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Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life

Lesbian Chronicles is a podcast for people who’ve realized their true sexual identity later in life. Alli and Melisa share their own experiences of leaving their heterosexual marriages to be their true selves in an effort to help others find their own way and feel a little less alone in the process.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support.

Sun, April 13, 2025
Episode 295: Meet Robin!
Our friend Robin shares her take on kissing techniques -- her story of coming into her own as a mother of three, and her life now co-parenting/"nesting" with her ex-husband. Check out Lesbian Chronicles Merch ! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 06, 2025
Episode 294: Meet Anna
Anna shares her coming out journey, her feelings around imposter syndrome as a newly out queer person and the life-changing news she got shortly after coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 30, 2025
Episode 293: Shifting From Lust to Love
Alli and Melisa discuss how to handle things when your relationship starts to get a little boring and how to push through from the lust phase to long-term love. We also put a few friends in the Hot Seat to share their celebrity crushes and a lil peak into their ultimate fantasies! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 23, 2025
Episode 292: Hush The Noise
If you were the main character in the movie of your life, what would the audience be screaming at you to do? Melisa and Alli share how they think the audience would react to moments in their lives -- and how to hush the noise of people whose opinions really don't matter. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 16, 2025
Episode 291: The Optimism of a Baby Bird
Melisa and Alli discuss how some people have the optimism of a baby bird -- and address if there is a "mean girl" mentality from lesbians towards bisexuals. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 09, 2025
Episode 290: Living In Your Marriage
Alli and Melisa reflect back on what life was like during the transistion of knowing they were gay and figuring out what to do about their marriages. Also, how to cope with "PTSD" from past relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 02, 2025
Episode 289: The Wonder That Is Loretta Bush/Introducing Your Person to Your Kids
Alli and Melisa cover a wide variety of topics this week... -Melisa's co-parenting trip to Colorado -The internet's infatuation with Loretta Bush (the FBI agent from Netflix's Gabby Petito doc) -When/how to introduce your partner to your kids -How life feels so insecure when you're early on in your coming out journey -Late in life coming out support group in Atlanta ( Melissa Lester, LCSW Coming Out Support Group) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 23, 2025
Episode 288: Hot Pursuit!
How do you pursue someone you're interested in? Do you slide into their DMs? Or send a hot pic right out the gate? Melisa and Alli explore this topic -- and their own success (ahem, failures) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 16, 2025
Episode 287: Long Distance Dating
Melisa and Meredith are in the hot seat to talk the reality of dating long distace -- with Melisa in Atlanta and Meredith in Austin. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 09, 2025
Episode 286: Age Gaps in Relationships
Alli and Melisa discuss age gaps in romantic relationships and what factors to consider when it comes to moving forward with an age gap relationship. Also, what happens to a friend group when a couple within the group breaks up? The percieved feeling of "keeping your friendships" in tact while also losing your friend/ex all within the confines of a social group. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 02, 2025
Episode 285: Time is Currency
Alli and Melisa discuss questions you should ask yourself about your relationship... If someone said, "You're just like your partner," would that feel like a compliment? Are you truly fulfilled by this relationship or just less lonely? Can you unapologetically be yourself? Are you in love with who they are right now? Or the potential of who they could eventually become? Would you choose a relationship like this for your child as an adult? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 26, 2025
Episode 284: Meet Kayla/ Finca to Filter
Kayla Bellman, Owner and Founder of Finca to Filter, joins the podcast to share her coming out story and how she started her very own coffee shop in Atlanta. Finca to Filter Website Finca to Filter Instagram Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 19, 2025
Episode 283: Meet Julie Birke
Actress and comedian Julie Birke joins the show to share her Loves, Lies, Lesbians story from TikTok. Buckle up for gaslighting, breadcrumbing and a random bath in the midst of a breakup! Julie Birke TikTok Julie Birke Instagram Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 12, 2025
Episode 282: 32 Flavors (of FUN)
Vanilla ice cream is fine... but what if you never tried anything else? Alli and Melisa dive into the misconception that it's a prerequiste to be repulsed by men to consider yourself a lesbian. We also bust the myth about a woman's "scent." Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 05, 2025
Episode 281: Meet Kristin "Throw a Boulder in Your Pond"
Kristin shares her coming out story that includes undoing deep religious trauma, internalized homophobia and how she's keeping a positive relationship with her ex-husband. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 22, 2024
Episode 280: Don't Feed the Big Bad Wolf
Alli and Melisa address the Native American parable, the Tale of Two Wolves and how that weaves into life today. Feed the good wolf! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, December 16, 2024
Episode 279: Meet Rachel
Rachel shares her early battle with addiction, getting married at a young age and how the passing of a close loved one inspired her to show up more authentically. Rachel is an amazing web designer and graciously offered to create the Lesbian Chronicles website which is a safe space for late in life women to connect and share their stories. For more information on Rachel's work .. Rachel White Creative And her business, Unlockd Box , dedicated to helping real estate brokers show homes easier.
Sun, December 08, 2024
Episode 278: Holiday Mental Prep
The holidays are a tough time... and they haven't gotten any easier for us over the years. Alli and Melisa talk about how to prepare for the hard moments during the holidays -- and how to compromise with ex-husband and/or your partner on time spent with family. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 01, 2024
Episode 277: Meet Meredith/Baby Gays ATX
"You can't be the cause and the cure." Meredith (Baby Gays ATX) joins the show again to talk about how sex therapy and EMDR helped uncover her true sexuality, learning to sit in discomfort of coming out -- and what life has been like coming out to her family and co-parenting with her ex. Baby Gays ATX - Facebook group Baby Gays ATX - Instagram Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 24, 2024
Episode 276: Full On Favreau/Baby Gays ATX
Melisa and Alli chat about how we're all a little weird when we're first coming out. We all have our own Answering Machine Meltdowns a la Jon Favreau in Swingers. And Meredith from Baby Gays ATX joins the show to talk about how she has created a late in life group in Austin, Texas. Baby Gays ATX - Facebook group Baby Gays ATX - Instagram Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 17, 2024
Episode 275: Choosing People Who Don't Choose You
Alli and Melisa deep dive on the Big vs. Aidan dynamic in Sex and the City (random, yes... but relevant) and how people often choose partners who aren't choosing them. Also a lesson on keeping the relationship with your ex-husband intact. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 10, 2024
Episode 274: Be Like Bex
Our friend Bex (known her killer karaoke skills) joins the show to share her coming out story -- her journey to find the perfect name, and how she built community following her move from Vermont to Atlanta! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 03, 2024
Episode 273: Meet Sue and Paige: It Could Happen to You
Sue and Paige share their stories of coming out later in life, finding love over 50, and how they make things work blending 5 kids! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 27, 2024
Episode 272: Relationship Hopping
Do you truly know yourself? Or do you only know the version of yourself in a relationship? Alli and Melisa discuss "relationship hopping" and how it doesn't allow for time for you to know who you are alone. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 20, 2024
Episode 271: Pride 2024 Wrap
Melisa and Alli chat about their epic Pride 2024 weekend -- from Second Friday to a party at Alli's house to the Pride Parade! Resources to build community! Atlanta Pride Human Rights Campaign PFLAG Lost n Found Youth Atlanta Baby Gays ATX Gwinnett County Pride Tucker Pride Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 13, 2024
Episode 270: Meet Joy!
"You don't know the weight you're carrying until it's gone." Joy joins the show to share her experience growing up in Ohio, the daughter and granddaughter of Baptist pastors in a Black Church, her time in a 25 year straight marriage while in love with her female best friend -- and now coming out publicly at 49 and living her truth! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 06, 2024
Episode 269: The Science of a Breakup
We touch on lessons learned from Relationship Expert, Amy Chan and give it a lesbian twist. We mistakenly refer to Amy Chan as a doctor in this episode but no matter, she's extremely knowledgeable... check out her info below to learn more. Relationship Expert Amy Chan Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 29, 2024
Episode 268: Stacey and Christin on Finding Your Soulmate
Past guests Stacey and Christin join the show to share their love story and how they're helping others to heal from the past and find love! Get Off the Dating Apps- Journal to Find Your Soul Mate Lez Go Travel Show Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 22, 2024
Episode 267: Let's Bro It Up!
We discuss Melisa's newfound bromances and talk the evolution of masculinity within ourselves. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 15, 2024
Episode 266: How Your Inner Child Shows Up Today
This week Alli and Melisa talk about how your inner child wound may show up in your adult relationship. This topic was sparked by an Instagram post from Therapist and Author, Dené Logan. Click here to learn more about Dené . We also get into relationship green flags and the sexiness of emotional availability. And if you'd like to try the Holistic Psychologist's Inner Child Meditation Melisa mentions in this episode, you can check it out here. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 08, 2024
Episode 265: Meet Mandi
Our friend Mandi joins the show to talk about rediscovering her sexuality later in life after the loss of her husband. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 01, 2024
Episode 264: Sext Me Up!
Alli and Melisa chat about the endless possibilities sexting has to offer -- and how to level up your sexting game. And how our feminine and masculine traits have evolved over the years since coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 25, 2024
Episode 263: Meet Ginny
Alli and Melisa chat with Ginny, a late in life lesbian who initated the start of a virtual support group based in Boston. Ginny shares how the group gives space to those who aren't ready to meet in-person or those who are immunocompromised. She also shares how coming out led to a budding new career as a carpenter! Learn more about QT Library 's Late in Life Affinity Group ! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 18, 2024
