Heaven In Your Home
This podcast is a place where we unpack God's heart on sex, marriage, and His mission on the earth.
S4 E217 · Mon, March 31, 2025
217. Embodying Trust: How to Care for Yourself as You Care for Others
In this deeply personal episode of Heaven in Your Home, Francie shares her journey of embracing her role as a caregiver while also learning to release her burdens to God. Many women are carrying heavy loads—whether through motherhood, caring for aging parents, supporting loved ones, or simply navigating the many responsibilities of life. In this conversation, Francie unpacks how to steward your body, mind, and spirit while living in a caregiving role, and how to find rest in God’s design for you. She explores practical, embodied ways to release stress, regulate your nervous system, and truly give your cares to the Lord—not just in theory, but in daily practice. If you’re feeling weary, burdened, or stretched thin, this episode is a must-listen. Discussion Points: Why Francie began embracing her role as a caregiver instead of resisting it. How caregiving is a reflection of God’s heart—as an advocate, a provider, and a nurturer. The spiritual and physical cost of constantly giving to others. The shift in perspective from being a caregiver to one who also gives her cares to God. How stress and anxiety show up in women’s bodies and the importance of nervous system regulation. Practical tools for emotional and physical relief: Key Takeaways: Naming your role as a caregiver can help you embrace it instead of resisting it. God is our ultimate caregiver. When we advocate for our loved ones, He reminds us that He advocates for us. Giving our cares to God is an active practice. It requires both spiritual trust and physical action. Your body holds the stress you carry. Learning to support your nervous system through breathwork, prayer, and movement can make a huge difference. Prayer is the most powerful form of self-care. When we turn to God, we find true renewal beyond what the world offers. Setting boundaries (like limiting social media) can help protect our peace and keep us focused on what truly matters. Resources Mentioned: Tim Keller’s Teaching on Prayer – A sermon series that deeply impacted Francie’s approach to prayer. Breathwork Practices – Techniques like ocean breath and straw breathing for calming the nervous system. Bone Broth & Nourishing Foods – Simple, God-designed ways to support the body through nutrition. Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: 201 Course: Permission for Pleasure, Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm This 90-minute masterclass is a deep dive into embracin
S4 E216 · Mon, March 24, 2025
216. Puberty and Periods with Megan from Body Talk Basics
Episode Summary: In this episode of Heaven in Your Home, Francie sits down with Megan from Body Talk Basics to explore how we can understand and embrace the beauty of our female bodies. From puberty to periods, body awareness to holistic health, this conversation provides powerful insights for moms and daughters alike. Megan shares her journey of discovering the intricate and beautiful design of the female body and how understanding it has led her closer to God’s love. Whether you're navigating these transitions with your daughter or seeking a deeper appreciation of your own body, this episode is full of wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools. Discussion Points: Megan’s personal journey of moving from frustration with her female body to awe and respect for God’s design. The importance of educating young girls about puberty in a way that fosters joy rather than shame. How understanding the design of the female body can shift the narrative from burden to blessing. How moms can better equip themselves to walk through puberty transitions with their daughters. The impact of hormones on our cycles, moods, and overall health. Practical tips for managing periods naturally, including nutrition, warming foods, and herbal remedies. The role of rest and “Sabbath” in a woman’s monthly cycle. The connection between female cycles and God's creation, including the lunar cycle. Addressing body odor, skincare, and clean beauty choices for young girls. Why puberty and body changes are an opportunity to deepen the mother-daughter bond. Key Takeaways: Education fosters confidence. When girls understand their bodies, they are less likely to feel shame and more likely to embrace their femininity with joy. God’s design is good. The female body is not a burden but a reflection of God’s intentional and loving creation. Pain is not normal. Period pain can often be a sign that the body needs more support through nutrition, rest, and natural remedies. Sabbath for the body. Just as God designed rest for the land and for weekly rhythms, a woman’s cycle benefits from intentional periods of rest. Practical tools matter. Simple changes—like warming foods, non-toxic deodorants, and natural skincare—can make a big differe
S4 E215 · Mon, March 17, 2025
215. Is This Normal? A No Shame Body Chat with an OBGYN
In this episode of Heaven in Your Home , Francie sits down with Dr. Adrienne Browning, OB-GYN, for an open and impowering conversation about women's health, sexuality, and finding your voice at the doctor's office. If you've ever felt nervous, embarrased, or unsure about what to ask your doctor, this episode will equipyou with practical tips and confidence to advocate for your health. Our discussion covered: Many women struggle to ask health questions because of fear or embarrassment. Understanding your body is a form of self-care and worship—not something to be ashamed of. Sexual health matters at every stage—from puberty to postpartum, menopause, and beyond. You deserve to have a trusting, informed relationship with your OB-GYN. Key Takeaways: How to Prepare for Your Doctor’s Visit – Learn how to ask questions and get the most out of your appointment. Common Women’s Health Concerns – From menstrual health to perimenopause, menopause, vaginal dryness, and libido, Dr. Browning breaks it all down. Why Painful Sex Is NOT Normal – Understanding when to seek help and what options exist for healing and pleasure. Hormonal Health & Treatment Options – The truth about hormone replacement therapy, vaginal estrogen, and natural alternatives. Postpartum & Pregnancy Sex – How to navigate intimacy during and after pregnancy with confidence and care. Resources Mentioned: A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex by Lori Mintz. Pain-Free Intimacy – A program for overcoming vaginismus and painful sex. About Dr. Adrianne Browing: Adrianne Cones Browning, MD, FACOG, is a board-certified obstetrician and gynecologist dedicated to providing compassionate care to women across all life stages. She earned her medical degree from the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School in Dallas and completed her residency in obstetrics and gynecology at Baylor University Medical Center. With a special interest in empowering women to engage actively in their health, Dr. Browning offers comprehensive gynecologic services. Her extensive experience includes managing complicated pregnancies and obstetric emergencies, honed over seven years as an OB/GYN hospitalist. Fluent in both English and Spanish, Dr. Browning is committed to making healthcare accessible and informative for a diverse patient po
S4 E214 · Mon, March 10, 2025
214. Caring for Your Good Body - Functional Nutrition with Leslie Bumpas
In this episode of Heaven in Your Home, Francie sits down with mentor and functional nutrition expert Leslie Bumpas to discuss caring for your body holistically. Leslie shares her deep wisdom on aging gracefully, navigating hormonal changes, and making informed health decisions based on God’s design. This conversation is an invitation to steward your body well—without getting caught up in fads, but instead embracing a lifestyle that fosters longevity, vitality, and overall well-being. Your body is a gift from God, and taking care of it is an act of stewardship and worship. Aging well is possible—you don’t have to fear the changes, but rather prepare and embrace them. Many health struggles (fatigue, brain fog, mood swings, etc.) can be alleviated with proper nutrition and lifestyle shifts. You don’t have to buy into every trend—understanding the core of functional nutrition helps you make wise choices for your health. Key Takeaways: Understanding Hormonal Shifts – Learn how perimenopause and menopause impact your energy, mood, and metabolism, and what to do about it. Supporting Your Body Through Nutrition – Discover how food can be medicine and how simple shifts in diet can radically improve your well-being. The Role of Stress & Detoxification – Learn how stress impacts hormones and why detoxification is essential for long-term health. Aging with Grace & Strength – Leslie shares her personal journey of watching her mother’s health decline and why she chose a different path. Practical Steps You Can Take Today – From lab testing to daily habits, learn actionable strategies to optimize your health without overwhelm. Resources Mentioned: Connect with Leslie Bumpas and explore her work here Leslie’s Lemon Liver Flush here About Leslie Bumpas: Deep in Leslie’s heart, she always longed to heal people. In fact, when she was young, she wanted to be a doctor. When her kiddos went off to school, she decided to finally follow her passion: nutrition and wellness. She works in a field that she loves as a Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner™ certified by the Nutritional Therapy Association™. Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: 201 Course: Permission for Pleasure, Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm This 90-minute masterclass is a deep dive into embracing God’s good design for your body a
S4 E213 · Mon, February 17, 2025
213. Closing the Pleasure Gap - Growing Skills to Enjoy More Pleasure
In this episode of Heaven in Your Home, Francie Winslow unpacks the third essential ingredient for cultivating a thriving, nourishing sex life in marriage: growing practical skills. She invites listeners to move beyond mindset shifts and embrace actionable steps to experience deeper intimacy, pleasure, and connection. With grace and vulnerability, Francie explains why developing skills isn’t just about mechanics but about creating space for growth, curiosity, and joy in the bedroom. What You’ll Learn: How adopting a growth mindset can transform your intimate connection. The importance of honoring your body’s design and exploring God-given pleasure. Practical techniques to enhance intimacy, including communication and physical skills. Ways to overcome fear and shame to fully engage with your sexuality. Takeaway Tip: Discover the power of integrating breath, movement, and intentional connection with your body and your spouse for a more fulfilling sex life. Listen now to learn how growing skills can help you and your spouse experience intimacy as God intended! Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Pre-Order Today: Permission for Pleasure: Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm Inside this 90 minute masterclass Francie will get practical. Explore the God-given design of your body and the gift of intimacy in Francie Winslow's 90-minute masterclass. Learn to practically embrace the beauty of your sexuality, and experience deeper connection with your spouse. From understanding arousal to practical techniques for pleasure, this session invites you to step into a vision of intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Register Here . Start Here: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well - Claiming a Healthy Vision for Married Sex To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Get Connected: Keep lear
S4 E212 · Mon, February 10, 2025
212. It’s About Time - Reviving Your Sexual Intimacy
Episode Summary: In this episode of Heaven in Your Home, Francie Winslow dives into the essential role of time in cultivating a flourishing and nourishing sex life. Building on the foundational idea of valuing God’s design for intimacy, Francie explores how intentionality and margin can transform your connection with your body, your spouse, and God’s vision for your sexuality. What You’ll Learn: Why stewarding your sexuality is like tending a garden—it requires time, care, and attention. Practical ways to integrate body awareness and sexual connection into your daily life. How margin and prioritization can help nurture intimacy, even in the busiest seasons of life. Encouragement to honor the gift of your body and sexuality as part of God’s good design. Join Francie as she shares heartfelt stories, biblical encouragement, and practical tools to help you create space for healing, growth, and joy in your intimate life. Listen now to discover how prioritizing your sexuality can bear lasting fruit in your marriage and beyond! Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Pre-Order Today: Permission for Pleasure: Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm Inside this 90 minute masterclass Francie will get practical. Explore the God-given design of your body and the gift of intimacy in Francie Winslow's 90-minute masterclass. Learn to practically embrace the beauty of your sexuality, and experience deeper connection with your spouse. From understanding arousal to practical techniques for pleasure, this session invites you to step into a vision of intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Register Here . Start Here: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well - Claiming a Healthy Vision for Married Sex To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Get Connected: Keep learning and get direct access to Francie!
S4 E211 · Mon, February 03, 2025
211. From Shame to Joy: Reclaiming the Gift of Pleasure in Your Story- UPDATE
Episode Summary: In this episode, Francie Winslow invites us to reflect on our relationship with pleasure and sexuality through the lens of God’s design. Drawing from scripture and her personal healing journey, Francie explores how shame, cultural narratives, and misbeliefs have distorted our understanding of intimacy. She shares practical insights into reconnecting with our bodies, valuing pleasure as a divine gift, and embracing a garden vision of intimacy—naked, unashamed, and deeply connected to God’s heart. What You’ll Learn: How our nervous system shapes our relationship to pleasure. The importance of rewiring our mindset to align with God’s blessing over our sexuality. Practical steps to rediscover joy and connection in intimacy. Why valuing pleasure is foundational to a thriving sex life. Join Francie as she encourages us to invite God into our story, heal our foundations, and reclaim the beauty of intimacy as He intended. Listen now and rediscover the goodness of God’s gift of sexuality! Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Pre-Order Today: Permission for Pleasure: Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm Inside this 90 minute masterclass Francie will get practical. Explore the God-given design of your body and the gift of intimacy in Francie Winslow's 90-minute masterclass. Learn to practically embrace the beauty of your sexuality, and experience deeper connection with your spouse. From understanding arousal to practical techniques for pleasure, this session invites you to step into a vision of intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Register Here . Start Here: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well - Claiming a Healthy Vision for Married Sex To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Get Connected: Keep learning and get direct access to
S4 E211 · Mon, February 03, 2025
211. From Shame to Joy: Reclaiming the Gift of Pleasure in Your Story
Episode Summary: In this episode, Francie Winslow invites us to reflect on our relationship with pleasure and sexuality through the lens of God’s design. Drawing from scripture and her personal healing journey, Francie explores how shame, cultural narratives, and misbeliefs have distorted our understanding of intimacy. She shares practical insights into reconnecting with our bodies, valuing pleasure as a divine gift, and embracing a garden vision of intimacy—naked, unashamed, and deeply connected to God’s heart. What You’ll Learn: How our nervous system shapes our relationship to pleasure. The importance of rewiring our mindset to align with God’s blessing over our sexuality. Practical steps to rediscover joy and connection in intimacy. Why valuing pleasure is foundational to a thriving sex life. Join Francie as she encourages us to invite God into our story, heal our foundations, and reclaim the beauty of intimacy as He intended. Listen now and rediscover the goodness of God’s gift of sexuality! Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Pre-Order Today: Permission for Pleasure: Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm Inside this 90 minute masterclass Francie will get practical. Explore the God-given design of your body and the gift of intimacy in Francie Winslow's 90-minute masterclass. Learn to practically embrace the beauty of your sexuality, and experience deeper connection with your spouse. From understanding arousal to practical techniques for pleasure, this session invites you to step into a vision of intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Register Here . Start Here: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well - Claiming a Healthy Vision for Married Sex To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Get Connected: Keep learning and get direct access to
S4 E210 · Mon, January 20, 2025
210. Three Essential Elements to Pleasure in Marriage
In this transformative episode of the Heaven in Your Home podcast, Francie Winslow invites listeners on a deeply personal and spiritual journey to rediscover God's design for sexual intimacy in marriage. Drawing from her own experiences of struggle, healing, and growth, Francie explores how valuing sexuality, creating margin for connection, and developing practical skills can breathe life into intimacy, strengthen marital bonds, and deepen spiritual connection. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Valuing Sexuality: Why honoring and embracing our God-given sexual design is essential for healing and intimacy. Making Margin: How intentionality in creating time for connection fosters deeper love, joy, and healing. Growing Skills: The importance of learning practical tools to enhance intimacy and break free from shame. Francie also addresses common misconceptions and cultural narratives about sexuality, offering a gospel-centered perspective that celebrates pleasure as a gift from God. With her trademark vulnerability, she shares how this journey of transformation is not only deeply personal but also profoundly spiritual. Highlights: Personal testimony of overcoming shame and discovering freedom in God’s design for sexuality. Encouragement to prioritize intimacy amidst the busyness of life. Practical insights for integrating spiritual and physical intimacy in marriage. An invitation to a live masterclass for deeper exploration of these topics. Key Takeaway Sexual intimacy is not just a physical act but a holy space where healing, joy, and connection with God and your spouse converge. By valuing, prioritizing, and growing in this area, you can unlock a ripple effect of beauty and restoration in every aspect of your life. Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Pre-Order Today: Permission for Pleasure: Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm Inside this 90 minute masterclass Francie will get practical. Explore the God-given design of your body and the gift of intimacy in Francie Winslow's 90-minute masterclass. Learn to practically embrace the beauty of your sexuality, and experience deeper connection with your spouse. From understanding arousal to practical techniques for pleasure, this session invites you to step into a vision of intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Register
S4 E209 · Mon, January 13, 2025
209. Reclaiming Pleasure: A Journey of Healing
Welcome back to NEW episodes of the Heaven in Your Home podcast with Francie Winslow. Francie is back at the microphone after a season of personal challenges and reflection, with fresh enthusiasm to help you understand the beauty of your body and sexuality in the context of your faith. Your body is good, a temple of the Holy Spirit. We are diving into the often-taboo topic of female pleasure and sexuality, exploring how shame and disconnection can hinder intimacy in marriage. Let’s reclaim our understanding of pleasure as a gift from God. And, let’s talk about the healing and restorative power of sexual intimacy within a Christian framework. Episode Highlights: Return from a Season of Reflection The Importance of the Body in Faith Exploring Female Pleasure and Sexuality Navigating Sexuality in Christian Life Healing and Reclaiming Pleasure Embracing Pleasure and Vulnerability The Design of Pleasure: Understanding Our Bodies Invitation to Explore: Valuing Pleasure in Marriage Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E208 · Mon, August 26, 2024
208. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Ten, How Often Should I Be Having Sex
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. This is a loaded question. Stop “should-ing” on yourself, especially when it comes to your marriage. “Should” is a word that connotes a duty or a chore…who wants that? Let’s reframe the question moving forward. Rather, let’s focus on the benefits of an active and growing sex life. While we can focus on the many health benefits, what if we flip the question and understand what’s behind your questions about “how often.” In this episode you’ll be encouraged to reframe the way you think about frequency or differing sex drives. Listen in and hear a more helpful approach to choosing intimacy and connection. Resources Mentioned: The 10 Health Benefits of Regular Sex. Here Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E207 · Mon, August 19, 2024
207. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Nine, Sex Toys and Vibrators
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. What’s okay for Christian marriage in the bedroom? Maybe that’s the wrong question. Married sex can be a playground, filled with creativity and adventure. In this episode, we’ll reframe the question and perhaps help you process and give yourself permission for a little bit of adventure and freedom in your marriage bed. God created you in a wonderful way and designed married intimacy as celebration. The bodies of a husband and wife are designed to fit together perfectly and there isn’t a mandate saying you need to add anything. Sex toys are simply tools that you can introduce to your married intimacy “menu.” Consider these thoughts on sex toys as you process what is good for your marriage. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E206 · Mon, August 12, 2024
206. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Eight, Pleasure and Orgasm with Bonny Burns
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. Are you tuned into your female body? Often, even bringing up the topic of the clitoris or vagina can cause Christian women to shut down. As Bonny shares, when you have education about something, it becomes less scary. And, yet, most women don’t have much understanding of their genitalia. Bonny breaks down the science and the scriptures to give you permission to know your body and understand how your amazing female body works. In this chat we talk about anatomy, desire, low drives/high drives, growth mindset, loving your female body, arousal, orgasm, communication and shifting gears toward more mutual satisfaction in the bedroom and so much more. Bonny is the mentor we all want on these topics. More about Bonny Burns: Bonny Burns works to empower the wife with low sexual interest, little sex drive, and possibly a sexless marriage through science, scripture, and stories. She writes at oysterbed7.com and podcasts at Sex Chat for Christian Wives. You can find her ministry to women who have experienced sexual betrayal at strongwives.com. She earned a Christian Counseling certification (not licensure) in 2015 and in December, 2019, she completed a Bachelor of Science in counseling psychology from Liberty University. She is married to Dave for over 30 years and is a mother to three adult sons. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for par
S3 E205 · Mon, August 05, 2024
205. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Seven, Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Part 1
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. Orgasms are a gift created, formed and given straight from the heart of God. This sweet gift will bless your marriage, will bless your interaction with your husband and will give you a glimpse of the pleasure and the wonder that we'll have for eternity with God, where you are lost in wonder and lost in love. In this episode you will learn more about orgasms, including types of orgasm and the intention of orgasm. In addition to the practicals, you will be given a little bit of vision for thinking about orgasm and realizing that it is not the highest goal of our sexual intimacy, but it is an incredible and holy gift that you are worthy of experiencing. This teaching is packed with detail and insight. Be equipped and be encouraged as you continue to educate yourself on your wonderful female body. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E204 · Mon, July 29, 2024
204. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Six, The Science of Sex
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. In this episode, Francie talks about... The science behind God’s good gift of intimacy. The GOODNESS of God in our biology and all the amazing God-inspired wonders that happen on a physiological level in our mind, body and emotions when we enjoy the gift of intimacy. The fact that there is a grand narrative … the love story of God ... the very Gospel … embedded into the nature of sexuality, marriage, and into the story of husband and wife. How our bodies - our very most private parts, our brains, our hormones, our emotions and our relationships - testify to God’s wisdom, creativity, and genius- all by Him, for Him and for His glory. Romans 11:36- For EVERYTHING comes from Him- and exists by His power and intended for His glory. A prayer to see God’s good design on our bodies: God, it’s clear that there’s so much resistance in this area. But I know you to be a God of breakthrough, healing and restoration. I ask for your re-alignment in my mindset on sex, my body, and the gift of intimacy in my marriage. Help me to discover your view, your intention for my body, my sexuality, my family and my household. Help me embrace that my body is GOOD. Help me to see and celebrate your power, goodness and wisdom that is revealed in my body- this temple in which you delightfully dwell. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies
S3 E203 · Mon, July 22, 2024
203. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Five, High and Low Libidos
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent? Today’s episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions. Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore let’s discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire. Let’s get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E202 · Mon, July 15, 2024
202. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Four, Foreplay Husband Chat
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. Let’s continue the conversation on foreplay with a chat to encourage and equip husbands. (Wives will be encouraged, too). Let’s continue to reframe foreplay and the unique beauty of masculinity and femininity. In this chat, you’ll be encouraged as we discuss: Being a man of strength, with unique strength to serve your bride. Becoming an expert of your wife Removing the duty perspective and helping your wife flourish Foreplay as an opportunity to go at the pace of her pleasure and treasure her from head to toe What it looks like practically to serve with sexual strength before and during foreplay GET THE GUIDE: Foreplay Guide for Husbands and Wives here You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie:<
