Dear Nelly
In this hilarious and heartfelt podcast, award-winning comedian Nelly Thomas and guest co-hosts offer sex, relationship and dating advice from the other side of 40. Like many people, Nelly got “Covid Divorced” after a long relationship and not only was it not a disaster, it was best for everyone involved. Turning 40 is something faced with dread by some but Nelly has a different take - this is when you really come into your own. Nelly and her guest co-hosts will help you navigate the highs and lows of break-ups, dating, relationships, sex and everything else in-between. Guest co-hosts so far include Cal...
Wed, April 16, 2025
A Dyke on a Bike and Sex and The City
APRIL 2025 EPISODE This month we are joined by T-Rex - the President of the Melbourne chapter of the iconic Dykes on Bikes. T-Rex and I chart her journey from dirt-bike farm-girl to two marriages, some difficult relationships and ultimately, to finding herself and her person. T-Rex's journey is that of so many of us - a long and winding road to self-discovery and happiness with some pot-holes and fox burrows in between. You'll be inspired to find your own patch. TICKETS TO OUR NEXT LIVE SHOW ON MAY 15TH (MELBOURNE) HERE Dykes on Bikes Melbourne HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mon, March 17, 2025
It's All About You!
IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU: NELLY COMING AT YOU SOLO WITH LISTENER CALLS AND LETTERS This month Nelly is going commando - no co-host - to tackle your listener calls and letters. We have everything from how to get hope back, to coercive control, to dating dilemmas. A solo ep with Captain Thomas at the helm. Enjoy! TICKETS AND INFO FOR KIRSTY WEBECK'S TOUR HERE Interview with Rebecca Solnit, “Hope in the Dark” https://youtu.be/htstajrxUIc?si=04pnJ-nlsqz3kVwB Coercive control: https://www.healthline.com/health/coercive-control#restricting-autonomy Non-physical abuse: https://www.cnv.org.au/help/what-is-family-violence/#:~:text=Family%20violence%20isn't%20always,t%20do%20what%20they%20want . DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.
Wed, February 19, 2025
Don't date while horny!
DO NOT DATE WHILst ON THE HORN: THE BAR will be TOO LOW! THE FABULOUS ADAM RICHARD is back with Nelly to tackle some listener letters and questions that they didn't get to last time. These range from how to set up your profile, to dating while s*x-starved to community to parenting whilst living with a mental illness. As always, they are hilarious and highly inappropriate. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mon, January 20, 2025
Should I hook up with someone at work?
DEAR NELLY FAVOURITE SCOTT BRENNAN IS BACK TO HELP NELLY FIGURE SH*T OUT One of our favouite homosexuals is back to help Nelly answer some straight lady questions from listeners. Why? Because, why not. Scott has been sitting in the sh*t and we get into that. We take questions on hooking up with a work friend, sex toy etiquette and, how to enjoy big events on your won. We also take an inspiring call about dating in a regional area, later in life. A beautiful episode with a dear friend of both Nelly and the Dear Nelly Community. You'll love this one - a ripper start to 2025. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Fri, January 10, 2025
The Fabulous Adam Richard: how do we set up an open relationship?
The Fabulous Adam Richard : how do we set up an open relationship? In addition to your guaranteed monthly episodes, Nelly will now drop in solo and/or with a guest to talk sh*t and take listener letters when she has time. We start today with a very long episode with Nelly's old mate The Fabulous Adam Richard. Adam and his long-term partner have just opened up their relationship and Adam is loving some aspects and finding others challenging. They GET INTO IT. Nelly and Adam also take some wonderful listener letters. It's a long one - listen in two parts or go on a really long walk. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Fri, December 20, 2024
Nelly SOLO life update!
This month Nelly is solo - not by her own choice, she had a fresh episode ready to go, but sadly due to technical issues here we are! An overall update on what's been going on with Nelly over the last little while - a real honest and raw update. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, November 13, 2024
Dating Stories from Youse Molls: She went to her first Sex Party!
NOVEMBER 2024 EPISODE: DATING STORIES, MOLLS! This month Nelly has had a rough time and so she's decided to embrace the joy, mess and debauchery of life by making an entire episode out of dating stories. You'll hear the good, the bad and the ugly and if you don't cry/laugh multiple times, go get your pulse checked. An absolutely glorious episode. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, October 16, 2024
Serena Walker & Nelly: Have Two-weeks of Sex!
SERENA WALKER: COUNSELLING PSYCHOLOGIST IS BACK TO GET INTO IT Serena Walker is back to talk about all the things! We get into humour, hope and intentionality and how important they are to connection. We talk about a 30-day texting challenge, a 2-week sex challenge and how to honour grief and change. We get into Tina the Musical and a couple of memes. We take a beautiful listener call about recovering from an abusive relationship, finding a new romance and how to deal with that ending. We end on Serena's BIG MISTAKE. SERENA'S WEBSITE: HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, September 18, 2024
Rusty Berther: Starting Again at 50
Rusty Berther: Starting Again at 50 as a Straight Man in the Wild! Rusty Bertha's marriage of 27 years ended when he was 49 and he was shitting in the shit . Flash forward 7 years and he is happily remarried after doing a shitload of therapy and then meeting a wonderful woman on the apps. YES, IT DOES HAPPEN. Nelly and Rusty talk about all of that plus what sort of flirt he is and do's and don'ts of dating. They take a great listener call about boundaries and Rusty's BIG MISTAKE in dating and relationships. RUSTY BERTHA: HERE and HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy f
Thu, September 12, 2024
Toxic People Thrive in Silence
TOXIC PEOPLE THRIVE IN SILENCE In this ep, Nelly drops in to ponder how toxic people rely on silence and how liberating it is when you find your voice. She also muses on how egocentric we are when it comes to divorce, dating and all the things. She invites you to WWRPD - what would Ru Paul do - and ask yourself how important your current situation is in the Grander Scheme of Things. So you got divorced - sure it's huge, it's also nothing in the Big Picture view of human history and even, of your life. You can put the shame, worry and fear down. She also take wonderful call from a woman who was sitting right in the shit and is out the other side with a full bush and a new lease on her (sex)life. Bravo! Sherapy Sessions Podcast HERE Character Outs Podcast HERE The Ru Paul interview Nelly references HERE NELLY'S NEW EVENT: OVER THE RAINBOW DATING FOR LGBTIQA+ VICTORIANS HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works bes
Tue, August 27, 2024
Nelly is Fifty, Fabulous and Facing the F'n Sh*t!
Fifty, Fabulous and Facing the F'n Sh*t! Nelly turned 50 last week and she drops in to take some birthday calls and talk about the bug 5-0 milestone. Nelly gets into "un-fu*king" yourself and how aging can be an opportunity to shed all the negative crap that has held us back and, how joy is there to be taken. She also shares what she's reading, listening to and watching. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, August 14, 2024
Rebecca De Unamuno: I don't know if you're interested until my pants are around my ankles!
Rebecca De Unamuno: I don't know if you're interested until my pants are around my ankles! Bec and I talk about being long-term-single, how to flirt (or not) and why rending to your own garden is the most important thing. We take a great listener call from someone who is NOT embracing being single and a letter about a pash n' dash. A great ep with a golden girl of comedy. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bonus · Mon, August 05, 2024
Nelly's advice STINKS!
AUGUST BONUS: NELLY'S ADVICE STINKS! Nelly drops in take a listener call telling her she WAS WRONG (she sort of was?), to rant about Fake on Paramount Plus and some other stuff. You'll really love this episode if you've dated a fantasist/pathological liar/ predator. Info on FAKE here Info on The Dating Gamble (INSIGHT) here DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, July 24, 2024
BONUS EPISODE: IT GETS BETTER!
BONUS EPISODE: IT GETS BETTER! This week Nelly drops in with a Bonus ep dedicated to listeners and the stuff she's reading and watching. I AM CELINE DOCO HERE MUSEUM OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS HERE COUPLES THERAPY HERE DR GABOR MATE HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informatio
Wed, July 17, 2024
Shit - I caught feelings for my Friends with Benefits!