Episode 262: Lessons From Gen Z
Alli and Melisa take note of how Gen Z has the ability to not care about the things we cared so much about... specifically appearance and other people's opinions. We also chat about how our Book Club selection "All Fours" (by Miranda July) has prompted deeper thought on how aging impacts our growth. And how our world often makes assumptions about people's religious beliefs. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 11, 2024
Episode 261: The Truth About Kids and Divorce (and SEX!)
Melisa and Alli talk the truth about divorce and how it impacts kids (fun fact, it's not creating the damage you think it is...) -- then we change gears and talk about the double standards of sex Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 04, 2024
Episode 260: Nourish and Flourish with Christine and Anne
Christine Sellers and Anne Brendle join the show to talk all things perimenopause and how it impacts so many aspects of women's lives. Learn more about Nourish and Flourish Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 28, 2024
Episode 259: What I Know Now
Melisa and Alli talk about coping with their respective breakups -- and Melisa shares what she wishes she could have told herself on Day 1 of the breakup. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 21, 2024
Episode 258: Meet Claire Holt
Claire Holt joins the show to talk about how she became a queer fashion influencer with 350k+ followers on TikTok. She also shares her own coming out story! Follow Claire_Holt12 on... TikTok Instagram YouTube Pinterest Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 14, 2024
Episode 257: Broken Hearts Club
Alli shares a life update -- and we discuss the importance of healing from heartbreak. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 07, 2024
Episode 256: Meet KT from Stonewall Sports
Our friend KT joins the show to talk about how she got involved with Stonewall Sports and went on to become the National Director of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion for Stonewall Sports, Inc. KT also shares her very "But I'm a Cheerleader" coming out story! Learn more about Stonewall Sports Join the QueenDom Athletix on Instagram Meet KT Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 30, 2024
Episode 255: Meet Danie The Sexologist
This week we chat with Danie, a Sapphic Sexologist living in Denver, Colorado. We discuss how shame and guilt from a religous upbringing can continue to live in your body -- and bust the myth of lesbian bed death. To learn more about Danie's work visit her website at sapphicsexologist.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 23, 2024
Episode 254: Using Alcohol to Numb
Our friend Ally joins Melisa and Alli to talk about how alcohol is often used as a coping mechanism and tools to get your life back on track. Books mentioned in this episode include: This Naked Mind , We Are The Luckiest , Easy Way to Control Alcohol , and Sober Curious Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 16, 2024
Episode 253: More Unsolicited Advice
Alli and Melisa take on more unsolicited advice -- offering opinions on if she should tell a date it's your first time kissing another woman to if you should be friends with an ex. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 09, 2024
Episode 252: Unsolicited Advice with Christine
Our friend Christine joins the pod to answer listener questions and give our very unprofessional opinions! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 02, 2024
Episode 251: Date Like A Grown Up
Happy Pride! This week, Melisa and Alli elaborate on some dating icks -- and the biggest ick of them all, not being a grown up and avoiding tough conversations! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 26, 2024
Episode 250: Dating Icks
Alli and Melisa dive into dating icks -- and Melisa shares a list of "icks" that might prompt her to swipe left. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, May 21, 2024
Episode 249: Healing While Parenting
Being a mom means your time isn't always your own -- which makes it really tough to find the time and space to focus on your own healing from heartbreak. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 12, 2024
Episode 248: Meet Michele
Michele from the Live Out Loud podcast joins the show to share her views on navigating the dating scene and relationships. And how she's focusing on "dating her friends" and cultivating the relationships with people who are already in her life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 05, 2024
Episode 247: Coming Out While Married
This week we address a listener question about how to come out when you're still in a hetero marriage. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 28, 2024
Episode 246: I Don't Think About You At All.
Alli and Melisa share some quotes on letting go and how sometimes we cling to things in life that are no longer meant for us. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 21, 2024
Episode 245: Well, The Jerk Store Called...
Melisa and Alli dive into what it's like raising kids as lesbian moms and how to handle possible bullying. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 14, 2024
Episode 244: Everybody Pump the Brakes!
Why is everyone is such a rush to do all the things? Commit to a relationship? Meet the kids? Move in together? Combine finances? Our friend Heather joins us to discuss why we all need to just chill! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 07, 2024
Episode 243: Evolution of Attachment Styles
Melisa and Alli discuss JoJo Siwa's ever evolving image -- and why people should cut her some slack. We also dive into attachment styles and how they show up at different stages of a relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 31, 2024
Episode 242: Throw Out The Rulebook
This week we talk about the importance of throwing other people's ideals and expectations out the window! You do you! And also, a few tips on how not to get catfished on dating apps! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 24, 2024
Episode 241: Courtney Simpson on Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Psychologist Courtney Simpson joins us to talk about Dialectical Behavior Therapy and the coping skills that have helped her in her own coming out journey -- along with how she got comfortable with the lesbian label. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 17, 2024
Episode 240: Where My Over 50s At?
Are you an over 50 lesbian, feeling like there's no one out there for you so why bother even trying to date? You're not alone! There's so many people with a similar viewpoint -- but if everyone doesn't make an effort, won't it stay that way? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 10, 2024
Episode 239: Rae on Shedding The Catalyst
Rae joins the show to share her coming out story of how she married her catalyst and how she is now working on developing better coparenting skills and shedding her co-dependent nature. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 03, 2024
Episode 238: What Are You Really Afraid Of?
Alli and Melisa explore the topic of fear -- from phobias like snakes and drowning -- to one majority of people can relate to... the fear of being alone. Is that fear of being alone keeping you stuck in a situation that's no longer right for you? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 25, 2024
Episode 237: Update on Allie's Story
Allie joins us for a third time to give an update on her coming out process -- and why she's choosing not to date at this time and instead focus on her own well-being. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 18, 2024
Episode 236: Catalyst Commonalities
We've noticed a common theme about catalysts (first relationships) in many of our listener emails -- today we discuss possibilities as to why.... Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 11, 2024
Episode 235: It's Not Guilt, It's Wise Remorse
Alli and Melisa discuss a different take on guilt -- viewing it as "wise remorse." We also share some tips on manifestation from the great Mel Robbins -- and how the Netflix series "Love on The Spectrum" could help you learn how to human. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 04, 2024
Episode 234: Meet Dr. Kara Strauss: Pelvic Floor Expert
Dr. Kara Strauss joins us to talk about pelvic floor health and how it can impact so many aspects of your life. We also dive into grief and how mourning the end of a relationship is such a multifaceted process. You're not just mourning a person, you're mourning that future. For more information on Dr. Kara Strauss, visit the links below. Super Human Therapy Dr. Kara Strauss on Instagram Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 28, 2024
Episode 233: Meet Jodi
After becoming a mom at 18, then coming out at 29, Jodi felt she had finally met her perfect match -- only to have her new life turned upside down. Now Jodi is sharing her story to help others through their own mental health, sexuality, and relationship struggles. TRIGGER WARNING: S**ual Assault and S**cide Connect with Jodi on Facebook Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sat, January 27, 2024
A Special Announcement
Big News for the Lesbian Chronicles Podcast! We have a website!!! LESBIAN CHRONICLES PODCAST Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 21, 2024
Episode 232: What's Your Thing?
Melisa and Alli are joined by their lovely friend Malena to chat about how our past places a role in life today -- and how important it is to share with your triggers with your partner or potential partners. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 14, 2024
Episode 231: Meet Robin
Robin shares her story of processing her late in life sexuality realization -- which has included a new baby, the sudden passing of her father, divorce, and a career change! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, January 08, 2024
Episode 230: The Stanley Cup
Alli talks her return to therapy. We get confused about Stanley Cups vs. The Stanley Cup. And we chat about how sexuality is viewed by the younger generation. We also have a new submission to the Love Lounge! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 24, 2023
Episode 229: Let's Bury Our Heads in the Sand!
It's the holidays -- which is a tough time of year for many people -- so this week, we're burying our heads in the sand and just keeping this episode light and easy! Stay tuned until the end to hear our first single lady for the Love Lounge! And attention to all listeners in Austin, TX -- there's now a support group in your city!! Email babygaysATX@gmail.com to learn more! Instagram - Baby Gays ATX Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 17, 2023
Episode 228: Happy Holidays!
This week Alli and Melisa talk about their ever evolving Christmas plans -- how to manage keeping things equal in a blended family -- Jillian Turecki's take on how rejection feels like abandonment -- and our plans for a new segment to get you singeles coupled up! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 10, 2023
Episode 227: Meet Teddi
Our friend Teddi joins us for a conversation about coming out in the 90s, relationships, and her life running the coolest barbershop ( A-HA Barbers ) we've ever seen! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 03, 2023
Episode 226: Breakup Toolbox Part 2
We had such a great response to our Breakup Toolbox request on Instagram we decided to share more knowledge from those who've been through the thick of it. We also chat about our younger years and how Alli may have committed a felony More book and podcast recommendations in this episode... Jillian On Love Podcast Anxious Hearts Attached (book) Shadow Work Journal Becoming The One The Journey from Abandonment to Healing Lighter by Yung Pueblo Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 26, 2023
