Want a peek inside the world of kink from those who know it best? Longtime BDSM lifestylers and professionals Ian Rath and Aiden Starr host this intimate, sexy and entertaining show that is perfect for viewers of any level or experience in kink. Using eXtreme Restraints props, toys and tech, they show you the newest toys to play with and invite sexy guests to try them out and share their unique and very explicit experience with them. You can enjoy the show via our podcast or on your computer screen at home whenever and wherever you like. Curious about bondage...
S11 E118 · Thu, May 04, 2023
On this month's episode of XR University, we have guest Bella Rolland join us to talk about female pleasure and help bridge the gap… the orgasm gap!
S10 E117 · Fri, March 10, 2023
With over 25% of the population identifying as disabled, knowing how to adjust for neutral positions that aren't painful and still let everyone feel sexy, empowered and feel pleasure is important. Our illustrious hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath invite an exciting new guest, Rachel, who lets us take a look inside the world of enjoying your body as a kinky, disabled person
S10 E116 · Fri, January 06, 2023
In this episode of XR University, hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr invite Zariah Aura, a gorgeous trans woman, to share how she uses sex toys to enhance her own pleasure and fully enjoy her body!
S10 E115 · Tue, November 01, 2022
Fantasize about role play scenes? Want to be a kinky animal? Enjoy the idea of "breeding" fantasies? On this episode of XR University, we get into our favorite part of BDSM, the element of having fun and playing! Everyone has a fantasy. How do we talk about it and bring it into the bedroom? Our hosts Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their guest Charlotte Sins dive into the psychology of role play and show us some of the toys that are great tools to make it happen!
S10 E114 · Mon, October 03, 2022
While How To Build A Sex Room takes viewers into the world of building new rooms, remodels and upgrades, our show shares ways to make it easy for yourself to create a spicy room that is specific and unique to your kinks and desires.
S10 E113 · Wed, August 31, 2022
Ian and Aiden, are joined by the vibrant Destiny Cruz to discuss the headspace and communication involved with proper, professional, fun, and stimulating bondage play. If you're wondering about Episode #112 that episode was too visual for an audio podcast. We suggest heading to our site for that one.
S10 E111 · Thu, July 07, 2022
In this episode of Extreme Restraints University, guests Daddy An Li and Elori join Ian Rath and Aiden Starr to teach and talk about Impact Play and Corporal Punishment! You can enjoy Aiden, Ian, Elori or An Li nerding out about the science of beating up the body with different toys and enjoy the combined experience and wisdom from all four of them.
S10 E110 · Wed, June 01, 2022
As people start meeting up via FetLife and munches again, dungeons, playspaces and parties bring us back to planning for fun and kinky nights. Preparing for the best scenario while also being cautious and careful is part of building a perfectly curated Play Bag.
S9 E109 · Mon, May 02, 2022
This week on XR University we tune in to Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their gorgeous and entertaining guest Paige Owens as they talk about the hot topic that’s on everyone’s minds since restrictions have been lifted: travel!
S9 E108 · Mon, April 04, 2022
As the world starts to open up, our “proverted” hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath (joined by Izzy Lush) help the audience understand how to be professional when trying new things.
S9 E107 · Tue, March 01, 2022
Get ready to get shocked, or at least surprised, at how fun and pleasurable E-stim can be! Ian and Aiden bring first time guest Electra Rayne into the studio.
S9 E106 · Tue, February 01, 2022
In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Alexia Anders to discuss how to use Valentine's Day as a springboard to better sex.
S9 E105 · Mon, January 03, 2022
Ian and Aiden are joined by Maya Woulfe to discuss your sexy new year's resolutions.
S9 E104 · Wed, December 01, 2021
Our hosts Ian and Aiden are joined by Vanessa Vega to discuss a sexual technique known as squirting.
S9 E103 · Fri, November 05, 2021
This month, Ian and Aiden are joined by Ruckus, to discuss both the prostate and pegging play. While we have a male guest to help demonstrate various types of play this episode is for anyone who identifies with having a prostate, and wants to discover new ways to stimulate it.
S9 E102 · Thu, September 30, 2021
Ian, Aiden, and special guest Kira Noir discuss and demonstrate Booty Sparks, a unique line of anal toys that include decorated gems, and flashing lights.
S9 E101 · Wed, September 01, 2021
Join Ian, Aiden, and Mistress An Li, as they discuss and demonstrate the practice of FemDom, or female domination. It includes impact and chastity play.
S9 E100 · Wed, August 04, 2021
Join Ian Rath, Casey Calvert, and Brooklyn Gray as they discuss how both women and men can introduce sex toys, and other bits of play, into your sexual routine.
S9 E99 · Mon, June 14, 2021
Get kinky dating tips from Casey Calvert and Kira Noir as they both speak with Ian Rath about kinky dating and how to find a kinky partner.
S9 E98 · Tue, May 04, 2021
Erectile Dysfunction, a common condition, affects around 3 million men per year, in the United States. Learn what to do from Ian, Aiden and Whitney.
S9 E97 · Wed, March 03, 2021
Celebrate Women's History Month, International Women's Day, and a new season of XRU with Ian and Aiden and the amazing Kendra James and discuss Femdom.
S8 E96 · Wed, February 03, 2021
With Valentine’s Day approaching, you have a chance to treat your partner, or yourself, with some sexual bliss. On this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by the lovely Penny Pax.