HARLEY BREEN IS BACK: what do we do if we catch feelings for our Friends with Benefits ? In an era of smaller and smaller families, how on earth did comedian Harley Breen end up living in Queensland with 4 kids? He blames Psilocybin! Harley and I discuss navigating the ups and downs of coparenting after divorce, feeding 4 kids and, who broke the world. We have a good chat about Love Languages and take two wonderful listener calls on whether or not our caller is too fussy and another on how to tell a "Friends with Benefits" you've caught feelings. Gorgeous Harley leads with his heart and shareS some exquisite rants with Nelly. ENJOY! Harley's podcast Shitting with the Door Open HERE ARTIST OF THE MONTH: HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='
Wed, July 10, 2024
BULLA FROM NELLY: you can sleep while I drive
Bonus Free Episode for Everyone! Nelly is just dropping in with a few musings on holidays, love songs, TV and other stuff. Why? Just because she missed yas. DEAR NELLY PLAYLIST: HERE COUPLES THERAPY: HERE MELISSA ETHERIDGE DOCO HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Tue, June 18, 2024
Cath Davis is back for Thirsty Thirds: how low is that bloody bar!?
Cath Davis is back for Thirsty Thirds: how low is that bloody bar?! The glorious Cath Davis is back! Cath and Nelly have a great chat about how to be included in conversation as a single person surrounded by married couples (hint: that's on the couples), Cath's favourite love songs and how Cath has been. They take two listener calls - one on learning absolutely nothing about menopause from doctors and another on the "Low Bar" for men in dating. They finish the free episode with a chat about Nelly's queen of rock: Melissa Etheridge and her relationship history. A gorgeous ep with one of Nelly's faves. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, June 05, 2024
Change is a comin'
New stuff happening at Dear Nelly HQ! DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 29, 2024
Chris Ryan: It's not ADHD, he's just not that into you!
Chris Ryan: It's not ADHD, he's just not that into you Chris Ryan is back with her delightfuLly direct and funny advice. She brooks no bullshit this one - including for herself.We talk about a Tori Amon song, I give Chris career advice and we take a call from a late-in-life remarried person who is happy as Larry. We chat about Tom Hanks and some other stuff too. In the Bonus ep we answer a listener letter about dating someone with ADHD - Chris has some thoughts, not all "gentle" (you'll see what I mean). DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 22, 2024
Matt Kelly is back for Sloppy Seconds
Matt Kelly is back for Sloppy Seconds and Nelly wants her bloody special day! Matt Kelly is children's entertainer and all 'round lovely man. He's on the fence about anniversary celebrations, but here for other occasions (we unpack that). Matt asks Nelly for advice about communicating with his dad, they take a gorgeous listener call from a woman who wants the feels but doesn't want to share her life and they get into BIG MISTAKES. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 15, 2024
Janty Blair: I've always had eyes for Denzel
JANTY BLAIR: IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN YOU, DENZEL Janty Blair is 59 years old, has been engaged twice, proposed to 4 times and has never married. She's on the apps and living her best life with a current suitor sho's in Canada! A fascinating woman with a rich and wonderful life. DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE 13YARN 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 08, 2024
Serena Walker: Counselling Psychologist
SERENA WALKER: You don't have to be friends with your ex! Serena Walker is a Counselling Psychologist and new friend of Nelly's. Serena and Nelly met at the funeral of their mutual friend Cal Wilson and they gravitated toward each other. Serena has experience working with clients who have a history of trauma and abuse and or are having issues with depression, anxiety, worry, post-traumatic stress disorder, phobias, or relationship difficulties. Nelly and Serena talk about finding a career late in life, how grief can impact relationships and starting again after difficult relationships. We do the usual "No shade on my ex" and "He's a ten but...". A gorgeous episode with a very special woman. DEAR NELLY LIVE IDAHOBIT SHOW : TICKETS AND INFO HERE SERENA'S WEBSITE: HERE RESOURCES RECOMMENDED BY SERENA: The Power and Control Wheel: HERE Recovering from Rape and Sexual Trauma: HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Aca
Wed, May 01, 2024
A heavy-hearted Scotty Brennan is back for Thirsty Thirds
Scotty Brennan is coming in Heavy Hearted for Thirsty Thirds Scott Brennan is one of our most beloved co-hosts and he joins us whilst sitting in the sh*t. As always, he still brings his tender, loving and funny self to the conversation. We go from Oscar Wilde to a married mum drowning under the mental load to the avowedly single Whoopi Goldberg. This episode has it all. Enjoy xxx Scott's Granny Bingo HERE DEAR NELLY LIVE IDAHOBIT SHOW : TICKETS AND INFO HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: HERE SUBSRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON HERE SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, April 24, 2024
Michelle Shepphard: I respect you to much to have sex with you! (WTAF)
Michelle Sheppard: I respect you to much to have sex with you! (WTAF) Michelle Sheppard is a leader in the realm of gender equity. Her own path as a transgender woman has given her a unique perspective, providing her with insightful insights into the complex issues of gender bridging. In recognition of her extraordinary contributions, Michelle was inducted into the Victorian Museum of Women and honoured with a coveted spot in the 2023 Victorian Honour Roll of Women as a Change Agent. In today's episode, Michelle and Nelly GET AMONGST IT: her two young marriages as a "Mid-West Gentleman" and then later, dating as a trans woman. We talk about some shitful experiences on the dating apps and, some good ones (spoiler alert: she found her sweetpea there). Nelly and Michelle take a call on how to talk to kids after divorce (TW: family violence is mentioned) and ultimately, how to keep the focus on the kiddos. Michelle has multiple "ten... but" dealbreakers and some spicy stuff from ex's. A terrific episode with a thoughtful and fascinating woman. MICHELLE'S WORK AND WEBSITE : https://mishsheppard.com/ COME TO THE "DEAR NELLY LIVE IDAHOBIT SHOW" (9th May 2024): TICKETS AND INFO HERE SCOTT BRENNAN GERALDINE HICKEY NELLY THOMAS DR QUAH EE LING TINA DEL TWISTE AND MORE... 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and
Wed, April 17, 2024
Danny Blay is back for Sloppy Seconds
Danny Blay is back for Sloppy Seconds: how will your house SOUND when it is empty? Danny Blay is a wonderful man who works in behaviour change with men who use violence against women and children. Nelly and Danny have worked together for many years in the violence prevention space and are now mates. Danny is a very dedicated father and his kids have recently moved out of home. Nelly and Danny talk about how the "empty nest" hit him so hard. Nelly and Danny also take a listener letter from a mum whose grown, adult son is potentially an abusive husband and, a call from a woman who has been "sitting in the sh*t" for 12 years after a toxic relationship. This is a sometimes heavy but moving episode with a laugh here and there! DEAR NELLY LIVE IDAHOBIT SHOW (9th May 2024): TICKETS AND INFO HERE 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, April 10, 2024
Chris Ryan is back for Sloppy Seconds
Chris Ryan is back for Sloppy Seconds and thinks we're kidding ourselves about ENM! Comedian Chris Ryan joined us a while ago to share her terrible heartbreak after a long-distance relationship ended. She's back with a lovely update on that front and, some firm opinions on our listener questions. A caller asks if she MUST use the apps to date (spoiler alert: no) and a letter-writer seemingly asks for permission to go ENM even though her husband said no. Chris has some firm views on that. Chris asks Nelly an in-depth question and, talks to us about how she thinks we're too quick to dispose of relationships these days. As always, a forthright and funny episode with a feisty broad. Enjoy! To find Chris's touring dates and see her shows, click HERE DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, April 03, 2024
NELLY HAS THE RONA: Live from Sydney - Part 2
NELLY HAS THE RONA! Dearest Nelly finally got the Covid... she's been hit hard and is resting up. BUT, don't fear, we have some stuff we've been saving for a rainy day! This episode features some never-before-heard material from the Live Show in Sydney with Yumi Stynes, Benjamin Law and Chris Ryan. It also has some clips Sammy has kept aside from previous eps. And don't fear, Nelly is getting better and we will be back to regular programming very soon. The Dear Nelly Team xxx DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 27, 2024
NELLY HAS THE RONA: Live from Sydney - Part 1
NELLY HAS THE RONA! Dearest Nelly finally got the Covid... she's been hit hard and is resting up. BUT, don't fear, we have some stuff we've been saving for a rainy day! This episode features some never-before-heard material from the Live Show in Sydney with Yumi Stynes, Benjamin Law and Chris Ryan. It also has some clips Sammy has kept aside from previous eps. And don't fear, Nelly is getting better and we will be back to regular programming very soon. The Dear Nelly Team xxx DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 20, 2024
Kirsty Webeck is back for Thirsty Thirds
Kirsty Webeck Thirsty Thirds: love and other catastrophes! Dear Nelly favourite - and one of Nelly's bestie - Kirsty Webeck is back for our first ever Thirsty Thirds episodes. Nelly and Kirsty talk about formative film experiences, Kristy's early dating and Kirsty's new tour. Kirsty and Nelly take two great calls; one about dating with kids and the other about how to explore same-sex attraction without using someone as an "experiment". JUICY! We also spend quite some time talking about Nicole Kidman's love life. Enjoy! BOOK TICKETS TO SEE KIRSTY WEBECK IN " I'LL BE THE JUDGE OF THAT! " DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 13, 2024
Hilary Harper: single, over 50 and back on the bloody apps!