Episode 225: Breakup Toolbox
Breakups are rough. Especially when you're not equipped to handle it. Alli and Melisa share tools that have helped them -- and we hear breakup advice from listeners. Some books/podcasts mentioned in this episode... Dr. Nicole LePera - The Holistic Psychologist On Purpose with Jay Shetty Emotional & Physical Pain Are Almost The Same - To Your Brain Abandonment Recovery Workbook by Susan Anderson The Self Love Fix Podcast The Mel Robbins Podcast Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 19, 2023
Episode 224: Get Comfortable. Get Confident. Be Magnetic.
Alli and Melisa chat about the glorious celebration that was Melisa's birthday party -- and how being part of the LGBTQ community can be your path to figuring out your sexuality. We also talk about the importance of building confidence within yourself to attract great things (and people) in life! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 12, 2023
Episode 223: It Gets Messier!
Alli and Melisa reflect more on the Messy Middle -- and we have another listener story from Molly, who was put through the wringer in her coming out, but has a positive message from the other side. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 05, 2023
Episode 222: The Messy Middle Chronicles
The Messy Middle is a common theme for many late in life lesbians. That part where you've come out, but there's obstacles in the way -- finances, job, living situations, co-parenting, illness, a husband in denial. Gaberiella and Alexa share what their messy middle is/was like. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 29, 2023
Episode 221: (Un)Happy Holidays
The holiday season is approaching -- and with that, a lot of anxiety for some of our LC listeners. Melisa and Alli share some encouragement for those facing the holidays alone -- or those who will have to see their former partners in the arms of another. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 22, 2023
Episode 220: Dr. Caroline on Menopause
Dr. Caroline, OB/GYN talks the journey of perimenopause and menopause -- how the symptoms can impact your life -- and sometimes go unnoticed! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 15, 2023
Episode 219: Meet Rosie O'Donnell
LESBIAN ICON -- The Rosie O'Donnell -- joins Melisa and Alli to chat about the joys of TikTok, the importance of sharing hard experiences and connection, and the lessons she's learning while raising a non-binary, neurodivergent child. She also confirms a storyline that was cut from the cult classic, "Now and Then." Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 08, 2023
Episode 218: Friend Fight Club
Do you feel like you have to keep your straight friends and you LGBTQ+ friends separate? Are you worried about losing your straight friends by coming out? Alli and Melisa dive into this topic.... And stay tuned for the end where we share some BIG NEWS about our next episode! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 01, 2023
Episode 217: Emily Cade on Dating with Chronic Illness or Injury
Therapist Emily Cade joins the show to talk about dating with chronic illness or injury. Emily Cade Therapy Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, September 25, 2023
Episode 216: P!NK's Queer Vibe, Dating Age Gaps, And Jealousy Between Partners
Alli and Melisa discuss the wonder that is P!nk -- Shifting perspective on the age gap when dating, how therapy memes on social media cloud our brains -- And Dr. Jaime gives her two-cents on jealous feelings between partners. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 17, 2023
Episode 215: Do You Need to Live with Your Partner?
In your 20s, you meet. You fall in love. You move in. But what happens in your 30s, 40s, 50s+ when combining two households isn't quite as easy? Is living together really necessary? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 10, 2023
Episode 214: Regret is a B*tch
Do you regret coming out? Do you miss your old life? Do you know your gay but wonder if this was all worth it? Alli and Melisa discuss the common feeling of regret that pops up when everything isn't quite going your way post coming out. We also have our first Ask Dr. Jaime segment!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 03, 2023
Episode 213: Meet Lindsay "The Queen of Meeting Lesbian Strangers"
Lindsay joins the show to share how she's utilizing TikTok and other apps to meet other lesbians. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 27, 2023
Episode 212: Susan Bratton: "Your Passion is My Passion"
Susan Bratton joins the LC podcast for some very open talk about sex. Susan is an author, speaker and self-proclaimed "sexual biohacker and "orgasmanaut." Some links/products mentioned in this episode: Sexual Soulmate Pact Foria Arousal Oil Susan Bratton's Website Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 20, 2023
Episode 211: Meet Christin of Tello Films
This week we're joined by Christin Baker. Christin is a Lesbian Filmmaker and the Co-Founder and CEO of Tello Films. We chat about her streaming service for LGBTQ content, her coming out story and what it was like to be front and center during the debate over gay marriage. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 13, 2023
Episode 210: Dr. Jaime: Is it Ok to Not Love Your Partner's Kid?
Dr. Jaime joins us to talk about the difficulties of bonding with your partner's children -- and how to handle things when you just aren't feeling the love. We're also introducing an Ask Dr. Jaime segment where listeners can submit their questions to Dr. Jaime. Email us at melisaandalli@gmail.com with your questions! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 06, 2023
Episode 209: Meet Stacey - Community Building Expert
Our friend Stacey joins us to talk about her very recent coming out -- and how she's worked to make friends in the LGBTQ community in Nashville. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 30, 2023
Episode 208: Green Flags
We talk RED flags all the time -- but what are some GREEN flags in a relationship? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 23, 2023
Episode 207: Meet Kirsten Rasmussen
Actor, Writer, and Second City alum Kirsten Rasmussen (Slo Pitch, Odd Squad, Schitt's Creek) shares her coming out story. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 16, 2023
Episode 206: American Gladiators Made Me Gay
Did American Gladiators make you gay? Because Melisa thinks it may be some data for her coming out late in life story. We discuss this 90s mayhem of a TV show and other movies that gave us the feels as kids. And then swap topics to talk dealing with rejection in dating. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, July 10, 2023
Episode 205: That Defining Moment
What was the moment you knew you were gay? Listeners share their "defining moments" Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 02, 2023
Episode 204: Meet Dawn DiMicco
Author, Speaker, and Coach Dawn DiMicco joins us to talk about her life as a conservative Catholic who came out later in life after being married to a man for 16 years. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 25, 2023
Episode 203: The Shame Game
“Shame is that warm feeling that washes over us, making us feel small, flawed, and never good enough.” - Brené Brown We explore the topic of shame -- how it molds who we are today and how to overcome it's grip. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 18, 2023
Episode 202: OUT: the LGBTQ+ Social App
Anna Harissis, Co-Creater and CEO of OUT: the LGBTQ+ Social App, joins us to discuss her amazing app that is helping the queer community connect and find safe spaces and resources throughout the United States. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 11, 2023
Episode 201: Advice From a Husband
This week we share some advice a husband shared with us on what could make this process easier on them. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 04, 2023
Episode 200: Life is Too Short for Mediocre
It's Our 200th Episode!! Hard to believe that our little decision back in June 2019 to record a podcast sharing our experiences of coming out later in life would grow to be where we are today. We are so gratefult to our faithful listeners. This week we reflect back on what we've learned over the years and how we've grown. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 28, 2023
Episode 199: Dating Women 101
Who asks for the first date? Who plans it? Who pays?? All questions we didn't really have to think about while dating men but here we are. Melisa breaks down the approach she has taken with those first initial dates with someone new -- and shares some tips from listeners. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sat, May 20, 2023
Episode 198: Heartbreak Hotel
Coming out seems to be filled with heartbreak on multiple levels. This week Melisa and Alli discuss giving yourself permission to be sad (Yes, even over your divorce) and ways to cope when you're in the thick of it all. (Spoiler: It doesn't include texting your ex.) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sat, May 13, 2023
Episode 197: Perrie Voss on Queer Joy
Perrie Voss, Canadian award-winning actor, writer, editor, and producer, joins the show this week to talk about her award-winning series, Avocado Toast. She also shares what it was like to come out right as a global pandemic hit and her life now that she has found "Queer Joy!" Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 07, 2023
Episode 196: Travel Guilt
Do you ever feel guilty for traveling without your kids? Alli and Melisa totally relate to that feeling. This week we talk about travel guilt and how to feel better about taking time for yourself. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 30, 2023
Episode 195: Where Do I Meet Women?
This week we're throwing out ideas on how to meet other people -- gay or straight. You never know who someone else might know, so hit up the dog park, theater, book store or take a cooking class! Get out there! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 23, 2023
Episode 194: Stacy Talks Dating After 50
Our friend Stacy joins Alli to talk about dating over 50 and finally meeting the right person at 52. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 16, 2023
Episode 193: The Messy Middle (Ali's update)
Ali joins us again to give an update on The Messy Middle as she navigates meeting women and coping with her husband dating someone seriously. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 09, 2023
Episode 192: If It's Not a Hell Yes, It's a Hell No.
Melisa and Alli chat about some TikTok drama and how there seems to be some patterns when it comes to your first same-sex relationship. NOTE: At one point, Melisa is talking about children in China and how they're very independent. The video she referenced seeing was actually children in Japan, not China. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 02, 2023
Episode 191: Blend It Up
Alli shares some things she has learned over the years blending a family of four children and how difficult it can be for all parties involved. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 26, 2023
Episode 190: Opportunity Knocks
Coming out can often feel very sexualized, this week we explore exactly why it shouldn't be and how coming out and living more authentic lives has created opportunties in other parts of our lives. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 19, 2023
Episode 189: Shady Sh*t
What qualifies as emotional cheating? And how do you protect your relationship with your partner and prevent a friendship from evolving into something that crosses the line? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 12, 2023
Episode 188: Meet Dariella (Second Friday ATL)
