The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome
A life of faith was never meant to be safe and clean. It’s an unpredictable, aggressive ride that will push you to your limits—and it’s the only way to live. On The Aggressive Life, author, adventurer, and pastor, Brian Tome, shares his honest, gritty, and faith-filled life, one built on the foundation of making aggressive moves. He is joined by guests from all walks of life who are doing the same. In a world that thrives on conflict, the real enemy is passivity. It’s time to punch back.
Tue, April 29, 2025
3 Ways to Elevate Your Marriage—Live from Couples Camp
Couples Camp isn’t a sit-and-get seminar. It’s a 48-hour adventure, full of laughter, fun, campfires, worship, teaching, and encouragement for the most important team you are part of—your marriage. In this teaching, recorded live at Couples Camp, Brian shares three simple ways you can take your marriage to the next level. Find out more, and stake your claim for future camps, at couplescamp.us
Tue, April 22, 2025
Grab The Steering Wheel of Your Life with Rich Franklin—UFC Legend (Part 2)
Brian continues his conversation with UFC Hall of Famer and MMA Legend Rich Franklin. In the second half of this two-part conversation, Rich and Brian discuss the power of consistency, what a Hall of Famer eats (and avoids at all costs), small steps to kickstart an aggressive life, and why they both gravitate toward hunting. Watch the full episode on YouTube ( Part 1 | Part 2 ).
Tue, April 15, 2025
An Insatiable Drive to Improve with Rich Franklin—UFC Legend (Part 1)
Rich Franklin is a legend, both inside and outside the Octagon. A middleweight title holder, and UFC Hall of Famer, Franklin built a career on toughness, fight IQ, and unbelievable resiliency—he once knocked out Chuck Liddell with a broken arm. Outside the ring, he’s just as driven. In business, in faith, and in his health, Rich Franklin has an unbreakable spirit that keeps him pushing forward. In part one of a two-part conversation, Rich and Brian discuss MMA, his storied UFC career, that unbelievable fight against Chuck Liddell, and how his aggressive life only sped up after leaving the Octagon behind. Watch the full podcast on Youtube, here .
Tue, April 08, 2025
What Is Prayer and How Do I Get It To Work?—One Question with BT
BT does a deep dive on prayer, one of the most misunderstood and underutilized spiritual disciplines. He covers common questions like: “ What is prayer?”, “How do I do it?” and “How do I get it to work?” Full of aggressive and actionable tips to get more yeses when you pray—things like (1) be animated, (2) be specific, and (3) picture what you are praying for—this short episode just might unlock something new for you when it comes to talking with, and hearing from, God. Watch BT’s most recent weekend teaching on prayer here . Check out BT’s first book, Welcome to the Revolution , here . Watch the full podcast on Youtube, here .
Tue, April 01, 2025
The Five Friendships You Need with Alli Patterson—Pastor, Author & Podcaster
Lone wolves are sicker, weaker, and die earlier than wolves in a pack. While loneliness continues to climb, the aggressive take action against it. Pastor and author, Alli Patterson, returns to The Aggressive Life to unpack her newest book: Blueprint for Belonging . She walks through the five types of friendships everyone needs, where to find them, and how to grow each one. In a world built to keep us in silos, the aggressive move is to get, and stay, connected. Watch the full episode on Youtube here .
Tue, March 25, 2025
Building A Marriage You Actually Want with Dave & Ann Wilson—Marriage Gurus
Dave and Ann Wilson have been helping others create the marriages they actually want for three decades—but their marriage wasn’t always one worth emulating. On their 10th wedding anniversary, Ann admitted that she had lost her feelings for Dave, taking him completely by surprise. Instead of arguing or fighting back, Dave took that moment to apologize and repent, and a new chapter for the Wisons began. With humor, vulnerability, and hard-won wisdom, the Wilsons share the secrets they’ve learned along the way that have elevated their marriage. This year, alongside BT and Lib, the Wilsons will be speaking and leading at Couples Camp. Reserve your spot here . Watch the full podcast on YouTube here .
Tue, March 18, 2025
Making “Ozark” and “The Accountant” with Mark Williams—Hollywood Writer & Producer
Mark Williams is one of the masterminds behind some of the best TV and movies of the past decade. He was a writer and producer for Netflix’s smash Ozark . He produced Ben Affleck’s action films The Accountant and The Accountant 2 . He’s done movies with Liam Neeson, Alfie Allen, and Jon Bernthal. But his next big swing just might be the most aggressive of his career. In this conversation, Mark takes us behind the scenes of Hollywood movie production, unpacks why stories matter, and explains why he’s risking his reputation to make a film about a nonprofit. Mark is an aggressive man making aggressive moves. His stories, and life, are inspiring. Watch the full episode on YouTube here .
Tue, March 11, 2025
Risk is Key to Growth in Friendships, Marriage, and Business with Ron Razete—Founder, Peace, Love and Little Donuts
When Ron Razete launched Peace, Love and Little Donuts, it was an incredible risk. After multiple failures in the entrepreneurial space, Ron and his wife, Marci, had their backs against the wall. With nowhere else to turn, she sold her car to finance the venture, and the couple opened their first brick and mortar store in Pittsburg. 15 years later, that risk has more than paid off, expanding to 30 locations in 11 different states. In this aggressive conversation with a long-time friend, Ron shares the unlikely history of Peace, Love and Little Donuts and the lessons learned along the way—take the risk, listen to your wife, and have fun. Watch the full podcast on YouTube here .
Tue, March 04, 2025
How to Put Your Phone Down and Live More with Darren Whitehead—The Digital Fast
Studies are clear: screens dominate our waking hours. It’s not uncommon to spend 7-10 hours in front of one, every single day. We don’t like it, but feel powerless to change it. That’s where Darren Whitehead comes in. A pastor, and author of “The Digital Fast,” Darren leads others to experience the power and life change he discovered through intentional disconnection. In a hyperconnected world, a digital detox is an incredibly aggressive move. It’s time to put your phone down and start living.
Tue, February 25, 2025
How to Be a Better Husband—One Question with BT
The phrase “how to be a better husband” is Googled nearly 2x as much as “how to be a better wife.” Why is that? And how do you know if you’ve found a good answer? With nearly 40 years of experience, BT gives his perspective on that question. To be a better husband, he believes it involves seeing your marriage as a team, spending your energy toward it, having a plan, and making space for fun together. Claim your spot at Couples Camp here . Watch the full podcast on YouTube here .
Tue, February 18, 2025
Growing Prophetic Spiritual Muscles with Paul Maconochie—Leader, Teacher, Pastor
Does prophecy still happen today? Paul Maconochie thinks so, and that God is speaking to anyone willing to listen. Alongside BT, Paul unpacks the ways he hears from God, the risk it takes to share with others, and how we can learn to do the same. This aggressive conversation will push you out of your comfort zone and into a better place—because the more you risk, the more you grow. Watch the full podcast on YouTube here .
Tue, February 11, 2025
Pushing Yourself to the Limit (and Beyond) with Dan Rebella—Runner, The Great World Race
Running has been in Dan Rebella’s blood for years, so when the ultimate challenge presented itself, he didn’t blink. In late 2024, Dan signed up for the inaugural running of The Great World Race—7 full marathons, on all 7 continents, in only 7 days. From the first race, in Antarctica, to the final in Miami Beach, Dan pushed himself to the utter limit, and came out the other side stronger. No matter if you like running or not, the lesson’s Dan picked up along the way about perseverance, faithfulness, and choosing the harder path have the power to push your life forward. Watch the full length episode on YouTube, here .
Tue, February 04, 2025
Hack Your Habits For A Better Life with Michael Easter—Researcher, Author, Rucker
Culture is constantly selling us something. Michael Easter thinks it's time we stop buying. The best-selling author of The Comfort Crisis and Scarcity Brain returns to the podcast to help us push back against the craving and consumerism that keep us in shackles. From understanding how slot machines keep you hooked, to the power of community, to why discomfort is always the path to a better life, this aggressive conversation is an engine to get you moving toward a better life. Watch the full length interview on YouTube, here .
Tue, January 28, 2025
5 Keys to Improving Your Finances with John Hope Bryant—Financial Literacy Expert & Coach
John Hope Bryant is a successful entrepreneur, author, and financial guru who believes financial literacy—understanding how to make, save, and spend money—is the civil rights issue of our era. And he’s doing something about it. He’s written best-sellers, advised presidents, and helped influence policymakers. But his most enduring work is as the CEO of Operation Hope, where John is helping teach financial literacy to all, giving everyday people the tools they need to make wise financial decisions. In a conversation that touches on everything from politics, to history, to tools for making more (and better use of your) money, John Hope Bryant is a deep well that will get your rear in gear.
Tue, January 21, 2025
Sports Betting, A Trip to the End of the World, and Raising Kids That Like You—Big News and a Mini Q&A with BT
Before we get too far into the New Year, it’s time for a Q&A episode. BT shares his thoughts on sports betting, how Santa Claus is like God, leading your family through deconstruction, and more. Before that, BT shares some big news coming for the podcast in 2025. The aggressive keep changing and adapting, and that includes us. Leave a rating and written review, get a free Aggressive Life sticker. Email Dirt for the details— dirt@briantome.com
Tue, January 14, 2025
Mental Health and Perseverance on the Appalachian Trail with Tara Dower - Speed Record Holder for the A.T.
The first time Tara Dower got on the Appalachian Trail, she only lasted a handful of days before anxiety and mental health forced her to abandon her goal of through-hiking the 2,000 mile footpath. But she didn’t give up. In 2024, Tara got back on the A.T. with the goal of claiming the FKT—fastest known time. When she reached the finish line in only 40 days, she became the fastest human ever to cover every mile of the A.T. This down-to-earth and hard working woman will push you to keep making forward progress on your aggressive life, and to keep getting up when you fall down.
Tue, January 07, 2025
How to Hear from God — One Question with BT
If you’re going to have a spiritually potent life, you have to learn how to hear from God. In this 1 Question deep-dive, BT shares his method for hearing from God: a daily repetition of scripture, prayer, and making space to listen. It takes persistence and perseverance, but when you learn how to hear from God for yourself, your aggressive life will hit new strides. - Create your own custom Bible reading plan at bibleplan.org . - Read scripture along with Brian on the free spiritual fitness app, Crossroads Anywhere . - For an easy introduction to spending time with God, try Brian’s new 60-day devotional for men.
Tue, December 31, 2024
What Makes a Man?—BT on The Art of Manliness Podcast
Earlier this fall, BT got to check off a bucket list item—appearing as a guest on The Art of Manliness podcast, one of the first, and most successful, podcasts aimed at a male audience. With over a 1,000 episodes under his belt, host Brett McKay has carved out a space that encourages, challenges, and helps men rise. In conversation with Brian, the pairs discuss what makes a man, the long haul of establishing friendships, and what it looks like to be a protector in the 21st century.
Mon, December 23, 2024
Eggnog with Santa on Christmas Eve with Gabby Claus—Professional Santa
Michael Gabbard—better known as Gabby Claus—has built a life out of serving others. From his time as a paramedic, to a firefighter, to a city council member and beyond, Gabby unexpectedly found his favorite role behind a big white beard and red suit. In his 13th year as Santa, Gabby Claus has a simple mission: bring Christmas smiles to everyone he meets. From city parks to home visits, pictures in the NICU to praying for grieving families, Gabby’s heart is as bottomless as Santa’s sack of toys. His aggressive joy is contagious.
Tue, December 17, 2024
Die Hard Double Feature: Finding God in Die Hard—BT’s “Christmas at the Movies” Teaching
For years, Brian has staked his claim that Die Hard is a Christmas movie. Now, he has stage time to explain why. As part of a weekend teaching series, “Christmas at the Movies,” Brian shares how Die Hard contains echoes of that original night in Bethlehem—from unideal family situations, to a hero that fights for his beloved. Recorded live at Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, Die Hard becomes a message of hope for everyone. Welcome to the party, pal.
Tue, December 17, 2024
Die Hard Double Feature: Behind the Scenes with Elizabeth Lane—Hollywood Developer, Die Hard
Die Hard is a cultural phenomenon. The one liners. The action. The relatable hero. And the debate that comes around every single year: is Die Hard a Christmas movie? Brian sits down with former Hollywood movie developer, Elizabeth Lane, to get a rare peek behind the curtain on the beloved film. Part of the team that helped move Die Hard from flailing script to action classic, Elizabeth reflects on its place in culture, the power of choosing Bruce Willis, and if the film was intended to be a Christmas classic. Yippee ki-yay, Merry Christmas!
Tue, December 10, 2024
BT’s Aggressive Moonshot—Unpacking the 10X Push with Joel Firebaugh
Fresh off six of the most intense, and important, weeks of his career, Brian sits down with coworker, Joel Firebaugh, for a conversation around the 10X Push. With nearly all of his peers winding down their careers, Brian is making the aggressive move to ramp up. Leading yourself, and others, through an intense journey that culminates in a 3-year financial commitment isn’t something to be taken lightly—but it just might be the thing that sets your life apart. Learn more about Crossroads’ 10X Push here .
Sat, December 07, 2024
Defense & Offense—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 5
For the past week, Brian has been sharing the first five entries from his newest book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life . Written to encourage and empower men toward lives of aggressive and courageous manhood, it is a perfect guide for men of all ages. On this final day, Brian sets his sights on Mark 5: Men Are Protectors … and that means having a strong offense and defense. Get your own copy of the devotional over on Amazon , or in bookstores everywhere.
Fri, December 06, 2024
The Right to Fight—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 4
To coincide with the release of his new book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life, Brian is sharing the first week of entries with his podcast. Written in a straight-forward, action-oriented way, this devotional is perfect for any man looking to further develop lives of meaning, impact, and influence. Today, Brian dives into Mark 4: Men Work … instead of expecting life on a silver platter, men know they have the right to fight for what matters most. Get your own copy of the devotional over on Amazon , or in the bookstore of your choice.
Thu, December 05, 2024
Grab a Shovel—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 3
To celebrate the release of his newest book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life , Brian is sharing the first five entries on the podcast. Designed with men of all ages in mind, the 60-day devotional is a masterclass in developing courageous manhood by putting it into practice, day-after-day-after-day. Today, Brian looks at Mark 3: Men Are Team Players … and that means, you better have a shovel ready. If you’re getting something from these podcasts, consider getting your own copy of the book over on Amazon , or wherever you purchase books.
Wed, December 04, 2024
Starting Small—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 2
This week, Brian is sharing the first five entries from his brand new book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life . The final book in The Five Marks of a Man trilogy, the 60-day devotional is a powerful guide to practicing courageous manhood until it becomes second nature. Today, Brian dives into Mark 2: Men Take Minority Positions … even when they are small. If you like what you hear, get your own copy of this new devotional on Amazon , or bookstores everywhere.
Tue, December 03, 2024
Time To Get Moving—Five Marks of a Man Devotional, Day 1
Brian’s new book, The Five Marks of a Man Devotional: 60 Days to a Powerful Life is live today! Born from years of study and practice, this book is designed to help men of all ages, from 13 to 103, develop lives of courageous manhood. How? By putting the marks into action until they become second nature. For the next five days, Brian will be sharing entries from the new book. If you like what you hear, you can pick up your own copy on Amazon , or wherever you purchase books. Today, he covers Mark 1: Men Have a Vision … and every vision requires you to move.
Tue, November 26, 2024
Use Your Words This Thanksgiving—BT’s Gratitude Phone Calls 2024
Just days away from Thanksgiving, BT picks up the phone for a new Aggressive Life tradition—making gratitude phone calls. From his wife, to a childhood friend, to unknown warriors at his day job, each phone call gives him a chance to encourage and express gratitude to the people who mean the most to him. Now the challenge is in your hands. Before the Thanksgiving holiday ends, find time to express your gratitude to the people who mean the most to you.
Tue, November 19, 2024
Lessons on Risk, Sex, and Hard Work from 60 Years of Marriage with Dick & Sybil Towner—Spiritual Mentors
You’ve never heard their names, but after this conversation, you won’t be forgetting them anytime soon. Dick and Sybil Towner are in their mid-80s, and still living life as some of the most aggressive people around. From starting a new adventure in their 70s; to intentionally aggressive choices around decision-making, sex, and finances; to how they spend their time on a daily basis, this couple is a force of nature. Their marriage, and life, is inspiring. There’s so much to learn in this one, you’ll want to keep a notepad close.
Tue, November 12, 2024
History’s Greatest Survival Story (Ernest Shackleton & The Endurance) with Nancy Koehn—Historian, Harvard Business School
The story of Ernest Shackleton, and the loss of his ship, The Endurance , is history’s greatest survival story. After nearly a year living on a ship stuck in Antarctic ice, the hull began to crack under the pressure. Shackleton ordered his men off the boat, making camp on the ice, as they watched the Endurance sink beneath the Weddell Sea… and that’s just the beginning of the story. From managing negativity, to navigating stormy seas in a lifeboat, to a never-give-up attitude, Erneset Shackleton led his crew through a grueling 2 year ordeal, until every single man was rescued. This is the incredible true story of one of history’s most aggressive men.
Wed, November 06, 2024
BONUS: The Morning After The Election with Jon Tyson—Thought-Leader, Pastor
Fresh off an airplane from New York City, pastor, author, and thought-leader, Jon Tyson, sits down for an impromptu conversation with Brian about the US election, the results, and what comes next. Recorded on November 6th, about 10AM, Brian and Jon process and analyze the election results together, and explain why there has never been a better time to be committed to God’s kingdom.
Tue, November 05, 2024
Connecting Emotional Health and Spiritual Maturity with Rich Villodas—Leader, Author, Pastor
You can’t be emotionally unhealthy AND spiritually mature—and thought-leader, Rich Villodas, has made it his mission to help others aggressively take ground in that arena. Whether it’s learning to express emotions, getting honest about the difficulty of life, or learning to stop judging your usefulness based upon what you can do, Rich offers accessible wisdom in crossing a topic that’s often fraught with landmines. With Rich, you’ll see, aggressiveness doesn’t always mean big, brash, and loud.
Tue, October 29, 2024
From Solitary Confinement to A Pulitzer Prize with Suave Gonzalez—Artist, Podcaster, Fighter
At the age of 17, Suave was arrested, tried as an adult, and found guilty. The mandatory minimum, at that time in the state of Pennsylvania, was life in prison. Before he was even old enough to vote, register for military service, or smoke, Suave was shipped away for life. While in prison, something began to shift in him. This rebellious, angry, and illiterate kid went on to learn to read, earn multiple college degrees, and even start a scholarship for the children of incarcerated individuals. Then, a miracle: nearly 15 years after his trial, a landmark court decision meant his case could be heard again—with the chance that Suave could be free. His story of survival, courage, and growth is remarkable, and the definition of aggressive. Check out the Pulitzer Prize winning podcast that tells his story, "Suave," wherever you listen to podcasts.