HILARY HARPER: SINGLE, OVER 50 AND BACK ON THE BLOODY APPS! Hilary Harper is the host of Life Matters on Radio National. A very accomplished and well-known woman in Australia's media, she's also a mum and human with a personal life. That personal life includes becoming single about 18 months ago when her long-term relationship ended. We chat about what the last 18 months have been like and what it's like dating again. Spoiler alert: she jumped on the apps (not fancy ones, just normal ones like the rest of us) and recently found a new love. A great chat with a much loved and respected radio veteran. Listen to Hilary's new podcast DATED: LOVE ONLINE AFTER 50 HERE or search "Dated" on the ABC Listen App, and Apple Podcasts DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM: Go to our new website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. Click HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 06, 2024
Dear Nelly Live: Lizzi Hoo, Sami Shah and Kirsty Webeck at the Malthouse Outdoors!
DEAR NELLY LIVE: a recording of our live show at the Malthouse Outdoors (Feb 2024) Starring Lizzi Hoo , Kirsty Webeck and Sami Shah! An hilarious and heartfelt episode with a stellar panel. Features some very funny stories, some heartbreak and some fabulous listener letters. Go to the BRAND NEW DEARNELLYPODCAST.COM website for all show info, resources and everything else you need. SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, February 28, 2024
Clare Wright: Sit in the Shit and Keep it Classy
Professor Clare Wright: Sit in the Shit and Keep it Classy Professor Clare Wright OAM is an award-winning historian, author, broadcaster and public commentator who has worked in politics, academia and the media. Clare is currently Professor of History and Professor of Public Engagement at La Trobe University. Twelve months ago her marriage of 36 years ended and she was thrust into single life - and living alone - for the first time since she was a teenager. We threw out the usual running order for this episode and just sat in the shit. We explored the last 12 months and how the hell to navigate so much change, pain and joy. A fascinating chat with a HUGE brain and even bigger heart. DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOWS COMING UP: HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, February 21, 2024
Danny Blay: Is anyone in the house scared of you?
DANNY BLAY: is anyone in the house scared of you? Danny Blay is a old mate and colleague of Nelly's. They worked together for many years collaborating on sexual health and respectful relationships shows for young people. Danny and Nelly have a long chat about respect, family violence and working with men who use violence against women and children. They also talk about Danny's relationship history, discuss a cracker meme and an awesome listener call about LAT (living apart together). A hard discussion at the start, but necessary and episode does move on to lighter matters. Nelly x Danny Blay is a policy advisor and trainer preventing family violence and violence against women and children. Danny was the Chief Executive Officer of No To Violence Male Family Violence Prevention Association (NTV) Inc. for eleven years and now provides advice, training and project development in responses to and prevention of family violence and sexual assault, and gender equity. Danny is an experienced instructor of many hundreds of child protection practitioners, family services workers, corrections staff, police, the judiciary, youth workers, alcohol and other drug counsellors and other professionals to recognise and safely respond to men’s use of family violence. In a previous life Danny worked in community radio and was a youth and parenting support worker, setting up the innovative Palmerston Parenting Support Service outside of Darwin in the Northern Territory. Danny’s book Drive Around The World: One Family, One Car, One Year, One Planet was published in 2013 and he can now be heard regularly on ABC Radio Melbourne. Stay up to date with Danny Blay on Twitter . 1800 RESPECT INFO HERE OR CALL 1800 737 732 ORANGE DOOR INFO HERE DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOWS COMING UP: HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESS
Wed, February 14, 2024
Celia Pacquola: I fell in love with a guy I'd never met!
Celia Pacquola: I fell in love with a guy I'd never met! We are joined today by comedian, actor and super-star Celia Pacquola. Celia met her now partner on the internet and THEY DECLARED THEIR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER BEFORE THEY EVER MET IN REAL LIFE! Celia and I talk about recovering from being cheated on and gaslit, what it's like to have rumours spread about you and how to recover from all that. We take a ripper listener call from a woman whose niece got her back on the apps and encouraged her to try dating again. A brilliant episode with one of the finest talents of her generation (yes, I am a big fan). INFO ABOUT CELIA: HERE CELIA'S SHOW INFO: HERE DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOWS COMING UP: HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, February 07, 2024
Jacinta Parsons: My last date was in 1996!
Jacinta Parsons: Single Life, Solitude, Bob Hawke and Do I bloody date again? Today we are joined by ABC personality and author Jacinta Parsons. Jacinta has been single for 18 months after the end of a 25 year relationship. She's now embracing the single life and really leaning into solitude after a period of loneliness and adjustment. We discuss her brilliant article on loneliness and solitude and also, the effect of chronic illness on her life and relationships. We take an incredible listener call on relationships with neurodivergent men and end on our normal dating dealbreakers and "He's a ten, but." Jacinta's brilliant book UNSEEN HERE Jacinta's article on loneliness HERE LIVE SHOW TICKETS HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, January 31, 2024
Webeck's Sloppy Seconds: Kirsty grills Nelly on the HARD LAUNCH!
KIRSTY WEBECK: GRILLS NELLY ON THE HARD LAUNCH! One of Nelly's favourite mates, comedian Kirsty Webeck, is back for SLOPPY SECONDS. Kirsty and Nelly talk about breaking old patterns (of choosing the wrong people), Nelly's new romance (woot: gossip!) and they take a great listener call on how to handle a "Friends With Benefits" relationships when someone catches feelings. A wonderful and reflective episode with a Dear Nelly legend. KIRSTY'S TOUR DATES FOR " I'LL BE THE JUDGE OF THAT " HERE TICKETS TO THE NEXT DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW HERE - starring Nelly Thomas, Lizzie Hoo, Kirsty Webeck and Sami Shah SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, January 24, 2024
Quah Ee Ling: if the situation is sick, you will be too
Quah Ee Ling: you can't heal in a sick situation Today we are joined by academic Quah Ee Ling who has research specialities in divorce, intersectionality and cultural studies. I met Ee Ling at an event in Sydney last year and fell in (friend) love with her immediately. I just adore this intelligent, kind and sensitive soul. Ee Ling and I talk about marriage migration, PTSD, social anxiety and the idea that couples that grow and change together have the best chance. We talk about what romance actually is and how social introverts can manage dating and socialising. We take a listener letter on how to make friends when you have social anxiety and are a bit longer in the tooth. A wonderfully raw and fascinating episode with a very clever cookie. Ee Ling's info HERE TICKETS TO THE NEXT DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW HERE - starring Nelly Thomas, Lizzie Hoo, Kirsty Webeck and Sami Shah SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, January 17, 2024
Tom Ballard Sloppy Seconds: I'm comin' in hot and fully POTENCHED!