Dariella Blanco joins us to talk about Second Friday Atlanta and what it was like to grow up in Venezuela knowing she was lesbian. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 05, 2023
Episode 187: No Wrong Decisions
Are there truly any wrong decisions? Even when it feels like a decision might be the wrong one -- in the end it's the path you're supposed to be on. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 26, 2023
Episode 186: Neurodivergent Queer Coach
NeuroQueer coach Pasha Marlowe, MFT joins us this week to discuss the link between neurodiversity people and coming out later in life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 19, 2023
Episode 185: Only the Lonely
Alli and Melisa catch up on life and reflect on how the fear of being alone can feel so heavy. Also, the time that Melisa bought a woman red roses for Valentine's Day only to learn that woman found red roses totally lame. Cool. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 12, 2023
Episode 184: Meet Ietta
Our friend Ietta joins us this week to talk Ghost Hunting, Marathon Running and her quest to find the right woman -- or not because Ietta is perfectly good going it alone! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 05, 2023
Episode 183: Meet Zeno
This week we are joined by Zeno! He shares his experience as a trans man and his evolving perspective on gender and sexuality. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 29, 2023
Episode 182: Investing 101
This week, we drop the coming out talk in favor of some financial advice. Alli shares her real estate investing knowledge and some tips to get you started on your own. (The mortgage lender mentioned in this episode is Carol Lynn Upshaw with Hyperion Mortgage) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 22, 2023
Episode 181: Perimenopause and The Messy Middle
This week we're joined by Aly to discuss how she and her husband are navigating the messy middle and how perimenopause played a role in her coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 15, 2023
Episode 180: Dear Past Self
Melisa and Alli share advice from listeners on what they wish they could tell their past self prior to coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 08, 2023
Episode 179: Justifying the U-Haul with Jaime Filer
We're kicking off 2023 with some advice from Mental and Physical Health Coach, Jaime Filer! Hear how your mental health plays into your physical health and how Jaime's move to U-Haul was a logistical decision. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 01, 2023
Episode 178: Welcoming the New Year w/Dr. Jaime!
Dr. Jaime Blandino joins Alli to kick off 2023 -- chatting about how the New Year brings new opprotunities! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 18, 2022
Episode 177: Holiday Pep Talk
Melisa is solo this week -- sharing stories of how people plan to spend the holdays and also taking space for those who might be alone this season. If you're feeling really down and need someone to talk to, contact the Suicide and Crisis Hotline by calling or texting 988. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 11, 2022
Episode 176: Love Bomb Take 2
Alli and Melisa revisit the topic of love bombing -- how do you know if it's manipulative or you're just falling in love? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 04, 2022
Episode 175: Talking Sexy Time w/Julia Hoffman
Julia from Bloomer's Society is back and we're diving deep into the sex talk!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 27, 2022
Episode 174: Don't Let Your Past Dictate Your Future
Do relationships -- gay or straight -- truly have longevity? Melisa and Alli talk about the hardships couples face and how hard it is to commit to forever -- especially later in life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 20, 2022
Episode 173: But Moooooom...
We branch off our conversation from last week about coming out to teenagers and why it's harder than coming out to the little ones. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 13, 2022
Episode 172: Nikki's Story
Nikki shares her coming out story and how she told her teenage daughters about her newfound sexuality. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 06, 2022
Episode 171: Andrea L. Pino-Silva/The Curve Foundation
This week we chat with scholar, author, and activist Andrea L. Pino-Silva about her work to spread awareness about global gender based violence, working with The Curve Foundation and her own coming out journey as the daughter of Cuban refugees. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 30, 2022
Episode 170: Imposter Syndrome
Coming out later often brings on the feeling of imposter syndrome, like we are somehow going to be found as a fraud in the LGBTQ community. Melisa and Alli discuss how they've felt this and how to overcome it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 23, 2022
Episode 169: Julia from Bloomer's Society (Part 3)
Part three with Julia where we talk more about helping straight men through the process of their wife's coming out -- and balancing relationships with your biological kids and step-kids. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 16, 2022
Episode 168: Julia from Bloomer's Society (Part 2)
This week we have Part 2 with Julia from Bloomer's Society where she shares what it was like to tell her children about her divorce, and also that she's gay. (Spoiler Alert: One kid threw up a rainbow) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 09, 2022
Episode 167: Julia from Bloomers Society (Part 1)
A long awaited episode, we are joined by Julia Hoffman from Bloomers Society. She talks about her own coming out and how she started her own community to bring late in life lesbians together! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 02, 2022
Episode 166: Oya Turns It Gay (Part 2)
Part 2 with Oya from the band Fruit For All! She talks more about coming out to her Turkish family and what the future may look like! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 25, 2022
Episode 165: Oya Turns It Gay! (Part 1)
Our friend Oya joins us to talk about her band Fruit For All and their upcoming gig in Atlanta, along with the beginning of her coming out story which began after she moved to the US from Turkey! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 18, 2022
Episode 164: Should Your Kids Meet Your Girlfriend?
When is the right time to introduce your kids to someone you're dating? Alli and Melisa share their experiences -- and how the end of some of their relationships has impacted their children. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 11, 2022
Episode 163: Lesbian Orphan
This week we had the opportunity to chat with Lindsay, an artist and musician from San Diego. She shares the highs and lows of her coming out story -- along with details on embryo donation -- the method she and her wife used to get pregnant with their daughter! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 04, 2022
Episode 162: Debbie Downer
Not gonna lie, this episode is a bit of a downer. Alli and Melisa catch up on what's been going on in their lives -- including Melisa's trip to Croatia and Alli sending her first born off to college in NYC! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 21, 2022
Episode 161: Throw The Whole Life Out
Alli and Melisa reflect on how life has evolved since coming out... from being fearful of what was ahead to now feeling more and more settled financially and with our people. It gets better :) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 14, 2022
Episode 160: Dr. Jaime: Integrity Not Defined By Avoiding Hurting Someone's Feelings
Dr. Jaime talks about friendships that can feel like relationships and why the fear of hurting someone's feelings can make it so difficult to end romantic relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 07, 2022
Episode 159: Dr. Jaime: Coming Out Is Not Black or White
Dr. Jaime is back! We talk parenting after divorce, dealing with limited time with your kids, the COST of admission and how the things after coming out aren't so black and white. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 31, 2022
Episode 158: Should I Come Out?
Do you really need to come out publicly? Or is just information you want to keep to your inner circle? We talk about how we go about sharing our relationship status -- and Melisa and her girlfriend share what it's like to be out in the suburbs of Atlanta. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 24, 2022
Episode 157: You Can't Go Home Again
What happens when your former person has a new person? Melisa and Alli talk about how our relationships with our exhusband's have shifted since our divorces -- and how both our mothers can't seem to understand our child custody schedule. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 17, 2022
Episode 156: Mormon No More (Part 2)
Lena and Sally from Hulu's Mormon No More talk blending families. And there's no shortage of kids here -- 7 kids in 7 years. Yup. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 10, 2022
Episode 155: Mormon No More (Part 1)
Sally and Lena from Hulu's Mormon No More share their stories of not only coming out later, but coming out of Mormonism. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 03, 2022
Episode 154: Tales from the Catalyst
We're talking catalysts again -- and how things that happened in those relationships have impacted other current relationships -- in positive ways too!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 26, 2022
Episode 153: The Friendship Balance
We talk the massive news with Roe v. Wade, the new Disney/Pixar move, Lightyear and how to balance friendships and your relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 19, 2022
Episode 152: The Inbetween Time
What does separation even look like? Alli and Melisa reflect back on how everything unfolded leading up to their divorces. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 12, 2022
Episode 151: Melissa Lester from GROUP! (Part 2)
Part 2 of our conversation with Melissa Lester, LCSW who created the Group that truly saved Melisa and Alli in their coming out process. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 05, 2022
Episode 150: Melissa Lester from GROUP! (Part 1)
This week we welcome Melissa Lester, LCSW who created the Group that truly saved Melisa and Alli in their coming out process. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 29, 2022
Episode 149: Hurricane Ari (Part 2)
Ari shares more of her coming out story and how she learned to let go of labels and "just be." Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 22, 2022
Episode 148: Hurricane Ari (Part 1)
Alli chats with her new friend Ari about how she came out later in life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, May 16, 2022
Episode 147: Hilliary's Story
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode mentions sexual abuse. Alli's neighbor Hilliary joins us this week to share her coming out story and how a traumatic incident with her first girlfriend led her to end the relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sat, May 07, 2022
Episode 146: Sonia Leigh
Music artist Sonia Leigh joins us this week to share her story about coming out in the 90s! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 01, 2022
Episode 145: God Gives Very Little S***s
This week we're joined by Alexis aka The Queer Mom on TikTok. They are an Episcopal Priest with a Masters degree in Divinity. We discuss their take on religion and how they're working to bring queer people together via TikTok. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 17, 2022
Episode 144: Christine's Story: Part 2
You're now part of the LGBTQ community -- but you feel like the new kid in class. Christine shares what it's like to be old, but new at the same time. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 10, 2022
