gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero! This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, bo...
S2 E51 · Tue, March 25, 2025
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Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes 💖 It’s your host, Sober Steve , checking in with 1,397 days of sobriety and a big announcement: gAy A is going on an indefinite hiatus . After nearly four amazing years , 225+ episodes , and hundreds of powerful stories from across the queer sober spectrum, it’s time for me to shift my energy inward—toward my local community in Sarasota, Florida . When I launched gAy A at just 90 days sober, I couldn’t find the kind of podcast I needed—so I made it. Now, there are so many incredible queer sober podcasts out there, and I’m proud to have been part of this growing movement. This isn’t goodbye forever—just a "ta-ta for now" (TTFN) . The podcast feed isn’t going anywhere. The archive is packed with vulnerable, empowering, inspiring interviews from our incredible community. So if you're new here, or if you’ve missed a few episodes along the way, this is a perfect time to catch up. Stay Connected: 🧠 Follow my personal journey: @JustSteveSRQ 🎧 Explore the full archive: 225+ episodes of queer sober inspiration Support the show
S2 E50 · Thu, February 27, 2025
Finding Light in the Darkness ft. Dillon
Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, we’re back with another in-person interview, and this week, I’m sitting down with my friend Dillon! 🏳️🌈💜 Dillon opens up about his journey to sobriety, how a birthday wake-up call led him to quit drinking, and the powerful role of resilience in his recovery. We talk about: ✨ The moment he knew he had to change ✨ How sobriety has transformed his life and relationships ✨ Finding strength in grief after loss ✨ Navigating the queer community as a sober person ✨ His go-to mindset shifts & coping strategies Dillon’s story is a reminder that it gets better —and that we are stronger than we ever imagined. 💪 Listen now on all podcasting platforms! 🎧✨ 📲 Follow Dillon: @OGDillyDilly91 📲 Follow gAy A Podcast: @gAyApodcast #QueerSobriety #SoberQueer #LGBTQRecovery #SoberLife #RecoveryJourney #QueerCommunity #GriefAndRecovery #ItGetsBetter #SoberCurious #GaySobriety Support the show
S2 E49 · Thu, February 20, 2025
Living Fearlessly Queer & Sober with India X Miller
Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes ! Your host Sober Steve is here with 1,357 days sober , and this episode is extra special because we are recording in person for the first time! I’m thrilled to welcome India X Miller , a powerful advocate, trans activist, and sober warrior who has been navigating the world of recovery for over 40 years. India shares their incredible journey of sobriety , from getting clean as a teenager to experiencing relapse and reclaiming their recovery. We talk about the unique challenges of being trans and sober, the fight for LGBTQ+ rights in Florida , and how to stay strong and connected in recovery despite all the obstacles. From navigating gender identity to breaking barriers in 12-step spaces , India opens up about resilience, authenticity, and fighting for visibility and acceptance in both recovery and the world at large. ✨ Topics Covered: India’s journey through addiction, relapse, and long-term sobriety The power of visibility as a trans person in recovery How to navigate religious trauma in 12-step spaces The importance of gender-inclusive language in recovery Finding strength in community and creating LGBTQ+ safe spaces India’s work in media & advocacy , including their radio show Connect with India X Miller: 📲 Instagram: @IndiaXMiller 📲 Tik-Tok: @IndiaXMiller 📻 Radio Show: Trans Cis Her on WSLR ( WSLR Website ) Want More Queer Sober Community? 🌈 Join Here Queer Sober! We’re hosting a sober LGBTQ+ conference in NYC this September! Connect, learn, and celebrate with us. Learn More & Register Here 🔗 Follow gAy A on Instagram: @gAyApodcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday! Hit subscribe so you never miss a show. 💬 Have a topic or guest suggestion? DM me on Instagram or email gayapodcast@gmail.com ! Thank you for tuning in, and remember: Stay queer. Stay sober. Stay unapologetically YOU. 💖✨ Support the show
S2 E48 · Thu, February 13, 2025
The AI Interview – Answering Big Questions About Queer Sobriety with Phil B
Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, we're back for Part 2 with Phil B, co-founder of Here Queer Sober ! 🎉 And this time, we’re shaking things up—AI is asking the questions! Phil and I tackle some of the biggest misconceptions and deeper truths about queer sobriety, including: ✨ Can queer and sober people actually have fun? (Spoiler: YES.) ✨ What’s it like dating and navigating relationships in sobriety? ✨ How do chosen families evolve in recovery? ✨ What’s one piece of wisdom we wish we knew in our first year? ✨ How to respond when someone says, ‘I can’t imagine being queer and sober.’ Plus, we chat more about the first-ever Hear Queer Sober Conference coming September 27-29, 2024, in NYC —and how you can be part of it! 🌈✨ Resources & Links: 📍 Register for the Here Queer Sober Conference: ➡️ Find the link pinned in the Here Queer Sober Facebook Group 📧 Email Phil at philip@hearqueersober.org 📢 Want to lead a workshop or panel? 🎤 DM me on Instagram @gAyApodcast 📍 Follow Phil & Here Queer Sober: 📲 Instagram: @herequeersober 🎧 Listen now & join the conversation! And as always—stay sober, friends. 💖✨ Support the show
S2 E48 · Thu, February 06, 2025
Coming Out the Other Side with Phil B – Career, Recovery & Here Queer Sober
Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, welcome back! Today, I’m joined once again by my dear friend and co-founder of Here Queer Sober , Phil B! With 7 years, 9 months, and 24 days sober , Phil shares about his whirlwind year—completing his master’s degree in counseling , navigating job offers, moving into his own apartment, and embracing the next chapter of his recovery and career. We also dive into: ✨ The big life transitions that tested his recovery—and how he stayed grounded ✨ Balancing sobriety & career in addiction counseling ✨ Finding the right meeting routine after so much change ✨ The first-ever Here Queer Sober Conference (coming September 27-29, 2024 ) and how you can get involved! Phil reminds us that sobriety isn’t about avoiding life—it’s about showing up fully, embracing change, and creating something meaningful. 🌈💪 Resources & Links: 📍 Register for the Here Queer Sober Conference: ➡️ Find the link pinned in the Here Queer Sober Facebook Group 📧 Email Phil at philip@herequeersober.org 📢 Want to lead a workshop or panel? 🎤 DM me on Instagram @gAyApodcast 📍 Follow Phil & Here Queer Sober: 📲 Instagram: @herequeersober 🎧 Listen now & get ready for part two with Phil coming soon! And as always—stay sober, friends. 💖✨ Support the show
S2 E47 · Thu, January 30, 2025
Feeling the Feelings ft. Holland
Send us a text In this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show , host Steve is joined by the amazing Holland, who shares his journey to recovery, approach to spirituality, and how sobriety has transformed his life. Holland, who celebrates a sobriety date of February 2, 2022, opens up about growing up in Hawaii and Alaska, their struggles with addiction, and finding their way back to recovery after a series of challenges. Holland also discusses the importance of service, humility, and staying connected to their queer and recovery communities. Key Topics Discussed: Holland’s early years in Hawaii and Alaska and their experience with addiction starting at a young age. The challenges of balancing recovery and spirituality and how embracing ambiguity with their higher power has been a game-changer. How sobriety has allowed them to process big feelings and lean on tools like therapy, service, and community connection. The power of service in recovery, from giving rides to newcomers to being active in the service structure of AA. Navigating friendships, relationships, and dating as a queer person in recovery and the importance of setting boundaries and standards. Holland’s daily practices for maintaining sobriety, including meditation, gratitude, and embracing humility in their professional and personal life. A focus on progress over perfection and the mantra, “Let go, let God,” that keeps them grounded. Memorable Quotes: “Being sober means I get to feel all the big feelings and then rely on tools to not do the crazy next steps.” “I never want to be too big to clean up chairs because that’s where I meet future sponsees.” “You don’t have to pay back taxes for the person you were. You deserve good things now.” Resources Mentioned: Book : Every Feeling Is Big – A poetry book about heartbreak and relationships in recovery. [Available on Amazon.] Stay Connected: Follow us on Instagram @gAyApodcast for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and more. Support the show
S2 E46 · Thu, January 23, 2025
Sober Gay Adventures ft. Johnny
Send us a text Episode Highlights 🌍 Traveling Sober & Building Community: Johnny shares how he founded Sober Gay Adventures , offering intimate, 10-day trips for queer sober travelers to explore the world with accountability and connection. His goal was to create meaningful travel experiences for those in recovery, providing fellowship in small groups across the globe. 🏳️🌈 Embracing Queer Joy: Johnny talks about loving the vibrant, campy, and dramatic aspects of queer culture and how that community connection has deepened in his sobriety. 💔 Navigating Loss & Addiction: Johnny opens up about how the sudden passing of his best friend led to years of heavy drinking and eventual morning drinking. His breaking point came after a health scare that led him to fully commit to recovery. 🛠️ Sobriety Tools: Johnny highlights the importance of daily meetings, meditation, gratitude lists, and building authentic connections as essential tools in his recovery. 🌿 Sober Gay Adventures in 2025: Johnny shares upcoming travel experiences including: London to Paris : Iconic city exploration with day trips to Stonehenge and Mont-Saint-Michel. Italy Tour : Rome, Florence, Venice with immersive food tours and Tuscany day trips. Crete, Greece Retreat : A yoga and meditation retreat with daily excursions, evening sharing circles, and themed celebrations. Connect with Johnny 🔗 Website: sobergayadventures.com 📸 Instagram: @sobergayadventures 📘 Facebook: Sober Gay Adventures Stay Connected with gAy A 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @gAyApodcast 💌 Want to share your story or ask a question? Send a DM on Instagram or visit sobersteve.com to guest or connect! 🎧 New episodes every Thursday! Until next time, stay sober, friends! 🌈✨ Support the show
S2 E45 · Thu, January 16, 2025
Stay Strong, Do Good, Be Brave ft. Adam S
Send us a text Super Sober Heroes, today I’m joined by Adam Schuler , a writer and advocate for addiction recovery, who shares his powerful journey through relapse, resilience, and ultimately rediscovering joy in sobriety. Adam gets candid about: ✨ The role of relapse in his recovery journey —and why it's not a failure, but a teacher ✨ How connection & community helped him finally break free from addiction ✨ The unexpected realization that changed his recovery: joy matters ✨ His approach to structure, accountability, and rebuilding a sober life ✨ How writing became his creative outlet and a tool for healing Plus, we talk about his new book, Trudge: The Road to Happy Destiny 📖, a collection of parables, prose, and meditations on addiction and recovery. Resources & Links: 📚 Check out Adam’s book: Trudge: The Road to Happy Destiny ➡️ Available on Amazon (Kindle & Paperback) 📚 Upcoming Memoir: Adam and Everything —Coming March 2024! 📲 Follow Adam on Instagram: @adamschulerwrites 🎧 Listen now & join the conversation! And as always—stay sober, friends. 💖✨ Support the show
S2 E44 · Thu, January 09, 2025
Aging into Authenticity in Recovery ft. Mark V
Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A , I’m joined by returning guest and podcast favorite, Mark, as we dive into the transformative power of sobriety and how it’s helped him embrace his authentic queer self. From growing up in a Catholic family with strict gender norms to navigating the complexities of being openly gay in the workplace, Mark shares his journey of self-discovery, healing, and unapologetically owning his queerness—brooches, skirts, and all! We also discuss: 🌈 Reconnecting with queerness after decades of societal and self-imposed barriers 🌟 How sobriety teaches us to relearn lessons we’ve forgotten 💔 The impact of loss on sobriety and self-growth 💪 Why authenticity is a practice, not a destination Whether you’re navigating your own queer identity, seeking inspiration to live authentically, or just here for Mark’s fabulousness, this episode is a must-listen! Connect with Mark: Follow him on Instagram: @HeyMarko8 Join the Conversation: 🌟 What steps have you taken to live your most authentic self? 🌟 How has sobriety helped you reconnect with your identity? Let us know! Email us or connect on socials @GayAPodcast. Don’t Miss Out! Follow Gay A wherever you listen to podcasts for new episodes every Thursday! #GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #LivingAuthentically #LGBTQRecovery #SobrietyJourney #QueerCommunity #SoberLife Support the show
S2 E43 · Thu, December 19, 2024
Sober Holiday Tips and Tricks from the Vault
Send us a text In this episode of gAy A , your queer sober hero show, I’m sharing holiday tips and tricks to help you navigate the festive season while staying sober. Whether you’re celebrating your first holiday in recovery or just looking for a little extra support, this episode dives into advice from listeners and my own experience on avoiding triggers, setting boundaries, and thriving through the season. I’m also celebrating 1300 days of continuous sobriety and reflecting on the tools and community that have helped me along the way. If the holidays feel overwhelming, you’re not alone, and we’ve got you covered! Episode Highlights: Why the Holidays Are Challenging for Sobriety: Unrealistic expectations for joy and happiness can amplify feelings of isolation. Family dynamics and alcohol-heavy work events can be major triggers. Reflection on the past year may bring up both positive and difficult emotions. Listener Advice for Staying Sober: “If you feel stressed or tempted, just leave. You always have a way out.” – Laura “Avoid triggers at all costs. Prepare mentally for difficult situations.” – J Dusty Grimes “Sobriety is the best gift you’ll ever receive. Stay humble and grateful.” – Charlie Gray Practical Sobriety Tips: Use HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) to avoid emotional pitfalls. Set boundaries for yourself and plan an exit strategy for challenging events. Lean on sober support systems like meetings, literature, or sobriety podcasts. Focus on mindfulness and breathing exercises to manage stress in real-time. My Reflections on Celebrating Without Alcohol: Learning to embrace sobriety as a gift. How recovery tools and planning have helped me navigate triggers. The joy of celebrating milestones and holidays sober and authentically. Want to Share Your Story? I’d love to feature you on the show in the new year! Send me an email at gayapodcast@gmail.com or DM me on social media @gayapodcast to share your experiences with sobriety and recovery. Thank You for Listening! Thank you for tuning in to gAy A . Wishing you a safe, happy, and sober holiday season. I’ll be taking a short break over the holidays but will return with fresh episodes in the new year. Until then, stay safe, stay grounded, and most importantly— stay sober, friends. Support the show
S2 E42 · Thu, December 12, 2024
Still Fucked and Insane ft. Scott G
Send us a text In this episode, originally released on April 22nd, 2022, Steve welcomes Scott to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Scott on Instagram @scotttgrasso and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out their website: https://www.scottgrasso.com/ Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S2 E41 · Thu, December 05, 2024
Addiction and Zodiac Signs Revisited
Send us a text Episode Description: Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A , I’m diving back into the vault to revisit one of my earliest episodes on astrology and addiction. Originally recorded at just 105 days sober, this episode explores how our zodiac signs might influence our relationship with alcohol. But that’s not all—I'm adding fresh insights and exploring a new article on zodiac signs and their connections to other addictive tendencies. Whether you’re a Leo who loves to splurge (looking at you, Amazon cart), or a Pisces drawn to emotional escapism, there's something here for everyone. So, does your sign align with your past or present tendencies? Let's break it down together! What’s Next? ✨ Listen to the full episode and share your thoughts on how your zodiac sign aligns with your past habits. ✨ Join the conversation: Email me, text the show, or connect on socials @GayAPodcast. ✨ Don’t forget to follow Gay A for weekly episodes every Thursday! Resources Mentioned: Original Zodiac and Alcohol Article New Zodiac and Addiction Article #GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #AstrologyAndAddiction #ZodiacSigns #SoberCurious #LGBTQRecovery #SoberJourney #AddictionRecovery Support the show
S2 E40 · Thu, November 28, 2024
Sober, Queer, & Kinky ft. Ralf: Embracing Recovery and Authenticity
Send us a text Sober Steve is joined by Ralf Rasmussen, host of RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! Ralf shares his journey from addiction to seven years of sobriety, delving into the challenges and triumphs of navigating the intersection of recovery, kink, and queer identity. We discuss: 🌈 The power of embracing authentic queer identity in sobriety. 🖤 Ralf’s journey through addiction, recovery, and reclaiming his kink life without substances. 🎤 How creating a podcast and a sober kink community became pillars of his recovery. 💡 Insights on navigating mental health and ADHD in recovery. Whether you’re curious about sober kink, need inspiration for your recovery journey, or want to hear from someone living their truth, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and hope. Guest Info: Find Ralf’s podcast, Real Clear Fetish Talks , on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. Follow him on social media @realclearfetish or email at realclearfetish@gmail.com. What’s Next? Hit play to hear Ralf’s inspiring journey! Don’t forget to follow gAy A for weekly episodes, and leave a review to help other sober queer heroes find us. #GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #SoberKink #RecoveryJourney #RealClearFetish #LGBTQRecovery #SoberHeroes Photo of Ralf by @joshidotphoto Support the show
S2 E39 · Thu, November 21, 2024
Steve on RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay!