S3 E201 · Mon, July 08, 2024
201. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Three, Foreplay
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. What is foreplay and what purpose does it serve? In this discussion you’ll learn about the role of foreplay, but it may surprise you. Instead of seeing foreplay as a way to get ready for the main event, what if it were a time of relaxing into more pleasure and greater intimacy? You were made for deep connection and naked and unashamed intimacy. Let’s look at foreplay as a tool for connection through rest, relaxation and celebration of your feminine beauty. GET THE GUIDE: Foreplay Guide for Husbands and Wives here You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E200 · Mon, July 01, 2024
200. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week Two, Love and Sex with Nancy Houston
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you equipping with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. In today's episode, we have rich conversations with a licensed counselor and sex therapist Nancy Houston. Nancy offers wonderful insight and compassion into the profound connections between love, sex, and healing. We discuss: The spiritual mystery and depth to our sexuality Emotional and soul connection in marriage How to keep sex on the “front burner” Power and beauty of the feminine body Identifying what’s informed your view of sex and understanding how you may be modeling your sex life accordingly Working through sexual trauma through sharing your story (or receiving the story of another) Normalizing, rather than demonizing, our sexuality Styles of attachment (healthy and unhealthy) About Nancy Houston: Nancy Houston is an author, speaker, Executive Leadership Coach, Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. She loves to help people grow into their full potential, empowering them to be truly alive. Nancy has been married to the love of her life for almost 50 years. Together they have four wonderful married sons and six adorable grandchildren. Nancy is the author of Love and Sex and Then God Made A Woman: Unwrapping Female Sexuality. Resources Mentioned: A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy by Dr. Douglas E. Rosenau, Jeff Durham, et al. Then God Made A Woman: Unwrapping Female Sexuality by Nancy Houston Enjoy!: The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women by Joyce and Clifford Penner You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circl
S3 E199 · Mon, June 24, 2024
199. Summer Lovin’ Series: Week One, Stewarding Your Sexuality
Welcome to the Summer Lovin’ Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you equipping with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ Matthew 25 When you think about the parable of the talents your mind instantly gravitates toward stewarding your finances, your gifts, or even your health. But, have you ever thought about the faithfulness that might flow from stewarding your sexuality? We get to steward the gift of our sexuality, with purpose and intention over the course of our life. And, faithfulness brings great benefits,including the unity that leads to fruitfulness within the context of marriage. Sex is not a duty, not a chore, not something to check off your list. It is something to enjoy, to pursue, to delight and to receive great pleasure. Let’s learn a fresh viewpoint on stewardship and experience the joy of our Master. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E198 · Mon, June 17, 2024
198. Bigger Than a “Sex Talk” - Tools to Help You Teach Your Kids about Sex
There are simple ways to have big conversations. You can purposefully plant seeds of God’s Word into the hearts of your children. Realizing it’s not about a “sex talk," you can be equipped to disciple your children with frequent touch points, vulnerability and humility. Let’s lean into the goodness of God and choose to walk in His peace, His joy and His celebration through shared language. That’s what Heaven in Your Home Family Music is all about. In today’s episode we welcome Kathryn Brunner, my real life friend who is a beautiful singer/songwriter who collaborated to bring Heaven in Your Home Family Music to your home. We will unpack the vision, the purpose and the meaning behind these culture-shifting songs. Listen in, be equipped and encouraged as you take hold of the JOY and CELEBRATION of God and the crown of His creation, YOU! Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Related Episodes: Body Talks with Kids Series, Episode 96 - 99 Shifting Culture through Music in your Home, Episode Teaching Your Kids about Sex with Kristen Miele, Episode 141 About Kathryn Brunner: Heaven in Your Home Family Music is a beautiful collaboration with Kathryn Brunner. Kathryn is a seminary trained singer-songwriter and music educator. She lives in the DC Metro area with her husband and two daughters whom she homeschools. Kathryn is fiercely passionate about equipping families to walk faithfully in the truth of God’s word. Heaven in Your Home Family Music is an outworking of that passion. With an educator’s mindset, she is also driven to help children grow in an understanding of music to equip them to serve their communities and the world. She is the founder of Musik at Home , an online music education studio for children ages 0-10 where she offers vibrant early childhood and piano courses that are available on the web, mobile app, Apple TV and Amazon Fire TV. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Jo
S3 E197 · Mon, June 10, 2024
197. Helping Your Kids Navigate Healthy Sexual Development with Kristen Miele
Let’s continue the conversation about helping your kids navigate healthy sexual development. This discussion was held inside The Circle group mentorship with invited guest teacher Kristen Miele, who’s a dedicated educator with Biblically based frameworks. This discussion touches on self-soothing, pornography and many other questions that you may face as a parent as you seek to disciple your child in truth and love. Related Episodes: Shifting Culture through Music in Your Home, Episode 112 Body Talks with Kids: Clarity, Confidence and the Critical Need to Shift the Conversation, Episode 96 Body Talks with Kids: Celebrating the Body, Celebrating God, Episode 99 About Sex Ed Reclaimed: Sex Ed Reclaimed existes to break the cycle of silence in the Christian world on the topic of sex with Sex Ed Reclaimed, LLC as a premier choice for adults seeking to honestly engage the next generation. Sex Ed Reclaimed specializes in God honoring and accessible sex ed for children 3 to18 years old. Find resources here . About Kristen Miele: Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, has been educating youth on the topic of sex for the last 12 years. She’s taught in hundreds of diverse settings including 2 different countries. Kristen has experience teaching ages 3 and up on content related to sex and sexuality. The vision for Sex Ed Reclaimed came to her in November 2021 and it became an LLC in 2022. Kristen has one daughter, Emma Joy, who is 4 years old. She’s been married to Anthony since 2012. They live in Columbus, Ohio with their daughter and a very fat cat. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded v
S3 E196 · Mon, June 03, 2024
196. Navigating Healthy Sexual Development & Self-Discovery with Your Kids
We’re talking about sex and our kids. How do we talk to our kids about sex? About their bodies? What’s normal? And, what do we do about hot topics like touching themselves? This episode is actually a peek inside The Circle, the group mentorship that meets for monthly live teaching. This is a more in depth conversation about navigating healthy sexual development in our kids, through the ages and stages, based on this core framework: Sex is good and of God Sexual curiosity is natural Sexual responsiveness is natural Sexual responsibility belongs to each person Mutual respect and Biblical values are the guide for all sexual relationships Episodes Mentioned: Stewarding Sexuality Series, Episodes 142-145, here Resources Mentioned: Sex Facts for the Family, Clifford and Joyce Penner, here Getting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start, Clifford and Joyce Penner, here You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this cours
S3 E195 · Mon, May 20, 2024
195. Sexual Celebration with Alexa PenaVega (Most-Loved Episode Replay)
Way better than anything Hollywood could ever portray, today’s guest Alexa PenaVega shares her vulnerable testimony of finding more in her marriage. How do you go from a wife who really doesn’t feel very excited about physical intimacy to finding celebration and joy? In this episode, Alexa and Francie chat about the fruitfulness that has flowed from pursuing oneness, their callings as mothers to disciple their children and be the best source for all things, including sex. Note: This episode endured technology challenges and you may note uneven audio levels. Thank you for your patience with the audio, but the contents of the conversation are filled with beautiful truth, testimony and thoughtful ideas. About Alexa PenaVega: You may know Alexa PenaVega as an actress from hit shows like Spy Kids. But, today you can hear more about her desire to honor her husband, Carlos PenaVega, and pursue a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. Their book, What if Love is the Point is a must-read, overflowing with both laughter and honest reflections, the PenaVegas’ incredible story—from the red carpet, Spy Kids movies, and Big Time Rush to Dancing with the Stars to marriage and now parenthood will encourage you. 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: <a href=
S3 E194 · Mon, May 13, 2024
194. Introducing: Strong Foundations for Married Sex
You have permission to break free from silence and shame and show up in a different way. Perhaps you’ve experienced silence or unhelpful messages about your body and your sexuality. You’ve heard about sex being a man’s need or a wife’s duty. You’ve been told your body is a stumbling block and that sexual desire is dirty. The “don’t do it, don’t do it” message is ingrained in your brain, even if you’re already married. It’s no wonder you show up to marriage with questions and even some confusion, unable to access desire or express passion. While you want to find answers and learn how to make the shift from “don’t do it” to fully embracing the beauty of the marriage bed, there’s a lot of silence, hurt and unhelpful messages out there that keep us stuck. To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Learn about a brand new resource developed to help you get a new lens, a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex. The Strong Foundations course provides a comprehensive guide to starting the conversation and building a strong foundation for a healthy and fulfilling marriage. You’re Invited to Learn in the New Growth Course: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well, CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: <a
S3 E193 · Mon, May 06, 2024
193 From Purity Culture to the Goodness of Playful Intimacy
You have a story…and, perhaps the purity culture movement has been a part of shaping your views about your body and your design. Let’s unpack some of the shame and fear that may be holding you back as we walk toward more integration and celebration of the gift of married intimacy. Playfulness and novelty in your marriage is good and of God. In this episode you’ll get insight and practical tips to bring more of the goodness of playfulness into your marriage and your intimacy. You’re Invited to Learn in the New Growth Course: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well, CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter
S3 E192 · Mon, April 22, 2024
192. Prioritizing Growth while Parenting Little Ones
Overwhelm, endless to-do lists, and exhaustion is real, especially in the season of life when you’re pouring your heart and soul into a growing family. Raising little children and having little babies can feel like a sprinting marathon. Let’s talk about the challenges faced by many mommas to nurture sexual intimacy while raising young children. And, let’s infuse some practicals for navigating this season with grace and helpful perspectives and ideas to help you thrive in every season of life. You are not alone! Resources Mentioned: The MomCo (formally MOPS) here Revelation Wellness here Date Night Every Night, Episode 48 here 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube <p
S3 E191 · Mon, April 15, 2024
191. Reframe: Sexual Activity vs. Sexual Intimacy
Friend, this chat is critical. As we attempt to reframe our view of sex, we are missing the mark if we continue to focus on a narrow and limiting view of “sexual activity” vs. the oneness and meaning that comes through “sexual intimacy.” Let’s unpack the differences, think about how we got here and how we find a way forward. And, let’s embrace a lifestyle of love making, where intimacy permeates every aspect of a marriage. We’ll dig into these topics: The traditional view of sex as solely sexual activity is limited and fails to capture the depth and beauty of sexual intimacy. A more aligned with design view of sex, sexual intimacy, which involves vulnerability, communication, and connection, and extends beyond the bedroom into all aspects of a marriage. Practicals for creating a lifestyle of love making prioritizes intellectual, physical, and emotional intimacy, creating a more integrated and fulfilling experience. Encouragement to have open conversations in your marriage about your sexual experiences and work towards deepening their sexual intimacy. 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle <
S3 E190 · Mon, April 08, 2024
190. Defining Integration
Let’s pause and get on the same page. Language plays a crucial role in shaping culture and creating a sense of familiarity and understanding. And, a word used quite often in our conversations here is integration. What does it mean and why does it matter? In 1 Thessalonians 5: 23 we see, “May God himself, the God who makes everything holy and whole, make you holy and whole, put you together - spirit, soul, and body - and keep you fit for the coming of our Master, Jesus Christ.” We are all on a journey toward more wholeness, more integration. Let’s define integration under our Biblical lens, particularly as we look at our bodies and sexuality through a more celebratory view. Let’s continue to uproot misconceptions and shame that lead to disintegration and disconnection as we learn to lean in to the stirring of God toward more healing and wholeness. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E189 · Mon, March 25, 2024
189. The Art of Calming Stress
Ever feel stressed out?!? In this episode, Francie discusses ways to find regulation in the body when feeling stressed out, because we are actually living with chronic stress. Friend, your body is so good to you and even protects you in times of stress. Let's befriend our bodies and understand our nervous system. You’ll get TEN practices to help you regulate your nervous system, including breathing exercises, sensory input, and posture. Key takeaways include: Befriending our bodies and understanding the nervous system is crucial for regulating stress. Practical practices like breathing exercises, sensory input, and posture can help regulate the nervous system. Being known by others and finding rest in God are powerful tools for navigating stress. Understanding the three levels of the nervous system (ventral vagal, activated, and dorsal shutdown) can aid in self-awareness and regulation. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E188 · Mon, March 18, 2024
188.The Holiness of Hard
Walking through seasons of suffering can feel lonely, isolating and can even create a debilitating spiral of despair. Regardless of what your hard looks like, in this episode you’ll be equipped and encouraged as Francie shares her personal journey of embracing the challenges in her life and how it has reshaped her perspective on suffering. Key takeaways include: Emphasizing the importance of living embodied, Francie discusses the significance of caring for our bodies amidst hardship and how it intersects with our spiritual well-being. The episode delves into the crucial role of self-care in nurturing our spiritual and emotional health, highlighting its profound impact on our overall well-being. Drawing from personal encounters, Francie shares stories of resilience and vulnerability in others who are experiencing hardship, reflecting on the valuable lessons learned from their journeys. Related Episodes: Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety, here When Things Aren’t As They Should Be, here Returning to Our First Love and Walking Through Suffering, here Sex in Seasons of Suffering, here Shop Mentionables - Model Free Lingerie Check out Mentionables and embrace the beauty of being uniquely you. Because when it comes to feeling feminine and flirty, Mentionables has got your back... and front. Use the code WINSLOW and save 10% site wide. Shop Mentionables . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! <a hr
S3 E187 · Mon, March 04, 2024
187. Grieving Sexual Sin in the Church; Questions to Process
In this vulnerable episode, Francie reflects on the pain and struggle caused by sexual sin in the church. Let’s have some honest reflections, informed and stirred up by a culmination of years of sexual sin being exposed publicly in some church leaders. This is not about finger pointing towards anybody, all while we acknowledge the incredible pain that is experienced by victims. In this episode, we will explore some important questions about honesty, stress, sexuality, and the dangers of Christian celebrity culture. Takeaways: Be honest and vulnerable about what is going on beneath the surface. Pay attention to stress and find healthy ways to process it. Celebrate and intentionally grow your sexuality within your marriage. Avoid putting pastors and leaders on pedestals and focus on the local and small. Related Episodes: Stewarding Sexuality, here You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E186 · Mon, February 19, 2024
186. Called to Pleasure: Rest, Arousal, Sensuality and Female Design
Your female body is an extravagant gift from God. He gave you a beautiful body and He’s called you to steward it well. Stewardship starts with knowing your body. And knowing that your female body was created for pleasure. When you look at the way you were designed, you can marvel at the Creator who made you with such a huge capacity for pleasure. I want to hold open, celebratory conversations about the female body and have a different kind of conversation about pleasure. Friend, we’re continuing to lean into the Word of God and the works of God and see the beautiful design of the female body. Rest is key to your ability to receive relaxation, tap into your five senses and experience pleasure. Let’s discover the beauty of the feminine joy you were created to walk in. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E185 · Mon, February 12, 2024
185. Living with Tension in Mothering: Sacrifice or Rest
Let’s have a practical chat, rooted in spiritual truth as we answer a recent listener question. Francie, my physical well being often suffers at the expense of serving my children. How do I take time for myself at the expense of my children when the Bible is so clear about placing the needs of others above my own? Many of us have fallen prey to the trap of dualism - the idea that some things are sacred and some things aren’t. We tend to categorize certain activities as spiritual, even more important, and diminish the needs of the body. Let’s unpack what integrated living looks like. Friend, your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. Your body and the Spirit go hand in hand, so what does it look like to glorify God with your body? It involves caring for your body, nourishing your body and even seeking rest when needed. Running yourself into the ground is not wise nor is it honoring. When you choose to rest, which may look like going at a slower pace or choosing more simplicity in your day, you are modeling wisdom for your children (and your community). You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E184 · Mon, February 05, 2024
184. Trading Fear for Freedom - Sex is God’s Creation
The topic of sex so often shuts us down. The thought of learning or growing isn’t even an option when it’s a no-go territory. Yet, we learn about creation in two ways: through God’s words (the Bible) and through God’s works (His creation, which includes you and me). The body is His design. When we look at the beauty of our body and how it works, we can see the heart of a good Creator. In this episode we’ll unpack common fears and practical thinking to challenge those fears so that we might overcome them and boldly celebrate all of God’s creation, which includes our bodies and our sexuality. Let’s see more of His works, which are very good. Friend, we don’t have to be afraid. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E183 · Mon, January 29, 2024
183. 5 Vital Needs We’re Pursuing for More Growth
It’s a new year…whether you listen to this now or later, this episode is a foundational conversation I want to share with you. There’s a longing in my heart to share what God is doing and how He is growing hearts in this community. In this episode you’ll hear more of the vision for vital needs we need as women on a path for growth. Tune in and hear more about this vision for five things we really need, including: Mentorship Honesty Integrated living as a flourishing woman Thriving masculinity and femininity in marriage You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Related Episodes: Wife Coaching: Finding the Hero in Your Husband w/ Juli Slattery, here Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, here Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with with Dr. Jennifer Degler, here Female Sexuality & Growth with Nancy Houston, here Sexual Celebration with Alexa PenaVega, here Overcoming Vaginismus & Painful Sex with Jess Seitz, here Hope After Pornography with Kristin Richardson, here Discovering (and Owning) Your Feminine Beauty with Molly Rhodes, here Donate to the Heaven in
S3 E182 · Mon, December 11, 2023
182. When Things Aren’t As They Should Be
In all seasons, we face circumstances that remind us that things aren’t as they should be. Can we be honest about the struggle and walk with authenticity? In this teaching episode, we’ll look at suffering and longing through the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus, who embodied love and trusting God in less than ideal circumstances. Jesus came in a body. And, this is no accident, sweet friend. Your body is significant and serves great purpose. As we reflect on the Christmas story, how can we bring His light and hope through our bodies? Even in the midst of struggle, uncertainty and walking through things that are not as they should be, don’t be afraid of the dark places. This message is for any time of the year, although I hope it will bless you this Christmas. Download the Merry Marriage Gift Guide here . This isn’t your typical gift guide. Inside you’ll find practical, sensual, creative, and lighthearted options. Resources Mentioned: A Grace Disguised Revised and Expanded: How the Soul Grows Through Loss , by Jerry L. Sittser here Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’
S3 E181 · Mon, December 04, 2023
181. Best Gift I Gave My Husband This Year
Your husband is strong, yet has a very tender side that only you get the gift of seeing. But, how can you help his heart come alive? What is your man longing to hear? Your words have incredible power to build your husband in a way that no one else can. It’s true! This episode might surprise you, but it’s insight on how to speak right into the masculine strength of your husband. Let’s get specific and learn to honor the ways God created you both, male and female. Download the Merry Marriage Gift Guide here . This isn’t your typical gift guide. Inside you’ll find practical, sensual, creative, and lighthearted options. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E180 · Mon, November 27, 2023
180. Intentional FUN in Marriage
Join us in this quick and lighthearted episode where we explore creative ways to nurture intimacy OUTSIDE of the bedroom. With hectic schedules and the 'roommate rut' that can sneak into even the happiest relationships, it's crucial to carve out quality time for genuine connection and joy. This episode is all about sparking new life into your relationship and reigniting the passion with intentional FUN. You’ll har some fresh ideas for intentionally growing your connection, making each moment together feel like an exciting adventure. Get ready to infuse fun and intimacy into your dates and time together as we help you discover delightful and unique ways to connect and cherish each other. Related Episodes: How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, Here Reclaiming Novelty - Monogamy Doesn’t Equal Monotony, Ep 176 Keys to Our Most Fruitful Habit- Date Night Every Night, Ep 48 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website <p dir="ltr
S3 E179 · Mon, November 20, 2023
179. Discovering (and Owning) Your Feminine Beauty with Molly Rhodes
Friend, get ready for a freedom chat in this rich conversation with Molly Rhodes, who is a fellow listener and Discipleship Circle member. In this conversation we have an honest, vulnerable chat about the amazing beauty of our feminine body and how to tap into the ways God designed us as women. It's a conversation that seeks to rekindle the awe and appreciation we should feel for our own femininity. Many of us have been disconnected from our feminine beauty, and it's time to take notice, lean in and re-connect. Join us for this empowering conversation and find inspiration and encouragement to take note, embrace and flourish in the design God intended for women from the very beginning. This is a rich and insightful girlfriend chat that could transform your perspective on your own unique beauty and purpose. About Molly: Molly Rhodes is a passionate pursuer of Jesus and loves to see women come alive in their walk with Christ. She is a leader and coach in the Rise Up Queens community and helps women reconnect to their divinely inspired identity, their spouse, and God. Molly has been married to her husband, Thomas, for 19 years and believes in the power of God to restore emotional and physical intimacy through vulnerability, taking responsibility, and prayer. She lives in Dallas, Texas with her three boys and loves lifting weights and being a connoisseur of both brussels sprouts and great cupcakes. Rise Up Queens conference information https://www.riseupqueens.com/rsvp Contact: Molly@MollyRhodes.com Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music <a href= "https://www.yout
S3 E178 · Mon, November 13, 2023
178. 5 Things to Share with Your Daughter (or Single Friend)
In this heartfelt episode, you’ll hear a beautiful summation of life lessons I've yearned to impart to my own daughters. Join me as we explore crucial insights and TRUTH to share and pass down to the next generation about their bodies, sexuality, and the incredible way in which God has thoughtfully created them. Many of us were raised in the shadow of purity culture, often instilled with the belief that there's something dangerous about the female body. In this conversation, we aim to break free from these constraints and empower our daughters with a fresh perspective. Together, let's usher in a new era of understanding and appreciation for the incredible gift of our female bodies, our desires and our holy longings for intimacy. Related Episodes: God, Sex and the Next Generation, Ep 171 Stewarding Sexuality: Pursuing Generational Freedom, Ep 145 From Purity Culture to Pure Pleasure, Ep 164 Sexual Confusion in Culture & Our Kids, Ep 146 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connec