Episode 143: Christine's Story: Part 1
Our friend Christine shares her coming out story -- and the post-divorce pressure to prove coming out was worth it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 03, 2022
Episode 142: More Peaches (and avocados)
This week -- we do the impossible and dive into a how-to on eating peaches (and avocados, apparently) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 27, 2022
Episode 141: Eat More Peaches
We're back! And we're talking initiating sexy time after a listener shared her struggles with putting the moves on her partner. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 13, 2022
Episode 140: Say Gay!
This week we discuss the insane legislation proposed in the US about sexuality in schools -- and how not hearing the word "gay" growing up influenced us growing up. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 06, 2022
Episode 139: The Heartbreak of Divorce
Conflicting feelings come up in divorce -- you know you're gay... but also heartbroken over leaving your husband. Melisa and Alli talk about how these feelings can co-exist. And why getting over relationships with women is soooo hard. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 27, 2022
Episode 138: Don't Be a Rubik's Cube
How do you know if you're truly attracted to someone? This week we talk about attraction and how dating men now has some questioning their own instincts. We also hit on a good way to let someone know you're just not into them. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 20, 2022
Episode 137: Dr. Jaime: A Commitment to Yourself
Dr. Jaime Blandino is back, dropping more wisdom!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 13, 2022
Episode 136: Marina's Story Part 2
Marina's back! This week we talk about her relationship with her mother -- who hasn't been accepting of her sexuality. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 06, 2022
Episode 135: Marina's Story Part 1
This week, we chat with Marina who was born and raised in Ukraine/Russia and moved to the US as a teenager. She shares how she went from being "boy crazy" to a heterosexual marriage to starting to date women in her 20s. Oh, she's also Melisa's girlfriend so there's that :) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 30, 2022
Episode 134: Blending Families
Alli and Melisa share their experiences in blending families in new relationships -- from Melisa's trip to Disney with her ex to Alli's love for her partner's son. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 23, 2022
Episode 133: Meet Mia
Mia shares her story of coming out 10 years ago and how things have evolved since then. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Fri, January 07, 2022
Episode 132: Coming Out at 60
Laura shares her story of coming out at 60-years-old and how she’s helping others through her TikTok videos where she has nearly 45k followers! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Thu, December 23, 2021
Episode 131: Coming Out Colton
This week we chat about the Netflix series, “Coming Out Colton” and how other people’s opinions and a religious upbringing can hold you back from coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Thu, December 16, 2021
Episode 130: Weight of Religion with our Catholic Deacon
Alli’s future father-in-law who is also a Deacon in the Catholic Church speaks about his experience having two gay daughters and his take on acceptance. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, December 07, 2021
Episode 129: Meet Your New..???
Melisa is back! She catches everyone up on what’s new in her life, including an impromptu vacation on the Melissa Etheridge Cruise! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 28, 2021
Episode 128: Laws of Attraction
Dr. Jaime Blandino and Alyssa are back with Alli this week to talk about sexual attraction vs romantic attraction Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, November 22, 2021
Episode 127: The Wisdom in Stillness
Special guests this week… Dr. Jaime and Alyssa join the conversation about how people have found their true selves because of the pandemic Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 14, 2021
Episode 126: Meghan’s Story
Meghan divorced her husband and dated women. She went back to her husband before meeting her partner and beginning an authentic journey as a gay woman. This journey includes moving in with her partner and blending a family. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, November 08, 2021
Episode 125: Tonishia’s Story
Listener Tonishia shares her story about how she moved from dating men to women… and the struggle to put a label on herself. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, November 01, 2021
Episode 124: Sex Anxiety
Rachel from our Sleepless in Seattle episode joins us again… this time to talk about all the anxiety that comes with intimacy Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 24, 2021
Episode 123: Part 2: How Did You Meet
We share more listener stories of how they met their person and share some ideas about how to navigate dating apps. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 17, 2021
Episode 122: How Did You Meet?
This week we share stories of how some of our listeners met their significant other!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, October 11, 2021
Episode 121: From the Drafts
This week is an episode we recorded in August 2020 but never published. So enjoy this little bit of randomness with Melisa and Alli. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Thu, October 07, 2021
Episode 120: Double Lives
When you’re in that odd in between of being out… but not to everyone. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Thu, September 30, 2021
Episode 119: FOLLOW UP: Gay But Still Married
We catch up with Jocelyn who we spoke with last year about her plans to stay married. Things have changed. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 19, 2021
Episode 118: It Feels Like The First Time Part 2
A continuation of Melisa and Alli’s conversation from last week Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, September 13, 2021
Episode 117: It Feels Like The First Time
Alli and Melisa talk about a lot of things… like why do the lights have to be on during sexy time??? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 05, 2021
Episode 116: Unattached with K.Deer
Another listener who wasn’t married but came out later, our friend Kristine Deer (founder of K.Deer fitness apparel). She shares her coming out experience and the art of being unattached to outcomes in life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 29, 2021
Episode 115: Sleepless in Seattle
A highly requested topic… what is it like to come out having not been married? We chat with Rachel from Seattle about her shift from dating men to dating women. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Wed, August 25, 2021
Episode 114:Talk Soup
You know you’re getting older when soup is exciting… Alli and Melisa talk about sobriety and how alcohol impacts other parts of your life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 15, 2021
Episode 113: Blending Families
Alli and her partner Maria talk about how they’ve blended their families.. and the difficult parts of navigating life with four kids. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 08, 2021
Episode 112: The Best and Worst Part of Coming Out
This week we share what we’ve found to be the best and worst parts of coming out. And we hear from a few listeners about their own experiences. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 01, 2021
Episode 111: Late to Lesbian
We FINALLY chat with the woman behind the Late to Lesbian Instagram account! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, July 26, 2021
Episode 110: Beep Beep! Who Got The Keys to The Jeep?
This week, a chat about internalized homophobia and how it holds us back in life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 18, 2021
Episode 109: Dating Someone Who’s Married
This week we tackle what it’s like to date someone who is married and not sure how to proceed. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 11, 2021
Episode 108: The Ever Evolving Sherri
Sherri’s back! This time we talk about how we are always changing and evolving as humans and learning who we truly are! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, July 06, 2021
Episode 107: QWN of Atlanta
This week we sit down with Laura, the creator of Queer Women’s Network of Atlanta. She shares how she got the group started and The LO., an app she’s working on to help queer women build community. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, June 28, 2021
Episode 106: It's Ok to Stay
This week we give space to those who stay in their marriage -- because it's ok to stay if that's where your life is at right now. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 20, 2021
Episode 105: Get Out The Map… So I Can Find That GSpot
We gotta give it to you like you’ve asked… more sex centric episodes!! We talk straight sex and how it sometimes misses the mark. Along with a lively conversation about undies!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, June 14, 2021
Episode 104: Pride Month History Lesson
It’s Pride Month and as newly out members of the LGBTQ community, want to educate ourselves and our listeners. Historian Cassandre helps us do that! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, June 08, 2021
Episode 103: If You Build It They Will Come
This week we talk about how a group of our listeners are coming together to build community through the Bloomers Society. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 30, 2021
Episode 102: Check Your Vibe
This week we discuss how to keep your friendships from crossing over into relationship territory. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 23, 2021
Episode 101: “Live” from Piedmont Park
We celebrated Episode 101 with a meetup in Piedmont Park! We had a blast meeting everyone and hearing some amazing stories! Feeling the love for sure! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 16, 2021
Episode 100: Sherri’s Story Part 3
We wrap up the wild ride that is Sherri’s life! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, May 10, 2021
Episode 99: Sherri’s Story Part Two
We can’t get enough of Sherri’s story... this week she talks about gender identity and the start of a very intense relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, May 04, 2021
Episode 98: Sherri’s Story: Two Marriages and A Cult
Buckle up! Because Sherri’s coming out journey is a wild one! This is Part One of Three so get ready! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 25, 2021
Episode 97: What If You’re Wrong
What if you’re wrong about your sexuality? But... what if you’re right? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 18, 2021
Episode 96: Meg the Catalyst
Ok, so the title makes it sound sinister but Meg is the absolute sweetest. She shares what it is like to be the “catalyst.” Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, April 13, 2021
Episode 95: That Catholic Guilt Tho
Alli shares how her Catholic upbringing impacted her life and coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 04, 2021
Episode 94: The Hard Lessons Make Us Who We Are Today
We discuss the hard lessons we’ve learned. And why we wouldn’t change our past. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, March 30, 2021
Episode 93: Whitney’s Coming Out Story
Whitney identified as bisexual at an early age... heterosexual norms drove her to two marriages to men. Now she identifies as a lesbian, is co-parenting with her ex and thriving in her new career. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 21, 2021
Episode 92: Lower Your Expectations, Not Your Standards