Send us a text Check out my guest appearance on RealClearTalk this week, and check out the show wherever you find this podcast!! Show notes from the episode: Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show. Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy, and sober life. He is forever grateful for his sober family, his podcasting community, and kinksters like you! #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Instagram: @gayapodcast Instagram: @juststevesrq All podcast platforms: gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17th October 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q0aY-8QvW6U Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Support the show
S2 E38 · Thu, November 14, 2024
Stay Connected, Stay Sober ft. Richard D
Send us a text In this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show , host Sober Steve welcomes Richard Dean, a fellow sober friend, to share his inspiring journey through addiction, recovery, and the exploration of codependence. Richard opens up about the challenges he faced in early sobriety, the lessons he learned from relapse, and the powerful transformation he experienced through programs like Alcoholics Anonymous and Codependents Anonymous. Together, they discuss the unique aspects of queer sobriety, the importance of finding balance in relationships, and the pivotal role of fellowship in maintaining sobriety. Topics Covered: Richard’s journey from addiction to recovery, including relapses and the turning points that inspired lasting change. Navigating queer identity in sobriety and the importance of community connection. The impact of codependency in relationships and how Codependents Anonymous helped Richard find balance. Staying close to program practices, the role of daily routines, and how meditation, prayer, and fellowship play into Richard’s recovery. Richard’s advice on staying connected and finding joy in the present, along with embracing authenticity and freedom in life. What's Next? Hear the full episode to dive into Richard’s story and gain valuable insights into navigating recovery and codependence as part of the queer sober community. Make sure to follow Gay A on your favorite podcast platform to catch new episodes every Thursday! Follow Richard Dean: Instagram: @richarddean326 Support the show
S2 E38 · Thu, November 07, 2024
Blank Spaces, Brave Faces, and Swift Steps ft. Julianne Griffin
Send us a text In this episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show , Sober Steve welcomes back Julianne Griffin, aka Jewels, the founder of Swift Steps—a unique sober community for Swifties in recovery. They dive deep into the therapeutic power of journaling, finding balance in sobriety, and the challenges of staying accountable in recovery. Jules shares how the love for Taylor Swift’s music, lyrics, and journey has become a powerful anchor for Swift Steps members to connect, support each other, and grow. What’s Covered in This Episode: Swift Steps 101 : For those unfamiliar with Swift Steps, Jules provides an overview of this inspiring recovery community for Swifties. Journaling with Taylor : Discover how the Swift Steps course, Blank Spaces and Brave Faces , uses Taylor Swift's music and lyrics as a journaling framework, encouraging members to explore their recovery journeys, release shame, and embrace self-compassion. Personal Growth and Accountability : Jules reflects on the challenges of showing up for herself, balancing self-care with the demands of community leadership, and the importance of support networks in recovery. Navigating Family Triggers : From co-dependency to challenging family relationships, Jules opens up about the struggles of setting boundaries and seeking personal growth within recovery. The Power of Swift Steps Community : Hear how Swift Steps members inspire each other, keep each other accountable, and bring a shared purpose that continues to enrich Jules’ own journey in sobriety. What’s Next? Curious to learn more about Swift Steps or join this vibrant community? Head over to their social media @swiftsteps13 or check out swiftsteps.org to join the mailing list and receive all the details. Tune in for insights, laughs, and a whole lot of Taylor-inspired recovery wisdom, and don’t forget to hit "follow" so you never miss an episode of gAy A ! 🌈✨ Support the show
S2 E37 · Thu, October 31, 2024
Traveling in Sobriety ft. Frankie
Send us a text Hey there, super sober heroes! 🦸🏽♂️ This week on Gay A, Sober Steve is thrilled to welcome back a fan-favorite guest and globetrotter, Frankie New! Steve and Frankie dive into a topic close to Frankie's heart: Traveling in Sobriety. In This Episode: Join Steve and Frankie as they discuss the unique adventures and perspectives that come with sober travel. From finding queer-friendly destinations and the occasional surprise doll museum to embracing the joy of being fully present in each moment, Frankie shares insights on the empowering freedom that sobriety brings to his journeys. Here’s what else to look forward to: 🎒 Sober Travel Tips: How to stay grounded, prioritize safety, and find enjoyment—wherever in the world you are. 🌏 Navigating Different Cultures: Frankie's experiences with queer and sober spaces across continents and why he feels more comfortable than ever traveling solo. 💫 Rediscovering Fun and Connection: How being sober has allowed Frankie to connect more deeply with the places he visits and the people he meets. Follow Frankie on Instagram and TikTok at @FashionQueerHistorian to keep up with his latest journeys and fascinating research! Follow Us Here, and on all the Socials @gAyApodcast Support the show
S2 E36 · Thu, October 24, 2024
Sobriety, Social Media, and Self Care ft. Jaycee K Clark
Send us a text Hey, Super Sober Heroes! In this episode of gAy A , Sober Steve welcomes back Jaycee K. Clark for a powerful conversation on the impact of social media on mental health and sobriety. With over 1,227 days sober, Steve sits down with Jaycee to discuss how social media plays a dual role in our lives—both as a tool for connection and a source of distraction. Jaycee, who will be one of the keynote speakers at the Here, Queer, Sober event next September, shares personal insights from her recent social media hiatus and how it transformed her recovery and self-care routine. Key Takeaways from the Episode : Social Media Hiatus : Jaycee opens up about taking a break from social media to focus on her mental health and emotional well-being. She highlights the importance of recognizing when social media becomes a distraction and how taking a step back helped her reconnect with herself. The Power of Disconnecting : How disconnecting from the online world can create space for deep emotional healing, self-reflection, and improved mental health in sobriety. Being Intentional : Jaycee emphasizes the need to be intentional with social media use—knowing when to engage, when to take a break, and how to create healthy boundaries. Balancing Creation and Consumption : As someone who uses social media for activism and sobriety advocacy, Jaycee shares tips on balancing content creation and consumption while staying grounded and present. Lessons in Recovery : They dive into the parallels between social media dependency and addiction, discussing how both require self-awareness and personal boundaries to maintain balance. Being Vulnerable and Staying Connected : Jaycee talks about the importance of staying connected with her recovery community, even when offline, and how being open with others about her struggles helps her stay grounded. Key Moments : Jaycee explains how her relationship with social media changed after entering recovery. How taking a break from social media empowered her to focus on her mental health and sobriety. Steve and Jaycee discuss the pros and cons of social media in the recovery space and how to navigate the pressures of being online. Jaycee talks about using social media as a tool for advocacy and sharing her recovery journey out loud. Connect with Jaycee : Follow Jaycee Clark on Instagram: @officialjayceek Resources Mentioned : Here, Queer, Sober event in NYC, September 2024 Stay Connected : Follow us on Instagram: @gAyApodcast Find more re
S2 E35 · Thu, October 17, 2024
Being "Out" in Sobriety ft. Danielle
Send us a text Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! In today’s episode of gAy A, host Sober Steve (with 1,227 days sober!) welcomes back Danielle—one of our long-time pod family members, to dive into a topic that many in the LGBTQ+ community can relate to: Being “Out” in Sobriety . What you’ll hear in this episode : Danielle reflects on her experiences of coming out in college and how it mirrors her sobriety journey. They discuss the importance of recovering out loud and the impact of living authentically in both your sexuality and your recovery. The connection between vulnerability and community, and how being open helps others feel less alone. Danielle shares how running is part of her self-care routine in sobriety and how she finds both mental and physical health benefits from it. Why it’s so crucial to be present and how sobriety allows Danielle and Steve to fully embrace life’s ups and downs. The societal assumptions about the queer community and sobriety, and how the LGBTQ+ community continues to evolve with more support and visibility. Danielle’s candid and insightful take on being open about sobriety, sexuality, and life is sure to inspire anyone struggling with the idea of coming out in any aspect of their life. The conversation highlights the importance of connection, community, and embracing your authentic self, no matter the fears or challenges you face. Key Moments : Danielle shares her personal story about coming out in college after a tragic event sparked her to live authentically. The parallel between coming out as LGBTQ+ and coming out as sober. The importance of vulnerability and how recovering out loud has helped others start their sobriety journeys. Reflections on how the queer community continues to grow stronger despite challenges. Connect with Danielle : Follow Danielle on Instagram at @DC_and_Rosie (closed account but accepting friends of Steve!) Resources Mentioned : Looking for support in your sobriety journey? Visit www.sobersteve.com for more resources and community connections. Make sure to hit Follow so you don’t miss any of our upcoming episodes, and don’t forget to tune in every Thursday for new content. Follow us on Social Media : Instagram: @gAyApodcast Facebook: gAy A Podcast If you enjoyed this episode : Leave us a rating or review on your favorite podcast platform! Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and grow this amazing community. Stay Sober, Friends! </p
S2 E34 · Thu, October 10, 2024
Sober Support from The Vault (Part Two)
Send us a text In this week’s episode, host Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, continues the dive into gAy A 's archives with Part 2 of "Sober Support from the Vault." After more than 225 episodes, Steve brings back some powerful early interviews that still resonate today. Whether you’re a new listener or a longtime fan, this episode offers a chance to revisit impactful stories from some of gAy A 's earliest guests who continue to make waves in the queer sober community. Featuring clips from early interviews with Charlie Gray, Danielle (Daisy Soul Child), Michael from Happy Without The Hooch , and Scott, this episode is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and inspiration. From exploring how sexuality intersects with addiction to understanding the deep support that the sober community provides, this episode is not one to miss. Key Takeaways : Charlie Gray on Vulnerability : Hear how Charlie used his memoir, At Least I'm Not a Frog , to be open and raw about his darkest moments, and why he believes it’s important to be honest about the "dirty" parts of addiction to help others feel less alone. Danielle (Daisy Soul Child) : In this clip, Danielle talks about coming out as a lesbian in the Black community and how hiding her true identity played a role in her addiction. She offers powerful advice on how accepting and loving yourself can be a key to recovery. Michael from Happy Without The Hooch : Michael shares how being gay impacted his relationship with alcohol, especially in a world where LGBT socializing often revolves around bars. He also reveals how he found new ways to build community and connection in sobriety. Scott's Legacy : In one of the most poignant clips of the episode, Steve reflects on Scott, a friend and fellow member of his home group who passed away sober. Scott’s wisdom and dedication to sobriety, despite life’s challenges, continues to inspire Steve and the gAy A community. Follow Us : Follow gAy A wherever you’re listening to make sure you never miss an episode—new episodes every Thursday! **Where to Find Us:** Me: - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ - Charlie Gray on Amazon Books - Charlie's Instagram 🔴 - Danielle's IG 🟢 - Michael on IG 🟢 <a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/gayapodc
S2 E33 · Thu, October 03, 2024
Sober Support from The Vault (Part One)
Send us a text In this exciting two-part special, gAy A is diving into the archives! Host Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, takes you on a journey back to some of the earliest episodes of the show. With over 225 episodes and more than three years of content, it’s easy to miss some of the incredible stories shared by guests who have since become part of the gAy A family. So, Steve has pulled some of the best clips from his first solo episode, as well as his initial interviews with Joey, Gabriel, and Kristen, to revisit their early sobriety journeys. Listen in as Steve reflects on the growth of both the podcast and his own recovery, and enjoy hearing how these early guests have continued to thrive in their own sober lives. From navigating LGBTQIA+ sober living, to the impact of social media on recovery, to powerful insights on sexuality and sobriety, this episode is packed with wisdom, growth, and inspiration. Key Takeaways : Steve's Early Sobriety : Hear Steve’s raw and vulnerable story from his very first solo episode, where he talks about the end of his drinking career, how the pandemic impacted his addiction, and finding his way in recovery through LGBT+ Zoom meetings. Joey from Rainbow Hill : Revisit Joey’s first appearance on gAy A where he discusses the inspiration behind Rainbow Hill Sober Living and his tips for staying humble, cutting out toxic people, and staying accountable in recovery. Gabriel on Social Media and Sobriety : Gabriel shares how social media played a crucial role in his sobriety, offering connection and community, especially during the isolating days of the pandemic. Kristen on Gender Identity and Sobriety : Kristen, a non-binary member of the gAy A family, reflects on how their gender identity and sexuality impacted their addiction, and offers powerful advice for those navigating life, addiction, and recovery. Follow Us : Follow Steve on Instagram @GayAPodcast for updates, and don’t forget to subscribe wherever you’re listening so you get new episodes every Thursday **Where to Find Us:** Me: - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Joey: - Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣 - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡 - Totally Sober 🔴 - Joey’s IG 🟢 Gabriel: - Gabriel on IG 🟢 Support the show
S2 E32 · Thu, September 26, 2024
Surviving Socializing Sober ft. Savanna
Send us a text In this week’s episode of gAy A , Sober Steve the Podcast Guy sits down with his long-time sober sibling, Savannah. With 1,215 days sober for Steve and 1,365 days for Savannah, they share an honest conversation about surviving the challenges of sobriety—especially in a world where alcohol seems to be everywhere. From navigating social events and mocktails to processing personal triggers and using sobriety tools, this episode is packed with wisdom for anyone looking to go from simply surviving to truly thriving in sobriety. Key Takeaways : Surviving a World Full of Alcohol : Savannah and Steve discuss how they handle being surrounded by alcohol in everyday spaces—from grocery stores to Pride events—and how to stay grounded in sobriety. Tools for Thriving : Savannah shares how she stays strong in her recovery through the use of meetings, staying connected with her sober network, and never being afraid to ask for help. Triggers and Emotions : From dealing with life stressors like school and mental health to handling unexpected emotions, Savannah opens up about how she copes without turning to alcohol. Mocktails and Boundaries : Savannah shares a personal story about a mocktail mishap and gives advice on how to navigate the world of non-alcoholic drinks safely and confidently. Going From Surviving to Thriving : Tips for transitioning from just getting by in sobriety to embracing life fully—staying focused, working the program, and sharing openly in meetings. Connect with us! Don’t miss this empowering episode of gAy A ! Follow/Subscribe now wherever you listen for new episodes every Thursday! Follow Us - Savanna on Tik-Tok - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E31 · Thu, September 19, 2024
AI on Sobriety & Queerness: Steve interviews ChatGPT
Send us a text In this exciting and unconventional episode of gAy A, Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, puts AI to the test! Can AI really understand the intersections of queerness and sobriety? Steve and ChatGPT dive into some of the most powerful themes shared by LGBTQIA+ individuals in recovery, exploring how technology can shed light on these deep, personal experiences. Plus, can you tell the difference between AI Steve and Real Steve? Tune in and find out! Key Takeaways: •Can AI Relate?: How AI reflects on the shared queer and sober experiences and the common challenges we face. •What’s Your Favorite Part of Being Sober?: Steve and ChatGPT discuss authenticity, self-acceptance, and the incredible connections formed in sobriety. •How Do Queerness and Sobriety Intersect?: A deep dive into how living authentically and staying sober are connected journeys. •AI’s Survival Guide for the First 90 Days: Practical tips on how to get through early sobriety and why support networks matter more than ever. •Can You Tell the Difference?: Steve challenges you—can you spot when it’s AI Steve talking? What's Next? Scroll up and text the show with what you thought of this episode! Also, ... - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Follow this show wherever you are listening for new episodes every Thursday morning! Support the show
S2 E30 · Thu, September 12, 2024
Competitions in Sobriety ft. Chad