S3 E177 · Mon, November 06, 2023
177. Help, I’m Too Exhausted for Sex!
In this episode, we address a common struggle faced by so many of us - the overwhelming exhaustion that often leaves us feeling too drained for intimacy. It’s real! Life's demands can leave you physically and emotionally depleted, and at the end of the day, sex might feel like just another exhausting task. But what if we could change this narrative? What if we could reframe sex as a source of nourishment, a pathway to renewal, and a means to receive rather than just give? In this conversation we’ll explore the powerful links between sex and sleep, and learn how to shift your mindset to see intimacy not as a chore but as a vital source of rest and connection. Let’s reframe exhaustion, not ignore it, as you walk fully alive into all the places of connection God has created for you. Related Episodes: Motherhood and Sex: Feeling Alive in Both, Ep 172 To the Mom Who Is Too Tired for Sex, Ep 6 How to Switch Gears from Tired Mom to Ready Wife, Ep 55 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s week
S3 E176 · Mon, October 30, 2023
176. Reclaiming Novelty - Monogamy Doesn’t Equal Monotony
Let’s reclaim novelty and excitement in our marriage bed to fully live out and honor God’s design for married sex and intimacy. In this episode we’ll reframe our view of novelty and unpack ways to avoid monotony as we keep our marriages exciting and growing. A few key points for this episode include: Monogamous relationships are proven to be the happiest and healthiest in various aspects. The journey towards embracing one's body and sexual side may require inner healing and questioning societal beliefs. Being in touch with one's body and embracing sensuality leads to more freedom and excitement without pressure to perform. The importance of inviting the Holy Spirit into the conversation of celebrating oneself and the gift of marriage. The role of mindfulness in shifting mindset and enhancing the pleasure of intimate moments. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram <
S3 E175 · Mon, October 23, 2023
175. A Space to Encounter God, Our Keeper; Psalm 121 Meditation and Song
This episode is a unique offering. A time for margin to encounter the Lord and allow Him to meet you right where you may be. There is great power in intimacy and Christ has made a way for us to be one with God. May you encounter some intimate space with Jesus and connect to the love of God that you were made for. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website
S3 E174 · Mon, October 16, 2023
174. Returning to Our First Love and Walking Through Suffering
We talk a lot about married intimacy, but ultimately this is about surrendering our whole selves to our Maker, the lover of our souls. In this episode, you’ll hear Francie share from her heart as she follows the Holy Spirit walking with Jesus in every season. May you be encouraged in your own pursuit of Jesus and longing for deeper intimacy with Him. Related Episodes: Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety, here Listening to Your Body for Physical, Emotional, Spiritual, and Sexual Health, here Suffering, Trials, Unmovable Hope: Wholehearted Wife Series Pt. 1, here Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E173 · Mon, October 09, 2023
173. Hope After Pornography with Kristin Richardson
We all have a story. And, our story informs and shapes our present reality, especially the ways we show up in the most intimate and vulnerable spaces. In this episode, you’ll hear a beautifully redemptive story. Kristin Richardson from the Fearless In Love podcast joins to share the journey she and her husband Todd made through the devastation of sexual brokenness. While pornography is part of Todd’s story, there is greater depth behind that sin struggle. Kristin brings insight, understanding and so much wisdom as she shares how the Lord has brought restoration, healing and freedom as they walk in more joy in their marriage today than they could have ever imagined. About Kristin Richardson: Kristin Richardson has been married to her high school sweetheart, Todd, for 33 years and together they have ministered through “Resurrecting Sexuality” Conferences, RS Workbook studies, mentoring and coaching for the past five years. Through their story, they have experienced the power of the gospel and it has transformed their marriage. They’re passionate about sharing the hope of the gospel related to sexuality and the beauty and glory of God‘s design for sex. Kristin and Todd are blessed with three beautiful children plus two children in-loves and a precious grandson. Currently they share their message through a podcast called Fearless in Love. If you would like to contact them, please feel free to email fearlessinlovepodcast@gmail.com You can also find Kristin on Instagram @kristin.richardson5 Related Episodes: Pornography & Sexual Shame to Freedom with Joy Skarka, here Transformational Keys to Emotional Connection - Pt. 1 with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, here Stewarding Sexuality: Faithfulness Leading to Fruitfulness, here Resources Mentioned: Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing , Jay Stringer Connection Codes, here Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learnin
S3 E172 · Mon, October 02, 2023
172. Motherhood and Sex: Feeling Alive in Both
This is an Invitation to reconnect our roles as mom and wife, seeing the beauty and value in both. Yet, how do you navigate life as a whole woman, filling our role as a wife and our role as a mother in a way that doesn’t feel disconnected? This episode was inspired by one of your questions and I hope that it will meet you right where you are, whether you’re a biological or a spiritual mother. Let’s upgrade our perspective and see all the ways God has created women and even how we see “hard” that comes with motherhood. Related Episodes: Listening to Your Body for Physical, Emotional, Spiritual, and Sexual Health, here What Our Period Reveals, here Finding Your Sexy as a Mom, here Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S1 E171 · Mon, September 25, 2023
171. God, Sex and the Next Generation
Come celebrates a listener’s story of experiencing joy, growth and freedom in her marriage. Learn how her freedom has begun to ripple out to the next generation, as the oneness in marriage has begun to lead to more and more fruitfulness. Don’t miss this beautiful testimony and teaching reflection. May it encourage and inspire you to walk as a Titus 2 woman, mentoring the next generation of women. Resources Mentioned: Authentic Intimacy with Juli Slattery, here Mentionables, feel confident and shop on your terms. Use WINSLOW for 10% savings, here Francie’s Teaching Study Guides, here Related Episodes: The Ripple Effect of Sex: And Why Sex Matters, Especially When You Don’t Feel Like It, Ep 4 Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens, Ep 3 Sex Mentors - Why We Need Them and How to Find Them, Ep 88 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: <a href= "https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5fe
S1 E170 · Mon, September 18, 2023
170. Navigating Painful Intercourse & Vaginismus with Jess & Matt Seitz
A husband has a unique and powerful role in his wife’s healing journey, and in this episode you’ll hear from Jess and Matt Seitz as they share their story of navigating the pain and hurt of vaginismus. Through many years of enduring bad advice and hurtful counsel, their marriage connection remained strong. They share a powerful story of loving one another well, through sickness and, now, health. Learn more about Pain Free Intimacy help and The Mind-Body-Sex Reset Vaginismus Program here . About Jess: Jess Seitz is an occupational therapist who specializes in pelvic health and vaginismus recovery. In her ministry, Pain Free Intimacy, Jess helps women find freedom and confidence through a comprehensive & holistic approach to break free from the mind-body-pain cycle of vaginismus to heal emotionally & physically so they can finally enjoy beautiful & fun sex the way God designed it to be. Jess’s passion and hope is for women to have pain-free, great sex without compromising their morals or complicating their recovery. Learn more at Pain Free Intimacy . Related Episodes: Healing and Growing through Sex Therapy with Tish Hedger, Ep 103 Your Wonderful Female Body - Pelvic Floor Health with Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Pt 1, Ep 115 Painful Intercourse and Vaginismus, Ep 147 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify <a
S1 E169 · Mon, September 11, 2023
169. Overcoming Vaginismus & Painful Sex with Jess Seitz
Painful intercourse, known medically as vaginismus, is more common than you may believe. In today’s episode, you’ll hear a beautiful testimony of hope and recovery from Jess Seitz, founder of Pain Free Intimacy. Jess shares her story with grace and vulnerability in a refreshing and hopeful manner. You will hear about the mind, body, spirit connection and the importance of integration and connecting to your story, which may or may not be informed by trauma. God made your body wonderfully. You are not broken and you are certainly not alone. About Jess: Jess Seitz is an occupational therapist who specializes in pelvic health and vaginismus recovery. In her ministry, Pain Free Intimacy, Jess helps women find freedom and confidence through a comprehensive & holistic approach to break free from the mind-body-pain cycle of vaginismus to heal emotionally & physically so they can finally enjoy beautiful & fun sex the way God designed it to be. Jess’s passion and hope is for women to have pain-free, great sex without compromising their morals or complicating their recovery. Learn more at Pain Free Intimacy . Related Episodes: Healing and Growing through Sex Therapy with Tish Hedger, Ep 103 Your Wonderful Female Body - Pelvic Floor Health with Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Pt 1, Ep 115 Painful Intercourse and Vaginismus, Ep 147 Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety, Ep 134 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven
S1 E168 · Mon, September 04, 2023
168. Margin Makes Room for Intimacy
You were made for intimate connection; with God, with your spouse, with your family and friends. Yet, in the culture of busyness, you may find yourself pulled in so many directions, the noise of life and doing all the things begins to drown out the ability to cultivate true connection. Margin is required for deep intimacy. We’re going to talk about how to create margin on purpose and start taking ground in creating deep connection and intimacy. Whether you are newly wed, in the thick of raising kids or in the empty nest stage, creating margin is season to season. It’s never easy and it doesn’t happen naturally, but you CAN find rhythms of margin in your season of life. Related Episodes: Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year, Ep 1 Keys to Our Most Fruitful Habit- Date Night Every Night, Ep 48 How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, Ep 126 Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=OL
S3 E167 · Mon, August 28, 2023
Reframe Conversation: Masturbation (#167)
Is masturbation right or wrong? There’s a healthy pause that comes with answering this question because it’s quite layered and there isn’t scripture that provides a firm answer. Yet, we know that all things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. In this conversation we’ll take a bigger picture view at the issues involved. Touching yourself or doing something in private that you want to keep secret is riddled with shame and not helpful to your marriage connection. On the contrary, the idea of believing your body is good as you desire body awareness and self cultivation for the sake of sharing it with your husband can be beneficial and promote healthy connection. Listen in and bring this conversation to the Lord and your own marriage. Resources Mentioned: Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens, Bonny Burns Related Episodes: Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, Ep 136 Female Sexuality & Growth with Nancy Houston, Ep 157 Pleasure Series Pt. 2: Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with with Dr. Jennifer Degler, Ep 93 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter <a href="h
S3 E166 · Mon, August 21, 2023
Sexual Desire & Your Wonderful Female Body (#166)
Your body and your sexuality were designed by God and He called you good. As we continue this educational and celebratory series on your wonderful female body, today we are leaning in to better understand the female sexual response cycle, which starts with sexual desire. This may require a bit of awareness as you continue to recognize ways you can live more integrated. Growth requires intentionality, so in this episode we are intentionally focusing on sexual desire so that we might become more aligned with God. In this episode you will be encouraged and equipped, on both spiritual and practical levels, to understand and become aware of desire. Resources Mentioned: Growing Desire Challenge Related Episodes: Episode 73 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Barriers Episode 74 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Brains Episode 75 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Beliefs Episode 76 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Body You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E165 · Mon, August 14, 2023
Husband Chat: Loving Your Wife from Purity Culture to Pure Pleasure (#165)
Shame and feeling shut down or disconnected from sex can be a residue of purity culture many women carry. How can a God-honoring man help his wife flourish and heal from wrong beliefs and teaching? In this episode Francie is sharing how a husband can patiently love his wife toward more healing and freedom. A few topics we touch on include: training your eyes to only see her beauty, having patience to meet her where she is, going slowly as you learn together, blessing her body and encouraging her to bless her body and learning the pace of her pleasure. Related Episodes: Foreplay: Husband Chat, Ep 159 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E164 · Mon, August 07, 2023
From Purity Culture to Pure Pleasure (#164)
Many of us were raised in the purity culture. As we have become wives, we are unpacking some unhealthy, unhelpful influences. In this episode we’ll discuss a few of the unhelpful lies and the heaviness of legalism that many of us have believed. Christian women aren’t sexual. Good girls don’t talk about sex. Thinking about sexual desire is a waste of time. Sex is for men and their pleasure. These falsehoods are rooted in lies from the enemy that have been with us for centuries. As we uproot the lies, we can look at God’s good design and learn to walk in freedom and abundance. God made us as sexual beings, giving us senses and anatomy that allow us to experience pure pleasure. Related Episodes: Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, Ep 108 Battle for Your Beauty: Purity Culture, Body Blessing and Loving without Shame, Ep 87 Great Sex Grows…When I Shift My Mindset, Ep 120 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E163 · Mon, July 31, 2023
Freedom Chat: How You Talk about Your Body (#163)
Vagina. Clitoris. Vulva. Blushing or uncomfortable? Let’s talk about the layers of silent shame that impedes you from talking about your body comfortably. You’ll hear my personal journey (and recent growth in freedom) as we unpack getting more free, why it matters and how to take steps forward. You were designed to walk in freedom and joy, living integrated mind, body and spirit. Join this chat and gain insight to take one more small step toward more freedom. Resources Mentioned: Growing Desire Challenge Related Episodes: Pleasure Series Pt. 2: Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with with Dr. Jennifer Degler Episode 93 Pleasure Series Pt. 3: Your Orgasm Questions with Dr. Jennifer Degler Episode 94 Your Wonderful Female Body Series Start Here Healing and Growing through Sex Therapy with Tish Hedger Episode 103 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E162 · Mon, July 24, 2023
Mentorship with Joyce and Clifford Penner (#162)
Let’s lean in and glean wisdom from pioneers in sexual discipleship, Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner. The Penners offer both theologically sound and practical wisdom on sexuality, pleasure, desire and growing a thriving sex life throughout your marriage. In today’s conversation we talk about: Importance of education, understanding and communication Creating a marvelous sex life Intentionality and keeping your sex life alive through the seasons and stages of marriage Healing and growing from shame and feeling “shut down” and disconnected from desire and sexuality Finding the sweet spot in your marriage to build connection and a thriving sex life. About Dr. Cliff and Joyce Penner: The Penners are best known for their pioneer work in encouraging people of all faiths to connect their sexuality with their belief system ─ helping them embrace sex as good and of God. Clifford is a licensed clinical psychologist, received a B.A. from Bethel College in St. Paul, Minnesota, earned an M.A. in theology from Fuller Theological Seminary, and holds a Ph.D. from Fuller’s Graduate School of Psychology. Joyce is a registered nurse and clinical nurse specialist, holds a B.S. in nursing from the University of Washington. Her master’s degree in psychosomatic nursing and nursing education is from UCLA. They work together as a team to counsel, teach and train. Connect with them at www.passionatecommitment.com or contact them directly at penners@passionatecommitment.com. Resources Mentioned: Getting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start by Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner Enjoy!: The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women by Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex by Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner Restoring the Pleasure by Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner Sex Facts for the Family by Joyce and Cliff Pennerby Dr. Clifordf and Joyce Penner Healthy Sexuality Parent Guide You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for t
S3 E161 · Mon, July 17, 2023
How a Flourishing Wife Can Call Forth Holy Masculinity (#161)
While you may see your man as a tower of strength, do you know how to honor and even call forth his holy masculinity? The culture seems to be against our men, either pitting their masculinity as toxic or, even worse, placing them in competition or comparison with women. Challenge yourself to flourish in God’s unique role for you as a wife. Learn to come alongside your husband to honor his strength and even speak life and blessing over his sexuality and holy image bearing masculinity. Your journey in loving your husband allows you to see his strength and his vulnerability. In this episode, you’ll hear practical ways to speak life over your husband’s sexuality, including a few things that may make you blush. And, you’ll learn how to honor your husband when he initiates…even when you are far from feeling ready to connect. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E160 · Mon, July 10, 2023
Toxic War on Masculinity with Nancy Pearcey (#160)
In the beginning God created us male and female, with intention and purpose. Yet, more and more our culture seems to pit women against men, even to the point of not liking men and seeing their role as harmful. In this episode, we discuss the roots of toxic masculinity and the good news we can see in Biblical manhood (and womanhood) with esteemed scholar Nancy Pearcey, author of “The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes.” Our discussion includes: Goodness of God’s design for male and female Hostile cultural views of men and masculinity Favorable data and good news about the impact and role of Jesus-following men Need for healing and restoration as we seek to have a culture of honor How to support Biblical manhood, supporting and developing image-bearing manhood About Nancy Pearcy: Nancy Pearcey is a bestselling author and speaker. A former agnostic, she was hailed in The Economist as “America’s preeminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual.” Her work has appeared in The Washington Post, The Washington Times, First Things, Human Events, American Thinker, Daily Caller, The Federalist, CNSNews, and Fox News. She has appeared on NPR, C-SPAN, and Fox & Friends. She is currently a professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. Pearcey’s books have been translated into 19 languages and include Total Truth , The Soul of Science , Saving Leonardo , Finding Truth , Love Thy Body , and The Toxic War on Masculinity . Connect with Nancy at www.nancypearcey.com Related Episodes: How a Flourishing Wife Can Call Forth Holy Masculinity Episode 102 Sexual Confusion in Culture & Our Kids Episode 146 Celebrating Gender: Goodness of Male and Female Episode 43 Resources Mentioned: <p dir="ltr"
S3 E159 · Mon, June 26, 2023
Foreplay: Husband Chat (#159)
Let’s continue the conversation on foreplay with a chat to encourage and equip husbands. (Wives will be encouraged, too). Let’s continue to reframe foreplay and the unique beauty of masculinity and femininity. In this chat, you’ll be encouraged as we discuss: Being a man of strength, with unique strength to serve your bride. Becoming an expert of your wife Removing the duty perspective and helping your wife flourish Foreplay as an opportunity to go at the pace of her pleasure and treasure her from head to toe What it looks like practically to serve with sexual strength before and during foreplay Related Episodes: Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, episode 107 How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, episode 126 Francie Recommends: Feel confident in your own skin with Mentionables . A fresh and pretty item of lingerie every now and then is so fun! The Mentionables selection is beautiful and they never use human models for their items, which gives it such an honoring tone as you’re shopping. No comparison or feelings of TMI as your browse, and it’s run by ladies who love the Lord! How fun is that!?! Use code WINSLOW for 10% savings. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music
S3 E158 · Mon, June 19, 2023
Foreplay: Reframe & Celebration (#158)
What is foreplay and what purpose does it serve? In this discussion you’ll learn about the role of foreplay, but it may surprise you. Instead of seeing foreplay as a way to get ready for the main event, what if it were a time of relaxing into more pleasure and greater intimacy? You were made for deep connection and naked and unashamed intimacy. Let’s look at foreplay as a tool for connection through rest, relaxation and celebration of your feminine beauty. Related Episodes: Your Wonderful Female Body Series, start here Great Sex Grows Series, start here How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, episode 126 Sex Toys & Vibrators, episode 137 Francie Recommends: Feel confident in your own skin with Mentionables . A fresh and pretty item of lingerie every now and then is so fun! The Mentionables selection is beautiful and they never use human models for their items, which gives it such an honoring tone as you’re shopping. No comparison or feelings of TMI as your browse, and it’s run by ladies who love the Lord! How fun is that!?! Use code FRANCIE for 10% savings. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie:
S3 E157 · Mon, June 12, 2023
Female Sexuality & Growth with Nancy Houston (#157)
Welcome back for part two of the conversation with a licensed counselor and sex therapist Nancy Houston. Nancy offers wonderful insight and compassion into the profound connections between love, sex, and healing. In this episode we discuss: Permission given - God made you as a female to be sexual and your sexuality is beautifully designed Getting familiar with your desire and your female body Owning and expressing your want Communication and pursuing each other in marriage Foreplay and learning to receive as a woman Mutual pleasure, mutual joy and mutual respect About Nancy Houston: Nancy Houston is an author, speaker, Executive Leadership Coach, Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. She loves to help people grow into their full potential, empowering them to be truly alive. Nancy has been married to the love of her life for almost 50 years. Together they have four wonderful married sons and six adorable grandchildren. Nancy is the author of Love and Sex and Then God Made A Woman: Unwrapping Female Sexuality. Related Episodes: Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, episode 107 Great Sex Grows…When I Tune Into My Body, episode 121 Francie Recommends: Feel confident in your own skin with Mentionables . A fresh and pretty item of lingerie every now and then is so fun! The Mentionables selection is beautiful and they never use human models for their items, which gives it such an honoring tone as you’re shopping. No comparison or feelings of TMI as your browse, and it’s run by ladies who love the Lord! How fun is that!?! Use code FRANCIE for 10% savings. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a red
S3 E156 · Mon, June 05, 2023
Finding Healing in Love & Sex with Nancy Houston (#156)
In today's episode, we have rich conversations with a licensed counselor and sex therapist Nancy Houston. Nancy offers wonderful insight and compassion into the profound connections between love, sex, and healing. We discuss: The spiritual mystery and depth to our sexuality Emotional and soul connection in marriage How to keep sex on the “front burner” Power and beauty of the feminine body Identifying what’s informed your view of sex and understanding how you may be modeling your sex life accordingly Working through sexual trauma through sharing your story (or receiving the story of another) Normalizing, rather than demonizing, our sexuality Styles of attachment (healthy and unhealthy) About Nancy Houston: Nancy Houston is an author, speaker, Executive Leadership Coach, Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. She loves to help people grow into their full potential, empowering them to be truly alive. Nancy has been married to the love of her life for almost 50 years. Together they have four wonderful married sons and six adorable grandchildren. Nancy is the author of Love and Sex and Then God Made A Woman: Unwrapping Female Sexuality. Resources Mentioned: A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy by Dr. Douglas E. Rosenau, Jeff Durham, et al. Then God Made A Woman: Unwrapping Female Sexuality by Nancy Houston Enjoy!: The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women by Joyce and Clifford Penner Related Episodes: Your Wonderful Female Body Series, start here Great Sex Grows Series, start here Francie Recommends: Feel confident in your own skin with <a href= "https://shopmentionables.com/?ssc
S3 E155 · Mon, May 29, 2023
Sex in Seasons of Suffering
Whatever season you currently find yourself in, this is a conversation not to be missed. The reality is, you will have seasons of abundance as well as refining seasons of trial and suffering. You’ll hear my honest perspective on and journey through suffering and God in the midst of it all, including: Intimacy resilience and building intimacy in all seasons. Challenges in life and how they can create tension and disconnection in marriage. Opportunities to lean into your marriage connection, especially in the hard seasons. Learning to not only be strong for one another, but to be weak together and talk about hard things, loss and disappointment. Physical touch and intimacy as a powerful way to process challenge and stress. Restoration and rejuvenation brought through biological releases sex provides. Mentioned Resources: The Savvy Sauce: Practical Chats for Intentional Living Learn more here The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers’ Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success Related Episodes: Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety, episode 134 The Science of Sex, episode 2 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_k38juUShnhGecf1iTCuPxc6GLfV-ZHXK
S3 E154 · Mon, May 22, 2023
Finding Your Sexy as a Mom
Finding energy as a wife, while spinning all the plates of motherhood, can be a bit of a challenge. Switching gears from “tired mom” to feeling sexy doesn’t exactly just happen. Can you relate? Good news! In this episode we have some real talk about how to be intentional, cultivate the needs of your body and maybe even find some ideas to “get your groove back” in the bedroom. Let’s tap into more joy and enjoyment, because God created you with an incredible capacity for pleasure. Related Episodes: Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, episode 107 Great Sex Grows…When I Tune Into My Body, episode 121 Growing Intimacy…Even When You Have Little Kids, episode 127 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E153 · Mon, May 15, 2023
A Bigger Vision of Sex with Joshua Butler
Sex is meant to point to something bigger, reflecting the goodness of a purposeful Creator. Our God is an intentional designer and His creation, including sex and sexuality, was designed to point to greater things. For centuries the church has disregarded the importance and meaning of the body and sex, yet this conversation helps us see there is a different way to see and celebrate the story of God. Topics discussed include: The union of man and woman point to a greater union with God, sex as a signpost. The beauty of God’s story written on our bodies. Moving from a rule based mindset to an image bearing mindset. Duty language vs. beauty language. Higher vision for singleness and marriage. Holy masculinity and image bearing role of men. About Josh Butler: Joshua Ryan Butler serves as lead pastor of Redemption Tempe in Arizona. Josh is the author of Beautiful Union (and a few other books). Josh loves shifting paradigms, to help people who wrestle with tough topics of the Christian faith by confronting popular caricatures and replacing them with the real thing. He lives with his wife Holly and three children—Aiden, James, and Jacob—in Tempe, AZ. Find Josh at www.joshuaryanbutler.com Resources Mentioned: Beautiful Union: How God's Vision for Sex Points Us to the Good, Unlocks the True, and (Sort of) Explains Everything, by Joshua Ryan Butler Related Episodes: Stewarding Sexuality: Fresh & Transformational View, episode 142 Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year, episode 1 Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens, episode 3 Sex Is a Signpost, episode 13 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclai
S3 E152 · Mon, May 08, 2023
Uncovering Secrets of Great Sex with Shaunti Feldhahn
Prepare to be encouraged by a mentoring session with Shaunti Feldhahn. We are diving into sex and sexuality with Shaunti, as she shares her insight and clinical understanding and perspective. Some of the topics we covered in this conversation include: Surprises that make all the difference. Why sexuality matters. A vision for intimacy. Affirming insecure places. Desire - types of desire and levels of desire. God’s beautiful gift of sexuality for women. About Shaunti Feldhahn: Shaunti received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker. Today, she applies her analytical skills to investigating eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace. Shaunti's books (including several with husband, Jeff) are known for their aha moments and relationship transformations! These groundbreaking research-based books, including For Women Only , The Kindness Challenge , and most recently, Secrets of Sex and Marriage have sold more than 3 million copies in 25 languages and are widely read in homes, counseling centers and corporations worldwide. Find her new book, Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference, Shaunti Feldhahn, Dr. Michael Sytsma Related Episodes: High & Low Libido, episode 150 Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Desire, episode 109 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle <p dir
S3 E151 · Mon, May 01, 2023
Listening to Your Body for Physical, Emotional, Spiritual, and Sexual Health
God designed your body with intention, care and purpose. Yet, we often hyper-focus on the mind and the spirit, neglecting the importance of the body. In this episode we will discuss the importance of connecting to the body, because stress in the body can create dis-ease that ripples out to all areas of our life. Topics include: The brain body connection. Dis-ease in the body and the peace of God. Paying attention to and being aware of your body. Problems that can arise when we disregard the body. Hormetic stress and other practices to reset the body. Laying down efficiency for more intimacy with God. Caring for your body to build more desire and marriage connection. Resources Mentioned: Anchored: How to Befriend Your Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory, Deb Dana Related Episodes: Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety, episode 134 Your Good Body with Alisa Keeton, episode 135 How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, episode 126 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify <a href= "https://music.a
S3 E150 · Mon, April 24, 2023
High & Low Libidos
What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent? Today’s episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions. Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore let’s discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire. Let’s get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens. Related Episodes: Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens, Episode 3 Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, episode 136 Your Wonderful Female Body Series - Episode 104 to Episode 113 Great Sex Grows Series - Episode 119 to Episode 124 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E149 · Mon, April 17, 2023
Betrayal & Sexual Addiction with Bonny Burns
A tender, honest conversation as Bonny shares her vulnerable testimony and healing journey through deep betrayal caused by pornography and sex addiction in her marriage. There is tremendous trauma and hurt in a marriage experiencing a death of trust. Bonny speaks into betrayal from a personal and clinical perspective, providing you with understanding, empathy and thoughtful steps to take toward healing for both partners. If betrayal has touched your life, know you are not alone. There is great hope and healing possible, especially with the help of trained professionals and the power of the Holy Spirit. Connect with Bonny Burns: Bonny Burns works to empower the wife with low sexual interest, little sex drive, and possibly a sexless marriage through science, scripture, and stories. She writes at oysterbed7.com and podcasts at Sex Chat for Christian Wives. You can find her ministry to women who have experienced sexual betrayal at strongwives.com. She earned a Christian Counseling certification (not licensure) in 2015 and in December, 2019, she completed a Bachelor of Science in counseling psychology from Liberty University. She is married to Dave for over 30 years and is a mother to three adult sons. Mentioned in this episode: Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast Strong Wives Oysterbed7 APSATS Sensate Focus Related Episodes: Pornography & Sexual Shame to Freedom with Joy Skarka, episode 138 Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, episode 136 Transformational Keys to Emotional Connection with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, episode 131 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven i
S3 E148 · Mon, April 10, 2023
Spiritual Intimacy with Jodie Berndt
Getting on the same “spiritual page” with your husband can fall lower and lower on the to-do list, even though both of your hearts are pursuing connection and intimacy. Jodie Berndt is the mentor we all need on this topic. In this episode you’ll hear a wise and practical conversation as you think about building spiritual intimacy in a fresh and do-able way. Whether you are currently experiencing a roommate rut season or you long for more faith connection with your spouse, Jodie brings wisdom and insight that helps you see the goodness of God in every season. Connect with Jodie Berndt: Best selling author and speaker, Jodie is known for her praying the scriptures book series as she inspires and encourages us toward Jesus through prayer. She is married to Robbie, mom to four grown children and loving her season of being a grandparent. You can connect with Jodie at www.jodieberndt.com . Find her new book Praying the Scriptures for Your Marriage here . You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E147 · Mon, April 03, 2023
Painful Intercourse and Vaginismus
It’s not uncommon to experience painful intercourse and it might even be related to a condition that should be addressed. In today’s episode we are talking about vaginismus and painful intercourse. You will hear about the mind, body, spirit connection, why we see painful intercourse more prevalently in Christian women and some practical thoughts and resources to help find solutions. God made your body wonderfully. You are not broken and you are certainly not alone. Full disclosure: This episode is not intended to diagnose, treat or cure any condition. I am not a medical doctor or therapist, but I do think it’s important for you to know about resources so you can be informed, talk to your doctor and get the help you need. Resources Mentioned: Getting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start, A Guide for Engaged in Newlywed Couples by Clifford and Joyce Penner Hope & Her Completely Overcome Vaginismus: The Practical Approach to Pain-Free Intercourse Related Episodes: Before You Say “I Do” with Bethany Beal, episode 139 Invitation to Discover Your Wonderful Female Body, episode 104 Body Blessing and Shame Healing, episode 44 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify <a href= "https://music.apple.com/us/album/heaven-in-your-home-family-music-
S3 E146 · Mon, March 27, 2023
Episode 146 Sexual Confusion in Culture & Our Kids
God is a good Creator, full of peace, joy and celebration. The enemy is the author of chaos. Times like this can feel overwhelming. We can choose to see chaos and become afraid, living in fear and becoming paralyzed. Or, we can choose to see the power and beauty of God and learn to carry His banner of celebration. Let’s lean into the goodness of God and choose to walk in His peace, His joy and His celebration through shared language. That’s what Heaven in Your Home Family Music is all about. In today’s episode we welcome Kathryn Brunner, my real life friend who is a beautiful singer/songwriter who collaborated to bring Heaven in Your Home Family Music to your home. We will unpack the vision, the purpose and the meaning behind these culture-shifting songs. Listen in, be equipped and encouraged as you take hold of the JOY and CELEBRATION of God and the crown of His creation, YOU! Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Related Episodes: Body Talks with Kids Series, Episode 96 - 99 Shifting Culture through Music in your Home, Episode Teaching Your Kids about Sex with Kristen Miele, Episode 141 About Kathryn Brunner: Heaven in Your Home Family Music is a beautiful collaboration with Kathryn Brunner. Kathryn is a seminary trained singer-songwriter and music educator. She lives in the DC Metro area with her husband and two daughters whom she homeschools. Kathryn is fiercely passionate about equipping families to walk faithfully in the truth of God’s word. Heaven in Your Home Family Music is an outworking of that passion. With an educator’s mindset, she is also driven to help children grow in an understanding of music to equip them to serve their communities and the world. She is the founder of Musik at Home , an online music education studio for children ages 0-10 where she offers vibrant early childhood and piano courses that are available on the web, mobile app, Apple TV and Amazon Fire TV. You’re Invited: <p dir="l
S3 E145 · Mon, March 20, 2023
Episode 145 Stewarding Sexuality: Pursuing Generational Freedom
Your body is good, with value and purpose. Your gender is intentional and meaningful. Your sexuality is full of meaning and purpose. The story of God is written on your body. As you think about stewarding sexuality, walking in more freedom, the next step is to begin to impart the truth of celebration and joy into your children. We are called to be fruitful, multiply and take dominion. So, as we live out the goodness and freedom of God, becoming more healed, fruitfulness flows into the next generation. Lean in and let’s unpack the big ideas and the practical application for you as you continue to teach and disciple your children. Resources Mentioned: Every Body is a Gift: God Made Us to Love , by Monica Ashour Every Body Has Something to Say , by Monica Ashour God Has a Plan for Boys and Girls , by Monica Ashour Before the Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors , by Linda Noble and Linda Stewart Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website <a href= "https://www.insta
S3 E144 · Mon, March 13, 2023
Episode 144 Stewarding Sexuality: Faithfulness Leading to Fruitfulness
His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ Matthew 25 In the parable of the talents, the ruler gave three different servants talents to manage while he was away. While we see the command was the same, we see three different heart postures, actions and results. Let’s dive into Genesis 1 and observe that our sexuality, our body, our gender and sex, pleasure and desire are gifts from God we're called to steward. So often in our Christian culture we’re afraid of sexuality, our bodies and pleasure. We just don't talk about it. We silence it, we bury it and we put it away and talk about other things. But God wants us to grow this gift, not bury it. But how do we grow it and how can we be like the first two servants who are faithful? In today’s episode we’ll continue the conversation of stewarding sexuality and explore what it means to invest in these gifts and grow like the first two faithful servants. This episode is full of practical application you can apply today. Resources Mentioned: The Vagina Bible by Dr. Jen Gunter The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women by Joyce and Clifford Penner Rethinking Sexuality: God’s Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slatery You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E146 · Mon, March 06, 2023
Episode 143 Stewarding Sexuality: Healing From Lies and Wrong Thinking
His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ Matthew 25 How have we as the church buried the gift of our body, our gender and our sexuality? As we continue our discussion of the parable of the talents in Matthew 25, we observe the servant who buried the talent, hiding it in the ground, did so out of fear. This third servant believed a lie about the Master, therefore he buried what was given to him. In this episode, we will look at Genesis 1 and parallels to Jesus’s parable in Matthew. Let’s uproot lies and lean into the good garden gifts. What would it look like to walk in freedom, seeing the goodness of our image bearing beauty and the unity that leads to fruitfulness in married intimacy? Let’s learn a fresh viewpoint on stewardship and experience the joy of our Master You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E142 · Mon, February 27, 2023
Stewarding Sexuality: Fresh & Transformational View
His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ Matthew 25 When you think about the parable of the talents your mind instantly gravitates toward stewarding your finances, your gifts, or even your health. But, have you ever thought about the faithfulness that might flow from stewarding your sexuality? We get to steward the gift of our sexuality, with purpose and intention over the course of our life. And, faithfulness brings great benefits,including the unity that leads to fruitfulness within the context of marriage. Sex is not a duty, not a chore, not something to check off your list. It is something to enjoy, to pursue, to delight and to receive great pleasure. Let’s learn a fresh viewpoint on stewardship and experience the joy of our Master. Related Episodes: Great Sex Grows: Introduction, Episode 119 Great Sex Grows…When I Shift My Mindset, Episode 120 Great Sex Grows…When I Tune Into My Body, Episode 121 Great Sex Grows…When I See Sex as Fun, Episode 122 The Ripple Effect of Sex, Episode 4 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with
S3 E141 · Mon, February 20, 2023
Teaching Your Kids about Sex with Kristen Miele
We look to our Creator and see that sex is part of His creation, made with meaning, purpose and beauty. As you personally reclaim what God created and called good, the next step is to be able to have conversations with your kids. There’s never been a more vital time for intentionality as we teach, lead and invest in our children's hearts and worldview. In today’s conversation, my guest Kristen Miele will break down some of the hard questions that can cause stress for caring parents. Gain the confidence to clearly articulate answers and guide your children to understand their bodies and sexuality as it points back to our good God. Rather than shame and silence, we can replace fear with curiosity and be empowered to have honest, consistent conversations that honor God and His gift of sexuality. About Sex Ed Reclaimed: Sex Ed Reclaimed existes to break the cycle of silence in the Christian world on the topic of sex with Sex Ed Reclaimed, LLC as a premier choice for adults seeking to honestly engage the next generation. Sex Ed Reclaimed specializes in God honoring and accessible sex ed for children 3 to18 years old. Find resources here . 10% off your purchase of a Sex Ex Reclaimed resource, use the code FRANCIEWINSLOW About Kristen Miele: Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, has been educating youth on the topic of sex for the last 12 years. She’s taught in hundreds of diverse settings including 2 different countries. Kristen has experience teaching ages 3 and up on content related to sex and sexuality. The vision for Sex Ed Reclaimed came to her in November 2021 and it became an LLC in 2022. Kristen has one daughter, Emma Joy, who is 4 years old. She’s been married to Anthony since 2012. They live in Columbus, Ohio with their daughter and a very fat cat. Related Episodes: Shifting Culture through Music in Your Home, Episode 112 Body Talks with Kids: Clarity, Confidence and the Critical Need to Shift the Conversation, Episode 96
S3 E140 · Mon, February 13, 2023
Sexual Celebration with Alexa PenaVega
Way better than anything Hollywood could ever portray, today’s guest Alexa PenaVega shares her vulnerable testimony of finding more in her marriage. How do you go from a wife who really doesn’t feel very excited about physical intimacy to finding celebration and joy? In this episode, Alexa and Francie chat about the fruitfulness that has flowed from pursuing oneness, their callings as mothers to disciple their children and be the best source for all things, including sex. Note: This episode endured technology challenges and you may note uneven audio levels. Thank you for your patience with the audio, but the contents of the conversation are filled with beautiful truth, testimony and thoughtful ideas. About Alexa PenaVega: You may know Alexa PenaVega as an actress from hit shows like Spy Kids. But, today you can hear more about her desire to honor her husband, Carlos PenaVega, and pursue a mutually satisfying sexual relationship. Their book, What if Love is the Point is a must-read, overflowing with both laughter and honest reflections, the PenaVegas’ incredible story—from the red carpet, Spy Kids movies, and Big Time Rush to Dancing with the Stars to marriage and now parenthood will encourage you. You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website <a href="https://www.
S3 E139 · Mon, February 06, 2023
Before You Say “I Do” with Bethany Beal
All the things you wished you knew before you said I do. Whether you’re engaged, newlywed or find yourself in a mentoring relationship, this conversation will give you a fresh perspective on preparing for sex before you say, “I do.” Join this vulnerable chat as a welcome Bethany Beal, from the Girl Defined ministry and podcast. How should you prepare for your wedding night? What advice and resources are helpful (and how to know if it’s not)? What kinds of expectations should you set for the wedding night? And, most importantly, this is an invitation to take a breath of fresh air and view physical intimacy as a journey that happens over the course of your marriage, not something you arrive at on your wedding night. Tune in and get real talk about fears, insecurities, hygiene and even lubricants. Friend, this is a true girlfriend chat that I pray will bless you. Resources Mentioned: Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart: Discovering the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality , by Bethany Beal and Kristen Clark More about Bethany Beal: Bethany Baird is a Texas born and raised gir l, wife, mother of two and is the cofounder of Girl Defined Ministries. You can learn more at girldefined.com or at the Girl Defined Show. Related Episodes: Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year, Episode 1 Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens, Episode 3 Your Wonderful Female Body Series - <span style="font-weight
S3 E138 · Mon, January 30, 2023
Pornography & Sexual Shame to Freedom with Joy Skarka
“God takes our brokenness and turns it into our passion.” Joy Skarka With vulnerability and authenticity, Joy shares her story which includes sexual trauma that led to a struggle with pornography. As a girl struggling with porn, she felt isolation and carried tremendous shame. Yet, there is help and healing. And, we are never alone in our struggle. This episode is a rich discussion across many topics including sexuality, discipleship, singleness and pornography, with encouraging theology and an unpacking of our need to be known, loved, and to give and receive love. We all experience some sort of sexual brokeness and are far from the naked and unashamed innocence God created in the garden. Let’s walk in more freedom, through vulnerability, and know that God cares about your sexuality. Mentioned in this episode: The Soul of Shame, Curt Thompson Authentic Intimacy The Birds and the Bees Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Related Episodes: Body Talks with Kids. Clarity, Confidence and the Critical Need to Shift the Conversation, Episode 96 Body Talks with Kids. Connecting to the Meaning of YOUR Body, Episode 97 Body Talks with Kids. Big Picture Vision, Small Phrases to Create Impact, Episode 98 Body Talks with Kids. Celebrating the Body, Celebrating God, Episode 99 More about Joy Skarka: Joy Skarka is passionate about creating spaces to free wo
S3 E137 · Mon, January 23, 2023
Sex Toys & Vibrators
What’s okay for Christian marriage in the bedroom? Maybe that’s the wrong question. Married sex can be a playground, filled with creativity and adventure. In this episode, we’ll reframe the question and perhaps help you process and give yourself permission for a little bit of adventure and freedom in your marriage bed. God created you in a wonderful way and designed married intimacy as celebration. The bodies of a husband and wife are designed to fit together perfectly and there isn’t a mandate saying you need to add anything. Sex toys are simply tools that you can introduce to your married intimacy “menu.” Consider these thoughts on sex toys as you process what is good for your marriage. Related Episodes: Re-framing Novelty- How Monogamy Doesn't Equal Monotony , Episode 85 Becoming Sexually Adventurous - Pt. 2 with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill , Episode 132 Invitation to Discover Your Wonderful Female Body, Episode 104 Your Wonderful Female Body - Clitoris, Episode 105 Your Wonderful Female Body - G-spot, Episode 106 Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, Episode 107 Your Wonderful Female Body - 4 Stages of Sexual Response, Episode 108 Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Desire, Episode 109 <span style="font-weight:
S3 E136 · Mon, January 16, 2023
Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns
Are you tuned into your female body? Often, even bringing up the topic of the clitoris or vagina can cause Christian women to shut down. As Bonny shares, when you have education about something, it becomes less scary. And, yet, most women don’t have much understanding of their genitalia. Bonny breaks down the science and the scriptures to give you permission to know your body and understand how your amazing female body works. In this chat we talk about anatomy, desire, low drives/high drives, growth mindset, loving your female body, arousal, orgasm, communication and shifting gears toward more mutual satisfaction in the bedroom and so much more. Bonny is the mentor we all want on these topics. More about Bonny Burns: Bonny Burns works to empower the wife with low sexual interest, little sex drive, and possibly a sexless marriage through science, scripture, and stories. She writes at oysterbed7.com and podcasts at Sex Chat for Christian Wives. You can find her ministry to women who have experienced sexual betrayal at strongwives.com. She earned a Christian Counseling certification (not licensure) in 2015 and in December, 2019, she completed a Bachelor of Science in counseling psychology from Liberty University. She is married to Dave for over 30 years and is a mother to three adult sons. Mentioned in this episode: Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens, Bonny Burns Strong Wives You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E135 · Mon, January 09, 2023
Your Good Body with Alisa Keeton
We are having some real talk about the body. And, you’ll hear from a dear friend and mentor, Alisa Keeton, as we talk about the wisdom of knowing yourself and acknowledging your body. Jesus came in a body, to love and serve through a physical body. There is a purpose of both the body and the spirit, yet we tend to overemphasize one or the other, neglecting the importance of how God designed us. What would it look like to get free, become more kind toward your body and get in tune with the meaning and purpose of your body? Listen in and be equipped and encouraged as you find freedom and take steps toward honoring your body, even if you have been walking in shame, disdain or trauma for years. Reclaim what is good and beautiful, sweet friend. About Alisa Keeton Author, speaker, and freedom bringer. Alisa’s life’s journey is to make healthy disciples who make healthy disciples. She believes in the power of the body – the Body Of Christ – where many unique parts come together to make up one complete whole. She is a small-framed woman with a God-sized dream. Learn more about Alisa at alisakeeton.com and her ministry at revelationwellness.org. Mentioned in this episode: Our Bodies Tell God’s Story: Discovering the Divine Plan for Love, Sex and Gender by Christopher West Revelation Wellness You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter <
S3 E134 · Mon, January 02, 2023
Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety
The body keeps the score. God designed your body with great intention and care. We need body awareness, knowing that God created us mind, spirit and body. Yet, accumulated stress and a lack of ability to name what is happening can cause the body to shut down. In this episode, hear my personal journey with anxiety, how my body started crying out, and how I came to discern anxiety and learn tools to find true breakthroughs. Tune in as I share resources that have been tremendous in providing awareness and healing in my own life (and in my home). Let’s learn to honor the story of the body. Mentioned in this episode: Try Softer, Aundi Kolber Anchored: How to Befriend Your Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory, Deb Dana Centering Prayer App Revelation Wellness Related Episode: Sex as a Stress Reliever , Episode 89 Making Space for Margin and Rest , Episode 101 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here <span style="font-weight:
S3 E133 · Mon, December 26, 2022
Blessing Your Body as a Christ Carrier- Replay
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie discusses theology of the body as it pertains to Christmas. King of Kings by Hillsong Hebrews 4:14-15 I Corinthians 6:19-20 Romans 5 Matthew 1 I Corinthians 12:12 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E132 · Mon, December 19, 2022
Becoming Sexually Adventurous - Pt. 2 with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill
Sex can be a great gift, full of pleasure and fun. But, it can also be a source of frustration, discouragement and even great wounding inside your marriage. Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill are back this week talking more about their own experience and encouraging you to find healing and freedom in your sexuality. Sex is designed as a party for the woman…yet, we have been taught that sex is really something for the man and even a duty for a wife in marriage. Well, Phyllis is like the big sister you always wanted and she is sharing tips and ideas to embrace more adventure and more freedom as you celebrate what God called GOOD. Listen in and spur your thinking as you figure out what your unique “sexy” is in each and every season. Learn more about Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill: Phyllis & Glenn met at a summer camp in the Carolina mountains at age 15 and 16 in 1978, then married four years later. “We were ill-prepared for marriage and our first five years were horrific, with continuous disconnection and pain.” They have experienced healing and transformation in their marriage and bring valuable tools to couples to enrich marriages through connection. Dive In With This Free Resource: Break the cycle of frustration in your relationship. Stop feeling lonely in your marriage and learn how to connect the way you were created to. Click Here. Get Marriage Help Today: End the cycle of miscommunication and conflict in your marriage.Get marriage help today. The Foundations Masterclass gives you the tools to communicate better starting now. No need to wait on an appointment to get help. Use HEAVEN20 and receive a 20% discount on this foundational course. Click Here. Get the Merry Marriage Gift Guide right here: Merry Marriage Related Episodes: Invitation to Discover Your Wonderful Female Body, Episode 104 Your Wonderful Female Body - Clitoris, Episode 105 Your Wonderful Female Body - G-spot, Episode 106 Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, Episode 107 Your Wonderful Female Body - 4 Stages of Sexual Response, Episode 108 Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Desire, <a href= "https://traffic.libsyn.com/heaveninyourhome/FR
S3 E131 · Mon, December 12, 2022
Transformational Keys to Emotional Connection - Pt. 1 with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill
Sex without emotional connection is really just sexual activity. Today’s guests, Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill share keys to a healing journey toward true emotional connection. From the wounding that started on their honeymoon, they experienced years of disconnection. With years of training and application, they are now experiencing abundance. And, they have developed simple tools to help marriages experience “naked and unashamed” intimacy, just as God intended as we see in Genesis. Through Connection Codes, they offer a PROVEN, 4-minute tool that will give you the language to conquer conflict in marriage, find safety in intimacy and create a marriage and life you love Don’t miss this encouraging episode. Learn more about Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill: Phyllis & Glenn met at a summer camp in the Carolina mountains at age 15 and 16 in 1978, then married four years later. “We were ill-prepared for marriage and our first five years were horrific, with continuous disconnection and pain.” They have experienced healing and transformation in their marriage and bring valuable tools to couples to enrich marriages through connection. Dive In With This Free Resource: Break the cycle of frustration in your relationship. Stop feeling lonely in your marriage and learn how to connect the way you were created to. Click Here. Get Marriage Help Today: End the cycle of miscommunication and conflict in your marriage.Get marriage help today. The Foundations Masterclass gives you the tools to communicate better starting now. No need to wait on an appointment to get help. Use HEAVEN20 and receive a 20% discount on this foundational course. Click Here. Get the Merry Marriage Gift Guide right here: Merry Marriage You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Disciplesh
S3 E130 · Mon, December 05, 2022
Your Intimate Gift Guide