Tom Ballard: I'm coming in hot and fully potenched! Comedian Tom Ballard is back for Sloppy Seconds and he asks Nelly a HUGE question: what is the lesson you have had to learn repeatedly throughout life and, have you learned it yet? Tom and Nelly talk about Tom's partner and ... Nelly's new sweethear t! Yes, she went back on the apps and it ACTUALLY WORKED. Tom and Nelly take a listener call about "weaponised incompetence" and respond to a letter about loving the chase and not the relationship. A fantastic episode with an old (young) mate. TICKETS TO THE NEXT DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW HERE - starring Nelly Thomas, Lizzie Hoo, Kirsty Webeck and Sami Shah Tom's Tour Dates and info HERE Tom's Podcast link HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, January 10, 2024
Nato Green: I cock-blocked myself!
Nato Green: I cock-blocked myself! Nato Green is a US comic and union organiser and Nelly is a huge fan of his. Nelly and Nato discuss his 20+ year marriage, how he thought he was unlovable and was super nervous about expressing vulnerability, how he wanted to date but just couldn't work out how until he was in his 20's and, how he had lots of platonic friendships with women that perhaps could have turned romantic. Nelly and Nato take two amazing listener calls - one on navigating your first Christmas as a single mum and another on how to talk to your kids about mental load. And Nato's solution to many things seems to be a finger in the butt. A great ep with an hilarious and thoughtful guy. TICKETS TO THE NEXT DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW HERE - starring Nelly Thomas, Lizzie Hoo, Kirsty Webeck and Sami Shah NATO'S WEBSITE WITH LINKS TO ALL THE THINGS WE DISCUSS HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, January 03, 2024
Producer Sammy's Best of 2023!
Nelly is having a week off but don't worry, Producer Sammy has pulled together a brilliant ep of the highlights from our first year! Listen, enjoy, share! BOOK TICKETS TO OUR NEXT LIVE SHOW ON FEB 8TH 2024 HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, December 27, 2023
Van Badham: worth the wait!
Van Badham: a fool in love! Van Badham is an author, playwright, Guardian columnist, broadcaster and general all 'round ratbag. Van and I talk about how she'd given up on love and then fell in love at Trades Hall, across a crowded room at the age of 39. We take a brilliant listener call on what single life can look like in your 60s and get into Van's dating dealbreakers and "he's a ten but...". A wonderful episode with a wise and thoughtful woman determined to wait for the best (chuck out the rest). Van's new play "A Fool in Love" HERE Van on Facebook HERE Van in the Guardian HERE Van's Book HERE BOOK TICKETS TO THE DEAR NELLY LIVE AT THE MALTHOUSE HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank
Wed, December 20, 2023
Spankie Jackzon: we don't have time for that sh*t Babes!
Spankie Jackzon: Winner of Drag Race Down Under! This week I am joined by my favourite Drag Queen Spankie Bloody Jackzon. Spankie is LTS (long-term-single) and not prepared to settle for less. We talk about Fairytales and how much of a barrier they are to real love, how Spankie was going for "the wrong type" of men and how BME (Big Mum Energy) can get in the way of connection. We take a great listener call on preparing kids to be good grown-ups (who are ready for dating) and another call on period sex - yes, I asked a cis, gay man about period sex. Spankie has learned that love is effort and that he wants to be the Little Spoon sometimes. A fabulous and funny episode with an icon in the Australasia performance scene. Spankie's website with all the stuff HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, December 13, 2023
Amanda Hampson: I don't accept your gift
AMANDA HAMPSON: from teen mum to acclaimed author Today we talk to author Amanda Hampson. Amanda in now a 69 year old author, but was once a scared teen mum, kicked out of home and giving her child up for adoption. She's gone on to have more children and a couple of marriages but is avowedly - and happily - single. We talk all that stuff as well as why quitting is for winners, how petty divorce can get and we take a wonderful listener call about how we can see past relationships in a very different light once we heal. A fascinating episode that reminds us that the good old days were not that good. Amanda's Website HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mon, December 11, 2023
BONUS CHRISTMAS EPISODE WITH BEV KILLICK: GO WHERE THE LOVE IS!
BONUS CHRISTMAS EPISODE WITH BEV KILLICK! Bev shares her top celebration./event tips: refuse to take on perfection be naughty and nice enjoy your guilty pleasures take the pressure down presentation is key - not the amount of money spent go where the love is Bev and I also take some wonderful listener calls on navigating a tricky Christmas with step-kids and dealing with other people's ex's at Chrissy. We also take great listener letters on navigating your first Christmas without your kids and, what to do over the holidays if you family has rejected you. Bev's Cashew But Roast: HERE Roast chook recipe: HERE LOVE YAS, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, December 06, 2023
Alice Fraser: Learn How to fight!
Alice Fraser: Learn How to Fight! We are joined today by comedian Alice Fraser. Alice is beyond description - a wonderfully intelligent, thoughtful and insightful woman who is such a deep soul that I'm not sure I kept up! Alice and I talk about hacking the brain you have (and accepting it), how to embrace and handle conflict, about abuse and madness, Russian princesses, rejection and how chronic illness can affect relationships. We take a brilliant listener call on resentment about "weaponised incompetence". ALL THE THINGS! This is such a glorious episode - enjoy! Alice's website: HERE Alice Fraser on Patreon: HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, November 29, 2023
Renee Thompson: Who's ya Daddy?
Renee The Celebrant: Who's ya Daddy? This week we are joined by Renee Thompson - wedding celebrant, DJ, MC and massive horn-bag. Renee talks to us about being in a non-monogamous relationship and how to keep that rolling along in a healthy way. She talks kink and how it's connected to her conservative upbringing and, the "red and green" flags she sees as a wedding celebrant. We take an excellent listener call on a mid-life sexual awakening and all the usual stupid shit an ex has done and, Renee's dating dealbreakers. Celebrant by day and kinkster by night - a fascinating discussion with a bundle of pure joy! Renee The Celebrant's website: www.reneethecelebrant.com.au Tomboy Website: www.tomboyonline.net RADAR relationship check in template: https://www.multiamory.com/radar SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, November 22, 2023
Kaz Cooke: on being extremely single
Kaz Cooke: I am more interested in being happy than with someone! Award winning author and journalist Kaz Cooke joins us to talk about being single after a series of duds in her younger years and coping with the end of a long-term relationship. We do a deep-dive into menopause and how it can affect sex, dating and relationships. We talk about developing a sense of worthiness as we age and how friends provide sustenance. We take a listener call on what it's like to have a facial difference and be in the dating pool and we get an update on the "travel with them stress-test"... Kaz and I have some thoughts. A wonderful episode with a powerhouse of Australian publishing. Kaz's Books and other info HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, November 15, 2023
Matt Kelly: I just wanted love!
Matt Kelly: I just wanted love! We're joined today by children's entertainer Matt Kelly. Matt shares his late-start to dating, how he was love-sick and swept up in the feels and how eventually he found his lovely beau. We talk about hope, change and knowing when you're done. We take a very important call about protecting yourself financially when you start a new relationship and whether or not you need to be friends with an ex (hot tip: hurt, hate, heal first). We read a letter about social media etiquette and whether it means anything at all. A wonderful episode with a mind and thoughtful man. WIRE (Women's Information Referral Exchange): https://www.wire.org.au/ SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Nelly x If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, November 08, 2023
Chris Ryan: can long distance really work?
CHRIS RYAN: CAN LONG DISTANCE WORK? Comedian Chris Ryan joins us to talk long distance relationships, how to heal a broken heart, why rushing in a sign you need to love yourself more and why you should never be grateful for "just enough". CHRIS RYAN'S WEBSITE HERE HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN HEART TED TALK HERE SUSBRCIBE TO DEAR NELLY VIA PATREON Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, November 01, 2023
HAPPY 40TH EPISODE with Young Buck, Producer Sammy!