Send us a text In this week's episode, host Steve, celebrating 1,202 days of sobriety, welcomes back Chad to continue their conversation on sobriety, fitness, and competition after bonding at OutSport's OutVivor event. Chad shares his experiences in various competitions, from marathons to soccer, and how pushing his limits has been a crucial part of his sober journey. He also provides insights into balancing fitness, fun, and personal growth while staying connected to recovery. The conversation delves into both solo and team competitions, how sobriety has transformed their approach to challenges, and the importance of a balanced social life inside and outside of recovery. Chad also reflects on his journey through sports leagues, OutVivor, and the growth he’s experienced from taking part in these events. Key Takeaways: Chad shares how competing against himself, rather than others, fuels his drive. Steve reflects on how pushing his limits in sobriety has transformed his relationship with fitness and competition. The importance of balance: staying active in both recovery and personal fitness goals. Chad's experiences with group sports, including joining sober leagues, and later expanding his circle in non-sober environments. The parallels between training for marathons and staying sober, focusing on taking things one step at a time. Advice for anyone interested in trying a new challenge like a marathon, sports league, or competition. If you’re curious about pushing your limits in sobriety, join Steve and Chad as they explore how competing can be a powerful tool for personal growth. What's Next? Follow Us! - Chad on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Follow this show wherever you are listening for new episodes every Thursday morning! Support the show
S2 E29 · Thu, September 05, 2024
Be True to Yourself ft. Chad R
Send us a text Host Steve celebrates 1,195 days of sobriety and welcomes Chad to share his powerful journey. Together, we explore the importance of self-discovery, overcoming toxic relationships, and building a life rooted in recovery and community. Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,195 days sober and introduces Chad to the show. Starting Early: Chad’s journey to sobriety and the struggles he faced along the way. Overcoming Challenges: From toxic relationships to personal growth, Chad opens up about the hardships he conquered in early recovery. Community & Transformation: Chad’s experiences in sober community activities and how they’ve shaped his recovery. Advice for Newcomers: Chad offers valuable insights and advice for those in early recovery or facing challenges. Looking Ahead: A teaser for a follow-up discussion on competing in fun events in sobriety. Tune in next episode for part two, where we discuss participating in competitions sober. - Chad on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E28 · Thu, August 29, 2024
Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families ft. Melinda
Send us a text In this episode, Sober Steve celebrates 1,186 days of sobriety and welcomes Melinda Dixon, the first member from Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families (ACA) to join the show. Melinda shares her powerful journey toward emotional sobriety, shedding light on how ACA has profoundly shaped her life. The conversation explores the importance of emotional regulation through human connection, the power of community, and the impact of understanding one's core wounds on maintaining healthy relationships. Steve and Melinda also discuss the evolution of their queer identities in sobriety and the pride they’ve found in their unique personal journeys. - Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,186 days of sobriety and introduces Melinda as the first ACA guest. - Emotional Sobriety: Melinda’s journey to emotional regulation through connection and ACA meetings. - Understanding Core Wounds: How this understanding has helped Melinda establish healthy boundaries and relationships. - Queer Identity in Sobriety: The pride Steve and Melinda have found in their unique queer identities within and apart from the LGBT+ community. - Self-Care Practices: Exploring the role of gratitude lists, exercise, and fine dining in maintaining recovery. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation on emotional sobriety, queer identity, and personal growth in recovery, and leave a rating and review to pay it forward for the next person who might find the show! **Where to Find Us:** - More Information on ACA - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Email Melinda at: melindadixonpbc@gmail.com Support the show
S2 E27 · Thu, August 22, 2024
Leather and Kink in Sobriety ft. Dale
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Dale for part two of their interview to discuss their experiences exploring and embracing leather and kink after entering recovery. Warning- this episode is *very* sexually explicit! Opening Discussion: "How do YOU celebrate your birthdays in recovery?" Topics discussed include Our experiences (or lack thereof) with leather and kink before entering recovery. Unpacking and getting in touch with our kinks and fetishes in sobriety and step work. Ways the Leather and Kink community and Sober communities intersect, both socially and with their principles of safe, sane, and consensual fun. The importance of communication in sobriety and in leather and kink. Suggestions for getting started if you are new to leather and kink in recovery. And much more!! **Where to Find Us:** - Dale on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E26 · Thu, August 15, 2024
You Are Not Alone ft. Dale W
Send us a text Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,172 days of sobriety and introduces Dale W., who is 205 days back in sobriety, sharing his powerful journey in this first part of a two-part episode. Dale opens up about his struggles with meth addiction, the isolation he faced, and the joy he found in building connections within the queer community. The conversation delves into overcoming emotional hurdles, finding acceptance, and the critical role of honesty in sobriety. Together, Steve and Dale explore the importance of authentic connections and offer a glimpse into their shared experiences within sober kink communities, which they’ll discuss more in the next episode. - Dale's Journey: From meth addiction and isolation to finding community and recovery. - Overcoming Emotional Hurdles: The challenges Dale faced and how he overcame them. - Building Authentic Connections: The importance of honesty and community in sobriety. - Sneak Peek: A preview of their upcoming discussion on sober kink communities. **Where to Find Us:** - Dale on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E25 · Thu, August 08, 2024
Turning Your Mess Into Your Message ft. Jaycee K. Clark
Send us a text Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their support, highlighting the new fan mail option before welcoming Jaycee K. Clark, a 34-year-old trans woman, to share her experience, strength, and hope, along with her inspiration for activism today. Jaycee discusses her past struggles with addiction, her experiences in sex work, and her journey to sobriety. She emphasizes the importance of building connections, overcoming shame, and transforming past traumas into a source of hope and activism. Jaycee also talks about her experiences navigating healthcare and dental work as a recovering addict, offering valuable advice for newcomers on the impermanence of emotions. - **Celebrating Sobriety:** Steve marks 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their engagement. - **Listener Impact:** Nick made history as my first text fan mail! - **Jaycee's Story:** Her journey from addiction to recovery and activism. - **Overcoming Shame:** Turning past traumas into hope and activism. - **Navigating Healthcare:** Insights into managing healthcare as a recovering addict. - **Advice for Newcomers:** The importance of understanding that emotions are temporary. **Where to Find Us:** - Jaycee on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ PHOTOGRAPHER CREDIT: Ismael Rodriguez www.ismaelphoto.com @el_ismaelrodriguez Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S2 E24 · Thu, August 01, 2024
The Sober Unicorn ft. Holden
Send us a text In this episode, Sober Steve welcomes Holden, host of The Sober Unicorn podcast and author of 'Hold'N It Down'. Holden shares his journey from addiction to recovery, the impact of his memoir, and the growth he's experienced. They discuss the importance of connection in sobriety and offer advice for those new to recovery. Don't forget to leave a five-star review to help others find this podcast! **Where to Find Us:** - Holden on Instagram 🟢 - Holding It Down- Free with Kindle Unlimited! - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E23 · Thu, July 25, 2024
Day Counting in Early Recovery ft. Drake
Send us a text In this episode of the 'gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show,' Sober Steve interviews Drake G, who shares his remarkable journey of early sobriety and his transformative experiences within the queer and recovery communities. Drake discusses his past struggles with addiction, mental health, and his path to recovery, emphasizing the importance of community and support in his newfound sobriety. 00:00 Updates and Gratitude 01:53 Meet Drake: Early Sobriety Journey 03:42 Drake's Struggles with Addiction 09:48 Turning Point and Recovery 13:12 Life After Rehab 18:51 Future Plans and Final Thoughts **Where to Find Us:** - Drake on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E22 · Thu, July 18, 2024
Forgiveness and Feeling At Home ft. Ginelle
Send us a text Home in Sobriety: An Interview with Ginelle Testa In this episode of the Queer Sober Hero Show, host Steve interviews Ginellle Testa from Boston, who has been sober for over ten years. They discuss their sobriety journey, the importance of community, and Ginelle's upcoming recovery addiction memoir, Make a Home Out of You. 00:00 Fitness and Sobriety Journey 02:52 Interview with Ginelle Begins 03:22 Ginelle's Road to Recovery 08:10 Challenges and Growth in Sobriety 14:27 Writing and Forgiveness 19:05 Future Aspirations and Community 21:30 Conclusion and Farewell **Where to Find Us:** - Ginelle on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E21 · Thu, July 11, 2024
Mailbag Part 2: Sober Lessons over 200 Episodes!
Send us a text In this 201st episode of the Queer Sober Hero Show, host Sober Steve celebrates over 1,132 days of sobriety by answering questions from influential guests who’ve been significant to his podcast and recovery journey. This second part of the 200th episode mailbag extravaganza features Steve reflecting on his transformation, the ongoing battle with alcohol-related thoughts, and the joys of living a sober, authentic life while addressing key questions and providing insights on sobriety and community. Celebrate by binging past episodes by the amazing guests who asked this week's questions! Charlie's Episodes: #23 At Least I'm Not The Frog #81 Listen To Yourself #116 The Frog's Bottle #135 Sexuality #180 The Frog No More Christina Hayes Scott: #194- Unraveling Recovery Jason R: #125 Give It Your All #168 Sex in Recovery Eric from Sobervation: #67 Not Afraid #191 Sobervation Alex S #77 You're Not Struggling Alone #192 Journaling and Community Brandy Jo #53 You Get Better #83 Discovering Your Identity #104 Marriage Support the show
S2 E20 · Thu, July 04, 2024
Celebrating 200 Episodes - Mailbag #1
Send us a text In this milestone episode, host Sober Steve celebrates 200 episodes with a special mailbag Q&A featuring questions from some of our amazing previous guests. Celebrate by binging past episodes by the amazing guests who asked this week's questions! Phil's Episodes: #172- A Change in Perspective #143- It’s How You Carry It Elsa's Episodes: #163 Managing Career in Sobriety #33 One Day at a Time Jimmy's Episodes: #159 Don’t Take Yourself So Seriously J9's Episodes: #184- Creating with ADHD #140- Making Music #64 Just Start, Don't Stop Dave from Sober Gay Sunday's Episodes: #160: Sober Gay Sunday #97: Sober Travel #87: Dating Sober #88: Sex and Communication #70: I Don't Do That Anymore Danielle's Episodes: #155 Sobriety & Recovery #121 Fearless & Thorough Also mentioned- Steve's Storyteller Sunday at Church: #183 Finding My Way Back To God Thank you all for listening! If you liked it, tell a friend! If you loved it, send a text using the link above. If you really loved it, leave a review! Stay sober Support the show
S2 E19 · Thu, June 27, 2024
Living Authentic, Sober, and Queer ft. Sam (#199)
Send us a text Sober Steve celebrates 1,123 days of sobriety by reflecting on a recent pride experience and the value of friendships. He welcomes guest Sam to discuss the journey of overcoming alcoholism and drug addiction, sharing candid stories about choosing sobriety over harmful habits. They delve into the challenges and joys of living authentically in the queer community, redefining personal truths, and cultivating genuine friendships. Key topics include recovery steps, embracing one's true self, dealing with societal expectations, and forming supportive relationships in sobriety. The episode emphasizes acceptance, continuous self-improvement, and the importance of living an authentic life. 00:36 Introduction and Gratitude 04:54 Interview with Sam Begins 10:31 Sam's Journey to Sobriety 22:41 Living Authentically in Sobriety **Where to Find Us:** - Sam on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Support the show
S2 E18 · Thu, June 20, 2024
Coping with Trauma and PTSD in Sobriety ft. Johnny Bear (#198)
Send us a text Sober Steve Chats with Johnny Bear from Belly Talk on sobriety and bear community wellness Sober Steve celebrates his 1,117 days sober by sharing his gratitude for the supportive Sarasota community and exciting Pride Month activities. He then interviews Johnny Bear from the Belly Talk podcast, who opens up about his tumultuous journey through addiction, self-discovery, and eventual sobriety. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of remaining sober while being active in social and bear communities, and share advice on building a support network, seeking help, and maintaining daily sobriety practices. Johnny also highlights the importance of authenticity, community support, and promoting wellness within the bear culture. Full of personal insights and inspirational stories, this episode offers encouragement and practical tips for anyone navigating their path to sobriety. 00:00 Introduction and Gratitude 00:50 Interview with Johnny Bear 01:49 Johnny's Journey to Sobriety 04:38 Challenges and Turning Points 12:31 Finding Community and Self-Discovery 16:31 Overcoming Abuse and Seeking Help 21:51 Rebuilding Life and Embracing Sobriety 26:01 Maintaining Sobriety and Community Engagement 31:22 Conclusion and Contact Information **Where to Find Us:** - Johnny Bear on Instagram 🟢 - Johnny Bear on Belly Talk 🖇️ - Johnny Bear’s Blog! - The Belly Club Facebook Group 🖇️ - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E17 · Thu, June 13, 2024
Trials, Tribulations, and Triumphs ft. Richard A (#197)
Send us a text Sober Steve welcomes Richard to share his experience, strength, and hope with getting sober in the queer community, as well as their philosophy of the 3 T's of Sobriety Topics include Facing Trials Overcoming Tribulations Celebrating Trumphs Discovering Self-Confidence Evolving in Recovery And much more **Where to Find Us:** - Richard on Instagram 🟢 - Richard on Facebook 🖇️ - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E17 · Thu, June 06, 2024
Swift Steps ft. Jewels & Emily (#196)
Send us a text Sober Steve welcomes Jewels and Emily from Swift Steps to discuss their experience navigating sobriety and building a recovery community centered around being a fan of Taylor Swift. (Get it, now?) Topics include Finding A Community Building A Community Redefining Recovery Identifying Addictions in Art/Music Mental Health in Recovery And much more **Where to Find Us:** - The Swift Steps on Instagram 🟢 - The Swift Steps Website 🖇️ - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E16 · Thu, May 30, 2024
LGBTQ Mindfulness: Alex on Mindset Tips & Being Around Drinkers (#195)
Send us a text Sober Steve welcomes Alex from LGBTQ Mindfulness to discuss their experience navigating sobriety in the queer community while living a mindful life. Topics include Mindset Tips Finding A Community Building A Community Being Around Alcohol Being Around Drinkers Daily Care Practices And much more **Where to Find Us:** - Alex on Instagram 🟢 - Alex's Site 🖇️ - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E16 · Mon, May 27, 2024
What Does Diversity Mean To You? Diversefest 2024 Bonus
Send us a text Earlier this month, Steve had the opportunity to ask his local community, "What Does Diversity Mean to You?" Find out what it means to the people of Sarasota, live from Diversefest at The Harvest Church on 17th Street. Enjoy the bonus episode, and until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E15 · Thu, May 23, 2024
Unraveling Recovery ft. Christina Hayes Scott (#194)
Send us a text Sober Steve welcomes Christina Hayes Scott to discuss the significance of sobriety and holistic recovery. Topics include Recognizing burnout Emotional regulation Facing challenges like breakups and health scares, Exploring the 12-step program and cross addictions like overeating. Christina shares her personal journey to sobriety, emphasizing the transformative power it holds in dealing with emotions and progressing in life. Both Sober Steve and Christina stress the importance of holistic recovery by addressing underlying issues for a successful sobriety path, alongside promoting nature connection and positive social media presence for support and inspiration. **Where to Find Us:** - Christina on Facebook! - Christina on Instagram 🟢 - Christina's Site - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E14 · Tue, May 21, 2024
Winding Down from Florida Roundup '24 (#193)
Send us a text Steve shares a bonus audio diary episode about his experiences at this years Florida Roundup, with takeaways such as... What the heck is a roundup? Not letting travel difficulties impact the experience at your destination. Overcoming social insecurities like judgement and rejection. The positive experiences from workshop and social events on site. Adventuring out for firsts and letting go of "I can't"s Stay tuned for our usual episode Thursday! Want to hear more, check out Instagram- Live on release day or saved afterwards @gayapodcast Leave a review if you like the podcast- even just a little- it's free and would make me the happiest sober queer podcast host in the whole wide world! Support the show
S2 E13 · Thu, May 16, 2024
Journaling and Community in Sobriety ft. Alex S (#192)
Send us a text Sober Steve is joined by Alex Sphon to discuss recovering out loud in his community as well as tips and advice for anyone who is sober or sober curious. **Episode Highlights Include** - **The Role of Journaling in Recovery:** Alex shares how his journaling has helped him from the beginning of his sobriety journey and continues today. - **You Say I'm an Alcoholic Like It's A Bad Thing:** Alex shares how recovery out loud has changed his perception and sense of community over the years. - **Friendships in Recovery** Many people worry about how sobriety changes their friendships and relationships, so Alex and Steve reflect back on how those has changed over the years since getting sober. - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - Alex on Facebook! - Alex on Instagram 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E12 · Thu, May 09, 2024
