: Women
Do you ever find yourself worrying, when talking to a woman, that she is not going to behave in a way that you want her to in order for you to know how she’s thinking about you? Do you fear hearing the words I love you, but I’m not in love with you ? If you think you’re doing everything you can, but still getting nowhere, that might be a sign you should check your brain, brother. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/13
Fri, January 11, 2019
Ep #12: Change with Confidence
Tune in this week to discover what I do as The Alpha Male Coach and open yourself up to how this work could change your life. You are already an Alpha. You were born an Alpha, so it’s time to unleash what is already inside you and start thriving. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/12
Fri, January 04, 2019
Ep #11: Fully Understanding Your Relationships
The relationships we maintain and how we feel about them has much less to do with the person or thing that we are connecting with, but rather how we think about that thing or person. Join me on the podcast this week and discover how a real Alpha Male uses The Model in analyzing his relationships, focusing on the things he has control over. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/11
Fri, December 28, 2018
Ep #10: How an Alpha Male Handles Unhelpful Urges
Join me in this episode and discover how a true Alpha Male identifies the urges that are not serving him , and how he then leaves these compulsions behind without withdrawing from the real world at all! Willpower alone will not get you over some of these issues, but approaching this using the tools I’m sharing today will change your life forever. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/10
Fri, December 21, 2018
Ep #9: Understanding Your Results
Tune in this week as I provide a comprehensive look at what results really are, how we quantify them, and how we go from a thought about a fact all the way through to leveraging that to getting the results we’re looking for. You’ll hear three different circumstances and discover what results are possible in these situations. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/9
Fri, December 14, 2018
Ep #8: How to Take Action Like an Alpha
Tune in this week to discover how an Alpha processes his emotions, allowing him to take the actions that will change his life for the better. An Alpha knows that life is a 50/50 balance of positive and negative and embraces this in his decisions. Being able to take confident action from a place of abundance and focus is a huge part of unleashing your Alpha. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/8
Fri, December 07, 2018
Ep #7: How to Dominate Your Emotions
Tune into this episode to learn how to dominate your emotions like the Alpha I know you are. Once you learn how to acknowledge your feelings without letting them destroy you, you can leverage them to focus on the desires that really matter and achieve the results you’ve always dreamed of. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/7
Fri, November 30, 2018
Ep #6: Why Your Thoughts Are Not Facts
Alphas and Betas have different ways of thinking about their circumstances, and the belief that thoughts are facts is what really sets these two groups apart. Understanding that you have control of your thoughts, regardless of what has happened in your life, is a key part of being the best person you can be. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/6
Fri, November 23, 2018
Ep #5: Separating Thought from Circumstance
Tune in this week to discover why we believe these circumstances are responsible for how we feel, what is actually responsible for how we feel, and how we can approach even the worst circumstances in a more empowering way. I love teaching this stuff and I can’t wait for you to understand this part of the universal truth on an intellectual and scientific level. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/5
Fri, November 16, 2018
Ep #4: The Universal Truth to Getting Whatever You Want
Tune into this week’s episode to discover the one universal truth that, when you believe and understand it, will help you get everything you want in this life. Whether you want more money, muscles, friends, or better relationships, this episode is for you, my brother. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/4
Fri, November 09, 2018
Ep #3: How to Create Indomitable Self-Confidence
There are a lot of mistaken beliefs about confidence that keep us from seeing ourselves as confident men right now. If you think that either you have it or you don’t, you may be surprised to learn that confidence is absolutely within your control. Tune in today for an eye-opening, and hopefully inspirational, discussion on how you can create indomitable self-confidence today. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/3
Fri, November 09, 2018
Ep #2: Alpha Vs Beta Mindset
Join me on this episode for a break down of the alpha vs beta and how our brains are at the root of our powerful ability to change how we think, the emotions we feel, the actions we take (or don’t take), and the results we see in our lives every day. This is exciting stuff, guys. Exciting and so powerful. Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/2
Mon, November 05, 2018
Ep #1: What It Means to Be an Alpha Male
For too long, “alpha” has been used to mean dominance over others, whether that was socially or physically. That’s second-grade bs, my friend, and it’s time that men step into what it really means to be alpha. There are a lot of misguided beliefs and thoughts that we need to unravel, so let’s get started! Get full show notes and more information here: https://thealphamalecoach.com/1
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