Tue, October 22, 2024
Grace Feels Like Getting Hit By a Train with Joby Martin—Hunter, Author, Pastor
Joby Martin pastors one of the largest, and fastest growing, churches in the world. And, at the end of the day, he’s still a normal guy who loves hunting, his family, and his dogs. With a remarkable ability to make complex spiritual truths accessible, Joby turns his eye toward grace. It’s the bedrock of Chrirstian faith, and yet remains one of the most misunderstood, misapplied, and abused concepts. With stories around hunting, rescuing his dogs, and martial arts, Joby unpacks the 9 essential truths about grace, and why experiencing true grace feels like getting hit by a train. This is one you don’t want to miss.
Tue, October 15, 2024
Rogan, Junger, and Lessons From Dying with John Burke—NDE Researcher & Expert
In the summer of 2020, best-selling author Sebastian Junger nearly died. He was rushed to the hospital, and while medical personnel administered emergency care, he slipped out of consciousness. It was then he began to see, and experience, things that he had a hard time explaining. The medical staff were successful, and Junger’s life was saved. Junger recently published his reflections on his near-death experience in a new book, “In My Time of Dying.” After hearing Junger interviewed on the Joe Rogan Experience, Brian wanted to dissect the conversation with NDE researcher and expert, John Burke. The close friends sit down to discuss what can be learned from Junger’s experience, and how it can influence our lives today. This is the 4th episode in a series around near-death experiences. Access past episodes below: Episode 1 - What Happens When We Die? with John Burke ( Spotify | Apple ) Episode 2 - What Happens When We Die? Q&A with John Burke ( Spotify | Apple ) Episode 3 - Meeting God on the Other Side with John Burke ( Spotify | Apple )
Tue, October 08, 2024
Walking on the Moon with Astronaut Charlie Duke—Apollo 16 Moonwalker
Only 12 men have ever set foot on the moon—in April 1972, Charlie Duke became the youngest among them. At the age of 36, Charlie was part of Apollo 16, spending nearly 3 days on the lunar surface collecting rocks, taking soil samples, and driving the lunar rover. And that’s only a small part of his incredibly aggressive life. From his involvement with the first lunar landing, to helping with Apollo 13, to the aggressiveness that keeps him working hard into his 90s, General Duke is a real American hero. His story and perspective will launch you forward.
Tue, October 01, 2024
Fighting For New Ground - Live at MAN CAMP 2024
When you try to take new ground, it means one thing: there will be a fight. Recorded under the big tent at MAN CAMP 2024, Brian unpacks the story of Caleb, who kept pushing for the high ground even into his 80s. No matter where you are in life, you aren’t finished yet. Keep fighting. MAN CAMP flash sale is happening right now. Claim your spot for next year at the lowest possible price. Visit mancamp.us for all details. Sale closes 10/6/2024.
Sun, September 29, 2024
Bonus: MAN CAMP 2024 - Songs & Stories
It's Sunday, and 3,000 guys are heading home from a MAN CAMP for the record books—more rain, more laughter, more mud, and more lives changed than ever before. This bonus episode features a mix of live worship, and stories collected in the Story Shitter. For one week, claim your spot at next year's MAN CAMP for the lowest possible price. Visit mancamp.us for the details.
Tue, September 24, 2024
2024 MAN CAMP On-Ramp: TB Monkeys, New Land, and Getting the Most Out of the Weekend with 512 & Windex—MC Cofounders
MAN CAMP 2024 is just days away. With more men heading to camp than ever before, MAN CAMP cofounders Judd Watkins (512) and Craig Dockery (Windex) join Brian for a hilarious and insightful conversation designed to get everyone up to speed. In a hour, they manage to cover everything from the exotic wildlife that used to call MAN CAMP home, to what to pack (and what to avoid), to tips for making the weekend count. Whether you’re attending MAN CAMP or not, this is conversation not to be missed.
Tue, September 17, 2024
NASCAR’s Pit Crew Pastor with Donnie Floyd—Hendrick Motorsports
At every fork in the road, it seems Donnie Floyd has made the aggressive move. From choosing to not become a victim of a childhood Tourette’s diagnosis, to serving in the military, to a dream job as part of the crew at Hendrick Motorsports, NASCAR’s premier racing team, each choice has paid dividends into his life. When tragedy struck the Hendrick team, Donnie found himself pastoring his coworkers, eventually leading to a job as the team chaplain. Donnie’s aggressive story will have you considering where you are selling yourself short, and convince you to get back behind the wheel.
Tue, September 10, 2024
Your AI Questions Answered with Chad Reynolds—Vurvey AI Systems
Will AI take my job? How does AI funding affect the output? Will AI have a role to play in the church? How are you personally leveraging AI to make your life more effective? These are just a handful of the AI questions you wanted answered. Alongside AI expert and entrepreneur, Chad Reynolds, Brian talks about the impact of AI on his life, his faith, and the future. If you are fearful about AI, overjoyed at the possibilities, or somewhere in between, this aggressive Q&A episode will push you to keep moving forward.
Tue, September 03, 2024
Microskills To A More Connected Life with Lakshmi Rengarajan—Dating and Connection Expert
In our world it’s become easier and easier to meet… but more and more difficult to actually connect. A leader in both modern dating culture and workplace connection, Lakshmi Rengarajan unpacks the surprisingly simple ways to live a more connected life—from asking for help, to borrowing items, to investing in Tupperware. She’s an energetic and aggressive guest with wisdom that can change that state of your relationships today.
Tue, August 27, 2024
Breaking Free From the Gravitational Pull Of Your Phone with Joey Odom—Aro
We’re all aware of just how disruptive the little computers in our pockets have become… and yet, most of us feel powerless to stop it. Not Joey Odom. After experiencing the pain of a missed opportunity because of his phone, Joey vowed to do something about it. Soon after, Aro was born, a worldwide movement—not to get rid of phones—but to help reclaim some of the time we all waste on them. This aggressive conversation is full of practical wisdom to help you take steps toward improving your digital wellness.
Tue, August 20, 2024
Riding on God’s Shoulders—Your MAN CAMP Stories
700+ acres of rolling hills, down by the Ohio River, has been the site of profound moments of spiritual transcendence for thousands of men. It could be the same for you. On today’s episode, nine men share their MAN CAMP stories of freedom, grit, and transformation. Registration for MAN CAMP 2024 is open until September 1st. Stake your claim here .
Tue, August 13, 2024
Is AI the Boogeyman or a Creative Breakthrough? with Chad Reynolds—Vurvey AI Systems
Chad Reynolds is an AI-insider and expert. The founder and CEO of Vurvey, he is on the cutting edge of developing people-powered AI systems, work that’s led him to collaborate with the world's top brands like Adidas and Google. In this timely and aggressive conversation, Chad unpacks the promise, and pitfalls, of artificial intelligence… and why he ultimately has more hope than fear.
Tue, August 06, 2024
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby with Kingdom Sexuality—Sex Podcasters and Content Creators
There’s no topic more exciting, and rife with landmines, than sex. That’s where Kingdom Sexuality comes in. With a popular podcast, resources, and content, the team is helping married couples reclaim active and satisfying sex lives. Brain is joined by Alana and Tiera, 2/3s of the Kingdom Sexuality team, for a conversation as lively, hilarious, and helpful as you’ll ever hear around the topic. Put their advice into action, and who knows how tonight might end.
Tue, July 30, 2024
You're Stronger Than You Think You Are—Live at MAN CAMP
Life can be hard, but God believes you can face it. He isn’t unaware of your pain; instead, He may be giving you the opportunity to show your tenacity, strength, and endurance. That’s what happened when Jesus’ cousin, John, ended up in jail. He was hoping Jesus was coming to set him free, but Jesus had other plans. Recorded live in front of nearly 3,000 guys at MAN CAMP 2023, this final live talk of the summer combines grit and encouragement we all need. Sign up for MAN CAMP at www.mancamp.us , and take 15% with the code podcast15.
Tue, July 23, 2024
The Power of Spiritual Gravitas—Live with Student Influencers
Certain people have a gravitas to their lives, a weightiness that you notice whenever you are around them. This isn’t an inborn trait, it’s a muscle that can be developed—if you’re willing to make decisions that go against cultural norms. In this talk, recorded on an iPhone in a room full of high school leaders, Brian unpacks this idea, the importance of youth, and why it’s never too early (or late) to develop gravitas.
Tue, July 16, 2024
If God is Good, Why Do Bad Things Happen?—Brian on the "Surviving Grief" Podcast
It’s likely your best—and worst—days are still ahead of you. How you prepare for, and face them, could make all the difference. In this appearance on the new podcast, “Surviving Grief,” Brian discusses making it through difficult days with your faith intact, and tackles one of life’s most challenging questions: why do bad things happen? If you are facing grief of your own, or walking through grief with a loved one, be sure to check out Surviving Grief wherever you listen to podcasts ( Apple | Spotify )
Tue, July 09, 2024
Punching Back at Loneliness—Live with Crossroads Staff
Nothing will affect the trajectory of your life like the people you surround yourself with. Friendship matters, much more than most of us understand or are willing to admit. In this live talk, delivered to a gathering of male staff members at Crossroads, Brian explains the importance of having good people around you—and what it takes to find friendship in a world drowning in loneliness. Listen, put it into action, and your life will begin to level up.
Tue, July 02, 2024
Growing Lifelong Friendship With Your Kids—Live at Father+Son Camp
Every parent wants to cultivate a lifelong relationship with their kids, but how do you actually get there? In this accessible and incredibly practical talk, recorded at Crossroads Father+Son camp, Brian shares the steps he took to grow genuine friendship with his kids. Hint: it’s all about the transition between each stage of parenting. Learn more about Father+Son camp, including registration for the next one, here .
Tue, June 25, 2024
Cattle Drives, Leading at Home, and Wake-Makers—Listener Q&A with BT
You asked, BT answers. Fielding questions submitted by listeners via Instagram, Brian tackles everything from what he learned on a legit cattle drive, to his favorite forms of tobacco, to how he processed the online uproar over the Super Bowl of Preaching. Along the way, he also takes time to consider what items he’d take into the wilderness, why he’s so interested in learning new things, and how wake-makers are key to any organization. This unscripted Q&A is just the boost to keep you moving aggressively this summer.
Tue, June 18, 2024
What to Expect in Each Decade of Life with Bobb Biehl—Executive Mentor, Author, Sage
What if life wasn’t nearly as unpredictable as we think? That’s what executive mentor, Bobb Biehl, believes. After 50 years working with some of the most successful executives and brands on the planet, he’s uncovered patterns, challenges, and opportunities that every person will face in life—and he’s organized them by decades. According to Bobb, your 20s are for discovering what you don’t want to do; your 40s are about survival; and your 60s are the most impactful decade of your life. In a world that leaves us all feeling perpetually behind, Bobb’s learnings are a breath of fresh air.
Fri, June 14, 2024
Father’s Day Bonus: Brian Reads “The Five Marks of a Father”—Audio Articles Podcast
In this crossover episode from the Audio Articles podcast, Brian reads (and adds extra commentary) on his original article, “The Five Marks of a Father.” While Father’s Day can be complicated for some, Brian helps redefine what it means to be fathered, and shares ideas on how to aggressively make the day count. Read the original article here . Find more articles from Brian here .
Tue, June 11, 2024
Getting Back Up After a Hard Hit with Jim Kelly—NFL Legend, QB Buffalo Bills
You might think life as an NFL legend would be a cakewalk… but that’s not been Jim Kelly’s experience. The Buffalo Bills great has overcome more than his fair share of pain—from four straight Super Bowl losses, to a grim cancer diagnosis, to the death of his son from a rare neurological disorder. Like any great QB after a hard hit, each time Jim has gotten back up, dusted himself off, and kept going. In this aggressive conversation, Jim puts on a clinic around resilience and the lessons difficulty can teach.
Tue, June 04, 2024
We’re Overdue for a Spiritual Awakening, So How Do We Get There? With Dr. Michael McClymond—Historian and Professor, Saint-Louis University
According to the foremost expert on the topic, spiritual revivals and awakenings happen about every 50 years in American history. We’re long past the overdue mark. For whatever time he has left, Brian is focused on learning about, and doing everything he can, to be part of an awakening, a movement of God that makes history. Dr. Michael McClymond has written the definitive guide to every revival and awakening in American history—a two volume set that is over 1,200 pages long. Dr. McClymond brings his expertise into an aggressive conversation on what it takes to be part of spiritual history.
Tue, May 28, 2024
You Are More Than Your Enneagram Number with Ian Morgan Cron—Enneagram Expert, Podcaster, Author
Ian Morgan Cron is an Enneagram expert, the host of the insanely popular Typology podcast, and a best-selling author… who also just happens to be an Episcopal priest, a songwriter, and a psychotherapist. In this aggressive conversation, Ian breaks down the history of the Enneagram, shares healthy (and unhealthy) ways to use it, and explains why it’s critical to live beyond your personality type.
Tue, May 21, 2024
Fighting the Shadows that War Against Men with Jon Tyson—Leader, Author, Pastor
If you never look into the shadows, you’ll never know what’s lurking there. Friend of the Aggressive Life, Jon Tyson, is equipping men to take that step, believing it is the key to pushing their lives forward. As well as being a NYC pastor and leading voice on issues related to men, Jon’s new book, “ Fighting Shadows: Overcoming 7 Lies That Keep Men From Becoming Fully Alive ,” releases today. It is a tour-de-force equipping and empowering men to not just survive, but thrive. Jump into this aggressive talk between friends, then find Jon’s new book wherever you get your books.
Tue, May 14, 2024
Changing the Way We Think About (and Buy) Cars with Kelly Stumpe—The Car Mom
Kelly Stumpe saw a gaping hole in the auto industry and she aggressively ran right through it. Also known as The Car Mom, she posts honest and insightful reviews of cars, vans, and SUVs that focus on things consumers care most about—the storage space, the cup-holders, and can you really get three carseats in the back row? She has built a thriving online community that focuses on empowering consumers (especially moms), disrupting the mighty auto-industry in its wake. This fun, insightful, and aggressive conversation will change the way you think about your four wheels.
Tue, May 07, 2024
A Trip to Hell & A Second Chance at Life with Howard Storm—Near-Death Experiencer, Professor, Author
Art professor, Howard Storm, will never forget his trip to Paris. While traveling with students, he began to feel sick. A trip to the hospital revealed a tear in his duodenum, quickly filling his body cavity with poisonous fluids. Howard’s prognosis was dire, and while waiting for a surgeon to arrive, he died. What he experienced next—a trip toward Hell and a miraculous rescue—would change the course of the rest of his life. Howard’s incredible story just might change the way you think about life, death, and what comes next.
Tue, April 30, 2024
Taming a Wild Horse in 60 Minutes with Todd Pierce—Horse Whisperer, Cowboy
Todd Pierce is a legit horse whisperer. He routinely gets into the round pen with a wild horse, one he’s never laid eyes on before, and will be riding it in less than an hour. His secret? Kindness and authority. He never hurts horses, punishes them, or takes a heavy hand. Instead, he shows them that he can be trusted, that he is good, and that he can offer the horse more than it currently has. Todd is an unbelievably aggressive man whose life is spilling over with wisdom that just might change your life. Todd will be training wild horses in Cincinnati, Ohio, May 2nd-5th. Find more information about in-person experiences and live streams at www.crossroads.net/born-wild
Tue, April 23, 2024
The Happiness-Marriage Connection with Dr. Brad Wilcox—Director of the National Marriage Project, Sociologist, Professor
Dr. Brad Wilcox’s angle is simple—marriage is a good thing for couples, children, communities, and the world. As the Director of the National Marriage Project, he leads a group of committed sociologists studying national marriage trends in America. What he’s seeing is alarming. Marriage rates are on a decline, age at first marriage is on the rise, and many people are writing off the institution as outdated and unnecessary. Dr. Wilcox is using all his energy to push back on that narrative, encouraging men and women to pursue marriage because, in his own words, “nothing predicts overall happiness as much as a good marriage.” Whether you are married or not, there’s something in here to push your relational life forward.
Tue, April 16, 2024
Building Life Around Friendships with Rhaina Cohen—Journalist and Author
What if the key to a meaningful life wasn’t in landing the dream job, finding a perfect spouse, or achieving all your personal goals? Journalist and author, Rhaina Cohen, believes the secret lies in the very thing most of us put on the back-burner as adults—friendships. In this aggressive conversation, Rhaina discusses the importance of friendships in ancient cultures, what kids can teach us about making friends, why men are at a disadvantage, and why proximity to friends matters. This aggressive woman will push you to take steps toward reimagining life with friendships at the center.
Tue, April 09, 2024
Busy as a Beaver with Pete Rogers—USDA Beaver Trapper, Outdoor Podcaster and Author
If you look close enough, you’ll find aggressiveness even among nature. Case in point: beavers. USDA Beaver Trapper, Pete Rogers, has spent his life wrangling the hardest working mammal on earth. The lessons he’s learned go well beyond just his 9-5. Pete is a popular podcastor, author, and outdoorsman. In this aggressive discussion, he shares lessons he’s gleaned from a life spent outdoors.
Tue, April 02, 2024
Generosity Is Never A Bad Idea with Jimmy Darts—The Nicest Guy On The Internet, Influencer
Who says nice guys finish last? Jimmy Darts is proving otherwise, and just might be the brightest corner of the Internet. After building a following from trick shot videos and pranks, Jimmy shut his YouTube channel down. After a life-changing experience with Jesus, he restarted with a different perspective: blessing people in need. Jimmy creates original videos giving money to people who need it most. Be prepared for allergies, your eyes will get very moist. Jimmy is an aggressive man making a difference.
Tue, March 26, 2024
A Scientist Examines Crucifixion with Dr. Cahleen Shrier—Biologist, Stress-Expert
Hearing the story of the crucifixion, and walking through it with a biologist, are two different things. Dr. Cahleen Shrier, a professor at Azusa Pacific University and an expert on the neurobiology of stress and anxiety, walks Brian, step-by-step, through the events of Good Friday. From Jesus’ arrest in the garden, until his death on the cross, she explains what was likely happening inside his body, the pain he felt, and the endurance he showed. It is a painful, and sobering, conversation that will help you take a new look at these ancient events.
