The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert. In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy. During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and...
Fri, April 04, 2025
BONUS: Initiating Successfully
As a listener, you know I rarely record bonus episodes. But I’m too excited to share this so I had to turn on the mic. Today I'm introducing you to "INITIATING," my program for educated successful men who want more and better sex. Are you ready to learn the game-changing strategies that will completely change the dynamic between you and your wife? Join me, starting this Monday, April 7th for INITIATING. Details at alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Join Initiating: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “ Uncompromising Intimacy ” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “ Uncompromising Intimacy ,” here: https://www. alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage , Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares
Wed, April 02, 2025
224. Getting Real about Prioritizing your Marriage
People often talk about the importance of “prioritizing your marriage,” but what does that actually mean? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell addresses the common tendency to overlook nurturing emotional intimacy, amidst busy careers and family life. She emphasizes that making time to spend together as a couple is essential, but it’s only the beginning of what it takes to create and maintain a deep, uncompromising intimate bond. Dr. Alexandra explores how couples can overcome challenges, when it comes to prioritizing their marriages, emphasizing a commitment to cultivating emotional intimacy and improving communication skills. She introduces the concept of marriage as a third entity and explains the significance of attending to its needs. She discusses how more emotional intimacy can seamlessly transition into enhanced erotic vitality and sexual fulfillment. Dr. Alexandra gives practical steps for couples to implement today. She also discusses teachings from the Aligned & Hot Marriage Program, which offers specific techniques and exercises to deepen marital intimacy. Tips in this episode: Prioritizing your marriage goes beyond merely spending time together; it involves actively nurturing emotional intimacy and connection. Couples should view their relationship as a 'third entity' that requires dedication and care to flourish and thrive. Emotional intimacy acts as a powerful catalyst for enhancing sensual and erotic connections within a marriage. Dr. Stockwell's Aligned & Hot Marriage Program provides actionable tools, and education, to foster emotional and sexual intimacy in relationships. Even skeptical partners can transform their views and experiences when intentional efforts are made to prioritize the marriage. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Sto
Wed, March 26, 2025
223. How to Successfully Initiate Sex, with Dr. Alexandra and Dr. Rodd Stockwell
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her husband, Dr. Rodd Stockwell, discuss ways men successfully initiate intimacy with their wives. Drawing on their own experience being married for 29 years, they share how their intimacy dynamics have evolved over the years, and what changed for it to become as wonderful as it is now. They also discuss how their communication skills have been refined over time, and why this is important to the quality and frequency of sex. You’ll learn a lot from this vulnerable episode as Rodd candidly shares his journey, learning how to initiate sex in ways that Alexandra responds to, and his own personal struggles with maintaining intimacy and navigating feelings of rejection, and incompetence Tips in this episode: Despite a lack of helpful guidelines in personal development, growth is achievable through collaborative efforts and shared communication, and guidance. Overcoming feelings of incompetence in initiating intimacy involves changing self-talk, and separating thoughts from facts. Applying skills and confidence from one’s professional life improves romantic relationships. Leadership and decisiveness in a relationship should be balanced with respect and attunement to a partner's needs. Read Dr. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Sign up for the Masterclass “How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she’s more likely to say YES)” www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl&source=gmail&ust=1697053132055000&usg=AOvVaw0H1kp2jxqn47
Wed, March 19, 2025
222. How to Cultivate Passion in your Intimate Relationship
There is a nuanced art to cultivating intimacy in relationships, and in this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks specifically on the topic of how men can initiate sex and intimacy with their women in ways that foster connection and increase passion. Emphasizing the qualities of confidence and leadership, Dr. Alexandra discusses effective ways for a man to initiate sex with his wife so that she’s more likely to say “yes.” These tips help increase the frequency of sexual encounters while also deepening the overall emotional connection between partners. Drawing from her own experiences in her personal life and her work with hundreds of married couples, Dr. Alexandra explores common challenges couples face, such as libido mismatch and ineffective communication. She shares practical strategies for men to improve how they approach the topic of sex with their partners, ensuring their methods are inviting rather than off-putting. Episode highlights: Emotional intimacy is essential for long-term sensual and sexual satisfaction in relationships. Addressing and dispelling myths around libido mismatch empowers couples, with a focus on women taking responsibility for their pleasure. How men approach the topic of sex with their partners can significantly influence their partner’s receptiveness and response. Confidence and attunement are key when asking for sex; it’s important to let go of entitlement and resentment from previous rejections. Read Dr. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Sign up for the Masterclass “How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she’s more likely to say YES)” www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="
Wed, March 12, 2025
221. Stop Assuming! (It Hinders Intimacy in Marriage)
Making assumptions impacts intimacy and connection in marriage in crucial ways. In this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses why assumptions are dangerous; she teaches that the act of getting curious and asking questions is a small but powerful alternative to making potentially inaccurate assumptions. Opening up about true feelings and desires will create clear communication with your partner, thus avoiding invisible barriers in your marriage brought on by making assumptions. This episode teaches you to recognize your assumptions, in order to uncover the real truths about your and your partner’s feelings, preferences, and love languages. Embracing this honest communication will transform your marital bond and lead you toward true passion and uncompromising intimacy. Tips in this episode: Assumptions lead to misinterpretations of a partner's desires and intentions, which causes unnecessary conflict. Address assumptions by engaging in open conversations in order to accurately understand a partner's thoughts, feelings, and preferences. Directly discussing love languages provides significant insights and helps you tailor your actions so they resonate with your partner. Recognizing and questioning internal assumptions elevates personal understanding and fosters genuine connection with self and others. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_c
Wed, March 05, 2025
220. Reviving Affection in Marriage
Affection is one of the most valuable ways to connect in a relationship, and in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks about its importance and how couples can revive affection in marriage. Whether affection in your marriage is dwindling, or you're looking to establish it for the first time, this episode provides a roadmap to enhance your emotional and physical connection through reviving affection. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of clear communication, discussing desires openly as a couple, and stripping affection of any transactional nature, especially tied to sexual intimacy. She shares insightful, effective strategies to reinvigorate touch and tenderness in your marital relationship. Tips in this episode: Don’t wait for your partner to read your mind. Be the first to extend affection in a calibrative, gentle manner that suits your current relationship dynamic. Have a conversation with your partner about wanting more affection, ensuring you both are aligned so it doesn't come as a surprise when you start touching more. Redefine affection as an end in itself, not just a prelude to sexual activity. Enjoy the intimacy of simple, non-sexual touches. Engage in an exercise where each partner showcases the type of affection they prefer, promoting mutual understanding and harmony in touch. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" tar
Wed, February 26, 2025
219. Keeping the Fire Alive in Long-Term Relationships, with Pamela Madsen
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Pamela Madsen dive into the complexities of maintaining passion in long-term relationships. They explore the crucial components that are required to rekindle desire and excitement in marriage, especially when things have grown stale over time. Pamela Madsen shares her expert insights on why nurturing your own body and desires is foundational to enhancing erotic vitality with your partner. Addressing the common misconception that both people need to change for the relationship to improve, Pamela advocates for personal exploration of erotic needs and learning how to communicate them effectively with your partner. They address the importance of maintaining "fire" in a relationship through spontaneity, and unpredictable yet intimate gestures. They discuss actionable strategies for couples to explore sexual dynamics, such as using date nights to creatively explore sensual desires through games and shared experiences, all with the aim of rekindling intimacy and passion. Tips in this episode: Begin by understanding your own body and desires before attempting to change or influence your partner. This self-awareness creates a more erotic and confident presence in your relationship. Learn to express what you need erotically without expecting immediate changes from your partner. Effective communication and small, actionable steps lead to increased intimacy. Use games or selected tools like intimate shopping excursions to understand and fulfill each other's sexual needs and desires, ensuring a safe environment where both partners feel comfortable to express their yearnings. Reflect on personal erotic discoveries and integrate them into daily life, maintaining boundaries and ensuring your personal sensual growth benefits your partnership. About Pamela Madsen: Pamela Madsen, a somatic wellness educator, has captivated women worldwide with her transformative approach to self-discovery and intimate connection. Combining both her master’s degree in education and her certificates in sexological bodywork, Pamela's expertise extends far beyond conventional boundaries, earning her the title of a true trailblazer in the realm of women's wellness. As the brilliant mind behind Back to the Body™, Pamela has dedicated over a decade to helping women reclaim their bodies and reignite their desires. What sets Pamela's retreats apart is her unique formula of immersive, week-long experiences that revolve around bodywork and somatic healing. Through her work, she has witnessed women emerging from the shadows of eating disorders, liberating themselves from toxic relationships, and embarking on profound spiritual journeys.
Wed, February 19, 2025
218. How to Navigate Mismatched Sexual Desire
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the complexities of mismatched sexual desire in long-term relationships. Highlighting the power of emotional intimacy as a pathway to sexual connection, Dr. Alexandra emphasizes that deep emotional bonds can enhance and elevate sexual experiences in committed partnerships. She also highlights the power of non-sexual foreplay in deepening emotional connections, laying the groundwork for more fulfilling sexual intimacy. This episode encourages listeners to become curious and proactive in discovering and nurturing responsive desire, which can often bloom with the right approach and understanding. Highlighted in this episode: Emotional intimacy acts as a foundational bridge to sexual intimacy in committed relationships. Differentiating between spontaneous and responsive sexual desires is crucial in aligning mismatched sex drives. Enhancing emotional connection can lead to more satisfying sexual experiences. Slowing down and focusing on the partner’s comfort can create more fulfilling sexual encounters, especially where desires mismatch. Addressing performance anxiety through open communication can improve intimacy and connection. Learn More About Uncompromising Intimacy: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexan
Wed, February 12, 2025
217. How to Love a Strong Woman with Dr. Rodd Stockwell
Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's husband, Dr Rodd Stockwell, is back on the Intimate Marriage Podcast for a lively discussion on the challenges, and delights, of loving and supporting a strong, powerful woman. Listen as Dr. Alexandra opens up about her transformative journey from conforming to societal pressures to embracing her full, powerful self within her marriage. Dr. Rodd adds to the conversation by detailing his own evolution, emphasizing the critical role of fostering a safe and supportive environment for his partner. Together, they explore the delicate balance of personal expression and connection, underscoring the significance of mutual support in nurturing a thriving marriage. Throughout the episode, you’ll learn about personal responsibility, societal expectations, and the unique dynamics involved in supporting a powerful woman in her professional and personal realms. Join Drs. Alexandra and Rodd as they share their insights on how embracing individual growth within a relationship profoundly enhances marital intimacy. Tips in this episode: Personal growth is essential in maintaining a supportive and authentic relationship, as is encouraging partners to embrace their full selves. Navigating societal expectations and fears is critical for women seeking to express their power and ambitions, both personally and professionally. Providing a stable, internal sense of security can reshape relationship dynamics and foster an environment where both partners thrive. Recognizing and overcoming gender stereotypes enables couples to create a harmonious balance, enhancing intimacy and connection in extraordinary ways. Contact Dr Alexandra: https://alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Apply for Relationship and Intimacy Coaching: https://alexandrastockwell.com/apply-for-coaching/ Read Uncompromising Intimacy: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website</
Wed, February 05, 2025
216. 2 Strategies to Heat Up Intimacy this Valentine’s Day
Are you ready to transform your Valentine's Day from ordinary, even disappointing, to unforgettable? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell unveils the secrets to enduring intimacy in your relationship, just in time for the holiday of love. She focuses on two unique and actionable strategies that will help you curate celebrations that are not only memorable but deeply fulfilling. Valentine’s Day sometimes creates a sense of pressure on a couple, as they each have different expectations and hopes for their celebration. Some couples exchange gifts, some plan a romantic dinner, some go out, some stay home. In this Valentine’s Day episode, Dr. Alexandra will show you that it doesn’t really matter what you do on Valentine’s Day, so long as you are both on the same page, feeling connected. Get ready to rethink the conventional ways of celebrating Valentine’s Day as Dr. Alexandra empowers you to create moments that are as pleasurable as they are meaningful. You’ll also learn why: Valentine's Day is a profound opportunity for couples to deepen their intimacy and connection. Preparing and planning creatively for Valentine's Day will make the celebration far more enjoyable and fulfilling. Genuine relationship transformation comes from intentional actions and mutual enjoyment. Make your Valentine's Special with Dr Alexandra’s Free Course: https://alexandrastockwell.com/valentines/ Get The Intimate Experience Date Night Box Subscription and Use. code IntimateMarriage for 20% off: https://www.everyloveintimates.com/intimatemarriage Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://am
Wed, January 29, 2025
215. Elite Communication Strategies for a Stronger Marriage
Communication is the key to a long and healthy marriage. That’s why in this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores communication strategies for a stronger marriage. There are many challenges when it comes to successful communication in marriage, including misunderstandings and mismatched intentions. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of being clear about the type of conversation you’re about to have with your partner in order to create a win-win outcome. You’ll also learn the pros and cons of different conversation types—whether it's logistical planning, venting, or vulnerable sharing—and how each one contributes to a healthier relationship. Through relatable anecdotes and actionable insights, you will gain practical tools to enhance the communication in your marriage, deepening your connection with your spouse. Specific tips in this episode: For couples where one partner tends to be more expressive, setting a clear timeframe for discussions can prevent feelings of being trapped. Stop conversations while in a harmonious state, rather than waiting for things to become contentious, to better foster trust and openness for future discussions. Recognize that communication needs vary among couples depending on life stage, such as having young children or business co-ownership. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.googl
Wed, January 22, 2025
214. 6 Key Qualities for a Thriving Marriage
Are you a high achiever who sometimes feels stagnant or disconnected in your relationships? In this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell offers actionable guidance to create a thriving marriage that balances professional success with deep emotional connection, reigniting the passion and intimacy in your marriage and in your life. You’ll learn about the six essential qualities for building an extraordinary marriage: curiosity, honesty, kindness, happiness, responsibility and growth, so you can build the skills needed for having a truly fulfilling relationship. Join Dr. Alexandra as she shares personal insights and real-life success stories of couples who have embraced these principles and transformed their marriages. Whether your relationship is thriving or struggling, this episode will provide you with the tools and wisdom needed to deepen intimacy and create a marriage that fosters both personal and relational growth. You’ll also learn: How to use open-ended questions to cultivate curiosity, leading to deeper understanding and connection with your partner What the difference is between vulnerable honesty and brutal honesty and how to use honesty to create a vibrant relationship Why taking 100% responsibility for your relationship's quality can completely transform the dynamic in your marriage How to engage proactively with your partner The principles outlined in Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s book, Uncompromising Intimacy Learn More About Uncompromising Intimacy: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl=
Wed, January 15, 2025
213. Love is Blind Stars Bliss and Zack Goytowski on How Vulnerability Transforms a Relationship
Bliss & Zack Goytowski, from Love Is Blind Season 4, speak about the transformative power of Love Is Blind with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast. They share how their deep emotional connection grew with vulnerability and open communication before they even saw one another. Reflecting on their time in the pods, Bliss and Zack discuss how the unique experience of reality TV served them to foster personal growth, trust in one another, and the formation of a shared vision for their future. The conversation touches on themes of sacrifice, overcoming challenges, and the critical role of vulnerability and emotional intimacy in building a strong, lasting partnership. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone looking to deepen their connection and strengthen their relationship, without the need to be on Love Is Blind to make it happen! Also in this episode: Emotional vulnerability is easier to access when visual judgments are removed, allowing for deeper connections to form. Shared vision, common goals, and doing what it takes to make them happen, are essential in maintaining a strong relationship. Honest communication about fears and desires builds trust, as exemplified by Zack's transparency with Bliss. About the Guests: Zack and Bliss Goytowski are a dynamic couple who met and married on Season 4 of the hit reality series Love is Blind. Their journey, which started in the pods, has been a testament to the power of emotional connection and vulnerability in relationships. Since their marriage, they’ve been navigating life together and recently welcomed their first child. In addition to their growing family, Bliss and Zack are the hosts of the podcast Blind Love, where they dive into the realities of building a relationship outside of the typical dating framework. On the show, they explore themes of love, growth, vulnerability, and the challenges of maintaining a strong partnership while in the spotlight. Connect with them on social media: @blindlovepodcast @blisspoureetezadi @zackgoytowski Check out their podcast Blind Love with Zack & Bliss . Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: <a href= "https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intimate-marriage-podcast/id1548
Wed, January 08, 2025
212. Reignite Passion in Your Marriage
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell reveals ways to reignite passion in your marriage and maintain deep connection over the long term. It’s not only important for couples to put attention on their relationship when on the brink of divorce but also when looking to revitalize their bond and foster lasting intimacy. Dr. Alexandra challenges the belief that passion fades over time, emphasizing that, with the right tools and guidance, love can deepen and grow in every stage of a marriage. She also debunks the stereotype that women are the ones to seek out relationship coaching, sharing that men often reach out to her! Everyone benefits from learning practical skills—such as vulnerability, effective communication, and shared goals. These are the ingredients that transform a disconnected relationship into a harmonious, collaborative partnership. Also in this episode: Both men and women actively seek relationship coaching, especially in high-performing couples where both people are motivated. Vulnerability and effective communication are crucial in transforming a disconnected relationship into a harmonious partnership. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven
Wed, January 01, 2025
211. Strategies to Rekindle Intimacy Postpartum (that apply any time there’s been a hiatus)
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the challenges couples face when rekindling intimacy after a prolonged sexual hiatus. She offers practical advice for reconnecting emotionally, and physically, whether postpartum or during other life circumstances that disrupt a couple’s sex life. Dr. Alexandra addresses medical conditions, parenthood, emotional barriers, and other reasons there might be prolonged sexual inactivity, providing strategies to rebuild both physical and emotional intimacy. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity, open communication, and embracing vulnerability in restoring healthy intimacy. Key strategies include approaching reconnection like a "first date" to ease awkwardness, communicating concerns without blame, and adopting a slow, mindful approach to touch, which she refers to as "sensual meditation." These insights are designed to help couples navigate the complexities of reigniting passion and intimacy after an unintended break. Also in this episode: Rekindling Intimacy: Address the challenges of resuming sexual activity after prolonged breaks due to health or family conditions. Role Play as a First Date: Engaging in a 'first date' scenario can ease awkwardness and facilitate natural reconnection. Slow and Intentional Connection: Emphasizing slow, sensual interactions can help reignite passion and smooth out initial awkwardness. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="
Wed, December 25, 2024
210. Reigniting Passion: How to Transform a Sexless Marriage and Rebuild Emotional Intimacy
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the challenges of a sexless marriage and explores how emotional intimacy is key to reigniting passion. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes that emotional intimacy forms the foundation for a fulfilling relationship and shares actionable strategies, including exercises designed to restore both sexual and emotional intimacy. She highlights the importance of nurturing emotional bonds to overcome physical and emotional barriers, advocating for a proactive approach to reignite passion and rejuvenate long-term relationships. With a focus on emotional intimacy, sexless marriage, and relationship rejuvenation, Dr. Alexandra shows couples how to break through intimacy inhibitors and create a deeper, more passionate connection. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy is the bedrock of a fulfilling marriage, enabling partners to be genuinely seen and cherished. The key to overcoming a sexless marriage lies in mutual intention and deliberate efforts toward reconnection. Structured exercises, such as setting a timer for intimate interaction, can gradually rebuild sexual connections. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without comp
Wed, December 18, 2024
209. Overcome Intimacy Blockers: Letting go of Resistance to Embrace Passion, with Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian
Many couples deal with a variety of intimacy blockers, resulting in diminished intimacy and erosion of passion. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell MD, delves into this topic with guests Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clark. The discussion covers key aspects of intimate relationships including attachment styles, boundaries, and ways to sustain meaningful connection. They offer actionable strategies to overcome barriers like emotional discomfort, attachment challenges, and misperceptions of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and professional expertise, they unpack the psychology of sexual dynamics, explore how to shift from feeling pressure to enjoying connection, and share practical techniques to nurture lasting passion and fulfillment in long-term relationships. Also in this episode: Intimate relationships serve as potent avenues for personal growth, providing unique opportunities for self-discovery and development. Managing pressure in sexual encounters involves recognizing and naming feelings, allowing partners to alleviate stress and foster genuine connection. Understanding distinct attachment styles and boundaries significantly contributes to a relationship's health and longevity. About the Guests: Dr. Alison Ash, known as Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, educator, and author, as well as a Stanford University Lecturer. With a PhD in Sociology from Stanford, Dr. Aly has deep expertise in the societal challenges that contribute to disempowering and unsatisfying intimate experiences. She is the founder of TurnON.love, a platform dedicated to empowering individuals and couples through intimacy coaching and education. Dr. Aly brings extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, the Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and the Somatica Method to help her clients navigate complex emotional landscapes. Sebastian is a skilled sex and intimacy coach and educator with nearly two decades of experience. Trained by The Sexual Health Alliance, Seb specializes in helping individuals, particularly those who are neurodiverse, express their needs and cultivate healthy relationships. His work centers on trauma-informed approaches to communication, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. Together, Dr. Aly and Seb empower people to create fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences with compassion and understanding. Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "intimatemarriage" for $75 off! For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy.<
Wed, December 11, 2024
208. How High-Achieving Couples CAN Have It All
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell MD talks about the unique challenges high-achieving couples face when it comes to relating intimately. She shares the story of “Shauna” and “Eric,” two successful physicians who struggle to connect with one another when it comes to intimacy, despite having aligned values and compatibility in other areas. While telling their story Dr. Alexandra highlights the unique challenges high-achieving couples face when balancing career and relationship fulfillment–in the process offering solutions anyone can implement. Also in this episode: High-achieving couples give themselves to their careers and often require intentional focus to maintain emotional and sexual intimacy. Successful marriages require both partners to prioritize elite communication and emotional depth. Going far beyond traditional gender roles involves both partners stepping up and contributing to relational responsibility Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “ Uncompromising Intimacy ” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “ Uncompromising Intimacy ,” here: https://www. alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage</str
Wed, December 04, 2024
207. From Strife to Strength, with Meygan and Casey Caston of Marriage365
Practical insights for cultivating strong, intimate relationships is the focus for this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Alexandra Stockwell, MD, and Meygan and Casey Caston, founders of Marriage365. The Castons share their remarkable journey from the brink of divorce to becoming relatable, trusted authorities in marital communication. Driven by their own search for healthier relationship tools, they discuss the origins of Marriage365, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and effective communication as cornerstones of a successful marriage. Along the way, they provide actionable strategies for navigating challenges like dealing with in-laws and setting personalized boundaries. Highlighting the value of tailoring boundaries to each couple's needs, they offer tips such as developing unique "code words" and guidelines for sharing personal matters--it’s a must-listen for couples wanting to deepen their connection. Also in this episode: For effective conflict resolution, learn how to pause difficult conversations while they are still productive, and revisit them later. Utilize "code words" or pre-planned signals with your partner to navigate uncomfortable social situations or family gatherings. Establish clear boundaries around what personal information is shared with family members. Learn how to navigate these differences, foster connection, and create a thriving, intimate relationship without sacrificing your individuality. Listen now for actionable insights and transformative advice: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/102-when-your-partner-isnt-into-personal-growth-the-intimate-marriage-podcast/ About the Guests: Just three years into their marriage, the founders of Marriage365 Casey & Meygan Caston found themselves at rock bottom—voted the couple least likely to succeed and on the brink of divorce. With no affordable or accessible resources to guide them, they struggled through trial and error to rebuild their connection and restore their relationship. That journey became the inspiration for Marriage365, a platform designed to help couples around the world reconnect and thrive. Today, their app and website provide practical tools, advice, and inspiration to millions, creating a safe, accessible space for personal and relational growth. Their mission is to ensure that everyone, regardless of money or privilege, has access to the resources they need to build healthier relationships. Learn more at www.marri
Wed, November 27, 2024
206. Tapping into your Orgasmic Potential (Q & A)
Answering audience questions, in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, talks about ways to experience more satisfaction in bed, tapping into your orgasmic potential, while accessing passion and nurturing intimacy in your relationship. She responds to questions from women struggling with their sexuality who want to improve their orgasmic experiences. She offers personalized strategies to embrace body awareness, cultivate erotic flow, and enhance satisfaction through mindfulness and presence. Whether you resonate with the questions or not, the answers are sure to be beneficial as Dr. Alexandra describes intentional practices that bring renewed joy, energy, and fulfillment to any intimate relationship. Also in this episode: Techniques such as mindfulness and 'edging' aids in achieving richer sexual experiences. Open communication and playfulness are key components for maintaining a deep connection in marriage. Being present in the moment enhances erotic experiences and leads to more fulfilling orgasms. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more f
Wed, November 20, 2024
205. How to Sustain a Healthy Relationship
Healthy relationships involve a transition from codependence to interdependence. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the foundations of healthy relationships and what it takes to create them. She starts by addressing the (very common) situation where one partner's emotions heavily influence the other's well-being. Throughout the episode, Dr. Alexandra outlines how independence, codependence, and interdependence shape relationship dynamics, while emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries that respect each partner's personal autonomy, while also nurturing a collaborative, passionate connection. Delving into the art of boundary-setting, she highlights the critical role of self-awareness and personal responsibility in fostering lasting, fulfilling partnerships. Also in this episode: Setting and maintaining boundaries is crucial for transitioning from codependence to interdependence. Effective communication about personal desires and boundaries significantly enhances relationship satisfaction. Understanding one's own desires and taking responsibility for their fulfillment is essential in a healthy partnership. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intim
Wed, November 13, 2024
204. Resolving Arousal Mismatch with Susan Bratton
Susan Bratton joins Alexandra Stockwell, MD, on the Intimate Marriage Podcast, to explore the concept of arousal, arousal differences and the art of intimate relating. They discuss the complexities of sexual and emotional fulfillment in long-term relationships, offering practical advice, and describing innovative techniques designed to reignite passion. Susan highlights the significance of recognizing the innate differences in male and female arousal patterns and addresses the negative impact societal repression has on sexual health. She introduces powerful tools such as yoni massage and making small offers to help couples cultivate a deeper, more satisfying connection. In sharing these strategies, Dr. Alexandra and Susan guide listeners on a transformative journey setting out with routine sexual experiences and arriving at ecstatic pleasure. Also in this episode: Deepen your understanding of the difference between a man’s quicker arousal patterns and a woman’s need for safety as doing so is crucial for mutual satisfaction. A vibrant and varied sex life is possible in monogamous relationships by focusing on mutual understanding and innovative practices. Communication is key to evolving sexual experiences, including verbal exchange about desires and physical responses to what is happening. Enhance Sensual Intimacy with Foria Wellness products! Unlock new levels of intimacy and wellness with Foria products which are designed to bring balance and pleasure to your relationship. Whether you're looking to explore natural enhancements or deepen your connection, Foria offers a range of wellness solutions crafted with care. 👉 Discover Foria’s transformative products here: Foria Wellness The following Intimate Marriage Podcast episodes are referenced in the episode: Understanding the Complexity of Sexual Differences Between Men and Women – A deep dive into arousal differences and how understanding them can enhance intimacy. Listen Now Embodied Sexuality: Connecting with Your Partner Through Satisfying Experiences – Discover how to foster a more fulfilling connection with your partner. <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/128-embodied-sexuality-how-to-connect-with-your-partner-through-enjoying-more-satisfying-sexual-experiences-w-s
S1 E203 · Wed, November 06, 2024
203. A Brave Conversation About the Relational Impact of Porn Addiction
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the effects of porn addiction with a man in his twenties who became addicted in fourth grade. In a candid and revealing discussion, this anonymous guest shares the impact on his intimate relationships in adulthood. The conversation delves into the complexities of porn’s influence, highlighting initial exposure at a young age, his subsequent struggle with addiction, and the profound impact it has had on his real-life experiences with women. This conversation is remarkable because it addresses the hidden challenges many face privately, while evoking the intersection of addiction, intimacy, and personal growth. In a society where pornography is both pervasive and shrouded in secrecy and shame, this episode sheds light on its significant impact. Dr. Alexandra and her guest emphasize the importance of genuine connection and open communication for fulfillment in intimate relationships. Also in this episode: Exposure to pornography at a young age is complicated and profoundly affects perceptions of women, intimacy and relationships. Changes in a sexual relationship over time are natural; communication is key to adapting and maintaining intimacy. Open conversations about pornography, without guilt and shame, foster mutual understanding and healthier relationship dynamics. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.goo
Wed, October 30, 2024
202. How Intimacy Coaching Elevates Successful Relationships
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into how intimacy coaching profoundly transforms relationships. She identifies common misconceptions prevalent in traditional counseling methods, and highlights the critical roles of authenticity and emotional connection in achieving marital success. By shifting the focus from behavior modification to fostering confidence, curiosity, and deeper connection, Dr. Alexandra gives the recipe for how educated, successful individuals can elevate their romantic lives. In the process, she outlines the significant benefits of intimacy coaching experienced by smart, high-achieving couples wanting to elevate their relationships. She describes what you can do to ignite both emotional and physical intimacy, emphasizing the importance of enjoying your relationship journey rather than simply aiming to reach a destination. Also in this episode: Intimacy coaching focuses on cultivating emotional connection and authenticity, rather than prioritizing behavior modification. Successful individuals learn to apply their winning strategies to enhance their romantic relationships. Rather than making yourself smaller, Dr. Alexandra will teach you to build on your strengths and successes, something oddly lacking with most counseling methods. The Aligned and Hot Marriage Program offers universal principles adaptable to any couple looking to elevate their relationship. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" targe
