Mette and Candice, friends for more than thirty years, both found themselves divorced during the pandemic. They have very different perspectives on the challenge of finding themselves in the midst of an entirely new life.
S1 E50 · Thu, September 28, 2023
Candice and Mette talk about what the podcast has meant to them.
Thu, September 21, 2023
We talk about what makes us feel safe and what doesn't.
S1 E48 · Thu, September 14, 2023
Two recovering perfectionists talk about the contining temptation.
S1 E47 · Thu, September 07, 2023
Can you become more fun and if so, how?
S1 E46 · Thu, August 31, 2023
When you know you shouldn't do too much, why do you keep doing it anyway? What are you winning? What are you avoiding?
S1 E45 · Thu, July 20, 2023
What do you keep, literally and metaphorically, after a major life change?
S1 E44 · Thu, July 06, 2023
Do you give advice? Why or why not?
S1 E43 · Thu, June 15, 2023
If no one has ever told you before, it sucks getting old.
S1 E40 · Fri, May 12, 2023
All the things we've learned to do since our divorces.
S1 E42 · Thu, May 04, 2023
What do you regret? How do you let go of regret? What regret is it useful to hold onto, if any?
S1 E39 · Thu, April 20, 2023
Taking a good hard look at how we self-sabotage
S1 E41 · Thu, April 13, 2023
How good are you at taking feedback? Should you always?
S1 E38 · Thu, March 30, 2023
Yes, we're talking literally and metaphorically here
S1 E37 · Thu, March 09, 2023
S1 E36 · Thu, March 02, 2023
What can I take out of my life that will add to my life?
S1 E35 · Thu, February 23, 2023
Are you allowed to get what you want? That's the first step in getting it. Other thoughts on the same.
S1 E32 · Thu, February 16, 2023
How do you learn to ask for help and not give up your sense of independence?
S1 E33 · Thu, February 09, 2023
When you have nothing left, you hit the wall. Sometimes that can be a very good thing.
S1 E32 · Thu, February 02, 2023
We talk about avoiding the binary of this type of thinking.
S1 E31 · Thu, January 19, 2023
Sometimes you worry if there will be enough time, but there is.
S1 E30 · Thu, January 12, 2023
Is self-care bath bombs and chocolate or is it more than that?
S1 E29 · Thu, January 05, 2023
What is money for? How do you use money properly? How do you feel less guilty about money? How do you use money for happiness?
S1 E28 · Fri, December 30, 2022
What do you do when anniversaries about things you're still processing come up?
S1 E27 · Wed, December 21, 2022
What if "because I want to?" is not a selfish thing to say, but actually the only reason any of us do anything?
S1 E25 · Wed, December 14, 2022
Why divorce isn't the worst thing in the world. If you're up for that discussion.
S1 E24 · Thu, December 01, 2022
It's time for us to own our anger.
S1 E24 · Thu, November 24, 2022
Do you think we can solve all the problems? Because we definitely do.
Thu, November 17, 2022
Can you experience pain without suffering. Your two hosts argue charmingly about this.
S1 E20 · Thu, November 10, 2022
Women and mothers are often invisible. We would like to stop being invisible, please.
S1 E22 · Thu, November 10, 2022
People might change, but it doesn't seem to happen very often, or at least not on a character level.
S1 E21 · Thu, October 20, 2022
Do you hate the love language paradigm? Is it useful at all?
S1 E20 · Thu, October 13, 2022
Women and mothers are often invisible and we would like to stop being invisible now please.
S1 E19 · Wed, September 28, 2022
Everyone says this, but how can you really learn how to not care about their business and believe it's really what you think about yourself that matters?
S1 E18 · Thu, September 15, 2022
If it's going to get done, it has to be by me. Ever feel like this? We do.
S1 E17 · Thu, September 08, 2022
We take a little quiz to see how optimistic we are. We are both surprised (though you may not be).
S1 E16 · Thu, August 25, 2022
What is forgiveness? Is it letting things go or is it something more?
S1 E15 · Thu, August 18, 2022
We have both been through changes in our religious beliefs, but have also ended in very different places.
S1 E14 · Thu, August 11, 2022
Some people hate birthdays. Some people love birthdays. Guess which of us is which?
S1 E13 · Thu, August 04, 2022
How do you feel about your changing physical appearance after age 50? Wrinkles, gray hair, sagging--um, other parts. We chat frankly about these issues.
S1 E12 · Thu, July 21, 2022
What is happy? How is happy? Is happy?
S1 E11 · Fri, July 15, 2022
How do yout rust yourself when you are the one who has always minimized and betrayed you?
S1 E10 · Thu, July 07, 2022
Trying to figure out how to reconcile the different versions of ourselves, offering them all grace.
S1 E8 · Fri, July 01, 2022
Women tend to put their own needs on hold. We talk about how to not do that anymore.
S1 E8 · Thu, June 23, 2022
Mette and Candice talk about the pain of losing people as your life changes, and the choice to lose people, as well.
S1 E7 · Thu, June 16, 2022
Depression is scary and lonely. It isn’t something I would wish on my worst enemy. But it is something that I’ve ended up helping dearest friends through. Sometimes I’m even grateful for my depression because it has allowed me to understand something I never understood before and to help articulate the thoughts that depression whispers to you.
S1 E6 · Wed, March 23, 2022
In high school, one teacher who only ever saw us when we were together called us "Mettice," Candice and Mette. Here is our origin story, even though it took us a decade to remember the first time we truly met.
S1 E5 · Tue, March 15, 2022
Do you think brooms are not things of joy? Well, listen to us discuss why they can be.
S1 E4 · Wed, March 02, 2022
There are wonderful things about being alone. Here are some of them.
S1 E3 · Wed, February 23, 2022
How do you love yourself? What if you hate yourself? Why does it matter?
S1 E2 · Mon, February 14, 2022
We all seem to enter into relationships with the idea that there are certain rules, but when other people don't follow the same rules, we're angry. And discover that they never had the same rules in the first place. How could they not?
S1 E1 · Sun, January 30, 2022
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