Tue, March 19, 2024
Marriages Don’t Thrive on Monotony—A Taste of Couples Camp
Monotony isn’t leading you anywhere. In marriage, you need excitement, variety, and fun to be at your best. There’s where Couples Camp comes in. It’s 48-hours of adventure together, and it just might be the most fun you’ve had in a long time. Brian answers listener submitted questions about Couples Camp, then shares a live talk from last year. Claim your spot for this year’s Couples Camp at couplescamp.us .
Tue, March 12, 2024
Dismantling the KKK Through Friendship with Daryl Davis—Musician and Activist
You aren’t supposed to become friends with the people who hate you—but that’s exactly what Daryl Davis did. After a chance encounter with a KKK member in a Maryland bar, Daryl struck up a friendship that changed both of their lives. The KKK member renounced the group, and Daryl got access to do the thing he wanted: become the first African-American to write a book on the KKK based on first-person interviews. Through the years, as the men Daryl has met and befriended have left the Klan behind, he’s collected a closet full of their robes, flags, and memorabilia. Davis’ is personally responsible for some 50 men leaving the Klan behind, and indirectly responsible for some 200 more. How? His secret weapon is friendship. He is an incredibly aggressive man with a story you have to hear to believe.
Tue, March 05, 2024
Naming and Using Your Superpower
What is your superpower? More importantly, do you know how to use it? Life levels up when you learn to leverage your strengths—you’ll play better offense and you’ll stop spinning your wheels on improving weaknesses that don’t matter. In this training, Brian unpacks the Biblical idea of anointing, how it influences the people around you, and the end goal it always drives to.
Tue, February 27, 2024
Lines and Circles: The Yin and Yang of Jesus
The seats get switched for an unexpected and insightful conversation that finds BT as the guest on his own podcast. Interviewed by his friend and colleague, Kyle Ranson, Brian covers topics like the yin and yang of Jesus, shutting out the old man to keep taking risks, and why the moon landing makes him emotional. It’s an aggressive hour that will keep you guessing and get you moving.
Tue, February 20, 2024
How Hospitality Built an Ice Cream Empire with Chip Graeter—Greater’s Ice Cream
Cincinnati’s own, Graeter’s Ice Cream, just might have the best scoop on the planet. It’s made with fresh ingredients the old-fashioned way—they still make ice cream two gallons at a time and hand pack each pint. While all that is central to Graeter’s success, it's their commitment to hospitality and customer-service that sets them apart from the field. Chief of Retail Operations, Chip Graeter, shares the family secrets, and his favorite scoops, in an Aggressive Life interview unlike any other.
Tue, February 13, 2024
Valentine’s Rewind—Libby Tome, Q&A with a Sex Therapist, and Camping
Just in time for Valentine’s Day, Brian shares clips from some of his favorite episodes on relationships, marriage, and sex. From his wife’s first appearance on the show, to a return visit by a sex therapist to answer listener questions, to a live talk from Couples Camp, there’s something in here for everyone. Put what you hear into practice, and it just might have the power to change your Valentine’s Day. Check out the full length episodes at the links below: Love and Relationship Q&A with Libby Tome ( Apple | Spotify ) Your Sex Questions Answered with Emma Schmidt - Part 1 ( Apple | Spotify ) Your Sex Questions Answered with Emma Schmidt - Part 2 ( Apple | Spotify ) Marriage Isn't About Your Happiness - Live at Couples Camp ( Apple | Spotify )
Tue, February 06, 2024
Living on Purpose with Rick Warren—The Purpose Driven Life
It’s not an exaggeration to say, Rick Warren has sold more books than any other person on the planet… ever. His book, Purpose Driven Life , is the most published, the most translated, and the most sold book in history, aside from the Bible. It sounds like rainbows and runaway success, but his story is anything but. Rick has walked through significant pain and loss that required levels of determination and grit he didn’t know possible. He has come out the other side and earned the right to be heard. His wisdom on finding, and living, your purpose has changed millions of lives. Yours could be next.
Tue, January 30, 2024
Ghost Hunting, Weed, Talking to Your Kids about Sex, and More—Listener Q&A
BT spends an hour answering a grab bag of listener questions submitted via Instagram. Do you believe in aliens? Is it sinful to go ghost hunting? What is your best advice for raising daughters? How do I talk to my kids about porn? What does the Bible say about cussing? BT brings his perspective on all these questions, and much, much more. Missed your chance to submit a question? Follow BT on Instagram so you don’t miss the next opportunity.
Tue, January 23, 2024
Your 9-5 Has Eternal Significance with Jordan Raynor—Author, “The Sacredness of Secular Work”
While almost everybody is working for the weekend, Jordan Raynor has a different perspective. He believes your 9-5 has eternal significance, even if (or especially if) you labor in a “secular” job. His new book, “The Sacredness of Secular Work,” emphasizes the importance of work ethic, understanding the holistic story of scripture, and redeeming the idea of heaven. A leading voice in the faith at work movement, Jordan is a refreshing and brilliant guest who will change the way you think about work from here on out.
Mon, January 15, 2024
The MLK You Didn’t Learn About in School with Chuck Mingo & Troy Jackson—Undivided
Martin Luther King Jr. is on the shortlist of the most influential people in history. But much of what we know about the pastor and civil rights figure is summarized and sanitized. Alongside historian Troy Jackson, and modern racial justice leader Chuck Mingo, get reintroduced to the aggressive life of Dr. King, and let his wins (and losses) push you to fight for a better tomorrow. Learn more about the work of Undivided here .
Tue, January 09, 2024
When Winning Looks Like Losing with Matt Chandler—Pastor, Speaker, Author
The aggressive life isn’t necessarily the easy life. Matt Chandler knows this first-hand. Just when it looked like he was on top of the world, things started to crumble. He fought through a debilitating brain cancer diagnosis, made the aggressive choice to shrink his church (on purpose), and grappled with the lessons of suffering. Incredibly, he’s come out the other side more resilient, a better leader, and a more engaged father. Matt Chandler is a deep well of aggressiveness that will inspire you to get into the game.
Tue, January 02, 2024
The Key To a Better 2024—Live from Brian’s Garage
As a new year begins, join Brian live in his garage for a special edition of his Youtube show, Garage Bible Study . Using his Jeep restoration project as an example, Brian unpacks his method for looking back on the past year, and finding vision for the next. No matter if 2023 was a banner year for you, or you’re happy to see it go, you can have a better year in 2024 by learning to take stock. Find more of Brian’s Youtube show, Garage Bible Study , here .
Tue, December 26, 2023
An Exorcist, A Spy, and Braveheart —A Look Back at 2023
2023 was a landmark year for The Aggressive Life. In this retrospective episode, Brian looks back on some of his favorite interviews of the year—from his initial conversation with Father Vincent Lampert, a trained-in-Rome exorcist, to Braveheart screenwriter Randall Wallace. Missed the initial conversations, or need a refresh? Find links to the full episodes below. Standing Up to the Devil with Fr. Vincent Lampert ( Spotify | Apple ) Praying Live on ESPN with Dan Orlovsky ( Spotify | Apple ) Getting Off the X with Michelle Rigby Assad ( Spotify | Apple ) Play is the Key to a Better Life with Dr. Stuart Brown ( Spotify | Apple ) Live Better By Getting Outside with Ginny Yurich ( Spotify | Apple ) “They May Take Our Lives, But They’ll Never Take Our Freedom!” with Randall Wallace ( Spotify | Apple )
Tue, December 19, 2023
Growing Christmas Trees (and Traditions) For Over 50 Years with Sheldon Corsi—2nd Generation Christmas Tree Farmer
Corsi Tree Farm is Cincinnati's largest and longest-running Christmas tree farm, covering over 100 acres of evergreens in a variety of types and sizes. The man behind it all, Sheldon Corsi, is humble and hard-working, investing 7-10 years of labor into a tree that might spend 30 days at the center of your Christmas celebrations. Learning the tricks of the trade from his father, he’s been growing trees and creating holiday traditions for over 50 years. In this conversation, he talks about everything from taking over the family business, learning how to hand shear trees, to secrets that will keep your tree lasting through the holiday and beyond. He’s a good and aggressive man who will change the way you think about your own holiday traditions. Find out more about Corsi Tree Farm here .
Tue, December 12, 2023
Much More Than a Haircut with Sam Hills—High Five Salon, Owner and Founder
High Five Salon is one of the most successful and innovative salons in the midwest. The secret to their success isn’t excellence—it’s taking the time to see, know, and encourage every single person who comes through their door. Behind it all is Sam Hills, the owner and founder. He’s an aggressive man literally changing the world one haircut at a time. Just like if you spent time in his chair, you'll leave this podcast feeling encouraged, and with insights into the power of generosity, green lights, and taking the time to see others.
Tue, December 05, 2023
Traveling the World on the Backs of Friends with Kevan Chandler—Adventurer, Entrepreneur
Kevan Chandler was born with a rare neuromuscular disease, making him dependent upon others for all of his physical needs—movement, food, even going to the bathroom. No one could blame him for living life from a place of self-pity, anger, or disappointment, but that's not Kevan. Through sacrifice and vulnerability, he’s built a band of friends who are more like brothers. When Kevan had the idea to travel to Europe, his band of brothers responded—six friends covered three countries, taking turns carrying Kevan on their back as they meandered through Paris, hiked the English countryside, and scaled an Irish island. Even with his unique challenges, Kevan is committed to living an aggressive life. His attitude and approach is refreshing.
Tue, November 28, 2023
Fun Isn’t Frivolous, It’s Essential—Brian on “1000 Hours Outside with Ginny Yurich”
Earlier this month, Brian got the chance to appear as a guest on The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast with new friend, author, and changemaker Ginny Yurich. The quick-hitting conversation covered everything from the Five Marks of a Man, to the power of play to change your life, to the birth of MAN CAMP and everything in-between. It’s an aggressive and fun hour that puts Brian on the hot-seat. If you missed Ginny’s appearance on The Aggressive Life , where she discussed the power of being outside to change your life, check it out here ( Spotify | Apple ). If you like what you heard, subscribe to Ginny’s podcast, 1000 Hours Outside , available wherever you listen to podcasts, to not miss a single episode ( Spotify | Apple ).
Tue, November 21, 2023
Thanksgiving Special: Gratitude Phone Calls
Science is beginning to show what the Bible already teaches: gratitude can change your emotional, spiritual, and even physical health. This Thanksgiving, Brian is picking up the phone and making the aggressive move: calling friends and family, to tell them exactly how much they mean to him. Listen in, and then take the aggressive gratitude challenge for yourself. This Thanksgiving, let the people you love know it, and see just how much gratitude changes things.
Tue, November 14, 2023
Play is the Key to a Better Life with Dr. Stuart Brown—National Institute for Play, Founder
Dr. Stuart Brown has quantified what every young child already knows—play makes life more enjoyable. While most adults tend to age out of play, Dr. Brown believes it’s the key to lives that are fulfilling, fun, and flourishing, no matter the age. Play re-creates us physically, leads to breakthroughs mentally, and builds healthy relationships. From his early research, in the aftermath of a shocking school shooting, to studying felony inmates and animals in the wild, Dr. Brown is the world’s foremost expert on the importance of play. As the founder of the National Institute for Play, Dr. Brown’s aim is to make play understood as a public health necessity. Having had a profound impact on Brian, this aggressive conversation has the power to point you toward a better (and more play-filled) future.
Tue, November 07, 2023
“They May Take Our Lives, But They’ll Never Take Our Freedom!” with Randall Wallace—Braveheart Screenwriter
Randall Wallace spent years writing the screenplays he thought Hollywood wanted, only to see them go nowhere. With his back against the wall, he decided to take one final attempt, focusing on the story he wanted to tell. That script, Braveheart, found its way into the hands of Mel Gibson—and the rest is history. From there, Randall went on to write and direct The Man in the Iron Mask, We Were Soldiers, Pearl Harbor, and Disney’s Secretariat. In this conversation, Randall explains how a chance encounter in Scotland led him to the story of William Wallace, how pressure fuels creativity, and what it’s like to push all your chips in. Randall is a creative and aggressive man who will inspire you to keep moving.
Tue, October 31, 2023
Meeting God on the Other Side with John Burke—Near-Death Experience Expert
The most listened-to guest in the history of The Aggressive Life, John Burke, returns to share new insights and research from his lifetime of studying near-death experiences. This time, he’s focusing on what near-death experiences can teach us about God—what He is like, what He values, and what He expects of us. After interviewing thousands of NDErs, John discovered incredible similarities in their stories, despite these people coming from all walks of life, backgrounds, and countries around the world. The stories John shares will give you hope, paint God in a new light, and just might change the way you think about the afterlife. If you haven’t yet, check out Brian’s first conversation with John, “What Happens When We Die?” at the following links: Apple or Spotify .
Tue, October 24, 2023
Stories from MAN CAMP 2023
Over the weekend, 2,700 men from all over the United States, and multiple international countries, descended on 400 acres near the Ohio River for MAN CAMP 2023. They laughed around campfires, drank some 80 kegs of beer, and pushed themselves past their spiritual, emotional, and physical comfort zones. And they came out different. These are some of their stories. Inside a decommissioned outhouse, speaking into an old military field telephone, man after man spoke of heartache, learning to seek God, and finding redemption. From tales of past traumas, to new life breathed into marriages, to learning the importance of friendships, these stories are what MAN CAMP is all about. If you need a reason to hope, to believe that God still moves in the lives of men, this is it. Step into the outhouse with us, and find your life changed in the process. Find out more about MAN CAMP, and get early bird tickets for next year’s event, at mancamp.us
Sun, October 22, 2023
Bonus: MAN CAMP Worship—Live Under the Big Tent 2023
Today, nearly 3,000 guys are wrapping up a weekend off-the-grid. They camped. They worked. They laughed. They shared their lives. And they sang at the top of their lungs. While we don’t think of men singing, this is something warriors have done for all of history—huddled together, singing songs, before going into battle. As the men of MAN CAMP 2023 head back to their normal lives, they’re going with these songs in their hearts and in their minds. There is nothing like worship with 3,000 of your brothers. If you attended MAN CAMP this year, let these worship songs steel you for the battles ahead. If you want a taste of MAN CAMP, this is a great place to start. Find out more at mancamp.us or on Instagram @mancamp.us
Tue, October 17, 2023
The Road to MAN CAMP with 512 & Windex—MAN CAMP Cofounders
In just three days, men from all over the country (and world) will begin trickling onto 400 acres in the small town of Neville, Ohio. It’s our 14th, and biggest, MAN CAMP. Nearly 3,000 men will spend the weekend off the grid getting built into spiritually, developing friendships, and having fun. It's one of the defining weekends of the year, but how did we get here? Alongside his friends, 512 (Judd Watkins) and Windex (Craig Dockery), Brian relives the history of MAN CAMP, and why it matters more now than it ever has. Find more at mancamp.us and follow along on Instagram @mancamp.us
Thu, October 12, 2023
Bonus Replay: Unpacking the Conflict in Israel with Calev Myers—Civil Rights Lawyer & Activist
Calev Myers doesn’t just talk about peace between Palestinians and Israelis, he actually puts his back into it. As a civil rights lawyer and activist, Calev works for the good of the region. A Jew who loves his homeland, Calev has also represented and defended Palestinians before ruling bodies like the European Parliament. He is the founder of the Alliance to Reinforce Israel’s Security and Economy (ARISE), working for strong economic collaboration between Israel and Palestine as the region's best hope for peace. Originally recorded in 2021, this aggressive conversation will help bring clarity to the current conflicts in the region. You can support Calev’s work at www.ariseforisrael.com , or support aid work in the region through www.convoyofhope.org .
Tue, October 10, 2023
An Exorcist Answers Your Questions about Ghosts, Possession Movies, and Halloween with Fr. Vincent Lampert—Exorcist
The Aggressive Life’s favorite exorcist is back to answer questions you submitted via Instagram. He covers everything from ghosts, to Halloween, to what he thinks about possession movies, and everything in between. Despite his heavy job—this man does cast out demons as part of his workweek—Father Lampert is a light, joyful, and smiling presence. He is contagious, in the best way possible, and his answers are thorough, helpful, and even surprising. He is a good man aggressively going after God, and this episode will push you forward. Check out Brian's first conversation with Fr. Lampert, "Standing Up to the Devil," at the following links: Apple , Spotify , Briantome.com
Tue, October 03, 2023
Redefining Masculinity—Brian on “Still Standing with Alli Patterson"
A few weeks back, Brian had the opportunity to switch seats, appearing as a guest on the “Still Standing with Alli Patterson” podcast. Together, they talked about masculinity, why it’s hard to feel compassion for men, and the five things men always do that boys will avoid at all costs. It’s a hard-hitting conversation that will push you to keep taking ground in your own life. This is your last opportunity to pre-order two new books in the Five Marks of a Man library—a fully updated version of the original The Five Marks of a Man , as well as a new Tactical Guide designed to implement the marks into your life. All pre-orders qualify for a free poster download. Find more information at briantome.com/fivemarks .
Tue, September 26, 2023
Faithfulness Isn’t Learning, It’s Doing with Bo White—Air Force Pararescue, Army Special Operations
There’s nothing average about being an Air Force Pararescueman or an Army Special Operations soldier… and Bo White has been both. After a career spent in the military, he took an early exit as he began to see cracks forming in his foundation, especially at home with his wife. While you might take the soldier off the field, you’ll never strip him of his skills and abilities. Bo has committed his life to helping and blessing others—be it leading his family through the pain of a childhood cancer diagnosis, to starting a winery in northern Michigan with his wife, to going into Ukraine for rescue missions, as a civilian. Bo is an aggressive man who knows the key to faithfulness is movement.
Tue, September 19, 2023
Building an MLS Powerhouse from Scratch with Jeff Berding—FC Cincinnati, co-CEO
Jeff Berding had spent nearly 20 years with the Cincinnati Bengals when he left it all behind… to start a minor league soccer team. After blowing all expectations out of the water, FC Cincinnati was granted a bid to join Major League Soccer. Jeff and team moved at breakneck speed, doing in 18 months what many cities take 3-4 years to complete. After some hard years, FC Cincinnati is on a roll. With the best record in the MLS, they keep selling out games and finding ways to win. Their success story is intricately tied to this family man who just wanted a hometown team for his kids to cheer on. Jeff’s aggressive story of risk and movement will get you off the couch and into the game.