Wed, October 23, 2024
201. The Potency of Playfulness for Building Intimacy (Get Ready for Halloween!)
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores playfulness in intimacy, discussing the use of costumes and role play to re-ignite the marital spark and enrich sexual encounters. It’s an especially timely topic with Halloween around the corner. Familiar roles in the bedroom tend to limit sexual expression-breaking free from them through embodying new personas can help couples deepen their connection and discover new aspects of their personalities. Dr. Stockwell shares real-life examples of couples who transformed their intimacy through role play. She notes that Halloween creates the perfect occasion to strengthen emotional and physical bonds through engaging in imaginative exploration, in ways that enhance your sexual repertoire. Also in this episode: Embracing playful exploration invites unexpressed aspects of one's personality into the bedroom, thus enriching the partnership. There is an important distinction between healthy roleplay and the misuse of power dynamics. Expanding self-expression is not limited to the bedroom and everyday interactions benefit as well. Mindfold Blindfold – Perfect for Halloween Intimacy Elevate your intimacy with the Mindfold Blindfold; it offers a total blackout experience that is ideal for enjoying sensory play and enhancing intimate encounters. Whatever new elements you add to your intimate moments, the Mindfold Blindfold is the perfect tool to ignite your imagination and deepen your erotic connection. Mindfold Blindfold Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s best
Wed, October 16, 2024
200. Increasing Desire in Long-Term Relationships
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores how to strengthen desire in long-term relationships by cultivating deeper intimacy and passion. She begins by highlighting the contrast between the brain regions responsible for daily functionality and those that fuel emotional and sensual connections. Dr. Alexandra explains how educated and successful individuals can transcend mere functionality in marriage to achieve both emotional and erotic fulfillment. She emphasizes the significance of non-sexual touch, sharing new experiences, and giving erotic attention to one's partner. Also in this episode: Engaging in new activities as a couple breaks routine patterns and introduces excitement and novelty, strengthening the bond. Simple, affectionate touches without the expectation of sex builds intimacy and comfort, making partners feel more connected. Paying focused and admiring attention to a partner significantly enhances intimacy and sexual desire. Attending to feelings and sensations, both physical and emotional, is critical for deepening romantic connections. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandr
Wed, October 09, 2024
199. Rekindling Erotic Passion
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the challenges couples face when aiming to rekindle erotic passion and shares her perspective on how to maintain a passionate, intimate relationship over the years. Dr. Alexandra addresses a listener's heartfelt question about whether it's even possible to reignite the erotic spark in a marriage, especially when young children and life's demands take center stage. She emphasizes the importance of both partners being committed to the quality of their connection and offers practical advice for couples, particularly for men, on how to revive intimacy that has waned. This includes carving out dedicated time for closeness, engaging all the senses to foster connection and excitement, and maintaining open, non-blaming communication to deepen emotional bonds. Also in this episode: Both partners must be fully invested in rekindling their intimate life. If one isn't ready, it's important to address and process any grievance about that in a healthy way, which includes finding out if the other partner wants to focus on this in the future. Let intimacy develop naturally through sensory engagement and emotional connection, rather than rushing into sexual activity. For a deeper connection, engage all five senses—sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. Set aside regular, dedicated time for intimacy, free from daily distractions, to focus entirely on one another. Honest, non-blaming conversations about needs and desires are key to understanding each other and reigniting the passion in your relationship. This helps create a safe space for emotional and physical closeness. Mindfold Blindfolds: https://amzn.to/3cUUiib Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/inti
Wed, October 02, 2024
198. Multitasking and Marriage: What You Need to Know
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the impact of multitasking drains the depth and efficiency of work and she dives into how this shows up in marital interactions. She discusses the importance of giving undivided attention in communication and the profound impact it has on resolving conflicts and deepening connection. Dr Alexandra offers listeners concrete steps to enhance their connection and intimacy by avoiding the pitfalls of multitasking and opting for more successful strategies while in conversation. Tune in to learn how compartmentalizing perspectives and fostering genuine curiosity can break through a relational impasse, thus paving the way for uncompromising intimacy. Also in this episode: Multitasking during conversations with your spouse diminishes the quality and efficiency of interactions, just as it does in professional settings. Giving full attention to one’s partner's perspective before responding leads to enhanced understanding and deeper connection. Feeling seen and heard is crucial for resolving conflicts and reconnecting emotionally. For more on Uncompromising Intimacy: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/uncompromising-intimacy-2/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultiva
Wed, September 25, 2024
197. Sex and Success: The Hidden Addictions of High Performers with Roland Cochrun
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the hidden addictions of high performers with guest Roland Cochrun, focusing on the complex issue of sex and porn addiction and how it plays out in the lives of highly successful individuals. Dr. Alexandra sets the stage for a profound discussion on addiction, recovery, and sustaining fulfilling relationships. Roland shares his personal journey and the innovative strategies he has developed to support high achievers in overcoming sex and porn addictions. Together, they articulate the multifaceted nature of these addictions, highlighting the differences between substance addictions and process addictions. Roland sheds light on how societal norms and masculine stereotypes contribute to the development of addictive behaviors, and underscores the importance of tailored recovery pathways for high-performing individuals. Also in this episode: Discussion on how societal expectations and masculine norms influence and perpetuate addictive behaviors. The importance of creating recovery programs that cater specifically to the lifestyles and needs of high achievers. The successful outcomes of high achievers who commit to recovery and the significant improvements they experience in their relationships. About the Guest: Roland Cochrun is the founder of The Successful Addict, a specialized sex and porn addiction recovery program tailored for high achievers and entrepreneurs. Recognizing the crucial role of human connection in recovery, Roland established a mastermind-style group that brings together like-minded men on their journey to overcome addiction. His program offers a deeply connected support network, featuring weekly calls, daily accountability, and transformative 4-day in-person retreats. With a focus on finding your tribe, Roland’s approach empowers high achievers and entrepreneurs to achieve long-term recovery and reclaim their lives. If you are a high performer seeking a supportive community and a path to sustained recovery, The Successful Addict is the group for you - https://successfuladdict.com Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=contact&utm_content=pod
Wed, September 18, 2024
196. Intimacy in Politically Polarized Marriages
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses politically polarized marriages, offering perspectives and strategies for navigating political disagreements with your spouse, especially during the 2024 presidential election. She shares insights from her own experiences in her family, and times spent living in rural Kansas in a community with members holding different political, religious, and educational values than her own. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes prioritizing connection over content as she shows couples how to maintain intimacy and respect even when they support different political parties. This episode provides practical advice for couples facing major differences in opinions whether it’s in a politically polarized marriage or on other issues, and offers guidance on how to leverage your differences in order to build a stronger, more connected relationship. Also in this episode: Learn strategies for maintaining a respectful and loving marriage despite political disagreements. Focus on the foundation of your relationship by appreciating differences and aim to deeply understand each other rather than trying to change one another’s viewpoints. Engage in structured conversations about political viewpoints with set start and end times, and avoid discussions when emotions are high. Discover the keys to a deeply fulfilling relationship with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's audio course, "The Surprising Secret to Having a Fantastic Relationship." In this transformative guide, Dr. Alexandra shares actionable insights and practical tips on how to build intimacy, improve communication, and connect more deeply with your partner. – https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/secret/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "htt
Wed, September 11, 2024
195. Everyday Intimacy with Dr. Erica Bove
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Erica Bove, MD discuss the concept of sensual awakening. Together, they explore the complexities of balancing a high-powered professional life with the emotional demands of romantic relationships, emphasizing nurturing connection despite hectic schedules and times apart. This episode provides a variety of practical strategies to help couples preserve intimacy and passion, even in the face of busyness and other common challenges. Also in this episode: Strategies and perspectives on keeping romance alive with professional responsibilities and physical distance. Introducing the Rose, Bud, Thorn exercise and the importance of matching communication styles to avoid misunderstandings. Practical ways to pivot from feeling obligated in daily check-ins to making them meaningful and connective. Techniques to awaken sensuality and presence despite a very busy schedule. Understanding that the pace of a relationship doesn't need to fit a predefined timeline; it’s best to trust the organic progression. Get Dr. Alexandra’s Guide to free guide to relationship check-ins NOW! https://alexandrastockwell.com/checkins About the Guest: Erica Bove, MD, is a double board certified OB-GYN and Reproductive Endocrinologist (REI) physician at the University of Vermont, as well as a certified life coach through The Life Coach School. She is also the founder of Love and Science: Thriving Through Infertility. She has a keen interest in marrying an evidence-based approach with intuitive knowing in the context of a trusting relationship. She empowers professional women to build their families with confidence and self compassion. Her mission is to heal and support the healers and to create a legacy she is proud of. If you're curious: Undergrad: University of Notre Dame Med school: University of Vermont Residency: New York Presbyterian Hospital-Columbia Fellowship: University of Michigan. Linked In: www.linkedin.com/in/erica-bove-0701a0173 IG: https://www.instagram.com/loveandsciencefertility/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61553692167183 Website: <a href
Wed, September 04, 2024
194. Date Nights are Overrated
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses how to reimagine date nights. She challenges conventional thinking and advocates for more intentional, meaningful relationship-building activities. This must-listen episode is perfect for any couple eager to strengthen their bond beyond routine and uninspired outings. Dr. Alexandra critiques the overly simplistic view of date nights as a magic cure-all for relationship woes and offers invaluable advice for couples at every stage—whether they’re struggling to find time for each other or looking to elevate an already strong relationship. She encourages couples to tailor their quality time to suit their unique needs, whether it’s through shared adventures, intimate conversations, or even taking naps together. Also in this episode: Traditional date nights are not a cure-all and need to be intentional and customized to benefit the relationship. Focus on meaningful interactions rather than simply spending time together if you want to cultivate emotional and sensual intimacy. Discover activities that bring joy and connection, like learning new skills together, engaging in heartfelt conversations, or even spending quiet, restful time in each other's company. Reserve date nights for enriching dialogues and avoid logistics and other routine discussions. Transform Your Relationship with the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program! https://www.stockwellinstitute.com/offers/t9F8NfEe/checkout Use Coupon Code PODCAST99 Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ym
Wed, August 28, 2024
193. Erotic Intimacy After 40
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the topic of erotic intimacy after 40 in the context of a captivating conversation with holistic health coach Leah Vachani. They explore the intricate dynamics of maintaining intimacy and passion in long-term relationships, particularly during and after menopause. Dr. Alexandra and Leah debunk the myth of libido mismatch, and explore the crucial roles of self-awareness and emotional intimacy, while covering practical strategies to rekindle desire and pleasure in the bedroom. The conversation emphasizes the importance of embracing daily pleasures, fostering open and honest communication with partners, and challenging the idea that compromise is the foundation of a happy marriage. Also in this episode: Genuine intimacy comes from being true to oneself and sharing those truths with a partner. Deepening emotional intimacy paves the way for richer, more fulfilling sexual experiences. Practical advice includes improving non-sexual daily pleasures, having vulnerable conversations with partners, and focusing on sensual quality over sexual quantity. About the Guest: Leah Vachani is a seasoned Holistic Health & Hormone Coach with nearly two decades of experience in the wellness industry. Her journey began with a personal mission to reclaim her energy and health as she navigated the challenges of her forties. Realizing that her old strategies were no longer effective during perimenopause, Leah embarked on a transformative exploration of new foods, supplements, lifestyle habits, and biohacks. Now, feeling more vibrant and energetic than ever, Leah is dedicated to helping women thrive through menopause and beyond. Her unique approach focuses on stress management, circadian rhythm balance, and integrating simple yet impactful lifestyle changes. Connect with Leah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leahvachani/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram
Wed, August 21, 2024
192. 5 Steps to Prevent Gray Divorce
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into the importance of nurturing long-term relationships and how to prevent gray divorce, the term referring to divorce among older adults. She explains that having a fulfilling marriage requires constant attention and nurturing, much like tending to a garden. Dr. Alexandra dispels outdated myths about divorce rates and emphasizes the importance of ongoing learning and growth in a marriage. This episode is filled with practical tips and strategies to keep your marital connection vibrant and strong. Also in this episode: Thriving marriages require constant nurturing and should not be taken for granted, especially when life gets busy with careers and children. Having a fulfilling marriage is a learnable skill, essential for emotional and physical well-being; it's never too late to learn. Actionable advice includes holding hands, spooning, non-sexual caressing, and having regular relationship check-ins to maintain intimacy and connection. Join the Waitlist for Honeymoon 2.0 - www.alexandrastockwell.com/honeymoon Download Your Guide For Relationship Check-ins - https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/checkins Transform Your Relationship with the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program and get $300 OFF using coupon code: PODCAST99: - https://www.stockwellinstitute.com/offers/t9F8NfEe/checkout Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://
Wed, August 14, 2024
191. The Problem with Having a Sexless Marriage
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the significance of sex in marriage and explores whether a sexless marriage can be a happy one. She breaks down the various dimensions of intimacy and connection within marriages, noting that societal trends show a decline in sexual activity. Even as collaborative companionship and emotional intimacy are crucial, the enriching experiences brought by sexual intimacy are invaluable. Dr. Stockwell notes that some couples attempt to overcome challenges and dissatisfaction in sex by opening their marriage, and others do so by letting go of sex–the most fulfilling option is to learn how to have really great sex with your partner so that you want more and more of it! Also in this episode: Emotional and physical intimacy are both essential components of a thriving marriage. Societal trends show a decline in sexual activity, but individual fulfillment should not be dictated by statistics. Enhancing one’s sex life and relationship quality are learnable skills requiring attention and intention Building emotional intimacy sets the foundation for improved sexual connections. Transform Your Relationship with the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program and Use Coupon Code PODCAST99: https://www.stockwellinstitute.com/offers/t9F8NfEe/checkout Interview on Erotic Blueprints: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/sensual-vs-sexual-exploring-the-mysteries-of-erotic-power-through-identifying-your-erotic-blueprint-w-julianne-vaccaro/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn
Wed, August 07, 2024
190. Enhancing Emotional Intimacy in Relationships with Coach Annie Lalla
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Annie Lalla discuss how to enhance emotional intimacy in relationships. Annie shares her insights on the importance of emotional fitness and how feelings manifest as physical sensations in the body. She describes subconscious fears that often keep couples from experiencing deeper intimacy, and provides actionable advice on overcoming these barriers. They also delve into the intricate dynamics of power within relationships, discussing how unresolved power imbalances can manifest as sexual disinterest or withholding. Also in this episode: The speed of recovery from an upset or conflict is a key indicator of emotional fitness in a relationship. Exploring and addressing unconscious power dynamics within a relationship is crucial to resolving sexual disinterest and enhancing intimacy. Even in busy lives, short but fully present moments significantly enhance intimate connection. Sexual intimacy is essential for nourishing the relationship, just as food is to a growing child. Addressing emotional disconnections revitalizes sexual desire. Connect with Annie Lalla: Heartcoach.com www.annielalla.com https://www.instagram.com/lallabird/ About Annie Lalla: As a cutting edge Relationship Coach, Annie maps the complexities of romance and upgrades emotional skills. Specializing in love, sex & conflict resolution, Annie's created a suite of practical tools that resolve unconscious relational patterns, attachment wounds and recurrent conflict. She helps clients cultivate relational esteem and develop collaboration skills that go beyond power struggles, shame or blame. Annie is a fierce stand for creating intimate relationships that last a lifetime. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastock
Wed, July 31, 2024
189. Unlock the Secrets of Female Orgasms
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses female orgasms in great detail, in honor of National Orgasm Day. She explores the origins of the day, various types of orgasms, and the differences between "masculine" and "feminine" orgasms. She also explores different types of orgasms, emphasizing that the classification is based on the anatomy and physiology being stimulated. Dr. Alexandra speaks on one way to enhance orgasmic potential, namely slow, deep breathing, as she encourages listeners to explore new realms of erotic intimacy with their partners. Also in this episode: Feminine orgasms are diverse and often misunderstood, requiring an open perspective to fully appreciate their complexity. Unlike masculine orgasms, feminine orgasms can be non-linear, with varied patterns of arousal, climax, and resolution. Deep, slow breathing can significantly enhance one's ability to experience richer and more fulfilling orgasms. For many couples and individuals, male and female, they aspire to the typical masculine orgasm model that aims for climax. But in fact, some of the richest, expansive, erotically vital experiences happen with a more feminine approach to orgasm. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book&source=gmail&ust=1697053132055000&u
Wed, July 24, 2024
188. Family First: Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s Guide to Welcoming Your Future Son-in-Law
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and her husband Rodd Stockwell, MD dive into the deeply personal territory of welcoming their future son-in-law into the family when he asked for their daughter's hand in marriage. They touch on the nuanced process of preparing for the conversation, the emotional dynamics involved, and the broader cultural and personal implications of such a significant exchange. Together, Dr Alexandra and Dr Rodd reflect on the experience knowing the importance of mutual respect and wanting to be intentional in meeting him with curiosity and open-hearted support. Dr Alexandra shares anecdotes that underline her professional insights, while Dr Rodd emphasizes the significance of being fully present and supportive, not just during the marriage proposal conversation but throughout the entire marital journey. Also In This Episode Prepare for important conversations by identifying clear goals and adopting a supportive mindset. Approach discussions with future family members as opportunities to genuinely understand and respect one another’s perspectives. Focus on giving your blessing and support, rather than “permission,” as a way of respecting the sovereignty of your children. Use significant conversations as a way to build deeper connections and nourish support systems within the family. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_
Wed, July 17, 2024
187. Navigating Intimacy After Baby: Expert Tips for New Parents
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD unveils the secrets to rekindling passion and maintaining intimacy after baby. Dr. Alexandra is joined by Jessi Sletten from "Empowering Postpartum." Together they dive into the challenges new parents face, particularly in preserving intimacy and emotional connection during the postpartum period. Jessi and Dr. Alexandra explore how vulnerability and intentionality can profoundly impact marital happiness, especially when navigating the complexities of parenthood. They emphasize the importance of non-sexual physical touch, clear communication, and emotional presence in a relationship and share practical strategies to enhance intimacy beyond sexual intercourse, focusing on evolving the emotional and physical connection. Connect with Jessi: Empowering Postpartum Coaching: https://empoweringpostpartum.com/empoweringpostpartumcoaching/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/empowering_postpartum/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessislettenpostpartumcoach Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-mF76_lzBc9TIzWFE-y7qw Also in this episode: Resuming intimacy postpartum requires redefining what intimacy means beyond sexual intercourse. Emotional connection and clear communication are vital to maintaining a healthy relationship during the postpartum period. Couples should approach intimacy with flexibility and without specific goals, focusing on mutual satisfaction. About Jessi Sletten: Jessi Sletten, CLC, PMH-C, is a passionate postpartum empowerment coach and host of the Live Television show: Empowering Postpartum with Jessi Sletten. Jessi guides new and pregnant moms through the transition into motherhood so that they can bond with their baby without sacrificing their own self-care. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/
Wed, July 10, 2024
186. How to Unlock the Secret to Feeling Desirable in Your Marriage
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the importance of feeling desirable in your marriage. Dr. Alexandra shares insights on how women can feel more desirable and desired within committed partnerships while emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self-care; they are the foundations for creating vibrant, intimate connections with your spouse. She explains that feeling desirable is an inside job and offers practical strategies for women to enhance their intimate connections. Also in this episode: Feeling “desirable” is an inside job, and doesn’t only rely on external validation from a partner. Women should know what activities and experiences make them feel alive and sexy and incorporate them into their daily routines. Practices such as warm baths, dancing, and spending time with friends can significantly boost a woman's sense of desirability. While your self-esteem is your responsibility, discussing what you want and how you feel with your partner enhances mutual understanding and builds intimacy. Learn More in Dr. Alexandra’s $11 course: Desires: Awaken The Woman Within: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https
Wed, July 03, 2024
185. Balancing Stress and Intimacy: Secrets to a Harmonious Love Life
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the crucial topic of balancing stress and intimacy in relationships. She discusses the importance of deeper connections to create more passionate relationships and provides tips on cultivating emotional intimacy and other common issues faced by most couples. Dr. Alexandra answers a series of listener questions, covering topics such as enjoying intimacy while managing multiple external stressors, reviving a sexless partnership, reconnecting with desire after an emotional upheaval, and exploring “outercourse” as a fulfilling sexual experience. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of honest communication, personal exploration, and celebrating various forms of physical intimacy in service of passion in a long-lasting relationship. Also in this episode: Discover personal rituals to transition from daily stress to intimate time with your partner. Learn how “outercourse” can be as fulfilling as traditional intercourse, especially for those experiencing physical challenges. Embrace your emotions and reconnect with your desire through self-compassion and allow space for new sexual experiences. Integrate personal growth and emotional experiences into your intimate life for a more holistic connection with your partner. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" r
Wed, June 26, 2024
184. Navigating Mismatched Libidos: Tips for Your Sexual Relationships to Thrive
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses various complexities when navigating libido mismatch. She offers easily implemented advice and practical strategies for nurturing emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in long-term relationships. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy and relaxation as prerequisites for a fulfilling sexual relationship and answers listener questions about mismatched sexual desires and the challenges of intimate time with adult children around. Learn how to resensitize your clitoris and discover ways to carve out safe, private spaces that allow your intimate connections to thrive, ensuring a vibrant marital bond despite inconveniences and constraints. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy acts as a cornerstone for rekindling sexual desire in long-term relationships. Establish deliberate, scheduled private time to address intimacy barriers related to children or other adult relatives living at home. Balancing individual sensual pleasure practices significantly improves overall relationship satisfaction. Effective communication about needs and vulnerabilities fosters deeper emotional and physical connection between partners. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.alexandrastockwel
Wed, June 19, 2024
183. Keeping the Spark Alive: Intimacy Tips for Parents
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, you’ll hear an interview of Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD and her husband Rodd, conducted by Aaron and Miranda on their podcast "Love After Lullabies" which focuses on intimacy tips for parents. They dive into the intricacies of maintaining intimacy, passion, and connection in marriage after children are born, providing guidance on how to navigate the challenges children can bring to a relationship. Dr. Alexandra, Dr. Rodd, Miranda, and Aaron explore the impact of children on marital dynamics, specifically focusing on how to reignite passion and intimacy after the initial wave of adjusting to parenthood. They highlight a number of key strategies for any couple looking to reclaim their connection, from prioritizing meaningful touch and communication to adjusting family routines and fostering intimacy. Also in this episode: Embrace honest; vulnerable conversations about your needs and desires will foster intimacy. Be creative and flexible in finding time for intimacy, even if it means unconventional times and settings. Transform routine activities with a mindful approach to enhance the sense of connection and your shared intimacy. About Miranda and Aaron from “Love After Lullabies” podcast Miranda + Aaron are hosts of the podcast, Love After Lullabies, a podcast showcasing the real stories of how relationships change after having children. Miranda is a couples therapist in the state of Oregon and specializes in helping new or expectant couples maintain their relationship after baby. Aaron works in the financial industry and adds a different perspective to the conversations. Together they have two beautiful daughters and spend their free time camping, gardening or playing board games. Be sure to follow them on Instagram for all the behind scenes: https://www.instagram.com/loveafterlullabies/ Miranda's practice: https://www.livinggroovecounseling.com Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastock
Wed, June 12, 2024
182. Unlocking Intimacy: How Quality Sleep Enhances Relationships with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites sleep specialist Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown to delve into the intricate connections between sleep and the quality of your marriage. The conversation centers on how quality sleep enhances relationships by directly impacting communication, emotional closeness, and the sexual vitality of couples. They discuss exhaustion as a common culprit behind strained communication and dwindling sexual intimacy. Dr. Funke emphasizes the profound difference quality sleep can make in our interactions, overall well-being, mental and physical health. Also in this episode: The quality of sleep has a significant bearing on communication, intimacy, and sexual experiences within relationships. Sleep disturbances can be physiological and require medical attention, or behavioral, necessitating better time management and prioritization. Practicing healthy sleep habits, such as a consistent bedtime routine and minimizing screen time, improves sleep quality and by extension, relationship satisfaction. About Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown is a distinguished triple board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatric pulmonologist. She is the founder of RestfulSleepMD, where she helps high-achieving professionals and their children transform their relationship with sleep, moving from exhaustion to thriving in their families, careers, and relationships. Through her clinical practice at The Restful Sleep Place, along with coaching, speaking, and organizational consultation, Dr. Funke makes a significant impact on improving sleep health. A best-selling author, she has been featured on various media outlets, including ABC. Dr. Funke received her sleep medicine training at the University of Pennsylvania and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. Learn More: https://www.restfulsleepmd.com/ Instagram: @restfulsleepmd Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram <
Wed, June 05, 2024
181. Man to Man Talk: How to Support Your Ambitious Wife and Find Your Place in the Relationship
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, interviews her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, and Victor Mangona, MD. Together with Victor’s wife, Kate Mangona, MD, they have an honest and open discussion about how to support an ambitious wife. The men share the nuanced (and rarely articulated) experience of being married to a driven, ambitious, and growth-oriented woman–the challenges and the gratifications. Rodd and Victor share their thought processes, including initial skepticism and eventual support they’ve felt while navigating their wives' forays into personal growth and coaching. Ultimately it’s been something that has had a profound and welcome impact on each of them and their relationships. The husbands are wonderfully frank in describing how they perceived their partners' personal growth journeys, and the consequent adjustments inspired within their marriages. This episode abounds with valuable insights on how to cultivate deeper emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy with your spouse. Also in this episode: The transformational impact personal growth of one spouse can have on the other, and on the marriage as a whole. Importance of supporting each individual's passions and pursuits in service of a sustainable and fulfilling marriage. Listening with openness, without feeling any pressure to fix or change one's partner. Strategies for integrating new practices when returning home from retreats without it feeling like an added burden on your marriage. About Kate Mangona, MD Dr. Kate Mangona is a board-certified pediatric radiologist, certified life & marriage coach, girl & poodle mom, real estate investor and the host of the Love Lab MD podcast and coaching program. When she is not reading pediatric imaging studies or helping physician moms argue less and reignite the sparks in their relationships, she is most likely dancing and singing with her three little girls and hubby:) Join us in Maui Oct 7-11, 2024! Sign up here: www.alexandrastockwell.com/honeymoon2.0 Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | <a href= "https://www.
Wed, May 29, 2024
180. REIGNITE YOUR MARRIAGE IN THE EMPTY NEST: Intimacy and Growth with Dr Alexandra and Dr Rodd Stockwell
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, to discuss empty nesting and its impact on their marriage. They reflect on a pivotal moment when Rodd expressed concern about what their relationship would look like once their children left home and they had more time with one another. Dr Alexandra expresses how this concern functioned as a catalyst for her to wake up and work on her marriage, eventually leading to her professional evolution and ongoing dedication to coaching couples toward deeper intimacy and strategies to keep the spark alive in long-lasting marriages. Also in this episode: Becoming empty nesters brings up concerns about the basis of a couple's connection, but this transition offers an opportunity for growth and rediscovery. Time set aside for a couple's intimacy, like overnight dates, is crucial for maintaining and enhancing a romantic connection–this is the time when the children's needs no longer dominate your attention. Authentic communication and a deliberate focus on each other's desires transform the marriage dynamic ahead of and during the empty nest phase. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise)
Wed, May 22, 2024
179. THE ART OF PASSION: Emotional Intimacy And The Secrets Of Fulfilling Sex with Jodie Milton and Reece Stockhausen
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by relationship and intimacy coaches, Jodie Milton and Reece Stockhausen to discuss emotional intimacy and the way they see relational happiness as rooted in emotional, not just physical, fulfillment. The discussion dives into the essence of passionate sex, debunking common myths perpetuated by culture and the media. They explore the intricate dance of intimacy and passion beyond surface level interactions, focusing on the emotional and sensual connection that results in fulfilling sexual experiences. Also in this episode: Passionate sex is more about the emotional and sensual connection than the physical act or performance. Elements such as presence, slowing down, and emotional intimacy are key ingredients to creating fulfilling and passionate sexual experiences. Regularly expressing appreciation, and desires, greatly deepens the connection between partners and fosters an environment for passionate sex to thrive. About Jodie Milton & Reece Stockhausen Jodie Milton & Reece Stockhausen are relationship and intimacy coaches and married co-creators of Practical Intimacy. Since 2014, they’ve helped hundreds of couples and over 1 million readers to have the best relationship possible, all while traveling full-time and running a business together. Their no-BS relationship advice draws upon the best research based-strategies, while also drawing upon insights from their own marriage. Visit their website: https://practicalintimacy.com/ Take the free Intimacy Type quiz: https://practicalintimacy.com/ intimacy-quiz-for-couples/ Learn about the online intimacy course for couples: https://practicalintimacy.com/ online-connection-intimacy-course-for-couples Connect with them on Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/practicalintimacy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@practicalintimacy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/practicalintimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spoti
Wed, May 15, 2024
178. From Mundane to Sensational: Transforming Everyday Experiences into Pleasurable Moments
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD talks about transforming everyday experiences into pleasurable moments. She explores the nuanced world of delight and pleasure within relationship, offering actionable insights for couples wanting to enhance emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. Dr. Alexandra makes distinctions in the best ways to pursue more pleasure when it comes to men versus women. She shares practical tips on how to incorporate sensual awareness into your daily life and how to enhance connection with your partner. Also in this episode: Cultivate a lifestyle that prioritizes sensory pleasure in order to enhance erotic intimacy. Simple actions like complimenting a partner, or smiling, profoundly impact intimacy and the quality of your marriage. Open communication and specificity when giving feedback significantly improves understanding and satisfaction in your relationship. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “ Uncompromising Intimacy ” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “ Uncompromising Intimacy ,” here: https://www. alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage , Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart
Wed, May 08, 2024
177. Take It Beyond the Bedroom: Healing Together Through Creating Intimate Connection after Infertility and other Hardships
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores the vital role of intimate connection, when navigating struggles couples commonly encounter in their sexual relationship, particularly after facing significant life challenges such as infertility and loss. Offering gentle, compassionate guidance, she describes effective methods to recreate emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. Dr. Alexandra discusses the challenges faced by couples when they experience disconnection during erotic intimacy. It often leads to functional sex rather than pleasure-driven passion. She emphasizes the importance of reconnecting from a starting point of comfort and familiarity, slowly rekindling passion through tender, patient, calibrated moments together. Also in this episode: Recognize the impact of life events, such as infertility treatments and personal loss, on a couple's sexual intimacy. Understand the significance of starting with small, comfortable steps to re-establish physical connection. Acknowledge that both partners have changed throughout the challenging life circumstances, in unique ways, and the importance of integrating new aspects into the relationship. Utilize basic, soothing methods like eye gazing, hand-holding, or embracing, to facilitate a gradual and sustainable return to intimacy. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopen
Wed, May 01, 2024
176. The Pleasure Principle: Dr. Alexandra on Cultivating Passion and Wholeness in Relationships with Tilly Storm
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD and Tilly Storm, focus on the pleasure principle as they explore ways to foster passionate relationships and venture into new dimensions of erotic intimacy. Tilly has extensive expertise in women’s sexuality and guides couples to renew the spark and access more pleasure in their intimate lives. The two of them discuss "wholeness" as an essential ingredient for pleasure, ways to foster pleasure-positive attitudes in children, and marital challenges such as sexual incompatibility and how to talk about it. Also in this episode: Normalizing the conversation around pleasure with children contributes to a healthier understanding of sexuality as they mature. Couples often experience a "turn on mismatch," which should be navigated by learning and understanding one another’s erotic blueprints. Guided sex experiences are a safe, exploratory space for couples to reignite their sexual connection and learn new ways to engage with each other. About Tilly Storm: When not at home in Hollywood, FL, Tilly loves traveling the world with her 2 teenage boys for the next hot surf spot, and going on personal growth and development retreats with her life partner, Chris. Tilly's been studying women’s bodies and sexuality for over 20 years, first as a pre-med biochemistry major and aspiring OB/GYN, then as a doula and midwife apprentice, and now as a somatic sex coach since 2017. After 350,000+ downloads on her podcast - The Multiorgasmic Millionaire, being voted one of the top 20 sex coaches in the world, and working with hundreds of paying clients, she's learned a lot about what it takes to help high-achieving women integrate things like lack of desire, shame, guilt, fear, and numbness and help them feel amazing in their body and sexuality. Listen to my past episode discussing the Erotic Blueprints in detail: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/sensual-vs-sexual-exploring-the-mysteries-of-erotic-power-through... Tilly's Erotic Explorations book club: https://www.tillystorm.com/book-club Learn more about Tilly's 5 Days to Epic Pleasure & Passion free mini-course: https://www.tillystorm.com/5daytraining Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: <a href= "https://podc
Wed, April 24, 2024
175. How to Nurture Passionate Relationships
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses important considerations when it comes to creating fulfilling and passionate relationships. Dr. Alexandra describes how embracing failure and personal growth play pivotal roles in deepening marital connection. She emphasizes the value of learning from both failures and 'near wins' to achieve mastery. By analyzing potentially frustrating moments with curiosity and compassion, couples can reach new heights of intimacy and fulfillment. Also in this episode: Embracing and learning from failures and 'near wins' enhances intimacy and connection. Self-acceptance is crucial for building and sustaining a thriving connection with your partner. Discomfort is a profound teacher, leading to self-discovery and a more robust connection with others. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/u
Wed, April 17, 2024
174. Achieving Peak Performance in Life & Love, with Dr. Ann Tsung
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Dr. Ann Tsung for a deep dive into the art and science of achieving peak performance, in both our professional lives and our personal lives. The conversation transcends traditional concepts of peak performance, expanding into a more holistic approach to living optimally. The discussion explores the importance of enjoying moments of passion and connection with a spouse while maintaining momentum and advancement in a career. Such a balance requires aligning effort with the level of significance you give to your relationship. Also in this episode: Harmonizing the level of effort, with the rank in importance for each area of your life, is crucial for peak performance in intimacy and marriage. Achieving peak performance requires focusing on all aspects of life, including health, financial freedom, emotional stability, and time management. Emotional intimacy is a prerequisite for sensual and erotic intimacy and is a major contributor to satisfaction and fulfillment in your relationship. Effective time management and honoring the intimate connection with your partner are vital for nurturing and maintaining a passionate relationship. About Ann Tsung MD: Ann Tsung MD is a NASA Flight Surgeon, Critical Care/Emergency Medicine physician, peak performance/productivity coach at Productivity MD, real estate investor, podcast show host of Productivity MD, and a mother of a 19-month-old. With a unique fusion of medical precision and entrepreneurial success, she guides top physician entrepreneurs to unlock over 10 hours a week, master their mindset, scale their businesses, and achieve unparalleled freedom and leadership excellence. Book a 1 Year 1-1 Peak Performance Coaching Qualification Call Call: www.zoomann.com Complimentary Peak Performance and Productivity Resources: https://form.jotform.com/233045660320041 Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | <a href= "https://www.l
Wed, April 10, 2024
173. Unlocking Passion: How Confidence Shapes Success in Love and Life - Expert Advice from Dr Alexandra Stockwell
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into confidence and how it shapes success in love and life. She sheds light on the crucial role of self-confidence and how attractive it is within intimate relationships, and more specifically, how it plays out among ambitious, educated couples. Dr Alexandra explores the common scenario where one partner craves more from their relationship while the other seems content with the status quo. She provides guidance on how to reignite passion and cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, emphasizing the magnetic power of confidence as one of the ultimate keys to a more fulfilling and vibrant partnership. Also in this episode: Confidence is the most attractive quality in a partner and a fundamental ingredient for a passionate and thriving marriage. Seeking affirmation and validation from a partner creates an unhealthy parent-child dynamic, which is detrimental for erotic connection. The best course of action for someone feeling needy or rejected is to focus on developing their own sense of value and self-worth. Bringing one's confident, successful self (with authenticity, not bravado) from your professional life into your personal relationship is a pivot that will result in a significant improvement in intimacy. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirectu
Wed, April 03, 2024
172. Navigating Evolving Desires in Marriage: Communication, Intimacy, and Growth with The Intimacy Doctor
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the intriguing subject of evolving desires within marriages. The conversation offers a deep dive into understanding, embracing, and communicating our desires, especially as they change over time. Dr Alexandra touches upon the natural progression of tastes and preferences, illustrating how something as simple as a shift in food likes can symbolize the broader dynamic of changing desires. She then moves on to explore the more complex and sensitive evolution of sexual preferences within a committed relationship while emphasizing the importance of open communication and adaptability. Also in this episode: Rather than judging or ignoring shifting desires, it's important to acknowledge them and consciously choose how to respond. Sexual preferences and needs can change as relationships mature, and discussing these changes enhances intimacy. Approach conversations about changing desires with respect, connection, and collaboration. Growth and change in preferences are normal, and sharing these developments leads to a more fulfilling relationship. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/b
Wed, March 27, 2024
171. Emotional & Erotic Intimacy Insights: Dr. Alexandra Stockwell Answers Your Questions
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, responds to questions submitted by listeners, providing emotional and erotic intimacy insights to help improve your marriage. The themes of the questions are varied, as they focus on the role of commitment when it comes to creating intimacy, the pursuit of individual passions and hobbies when a partner isn’t interested but wants to do things together, and the impact of birth trauma in rebuilding your sexual connection. Also in this episode: The crucial role of commitment in enhancing intimacy. The pursuit of individual passions and hobbies is advocated for, provided they contribute positively to marital fulfillment. The significance of gentle, patient healing and reconnection. The necessity of open, curious, and non-blaming communication when differences in marital commitment and desires arise. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_ca
Wed, March 20, 2024
170. Unlocking Deeper Connection: Dr. Alexandra Stockwell on Mastering Emotional & Erotic Intimacy Within Marriage
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the critical role of adopting a growth mindset in mastering emotional and erotic intimacy within marriage. Offering actionable advice and insights that challenge conventional perspectives, she guides listeners on how to effectively engage their partners in conversations aimed at enriching their marriage. By positioning a growth mindset as a powerful agent for transformation, Dr. Alexandra encourages her audience to transcend the ordinary, with her strategies to enhance emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in relationship. Also in this episode: Embrace a growth mindset to transform and elevate intimacy in your marriage. Learn effective communication strategies to encourage reluctant partners to entertain the concept of relationship coaching. Understand the significance of recognizing strengths in your relationship as a prelude to discussing areas for improvement. Sign up for my live masterclass: https://alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned
Wed, March 13, 2024
169. Passion Play: Transforming Marriage through Creativity and Spontaneity
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses rejuvenating and expanding erotic connection as an essential means for transforming your marriage. She invites educated and successful couples looking to infuse their marriages with passion and aliveness to embrace unfamiliarity and creativity. Dr. Alexandra draws on her personal and professional experience to offer listeners unique perspectives on cultivating a deeply intimate and satisfying marital bond. She stresses the importance of spontaneity and letting go of control as keys for deepening intimacy. Dr. Alexandra's transformative advice on transitioning from neutral companionship to a juicy passionate marital connection is full of inspiration and actionable suggestions. Also in this episode: Erotic connection is fueled by creativity and spontaneity, not just in sexuality but in everyday interactions as well. Embracing the unexpected, trying new things, and allowing pleasure to infuse life leads to an enhanced erotic and sensual connection. Establishing variety and non-routine experiences rejuvenates the passionate energy in a marriage, thereby reviving erotic intimacy. Inviting your partner to partake in new modes of erotic expression strengthens intimacy and deepens the sensual bonds you share. Sign up for my live masterclass now and learn 5 Essential Lessons from 28 Years of Marriage to Help You Go From Companions to Lovers: https://alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the fi
Wed, March 06, 2024
168. Unlocking Deeper Connection: The Power of Small Gestures in Marriage
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the profound impact that small, thoughtful gestures can have on creating a deeper connection in marriage. She emphasizes that such acts don’t have to be expensive or time-consuming, as the smallest deeds are sometimes the most significant in nurturing a deep connection between partners. Put differently, small gestures are the seeds which grow into emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy blossoms. Dr. Alexandra brings up the concept that 'Small is Beautiful,' explaining how minor, deliberate actions—like turning on an outside light or sending an estimated time of arrival—can express profound love and care in a relationship. She provides practical advice on how couples can integrate these minor but mighty acts of love into their daily routine to enhance closeness and connection. Also in this episode: Small, easy gestures in daily life have a huge impact on the emotional and intimate connection in a marriage. Consistency in these acts is key, not the complexity or grandeur of the gesture. Romantic gestures don't need to be spontaneous; they can be planned and scheduled by the giver while still allowing for a feeling of spontaneity and surprise for the one receiving them. The 'no pain, no gain' philosophy does not apply when cultivating relationships; well chosen, simple acts, which require minimal effort, can yield significant results. Sign up for my live masterclass now and learn 5 Essential Lessons from 28 Years of Marriage to Help You Go From Companions to Lovers: https://alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://amzn.