This week we talk dating and how to not get too excited about your dating prospects before you meet in person. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 14, 2021
Episode 91: Dr. Jaime on Attachment Styles
Dr. Jaime talks attachment styles and how your past relationships play a role. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 07, 2021
Episode 90: Dr. Jaime on Your Inner Child
Dr. Jaime Blandino talks about how your childhood impacts your actions and feelings in adulthood. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 28, 2021
Episode 89: Get Comfortable With Being Uncomfortable
Coming out means uncomfortable conversations. Learn how to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. It’s temporary. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 21, 2021
Episode 88: Bisexuality Defined
Admittedly, we are experts on nothing, so this week we bring on a guest who is bisexual... she shares what that means for her and how the bisexual label is often misunderstood. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 14, 2021
Episode 87: But I’m Bisexual
This week we discuss what to do if you’re discovering your sexuality later in life but you’re bisexual Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 07, 2021
Episode 86: Getting to Knoooow You
You may have noticed an additional voice on the podcast in recent months. It’s Alyssa, our very own audio producer and “gold star lesbian.” This week, we get to know her a little better. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 31, 2021
Episode 85: When Your Husband Sucks
This week, we chat with Rosie.. an Australian listener who’s coming out and divorce was anything but easy. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 24, 2021
Episode 84: The Power Shift
This week, Melisa, Alli and Alyssa talk about how the power dynamic can change in your catalyst relationship as you begin to feel more comfortable with your sexuality and branch out on your own. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, January 18, 2021
Episode Re-Boot: Dr. Jaime on Cheating and Love Bombing
Here’s an episode from November 2019 that we love... Dr. Jaime Blandino gives insight on cheating and love bombing. And also, why being with a woman for the first time can be so exhilarating! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 10, 2021
Episode 83: Stephanie Gray: The Love Coach
This week we welcome Stephanie Gray, The Love Coach. Stephanie is a former international professional basketball player turned author, speaker and love coach. She shares how her life experiences have brought her where she is today... and how she helps others navigate relationships. Check out her book, The 10 Universal Rules of Love Plus One. https://www.stephanielgray.com/home Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 03, 2021
Episode 82: Christmas isn’t Christmas
Alli and Melisa talk about how they spent their Christmas... and what a bummer it was. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 27, 2020
Episode 81: Dr. Rachel: Culture of Consent
This week we chat with Dr. Rachel Anne Kieran, Psy.D. on consent, polyamory and relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 20, 2020
Episode 80: Molly Wizenberg and The Fixed Stars
Author Molly Wizenberg joins the show and shares how her own life experiences shaped her book, “The Fixed Stars.” Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 13, 2020
Episode 79: Mom Guilt
There is so much mom guilt surrounding divorcing and coming out. This week we talk about how we’ve coped with that aspect of our lives. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 06, 2020
Episode 78: This One’s For The Hubs
This week we talk with Mark who is in the midst of coping with his wife coming out and discuss how they’re moving forward in this process. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 29, 2020
Episode 77: Let’s Go to The Movies (and not have sex with your brother)
This week we chat about our Thanksgiving holidays and movies we’ve seen recently (including “Happiest Season”). And apparently sex with your husband can start to feel like sex with your brother 🤔 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 22, 2020
Episode 76: Dr Jaime: Finding Your True North
We are joined by Dr. Jaime Blandino to talk about gaslighting, finding your true north and how to handle the holidays with family. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 15, 2020
Episode 75: Flip It and Reverse It
Alli, Melisa and Alyssa chat with Lisa, who’s longtime partner passed away... but she’s now found new love with a man. We explore how preferences shift... and how love can be about the person, not their gender. Lisa does amazing work for racial justice and healing through The Radical Optimist Collective! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 08, 2020
Episode 74: Show Me Your Oh Face
This week we talk about sex. Do we really have to say anything more? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, November 02, 2020
Episode 73: Gay But Still Married
This week we talk with Jocelyn... a listener who recently discovered her sexuality but is staying married to her husband. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 25, 2020
Episode 72: Your Intentions of Coming Out
This week we talk about what expectations we initially had in coming out to our husbands. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 18, 2020
Episode 71: The Big D (And not the good one...)
Melisa and Alli talk with Catrina, a divorce attorney in Michigan. She shares her insight on the divorce process, child custody and alimony. And fun fact: You can't lose your kids because of your sexuality. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 11, 2020
Episode 70: I’m Coming Out! I Want the World to Know!
We’re a bit all over the place this week.. but we talk about National Coming Out Day and get to know Alyssa better! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 04, 2020
Episode 69: Dating Tips: "She Hasn't Even Sent Me a Full Body Shot Yet..."
Melisa and Alli dive deep into the world of dating apps and how people can improve their profiles. Also, how do you human during a first date? We share tips on how to improve your communication skills... especially after being out of the game for so damn long! (ANNND.. the freakin' boy band we couldn't recall during recording, ONE DIRECTION!) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 27, 2020
Episode 68: My So-Called Past Life
This week we discuss how we refer to our "past life" and how it doesn't feel right to say we were "in the closet." Also, we talk about the clitoris because that's always fun. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, September 21, 2020
Episode 67: Financial Repercussions of Divorce
Melisa and Alli talk the cost of divorce.. and how it’s a “luxury” some can’t afford to do. (And how that’s total bs) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, September 14, 2020
Episode 66: Sow Those Wild Oats
Melisa and Alli talk about sowing your wild oats as a newly out person -- and how that looks later in life. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 06, 2020
Episode 65: Crocs, Chacos and Cargo Shorts
Alli and Melisa discuss how the type of women they're attracted to (and their own style) has evolved... Also, how people put out "lifeboats" in relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 30, 2020
Episode 64: Mind the Age Gap
Alli and Melisa talk about what it's like when your significant other has children. And dating when there's an age gap. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 23, 2020
Episode 63: Are You Happier?
Alli and Melisa have turned their lives upside down to live their truth... Now they answer one of the top questions they hear from people --- are you happier? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 16, 2020
Episode 62: The Hot Seat
Today’s episode is just for fun... Alli and Melisa are joined by some friends to answer questions in “The Hot Seat!” Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 09, 2020
Episode 61: This Ain’t No Fairy Tale
Melisa and Alli talk about the hardships of dating and trying to meet “the one.” Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 02, 2020
Episode 60: Dr. Jaime Talks Mental Health
Dr. Jaime Blandino talks mental health Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 26, 2020
Episode 59: Hey PEOPLE!
Alli and Melisa respond to a listener email and address ways to improve ourselves 😁 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 19, 2020
Episode 58: Rewriting Your Future
Melisa and Alli talk about how to start over and move forward with your new life after leaving your marriage. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 12, 2020
Episode 57: Midlife Awakening
Melisa and Alli read listener emails/questions... and talk about how lucky we are to have this “midlife awakening.” Wake me up!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, June 30, 2020
Bonus Pride Episode: LGBTQ+ Roundtable
The Lesbian Chronicles was recently asked to join a roundtable discussion with a few other LGBTQ+ podcasters. We chatted with MinoriTea Report, Tranna Wintour, She's Not Doing So Well and MIZ, The Podcast (who organized the whole thing!) Really cool group of people and a great discussion. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 28, 2020
Episode 56: The Long Haul U-Haul
Alli and Melisa chat with our friend Kelly who has been with her partner for almost 11 years! Awww Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 21, 2020
Episode 55: Dating Over 50
Dating over 50 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 14, 2020
Episode 54: Lesbian Bed Death
Melisa and Alli chat about the impending doom of lesbian bed death Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 07, 2020
Episode 53: The Secret Episode
This is one we’ve held off on publishing. But to celebrate our 1st anniversary... here ya go! Alli and Melisa talk about when they were separated and attempting to navigate new relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 31, 2020
Episode 52: Fear: Coming Out is Like Having a Snake Thrown at You
Melisa and Alli talk about the fears surrounding coming out later. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 24, 2020
Episode 51: What Am I?
Alli and Melisa talk about labels. Am I gay, bisexual, lesbian, queer? Or is a label even necessary? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 17, 2020
Episode 50: Blending Families
Alli and Melisa talk about blending families in new relationships. Also, what it’s like to date after 50. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 10, 2020
Episode 49: Alli’s Girlfriend in the Hotseat
Alli’s girlfriend shares what it’s like to be in a relationship with a late in life lesbian. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, May 03, 2020
Episode 48: Secret Love
Alli and Melisa discuss the new Netflix documentary “Secret Love.” We also talk about keeping the spark going in quarantine. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 26, 2020
Episode 47: What’s Your Fantasy?
Alli and Melisa share listener stories and fantasies! 😏😅🤤🔥🔥🔥 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 19, 2020
Episode 46: Catalysts: For Better and Worse
Alli and Melisa talk about why relationships with catalysts turn volatile. We also share how people are finding ways to build community despite the Rona. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 12, 2020
Episode 45: Being the Catalyst
Alli and Melisa talk about our first listener Zoom call. And what it’s like to be the catalyst.. having to play the waiting game through someone else’s process. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, April 05, 2020
Episode 44: The Catalyst
Alli and Melisa talk about life during the apocalypse. And we get to that gritty topic of our catalysts! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 29, 2020