Tue, September 12, 2023
Working Together to Take Alaska with Kim, Chuck, and Jeff—Brian’s Friends
This summer was an adventure for the books. Alongside three other couples, Brian and his wife drove 9,000 miles from Spokane, Washington, all the way to Alaska and the Arctic Circle… and back. They camped along the way, spending 31 days off the grid. They saw black bears, went salmon fishing, and took a shot over a dead man’s toe (true story). Back in Cincinnati, Brian regroups with those friends to relive the highlights and tell war stories. Adventure is an aggressive choice that always changes us for the better.
Tue, September 05, 2023
On the Field with Jake Fraley, Graham Ashcraft, and TJ Friedl — Cincinnati Reds
Earlier this summer, Brian was on the field of Great American Ball Park, home of the Cincinnati Reds, for a post-game interview with three players: outfielders Jake Fraley and TJ Friedl, and starting pitcher Graham Ashcraft. Part of Reds Faith Night, Brian talked with each player about God, baseball, and how faith influences their lives. These aggressive men put it all on the line, game after game, for their team and city. Let’s go Reds!
Tue, August 29, 2023
Five Marks Summer - A Life Spent Protecting with Rich Miller—9/11 First Responder, NYPD
Like most protectors, Rich Miller is humble about it all, but this man has given his life serving and protecting the most vulnerable. He spent decades as a distinguished specialist on the NYPD’s Emergency Service Unit, including responding to the 9/11 attacks. It was there, on September 12th, Rich raised an American flag on a makeshift piece of rubble. The photo was snapped by a crime scene photographer and it spread, giving hope to a nation reeling. Rich was part 2,500+ high-risk search warrants and entries while on the force, and gave time to help rescue survivors of an earthquake in Haiti. He is a brave man who will push us all forward. This is the final episode in a 5-part series called Five Marks Summer, celebrating the repackaged publication of Brian’s best-selling book, The Five Marks of a Man . Pre-order the newest edition, or the companion Tactical Guide, at briantome.com/fivemarks and get a complimentary poster with each purchase.
Tue, August 22, 2023
Five Marks Summer - An 80 Year Work Ethic with Reid Carpenter—Brian’s Spiritual Grandfather, Mentor
Reid Carpenter might be 80 years old, but he hasn’t slowed down, and he isn’t planning on it anytime soon. A spiritual grandfather and mentor to Brian, Reid has devoted his life to his home city of Pittsburg. From starting multiple nonprofits, to helping launch Young Life, Reid is a living example of the power of hard work, and how its ripple effect can influence generations. This is the 4th episode in an 5-part series called Five Marks Summer , celebrating the repackaged publication of Brian’s best-selling book, The Five Marks of a Man . Pre-order it, or the companion Tactical Guide , now and it will show up on your front porch on October 10th. Then, head over to Briantome.com/fivemarks to claim your free poster.
Tue, August 15, 2023
Five Marks Summer - Becoming and Building Team Players with Leonce Crump Jr.—Former NFL Athlete, Author, Pastor
Our summer series continues with Mark III: Men Are Team Players. From coaching his son’s football team, to playing in the NFL, to now leading a thriving church in Atlanta, Georgia, Leonce Crump Jr. knows a thing or two about the power of a thriving team. He shares tips, tricks, and the secret to resiliency in this candid conversation. This is the third episode in an 5-part series called Five Marks Summer , celebrating the repackaged publication of Brian’s best-selling book, The Five Marks of a Man . Pre-order it, or the companion Tactical Guide , now and it will show up on your front porch on October 10th. Find the bear attack video Brian references here .
Tue, August 08, 2023
Five Marks Summer - Risking It All On A Minority Position with Otis Williams—Airborne Paratrooper, Champion Public Speaker
Otis Williams looked to be on top of the world. He had a successful military career, beat out 10,000 other contestants to win the ToastMasters World Championship of Public Speaking, and had secured a successful teaching position at Cincinnati State University. But underneath, a debilitating gambling addiction was eroding it all away. For the first time on such a wide-reaching platform, Otis takes us back to that dark place, and the bold minority positions he took to reclaim his life. He also shares stories from his time in the service, tips for engaging an audience, and why vulnerability is a super power. This is the second episode in an 5-part series called Five Marks Summer, celebrating the repackaged publication of Brian’s best-selling book, The Five Marks of a Man. Pre-order the newest edition, or the companion Tactical Guide, at briantome.com/fivemarks and get a complimentary poster with each purchase.
Tue, August 01, 2023
Five Marks Summer - The Vision of Fathers and Sons with Jake Tome—Brian’s Son
Join Brian, and his son, Jake, together in his garage for a candid conversation about growing up, the looming shadow of a father, and what it takes for a son to exceed his old man. Over a few beers, Brian and Jake tell adventure stories, get transparent about their separate visions for life, and laugh a lot. This is the first episode in an 5-part series called Five Marks Summer , celebrating the repackaged publication of Brian’s best-selling book, The Five Marks of a Man . Pre-order the newest edition, or the companion Tactical Guide, at briantome.com/fivemarks and get a complimentary poster with each purchase.
Tue, July 25, 2023
The 6 Primal Identities Written on Your Spiritual DNA - Live Around The Campfire
New content alert! In this live talk, recorded around the campfire with some MAN CAMP leaders, Brian introduces a new concept he’s been workshopping: the six primal identities. Written on your spiritual DNA, these identities define who God created you to be—a creator; a son; a warrior; a king; a friend; and a father. As you lean into each one, you’ll find your life going to the next level.
Tue, July 18, 2023
Hearing God for Yourself - Live at The Big Night
Throw out what you believe (or don’t) about God—if He were real, and He were speaking, wouldn’t you want to hear for yourself? Back in February, Brian got to speak to 3,000+ teenagers, gathered from three states, on how to hear from God. It’s not in the noise, or busyness, or distraction of culture, but in silence. This simple and quick, yet incredibly accessible, teaching could be the key for having your own encounter with the Divine.
Tue, July 11, 2023
More Than Muscle: The Five Types of Protectors - Live in Rock Valley, Iowa
Men are protectors—but that means more than just using our muscles. True protectors operate on five different fronts: physical, spiritual, emotional, intellectual and financial. Recorded live in Rock Valley, Iowa, this first-ever deep-dive into what it means for men to protectors finds Brian unpacking the five types, sharing lessons learned from wild elephants, and telling an unbelievable story from the life of arctic adventurer Ernest Shackleton.
Tue, July 04, 2023
Avoiding Burnout to Become a 4 Season Leader - Live in Cincinnati
It’s July, and summer is in full swing. Are you using it wisely? In this teaching, originally given to staff at Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, Brian unpacks the importance of avoiding burnout to become a 4 season leader. Beginning with a look at the later half of King David’s life (from the Bible), and then finishing with a Q&A, we see the power unmitigated burnout has to tank our aggressive lives. If you do anything this summer, take time to recharge.
Tue, June 27, 2023
Summer’s Coming Attractions & The Adventure Playlist
Summer is here… it’s time for the pool, cold beer, and outdoor adventures. And it’s time to switch things up on The Aggressive Life. Brian explains his summer plans, what’s coming down the pike on the podcast, and points to a new Adventure Playlist on Spotify that’s perfect for your next summer road trip. Link to the Spotify Adventure Playlist here
Tue, June 20, 2023
Losing Keller, No Man’s Land, 4 Phases of Parenting, and More—Listener Q&A
You asked. Brian answered. Alongside Dirt, Brian dives headfirst into listener submitted questions—covering everything from his dream podcast guests, the importance of moving between the phases of parenting, and his evolving thoughts of hell. He also explains why he admires Tim Keller, what it means to live in No Man’s Land, and why Alpo is the best campfire meal. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
Tue, June 13, 2023
Getting Off the X with Michele Rigby Assad—CIA Operative and Spy
Michele Rigby Assad spent a decade in one of the most dangerous roles on the planet—as an undercover operative for the CIA, specializing in counterterrorism in the Middle East. Her job? Finding sources of information to keep America and the Coalition Provisional Authorities in Iraq ahead of al-Qaeda. But it wasn’t until she left the CIA, and a chance phone call with a big-shot Hollywood producer, that she found her most meaningful mission. She’s an incredibly aggressive woman who will push you to get moving off your X and into a life of meaning.
Tue, June 06, 2023
200th Episode Recalibration & Your Stories
200 episodes! What was started as an experiment in July 2019 has blossomed into something greater than we could have ever imagined. Along the way, we’ve gotten to meet incredible guests, be inspired by their aggressive choices, and be pushed to make our own. For the 200th episode, Brian offers a recalibration of what the Aggressive Life means (and doesn’t), and points the way toward the future. We finish with listeners sharing stories of their own aggressive lives.
Tue, May 30, 2023
Staring Down a Serial Killer to Crack a Cold Case with Melissa Powers—Chief Prosecutor, Judge
Prosecutor Melissa Powers has been knocking down walls her whole career. As the first female Prosecuting Attorney in the history of Hamilton County, Ohio (Cincinnati), she holds the highest law enforcement position in the city. But that’s just the start. From getting a confession from a serial killer, to taking the stand to break a 17 year-old cold case, to fighting for veterans and juveniles, Prosecutor Powers has truly given her life to serving the public. She’s an inspiring woman of high ideals and accessible wisdom who will push your life forward.
Tue, May 23, 2023
Framing Up Fatherhood with Roland Warren—Care Net, National Fatherhood Initiative
Roland Warren isn’t afraid to take a minority position. His own life touched by an absent father, Roland served over a decade as the CEO of the National Fatherhood Initiative, where he worked to equip fathers to be change-makers in their homes. While a student athlete at Princeton, Roland and his girlfriend were encouraged to terminate an unplanned pregnancy. Their decision to keep their child began his journey toward Care Net, where he now serves as the CEO of a network of over 1,200 pregnancy centers across the nation offering alternatives to abortion. Roland’s expertise and wisdom on fatherhood, influence, and what it means to value life is challenging and aggressive.
Tue, May 16, 2023
Live Better By Getting Outside with Ginny Yurich—1000 Hours Outside Movement
Ginny Yurich’s message is simple: if you want a better life, get outside. The author, podcaster, and founder of the 1000 Hours Outside movement has done the deep dive into the research to truly be an expert. Along the way, she’s discovered a simple correlation: more time outside means better physical, mental, and even spiritual health. Ginny shares tips and tricks for getting more time out of doors, as well as the groundbreaking research backing up her claims.
Tue, May 09, 2023
Flourishing By Giving Hope Away with Hal Donaldson—Convoy of Hope, CEO & Co-Founder
After a challenging and impoverished childhood, Hal Donaldson had one goal in life—don’t be poor. He was making strides toward meeting that goal when a chance encounter with Mother Teresa changed everything. He was cut to the heart by the question she asked him, and over time, his entire life realigned. As the CEO and Co-founder of Convoy of Hope, a nonprofit relief organization influencing the lives of millions around the globe, Hal has found the secret to a flourishing life is giving hope away.
Tue, May 02, 2023
Developing a Deep Curiosity (and a Sense of Humor) with Rajiv Satyal—Stand-Up Comedian
The first person to do stand-up comedy on all 7 continents, Rajiv Satyal is known for his TV-clean humor and wit. But while he’s traveled the world telling jokes, it’s his deep curiosity that drives him. He purposely puts himself around people who don’t think, live, or believe like he does—and he has the wisdom to prove it. He’s an aggressive man looking to elevate your life (and make you laugh in the process).
Tue, April 25, 2023
Praying Live on ESPN with Dan Orlovsky—NFL Analyst
When Damar Hamlin collapsed on Monday Night Football, the call to pray for his recovery went worldwide. But while lots of people were sharing opinions, thoughts, and tweets, ESPN NFL analyst, Dan Orlovsky, took the risky move: he prayed. Out loud. On national television. It was a gutsy call, but nothing new for the former NFL quarterback. The host of NFL Live, Dan has made it his life’s mantra to reject passivity. His choices have earned him insight into aggressive living that few others have. He’s a good man who will push you into new territory.
Tue, April 18, 2023
Standing up to the Devil with Fr. Vincent Lampert—Exorcist
For 25 years, Father Vincent Lampert has been a Catholic priest in the diocese of Indianapolis, doing weddings, baptisms, masses… and exorcisms! Trained in Rome, Father Lampert has gone toe-to-toe with the Devil and his demons on hundreds of occasions. Not only has he come out the other side, he has an unbelievably light and welcoming approach to life. In this conversation, Fr. Lampert weaves stories and timeless truths that will leave you encouraged and equipped to engage the spirit realm.
Tue, April 11, 2023
From Prison to a Master Plan with Chris Wilson—Entrepreneur, Artist, Storyteller
Chris Wilson went to prison as a boy, but he emerged a man. While serving a life sentence for murder, he found a vision for his life—what he calls his “master plan”—and chased it with all he had. After 16 years behind bars, Chris was given a second lease on life and he’s never looked back. A serial entrepreneur, an artist, and a storyteller dedicated to helping others find their master plan, Chris is an aggressive, disciplined man whose unbelievable story of resilience will push you to new heights.
Tue, April 04, 2023
Fast Cars and the Slow Road to Recovery with Al Unser Jr.—Hall of Fame Racer
He’s got a legendary name, and the trophies to back it up. Known as Mr. Two-Time, Al Unser Jr. has two Indy 500 wins, two Indycar championships and two IROC championships to his name. Even as his success was growing, under the surface, things were going off the rails. With addiction threatening to take everything from him, Al chose the long road to recovery. He’s a racing legend with an aggressive story to tell.
Tue, March 28, 2023
Does Faith Have a Place at Work? with Kirk Perry (from the Learnings from Leaders: P&G Alumni podcast)
Kirk Perry is a big deal. Currently the President and CEO of Circana, a big data firm, and with significant stints at Google and P&G, he’s a force to be reckoned with in the business world. He’s also a man of faith, who doesn’t leave that behind when he arrives at the office. Kirk was recently featured on Learnings from Leaders: the P&G Alumni Podcast to talk about how he balances faith at work. It was such a fantastic conversation, we got permission from hosts Rajiv and Ramaan to replay it here. Kirk’s aggressive stance of acknowledging, and even welcoming, faith is a fresh perspective that just might change your 9-5. If you like what you hear, find more from the Learnings from Leaders podcast on Apple or Spotify .
Tue, March 21, 2023
The Secret to Becoming a Better Communicator with Jeff Bloomfield—CEO of BrainTrust, Communications Expert
How much of daily life depends on communication? Pretty much all of it. With grounding in neuroscience and storytelling, communications expert Jeff Bloomfield unlocks the secret to becoming a better communicator—from the office, to home, to friends and beyond. Highly effective and actionable, this hour just might change your next conversation for the better (and the one after that, and the one after that). Better communication means a better life.
Tue, March 14, 2023
A Life of Service with Croz—USMC Vet, Founder of Vet Camp
Michael Crossley is a real American hero. For 8 years, Croz served in the Marine Corps, doing just about every badass thing you can think of—amphibious reconnaissance, jumping out of planes, and serving in the first Gulf War. Landing back in the states in 2011, and facing PTSD and other hardships post-military, he committed himself to a new mission. As the Director of Base Camp, and the founder of Veteran Camp, an off-the-grid weekend for vets, Croz is an aggressive man who measures success in terms of service to others. Find out more about Crossroads Camps, including Veteran Camp, here .
Tue, March 07, 2023
Selling Everything to Travel the World (with Kids) with Bradey and Heather Jobson—Raising Voyagers, YouTubers
A lot of people have dreams of traveling the world—Bradey and Heather actually made them reality. Quitting their jobs, and selling everything they owned, the Jobsons hit the road with their two young daughters. They’ve visited 40+ countries and had once in a lifetime experiences: from sleeping in treehouses in Costa Rica to exploring rural Turkey. Documenting their adventures on Youtube under the named Raising Voyagers, they’ve amassed 9 million views (and counting). Their new adventure: renovating a 200 year old stone house at the foot of the Italian Alps. They’re aggressive parents, seeing amazing things because they’re willing to move. Follow their travels via their YouTube channel .
Tue, February 28, 2023
You Know I Hate Mayonnaise with Jeff Foxworthy—Comedy Legend
From the Blue Collar Comedy Tour, to Grammy nominations, and 5 different TV projects, including “Are You Smarter than a 5th Grader,” Jeff Foxworthy has been a busy man. But behind the laughs are aggressive moves that have powered his career and life. From leaving behind a corporate gig at IBM, to intentionally choosing to poke fun at himself and his family, Jeff is proof that good guys can finish first… and have plenty of laughs along the way.
Tue, February 21, 2023
The Confidence to Call Your Shot with Evan McPherson—Placekicker, Cincinnati Bengals
“Looks like we’re going to the AFC Championship game, boys.” Those are the words Evan McPherson said to his teammates, BEFORE heading out onto the field for a 52 yard game winning field goal. That kick sent the Bengals to their first AFC championship game in 30 years, but it was aggressive moves well before that moment that set the trajectory for McPherson’s life and career. “Money Mac” McPherson shares the secret to his confidence, why he never roots against other kickers, and what it’s like inside the Bengals locker room.
Tue, February 14, 2023
Love and Relationship Q&A with Libby and Brian
Libby Tome, Brian’s wife of 34 years, makes her Aggressive Life debut to help answer YOUR questions about dating, engagement, marriage, and beyond. Get practical wisdom on keeping your marriage fresh when kids arrive, resolving conflict, what it takes to lead… and learn how Brian’s appearance in a hair show helped bring this couple together.
Tue, February 07, 2023
6 Steps to Survive Crisis
Life will NOT always be up and to the right. Whether it’s a midlife crisis, or something else, you should expect to have times of difficulty. How do you react when life gets hard? In this short teaching, Brian shares his own struggles, and the six steps he’s taken to not only survive crisis, but come out better on the other side.
Tue, January 31, 2023
Adventure Off the Beaten Path with Brad Kowitz—TrailRecon, Youtuber
TrailRecon is one of YouTube’s most popular channels for off-roading and outdoor adventures. With nearly 100 million views, it’s become a go-to place for gear recommendations, custom builds, and adventure videos. Started in 2015, after a weekend of overlanding with his teenage son, TrailRecon has morphed from Brad’s passion project into his full time business. From a career in the Navy, to YouTube influencer, Brad’s aggressive story consistently leaves the pavement for better spaces off the beaten path. Check out TrailRecon on YouTube or at their website .
Tue, January 24, 2023
You Can’t Escape Trouble, But You Can Stay Standing with Alli Patterson—Teacher, Author
Trouble might be an inescapable part of life, but it's your reaction to it that will determine your final destination. With insight from her own struggle to stay standing after an affair, author and teacher, Alli Patterson, shares the lessons she learned about resiliency, forgiveness, and courage. Her new book, How to Stay Standing , is a primer for everyone looking to stay standing through the storms of life. How to Stay Standing is available wherever books are sold. Purchase at this link to support Alli’s mission to get the book into the hands of incarcerated women. Promotion ends 2/10/23.