Wed, February 28, 2024
167. The Art of Listening with Love: Foundation for a Passionate Marriage
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the importance of communication and how essential it is in creating a passionate marriage. She describes ways to adjust how you listen so as to evoke more depth, meaning, and intimacy in what your partner shares with you. Dr. Alexandra is a seasoned expert when it comes to fostering deep connection in couples. Drawing on her experience as a physician, relationship and intimacy coach, and her own 27-year marriage, she describes common misconceptions that often play out in marital discourse and how to avoid them. Also in this episode: Successful communication in marriage results at least as much from how we listen, as from how we speak. A partner's actions can be a powerful expression of love; learning to 'listen' to these actions enhances connection, appreciation, and intimacy. Simple shifts in a listener’s perspective can resolve misunderstandings and open doors to deeper emotional intimacy. The concept of "generous listening" is a strategy which leads to richer layers of meaning and feelings of connection while in conversation with your spouse. Sign up for the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program today and use coupon code MARRIAGE1st for 30% off: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href= "https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book&utm_content=podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener" d
Wed, February 21, 2024
166. Revitalize Your Marriage: Learn to Invest in Emotional and Erotic Intimacy
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites educated, successful couples to revitalize their marriage as she guides them to experience new heights of emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy. Emphasizing the unique nature of investing when it comes to your relationship, Dr. Alexandra describes how such investments yield both immediate and long-term returns. Through personal anecdotes and testimonials, she encourages listeners to nurture their marriages, detailing the transformational journey involved in going from a good relationship to a great one. If you’re looking for the key to unlock passion in your marriage, this episode is for you. Also in this episode: Investing in relationships offers immediate and long-term returns, a unique benefit compared to other kinds of investments ie. stocks and bonds. Relationship satisfaction, growth, and intimacy can be substantially improved through intentionally investing time and attention to improve communication and increase affection. Achieving a deeply satisfying marriage is a learnable skill, accessible through focused effort, and sometimes couples coaching Intimacy within marriage greatly contributes to personal fulfillment and establishing the legacy of your soul, in the process enhancing both your individual and shared satisfaction in life. Join us in Maui Oct 7-11, 2024! Sign up here: www.alexandrastockwell.com/honeymoon2.0 Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href="https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book" tar
Wed, February 14, 2024
165. From Sex Ed to Sensual Mastery: Unleashing Your Artistry in the Bedroom
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the shortcomings of traditional sex education and proposes a new paradigm for learning about sexual intimacy. She discusses the importance of emotional intimacy, experimentation, and releasing preconceived notions about sexuality to craft an artful, gratifying sexual experience. The episode also highlights the crucial role parents have in ensuring their children receive an education that encompasses pleasure, consent, and respect within sexual encounters. Also in this episode: Knowing one's anatomy is fundamental, but exploring the feelings and experiences surrounding the act of sex is what truly enriches intimacy. Parents should be proactive in educating their children about the deeper aspects of sex, tailoring the conversation to their family culture and values. While traditional sex ed is important for scientific accuracy and health awareness, it falls short in areas of pleasure, connection, and passion. Sign up for the FREE Valentine’s Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0 Referenced in the episode: Women’s Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston: https://amzn.to/3jpUvZe Listen to Episode 128: Embodied Sexuality, with Sheri Winston https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/128-embodied-sexuality-how-to-connect-with-your-partner-through-enjoying-more-satisfying-sexual-experiences-w-sheri-winston/ Listen to Episode 129: Understanding the Complexity of the Sexual Differences between Men and Women https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/understanding-the-complexity-of-the-sexual-differences-between-men-and-women-feat-sheri-winston/ Listen to Episode 137: How to Elevate Married Sex from Good to Great https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/how-to-elevate-married-sex-from-good-to-great-with-expertise-from-an-intimacy-coach/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | <a hr
Wed, February 07, 2024
164. The Power of Affection and Showing Love to Your Spouse (and how it Benefits your Children)
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the profound effect that a loving and intimate parental relationship has on children. Alexandra highlights the naturalness of affection within the family setting, and describes the astonishment of those who have never witnessed such intimacy between their own parents. This episode stresses the importance of nurturing the spousal relationship for its own sake and also as a gift to one's children. She also challenges the traditional notion that children should always come first at the expense of the couple's connection. Also in this episode: A strong marital bond is essential for providing children with a positive model for their future relationships. Prioritizing the relationship with your spouse does not detract from your children; rather, it benefits them by demonstrating a healthy, loving partnership. Intimacy and affection in front of children, when natural and appropriate, contributes to a nurturing family environment. It’s important to find a balance between focusing on your children and nurturing your marital relationship. Doing so supports the healthy development of a child's identity. Sign up for the FREE Valentine’s Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0 Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://w
Wed, January 31, 2024
163. The Key to Happiness in Marriage: Being A Happy Person
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into the intricate connection between individual happiness and the quality of marital relationships. She begins by dismissing a common misconception, namely that our happiness depends on our partner's behavior and actions. With a blend of anecdotes, research, and practical advice, Alexandra invites listeners to explore how personal fulfillment can blossom from within and subsequently enrich marital bonds. Furthermore, she shares an enticing announcement about her free Valentine's Day course which she designed to help you boost romance and joy during the upcoming season of love, as she invites everyone to participate and spread the word. Also in this episode: Marriage happiness is not contingent on a partner's behavior but on being a happy and fulfilled individual. Increased income contributes to happiness more in those who are already happy. Alexandra posits a similar trend in marital satisfaction. Four aspects to consider when increasing personal happiness: spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical. Feelings of appreciation need to be internalized in order for marital changes to positively impact happiness levels. Sign up for the FREE Valentine’s Day course: https://hubs.ly/Q02kpFxK0 Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href="https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book&source=gmail&ust=1697053132055000&usg=AOvVaw3GuL47x08snbB
Wed, January 24, 2024
162. The Erotic Path to Freedom: Embracing Sensuality and Vitality in Your Life with Bob Gardner
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, invites Bob Gardner to share his innovative and intriguing perspective on cultivating passion and aliveness in relationships. Bob shares his transformational journey from enduring years of shame and personal distress to removing the inner shackles and attaining the zenith of inner freedom. His teachings, influenced by the resilient ethos of Russian Cossacks, revolve around alchemizing one's bodily and emotional responses to stress. Bob emphasizes the power of direct experience and the liberation from internal constraints, affirming that freedom is indeed a learnable skill, one that stokes passion for life and relationship. Also in this episode: Understanding the separation between one's thoughts and reality is key to experiencing life beyond self-imposed limitations. Freedom from internal tensions can be learned and embodied, rather than just tolerated or willed through. Bob Gardner explains the significance of training the body and mind to respond calmly to stressful stimuli through rigorous practices. About Bob Gardner: Bob Gardner is the Founder of The Freedom Specialist, a body-based approach to happiness, health, and well-being on auto-pilot. He is also the author of the book Built for Freedom and host of the podcast Alive and Free. After 18 years of being trapped in addictive patterns, and on the brink of both divorce and suicide, something inside Bob told him it was not time to quit just yet. So, against the prevailing wisdom that said these problems are permanent, Bob chose to create a way to permanently eliminate them from his life. His body-based, no-nonsense approach to freedom has since helped thousands of people leave their struggles behind and find real freedom and happiness. Visit his website: http://www.thefreedomspecialist.com Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a titl
Wed, January 17, 2024
161. Breaking Taboos: Exploring Frequency of Sex in Long-Term Relationships
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores a question that frequently murmurs in the back of many couples' minds: "How often should we be having sex? What’s normal?" With an enlightening approach, Alexandra delves into the complexities underneath this question, offering both men and women advice on how to find the answer that best suits their unique relationship, and desires. She encourages listeners to shift their focus from quantity to quality, emphasizing the importance of creating sexual experiences that both partners look forward to. Also in this episode: The "normal" frequency of sex in a marriage is subjective and should be based on mutual satisfaction, not societal expectations. Quality of sexual experiences is far more important than frequency although they are deeply interconnected. Couples with differing sexual desires should work together to create gratifying experiences, seeking external guidance as needed. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com
Wed, January 10, 2024
160. Honeymoon 2.0: Focusing on the Two of You is Really Important with Dr. Kate Mangona
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Kate Mangona, MD, to discuss the importance of getting away from your usual routine to be in a beautiful place, engaging in meaningful activities, as a means to uplevel your relationship. They share their personal experiences with retreats and the transformative impact they have had on their own marriages. This inspired them to create a retreat for couples, which they are calling Honeymoon 2.0. It’s for couples who are looking to enhance an already strong connection as well as those wanting to reignite a passion that has faded over time. They highlight the importance of progress in relationships and the positive impact it can have on overall happiness in life. Also in this episode: The Honeymoon 2.0 retreat in Maui is an opportunity for couples to deepen their connection and enhance their intimacy. The retreat offers couples an opportunity for growth and transformation, as progress is the key to happiness in relationships. The retreat will include a variety of activities, coaching sessions, and opportunities for couples to spend quality time together. Join us in Maui Oct 7-11, 2024! Sign up here: www.alexandrastockwell.com/honeymoon About Kate Mangona, MD: Dr. Kate Mangona is a double board-certified pediatric radiologist, supportive physician’s wife and mother to three little girls and a mini poodle. She and her husband Victor, a pediatric radiation oncologist and tax code enthusiast, are active and passive real estate investors in thousands of multifamily units and single-family rentals including 3 luxury Airbnbs. As a certified life & marriage coach, Kate hosts the Medicine, Marriage & Money podcast and leads Medicine, Marriage, & Money Coaching Programs where she helps married physician parents spend less time arguing with their spouse, and more time reigniting the sparks once felt during their honeymoon. She empowers physician mothers to stop stewing in anger, defensiveness, and resentment so they can create more time for love, vacations, & investing! After working with Kate, high-achieving Mothers have the tools necessary to minimize arguments even during conflict and design the life and relationships they crave. Visit her website: www.medicinemarriageandmoney.com Follow her on Insta: @katemangonamd Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | <a href=
Wed, January 03, 2024
159. The Joy of Slowing Down: Exploring the Power of Gentle Touch
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of the brain in sexual pleasure and intimacy. She emphasizes it’s the most important organ for sexual pleasure, as it determines how we think about sex and where we focus our attention during sexual experiences. Alexandra provides practical tips to bring the mind back into the present moment during sex, such as focusing on the breath and putting attention on your body. Also in this episode: Slow down and connect with your partner to enhance intimacy and sync up during sexual experiences. Communicate your desires and make requests respectfully and simply. For optimal pleasure and connection, shift from the vigilant state of the sympathetic nervous system to the relaxation of the parasympathetic nervous system. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: <a href="https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe" target= "_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl=
Wed, December 27, 2023
158. Keeping Passion Alive When Life Is Really Busy (And Other Questions)
In the final episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast in 2023, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, answers questions from listeners. You’ve asked about a variety of topics including how to maintain passion when life is really busy, clarification about the meaning of the word “connection,” ways to bring wildness and passion into the bedroom, and tips to stay happy when a partner is overwhelmed and unavailable. Alexandra provides insights and practical advice to help you navigate these challenges and create a thriving, intimate marriage. Also in this episode: When it comes to cultivating passion in your marriage, motivate yourself by inspiration rather than desperation. Connection is all about creating a sense of belonging and trust between partners. Root yourself in your own sensuality to stay relaxed and happy when your partner is overwhelmed and unavailable. To avoid internally contracting, men often need to learn to trust themselves, without seeking validation from their partners. Learn More About Aligned & Hot Marriage: www.alignedhotmarriage.com (Instead of $599, use coupon code HOLIDAY by Jan 2 and access the program for just $197) Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Listen To Episode 48: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/the-delight-in-scheduled-intimacy/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href="https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book&source=gmail&ust=1697053132055
Wed, December 20, 2023
157. How to Navigate Intense Dynamics with Your Wife with Rodd Stockwell, MD
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by her husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, to discuss a common dynamic in relationships where powerful, intelligent, ambitious women tend to take charge and express their desires, while their men respond with acquiescence and overwhelm. Rodd shares how Alexandra’s emotions used to be overwhelming for him. He would look to her for guidance navigating the intensity but didn’t like what he found. Alexandra explains that this dynamic often leads to resentment and unhealthy coping mechanisms. They discuss the importance of men cultivating their own point of view and valuing it as highly as their partner's. Rodd describes aiming to be like an oak tree in the face of his wife's stormy intensity, and how this has brought more stability and connection to their relationship. Also in this episode: Men should cultivate their own point of view and value it equally to their partner's perspective. Recognize your own response in intense situations and practice being an oak tree, rooted in your own reality. Being emotionally stable will help both of you. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: <a href="http://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener" data-saferedirec
Wed, December 13, 2023
156. Intimacy Rituals To Build A Passionate Marriage During The Holiday Season
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of intimacy in a marriage, especially during the holiday season. She shares four rituals that couples can practice to enhance their connection, pleasure, and intimacy, to feel closer and happier with one another. These rituals include ways of embracing, presence and eye gazing, connecting with one another at the end of each day, and engaging in sensual exploration in the bedroom. Alexandra emphasizes the need for intentionality and open communication in implementing each of these rituals, which can be done individually, or in any combinations. Also in this episode: Embrace for at least 20 seconds every day to increase connection and reduce stress. Practice eye gazing as a way to enhance attraction and deepen the feeling of connection. Ask each other about something important from your day to foster meaningful conversation and understanding. Engage in sensual exploration in the bedroom, taking turns as the giver and receiver, as you enjoy various sensations. Enroll in “Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy amidst crazy year-end schedules and seasonal stress” : www.alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass This is Dr. Alexandra’s FREE Masterclass which will occur on December 14th at 1 PM PST–if you can’t make it live, sign up anyway to receive the replay. Blindfold recommended by Dr. Alexandra: https://amzn.to/3cUUiib Sign up for Dr. Alexandra’s email list: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe Contact Dr. Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://amzn.to/2y
Wed, December 06, 2023
155. Amplifying Passion: How To Enhance Intimacy During The Holiday Season
In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses the importance of navigating the holiday season in a way that nurtures and enhances intimacy and passion in your marriage. She shares two influential stories that highlight the challenges couples face and the impact it can have on your relationship. Alexandra offers insights and strategies for creating a more enjoyable and fulfilling holiday experience with your partner. She also invites listeners to join her free masterclass, " Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy Amidst Crazy Year-End Schedules and Seasonal Stress. " Also in this episode: The holidays can be complicated for couples due to the convergence of conscious and unconscious desires and disappointments. Many couples experience stress and exhaustion during the holiday season, which can negatively impact their relationship. It is important for couples to prioritize their own enjoyment and connection during the holidays, rather than solely focusing on creating a magical experience for others. Couples should have open and honest conversations about their expectations and their hopes and dreams for the holidays to ensure both partners feel fulfilled and supported. Enroll in “Holiday Passion: The Art of Uncompromising Intimacy amidst crazy year-end schedules and seasonal stress” www.alexandrastockwell.com/masterclass This is Dr. Alexandra’s FREE Masterclass which will occur on December 14th at 1 PM PST–if you can’t make it live, sign up anyway to receive the replay. Video of mother who got a robe: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOVCtUdaMCU Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of D
Wed, November 29, 2023
154. Build Lasting Love: A Millennial Couple’s Experience In The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program
In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by two awesome humans. It’s a young millennial couple, with a great relationship, who chose to enroll in the Aligned and Hot Marriage program to support them in building lasting love. This couple's bond was strong before we met, but they wanted more tools to cultivate a deeper emotional connection, and to be able to navigate their disagreements with more care. Through participating in the program, they discovered deeper layers of vulnerability and enjoyed more open communication than ever before. Along the way they transformed their relationship, including bringing more joy and intimacy into their interactions. In our conversation, they share the valuable lessons they learned, and the unexpected passion that blossomed. This is a heartwarming and insightful episode on how to build an aligned and passionate marriage, from the beginning! Also in this episode: The couple's dedication to personal growth supports them in continuously strengthening their bond. Embracing vulnerability and open communication creates a deeper understanding of one another's true selves. The Aligned and Hot Marriage program provides tools to bridge gaps and create a more aligned and passionate relationship. How the Aligned & Hot Marriage program unexpectedly rekindled passion and excitement in their relationship. Supporting each other's growth, while standing firm in their convictions, seemed scary at first but it has enriched their connection. The couple discovered their love keeps growing, beyond what they imagined. They look forward to a future of continuous growth and intimacy. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl&source=gmail&ust=1697053132055000&usg
Wed, November 22, 2023
153. From Burnout and Disconnection to the Fulfillment of Dreams And Desires With Dr. Weili Gray
In this episode, Alexandra Stockwell, MD talks with Dr. Weili Gray about her realization that tomorrow isn’t promised, an insight which arose while grieving her father. She subsequently decided to make each day count and began crossing things off her bucket list, which has had an incredible, positive impact on her marriage and family life. Dr. Gray shares how she transformed her day to day life from burnout and passionless routines to one filled with excitement and fulfillment, including multiple international trips and other adventures. They also explore the vital message of embracing personal differences in relationships and learning to respect one another without judgment or trying to get a partner to change. Dr. Gray highlights the importance of shifting one's perspective to view your partner as a lover and companion in every moment of life. Ultimately, Dr. Gray's story is an inspiring example of how personal growth and a change in perspective lead to a massive uplevel in family dynamics as well as the cultivation of a passionate and deeply intimate marriage. Also in this episode: Embrace differences in a relationship, and love despite them. See your partner as attractive in everyday situations. Live life fully, and don't take anything for granted. Personal growth and desire fuel passion in marriage. Travel is energizing and expands your humanity. @DreamPhysician on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dreamphysician/ Dare to Dream Physician Travel Facebook Community (for Physicians): https://www.facebook.com/groups/878895016552178/ Subscribe to Dare to Dream Physician Travel Podcast https://daretodreamphysician.buzzsprout.com/ About Dr. Weili Gray: Meet Dr. Weili Gray (pronounced "Way Lee"), a dreamer and physician who experienced burnout and now happily practices sleep medicine in Vermont's tranquil countryside. With her husband and three kids, she crafts a dream life brimming with family adventures and extraordinary experiences, sprinkling a touch of magic to every moment. Beyond practicing medicine at a rural critical access hospital, Dr. Gray founded Dare to Dream Physician to empower fellow doctors to dream big and embrace life through travel. She's al
Wed, November 15, 2023
152. Sensual Secrets Of Daily Life: Embracing Everyday Eroticism
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses the concept of everyday eroticism and how it can transform a relationship. She shares her personal journey of discovering the importance of integrating erotic energy into all aspects of life, not just during sexual encounters. Alexandra emphasizes the need for couples to tap into the reservoir of erotic fulfillment and create a deep connection that extends beyond the bedroom. She explains that everyday eroticism is about feeling whole, integrated, and alive in all aspects of oneself, including your erotic and sexual self. Alexandra invites listeners to explore the idea of everyday eroticism and shares how coaching will serve you when you’re ready to uplevel your relationship. Also in this episode: Everyday eroticism means feeling sexy, joyful and empowered every day, not just during sexual encounters. Integrating erotic energy into all aspects of life creates a deep connection and fulfillment in a relationship. It is possible to tap into the reservoir of erotic fulfillment and create a richly erotic experience in everyday life. Everyday eroticism is different for everyone, no journey is the same. Working with a coach can help couples learn new ways of being and create the change you desire in your relationship. Does everyday eroticism appeal to you? Do you want to explore working with me? Tell me a little about you and your relationship and I’ll be sure to respond: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: <a title="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" href="https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl&source=gmail&ust=1697053132055000&usg=AOvVaw0H1kp2j
Wed, November 08, 2023
151. The Art Of Anticipation: Unboxing Lovehoney's Advent Calendar w/ Sarah Tomchesson
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Sarah Tomchesson, the resident sexual wellness advisor for Lovehoney, maker of sex toys and related products. They discuss the Lovehoney Advent calendars, which contain a variety of sex toys and accessories for couples to explore and enhance their intimacy–they can be opened one day at a time, or all at once. The calendars are designed to build anticipation and offer a range of products for both sex toy newbies and experienced users. Sarah emphasizes the importance of open communication and consent when introducing sex toys into a relationship. She also highlights the benefits of using sex toys, as they can increase pleasure, confidence, and empowerment. Also in this episode: Open communication and consent are essential when introducing sex toys into a relationship. Sex toys can provide increased pleasure, confidence, and empowerment. Offering a range of sex toys and accessories for couples to explore and enhance their intimacy, Lovehoney Advent calendars make very fun gifts. Sex toys are not a quick fix for relational disconnection and sexual dissatisfaction. Use promo code AFF-INTIMATEMARRIAGE at www.lovehoney.com to receive 15% off your purchase. Connect with Sarah Tomchesson: Lovehoney: https://www.lovehoney.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovehoneyofficial/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lovehoneyglobal Subscribe to the podcast: https://fuckyeahpod.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fuckyeahpod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fuckyeahpod About Sarah Tomchesson: Sarah Tomchesson, C.S.E. (she/her) advocates for sexual liberation through her work as a sex educator, sex toy evangelist and podcast host. Sarah's passion for helping people connect to their authentic sexual expression is driven by a firm belief that when people experience and access pleasure in a meaningful way it improves their confidence and overall wellbeing. Sarah is Lovehoney’s Resident Sexual Wellness Advisor and hosts free monthly workshops through Lovehoney.com. She
Wed, November 01, 2023
150. Money And Intimacy: How To Create A Passionate Relationship Through Financial Transparency w/ Barbara Huson
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Barbara Huson to discuss the connection between money and intimacy in relationships. They discuss the importance of financial conversations in marriages, the role of power dynamics in money issues, and how to deepen intimacy through shared financial decision-making. Barbara shares her personal journey of overcoming financial challenges and offers practical tips for couples to improve their financial communication and understanding. Also in this episode: Money challenges in relationships are often about power dynamics rather than the actual money. Financial intimacy can be achieved through open and honest conversations about money. Regular money dates can help couples discuss finances in a loving and supportive way. Women can empower themselves by taking responsibility for their financial education and participating in financial decisions. Learning about money is a rite of passage into adulthood and personal growth. Connect with Barbara Huson: The Wealth Connection: https://www.barbara-huson.com/the-wealth-connection/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: <a href="http://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopene
Wed, October 25, 2023
149. Secrets Of An Intimate Marriage: The Four-Step Process Of Dealing With Loneliness In A Relationship
In this episode of Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the issue of loneliness within relationships, especially in marriages. She acknowledges that feeling lonely in a relationship is more common than one might think, even in seemingly successful and happy marriages. This episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and exploring loneliness and fostering curiosity and vulnerability within the relationship in order to bridge the gap between feeling unseen and disconnected, and cherished and respected. Alexandra provides a four-step process for transforming loneliness into connection, in order to enjoy a more fulfilling and intimate marriage. Also in this episode: Intimacy and relationships with a focus on feeling fully alive. Relationship loneliness can stem from a lack of emotional connection and feeling unseen or unheard. How to acknowledge and explore loneliness to transform it into a positive feeling. Exploring loneliness through journaling and curious questions to a spouse. The best way to invest time and resources for profound results in marriage. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s prove
Wed, October 18, 2023
148. The 80/80 Marriage: A Radical Approach to Relationship Bliss | w/ Nate And Kaley Klemp
Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by Nate and Kaley Klemp, authors of "The 80/80 Marriage" to discuss their journey from a failing relationship to a thriving partnership. They challenge the idea of fairness in marriage and introduce "radical generosity" instead. This episode emphasizes intention, contribution, appreciation, and open communication as foundations for a healthy and sexually satisfying relationship. Listeners gain insights into overcoming resentment, fostering deeper connections, and redefining marriage dynamics. The contagious nature of mindset in the context of relationships is explored. The Klemps describe role-swap experiments for empathy-building among couples and share how to transform your marriage into an "80/80" partnership, in order to enjoy a harmonious and loving relationship. Also in this episode: From Fairytale To Struggle: The beginning of their marriage was like a fairy tale, but it quickly became challenging when they faced the reality of balancing individual success with sharing a life together. A Prolonged Difficulty: Nate's bike accident, which led to anxiety and depression, and the shift from individual success to shared life responsibilities. The Key Turning Point: Shifting their focus from "what's best for me" to "what's best for us as a family." This change in perspective helped them reconcile the tension between individual pursuits and shared responsibilities. A Healthy Marriage: Featuring the importance of intention, generosity, appreciation, and open communication in shaping a healthy and balanced marriage. Stop Worrying About Fairness: They advocate for moving away from a fairness mindset to one of radical generosity in relationships. Connect With Nate And Kaley Klemp: Website: https://www.8080marriage.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/8080marriage/ The Free Date Night Guide: https://www.8080marriage.com/free About Nate And Kaley Klemp: Nate and Kaley Klemp are authors of the New York Times Editors’ Choice selection The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage. Nate is a founding partner at Mindful Magazine and also the coauthor of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing. He holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University. Kaley is one of the nation's leading experts on small-group dynamics and leadership development, a TEDx speaker, and the author of three other books, including the Amazon Bestseller The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership, The Drama-Free Office, and 13 Guidelines for Effective Teams. She is a gr
Wed, October 11, 2023
147. Sex As A Litmus Test: What Sexual Chemistry And Emotional Intimacy Reveal About Your Relationship
Alexandra Stockwell, MD explores how sex acts as a litmus test for relationships and how your sexual chemistry reveals deeper truths about your emotional connection. No matter how good a relationship seems, when sex falls short, or is lacking, it's often a sign of underlying issues. Alexandra shares that, most of the time, improving emotional intimacy can naturally reignite passion. This episode challenges you to embrace the importance of emotional connection and offers guidance on how to communicate with your partner about your desires and needs. It's an invitation to seek more, increase vulnerability, and enhance both emotional and physical intimacy in your relationship. Also in this episode: Sex As A Litmus Test: Just as litmus paper indicates the pH of a solution, sex can serve to assess the quality of a long-lasting, committed relationship. Importance Of Emotional Intimacy: Communication, self-expression, and vulnerability, are foundational elements for a fulfilling sex life. Role Of Emotional Rapport: Enhancing the emotional connection between partners is often the first step in addressing issues related to sex in a relationship. Sexual Fulfillment And Connection: A satisfying sex life, where both partners look forward to it and feel closer afterward, is a sign of a healthy and fulfilling marriage. Toleration vs. True Intimacy: If a couple is not fully satisfied with their sex life, despite getting along well in other aspects of the relationship, they may be in a toleration relationship and can make changes to activate the full potential of their intimacy. Permission To Want More: Couples need to have open discussions about their sexual desires and strive for more intimacy, connection, and fulfillment in their relationship. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: <a href="https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data
Wed, October 04, 2023
146. An Aligned & Hot Marriage Thrives While Navigating The Effects Of Trauma | with Doctors Emma & Derek Andre
Alexandra Stockwell, MD is joined by former clients Drs. Derek and Emma Andre. They share their emotional journey through unimaginable life circumstances and describe the profound ways couples coaching with Alexandra served them years after they finished working with her. Derek and Emma's challenges, involving terminal cancer, unanticipated moves, and murder, highlight the strength of their bond and their capacity to be present with and for one another. They attribute their transformation, from loving but somewhat misaligned to deeply connected and gratified partners, to relationship coaching with Alexandra. Their beautiful flourishing relationship serves as a testament to love, their individual commitment to personal growth, and the transformative impact of coaching. Listen to gain inspiration and insights to build a resilient connection with your partner that will hold you even in life's toughest moments. Also in this episode: Community is a powerful source of healing: A strong network of friends and loved ones is more impactful than most people realize until they need it. Prioritizing growth: Being growth-oriented, both individually and as a couple, played a significant role in helping them navigate their challenges and deepen their connection. The power of coaching and support: Couples coaching influenced not only their relationship but also their approach to holistic mental health and their work with their own patients. Choice in relationships: Individuals should actively choose to prioritize and nurture their relationships, even in the midst of devastation. Benefits of group coaching: Learning from other couples and being witnessed grows a couple’s relationship in beautiful ways. About Doctors Emma And Derek Andre They are a husband-and-wife team of naturopathic physicians. In their Oregon-based practice, they offer cutting-edge ketamine therapy and holistic mental health for adults seeking fast and lasting relief from mental health challenges. They know what it’s like to navigate trauma and loss, and have experienced first-hand the potency of psychedelic medicine. It taught them that real and lasting healing comes from within. This impactful journey inspired the creation of ‘Medicine Within’ to share it with others. Connect With Doctors Emma And Derek Andre Website: https://medicinewithin.com/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/medicinewithinoregon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/medicinewithinoregon/?hl=en Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:
Wed, September 27, 2023
145. How To Problem Solve In Your Marriage (Without Driving Either Yourself Or Your Partner Crazy)
Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by her husband Dr. Rodd Stockwell, to unpack the art of problem-solving in marriage. They stress the importance of clearly identifying the type of conversation you’re having, whether it's venting, seeking emotional support, problem-solving, or something else. You need to know which kind of communication you need, and which kind of communication your spouse needs. When there’s a problem, before diving into practical solutions, it’s essential to address any emotional baggage first. Visualize yourselves sitting side by side, collaborating on the problem at hand, without disrespect or opposition. When the emotional air is cleared, real solutions arise so don't hesitate to take detours when unexpected emotional issues present. Also in this episode: Communication Types: Understand that there are different types of communication, such as venting, making requests, problem-solving, vulnerable communication, and more. Setting The Stage: Before diving into problem-solving, ensure that both partners are on the same page about the type of conversation they are having. Emotional Alignment: Make sure both partners feel heard, seen, and emotionally aligned on the issue before moving on to practical problem-solving. Teamwork: Approach problem-solving as a team, sitting on the same side of the table, so to speak. Avoid making it about one person being right or wrong. Efficient Problem-Solving: If emotions or conflicts arise during the process, address them first, and then return to the problem-solving discussion. Building Connection: Successful problem-solving enhances connection and intimacy in the relationship, leading to more efficient and harmonious interactions in daily life. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love mor
Wed, September 20, 2023
144. Sensual vs. Sexual: Exploring The Mysteries Of Erotic Power Through Identifying Your Erotic Blueprint | w/ Julianne Vaccaro
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Julianne Vaccaro, a somatic sexologist and spiritual guide to discuss the erotic blueprints and her unique way of applying them. We delve into the melodic world of erotic blueprints, discussing each type in detail. From the energetic to the sensual, from the kinky to the sexual, we describe each type’s superpowers, and their shadow sides, telling truths that definitely challenge societal norms. Join us as we decode the mysteries of sensuality, embrace our erotic blueprints, and discuss how to empower purpose-driven women to unlock their hearts, bodies, and sexualities. In the process, they ignite transformative intimacy in their relationships. Get ready to unlock the secrets of your own erotic power by listening to this inspiring podcast episode. Also in this episode: Why there is no such thing as sexual incompatibility What the erotic blueprints are How to work with your erotic blueprint to experience more pleasure How to work with your partner’s erotic blueprint for more ecstasy The shadow side of the sensual type Expand your understanding of the two kinds of kink Shapeshifters and languages of love How to erotically express your humanity About Julianne Vaccaro From black sheep in a “perfect” family (spoiler alert: nobody’s perfect!), to an abusive relationship that ended in betrayal, sexual trauma, and dissociation from her body… to finally unlocking her inner divine feminine & going on a deep-ass path of self-discovery... sometimes it feels like Julianne’s been through it all. But she finally broke through into the life she always wanted — by healing from the inside out, coming home to her body, reclaiming her erotic goddess, & choosing plea$ure. Connect With Julianne Vaccaro Website: https://www.juliannevaccaro.com/connect-with-j Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to
Wed, September 13, 2023
143. Vital Conversations About Menopause (For Men And Women Of All Ages)
Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Tricia Brouk for an honest conversation about the often misunderstood topic of menopause. The conversation is inspired by and centered around their journey co-authoring "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause," their new book published on September 13, 2023. Together, Alexandra and Tricia challenge menopause stereotypes, emphasizing the unique and positive potential of each woman in this phase of life. They address the lack of open discussions about menopause and invite both women and men to join this crucial conversation. Reflecting on their collaboration, they stress the importance of an authentic exploration of menopause's diverse experiences. Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to reshape the narrative around menopause, fostering understanding, empowerment, and connection for women and their partners. Also in this episode: Menopause is an inevitable part of a woman's life, but it doesn't have to be a negative or horrific experience as society sometimes portrays it. Conversations about menopause should be open and inclusive, involving not only women but also their partners and loved ones. Creating a warm and inviting space for discussion is crucial to destigmatize menopause and empower individuals to share their experiences. How interested and responsive men have been about a book on menopause; it's turning out to be an inclusive resource for everyone. Every person going through menopause is the ultimate authority on their own experience. The book "The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause" encourages vital and intimate conversations about menopause, aiming to create connections, expand sexual understanding, and promote a more intimate marriage. Purchase “The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause” here: https://a.co/d/8FpGwZI About “The Invitation: Vital Conversations About Menopause”: Whether you’re a woman in the midst of menopause, anticipating it, or close to someone who is, you are invited to join a candid, provocative conversation in a safe space where all experiences are honored. “The Invitation” is an expansive, meaningful dialogue between two friends that unfolds organically as the authors discuss the nuances of their individual experiences, challenge widely held social constructs, and give rise to empowering new perspectives on the menopause paradigm. Chapters explore physical manifestations of menopause, sex and intimacy, marriage through the lens of menopause, and how menopause impacts women at work—a topic for which an expert joins the conversat