The Merry Marriage Gift Guide is BACK with some fresh, exciting, creative ways to give your spouse (and your marriage) a present. Your marriage is WORTH the investment! What a treat to even just sit down together and talk through these curated ideas for your married intimacy. You’ll find the Merry Marriage Gift Guide includes ways to invest and grow, as well as ideas for sensory gifts and tools, including my absolute favorite tool to enhance pleasure. You may even hear me giggle a bit as I share some of these spicy ideas and the ways God has grown me in adding a few “extras” to our marriage bed. You’ll enjoy some special savings, too. Tune in and enjoy! Get the Merry Marriage Gift Guide right here: Merry Marriage Related Episodes: Great Sex Grows…When I See Sex as Fun, Episode 122 Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones, Episode 107 Pleasure Series Part 1: Reclaiming Your Orgasmic Potential, Episode 92 Pleasure Series Part 2: Reclaiming Your Orgasmic Potential, Episode 93 You’re Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as
S3 E129 · Mon, November 28, 2022
Sex & Your Period
Can you have sex on your period? Let’s reframe this question and flip the switch on pursuing intimacy each and every day. God is a God of intimacy and He made sex to be naked and unashamed living. There are many ways to be intimate that don’t involve intercourse, although there is not a mandate for or against intercourse during your menstrual cycle. Tune into this episode as we unpack a frequently asked question and talk about the menstrual cycle on a deeper level. You won’t want to miss this unique perspective to celebrate how God has made us as women. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E128 · Mon, November 21, 2022
Gratitude & Thanksgiving
Enjoy a special episode of praise and worship as we fix our gaze on Jesus through Psalm 34. Enter into the holiday season with the aim to shift the atmosphere of your home, as you serve God with your whole mind, soul and body. Knowing that your body is a gift that allows you to uniquely glorify God, you can walk each day with gratitude and thanksgiving. Let’s bless God at all times with a “whole body” worship. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E127 · Mon, November 14, 2022
Growing Intimacy…Even When You Have Little Kids
What does it like to keep building a strong foundation RIGHT NOW, even in the little years? As you transition from newly married to being new parents, there are real challenges in staying connected and intimate. It’s really easy to slip into the “roommate rut” as you navigate the never-ending needs of being parents. But, you can stay connected, really being intentional to build oneness and intimacy. It takes priority and intentionality, but you can establish simple rhythms that allow you to maintain intimate connection. You’ll hear how we practically established rhythms of connection as our family started to grow. Be encouraged and be equipped! Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E126 · Mon, November 07, 2022
How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection
Drifting in marriage can happen quickly. Busy lives, full schedules and a household full of children are always vying for our attention. It takes intentional connection to avoid the “roommate rut”. Have you heard of a hotel date? Instead of dinner and a movie, you spend several hours alone at a hotel. What an incredible way to find connection. In this episode you will learn all about hotel dates as an idea to spur your marriage connection. You will hear candid chat about the practicals and logistics, as well as some ways this practice can strengthen your marriage connection. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Website Instagram
S3 E125 · Mon, October 31, 2022
Building Strong Marriages that Weather Life’s Storms with Gary Thomas
How do we navigate hard things that come our way and not get washed out by the storms of life? And, how can we keep our marriage anchored in the truth, in intimacy with God and each other? In this episode you will hear nuggets of wisdom and insight to encourage you in your marriage, even when the trials of life threaten to rip you apart. Every marriage will face hard times, yet with a Kingdom perspective, seasons of setbacks and disappointments are shifted. Be encouraged through the stories of marriages that not only weathered the storm, but became an opportunity to glorify God. And, be reminded of the beauty of a marriage that is always healing and leaning in toward intimacy and growth. About Gary Thomas Gary Thomas's writing and speaking draw people closer to Christ and closer to others. He is the author of twenty books that together have sold more than two million copies and have been translated into more than a dozen languages. These books include Sacred Marriage, Cherish, Married Sex, and the Gold Medallion-award winning Authentic Faith . Resources Mentioned: Making Your Marriage a Fortress: Strengthening Your Marriage to Withstand Life's Storms , Gary Thomas Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E124 · Mon, October 24, 2022
Great Sex Grows…When I See My Superpowers as a Wife
Superpowers as a wife. Sounds nice, right? Well, it’s true. Tune in and hear the ways God has equipped and empowered you for good works. When you see yourself in a Biblical light, fully equipped with super powers including the truth of being an image bearer and the gift of the Holy Spirit, you begin to see a shift in your perspective. This conversation builds upon those truths to give you some fresh ways of thinking about your gifts and super powers as a wife. Be encouraged, friend. We are dropping the “shoulds” and embracing some incredible ideas to help power a growing sex life. Grab a complementary guide based on this podcast series today: Great Sex Grows Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E123 · Mon, October 17, 2022
Great Sex Grows…As I Communicate Honestly and Honoringly
Does great sex just happen? Well, no, it doesn’t. Let’s continue the conversation about intentional ways to lean in and and grow truly great intimacy, which includes communication. Talking about sex may not come very naturally. And, it really does take some practice as you become vulnerable and learn to express your needs. In this episode you’ll hear more about my own journey to find tools to be able to talk about sex. And, you’ll hear encouragment to talk about sex together. When you use your words to speak life over your husband and your marriage, it is an incredibly powerful gift to fuel deeper vulnerability. Great sex grows…when you lean in toward honest and hornoring communication. Grab a complementary guide based on this podcast series today: Great Sex Grows Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Resources Mentioned: His Needs, Her Needs Caveat - this book does discuss sex as a man’s physical need. I consistently share that Biblical sex is not about a need or a duty. Always ask the Lord to guide you as you consume any resources. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E122 · Mon, October 10, 2022
Great Sex Grows…When I See Sex as Fun
A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22 Let’s continue the conversation about great sex growing, because, spoiler alert, it doens’t just happen. We are talking about dialing up the JOY in your marriage and…in your bedroom. This episode can be a resource to you over time. It is full of ideas and tips to bring more fun and lighthearted play into your marriage. When you see your spouse as your playmate, the hard things of life might just soften a little bit. So, lean in and hear about bringing the JOY and FUN to your growing sex life. Grab a complementary guide based on this podcast series today: Great Sex Grows Resources Mentions: Christian Friendly Sex Positions Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E121 · Mon, October 03, 2022
Great Sex Grows…When I Tune Into My Body
Let’s continue the conversation about growing in your married intimacy by talking about the body. It seems obvious that we acknowledge that body is part of sex, but great intimacy happens when you tune into your body and see it as a good gift. It’s really easy to become disconnected from the body, going about your day and serving others without much regard for your physical needs and sensations. In this episode, you will hear practical ideas for seeing your body as good. You’ll hear encouragement for tuning into the ways you can care for yourself, understanding your body and how it works and see how you can walk in more confidence. Enjoying the gift of intimacy begins with bringing your whole self to the moment - mind, body and spirit. We are all in process, all on our own journey. Let’s keep leaning in toward growth, healing and truly great intimacy. Grab a complementary guide based on this podcast series today: Great Sex Grows Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E120 · Mon, September 26, 2022
Great Sex Grows…When I Shift My Mindset
Your beliefs about your body, your sexuality and your marriage bed are critical. Do you have a growth mindset or a fixed mindset? The Word encourages us to be growth-oriented. In Romans we see, “do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Let’s apply this to a growing, flourishing sex life. Great sex doesn’t just happen. Great sex requires intentionality…and this episode will unpack the benefits of having a mindset to set you up for success. Grab a complementary guide based on this podcast series today: Great Sex Grows Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex
S3 E119 · Mon, September 19, 2022
Great Sex Grows - Introduction
Does great sex just happen? While the world throws the phrase, “great sex,” around casually, in this new series we are going to really unpack the journey toward truly great sex. Yes, it’s a journey meant for the long haul of your marriage. Great sex can truly grow over time with intentionally. In Great Sex Grows, you will be equipped and encouaged to think about intentional connection in each and every stage. Yes, we will keep our eyes on the big picture, but we will unpack practical ways to grow a great sex life. A growing sex life requires intentionality…and, this series will help you think differently and become more intentional. Grab a complementary guide based on this podcast series today: Great Sex Grows Resources Mentioned: What if Love is the Point?: Living for Jesus in a Self-Consumed World , Carlos PenaVega and Alexa PenaVega Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex
S3 E118 · Mon, September 12, 2022
How Often Should I Be Having Sex?
This is a loaded question. Stop “should-ing” on yourself, especially when it comes to your marriage. “Should” is a word that connotes a duty or a chore…who wants that? Let’s reframe the question moving forward. Rather, let’s focus on the benefits of an active and growing sex life. While we can focus on the many health benefits, what if we flip the question and understand what’s behind your questions about “how often.” In this episode you’ll be encouraged to reframe the way you think about frequency or differing sex drives. Listen in and hear a more helpful approach to choosing intimacy and connection. Resources Mentioned: The 10 Health Benefits of Regular Sex. Here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E117 · Mon, September 05, 2022
Growing Intimacy through Body Blessing & Shame Healing
Intimacy requires vulnerability. With vulnerability, hurt and wrong thinking can bubble up, requiring attention and healing. In this episode, I share a personal journey with shame I’ve carried, even without realizing it, over my feminine body. You will hear the vision for body blessing and a helpful outline of simple steps for healing prayer. Your body is wonderfully made and as you agree with God, there is freedom to walk in more fruitful abundance. For a more detailed study guide on this topic, click here . Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex
S3 E116 · Mon, August 29, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Pelvic Floor Health with Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Pt 2
Yes, it is possible to sneeze or cough without leaking. To exercise without a sense of urgency. And, even to be healed from uncomfortable or painful intercourse. Strengthening the pelvic floor can lead to incredible benefits, regardless of your life stage. Listen to part two of the conversation with Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, where we unpack the health of your female body, including a more comprehensive awareness of your body so that you can be more fully connected mind, body and spirit. You’ll hear a candid discussion about living more integrated, especially if you find yourself disconnected due to shame, embarrassment or iies that don’t align with the Word of God. Tanya is a wife, mother of 5 and practices women’s health physical therapy through innovative and approachable services at Refine Physical Therapy . About Tanya and Get Connected: God has given Tanya a passion and heart for serving and speaking truth to women. She believes that each woman has been given a good body at every stage of life, and she desires to see women embrace who they were created to be and live life to the fullest. She attended Dordt College to get a B.A. in Exercise Science and a minor in psychology, and received her doctorate degree in physical therapy from the University of Iowa. Learn more about her approachable women’s health support on her website . Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Website and Instagram Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: <a href="
S3 E115 · Mon, August 22, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Pelvic Floor Health with Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Pt 1
What is the pelvic floor? And what should you expect from a healthy, functioning pelvic floor? As your body changes with life, especially after childbirth, you may notice issues or problems like a leaky bladder, inability to jump without urgency and even uncomfortable, painful intercourse. In this episode, Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, will help give you more insight into your wonderful female body, especially in the area of a healthy pelvic floor. Tanya is a wife, mother of 5 and practices women’s health physical therapy through innovative and approachable services at Refine Physical Therapy . About Tanya and Get Connected: God has given Tanya a passion and heart for serving and speaking truth to women. She believes that each woman has been given a good body at every stage of life, and she desires to see women embrace who they were created to be and live life to the fullest. She attended Dordt College to get a B.A. in Exercise Science and a minor in psychology, and received her doctorate degree in physical therapy from the University of Iowa. Learn more about her approachable women’s health support on her website . Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Website and Instagram Resources mentioned in this episode: Revelation Wellness Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Connect with Francie: Website <a href="h
S3 E114 · Mon, August 15, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Resolution and the Ripple Effect of Sex
Your body is good and reveals the very goodness of God. Yes, that’s right! God designed your body and He did so with intention and purpose. In this episode you will learn about the about the final aspect of the sexual response cycle, resolution. How can you maximize the resolution stage for increased intimacy and connection? Listen in and learn about the ways God created your body and the beautiful physical and hormonal responses that you experience in sex. Experience the powerful “exhale” together in the resolution stage of the sexual response cycle, which extends beyond the marriage bed. Related Episodes: Ep. 2 The Science of Sex Ep. 4 The Ripple Effect of Sex: And Why Sex Matters, Espicially When You Don’t Feel Like It Ep. 8 The Emotional Gift of Sex Ep. 102 How a Flourishing Wife Can Call Forth Holy Masculinity Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex
S3 E113 · Mon, August 08, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Pt. 2
Orgasm is a gift created and formed by God. And, as women you have a unique capacity for pleasure with incredible benefits. Your body is wonderfully made with intention and purpose, which includes your sexuality. A great sex life doeesn’t happen by accident. In this episode you will find practical ideas to consider as you learn about orgasm, pursuing pleasure and increased intimacy in your marriage. Listen in and be encouraged as you consider TEN IDEAS and FOUR STEPS to enhance your approach to pleasure in your marriage bed. Mentioned in this episode: Dr. Jennifer Degler, CWIVES (Christian Wives Initiating Valuing Enjoying Sex) Related Episodes: Ep. 111 Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Pt. 1 Ep. 105 Your Wonderful Female Body - Clitoris Ep. 92 Pleasure Series Pt. 1 - Reclaiming Your Orgasmic Potential Ep.93 Pleasure Series Pt. 2 - Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with Dr. Jennifer Degler Ep. 94 Pleasure Series Pt. 3 - Your Orgasm Questions with Dr. Jennifer Degler Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with
S3 E112 · Mon, August 01, 2022
Shifting Culture through Music in Your Home
Come along with me and let’s bring the truth of God into your home through the gift of music as we prayerfully prepare to launch Heaven in Your Home Family Music . In this episode you’ll hear how a little rap based on 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 became a seed not only to plant truth in the hearts of my children, but one planted to bring my talented friend and musician Kathryn Brummer alongside to write beautiful songs based on teaching truths. The catchiness of the rap caught on and all of my kids not only sing it while we’re in the kitchen or in the car, but that rap launched us into countless deeper conversations about the significance of God’s design, His heart for us, and His amazing plan for how we live in our bodies as male and female. We want to see that happen for families all over the world. We want to see the life-shaping power of music, combined with truth filled theology, form our kids' worldviews and shift the culture of our homes from the inside out. We want to invite you to join us in launching a music platform, Heaven in Your Home Family Music, offering families a foundation-building space to celebrate God’s wonderful design and truth through song. We are prayerfully partnering with a producer and studio to bring the music to life THIS MONTH. Won’t you partner with us to make this happen. Partner with Heaven in Your Home Family Music, click here. Mentioned in this episode: Everybody Has a Body: God Made Boys and Girls , by Monica Ashour Before The Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors , by Linda Beth Noble and Linda Marie Stewart Related Episodes: <span style="font-weight:
S3 E111 · Mon, July 25, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Pt. 1
Orgasms are a gift created, formed and given straight from the heart of God. This sweet gift will bless your marriage, will bless your interaction with your husband and will give you a glimpse of the pleasure and the wonder that we'll have for eternity with God, where you are lost in wonder and lost in love. In this episode you will learn more about orgasms, including types of orgasm and the intention of orgasm. In addition to the practicals, you will be given a little bit of vision for thinking about orgasm and realizing that it is not the highest goal of our sexual intimacy, but it is an incredible and holy gift that you are worthy of experiencing. This teaching is packed with detail and insight. Be equipped and be encouraged as you continue to educate yourself on your wonderful female body. Mentioned in this episode: Episode 38, How I Pray About My Sex Life Restoring the Pleasure , Clifford Penner and Joyce Penner Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E110 · Mon, July 18, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Arousal
The holy pursuit of your female sexuality often involves a healing journey. As you ditch the shame and wounded parts, unpack your story and begin to live as a fully integrated woman, the fruit of freedom is experienced. In this episode, you will hear more of the wonderful ways God has made your female body and hopefully see the goodness of God as you lean into more oneness in your marriage. Reframe unhelpful notions of transactional, duty or climax-focused sex and learn the incredible benefits of slow, intentional love making. You will hear practicals for making the most of sexual arousal to pursue incredible pleasure and experience extended initimacy. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex
S3 E109 · Mon, July 11, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - Sexual Desire
Your body and your sexuality were designed by God and He called you good. As we continue this educational and celebratory series on your wonderful female body, today we are leaning in to better understand the female sexual response cycle, which starts with sexual desire. This may require a bit of awareness as you continue to recognize ways you can live more integrated. Growth requires intentionality, so in this episode we are intentionally focusing on sexual desire so that we might become more aligned with God. In this episode you will be encouraged and equipped, on both spiritual and practical levels, to understand and become aware of desire. Mentioned in this episode: Episode 73 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Barriers Episode 74 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Brains Episode 75 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Beliefs Episode 76 , Growing Your Sexual Desire - Body Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex
S3 E108 · Mon, July 04, 2022
Your Wonderful Female Body - 4 Stages of Sexual Response
Sex is a gift from God, given to you with intention and purpose. We’re continuing in the summer series, educating ourselves on our body so that we can live in a more celebratory tone when it comes to how we think about our bodies, our femininity and our sexuality. Common views of sex are are often achored in the cultural assumption that sex = erection, entry, thrusting, ejeculation, resolution. Sex is a much more beautiful, layered and fruitful experience. And, the female body is created with incredible responses to complement the male response. In this episode we will begin to unpack what your female body needs and what a more integrated connection between the brain and the body looks like for women. Women need engagement, time, stimulation and connection between the body and the brain. Learn to become more aware of what is happening in your body, and tune in and pay attention to the way your body responds in desire, arousal, climax and resolution. This awareness leads to insight on how to wake up to your body and build more intimacy in your marriage. Friend, let’s lean in and understand your wonderful female body and celebrate what God called good. 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E107 · Mon, June 27, 2022
Episode 107: Your Wonderful Female Body - Erogenous Zones
Did you know your body was knit together with about 10 erogenous zones? Wow! Learn more about the possibility for pleasure with your husband and be encouraged as this episode educates and celebrates your wonderful female body, which includes erogenous zones. In this summer series we are learning to celebrate our bodies. Let’s not just see sex as a duty, something on our to-do list, or a place of shame. Rather, let’s learn about how our body works and how God created our body with purpose and intention. This series is for HOLY WOW as you learn more about your good body. We are celebrating erogenous zones. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website
S3 E106 · Mon, June 20, 2022
Episode 106: Your Wonderful Female Body - G-spot
Maybe you’ve heard of the g-spot, but don’t have much understanding or idea how it works or even where it is. Let’s unpack your good, beautiful female body and celebrate being wonderfully made. We are continuing the summer series with an episode dedicated to the g-spot. It’s a holy pursuit to understand your sexual anatomy as you pursue intimacy and pleasure in marriage. So, we are continuing to celebrate as we educate as we get to know our good bodies. After all, our bodies have indicators of God's heart and God's purposes. This series is for HOLY WOW as you learn more about your good body, which includes the g-spot. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website
S3 E105 · Mon, June 13, 2022
Episode 105: Your Wonderful Female Body - Clitoris
You are wonderfully made. God’s masterpiece. This summer series will educate and celebrate all things about your wonderful female body. And, in this episode we are covering all things about the clitoris. You’ll understand more about your anatomy, the good ways God designed you and the incredible ways your clitoris responds to touch and the beautiful capacity for pleasure and hormonal responses. This series is for HOLY WOW as you learn more about your good body, starting with your clitoris. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website
S3 E104 · Mon, June 06, 2022
Episode 104: Invitation to Discover Your Wonderful Female Body
You look at a sunset and marvel at God’s glory in what He’s created. Yet, YOU are His ultimate masterpiece, created with intention and purpose. In this celebratory Summer series, you’ll receive bite sized pieces of inspiration, encouragement and celebration as you process and seek to honor your good, beautiful body that God has given you. This episode is an introduction to a brand new Summer series, inviting you to discover your wonderful female body. Let’s celebrate as we are educated. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website
S3 E103 · Mon, May 30, 2022
Episode 103: Healing and Growing through Sex Therapy with Tish Hedger
Pursuing sexual wholeness is a journey. And, some healing journeys might benefit from the help of a professional counselor. But, what is sex therapy and who is it for? Listen in today and hear from Tish Hedger, a Liscenced Professional Counselor and Clinical Director of MyCounselor Online, as she breaks down the goal of sexual wholeness, the barries that keep you from exprienceing a healthy sexual experience in your marraige and the approach you might expect with a sex therapist. Be encouraged and learn about the role sex therapy might play in your healing journey. About Tish Hedger, MA, LPC: Tish is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) with over 6,000 hours of clinical hours of care and serves as the Clinical Director of MyCounselor Online. She is a trained sex therapist as well as trained in the trauma informed and attachment based therapies of AEDP and EFT. She holds a bachelors in biblical studies and a masters in counseling (MA). Tish is passionate about helping individuals and marriages heal from loss and trauma. Tish has been married since 2005 to a church planter/pastor. She is the mother of two. She enjoys coffee, the outdoors and spending time with her family. Resources Mentioned: MyCounselor Online Soul Virgins by Doug Rosenau and Todd Wilson Restoring the Pleasure , Clifford Penner and Joyce Penner Revelation Wellness with Alisa Keeton And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Cli
S3 E102 · Mon, May 23, 2022
Episode 102: How a Flourishing Wife Can Call Forth Holy Masculinity
While you may see your man as a tower of strength, do you know how to honor and even call forth his holy masculinity? The culture seems to be against our men, either pitting their masculinity as toxic or, even worse, placing them in competition or comparison with women. Challenge yourself to flourish in God’s unique role for you as a wife. Learn to come alongside your husband to honor his strength and even speak life and blessing over his sexuality and holy image bearing masculinity. Your journey in loving your husband allows you to see his strength and his vulnerability. In this episode, you’ll hear practical ways to speak life over your husband’s sexuality, including a few things that may make you blush. And, you’ll learn how to honor your husband when he initiates…even when you are far from feeling ready to connect. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website
S3 E101 · Mon, May 16, 2022
Episode 101: Making Space for Margin and Rest
You were made for closeness and connection. Connection with God, with people and in your marriage. Yet, exhaustion, striving, noise and distractions are real life hurdles to closeness and intimacy. What would it look like to have invitational rest in your life? In this episode, Francie shares from her own journey and experience with the weariness of exhaustion and gently encourages you to lay down the hurdles of rest and simply “come to Him.” Let’s set aside the barrier of exhaustion and make room for quietness and margin (even if it’s a little uncomfortable). You’ll hear practical help and ideas, as well as a deeper understanding of the fruitfulness of a life with space and margin. Real authentic connection and intimacy comes from a place of rest. Related Episodes: Episode 72, How and Why I Practice Silent Prayer Growing Desire Series (Episodes 73, 74, 75 and 76) Pursuing Pleasure Series (Episode 92, 93, 94 and 95 Resources Mentioned: Ruth Haley Barton Dwell App And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click <a href= "https://mycounselor.online/?RR_WCID=C721E6DC-FEA0-4
S3 E100 · Mon, May 09, 2022
Episode 100: Healing Journeys, Fruitfulness and Celebrating 100 Episodes
God invites you to be captivated by Him. This episode is a sweet celebratory time of sharing my heart, how the Lord captivated my whole heart…and how in the world I ended up as an “intimacy evangelist,” encouraging you to know God’s heart for your body, your sexuality and your married intimacy. In this episode you’ll hear more about my journey from a newlywed bride suddenly trying to flip a switch from, “don’t do it,” to embracing God’s good intentions with married sex. I knew there was more to sex than what the world showed and a story bigger than the silence I sensed from the church. We’ll talk about the idea of having a honeymoon marriage, the vision of shalom and having Heaven in your home, and the healing journey that we are all on as we lean into God for transformation. You’ll hear from women on the same journey, the ways He is meeting them and the fruitfulness they are experiencing. Let’s celebrate, friend. Related Episodes: Episode 1, Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagr
S3 E99 · Mon, May 02, 2022
Episode 99: Body Talks with Kids. Celebrating the Body, Celebrating God.