HAPPY 40TH BIRTHDAY TO US: with PRODUCER SAMMY! OMG, we have hit the 40 episode mark. And to celebrate I am joined today by Producer Sammy! We talk his hopes for the future (he's a single, straight, cis man in the wild), confessions, controlling partners, holidays with dates and we rip into an absolute doosh who drops a woman for a surgery scar. Sammy talks about stupid shit an ex has done and his dating deal breakers... PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, October 25, 2023
Sloppy Seconds with Helen Thorn: I didn't know it could feel like this!
Sloppy Seconds with Helen Thorn: I didn't know it could feel like this! We're back with comedian and author Helen Thorn. Helen was blindsided with infidelity a few years ago and her 20+ year marriage came to an end. She spiralled and has spent recent years slowly rebuilding. In wonderful news she has FOUND A NEW LOVE. First and foremost for herself and now, with a lovely bloke she met on Bumble and whom she didn't see coming. A hopeful and heartwarming episode with one of my dearest friends. PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, October 18, 2023
Goodbye old friend
A short message about darling Cal Wilson and a little glimmer for the molls. Nelly x If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, October 11, 2023
A short break.
Hey molls, Producer Fahey here. We are devastated by the news of the passing of darling Cal Wilson. Nelly's ride or die. A podcast favourite and the woman who single handedly kept the Glue Gun industry afloat. Nelly always referred to Cal as her Strawberry Friend. Someone you put a star next to in your contacts list, the person you could 100% rely on, call at any hour, the one you know would always be there. We can't believe she is gone. Our love to her beautiful boy and husband in their unimaginable grief. Thank you for living us all, Cal. We sure loved you too. Nelly, Fahey and Sammy If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, October 04, 2023
Cath Davis asks Nelly: do you still believe in love?
CATH DAVIS IS BACK FOR SLOPPY SECONDS AND SHE ASKS NELLY: DO YOU STILL BELIEVE IN LOVE? Nelly and Cath talk Miriam Margolyes, whether or not Nelly has given up on love, calling out a best friend who treats you like shit and, how to date when you're widowed. SYDNEY SHOW October 7th at the Comedy Store with YUMI STYNES, BENJAMIN LAW AND CHRIS RYAN Tickets and info HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, September 27, 2023
Couples Therapist Dr. Debra Campbell is back for Sloppy Seconds
SYDNEY SHOW! October 7th at the Comedy Store with YUMI STYNES, BENJAMIN LAW AND CHRIS RYAN Tickets and info HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, September 27, 2023
BONUS EPISODE: LIVE at the Brunswick Ballroom
BONUS EPISODE: LIVE RECORDING AT THE BRUNSWICK BALLROOM Nelly Thomas, Bev Killick, Adam Richard and Geraldine Hickey SYDNEY SHOW October 7th at the Comedy Store with YUMI STYNES, BENJAMIN LAW AND CHRIS RYAN Tickets and info HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, September 20, 2023
Wade Duffin is back Sloppy Seconds: is it better to date people with kids or without?
WADE DUFFIN IS BACK FOR SLOPPY SECONDS: KIDS OR NO KIDS, THAT IS THE QUESTION! Today we are joined for Sloppy Seconds with Wade Duffin! You remember Wade: he was a bit of a party boy in his younger days then met my friend and colleague comedian Claire Hooper and is now very much a family man. Indeed, he’s a stay at home dad who’s also just gone into screen writing. We talk about how he's been, dating requirements in middle age (get good pillows people!) and he asks whether it's easier dating people with or without kids. We take great listener calls on dating fat chicks (!) and also, camper vans. Book recommendation: In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado SYDNEY SHOW October 7th at the Comedy Store with YUMI STYNES, BENJAMIN LAW AND CHRIS RYAN Tickets and info HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, September 13, 2023
Wes Snelling is back for Sloppy Bi-Sexonds
Sloppy Seconds with Wes Snelling Wes and I talk about Dry July and how giving up booze for a month radically changed Wes’s anxiety, mood and physical health. Wes asks me about sexual identity and we have a really open and interesting discussion about the stereotypes around bisexuality, sexual fluidity and all the things that come with that. We do some ripper memes and take a couple of gorgeous listener calls on online dating profiles. We take a listener letter on unsolicited dick pics and what the hell is up with that and we end on a discussion about what a massive buzzkill claustrophobic relationships are. Wes, as always, is open, honest and curious. His voice alone is to die for and he brings his beautiful heart and big brain to the chat. SYDNEY SHOW: OCTOBER 7TH! At Comedy Store with YUMI STYNES, BENJAMIN LAW AND CHRIS RYAN Tickets and info HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more i
Wed, September 06, 2023
Adam Richard: having sex sober (weird!)
The Fabulous Adam Richard: having sex sober and other stuff! We are joined this week by comedian, writer and Logies superstar Adam Richard. We talk about owning who you are, how progress is two steps forward and one back, how giving up drinking in middle-age changed EVERYTHING, Adam's first engagement in his late 40's and what it's like to have sex sober after a life-time of drinking. We take a very moving listener call on feeling broken-down and how to get yourself back to solid ground. Plus, all the usual memes and he's a ten but etc. There's so much laughter and wisdom from darling Adam. You're going to love this one. LIVE SHOW IN MELBOURNE THIS SATURDAY (with The Fabulous Adam Richard)! Tickets and info HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Nelly x If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, August 30, 2023
Yvie Jones: long-term single and happy as a clam!
YVIE JONES IS IN YOUR GOGGLE-BOX! Today we are joined by the one and only Yvie Jones. You may know her from Gogglebox (yes, her, Angie and all the dogs entertained us for many seasons), or I’m a Celebrity Get me Out of Here , Studio 10 , Snackmasters , The Project or her own podcast Two Girls, One Pod. Yvie is a 50 year old, long-term single woman who loves her life! We talk about Yvie’s dating and relationships history, fat shaming and telling people to fuck off. We take a beautiful listener call from a woman going through chemo who wants to know if she should put pics on the apps of her fabulous bald self or not. We get into stupid shit Yvie’s ex’s have done (there’s a lot) and “He’s a ten but”. Yvie is an example of a happy, independent woman who knows what she’s worth and embraces the single life. You’re going to love her. BOOK TICKETS TO THE LIVE SHOW HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly x If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/
Wed, August 23, 2023
Tom Ballard: there were signs!
TOM BALLARD: THERE WERE SIGNS! Today we are joined award winning comedian, actor and homo about town Tom Ballard. We talk about when Tom and I met when he was the ripe old age of 14. He’s early 30s now so yes, we’ve made an exception to have him on the podcast but man, it was worth it. He tells us his moving and somewhat complicated coming of age story (shout out to Lucy – you’ll know what I mean). Tom and I talk about a Dear Nelly dating success, aging in the gay community and take some wonderful listener calls of growing self awareness and another on how the hell you can tell who and who isn’t a lesbetian.A glorious episode with someone I’ve watched grow up and whom I adore. TOM'S WEBSITE HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Nelly xx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, August 16, 2023
Friend Break-ups! Sloppy Seconds with Producer Fahey
SLOPPY SECONDS WITH PRODUCER FAHEY! We talk about blending families: How do you tell the kids you’re dating, how do you introduce them to new partners and kids and, when do you introduce them? And break-ups. But of a different kind: how do you break up with friends ? Those partings are just as necessary and can be more frequent than romantic ones, but we don’t have a script for it. We talk trauma bonding: what it is and how to spot it. And then we take a wonderful listener call on coming (pun intended) into your own in middle age – a 40 something mum who has started dating and discovered she’s a squirter. Having the best sex of her life - on a pile of towels. A beautiful and hilarious episode with my bestie and the producer of this podcast, Fabulous Fahey. PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, August 09, 2023
Son Guzzardi: welcome to kink and ho's
WELCOME TO KINK AND OTHER STUFF Today we’re joined by bone fide civilian and horn-bag Son Guzzardi. Son shares some awful teen experiences at Catholic school, their early long-term relationship with an older man and then a joyful exploration – and perhaps late adolescence – as a queer person. Son is now married with kids and we talk about how that squares with being – in their words – a ho. Son talks about finding the kink scene and how empowering that was. We also take some listener calls on non-monogamy, poly and related issues. Finally, we end with a fight about bisexuality and we witness the evolution of The Son from biphobia to open-minded acceptance and also, from their previous codependent ways to valuing autonomy and space. Son is warm, open, funny and very generous in sharing about mistakes they’ve made and how they’ve changed. I absolutely loved this chat and I reckon you will too. PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, August 02, 2023
Breaking Up is Hard to Do: with Cal Wilson
BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO Ah, this one is self-explanatory: break-ups, recovery, heart-break and all the things. A special, personal episode. Ted Talk: how to fix a broken heart HERE LIVE SHOW INFO AND TICKETS : HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Nelly xx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, July 26, 2023
Wade Duffin: give yourself permission!