Episode 43: The Corony Crazy
Alli and Melisa talk about how to deal with being quarantined and still married. Bc it doesn’t sound fun. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 22, 2020
Episode 42: Dr Jaime Answers Listener Questions
Part two of questions from Dr Jaime Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 15, 2020
Episode 41: Dr. Jaime Takes Listener Questions
Dr Jaime answers the question... but what if I change my mind about my sexuality? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 08, 2020
Episode 40: You Have One Job!
Alli and Melisa talk about what we’ve learned about ourselves since coming out. We also touch on how similar the dynamic between Alli and her partner is to Glennon Doyle and Abby Wambach. And we talk about a Texas teacher placed on administrative leave for “pushing the homosexual agenda.” Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, March 01, 2020
Episode 39: Facebook Live
Alli and Melisa take questions on Facebook live Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 23, 2020
Episode 38: Why Can’t I Google My Future?
How great would it be if you could google your future and know exactly what life will look like?? Alli and Melisa talk about how fear of the unknown occupies our brains and holds us back. They also discuss how hard it was to admit to their husbands they’re gay.. knowing the confession would end their marriages. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 16, 2020
Episode 37: Relationship Attachment Styles
Alli and Melisa give an update on their lives... including the recent lice infestation at Alli’s house. And we talk about different attachment styles in relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 09, 2020
Episode 36: Evolution of Relationships
Alli and Melisa talk about how relationships develop... the bullet train or the slow burn. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, February 02, 2020
Episode 35: The Kids Are Alright
Alli and Melisa talk to Alli’s son, Owen, about what it was like when his mom came out... and how he actually beat her to the punch and came out before Alli! (You’ll also hear Melisa curse in front of a child, so.. win win!) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 26, 2020
Episode 34: I’m Gay! Sex Me Up!
Melisa and Alli talk about how much sex has changed since coming out. How we went from avoiding sex to loving it! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 19, 2020
Episode 33: Where My Girls At?
Dating... but how do you meet people?? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 12, 2020
Episode 32: Make Me Another Damn Sandwich!
Remember Marie from Episode 3? Well, she’s back! This time with her real name and sharing her coming out story! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, January 05, 2020
Episode 31: Hetero Sex When You’re Gay AF
Alli and Melisa address what it was like to attempt to be intimate with our ex husbands after realizing we were gay. We also answer some listener questions and Alli educates Melisa on the Catholic Church and feeling the obligation to be intimate with your husband. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 29, 2019
Episode 30: Christmas Shit Show
Alli shares what it was like to have her parents, ex-husband, in-laws AND her girlfriend all over for Christmas. And Melisa discusses actively not dating. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 22, 2019
Episode 29: Coming Out at 27
Our friend Miranda shares what it was like coming out in her late 20s and how she came to the realization she was queer. She’s also like a walking Urban Dictionary so we get the lowdown on some queer terminology. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 15, 2019
Episode 28: Where Do Broken Hearts Go?
This week we channel our inner Whitney and talk about recovering from a breakup, the steps you can take to move on, and how to go about dating again and putting yourself out there. (“This seems I’m setting myself up to get my ass kicked.”) We also answer a listener question about coming out at work. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 08, 2019
Episode 27: Modern Family Christmas
How will we be celebrating the holidays this year?? Very much like we did pre-divorce! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, December 01, 2019
Episode 26: Elsa is So Gay! Hooray!
Melisa is convinced Elsa is so gay in Frozen 2. Alli talks about an encounter from her “past life.” We also chat about how lesbians have better sex which contradicts lesbian bed death rumors. And we get into what our lives look like lately and they heavy stuff that still weighs on us. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 24, 2019
Episode 25: Rev. Susannah Davis on Gayness and God
Rev. Susannah Davis of Kirkwood United Church of Christ joins Alli and Melisa to talk about reconciling faith with sexuality. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, November 18, 2019
Episode 24: Red Flag! Red Flag!
Alli and Melisa cover the warning signs that you’re in a not-so-great relationship. (Also, the audio in this episode sucks, but please bare with us. We’re amateurs but working to improve.) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 10, 2019
Episode 23: Dykes on Bikes Atlanta/Polyamory
Alli and Melisa talk with the President of Dykes on Bikes Atlanta about their organization and her experience as a polyamorous lesbian. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, November 03, 2019
Episode 22: Dr. Jaime Blandino on Cheating Guilt and Love Bombing
Does someone have cancer? Is someone being deported? Why the love bombing?? Another great talk with Dr. Jaime Blandino on why some people express love so quickly and how to handle the aftermath of cheating. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 27, 2019
Episode 21: Coping with Lifestyle Change and Hypersexuality
Melisa and Alli discuss how life looks different following divorce and coming out. We also talk about hypersexuality and how we both feel like 15 year old boys in the height of puberty. Soo fun times. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 20, 2019
Episode 20: Atlanta Pride 2019
Alli and Melisa chat about attending Pride in Atlanta and share ideas on building a community. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, October 14, 2019
Episode 19: Making It Work With Your Ex
Strategies that Melisa and Allison have incorporated for making things awesome their exes. Traveling as a Modern Family and finding friendship with your Ex husband. Also, being positive about your exes new relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, October 06, 2019
Episode 18: Life After Separation
This week we talk about what our lives were like after separating from our husbands and dealing with the looming divorce. No FMK — instead we talk about the movie “Imagine Me and You” and some movies that stirred early “feelings” in our childhood. Fun fact: Alli wanted to be Ralph Macchio in “Karate Kid.” #halloweencostumeidea (But also, more recently Melisa was ready to hop in bed with a female robot from “Westworld.”) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 29, 2019
Episode 17: Dr. Jaime Blandino on Guilt
Alli and Melisa talk with Dr. Jaime Blandino about the guilt of leaving your heterosexual marriage. The price of admission is high. But the price of exclusion from your most authentic life is higher. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 22, 2019
Episode 16: Friendship Boundaries, Shower Sex and Centaurs
We talk about setting boundaries in friendships and how to avoid crossing the line. And we finally watched “Below Her Mouth” and we have a lot of questions... specifically about shower sex and centaurs 🤣 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 15, 2019
Episode 15: The Aftermath
Alli and Melisa discuss the aftermath of coming out Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 08, 2019
Episode 14: Manifesting the Life You Want
Today we talk about envisioning how you want your life to look in an effort to make it a reality. We also hit on hushing the noise and paying close attention to what you want versus what others think is right for you. FMK- “Girls” (Sorry, Hannah Horvath) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, September 01, 2019
Episode 13: All the Guilt
Alli and Melisa talk about how guilt weighs you down when coming out and divorcing... and how you’re not responsible for other people’s happiness. Our FMK today— Transparent! (Such a good show!) Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 25, 2019
Episode 12: Bag of Dicks
Alli and Melisa talk the dirty details of lesbian sex. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 18, 2019
Episode 11: Listener Questions
This week we cover a few questions we’ve gotten from our lovely listeners. Then we go off the rails a little and end up talking Roombas, recycling and the pH levels of water. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, August 11, 2019
Episode 10: A Chat with Dr. Jaime Blandino
Melisa and Alli sit down with Dr. Jaime Blandino to discuss the shame that surrounds coming out. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Thu, August 08, 2019
Episode 9: Living in Your Marriage
Alli and Melisa talk about staying married even when you know you’re gay or “not straight.” We also talk about Julianna Hough coming out as “not straight.” And today’s FM and *not* kill... the US Women’s Soccer Team. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, August 06, 2019
Special Segment: Alli talks to her teen daughter
Short interview with Alli’s teenage daughter regarding divorce and having a gay mother. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, July 29, 2019
Episode 8: The Master Doc
Melisa and Alli talk about a popular document viewed by women questioning their sexuality. And for FMK... we swoon over the lovely Jennifer Anniston! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, July 22, 2019
Episode 7: It’s Not About Sex
Alli and Melisa discuss the aspects to relationships with women ... and no, it’s about sex. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 14, 2019
Episode 6: The Dating Game
Alli and Melisa talk about the levels of difficulty to coming out at different stages in life. And the dating game! Where are the single ladies? Do you buy flowers for women? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, July 07, 2019
Episode 5: Grieving your Marriage
Alli and Melisa discuss the process of grieving your marriage and allowing yourself and your husband the time to do so. We also finally started to watch The Handmaids Tale! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Fri, June 28, 2019
Episode 4: The Hard Conversation
Alli and Melisa talk about the difficulties of telling your significant other you are gay. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Sun, June 23, 2019
Episode 3: Make Me a Damn Sandwich
Alli and Melisa here at Nashville Pride! We are joined by our friend Marie and we talk a lot about sex... and sandwiches. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Mon, June 17, 2019
Episode 2: How did you know?
Alli and Melisa go into more details on when/how they knew they are gay. We also answer a listener question on keeping the peace between your ex and new girlfriend. And we bring Nicole Kidman back from the dead! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .
Tue, June 11, 2019
Episode 1: From the Closet but not in the Closet
Alli and Melisa’s first Lesbian Chronicles episode.... recorded from Alli’s closet! Literally! We cover our stories about coming out later in life and how we are now safely on the other side. This is for anyone coming out be it as gay, lesbian, or transgender. Especially for those who are leaving heterosexual marriages/relationships. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