Wed, September 06, 2023
142. What Makes A Marriage Last?
Alexandra Stockwell, MD, shares heartfelt stories of couples she's coached and her thoughts on what makes a marriage last. From reigniting intimacy in a 21-year marriage to a couple's transformative journey after 27 years, these narratives inspire and inform. Alexandra encourages listeners to reflect on their own marital culture and emphasizes the importance of making a deliberate effort to foster a positive relationship within a marriage and within a family. She also provides insights and strategies to maintain focus and intentionality in long-lasting marriages, ways to reignite the spark and engage in the foundational conversations often left unspoken. Dive into the world of authentic, lasting love and learn to enrich your own relationship in this enlightening episode. Also in this episode: Long-lasting marriages succeed when at least one partner is willing to stand for the marriage when things get tough Unspoken truths create a lack of intimacy and diminished sexual connection Some couples go through a process of reconfiguring their marriage so it better aligns with their new desires and values The need to pay attention and be deliberate with one another Couples wanting a more fulfilling partnership need to invest attention and intention into their relationship The Invitation: Vital Conversations about Menopause: https://a.co/d/6KXAqAy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra S
Wed, August 30, 2023
141. The Secrets Of Desire, Arousal & Sexual Well-Being | With Dr. Rachel Rubin
Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Rachel Rubin, a renowned urologist and sexual medicine specialist, to discuss sexual medicine, as well as the art/science driving sexual desire. Dr. Rubin emphasizes the vital importance of a biopsychosocial approach to sexual medicine, highlighting the significance of understanding a patient's background and their goals for enhancing their quality of life. She defines sexual medicine, discusses when to seek help and addresses issues like low desire and arousal. Dr. Rubin recommends various treatment options, including the use of devices (ie. vibrators) for enhancing intimacy. The conversation takes a personal turn as she shares she’s happily married with a supportive partner. Also in this episode: How do you define sexual medicine? Why Dr. Rubin considers herself a sex detective Low desire is a common problem for both men and women Why it’s important to ask patients about libido, masturbation techniques, cultural and religious issues, and childhood trauma Erectile dysfunction is a marker for cardiovascular disease in men and women Where to find more information about sexual health products How our personal experiences influence our practice of medicine About Dr. Rachel Rubin: Dr. Rachel Rubin is a board-certified urologist and sexual medicine specialist. She is an assistant clinical professor of Urology at Georgetown University and owns her private practice in the Washington DC region. She is one of only a handful of physicians fellowship trained in both male and female sexual medicine. Dr. Rubin is a clinician, researcher, and vocal educator in the field of sexual medicine. She completed her medical and undergraduate training at Tufts University, her urology training at Georgetown University, and her fellowship training under Dr. Irwin Goldstein in San Diego. In addition to being the education chair for the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH), she also serves as an Associate Editor for the Journal Sexual Medicine Reviews. Her work has been featured in the NYT, PBS and NPR. Connect With Dr. Rachel Rubin Rachelrubinmd.com | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | Threads Links mentioned in the episode: Promescent Devices | <a href= "https://mysteryvibe.
Wed, August 23, 2023
140. How Dysfunctional Patterns Interrupt Intimacy And Impede The Archetypes Of Love
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the dynamics of genuine connection within marriages and how they can be influenced by two specific false archetypes of love. Delving beyond traditional roles, she navigates two common archetypes that hinder intimacy: the parent-child dynamic and the project manager approach. By embracing the essence of "being" over constant "doing," listeners learn to infuse presence into every interaction, fostering deeper relationships. The episode inspires self-awareness, promoting emotional growth and fulfillment. Discover how to transform roles, prioritize connection, and ignite a profound, soulful bond with your partner. Also in this episode: How historical roles in marriage have shifted toward modern expectations of personal growth and companionship. Overcoming tendencies to seek emotional rescue or dependence on a partner, hindering true connection. Successful individuals may inadvertently impede intimacy by approaching relationships with a managerial mindset. Shift focus from constant doing to cultivating presence and connection in daily interactions. Nurturing intimacy: develop a deeper understanding of genuine connection, essential for passion and fulfillment in relationships. Evolving archetypes, fostering growth, and fostering soulful, emotionally rich bonds with your partner. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
Wed, August 16, 2023
139. Compromise In Marriage Can Be Very Sneaky
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares profound insights to help you recognize how varied compromise in marriage can be, and how to let it go. Instead, embrace uncompromising intimacy and all the lusciousness that comes with it! Discover the power of honoring and expressing your authentic desires, while respecting your partner's wishes. Learn how to break free from unconscious habits of compromise and foster transparent communication instead. Uncover the keys to building a collaborative and adult-to-adult relationship, deep emotional intimacy and sensual passion. Take the first step towards transforming your marriage and embrace the journey of uncompromising love and intimacy today! Also in this episode: The four types of relationships that involve some form of compromise. How sneaky and insidious compromise can be. The difference between narcissism and compromise. When a habit becomes routine Pay more attention to your desires. How to figure out what you want to do. It’s a choice to be more empowered. How to know what you truly want. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell,
Wed, August 09, 2023
138. Love, Risk, And Business: An Intense Journey In Personal And Professional Growth | w/ Joshua And Rachel Lee
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Intimacy Coach Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is joined by Joshua and Rachel Lee, a dynamic power couple, who share their rich journey involving both personal and professional growth. Joshua's entrepreneurial successes, including working with MySpace, taught him the importance of finding purpose beyond monetary success. Rachel, a branding expert extraordinaire, emphasizes the value of authenticity in corporate life. Together, they describe unexpectedly falling in love while living in different cities and needing to overcome unanticipated challenges when Rachel moved to be with Joshua and his two kids. They share frankly about the development of their business Standout Authority, which combines both of their distinct skillsets; it’s a business driven by authenticity and the formation of genuine connections. Listen in to hear them talk about the power of love, vulnerability, and unified partnerships, in both life and entrepreneurship. Also in this episode: How Rachel started her entrepreneurial career. What it takes to share your voice authentically. The importance of understanding what matters to both people and giving attention to insecurities in the relationship. The experience of transitioning from company employee to co-owner. Navigating roles and responsibilities as husband and wife, and co-owners too. Using past experiences to educate and inspire others. The power in allowing others to truly see you. About Joshua And Rachel Lee They are the dynamic duo behind Standout Authority. Joshua, a seasoned entrepreneur with 20+ years of experience, is known as "The Dopamine Dealer of LinkedIn" and has built 16 businesses while fostering a beautiful marriage and blended family. He realized the digital landscape had become disconnected, leading him to found Standout Authority in 2014. His focus on LinkedIn helps entrepreneurs and professionals humanize their brands and build authentic relationships. Rachel, a fearless marketing #ladyboss, complements Joshua's expertise by leading the marketing and branding strategy for Standout Authority. With a stellar career in the technology and marketing industry, including roles at Microsoft and Gartner, she brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table. Together, Joshua and Rachel are on a mission to help individuals reconnect and build real, lasting relationships in business and life. Through their expertise and passion, they empower clients to find their voice, create influence, and navigate their careers with purpose and success. <p dir="
Wed, August 02, 2023
137. How To Elevate Married Sex From Good To Great With Expertise From An Intimacy Coach
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra delves into the topic of enhancing and enjoying your married sex life and how to go from just “good” to “absolutely great.” She emphasizes the importance of open and honest communication about sex, including sharing your personal experience and desires with your partner. Alexandra provides practical tips on how to initiate conversations about sex, such as starting with positive memories and desires. She also discusses the profound impact that talking about sex can have on emotional and physical intimacy in a long-lasting relationship. Tune in to discover how engaging in open dialogue leads to a deeply fulfilling and passionate sex life that lasts a lifetime. Also in this episode: The single best thing you can do to enhance your sex life. How to start the conversation about sex How to be more direct with your desires Is there something you can do so that she doesn't check out? How many minutes of sex per day? How to have a meaningful conversation about sex What’s the next level up for your sex life? Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Int
Wed, July 26, 2023
136. Juicy, Straightforward, And Sophisticated: A Conversation On Pleasure And Eroticism | w/ Ruan Willow
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra shares a recording of an interview she did with Ruan Willow on her podcast. The episode explores topics such as uncompromising intimacy, libido mismatch, eroticism, and the importance of bringing all elements of oneself to a relationship, including heart, mind, and genitals. Ruan is an erotica author and a romance novelist, with a smooth silky voice. She’s comfortable talking about all aspects of sex and sexuality and asked some excellent questions, which makes for a deep, precise, and excellent conversation. Alexandra discusses the concept of responsive desire and how it can help address libido mismatch in couples. She also emphasizes understanding and honoring each partner's needs and desires, and the importance of creating a strong emotional and physical connection. Also in this episode: How to marinate in your sensuality Connecting with your hearts and minds The difference between unconditional love and conditional love The myth of libido mismatch How to make sex more inviting How to help women get aroused Sex toys and orgasm. How do you quantify an orgasm? Clitoral mapping About Ruan Willow: Ruan Willow is an erotica & smut author and a romance novelist. She hosts the podcast Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, where she talks about everything to do with sexuality, including tips, advice, and ideas about sexual wellness, does sexual product reviews, and hosts guest interviews. She is also a voiceover narrator so look for her audiobooks hitting the market too. She narrates for other authors and also for her own work. Her books are loaded with sexual content; if that's what you like in your books, her books are for you! Connect With Ruan Willow Ruanwillowauthor.com | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Podcast Join The Aligned & Hot Marriage Program: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Suggested Episodes To Listen To: Communication As Foreplay | w/ Yvette Racines <a href= "https://www.alex
Wed, July 19, 2023
135. The Power Of Intimate Connection: How To Define And Have Amazing Sex With Your Partner
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives deep into the concept of amazing sex and what that truly means within the context of a healthy, loving marriage. Alexandra underlines that amazing sex is a deeply personal and subjective experience, emphasizing that the feelings evoked are far more important than the specific acts engaged in. Alexandra speaks of sex as a form of communication within a relationship, with each sexual encounter carrying a specific message between partners, whether expressed verbally or left unspoken. Alexandra provides various examples of these messages, such as expressing love and appreciation, searching for escape or connection, a desire for help with household chores, or simply wanting to feel nurtured. When both partners communications align, they enhance the overall sexual experience and create truly extraordinary passion, where emotional connection, understanding, and fulfillment flourish. Also in this episode: Each sexual encounter conveys a message, serving as a means of communication between partners. How to effectively express the emotions you want to convey. Many women use sex to get husbands to help with household chores. Using sex as a tool to escape daily stress and strengthen emotional bonds. Amazing sex is subjective and can differ from person to person. Using communication to enhance sexual experiences. Exploring the definition of unpleasant sexual experiences. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe <p dir="l
Wed, July 12, 2023
134. Transformative Intimacy, Stories Of Sexual Fantasy, And Communication In A Deeply Fulfilling Relationship | w/ Intimacy Coach Alexa And Jordan Bowditch
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD, is joined by Alexa & Jordan Bowditch, founders of Sex & Love Co., to discuss intimacy, stories of sexual fantasy, and how couples can navigate their way to having more connected relationships. Alexa and Jordan discuss their journey creating a nourishing and passionate marriage while embracing openness of many flavors. They explore the complexities of relationships, communication, and the pursuit of deeply nourishing and fun sex. Drawing from personal experiences, they share practical strategies to enhance presence and connection, including the power of blindfolding. Reflecting on their own growth, they emphasize open communication and introduce programs tailored for couples, like their "Couples Goals" experience. Also in this episode: How to keep sex fun The forbidden pleasure of forbidden pleasures The primary impediment to great sex Very intimates fantasies Differences in awareness between men and women Being sexy is the opposite of intimacy Alexa’s favorite blindfold Intimate relationships as a sacred mirror for partners About Alexa & Jordan Bowditch Alexa is a sex and relationship by design coach and sex coach business mentor on a mission to reform sex education and sexuality across the globe. She is from the deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos regarding sex, it’s her. She is known as @thatsexchick across social media and is the founder of The Sex & Love Co. community, a NY Times featured group with love, sex & relationships as the central focus. Jordan is the CFO and head men’s coach at Sex & Love Co., a (kinda) conscious comedian, certified space-holder, and BROfessional edu-tainer. He facilitates elevated connection by creating safe spaces to not play it safe, integrating bioenergetics, interpersonal polarity, sexuality and social magnetism into his work/play. Connect with Alexa And Jordan Bowditch S exandlove.co | That Sex Chick With Alexa Podcast | Alexa’s Instagram Jordan’s Instagram | The Sex & Love Co. Facebook Community Alexandra Stockwell’s Recommended Blindfold Subscribe To
Wed, July 05, 2023
133. Is Companionship As Good As It Gets? | Chapter 1 Of ‘Uncompromising Intimacy’
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD reads the first chapter of her book, ‘Uncompromising Intimacy,’ we entitled "Is The Comfort Of Companionship As Good As It Gets?" This chapter delves into the fundamental questions many couples face in long-term relationships. Can emotional intimacy and sensual passion coexist? Is it possible to revive a lackluster sex life? How can couples create a deeply fulfilling connection? Exploring the truth about emotional and sensual passion in long-term relationships, Alexandra addresses common struggles faced by couples. Considering couples in toxic relationships, and those tolerating their circumstances, she unveils the blueprint for conscious partnership—a transformative path that nurtures personal growth, authentic self-expression, and deep connection. If you want to continue learning, dive into the rest of the book (available on Amazon and Audible) and unlock the secrets of creating a satisfying, soul-enriching relationship in today's world. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy and sensual passion in long-term relationships. Challenges maintaining and improving relationships Lack of role model couples Dissatisfaction in relationships Different types of relationships: toxic, termination, toleration, conscious partnership. Transforming relationships and cultivating conscious partnerships and fulfilling, passionate relatioships. Read More Of ‘Uncompromising Intimacy’ by Alexandra Stockwell, MD Click here for paperback or Audible versions: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl A recent review of ‘Uncompromising Intimacy’ on Amazon [Alexandra] talks straight with openness and honesty. She also has a loving perspective and never talks about what is right or wrong but shares more from the standpoint of does it work or not. Anyone who is wanting to improve their relationship and build a solid foundation of love and connection can benefit from this book. Reading this book amazed me and I was so excited in completing all of the assignments because of how much I was learning about myself and my partner. This is definitely going to be a gift to all of my sisters and friends. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect Wi
Wed, June 28, 2023
132. Power Couple Reveals Secrets To Keeping The Spark Alive During Military Deployment I With Intimacy Coach Dr. Jacqueline And Paul Sherman
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell MD, welcomes power couple Paul and Dr. Jacqueline Sherman to share their inspiring story of love, strength, and erotic connection while navigating the challenges of military life and years-long deployment. Dr. Sherman is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in intimacy and relationships, and her husband, Paul, is a senior chief currently on active duty in the US Navy. Through their heartfelt conversation with Alexandra, they reveal the significance of embracing each other's strengths and passions, fostering effective communication, and practicing patience. From navigating difficult conversations after experiencing a miscarriage to seeking advice on leadership and influence, the Shermans offer invaluable insights and wisdom to couples who are geographically separate as well as those who share a bed. Also in this episode: How to define sexual confidence The importance of pushing oneself into uncomfortable situations to build confidence Sexfirmations, the sexual wellness card deck for women Communication, empathy, and creativity improve intimacy in a relationship Navigating grief after a miscarriage Why it’s so important for couples to talk about sex Practice direct communication and assertiveness with your spouse Scheduling sex without shame About Dr. Jacqueline Sherman Dr. Jacqueline Sherman (aka Dr. Jac) is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Certified Intimacy and Relationship Coach, and the Creator of Sexfirmation Cards. She helps women and couples have better intimacy, sex, and relationships. She is passionate about helping women overcome perfectionism, body image issues, and judgmental thoughts that distract from confidence and pleasure. Her specialty is working with couples who have experienced pregnancy loss and/or fertility challenges. She coaches from a sex-positive perspective that integrates the mind and the heart. Connect With Dr. Jacqueline Sherman Drjac.co | Instagram Sexfirmation Cards: Drjac.co/shop *Please use code IMP15 for 15% off Sexfirmation Cards Have a question? Please email Dr. Jac at: hello@drjac.co Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_NFfw
Wed, June 21, 2023
131. Where An Intimacy Coach Stores Her Bread | w/ Rodd Stockwell
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, welcomes back Rodd Stockwell to explore the infamous bread story that lead to a shift in their marriage to embrace uncompromising intimacy. Initially, a trivial disagreement arose between Alexandra and Rodd regarding bread storage. Rodd grew up storing bread in the refrigerator, while Alexandra stored it on the counter. Ultimately, Alexandra compromised by storing the bread in the fridge, leading to resentment. Over time, they grew curious about each other's perspectives, viewing the issue objectively and depersonalizing it. They realized the importance of being seen, heard, and supported in their relationship; they focused on understanding each other's perspectives and approached the matter objectively and impersonally. They achieved a strong emotional bond by openly communicating their needs while still maintaining their individuality. They worked together to enhance their decision-making process by balancing practicality and spontaneity. This journey brought them closer, improved their relationship, and deepened their understanding. Also in this episode: Differences in upbringing and expectations The similarities between Alexandra and Rodd's backgrounds The first step of compromise is to become curious Compromise is the opposite of drying out Where Alexandra and Rodd store their bread now The power of seeing and hearing your spouse How you do anything is how you do everything How our family cultures may differ Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | <a class="editor-rtfLink" href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
Wed, June 14, 2023
130. Intimate Communication As Foreplay: Fueling Desire And Building Passion | w/ Yvette Racines
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by self-love educator and yoga therapy teacher Yvette Racines. Yvette shares her profound journey with the Aligned and Hot Marriage program, highlighting how it has transformed her and her husband's approach to foreplay through accessing the power of intimate communication. Yvette and her husband have been married for 17 years, and have a good, solid, loving marriage. However they dealt with some communication challenges, especially when speaking about finances. They participated in a workshop with Alexandra and then decided to enroll in her Aligned and Hot Marriage program. Yvette describes how the program provided them with many valuable tools to improve their communication, and how they learned to respectfully resolve conflicts. At the same time their emotional connection deepened, and their relationship became more passionate and intimate. Yvette speaks of their communication as foreplay, as it sets the stage for their intimate connection. Also in this episode: Why it’s hard to be vulnerable with your spouse Using the conscious redo to reconnect Why having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill The two main reasons to enroll in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program How Yvette and her husband blended their families Learning to communicate without getting angry and upset The importance of respect when communicating Ways our parents communication skills affect our marriage Connect with Yvette: Vitallivingwellness.com | Instagram | Facebook Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected-it's where I share my latest insights and more personal stories. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe Connect
Wed, June 07, 2023
129. Understanding The Complexity Of The Sexual Differences Between Men And Women | feat. Sheri Winston
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by returning guest Sheri Winston, a renowned holistic sexuality teacher, author, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center, to discuss the complexity of sexual differences between men and women. Alexandra and Sheri explore the sexual differences between men and women in this captivating podcast episode. Using the metaphor of "pussycats" and "puppy dogs," they discuss the need for safety, connection, and gradual exploration for pussycats, contrasting it with puppy dogs' more fast-paced and genitally focused nature. These insights apply to any gender and sexual orientation, helping you have successful relationships with partners with different genitalia. Embrace self-awareness and acceptance, and challenge societal norms to unlock the full potential of your sexual experiences. Also in this episode: Cultural cliches about sexual polarity How sexuality occurs for many women and many men Utilize the five love languages in your relationships For many women, it takes between 30 and 45 minutes to get aroused The importance of having date nights Complaints from women about the puppy model The yin and yang energy mode Some of the best ways to initiate sex About Sheri Winston: Wholistic Sexuality teacher Sheri Winston is a groundbreaking, award-winning author and teacher who offers empowering, entertaining erotic education for everyone. She’s the author of the award-winning Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure (which won the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists’ 2010 Book of the Year) and Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice. She’s also a contributor to the award-winning Secrets of the Sex Masters. Sheri is the founder of the Intimate Arts Center. She offers pleasure-centered sex-ed for grown-ups via a wide variety of practical and transformational intimate arts educational recorded online classes, books and blogs. Sheri’s unique holistic offerings are formed by over 22 years as a sexuality teacher, on top of decades of practice as a certified nurse-midwife, gynecology practitioner, registered nurse, childbirth educator, and massage therapist. Sheri delights in inspiring people to have a lot more pleasure, fun and fulfillment! Connect With Sheri Winston: Website: IntimateArtsCenter.com Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, Dr. Alexandra's prove
Wed, May 31, 2023
128. Embodied Sexuality: How to Connect With Your Partner Through Enjoying More Satisfying Sexual Experiences | feat. Sheri Winston
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Sheri Winston, a renowned holistic sexuality teacher, author, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center, to discuss how to connect with your partner via embodied sexuality–a learnable skill that anyone can develop. Sheri emphasizes the importance of embracing pleasure and connection with a partner before delving into the intricacies of the female erectile network. She encourages listeners to explore their own bodies, expand their pleasure potential, and understand the anatomy of arousal in order to create more ecstatic and satisfying sexual experiences. She dispels the myth that men already know how to have good orgasms and encourages everyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, to explore their sexuality and deepen their intimacy. Also in this episode: How to transition from performance-based sex to embodied sex Transactional sex and sex as a marital duty Women’s orgasm and what everyone should know How to become proficient in sex The pandemic of premature penetration How erectile tissue works in both men and women and the role it plays in experiencing orgasms How men can explore their sexual potential so both they and their partners have more pleasure Three things long-term sexual partners need to talk about with one another About Sheri Winston: Wholistic Sexuality teacher Sheri Winston is a groundbreaking, award-winning author and teacher who offers empowering, entertaining erotic education for everyone. She’s the author of the award-winning “Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure” (which won the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists’ 2010 Book of the Year) and “Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice”. She’s also a contributor to the award-winning Secrets of the Sex Masters. Sheri is the founder of the Intimate Arts Center. She offers pleasure-centered sex-ed for grown-ups via a wide variety of practical and transformational intimate arts educational recorded online classes, books, and blogs. Sheri’s unique holistic offerings are formed by over 22 years as a sexuality teacher, on top of decades of practice as a certified nurse-midwife, gynecology practitioner, registered nurse, childbirth educator, and massage therapist. Sheri delights in inspiring people to have a lot more pleasure, fun, and fulfillment! Connect With Sheri Winston: Website: www.IntimateArtsCenter.com Downloa
Wed, May 24, 2023
127. Love Is Not Enough to Create A Dream Marriage
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, considers that love is not enough. We want it to be, but many couples love one another and it’s not enough to enjoy their dream marriage. She discusses the importance of relationship skills, personal growth, and being willing to understand your partner better in order to create nourishing, connected, joyful experiences. She delves into ways our childhoods shape our perception of love and influence our response to our spouse. She emphasizes that these are learnable skills, requiring courage and openness to grow. Key skills include cultivating curiosity, asking open-ended questions, and understanding how your spouse experiences love. Lastly, Alexandra addresses the challenge of aligning emotional and sexual intimacy and offers suggestions to bridge the gap. Also in this episode: Why love isn’t enough for a marriage to flourish The difference between love experienced by an adult and love experienced by a child Learning how to have a fantastic relationship is totally within reach Transformation begins with cultivating curiosity Connect with your spouse by conveying that they are deeply loved Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specialize
Wed, May 17, 2023
126. Reframing Our Approach To Sexual Intimacy In Terms of Expectations, Stigmas, and STDs: Holistic Sexual Health From A Family Medicine Physician and Sex Coach | With Dr. Tiff Cagle
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Tiff Cagle, a board-certified family medicine physician, sex educator, and coach. Dr. Cagle talks about her passion for providing care through the lens of a person's mind, body, intimacy, relationships, and community. Dr. Cagle also shares her experience in decreasing stigma around sex and providing HIV testing and counseling. Dr. Cagle discusses sexual concerns including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, desire discrepancies, and living with sexually transmitted infections. She also provides tips on how to manage herpes in a committed relationship and describes the start-stop method for overcoming premature ejaculation. Dr. Cagle emphasizes the importance of clarifying expectations and refining perceptions when navigating sexual concerns. Also in this episode: The importance of mentorship and sexual health How to deal with sexual health concerns like Herpes Treating premature ejaculation and discussing it with your partner The three principles of sensate focus in sex therapy The importance of undressing yourself when being intimate How partners can start touching one another The first three phases of sexual exploration About Dr. Tiff Cagle Tiff Cagle, MD (she/they/Dr.) is a board-certified family medicine physician, sex educator, and certified coach from Durham, North Carolina. Like many others, she grew up in an environment where conversations about sex were rare and almost always centered around shame. Through challenging the sex-negative attitudes she was taught, she developed a passion for helping others feel empowered to embrace their authentic self. Dr. Cagle chose to specialize in family medicine because of her desire to provide care through the lens of each person’s mind, body, relationships, and community. After years of traditional medical practice, she’s now bringing this holistic approach to her work in sexual health. She received her medical degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medicine, where she first discovered her passion for decreasing stigma around sex while providing HIV testing and counseling. She went on to complete her residency training at Duke University Hospital with a concentration in Law, Ethics, and Health Policy, and now holds a consulting position in Duke’s Department of Community and Family Medicine providing resident lectures and mentorship. Contact Dr. Tiff Cagle Website: https://sensatehealthnc.com/ <p dir="
Wed, May 10, 2023
125. Wait, How Long Has Kevin Bacon Been Married To Kyra Sedgwick? Secrets We Can Learn From Their 34-Year Marriage
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how long Kevin Bacon has been married to Kyra Sedgwick and why she thinks they have been able to create their remarkable love story for the past 34 years! Alexandra is excited to talk about Kyra Sedgwick and Kevin Bacon because they are an attractive celebrity couple who have built a successful marriage and have raised a family together. She discusses their secrets to lasting love and offers insights into what it takes to enjoy a happy, fulfilling marriage. Alexandra also shares how hard it is to find couples to look up to as role models, and emphasizes how important it is for inspiration and emulation. Through that lens, she talks about how she and her husband navigated being children of divorced parents and how that influenced them to find a way to create a relationship filled with intimacy, passion, and connection. Also in this episode: Celebrity couples who inspire Alexandra Learning about relationships through role models Becoming your partner’s biggest fan Kevin and Kyra’s different roles in their marriage There is a version of this even if you’re not a movie star Making sure you have enough elasticity and stability to be creative Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe About Alexandra Stockwell, MD <p dir
Wed, May 03, 2023
124. Constructive Conflict: How We Can All Resolve Conflict Productively Today and Start Dismantling Racism For The Future | w/ Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle, a conflict resolution strategist. Conflict is inevitable and Lynne talks about how she helps people engage in constructive conflict, instead of running from it. In this conversation the focus is on conflict in marriage, and in the workplace, between any two people and specifically interracial couples. Lynne recommends people engage in conversations with those they are in conflict with, aiming to be vulnerable and staying open to listening. She describes her program, On the Matter of Race, which was created to teach white people about racism and how to dismantle it. The program was inspired by a request from two white women who wanted to understand the experiences of people of color, and how to be effective allies. Lynne clearly articulates the need for white people to understand their role in addressing and dismantling racism and has devoted her life to helping make that happen, at both the personal and societal levels. Also in this episode: Why conflict presents an opportunity Why we are scared of conflict Racism and interracial marriages The merging of the present moment and personal history Dr. Lynne’s program called “On The Matter Of Race” Why racism is global Diversity, equity, and inclusion How to be an ally to others in the workplace About Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle is a conflict resolution strategist, facilitator, speaker, and coach. In addition, she is the author of the best-seller, “Closing Conflict for Leaders: How to Be a Bold Leader and Develop a Kick-Ass, High-Functioning, Happy AF Team”. In many circles, she is known as The Conflict Closer, not just because she helps leaders gain the skills they need to dig deep and finally close the door on those conflicts that have been plaguing their business for too long, but also because she helps bring conflict closer. She helps you bring conflict close enough to examine its roots, the fruits of it, and the long-lasting effects it has on your business and your life. She makes it less scary by helping you to actually see it, get to know it, and be in a relationship with it. Because it is only then that you can use it to help you and your team transform. She has helped a lot of people transform in her thirty-plus years of doing this work and that’s because, through a mix of different styles and methods, she makes it interesting and fun. Connect With Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle Website: <a href= "https://lynnemaur
Wed, April 26, 2023
123. The Emasculation of Men Is Not Necessary: Overcoming Societal Pressures and Finding Authentic Connection in Relationships and Friendships | w/ Connor Beaton
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Connor Beaton, the founder of ManTalks, to discuss the emasculation of men and how they can have real conversations with their partners and friends. Despite appearing to have a perfect life, Connor hit rock bottom while struggling with addictions and dishonesty. He eventually found a mentor who taught him yoga, psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy, and shadow work. When he opened up to his male friends about his struggles, he found they didn’t know how to respond and were used to conversations which lacked depth and substance. This realization inspired him to create ways for men to connect with one another and their partners, in meaningful ways that don’t compromise their strength. Connor helps men open up to one another, and their partners, without feeling emasculated. Instead, they flourish from doing so. Also in this episode: How a man can find a mentor Struggles with addiction, porn, lying and cheating “When the student is ready, the master will appear” How a good man finds his voice in marriage Men are more isolated than ever and that’s why it’s important for them to be around other men The importance of doing shadow work About Connor Beaton Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on men’s wellness, success, and fulfillment. He is a coach, facilitator, teacher, podcast host and speaker helping men from all over the world find purpose, healthy love, a joy-filled life, and fulfilling sexual connection. His teachings draw from an in depth apprenticeship in Jungian psychology, Gestalt, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, and both Buddhist and Taoist traditions. Connor has a no-BS approach coupled with compassionate understanding of our own human limitations. He has coached thousands of men through private coaching, group work, workshops, retreats and masterminds, and has shared the stage with world class speakers like Gary Vaynerchuk, Lewis Howes, Danielle LaPorte, and many more. Connect With Connor Beaton mantalks.com/book Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrasto
Wed, April 19, 2023
122. Licensed Therapists Become Clients: Exploring Physical Intimacy And Feeling Vulnerable Amidst Parenthood And Life’s Many Stressors | w/ EJ & Tarah Kerwin
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by EJ & Tarah Kerwin, licensed therapists wanting to expand their sensual intimacy and explore feeling vulnerable within their loving marriage. As professionals, EJ and Tarah often use the power of sharing vulnerably to help guide other couples in their relationships and this episode is no exception. They show up for me to coach them on this tender topic in a way that others can learn from. As you listen, you will hear EJ and Tarah participate as clients and also as the highly qualified professionals they are - EJ is a licensed professional counselor and Tarah is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. They both specialize in couples therapy. They fell in love while working at a counseling facility and are now raising a blended family, navigating their own challenges, and helping others with skillful devotion. Also in this episode: How EJ and Tarah got into the field of therapy Their love story Why they sometimes intimidate each other without meaning to Tarah’s discovery of sexual abuse and its impact on the intimacy in their marriage Dealing with loneliness and rejection within a loving marriage Asking for intimacy and what that entails for all couples Taking pleasure from touching your spouse Becoming more intentional with non-sexual and sexual touch Stay Connected With EJ & Tarah Kerwin Website: https://relationshiprenovation.com Social Channels: https://linktr.ee/relationshiprenovation Podcast: https://relationshiprenovation.com/category/podcast-only/ About EJ & Tarah Kerwin EJ is a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Tarah is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist; both specialize in couples’ therapy. They met while working at another counseling facility, fell in love, got married, and are currently raising a blended family together. They now own and operate the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center and host a podcast that explores various topics concerning all they have learned in the process. They discuss both the joys and the challenges of navigating intimate relationships. Their goal is to help couples better understand themselves and each other in a more fulfilling manner. They are passionate about their work and strive to help couples feel secure and happy in their relationship. They know that when relationships are connected and secure, the everyday stresses of life become much more manageable. They also know cultivating a healthy, loving relationship takes insight, intentionality, and work. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/chann
Wed, April 12, 2023
121. Redefining Love: Overcoming Blended Family Issues And Letting Go of Expectations For A Truly Successful Marriage | w/ Vince and Krystina Shirey
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Vince and Krystina Shirey to discuss the many blended family issues they faced when they got married and combined their families. They also talk about how they learned to let go of expectations in order to have a happier marriage. A pervasive challenge faced by couples when blending a family concerns the delicate balance between prioritizing the children’s needs and wellbeing versus prioritizing one another in the marriage. Unfortunately, societal norms and unconscious biases are unhelpful when navigating all the important considerations. The truth is, in a successful marriage with children, it’s not either-or and it’s key to aim for a harmonious balance. It is crucial to prioritize the marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with the children, which is an inherently lifelong commitment. Whether you’re in a blended family or not, how do you and your partner prioritize your marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with your children? Also in this episode: The challenges of blended families and being a blended family The importance of non-negotiable dates Why you need to start letting go of expectations How to deal with the pressure of your marriage Why sexuality is incompatible with pressure from your spouse Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe <s
Wed, April 05, 2023
120. Embracing Vulnerability and Maintaining Your Relationship | w/ New York Times Bestselling Author Laura Doyle
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by New York Times best-selling author, Laura Doyle, to talk about vulnerability and intimacy in marriage. While discussing her latest book, "The Empowered Wife," Laura shares her experiences and perspectives, while focusing on the importance of vulnerability in relationships. She explains that opening up to one's partner leads to deeper intimacy and a stronger connection. Laura has an inspiring personal story as well as a lot of insight into the painful mistakes wives make when trying to get time, attention, and affection from their husbands. Also in this episode: Laura’s book “The Empowered Wife” Coping with rage and understanding where it stems from How to express your desires in a way that inspires Why marriage is the best self-improvement project The turning point in Laura’s marriage The professional woman’s dilemma The fear of vulnerability and learning to embrace vulnerability About Laura Doyle I wrote a book about what I learned and it went to #1 on Amazon, became a New York Times bestseller, and was translated into 19 languages in 30 countries. That’s how I accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The Six Intimacy Skills™ that make relationships playful and passionate, which started me on the mission to end world divorce. I wrote more books, including my latest, The Empowered Wife , started an international relationship coaching school, hosted The Empowered Wife Podcast and starred in the Empowered Wives series on Amazon Prime. But the thing I’m most proud of in the whole world? It’s my playful, passionate, 30-year marriage with my hilarious husband John, who has been dressing himself since before I was born. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your int
Wed, March 29, 2023
119. Celebrating 100K Downloads And Discussing The Importance Of Being Present In All Of Life’s Relationships | w/ Chris Stockwell
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, celebrates the milestone of 100K downloads on the podcast with her son Chris Stockwell! A few weeks back, I hit 100,000 downloads and that means people have been interested in, and listened to, what I have to say on The Intimate Marriage podcast 100,000 times! For me, it's such an incredible celebration. It's a celebration that belongs for me because I created this podcast and it's my vision. It's also a celebration that belongs to you, the listener, because you have created this with me. What’s most important in my view, is that it's a celebration that really belongs to the world, because the more individuals and couples that know how to create a truly wonderful, intimate marriage, the more likely the world becomes a better place. Today is also a celebration, because my incredible son, Christopher Stockwell, is joining me for the show! We have a wide ranging conversation about intimacy in film, building communities and being present in relationships. Also in this episode: An incredible review from a listener that really touched my heart The privilege for an adult parent to feel seen, not just as a mother or father, but to be seen more fully, in wholeness My mission to change the cultural narrative around long term relationships, so that people know long term relationships are not where passion just tapers off and fades away Intimacy in the movies, and the pace at which relationships evolve in films The best way to center yourself and find yourself present in the moment The importance of respect in relationships and reflections on the volcanic communication style Chris and I navigated when he was in high school Why Chris has accepted that he can have different energy around different people, and connect on different levels with everyone around him. Get My Course "The Surprising Secret To Having A Fantastic Relationship" For Free! Use this code at checkout: 100K Go here to claim your free course: https://alexandrastockwell.com/secret Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | <a href="https://www.linkedin
Wed, March 22, 2023
118. Intention And Love Language Keep Romance Alive | feat. Kaylee and Justin Poulet
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Kaylee and Justin Poulet about keeping the romance in your marriage alive through intention and using Love Languages. In addition to his knowledge and ambition, I recognized Justin's incredibly intentional support for his wife as a real asset to his marriage. For context, we met in Arizona at a conference, and there was a massive snow storm back in his hometown. This made the situation back home somewhat difficult on his wife, Kaylee, who was managing the kids and household on her own. After we got to talking about Justin’s intentional actions to support and connect with Kaylee from afar, I learned just how growth oriented and aware Justin is as a husband. I knew I had to have this couple on the show. I see Justin and Kaylee as true role models: role models for other couples, role models for their children to see what marriage can be like, and I hope, today, they are role models for you too. Also in this episode: What Justin does to make things easier on Kaylee before he travels out of town How Kaylee receives Justin’s intentional love and acts of kindness How Justin and Kaylee prioritize both their marriage and their family life What Justin views as the most pivotal moment in their life and marriage Connect With Justin Poulet on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/justin.poulet.3 Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q
Wed, March 15, 2023
117. How To Navigate The Devastating Loss Or Terminal Illness Of A Parent Or In-Law