Something worth celebrating is worth talking about. Let’s celebrate the goodness of the body because your body has good news written all over it. Your words have the power to speak truth and life over your children, including their body. Bless with your words as you train your children to understand that they were formed in an integrated way. Mind, body and spirit are all of great value and when you bless your children in this manner, you are speaking the truth of God over them. Listen in and hear truth and equipping scripture to help you understand the goodness of the body and how to break down the concepts into teachable nuggets. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is CLOSING THIS WEEK. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E98 · Mon, April 25, 2022
Episode 98: Body Talks with Kids. Big Picture Vision, Small Phrases to Create Impact.
Let’s talk about image bearing power, because what your body reveals is really good news. As you teach your children to watch for the cultural cues that seek to elevate ideas that don’t align with God’s goodness, let’s look at the good news that the body itself reveals. God uses visible things to reveal what is invisible about His nature. This is true for your body. You can see something about our invisible God through the body. We can know God by observing the things He has made. Sexuality and gender is like a clue to show us what God is like and how we can show God to others through the body. Your body is good! Let’s lean in to the good news shown through theology of the body. You’ll learn small phrases to help you teach your children about the meaningful purpose of the body…and show them a better way to create a big cultural shift. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is CLOSING THIS WEEK. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram <
S3 E97 · Mon, April 18, 2022
Episode 97: Body Talks with Kids. Connecting to the Meaning of YOUR Body.
Do you want to know how to effectively lead your kids into truth during this confusing time in our culture? It begins with understanding the meaning of what it is to be human…and it starts with YOU. What does it mean to be a fully alive human, made in the image of God from head to toe? And, what does it look like to walk in fullness of knowing why God gave you a body, distinctly male or female with great purpose. God designed your body to be communicators of His glory (Romans 1:20). Your body is GOOD. When we reframe the conversation about the body, gender and sexualty we can shift from a list of rules, and do’s and don’ts to a vision of WHY God created our body, our gender, our genitals. Embrace the GOODNESS of what God reveals through your body. Jesus came in a body and we were designed to live in a body, informed by the reality of the love of God. Let’s reconnect to the “why” of our humanity. Listen in and hear a simple framework for teaching theology of the body. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website <span style="font-size
S3 E96 · Mon, April 11, 2022
Episode 96: Body Talks with Kids. Clarity, Confidence and the Critical Need to Shift the Conversation.
You can’t give away something that you don’t own yourself. When it comes to talking to your children about their body, their gender and their sexuality the stakes seem increasingly high. And, while you might be looking for the best formula for sharing a Biblical worldview, let’s start the conversation with a strong foundation about what your body reveals and why your body matters. In this series, we will unpack a solid foundation and understanding of theology of the body. This understanding provides a framework for a foundation to support you as you teach your children a valuable dialogue that goes beyond a “sex talk” or a “puberty talk.” Let’s be informed so we can form our children’s hearts and minds about their body, their gender and their sexuality in a way that helps them navigate their own journey and also be a light in the world. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E95 · Mon, March 28, 2022
Episode 95: Pleasure Series Pt. 4 Sensual Massage: How Intimate Touch Could Be a Place of Breakthrough In your Marriage
Intimacy doesn’t always mean or need to be intercourse. In fact, with the stressors of a busy life, you may need a way to switch gears and connect even if you are tired or in a rut. In today’s episode, you’ll learn about connecting intimately through sensual, erotic massage. Let’s lean in to intimate touch. Sensual massage can be a powerful way to gain confidence and an effective way to communicate about touch as you build connection with your spouse. Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we’ll kick off the unit on Pleasure this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E94 · Mon, March 21, 2022
Episode 94: Pleasure Series Pt. 3: Your Orgasm Questions with Dr. Jennifer Degler
Join my real-life sex mentor, Dr. Jennifer Degler, as we answer your questions about sexual pleasure and orgasm. We cover a range of topics, including sexual arousal, becoming more orgasmic, self-stimulation, constructive ways to talk with your spouse about sexual pleasure and what to do when things are hard. We’re answering your questions because this is all God’s territory. You’ll hear practical, straight talk and be encouraged to walk in more freedom as you pursue sexual intimacy in your marriage. Whether you’ve been married six months, six years or sixty years, listen in and learn about how your body works. About Dr. Jennifer Degler: Psychologist, life coach, author, speaker, wife, and mom, Dr. Jennifer Degler is passionate about helping people create healthy, successful relationships. As a lifelong Kentuckian and UK graduate, she bleeds blue for the Big Blue Nation. You won’t find her in a coffee shop (she thinks coffee tastes like dirt), but you are likely to find her kayaking and hiking with her high school sweetheart husband, Jeff, as they enjoy their newly empty nest. Her fabulous and funny adult children, Josie and Jake, delight in telling their friends that their mom runs a sex shop when, in reality, she founded CWIVES, a ministry to help Christian wives make their sex lives sizzle. Sex shop, ministry–sounds just the same to us too. Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we’ll kick off the unit on Pleasure later this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here <
S3 E93 · Mon, March 14, 2022
Episode 93: Pleasure Series Pt. 2: Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with with Dr. Jennifer Degler
Let’s reclaim erotic love…because God created it with great purpose. Jump back in to this celebratory series on growing your sexual pleasure and your orgasmic potential. Today you’ll be equipped and encouraged as Francie’s real-life mentor, Dr. Jennifer Degler, joins to outline practical understanding of your glorious female body. She’ll explain the sexual fire triangle that really fans the flame for your marred intimacy and talk about ways t0 help you become more orgasmic. This episode will help you continue to ditch any “religious” notions as you understand your anatomy and the mechanics of the female orgasm. Oh, friend let’s learn and celebrate the goodness of sexual pleausure. About Dr. Jennifer Degler: Psychologist, life coach, author, speaker, wife, and mom, Dr. Jennifer Degler is passionate about helping people create healthy, successful relationships. As a lifelong Kentuckian and UK graduate, she bleeds blue for the Big Blue Nation. You won’t find her in a coffee shop (she thinks coffee tastes like dirt), but you are likely to find her kayaking and hiking with her high school sweetheart husband, Jeff, as they enjoy their newly empty nest. Her fabulous and funny adult children, Josie and Jake, delight in telling their friends that their mom runs a sex shop when, in reality, she founded CWIVES, a ministry to help Christian wives make their sex lives sizzle. Sex shop, ministry–sounds just the same to us too. Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we’ll kick off the unit on Pleasure later this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here <span style="font-weight: 400; font-size: 12pt
S3 E92 · Mon, March 07, 2022
Episode 92: Pleasure Series Pt. 1: Reclaiming Your Orgasmic Potential
Whether you’ve been married for six weeks or sixteen years, God made your body to experience great sexual pleasure. Yes, friend you are a beautiful, sensual woman made to experience orgasm. Yet, maybe you feel like you’re missing a few pieces of the puzzle when it comes to experiencing sexual pleasure and orgasm. While you were made for great pleasure, there seems to be great resistance for many women when it comes to experiencing it. Listen to today’s conversation and learn about the beauty of recieving pleasure, uproot the lies and falsehoods of what sexual pleasure is and can be and even walk into the freedom of really letting go in your married intimacy as you pursue orgasm. Friend, sexual pleasure and orgasm is meant to be celebrated. That’s the way God designed you with great joy. God Loves Sex: An Honest Conversation about Sexual Desire and Holiness by Dan Allender Click here Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we’ll kick off the unit on Pleasure later this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you
S2 E91 · Mon, February 28, 2022
Episode 91: Replay of Episode 15- What Sex Tells Us about God
As we continue to seek beautiful, pleasure-filled, fully alive sexuality in marriage, let’s look at more of the goodness of God in this quick episode. Your sexuality was created by the Father with great purpose. Sex is an inviation from the Father to have unity and oneness that leads to abundant fruitfulness. You’ll be encouraged and equipped to lean in and walk as a fully alive woman, living in a fruitful relationship that goes well beyond the most secret places in your marriage. You were made for love and to be loved. In This Episode Francie talks about: Sex points to our calling to fruitfulness John 17 We are made for abundant fruitfulness and leading in the world with love. Psalm 133 Results of oneness and the impact on your home and your community Sex is a beautiful love song And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie’s favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage fo
S2 E90 · Mon, February 21, 2022
Episode 90: What Our Period Reveals
Your body matters. Yes! And, part of your feminine body includes the monthly arrival of your period. Is it possible to reframe the way we view our period? Rather than thinking of our period as something we dread or try to cover up, how can we reframe our thinking to bless the way God has made us as women? How does our period reveal unique image bearing qualities and why does it matter? This is a unique conversation, but it’s really important to you and to our daughters. There is a more beautiful narrative than you might even imagine. In this episode Francie mentions: Theology of the Womb by Christy Angelle Bauman (click here ) And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie’s favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To subscribe to Francie’s newsletter and get more resources, click here Connect with Francie: <span
S2 E89 · Mon, February 14, 2022
Episode 89: Sex as Stress Reliever
How do we lean into sex during exhausting, hard, or stressful seasons? Even during seasons when sex is far from your mind and you just want to fall into your bed with exhaustion at night? In this episode, you’ll hear about the ways sex can actually be a “get to” that allows your body to be flooded with feel good hormones to benefit a season of hardship, exhaustion or stress. God has created your body so wonderfully that sex can allow for tremendous stress relief, especially during seasons when you need comfort. Listen in and hear encouragement to help you think about “the more, the more” in your marriage and how frequency in sex can provide incredible health benefits in addition to strengthening your emotional connection. To subscribe to Francie’s newsletter and get more resources, click here And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie’s favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website <a h
S2 E88 · Mon, February 07, 2022
Episode 88: Sex Mentors - Why We Need Them and How to Find Them
Have you considered the value of having a mentor to help you grow your womanhood, femininity and your sex life? We tend to live pretty independently, but that’s not how God created us to live. We are created for community. It is easy to embrace the idea of mentorship when it comes to spiritual disciplines like prayer, Bible study, child-rearing…but what it would look like to have a mentor that can help you live more fully alive as a woman, in your sexuality. This is all God’s territory! Listen in for some good ideas for inviting another woman into your life to explore the theology of the body, the beauty of the way God created women and how to celebrate sexuality and sexual pleasure. It can be as simple as deciding to read a book or listening to this podcast together. A few resources Francie mentions: Authentic Intimacy with Juli Slattery, click here Rethinking Sexuality by Juli Slattery, click here Dr. Jennifer Degler, click here The Discipleship Circle by Francie Winslow (join the waitlist for Spring enrollment), click here And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here To subscribe and get more resources from Francie, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You’ll receive a 25% discount on your first s
S2 E87 · Mon, January 31, 2022
Episode 87: Battle for Your Beauty: Purity Culture, Body Blessing and Loving without Shame
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Join the Jumpstart your Marriage Connection challenge. This signature course was developed to help you avoid the drift in marriage as you build intimacy and connection. Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection will be launching soon. For more information, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses her thoughts about the “Purity Culture”. She gives some practicals to overcome these thoughts. She unpacks some of the lies taught back in that day such as Your beauty is too much. Cover it up Sexuality is too scary. Shut it down Francie mentions: The Theology of Her Body The Theology of the Womb Song of Solomon 7:1 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group <span style="font-
S2 E86 · Mon, January 24, 2022
Episode 86: Fantasy in Marriage- Is It Ok, and if so, How?
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here To register for Jumpstart, click here In today’s episode, Francie answers the question from a listener, “Can fantasy in marriage be ok?” The answer is YES! Sex is God-given. God gave you your imagination. Is your fantasy allowing you to better honor your spouse? Francie mentions: James 1:14 Philippians 4:8 Proverbs 5:15 God Loves Sex by Dan Allender Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E85 · Mon, January 17, 2022
Episode 85: Re-framing Novelty- How Monogamy Doesn't Equal Monotony
In today’s episode, Francie discusses how our culture thinks monogamous relationships are boring. How can we grow excitement through our monogamous commitment? How can we grow our sex life and celebrate novelty? Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here Join the Jumpstart your Marriage Connection challenge. This signature course was developed to help you avoid the drift in marriage as you build intimacy and connection. Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection will be launching soon. For more information, click here To seek a Christian counselor and receive 25% off your initial consultation, click here Francie mentions: Marrieddance.com Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E84 · Mon, January 10, 2022
Episode 84: Invitation to Jumpstart Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here To register for Jumpstart, click here In today’s episode, Francie gives a challenge to join her jumpstart your marriage challenge. It’s a chance for us to lean in to our spouse and be intentional, purposeful and mindful. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E83 · Mon, January 03, 2022
Episode 83: Wife Coaching: Finding the Hero in Your Husband w/ Juli Slattery
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses Juli’s re-release of her book Finding the Hero in Your Husband. After 20 years, Juli has updated the book and discusses the changes in the new release. Francie and Juli discuss the impact of Proverbs 14:1 and the impact it has on our homes. Francie mentions: Titus 2 Finding the Hero in Your Husband, Revisited by Juli Slattery Java with Julie Podcast Proverbs 14:1 A Celebration of Sex by Douglas Rosenau Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Connect with Juli: Website Instagram
S2 E82 · Mon, December 13, 2021
Episode 82: Growing Your Marriage on Purpose- How to Build Future Intimacy by Remembering
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To opt in for the Marriage on Purpose Guide, click here To visit Francie’s website and receive the Merry Marriage Gift Guide, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses how we can remember what the Lord has done in our marriage over the past year and talk about it. Doing this helps to shape us and helps us to jump into the new year. Remember what has been and what could be done. Thank the Lord for what he has done. Francie mentions: Psalm 77:11 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E81 · Mon, November 29, 2021
Episode 81: Power of Early Morning Sex
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses what to do when you’re too tired at night for sex- rollover in the morning and give your bodies to each other! Francie mentions: Francie’s Date Night Episode Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E80 · Mon, November 22, 2021
Episode 80: Gratitude Shifting That Shifts Your Attitude
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses gratitude. Gratitude shifts the attitude of our home. When you practice gratitude, be grateful for the things that are touching your heart. Let gratitude be a practice of intentionality. True gratitude leads to deeper relational connection, which fosters deeper intimacy. Francie mentions: Forming: Change By Grace David Takle Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E79 · Mon, November 15, 2021
Episode 79: Becoming a Sensual Wife
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses how to become a sensual wife. God made us to be an image bearer and use all five senses. How can we be fully alive with our five senses? The war for our affections, begins with our attention. Francie mentions: Heaven in Your Home Podcast Episode 1 Genesis 1 Genesis 3 Sex Chat with Christian Wives Podcast Song of Solomon 2:14 Song of Solomon 4:9 Married Sex Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E78 · Mon, November 08, 2021
Episode 78: Deeper with God in Any Season
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses growth with Christ. What is the common theme in our lives? Is there a spot where God is highlighting how He wants to form us? What is He forming in you? In this episode, Francie mentions: Suffering Is Never for Nothing by Elisabeth Elliot John 6:68 John 6:1 John 6:39 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E77 · Mon, November 01, 2021
Episode 77: Sex is a Gift- An Interview w/ Gary Thomas
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie interviews Gary Thomas. Gary is a bestselling author and international speaker whose ministry brings people closer to Christ and closer to others. He unites the study of Scripture, church history, and the Christian classics to foster spiritual growth and deeper relationships within the Christian community. In this episode, Francie mentions: Married Sex Pure Pleasure Sacred Marriage Thirsting for God Sacred Pathways Genesis 1 Genesis 3 Song of Songs 2:14 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram
S3 E76 · Mon, October 25, 2021
Episode 76: Growing Your Sexual Desires Part 4- Body
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Growing Desire Challenge, click here To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie finishes up her series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. Today she discusses how we can connect with our bodies. In this episode, Francie mentions: Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey God Loves Sex by Dan Allender Psalm 139 jenniferdegler.com Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E75 · Mon, October 18, 2021
Episode 75: Growing Your Sexual Desires Part 3- Beliefs
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Growing Desire Challenge, click here To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie continues her series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. Today she discusses beliefs about our bodies and sex. Two major truths from this episode: Intimacy requires vulnerability True vulnerability connects us to wounds from our past. Our wounds wrap us around what we really believe. In this episode, Francie mentions: Psalm 139 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E74 · Mon, October 11, 2021
Episode 74: Growing Your Sexual Desires Part 2- Brains
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Growing Desire Challenge, click here To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie continues her series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. Today she discusses how to clear brainspace. Here’s some questions to ask yourself when clearing your brain: How’s your thinking about sex? Do you have stinking thinking? Do you even think about it all? What has formed your sex view? In this episode, Francie mentions: Episode 3 Episode 1 God Loves Sex by Dan Allender heatlhywomen.org Rethinking Sexuality: God’s Design and Why It Matters by Juli Slattery What Your Body Knows about God by Rob Moll A Celebration o
S3 E73 · Mon, October 04, 2021
Episode 73: Growing Your Sexual Desires Part 1- Barriers
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie starts a series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. What have been barriers with sex? Exhaustion Being Busy Being Distracted In this episode, Francie mentions: Season 1 Episode 1 Heaven in Your Home Podcast Jenniferdegler.com God Loves Sex by Dan Allender The Science of Sex Episode Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E72 · Mon, September 27, 2021
Episode 72: How and Why I Practice Silent Prayer
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the practice of silent prayer and how we can go deeper with Jesus. In this episode, Francie mentions: Zephaniah 3:17 Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton Psalm 46:10 Isaiah 30:15 What Your Body Knows about God by Rob Moll Psalm 139 Centering Prayer App Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E71 · Mon, September 20, 2021
Episode 71: Interview with Heather MacFadyen- Marriage Connection and Talking to Kids about Their Bodies
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie interviews Heather MacFayden. In their discussion, they chat about growing marriage connection in different seasons. They also talk about kids exploring their bodies. Enjoy Francie’s first interview on the podcast! To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie interviews Heather MacFayden. In their discussion, they chat about growing marriage connection in different seasons. They also talk about kids exploring their bodies. They round out their conversation with discussing how women can find real community. Francie mentions: The Soul of Shame Don’t Mom Alone Episode 153 Don’t Mom Alone Episode 243 Don’t Mom Alone Episode 328 Don’t Mom Alone by Heather MacFayden Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Connect with Heather: Website <a href="https://www.face
S3 E70 · Mon, September 13, 2021
Episode 70: Sex as a Healing Grace
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses 3 kinds of sexuality- the prude version, the crude version, and the redeemed version. The redeemed version is the garden gift. It’s holy, honoring, and brings more healing. In this episode, Francie mentions: Episode 53- How to Plan Marriage Getaways Episode 4- The Ripple Effect of Sex Episode 2- The Science of Sex Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S3 E69 · Mon, September 06, 2021
Episode 69: Hope for Heaven in Your Home Even When It’s Hard
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses hope. Hope for your marriage. Hope for your heart. What are we hoping for? Our hope should be my hope in the love of God, nothing else. In this episode, Francie mentions: Romans 5:3 Hebrews 10:22 I Corinthians 13 Season 1 Episodes 1-12 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E68 · Mon, June 07, 2021
Episode 68: Come away with Me for the Summer
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the gift of following Jesus and offers and invitation to "come away" with Him. Francie has launched the Heaven in your Home Discipleship Circle for deeper study of the podcast content. If you want to go deeper and come away with the Lord, please join us for this special time. In this episode, Francie mentions: Isaiah 55:1-3 Bible App Matthew 11:28-30 Song of Solomon 2:10 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven in Your Home with your friends by hitting that share button. Thank you for listening.
