BFF: Black, Fat, Femme
"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.
S1 E144 · Mon, March 31, 2025
Joy Takes Time (Featuring Marie-Adélina AKA Loveable Trans Auntie)
This week your BFF's are joined by Marie-Adélina (Loveable Trans Auntie) to talk all things trans joy, visibility and why we need to uplift the trans community now more than ever. We also dabble into Jordan's Taco Bell obsession. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Head over to the Loveable Trans Auntie column! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Marie Adélina: Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E142 · Tue, March 25, 2025
Five G's Please! (Featuring Latrice Royale)
This week your BFF's are joined by the queen Goddess Latrice M*tha F*ckin' Royale - A house fave contestant of Rupaul's Drag Race and We're Here fame - to talk he legacy in drag, what it was like to be asked to write a foreword on a book and why the book is so important and needed now. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Latrice: Instagram | Tik Tok | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E141 · Tue, March 18, 2025
Rewind: Dare to Be Outspoken
Originally released March 20, 2023. This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy Jon's book: https://www.doctorjonpaul.com/blackfatfemmebook Watch us on the Tube of You: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoNjbsOPGels3DOxduxid0w See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E139 · Tue, March 11, 2025
If It's Free, It's For Me (Featuring Marcy Guevara-Prete)
This week your BFF's chat with Marcy Guevara-Prete about sizism, fat fashion and why The Plus Bus is so much more than just a boutique. We also get into a conversation about forgiveness and why we are gonna need to offer more grace to those in community, especially now. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Marcy: Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E138 · Tue, March 04, 2025
They Don't Know GAWD! (Featuring Bay Davis)
This week your BFF's link with the illustrious Bay Davis to talk being Black 365, why we need to redefine community (yes we go there) and why we are so thankful to be Black, fat, femmes. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Bay Davis: Instagram | Twitter | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E137 · Tue, February 25, 2025
Don't Do It Babes...
This week your BFF's share their thoughts about living in (not-so-always-sunny) SoCal and what things folks need to consider when they tell BFF's that they will be "fine" in this climate, considering all the things we are up against. We also revisit the topic of authenticity and talk openly about why we need to stop telling folks NOT to be scared. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E136 · Tue, February 18, 2025
Question EVERYTHING (Featuring Jessica Marie Garcia)
This week your BFF's continue to celebrate Black History Month by talking to our favorite accomplice Jessica Marie Garcia about why, now more than ever - we have to work in solidarity to get free. We also talk about the true meaning of farm-to-table and why in 2025, we don't need another thinking piece. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jessica Marie Garcia: Instagram | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E135 · Tue, February 11, 2025
Black Anthems and a Sexy Catfish (Featuring Jade & XD)
This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade & XD ( Jade & XD / Gettin' Grown ) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jade: Instagram Follow XD: Bluesky | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E134 · Tue, February 04, 2025
That Dopamine Hit
This week your BFF's dive a bit deeper into the DEI conversation, while touching on a much needed conversation around capitalism and asking the question, "Can capitalism ever be equitable?" We also get into why Bojangles (didn't) hit in Las Vegas and why people need to walk their dogs on a leash. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E133 · Tue, January 28, 2025
That's All I Got, and All I Had
This week, the BFFs are getting silly! We talking about some of our favorite historically Black phrases (see, what happened was...we got inspired by our good judys). Catch the phrases that move our spirit as we talk about how having McDonald's money has healed our inner children. Also, Joho rants about why One of Them Days is a must-see movie. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E131 · Tue, January 21, 2025
An Ode to Altadena
Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E131 · Tue, January 14, 2025
Forgive, But Don't Forget
Happy 2025! This week we discuss the wild ride that is already 2025, forgiveness and how folks can navigate ideation (we have added a chapter for Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam so you can skip). In addition, we also discuss the SoCal fires and why we are done with Influencers. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E131 · Tue, January 07, 2025
Rewind: Life is Better (Featuring Kid Fury)
Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Kid Fury: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E130 · Tue, December 31, 2024
Rewind: Laugh at My Pain (Featuring Amber Ruffin)
Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Check out more information on George Floyd Square here . Check out Amber's new show, "Have I Got News For You" here. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Amber Ruffin: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E129 · Tue, December 24, 2024
2024, There's the Door! - A Best of 2024 Episode
Hey BFF's! Yes we've reached the final episode of the year. We asked you all to share your favorite moments and we mashed them all together to give you all the high's (and lows) that made you chuckle. Black Fat Femme will return with new episodes Tuesday, January 14th, 2025. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E128 · Tue, December 17, 2024
Knotty Pine!
