Tea Time with Janice
From the outside, tea time seems like this glamorous affair—polished, poised, and proper. But in between the soft clinks of fine china, the illusion of glamour and elegance starts to fade. The conversations are unfiltered and real. It’s a time for the girlies to come together, spill the tea, and remind each other that we’re all figuring it out, one conversation at a time. Tune in EVERY WEDNESDAY because the most real conversations always happen over tea 🍵✨ YouTube: Tea Time with Janice TikTok: @teatimewithjanice Instagram: @teatimewithjanice
Wed, March 26, 2025
Tea Time with a Housewife Turned Chairwoman: Reinventing Yourself
***This episode is bilingual , video has English translation*** This is for EVERY woman who’s ambitious but tired, capable but unsure, driven but also terrified to start. Some people know her as a chairwoman. Some know her as an artist. But I know her as ‘Mom.’ In this episode, my mom shares her journey from being a housewife to becoming the chairwoman of a major international charity (HKTNWA). Raised in a traditional Asian household to becoming a woman who leads, this episode is about what it means to build a life that’s both grounded in tradition and boldly your own. Mama Shiao also gives dating advice on what it means to be mysterious, rules of dating and what she really thinks about moving in with your S.O. So if you’ve ever felt like you need to have your entire life figured out by your 20s or 30s - this episode gives US permission to breathe. Episode resources More on HKTNWA More on period poverty
Fri, March 14, 2025
Tea Time on How to Set Boundaries & Say No — A Conversation on Protecting Your Peace
How do you say no without guilt? How do you set boundaries without pushing people away? How do you stop overcommitting just to avoid disappointing others? In this episode, we dive into boundary setting, how to say no (thank you) in different situations, and how to prioritize yourself without guilt. From friendships to relationships, if you struggle with people-pleasing, this one's for you.
Wed, March 05, 2025
Tea Time with Two MBAs: Creative Passion vs. Financial Stability and MBA Real Talk
Facing a career dilemma or thinking about getting an MBA? In this episode, I brought two of my close MBA friends to talk about the real struggles of navigating career choices in our late 20s. We’re getting real about career pressure, comparison, financial stability vs. creative passion. PLUS , I put them to the test with a game to see if money really buys happiness. And of course, we spill the MBA tea: what surprised us, why does it sometimes feel like high school all over again?
Thu, February 27, 2025
Tea Time with the Director of Integrated Media Strategy: Taking Risks in Work & Love
What does it take to take risks and build a successful career in media — without losing yourself along the way? In this episode, the Director of Integrated Media Strategy, spills the tea on navigating the corporate world, making bold career moves, and balancing ambition with personal life. Growing up with Chinese immigrant parents who ran a restaurant, Annie learned early how to take risks and make big decisions independently. She opens up about the reality of working in entertainment, the challenges of advocating for bold ideas, and how she balances ambition with her personal life.
Wed, February 19, 2025
Tea Time with the VP of Marketing: Divine Timing & the Unknown Path to Success
In this episode, the VP of Marketing and Network at a MAJOR creative agency talks about divine timing — how career detours, setbacks, and pivots often lead you exactly where you’re meant to be. We get real about the uncertainty of building a creative career, what it’s like to turn your passion into your full-time job, and how to keep going when success doesn’t follow a straight line. PLUS!! Find out how Iona learned metaphors... let’s just say, “Don’t take my heart and put it on a shelf.” (iykyk)
Wed, February 12, 2025
Tea Time With: A 28-Year-Old Intern
If you’ve ever felt like you’re starting over in your late 20s, still trying to find your passion, or wondering how you can be “successful” and still feel unfulfilled — this episode is for you. Whether you’re questioning career choices or just trying to figure it all out... I'm with you! I’m backkkkk! Just a 28-year-old small potato stumbling through a never-ending quarter-life crisis, figuring out where I fit. Join me as I talk about being an intern at 28, reaching a career “pinnacle” that didn’t feel fulfilling, and navigating what the next chapter really looks like.