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how you can navigate the incredibly difficult landscape when either you, or your partner, suffers through the loss, or terminal illness, of a parent. This is not a fun topic, but it is an extremely important one that eventually comes up, at some point, in most marriages. After all, real intimacy is not only about the sexy and fun moments–it is also about supporting a loved one through all aspects of life, and an unfortunate truth is that sickness and death find us at both expected and unexpected moments. Whether you or your spouse have lost one or both parents, or if one of you has a sick parent, or even if you currently have four healthy parents/in-laws, this episode will raise your awareness. It can help you navigate through some of the inevitably hard moments in life, in ways that are meaningful for your marriage. For those who haven’t encountered this type of hardship, I realize this is a tough subject and it may even seem morbid. But know that this is about setting yourself and your relationship up, so that you’re not blindsided by realities that will eventually happen. The orientation I provide today can also be successfully applied to other hardships you encounter as well. Also in this episode: The story of when and how I lost both my mother and my father Why the spouse going through the loss can feel lonely even within a strong, connected marriage The differing perspectives between the supportive spouse and the one going through the loss of their parent Guidelines to get through this heartbreaking experience without creating a barrier between you and your partner Specific recommendations for the supportive spouse to be able to love well during this time How To Stay Present During Sex Webinar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCCM_ixzcdE <h4 dir
Wed, March 08, 2023
116. This Couple Wins At Marriage While Creating Lifestyle Brand With Meaningful And Memorable Party Favors w/ Marx & Amber Succés
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with the co-founders of the Cotier Brand, Marx and Amber Succés, about the success in their marriage while building a thriving business together. Marx and Amber Succés have a very appropriate last name! This growth-oriented couple has seen success romantically in their marriage, as wonderful parents, and as Co-Founders of the Cotier Brand–a lifestyle brand in which the two create unique and modern party supplies and gift products. It takes a special team to bring creative and joyful products into the world the way these two do, especially when, as you’ll hear in this conversation today, they make it seem so easy. The fact that they work well together, with patience and honesty, says so much about them as a couple and as business owners. I absolutely love the fun products they are creating within the Cotier Brand, and I can’t wait for you to learn about their business and relationship. Listen as Amber and Marx share: How they compartmentalize to be able to communicate separately as business partners, as husband and wife, and as co-parents How their communication styles have evolved since they began their romantic relationship The inspiration behind the creative products in their business Amber and Marx’s biggest piece of advice for couples starting a business together Follow Marx and Amber Succés & The Cotier Brand Website: www.cotierbrand.com TikTok and Instagram: @cotierbrand Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Al
Wed, March 01, 2023
115. Reflecting On The Past Year Of Marriage With My Husband, Rodd Stockwell
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD chats with her husband, Rodd Stockwell, to reflect on their last year of marriage. This conversation has become a wonderful tradition as part of our anniversary celebration, and we share what we’ve loved about the past year, what’s challenged us, and what we’re looking forward to. We believe that sharing this provides an invitation for others to learn from our experiences. This year in particular has been an interesting one as we have re-discovered hobbies that light us up, that we each do on our own. You’ll hear how, even though we don’t directly share in these experiences together, we each bring home a newfound joy that enhances our connection with one another. No marriage is perfect. We all have our ups and downs. But my goal is for you to see how communication, passion and reflection can deepen your connection so that it continues to improve with each passing year. Together we discuss: My initial feelings when we first got married and the surprising outlook I had on the future back then Our reflections on the past year of our lives How we’ve brought more fun into our lives by individually pursuing passions we each cared about long before we met What we’re looking forward to as we head into our 28th year together Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” HERE Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” <
Wed, February 22, 2023
114. Practicing Tantra And Tantric Exercises Can Expand The Intimacy In Your Life Quickly w/ Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver about expanding intimacy in your relationship[p through practicing tantra and tantric exercises. If you’re not familiar with tantra, this conversation will be a great introduction for you, as this isn’t about tantric sex but more so the mind-body connection and meditation practice within the realm of intimacy. It’s about both your sexual center and your love center. As Freddy says in this episode, “tantra is one of the most effective yogas in terms of shifting something in your life.” So if you have something you’d like to shift, whether it’s around your relationship or another aspect of your life, I hope you listen to this fascinating conversation. Also in this episode: How exactly they define the concept of “tantra” Details on the practice of sexual meditation How these sexual practices impact men and women differently The differences in Freddy and Elsbeth’s upbringings in terms of sexual openness and sexual oppression What it’s like for this couple working together day-to-day with completely different work styles and personality types Stay Connected with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver: Free online workshop: Ignite Your Relationship: https://tantranova.lpages.co/ignite-your-relationship-webinar/ TantraNova website: https://www.tantranova.com/ Sexual Enlightenment Book: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Enlightenment-Lasting-Fulfillment-Intimacy/dp/B09N5JTC2L/ TantraNova YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKincrF-VHfsabcIvsbQEhQ/videos About Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver are a beautiful couple who work together to bring more love and intimacy, pleasure and bliss into the world. They have built an approach through integrating sex and meditation. Within their practice, TantraNova, they work with couples and singles to discover the secrets to lasting intimacy through private programs and retreats centered around tantra yoga and meditation practices. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | <a href=
Wed, February 15, 2023
113. Simple Ways You Can Stay Connected With Your Partner When Frequent Business Trips Keep You Apart
In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses the ways you can connect with your partner if frequent business trips keep you apart. This can be difficult on both sides – for the person who’s at home (oftentimes managing the day-to-day household and kids on their own) and also for the person traveling–who’s focused on their work project and being present in their job. This episode will offer you useful advice that both you and your partner can use before the scheduled travel, during the trip, and once you or your partner returns home from a trip. Also in this episode: Why I’ve found it’s more challenging for the person at home than for the person traveling How you can support your partner at home while you’re traveling Tips on how to stay connected for both the one traveling and for the one at home Why existing relationship complications are exasperated by someone being away FREE 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Website | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed be
Wed, February 08, 2023
112. Can You Be Growth Oriented In Your Relationship While Also being Satisfied With Where You Are?
A recent coaching call with clients has inspired this episode. The woman in the couple is extremely committed to her personal growth through an extensive morning routine including meditation, journaling, and self-care every day. While not opposed digging into growth, her husband is a very ambitious entrepreneur who, after a hard day at work, desires to hang out with his wife in a lighter manner by focusing on the laughter, and fun moments the majority of the time. This creates an ongoing tension between the two of them because they believed having a growth-oriented relationship, and feeling satisfied and content, were mutually incompatible. In this episode, I discuss: How this couple can get into alignment with one another Is feeling content really the opposite of being deeply committed to personal growth? Why a desire does not imply dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs How to want more while being content with what you have As a relationship and intimacy coach, I always want you to be able to see how what you have is beautiful, while also believing it’s worthwhile to create even more goodness and connection in your relationship. Today you’ll learn that you don’t have to choose one or the other! FREE 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify <h4 class="has-text-align-cen
Wed, February 01, 2023
111. Prioritizing Your Marriage Within A Successful Career: Featuring Insights From A LinkedIn Post By Marc Randolph, Co-Founder of Netflix
In this episode, I discuss a LinkedIn post by Marc Randolph, Co-Founder of Netflix, concerning how he chooses to prioritizes his marriage even while maintaining a wildly successful career. This post recently came up in my feed and it thrilled me to read about such a successful man, founder of numerous extremely robust companies, because he feels most proud of achieving his success while staying married to the same woman and being present as a father. To him, this is THE DEFINITION OF SUCCESS. What struck me after reading the post were the comments, many of which were negative reactions to what he’d shared. For a relatively sophisticated platform like LinkedIn, I was surprised to say the least. You’ll learn today that spending time with your partner is not about the quantity, or even the frequency. It’s about the quality of the time spent together and the commitment to doing so. In this episode, I share: A full reading of Marc Randolph’s post from LinkedIn What these negative reactions indicate about our society How you can be an extremely ambitious person and prioritize your marriage How my husband and I prioritize time together amidst our busy lives CLICK HERE TO SEE Marc Randolph’s post on LinkedIn Free 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course : Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Apply for the Aligned and Hot Marriage program : https://alexandrastockwell.com/live Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop : <
Wed, January 25, 2023
110. The Date Night Planner: Simple Tips And Intentions To Make Date Nights Unforgettable Again
Don't you sometimes wish you had a Date Night Planner? It would definitely come in handy. There are particular occasions in life that require a lot of thought and planning. If prom night is coming up, you know you want to figure out ahead of time what you’ll be wearing. If it’s your wedding day, you’ve likely spent months setting your intentions for the day—what you’ll wear, where it will be, the flow of the day, the experience throughout the day, both for yourself and your guests. These are examples of occasions that you put a lot of thought and attention into in advance in order to set yourself up for success. But the truth is you don’t have to save that approach for the big milestones. You can put care into and set intentions for all experiences in your life, both big and small. In this episode, I discuss: Ways to approach a date night so that it doesn’t disappoint you or your partner How to set your intentions for just about anything in your life What won’t work if you want to set yourself up for success How these ideals apply not only to your relationship but to all interactions in life …plus much more. My hope is that you will walk away from this episode with a new outlook on how to approach the experiences in your life. Since my ultimate goal is for you to create more connection in your relationship, I want you to see that each little encounter you have with your partner constitutes an opportunity for connection. You can obviously take this further and apply it to any other aspect of your life as well! FREE 3-Day course Make Your Valentine’s Special : https://www.Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3Wbafv13jI
Wed, January 18, 2023
109. The Real Secret Behind Getting Your Partner To Change Without Compromising, Losing Who You Are, Or Being A Nag
If you were ever interested in getting your partner to change in some way, and wondered how to make that change happen, you are not the only one! In fact, “How do I get my partner to change?” is a question that I’m asked very frequently, with exasperation and concern. In this week’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast I’ll share my answer with you. Here’s a spoiler: the secret I’m about to share has nothing to do with actually making your partner change, although it will still get you what you want. And it doesn’t involve compromise or giving up on what you want either! In this episode, I share: What I told a couple I’m currently coaching who’s determined to improve their relationship (and each of them wants the other to change) The evolution of my desire for my husband to change, and how I shifted my thoughts over time How to get your partner to do exactly what you want them to do, without being a nag …plus much more. The secret I tell in this episode will open many doors for you, and for your relationship. I’m thrilled to share it with you. Join Uncompromising Intimacy 101 : https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Website | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “U
Wed, January 11, 2023
108. Sexy Marriage Radio w/ Dr. Corey & Pam Allan
Dr. Corey and Pam Allan co-host the wonderful, informative, fun podcast called Sexy Marriage Radio, which he started 11 years ago! Their marriage and partnership exemplify many of the concepts I teach. I especially enjoy that they’ve come to it through very different training and life experiences than I have had–which makes our conversation all the more dynamic. In this episode you’ll hear Dr. Corey and Pam discuss: Dr. Corey’s inspiration for starting a podcast 11 years ago (which was way ahead of its time) The question Pam asks herself regularly as part of addressing any issues that arise in their marriage (and how she also applies this to motherhood and other relationships) How Dr. Corey and Pam’s careers have evolved and led them to gradually begin working together as co-hosts How most people view the concept of what is “fair” …plus much more. You’ll hear that this couple makes a conscious decision every single day to be together, and the work, awareness, intention, and communication this requires. And how worth it it is! Connect with Dr. Corey and Pam Allan Sexy Marriage Radio: https://smrnation.com/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Website | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with th
Wed, January 04, 2023
107. Say What You Really Want: Create Connection & Real Intimacy With Your Spouse (And Become A Better Leader While Doing It)
Identifying and expressing your desires is one of the most important aspects of real intimacy. However, I frequently see couples struggle with this–both with knowing what they want and also being able to say it to one another. Some people have no idea where to begin in order to figure out what they desire. Others know exactly what they want but don’t know how to say it clearly, or they find it prohibitively uncomfortable to do so. And then some people don’t know what they want nor how to say it. It can be helpful when your spouse asks you, “what do you want?” But that question has at least two different meanings, with two very different contexts. It’s important to be able to distinguish between them. In one context the question is genuinely about you and your desires, and in the other it’s about the question asker’s needs in that moment. In this episode you’ll learn: Two different contexts and meanings that become relevant when you’re asked what you want and how to respond to each one Tactics to help you discover what you really want Why it’s important to give yourself time to identify what you want, and then share it …plus much more. Since it’s the beginning of a new year, I know you may be setting goals and intentions–doing so requires you to tap into your desires and navigate any blocks you have. I hope this episode helps you in achieving that. January Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/workshop/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Website | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: <a href= "http://www.alexandra
Wed, December 28, 2022
106. Husband Aims to Provide Genuine Support for his Wife’s Empowerment w/ Michael & Maraya Brown
Maraya and Michael Brown met and he proposed on the first date! Now about a decade later, they talk about the amazing evolution of their relationship–it’s truly a beautiful love story with delicious twists and turns. Maraya is a women’s health and empowerment expert who midwife’s game changing women through the important moments of life. Her husband, Michael, used to work full time and now is at home, supporting her behind the scenes, believing in her, and gladly watching her soar. In this episode, you’ll hear Maraya and Michael share: The mantra Michael practices that allows him to support Maraya in the sincere way that serves them both A spicy personal story from Maraya on (re)connecting in the bedroom The story of their first date and what inspired Michael to propose after just meeting Maraya …plus much more. It takes a lot of trust, commitment and sincerity to practice the level of support that Michael offers Maraya–you’ll get a lot from listening to this loving and intimate couple! Connect With Maraya Free elixir recipes: https://www.marayabrown.com/recipes Next Vibrant Life Workshop: https://www.marayabrown.com/thevibrantlife The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast: https://www.marayabrown.com/podcast Follow Maraya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_marayabrown_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/energyhormoneslibido Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_NFfwXTz2
Wed, December 21, 2022
105. Live Coaching: Polyamorous Woman Confronted by Partner's Desire for Monogamy
In this episode you’ll hear me coach Jennifer Kaylo Ruscin, a polyamorous woman with a podcast focused on polyamory, swinging, and all things related. I was scheduled to be a guest on her show, The Jennifer Kaylo Ruscin Podcast, but instead of a typical interview I ended up giving her a coaching session instead! A week before we spoke, Jennifer faced a major challenge in her relationship. She told her partner that she was interested in dating a couple she knows. Her partner is typically ok with flirting and fun sexy socializing but he did not take well to this idea at all. He immediately rejected it and said he would move out rather than stand by her moving forward with this plan. Jennifer was faced with three choices: move forward without his permission, leave her partner, or dial down and disconnect from her desires. She chose the third option. That’s where our conversation begins. In this unique episode you’ll hear: How I coached Jennifer and reframed her views on compromise The ways Jennifer communicated her desire for polyamorous experiences to her partner My advice to Jennifer to communicate using curiosity and openness …plus much more. The way I coach Jennifer will show you how to feel more connection, more emotional intimacy, and more erotic gratification in your relationship, whether you are in a strictly monogamous relationship, or not. The Jennifer Kaylo Ruscin Podcast Link to full video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ogMBkjNJiTk Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/s
Wed, December 14, 2022
104. The Power Of Authentic Connection With Serdar Hararovich
Today’s podcast episode is different from every episode before because, for the first time ever, I’m interviewing someone about the power of authentic connection who is not currently in a committed relationship. But, I heard Serdar speak on a panel about masculine and feminine polarity teachings, and his views piqued my interest (plus I was captivated by his voice which you’ll soon understand). Then shortly after that, I saw a post he did on how to have meaningful connected sex, and I knew we were aligned in our ways of thinking and that he would have a lot to offer that will enhance the intimacy in your life. Serdar is the epitome of self-reflection, living authentically, and constantly growing in connectedness and hearing his perspective as a single male is sure to inspire and nourish you. You’ll hear us discuss: How the challenges in Serdar’s upbringing left him with a strong yearning for connection How Serdar defines attachment trauma and how it relates to the way he coaches The ways in which Serdar’s concept of connection has evolved over time Serdar’s views on sex, intimacy, and connection and his guidance on how to have more fulfilling sex Serdar’s personal growth journey is truly beautiful and I’m delighted for you to learn from such an enlightened man. To book a call with Serdar: https://calendly.com/emeraldheart To read Serdar’s articles: Facebook.com/SerdarHararovich Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show</stron
Wed, December 07, 2022
103. What You Need To Make The Holidays Wonderful
It’s that time of the year again; the holiday season is upon us. But do you actually find it to be the most wonderful time of the year??? The holidays should be a celebration, a day of recreation and togetherness. Yet so many people, especially exhausted mothers, need to recover once the holidays are over. Did you know that January is the month when the most people file for divorce, right after the holidays are over? Let me just say, it doesn’t need to be this way! If you want to create joy for your family, your marriage, and yourself this holiday season, you need the tools to do so. In this episode you’ll hear: How to create an enjoyable holiday season with your spouse, even if you desire different things The most effective way to tend to everyone’s needs during the holidays Ways to identify what you desire and communicate it to those around you I hope the tools I share will help you and your family create a connected, loving holiday and that, come January, you’ll feel rested and rejuvenated! Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Website | Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedi
Wed, November 30, 2022
102. When Your Partner Isn’t Into Personal Growth
In my intimacy coaching business, over the years many women have reached out and expressed interest in working with me, while also sharing a lot of frustration because their husband “wasn’t interested in doing the work.” However, anytime one of those husbands chose to have a short conversation with me, it turned out that he definitely was interested in exploring coaching with me. I found this to be true 100% of the time! It used to confuse me, until I came to understand that people tend to project their own personal growth style onto their partner, and then find the partner lacking. These men, who were described by their wives as having no interest in personal growth and coaching, turned out to be quite interested and motivated. However, they were not interested in contorting themselves to fit the definition of “personal growth” assigned to them by their wives. In other words, they were not interested in neglecting their own ways of growing and learning, in order to conform to what their wives wanted. Once they spoke with me and realized that I highly valued their perspective and preferences, everything would change. They would enthusiastically open up and tell me how much they wanted to put attention on their marriage. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why personal growth doesn’t look the same from person to person A story about a woman I coached who traveled for work and struggled with long-distance communication with her husband A man I coached on his own because his wife wasn’t interested (and doesn’t speak English) and the amazing results he created in his marriage. If you have a partner who isn’t interested in personal growth, your instinct may be to try to change them, or give up on them...I hope this episode makes you question those options and inspires you to adopt a different strategy instead. Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: <a href= "http://www.alexandrastockwell.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noop
Wed, November 23, 2022
101. Using Travel to Enhance Intimacy, with Marilee & Paul Kostadimas
There are many different ways for a couple to connect. For Marilee and Paul Kostadimas, it has always been using travel to enhance intimacy – from the day they met on an archeological dig far from where either one of them lived. Rugged travel, luxury travel, educational travel, service-based travel, leisure travel, historical travel, and many other kinds of travel form the defining backbone of this couple’s beautiful, intimate marriage. They live by the mantra, “meaningful travel is part of a meaningful life” and they see themselves as travel partners in life, through life, and for life. While this shared value has been there since they met, it has evolved over time and taken many different shapes over the course of their long, nourishing marriage. The Kostadimas’ share their love story and how travel became so important to them and has enhanced their marriage–so much so, that they started a company, Spotlight Sojourns, to inspire and connect others wanting to enjoy more meaningful and varied travel together. Also In this episode: How these two bring balance to their relationship through respecting one another’s gifts and creativity: Paul’s photography skills and Marilee’s way with words Marilee and Paul’s conviction that couples shouldn’t commit to marriage until they’ve traveled together How Marilee and Paul became passionate about travel and allowed that to color their lives The different types of travel styles and how Marilee and Paul choose their next adventures Marilee has such a beautiful way with words that invites you to feel the moments she shares from this couple’s incredible adventures. The Kostadimas’ website and blog: https://spotlightsojourns.com/ Get travel inspiration delivered to your inbox: https://spotlightsojourns.ck.page/ Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Website | Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: <a href=
Wed, November 16, 2022
100. Why Intimacy Matters–Celebrating 100 Episodes of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Anne Rose Hart
It’s the 100th episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and we discuss why intimacy matters! I am elated to be celebrating this beautiful milestone. In honor of the occasion I invited my own coach, Anne Rose Hart, to join me. We talk about intimacy, why it matters, my zone of genius in serving couples, and the need for this type of work in the world. This is a refreshingly unique episode, as I am the one who is interviewed, on my own podcast! It’s such a great way to mark 100 episodes of the show. Also in this episode: Exactly how I define intimacy Why intimacy is a learned skill (including a foray into my teachings!) The importance of growing within your marriage, not just for you as a couple, but for what it creates on a much larger scale in terms of influence and impact My vision and goals for the future of relationships This is a tender and intimate glimpse into what a private conversation looks like between me and my amazing coach and you’ll get to hear the beauty of our mutual respect, and the foundation of love that informs our communication. Connect with Anne Rose Hart on her website: https://annerosehart.com/ Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Website | Facebook | Facebook Group | <a href= "https:/
Wed, November 09, 2022
99. Where Christians Get Their Sex Toys, With Teresa & Blair Bass
Although I don’t typically focus on religious considerations on The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I was thrilled to have a wonderful conversation with devoted, church-going Christians Teresa and Blair Bass. They set out to make a change in the way their fellow Christians view sex and intimacy by opening a Christian sex toy shop where you can purchase sex toys and other supplies, receive instruction and respectful encouragement. Now this is the place where Christians get their sex toys. The Basses share their story and the many challenges they faced in this unique, courageous, and remarkably honest conversation. You’ll hear about: How Blair and Teresa define purity culture and my take on it How purity culture can impact women’s relationship to sex How Teresa reacted when Blair presented the idea of opening a Christian sex toy shop How Blair’s expertise in supply chain management translates to sex toys How Teresa and Blair navigated the complicated responses of their pastor and other members of their church Get 10% Off From The Romantic Blessings Sex Toy Shop Use this code: IMP10 Stay Connected with Teresa and Blair: Website | Instagram | Blog Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re
Wed, November 02, 2022
98. How Masculine-Feminine Polarity Teachings Undermine Intimacy
Implementing masculine and feminine polarity teachings prohibits the cultivation of uncompromising intimacy, because they place you in a particular role that inhibits the expression who you really are. This is an outdated view on relationships and ultimately undermines the idea that the tension between “masculine” and “feminine” ways of being creates erotic chemistry in a relationship. This usually is understood to mean that having a man embody masculine energy and a woman embody feminine energy (in a heteronormative relationship) will result in a wonderful marriage. It’s far more important to focus on your own authenticity and self-expression, rather than taking on a particular gender role. In this episode, I discuss: How masculine and feminine roles have changed over the decades (including examples from my own relatives) Why I believe that masculine and feminine polarity teachings are extremely restrictive My client, Suzanne, who was hesitant to participate in coaching because she was so concerned about giving up who she is in order to fit into a “feminine” role (as she felt she would be losing herself in the process) When masculine and feminine polarity teachings ARE helpful in an intimate marriage Resources referenced in this episode: Uncompromising Intimacy podcast episode Going Beyond the 5 Love Languages podcast episode Download the first chapter of my book, Uncompromising Intimacy Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciou
Wed, October 26, 2022
97. Enhance Your Intimate Marriage Through Being Healthy And Losing Weight, With Jared & Joni McDonald
All aspects of our lives contribute to the health of our relationships, including physical health and well-being. The couple I’m speaking with today with Jared and Joni McDonald. Jared is a health coach I have worked with as a client and has made an enormous difference in my life. Jared and Joni are beautiful examples of a couple who focus on physical well-being in a way that enhances their connection and brings them closer together. In this episode, you’ll hear: The significant event in my life that triggered me to gain weight The happenstance story of how Jared and Joni met All about Jared and Joni’s health journeys and how a mold problem in their home triggered their lifestyle change How focusing on health and wellness enhances Jared and Joni’s marriage today How Jared and Joni balance the lack of time of being parents with their physical health routine Learn more at: The Metabolism Reboot Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-
Wed, October 19, 2022
96. When Your Complaints Become Desires
Your complaints can become desires. Oftentimes, however, when I talk to couples about challenges in their relationship, no matter the issue, there is one common theme: one of them wants the other to make a change. When the partner stays the same, they inevitably respond with resentment. This is the cycle that happens no matter what the issue is. Whether it’s about sex, parenting, work, or anything else, this is the pattern that plays out. In this episode, you’ll hear detailed examples of 3 real-life couples I’ve worked with: A couple who was fighting constantly A couple who had a non-existent sex life A couple where he was working too much and she felt he needed to be more present in their marriage If you’ve been looking for an accessible way to work on your marriage and see real results, my brand new Aligned & Hot Marriage LIVE program is for you! Click here for details: www.alexandrastockwell.com/LIVE Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a
Wed, October 12, 2022
95. A Surprising Way to Achieve Growth In your Marriage
More often than not, couples shy away from the idea of group coaching, they think it will mean sharing intimate details in your marriage with strangers. If you’re feeling this way, you could be missing out on one of the most powerful ways to grow your relationship while thriving in an inspiring community and having a genuinely fun and productive time: compounded growth in your marriage In this episode, you’ll hear: The two most common times when we tend to share intimate details of our relationship with others Why it’s beneficial to have other couples present while you coach on your relationship (and oftentimes people’s favorite part of group coaching!) How group coaching can improve your marriage Details about my brand new Aligned & Hot Marriage LIVE program If you’ve been looking for an accessible way to work on your marriage and see real results, my brand new Aligned & Hot Marriage LIVE program is for you! Click here for details: www.alexandrastockwell.com/LIVE Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/a
Wed, October 05, 2022
94. Libido Mismatch Is A Myth
Libido mismatch is a myth. That’s right. In my experience working with hundreds of people on relationships and intimacy, drawing the conclusion that one person has a low libido and the other person has a high libido is an oversimplification of a much larger (and much more solvable) issue. Libido mismatch is an easy assumption to make because it is an accurate description of what seems to be happening at the moment. But, it is not an explanation and it is not the root cause of the issue at hand. In this episode, you’ll learn: The actual most common reasons why one person wants to have sex less often than the other Lifestyle changes you can make to start to boost your libido Ways in which you can transform the environment around you to increase your or your partner’s desire for sex Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you'
Wed, September 28, 2022
93. Communication To Turn Up The Heat
Communicating about sex with your partner is essential to turn up the heat in your relationship. If you are you are newly dating or they have been married for forty years communication is key. Talking about sex will also create and maintain a long-lasting, happy marriage–one that includes nourishing, erotic, intimate sensuality. In this episode, you’ll hear: My own early sexual experience with an older man exemplified how I couldn’t communicate and didn’t know what I wanted in the bedroom Why talking about sex is so important to the quality of sex you have Clear tips on exactly how to get the conversation about sex going with your partner When to avoid talking about sex Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: <a href= "http://www.alexandr
Wed, September 21, 2022
92. Live Coaching: Married Man Wants To Flirt With His Wife
When thinking about flirting, it’s common to think of initial meetings, picking someone up in a public place, dating, or when getting to know a partner. But flirting is not something that should be restricted to the early stage of a relationship; it should be present through the decades of a long-lasting, intimate marriage! Logan reached out to me on Facebook seeking advice on how to flirt with his wife. He wanted to cultivate genuine connection, playfulness, and spontaneity in his marriage and didn’t know where to begin. This episode was recorded live and is a unique episode and a rare opportunity to hear Alexandra coach. In this live coaching call, you’ll discover: Logan’s initial thoughts on what flirting means to him My specific, step-by-step advice for Logan to bring flirtation into his marriage Logan’s own recap of what he learns from our impactful coaching session Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : Facebook | Facebook Group | L
Wed, September 14, 2022
91. Maintaining Individual Identity Within A Long-Term Relationship With Lee Cordell, DNP And Timothy “Lee” Cordell
One of the biggest struggles individuals face within a relationship is the experience of losing one’s own identity. When a couple goes into business together it can become even more prominent, exacerbated by having very little separation from one another throughout the day. Enter Lee and Lee Cordell. This is a couple who have been together for 17 years, and not only do they share a life and career, they also share the same name. But that hasn’t stopped them one bit from maintaining their individual identities while keeping their relationship hot, deeply intimate and juicy. In this episode, you’ll hear: How Dr. Lee’s own trauma and anxiety shaped her career path What caused the shift in Lee’s career that made him be take on a roll in his wife’s company Specific ways Lee and Lee respect each other’s need for space without taking it personally The surprising story behind how Lee and Lee keep their sexual chemistry alive after so many years together You’re about to meet a beautiful couple with a beautiful story who have also managed to build an incredible business that helps other individuals and couples thrive. I loved talking with them so much so this definitely won’t be my only conversation with the Lees! Follow Lee and Lee: https://www.institutefortrauma.com/ https://www.instagram.com/becomingtraumainformed/ Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it look
Wed, September 07, 2022
90. The Antidote To Boredom In Long-Lasting Relationships
What’s the number one biggest concern that people have in the marriage? Boredom in long-lasting relationships. The fear of getting bored spending time with one another, feeling bored with the intimacy in the relationship, or just the overall fear that what was once juicy and dynamic will eventually become stale and flat. It can feel inevitable and unavoidable. Fortunately, that’s simply not true. I share the #1 way to avoid boredom in your relationship! In this episode, you’ll hear: The ultimate cause of boredom and lack of intimacy in a relationship Ways to prevent boredom in a relationship One of the most effective ways my husband and I keep our marriage feeling juicy and alive Specific tips for how to intentionally prioritize growth in your relationship I know first-hand that boredom in a relationship is definitely avoidable. I know this from my own 26 year marriage, as well as from my many clients who have been married for decades who have learned how to maintain a delicious, juicy connection. Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show : <
Wed, August 31, 2022
89. From Patient Care to Stress-Free Coaching | with Dr. Robyn Tiger and Dr. Eric Tiger
All relationships undergo ups and downs and major changes, especially once you’ve been together for decades. Doctors Robyn Tiger and Eric Tiger are no strangers to that, having met early in their radiology careers when they quickly noticed how many parallels their lives had. But when the stress of practicing medicine began impacting her emotional and physical well-being, Robyn’s career took a turn… In this episode, you’ll hear: How Robyn transitioned from her medicine into stress-management coaching for physicians Shifts that Robyn has seen in herself and in her marriage since focusing on stress reduction and becoming a coach Shifts that Robyn sees in her husband, Eric, since he’s retired What Robyn and Eric have each learned about themselves as a result of being married to one another Robyn’s advice for anyone that is currently trapped by stress Yesterday was Robyn and Eric’s 30 year wedding anniversary! It’s such an exciting milestone for this beautiful couple so please join me in wishing them a happy anniversary. Follow Robyn and Eric: https://www.stressfreemd.net/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/robyntigermd/ https://www.instagram.com/stressfreemd/ https://www.facebook.com/robyntigermd Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy <a href= "https://www.a
Wed, August 24, 2022
88. One Way Your Intimate Marriage Of Today Is Impacted By Your Relationships Of The Past
My husband and I had a solid, collaborative, and intimate marriage. Our foundation was strong and we could envision what it would be like to go from good to great, and were on our way there… However, suddenly, things started to feel strange to me. I experienced a disconnect in our marriage but couldn’t see a single reason why this was happening. The cause, however, had nothing to do with a present-day occurrence; it was something from my husband’s past that was creating the disconnect in our marriage. He didn’t want it to. He didn’t even know it was. Nevertheless, it was definitely happening. In this episode, you’ll hear: How I realized what was causing us to become disconnected What happened when I shared the theory with my husband Why challenging times with your spouse may have nothing to do with you A real client example of how past experiences can come up in your present … and much more! I’m hoping today’s episode opens your eyes to seeing challenging times with your spouse in a whole new light, and also poses the question to you: do you have feelings coming up that might belong to another time in your life ? Subscribe To The Podcast : Apple Podcast | YouTube | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3Wbafv13jIABe
Wed, August 17, 2022
87. Navigating Difference: Age, Race & Money with Marie-Elizabeth Mali and Patrick Price
In intimate relationships, we must navigate our differences and often that happens through conflict. But imagine if we allowed these areas of tension to be a source of nourishment and expansion instead? What would become possible for both of you? In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I invite Marie-Elizabeth Mali and Patrick Price (former clients of mine and relationship experts themselves) for a discussion on how they have navigated their differences with elegance and intention, in the areas of race, age & money. Join us as they share their profound insights on focusing on “connection over content” to build their rich, intentional, and growth-based relationship. We discuss: Navigating the 3 major areas of difference in their relationship: age, money & race How dating outside their own race has impacted their partnership Code-switching - professionally v. in the relationship A mini-lesson from Patrick on attention in a relationship Transcending their age difference (and which one of them finds this more challenging) Marie-Elizabeth as the financial provider, upper limits & a pivotal moment for Patrick And a lot more… Connect with Marie-Elizabeth, Relationship Alchemist, here: Website: https://relationshipalchemy.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/relationshipalchemymem Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipalchemyfree Instagram: https://instagram.com/relationshipalchemymem LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/relationshipalchemymem YouTube: https:
Wed, August 10, 2022
86. Medicine & Marriage with Dr. Pranay Parikh
When I became an entrepreneur, integrating my entrepreneur self and my physician self was complicated. I knew how to be either one, but being both didn’t come naturally—I felt pulled in opposite directions. But I knew I had to figure out how to be both a physician and a coach. And how to be a wife and an entrepreneur. Bringing our whole multi-passionate selves to something is part of creating successful careers and satisfying relationships! In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I have a wonderful conversation with Dr. Pranay Parikh about bringing all parts of ourselves to a marriage (especially as multi-passionate people). We discuss the way his marriage developed alongside his career as a medical doctor and now, a real estate investor and entrepreneur. Multi-passionate and looking for ways to improve your relationship? This one’s for you! We discuss: Dr. Parikh’s unconventional journey to medicine Learning how to bring your whole self to your relationship Why Dr. Parikh is actually grateful for a rejection in his career How medicine has played a role in his marriage The dichotomy between safety & security, and freedom & autonomy (and how it could be affecting your relationship) And a lot more… Connect with Dr. Pranay Parikh: www.frommd.com www.ascentequitygroup.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” <spa
Wed, August 03, 2022
85. Uncompromising Intimacy
In this episode, Alexandra goes deep into the details of what is meant by “uncompromising intimacy”. She defines compromise and describes the kind of relationship it creates: bland, neutral, comfortable companionship. In contrast, uncompromising intimacy leads to deep emotional connection, dynamic expansion, self-expression, and passion! Listen in for more details and what this actually looks like in practice. For more on the topic be sure to read Alexandra’s bestselling book called “Uncompromising Intimacy.” Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Wed, August 03, 2022
Uncompromising Intimacy
In this episode, Alexandra goes deep into the details of what is meant by “uncompromising intimacy”. She defines compromise and describes the kind of relationship it creates: bland, neutral, comfortable companionship. In contrast, uncompromising intimacy leads to deep emotional connection, dynamic expansion, self-expression, and passion! Listen in for more details and what this actually looks like in practice. For more on the topic be sure to read Alexandra’s bestselling book called “Uncompromising Intimacy.” Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Wed, July 27, 2022
84. Intentionally Selfish with Naketa R. Thigpen
What if being selfish is one of the best ways to improve your relationship? In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I invite Balance & Relationship Advisor, Naketa Ren Thigpen, for a conversation about the best practices to build your relationship which are almost never discussed. Anywhere! Because we dive into what intentional selfishness (yes, it’s a thing!) is all about, why achieving balance in your marriage is essential, and the whys and wherefores of sexological bodywork. You don’t want to miss this one! We discuss: The concept of selfishness - and how to look at it differently so you can amplify the intimacy in your relationship! Why balance matters so much in your marriage Naketa’s work as a Balance & Relationship Advisor helping successful women build stronger families Naketa’s advice for high-achieving women who are feeling stuck or not fulfilled in their marriages An introduction to sexological bodywork - how it works & some real-life stories of working with clients And a lot more… Connect with Naketa here: Website: www.thigpro.com Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/asknaketa LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/naketathigpen Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/asknaketa Email: asknaketa@thigpro.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexa
Wed, July 20, 2022
83. The Relationship Phenomenon No One Talks About
After some years of bliss, your relationship is likely to encounter some tough times. Could be due to infertility, financial stress, infidelity, illness, or something else. Regardless of what caused the intense season with your partner, now that it’s over you expect everything to be back to a happy normal. But they aren’t - things just aren’t the same as they were. And you’re left wondering why. If your relationship is still suffering from events that are no longer happening - this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast is for you! I’m diving into this relationship phenomenon and giving you the practical steps to get out of this trap - and heal your relationship. In this episode I share: The relationship phenomenon that could be keeping you stuck in disconnection and unhappiness A deep dive into why relationships don’t always “bounce back” after a tough time The THREE steps you need so you can heal and evolve this relationship dynamic A special gift for my podcast listeners if you are looking to heal or improve your marriage! And a lot more… The Aligned and Hot Marriage program (use code OURTIME for a special podcast listener price!): https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Wed, July 13, 2022
82. Surrender, Collaboration, & Play with Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker
Do you desire the next level of deep connection and growth with your partner? I have 3 words for you: surrender, collaboration & play. In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker aka “The Intimacy Experts”, join me to share some beautiful advice & wisdom about these three intimate relationship essentials, and so much more! These love, life & business partners share vulnerably about their beautiful union and what it has taken for them to build a business together, grow their intimacy, and express their playfulness in their relationship. We discuss: Their definition of intimacy (and what it takes to achieve it) How Marla made the transition from “mine” to “ours” in her business Julian’s journey with anger and his profound transformation How to explore more play in your relationship - and why you would want to! A look at “The Lover’s Play Course”, their DIY course to start having more fun in your relationship And a lot more… Connect with Marla and Julian here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/ Facebook: facebook.com/theintimacyexperts The Lovers Play Course: https://theintimacyexperts.org/play-with-intimacy/ The Intimacy Experts Home Site: https://theintimacyexperts.org If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Wed, July 06, 2022