This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E127 · Tue, December 10, 2024
Betting On Yourself (featuring Archie Jay)
On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and Archie: The Podcast host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow Archie: Instagram l Podcast l Tik-Tok l Website Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E126 · Tue, December 03, 2024
A.M. E-40
This week your BFF's talk Black telekinesis, what makes A.A.V.E. (African American Vernacular English) so special and how we plan to stop being so hard on ourselves in 2025 - because honestly, life is already hard enough. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E125 · Tue, November 26, 2024
Standing on BIG Business (Featuring Miss Lawrence)
This week on the show your BFF's invite LEGEND Miss Lawrence to the mic to talk self preservation during the holidays, standing on BIG business and how we plan to fix our plates for turkey day, sans Christopher Columbus. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube ! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Miss Lawrence: Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E123 · Tue, November 19, 2024
Art as Resistance (Featuring Anania)
This week on the show your BFF's invite our new sister to the show, Anania, to talk top and bottom of the crop bops, art as resistance and why we really need to keep praying to the ancestors for guidance at this time in history. MY. GAWD. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social : Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website Follow Anania: Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E122 · Tue, November 12, 2024
I See Your True Colors
In this week's episode, Jon and Joho break down their reactions to the election, and explore the role toxic masculinity may have played in its outcome. Also, your faves talk about the best candies, and knocking down transphobes. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E121 · Tue, November 05, 2024
REWIND: The DI-ASS-PORA (Featuring Dexter Mayfield)
This week on the rewind, listen to one of our favorite episodes with the iconic and super funny Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you for making our show what it continues to be. We will be back with all new episodes next week. 😁 Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Dexter Mayfield: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E120 · Tue, October 29, 2024
Okay Ladies - Now Let's Get INFORMATION...
This week your BFF's get political and talk about direct implications of trans bills and California propositions. We also discuss why folks need to leave earlier for the airport. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E119 · Tue, October 22, 2024
Paris is STILL Burning! (Featuring Mayhem Miller)
This week your BFF's are rejoined by our good Judy Mayhem Miller as we discuss the ever-iconic and ever-relevant Paris is Burning! We also dive into our beauty secrets, and Joho got a salacious no ma'am pam tell-all. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Mayhem Miller: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E118 · Tue, October 15, 2024
Love is (Not) Blind
This week your BFF's talk the vulnerability of coming out, the problems we have with Netflix's "Love is Blind" show and why we all need to move with more audacity. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E117 · Tue, October 08, 2024
Life is Better (Featuring Kid Fury)
This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE! Watch the live recording for free on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Buy Tickets to Kid Fury's tour here . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Kid Fury: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E116 · Tue, October 01, 2024
How (Not) to Die Alone
This week your BFF's share their thoughts on conferences, the new hit Hulu Show, "How to Die Alone" and why Chappell Roan needs a chaperone. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E115 · Tue, September 24, 2024
Laugh at My Pain (Featuring Amber Ruffin)
This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Check out more information on George Floyd Square here . Check out Amber's new show, "Have I Got News For You" here. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Amber Ruffin: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E115 · Tue, September 17, 2024
But Who Did the Pomeranian? (Featuring Darren Calhoun & Esther)
This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by Darren & Esther from the Second Sunday to chat the difference between being spiritual vs. religious, how one get's over religious trauma and why Jesus and Michelle have the same meaning. If you know, YOU KNOW. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here ! Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Listen to Second Sunday podcast here ! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E113 · Tue, September 10, 2024
Call Me Mother...
This week the BFF's talk about the thing that every millennial can relate to - parenting the parent. We also talk things our parents said to us when we were younger (that we now get as adults) and why Jon might actually like Sade. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E112 · Tue, September 03, 2024
Teleport Us to Mars, Telletubbie! (Featuring Bebe Soft)
This week your BFFs invite the incomprehensible Bebe Soft on to talk about life, finding love for yourself while in transition and how fun it can be to deconstruct gender and identity expectations on the internet. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our YouTube page here ! Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Bebé: Twitter | Instagram | YouTube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E111 · Tue, August 27, 2024
I am doing ENOUGH!
This week, the BFFs do a deep dive into activism, how Black folks are sometimes made to be activists without their permission, and how we are actually doing ENOUGH. We also get into last week’s DNC and Joho gives his mama a special shoutout. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E110 · Tue, August 20, 2024
The Solu-lu is Delu-lu!