S3 E10 · Tue, June 20, 2023
The Impossible Triangle : Balancing Career, Relationships, and Personal Growth
If it always feels like you never have time to fully commit to your biggest priorities in life, we are right there with you. This week, Janice and Emily talk about their struggles trying to simultaneously maintain their relationships with friends and family, growing their careers and actively participating in their hobbies. What are your biggest priorities in life and how do you balance them? 0:00 What is the impossible triangle?? 4:59 Reminiscing on the structure of being in undergrad 8:43 Balancing work, relationships, hobbies is hard 16:11 How do you fit in "me" time? 21:40 The guilt of not constantly prioritizing your family
Tue, June 13, 2023
Kitchen Sink 5 : The Fear of Making Mistakes: Embracing Failure and Imperfection
You asked and we delivered!! “Kitchen Sink” is an UNfiltered and UNstructured series where Emily and Janice catch-up about everything and nothing. Anything goes, so tune in at your own risk! This week, the girls get vulnerable and talk about feeling trapped by societal expectations and the consequences of deviating from the norm. Through stories spanning from buying a new home to high school college acceptance gossip, Emily and Janice discuss the impact of the fear of being wrong on personal growth and success, and how they’re (working on) embracing mistakes as valuable learning opportunities!! 0:00 we're back and we missed you!! :,) 7:03 loneliness during life's big milestones 14:30 it's scary NOT knowing what comes next 20:02 the fear of being wrong is paralyzing 27:21 the voices in my head are LOUD 32:34 how to stop caring about what other people think 37:29 there's no time for feeling judgement after failure
S3 E8 · Tue, May 02, 2023
Dating 101 feat. Bulgogi Pod: Early Relationship Rules You Need to Know
We couldn’t be more excited to kick off #aapiheritagemonth by sharing this episode featuring our podcast inspo and friend - Hana from Bulgogi Podcast!!! From our very first hang out, we realized the different stages of dating we were each in. In this episode, we kick off single girl summer by swapping past dating stories, revealing: the behind the scenes dating process after a match is made how to initiate the first moves with a boy whether a first kiss or hand holding is more intimate and more tips and tricks to navigate the first few dates. 0:00 Introducing Hana!!! 4:25 He asked for my number at BCD?!?!? + Forming a task force to perform a "screening process" for a date ;) 11:50 Things you MUST do before a first date 16:00 Do you "nickname" the boy on the first few dates and why we do it? 18:20 Hana's "scrapbook" of dates and meeting people that reveal your own strengths to you 27:00 Do you like the attention or do you actually like him? 31:30 Kicking off our single girl summer and how to initiate the first moves 35:10 Dating ick stories 43:30 What feels more intimate: kissing or hand holding? 51:10 Can you tell if you like someone based on a first kiss? + and more!!!!! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E7 · Tue, April 18, 2023
Advice from Corporate Natalie on Finding Work Life Balance and Overcoming Comparisons
We are SO excited to share this episode featuring one of our favorite creators, Corporate Natalie! !! We’ve been following Natalie since the pandemic and if you haven’t heard of her yet, Natalie uses lighthearted humor to poke fun at corporate culture to her nearly 1M followers across TikTok and Instagram. Join us as Natalie dives deep into her personal journey as a content creator, sharing her successes, challenges, and key lessons learned along the way. We talk about how to find balance as a creator and business woman, Natalie’s INSANE celebrity meetings as a content creator (think Justin Bieber and Drake), and imposter’s syndrome as in ANY role and ANY industry. If you don't already, follow Natalie @CorporateNatalie on TikTok and Instagram! 0:00 Introducing Natalie!!! 4:04 Partying with Justin Bieber and Drake?!? 6:20 How Natalie combats insecurities in the influencer world 10:37 The best way to fight burnout 13:22 Loving the business side of content creation ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E6 · Tue, April 11, 2023
The Reality of Long Distance Relationships: What You Need to Know
This week Emily and Janice share their experiences with long distance relationships. When do they work? Where did they go wrong? Does the success of long distance relationships depend on your love language? Tune in to find out!!! 0:00 Wishing we matched for Match Day :/ 3:28 Why I decided to get into a LDR 10:24 LDR prolonged my relationship 14:45 Living a double life in my LDR 21:18 The only way a LDR can work is... 27:26 Why I wouldn't do a LDR again 37:38 Did your love language change after being in an LDR? 41:43 Do long distance relationships work?? Our verdict! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E5 · Tue, April 04, 2023
Kitchen Sink 4: A Dog Ate My Arm, Supernatural Signs, Tarot Card Readings