Tue, January 24, 2023
You Can’t Escape Trouble, But You Can Stay Standing with Alli Patterson—Teacher, Author
Trouble might be an inescapable part of life, but it's your reaction to it that will determine your final destination. With insight from her own struggle to stay standing after an affair, author and teacher, Alli Patterson, shares the lessons she learned about resiliency, forgiveness, and courage. Her new book, How to Stay Standing , is a primer for everyone looking to stay standing through the storms of life. How to Stay Standing is available wherever books are sold. Purchase at this link to support Alli’s mission to get the book into the hands of incarcerated women. Promotion ends 2/10/23.
Tue, January 17, 2023
Forging a Sword with David DelaGardelle—Master Bladesmith
The Aggressive LIfe hits the road to spend time at Cedarlore Forge with master bladesmith, David DelaGardelle. David handcrafts historical and fantasy blades for private collectors, museums, and even Marvel movies. Putting himself in line with the generations of men who have crafted swords, David’s insights into metallurgy, and life, are as stunning as his handiwork. After a brief conversation, Brian lights up the forge and joins David in crafting a custom blade.
Tue, January 10, 2023
Steward Your Life To Win with Don Cousins—NFL Dad & Brian’s Mentor
You likely don't know his name, but Don Cousins is the man behind so many others. As a founding pastor of one of the nation's most influential churches, Willow Creek, he changed countless lives. As a mentor to Brian, his practical insights continue to ripple outward. And as a dad to NFL superstar Kirk Cousins, Don's lessons and encouragement are pushing the Minnesota Vikings into the postseason. Don is a man who has stewarded his life to win, and he'll inspire you to do the same.
Bonus · Thu, January 05, 2023
Bonus: Thoughts AND Prayers for Damar Hamlin with Solomon Wilcots—NFL Analyst
Just days ago, the world watched in horror as Damar Hamlin suffered cardiac arrest live on Monday Night Football. Brian processes that event and its aftermath alongside his friend, award-winning football analyst and former Cincinnati Bengal, Solomon Wilcots. The pair finish by praying for Damar to experience supernatural healing and breakthrough.
Tue, January 03, 2023
Your Future is Secure - Live in Cincinnati
How would you live the next year differently if you knew your future wasn’t in jeopardy? As 2023 begins, that’s the truth Brian shares in this live talk, recorded before a group of 18-24 year olds in Cincinnati. When you know your future is secure, you’ll be more comfortable taking aggressive risks that will pay off in the end. 2023 has started, your future is secure, it's time to get moving.
Tue, December 27, 2022
Racing Against Time to Save My Daughter's Life—Nick’s Story
Sitting at breakfast with a group of friends, Brian realized the story he was hearing was something aggressive and inspiring. So he pulled out his iPhone, opened a voice memo, and hit record. When Nick and his family left for vacation, they had no idea it would turn into a harrowing race against time to save his daughter's life. But aggressive decision-making in the moment, and in the years leading up to it, meant Nick had a safety net when he needed it most. Baked into this story is the need for friendships, the power of generosity, and miracles in prayer. Listen and be inspired.
Tue, December 20, 2022
Christmas Special: Why We Love Die Hard with Kim Taylor-Foster—Fandom, Screen Junkies, Author
Of course, Die Hard is a Christmas movie! Alongside guest Kim Taylor-Foster, Entertainment Editor at Fandom, Brian unpacks why the 1988 action film is such a landmark of American cinema, and why we circle back around to it every holiday season. With behind-the-scenes trivia and commentary, this is a fascinating deep dive into the world of John McClane’s Christmas-party-gone-awry. Yippee-ki-yay, Merry Christmas!
Tue, December 13, 2022
Flying Maverick’s Missions with Frank “Walleye” Weisser—Top Gun Pilot
Tom Cruise might have gotten all the accolades for the new blockbuster Top Gun: Maverick , but it was Frank “Walleye” Weisser that actually flew the missions. The former Navy and Blue Angel pilot flew the canyon run from the movie, as well as a score of other missions, in real life and in real time—no CGI here. He reflects on his time in the service, taking Tom Cruise on harrowing runs, and what it takes to fly fast and low. He’s an aggressive man who knows a little something about the need for speed.
Tue, December 06, 2022
A Cowboy Perspective on Life, Work and Yellowstone with Anthony Lucia—Pro Rodeo Cowboy & Announcer
Anthony Lucia is cowboy through-and-through. The son of a Rodeo Hall of Fame Entertainer, Anthony grew up on the rodeo circuit, and he’s made it his home. Now a professional trick roper and rodeo announcer, Anthony puts on a clinic about hard work, growing up in your father’s shadow, and what’s accurate (or not so) about TV smash hit Yellowstone.
Tue, November 29, 2022
The Power of Daily Work with Caty McNally—Tennis Pro
Caty McNally is on the fast-track. Only 21 years-old, Caty has already won six WTA doubles titles, reached the finals of the US Open twice, and been ranked as high as 11th in the world in doubles tennis. Just last month, she won her first WTA singles title and cracked into the top 100 singles players for the first time. In this fun conversation, she discusses the hard work that’s powered her meteoric rise, the importance of family, and what it's like to go toe-to-toe with Serena Williams.
Tue, November 22, 2022
Brian’s Thanksgiving Traditions
Thanksgiving is just around the corner. While we look forward to a big plate of food and good company, there’s much more to this holiday than turkey. In this special holiday episode, Brian shares two meaningful Thanksgiving traditions his family has been practicing to help them shift the focus back to gratitude. Choose one and try it on for size around your table this Thanksgiving. Full-length links: See the Gratitude Overflow - Garage Bible Study The Spiritual History of Thanksgiving with Stephen Mansfield - podcast episode
Tue, November 15, 2022
What Happens When We Die Q&A (Part 2) with John Burke—Author, Researcher
Near-death experience researcher and author, John Burke, returns to answer your questions on the afterlife: will my pets be in heaven? Will I know my friends and family? What will we do for all of eternity? With trademark clarity, John answers all these questions and more. What you learn will throw fuel on the fire of your aggressive life.
Tue, November 08, 2022
What Happens When We Die (Part 1) with John Burke—Author, Researcher
After reading some of the first research into near-death experiences, John Burke wanted to know more—a lot more. After personally interviewing and researching over 1,500 near-death experiences, John compiled his learnings into the New York Times Best-Selling book Imagine Heaven . John aggressively brings clarity and understanding to one of life’s biggest questions: what happens when you die? What you learn may surprise you, and impact the way you live today.
Mon, October 31, 2022
Luther’s Aggressive Life and Reformation with Stu Boehmig—Tour Guide, Historian
On October 31st, 1517, a monk walked up to a church and nailed something to the door. The world would never be the same. That man was Martin Luther, and his 95 Theses kicked off what would later come to be known as the Reformation. After visiting Germany last month, and seeing many of the historical Luther sites, Brian invites his tour guide, Stu Boehmig, to give a crash course on one of the most aggressive men in history. Learn more at www.thelutherexperience.com
Tue, October 25, 2022
Stories from MAN CAMP 2022
At MAN CAMP 2022, an old outhouse was outfitted with a military field telephone. Campers who stepped inside were prompted to pick it up and tell their MAN CAMP story. While the prompt was simple, the tales we received were moving, relatable, and profound. These remarkable stories stand as a testimony to the power of God, community, and what happens at MAN CAMP. Listen in and be encouraged. Presale tickets for next year’s MAN CAMP are open for one week only, at the guaranteed lowest price. Learn more and save your spot at mancamp.us
Sun, October 23, 2022
Re-Entry After MAN CAMP—Encouragement and Coaching from Brian
In this 15-minute bonus episode, Brian talks straight to the guys heading home from MAN CAMP, offering practical coaching on getting back into the “real world” after the weekend. With valuable insights into the experience, this episode provides great context for spouses, family members and friends looking to encourage returning MAN CAMPERS. Presale for next year’s MAN CAMP is open for one week only. Get tickets for the lowest possible price, a 40% savings, at mancamp.us . Man Camp 2023 is October 20-22.
Tue, October 18, 2022
Turning a Curse into a Gift with Rob Paylor—Recovering Quadriplegic
In a split second, Rob Paylor’s life changed forever. Playing in the biggest rugby match of his life, with a national championship on the line, an illegal headlock ended with Rob paralyzed on the field. Approaching nearly 2,000 days since his injury, Rob has never given up on his dream to walk again—and along the way, he’s learned forgiveness, motivated thousands of people to overcome their adversities, and learned the secret to turning a curse into a gift. He’s already beaten the odds, and he’s not finished yet. This aggressive man will push your life forward.
Tue, October 11, 2022
On The Shoulders of Giants with Brian Wells—Film Producer, Author, Friend
Sir Isaac Newton once remarked that he’d only been able to see further than others because he’d “stood on the shoulders of giants.” For Brian, one of those giants is his friend, Brian Wells. Get to know Beem, as Brian calls him, and trace his aggressive story from selling his dead grandfather's belongings as a child, to building a church from the ground up, to producing TV films for NBC, ABC, CBS, FOX and the Hallmark Channel. One of Brian’s oldest friends in Cincinnati, Beem tells the story behind the story, offering wisdom and insight along the way.
Tue, October 04, 2022
Life After 1000 Porn Films with Joshua Broome—Fmr. Male Adult Entertainer of the Year
After six years in the porn industry, Joshua Broome seemed to have made it. He was a multi-millionaire and named the male adult film star of the year. But on the inside, everything was crumbling. He was depressed, separated from his loved ones, and contemplating suicide—until a chance encounter with a bank teller turned his life around. With remarkable honesty and candor, Joshua shares the darkest parts of his story, and the light he’s found on the other side.
Tue, September 27, 2022
Unfogging Male Friendship with Max Dickins—Comedian, Author, Friend
Max Dickins thought he had a lot of friends… until he got engaged. When it came time to pick his best man, he stumbled into a shocking revelation: he didn’t have any male friends close enough to fill that role. This set him on a quest to understand how that happened, and to fix it. The lessons he learned about male friendship—why we need it, how to grow it, and what to do with it—just might change your life. It’s time we stopped settling for the lone wolf narrative. Find your pack, and thrive.
Tue, September 20, 2022
Writing Your Comeback Story with Perry Noble—Second-Chancer
For a decade, Perry Noble was a superstar of the church world. Under his leadership, the church he started, NewSpring, exploded into 16 different campuses reaching 40,000 people a weekend. His church was doing great, but underneath it all, Perry was not. Unchecked alcohol abuse eventually led NewSpring to fire him, news that sent shockwaves around the world. Perry found himself in rehab, facing divorce, and contemplating suicide. How did he push through? He refused to call himself a victim. His incredible comeback story will inspire you to keep pushing forward, no matter what you’re facing.
Tue, September 13, 2022
Capturing Masculinity with Pete Muller—Nat Geo Storytelling Fellow, Conflict Photographer
Pete Muller has traveled the world with this camera. A National Geographic Storytelling Fellow and conflict photographer, he’s chronicled everything from Ebola, to African civil wars, to modern forms of masculinity. That last project brought him to south west Ohio last year for a little thing we call MAN CAMP. Pete shares his adventurous and aggressive life—and a critical look at masculinity and MAN CAMP—in this powerful conversation. Get your tickets for MAN CAMP at www.mancamp.us
Tue, September 06, 2022
Summer Recap & Meet Chap Browder—Alabama's First African American Prison Chaplain
Labor Day is over, which means summer is coming to a close. Brian and Dirt catch-up on their summer activities and travel before jumping into a power-packed conversation with Curtis "Chap" Browder. His aggressive life as Alabama's first African American prison chaplain brought him face-to-face with Klan members, racist governors, and murderers. His boldness, bravery, and forgiveness is a stunning example of living history.
Tue, August 30, 2022
Hunting an Integrated Life with Joby Martin—Hunter, Author, Pastor
Most people have their work life, their home life, and their friends life. But what if your life was just that… your life, where everything was integrated and nothing was compartmentalized? That’s the kind of living Joby Martin is running down. After accidentally starting a church, Joby has chased an integrated life—and it’s one full of positive aggression, a hunting paradise, and making comfortable people uncomfortable.
Tue, August 23, 2022
The Primal Path to Manhood with Jon Tyson—Father, Author, Pastor
When does a boy become a man? Jon Tyson has an idea, and it has nothing to do with age, job status, or relationship goals. Author of “The Intentional Father,” and creator of the “The Primal Path,” Jon Tyson followed the examples of the great men of history and created an initiation path for his own son to move from boyhood into manhood. His insights into culture, authentic manhood, and what it takes to raise a man are invaluable.
Tue, August 16, 2022
Leading, Serving, and the Chicken Sandwich Wars with Cheryl Bachelder—Fmr CEO Popeyes Louisiana Kitchen & current Chick-Fil-A Director
What’s the secret to Cheryl Bachelder’s incredible C-suite success? Serving. Instead of looking for what she can get, she goes into each interaction with a focus on what she can give. Cheryl’s servant leadership completely turned Popeye’s around, leading them into 10 straight years of growth after years of stagnation. Now serving on the Board of Directors for Chick-Fil-A, Cheryl talks business, how serving those around you leads to superior results, and the secret to the best fast-food chicken sandwich.
Tue, August 09, 2022
Disrupting the Grip of Cynicism with Carey Nieuwhof—Thought Leader
Leadership advice is a dime a dozen—and then there’s Carey Nieuwhof. After devoting decades to leading a church in Canada, Carey’s influence has blossomed through the incredibly popular “The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast.” The former lawyer shares his wide-ranging wisdom on everything from energy management, to the power of disruption, to overcoming cynicism.
Tue, August 02, 2022
Achieving the Impossible with Colin O’Brady —Adventurer
Colin O’Brady has built a life on achieving what seemed impossible. After rebounding from a debilitating injury, he went on to become the first person to cross Antarctica, unaided, on foot. He’ submitted Everest twice, holds a Seven Summits speed record, and achieved a world first ocean row. What’s the key to his aggressive life? His mindset. Colin shares his amazing adventures, and the wisdom he’s picked up along the way, in this can’t miss episode.
Tue, July 26, 2022
Finding Your Spiritual Adventure - Live from Pikes Peak
Your life is a spiritual adventure—and until you start viewing it that way, you’ll be stalled out. Joined by men from all over the country for a weekend of camping at the base of Pikes Peak, Brian unpacks this game-changing perspective. It’s been the key to the lives of every spiritual great in scripture, history, and beyond. Take your spiritual adventure to the next level by signing up for MAN CAMP. For the next two weeks, an advanced presale guarantees the lowest possible price. Use promo code, MCPRESALE, at check out. Find out more and get your tickets at mancamp.us .
Tue, July 19, 2022
A 1978 Jeep & God - Live from Brian’s Garage
What can restoring a 1978 Jeep CJ7 teach us about God? More than you might think. Join Brian, live from his garage, as he explains the similarities between removing crumbling paint from a Jeep’s hood, and God’s work in each of our lives. Follow Brian’s restoration progress, and past Garage Bible Studies, here .
Tue, July 12, 2022
Marriage Isn’t About Your Happiness - Live at Couples Camp
What if marriage is about something much more important, more life changing, than just being happy? Recorded in front of nearly a thousand husbands and wives at Couples Camp, in southeast Ohio, Brian shares an honest teaching on realigning our thinking about marriage. When we get the focus of marriage right, everything else starts to fall into place. It’s not about feeling happy—instead, it’s about being made holy.
Tue, July 05, 2022
The Five Marks of a Man - Live in Cincinnati (2022)
There are 15 year-old men and 45 year-old boys. What separates the two isn’t age, but the five marks—five things that all men do, and all boys avoid. Recorded live in front of a packed house of athletes and their coaches, Brian shares these marks, as well as new perspectives on how they apply in the life of every man. Have a young man in your orbit? Listen to this episode together, then use the discussion questions below to dig deeper. The Five Marks of a Man: (1) Men have a vision. (2) Men take a minority position. (3) Men are team players. (4) Men work. (5) Men are protectors. Discussion questions: Men bring value to their teams. What teams are you a part of (sports, family, work, friends) and what value are you bringing to them? Are they better because you’re a part of the team? Which mark do you feel strongest in? Encourage each other: which mark do you see on display in the other person? Which mark do you feel weakest in? What can you do about that this week? Who is someone you know that is strong in the mark you feel weakest in? What can you learn from observing them? Could you set up time with them soon to pick their brain about it? What’s the most surprising thing you heard? Men are active. What challenge or insight from this talk can you put into action this week? Name it, then go do it.
Tue, June 28, 2022
Courage and Calling with Beth Moore—Bible Teacher & Writer
As one of history’s most successful Bible teachers, Beth Moore has influenced millions of people around the globe. But in recent years, after taking a hard stance against divisive politics, sexism, and racism in the church, she’s faced intense scrutiny from many of the same people who once supported her. But Beth doesn’t give up easily. In this can’t-miss conversation, she shares what she’s learned about courage, calling, and grapevines.
Tue, June 21, 2022
Seeking Answers to Devastating Loss with Mark Roser—Father, Missionary, Author
With one phone call, Mark Roser’s life was flipped upside down. After spending years as missionaries in Africa, Mark and his family were back in the states, where his youngest son, Ethan, was studying to be a pastor. But when a freak accident took Ethan’s life, Mark was left seeking answers to every parent’s worst nightmare. He shares what he’s learned about loss, suffering, and God—and how to get back up again when life blindsides you.
Tue, June 14, 2022
Dad Tired and Loving It with Jerrad Lopes—Advocate for Dads, Podcaster, Author
No holiday has as many caveats as Father’s Day. Maybe appropriately so, but no man becomes a dad planning to be a failure. Men have a deep-seated desire to love their kids well, meet their needs, and teach them how to live. Jerrad Lopes started Dad Tired because he found himself in a similar boat: wanting to be a better dad, but not sure how to do it. He’s built a robust community to encourage dads to become the fathers they’ve always wanted to be. He’s a good man, speaking courage into all the aggressive dads out there.
Tue, June 07, 2022
Money, Prosperity and God with Rabbi Daniel Lapin—Orthodox Rabbi, Author, Business Leader
Money is a spiritual thing, and Rabbi Daniel Lapin has devoted much of his life to teaching others how to use it wisely. Leaning heavily on wisdom from the Jewish scriptures, Rabbi Lapin is the author of best-sellers Thou Shall Prosper and Business Secrets from the Bible , as well as popular online courses. Considered “America’s Rabbi,” he brings his no-nonsense wisdom about money, prosperity, and God to the Aggressive Life.