WADE DUFFIN: GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION Today we are joined by aspiring screen-writer and house-dad Wade Duffin who made a massive pivot in middle-age. We talk about Wade's early dating mistakes, the challenges and joys of marriage and, Wade's dealbreakers. We also take a brilliant listener call on how to support someone through divorce and a great letter on "Consensual Noon-Monogamy". A heartwarming and hilarious episode - enjoy! LIVE SHOW TICKETS HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, July 19, 2023
Dr Gilbert Caluya: Bravery is Overrated
Dr Gilbert Caluya: Bravery is Overrated Today we are joined by academic and author Dr Gilbert Caluya. Gilbert is trained in Critical Thinking Theory; or what we call here at Dear Nelly, Ripping Up the Script. Gilbert talks to me about his shame, pride and how the scripts of "bravery" can be damaging. Gilbert is a Gay, Asian man and we talk about the racism he has experienced in dating, his early dating history, age-gaps and his life as a long-term single man. LIVE SHOW TICKETS HERE PATREON SUBSCRIBERS Sign up HERE for bonus content and to support the podcast! For $5 a month you get a bonus ep For $10 a month you get a bonus ep and video content For $20 a month you get all that PLUS Nelly will write your online dating profile for you DEAR NELLY PLUS Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, July 12, 2023
Dr Debra Campbell: don't date your therapist!
Dr Debra Campbell: don't date your therapist! Deb Campbell is an author and psychologist. I talk to Deb today about her relationships history, her divorce, her remarriage and her experience of DATING HER FORMER THERAPIST (hot tip: don't do that). We take some wonderful listener calls and do the usual memes and other stuff. A cracker ep from an actual expert. Deb's website: HERE (buy her book LOVELANDS via her website - I highly recommend it) BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, July 05, 2023
Harley Breen and Wade Duffin: shitting with the door open
SPECIAL EPISODE WITH SHITTING WITH THE DOOR OPEN PODCAST : FRIENDS AS SOUL-MATES We are joined today by two of my favourite people, Wade Duffin and Harley Breen. In a Dear Nelly Special I am joined by TWO guests to talk about a different kind of love - the love of friends. Wade and Harley are LOOSE UNITS and this episode is filled with laughter and dick jokes. We get into the importance of friends, different types of love, mental health and fresh vaj (that will make sense). We take a great (but frightening) listener call about online dating, and we finish up with "stupid shit" an ex-friend has done and "he's a ten but..." - AKA friendship dealbreakers. We talk about "THE ONE": maybe there's more "than one" or, your "one" is a best mate. Food for thought. Please take this opportunity to listen to Wade and Harley's wonderful podcast Shitting with the Door Open: HERE . Enjoy! Nelly x BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, June 28, 2023
Geraldine Hickey is back for Sloppy Seconds!
GERALDINE HICKEY IS BACK FOR SLOPPY SECONDS Gezza is back! She asks me what it's like to tackle "Divorce Admin" (hint: it's diabolical). We briefly chat about The Ultimatum: Queer Love on Netflix and how to handle rejection. We take some great listener calls on how to support a friend in a concerning relationship and, how to respectfully navigate a relationship with a trans woman. We also do a letter on TAKING YOUR KIDS ON A DATE and we finish with Gezza's BIG MISTAKE. Geraldine is golden, as always. Enjoy! GERALDINE'S WEBSITE: HERE Jacinta Parson's article: HERE Divorce admin list: HERE (scroll down) BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, June 21, 2023
Bev Killick: married after ONE DATE!
Bev Killick: married after ONE DATE This may be our funniest episode yet. I laughed so much a little bit of wee came out. Comedian Bev Killick talks us through her first marriage to a man she'd known for ONE NIGHT. We take a beautiful listener call on getting your mojo back and do the memes and all the stuff. Get your Tena Lady ready - this one is a wild ride. Bev's facebook: HERE BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, June 14, 2023
SPECIAL EP 2: Throw an elbow early!
SPECIAL EPISODE 2: THROW AN ELBOW EARLY While Nelly is having a short, well-earned break we present to you the first of the series - Best Of Dear Nelly. We'll be back in two weeks but until then enjoy the funniest bits from the first 21 eps, some memes, a Culture Share about "Queen Charlotte" and some new listener calls. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Nelly x If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bonus · Wed, June 07, 2023
SPECIAL EP 1: Mental Health 'n Stuff
SPECIAL EPISODE: ALL THE FUNNY BITS While Nelly is having a short, well-earned break we present to you the first of the series - Best Of Dear Nelly. We'll be back in two weeks but until then enjoy the funniest bits from the first 20 eps, some bloopers and some new listener calls! You also get Nelly's take on the Kardashians and some other stuff. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Tue, May 30, 2023
Genevieve Morris Sloppy Seconds: there is no "we" in "me"
THERE IS NO "WE" IN "ME" Today we’re back for another Sloppy Seconds with the one and only Genevieve Morris. Gen asks me how I see my long-term relationship now that I’m a couple of years out of it. We talk about the healing power of cashiers, why we love Freddie Mercury and we take a brilliant listener letter on dating a widower and how to handle the feelings that come with the presence of “another woman” still in the house. We take some calls on "Thruppy Thirds" and celebrating single mums. Lastly, Gen rails against that couple thing of ‘we think’ or ‘he reckons’ or 'she said' – be your own person, molls. Enjoy! BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 24, 2023
REUBEN KAYE: LIVE
SPECIAL LIVE RECORDING WITH REUBEN KAYE! Today we have an exciting episode – a recording of the sold-out Live Show I did recently with comedy, camp, cabaret superstar Reuben Kaye! This episode is unlike others. It was recorded in front of a live audience, with a man under the age of 40 and it totally went off the rails. It was a special for IDAHOBIT day – the international day against homophobia, biphobia and transphobia. And it’s bloody fabulous! Reuben and I talk about his early dating days, his experiences at school as a boy ahead of his time (that bit will make you cry). We talked some of his sexual preferences, his sexcapades and he poked at fun at me, whilst I laughed at him. (I told him off once or twice too). Reuben is just wonderful. He was hilarious – side-splittingly so – but also raw and vulnerable. I am pretty sure he went places he doesn’t usually go in interviews and man; we were the beneficiaries. A trigger warning: it’s probably the best part of the episode but we do get into intergenerational trauma and there’s some discussion of suicide. And Bonus – writer, creator and singer of the Dear Nelly theme song, Casey Bennetto sings the theme song live. ENJOY! REUBEN’S WEBSITE (WITH TOURING INFO): HERE BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 17, 2023
Emma Race and Nelly discuss how you know when to leave...
SLOPPY SECONDS WITH EMMA RACE Today we have the one and only Emma Race back. Emma and I talk the joys of perimenopause. We turn the tables and Emma gets to ask me a question – she asks what it’s like to be a newly single parent and if I miss those shared parenting moments. (Spoiler alert: yes and no). We talk about how you know when it’s’ time to leave a long-term relationship and, what it’s like to be a strong woman who wants her hand held. We take some awesome listener calls on how to ask for what you want in the bedroom and another one on vaginal atrophy – and before you laugh, yes it’s a real thing. As with all sloppy seconds we end with Emma’s thoughts on the biggest dating or relationships mistake she sees. Emma is a wise old chook - you get to love her insights all over again. LIVE SHOW!!! May 20th 2023 at Comedy Republic in Melbourne and also, Live-streamed for overseas, interstate and listeners with disabilities. DO. NOT. MISS. IT. Nelly live in conversation with camp, comedy, cabaret sensation Reuben Kaye . Info and tickets HERE. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 10, 2023
Jo Stanley: how do you look after someone after a break-up?