Sobervation: Sober Motivation featuring Eric (#191)
Send us a text Sober Steve is joined by Eric from Sobervation to discuss recovering out loud, starting businesses sober, and staying motivated. **Episode Highlights Include** - **The Role of Fitness in Recovery:** Eric shares on how his weight loss journey and sobriety journey have continued since his last episode two years ago. 💪 - **Building a Business:** Eric shares how Sobervation was created, as well as how it’s helped his sobriety. 👕👚 - **Humor in Recovery** How humor has helped us both stay sober, and how not to take yourself seriously. - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - Sobervation Store 🏣 - Eric’s IG 🟢 - Sobervation’s IG 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E12 · Thu, May 02, 2024
No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)
Send us a text Sober Steve is joined by James Sweasy to share his experience, strength, and hope on navigating sobriety while helping others through their own journeys. **Episode Highlights Include** - **Identify, Don't Compare:** How focusing on our similarities rather than our differences helps keep us connected and sober! - **Finding Value in Sobriety:** You need to value your sobriety to recovery as a whole person and keep an open mind! - **Finding Value in Yourself:** James shares just how much he went through and how he came out the other side believing in his own value. - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - James Sweasy's Website - James on Facebook - James on IG 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E11 · Thu, April 25, 2024
Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)
Send us a text Sober Steve is joined by Joey Bachrach from Rainbow Hill Recovery to peel back the curtain and discuss what it’s like working in recovery with his husband, Andrew Fox. **Episode Highlights Include** - **The Role of Community in Recovery:** Insights from my visit to Rainbow Hill Recovery and how my sober community helped me get through my insecurities in Los Angeles. 🤲 - **Building Professional Fulfillment:** Joey discusses the growth and success of Rainbow Hill now being DHCS certified and their dedication to making recovery accessible to EVERYONE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ - **Joey’s Sober Heroes:** Honoring individuals like Manny Rodriguez, whose authenticity helped pave the way for Joey and others in the recovery community. 🦸♂️ - **Navigating Relationships At Work and At Home:** Exploring the delicate dynamics of relationships after addiction, emphasizing routine, communication, and mutual growth.🏣🏡 - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣 - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡 - Totally Sober 🔴 - Joey’s IG 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Support the show
S2 E10 · Wed, April 17, 2024
Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)
Send us a text In this episode, Sober Steve chats with our special guest, Andy, who bravely opens up about his journey to sobriety through grief and ADHD. Andy shares his struggles with alcohol, how he found his place within the queer community, and built a network of sober friends. Andy shares his challenges of traveling while sober, and the positive shifts in lifestyle that come with sobriety. You don't want to miss Andy's inspiring story and the valuable insights shared in this episode. Steve then dives into the correlation between ADHD and addiction with some facts and stats that may surprise you! Do you have an ADHD diagnosis already? Or might you have ADHD and have not been diagnosed yet? If you are in recovery, your chances of this affecting you are higher than you might think! Connect with Andy on IG @andyalsop Connect with Steve everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve@SoberSteve.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Source for ADHD Mentions: https://www.addictions.com/blog/adhd-in-addiction-recovery-and-how-it-affects-people/ Support the show
S2 E9 · Thu, April 11, 2024
Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B
Send us a text Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we delve into the inspiring story of Brian Belovitch, author of Transfigured. He is a resilient individual who has navigated through societal pressures, personal struggles, and the challenges of identity and sobriety. Brian also has the unique experience of transitioning from male to female in his youth, and then a transition back to male in sobriety. Join host Steve as he sits down with Brian to explore his transformation, his experiences and insights on sobriety, and his mission to carry a powerful message within the queer community. Together, they discuss navigating the complexities of reclaiming one's identity, the importance of asking for help, and the significance of embracing change. Get ready for a raw and empowering conversation you won't want to miss! Check out Brian's book, Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man, here: https://a.co/d/dEB7DrC Connect with Brian online: https://www.facebook.com/brian.belovitch1 Connect with Steve and the podcast online everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve at steve@sobersteve.com Want more content? Head over to Patreon for bonus episodes and early releases at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the show
S2 E8 · Thu, April 04, 2024
Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V
Send us a text Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we dive into the inspiring journey of our guest, Christopher, a fragrance and skin care developer and fashion designer. He shares his experiences with sobriety, the challenges he faced, and the resilience he developed. From creating his own line of fragrances to navigating personal struggles, Christopher's story is one of strength and determination. Our host, Steve, also discusses his own sobriety journey and the impact of joining a kickball league on his perception of team sports. Plus, we'll explore the importance of community support and the evolving perspectives on sobriety. Check out Bloke NYC at www.blokenyc.com and find Christopher at https://www.facebook.com/chris.valiante Engage with Steve on the socials @gayapodcast, email him at steve@sobersteve.com or add him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/steven.bennet.90/ Enjoy exclusive content and early access at over at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the show
S2 E7 · Thu, March 28, 2024
Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work
Send us a text Welcome back to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, where we celebrate sobriety, resilience, and creativity. In today's episode, our host, Sober Steve, shares his personal journey of sobriety, reflecting on 1026 days of continuous sobriety and the approval of his workshop on overcoming shame and trauma in the context of sex and recovery for the Florida roundup. We then dive into a captivating interview with the talented Leo S., who shares his 35-year sobriety journey intertwined with a successful music career and struggles with alcohol dependency and anxiety. Leo's story explores the themes of personal growth, artistic perseverance, and the power of giving back to the community. From navigating uncomfortable conversations about race in creative work to the challenges of forgiveness and compassion in sobriety, Leo's wisdom and experience provide invaluable insights. So sit back and get ready for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Leo S. on gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show. Want to connect with Leo? Visit https://leoschwartz.com/ or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/leo.schwartz.1 Connect with Steve and the podcast everywhere @gayapodcast or by email at steve@sobersteve.com Want more gAy A content? Join our Patreon community and unlock bonus episodes and early access! www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the show
S2 E6 · Thu, March 21, 2024
Skating, Self Love, ADHD, and Making Music in Sobriety ft. Chad and J9 #184
Send us a text Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today we have two stories that both touch on unique experiences, but share receiving an ADHD diagnosis in sobriety. We're joined by Chad C from Vancouver, who shares his 23-year journey through sobriety, competitive figure skating, and the unexpected challenges life throws our way. His story, filled with gratitude for life's gifts including marriage and travel, offers a raw and inspiring look at overcoming obstacles and the importance of supportive networks. The conversation takes a deeper look at the intersection of recovery and maintaining physical fitness, an often-overlooked aspect of the sober life. Through my own struggles and triumphs, we address the complexities of eating disorders, particularly in the high-pressure world of competitive sports, and how these experiences shape our paths toward healthy living. We also touch on the intricacies of recovery, which demand more than just exercise and nutrition, reminding us that self-compassion and accountability are crucial for sustained sobriety. Moreover, the episode underscores the broader impact of personal recovery on relationships and responsibilities, urging us to stay alert to the dangers of an all-or-nothing approach in our ongoing quest for growth. Wrapping up, we celebrate the milestones of our guest J9, who shares the latest twists in their life's journey, including a fresh single, Pleasure and Pain, amidst the backdrop of sobriety and an ADHD diagnosis. Unpacking the nuances of emotional regulation and daily management of ADHD, we offer insights and strategies that resonate with many who navigate similar challenges. Thanks for listening! Find Chad Online: Chad Conley on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/chadlconley and Instagram @chad_c78 Find J9's New Song, Pleasure and Pain Streaming: bit.ly/PleasureAndPain-stream Follow J9 on all the socials @J9grooves Support the show
S2 E5 · Sun, March 17, 2024
Finding My Way Back to God ft. Steve #183
Send us a text In this bonus episode of gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, host Sober Steve shares his powerful and personal story told at his church's storyteller Sunday. From his childhood in Erie, Pennsylvania to his struggles with sobriety and finding his way back to God, Steve takes us on a raw and emotional journey. He talks about the impact of being "othered" and how it affected his sense of self-worth, his faith journey, and ultimately led to his battle with alcohol. Steve discusses his path to sobriety, the inception of his podcast, and his evolution into a life coach. His story is a testament to the power of community, self-discovery, and redefining happiness. Join us as we delve into Steve's journey of healing, rediscovery, and finding spiritual connection in unexpected places. What did you think? Let me know at steve@sobersteve.com or on social media @gayapodcast Stay sober, my friends! Support the show
S2 E4 · Thu, March 14, 2024
Fitness and Sobriety: JP and Tim's Journeys towards Health & Happiness
Send us a text Super Soberheroes, welcome to a new episode of gAy A, where my listeners and I open up about our personal stories and share our journeys of addiction and recovery in the queer community. In this episode, we'll be diving into Tim T.'s powerful story of battling addiction, hitting rock bottom, and finding his way to sobriety. We'll also hear from JP, who shares his own struggles with alcohol and the positive changes he’s made in his life since embracing sobriety. Both guests reflect on the impact of physical fitness in their recovery, and the power of mindset and positivity in their daily lives. Join host Steve as he leads this candid and inspiring conversation about addiction, recovery, and the journey towards a healthier, happier life. Follow JP online at: @jp_granger Follow Tim at: @ttully528 and Tim Tully on Facebook Follow us @gayapodcast or visit linktr.ee/gayapodcast for all the links! Support the show
S2 E3 · Thu, March 07, 2024
From Porn Star to PhD ft. Jim G
Send us a text Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today's episode features the remarkable Jim G, sharing his experience, strength, and hope with over four decades of sobriety. Steve's Gratitude: Engaging with Also Youth, a haven for Queer youth, sharing my experiences in leadership with the next generation of fabulousness! Sharing my story at Harvest, my church, during Storyteller Sunday, exploring unexpected journeys in leadership and faith. Jim's Interview: Introduction to Drinking Exploration of Early Drinking Experience Initial Experiences in the LGBTQ+ Community Involvement in Sex Work and Pornography Turning Point: (Content Warning) Being raped while intoxicated Transformation and Acceptance Separating Sex from Alcohol and Drugs Show and Tell with Jim's Chip and 2nd Edition Big Book Sex work during the AIDS epidemic Jim's beliefs on spirituality and destiny in favor of traditional religious views Embracing our self-worth and authenticity And much more! Friend Jim on Facebook @ James-John Salvatore Gigliello or on Instagram @dr_gruff_daddy Follow us everywhere @gayapodcast and join our Patreon community for exclusive post show and uncut content! Support the show
S2 E2 · Thu, February 29, 2024
The Frog No More ft. Charlie Gray #180
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast and best selling quit-lit author, Charlie Gray, to discuss how creating, publishing, and marketing his "Charlie and The Frog" trilogy impacted his sobriety. Topics discussed include: What are you grateful for today? Charlie's "zany" journey to sobriety. Picking up the pen the first time Turning a book into a trilogy How the creative process changed Charlie's life. How the publishing and marketing process impacted him. What would a “Lost Chapter” to one of the books look like? How has life changed since the trilogy? Turning addictions and struggles into metaphor with The Phantom Maverick. What’s to come on Charlie's Heroes Journey A huge thank you to Charlie Gray for sharing his journey and insights with us today. You can find his books, including "At Least I’m Not The Frog," "The Frog’s Bottle," "The Frog No More," and his latest release, "The Phantom Maverick," wherever books are sold, including here: At Least I'm Not The Frog: https://a.co/d/gcCMy36 The Frog's Bottle: https://a.co/d/6Su5zfF The Frog No More: https://a.co/d/gBZeoRk The Phantom Maverick: https://a.co/d/dt1ZpIc Follow Charlie on Instagram at @hismajestycharles3rd and us wherever you social @gayapodcast , and e-mail me to get involved at steve@sobersteve.com Support the show
S2 E1 · Thu, February 22, 2024
1000 Days Sober: My Soberhero Origin Story
Send us a text 1,000 days sober – a milestone that's more than just a number; it's an accomplishment that takes resilience, community, and the power of embracing my authenticity! Join me on this episode as I dive deep into the highs and lows of my journey from addiction to recovery, shedding light on the peaks and valleys along the way, the lessons I've learned, and my hopes for what is to come. 🌈 Reflecting on a Queer Childhood: Unveiling the struggles and triumphs of growing up queer and experiencing emotional and sexual traumas, as well as a scarcity mindset. Exploring the deceptive allure of alcohol and its impact on my early years How my life became unmanageable, and how I found beauty in more than one solution. How my limited beliefs came back in my sobriety and almost led to a relapse, and the lessons learned from that experience. Highlighting the journey from seeking validation externally to finding empowerment through life coaching and meaningful connections Join the conversation by emailing steve@sobersteve.com and become part of our community by becoming a guest, submitting clips, or sharing any of your gifts with the listeners. Support the show
S1 E178 · Thu, February 15, 2024
Swiping Sober: Navigating Love on Queer Dating Apps #178
Send us a text This week Sober Steve, the Podcast Guy, dives into the world of dating apps for sober people in the queer community, and experiences across the different platforms and stages of our addiction and recovery. As I approach a monumental sobriety milestone, gratitude practices deepen my connections beyond the sober community with heartwarming responses from friends. Then, things get even more personal as I bring my husband on to share our experience meeting on not one but two apps and how that has evolved into our marriage today. Guest Gabriel, Danielle, and Mark share insights from their experiences on Facebook Messenger, Grindr, Tinder, Her, and more, emphasizing honesty and positive feedback on sobriety disclosure. We discuss the importance of personal boundaries and self-awareness in sober dating, stressing honesty for genuine connections and balancing relationships with spiritual well-being. Follow our guests on Instagram- @heymarko8, @dc_and_rosey, and @the.archangelgabriel - and follow us wherever you social @gayapodcast! Check out our new website at https://sobersteve.com/gayapodcast and email me anytime at steve@sobersteve.com Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E177 · Thu, February 08, 2024
Sober Apps: Navigating Sobriety in 2024 #177
Send us a text Hey there, super soberheroes! Today's episode is all about exploring the world of sober apps in 2024. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the best sober apps for tracking and motivation to supercharge your recovery journey. Connect with a supportive sober community and access online resources for continuous motivation and encouragement. Explore apps that prioritize queer and sober inclusion, fostering a safe and empowering environment for everyone. Dive into literature-driven apps for recovery resources, unlocking a wealth of knowledge and inspiration. Access online platforms offering many sobriety resources, making it easier to find the support and guidance you need. Explore inclusive apps for sobriety Inclusivity within sobriety applications is highly commendable, as they cater to diverse audiences such as the queer and sober community. These inclusive platforms understand unique struggles and offer tailored resources, advice, and support. By reaching out to individuals from all walks of life, they foster a sense of belonging, significantly enhancing recovery. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Email Steve at Steve@sobersteve.com to share your inspiring stories or motivating tales about good experiences with sober dating on apps. Follow Steve on social media @Gayapodcast to stay updated and get involved with the show. Check out the Patreon page for more exclusive content, including full interview clips and behind-the-scenes access. Find the "Everyday AA" and "Big Book Companion" apps in the Apple store for a resourceful tool to track sobriety milestones, access the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, and read daily reflections. Explore the "All Sober" app for a warm, safe space to connect with resources and a supportive community for Better Sobriety. Guests Featured Include: Danielle @dc_and_rosey Mark @heymarko8 Shane @rhythmcafeheflin Cori @_coritee4_ Submit your experiences on Sober Dating apps for the chance to be featured next week. Email them to steve@sobersteve.com or message me on all the socials @gayapodcast to talk more! Support the show