81. What is Intimacy?
Intimacy is a familiar concept, but the word is actually not that well understood. Even though we’re not always clear on what intimacy means in our relationships, we can definitely sense when it’s present - and when it’s not, right? In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m diving into the 3 types of intimacy, so you can identify where to put your attention in order to cultivate deeper intimacy in your marriage and in your life - starting now! Because there is a foundation that needs to be built before you enjoy more intimacy in your relationship, and it starts with how you relate to you. I discuss: What intimacy really is - and some practical ways to build and cultivate more of it in your relationship The 3 types of intimacy and why these distinctions are important INTIMACY, my audio course for couples- and how it can help you bust the blocks preventing you from accessing more intimacy Where intimacy really begins (hint: it’s not with your partner!) And more! If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com INTIMACY www.alexandrastockwell.com/intimacy Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Wed, June 29, 2022
80. How To Honor Yourself As You Care for Others
Are you making sure everyone else’s needs and wants are met, but forgetting your own? Feeling disconnected or even hollow inside? Maybe you’re struggling to just identify what exactly you want. If you feel a big yes or a small yes to these questions, I assure you that you are not alone. I also assure you that I can help you reconnect with yourself and your vibrancy. Join me today for a story about my client Michelle. I’ll take you back to when we first met, how she felt in her life and in her marriage, what she was struggling with and what she was striving for. I will also tell you how she changed all of that in the most delicious ways. Like many women, Michelle was great at taking care of her family, knowing the intimate details of what they liked and what made them happy, while not knowing what she herself wanted–until everything changed! (And it wasn’t that hard to shift.) Michelle’s story can inspire us all. Listen in for how it inspired me to create something for YOU. In this episode I share: My course DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN Within and the questions it will help you answer about yourself The simple, intentional practice that allowed Michelle to honor her own experience and begin her journey of accessing what she desires (this can help you too!) Where Michelle is now: how she’s experiencing MORE CONNECTION AND MORE PLEASURE now that she knows what she wants Plus a lot more… Ready to explore your own desires? Enroll in Desires: Awaken the WOMAN Within at www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Wed, June 22, 2022
79. A Truly Collaborative Marriage with Derick and Dr. Liz Aguirre
If you’ve been around here for any length of time, you’ve probably heard this from me before - Relationships are the ultimate vehicle for personal growth (it’s so true)! In today’s episode, I invite a couple on the show who exemplifies this concept in a big way. Derick and Dr. Liz Aquirre have been married for 12 years and have built an intentional, pleasure-filled & collaborative marriage that has transformed each of their lives immensely. Join us as we discuss how they have both grown inside of their relationship, as a result of the other’s influence, their passion for growing together as a couple, and the ultimate gift of participating in a truly collaborative marriage. We discuss: Liz and Derick’s collaborative marriage & the impact they’ve had on each other’s transformational journey during their 12 years of marriage Motivation by inspiration v. motivation by desperation Some powerful insights on communicating through frustration (we talk about what to focus on instead!) Derick’s advice to help men really embrace the role of father and husband The BIGGEST lessons they’ve learned about themselves as a result of their marriage And a lot more… Connect with Dr. Liz here: www.LizAguirreMD.com https://www.facebook.com/LizAguirreMD/ https://www.instagram.com/lizaguirremd/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Thu, June 16, 2022
78. THE SHIFT That Will Massively Up-Level Your Relationship
If you want to experience more connection and intimacy in your marriage, you have to know what you want. But, in a society that is so focused on doing, productivity, and achieving goals - it can be hard to connect to your deeper desires, or even find the time to start discovering & exploring your needs. So what can you do to make more room to connect with yourself, know your desires & feel more closeness with your partner? You can shift your focus from “doing” and prioritize an experience of “being.” In today’s episode, I’m diving into the concept of doing v. being - and why making the shift from doing to being will help you get in touch with your truest desires. As a result, you’ll experience more pleasure, joy & gratifying intimacy in your life, and in your relationship. I discuss: Doing v. being - and how understanding this concept will change the game for your relationship! One of the BIGGEST things that gets in the way of having a passionate & intimate marriage A 10-minute practice that has drastically improved my relationship and business (and can do the same for yours!) The KEY to experiencing true intimacy in your marriage And a lot more… Ready to feel more alive, dynamic, and lit up? Check out my course, “DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN Within” https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, June 08, 2022
77. The Biggest Reason Marriages Fail
Why do so many marriages fail? I know it can seem like a super complicated question. But whether it’s poor communication, a dissatisfying sex life, not enough money, or a struggle to work together in parenting - marriages fail because of one BIGGER reason. In today’s episode, I’m digging into that reason, the magic formula for building a lasting and intimate marriage, and how you can use it to strengthen your relationship and recommit to more aliveness, vitality & passion with your spouse (and yourself)! I discuss: The BIGGEST reason marriages fail - and how to avoid it! How being disconnected from your desires could be affecting your relationship A very confronting experience I had with naming my own desires The important shift you can make to live a more fulfilled (and orgasmic!) life Some powerful examples of clients of mine who communicated their desires - and were surprised by how well they were received And a lot more… Ready to feel more alive, dynamic, and lit up? Check out my course, “DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN Within” https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, June 01, 2022
76. 50+ Years, and More Connected Than Ever, with Jim and Ruth Sharon
Marriage can be rich and juicy after the first decade. And after the second, the third, the fourth…And the FIFTH! Don’t believe me? Get ready to meet Jim & Ruth Sharon, co-creators of a connected & delicious 50+ year marriage. They generously share the beginnings of their love story (which was prompted by an out-of-character moment from Jim!) and the tools and practices they use to sustain their openness to one another to keep the spark of intimacy and eroticism alive in their marriage. Want to have amazing sex & orgasms - into your 70’s? Tune in for this juicy relationship wisdom: How it’s possible that Ruth is having more rich & pleasurable orgasms at 73! Their view on intimacy inside of their relationship (hint: it’s not just sexual) How Jim has seen their relationship as a vehicle for his personal growth Vulnerable shares about the things they’ve shifted in their marriage to allow for more openness and connection What they consider to be an important secret to their lasting & fulfilling relationship And a lot more Dr. Jim Sharon is a licensed psychologist and a certified life coach; Ruth Sharon, MS is a licensed professional counselor and a certified wellness coach. The Sharons have published six professional books and written chapters in other books, with themes including relationship enhancement, men's and women's development, wellness, yoga, and constructive conflict resolution. Jim and Ruth Sharon have been married for over five decades and have worked together for most of those years! They have raised three children and enjoy being with them and their grandchildren. Please visit www.heartwise.us to learn more and get email updates. If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com The Aligned & Hot Marriage program www.alignedhotmarriage.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage" target="_blank" re
Wed, May 25, 2022
75. 4 Couples with Aligned & Hot Marriages
This season I’ve gone into depth about the 6 Keys To An Intimate Marriage that I use in my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. If you’re just joining us, I highly recommend you go back to Episode 5 and learn more about the keys. Today, I’m going to talk about 4 couples that have taken my course and used the skills they learned and as a result, their marriages are hotter than ever. They were facing problems like: Lack of sex and intimacy Disconnection from the relationship they used to have Feeling unheard and taken for granted Stress from work causing unhealthy coping mechanisms I created this program to serve couples. If you’re ready to experience more closeness, more connection, more emotional intimacy, more sensual and erotic intimacy, then this program is for you. Program mentioned: ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Fri, May 20, 2022
74. My Husband’s Perspective on our Intimate Marriage
Today I have a special gift for you. My husband Rodd is here to talk about how we keep our relationship intimate and thriving. We’re very busy people and we don’t have a ton of extra time for date nights and romantic getaways, but we do know how to prioritize one another and feed our relationship. We know how to let the erotic energy flow and enjoy our emotional connection. We used to spend too much energy on mundane things, and end up compromising and holding back with each other when it mattered. This lead to a buildup of resentment and frustration that would inevitably explode and leave Rodd feeling he had to navigate emotional land mines. Using the 6 Keys to an Intimate Marriage has transformed our relationship to one of closeness and intimacy, mutual support, laughter and fun. The communication in our marriage, companionship, and passion are deeply satisfying and we credit our capacity to Cultivate Curiosity, Embrace Honesty, Be Kind, Choose Happiness, Take Responsibility, and Seek Growth. Program mentioned: ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, May 11, 2022
73. Seek Growth
When children are young, it’s fascinating to watch their growth and milestones. It’s easy to be excited about watching them learn how to roll over, crawl, talk, walk, and tie their shoes. As we all get older, there’s a sameness about us that isn’t so exciting. The sixth and final Key to an Intimate Marriage is to “Seek Growth”. In your marriage, that means: If you’re doing the same things over and over, it gets boring and unfulfilling no matter how wonderful it was the first time. You need to check in with yourself and your partner about what you each know about yourselves and each other that you didn’t know 10 years ago, 10 days ago, or even 10 minutes ago. What do you desire now? How has that changed? Be clear and intentional about how you prioritize growth. No matter what happens in your relationship, you can see it through the lens of growth. Ask yourself what you can focus on and what there is to learn, so that whatever you are experiencing will be inspiration for you to grow and evolve. Programs: ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, May 04, 2022
72. Take Responsibility
The fifth Key to an Intimate Marriage is “Take Responsibility”. That may be a loaded phrase for some, but hear me out. Very often among educated, successful couples, we have this idea that everything should be split 50/50, fair and equal. You may be familiar with the phrases, “it takes two to tango,” and “we are both in this together.” While those are true in their context, meeting each other halfway isn’t the way to a passionate marriage. The only way all aspects of the marriage will be addressed and taken care of is if you take 100% responsibility for the quality of your relationship. Ideally, your partner will take 100% as well, but when you take all the responsibility you won’t be waiting around for your partner to do their part and instead will go ahead and improve things. That does NOT mean that you’re 100% a caretaker or nurturer. That doesn’t mean you do all the work. It may mean taking the initiative to make some plans for yourself to go to the spa, asking your partner for help with household matters, stepping into the hard conversations, or just being responsible for making interactions feel good and respectful. Basically, it means you stop waiting for your spouse to change before bettering yourself and how you show up in your relationship. Programs: ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Facebook profile https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, April 27, 2022
71. Choose Happiness
During my studies in college, I took many philosophy courses and one constant all the way from Ancient Greece to the present was that all human beings seek happiness. Based on what I had seen in my life so far, I didn’t really believe that was true. Now, after my decades of work with clients and couples, I agree with the wisdom of that assertion. The problem is that most people don’t really know how to get the happiness they seek. In my 6 Keys of an Intimate Marriage, the key of “Choose Happiness” ties in with uncompromising intimacy in that you are honoring the truth that lives within you. Listen for a story about a couple I’ve worked with and how choosing happiness has improved communication in their marriage, reduced resentment, and made them both feel much better as they worked through the keys. I’d really love to hear what came up for you in this episode. Contact Alexandra and share your thoughts here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN within https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, April 20, 2022
70. Be Kind
The most common relationship advice all over the world is to compromise. If you want a bland, conflict-free companionship, then yes. If you want the spice and spark of an intimate marriage, you need to make your desires known. DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN within https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ As women, we are conditioned to disconnect from our desires. When I came to understand the importance of bringing my feelings into my marriage so all of me can be alive in the dynamic I share with my husband, it felt lonely. The problem wasn’t that my husband didn’t want me to have my desires; the problem was the way I was speaking to him about it. He wanted me to be kind. Learning how to be kind isn’t a very simple thing. I have a module in my Aligned & Hot Marriage program on exactly that. Many women have gotten used to speaking with a sting or acidity, and/or wait until the resentment builds up to the boiling point. I’d really love to hear what came up for you in this episode. Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Season 1, Episode 42 "Uncompromising Intimacy" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncompromising-intimacy/id1548060690?i=1000536253485 ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN within https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach
Wed, April 13, 2022
69. Embrace Honesty
The second key to an intimate marriage is Embrace Honesty. In this episode I won’t be addressing the major dishonesties such as infidelity, hidden bank accounts, et cetera. I’m talking about the small resentments that build up over time, knowing that your relationship is pretty good but things could be a lot better. Whenever you answer “how are you?” with “I’m fine,” and you’re not, it builds a wall between you. By dampening your responses you’re training your partner to be less responsive to your subtle signals and less sensitive to what is happening in your soul. In order to share this level of honesty, it takes a lot of bravery, self-awareness, and willingness to express what is happening. I got rid of my resentment “straight jacket” in 2 ways: I learned to clear my resentments, which we cover in my Aligned & Hot Marriage program I learned how to speak up so I wasn’t building resentment in the first place. First, you have to embrace honesty with yourself, then the smallest honest communications with your partner will transform so much more than you can imagine. ALIGNED & HOT MARRIAGE www.alignedhotmarriage.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com . Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, April 06, 2022
68. Cultivate Curiosity
The first key to an intimate marriage is: Cultivate Curiosity. Early in a relationship, it’s easy to be curious about everything from scars, favorite foods, wild stories, spirituality and beyond. Then, as a relationship matures, the curiosity fades and you become more comfortable. You already know how they’ll order their coffee or how they’ll answer a question before you even ask. It’s beautiful to be so familiar and to free your energy to focus on other things. The problem is that when we become so comfortable and secure in this way, we end up missing out on the growth that we’re each going through. The drop in curiosity leads to being disconnected from one another’s internal experiences. Curiosity also helps when you’re in the middle of a conflict. If it’s intense, the most helpful thing you can do is to stop, take a breath, and ask a curious, open-ended question. Then listen to the answer with an open mind and an open heart. If you’re focused on being right, and no longer open to your partner’s point of view, it creates disconnection. On the other hand, when you cultivate curiosity, it builds collaboration, creativity, and connection. If you are currently in a phase of disconnection and distance in your relationship and/or having conflict, cultivate curiosity! Ask open-ended questions and then listen generously to the responses. If you’re in a strong, solid, connected relationship, it’s still essential to cultivate curiosity in order to make your relationship even stronger, and more joyful. If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com . Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, March 30, 2022
67. My Prescription for an Intimate Marriage
If you’re just joining the podcast now, I recommend going back to the beginning of Season 2 to gain some context for what I’m about to cover in this episode. We have an epidemic of conflict-free, passion-free relationships going on right now. My prescription for an intimate marriage evolved out of my medical training, years of experience coaching other couples, my own anecdotal research, and what I have learned in my own marriage. I have codified it all in the 6 Keys to an Intimate Marriage. They are: Cultivate Curiosity. Embrace Honesty. Be Kind. Choose Happiness. Take Responsibility. Seek Growth. I have seen these 6 keys work in many different kinds of relationships and many different kinds of situations. The results are wonderful! We’ll go into more depth with each of the keys in upcoming episodes. If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, March 23, 2022
66. Stop Compromising!
Compromise is by far the most common relationship advice that’s given. In order to have a happy marriage you have to be good at compromising, right? Wrong! What really happens when you compromise is that you’re holding parts of yourself back from your relationship, and that doesn’t bode well. When you stop compromising and bring your entire self into your relationship, when you learn to accept all parts of one another, you will be able to create solutions that you couldn’t imagine on your own. Uncompromising intimacy is the opposite of compromise. It’s glorious, and it takes intentionality. The main reason to compromise is to avoid conflict, not rock the boat, and not mess with something that’s working well. There are many problems with this approach: Eventually, you get so skilled at compromise that you don’t even realize you’re doing it. You get so used to turning away from what you want, it becomes difficult to find your desires again. Unmet and uncommunicated desires often lead people to turn elsewhere. Uncompromising intimacy is the opposite of compromise. It’s glorious, connecting, and it takes intentionality. You’re not doing yourself any favors to compromise on your desires. The number 1 way to avoid divorce is to know what you want and know how to ask for it. Do you know what you want? Do you know what you desire within your relationship? Do you know how to bring it up in a way that’s respectful of the relationship? If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, March 16, 2022
65. New Lingerie Isn't Going To Help
Do you want to spend more time with your partner, believing it will contribute to you both feeling desire, and feeling desire for one another? Are you feeling numb, disconnected, and lacking the intimacy your marriage once had? Newsflash: going on a fancy vacation, getting new lingerie, getting your hair done, and/or losing a few pounds will NOT fix the problem. Those are short-term, external, temporary adjustments which won’t make a big difference. If you want to revive your connection, it’s necessary to make changes on the inside. Personal development, self-awareness, noticing when you’re being reactive, being more accepting of yourself and your partner–that’s what’ it takes to create the juicy connection and intimacy you’re looking for. What is it that creates happiness in relationships? What do you need to put your attention on in order to experience more happiness? Those are the questions I’m exploring in season 2 of The Intimate Marriage Podcast. Explore them with me by considering for yourself: What are your own thoughts about being happy in your relationship? What are your assumptions about how it works? What have you been telling yourself you need, in order to be happy? Once you identify the stories you’ve been telling yourself, it’s much easier to dismantle them and step into what you really need in order to enjoy your life. If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. “Uncompromising Intimacy” the book: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business page: https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, March 09, 2022
64. Stop Believing the Lies
If you’re having trouble in your relationship, it’s probably because you believe one of the prominent lies that are commonly accepted as de facto truth. If you’re not feeling the sexual chemistry you used to feel, very often people will believe they married the wrong person. More likely, you both just haven’t learned how to be with each other through each phase of your relationship. This is a learnable skill! If you’re treating your relationship as something transactional, doing something for your partner in the hopes that they’ll do something for you, it may work a little in the short term but that is not a long term solution. Are you doing things because you enjoy making your partner happy? Or are you doing things to get your partner to notice you and give you what you want? Stop compromising! If you want a passionate marriage, compromise is not the way to get there. Instead, bring all of who you are (your desires, emotions, thoughts, and feelings) to the relationship and stop diminishing yourself. If things are challenging in your relationship, that doesn’t mean you’re with the wrong person. It just means it’s time to grow, and learn how to be a better spouse to one another. If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business page: https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, March 02, 2022
63. What Is An Intimate Marriage?
It’s fitting that I’m launching Season 2 on the day of my 26th wedding anniversary. Part of my celebration is to share with you what an intimate marriage really is. My mission is to change the cultural narrative that long-term relationships are where passions go to dwindle off and die. On the contrary, I want the collective world at large to see that in a long lasting relationship, there is the most tender, gratifying, expansive, vulnerable, delicious intimacy available. When I first got married, I was deeply in love and very happy but on the other hand, I was also convinced we would end up divorced and I mentally prepared myself for that inevitability. I didn’t believe that it could be fantastic for the long haul. Now, I absolutely believe that a fantastic relationship is possible, you just need to make a point of creating it. What happens when you create an intimate marriage? You’ll be happier You’ll have more professional success You’ll have the pleasure of being in a partnership where you’re both thriving Your children will learn how to create it for themselves We don’t know what the future holds, but we’re willing to lean in and discover it together. Email me at info@alexandrastockwell.com and let me know if this resonates for you! If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Connect with Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business page: https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach
Wed, February 16, 2022
62. Valentine Bonus: Navigating Post-Valentine’s Fallout
I hope you had a really wonderful Valentine’s Day that was special, delicious, and sensual. I hope you were able to use what you learned in Episode 61 to connect with your partner. If it did not go as planned, this episode is for you! A client of mine has a wonderful relationship most of the time, but in February they fight and get on each other’s nerves a lot. They’ve come to dread February because of the pressure to have a “perfect” Valentine’s Day to match their wonderful marriage. If you’re feeling resentment or disappointment towards your partner, there are a few steps you can take in order to reconnect. Journal, exercise, meditate, find a way to clear the resentment so you can show up neutral and present Focus on what did go well Have a calm, respectful conversation with your partner about what happened Ask what your partner needs for this to be enjoyable, then share yours If you’d like, schedule a Valentine’s Day redo using what you’ve learned Email me at alexandra@alexandrastockwell.com and let me know if this resonates for you! If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Connect with Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business page: https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach A Podcast Launch Bestie production
Mon, February 14, 2022
61. Valentine Bonus: A Valentine’s To Remember
Welcome to Part 2 of our Valentine Bonus Series! In the last episode we talked about setting yourself up for a great day. Now Valentine’s Day is here, and I want to talk about how to really enjoy the day, no matter what happens. Plan time to prep yourself. Not just getting dressed, but really relaxing with a hot bath, some meditation or yoga, or even a strip tease for yourself before the date. Look for opportunities to share with more depth, not just focusing on logistics and kids. The best conversations lead to the best sex! Share favorite “frames,” snapshots of meaningful moments, even as they’re happening. I hope you have a magnificent celebration and get to know yourself and your partner in new ways. I want to hear all about your plan, and how it turns out. Email me at info@alexandrastockwell.com and let me know! If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Connect with Alexandra: IG: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business page: https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach A Podcast Launch Bestie production
Fri, February 11, 2022
60. Set Yourself Up Right for a Happy Valentine's Day
Valentine’s Day is often painted as a rosy, beautiful, romantic, fairytale time. Sometimes that’s true, but often it’s much more complicated. Today, I’ll share some ways to set yourself up for a Happy Valentine’s Day. This is not theoretical- it really will help! Spend some time thinking about what Valentine’s Day really means to you. Journal about it if you want. Notice if you are bracing yourself for a disappointing time? Are you fantasizing about a gorgeous romantic evening? Explore all of your dreams, disappointments, and other associations with the holiday. Envision what you want your Valentine’s Day to be like. How do you want to feel? What do you want to experience? Get together with your partner and reminisce with each other about Valentine’s Days in the past. Keep it light. Then talk together about how you both want to celebrate this year, and plan it together. Don’t expect your partner to read your mind! Take the time to create a win-win Valentine’s celebration for both of you. You’ll be glad you did. I want to hear all about your plan, and how it turns out. Email me at info@alexandrastockwell.com and let me know! If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit theintimatemarriagepodcast.com to get started. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Connect with Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business page: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, January 19, 2022
59. How to Have a Happy Relationship
Today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast marks the end of Season 1. As I look back at the richness of the season, it’s clear that there is no specific formula for a happy marriage. Each couple that I interviewed shared different things that contribute to their happiness. It’s a creative process unique to the individuals involved in terms of how they pursue and cultivate more joy, more pleasure, more connection, and more self-expression in their relationship. Listen as I highlight key moments from Season 1 and look ahead to Season 2! IN THIS EPISODE: [01:15] The rules, or lack thereof, for happy and unhappy families [04:06] Analogy: Teaching someone to fish and creating a fantastic marriage [06:58] Key takeaways from Season 1 couples [08:18] Taking risks in your relationship and tracking relationship goals [11:30] The connection between vulnerability and stress in marriage, and the importance of getting your children’s perspective about marriage and family [16:08] Prioritizing your partner’s experience and finding success in life and marriage despite the chaos around your [19:42] Reflection and looking forward to Season 2 KEY TAKEAWAYS: There is no specific formula for a happy and growing relationship. It's a creative process and unique to the individuals. It is intrinsically motivated and having a happy family is really a unique achievement. How we handle our money, especially in interacting with our spouse, is heavily influenced by emotional content that may not be completely clear to each other. It may feel obvious to us, but when you actually express it to your partner, it will ease miscommunication and frustration. You can totally love and support your spouse without being interested in the things that they are interested in. Links Mentioned: Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, January 12, 2022
58. Business Partners and 4 Kids Under 7, With Jonathan and Sascha Schlossberg
In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I am joined by Jonathan and Sascha Schlossberg who got married, started a business, and had their first child all at the same time. How do they do it? How do they cultivate a healthy balance between work and family? Is it possible for a relationship to be both disciplined and chaotic? Listen in as this dynamic duo shares insight into what it is like working with your spouse, how they handle disagreements, and what they have learned from their relationship over the years. IN THIS EPISODE: [01:53] Jonathan and Sascha share they have worked together since they met waiting tables, and have had lots of different roles and positions while always working together since. [06:50] How do Sascha and Jonathan balance competition and their relationship? 11:26] Here are a few examples of how Sascha and Jonathan work through disagreements to be on the same page. [17:48] What Sascha and Jonathan have learned about themselves as a result of being married to one another. [21:19] How did 2020 affect Jonathan’s way of thinking? How did that affect their relationship? [25:07] How do Sascha and Jonathan manage a business and their relationship while homeschooling four children under the age of seven? [30:18] How to connect with Jonathan and Sascha. KEY TAKEAWAYS: When it comes to growing in a relationship, self-work is just as important as working on your relationship. Who we were, who we are, and who we are becoming are constantly shifting. It is possible to become the greatest version of yourself by doing the work. Learning how you and your partner both communicate is crucial for communication to be healthy and effective. In a long-term relationship, everything that isn’t sex is foreplay. How you interact day to day determines the quality of the connection when an intimate moment arises. Links Mentioned: Join Jonathan and Sascha’s Facebook group www.group.unconventionallywealthy.co Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB busines
Wed, January 05, 2022
57. Mind Over Motherhood, With Dr. Carly and Ryan Crewe
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I speak with Ryan and Dr. Carly Crewe about raising twin girls, traveling the world, and managing their full-time family businesses. Carly is a family doctor & MD psychotherapist, author, podcast host and CEO of a virtual mental health clinic for women. Her husband, Ryan, is a stay at home dad and helps support their family businesses. They have been married for 10 years. We discuss how Ryan chose to be a stay at home parent and how Carly’s virtual clinic grew seemingly overnight. We discuss how they prioritize their marriage in the midst of busy and full lives, their unique view on education, and their future travel plans. Listen as we talk about marriage, family, and how to navigate conflict with healthy communication. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:50] Introduction of Ryan and Dr. Carly Crewe [04:07] Ryan’s decision to be a stay at home dad [06:39] Stay at home dad experience [08:03] Growing Carly’s virtual mental health clinic [10:30] Their dynamic with work and travel [12:50] How they prioritize their marriage [17:22] Where to next on their travels [19:07] Carly - What have you learned about yourself from being married? [21:32] Receiving criticism and navigating conflict [23:16] Ryan - What have you learned about yourself from being married? [25:33] Contacting Carly and Ryan KEY TAKEAWAYS: As a stay at home dad, Ryan has been surprised by the stereotypes of how other men view being a stay at home parent as not a full time job. A challenge to being a traveling family is not always having childcare readily available. Carly and Ryan have to rely on each other to watch the twins and alternate when they set aside designated work hours for their family business. Healthy conflict resolution and navigating arguments means staying focused on the issue rather than the person. A significant ritual that Carly and Ryan practice is their strategic life meetings on Sundays. They sit down to look at the upcoming week and prioritize their exercise, nutrition and children’s educational activities. Weekly “planning” meetings as partners helps to develop amazing communication skills because it creates a context where you learn to honor and speak up for your own needs, as well as honor the other person’s wants and needs. Links Mentioned: Carly’s Website - https://carlycrewe.com/ Podcast - https://carlycrewe.com/podcast/ Book - https://carlycrewe.com/yanya-1 Carly’s Instagram - <a href= "https://www.insta
Wed, December 29, 2021
56. A 50 Year Love Affair, With Gail Bruce
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I speak with Gail Bruce, a wise, spunky, honest, articulate, vivacious 80 year old woman. She speaks as a friend, a student of life, and a crone as Gail discusses her 50-year marriage to the love of her life and talks about the ways each new decade brought more growth and more depth to their relationship. After a surfing accident left her late husband in a neck brace, paralyzed from the waist down, many things changed and Gail describes in detail the impact it had on their physical connection. Gail is the founder of HipSilver, a curated resource company designed to connect the Silvers, those in her generation, with one another. Listen as we talk about life, love, and how she makes her life more rich and full with each passing year. IN THIS EPISODE: [03:21] Gail talks about how she met her late husband and about their beautiful 50 year marriage [07:47] What is it like being in love after 35 or 40 years of marriage, and how is it different from being in love early in a marriage? [13:00] After a surfing accident left her husband in a neck brace, Gail shares how their emotional and physical relationship changed during the almost 5 year recovery [23:36] The importance of finding all of the ways that there can be physical connection and pleasure within a life long relationship [32:39] Gail talks about founding HipSilver and her plans to grow the resource and show the world that the Silver Age is hip KEY TAKEAWAYS: There is a connection between having a fantastic relationship and our ability and willingness to be more self-expressed and receive more of our partners' full self-expression. Touch, non sexual and sexual alike, is a major part of everybody’s life and very crucial to our wellbeing. We suffer when there is a lack of physical touch, like during the pandemic. HipSilver is an online resource that focuses on Gail’s generation. It’s about new possibilities for a more rich and full life focused on community, information, and curated products. Links Mentioned: https://hipsilver.com/pages/about-hipsilver https://www.linkedin.com/in/gailhbruce/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ FB: <a href="https://www.