S8 E95 · Thu, December 10, 2020
This episode of XR University finds Ian and Aiden joined by the lovely Ashley Lane. The trio discuss some must have sex toys for your collection.
S8 E93 · Mon, October 05, 2020
Due to prolonged periods of isolation and self-quarantine, more people are turning to bondage play as a form of therapy. Learn more from Ian and Aiden, with special guest Kira Noir.
S8 E92 · Mon, August 17, 2020
Whether alone, or with a partner, masturbation can be stimulating and orgasmic. In this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by Lance Hart and Charlotte Sartre.
S8 E91 · Wed, July 08, 2020
Ian and Aiden are joined by Dixie Comet and Nate to discuss consent in relationships. Relationships are a 2 way street, and it's important for both partners to have a say in what goes on.
S8 E90 · Mon, June 01, 2020
Unless you happened to be quarantined with your significant other (or special someone), the events of recent weeks may have caused you to rely on technology to get your fix.
S8 E89 · Thu, April 30, 2020
Being stuck at home doesn’t have to be all bad. The team at XR University (Ian Rath and Aiden Starr) are joined by the luscious Casey Calvert to talk about how you can enjoy sexual play at home.
S8 E88 · Thu, March 05, 2020
XR University is back with a new episode. This time, the duo of Aiden and Ian are joined by the superb and sexy Kira Noir, to discuss high tech anal play.
S8 E87 · Mon, November 04, 2019
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr are joined by Sebastian Keys to discuss and demonstrate the latest technologies, around prostate stimulation.
S8 E86 · Wed, October 02, 2019
Ian and Aiden are joined by the alluring Kendra Spade, to discuss anal toys. Specifically, the advances in technology that are making anal play more enjoyable and approachable.
S8 E85 · Tue, September 03, 2019
This month, Ian and Aiden are joined by the luscious Lexi Lore. The trio get comfy, on the couch, and discuss adding electrosex to your sexual routine.
S8 E84 · Wed, July 31, 2019
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath along with Aiden Starr get into the topic of Bondage and Orgasms with sexy star Gia Derza. Learn about how to approach bondage with your partner.
S8 E83 · Tue, June 04, 2019
Fucking Machines is one of our most popular topics. With a variety of machines available, to fulfill a variety of needs, you should understand how each can serve a purpose and drive you.
S7 E82 · Wed, May 01, 2019
Did you know it's easy to include simple bondage products into your sexual play. Ian and Aiden are joined by sexy star Kira Noir to discuss and demonstrate how to use simple bondage gear.
S7 E81 · Tue, April 02, 2019
Prepare for a sausage fest. Ian and Aiden are joined by Sebastian Keys and Pierce Paris to talk about all things penis, from male chastity to CBT play.
S7 E80 · Fri, March 01, 2019
Ian and Aiden sit down with star Ivy LaBella to discuss pussy pumping. After some discussion, the three get right to business, showcasing how it all works.
S7 E79 · Thu, January 31, 2019
On this episode of XR University, Ian and Aiden are joined by Whitney Wright to discuss edging – the practice of bringing your partner as close to orgasm as possible, without letting them climax.
S7 E78 · Fri, December 28, 2018
On this episode of XR University, Aiden and Ian are joined by the amazingly sexy Casey Calvert to discuss anal stretching. Here’s an episode to let you know how to get full pleasure.
S7 E77 · Thu, November 29, 2018
In today’s episode, of XR University, Ian is joined by the sexy Kendra Spade to discuss how to incorporate temperature play into your routine(s).
S7 E76 · Wed, October 31, 2018
In this episode of XR University, Aiden Starr and Ian Rath are joined by the sexy Penny Pax. Together, they discuss the tech that goes into some modern toys. Then, Penny gets a chance to demonstrate.
S7 E75 · Wed, October 03, 2018
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show Ian Rath takes you on a look back at some of the early days of XR University, specifically from the first three seasons.
S7 E74 · Fri, August 31, 2018
September means back to school, and XR University is always showing you how to properly reinforce good behavior in your students. This month, we’re going to explore dungeon protocol.
S7 E73 · Wed, August 01, 2018
Ladies and gentlemen, strap yourself in because we’re going to be talking about strap-ons. We bring in the exciting, and adorable, Chloe Cherry to discuss strap-ons.
S7 E72 · Mon, July 02, 2018
Before you head out, for that romantic getaway, Ian Rath and Aiden Starr invite the sexy Kendra Spade to the show to discuss toys and gear good for traveling.
S6 E71 · Fri, June 01, 2018
Ian Rath, Aiden Starr, and Casey Calvert discusses the practice of sensory deprivation. This topic requires careful planning, and XR University is here to help.
S6 E70 · Wed, May 02, 2018
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath along with Aiden Starr talk impact play with special guest Chloe Cherry.
S6 E69 · Mon, April 02, 2018
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath along with Aiden Starr talk prostate stimulation, with Sebastian Keys.
S6 E68 · Fri, March 02, 2018
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath along with Aiden Starr talk D/s Communication with Casey Calvert. Learn how to play with a Dom or sub.
S6 E67 · Thu, February 01, 2018
On this episode of ‘XR University’ show co-hosts Ian Rath along with Aiden Starr get comfortable with Chloe Cherry.
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