Lesbian Chronicles: Coming Out Later in Life

Episode 295: Meet Robin!

Episode 294: Meet Anna

Episode 293: Shifting From Lust to Love

Episode 292: Hush The Noise

Episode 291: The Optimism of a Baby Bird

Episode 290: Living In Your Marriage

Episode 289: The Wonder That Is Loretta Bush/Introducing Your Person to Your Kids

Episode 288: Hot Pursuit!

Episode 287: Long Distance Dating

Episode 286: Age Gaps in Relationships

Episode 285: Time is Currency

Episode 284: Meet Kayla/ Finca to Filter

Episode 283: Meet Julie Birke

Episode 282: 32 Flavors (of FUN)

Episode 281: Meet Kristin "Throw a Boulder in Your Pond"

Episode 280: Don't Feed the Big Bad Wolf

Episode 279: Meet Rachel

Episode 278: Holiday Mental Prep

Episode 277: Meet Meredith/Baby Gays ATX

Episode 276: Full On Favreau/Baby Gays ATX

Episode 275: Choosing People Who Don't Choose You

Episode 274: Be Like Bex

Episode 273: Meet Sue and Paige: It Could Happen to You

Episode 272: Relationship Hopping

Episode 271: Pride 2024 Wrap

Episode 270: Meet Joy!

Episode 269: The Science of a Breakup

Episode 268: Stacey and Christin on Finding Your Soulmate

Episode 267: Let's Bro It Up!

Episode 266: How Your Inner Child Shows Up Today

Episode 265: Meet Mandi

Episode 264: Sext Me Up!

Episode 263: Meet Ginny

Episode 262: Lessons From Gen Z

Episode 261: The Truth About Kids and Divorce (and SEX!)

Episode 260: Nourish and Flourish with Christine and Anne

Episode 259: What I Know Now

Episode 258: Meet Claire Holt

Episode 257: Broken Hearts Club

Episode 256: Meet KT from Stonewall Sports

Episode 255: Meet Danie The Sexologist

Episode 254: Using Alcohol to Numb

Episode 253: More Unsolicited Advice

Episode 252: Unsolicited Advice with Christine

Episode 251: Date Like A Grown Up

Episode 250: Dating Icks

Episode 249: Healing While Parenting

Episode 248: Meet Michele

Episode 247: Coming Out While Married

Episode 246: I Don't Think About You At All.

Episode 245: Well, The Jerk Store Called...

Episode 244: Everybody Pump the Brakes!

Episode 243: Evolution of Attachment Styles

Episode 242: Throw Out The Rulebook

Episode 241: Courtney Simpson on Dialectical Behavior Therapy

Episode 240: Where My Over 50s At?

Episode 239: Rae on Shedding The Catalyst

Episode 238: What Are You Really Afraid Of?

Episode 237: Update on Allie's Story

Episode 236: Catalyst Commonalities

Episode 235: It's Not Guilt, It's Wise Remorse

Episode 234: Meet Dr. Kara Strauss: Pelvic Floor Expert

Episode 233: Meet Jodi

A Special Announcement

Episode 232: What's Your Thing?

Episode 231: Meet Robin

Episode 230: The Stanley Cup

Episode 229: Let's Bury Our Heads in the Sand!

Episode 228: Happy Holidays!

Episode 227: Meet Teddi

Episode 226: Breakup Toolbox Part 2

Episode 225: Breakup Toolbox

Episode 224: Get Comfortable. Get Confident. Be Magnetic.

Episode 223: It Gets Messier!

Episode 222: The Messy Middle Chronicles

Episode 221: (Un)Happy Holidays

Episode 220: Dr. Caroline on Menopause

Episode 219: Meet Rosie O'Donnell

Episode 218: Friend Fight Club