S1 E176 · Thu, February 01, 2024
Out of the Podcast Booth & Into the Spotlight: Taking My Sober Message Live
Send us a text Discover the unexpected journey of a queer podcaster's transformative experiences in sobriety, leading to the launch of a groundbreaking 2.0 version of their podcast. This emotional narrative takes you through the highs and lows of Steve's personal growth, as he unveils the concept of "sober superheroes." Stay tuned for the open loop of how this journey will empower and inspire the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, you will be able to: Reflecting on Queer Sobriety: Discovering profound insights and inspiration for your own journey. Embracing Transformative Sobriety: Unveiling life-altering experiences and growth through sobriety. Open-Mindedness in Sobriety: Embracing new experiences and perspectives for personal transformation. Milestones in Sobriety: Celebrating achievements and the power of Patreon support in your journey. Give Sober App Recommendations: Unlocking the potential of sobriety with the latest app and technology insights is next week's topic, so get involved today! Reach out today however you'd like https://linktr.ee/gayapodcast The resources mentioned in this episode are: Join the Patreon community at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast to access exclusive bonus episodes and support the podcast with a small donation. Wish Danielle a happy four years on Instagram @dc_and_rosey and show support for her inspiring journey. Stay tuned for the relaunch of the Sober Superhero Show on Thursday, February 22, and subscribe or follow on all platforms to catch the new episodes. Share your favorite sober technology and apps for a chance to be featured in the upcoming episode about sober technology. Follow the podcast on all platforms to access 175 episodes of content from amazing queer and sober individuals, and get ready for the new content coming soon. Support the show
S1 E175 · Thu, January 25, 2024
Self Care Routines ft. Steve and Kristen
Send us a text Steve celebrates episode 175 by welcoming back his sober sibling, Kristen R, to discuss self care routines! Topics discussed include: Our concepts and resentments about self-care before sobriety The important of routine in early sobriety Embracing new ideas and forms of self-care How much self-care is too much The perfect day And much more! Follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast or on Facebook for more updates, and check out the Patreon page for our weekly Post Show and other exclusive content! Support the show
S1 E174 · Thu, January 18, 2024
Putting Down the Sword ft. Kevin
Send us a text Steve welcomes Kevin to share his experience, strength, and hope while celebrating living a queer and sober life today. Topics discussed include: Kevin's favorite parts of life today Entering recovery 'young' Struggling with negative self talk The impact of family and culture Being kind to yourself Putting down the sword And much more! Follow Kevin on Instagram @kev.chiang , and follow us too @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear our post-show where we will chat about Gratitude! Support the show
S1 E173 · Thu, January 11, 2024
Sober Magik ft. Dallas
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Dallas, to discuss how integrating Magik and practices like Akashic Records has helped enrich and enhance Dallas' recovery and his abilities to help others. Topics Covered Included: Our relationships with magic and religion growing up How drugs and alcohol affected Dallas' connection to spirituality His experiences connecting with Magik and using it to help people in recovery How Akashic Records can help understand your history and roadmap to your present and into your future. And much more! For more Dallas, follow them on IG @drdallasbragg - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show on our Patreon page, where we'll discuss Dallas' sexual transmutation challenge attempt at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E172 · Thu, January 04, 2024
A Change in Perspective ft Phil #172
Send us a text Steve welcomes back a friend of the podcast, Phil, to discuss the change(s) in perspective that comes to us in recovery, along with what it's like navigating life queer and sober today. Topics Covered Included: Our favorite parts of being queer and sober today Our perspectives growing up How alcohol and drugs affected our perspectives Moments of clarity that shift our perspective How our perspective has evolved in our recovery Looking ahead while living in the moment And much more! For more Phil, find him on Facebook at Phil Brunke, and for more us, follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast. But if you Facebook friended me, I'll accept, too :-) Check out our Post-Show on our Patreon page- www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the show
S1 E171 · Thu, December 28, 2023
Bossing ft. Frank
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Frank, to discuss how our careers evolved in our recovery to eventually becoming our own bosses. Topics Covered Included: The work ethic we were raised with and our first jobs How alcohol and drugs affected our work through our teens and early 20s The shift from 'job' to 'career' and how alcohol and drugs affected our performance and mindset. Getting sober at work- 'downsizing' our jobs for the sake of our recovery Realizing the 'now' when it was time for us to spread our wings How Frank's journey has gone since then And much more! For more Frank, follow them on IG @manyourstyle - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show on our Patreon page- www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E170 · Thu, December 21, 2023
Sober Holidays ft. Jimmy C
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jimmy back to celebrate the holidays by looking back on what the seasons have meant to us throughout our lives into today, as we are celebrating sober! Topics discussed include: Our holidays growing up How our holidays changed with alcohol and drugs What our first holidays were like sober. How our recovery has changed the way we see and feel about holidays 'Tips' for managing the holidays sober And much more! Follow Jimmy @jcorn104 on IG, and follow us @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear Jimmy and Steve talk about what life was like in our 20s! Support the show
S1 E169 · Thu, December 14, 2023
Enough is Enough ft. Ben
Send us a text Steve welcomes his GSM bestie Ben to share his experience, strength, and hope while celebrating living a queer and sober life today. Topics discussed include: Ben's favorite parts of life today Entering recovery 'young' Struggling with ego Challenging yourself in recovery Learning more about your sexuality in recovery The differences between the first few years Participating in #TranSanta And much more! Listening in December '23? Donate to Transanta - learn more here: https://www.transanta.com/ or on IG @transanta Follow Ben @beneis1 on IG, and follow us too @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear our post-show and more exclusive content, and give Steve the greatest holiday gift of all: a 5-star review on whatever podcast platform you are using right now! Support the show
S1 E168 · Thu, December 07, 2023
Sex in Recovery ft. Jason R #168
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jason back to reflect on how our sex lives and the ways we look at sex have evolved in our recovery. Topics discussed include: Catching up with Jason How did sex, drugs, and alcohol affect one another in our addiction What was sex like in early recovery What sex is like for us today The power of communication with sex Putting aside shame And much more! Follow Jason @rudabega82 on IG, and follow us too @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear what is basically "gAy A After Dark" this week as we dive even deeper and harder into the topic of fabulous sex in sobriety! Support the show
S1 E167 · Thu, November 30, 2023
Stinking Thinking ft. Mark
Send us a text Steve welcomes Mark back to celebrate 18 years of recovery while chatting about overcoming negative thoughts and actions many of us refer to as 'stinking thinking!' Topics discussed include: Mark's favorite parts of being queer and sober right now. Best ways to handle life's challenges What happens to our thinking when we aren't doing 'the work' Mark's E-Bay and Steve's Amazon bad habits Acting out sexually, in person or online How to self-correct when you find yourself off course The power of sharing your struggles with someone else And much more! Follow Mark @heymarko8 on IG, and follow us too @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear Mark and Steve talk about what life was like in our 20s! Support the show
S1 E166 · Thu, November 23, 2023
Not a Glum Lot ft. Cintia
Send us a text Steve welcomes Cintia to share her experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Cintia on Instagram @cintia0129 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E165 · Thu, November 16, 2023
Gratitude ft. Savanna
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Savanna to discuss finding gratitude in all things while living life queer and sober. Follow Savanna @savannadanna on IG and @lucci_mamas on Tik-Tok, and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast. Head on over to the Patreon page to hear Savanna and Steve talk about Sexuality in sobriety! Support the show
S1 E164 · Thu, November 09, 2023
Higher Power Stuff ft. Kristen
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Kristen to discuss navigating their relationship with their Higher Power through their step work and in their lives today. Topics discussed include: Grasping a Higher Power as queer individuals Our experiences going through the first few steps Living in the 11th Step Explaining Higher Power 'stuff' to people not in recovery And much more! Follow us online at @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear Kristen and Steve spin the Topic Wheel! Support the show
S1 E163 · Thu, November 02, 2023
Managing Your Career in Sobriety ft. Elsa #163
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Elsa to discuss navigating your career in recovery, along with our favorite parts of being queer and sober today! Topics discussed include: What it was like for Elsa working in the alcohol industry while getting sober. How career changes can impact your recovery. The formula for having a 'good day' at work. How to cope with having a 'bad day' at work. How do you plan ahead in your life while also living one day at a time? Steve finally breaks his silence on the NA debate as Elsa and Steve talk about non-alcoholic 'spirits' And much more! Follow Elsa @elsasolorapp on IG and Tik-Tok, and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast. Head on over to the Patreon page to hear Elsa and Steve talk about Sexuality in sobriety! Support the show
S1 E162 · Thu, October 26, 2023
The Gift of Desperation ft. Dick G
Send us a text Steve welcomes Dick to share his experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Dick on Instagram @mercuryrising63 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. He is also on Facebook as Dick Gunstone (from Canada) and you'll catch him in the Gay & Sober Men's Facebook Group! If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E161 · Thu, October 19, 2023
Sober Superhero ft. Thomas
Send us a text Steve welcomes Thomas to share his experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community and how Gay and Sober changed his life. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Thomas on Instagram @thomas_andreww and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. He is also on Facebook as Thomas Gronert. If you are listening on release week and near Florida, come see us at Orlando Pride this Saturday, October 21. More info here: https://comeoutwithpride.org/ If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E160 · Thu, October 12, 2023
Sober Gay Sunday ft. Dave #160
Send us a text Steve welcomes back one of his most popular guests, Dave, to discuss embracing and creating a sober community. Topics covered include: Connecting with a sober queer community, in real life or virtual. Creating events and a community, whether you are near a big city or the middle of nowhere. How Sober Gay Sunday started and became one of Boston's hottest social groups. How Sober Gay Sunday turned into a podcast, and how podcast has affected both of our recovery journeys. And much more! Check out our Patreon page for our Post-Show, now featuring video and the Topic Wheel and follow us wherever you are listening to get new episodes every Thursday! Listen to Sober Gay Sundays wherever you find this podcast! Follow Dave at @gymdave85 and @sobergaysunday, and us @gayapodast on all the socials! Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E159 · Thu, October 05, 2023
Don't Take Yourself So Seriously ft. Jimmy A #159
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jimmy to share his experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Jimmy on Instagram @himynameisrecovery and @ sobrietykween (and @jimmyarmstrongrealestate) and us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. You can also check out his podcast, Hi, My Name is Recovery, wherever you find us! If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E158 · Thu, September 28, 2023
You Won't Always Feel Like This ft. Roger
Send us a text Steve welcomes Roger to share his experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Roger on Facebook at Roger Harrison and follow us on Facebook and Instagram while you are at it @gAyApodcast. You can also check out his website, https://waystosobriety.com/ If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E157 · Thu, September 21, 2023
I Didn't Listen ft. Jeff
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jeff to share his experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober and paying it forward to the queer and sober community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for an extended uncut version of Jeff's interview! Find us on Instagram @gAyApodcast. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E156 · Thu, September 14, 2023
90 Days Sober ft. Mrs. Chan-Charley
Send us a text Steve welcomes Mrs. Chan-Charley to share her experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Mrs. Chan-Charley on Instagram @black_ellen1 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E155 · Thu, September 07, 2023
Sobriety and Recovery ft. Danielle #155
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Danielle to discuss the differences between sobriety and recovery, and our journey through both in the queer community. Topics Discussed Include: Catching up with Danielle since our last episode Defining sobriety and our experiences being sober before starting our recovery journeys. Defining recovery and how that changed not just our sobriety, but our entire lives. Discussing how twelve step work worked for us, as well as other tools we use in our recovery. And much more! Check out our Patreon page for our Post-Show, now featuring video and the Topic Wheel and follow us wherever you are listening to get new episodes every Thursday! Follow Danielle at @dc_and_rosey on Instagram and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E154 · Thu, August 31, 2023
Smashed, Not Wasted ft. Sam T
Send us a text Steve welcomes Sam to share his experience, strength, and hope while they discuss living sober in the queer community. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Sam on Instagram @samthomas8186 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. He is also on Instagram @sam_thomas86 If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E153 · Thu, August 24, 2023
Acceptance is the Answer ft. Joshua
Send us a text Steve welcomes Joshua to share his experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Joshua on all the socials @joshuaatone and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E152 · Thu, August 17, 2023
Deeper Dating ft. Ken Page
Send us a text Steve welcomes Ken Page to share his experiences with Deeper Dating and the struggles queer and sober individuals face when it comes to finding love. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show where Ken and I discuss Sex and Dating, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Check out all the information on Ken at https://www.deeperdating.com/ Find Ken Page on all the socials @deeper.dating and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E151 · Thu, August 10, 2023
Negativity Be Gone! ft. Bruce W. Brackett
Send us a text Steve welcomes Bruce W Brackett to share his experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Bruce on all the socials @bwb.positivity and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E150 · Thu, August 03, 2023
Celebrating 150 Episodes ft. Steve B
Send us a text Kristen interviews Steve as he reflects back on his first two years of recovery across 150 episodes of this podcast and what living queer and sober means to him today. Topics touched on include: Why reflect and be my own guest now? My journey through addiction and into recovery. How the podcast and my own recovery have both evolved. Learning there's more than one way to stay sober. How being 'fucked and insane' is a good thing once you accept it. The peace of bringing serenity to you rather than seeking it out. And much more! Support the show by joining our Patreon family, or e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com to say hi! Support the show
S1 E149 · Thu, July 27, 2023
Celebrating Sober ft. Savanna
Send us a text Steve welcomes back one of his sober besties, Savanna, to discuss learning to celebrate sober. Topics covered include: What celebrating looks like for us before recovery. How we got through our first year or so of celebrating firsts. What celebrating looks like to us today. Tips for celebrating and finding happiness in recovery And much more! Check out our Patreon page for our Post-Show, now featuring video and the Topic Wheel and follow us wherever you are listening to get new episodes every Thursday! Follow Savanna at @luccimamas and us @gayapodast on Tik-Tok and @savannadanna and @gayapodcast on Instagram. Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E148 · Thu, July 20, 2023
Overcoming Obstacles ft. Joey B
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Joey B from Rainbow Hill Recovery to discuss Overcoming Obstacles, as well as all the new exciting work he's been up to since our first episode. (He was on Episode 15 if you want to go back and check it out first!) Obstacles we discuss overcoming include: Learning to accept and love our sexuality Letting go of resents related to sexual abuse Coping with social anxiety Putting ourselves in dangerous situations Working with your partner/spouse And more, including the obstacles related to opening the amazing Rainbow Hill Sober Living AND Rainbow Hill Recovery! Check out all things Rainbow Hill below: Website- www.rainbowhillsoberliving.com and www.rainbowhillrecovery.com Facebook- search both Rainbow Hill Sober Living and Rainbow Hill Recovery by name Instagram- @joeybachrach, @rainbowhillsoberliving, @rainbowhillrecovery, and @biglittlebow Head on over to our Patreon page for a post-show where Joey and Steve discuss their favorite things! Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E147 · Thu, July 13, 2023