Wed, December 22, 2021
55. Reinvention in Relationship, With Travia Steward
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I speak with Travia Steward about the many steps she took on her quest to be ready for, and find, her partner. Travia and her wife have been together for 15 years, married for 7 years. We talk about Travia’s journey to accepting her sexuality and how she experiences reinvention through her marriage. Travia is a transformation and reinvention coach who helps inspire and empower people to live the highest vision of their lives. Listen to learn about love languages and the tools they use to keep their love alive and grow their relationship. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:50] Introduction of Travia [03:31] Travia shares her journey of finding her wife [07:35] What Travia learned from her marriage [10:53] What she wanted to feel in a relationship [14:00] The power of love languages [18:25] Personal reinvention [21:37] Tools for reinvention [20:20] Initiating check ins [30:47] How to keep feeling in love [35:35] How to connect with Travia KEY TAKEAWAYS: Travia uses her awareness of her partner’s love language to successfully express love for her wife, and her wife does the same knowing Travia’s love languages are touch and words of affirmation. Being aware of the intentions behind your actions and having a loving intent with your partner will go a long way in showing your partner love. Travia was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020 and had a double mastectomy. Following the surgery, she became more aligned with her body and was able to reinvent herself in a more authentic form, which made her a better partner because she was no longer hiding. Reinvention is finding a new gear for who you are today, so that you can become the person your goals require you to be. One reinvention tool Travia uses in her marriage is a regular check-in with her wife. They remove distractions and answer a series of vulnerable questions such as asking how well they are meeting each other’s needs. It requires honesty, vulnerability, and listening. Links Mentioned: Travia’s Podcast Episode with Alexandra: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-74-creating-more-intimacy-in-your-relationship-with/id1514964939?i=1000536608865 www.traviasteward.com/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www
Wed, December 15, 2021
54. ONE Extraordinary Marriage, With Alisa DiLorenzo
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m speaking with Alisa DiLorenzo about marriage, intimacy, and the effect of pornography on a marriage. Alisa and her husband, Tony, co-host the #1 rated ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast. They have been married for 25 years and have recently released their latest book, The Six Pillars of Intimacy. Today, we discuss the six forms of intimacy: emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational, and sexual, and how each one is vital to create a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship. Alisa also shares how she and her husband navigated a pornography addiction together and how they now help coach other couples through similar situations. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:50] Introduction to Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo [05:01] Pornography and marriage [11:35] How secrets affect marriage [16:08] The Six Pillars of Intimacy [19:00] Emotional intimacy [20:29] Physical intimacy [24:01] Recreational intimacy [29:03] What Alisa has learned through being married to Tony KEY TAKEAWAYS: Marriages need role models of other healthy and fulfilling marriages. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are role models for many couples as they encourage others, coaching them with wisdom gained from their mistakes, experiences, and depth of marital knowledge. When a married person is engaging in pornography, it impacts both people. If something is kept a secret within a marriage, it will still impact the entire dynamic in the marriage. The longer a secret is kept, the more damage that will be done. The six pillars of intimacy help create a strong and beautiful marriage that can carry the weight of challenges, because life does still happen to all of us. The pillars create an internal strength that fosters working together as a team. Links Mentioned: oneextraordinarymarriage.com The Six Pillars of Intimacy: https://www.amazon.com/Pillars-Intimacy-Secret-Extraordinary-Marriage/dp/0578991454 instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage https://www.facebook.com/groups/oneextraordinarymarriage Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - <a href= "htt
Wed, December 08, 2021
53. Talking With Your Spouse About Couples Coaching
Oftentimes, when we ask our spouses for something, it can lead to disappointment, frustration and feeling that your spouse doesn’t care about your wants and needs. On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m sharing four steps to use to improve communication when asking your partner for what you want, using the example of couples coaching. This is not a method to manipulate your partner. Rather, it’s a way to improve communication by respecting your partner’s experience while simultaneously establishing the importance of your desires, and ultimately getting what you want. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:48] How to ask for what you want [03:56] Scenarios when a partner is seeking couples coaching [10:30] Step 1: Start with an opt-in [13:18] Step 2: Affirm your marriage [14:48] Step 3: Share areas of improvement within your marriage [16:27] Step 4: Introduce Alexandra and couples coaching [16:51] Tips for how to communicate with your spouse [18:23] Another option for improving communication and your marriage [20:59] Reviewing the four steps plus how these steps can improve other conversations your and your partners have about your life together KEY TAKEAWAYS: Today’s episode discusses how to tell your spouse what you want. I specifically talk about how to communicate about couples coaching, but the tips shared can be applied to many other areas in marriage. Start by getting an opt-in, meaning you want your partner to have a choice in starting the conversation. Affirm your spouse and marriage in a genuine way. Share specific things that you enjoy about your spouse and your marriage. Transition to asking how your marriage could be better. Share specific areas that you think need attention or improvement, and ask your spouse if they agree. Share that couples coaching is a good way to create positive change. If your spouse still says no to couples coaching, try asking if they will participate in a 15 minute call with me. Oftentimes, a quick call will show them that I'm not committed to doing things the way you’ve described. I'm committed to doing things in a way that works for both of you.. Links Mentioned: Desires: Awaken the Woman Within: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desires/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl The Aligned and Hot Marriage program: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group:</p
Wed, December 01, 2021
52. Black Swan Real Estate: An Intimate Marriage Is the Key to Success, With Nick and Dr. Elaine Stageberg
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m speaking with Nick and Dr. Elaine Stageberg about how they re-energized their marriage and the ways it has drastically improved their family and business. They own a very successful real estate investment company although they believe that they invest not in just property, but in relationships. Nick and Elaine have learned to invest in each other and that flows over into how they use their business to invest in other people. Together, we talk about the energy within marriage, how they have chosen to put one another’s needs above their own, and the positive impact that conflict can have on your relationship. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:46] Introduction of Nick and Dr. Elaine Stageberg [02:55] What’s it like to work with your spouse [04:40] Marriage as a source of energy [08:42] How to energize your marriage [14:38] Being accommodating of your spouse [20:36] How to use conflict to create more energy [27:51] Investing in relationships [33:40] What ways have you grown through marriage KEY TAKEAWAYS: The Stageberg’s believe that taking responsibility for your partner’s needs and feelings will transform your relationship for the better because you will both be thinking of each other’s happiness. Your marriage can and should be a source of energy and light. When you try to avoid conflict or a problem in your marriage, it can be harmful. It’s better to lean into the conflict and as there you’ll discover a deep reservoir of energy. Links Mentioned: www.alexandrastockwell.com/holiday Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https:
Wed, November 24, 2021
51. How High Achieving Women Access Joy During The Holidays
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m talking about how high achieving women can access more joy during the holidays – without all of the stress! Instead of dreading all the tasks associated with this time of year, I want to show you how to have fun and discover new delights in the season, because it is possible! In my new program, “Uncompromising Intimacy--How High Achieving Women Access Joy During the Holidays” I’ll be sharing how to bring more intentionality, more ease and more meaningful connection during this time of year. Learn more about the program in today’s episode, hear an amazing testimonial from a woman who participated last year, and sign up here: www.alexandrastockwell.com/holiday IN THIS EPISODE: [00:46] The stress of the holiday season [06:00] Living with intentionality [08:15] Details about “Uncompromising Intimacy: How High Achieving Women Access Joy During the Holidays” www.alexandrastockwell.com/holiday [09:42] How do you feel during the holidays [10:18] How to communicate expectations with loved ones [13:00] How to make meaningful memories [13:25] The art of reflection [14:30] Testimonial from a participant in last year’s program KEY TAKEAWAYS: Alexandra’s coaching program, “Uncompromising Intimacy: How High Achieving Women Access Joy During the Holidays” helps women enjoy their holiday through increased intentionality, clarity and communication. Program begins with a bonus call on December 1, 2021. Details at www.alexandrastockwell.com/holiday . Along with the joy of the holiday season comes an exceptional amount of stress and pressure for high achieving women who strive to create fun and meaningful experiences for their families. Living with intentionality during the holidays means learning to have balance between serving your family and honoring your own experience. Prioritize what really matters to both you and the people you love. Alexandra’s coaching program, “Uncompromising Intimacy: How High Achieving Women Access Joy During The Holidays” helps women enjoy their holiday through increased intentionality, clarity and communication. We’ll start by focusing on how you feel during the holidays, how you felt in prior years, and how you feel anticipating this one. One of the first steps to accessing joy du
Wed, November 17, 2021
50. Learning and Loving as an EntreMD, With Nneka Chineme Unachukwu, MD
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m speaking with the incredible Nneka Chineme Unachukwa, MD, commonly known as Dr. Una. She is a pediatrician, podcast host, entrepreneur coach to physicians all over the world, and CEO and Founder of Ivy League Pediatrics in Lawrenceville, Georgia. On top of all that, she is also a wife of 15 years and mom to four children. In this insightful and encouraging conversation, we discuss delegation within marriage, the distinction between compromise and staying true to yourself, and how marriage is the ultimate personal development program. IN THIS EPISODE: [01:27] Dr. Una is introduced and shares the meaning behind her name [04:57] The heart behind Dr. Una’s work and her podcast, EntreMD [07:48] How your decision-making process impacts your intimate relationship [12:36] The importance of delegation [19:07] The difference between compromise and prioritizing when it comes to identity, values, and dreams within relationships [25:47] Dr. Una answers the questions, “What have you learned about yourself as a result of being married to your husband?” [31:14] Information about Dr. Una’s Podcast, EntreMD KEY TAKEAWAYS: Communication is key when making important decisions that affect your partner. In order to accomplish more in life and have more time and freedom, you have to leverage the power of people and adopt a lifestyle of delegation within your marriage and your work-life. When we prioritize certain needs or desires in a relationship, the method will not matter as much as the outcome. Bring all of yourself to your relationship. Never try to bury your hopes or dreams in order to avoid conflict. We are the best we can be, the most fun, the happiest, when we are true to who we are, and when we make room for our partner to do the same. Marriage is the best personal development program! Links Mentioned: https://entremd.com https://entremd.com/podcast/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, November 10, 2021
49. From the Mouth of a Babe, With Matthew Stockwell
As parents, we sometimes forget just how much our relationships, especially our relationship with our partner, impacts our children. On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I interview my nine-year-old son, Matthew. We have a very frank, unscripted conversation where I ask him questions about our family, his friends, and life in general. He shares some insightful thoughts about how the smallest hint of tension or disagreement between his parents can be upsetting and he offers advice on how he believes parents can help children “have a wonderful time”. Buckle up for a really sweet and unique conversation that I'm excited to share with you. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:46] Introduction and explanation of today’s guest [04:55] Alexandra welcomes her son, Matthew to the interview [05:20] What’s it like being the youngest child in the family? [06:34] What makes the Stockwell family, the Stockwell family? [07:22] What do you mean by we are the “opposite of divorced?” [10:06] How children perceive parental tension [11:45] What’s it like having older siblings? [12:28] Advice for parents: How to help your children have a wonderful childhood [13:08] What have you learned about yourself from being a son and a brother? KEY TAKEAWAYS: It’s important to understand that what happens within your marital relationship will have an impact on your children. The more sensitive your child is the more they might perceive the simplest of tensions between you and your partner as a negative experience Matthew shares two important pieces of advice to parents on how to help kids have a wonderful childhood: challenge kids to grow and learn but don’t push too hard; and encourage children to connect with others but also let them learn to be content by themselves. Matthew is Alexandra and her husband's 4th and youngest child, age 9 at the time of the interview. In the conversation, Matthew shares openly and honestly about being a member of the Stockwell family and shares insights on how important his parents relationship is for him. Links Mentioned: Intimacy Program: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amz
Wed, November 03, 2021
48. The Delight in Scheduled Intimacy
How do you feel about scheduled intimacy? Many couples feel it's only necessary for those who lack passion or have marital issues. However, I’m here to tell you that’s just not true. We make time for other things we value, like exercise and eating regularly. Why shouldn’t we also carve out designated time for intimacy? In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m talking about the misconceptions surrounding this and the many benefits that couples experience when they priortize sex in this way. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:46] How do you feel about scheduling sex? [4:48] How to alter your perception of scheduled intimacy [07:57] The anticipation of scheduled intimacy [13:51] Guiding intimate expectations and communication [17:40] The Intimacy Program KEY TAKEAWAYS: There is a misunderstanding that scheduling sex is only for couples that lack passion or are having marital issues - that’s not true. When we value things, we schedule it into our lives like exercise or eating regularly. Why shouldn’t we priortize sex in the same way? Just like looking forward to dining at a nice restaurant or going out on a date with your partner, scheduling intimacy builds anticipation. Scheduling sex increases intentionality and communication within your relationship, which leads to greater intimacy. Links Mentioned: Intimacy Program: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/intimacy/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 IG business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, October 27, 2021
47. The Scope of Practice Starts With Your Marriage, With Brent Lacey, MD
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m speaking with Dr. Brent Lacey about marriage, money, and more! Professionally, Brent is a gastroenterologist who is passionate about helping physicians succeed with business and personal finances. In his personal life, he and his wife have cultivated a magnificent marriage based on honesty, clarity, and humility. In his words, “Marriage is the ballgame. If you don’t get that right, there’s no point in having anything else.” During our conversation, we talk about how having a healthy, loving relationship will spill over into all facets of your life, how to date your spouse and how to overcome money problems in your marriage. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:46] Dr. Brent Lacey introduced [01:50] How marriage impacts all facets of life [07:29] Advice from other couples [09:00] Money and marriage [16:00] The power of “Why” in communication [20:00] Marriage and Money Summit information [23:00] Personal growth from marriage [25:00] Dealing with disappointment in marriage KEY TAKEAWAYS: A healthy, loving marriage will spill over into all areas of life Through intentional acts of love in marriage you can keep your relationship from becoming mundane and routine No matter how old you get, you need to date your spouse Letting your spouse know the story and “why” behind decisions and values is really important to healthy communication Honesty, clarity and humility are essential to building a healthy marriage Links Mentioned: thescopeofpractice.com/marriage-and-money/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell. IG business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, October 20, 2021
46. How Jada Pinkett and Will Smith Keep It Hot
On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m exploring Jada Pinkett and Will Smith’s marriage and how they have created a dynamic and fulfilling relationship. In looking at their relationship and other couples I have coached, we begin to see how important it is to establish what the foundation is for your marriage and clarify what keeps you and your partner together. Identifying the answers to these basic questions will help your marriage go from just surviving to flourishing! IN THIS EPISODE: [01:00] Alexandra’s dream interview; joining Jada and her family at the Red Table Talk. [02:16] Exploring Jada Pinkett and Will Smith’s relationship; why does their marriage work? [03:40] What is the foundation for a lasting marriage? [08:42] Will and Jada; what is the perfect way to interact as a couple? [12:22] Alexandra guides a couple she has coached to explore the foundation of their relationship. [17:00] Clarify what keeps you together in your relationship. [17:41] Aligned & Hot Marriage Program Offering. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Every couple should identify what the foundation of their relationship is. Ask yourself and your spouse, what is the perfect way to interact with each other? It is so important to clarify what keeps you together as a couple. Is what you choose something that makes for a juicy relationship? Links Mentioned: Aligned & Hot Marriage Program - www.alignedhotmarriage.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, October 13, 2021
45. Keeping It Fresh With My Husband, With Rodd Stockwell, MD
Today’s episode is the exciting start of all of the juicy newness of The Intimate Marriage Podcast . I’ve invited my husband, Rodd Stockwell, MD, back to the podcast to discuss how we’ve kept our marriage feeling new and fresh over the last 25 years. We dive into the nature of how desires naturally change over time, overcoming the fear of expressing those desires, and cultivating uncompromising intimacy. While this is one of those conversations that could go on for hours, tune in to hear this bite-sized chunk all about keeping it fresh! IN THIS EPISODE: [03:43] Rodd’s response to one of my most asked questions: How does your relationship stay exciting after 25 years of marriage? [06:14] Are things boring in our bedroom? [11:16] Uncompromising intimacy and growing to prioritize our experience. [14:11] Overcoming the fear of expressing desires. [17:21] The importance of how you listen when your partner shares. [20:37] A practical application of open communication about one’s feelings and desires. [21:34] The role curiosity plays in continuously arising emotions and desires. KEY TAKEAWAYS: All people change naturally over time and have new desires that arise. It’s about honoring what’s arising in each other that makes it different and new and fresh. If one person is overriding fear and expressing a desire, then there's somebody listening and how that person listens is incredibly important. It takes courage to take the risk to suggest trying something new. But it begins with not letting the fear win. The thing that keeps a relationship spicy and alive is cultivating uncompromising intimacy. The ability to be aware of how you feel, and develop the ability to express it to your partner, and receive and hear when your partner shares. LINKS MENTIONED Uncompromising Intimacy - Podcast Episode 25 Years of Intimacy, with my Husband Rodd Stockwell - Podcast Episode Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Follow Alexandra: IG: <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/" rel= "noopener n
Wed, October 06, 2021
44. The Intimate Marriage Podcast 2.0
It’s time for some exciting new changes! In this episode, I’m sharing all of the updates and plans for the podcast. From the name and cover art, to the format of the episodes, I want to make sure that you’re up to date with where we’re heading next. I’m thrilled to share these changes with you, and I look forward to the next expression and pleasure in this phase of The Intimate Marriage Podcast. Enjoy this next iteration of my podcast relationship as you come along for the ride. IN THIS EPISODE: [00:52] The new podcast name and cover art and the reasons behind them. [02:52] How I view my podcast and listeners through the lens of a relationship. [03:50] Sharing the elements of the next expression of The Intimate Marriage Podcast. [05:39] My plan to incorporate more specific teaching through vignettes. [06:13] The details of how you can celebrate this next phase of the podcast with me on Facebook. KEY TAKEAWAYS: The Marriage Podcast is now The Intimate Marriage Podcast. It is more accurate, juicier, and true. The new cover art is classy, subtle, and sexy. It better reflects what I am all about. Interviews with amazing couples are not going away. I will also interview individuals as well as going deeper in my solo episodes. The celebratory Facebook Party is on October 7th, 2021, at 9 AM PST. For those who attend live, three people will have a chance to win a transformative 30-minute coaching session with me. The recording will be available for replay, so please join the Facebook group even if this date has passed. Links Mentioned: Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group for the celebratory Facebook Party on October 7th at 9 AM PST: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/
Wed, September 29, 2021
43. Alexandra’s Daughter Shares Her Perspective, with Josephine Stockwell
In anticipation of Josephine’s 25th birthday, Alexandra interviews her daughter on the experience of being a child in a family where the parents have an evolving, hot, intimate marriage. They talk about the clarity and internal confidence it has provided Josephine as she herself navigates life and relationships. While there is a lot of juicy content and amazing insights in the episode, it’s hearing how Alexandra and Josephine connect and communicate that reveals so much. BIO: Josephine Stockwell is the oldest of four children, a classical musician, and Alexandra’s daughter. She loves to cook, cut and style hair, and health/fitness. She brings curiosity, emotional intelligence, creativity, and sunshine wherever she is. Josephine is violist. She is currently in graduate school at Northwestern and a member of the Civic Orchestra of Chicago. Josephine's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/josephine_stockwell/ Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, September 22, 2021
42. Uncompromising Intimacy
In this episode Alexandra goes deep into the details of uncompromising intimacy. She defines compromise and describes the kind of relationship it creates: bland, neutral, comfortable companionship. In contrast, uncompromising intimacy leads to deep emotional connection, dynamic expansion and self-expression, and passion! Listen in for more details and specificity about what this actually looks like in practice, and be sure to read Alexandra’s bestselling book on the same topic, called “Uncompromising Intimacy.” Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, September 15, 2021
41. Evolving Individually Through Growth in Relationship, with Morgan Mellas and Rob Kandell
When two emotionally mature adults build a relationship together, amazing things are possible. Morgan and Rob describe their journey, and what it called forth from each of them as they created the depth, juiciness, and joy they share with one another as they meet life’s challenges. Together. We discuss controlling women, acquiescence to “the Feminine”, wounding from our relationships with our mothers along with the collision of beliefs about what it takes to have a successful relationship. Through all of that Rob and Morgan continue to find the “yes, and” that becomes possible with deeper listening, open hearts and open minds. BIO: Morgan Kandell is passionate about Functional Medicine, becoming her Limitless Self, self-centering and changing the distorted reality in which we are creating ourselves from within. Robert Kandell is an experienced veteran in many industries. Leaving his corporate job at the height of San Francisco’s dotcom explosion, he started his first consulting business in 1999, creating technological solutions for premier financial firms. He then leveraged his business acumen to cofound his first business guiding it from a paper-napkin sketch to an eight-figure international corporation before exiting in 2014. He currently works as a Fractional CFO for several companies. In addition to his business and management skills, Robert is an accomplished teacher, coach, and lecturer. In 2018, he published his first book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them, which is an international best-seller. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Inc, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, The Atlantic, Time, The Huffington Post, and Vice. Book - unHidden: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them: https://amzn.to/3zRsvWi Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, September 08, 2021
40. Stress and Burnout and Their Impact on Marriage, with Vanessa Calderon, MD
Dr. Vanessa Calderon is a passionate and ultra accomplished woman who excels in leadership, medicine, coaching, resiliency and wellness, gender issues, neurodiversity, and so much more. In this episode she talks about burn out—what it is and how to recognize it, as well as what to do to antidote its impact. She also talks about stress and the explicit toll it takes on relationships. We talk about how cultivating your relationship leads to professional success, and how focusing on professional success does not necessarily lead to more fulfilling relationships. This conversation is highly informative and thought provoking, and left both of us with many more questions than answers. BIO: Dr. Vanessa Calderon, MD, MPP is a Latina Life and Leadership Coach and a Board Certified Emergency Medicine Physician. She has over 20 years of leadership experience and is the founder of the Latina Leadership Accelerator, where she uses education, training and coaching to support the personal and professional development of Latinas at all levels of their careers. Dr Calderon is also a resiliency expert and the Wellness and Resiliency Director of a National Multispecialty Physician organization. Dr. Calderon is married and has two young children. Website: vanessacalderonmd.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessacalderonmd/ Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, September 01, 2021
39. Doctors, Entrepreneurs, Educators, and Spouses, with Vicki Chan MD and Peter Kim MD
Both powerful individuals, Dr Peter Kim is an anesthesiologist who has taught hundreds of doctors how to become real estate investors and successful entrepreneurs and Dr Vicki Chan is an ophthalmologist who is a social media influencer providing important education to the public. (Have you seen her Tiktoks???!!!!) They are both frank, service oriented, and inspirational as they describe the way they navigate challenges in their marriage, and how they work on it. BIO: Peter Kim, MD is an obstetric anesthesiologist and the founder of Passive Income MD, a brand dedicated to helping physicians achieve financial freedom through multiple streams of income. They serve their rapidly growing community through a blog, a podcast, online courses, facebook groups, and conferences. Vicki Chan, MD is an ophthalmologist, mother of 2, wife, and social media marketer/educator from Los Angeles, California. Her passions include having fun with her family; using her platform to educate, advocate, and inspire; and exploring all that life has to offer. Financial Freedom through Real Estate Conference: https://pimdcon2021.passiveincomemd.com Website: https://passiveincomemd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vickichanmd/ Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, August 25, 2021
38. Feel Fully You, with Juliette Karaman-van Shaardenburg and Alex Lee
In this vulnerable, potent conversation Juliette Karaman-van Shaardenburg and Alex Lee talk with Alexandra about the conundrum of being a highly competent professional and still feeling inadequate in relationship. They also talk about being a juicy, intuitive, empowered woman who wants more, and how a partner can navigate that with ease. Juliette defines trauma and shares the impact of individual trauma on romantic relationships. Juliette Karaman- van Schaardenburg is the founder of the Feel Fully You movement which helps empower women and couples reconnect with themselves. For over 5 years she has trained hundreds of coaches so they are better equipped to handle the trauma their clients may experience through deep knowledge, ease and grace. Her unique Embodied Leadership Method focuses on teaching coaches and change-makers how to become more embodied, empowered and effective. Alex Lee hails from New Zealand, and considers all else irrelevant to this conversation. Upcoming Program: https://juliettee37eff.clickfunnels.com/program-registration5un9769v Website: http://feelfullyyou.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/juliettekaraman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/juliette.karamanvanschaardenburg Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, August 18, 2021
37. Sex Ed for Women Physicians (and other grownups), with Dr. Sonia Wright
Dr Sonia Wright and Alexandra talk about the importance of education in creating fantastic relationships and experiencing fulfilling intimacy. As a Midlife Sex Coach for Women, Dr. Wright shares her philosophy and how important it is to train women physicians-for the sake of their patients and for themselves! Dr. Wright also shares many insights about being a person who is a member of multiple cultures, without being fully defined by any of them. She identifies as an immigrant, Jamaican, African-American, American, mother, doctor, sex coach, friend, lover, and so much more. Dr. Sonia Wright is a board-certified radiologist, a trained sexual counselor and a life coach. She received her education from Stanford University, the University of California San Francisco School of Medicine, the Mayo Clinic and the University of Michigan. Dr. Sonia is on a mission to help women embrace their sexuality and end the emotional pain and isolation associated with sexual difficulties. Sexual difficulties can happen and should be addressed without shame and guilt. She believes wholeheartedly that all women deserve to experience pleasurable sexual intimacy. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/midlifesexcoach Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drsoniawright Website https://soniawrightmd.com https://sonia-wright-md.mykajabi.com/Waitlist-OYSN!CME?fbclid=IwAR2A-mr2QTsTiy6xxY8r6iacr5UHNEMpOItmYwO1TVJ5dIjFqjaRuYZnVWE Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, August 11, 2021
36. Intimacy While Raising Young Children with Alexandra Stockwell, MD
No--you don’t need to forget intimacy while the children are little. Listen in as Alexandra shares the keys to maintaining erotic connection while parenting little ones. Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, August 04, 2021
35. Love-infused Warrior Sage Wisdom with Suzanne and Satyen Raja
Longtime teachers and mentors, Satyen and Suzanne Raja share the rich tapestry of their intentional marriage, which is equally infused with love and purpose. In response to Alexandra’s probing questions, they share lofty conceptual frameworks, in the moment expansive wisdom, and the concrete ways they navigate day to day challenges in family life and business. This conversation is a beautiful immersion in a way of life that goes far beyond any of the words that are used to describe it. Satyen Raja is both a master teacher and master student with over 40 years of rigorous study and practice in developing higher consciousness. He speaks from the truth of his direct experiences to usher you into a sacred life of embodied love and wisdom for a profoundly enhanced life. He has transformed the lives of over 100,000 students internationally and leads private and group mentorship for top CEO’s, high impact individuals and world leaders. His corporate work involves cultural advisory and training executive teams of elite organizations to shift from chaos, overwhelm and struggle into aligned, coherent, high performing teams. Expertly versed in psycho-spiritual, tantric, shamanic and movement-based modalities, Suzanne Raja weaves unique teachings, practices and experiences for women to awaken, embody and express their brilliance. Suzanne has privately coached business leaders, stage performers, CEOs of multinational corporations, high-profile public speakers and noted physicians among others. Her dynamic and heart centered style has her sought after on international stages and exclusive retreats for women. www.warriorsage.com Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage
Wed, July 28, 2021
34. Embodying the Vision of I Heart My Life with Emily & James Williams
Emily and James are each highly successful individuals. They are also husband and wife, formerly business partners, now boss and employee. Listen in as they share how they orient to their marriage with depth, honesty, and a remarkable thoughtfulness. In this interview they describe navigating similarities and differences within their marriage, and as well as in their professional goals-- all while collaborating beautifully on the path of life. Emily Williams is a success coach, entrepreneur, and author with a seven-figure business who, at one point, couldn’t get a job at Starbucks. After experiencing a quarter life crisis, she moved from Ohio to London (where she knew no one!) and in 2014 launched her business, I Heart My Life. She made $442 in her first month—and then went on to hit six figures in six months, before her 30th birthday. She grew it to seven figures in under 18 months. Today, she works with female entrepreneurs all over the world, helping them bust through the obstacles that hold their dreams and goals hostage so they can free themselves to live the lives they want. James Williams is a Performance Breakthrough Coach and speaker. He is passionate about focusing on creating outer world impact through inner world mastery. His passion for mastering physical, mental and emotional performance in pursuit of his own life goals is only matched by his dedication to supporting his clients’ belief that anything is possible and available for them. IG Links https://www.instagram.com/i_am_emily_williams/ https://www.instagram.com/jamesrswilliams/ https://www.instagram.com/iheartmylife/ Websites www.iheartmylife.com https://thegrowthedge.com/ https://emilywilliams.com/ Alexandra’s website: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/" rel= "noopener noreferrer" target= "_
Wed, July 21, 2021
33. Work on Yourself and Your Partner will Change
Ever notice how asking your partner to change doesn’t get you the results you want, but working on yourself sometimes does? In this episode Alexandra talks about how partners when you take your attention off of them and put it on your own growth, healing, evolution, and joy instead. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, July 14, 2021
32. Self-Acceptance is the Key, with Dr Liz Treynor and Dr Chuck Stillman
Dr. Elizabeth Treynor and Dr. Charles Stillman, (Liz and Chuck) are an amazing, highly accomplished, salt of the earth duo. They are kind, hope-filled, and full of vitality. They navigate highs and lows--while being ever more true to themselves. Theirs is an exquisite and ongoing love story built on the bedrock of self-acceptance. Watch Liz and Chuck’s incredible FUN themed wedding video https://vimeo.com/129510296?fbclid=IwAR3VasYDIaZaWl8WXtZfGNgtL8s8bBH-y5g746Wo1ZCFmlh2x-v73nKHgG4 Hear Liz interviewed by Dr Weilli Gray on the Dare To Dream Physician Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-5-when-life-love-and-possessions-are-ephemeral/id1568946894?i=1000524908911 Experienced mom, avid yogi & iphone photographer, novice surfer, and budding podcaster, Dr Elizabeth Treynor loves hiking new hills & tandem biking new trails with husband Chuck. A dynamic woman, she continues to find her voice and embrace the bold. She has had a humbling and ecstatic journey and is generous with what she has learned. Dr Charles Stillman is a radiologist, soon-to-be-retired Army colonel, one-time hang glider and airborn jumper, passionate golfer, musician-song writer guitarist, poker player, and devoted dad. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, July 07, 2021
31. Communication Mastery with Alexandra Stockwell, MD
In this episode, Alexandra shares one of the biggest pitfalls in communication between committed partners, and what to do to avoid it! She also shares information about her upcoming retreat in northern California. Find out more here: https://www.antesajensen.com/communication-mastery Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, June 30, 2021
30. Saying Anything/Everything in a Second Marriage, with Deepa Kannan and Shyam Nair
Both Deepa Kannan and Shyam Nair are married for the second time. This time, they have created a dynamic relationship which is rooted in honesty and frankness. They discuss gender based roles and egalitarian attitudes, in Indian society and in their marriage. They also give their best tips for honesty and openness. Drawing on careers as a yoga therapist and functional nutritionist, Deepa Kannan practices functional medicine with clients around the world. Inspired by her son with a rare adrenal condition, she is an internationally known expert on the stress response, sleep, women’s health, detoxification, skin health and adrenal function. Shyam Prasad Nair has over twenty five years of marketing and advertising experience. He is also a Yoga Expert, Organic Farmer, Wellness Consultant, and a Kundalini Yoga Expert who lived in the Himalayan caves while learning the secrets of magical ancient practices under his guru. Deepa’s Websites: Sleep Whisperer Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sleep-whisperer-podcast/id1522078363 Phytothrive, Functional Nutrition Redefined: www.phytothrive.com Bioindividual Yoga Therapy: www.yogasopanam.com Support for Children's Growth: www.magicfoundation-india.org Follow Deepa: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/phytothrive/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/phytothrive_yogini https://www.instagram.com/mysleepwhisperer Pinterest: https://in.pinterest.com/phytothrive/ YourStory Articles: https://yourstory.com/author/deepakannan Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: <a href="http
Wed, June 23, 2021
29. Fatherhood in a Juicy Marriage