Tue, May 31, 2022
The Service-First Rebirth of The Home Depot with Frank Blake—Fmr. Chairman & CEO
Frank Blake never set his sights on the corner office, but that didn’t stop the Home Depot from calling. When Frank took over the home improvement giant, their stock-price was at an all-time low and they were being bested in every metric by their competitors. Frank turned the Big Orange around by focusing on service and people. The leadership wisdom that pours out of this living legend is second-to-none.
Tue, May 24, 2022
Enduring the Barkley Marathon and Beyond with Harvey Lewis—Ultrarunner
Harvey Lewis is endurance. The ultrarunning champion and adventurer routinely pushes the limits of human capabilities, one step at a time. The winner of prestigious races like the Badwater Ultramarathon in Death Valley, and the Big Dog Backyard Ultra, a race with no finish line, Harvey discusses endurance, patience, and participating in the Barkley Marathon—the hardest race in the world. Marked with trademark humility and grace, Harvey’s wisdom is a gift.
Tue, May 17, 2022
Masculinity, Femininity, and Success with Sandi Krakowski—Entrepreneur, Influencer
Sandi Krakowski hustles. She started her first multimillion dollar company as a single mom, and hasn’t slowed down. Recognized by Forbes as a top online marketing influencer, she’s helped build nearly twenty profitable companies in her career… all while overcoming trauma, raising sons, and learning the power of masculinity and femininity. She’s an alpha-female leader who spills out practical wisdom at every turn.
Tue, May 10, 2022
Recognizing Patterns in the Modern World with Todd Henry—Creative, Author, Podcaster
Todd Henry, the first guest ever featured on the podcast, returns for a timely conversation on navigating our complicated world. A creative, teacher, and writer, Todd talks about the difference between fads and trends, learning to recognize patterns, and how he navigates a divisive culture. His wisdom is an invaluable resource for living an aggressive life.
Tue, May 03, 2022
The Million Download Giveaway Special
The Aggressive Life just passed its 1 millionth download! We’re celebrating by looking back at some of our favorite moments, and giving away nearly $500 worth of prizes. Highlights include Brian’s conversation with Matthew McConaughey, his emotional farewell with his mentor, and learning about bourbon and horse soldiers with Will Summers.
Tue, April 26, 2022
Something Worth Fighting For with David Eubank—Free Burma Rangers
David Eubank saw a problem—and instead of philosophizing about it, he decided to become a solution. As newlyweds, David and his wife moved to Burma (now Myanmar), home of the world’s longest-running civil war, with a vision to care for the hurting and displaced. That was 25 years ago, and it was the birth of the Free Burma Rangers, one of the world’s premiere humanitarian organizations. David is an incredibly aggressive and godly man, with a story you won’t quickly forget.
Tue, April 19, 2022
Risking It All On Laughter with Andrew Stanley—Stand-Up Comedian
With the world looking increasingly dark, stand-up comedian Andrew Stanley is risking it all on laughter. What began as 5 minutes at an open mic has blossomed into a career built on an aggressive move: leaving his stable office job behind to tell jokes. He’s an inspiring, and hilarious, young man with insights on risk, the power of humor and how you can learn to be funnier.
Tue, April 12, 2022
The Meaning of Easter with N.T. Wright—Theologian, Author, Professor
N.T. Wright is among the world’s preeminent Bible scholars, a sought-after teacher, and author of more than 70 books. Joining us from his home in Oxford, England, N.T. shares his passion for Easter, how Plato causes us to think about it incorrectly, and the wisdom of a London cab-drive. This conversation has the power to completely upend the way you think about Easter.
Tue, April 05, 2022
Coming to the States with $50 and a Duffel Bag with Edgar Sandoval Sr.—President & CEO, World Vision
Although originally born in Los Angeles, Edgar Sandoval spent most of his childhood in Central and South America. As a young adult, chasing a dream of a better life, he came back to the United States with $50 and everything he owned in a duffel bag. His incredible story finds him making aggressive move after aggressive move—from enrolling in a prestigious school, to leading a society-impacting ad campaign, to giving up his steady job to combat global poverty. Edgar is a man on a mission, whose vision and drive are inspiring.
Tue, March 29, 2022
The Courage to Try with David Wise—3x Olympic Medalist, Freestyle Skiing
At the age of 18, David Wise told his father he was going to go pro in skiing, or die trying… and that’s exactly what he did. The 3x Olympic medalist is fresh off a silver medal performance in the Beijing games. But the half-pipe isn’t the only place David’s aggressive—from an 18-month recovery from injury, to hunting, to raising a farm and family, he’s letting aggressive moves push his life forward. He’s an inspiring man that will push you to get moving too.
Tue, March 22, 2022
Getting Out Alive with Jessie Krebs—Wilderness Survival Expert
Jessie Krebs is a real American badass. A former US Air Force SERE (survival, evasion, resistance, and escape) instructor, she’s a walking masterclass in what it takes to get out alive. “If you act like prey,” she says, “you’re prey.” With Jessie’s practical wisdom on everything from finding shelter, to purifying water, to maintaining mental health, you’ll be more prepared for whatever comes your way.
Tue, March 15, 2022
The Body Follows the Brain with Mike Gelfgot—Activate Brain & Body
We understand the importance of pursuing physical health, but what about cognitive? Entrepreneur and health advocate, Mike Gelfgot, believes this is the key to a better life. His theory? Put the brain first and the body will follow. Cognitive health isn’t just for the elderly, and it’s about much more than Sudoku puzzles. Like everything else, the more aggressive you are today, the better your tomorrows.
Tue, March 08, 2022
Burning the Ships with Luke Smallbone—for KING & COUNTRY
Even with a slew of Grammys and hit singles, for KING & COUNTRY aren’t resting on their laurels. Known for their live shows and unflinching songwriting, cofounder and drummer, Luke Smallbone, pulls no punches in an aggressive conversation about eliminating fear, encouraging creativity, and why most Christian music sucks.
Bonus · Fri, March 04, 2022
The Conflict in Ukraine with Bob Herring—Chair, Cincinnati-Kharkiv Sister City Partnership
Little over a week ago, Russia began it’s assault on Ukraine. In this unedited bonus episode, Brian sits down with Bob Herring, a man who has spent a lifetime getting to know, and love, the people of Ukraine. As Chair of the Cincinnati-Kharkiv Sister City Partnership, he has firsthand knowledge of a culture, and cities, that many of us only hear about in the news. His invaluable perspective and passion bring much needed clarity to a tense and volatile situation. Show Notes Article: Putin’s Spiritual Destiny Cincinnati-Kharkiv Sister City Partnership
Tue, March 01, 2022
Horse Soldiers and Bourbon with Will Summers—US Special Forces Vet & Entrepreneur
Little over a month after the attacks of 9/11, Will Summers was crossing the border into Afghanistan. Along with a small band of other Special Forces soldiers, he was part of America’s first response to the tragedy. One of the famous horse soldiers immortalized in a monument at Ground Zero, and in the major Hollywood movie 12 Strong , Will shares his remarkable story of bravery and perseverance… and how it ultimately led him to a career in the bourbon industry.
Tue, February 22, 2022
Lessons from a Man of Legacy with Ndaba Mandela—Entrepreneur & Grandson of Nelson Mandela
As a pre-teen, Ndaba Mandela went to live with his grandfather, a move that would shape the rest of his life. From lessons on facing adversity, to what it takes to become a man, the fingerprints of Nelson Mandela are all over Ndaba's life. He is an aggressive man, relentlessly pursuing not only the legacy of his grandfather, but leaving his own behind as well.
Tue, February 15, 2022
The Outlaws' Preacher with Gene "Skip" Skipworth—Motorcycle Rider & Pastor
In the late 60s and early 70s, outlaw motorcycle gangs were at their peak. This was especially true in Cincinnati, which became a hub of sorts. Skip Skipworth, newly appointed to a church in the area, found this out the hard way—with a black eye and bruised body. But this young pastor didn't give up on reaching the unreachable. His story is one of aggressive living that changed lives, including his own.
Tue, February 08, 2022
The Bengal Mindset with Vinny Rey—Cincinnati Bengals Team Chaplain
The Cincinnati Bengals are going to the Super Bowl! Whether you live in Ohio or not, we all love an underdog. Despite all the odds, the Bengals have found a way to win. Days before Super Bowl LVI, we're sitting down with former Bengal, and current team chaplain, Vinny Rey, to discuss what makes this team so special, the power of your mind, and what it's going to take for the Bengals to bring home the Lombardi Trophy. Who Dey?!
Tue, February 01, 2022
A Conversation from the Future with John Mark Comer—Thinker, Author, Pastor
While he won’t admit it, John Mark Comer is our generation’s C.S. Lewis—a brilliant mind, an articulate communicator, and a talented writer and teacher. Portland, Oregon, where John Mark calls home, is considered by many to be the future of America. I pick John Mark’s brain about this and other topics, including politics, the church, and deconstruction.
Tue, January 25, 2022
From Cleaning Toilets to the Corner Office with Steve Hightower—President & CEO, Hightowers Petroleum
Hightowers Petroleum is one of the country's largest African-American owned businesses and listed among INC’s 5,000 Most Successful. Where did CEO Steve Hightower learn the keys to success? As a janitor on nights and weekends. His rags to riches story is chock-full of incredibly applicable wisdom to push your life forward.
Tue, January 18, 2022
The Apex Predator with Robb Wiley—Wild Game Hunter
Over a year ago, I went out to the western high country to make my second attempt at getting an elk. My new friend, Robb, joined me. Along the way, we had insightful conversations about hunting, family, faith, and the healthy aggression that pushes each one of those things forward. After the hunt, holed up in a hunting lodge with a fire raging behind us, we turned on a pair of smartphones and recorded an unplanned podcast. Just like I did, I think you’ll find Robb’s wisdom, aggression, and attitude both refreshing and challenging. My elk hunt was turned into a 3-episode mini-series on YouTube, The High Country Hunt . All episodes are streaming here .
Tue, January 11, 2022
Riding Rockets into Space with Mike Mullane—NASA Astronaut
Is there anything more aggressive than strapping yourself to a rocket and blasting off into space? Yet that’s exactly what Mike Mullane did. Chosen as one of the original space shuttle astronauts, Mike was a part of three separate missions, logging almost 15 days in space before his retirement. His aggressive life involves homemade jet fuel, 134 combat missions in Vietnam, freakin’ space, and an avid love for the outdoors.
Tue, December 21, 2021
Christmas Special: Back to Basics
Christmas has become a lot of things, but in this one-on-one with Brian, he takes us back to the basics of a (not so) silent night in Bethlehem. This new Aggressive Life Christmas tradition is meant to inspire and reorient your holiday.
Tue, December 14, 2021
Recovering Sunken Spanish Gold with Brent Brisben—Treasure Hunter
Brent Brisben’s no pirate, but his life plays like a Disney movie. 300 years after a Spanish treasure ship sunk off the coast of Florida, he and his team uncovered the lost gold, valued at $3.5 million dollars. But it wasn’t all rainbows and sunshine to get there. Brent’s aggressive story is the culmination of risky moves, hard work, and fighting through heartache.
Tue, December 07, 2021
Learning to Love (and Even Read) The Bible with Jon Collins & Tim Mackie—The Bible Project
The Bible is the most printed and purchased book in the history of the world. It’s not even close. Yet, for all the talk surrounding the ancient text, very few people actually read it—and even fewer understand it. College friends, Jon and Tim, are doing something about that. Founders of The Bible Project, they’re equipping a generation of readers to engage with and understand the Bible. In this conversation, they give insight into how The Bible Project started, four misguided approaches they see when people pick up the book, and what it’s like to lead a crowd-funded organization.
Tue, November 30, 2021
Live Music and Risky Yeses with Justin Mosteller—Singer-Songwriter, Crossroads Music
For the first time ever, live music comes to the Aggressive Life! Songwriter and worship leader, Justin Mosteller, has been around music his whole life. As founder and frontman for Carrollton, Justin saw years of hard work beginning to pay off when his song “Made for This” was used everywhere from Jeep commercials to the Olympics. But just as that began to peak, he felt prompted to leave it all behind. He tells his aggressive story, and plays a song connected to Brian, in this in-studio appearance.
Tue, November 23, 2021
The Spiritual History of Thanksgiving with Stephen Mansfield—Historian & Author
You’ve never heard the story of Thanksgiving quite like this. Historian and author, Stephen Mansfield, takes us back to the Mayflower—through the landing at Plymouth Rock, the unbelievable meeting of Samoset, and into the first Thanksgiving celebration. Along the way, he highlights the aggressive faith that drove the Pilgrims, and their life-saving relationships with the Native Americans. This conversation will change the way you think about the last Thursday in November.
Tue, November 16, 2021
Recreating the Dumb and Dumber Ride with Zack Courts & Ari Henning—Revzilla
“ Just when I thought you couldn’t get any dumber, you go… and totally redeem yourself!” That iconic scene from Dumb and Dumber , which finds Harry and Lloyd riding a minibike from Nebraska to Aspen, provided a spark of inspiration for friends and motorcycle experts, Zack and Ari. The pair wanted to know: could you really ride that bike, that far? So they built an exact replica, and put it to the test. What results is a hilarious and aggressive adventure you have to hear to believe. Watch Zack and Ari’s short film here .
Tue, November 09, 2021
Navigating Our Cultural Convulsion with Ed Stetzer—Commentator, Professor, Author
Feel like you're underwater? You’re not alone. The past 18 months have felt like one tragic turn of events after another. The good news: this isn’t the first time this has happened. Commentator, professor, and author, Ed Stetzer, likens our current cultural moment with the turbulent years of the 1960s. His insights into understanding our past can help us chart a better, and more aggressive, course for tomorrow.
Tue, November 02, 2021
Effort is the Answer with Gregg Eichhorn—World Weightlifting Record Holder & Adoptive Father
You’ve likely never heard Gregg Eichhorn’s name before, but he’s easily one of the most aggressive guests we’ve ever featured—from Guinness World Records in weightlifting, to adopting 9 kids with physical or developmental delays, to the way he works for his marriage and family. The key? Effort. Gregg’s story will push you.
Tue, October 26, 2021
Taking Control of Your Time with Jordan Raynor—Entrepreneur & Author
Busy is the new normal, but it doesn’t have to be. You can take control of your time, instead of feeling like it has you by the leash. Entrepreneur and author, Jordan Raynor, researched how some of the most influential and successful people in history managed their time. He shares surprising insights and hacks to help you make the most of the time you’ve been given.
Tue, October 19, 2021
God Respects You - Live at Man Camp 2021
Man Camp 2021 was one for the books. 1,500 men from 32 states gathered to sit around campfires, do hard work, and push themselves to a new place. In this talk, delivered live under the big tent, Brian unpacked an unexpected attribute of God, one that fills a spiritual hole found specifically in men. A flash sale for Man Camp 2022 is happening right now, with tickets at the guaranteed lowest price. Sale ends 10/24. Subscribe to stay in the know, and buy tickets, at mancamp.us .
Tue, October 12, 2021
Resilient Parents and Kids with Erica Komisar—Parenting Expert
Healthy kids come from healthy parents—at least, that’s what parenting expert and psychoanalyst Erica Komisar believes. In a challenging and insightful conversation, Erica explains the importance of emotionally available parents, dealing with your own anxiety, and why belief in God is paramount to the health of children.
Tue, October 05, 2021
Mars Hill and the Failure of Faith Leaders with Steve Carter and Bob Merritt—Former Megachurch Pastors
The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill podcast is everywhere. Yes, I’ve listened to it, and like everyone else, I’ve got opinions. Today, I sit down with two former megachurch pastors, who’ve personally experienced the pain of fallen faith leaders, to hear their thoughts and wisdom around Mars Hill, Willow Creek, and recovering from church hurt.
Tue, September 28, 2021
Comprehensive Health with Vince Del Monte—Fitness Business Coach
Fitness and Business Expert, Vince Del Monte, wasn’t always that way. In college, he struggled to gain weight or muscle, his friends nicknaming him Skinny Vinny. But Vince didn’t lose his focus. He’s worked hard to move into comprehensive fitness in all areas of his life—physical, spiritual, relational, and emotional. He’s a natural coach who’s going to push you into a new place.
Tue, September 21, 2021
The Power in a Man's Tears with Jason Wilson—Father-Figure and Mentor
Jason Wilson is a man’s man. He’s a martial arts expert, a father-figure changing lives in metro Detroit, and an accomplished best-selling author. But the feat he’s most proud of: learning to cry. It allowed him to overcame the lynching of his grandfather, the murder of his brother and emotional abuse at the hands of his father. Jason is a comprehensive man, who will push you to be both a lion and a lamb. Link to Jason’s website and his two books: Cry Like a Man and Battle Cry .
Tue, September 14, 2021
Confronting the Comfort Crisis with Michael Easter—Author and Adventurer
The path of least resistance just might be the very thing killing you. Author and adventurer, Michael Easter, took a deep dive into discomfort and discovered something extraordinary—it made his life better. After more than a month in the most rural parts of Alaska, he came home a different man: more focused, happier, and more fulfilled. He continues to pull on that string and his research into discomfort, and the power of the outdoors, is invigorating.
Tue, September 07, 2021
COVID and Vaccine Q&A with Dr. Francis Collins — Director, National Institutes of Health
18 months into this deal, there’s more confusion, competing opinions, and clutter around COVID and the vaccines than ever before. So we brought back the nation’s foremost scientist, Dr. Francis Collins, to cut through the noise and give us straight answers to questions you asked via Instagram.
Tue, August 31, 2021
The Art of Conversation with Windex—Brian's Friend
Let’s talk… about talking. Sounds a little ridiculous, but you spend a huge chunk of each day trying to communicate with the people around you. What if you could do it better? What if you could actually enjoy conversations, instead of running from them as quickly as possible? My friend Craig (known to me as Windex) has some things to teach us all about the aggressive art of conversation.
Tue, August 24, 2021
Catching Greenlights with Matthew McConaughey—Actor and Expert at Livin’
Matthew McConaughey is two things: rigorous and vigorous. Sure, he’s a Hollywood A-Lister, Creative Director for Wild Turkey Bourbon, and a Texas Longhorns super fan...but more than all that, he’s a man deeply invested in getting the most out of life. His aggressive livin’ is inspiring. It's time for us all to be catching more Greenlights .