SLOPPY SECONDS WITH JO STANLEY Today we have our second return co-host - the one and only Jo Stanley. Jo joined us for episode 10 on 23rd March and talked us through her late start to dating, her early(ish) marriage and making it work through the trials and tribulations of life, love, alcohol, date nights and kids. In this episode Jo asks me about how to support friends through divorce and separation. We take some awesome listener calls on what to do if your partner gets jealous when you exercise (that one floored us both) and Mari calls back to tell us how’s she’s going post-chemo. As always Jo is thoughtful, kind and hilarious – there’s a reason I asked her back. We recorded this ep on zoom but don’t worry, I upped the wifi and it sounds good. Jo’s husband interrupts the recording and that goes really well :) REMINDER: WE'RE DOING ANOTHER LIVE SHOW!!! May 20th 2023 at Comedy Republic in Melbourne and also, Live-streamed for overseas, interstate and listeners with disabilities. DO. NOT. MISS. IT. Nelly live in conversation with camp, comedy, cabaret sensation Reuben Kaye . Info and tickets HERE. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, May 03, 2023
Scotty Brennan: wanna make out?
SLOPPY SECONDS WITH SCOTT BRENNAN Today we have a special episode. It’s our first return co-host - the one and only Scott Brennan. Scotty Brennan joined us on 23rd Feb and talked us through his journey of recovering from being cheated on by a long term partner. Because we’ve already covered that story in his first ep, today Nelly gives Scotty the chance to turn the tables and ask HER the questions. He chose to ask Nelly about her online dating journey, her first date and what it was like to get dumped. There's some awesome listener calls on what to do if you’ve had the best sex of your life and think you’ll never find it again, another on buying a house with your ex and a beautiful call from a woman who made the brave decision to end her marriage and is now grappling with the disappointment and shame of living a more frugal, share-house life. (Spoiler alert: Nelly and Scott both reckon she’s doing great.) And lastly they take a listener letter on feeling guilt when you break up with someone. That one’s a doozy. Enjoy our first Sloppy Seconds! REMINDER: WE'RE DOING ANOTHER LIVE SHOW!!! May 20th 2023 at Comedy Republic in Melbourne and also, Live-streamed for overseas, interstate and listeners with disabilities. DO. NOT. MISS. IT. Nelly live in conversation with camp, comedy, cabaret sensation Reuben Kaye . Info and tickets HERE. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Host
Wed, April 26, 2023
Dr Steve Ellen's prescription: have some bloody fun!
Welcome to Episode 15 of Dear Nelly with co-host Psychiatrist, Author and Broadcaster Dr Steve Ellen. Steve and I met when I was working on ABC radio and I instantly adored him – he’s open, honest, humble and vulnerable in a way that many professionals at that level seem to struggle to be. Steve was married young, has one child and was divorced in middle age. He took time to recover and then started dating on the apps in his late 40s. And bloody loved it. For the most part. He’s now late 50’s and in a relationship with an woman he met on the apps and I have to say, they have the MOST FASCINATING first date story you will ever hear. Steve is bright, open, funny and a nice mix of earnest and slightly jaded – right in my wheelhouse. Not too long ago he was the true unicorn of the online dating world: a single straight man with a job. Listen and learn. DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW WITH REUEBN KAYE (May 20th): LIVE SHOW IN PERSON TICKETS HERE LIVESTREAM (ONLINE) TICKETS HERE STEVE'S WEBSITE HERE SUBSCRIBE to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month SEND Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer
Wed, April 19, 2023
Cath Davis: single, sassy an seeking a commune
Today we are joined by Cath Davis. Unlike many of my guests, Cath is not in showbiz. She’s a proper bone fide civilian with a normal job. Cath is a professional middle aged woman with a background in policy, unionism and education. She’s long-term single, has a bunch of mates, loves her family and career and is not interested in a relationship unless it value-adds. Bravo to her. Cath and I talk about being in your 40s and long-term single and what that’s like. We have a particularly moving exchange about how it feels to “not give” your parents grandkids. We talk about loving your own space and how you can learn from unsatisfying/inadequate/bad relationships in your twenties that you deserve more and, that you can build a happy life on your own. I also honour how great it is to have mates like Cath who have the energy, willingness and time to help out with - and enjoy - everyone else's offspring. Yes she's THAT FRIEND. We also take some great listener calls on celebrating single life and also, a pretty niche but relevant call on whether the word “misogynist” is over-used which, in turn, prompts a chat about the co-opting of terms like gaslighting and other dating terminology – are they overused (I reckon they might be)? BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, April 12, 2023
Jane Montgomery Griffiths: an absolute CLASSIC (literally)
Welcome to this episode of Dear Nelly with co-host Jane Montgomery Griffiths : Actor, writer, classicist and Head of School of Performing Arts, Collarts, Melbourne. Nelly and Jane talk about experiencing first blinding love, sexuality and our relationship with our bodies as we age and, whether or not there's "A ONE" for everyone. Jane is a brilliant, thoughtful and erudite woman and any scholarly nerds out there will LOVE this episode. Everyone else will love her vulnerability and candour. We also take a great listener call on whether or not we HAVE to be body-positive and up for anything in the bedroom. A ripper ep. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Tue, April 11, 2023
Nelly is SUCH A TEASE!
MINI BONUS TEASER!!!! Subscribe to DEAR NELLY+ HERE OR www.nellythomas.com to get an extra episode a month (and some other stuff). Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, April 05, 2023
Genevieve Morris: real vagina talk
GENEVIEVE MORRIS Welcome to this episode of Dear Nelly with Genevieve Morris - she’s a comedian, actress and check-out chick and her local IGA (that is not a metaphor). You probably know Gen from various TV roles but most notably Comedy Inc and weirdly, from that ANZ ad where she played Barbara the arsehole Bank Manager ( Barbara lives in Bank World ). Gen is one of the most honest, open and raw guests we've had on the podcast and you're going to love her. Topics covered include painful sex, long-term marriage to your best mate, recovering from cancer, wan*ers (literally), STIs and whether to bone a guy at work. Strap in, you're going to fall in love with Genevieve Morris. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 29, 2023
Kirsty Webeck: fingering at film nights
APRIL 1ST DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW 2023 INFO AND TICKETS HERE - DON'T MISS OUT! INFO AND TICKETS TO ALL OF KIRTY'S SHOWS HERE We're joined today by comedian Kirsty Webeck. We talk about how Kirsty found herself dating the same person over and over again (hint: not good matches) and then, through therapy, changed her mindset and dating choices. We take listener calls on how to pace relationships and how to signal to other LGBTIQA+ women you're "one of them" if you don't "look the part". We talk about a couple of great memes and finish with Kirsty's deal-breakers. A great episode with one of the funniest and most lovely humans on the planet. And yes, we discuss fingering at film nights - it's a thing. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 22, 2023
Jo Stanley: pubes, lingerie & the problem with booze
INFO AND TICKETS FOR THE DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW HERE Today's co-host is radio and TV personality Jo Stanley. Jo and Nelly discuss the highs and lows of her long-term marriage - including a frank and fearless that it almost ended because of alcoholism - and take some listener calls on lingerie and the amount of free time men seem to have. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 15, 2023
Wes Snelling: Loving Life and Livin' La Vida Single
TO BOOK TICKETS TO OUR LIVE SHOW ON APRIL 1ST 2023, CLICK HERE Today we are joined by the one and only Wes Snelling. Wes is LTS (long term single) and hasn't been in a long-term, romantic relationship for 23 years. We discuss the highs and lows of that and how much Wes LOVES living alone. We take a listener call on getting back into sex with new people after a long-term relationship ended (not always easy) and hear from a straight woman who hired a male sex worker to get her mojo back after divorce. This ep is packed with love, laughs and a few tears. You'll love it. Nelly x BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. TICKETS AND INFO TO CAL WILSON'S COMEDY FESTIVAL SHOW SUPPOSABLY HERE Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 08, 2023
Helen Thorn: a phoenix rising from the ashes of a massive divorce blindside