This week your BFF's dive into a nuanced conversation on why each of us are the sh*t and what it has taken us to get there and why sometimes you gotta believe it to achieve it. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E109 · Tue, August 13, 2024
Shades of Colorism
This week your BFF's talk the anniversary of #FadeintheWater (Montgomery Riverfront Brawl 2024), Colorism and why ANYTHING is better than Panda Express. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E108 · Tue, August 06, 2024
Falling Out of a (Racist) Coconut Tree
This week your BFF's talk adulting, things that feel racist and the name that's on EVERYONE's tongue - our good sis COMMA - LA (Kamala). Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E105 · Tue, July 30, 2024
But AITA? (Featuring Cheyenne M. Davis)
This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by returning guest Cheyenne M. Davis to ask the question, Am I the A$$hole (AITA)? We also go back to our roots and talk controversial food takes - which you know we love to do. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Cheyenne M. Davis: Twitter | Instagram | Twitch See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E105 · Tue, July 23, 2024
Stay Woke (Featuring Danielle Moodie)
This week your BFF's talk being Woke AF with the phenomenal Danielle Moodie as well as discuss why we might not want Britney Spears in our home. An episode that is both salient and silly. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Danielle Moodier: Instagram | Twitter | Website | Podcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E105 · Tue, July 16, 2024
REWIND: Is This B*tch Recording? (Featuring T.S. Madison)
Originally Recorded January 2023 In honor of our dear sister, T.S. Madison, who was recently crowned as the LOGO LEGEND, we wanted to rewind and share this special episode with y'all. We kiki with T.S. about her life, her career (and how she's used it to further her activism) and why you sometimes have to just scream, F*** UM! Make the haters mad and rate us 5/5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram l Youtube Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E104 · Tue, July 09, 2024
A Robust Conversation of Melee (Featuring Richard Fowler)
This week your BFF's dive into a robust conversation about politics (we know, we know) with our favorite pundit Richard Fowler and dispel many of the myths Black people when it comes to voting. Also, we discuss why this year's election is more important than ever. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Richard Fowler: Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E103 · Tue, July 02, 2024
One Time for the Black Queens! (Featuring Amber St. James)
This week your BFF's kiki with revolutionary drag activist Ms. Amber St. James about why drag is a form of liberation for Black queer people - and why it's so important for us to remember Black drag queens of yesteryear who made drag herstory. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Amber St. James: Instagram | Twitter | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E102 · Tue, June 25, 2024
The Journey to Creativity (Featured Sondra Rose Marie)
This week your BFF's link with TAGG Magazine Editor-in-Chief Sondra Rose Marie to talk freedom songs, being a sapphic creator and why you should still be listening to "Cowboy Carter". Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Sondra Rose Marie: Instagram | Twitter | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E101 · Tue, June 18, 2024
The Fear Factor
This week your BFF's dive into a conversation on fears (both real and irrational), why fear exists in our minds and what we can all do to find peace with the things we might be afraid of. We also give the dolls their things for creating music that will get us through this hot ass summer. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E100 · Tue, June 11, 2024
Expect Nothing, But Hope For The Best! (Featuring Chris Rodgers)
This week your BFF's celebrate both Pride AND their 100th episode with none other than the illustrious editor of greatness Chris Rodgers. We dive head first into a whole episode of "What's Poppin'" and suit up to protect Dolly Parton. It's an episode you don't want to miss! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Chris Rodger: Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E99 · Tue, June 04, 2024
Pride or D*e Live Episode (in Partnership with Horror in Color)
This week, BFF brings you the audio from our "Pride or Die" live show recorded on 5/25 at the Media Pollution studios. Listen as we chat about what we love & hate about horror and what we wish we saw more of in the genre. It really was an amazing time and we thank Horror in Colo r for inviting us. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E98 · Tue, May 28, 2024
The Intersections of Blackademia (Featuring Dr. T.J. Tallie)
This week the B.F.F.'s talk with the studious & intellectual Dr. T.J. Tallie about navigating the in's and out's of academia as a minoritized person. We also give unsolicited advice about whether or not you should sign up for that masters or doctorate degree - especially in THIS economy. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Dr. T.J. Tallie: Instagram | Buy their book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E97 · Tue, May 21, 2024
Our Relationship to Dreams (Featuring Amorphous)
This week, the BFF's are joined by the incomparable D.J. Amorphous to talk about the power of words, speaking things into existence and the question we all have: what it was like to work with Beyus H. Christ. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Amorphous: Instagram | Twitter | Tik-Tik See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E96 · Tue, May 14, 2024
The "Normal" Has to Change (Featuring CeCe Telfer)
This week, the BFF's are joined by the one and only CeCe Telfer to talk about what we all can do to help trans athletes get to the olympics. We also talk about being uppity and why so many people hate leftovers. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow CeCe: Instagram | Twitter | Buy her book! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E95 · Tue, May 07, 2024
White People Sh*t! (Featuring Keah Brown)
This week, the BFF's are joined by the one and only Keah Brown, creator of the hashtag #DisabledandCute to celebrate the episode you've all been asking us for - a deep dive into our favorite white people sh*t (an ode to Jade & XD if you will). We talk tv, music and pop culture moments - and give Hilary Duff her flowers for ending homophobia, in that order. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Keah: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E94 · Tue, April 30, 2024
Pretty Hurts
This week your BFF's discuss the definition of "pretty" and what how conventions of attraction shape friendship, relationships and how you feel about yourself. We also discuss the historical importance of buffets & why the world hasn't been the same since Sweet Tomatoes went out of business. We are nominated for a Shorty!!! - Vote for us here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E93 · Tue, April 23, 2024
Big Back Finance
Adulting is hard - so this week your BFF's clue you in to how they have navigated their financial wins (and losses), all while taking pride in having a big back. We promise it will all make sense when you're done listening. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E91 · Tue, April 16, 2024
The Likability Factor
The sad but true fact is that people often judge you on likability. This week, we dive into a conversation around what we are coining as, "The Likability Factor" and why so much of it is rooted in misogynoir and femmephobia. Catch it! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E90 · Tue, April 09, 2024
Giddy up, Cowboy Carter!