Tue, August 03, 2021
Brian's Favorite Moments from Year Two
The Aggressive Life just turned two years old. The past year has been a whirlwind—through COVID, an election cycle, and much more, you've stuck with us. We don't take that for granted. In this episode, Brian takes a moment to reflect back on his favorite moments from Year Two, and looks forward to another year of aggressive living.
Tue, July 27, 2021
Playing the Man — Live at Man Camp
What happens at Man Camp stays at Man Camp… except this time. Surrounded by thousands of men, Brian delivers a powerful teaching on playing the man, courage, and the x-factor of a life that works.
Tue, July 20, 2021
Crowd Q&A — Live in Cincinnati
Following every Five Marks of a Man event, Brian opens the floor for a live and unfiltered Q&A session. Recorded in 2019, near the campus of the University of Cincinnati, these questions cover everything from parenting, to father wounds, to dating and beyond.
Tue, July 13, 2021
The Five Marks of a Man — Live in Cincinnati
Age doesn’t separate boys from men—it’s something much deeper than that. Recorded in 2019, near the campus of the University of Cincinnati, Brian breaks down the five differences between boys and men. It's an aggressive talk that remains incredibly timely.
Tue, July 06, 2021
Do You Want More? — Live in Nashville
Recorded in Nashville, Tennessee, in May 2021, Brian unpacks the powerful truth behind a life of impact—you have to want more.
Tue, June 22, 2021
Summer Q&A
You asked, we answered. Submitted by listeners via Instagram, this Q&A covers everything from summer drinks to road trip playlists; mental health to hard conversations; dating to deconstruction. Brian tackles it all with his trademark humor, wisdom, and ready-to-move aggression.
Tue, June 15, 2021
Becoming Men with Chests with Morgan Snyder—Author & Speaker
Authentic manhood gives life to everyone who intersects with it, male and female. At least, that’s the opinion of Morgan Snyder. The writer, speaker, and avid-outdoorsmen has dedicated his life to rediscovering and cultivating manhood—first in himself, and then in others around him. He’s a treasure trove of aggressive living. Buckle up, this is a good one.
Tue, June 08, 2021
Forgiving my Traffickers with Anjali Tamang—Human Rights Advocate
At the age of 11, Anjali was tricked into leaving her remote village in the foothills of Nepal. For over two years, she was confined to a brothel and forced into the rape-for-profit industry in India. Today, we hear about her experiences, how she escaped, and the power of forgiving those who enslaved her. It’s an incredibly powerful story of hope and aggression you won’t soon forget. Check out Anjali's memoir here and donate to help build her school here .
Tue, June 01, 2021
Unpacking the Israel-Palestine Conflict with Calev Myers—Lawyer and Civil Rights Activist
In the last few weeks, tensions between Israel and Palestine once more erupted into armed conflict. While a ceasefire has been signed, this topic remains as charged as ever. Calev Myers, a lawyer and civil rights activist, helps us unpack this oftentimes confusing conflict with level-headed clarity (and even reasons for hope).
Mon, May 24, 2021
Move - Day 7: A New Thing
You'll never take new ground while looking backwards. Likewise, God isn't as concerned about your past as He is about the new thing He's doing in and around you. Find that new thing and chase it forward. This is our final day of walking through the first week of content in my new devotional book, Move: A Guide To Get Up and Go Forward .
Sun, May 23, 2021
Move - Day 6: You Are His Son
Abba isn't just the name of a Swedish band—it means something so much more. On Day 6 of our journey through the first week of content in Move: A Guide To Get Up and Go Forward , we examine what this words means and why it can change everything about your life.
Sat, May 22, 2021
Move - Day 5: A Man's Mind
A man's most powerful organ is between his ears, not his legs. What you think will determine your trajectory. That's not New Age mumbo-jumbo, it's Biblical truth. We dive into that on Day 5 of our weeklong journey through content featured in my new devotional book Move: A Guide To Get Up and Go Forward .
Fri, May 21, 2021
Move - Day 4: It Is A Great Thing To Be A Man
We're half-way there! It's day 4 of our week-long journey through content from my new book, Move: A Guide To Get Up and Go Forward . Today, we're talking about the blessing of manhood, and the responsibility it carries.
Thu, May 20, 2021
Move - Day 3: The Grace/Truth Paradox
Almost everyone tends to fall into one side of this argument—either all about grace or all about truth—Jesus invites us into the middle. In Day 3 of our 7-day journey through content in my new book, Move: A Guide to Get Up and Go Forward , we're going to talk tattoos, paradoxes, and pushing our lives forward.
Wed, May 19, 2021
Move - Day 2: What Is It You Want?
If Jesus asked you what you wanted, what would you say? We're diving into the story of a man who experienced that, and learning that Jesus just might be asking us the same thing. This is Day 2 of our 7-day journey through my new book Move: A Guide to Get Up and Go Forward .
Tue, May 18, 2021
Move - Day 1: Introduction & Hearing from God
My newest book, Move: A Guide to Get Up and Go Forward , hits stores nationwide today. It's a 70-day devotional guide full of aggressive teaching and prompts to get your butt off the couch. We're celebrating by working through the first week of content together. Today, we start with the story behind the book, my own family issues, and God's voice.
Bonus · Thu, May 13, 2021
Are You Ready to Move?
My newest book, Move: A Guide To Get Up and Go Forward , gets a nationwide release on May 18th. We’re celebrating with a week’s worth of podcast content straight from the book. Get all the details here… and preorder your copy now to have it in time for the big day!
Tue, May 11, 2021
Becoming CEO of Your Own Life with Shaun Alexander—NFL Legend
As one of the greatest running backs to play in the NFL, Shaun Alexander brought speed and intensity to every game. He does the same thing in this conversation, seamlessly moving between effective time management, the deepest pain he’s ever felt, and the kinds of friends every person needs. Shaun’s dominance didn’t stop the day he hung up his cleats. He’s an utterly inspiring and aggressive man who will elevate your life.
Tue, May 04, 2021
Demystifying Health with Amanda Tress—CEO, FASTer Way To Fat Loss
With so much competing information on health, it's difficult to know where to begin. Amanda Tress cuts through the fat—literally. As founder and CEO of FASTer Way to Fat Loss, she's points people to a healthier future by getting back to the fundamentals. Her aggressive vision and drive has made her first in class, and will push you forward.
Tue, April 27, 2021
Race, Business & Beekeeping with Allen Woods—MORTAR Business Hub
Allen Woods is a force of nature. As the co-founder and executive director of MORTAR, he’s helping historically marginalized people groups not only start small businesses, but grow them into thriving enterprises. In this no-holds barred conversation, he and Brian discuss race, the impact of COVID-19 on small business, why he’d want to meet Malcolm X, and how being the minority is like beekeeping.
Tue, April 20, 2021
Throwing a Knockout Punch with Aung La N Sang—MMA Champion
MMA Champion and International Fighter of the Year, Aung La N Sang, knows a thing or two about packing a punch. Under the championship belts, though, he isn't a violent man. Rather, he's driven and focused on becoming the best he can be. It's the intentional choices, day-in and day-out, that will push your life forward.
Tue, April 13, 2021
Lessons from the Spanish Flu with John M. Barry—Historian
The thing we learn from history is that we don’t learn a thing from history—today, we’re changing that. Historian John M. Barry, an expert on the 1918 Spanish Flu, joins us to talk pandemic lessons and what we can expect as COVID comes to a close. It’s an enlightening (and hopeful) conversation you don’t want to miss.
Tue, April 06, 2021
Overcoming Overthinking with Jon Acuff—Writer & Comedian
Jon Acuff is a funny man, but he’s also a go-getter. A New York Times Best-Selling author, his newest book, Soundtracks , delivers insights into overcoming overthinking. Hint: it’s all about your soundtracks. This conversation will make you laugh, but it will also give you tools to push your life forward—that’s aggressive.
Tue, March 16, 2021
The Power of Daily Habits with Mark Batterson—Author & Pastor
New York Times Best-Selling Author, Mark Batterson, just released his twentieth title (20th?! Seriously?!). His new book, Win The Day, gives practical and actionable advice on the power daily habits play in our lives. Mark shares this wisdom, as well as the most aggressive way to kill a lion, in this fast-paced and actionable conversation.
Tue, March 09, 2021
Stop Passively Waiting For Your Ideal Life with Ryan Atkins—Author, Husband, Quadriplegic
Ryan Atkins had life by the horns until an accident completely changed everything. But he didn't give up. He didn't phone it in. He's an aggressive man, paving his own way, even when facing life as a quadriplegic. His story will inspire and push you to stop waiting for the perfect scenario and get moving.
Tue, March 02, 2021
Swinging For the Fences with Adam Duvall—MLB Outfielder
Who's Adam Duvall? He's a record-holding, All-Star left fielder who's suited up for the Cincinnati Reds, Atlanta Braves, and now the Miami Marlins. But he's so much more than that. He's a humble warrior, fighting through an adult diagnosis of Type-1 Diabetes, and free agency, to stay in the game he loves.
Tue, February 23, 2021
Part 2: Your Sex Questions Answered with Emma Schmidt—Sex and Relationship Therapist
Part two of Brian's enlightening conversation with Emma Schmidt, a sex and relationship therapist. The pair move through a second set of listener submitted questions, covering topics like emotional wounds, the effects of purity culture, and masturbation.
Tue, February 16, 2021
Part 1: Your Sex Questions Answered with Emma Schmidt—Sex and Relationship Therapist
You asked... we found the expert. Brian tosses around listener submitted questions on sex and relationships with therapist Emma Schmidt. It's an unpredictable, entertaining, and utterly enlightening first half of a two-part conversation you can't miss.
Tue, February 09, 2021
Walking the Road to Recovery with Kurt Platte—Addiction Survivor and Mentor
Kurt Platte seemed to be thriving, but he was living with a dark secret: addiction. For 29 years, it dictated the day-to-day of his life, threatening to destroy everything he loved. Kurt’s walked the long road to recovery and now helps others do the same. He shares his unbelievable story, including personal insights for anyone whose life is touched by addiction.
Tue, February 02, 2021
Brady vs. Mahomes, Who is the Weeknd? and Why You Can’t Find Ammo with Solomon Wilcots—Award-Winning NFL Analyst
It’s Super Bowl week, the most unifying holiday of the year. Brian sits down with his friend, former NFL pro turned award-winning analyst, Solomon Wilcots, for a discussion around the big game, confusion about the half-time show, and why Solomon can’t shoot coyotes.
Tue, January 26, 2021
Episode 63: Nick Spicher—Enneagram Coach
Personality tests might be all the rage, but knowing more about yourself is only helpful if it produces tangible change in your life. Today, I talk with a good friend (and Enneagram nerd) Nick Spicher, for a full run-down of the most popular personality typing out there—and how to use it to push your life forward.
Tue, January 19, 2021
My Last Conversation With My Young Life Leader with Denny Pattyn—Brian's Mentor
"You're the reason I'm the person I am today." Brian sits down for an emotional final conversation with his Young Life leader, mentor and spiritual father, Denny Pattyn. With only weeks left to live, Denny offers funny, insightful, and touching wisdom, a fitting last chapter in a life well lived. Stick around for what happened after the official recording—the most emotional few minutes of The Aggressive Life to date.
Tue, January 12, 2021
Episode 61: Craig DeMartino—Amputee Climbing Champion
Instead of allowing one event to define their lives, the aggressive make moves to take back control. Craig DeMartino was an accomplished climber when a ten-story fall completely changed his life. By a miracle he survived—and by aggression, he chose to amputate his leg so he could get back to climbing. It's a story you have to hear to believe.
Bonus · Mon, December 28, 2020
COVID, Vaccines & Faith with Dr. Francis Collins—Director, National Institutes of Health
There is a lot of confusion and fear about COVID-19. We take those questions straight to the top of the food chain, to Dr. Francis Collins, esteemed scientist and director of the National Institutes of Health. I’m confident this will be the most important podcast you’ve listened to all year and maybe the most insightful as well. Listen and tell me I’m wrong and I’ll give you your money back.
Fri, December 18, 2020
Episode 60: Christmas Special with Lecrae & Amy Grant
Nothing says Christmas quite like a TV Special. This behind-the-scenes episode gives unfiltered access to multi-Grammy winning artists Lecrae and Amy Grant, originally recorded for the 2020 Crossroads Christmas Special. These uncut conversations give unparalleled access to these world class artists—including how they're approaching Christmas this year and why it matters. Find out more about streaming the Crossroads Christmas Special at www.crossroads.net/christmas
Tue, December 15, 2020
Episode 59: Darren Mulligan—We Are Messengers
Darren Mulligan appears to have it all—as the frontman for We Are Messengers he has radio hits, successful tours, and songs in movies. But he's not an overnight success. His story involves risk, hard choices, and leaving behind his beloved Ireland to chase an extraordinary life. He's an aggressive man with an aggressive perspective, ready to push you toward something better.
Tue, December 08, 2020
Episode 58: Angela Dugger—National Alliance on Mental Illness
The most difficult year I can remember is going to end with winter, the most difficult season. We need to prepare—and that means wresting with mental health. Today, I'm joined by Angela Dugger, from the Ohio chapter of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, for a practical discussion that has the power to change your winter.
Tue, December 01, 2020
Episode 57: Todd Pierce—Bareback Rodeo Cowboy
2020 has been a bucking bronco, and we're all just trying to hold on. Thankfully, that's exactly Todd Pierce's area of expertise. A former champion bareback rodeo rider, Todd's gritty wisdom about manhood, perseverance, and holding on when the world is shaking, is just what we need to hear right now.
Tue, November 24, 2020
Episode 56: Dr. Shantel Thomas—A Sound Mind Counseling
The holidays are coming—and for most Americans, that's not a comforting thought. It means stress. It means fights with loved ones. It means dealing with budgets and shopping. Dr. Shantel Thomas, President and CEO of A Sound Mind Counseling, helps point us to a better way. Don't just survive the holidays, aggressively choose to thrive.
Tue, November 17, 2020
Episode 55: Scott Weiss—Chairman OCEAN Programs
You'll spend one-third of your life at work, yet too many of us are passive about what we do from 9-5. Today, we talk all things work with Scott Weiss, a career businessman who is the current chairman of OCEAN Programs, one of the nation's foremost faith-based business accelerators. His wisdom and experience are invaluable, no matter where you are in your career.
Tue, November 10, 2020
Downhill Racing Adult Big Wheels with Judd Watkins—DangerWheel
When was the last time you had fun? If you're like most of us, it's been way, way too long. But Judd Watkins is here for you. Friend of Brian, and guru of fun, Judd comes back to the podcast for a hilarious and insightful conversation about the importance of play in our lives, even as an adult.
Tue, November 03, 2020
Episode 53: Ben Beshear and John Brannon—LiveWell Capital
Nobody wants to talk about it, but financial issues lead to more divorce, more anxiety, and more general stress than almost anything else in our lives. It's time to do something about that. Brian is joined by two guests, Ben Beshear, co-founder and principal of LiveWell capital, and John Brannon, a seasoned portfolio manager, for an aggressive (and honest) look at what it takes to get your money to work for you.
Tue, October 27, 2020
Episode 52: Cory Carlson—Executive Coach and Author
Cory Carlson was winning in the corporate world... but losing at home. With his relationships crumbling, he devoted himself to reprioritizing his life. His book, Win at Home First , was named by Forbes Magazine as one of the "7 Books Everyone On Your Team Should Read." He works hard, plays hard, and is going to push us to do the same.
Tue, October 20, 2020
Episode 51: Lecrae Moore—Rap Artist and Author
Lecrae Moore was on top of the world—but behind the bright lights and success, his personal life was crumbling. Why? Unhealed trauma. We all have it, and we all have to deal with it if we're going to move forward. In this personal and revealing conversation, Lecrae charts a path forward we can all follow.
Tue, October 06, 2020
Episode 50: An Aggressive State of the Union
For his 50th full-length episode, Brian goes solo. He takes the mic, casting vision for why healthy aggression matters, how it can change your life, and why it's needed now more than ever. It's a recalibrating shot in the arm, pushing us all forward.
Tue, September 29, 2020
Episode 49: Listening to the Left with Joshua DuBois—Former Faith Advisor to President Obama
We've listened to the right, now the left gets a turn. At the age of 26, Joshua DuBois found himself in an unbelievable position: one of the youngest appointed heads of a White House office and President Obama's informal faith advisor. Working closely with the former president gave him a perspective few people have. He's an aggressive man with an inspiring story that will both challenge and encourage you. This the final episode of a 3-part miniseries taking an aggressive look at politics.
Tue, September 22, 2020
Episode 48: Listening to the Right with Mike Huckabee—Former GOP Presidential Candidate
In a world of sound bite arguments, the most aggressive move is to listen, even if you expect to disagree. You might think you know former GOP presidential candidate Mike Huckabee... but there's more to this man than his politics. There's the Huckabee who accidentally became a pastor; the Huckabee who racially integrated his church; the Huckabee who befriends figures on the left. No matter your political persuasion, there's something in this conversation that will surprise, and maybe even delight you. This is part 2 of a 3-part miniseries taking an aggressive look at politics.
Tue, September 15, 2020
Episode 47: Politics and Polarization with Andrew Hanauer—CEO One America Movement
Does it seem like our political divide is worse than ever? Andrew Hanauer has devoted his life to studying polarization (what happens when societies rip themselves apart) and has incredibly practical insights into how our nation can move toward unity. Hint: it's going to take aggressive moves from each of us. This is part 1 of a 3-part miniseries taking an aggressive look at politics.
Tue, September 08, 2020
Episode 46: Dondre Whitfield—Actor and Author
Dondre Whitfield is a man on fire—and he puts on a clinic in this conversation. He recounts his early days on The Cosby Show , reflects on the grief he still feels from losing his father figure, and connects the dots on how it's all inspired him to grow into a man. His newest book, Male vs Man , is a call to arms. He's an utterly inspiring man who isn't afraid to step into controversial territory in this not-to-be-missed episode.
Tue, September 01, 2020
Episode 45: Jim Hensel—Mindset Coach
It took a devastating loss for Jim Hensel to realize he didn't know who he was or what he stood for. But he didn't give up. He did the hard work of aggressively finding answers, and charted a path for others to follow. He's an influential leader who's worked with champions like Rich Froning (CrossFit) and Michael Chandler (MMA). His insights into the power of mindset are staggering, motivating, and practical.