You asked and we delivered!! “Kitchen Sink” is an UNfiltered and UNstructured series where Emily and Janice catch-up about everything and nothing. Anything goes, so tune in at your own risk! 0:00 In our Eras era!!! 3:37 I got BIT by a dog?? 17:38 Connecting with my late parents in Hawaii 28:47 Tarot Card TikTok is manifesting my love life?? + more! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E4 · Tue, March 21, 2023
Comparing Yourself to Others (part 2)
This week, Emily and Janice reveal some of their deepest insecurities and how they struggle and deal with comparisons. Whether we compare ourselves to Instagram models, influencers or even to each other, we all face it alone, mostly. We’re never short of things to compare ourselves and the girls have A LOT to share, so this episode has been split into two parts! We’d love to hear how you may deal with comparing yourself to others. 0:00 Should I get botox?? 8:53 How we combat insecure thoughts 14:25 You don't notice someone else's insecurities 18:23 How women take control of their insecurities 26:01 I'm the "ugly" friend 29:02 Comparing my social life with my friends 36:06 Saying NO to hang outs with no value add 40:54 Why do we seek external validation?? ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E3 · Tue, March 14, 2023
Comparing Yourself to Others (part 1)
This week, Emily and Janice reveal some of their deepest insecurities and how they struggle and deal with comparisons. Whether we compare ourselves to Instagram models, influencers or even to each other, we all face it alone, mostly. We’re never short of things to compare ourselves and the girls have A LOT to share, so this episode has been split into two parts! We’d love to hear how you may deal with comparing yourself to others. 0:00 My body image insecurity ~triggered~ 11:00 What helps us through these physical insecurities 18:19 Where does my body insecurity stem from? 20:15 Hollywood’s newest get-skinny-quick drug ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E2 · Tue, March 07, 2023
I Lost My Job
Dear Four Years Later fam, You’re about to hear how and why Janice lost her job. As they process the situation, on- air for the first time, Emily shares her past unemployment experiences and helps Janice navigate her initial emotions and thoughts. This episode is extremely close to our hearts and was difficult to film because it involved so much vulnerability. We hope this helps anyone who might be going through a similar situation with the current tech layoffs. As always, we are eternally grateful for your support. Love, Janice & Emily 0:00 Why I lost my job 9:27 What do I do now? 16:40 Finding growth in unemployment 20:50 What are people going to say about me? 30:48 Working to live or living to work? ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
S3 E1 · Tue, February 28, 2023
Kitchen Sink 3 : Surprise proposal, airport meet-cute, finally blocking him
You asked and we delivered!! “Kitchen Sink” is an UNfiltered and UNstructured series where Emily and Janice catch-up about everything and nothing. Anything goes, so tune in at your own risk! 0:00 The BEST surprise proposal!! 19:05 The unglamorous side of getting engaged 24:37 Meeting the LOML at the airport?? 36:55 Accidentally liking his IG pic... 41:47 I finally blocked him 49:07 Matchmaking gone wrong 53:49 Singles Inferno S2 reaction 59:38 Playing "corporate games" + and more! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, December 06, 2022
The Struggles of Being The Eldest Asian Daughter
If you are Asian American, type A, highly organized and crave control in your life… how’s the line-up looking for your next festival??? This week, Emily and Janice talk about the trials and tribulations of being the oldest daughter in an Asian household and the potential pipeline to raving. Stream this week’s episode as they dive into everything from sibling dynamics to falling in love at a rave! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, November 29, 2022
Kitchen Sink 2: now that he’s moved on, first date jitters, singleness and dating, and more!
You asked and we delivered!! Introducing the “Kitchen Sink,” an UNfiltered and UNstructured series where Emily and Janice catch-up about everything and nothing. Anything goes, so tune in at your own risk! This week: 0:00 Seeing your ex move on 16:15 Should you block your ex? 18:47 You’re the rule, not the exception 20:39 First date “jitters” 29:18 Am I going to be alone forever?? 30:18 Should you date outside your “type”? +more! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, November 22, 2022
Am I TOO Anxiously Attached?
Are you told you’re too “clingy”? Cry when your boyfriend drops you off after a date?? Then you MIGHT just have the same attachment style as Emily and Janice! If not, there’s still an attachment style for you!! This week, the girls dive into the three main attachment styles as defined in "Attached" by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller: Secure, Anxious and Avoidant. Stream to hear more on how you can have different attachment styles for the different people in your life. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, November 15, 2022
Kitchen Sink 1: halloweekend, tea on the ex, dating icks, and more!