S2 E67 · Mon, May 31, 2021
Episode 67: Replay~Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie replays a crowd favorite from January 2020. In this episode, Francie discusses We all look at sex through different lenses The 5 W’s that form our sex view The way media influences our view of sex Overcoming barriers to intimacy The ache of unmet intimacy Sex is God’s idea The amazing reason as to why God made us male and female How and why the first Great Co-Mission was given to a husband and wife “We were not made for self-expression, we were made for God expression”- Francie Winslow In this episode, Francie mentions: Matthew 19: 3-5 Genesis 1:21-29 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends! <
S2 E66 · Mon, May 24, 2021
Episode 66: Good News of Why Your Husband Can Never Satisfy You: Wholehearted Wife Series Pt. 4
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife. The good news is your husband will never fully satisfy you. You are known, seen, and loved by the God who made you. In this episode, Francie mentions: Psalm 139 Psalm 63 Isaiah 55:1-3 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E65 · Mon, May 17, 2021
Episode 65: Envy, Significance, Costly Beauty of a Quiet Heart: Wholehearted Wife Series Pt. 3
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife. We have to take care of our heart. Are we allowing others to influence us? Are we stuck in a comparison trap? Are we looking at someone’s highlight reels? 4 Practicals: Get in the presence of God regularly Pray for someone who triggers envy and comparison Find spaces in your day to find quiet in the day and allow the truth of God’s word to settle you Consider what steps you need to take with social media in order to keep your eyes on Jesus and not what distracts you. In this episode, Francie mentions: I Peter 3 Isaiah 32:17 Psalm 91 Zephaniah 3:17 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E64 · Mon, May 10, 2021
Episode 64: Submission, Prayer, Power of a Wife’s Inner Life: Wholehearted Wife Series Pt. 2
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife and what it looks like in a time of struggle. How do we find we find breakthrough when we’re not seeing our husband be who he is supposed to be: Choose submission Go to the prayer closet Trust God to do the work in your husband In this episode, Francie mentions: I Peter 3:1 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E63 · Mon, May 03, 2021
Episode 63: Suffering, Trials, Unmovable Hope: Wholehearted Wife Series Pt. 1
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife when your husband is struggling. If you’re in a season of suffering, you’re not meant to be in it alone. Pray for a mentor. God provides through His people. In this episode, Francie mentions: Ephesians 4 Psalm 62 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E62 · Mon, April 26, 2021
Episode 62: Using Words before, during and after Sex- Power of Words Series Pt. 4
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses how to grow your sexual vocabulary and name desire. How do you get in touch verbally? Starts with our words Pay attention to your body Tell your spouse what you’re thinking After sex, talk about your favorite frame Talk about sex at dinner on a date In this episode, Francie mentions: (Re)Building Your Sexual House By Jordan Ogden Episode 42: Truth vs. Lies about Our Bodies Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E61 · Mon, April 19, 2021
Episode 61: When Talking about Sex Is Hard- Power of Words Series Pt. 3
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses what it’s like to talk about sex together. If it's hard to talk about intimacy in your marriage, maybe there’s a deeper level of heart work that God wants to do. If it’s painful to talk about because of shame or abuse, listen to the Holy Spirit and stop and get help in terms of counseling. This is a slow process. Ways to talk about sex: -find books about it -use a game or a playful approach -practice what you read -build trust with your words - use code words In this episode, Francie mentions: Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage By Kevin Leman Juli Slattery Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E60 · Mon, April 12, 2021
Episode 60: What Does Your Spouse Need to Hear from You- Power of Words Series Pt. 2
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the question- what does your spouse need to hear in this season? If you lack grace in your words, it can do real damage. Have you asked your spouse lately what they want to hear from you? How can I affirm you? How can I encourage you? What do you need to hear from me in the bedroom? After asking these questions, then listen and trust. In this episode, Francie mentions: The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman 5lovelanguages.com Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage By Kevin Leman Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E59 · Mon, April 05, 2021
Episode 59: How Our Words Can Heal- Power of Words Series Pt. 1
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the power of words in our marriage. As image bearers of God, we have the capacity to use our words in powerful ways. Your words have the power of reconciliation in your home. In this episode, Francie mentions: Genesis 1:26 Genesis 1:3 Genesis 1:6 Genesis 3 2 Corinthians 5:14 Verses about our words: Proverbs 16:24 Proverbs 15:1 James 3 Proverbs 17:27 Ephesians 4:29 Proverbs 12:18 Proverbs 18:21 Matthew 12:36 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 <a href= "https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?sear
S2 E58 · Mon, March 29, 2021
Episode 58: The Ripple Effect of Sex: And Why Sex Matters, Especially When You Don’t Feel Like It (Replay)
To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. This is a replay of one of Francie’s most popular episodes. In This Episode Francie talks about: How sex connects to the mission of God The language of the body Why we drift apart in marriage Leaning in and choosing connection The ripple effect of sex Francie tells a story of when she and her husband began to experience the marriage drift. Overcoming the influence of fear Growing her family through the gift of adoption Episode 3: Re-Thinking Sex: Recovering a Blibcal Lens Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E57 · Mon, March 22, 2021
Episode 57: Yes to Deepened Intimacy with Jesus
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses falling in love with Jesus in deeper ways. Jesus wants us to rekindle our love for Him. Intimacy with Jesus gives us the peace we need. In this episode, Francie mentions: Revelation 2 Life on the Highest Plane by Ruth Paxson Get Your Life Back by John Eldredge Proverbs 4:23 Episode 51: Becoming a Yes Wife Pause app Psalm 63 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E56 · Mon, March 15, 2021
Episode 56: The Power of Initiating Sex with Your Husband
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the yes attitude at the thought of sex. What if we have a light hearted attitude and initiated sex? Sex is about oneness. Trust is what builds great sex. In this episode, Francie mentions: Authentic Intimacy Ministry Java with Juli Podcast Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E55 · Mon, March 08, 2021
Episode 55: How to Switch Gears from Tired Mom to Ready Wife
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the reality of being a tired mom and wife, yet having energy to connect and have sex with our husbands. What has helped Francie: -the gift of sex is a choice before it’s a feeling -remember your why- oneness with your husband -remember soul care and self care matter -make a plan together -be present in the moment Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E54 · Mon, March 01, 2021
Episode 54: Growing Your Pleasure in Married Sex
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses pleasure with husbands. Enjoying sex makes for wonderful unity. What if there’s more pleasure for you? Encouragement as you seek pleasure: -embrace where you are as you are -bless your body. Thank God for your body by each part -ask for grace to see your body as beautiful -learn to name your desires for your body In this episode, Francie mentions: Season 1 Episode 1 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E53 · Mon, February 22, 2021
Episode 53: How to Plan Marriage Getaways
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the “must do” habit of getting away together. What are the rhythms you and your spouse need to stay fresh, connected, and fruitful? What are daily rhythms you can have? What are weekly rhythms? What are quarterly? Annual getaway? What does it look like for you and spouse to step back from the daily grind? In this episode, Francie talks about: Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton Matthew 11:28 Song of Solomon 2:8-14 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E52 · Mon, February 15, 2021
Episode 52: The Holiness of Growing Your Sex Life and Healing From Shame
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses the holiness that grows our sex life. Our sex life is something to be steward. What can you do to honor God with the gifts God’s given you? Read good Christian books Research Christian websites and podcasts Have conversations together about your sex life Is this conversation hard for you? If so, invite Jesus into that space. In this episode, Francie talks about: Episode 2: The Science of Sex Episode 5: Sex in the Hard Seasons Genesis 1:28 Psalm 133 Matthew 25:14-30 Clifford and Joyce Penner books Sexchat for Christian Wives Beauty for Ashes by Shane and Shane Connect with Francie: Website Instagram <a href= "https://m.facebook.com/groups/196446422053620
S2 E51 · Mon, February 08, 2021
Episode 51: Becoming a Yes Wife
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie discusses how to be a yes wife. Here’s how to be a yes wife: Just say yes to whatever a husband asks! If he’s pursuing you, say yes. Your husband needs to know he’s going to be received. He’s confident he’s not rejected. He’s confident we’re a safe place to him. He’s confident that he’s welcomed and appreciated and honored. In this episode, Francie talks about: Encouragement for the Discouraged by Abigail Winslow For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E50 · Mon, February 01, 2021
Episode 50: The Power of Our Gaze
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. To receive Francie’s newsletter, click here In today’s episode, Francie asks, “Where are your eyes? What is He doing in your heart and in your home?” How can we lift our gaze to Him? -It requires us to pull away from the noise around us. -Quiet ourselves. -Be in dialogue with God always. -Lift your eyes to Him. In this episode, Francie talks about: Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom Psalm 32 Isaiah 55 Matthew 11:28-29 Zephaniah 3:17 Episode 16: Prophets of Peace Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E49 · Mon, January 25, 2021
Episode 49: What's Working: Power Shower: Family Scripture: Weekly Focus
Francie is excited to start the new year off with a fresh vision for her marriage and family and she wants to help you do the same. She’s created a worksheet called Your Marriage On Purpose to help you look back at last year so you can look forward to this year with intention. This worksheet will be sent out to her email subscribers this month, January of 2021...so make sure you go to franciewinslow.com to subscribe so you don’t miss a single thing. In today’s episode, Francie shares a practical peek at what’s working in her home right now. Power shower: take a quick shower together so you can connect in the middle of busy life during the middle of the day Scripture intake in her home: each family member reads the same chapter in the Bible throughout the week. On Sundays, they gather and discuss it. Throughout the week, Francie takes the scripture that sticks out the most and writes it down in Google docs so she can refer back when she needs to. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E48 · Mon, January 18, 2021
Episode 48: Keys to Our Most Fruitful Habit- Date Night Every Night
Francie is excited to start the new year off with a fresh vision for her marriage and family and she wants to help you do the same. She’s created a worksheet called Your Marriage On Purpose to help you look back at last year so you can look forward to this year with intention. This worksheet will be sent out to her email subscribers this month, January of 2021...so make sure you go to franciewinslow.com to subscribe so you don’t miss a single thing. In today’s episode, Francie discusses the most valuable habit in her marriage-date night every night. What does date night look like? Watch a TV series together Take a master course together Watch documentaries Wine and tea tastings Game night Porch dates Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E47 · Mon, January 11, 2021
Episode 47: The Power of Choosing Connection: Your Powerful Testimonies in 2020
Francie is excited to start the new year off with a fresh vision for her marriage and family and she wants to help you do the same. She’s created a worksheet called Your Marriage On Purpose to help you look back at last year so you can look forward to this year with intention. This worksheet will be sent out to her email subscribers this month, January of 2021...so make sure you go to franciewinslow.com to subscribe so you don’t miss a single thing. In this episode, Francie looks back at some testimonies from this past year. Romans 1:11-12 Hebrews 10:24-25 Episode 38: How I Pray for My Sex Life Psalm 133 Episode 4: The Ripple Effect of Sex: And Why Sex Matters, Especially When You Don’t Feel Like It Episode 42: Truth About Lies and Our Bodies I Peter 3:7 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E46 · Mon, January 04, 2021
Episode 46: Looking Back to Look Ahead: Making This Year the Best One Yet
Francie is excited to start the new year off with a fresh vision for her marriage and family and she wants to help you do the same. She’s created a worksheet called Your Marriage On Purpose to help you look back at last year so you can look forward to this year with intention. This worksheet will be sent out to her email subscribers this month, January of 2021...so make sure you go to franciewinslow.com to subscribe so you don’t miss a single thing. In this episode, Francie reflects on what was good in 2020, in order to intentionally look ahead to 2021. James 1:17 How to focus on the gifts we received in 2020: Remember what is good Being grateful for what was good Enjoying the moment of recalling the gifts we’ve been given Take note of those good things and know we can have more of that joy by stewarding those good things in the future. 3 Ways to remember the connection you’ve enjoyed and purposely build more of it in the new year: Think back on the things that worked great and enjoy reliving those memories. Create a highlight reel Take the highlight reel, and see how you can recreate and build on those memories to become more purposeful in your marriage. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E45 · Mon, December 28, 2020
Episode 45: Blessing Your Body as a Christ Carrier
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie discusses theology of the body as it pertains to Christmas. King of Kings by Hillsong Hebrews 4:14-15 I Corinthians 6:19-20 Romans 5 Matthew 1 I Corinthians 12:12 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E44 · Mon, December 21, 2020
Episode 44: Body Blessing and Shame Healing
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie wraps up her discussion on the body. Intimacy requires vulnerability. Intimacy brings fruitfulness. Romans 1:20 Colossians 3:10 What if we practice body blessed living? Psalm 18 A guide to Prayer with Healing: -Recognize the lie -Repent of the lie -Renounce the lie -Receive something in its place -Rejoice in the work that God has done Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E43 · Mon, December 14, 2020
Episode 43: Celebrating Gender: Goodness of Male and Female
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie continues her discussion about reforming our thinking about our bodies. Romans 1 Psalm 8 Psalm 139 How can we think rightly about our bodies? - Let’s acknowledge the creator. - Give Him thanks. How does a man fully alive reflect God? -Honor -Affirmation -Sacrifice - Fathering Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E42 · Mon, December 07, 2020
Episode 42: Truth vs Lies about Our Bodies
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie discusses reconciliation- reconcile of reforming our thinking of our bodies so that we don’t live in shame of our bodies. We are image bearers of God. God wants us to look at our bodies and see we are amazing. We see the love of God through our bodies. Psalm 8 When we see God reference a body part named in the scripture, think theology of the bodies. Romans 1 Our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit. 1 Corinthians 6:19 God lives in our bodies Romans 1:20 Image bearers stopped acknowledging God and stopped being thankful. Our hearts become dark. We become disconnected. We become foolish. The lie is that we are our own God and we are made poorly. We serve the creature, not the creator. Where have you believed lies about your body? About your gender? About your sexuality? About your genitals? Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E41 · Mon, November 30, 2020
Episode 41: What Our Longing in Our Bodies Reveal
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. In today’s episode, Francie discusses how our bodies are God revealers. God wants us to reclaim our bodies. The enemy wants to dismantle it and destroy it. Our bodies are the way we can express our longings. God wants to meet us in those longings. Our bodies have dignity because they reflect God’s character. Through our bodies is how we know God and show God. We are image bearers. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E40 · Mon, November 23, 2020
Episode 40: Hosting the Presence of God in Your Home
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Francie discusses gratitude in this episode. What does it look like to host God’s presence? Gratitude is a way to make a culture of Heaven in your home. We can do this by: Verbalizing our praise Repositioning our hearts Knowing that the Lord is God Entering His gates with thanksgiving In this episode, Francie talks about: Psalm 100 Psalm 10 Psalm 139 Episode 37: Hope Breaking Through Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E39 · Mon, November 16, 2020
Episode 39: Q&A: How I Manage My Energy As a Wife and Mom
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E38 · Mon, November 09, 2020
Episode 38: How I Pray for My Sex Life
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Episode 30: Godly Sex is…A Re-seeing of God’s Gift Episode 13: What Sex Tells Us About God Episode 8: The Emotional Gift of Sex: Reintegrating Our Sex View Practical Ways to Pray about Sex Prayer: God we thank You that You are the creator God. We are grateful that everything that You have made reveals and reflects who you are. All of creation, including our thirsty bodies that you created with sexual longings and a desire for intimacy. All of this reveals your nature. We ask for You to reveal more of yourself to us. We ask for You to change our hearts so that we see intimacy in marriage through a lens that is based on biblical truth and a heavenly value system. We pray for continued healing of our hearts and minds as we seek your heart and your will. Restore us, Lord. Thank you for helping to show up to become one. Thank you for the grace to be fully intimate in our marriages. In Jesus’ name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E37 · Mon, November 02, 2020
Episode 37: Hope Breaking Through
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Psalm 23 When you walk through the valley of the shadow of death, don’t hide from the Shepherd. Ephesians 4 Leviticus 26 Mark 12:29-31 Song of Solomon 8:5 Prayer: God, thank You that You are Hope. Thank You that You are not a far off God. You are a very present help in times of trouble. You are near to the broken hearted. Thank You that You are constantly making yourself known to us. You are the lifter of our heads. You are our keeper and we trust You. We ask You, our Great Shepherd to lead us as we walk through these deep valleys. We know that as a child of the Most High God, we have an inheritance in You. We live from victory through the blood of the Lamb. We trust You during this time to do your great work in our lives and in our marriages, so that we can host your presence, and find heaven in our homes. Thank You, Lord for never leaving us alone. We declare that in You, we find our hope. In Jesus’ Name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E26 · Mon, October 26, 2020
Episode 36: Jumpstart Your Missional Connection In Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Genesis 1:26 Psalm 133 Philippians 2 Practical Tips to Grow your Missional Connection Prayer: Lord, we thank You that You created us and designed us to be on mission with You. Our marriages are for more than our happiness, but meant for Your purposes. Awaken our hearts to be more aware of You and what You want for our marriages. We thank you that You are stirring fresh things in our marriages. Thank You for the grace to grow this month. We pray to be good stewards of the good gifts You have given us so that we can bear much fruit to bring You glory, further your mission and fulfill your great purposes. We invite You to bring more of yourself as we seek to glorify You with heaven in our homes. In your great name we pray. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E35 · Mon, October 19, 2020
Episode 35: Jumpstart Your Emotional Connection In Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Genesis 1 Genesis 3 Psalm 147 Ephesians 6:12-18 Ephesians 4:29 Psalm 23 Episode 1: Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon, Sex for a Year Ephesians 4:30-32 Ephesians 4:14-15 Prayer: Living God, thank You for the chance to engage with You today. Come and ignite in us a spiritual grace to know You more. Awaken our hearts with a deeper hunger for more of You. Wake us from our spiritual slumber. We want to let our light shine for You day and night. We pray over every heart and marriage, a fresh outpouring of your grace, to know You, to hunger for You, to encounter You so that we can be transformed by Your presence. Help us to extend that transformational love to others around us. Invade our homes. Speak to us, Lord. We are ready to hear your voice and connect in greater ways spiritually as husbands and wives. Thank You for how You love us, lead us and heal us. In Jesus’ name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website <
S2 E34 · Mon, October 12, 2020
Episode 34: Jumpstart Your Emotional Connection In Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: John 17:21 Proverbs 18:21-22 Ephesians 4:31-32 His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair Proof Marriage Episode 29: Dating During COVID and Great Date Tips Prayer: Father, we thank You for how You modeled sacrificial love for us. Thank You for the call upon our lives to love as You love us. As we are leaning in this month and focusing on jumpstarting the intimacy in our marriages, we ask You to come and renew our love. Rejuvenate our weary hearts, Lord. We pray to have fully alive marriages that reveal to our children and our world more of You. We pray, Holy Spirit, that You would bring fresh encounters in our marriages this week. Search our hearts as we seek to speak words of life to each other. Help us show tenderness toward each other this week. Give us courage to check in with each other on our needs as husbands and wives. Protect our time to engage with each other as we work toward greater emotional connection this week. Thank You for this intentional time to do the heart work to be more like You in our marriage relationships. We give You the honor and glory. In Jesus’ Name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E33 · Mon, October 05, 2020
Episode 33: Jumpstart Your Physical Intimacy In Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Jeremiah 17:7-8 Philippians 2:1-4 Episode 7: Why I Love My Husband’s Sex Drive Practicals for Jumpstarting Your Physical Intimacy (download worksheet) Episode 30: Dating During Covid and Great Date Tips Prayer: God, we desire You more than ever. We want You more than ever in our homes, our marriages, our communities and our country. We ask Lord, that you would do the inside out transformation in our lives. We pray for the unseen transformation in the root system of our marriage. We invite You in to take the space and fill it with your life-giving love. God we thank you for the gift of physical intimacy. We welcome You into our bedrooms and our intimate relationship as a husband and wife. We pray for Your light to shine and bring more of Your goodness, Your peace and Your connection. In Jesus name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E32 · Thu, October 01, 2020
Episode 32: Jumpstart Your Marriage: A 31 Day Challenge Intro
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Jeremiah 17:7-8 Live thoughtfully, intentionally this month- to find more oneness, purpose and intimacy. Turn down your focus on social media and the news. Turn up your attention to what God is doing and wants to do in your marriage. Schedule in your day a few “distraction breaks” for when you will take in input from outside sources- news, social media, etc. (Once in the morning, once in the evening) so that your mind isn’t oversaturated with so much distraction and heaviness, but instead can be filled with creativity and vision from God for your marriage and calling. Set up a “tech box” on your kitchen counter where you keep your phones when you’re not using them. Consider deleting social media or news apps from your phone, so that you check it purposefully on your desktop at certain times, which will prevent you from feeling fragmented or cluttered or distracted throughout the day. Prayer: Lord, thank You for hope. Thank you that You fill us with your Holy Spirit. Even in desert seasons, even in seasons of famine, we don’t have to be afraid. We can still abound because the resurrection power of the Living God lives in us. Every part of our life belongs to you - our relationships, our marriage, even our bedroom. We invite You in - mind, body, heart - to come into our marriage and make us whole. This month, we give every part of our marriage to You. We ask for supernatural growth inside our homes and our marriage intimacy as we seek to serve You and reach the world from the inside out. We trust You. We seek to bring You glory and honor with our lives as we surrender to your good way. In Jesus Name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group </
S2 E31 · Mon, September 28, 2020
Episode 31: Q & A Episode: Birth Control, Family Planning
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: James 1:5 Psalm 127:3-5 Fierce Marriage Podcast: Abortion, Birth Control, IVF and Babies Psalm 139 Prayer: God we thank you that You are an available God. There isn’t any subject that we can’t come to You to ask for wisdom. As You say in Your Word in the book of James, when we lack wisdom, we can ask of You and You will give it freely. Give us courage to bring our questions to You. Thank you for surrounding us with a community where we can connect together to learn, grow and share Your wisdom. Thank you for the gift of procreation. We confess our culture’s idols of comfort and control. We ask for unity in our marriages. We pray to bring You glory and honor with our choices for our family planning inside our homes. We surrender to Your way and we trust You. In Your precious name. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E30 · Mon, September 21, 2020
Episode 30: Godly Sex is...A Re-seeing of God’s Gift
In This Episode Francie talks about: Ecclesiastes 4:12 Season 2 Episode 29 - Dating During COVID and Great Date Tips The Strain the Covid Pandemic Is Putting on Marriages - Wall Street Journal Season 1 Episode 2 - The Science of Sex and God’s Good Design Season 1 Episode 1 - Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon, Sex for a Year Prayer: Lord, we love you. We thank You for your good and perfect gifts. We pray that you would help us to remember that we are image bearers. We ask for your blessings over our minds to be renewed with your truth. We ask that our bodies will be filled with the love and power of You, the One who designed every fiber of our bodies. We invite you, Holy Spirit, to renew us with your truth. Give us courage to revisit your truth that goes back to the very beginning of your good design for marriage. We ask for renewal in our marriages during these hard times. We ask for healing from our wounds. We pray that You would be exalted and glorified in our marriages and in our homes. We pray for spouses that have wandered away from You. We trust that You are pursuing them, healing them, restoring them and bringing them back to You. We profess the hope we have in You, our Great Healer. In Jesus Name. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received o