Welcome to this episode of Dear Nelly with co-host Helen Thorn: comedian, author and co-host of the wildly successful Scummy Mummies podcast. Helen and Nelly talk about her massive Covid blindside, recovering from the end of her marriage and getting back into dating in her forties (hot tip: she's very good at it). Helen's divorce hasn't been one of those neat "we're still friends" divorces, it's rough - but she's picked herself up and is bloody thriving. A raw episode full of love and laughs. BOOK TICKETS TO THE "DEAR NELLY LIVE SHOW HERE Scummy Mummies website Get Divorced, Be Happy by Helen Thorn BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, March 01, 2023
Emma Race: faking orgasms and other sexy stuff
For messages, live show and other info see Nelly's website HERE (www.nellythomas.com) FAKING ORGASMS WITH EMMA RACE Today we are joined by married lady and mum of 3, Emma Race. Emma Race is the Co creator and producer of the award winning Outer Sanctum Podcast and the co-principal of Making the Call - a pathway program for women in sports broadcasting. Emma had a series of tricky relationships in her 20's and was willing and able to be the "cool aunty" and perpetual bridesmaid until she accidentally fell in love with a bloke a bit older than her, got married and had a bunch of kids. Emma and I talk about the mistakes she made as a youngster - she's not proud of all of her dating history - and how she and her husband make it work long-term. The Outer Sanctum Podcast website BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S1 E6 · Wed, February 22, 2023
Scott Brennan: how to recover from cheating
YOUR MESSAGES MAKE THE PODCAST! Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question, comment or story. Welcome to Episode 5 of Dear Nelly with co-host Scott Brennan. Nelly and Scott talk about recovering from cheating, why love-bombing is such a huge red flag and those bloody fish photos in straight guys' online dating profiles (Scott's analysis will surprise you). They also get into Scott's dating dealbreakers and the stupidist thing an ex has done... let's just say it STINKS (literally). Scott just got engaged for the first time at the age of 50 and Nelly also plans his wedding. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S1 E5 · Wed, February 15, 2023
Meshel Laurie: picking up old-school (IRL)
Nelly's co-host for this week is comedian Meshel Laurie . They discuss what's like being a single-single-proper-single-mum, what dating is like in your 40's and why you should let your kids have a say in your boyfriends. Meshel also gives some top tips on pick-up confidence - girl has some game. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bonus · Mon, February 13, 2023
Free Bonus Ep: Happy Valentine's Day!
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY - HERE'S A GIFT TO YOU! Here's a a free Bonus Episode from me, to you, for Valentine's Day! You'll get this episode today and your normal one on Thursday - 2 in one week, BONUS! Today's episode is special. It features listener calls about Valentine's Day, some thoughts from my very own kids and my Lovely Lauren calls in. You get a sneak peak from other Bonus eps and some research on the Day of Love - or the day of plastic crap - as well as a meme or two. Enjoy. RESOURCES: LATROBE STUDY: https://www.latrobe.edu.au/news/articles/2022/release/survey-reveals-teens-attitudes-to-sexual-health SEX EDUCATION on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/au/title/80197526 HEARTBREAK HIGH on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/au/title/81342553 FOR MORE BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S1 E4 · Wed, February 08, 2023
Mel Buttle: finding your sexuality when you're "allergic to peanuts"
Welcome to Episode 4 of Dear Nelly with co-host comedian, TV personality and broadcaster Mel Buttle. Nelly and Mel talk unlearning "accepting less" than you deserve, coming out the very hard way and hook-up etiquette. And a very funny riff from Mel on fake nails. Here's the "meetup" platform Mel mentions in the episode : https://www.meetup.com/ BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S1 E3 · Wed, February 01, 2023
Harley Breen: I broke my penis!
Welcome to Episode 3 of Dear Nelly with co-host Harley Breen ! In this episode, we have a really interesting discussion about Harley's religious upbringing and how it effected his sense of sex and relationships. We take calls on whether we should judge a book by its cover, how we can find the courage to date again after an abusive marriage and we take a letter from a guy who's dying from cancer and wants to help his wife re-partner. As always we discuss stupid shit Harley’s ex’s have done and what his dating dealbreakers are. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S1 E2 · Wed, January 25, 2023
Cal Wilson: mental health and shit marriages
This week Nelly is joined by co-host comedian Cal Wilson . They discuss recovery from damaging relationships, why school teachers are hot and how to tell if you're depressed or just married to a di*khead. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
S1 E1 · Wed, January 18, 2023
Geraldine Hickey: Late to Lez and other stuff
This week Nelly is joined by co-host comedian Geraldine Hickey . They discuss "Late to Lez", bad break-ups, marrying late in life and what Geraldine's dating dealbreakers are - you might be surprised! BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Thank youse, Nelly xxx If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Wed, January 11, 2023
PILOT EPISODE!
Welcome to the Pilot Episode of Dear Nelly with co-host Producer Fahey Younger! We thought you might need a little something before we officially launch next week so here's a taster of things to come. We talk about how Fahey recovered from her first marriage and what it was like getting married again when she least expected it. We take a fabulous listener call on desire going cold in long-term relationships, discuss "flap-pics" and whether “til death do us part” is a good idea. We talk about what to do if one of your kids is love-drunk and potentially making stupid decisions. We get into the dumbest thing an ex of Fahey’s has ever done and what her dating dealbreakers are. The sound is a tiny bit shit (the proper eps will be recorded in studio) and when we launch we'll have the theme song and other bells and whistles, but this chat was such fun! Enjoy. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Trailer · Fri, January 06, 2023
You BLOODY CAN ask THAT!
Here's a little teaser episode before the official launch and it features some questions and comments from DEAR NELLY listeners that we'll tackle in coming episodes: Should I try a sex worker? Are straight dudes' online profiles for women or other straight men? How do I navigate "late to lez" dating? Chemo has killed my sex drive, what should i do? I lose the horn after 18 months in any relationship - is that normal? I bloody love your questions, comments and dating/relationships stories and you can send them to me HERE (yes, you can be anonymous). The podcast Trailer is out next week (12/1/23) and the official first Ep drops the week after (19/1/23) with my fabulous co-host, Geraldine Hickey. CANNY WAIT! BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE Love yas, Nelly x If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Trailer · Thu, December 15, 2022
What DOES barebacking mean?!!!
Nelly's new podcast is out soon and she wants YOU to be part of it. Subscribe to NELLY+ H ERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. Send her questions here and she will answer them in a future episode. Questions so far include: How do you summon confidence in a nightclub to "pick-up"? If two women go on a date, who pays? I am a man with stage 4 cancer and I want to encourage my wife to date, how do I do this? Do we have to keep our ex's secrets? Nelly, can you re-write my online dating profile? (yes she can) What does "barebacking" mean? No topic is off-limits, all questions are welcome. Nelly will be joined each week by a special co-host to answer these and other questions. People like Geraldine Hickey, Meshel Laurie, Wes Snelling, Scott Brennan, Simon Palomares, Cal Wilson and more! Rate, review, subscribe and tell your mates now PLOISE. BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Trailer · Thu, December 08, 2022
Trailer
In this hilarious and heartfelt new podcast, comedian Nelly Thomas and guests offer sex, relationship and dating advice from the other side of 40. Turning 40 is something faced with dread by some, but Nelly has a different take - this is when you really come into your own. And being divorced and 40 can be even better! She and her guest co-hosts will help you navigate the highs and lows of break-us, dating, singledom, relationships, sex, unsolicited pics and everything else in-between. Brought to you by Nelly Thomas - the co-creator and co-host of the smash hit podcast The Single Life of Us . BONUS EPISODES: Subscribe to NELLY+ HERE to support the podcast and to get a Bonus Episode a Month. SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: Send Nelly a Voicemail HERE if you have a question or comment. Nelly's website HERE Fahey's website HERE Producer Boy website HERE If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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