Tue, August 25, 2020
Episode 44: Michelle Wohlberg—Survival Expert
48 days—that's how long Michelle Wohlberg survived, alone, in the sub-arctic, with only ten items to her name. She's a fierce competitor recently featured on The History Channel's survival show, Alone . Her grit and wisdom are on full display, from practical tips to surviving in the wild, to dealing with loss and hurt. She's as inspiring as she is tough.
Tue, August 18, 2020
Episode 43: David Jamison—The Dope Educator
It's back to school, with the teacher everyone wishes they'd had. An educator in Memphis, David Jamison gained national attention for his unorthodox methods. He's using his national platform to shake up the way we think about education as a champion for students and men (especially men of color) in the classroom. A recent survivor of COVID-19, his insights into anxiety, fatherlessness, and education are stunning. He's an utterly inspiring man, actively changing the next generation.
Tue, August 11, 2020
Episode 42: Rob Kenney—Dad, How Do I?
Rob Kenney grew up without a father, but he vowed to be different. After successfully raising his own kids, the world came calling. He's the driving force behind the insanely popular YouTube channel Dad, How Do I? , where he offers practical advice, wisdom, and dad jokes. He's a humble man whose become a father to millions worldwide.
Tue, August 04, 2020
Episode 41: Doug Pederson—Head Coach Philadelphia Eagles
Doug Pederson has been an underdog his entire career—and thrived on it. He's a member of an elite class of NFL royalty, having won a Super Bowl as both a player and a coach. Doug's infectious wisdom is on full display, sharing insights into success, leadership, and how COVID is rewriting the game he loves.
Tue, July 14, 2020
Episode 40: Brian's Favorite Moments From Year One
The Aggressive Life turns one year-old tomorrow. In those 365 days, we've released over fifty episodes meant to give you fresh inspiration and encouragement to live life on your toes, to get in the game, to grab life by the throat and get after it. Brian reflects on the first year, and relives some of his favorite interview moments, including conversations with Kathie Lee Gifford, Michael Chandler, and more.
Wed, July 08, 2020
Episode 39: Wendy Lea—CEO and Strategic Advisor
Wendy Lea has expertise that only experience can give. She's worked with some of the largest corporations on earth and invested heavily into entrepreneurs and start-ups. And she's not slowing down. Newly appointed as the CEO of Energize Colorado, she's using her skills to plot a path forward for business in the time of COVID-19. But her most aggressive move? Admitting to loneliness. Her business savvy and humanity are refreshing.
Tue, June 30, 2020
Episode 38: Clay Croft—Expedition Overland
Adventure. Risk. Pushing yourself. Clay Croft embodies all of these attributes, but the road wasn't easy. He was broke and at the end of his rope when he started Expedition Overland. It's since grown into the world's premier overlanding docuseries. In this engaging conversation, Clay shares the wisdom he's gathered along the way.
Tue, June 23, 2020
Episode 37: John Eldredge—Author & Adventurer
John Eldredge is a wild man. The avid adventurer and outdoorsman spends his days as an author and counselor, focused on helping men discover the path to authentic manhood. His best seller, Wild at Heart , continues to make waves. In conversation with Brian, the pair discuss John's impact, the importance of fathers, and why gender matters.
Tue, June 16, 2020
Episode 36: Lenore Skenazy—America's Worst Mom
When Lenore Skenazy's 9 year-old son asked for more freedom, she gave it to him... and in the process, was labeled "America's Worst Mom." Her insights into the importance of risk, freedom, and safety are timely reminders, not only for parents, but everyone looking to live an aggressive life.
Tue, June 09, 2020
Episode 35: Rob Richardson—Disruption Now
Rob Richardson isn't afraid to ask the hard questions. As a podcast host, a radio personality, and local civic leader, Rob's made a career of pushing past the status quo. His no-nonsense candor is evenly matched, as he and Brian take on race, faith, policing, and the current state of America.
Tue, June 02, 2020
Episode 34: Dallas Jenkins—The Chosen
Dallas Jenkins was an up-and-coming director, until his first major Hollywood film flopped at the box office. In just two hours, ten years worth of projects and offers were taken off the table. But Dallas kept pressing forward. He is now the producer, director, and a writer for The Chosen, a multi-season TV show on the life of Jesus (and the largest crowdfunded media project of all time). His aggressive takes on failure, film, and faith will invigorate you.
Tue, May 26, 2020
Episode 33: Jody Dreyer—Former Disney Executive
Jody Dreyer started with Disney as a college intern, but didn't stop there. In her thirty year career with the company, she held 22 different jobs, working her way up to the C-Suite and reporting directly to then-CEO Michael Eisner. Her infectious personality and deep insights into creativity, business, and the secret to Disney's success, are worth their weight in gold.
Tue, May 19, 2020
Episode 32: Eric Wood—Pro Bowl Center
For nearly twenty years, the Buffalo Bills didn't make the playoffs. At the time, it was the longest active playoff drought in North American sports. But Eric Wood, the Bill's Pro Bowl Center, had his sights set on seeing that drought come to an end. Stories from his nine seasons in the NFL, working back from multiple debilitating injuries, and the power of being a late-bloomer dominate this honest and motivating conversation.
Tue, May 12, 2020
Episode 31: Mark Burnett—Producer of Survivor & Shark Tank
He became a household name with Survivor, practically creating an entire genre of television. He followed that up with hits like Shark Tank , The Bible , and a new Netflix mini-series, Messiah . But there's more to Mark Burnett than just good television. From household servant in Beverly Hills to Chairman of MGM Television Group, he's an inspiring man propelled forward by aggressive moves.
Bonus · Tue, April 28, 2020
COVID Frontline: Dr. Kevin Joseph — Chief Medical Officer, TriHealth
Medical professionals are the true heroes of the coronavirus pandemic. Brian is joined by Dr. Kevin Joseph, a former ER doctor and current Senior Vice President and Chief Medical Officer of TriHealth, for a no-holds barred conversation around what it's like to practice medicine during a pandemic, the path to a vaccine, and the secret to staying healthy.
Bonus · Tue, April 21, 2020
COVID Frontline: P.G. Sittenfeld—Cincinnati City Council
Our fight against coronavirus is a war with multiple fronts. The first in a series of three conversations with people engaging this crisis head on, Brian is joined by Cincinnati City Councilman, P.G. Sittenfeld. The pair have an honest and enlightening conversation around stay-at-home-orders, the economic ramifications of crisis, and a timeline for getting back to normal.
Bonus · Tue, April 14, 2020
Using Crisis To Heal
What if history remembered the COVID-19 crisis as a time of healing? Andrew Hanauer believes, with a little intentionality on our parts, that just might be the case. The President and CEO of One America Movement joins Brian for a hope-filled and practical conversation on how we can use this crisis to bridge division in our nation and neighborhoods.
Bonus · Tue, April 07, 2020
Fitness Under Quarantine
COVID-19 has closed gyms and forced millions of people into month long quarantines. But now is not the time to just park it on the couch. You still need to sweat. You still need to build muscle. You still need to work out. Your physical health depends on it, but so does your mental, emotional and even spiritual strength. Brian sits down with a highly sought-after personal trainer for a conversation around how you can stay fit while under quarantine.
Bonus · Wed, April 01, 2020
The Passive Life with Brian Tome
We've all been working a bit too hard. Aggression? It's for the birds. A life of meaning and transcendence is coming your way—be patient; hit the easy button; let go and let God. This is The Passive Life.
Bonus · Tue, March 31, 2020
Sex, Quarantine, and COVID-19
With states across the nation implementing stay-at-home orders to combat the spread of the coronavirus, it's likely you find yourself with extra time to spend with your spouse. With advice from Emma Schmidt, head of Cincinnati's only group therapy practice for sex and relationships, you just might spend that time wisely.
Tue, March 24, 2020
Episode 30: Brian Head Welch—Korn
In the mid 90's, Korn took the world by storm. But superstardom came with a heavy price. Battling addiction and struggling as a single father, guitarist Brian Head Welch began taking steps toward faith, steps which eventually led him away from the band and a $25 million recording contract. And that's just the beginning of the story. This interview with rock and roll royalty is a must-hear. Are you ready?!
Bonus · Tue, March 17, 2020
Coronavirus Special—Instagram Q&A
The coronavirus crisis is dominating our national conversation, but you don't have to face it alone. In this special bonus episode, Brian answers listener submitted questions about panic, fear, isolation... and the best way to cook Brussels sprouts.
Tue, March 10, 2020
Episode 29: Chuck Mingo—UNDIVIDED
Despite being a half-century out from the civil rights movement, a recent study found that 58% of all adults in America believe race relations are "generally bad." Pastor and leader, Chuck Mingo, isn't taking those numbers in stride. Through an initiative he created, Chuck is aggressively getting people out of their racial silos and into life-changing relationships.
Tue, March 03, 2020
Episode 28: Britney Ruby Miller—President Jeff Ruby Culinary Entertainment
Starting as a hostess in high school, Britney Ruby Miller worked her way up the ladder into the corner office. As President of Jeff Ruby Culinary Entertainment, she leads over 700 employees, at seven restaurants, spread across three states. She's a driven leader who's passionate about foster care, blowing customers away, and blazing new trails into the future... and she schools Brian on why it's so hard to get french fries right.
Tue, February 25, 2020
Around the World on Motorcycles with Simon and Lisa Thomas—2 Ride the World
Seventeen years ago, Simon and Lisa Thomas set off on a motorcycle ride... and they never came back. Having ridden around the world, setting tires down on six continents, they've experienced a life most people only dream about. This couple, considered the world's foremost adventure motorcycle riders, will push you to get off the couch and start living a life you're excited about.
Tue, February 18, 2020
Episode 26: Michael Chandler—MMA World Champion
Despite an impressive record and three Bellator World Championship titles, Michael Chandler knows what it feels like to lose. Once going 688 days without an MMA victory, he made the aggressive choice to keep pressing forward. This time in his career forged him. The wisdom and lessons he learned will prepare you for the most important fight you're in: your life.
Tue, February 11, 2020
Episode 25: Michael Jr.—Stand-Up Comedian
Everything changed the moment Michael Jr. stopped trying to get laughs from his audience. Equal parts hilarious and insightful, Brian meets his match with this widely successful stand-up comedian, podcaster, and actor.
Tue, February 04, 2020
Episode 24: Kathie Lee Gifford—TV Legend
For over 25 years, Kathie Lee Gifford was part of America's morning routine, earning 11 Daytime Emmy nominations for her work on Live! and Today . She sits down with Brian for a personal look into her career and life, tackling topics like aging, infidelity, and forgiveness, with her trademark grace and charm.
Tue, January 28, 2020
Episode 23: The Phantom Lake Special
Two summers ago, Brian led a group of 10 inexperienced riders on a grueling off-road motorcycle adventure. Four of those riders—Zach, John, Patty and Chuck—get together with Brian for the first time since their return. The group talks candidly about the challenge of adventure riding, following Brian as a leader, and how this trip still impacts their lives today. Phantom Lake , a 7-part series documenting this adventure ride, is available now on Amazon Prime.
Tue, January 21, 2020
Episode 22: Mike Fisher—Former NHL Captain
Mike Fisher is a force of nature. The former captain of the Nashville Predators, avid hunter, and half of a high-profile marriage, gives a rare glimpse into his aggressive life.
Tue, January 14, 2020
From Alaskan Bear Hunting to Making Silicon Rings with Peter Goodwin—Groove Life CEO and Founder
From an Alaskan bear hunting guide to the founder of a wildly successful startup, Peter Goodwin's life has been defined by the aggressive moves he's made. Brian sits down with him after a tour of the Groove Life facility for a conversation you'll have to hear to believe.
Bonus · Sat, January 04, 2020
New Year's Q&A—Starting New Ventures
If you're looking to start something new in 2020—from a business to a goal—start here. Brian answers listener submitted questions about starting new ventures in the new year.
Bonus · Fri, January 03, 2020
New Year's Q&A—Money
Mo' money doesn't always have to mean mo' problems. Brian answers listener submitted questions about all things cash—from saving to spending and beyond. Get your money right in 2020.
Bonus · Thu, January 02, 2020
New Year's Q&A—Relationships
Everyone wants better relationships—be it with family, friends, or romantic interests. Brian answers listener submitted questions about all that, and more, to help your relationships get to a new level in 2020.
Bonus · Wed, January 01, 2020
New Year's Q&A—Health and Wellness
Health goals are, by far, the most popular New Year's resolutions. Kickstart your way to a healthier life in 2020 with Brian's answers to listener submitted questions about exercise, eating, and wellness.
Mon, December 02, 2019
Episode 20: Judd Watkins—Man Camp Cofounder
Brian invites back fan favorite, Judd Watkins. This time, the pair dive into a conversation around aggression, masculine spirituality, and why Brian will never take the enneagram.
Mon, November 25, 2019
Episode 19: Lena Schuler—Daughter
Healthy aggression pays off at work, but what about at home? Brian sits down for a conversation with his oldest daughter about the pros and cons of being an aggressive parent.
Mon, November 18, 2019
Episode 18: Stephen Mansfield—Biographer
History has lessons to teach, but are we listening? Brian sits down with author and biographer, Stephen Mansfield, to take a deeper dive into some of the great lives of history, unearthing what can be learned about aggression from men like Arthur Guinness, Winston Churchill, and Booker T. Washington.
Mon, November 11, 2019
Episode 17: Tyler Jack Harris—Entrepreneur and Motivator
In 2014, Tyler Jack Harris was broke and alone. A failed business and marriage left him feeling like a victim. But the day he chose to take ownership of his life, it began to change. Brian sits down with the entrepreneur, motivator, and member of Forbes Business Development Council to hear his inspiring story of aggression.
Sun, November 03, 2019
Episode 16: Robert Morris—Giver
Everyone likes the idea of being generous... but very few people actually practice it. And then there's Robert Morris. The pastor and author is an obvious exception to that rule. Brian flew out to Dallas to hear Robert's incredible stories and to find the connection between aggression and generosity.
Mon, October 28, 2019
Episode 15: Bob Goff—Author and Storyteller
Recorded live before a student audience at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio, Brian sits down for an engaging and encouraging conversation with renowned author and storyteller Bob Goff. Bob tells stories from his legendary life, and gives practical advice for putting love into action.
Mon, October 21, 2019
Episode 14: Dr. Lora Scott—Youth Sports Advocate
Instead of avoiding pain at all costs, what if we expected it and let it inform our decision making? Brian sits down with the Program Director for Pediatric Sports Medicine at Dayton Children's Hospital (Dayton, Ohio) for a discussion on pain, concussions, and why youth sports are worth the risk.
Mon, October 14, 2019
Episode 13: Rocky Boiman—Super Bowl Champion
Rocky Boiman decided as a child he wanted to play football at Notre Dame. He not only achieved that goal, but went on to a storybook NFL career, including a Super Bowl Championship with the Indianapolis Colts. In conversation with Brian, Rocky reflects on the power of aggression, learning hard work from his father, and what keeps him motivated after leaving the NFL behind.
Mon, October 07, 2019
Episode 12: Kirk Perry—President Google Brand Solutions
Aggression prompted Kirk Perry to be the first person from his family to attend college—and its carried him on an incredible journey from Cincinnati to Korea to Silicon Valley. Brian sits down with his close friend for an inspiring conversation about making your life count... and what its really like to work for one of the most successful businesses on the planet: Google.
Mon, September 30, 2019
Episode 11: Liz Bohannon—Sseko Designs
Entrepreneur Liz Bohannon's life has been defined by aggressive decisions—from starting Sseko Designs to benefit women in Uganda, to fighting against gender stereotypes in business. She joins Brian to share her wisdom and experience.
Mon, September 09, 2019
Episode 10: Anthony Munoz
Pro Football Hall of Famer Anthony Munoz is widely considered one of the greatest offensive tackles in NFL history. Brian joins Anthony for a conversation on how competitive aggression has served him well—in football, marriage, business and beyond.
Mon, September 02, 2019
Episode 9: Chris Seelbach
There's nothing aggressive about staying in "holy huddles" of people who already think like you do. Brian invites his friend, Chris Seelbach, Cincinnati's first openly gay elected city council member, to talk about their aggressive move to pursue friendship, and to demonstrate what it looks like to disagree well.
Mon, August 26, 2019
Episode 8: Beth Guckenberger
Being aggressive means finding worth in people and places other people want to ignore. Brian sits down with Beth Guckenberger, author and co-director of Back2Back Ministries, to hear about her aggressive choice to see value in orphaned and vulnerable children—both abroad and at home.
Mon, August 19, 2019
Episode 7: Bill Cunningham
Aggression isn't only for the young. Brian is joined by 71 year-old radio legend, Bill Cunningham, for an unfiltered discussion around work, marriage, and learning to make decisions for the long-haul.
Mon, August 12, 2019
Episode 6: Nick Hagglund
Many kids grow up dreaming of becoming the star player for their hometown team. For most of us, it stops there. But for Nick Hagglund, MLS star defender for FC Cincinnati, that dream has become reality. But it didn't happen overnight. And it didn't happen passively.
Mon, August 05, 2019
Episode 5: Teresa Tanner
Who is the most powerful woman in banking? Teresa Tanner, that's who. Hear her story, from working the counter at McDonalds to the C-suite of a Fortune 500 company. How did she do it? Aggressive moves.
Mon, July 29, 2019
Episode 4: Jeff Ruby
His name is attached to some of the finest dining in Cincinnati and beyond. But behind the food is the story of man who's devoted his life to making aggressive decisions—running away from home as a teenager, going "all-in" on his start-ups , and a head-to-head confrontation with an unpopular (but famous) guest. Brian welcomes restauranteur and Cincinnati icon, Jeff Ruby, to The Aggressive Life.
Mon, July 22, 2019
Episode 3: Judd Watkins
Running from your past won't erase it. The aggressive move is to confront it, no matter how painful. Brian welcomes his friend, Judd Watkins, for an honest conversation about pain, healing, and moving forward.
Mon, July 15, 2019
Episode 2: Solomon Wilcots
In a world that seems to be tearing itself apart, talking race is an aggressive move. Host Brian Tome does just that (and much more) with his friend, former NFL player and Emmy Award winning football analyst, Solomon Wilcots.
Mon, July 15, 2019
Episode 1: Todd Henry
Following your passion isn't as pretty as the movies make it look—it's dangerous, risky, and means choosing to suffer. Brian sits down with author Todd Henry to talk leaving your day job, pursuing passions, and stopping crime in New York City.
Mon, July 15, 2019
Episode 0: What is The Aggressive Life?
Passivity is killing us. The only answer? Learning to live aggressively. Host Brian Tome gives an overview of the problem, answer, and an introduction to his new podcast.
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