You asked and we delivered!! Introducing the “Kitchen Sink,” an UNfiltered and UNstructured series where Emily and Janice catch-up about everything and nothing. Anything goes, so tune in at your own risk! This week: 0:00 Crazy college encounters 6:00 Hating your ex to get over him (??) 13:12 Seeing your ex move on 20:38 “The man I ACTUALLY want” list 26:50 Halloweekend and sticky bras 38:00 Feeling underpaid and under appreciated +more! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, November 08, 2022
Breaking Down Yellow Fever
Let’s address one of our most asked questions in our comments section: do we ONLY date white guys?? And more broadly, why do we see so many Asian women and white men coupled up? Tune in this week to hear Emily and Janice explore this phenomenon and their unique dating experiences as Asian women. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, November 01, 2022
Losing my Parents at 25
It’s our BIRTHDAY EPISODE!!! And while no gifts are required (we won’t turn down an Aritzia gift card though), you might want to bring some tissues. As Emily and Janice celebrate another trip around the sun, they explore their experiences grieving both permanent and non-permanent loss, as well as reveal their EXTREMELY controversial sun, moon, and rising signs! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, October 18, 2022
How To Stop Overthinking At Work
It’s been tough lately for these corporate gals. Tune in as Emily and Janice share their experiences of overthinking at work, tackling office politics, and how they approach conversations surrounding performance reviews, promotions and raises. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, October 11, 2022
Embracing Insecurities feat. Seth
Emily and Janice invite their college friend Seth, the FIRST (of many) guests, to tackle the tough BUT NECESSARY topic: insecurities. In this week’s episode, the three of them discuss some of their current insecurities including body image, acne, height and imposter syndrome. They also share how they’ve overcome some of their past insecurities. Make sure to stay tuned until the end for a special surprise! ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, October 04, 2022
It's THAT Time of the Month
Whatever your worst period story is, Janice has probably had it worse. Tune in to this week’s episode where Emily and Janice comment on their current period struggles, period horror stories of the past and the community that the infamous “time of the month” can foster among women. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, September 20, 2022
Saving The Best For Last
Emily and Janice have spent a whole season getting to know each other on a deeper level, but this episode they answer some more fun questions. From first kisses, first impressions of each other and relatable bathroom situations, they learn shocking new things about one another. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, August 23, 2022
How To Prioritize Your BFFs vs BFs
This week, Emily and Janice discuss how they’ve been balancing time alone with family time, and understanding the different types of loyalty between friends and boy friends. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, August 16, 2022
Conversations About Money
Talking about money is never easy. Emily and Janice share their strategies and experiences on a controversial topic: should the guy pay on dates? The conversation then stretches from the roots of their beliefs to the classic battle for the bill amongst extended families and salary transparency in relationships. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, August 09, 2022
Are We Asian Enough?
Emily and Janice share their unique experiences growing up Asian American both abroad and in the states. Can you relate to some of the guilt, embarrassment and surprising stories that come from exploring the line between being Asian and being Asian American? ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, August 02, 2022
Being Alone vs Being Independent
Emily and Janice share their ongoing struggles in understanding the fine line between loneliness and independence, along with tips on how they have learned to embrace alone time. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, July 26, 2022
Our First Fight
It’s their very first fight! Emily and Janice share details of their first confrontation and how they’ve dealt with conflicts with others in the past. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, July 19, 2022
Sleepover With My Boyfriend Gone Wrong
Emily and Janice recount their dating horror stories, from worst first date “souvenirs” to a sterile sleepover situation. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, July 12, 2022
Losing Yourself in a Relationship
Continuing on with the theme of firsts, Emily and Janice discuss their first long term relationships, memorable first dates and thoughts on losing yourself in a relationship. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
Tue, July 05, 2022
Feeling Stuck In Your Career In Your Twenties
The first episode is all about firsts, starting with…careers! Emily and Janice talk about Four Years Later’s origin story and the rude awakening of adulthood after graduating. ♥ Hosts Emily & Janice ♥ Follow us Instagram TikTok ♥ Listen All platforms ♥ Graphics Special effects, graphic design and branding by Devin Bennett ♥ Music Jingle produced by Barry Tan
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