Triple Threat ft. James T. Lane
Send us a text Steve welcomes James T. Lane to share his experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. James is currently starring in a one-man autobiographical show - which he wrote - at THEATRE ROW called Triple Threat which chronicles (among other things) his struggle with addiction and journey towards sobriety. In his share he will touch on the 'triple threat' he's faced and overcomes daily being a "Black gay addict", and how there is a way through if you let others love you until you love yourself and show up. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find James on all the socials @triplethreat_show and @jamestlane and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also, check out his website for more information on Triple Threat and his other great work- https://www.jamestlane.com and www.triplethreatshow.com If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show Support the show
S1 E146 · Thu, July 06, 2023
Light of a Clear Blue Morning ft. Shane
Send us a text Steve welcomes Shane to share his experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Shane on all the socials @uncleshanerocks and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E145 · Thu, June 22, 2023
...Don't be an Ass Hat ft. Kole
Send us a text Steve welcomes Kole to share his experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Kole on all the socials @koletaylor57 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E144 · Thu, June 15, 2023
Love & Luck ft. Jaymes
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jaymes from Hot Apollo to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Jaymes on all the socials @hotapollo and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E143 · Thu, June 08, 2023
It's How You Carry It ft. Phil B #143
Send us a text Steve welcomes Phil to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Phil on Facebook at Phil Brunke and follow us while you are at it on all the socials @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E142 · Thu, June 01, 2023
Race in Recovery ft. The Blackyard Collective
Send us a text Steve welcomes Michael, Delano, and Chris from the Blackyard Collective on to discuss how their race affected their addictions and their experiences navigating recovery, along with building a community. To hear more check out our Patreon page for a free bonus episode to everyone and anyone that want's to check it out at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast To learn more about the Blackyard Collective, go to https://www.theblackyardcollectivenyc.org/ To follow them on their socials, @TheBlackyardCollectiveNYC , Chris is @cprgivesyoulife , Delano is theodorehuxtable, and Michael is MJ Crumpler on Facebook Support the show
S1 E141 · Thu, May 25, 2023
Sex in Recovery ft. Frank
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Frank, to discuss connecting with and embracing your sexuality in recovery. For more Frank, follow them on IG @manyourstyle - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us talk more about our steamier sexual encounters in recovery at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E140 · Thu, May 18, 2023
Making Music ft. J9 #140
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, J9, to discuss making music and connecting with your creative side in recovery. For more J9, follow them on IG @j9grooves - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us talk about how making friends and connections in recovery at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E139 · Thu, May 11, 2023
Discovering Your Identity ft. Michael
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Michael Sargood, to discuss discovering and embracing your true identity in recovery. For more Michael, follow him on IG @happywithoutthehooch - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us talk about how his ADHD diagnosis affects his recovery at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E138 · Thu, May 04, 2023
Overcoming Ruts ft. Jo
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Jo Walduck, to discuss navigating life's challenges and overcoming ruts in your recovery while staying sober. For more Jo, follow her on IG @jowalkduck - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us talk about the harms of diet culture at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E137 · Thu, April 27, 2023
Sober But Stuck ft. Kristen
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Kristen, to discuss feeling sober but stuck, and how we overcome ruts in recovery. Follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us get to know Dusty better at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E136 · Thu, April 20, 2023
Marriage ft. Dusty
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Dusty, to discuss navigating marriage in sobriety, diving into maintaining a long term relationship through addiction, relapse, and recovery. For more Dusty, follow him on IG @jdustygrimes - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us get to know Dusty better at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E135 · Thu, April 13, 2023
Sexuality ft. Charlie Gray #135
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Charlie Gray, to discuss discovering and embracing our sexuality in recovery. For more Charlie Gray, check out his numerous past episodes with us, google 'At Least I'm Not the Frog' or follow him on IG @hismajestycharles3rd - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show to hear us discuss sexual first times at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E134 · Thu, April 06, 2023
Discovering Your Gender in Recovery ft. Chris
Send us a text Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Chris, to talk about their experiences with gender in recovery, as well as navigating our queer community sober. Interested in more details on the Spring Clearance Roundup check out their Instagram @springclearance Also give Chris and I a follow @cprgivesyoulife and @gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E133 · Thu, March 30, 2023
More Will Be Revealed ft. Jase
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jase to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Jase on Instagram (and everywhere else) @theladybearica and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E132 · Thu, March 23, 2023
Be Still and Know ft. Dallas
Send us a text Steve welcomes Dallas to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Dallas on Instagram (and everywhere else) @drdallasbragg and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E131 · Thu, March 16, 2023
Don't Carry It All ft. JP
Send us a text Steve welcomes JP to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find JP on Instagram @jppaultenor and @jppaulva and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E130 · Thu, March 09, 2023
Do it for Yourself ft. Elle
Send us a text Steve welcomes Elle to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Elle on Instagram @sobersoulfood and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E129 · Mon, March 06, 2023
Focus on What's Important ft. Maxim
Send us a text Steve welcomes Maxim to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Maxim on Instagram @sobersoulfood and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E128 · Thu, March 02, 2023
Do Over ft. Brad
Send us a text Steve welcomes Brad to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Craig on Instagram @thebradshreve and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Also check out his podcast, Queer We Are, wherever you are listening to us! If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E127 · Sun, February 26, 2023
Sobriety Isn't Misery ft. Craig
Send us a text Steve welcomes Craig to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Craig on Instagram @craigjames1289 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E126 · Thu, February 23, 2023
Acceptance is the Answer ft. Crescent
Send us a text Steve welcomes Crescent to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Crescent on Instagram @crescent_diamond_coach and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Also check out her website- https://crescent-diamond.com/ If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E125 · Thu, February 16, 2023
Give It Your All Ft. Jason R #125
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jason to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Check out Jason's podcast, Sober Solutions, wherever you listen to gAy A! Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Jason on Instagram @rudabega82 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E124 · Thu, February 09, 2023
Fortune Favors the Bold ft. Blaise
Send us a text Steve welcomes Blaise to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Blaise on Instagram @iamblaserino and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E123 · Thu, February 02, 2023
Acceptance ft. Mark
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Mark to discuss our issues dealing with accepting ourselves, our sexuality, our addictions, and how we are working to overcome these issues and learn to accept ourselves authentically. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Mark on Instagram @heymarko8 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E122 · Thu, January 26, 2023
Deeds, Not Words ft. Nate
Send us a text Steve welcomes Nate to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Nate on Instagram @npkrogh and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E121 · Thu, January 19, 2023
Fearless & Thorough Ft. Danielle #121
Send us a text Steve welcomes Danielle to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Danielle on Instagram @dc_and_rosey and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E120 · Thu, January 12, 2023
The Next Right Thing ft. Paula
Send us a text Steve welcomes Paula to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Paula on Instagram @ilovelr69 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , and you can reach Paula at ilovelr69@gmail.com Stay sober, friend! Support the show
S1 E119 · Thu, January 05, 2023
More Than One Way to Get Sober ft. Chris
Send us a text Steve welcomes Chris to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Find Chris online at www.atriptolove.com and on all the socials @aroadtriptolove. Follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E118 · Thu, December 29, 2022
Freedom Is... ft. Mario
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Mario to share their experiences with GSM, the Gay and Sober Men's Conference, discussing years past and what's to come this year. Register for the conference today at www.gayandsober.org/registration Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Reach out to Mario at chairy@gayandsober.org If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E117 · Thu, December 22, 2022
There is a Solution ft. Mario
Send us a text Steve welcomes Mario to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Reach out to Mario at chair@gayandsober.org and follow Gay and Sober everywhere @gayandsober If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E116 · Sun, December 18, 2022
The Frogs Bottle ft. Charlie Gray #116
Send us a text Steve invites back best-selling author, Charlie Gray, to discuss his newest book, A Frog's Bottle, out now! Check out his book now on Amazon, follow him on social media searching Charlie Gray or At Least I'm Not The Frog, and go to his website, www.atleastimnotthefrog.com Head over to our Patreon family for our post-show discussion on cut content and spoilers, as well as getting steamy as we discuss his erotic novella, It Happened One EDC. Not a member, join today at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Stay sober! Support the show
S1 E115 · Thu, December 15, 2022
GSM: Freedom Is... ft. Landon
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Landon to share their experiences with GSM, the Gay and Sober Men's Conference, discussing years past and what's to come this year. Register for the conference today at www.gayandsober.org/registration Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Reach out to Landon at community@gayandsober.org or www.harlimmanor.com If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E114 · Thu, December 08, 2022
Love Will Turn You Around ft. Landon
Send us a text Steve welcomes Landon to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Reach out to Landon at community@gayandsober.org or www.harlimmanor.com If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E113 · Thu, December 01, 2022
Living Life to the Fullest ft. Frank
Send us a text Steve welcomes Frank to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Frank on Instagram @manyourstyle and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E112 · Thu, November 24, 2022
Gratitude 2022
Send us a text As we kick off the holiday season, Steve welcomes back past guests and listeners alike to share what they are grateful for this year! I'm so thankful for all of you for listening! Happy Thanksgiving and Holidays! Support the show
S1 E111 · Thu, November 17, 2022
Focus on Today ft. Robby
Send us a text Steve welcomes Robby to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Robby on Instagram @rah_bee_rooss and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E110 · Thu, November 10, 2022
HALT ft. John
Send us a text Steve welcomes John to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow John on Instagram @soberguynyc and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E109 · Thu, November 03, 2022
Whatever You Want, God ft. Jameson
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jameson to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Jameson on Instagram @biscuitsandjamo and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E108 · Thu, October 27, 2022
Practice Makes Permanence ft. Jim C
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jim to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Jim on Instagram @jcorn104 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E107 · Thu, October 20, 2022
You Can't Do It Alone ft. James
Send us a text Steve welcomes James to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow James on Instagram @jamesb0223 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E106 · Thu, October 13, 2022
Staying Connect ft. Mark
Send us a text Steve welcomes Mark to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Mark on Instagram @heymarko8 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E105 · Thu, October 06, 2022
Become Your Dream ft. Delano
Send us a text Steve welcomes Delano to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Delano on Instagram @theodorehuxtable and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E104 · Thu, September 29, 2022
Marriage ft. Brandy Joe #104
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Brandy Joe to discuss the topic of marriage- including drinking married, finding sobriety, and growing independently while growing with your partner. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Brandy Joe on Instagram @brandyjoeplamby and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E103 · Thu, September 22, 2022
Allow Good Things ft. Davide
Send us a text Steve welcomes Davide to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Davide on Instagram @daviderialto and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E102 · Thu, September 15, 2022
Put Yourself First ft. Wes
Send us a text Steve welcomes Wes to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Wes on Instagram @lifeofweston and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Also, check out Wes' podcast, Two Bottles Deep, wherever you find podcasts! If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E101 · Thu, September 08, 2022
Every Day is New ft. Ash
Send us a text Steve welcomes Ash to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Ash on Instagram @bloodstainedpodcast and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Also, check out Ash's podcast, Blood Stained, a menstruation pod, wherever you find podcasts! If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E100 · Thu, September 01, 2022
Straight-Edge ft. Michael R
Send us a text Steve welcomes Michael to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow WT on Instagram @witzzzian, and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E100 · Sat, August 27, 2022
Let Go and Let God ft. Sarah
Send us a text Steve welcomes Sarah to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Sarah on Instagram @SarahMFerro to donate to her marathon run for High Watch Recovery Center, and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E99 · Thu, August 25, 2022
Feel It Now, Feel It Later ft. WT
Send us a text Steve welcomes WT to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow WT on Instagram @witmac, and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E98 · Thu, August 18, 2022
A Power Greater Than Ourselves ft. Reace
Send us a text Steve welcomes Reace to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for the post-show, along with more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Reace on Instagram @more_reace , and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Support the show
S1 E97 · Thu, August 11, 2022
Sober Travel ft. Dave #97
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Dave to talk about vacations and travel in sobriety. Follow Dave on Instagram @gymdave85 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. Also, join our Patreon family for the post-show where we get more into traveling in relationships vs single and the fun we have at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E96 · Thu, August 04, 2022
Recovery Isn't Microwavable ft. Daniel
Send us a text Steve welcomes Daniel to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Daniel on Instagram @danielvanwaus , and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E95 · Thu, July 28, 2022
If You Can't Have One... ft. Jordan
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jordan to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Jordan on Instagram @thesoberpartyboy , and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E94 · Thu, July 21, 2022
I Am... Ft. Tim G
Send us a text Steve welcomes Tim to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Tim on Instagram @the_timgilmore , and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E93 · Thu, July 14, 2022
The No Matter What Club ft. Sandy
Send us a text Steve welcomes Sandy to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please join our Patreon family for more exclusive content at www.Patreon.com/gAyApodcast Follow Sandy on Instagram @silentwhat and Twitter @FTSGooen, and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast on both! If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E92 · Thu, July 07, 2022