S2 E29 · Mon, September 14, 2020
Episode 29: Dating During COVID and Great Date Tips
In This Episode Francie talks about: James 1:2 Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Acknowledge what is true about stress and unmet expectations. Know that this will pass. Ask God for a fresh vision. Practical Tips for Dating Your Spouse: Date night every night. Take walks in the evening. Sit on the porch. Deliver in food or dessert. THE BIG TIP for exhausted, tired marriages seeking connection. Prayer: Lord, thank you for the gift of marriage and intimacy. Our hearts desire to truly know you. You are good and your unending kindness and goodness towards us brings us so much hope in this current season. We pray for encouragement over those who might feel weary. We pray inspiration over those who might feel tired. If we find ourselves in a time of wilderness or trial, or in a season of challenge, You are near and You are a very present help in times of trouble. Infuse our marriages with supernatural wisdom. Bring your joy, faith and connection to us. Give us courage to choose to lean in for deeper connection and not to lean out. We need you to be our cord of three strands that is not easily broken. We trust you. In Jesus’ name. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more <a href= "https://www.franciewinslow.com/strong-fou
S2 E28 · Mon, September 07, 2020
Episode 28: Porn Proofing Your Home and the Hearts of Your Children
In This Episode Francie talks about: Season 1 - Rethinking Sex Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: Porn Proofing Today’s Young Kids Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn Proofing Today’s Young Kids (for big kids) Ephesians 1:2a Prayer: Father, we have an enemy who seeks to kill, steal and destroy our families. We know the destruction that comes from pornography has in our culture hurts your heart. We ask for a cleansing for this sin that brings so much pain. Heal our homes, Lord. Restore our minds. Break the chains from this addiction for generations to come. We ask for a covering and protection for our children and our children’s children. Guide us, Holy Spirit to walk in freedom. Give us the courage to tackle this important topic with our spouses and our children, as we seek to invite you in and host your presence in our homes. In your protecting and healing name, Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly new
S2 E27 · Mon, August 17, 2020
Episode 27: Moving Forward with God When You Have No Margin
In This Episode Francie talks about: Matthew 5 - The Beatitudes Ephesians 1 Practical Ideas for a sense of moving forward in your relationship with God when you have no margin. Breathing Stretching Listening to scripture for mediation using Audible Mediate on one verse and go deep with it and see how God is speaking to you about that today Connecting to God with music Sing over your children at night in worship Audible Maverick City Music Harvest & Jon Thurlow Prayer: God, thank you that you are ever present. Thank you that you meet us right where we are, in the grind of our lives when we feel like we have no margin. We hunger for more of you Lord. We cry out to you with our needs, knowing that You are so faithful to come and comfort us and fill us. We trust that this season of struggle and difficulty are being used to host your presence in our home. Give us wisdom to see your hand at work, Lord. Lead us to victory in the daily battles as you bring your spirit of peace upon our hearts. Speak wisdom over us as we navigate the hearts of our children, seek to honor our husbands and grow our marriages. Expand our capacity to know you more and show you more, Lord. In Jesus name, Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens,
S2 E26 · Mon, August 10, 2020
Episode 26: Trusting God When Hard Times Hit Your Home
In This Episode Francie talks about: There is a theology to your body. Psalm 23 - Passion Translation Jeremiah 17:7-8 Three Practical Things to help you in a season of struggle. Prayer: Father, you are our Good Shepherd. As your image bearers, we were designed for shalom - heaven in our home - for the fullness of God is in our midst. We confess our weariness and declare our trust in You. Hide us in the shelter of your wings. We want more of You Lord. Release a fresh measure of Your faith in our lives. Even when we are going in circular paths, we trust You, because we know that with You as our guide, we are making progress and that our pain will lead to purpose. Thank you Father, that you love us and lead us through heavy burdens and trials. Our confidence is not in our circumstances but in You, the anchor for our soul. In your precious name we pray, Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E25 · Mon, August 03, 2020
Episode 25: A Look Inside Our Homeschool Experience - Holy Spirit School
In This Episode Francie talks about: Reasons to consider homeschooling your kids Ephesians 2:10 How to create family values for hosting God’s presence in our homes together Tips for Homeschooling Resources: How To Teach Your Children Shakespeare The Nature Connection: An Outdoor Workbook for Kids, Families and Classrooms Raising Little Shoots Udemy - online courses Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler’s Guide to Unshakeable Peace by Sarah Mackenzie Voxer app Isaiah 40:11 Isaiah 54:13 Prayer: Father, thank you that you are Immanuel, God with us. We can count on your evergreen truth that you are always with us, even in the middle of a pandemic. We know that we can find rest and peace in your ever present presence. We ask you to guard our hearts and guide our minds in this season of change and uncertainty. Give
S2 E24 · Sun, June 07, 2020
Episode 24: The Supernatural Power of a Family with Wyatt Winslow
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Your kids are going by watching you learn, fail, win and over time they will find their confidence to step out and do it on their own. 2 Timothy 1:7 James 1:22 The core value of training our kids in discipleship is heart connection, and an overflow of the joy God has for us and we have in our kids. Episode 19: Enjoying Our Children with Wyatt Winslow Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton Core belief: God created the family to be a supernatural unit of His glory. Prayer: Father God, thank you for how you actively pursue our hearts to be more intentional disciples of you. Because you love us and teach us, we can show more of you to our kids. Give us grace and courage to be real with our children when we have failed. We invite you into our family worship times as we practice your model of actively sharing your Father’s heart with those we encounter. Lord, come and make our home a dwelling place, so that we can be propelled out to be a family on mission with you. Amen. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E23 · Sun, May 31, 2020
Episode 23: When God Shows Up at IHOP with Wyatt Winslow
In This Episode Francie talks about: It is our job as parents to disciple the hearts of our children. Fathers train your children. Ephesians 6:4 Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton John 5:17 Spiritual Principle: What you do as a father (parent) matters to your kids and they are going to mirror you. The key to discipleship is practicing the things of God while no one is looking and then doing these things out in the world to shine our light. Episode 22: Declarations, Super Powers and Eyes to See The living God of the universe lives in us and there are people out in the world that are desperate for a touch from Him. Prayer: God, we praise you because you are the best disciple-maker ever! We thank you for actively pursuing our hearts and teaching us how to pursue our own children’s hearts. Give us eyes to see the world who is desperate for a touch from you. Give us grace as we re-see family worship not as a requirement, but as a place where we can encounter your heart. We ask you to come and change us as we seek to know you more so we can show you more, especially inside our home and to our children. Give us courage to train our children up in the ways of your Father’s heart. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to u
S2 E22 · Sun, May 24, 2020
Episode 22: Declarations, Super Powers and Eyes to See with Wyatt Winslow
In This Episode Francie talks about: Ephesians 2:10 God has a plan for every human on the earth developed in His image, designed on purpose to be indwelt by His Holy Spirit with certain gifts that will bless the world. Steve Backlund - Life is in the power of the tongue Our role as parents is to have eyes to see our kids and see what God has put in them. Ezekiel 37:1-14 Speak words of life over our kids. As parents, we need eyes to see when our kids are fully alive in our home. Prayer: Father God, thank you that you created us and our children in Christ Jesus to do good works. We trust you with your plans in our lives and our kids’ lives. Help us discover the treasures inside the hearts of our kids, cultivate their hearts and guide them to develop their gifts for your divine purpose in their lives. Give us grace to speak life over our children’s lives, declaring the goodness of God in our home. Give us eyes to see how you have created them and uniquely gifted them for your kingdom. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with F
S2 E21 · Sun, May 17, 2020
Episode 21: The God Who Comes Looking For Us with Wyatt Winslow
In This Episode Francie talks about: The culture of heaven in our homes comes out of relationships. Feelings matter. Emotions are the currency of relationships. Our feelings open the door to encounter what is true about God. Jesus wept over Lazarus' death with Mary and Martha. John 11 God the Father comes looking for us in the middle of our discouragement. Prayer: Father God we thank you because you are such a good and perfect Father. We know that we are safe in your hands. Thank you for creating us with emotions. We ask that you come and fill our feelings with more of yourself. Give us courage to share our emotions with you so we can feel “felt”, seen and known by you. We know you share our grief, our joy, our discouragement and everything we feel inside of our homes. Thank you for coming to look for us. Help us as we continue making heart connections inside our home and deeper heart connections with you. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E20 · Sun, May 10, 2020
Episode 20: The Father Heart of God with Wyatt Winslow
In This Episode Francie talks about: Parenting in partnership with God iis building a narrative - a reality where heaven and earth overlap and intersect in our home and God reveals himself in every room of our house. Ephesians 3 The more you know the heart of Father God for you, the more you can show it to your kids. Have moments with each kid to show them you are not too busy for them, and to pursue them spiritually and emotionally. The key priority foundational principle to having a powerful family worship culture is heart connection. Heart connection is the currency of the kingdom. It’s not about the facts of week or activities, it's the feelings behind those that allow us to be known. This is how we mirror the Father heart of God to our children. Seven Days of Marriage Declarations: A Guide to Experience God’s Heart and Heaven’s Possibilities in your Marriage - A free gift when you subscribe to the newsletter Prayer: Father God, thank you that you pursue us to have a relationship with you as a family. Thank you for revealing yourself to us so that we can know the love of Jesus. Father, we invite you into every room of our home so that we can know you more and draw closer to your Father’s heart for us and our family. Thank you for parenting us as we parent our children. You are a good and perfect Father. We want you to change our hearts and minds to be more like you. We praise you as Immanuel, God with us, inside our hearts and home. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . <p dir="lt
S2 E19 · Sun, May 03, 2020
Episode 19: Enjoying Our Children with Wyatt Winslow
In This Episode Francie talks about: Hosting God’s presence in our home as a family Enjoy your children each day the way God the Father enjoys you as his child. As image bearers, we are made to know Him and show Him. We know him as a father and mother and then show Him to our children. Zephaniah 3:17 Prayer: Father, we are so grateful that you love us and rejoice over us loudly with singing. Thank you that you pursue us with your Father’s heart and enjoy us as your children. Open up our hearts to receive more of you. Thank you for your divine invitation to know you more. We want to know you more so that we can show more of you to our kids. May our home be filled with your presence this week as we enjoy each other and our children the way you enjoy us. Amen. Watch this episode on Francie’s YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/VFntC6cK8LM Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S2 E18 · Sun, April 26, 2020
Episode 18: Family Blessing: Seeing What God is Doing In Your Home
In This Episode Francie talks about: Psalm 91 The Blessing - Kari Jobe, Cody Carnes and Elevation Worship Deuteronomy 7:9 The Lord your God is a covenant keeping God. Numbers 6:24-27 Luke 1:17 God’s economy is based around families being strong together. Bonus Episode: Freedom From Fear Bonus Episode: Prophets of Peace A stripping leads to a great filling. Prayer: Father right now, we have time to turn our hearts back to you like never before. We invite you, the living God into the rhythms of our day as a family unit. We praise you for your goodness and faithfulness during this season. Thank you for your covenant blessing over our family. Redeem what the enemy has meant for destruction during this season and bring back a sense of connection in our families across this nation. We want to prepare the space for you to move in our homes as you turn our hearts as parents back toward our children. Renew our spirits as we wait upon you Lord. We find peace knowing we are nestled safely in the shadow of your wing. We choose faith over fear each day as you have given us this precious gift of time. May we use it to recenter our hearts and our homes toward you, our covenant keeping God. Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re
S2 E17 · Sun, April 05, 2020
Episode 17: Heaven in your Living Room: The Power of Family Worship
In This Episode Francie talks about: Learning to follow His lead in our homes in everyday life. Ephesians 3:16-21 Knowing Jesus practically 5 Keys to making family worship fruitful and not just another devotional time Main Goal: Know Jesus as a family Ephesians 3:19 Philippians 3:8 Principle 1: It’s all about heart connection with God and each other. Isaiah 62:3 Principle 2: Be flexible. Principle 3: Be okay with messy. Principle 4: Display your own personal journey with your kids. Principle 5: Keep going. Galatians 6:9 Prayer: Father, may we seek to know you every day so that everything else pales in comparison. We are thankful that you delight in us as your children and so we can show that love to each other. We trust you during this season of our life as our world is so different right now. We pray for those who are working so hard to care for the sick and protect those who are not. As we gather together, as a family in our home to worship you, we pray that all we do brings you glory and honor. Fill our homes and our hearts with your peace. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this cours
S2 E16 · Wed, April 01, 2020
Episode 16: Prophets of Peace
Mentioned in this episode: Zephaniah 3:16-20 Francie shares a personal story of dealing with fear 2 Timothy 1:7 Jesus as Peacemaker Speaking peace to others We are temples Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E15 · Sun, March 29, 2020
Episode 15: What Sex Tells Us About God
In This Episode Francie talks about: Sex points to our calling to fruitfulness John 17 We are made for abundant fruitfulness and leading in the world with love. Where our bodies go, our hearts go. Psalm 133 Results of oneness Blessing others out of marital unity Sex is a beautiful love song Prayer: Thank you for the gift of sex and that it’s more than we could have imagines in the past. It’s more meaningful than we every knew. You long to be one with us and have written it on our bodies. As we reflect you in all things, we see your love story written on our bodies. Thank you for replacing my old thoughts about sex with new ones. Glorify your name through our sex lives and our call to be on mission through it all. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E14 · Wed, March 25, 2020
Episode 14: Having the Mind of Christ in Times of Uncertainty
Mentioned in this episode: How to practically encounter God in uncertain times 1 Corinthians 2:16 “The mind is the organ that receives God’s thoughts through faith.” The consequences of worry are a fragmented and divided mind Romans 12:2 Reflect the image of God: the Peace, the power and the nature of God to our friends and family members Philippians 4 Ban the word “worry” from your vocabulary Be aware of constant input into your mind (social media, TV, news) We aren’t after a worry-free life, but a fear-free life. Replacing our fragmented thinking with his peaceful thoughts Prayer: Thank you God that I was made to be receiving the thoughts of God. Help me to meditate on what is true, pure and lovely. Help us accurately reflect you to our friends, family and a lost world that is watching. Replace our fears with your truth. Thank you that we are no longer orphans who are cast out, but you are our Father. You never sleep or slumber, and you are never caught off guard. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to co
S1 E13 · Sun, March 22, 2020
Episode 13: Sex Is a Signpost
Mentioned in this episode: Is there more to sex than we have been told? Genesis 2 says we are image bearers. Our bodies are like mirrors of God Sex is a point of revealing a higher love story. Romans 1:20 The fellowship of family. Prayer: Father thank you for providing us a Spirit of wisdom and revelation. Thank you God that we have your Holy Spirit that gives us insight into your heart so that we can join with all of creation to communicate awe and wonder of who You are. Our bodies proclaim this invitation that we are made to be connected to your bigger vision and embrace the eternal gift of your love. Show us how to honor you in our marriages as we remember that we are created in your image. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E12 · Wed, March 18, 2020
Episode 12: Freedom From Fear
Francie is sharing her story today of how God set her free from fear. Mentioned in the show today: The Root Systems of our Hearts A million “what if’s” The spirit of Fear The Peace of God grounds us, and opens us up and gives us expansive capacity to love and think clearly with a sound mind. Practical ways to retrain thinking Practicing silence I won’t be able to receive what God has for me until I let go of what is binding me. Psalm 34 Your invitation to power, love and sound thinking Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E11 · Sun, March 15, 2020
Episode 11: The Multiplying Power of Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: The application of the gospel 2 Corinthians 5:17 Theologian, N.T. Wright We are carriers of heaven 2 Corinthians 6: 10-20 Glorify God with your body Your home is a God encounter Psalm 73:28 Matthew 18 , Phillipians 2 Mutual submission of being for each other Training kids to recognize God’s presence Tasting God’s glory in the daily grind Genesis 1-3 The Renewing of the roots systems of our hearts Isaiah 27:6 John 15 Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this cours
S1 E10 · Sun, March 08, 2020
Episode 10: Five Transformational Habits for Your Marriage to Be a Multiplying Force for Good
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Stewarding your marriage Taming the Tounge- James 1:19 , Proverbs 18:21 The healing power of speaking truth Quick repentance- James 4:6 Family dance parties- Proverbs 17:22 Schedule Sex Seeking community Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E9 · Sun, March 01, 2020
Episode 9: Five Tips to See Growth in Your Marriage
Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Dangerous assumptions about marriage Marriage partnership with God Strategies for investing in your marriage “You don’t pay the price for success, you see the benefits of success”-Zig Ziglar Galatians 6:7 Date night, Every night The art of a great date Pray together Heather MacFadyen Don’t Mom Alone Podcast Book good hotels at priceline.com or hotwire.com Prayer: God thank you for opportunities, resources and creativity so that we can sow good into the soil of our marriage. I pray for wisdom and inspiration so that we can see the joy and fullness you want to incorporate in our marriage through the gift of intentional connection. Take us deeper into your heart God. All for your glory, in Jesus name, Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Than
S1 E8 · Sun, February 23, 2020
Episode 8: The Emotional Gift of Sex: Reintegrating of Sex View
In This Episode Francie talks about: The increase of emotional contribution in marriage We are Image Bearers Empty love buckets Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church Practical aspects of life sometimes interfere with our emotional intimacy How to overcome resentment toward our spouse Turning our offenses into offerings The sexual superpowers of wives Let sex be more connection driven than hormone driven Prayer: Thank for the gift of Image Bearing. Thank you for making us for intimate connection with you and each other. Help us to-re-see the gift of sex in a way that brings more revelation of who you are. Heal us, Fill us. In Jesus Name, Amen Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E7 · Sun, February 16, 2020
Episode 7: Why I Love My Husband's Sex Drive
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Francie’s conservative background Sex drives our husbands to us From the of our physical connection comes emotional connection Sex as a way of exclusive communication Proverbs 31:10 What sex in marriage is NOT Prayer: Father, with our hands on our hearts, we pray you would do a healing work. Help us to re-see sex. We repent for seeing sex from a lower perspective, but ask we can see it from your perspective. We ask for a greater sense of your presence, even in our bedroom. In Jesus name, Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E6 · Mon, February 10, 2020
Episode 6: To the Mom Who Is Too Tired for Sex
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Invest in your own health and refreshment Alisa Keeton (Revelation Wellness) Is sex just another need I have to meet? Elevating our view of sex to God’s perspective A oneness of body that leads to a oneness of heart Unity brings fruitfulness The power of consistant sex in marriage Sex is God’s gift and it is good. Prayer: Father, thank you for the gift of marriage and sex. Thank you for the blessing of sex. Fill us with you and your nearness, and make choices that nourish our hearts, minds, body and soul. Help us lean into you and see your Kingdom come into our marriage. Reconnect us to each other and to You. In Jesus name, Amen. Resources: 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
S1 E5 · Mon, February 03, 2020
Episode 5: Sex in the Hard Seasons : Building Habits that Help You Sustain Connection
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: Developing good habits in your marriage Galatians 6:7-9 To Love Honor and Vacuum by Sheila Gregoire The Good Girls Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Gregoire Episode 4: Sex as a Signpost 2 Samuel 12:24 Fighting for oneness in our marriage Intentionally invest in your marriage Jeremiah 17:7 & 8 Sowing into the marriage of your dreams Practical Questions for your spouse: How are we doing? How’s your heart in our marriage? Affirm each other: This is how I feel about you. How is our intimacy? How can we invest in our marriage Prayer: Father thank you for the chance to be honest and ask questions. Thank you for the humility to ask each other questions and help us honor the gift of vulnerability. Fill that space with strength from the Holy Spirit that looks like love and tenderness and care. I
S1 E4 · Mon, January 27, 2020
Episode 4: The Ripple Effect of Sex: And Why Sex Matters, Especially When You Don’t Feel Like It
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In This Episode Francie talks about: How sex connects to the mission of God The language of the body Why we drift apart in marriage Leaning in and choosing connection The ripple effect of sex Francie tells a story of when she and her husband began to experience the marriage drift. Overcoming the influence of fear Growing her family through the gift of adoption Episode 3: Re-Thinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens Prayer: Thank you for the glory of God on our bodies and the power of reconnecting and becoming one. Help us to fight for our marriage because unity matters. Holy Spirit guide us into wholeness and heal us. Bring our marriage back to wholeness in our mission with you- to be fruitful and multiply the gifts You have given us. Be glorified Father. Help us to know You and show You in all we do. In Jesus name, Amen. 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter <span style="font-weight:
S1 E3 · Mon, January 20, 2020
Episode 3: Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this first episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In this episode, Francie talks about... We all look at sex through different lenses The 5 W’s that form our sex view The way media influences our view of sex Overcoming barriers to intimacy The ache of unmet intimacy Matthew 19: 3-5 Sex is God’s idea Genesis 1:21-29 “We were not made for self-expression, we were made for God expression”- Francie Winslow Prayer: “Father, thank you for this good news. Thank you that the gospel can actually be reveal ed through our bodies, and this longing that tells us we were made for an eternal unstopping love. Thank you that we can actually see a glimpse of that love in the gift of earthly marriage. Ultimately, Lord , we acknowledge that You are our satisfaction.” 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over
S1 E2 · Mon, January 13, 2020
Episode 2: The Science of Sex
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In this episode, Francie talks about... The science behind God’s good gift of intimacy. The GOODNESS of God in our biology and all the amazing God-inspired wonders that happen on a physiological level in our mind, body and emotions when we enjoy the gift of intimacy. The fact that there is a grand narrative … the love story of God ... the very Gospel … embedded into the nature of sexuality, marriage, and into the story of husband and wife. How our bodies - our very most private parts, our brains, our hormones, our emotions and our relationships - testify to God’s wisdom, creativity, and genius- all by Him, for Him and for His glory. Romans 11:36- For EVERYTHING comes from Him- and exists by His power and intended for His glory. A prayer to see God’s good design on our bodies: God, it’s clear that there’s so much resistance in this area. But I know you to be a God of breakthrough, healing and restoration. I ask for your re-alignment in my mindset on sex, my body, and the gift of intimacy in my marriate. Help me to discover your view, your intention for my body, my sexuality, my family and my household. Help me embrace that my body is GOOD. Help me to see and celebrate your power, goodness and wisdom that is revealed in my body- this temple in which you delightfully dwell. 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: <a href= "https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5fe20e5
S1 E1 · Mon, January 06, 2020
Episode 1: Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this first episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. In this episode, Francie talks about... How she and her husband glued themselves together the first year of marriage Her need for inner-healing and how God became their healer Their move to Sri Lanka They had sex nearly everyday for a year How that led them to discover some pretty radical things about God's heart for marriage 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here . Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here . Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!
Trailer · Thu, December 26, 2019
Introductory Episode
Welcome the Heaven in Your Home podcast. We hope you’ll be inspired by this first episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered to by Francie’s message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook
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