Alexandra interviews her husband, Rodd Stockwell MD, on being a devoted father. They focus on the tensions between working and being present with children, and what had him transition from prioritizing his work to prioritizing his family life. They also share how they fuel the erotic passion between them, while having so much attention on their parenting too. This episode includes stories as well as a suggestion about how to cultivate that in your own relationship! Aligned and Hot Mariage program www.alignedhotmarriage.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, June 16, 2021
28. Sexual Health, with Melanie Modjoros MD
Listen as Alexandra and physician, sexual counselor, and hypnotherapist Dr. Melanie Modjoros talk about the challenges individuals and couples face when wanting more fulfillment in their intimate lives. They share many juicy tidbits and insights, as well as practical suggestions on how to discuss these topics with your partner. You will smile, and you will definitely learn something new! Dr. Modjoros is a board certified physician and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor who specialized in gynecology and pelvic pain before pivoting toward sex therapy. She is devoted to teaching others about the connections between mind, body and healing sexual dysfunction. She specializes in rehabilitating a client's sex life when it is affected by illnesses like cancer, arthritis, chronic pain, autoimmune conditions, and surgery. As a frequent presenter at national and international conferences, Dr. Modjoros is passionate about teaching sex positivity and providing education about how the mind and body interact to create the sexual experience. Her mantra is " Sex is a gift from your body to you ." Connect with Dr. Modjoros: SexualHealthConsultants.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, June 09, 2021
27. Her Libido is High, His is Not
In this episode Alexandra coaches Melanie. She was angry and resentful because her partner wasn’t interested in having s ex as often as she wants to and the whole situation is taking a big toll on their relationship. By the end of the session the tension is gone and Melanie is super excited about her breakthrough! Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, June 02, 2021
26. Sovereign Intimacy, with Tah and Kole Whitty
Tah and Kole committed to honesty, and sovereignty within their relationship, which has lead to the most profound healing, expansion and pleasure that continues on a daily basis. In this conversation they describe their way of being with themselves and one another, and share very specific details about transforming sexual shame and worthiness in the context of their commitment to one another. Tah and Kole Whitty are two amazing humans in a relationship the likes of which many say they dream of having, but not many dare to experience. They live in a space of courage, curiosity, expansion and mutuality, each living their life to the fullest and in support of the other doing the same. They inspire through their connection and guide others to craft relationships with their individual selves, their partners, their children, their businesses and their environments. With Tah's 25 years in emergency medicine, Kole’s 17 years in educating professionals about life’s addictions, 17 years combined in various shamanic traditions, 15 years combined personal training and body alignment with NYC’s performance driven entrepreneurs...Tah and Kole are coaches LOVE people and know how to facilitate transformation. Follow Kole: https://www.instagram.com/mystikole/ Follow Tah: https://www.instagram.com/tahfree/ Tah’s website: tahkole.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, May 26, 2021
25. Going Beyond the 5 Love Languages, with Alexandra Stockwell
What if the 5 love languages is just the beginning? Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Luxury Love and Intimacy Mentor who explains that going way beyond the 5 love languages to full spectrum, wholehearted loving, and uncompromising intimacy, will bring so much more to your relationship! Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, May 19, 2021
24. You Are Not Broken, with Kelly Casperson, MD
Dr. Kelly Casperson is a urologist interested in the power of the mind and science to change our views of sexuality. Listen in as she and Alexandra have a far ranging, explicit conversation about sexual anatomy, the function of pubic hair, how to be a woman, surgeon, wife, mother, sexual educator and more, and the most important lesson her husband taught her early in their marriage. Through her podcast You Are Not Broken, Dr. Casperson educates listeners about the fundamentals of their anatomy and physiology and how their limiting beliefs impact their sex life. She speaks about normal female sexual function in order to empower women to live their best love lives. www.kellycaspersonmd.com https://www.instagram.com/kellycaspersonmd You Are Not Broken https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-are-not-broken/id1495710329 Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, May 12, 2021
23. The Ultimate Relationship, with Joree Rose and Dr John Schinnerer
Two mental health professionals. A man and a woman in love and living life together. He coaches men on anger management and purpose. She coaches men, women, and couples on mindfulness and personal growth. Together they coach couples on how to have the ultimate relationship. Listen in as we dive into it all. Dr. John graduated from U.C. Berkeley with a Ph.D. in psychology. Dr. John coaches men to greater success and happiness at work and at home; for if you don’t have all 4 of these, you have none of them. He is the host of The Evolved Caveman, a top 10 podcast to help men find success and happiness, The Evolved Caveman. Visit TheEvolvedCaveman.com to learn more about the podcast. For information on high performance coaching, visit GuideToSelf.com. FB: TheEvolvedCaveman IG: TheEvolvedCaveman LinkedIn: DrJohnSchinnerer Twitter: JohnSchin Joree Rose, MA, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, mindfulness and meditation teacher, coach, author, speaker, and international retreat leader. Joree is host of the podcast ‘Journey Forward® with Joree Rose’ and has authored 2 mindfulness books, Squirmy Learns to be Mindful and Mindfulness, It’s Elementary, as well as A Year of Gratitude, Daily Moments of Reflection, Grace and Thanks. To learn more, or work with Joree, visit www.joreerose.com IG: @joreerose FB: @joreerose33 Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, May 05, 2021
22. Divorce After 27 Years - Bill and Melinda Gates
30 minutes after hearing the announcement of Bill and Melinda Gates’ divorce, Alexandra recorded this episode. She shares her viewpoint on their divorce, and the rising divorce rate among couples over age 50. It’s a raw, unfiltered riff on what this all means and what we can learn from the situation. Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl The Aligned and Hot Marriage program www.alignedhotmarriage.com Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, April 28, 2021
21. Medicine, Marriage and Money, with Doctors Kate and Victor Mangona
Humble, relatable, and fun, Drs. Kate and Victor Mangona live a very dynamic life. She is a pediatric radiologist, relationship coach for doctors, and host and founder of the Medicine, Marriage and Money podcast. He is a pediatric radiation oncologist. They are active investors in the stock market and real estate, and very glad to support others who are also on the path to financial freedom. Kate and Victor have a beautiful home which they move out of every weekend so AirBnB guests can move in, while they have an adventure somewhere else. They are devoted, loving parents to two little girls with a third on the way. Kate and Victor are constantly learning and growing, and both prioritize their marriage as the incredible long term investment it is. If you’re not a doctor, you probably have never heard three doctors have a vulnerable conversation quite like this one. And, honestly, even if you are a doctor that’s still probably true. Kate's Website: https://www.medicinemarriageandmoney.com Podcast: Medicine, Marriage & Money Kate's Facebook Group for doctors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/medicinemarriageandmoney Instagram: @salsakittykate and @medicinemarriageandmoney TikTok: @katemangonamd Victor's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/39point6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCstfAZH_FEuBAzRH4hfzwJA Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, April 21, 2021
20. When Forgiveness Leads to Love, with Dimple and Atul Thakrar
In 2017, after 22 years of marriage, Tony Robbins did an ultra intense intervention with Dimple and Atul which brought them from the brink of divorce to the ensouled, loving, collaborative, outstanding marriage they enjoy today. Listen in as they poignantly share some of the milestone moments from choosing to divorce to how they now enjoy love, generosity, forgiveness, playfulness and joy as their main modes of interaction. Atul is a successful entrepreneur, running multiple global companies. Dimple is a Love and Relationship Coach for successful male executives and their wives, as well as an international speaker and bestselling author. www.DimpleThakrar.Global FB https://www.facebook.com/dimple.lovecoaching IG https://www.instagram.com/thelovecoachdimple/ Join Luxury Love and Intimacy Mentor, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, also known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” as she shares the secrets to creating a deep, meaningful, and passionate marriage, while her guests share the challenges and triumphs in their own incredible relationships! Questions? Feedback? Wanting to explore working with Alexandra? www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra on social media: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information about Alexandra: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, April 14, 2021
19. Why Many Married People Live Like Roommates
Ever wonder why so many married people live like roommates? Alexandra addresses the 3 misconceptions that lead this to happen. She also tells you how to avoid it, and how to bring passion back into your relationship. If you want her full program on how to do this, be sure to join the Aligned and Hot Marriage program ( www.alignedhotmarriage.com ) Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, April 07, 2021
18. A Values-Driven Marriage with Jennifer Kem and Nathan Francisco
Whenever Jennifer Kem talks about her marriage, everyone present sits up to listen. Jen is a powerhouse entrepreneur and Nate a self-described “simple guy”. In this conversation they share how they have created a relationship that allows each of them to thrive individually, while building an incredible partnership together. It’s a second marriage for both of them, and they pay attention and take action when things are “off,” and they promptly make adjustments so that each of them individually, the two of them as a couple, and their family of 5 always thrive. Jennifer “Jen” Kem is a San Francisco Bay Area-based branding and marketing expert who gets entrepreneurs seen, heard, and paid – for being themselves. Nathan is the self-proclaimed Slay-at-Home Dad, affectionately referred to as the CEO of their home. Take the Archetype Influence Mix at JenniferKem.com/marriage Jen: Website: www.JenniferKem.com Facebook biz page: Jennifer Kem IG: @jennifer.kem Twitter: @JenniferKemComm LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jenniferkem Nathan: Instagram: @slayathomedad_jeep_monkey. Facebook: The Slay-At-Home Dad Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: Alexandra Stockwell FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, March 31, 2021
17. The Brighter Side of Balancing Marriage and Entrepreneurship, with Monica and Ben Tanner
Monica Tanner is a relationship and intimacy expert with infectious passion for helping entrepreneurs improve their marriages and family life. Ben is a small business owner who likes to stay in the background. They have been married for 19 years, have 4 children, and love to take adventurous vacations together. In this conversation they are very vulnerable in sharing milestones in the evolution of their marriage, beginning with Monica feeling she should do everything herself and Ben unaware of how challenging it was to work, parent, and keep house with a nursing baby in tow. Once Monica learned to state her overwhelm she learned to receive support and Ben learned how to successfully provide it. Monica now teaches others how to effectively give and receive support from your spouse. The conversation is lively, honest and full of gems all about voicing your needs, and accepting help for them. How to Get More Support from your Spouse, 7 Mistakes You could be Making www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/spousesupport The Vault www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/thevault website:www. onthebrightersideofmarriage.com IG: www.instagram.com/monitanner1 Read Alexandra’s book "Uncompromising Intimacy" https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: Alexandra Stockwell FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, March 24, 2021
16. A Brief Message
This episode is short and to the point: the original recording vanished and this version functions as a placeholder. Listen to the rest of The Intimate Marriage Podcast to access wisdom, inspiration, and practical tools that will help you uplevel your relationship. Read Alexandra’s book "Uncompromising Intimacy" https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy FB: Alexandra Stockwell FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com
Wed, March 17, 2021
15. Applying Lessons from Poker to (In)fertility with Kristy Arnett and Andrew Moreno
Kristy is a professional poker player and Youtube video essayist. Andrew is a professional poker player. The two of them have been together for 16 years and faced much adversity, including the heart crushing experience of infidelity. They now look back grateful that adversity gave them the tools to have a dynamic, loving, absolutely outstanding marriage. These are tools they have needed in their infertility journey, although at the time of the recording Kristy was newly pregnant. They share the joy, and the excruciating risks involved in conception after 5 years of trying to conceive, IVF, and all that goes with it. This conversation is raw, real, and incredibly relevant for anyone wanting to hear a couple reflect on past challenges, and apply them while navigating current challenges. Podcast where Kristy shares how she healed from infidelity https://www.kristyarnett.com/podcast/emotionalintelligence Follow Kristy and Andrew: https://www.kristyarnett.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amo4sho/ Twitter: Amo4sho Stay Connected with Alexandra Join the Heat Up Your Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: Alexandra Stockwell https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book Uncompromising Intimacy https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl (See chapter 9 for more on Kristy and Andrew’s story.)
Wed, March 17, 2021
Applying Lessons from Poker to (In)fertility with Kristy Arnett and Andrew Moreno
Kristy is a professional poker player and Youtube video essayist. Andrew is a professional poker player. The two of them have been together for 16 years and faced much adversity, including the heart crushing experience of infidelity. They now look back grateful that adversity gave them the tools to have a dynamic, loving, absolutely outstanding marriage. These are tools they have needed in their infertility journey, although at the time of the recording Kristy was newly pregnant. They share the joy, and the excruciating risks involved in conception after 5 years of trying to conceive, IVF, and all that goes with it. This conversation is raw, real, and incredibly relevant for anyone wanting to hear a couple reflect on past challenges, and apply them while navigating current challenges. Podcast where Kristy shares how she healed from infidelity https://www.kristyarnett.com/podcast/emotionalintelligence Follow Kristy and Andrew: https://www.kristyarnett.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amo4sho/ Twitter: Amo4sho Stay Connected with Alexandra Join the Heat Up Your Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: Alexandra Stockwell https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book Uncompromising Intimacy https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl (See chapter 9 for more on Kristy and Andrew’s story.)
Wed, March 10, 2021
14. From Pain to Irresistible Passion, with Gen and Ray Stoney
Gen and Ray Stoney have an incredible, passionate marriage after years of turmoil, alcoholism, infidelity, and near divorce. They share their reflections about pivoting from pain and chaos to the passion and collaboration they now experience. They also talk about telling the truth to one another, extended family, the general public, and their two young boys. 1:1 VIP Coaching Soul Magnetism Activation Session FB Group Irresistible You Facebook:https:// www.facebook.com/genstoney Irresistible You https://www.facebook.com/groups/Irresistibleyougroup/ To schedule a call - Gen Stoney Stay Connected with Alexandra Join The Intimate Marriage Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: Alexandra Stockwell https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Join the Heat Up Your Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: Alexandra Stockwell https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Wed, March 03, 2021
13. 25 Years of Intimacy, with My Husband Rodd Stockwell
What does it take when 2 physicians balance careers, children, and an intimate marriage? Join me, Alexandra Stockwell as I sit down with my husband, Rodd Stockwell as we reminisce over the last 25 years of our marriage - the early years, confidence, the art of building a lasting love while learning to be uncompromising with each other. Plus what our kids have to say about our marriage. Alexandra is a physician turned relationship and intimacy expert. She specializes in showing couples how to have beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. Rodd is Alexandra’s husband, devoted father to their four children, and highly respected physician. Join The Intimate Marriage Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: Alexandra Stockwell https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Wed, March 03, 2021
25 Years of Intimacy, with My Husband Rodd Stockwell
What does it take when 2 physicians balance careers, children, and an intimate marriage? Join me, Alexandra Stockwell as I sit down with my husband, Rodd Stockwell as we reminisce over the last 25 years of our marriage - the early years, confidence, the art of building a lasting love while learning to be uncompromising with each other. Plus what our kids have to say about our marriage. Alexandra is a physician turned relationship and intimacy expert. She specializes in showing couples how to have beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. Rodd is Alexandra’s husband, devoted father to their four children, and highly respected physician. Join The Intimate Marriage Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Follow Alexandra: Alexandra Stockwell https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ For more information: www.alexandrastockwell.com Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
Wed, February 24, 2021
12. Quantum Growth in the Realm of Love, with Sara and Marco Longoria
Sara has been on a rapid growth curve--healing, evolving, and becoming her best self at a remarkably fast pace. After many years of marriage, Marco shared how it was for him to have married a woman who no longer exists. They describe how they re-created a marriage that works for the new Sara, and how it inspired Marco to grow and change as well! Marco Longoria is a very successful tax attorney who has won many awards and is highly respected by friends, family, and colleagues. Sara Longoria is a success mentor and teacher of energetics and manifestation to thousands of individuals and companies around the world. She is the creator and founder of the Rapid Manifestation Method, a ground breaking energetic and manifestation system that teaches people how to use life in a way to create EXACTLY what they desire in the fastest way possible. She grew her company from nothing to a multimillion-dollar brand in less than three years and is known internationally for her work in the fields of energetics and manifestation. Sara uses her background in Biomedical Sciences, Neurophysiology, Energetics and Corporate Sales to help people breakthrough their upper limit, and create unparalleled success both personally and professionally. Sara has a degree in Biomedical Science from Marquette University, is trained in EFT and Energy Medicine and a Certified Transformational Coach. She has been featured on the Louise H Reid Radio Show, FOX TV Female Entrepreneur Spot Light, Buzzfeed, TED, Forbes, and The Today Show. She lives in Corpus Christi with her husband and two children. To find out more about her programs and offers you can head to her website at www.saralongoria.com Free Training: http://join.saralongoria.com/FreeTraining Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/sara.longoria.79 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamsaralongoria/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/slongoriacoaching/_created/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsaralongoria?lang=en Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Read Alexandra’s book, “Uncompromising Intimacy”: <a href= "https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl" rel="noopener noreferrer" target= "
Wed, February 24, 2021
Quantum Growth in the Realm of Love, with Sara and Marco Longoria
Sara has been on a rapid growth curve--healing, evolving, and becoming her best self at a remarkably fast pace. After many years of marriage, Marco shared how it was for him to have married a woman who no longer exists. They describe how they re-created a marriage that works for the new Sara, and how it inspired Marco to grow and change as well! Marco Longoria is a very successful tax attorney who has won many awards and is highly respected by friends, family, and colleagues. Sara Longoria is a success mentor and teacher of energetics and manifestation to thousands of individuals and companies around the world. She is the creator and founder of the Rapid Manifestation Method, a ground breaking energetic and manifestation system that teaches people how to use life in a way to create EXACTLY what they desire in the fastest way possible. She grew her company from nothing to a multimillion-dollar brand in less than three years and is known internationally for her work in the fields of energetics and manifestation. Sara uses her background in Biomedical Sciences, Neurophysiology, Energetics and Corporate Sales to help people breakthrough their upper limit, and create unparalleled success both personally and professionally. Sara has a degree in Biomedical Science from Marquette University, is trained in EFT and Energy Medicine and a Certified Transformational Coach. She has been featured on the Louise H Reid Radio Show, FOX TV Female Entrepreneur Spot Light, Buzzfeed, TED, Forbes, and The Today Show. She lives in Corpus Christi with her husband and two children. To find out more about her programs and offers you can head to her website at www.saralongoria.com Free Training: http://join.saralongoria.com/FreeTraining Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/sara.longoria.79 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamsaralongoria/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/slongoriacoaching/_created/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsaralongoria?lang=en Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage Read Alexandra’s book, “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.sto
Wed, February 17, 2021
11. A Relationship Beyond Your Wildest Dreams, with Melanie Ann Layer and Kevin Bruce Scott
Melanie and Kevin are each remarkable coaches on their own, with Melanie serving women and Kevin serving men. Individually and together they have reached incredible levels of success, yet both of them are most proud, and most gratified, by having created the relationship they share. Listen in as they bring depth and authenticity while describing the steps they took, and the inner stance they live by, which has lead to the most amazing relationship. Follow Melanie: https://www.facebook.com/melanieannlayer.alphafemme https://www.instagram.com/alphafemme/ Follow Kevin: https://effortlessalpha.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kevinbrucescott Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Wed, February 17, 2021
A Relationship Beyond Your Wildest Dreams, with Melanie Ann Layer and Kevin Bruce Scott
Melanie and Kevin are each remarkable coaches on their own, with Melanie serving women and Kevin serving men. Individually and together they have reached incredible levels of success, yet both of them are most proud, and most gratified, by having created the relationship they share. Listen in as they bring depth and authenticity while describing the steps they took, and the inner stance they live by, which has lead to the most amazing relationship. Follow Melanie: https://www.facebook.com/melanieannlayer.alphafemme https://www.instagram.com/alphafemme/ Follow Kevin: https://effortlessalpha.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kevinbrucescott Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
10. Upping the Ante, with Kristy Arnett and Andrew Moreno
Together for 16 years, married for 9, Kristy and Andrew share the amazing evolution of their relationship. From youngsters on a first date at an underground poker game, through highs and lows as professional poker players, infidelity, and many moves, prioritizing their own growth and learning to be more connected has lead to an amazing, solid marriage. Their secret: remembering that fortune favors the bold, and saying thank you many, many times a day! Connect with Kristy and Andrew on Their Site: https://www.kristyarnett.com/ Follow: Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/amo4sho/ Twitter >>> https://twitter.com/Amo4sho Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
9. The Evolution of My Business
Alexandra started observing relationships and asking questions as a little girl. When she became a coach it was fun--a kind of grownup playground and opportunity for creativity and gratification. Once introduced to the concept of treating a business like a hobby or treating it like a business, she shifted in order to impact more couples. Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
8. When Opposites Attract, with Monica and Ben Tanner
Together for 19 years, parents to 4 amazing children, Monica and Ben have very different personalities and passions. They have cracked the code on being true to themselves, not wanting to change one another, while creating a loving, passionate, collaborative marriage. Monica is an amazing relationship and intimacy expert, whom Ben loves to support. Ben runs a business and enjoys coaching high school sports as Monica cheers him on from the sidelines. Learn More About Working with Monica: "How to Get More Support from your Spouse" www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/spousesupport The Vault: www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/thevault Connect with Monica on Her Site: www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com Follow Monica: Instagram >>> www.instagram.com/monitanner1 Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7" target="_blank" rel= "noopene
Fri, February 12, 2021
7. Why I Really Do What I Do
Alexandra reveals what really drives her in her work with couples. She believes the very best thing she can do to help children, and create a better future for humanity, is to teach parents how to have a rich, dynamic, intimate, connected relationships. She also states her conviction that having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill! Do it for you, do it for your children! Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
6. From Infidelity to Commitment and Passion, with Gen and Ray Stoney
The Irresistible Love Coach Gen Stoney and her adoring husband Ray Stoney have an amazing marriage and two lovely little boys. They bring humor and a commitment to grow, as they share their story of infidelity, being within 3 weeks of finalizing their divorce, and finding their way back to one another and creating a relationship they love. Their story is raw, unfiltered and built on resilience & commitment to each other. You'll listen to the heart-warming story and over-coming past traumas, healing, and ultimately inspiring other couples that they can overcome anything. Work with Gen, 1:1 VIP Coaching Soul Magnetism Activation Session: https://calendly.com/genstoney/soulmagnetismwithgenstoney Join Gen's Facebook Group, "Irresistible You": https://www.facebook.com/groups/Irresistibleyougroup/ Follow Gen: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/genstoney Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
5. You Will Never Shock Me
In this surprising episode, Alexandra shares that no matter what it is that scares you about yourself, you will never shock her. She seems conventional to some, but in fact she is courageous, compassionate, and willing to affirm you in whatever desires you have. Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
4. Inspiring One Another’s Growth with Sara and Marco Longoria
This is the first time that Sara & Marco have done an interview together. On the way to becoming a super successful, international businesswoman and mentor, Sara needed to learn to fully love herself. As the founder of the Rapid Manifestation Method and her background in Biomedical Sciences, Neurophysiology, Energetics and Corporate Sales, she created a ground breaking energetic and manifestation system that teaches people how to use life in a way to create EXACTLY what they desire in the fastest way possible. She has been featured on the Louise H Reid Radio Show, FOX TV Female Entrepreneur Spot Light, Buzzfeed, TED, Forbes, and The Today Show and grew her company from nothing to a multimillion dollar brand in less than three years. Marco Longoria is a very successful tax attorney who has won many awards and is highly respected by friends, family, and colleagues. She was astonished to discover that Marco had loved her deeply all along, and always found it easy to do so. She lives in Corpus Christi with her husband Marco and their two children. You can learn more about her programs & offers here: www.saralongoria.com Free Training: http://join.saralongoria.com/FreeTraining Follow Sara: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/sara.longoria.79 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/iamsaralongoria/ Pinterest >>> https://www.pinterest.com/slongoriacoaching/_created/ TikTok >>> https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsaralongoria?lang=en Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: <a href="https://desires.alexandrastockwe
Fri, February 12, 2021
3. From Physician to Relationship and Intimacy Expert
In her mid-30s Alexandra had accomplished all of her goals-she was a doctor, married, with children--and she expected to feel satisfied. But she didn’t. She chose to pursue new interests and eventually prioritized intimacy and pleasure. Once she accessed it for herself, she decided to show others how to heat up their marriage and access lifelong passion. Because if she can do it, so can you! Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
2. When Two Alphas Meet, with Melanie Ann Layer and Kevin Bruce Scott
Melanie Ann Layer has built a multi-million dollar brand through working on herself first. In her programs she often shares the story of how she and her fiancee Kevin Bruce Scott met and built a life together. This is your opportunity to hear Kevin’s side of the story, and to hear both of them describe the essential beliefs and ways of being that allow them to live a life of joy, fulfillment, luxury and purpose. Follow Melanie: https://www.facebook.com/melanieannlayer.alphafemme https://www.instagram.com/alphafemme/ Follow Kevin: https://effortlessalpha.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kevinbrucescott https://www.instagram.com/effortlessalpha/ Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
1. My Relationship Philosophy
Alexandra shares her philosophy of relationships, which will permeate all of her interviews with guests and each solo episode as well. Her take is fresh and comes from her own life experience as well as the lessons that have come with coaching hundreds of others. It will open your mind to how much is possible for you! Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
Upping the Ante, with Kristy Arnett and Andrew Moreno
Together for 16 years, married for 9, Kristy and Andrew share the amazing evolution of their relationship. From youngsters on a first date at an underground poker game, through highs and lows as professional poker players, infidelity, and many moves, prioritizing their own growth and learning to be more connected has lead to an amazing, solid marriage. Their secret: remembering that fortune favors the bold, and saying thank you many, many times a day! Connect with Kristy and Andrew on Their Site: https://www.kristyarnett.com/ Follow: Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/amo4sho/ Twitter >>> https://twitter.com/Amo4sho Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
The Evolution of My Business
Alexandra started observing relationships and asking questions as a little girl. When she became a coach it was fun--a kind of grownup playground and opportunity for creativity and gratification. Once introduced to the concept of treating a business like a hobby or treating it like a business, she shifted in order to impact more couples. Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
When Opposites Attract, with Monica and Ben Tanner
Together for 19 years, parents to 4 amazing children, Monica and Ben have very different personalities and passions. They have cracked the code on being true to themselves, not wanting to change one another, while creating a loving, passionate, collaborative marriage. Monica is an amazing relationship and intimacy expert, whom Ben loves to support. Ben runs a business and enjoys coaching high school sports as Monica cheers him on from the sidelines. Learn More About Working with Monica: "How to Get More Support from your Spouse" www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/spousesupport The Vault: www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/thevault Connect with Monica on Her Site: www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com Follow Monica: Instagram >>> www.instagram.com/monitanner1 Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
Why I Really Do What I Do
Alexandra reveals what really drives her in her work with couples. She believes the very best thing she can do to help children, and create a better future for humanity, is to teach parents how to have a rich, dynamic, intimate, connected relationships. She also states her conviction that having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill! Do it for you, do it for your children! Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
From Infidelity to Commitment and Passion, with Gen and Ray Stoney
The Irresistible Love Coach Gen Stoney and her adoring husband Ray Stoney have an amazing marriage and two lovely little boys. They bring humor and a commitment to grow, as they share their story of infidelity, being within 3 weeks of finalizing their divorce, and finding their way back to one another and creating a relationship they love. Their story is raw, unfiltered and built on resilience & commitment to each other. You'll listen to the heart-warming story and over-coming past traumas, healing, and ultimately inspiring other couples that they can overcome anything. Work with Gen, 1:1 VIP Coaching Soul Magnetism Activation Session: https://calendly.com/genstoney/soulmagnetismwithgenstoney Join Gen's Facebook Group, "Irresistible You": https://www.facebook.com/groups/Irresistibleyougroup/ Follow Gen: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/genstoney Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
You Will Never Shock Me
In this surprising episode, Alexandra shares that no matter what it is that scares you about yourself, you will never shock her. She seems conventional to some, but in fact she is courageous, compassionate, and willing to affirm you in whatever desires you have. Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
Inspiring One Another’s Growth with Sara and Marco Longoria
This is the first time that Sara & Marco have done an interview together. On the way to becoming a super successful, international businesswoman and mentor, Sara needed to learn to fully love herself. As the founder of the Rapid Manifestation Method and her background in Biomedical Sciences, Neurophysiology, Energetics and Corporate Sales, she created a ground breaking energetic and manifestation system that teaches people how to use life in a way to create EXACTLY what they desire in the fastest way possible. She has been featured on the Louise H Reid Radio Show, FOX TV Female Entrepreneur Spot Light, Buzzfeed, TED, Forbes, and The Today Show and grew her company from nothing to a multimillion dollar brand in less than three years. Marco Longoria is a very successful tax attorney who has won many awards and is highly respected by friends, family, and colleagues. She was astonished to discover that Marco had loved her deeply all along, and always found it easy to do so. She lives in Corpus Christi with her husband Marco and their two children. You can learn more about her programs & offers here: www.saralongoria.com Free Training: http://join.saralongoria.com/FreeTraining Follow Sara: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/sara.longoria.79 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/iamsaralongoria/ Pinterest >>> https://www.pinterest.com/slongoriacoaching/_created/ TikTok >>> https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsaralongoria?lang=en Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/cf03aaae-11fa-
Fri, February 12, 2021
From Physician to Relationship and Intimacy Expert
In her mid-30s Alexandra had accomplished all of her goals-she was a doctor, married, with children--and she expected to feel satisfied. But she didn’t. She chose to pursue new interests and eventually prioritized intimacy and pleasure. Once she accessed it for herself, she decided to show others how to heat up their marriage and access lifelong passion. Because if she can do it, so can you! Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
When Two Alphas Meet, with Melanie Ann Layer and Kevin Bruce Scott
Melanie Ann Layer has built a multi-million dollar brand through working on herself first. In her programs she often shares the story of how she and her fiancee Kevin Bruce Scott met and built a life together. This is your opportunity to hear Kevin’s side of the story, and to hear both of them describe the essential beliefs and ways of being that allow them to live a life of joy, fulfillment, luxury and purpose. Follow Melanie: https://www.facebook.com/melanieannlayer.alphafemme https://www.instagram.com/alphafemme/ Follow Kevin: https://effortlessalpha.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kevinbrucescott https://www.instagram.com/effortlessalpha/ Stay Updated with Alexandra Stockwell Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Fri, February 12, 2021
My Relationship Philosophy
Alexandra shares her philosophy of relationships, which will permeate all of her interviews with guests and each solo episode as well. Her take is fresh and comes from her own life experience as well as the lessons that have come with coaching hundreds of others. It will open your mind to how much is possible for you! Join The Intimate Marriage Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage More Info About Her Programs: The Aligned and Hot Marriage: https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com/ Desired: https://desires.alexandrastockwell.com/desired/ Read Alexandra’s Book, "Uncompromising Intimacy": https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Follow Alexandra: Facebook >>> https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7 Instagram >>> https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ More Information: www.AlexandraStockwell.com
Trailer · Sat, January 09, 2021
TRAILER - The Marriage Podcast
Looking for more intimacy and aliveness in your marriage, and in your life? Alexandra Stockwell is a Physician turned Relationship and Intimacy Expert who specializes in showing couples how to have beautiful, stable, passionate relationships. In the Marriage Podcast, Alexandra will show you how to increase the heat and be more aligned, so that you and your spouse can enjoy one another even more! Every week Alexandra will share what she knows from coaching hundreds of people, from her own 25-year marriage, and through interviewing couples with incredible relationships. The conversations will be dynamic, smart, inspirational, and sophisticated. No matter how good things look on the outside, if you’re in a challenging phase in your relationship and looking to go from bad to good, or things are already wonderful and you want to go from good to absolutely fantastic, Alexandra will share the roadmap to get you there.
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