Keep Coming Back ft. Kevin
Send us a text Steve welcomes Kevin to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com And join our Patreon family for exclusive bonus content including post-show discussions today at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E91 · Thu, June 30, 2022
Roundup Wind Down: GSM 2022
Send us a text Steve is back from his time at the Gay and Sober Men's Conference 2022 and is ready to share all about it! In this episode I touch on highlights from the daytime parts of the conference, including: The Welcome Meeting The Traditions Workshop Shame and Stigma to Strength and Hope Ageism and Body Dysmorphia The Fourth Step The Sex Workshop The Hard Rock Meeting The Raffle ft. Logan Hardcore Marching in NYC Pride Want to know all the fun that I got up to in the after hours event? Check out the post-show on Patreon @ www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Get involved with the show or just reach out to connect at happylifepod@gmail.com or on Instagram @ happylifepod Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E90 · Thu, June 23, 2022
Celebrating One Year Sober w/ Kristen
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Kristen to celebrate their first full year of sobriety. Together, they reflect back on counting days, starting step work, doing service, and the power of community. Join our Patreon community and listen to this episodes after-show today at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Also engage with the podcast on Instragram @gayapodcast or e-mail me directly at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E89 · Mon, June 20, 2022
Community Update
Send us a text Steve provides updates on some community updates related the podcast, including the launch of our new Patreon Community! Patreon members get access to exclusive content like after shows and bonus episodes, along with membership to our private Facebook group community. Join today at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the show
S1 E88 · Thu, June 16, 2022
Sex and Communication ft. Dave #88
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Dave to talk about sex in sobriety. Follow Dave on Instagram @gymdave85 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E87 · Mon, June 13, 2022
Dating Sober ft. Dave
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Dave to talk about dating in recovery. Follow Dave on Instagram @gymdave85 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E86 · Thu, June 09, 2022
Give it a Whirl ft. Chris
Send us a text Steve welcomes Chris to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Chris on Instagram @cprgivesyoulife and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E85 · Mon, June 06, 2022
Relapse ft. Gabriel
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Gabriel to talk about relapse in recovery. Follow Gabriel on Instagram @the.archangelgabriel and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. He's also on Tik-Tok @the.archangelgabriel too! Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E84 · Thu, June 02, 2022
One Day at a Time ft. Brian
Send us a text Steve welcomes Brian to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Brian on Instagram @bpdannelly and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E83 · Mon, May 30, 2022
Discovering Your Identity ft. Brandy Joe #83
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Brandy Joe to talk on the topic of Discovering Your Identity in sobriety. Follow Brandy Joe on Instagram @brandyjoeplamby and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E82 · Thu, May 26, 2022
Keep It Simple ft. Klay
Send us a text Steve welcomes Klay to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Find Klay on Facebook @ Klay Montgomery and follow us while you are at it @ gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E81 · Mon, May 23, 2022
Listen to Yourself ft. Charlie Gray #81
Send us a text Steve welcomes back best-selling author Charlie Gray to talk on the topic of Discovering Your Identity in sobriety. Follow Charlie on Instagram @hismajestycharles3rd and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. He's also on TikTok @atleastimnotthefrog , and you can buy his book "At Least I'm Not the Frog" on Amazon Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E80 · Sat, May 21, 2022
GSM 2022 ft. Mitch
Send us a text Steve welcomes on Mitch, the Conference Chair for this year's Gay and Sober Men's conference, to discuss the upcoming event. Register for the conference today: https://www.gayandsober.org/registration Download the app and use code GSApp before June 1st for discounted tickets! Or join us for Pride celebration on Sunday here: https://www.gayandsober.org/celebration. Book your stay at the Westin here: https://www.gayandsober.org/housing Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E79 · Thu, May 19, 2022
Untoxicated ft. Andrew
Send us a text Steve welcomes Andrew to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Alex on Instagram @addiedawg and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out Untoxicated on Instagram @untoxicated_aus Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E78 · Mon, May 16, 2022
Marriage ft. Savanna
Send us a text Steve welcomes back Savanna to talk on the topic of Marriage in Sobriety. Follow Savanna on Instagram @savannadanna and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. She's also on TikTok @lucci_mamas Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E77 · Thu, May 12, 2022
You're Not Struggling Alone ft. Alex S #77
Send us a text Steve welcomes Alex to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Alex on Instagram @ads5202 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check NWPA Pride at https://nwpapride.org/ Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E76 · Mon, May 09, 2022
Trust the Process ft. Jimmy
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jimmy to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Jimmy on Instagram @_jimmyadams and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out his website at https://www.thejimmyadams.com/ Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E75 · Thu, May 05, 2022
This Naked Mind ft. John
Send us a text Steve welcomes John to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow John on Instagram @thettotalcoach and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out their website: https://www.thettotalcoach.com/ Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/gayapodcast) Support the show
S1 E74 · Thu, April 28, 2022
F*cked and Insane ft. Scott
Send us a text Steve welcomes Scott to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Scott on Instagram @scotttgrasso and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out their website: https://www.scottgrasso.com/ Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E73 · Tue, April 26, 2022
Beginning Step 11
Send us a text Steve reflects on beginning the 11th step of his 12 Step Program: "Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood God, praying only for knowledge of God's will for us and the power to carry that out.” Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E72 · Thu, April 21, 2022
Self Reflection ft. Joe
Send us a text Steve welcomes Joe to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Lonny on Instagram @joepiccinetti and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E71 · Mon, April 18, 2022
Living in the 10th Step
Send us a text Steve reflects on beginning the 10th step of his 12 Step Program: "Continued to take personal inventory, and when wrong, promptly admitted it" Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E70 · Thu, April 14, 2022
I Don't Do That Anymore ft. Dave #70
Send us a text Steve welcomes Dave to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Dave on Instagram @gymdave85 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E69 · Mon, April 11, 2022
Getting My Steps In
Send us a text Steve recaps his experiences with working through the sixth, seventh, eighth, and ninth steps of his twelve-step program. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E68 · Thu, April 07, 2022
Sober, Not Boring ft. Dani
Send us a text Steve welcomes Dani to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Lonny on Instagram @alcoholfreeadventures and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E67 · Mon, April 04, 2022
Not Afraid ft. Eric #67
Send us a text Steve welcomes Eric to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with how medicinal marijuana helps his sobriety, and his advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Eric on Instagram @reinventingeric and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E66 · Thu, March 31, 2022
Live and Let Live ft. Lonny
Send us a text Steve welcomes Lonny to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Lonny on Instagram @_lonny and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E65 · Mon, March 28, 2022
Help Others & Get to Work ft. Jessika
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jessika to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Jessika on Instagram @jessikajanene1 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E64 · Thu, March 24, 2022
Just Start, Don't Stop ft. J9 #64
Send us a text Steve welcomes J9 to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow J9 on Instagram @j9grooves and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out their website for links to their work: https://www.liinks.co/j9grooves Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E63 · Mon, March 21, 2022
Euphoria (2019)
Send us a text In the first crossover episode of gAy A and A Lifetime of Happiness, the Steves discuss the hit TV show, Euphoria, and how it spoke to Steve and his sobriety journey. Topics covered include Rue's struggles with addiction The impact Rue's struggle has on the people around her Hunter Schafer's breakout role of Jules The relationship between Rue and Jules Jules risky encounter with Cal Jacobs So many penises! Hot-takes on the other characters If you enjoyed this crossover episode, consider checking out A Lifetime of Happiness wherever you listen to podcasts! Stay tuned in this feed every Monday and Thursday for new episodes, and reach out to us on Instagram at gAyaPodcast or e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E62 · Thu, March 17, 2022
Baby Steps ft. Nae
Send us a text Steve welcomes Nae to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Nae on Instagram @nae_reforged and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Also check out their website, www.naereforged.com for more Nae-ness :-) Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E61 · Tue, March 15, 2022
Completing Steps 4 and 5
Send us a text Steve reflects back on what it was like completing Steps 4 and 5 of his twelve step program with his sponsor, as well as what some of his fears, resentments, and sex inventory included. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E60 · Thu, March 10, 2022
Hardcore SobrieTea ft. Logan
Send us a text Steve welcomes Logan to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Logan on Instagram @loganxhardcore and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. And don't forget to check out his podcast, Hardcore SobrieTea where you tune into podcasts! Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E59 · Mon, March 07, 2022
Don't Quit Before the Miracle ft. Lucas
Send us a text Steve welcomes Lucas to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E58 · Thu, March 03, 2022
Everybody Loves a Comeback Story ft. Sarah
Send us a text Steve welcomes Sarah to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Sarah on Instagram @Sarah_Zubrin and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E57 · Mon, February 28, 2022
The Jaywalker
Send us a text Steve reflects back on the story of the jaywalker from the Big Book and his thoughts on how it relates to his experiences with alcoholism. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E56 · Thu, February 24, 2022
All I Know So Far ft. David
Send us a text Steve welcomes David to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow David on Instagram @davidmahoneygram and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/gayapodcast) Tags: gayAAalcoholics anonymoussobersober gay Support the show
S1 E55 · Sat, February 19, 2022
My NYC Trip
Send us a text Steve reflects back on his recent trip to New York City to meet his sponsor and fellows from his home group. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E54 · Thu, February 17, 2022
Keep Coming Back ft. Andres
Send us a text Steve welcomes Andres to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Andres on Instagram @the_new_dre and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E53 · Thu, February 10, 2022
You Get Better ft. Brandy Joe #53
Send us a text Steve welcomes Brandy Joe to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Brandy Joe on Instagram @brandyjoeplamby and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast. If you love horror movies also check out his podcast, Scaring is Sharing, @scaringissharing Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E52 · Mon, February 07, 2022
Connection
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin shares some updates on his sobriety, including the passing of a friend in the program, his second local Sober Social, and his upcoming trip to NYC. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E51 · Thu, February 03, 2022
Not Today, Satan ft. Jo
Send us a text Steve welcomes Jo to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Jo on Instagram @jowalduck and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E50 · Mon, January 31, 2022
Gay Sober Travel ft. Ron
Send us a text Steve welcomes Reed to share their experience, strenght, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Ron on Instagram @gaysobertravel and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast You can also find more information about Gay Sober Travel at www.gaysobertravel.com Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E49 · Thu, January 27, 2022
I Want to Live, Not Just Survive ft. Reed
Send us a text Steve welcomes Reed to share their experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Reed on Instagram @reedwayne and @nbnapodcast and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E48 · Mon, January 24, 2022
Changes
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin shares some updates on his sobriety, including his new experiences hosting a 12 step meeting as well as how it's inspired him to start a new career. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E47 · Thu, January 20, 2022
Happy Without the Hooch ft. Michael
Send us a text Steve welcomes Michael to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, continuing from where we left off in our last episode. Follow Michael on Instagram @happywithoutthehooch and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E46 · Mon, January 17, 2022
Unhappy with the Hooch ft. Michael
Send us a text Steve welcomes Michael to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, starting with what it was like, what happened, and what it's like now. Follow Michael on Instagram @happywithoutthehooch and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E45 · Thu, January 13, 2022
Progress, Not Perfection ft. Dusty
Send us a text Steve welcomes Dusty to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Dusty on Instagram @jdustygrimes and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E44 · Mon, January 10, 2022
Sex Inventory
Send us a text Steve reflects back on his sordid history of sexual encounters as part of the healing through Step 4, making a searching and fearless moral inventory. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E43 · Thu, January 06, 2022
The Gift is in My Wounds ft. Danielle
Send us a text Steve welcomes Danielle to share her experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with the experience of writing her book, The Gift is in My Wounds, and finding her gift through Intuitive Readings. Follow Danielle on Instagram @daisy_souldchild and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast You can also check out her website, linktr.ee/Daisysoulchild Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E42 · Mon, January 03, 2022
The Sober Gay ft. Dillan
Send us a text Steve welcomes Dillan, the host of The Sober Gay Podcast to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with his advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Dillan on Instagram @thesobergay and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast The Sober Gay releases new episodes weekly, so follow them- after you follow me! Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E41 · Thu, December 30, 2021
What Doesn't Kill You... ft. Alex
Send us a text Steve welcomes Alex to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with his advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Alex on Instagram @crossfitcurator and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast You can also check out his website, www.priestscape.com Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E40 · Mon, December 27, 2021
Facing Fears
Send us a text Steve shares an audio-diary about what it was like going through his Fear Inventory as part of his 4th Step. What were your experiences with your fear inventory like? Let me know via e-mail at gayapodcast@gmail.com or on Instagram @gAyApodcast Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E39 · Thu, December 23, 2021
Slow Down ft. Levi
Send us a text Steve welcomes Levi to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with his advice on getting and staying sober. Follow Levi on Instagram @lost_on_a_bicycle and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E38 · Mon, December 20, 2021
Sober for the Holidays
Send us a text Steve shares listener and personal advice on ways to stay sober throughout the holiday season. Thanks to Lores, Charlie, Dusty, and Eric for sharing your thoughts! Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E37 · Thu, December 16, 2021
Accept and Acknowledge ft. Lores
Send us a text Steve welcomes Lores to share her experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with her advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E36 · Tue, December 14, 2021
Resentments Part 2
Send us a text Steve reflects back on completing his initial resentment inventory as part of his fourth step, and announces that he's secured his tickets for this years GSM! Interested in joining him for an amazing time during NYC's Pride this year? Tickets are on sale now for GSM 2021 from June 23rd-26th and are on sale through the end of this year. Grab them before the price goes up here: https://www.gayandsober.org/events Support the show
S1 E35 · Thu, December 09, 2021
Willingness ft. Christopher
Send us a text Steve welcomes Christopher to share his experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with his advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E34 · Mon, December 06, 2021
I Need YOU!
Send us a text As Steve is preparing for future episodes he needs YOUR help! What are some tips or tricks that help you stay sober during the holidays and new year? Would you be interested in joining us as a guest for one of our Thursday episodes? What topics would you like to hear researched and shared about on our Monday episodes? Your feedback will help shape the face of this podcast as we head into a new year, so PLEASE e-mail me at gAyApodcast@gmail.com or DM me on Instagram @gAyApodcast Support the show
S1 E33 · Thu, December 02, 2021
One Day at a Time ft. Elsa #33
Send us a text Steve welcomes Elsa to share her experience, wisdom, and hope with you, along with her advice on getting and staying sober. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E32 · Mon, November 29, 2021
Crystals and Sobriety
Send us a text Steve shares some of the crystals that have been know to help with sobriety. During his journey into the metaphysical, he discusses the benefits of amethyst, carnelian, lepidolite, black onyx, and selenite. Support the show
S1 E31 · Thu, November 25, 2021
Sobriety, Starbucks, and Tik-Tok ft. Savanna
Send us a text Steve welcomes Savanna to share her experience, wisdom, and hope. Topics discussed include: Her journey with alcohol and addiction How sexuality played a role in her addiction and recovery Positive changes in her life since getting sober and how she stays sober How Tik Tok and Starbucks have both played a positive role in her sobriety journey. What one year of sobriety means to her. Her tips and tricks on how she stays sober. Follow Savanna on Tik-Tok today @lucci_mamas Follow us on Instagram @gAyApodcast Support the show
S1 E30 · Mon, November 22, 2021
Resentments
Send us a text Steve reflects back on the first part of his Step 4 work with his sponsor as he takes inventory of his resentments. Topics touched on include: My initial fear of Step 4 The importance of having a sponsor What a resentment actually is How worksheets are helping What my worksheet looks like Support the show
S1 E29 · Thu, November 18, 2021
Don't Be Afraid ft. Scott
Send us a text Steve welcomes Scott to share their experience, wisdom, and hope. Topics discussed include: Replacing one addiction with another Discovering your gender identity and sexuality in sobriety Understanding and overcoming childhood trauma How they stay sober and overcome difficulties The differences between their first time getting sober and this time Their advice for other alcoholics Support the show
S1 E28 · Mon, November 15, 2021
Sugar Cravings
Send us a text Steve reflects on his sugar cravings he's developed since getting sober and does some research into the 'why' of it all. Topics discussed include: How alcohol is converted to sugar in the bloodstream The effects of dopamine on our brain and cravings What transfer addictions are and how to avoid them Let us know how you handled your sugar cravings or just say hi at gayapodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E27 · Thu, November 11, 2021
Vintage Sobriety ft. Ali
Send us a text Steve welcomes Ali to share her experience, wisdom, and hope. Topics discussed include: Overcoming pain in sobriety A great metaphor with a lobster Feeling acceptance in her bisexuality in sobriety Her recommendations on staying sober and finding fellowship. Follow Ali on Instagram @vintagesobriety and follow me while you are there @gAyApodcast Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E26 · Mon, November 08, 2021
Step 3 Revisited
Send us a text Steve reflects on his Step 3 and his discussion about it with his sponsor last night. Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E25 · Thu, November 04, 2021
Sober Siblings ft. Kristen
Send us a text Steve is joined by his sober sibling, Kristen, to share their wisdom, strength, and hope. Together they reflect back on counting days together and ways to keep and stay sober. E-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com anytime for feedback, to get involved with the show, or to just say hi! Also join our conversation on Instagram @gayapodcast Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E24 · Mon, November 01, 2021
Steps 1 and 2 Revisited
Send us a text Steve revisits the first two steps of his twelve step program and reflects back on how his thoughts on them have changed after 150 days of sobriety and through working with a sponsor. E-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com anytime for feedback, to get involved with the show, or to just say hi! Also join our conversation on Instagram @gayapodcast Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E23 · Thu, October 28, 2021
At Least I'm Not the Frog ft. Charlie Gray #23
Send us a text Steve invites on bestselling author, Charlie Gray, to discuss his book, At Least I'm Not the Frog. They also discuss what life has been like since the books release, what's next for Charlie, and some of the burning questions Steve had after reading the book. You can find "At Least I'm Not the Frog" on Amazon You can follow Charlie on Instagram @hismajestycharles3rd , and while you are at it follow me @gayapodcast Also check out his website, www.atleastimnotthefrog.com for his blog! Support the show
S1 E22 · Mon, October 25, 2021
Review: At Least I'm Not the Frog
Send us a text Steve reviews the book "At Least I'm Not the Frog: A Zany Memoir of Alcoholism and Recovery" by Charlie Gray. As of this recording this was the number one book on Amazon on recovery and I shared how I can certainly see why. The book details his journey to recovery, which includes four DUI’s and three trips to jail, along with treatment at six rehabs, at least twenty detox facilities, and another twenty or more trips to a psych ward. He’s also lived in five different sober houses and participated in all different forms of recovery- from recovery programs to religion, medication, and holistic living. He shared this all with such raw vulnerability in the hopes to share that you are not alone when it comes to those things you’ve done in your addiction and that there is hope that you can recover. You can follow Charlie on Instagram @hismajestycharles3rd and find his book on Amazon. Don't forget to follow me on Instagram, as well @gayapodcast Support the show
S1 E21 · Thu, October 21, 2021
You Are in Control ft. Jeroen
Send us a text Steve interviews Mindset Coach Jeroen about his journey to sobriety along with advice on how he maintains his sobriety by helping others. Follow him on Instagram @thecoachwithin , and follow me while you are at it @gayapodacst ! Thanks for listening! Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E20 · Mon, October 18, 2021
Alcohol and Astrology
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin reflects on a conversation he had with a coworker about the correlation between Astrology and Alcohol, along with the research he found when diving into it more. Tell me what you think! gAyApodcast @ gmail.com and Instagram! Source: https://psychreel.com/zodiac-sign-most-likely-to-be-alcoholics/ Support the show
S1 E19 · Thu, October 14, 2021
Finding Your Happy ft. Gabriel
Send us a text Steve welcomes Gabriel on to share his experience, wisdom, and hope. Topics covered include overcoming the loss of his parents, internalized homophobia, divorce, and relapses, along with living out loud, social media in sobriety, finding your happy, and more. Check out Gabriel on all the socials! Instagram @the.archangelgabriel TikTok @the.archangelgabriel Stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E18 · Mon, October 11, 2021
Thank You!
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin takes a moment to thank all of the listeners and guests so far! At Day 100 sober, this is the first recording after the podcast's launch, so he takes the opportunity to share his gratitude for all your support. Make sure to follow the podcast on Instagram for the majority of our social media content @gAyApodcast , or email him directly at gAyApodcast@gmail.com Support the show
S1 E17 · Thu, October 07, 2021
Creative Sober
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin gets to chat with Missing Mei, founder of The Creative Sober, a space for sober creatives on Instagram as well as a podcast. Topics discussed include her journey with alcohol and addiction, anxiety and depression, how The Creative Sober got started, and what it's like identifying your pronouns. Support the show
S1 E16 · Mon, October 04, 2021
My First Qualification
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin practices his first qualification for his Twelve Step meeting by sharing one with all of you! Support the show
S1 E15 · Thu, September 30, 2021
Rainbow Hill ft. Joey
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin has the pleasure of speaking with Joey Bachrach, co-founder of Rainbow Hill Sober Living. He shares his experience, wisdom, and hope with us before telling us about his amazing Sober Home space. Rainbow Hill is located in Los Angeles, California and is a Sober Home for members of the gay and queer community. The goal is for Rainbow Hill Sober Living to be the foundation and steppingstone for every man who walks through the doors. Follow them on Instragram and Facebook @RainbowHillSoberLiving and check out their website, https://rainbowhillsoberliving.com/ Thank you for listening! Follow us wherever you are listening to get new episodes every Monday and Thursday If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , I look forward to sharing with you in our next episode. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E14 · Mon, September 27, 2021
Drop the Rock
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin shares his experience of "Dropping the Rock" at a Twelve Step convention. Through this process he touches on his lifetime of resentments, how his adoption attempt led to his resentments finally boiling over, and how the Drop The Rock workshop helped relieve him of that toxic resentment. Support the show
S1 E13 · Thu, September 23, 2021
Gay and Sober
Send us a text Steve is joined by special guest, Christian Parker, founder of GayAndSober.org, to discuss how it evolved from a tragedy into a website that helps thousands of people in the LGBT+ community get and stay sober while finding a community. Check out the website and it's important links here: Homepage- www.gayandsober.org Meeting Finder- https://www.gayandsober.org/meetings Events- https://www.gayandsober.org/events Give Back- https://www.gayandsober.org/support "Casting"- https://www.gayandsober.org/casting Highlights of the interview include: The 'long version' of how Gay and Sober got started Finding a community online The evolution of the GSM Conference How the Online Meeting Finder grew to the life-changing resource it is today Christian's tips and advice on staying sober Support the show
S1 E12 · Mon, September 20, 2021
"SoberCon"
Send us a text Steve discusses his experience about his first conference about sobriety and a Twelve Step program. Topics include flying solo at a conference, Drop the Rock, meeting new fellows, and an LGBT+ workshop he attended. Support the show
S1 E11 · Thu, September 16, 2021
Recovered Life ft. Chelsea
Send us a text Steve invites Chelsea from Recovered Life Podcast to share her experience, wisdom, and hope. Topics covered include sobriety, anxiety, mental health, podcasting about sobriety, and more. Check out Chelsea's podcast, Recovered Life Podcast, wherever you listen to us! You can also find her website here: https://www.chelseananderson.com/podcast and follow her online @justbchelsea Stay sober! Support the show
S1 E10 · Mon, September 13, 2021
60 Days
Send us a text Steve reflects back on his first 60 days of sobriety with what's helped and some of the lessons he's learned. Highlights include: Learning how to get AND stay sober The importance of fellows and service The struggles with finding the 'right' sponsor Expectations are just premeditated resentments Identifying triggers and knowing when to step back Staying accountable through service and goals Support the show
S1 E9 · Thu, September 09, 2021
Grieving ft. Abby
Send us a text Steve welcomes Abby on to share her experience, wisdom, and hope with us. Abby is a content creator who shares her story and information about sobriety, grief, and being queer on her account @thesobergaygriever . She is the chapter leader of @1000hoursdrylgbtqia and she hosts free LGBTQIA+ support meetings on @reframe_app zoom. You can sign-up for these zoom meetings by clicking the link in the bio of @reframe_app Thank you for listening. Please leave a review if you found this information helpful. If you need help immediately, please call SAMSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Do not forget to Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out weekly. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E8 · Mon, September 06, 2021
My Second Step
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin shares what his experience getting to and through Step Two of his twelve step program was like. "We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity" Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful. If you need help immediately, please call SAMSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E7 · Thu, September 02, 2021
Career vs. Sobriety ft. Richard
Send us a text Steve invites guest and recovering addict Richard to share his experience, widsom, and hope with us. As a meth addict who has been clean for 3 years he shares how that has affected his place in the LGBT+ community, as well as how he had to change careers to stay sober. Thank you for listening. Please leave a review if you found this information helpful. If you need help immediately, please call SAMSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Do not forget to Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out weekly. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E6 · Mon, August 30, 2021
Gay and Sober Resources
Send us a text Steve Bennet-Martin shares some of the resources he uses to stay sober, including: Websites www.gayandsober.org www.aa.org Books The Big Book LGBT narrators are p.338 and 359 in the 4th edition) 12 Steps and 12 Traditions GLAD Day by Joan Larkin (Daily Affirmations) Workbook/Journal Sober as F*ck Workbook by Sarah Ordo 12 Steps Journal when you finish ^ Facebook Groups Gay and Sober Men LGBTQ+ Online Recovery Meetings Us! ( www.facebook.com/gayapodcast ) Podcasts This one, clearly The Sober Gay The Creative Sober A Sober Girl's Guide Support the show
S1 E5 · Thu, August 26, 2021
Tips for Newcomers
Send us a text Host Steve Bennet-Martin shares some tips and tricks to sobriety that he's learned along his first 30 days. From remembering not to HALT to trying to learn to meditate, there should be some good advice for newcomers and regulars alike. Stay sober! Thank you for listening. Please leave a review if you found this information helpful. If you need help immediately, please go to www.aa.org or call SAMSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Do not forget to Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out weekly. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
S1 E4 · Thu, August 26, 2021
My Step One
Send us a text "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol- that our lives had become unmanageable" Steve Bennet-Martin reflects back on what going through Step One was like for him. Support the show
S1 E3 · Thu, August 26, 2021
Meetings 101
Send us a text With how scary the unknown can be, Steve Bennet-Martin takes an opportunity to review what you can expect from Meetings, how to find the right one for you, and what the format of the meetings means to him. Support the show
S1 E2 · Thu, August 26, 2021
Sobering Numbers
Send us a text Steve reports back on the research he did on alcohol statistics. Topics covered include: What is "one drink"? Binge Drinking for LGBT youth Binge Drinking vs. Heavy Drinking LGBT statistics involving alcohol Suicide statstics involving alcohol Thank you for listening. Please leave a review if you found this information helpful. If you need help immediately, please go to www.aa.org or call SAMSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com . Do not forget to Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out weekly. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Website Sources: https://drugabusestatistics.org/alcohol-abuse-statistics/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4872607/ Support the show
S1 E1 · Thu, August 26, 2021
Hi, I'm Steve...
Send us a text In our first episode of gAy A I take a moment to introduce myself as host of this podcast. I'm Steve Bennet-Martin, I'm an alcohol, and my daily affirmation is that I am worthy of love. I quickly give the major bulletpoints of who I am before jumping into my first memories or drinking followed by my last ones. Thank you for listening. Please leave a review if you found this information helpful. If you need help immediately, please call SAMSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP. If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.com , Do not forget to Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out weekly. Until that time, stay sober, friends! Support the show
Trailer · Mon, June 21, 2021
gAy A Trailer
Send us a text Coming soon! gAy A is a podcast about sobriety in the LGBT+ community. Steve shares this announcement trailer to share his plans of what's to come. Follow/subscribe to get full episodes when this podcast launches on August 26th, 2021. Support the show
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