Y'all know we had to do it! This week we say "howdy" to Cowboy Carter and talk all about the album, its significance, and its impact. Yeehaw! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel Here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E89 · Tue, April 02, 2024
The A.I. Jedi (Featuring Bunny McKensie Mack)
This week your BFF's sit down with the one & only Bunny McKensie Mack to dish around why we should be paying more attention to A.I, where to get the best food in Cali & Chicago and how (and why) liberation doesn't start with a pride flag. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel Here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Bunny McKensie Mack: LinkedIn | Instagram | Twitter | | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E88 · Tue, March 26, 2024
INSTANT REPLAY: But I'm Delta One! (Featuring Laci Mosley)
This week we are replaying an episode that had us on the FLOOR. We talk with Laci Mosley about being a recovering people pleaser, why sometimes you gotta let your nail tech go and how you can return things from Amazon at Kohl's. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel Here ! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Laci Mosley (AKA Scam Goddess) : Twitter | Instagram | Podcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E86 · Tue, March 19, 2024
Ladies of Rage
This week your bffs discuss the difference between anger & rage and how we navigate both emotions in a time where everything feels heavy while also asking the same question we are all asking - WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THESE PLANES? Article we referenced: On James Baldwin and Black Rage by Myisha Cherry Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E85 · Tue, March 12, 2024
A Digital Gurl in a Digital World (Featuring Bridget Todd)
This week we joined by the dopest Black girl on the internet to talk about tech of yesteryear, what we are doing to disconnect and the importance of being well while in digital spaces. Subscribe to our Youtube channel to watch the content for free! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the Bridget: Website | Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E84 · Tue, March 05, 2024
Words Mean Things
This week your bffs discuss some of their favorite words and do a bit of a break down around the word "queer" and what it means to you, the listener! Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E83 · Tue, February 27, 2024
Deconstructing Discomfort (Featuring Angelica Ross)
This week we chat with the incomparable Angelica Ross and expound on the obsession that cis-gender people have with queer people, while also exploring activism, allyship and advocacy. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content for free! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the Angelica Ross: Website | Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E82 · Tue, February 20, 2024
I AM: The Gay Cousin
This week your bffs discuss what it means to be the "gay cousin", what you need to look out for when seeking a therapist and why we should ALL be apart of the yeehaw agenda. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E82 · Tue, February 13, 2024
We Deserve It All!
This week we talk Seasonal Affective Disorder, #FFFFFF mediocrity and what it means to hold ourselves accountable. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E80 · Tue, February 06, 2024
Lift Every Voice and Swing
This week we begin Black History Month by talking about the USA Today article about the importance of Aunties and Othermothers to LGBTQ+ people, along with a pop culture moment (per a listener request) centered on Drag Race S16. You know how DoctorJonPaul feels. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E79 · Tue, January 30, 2024
Being Queer is a Magical Thing!
This week Jon & Joho chat about the magic that lives in queer spaces (and the fear of them disappearing) along with why every city should have a Hamburger Mary's. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E78 · Tue, January 23, 2024
It's Giving, Fatphobic...
We're back! This week Jon and Joho discuss intentional weight loss, the difference between “health” and “desirability,” and what prioritizing wellness really looks like for Black, fat, femmes. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel to watch the content! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E78 · Mon, January 15, 2024
REWIND: Redefining Resolutions (Featuring Joelle Monique)
Originally recording January 2023. This week, Jon & Joho talk with super producer Joelle Monique about the traps of new year's resolutions, how to set yourself for success in the new year, why Krispy Kreme is a scam and how sick and tired they are of NOT being verified on Instagram. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the Joelle Monique: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E77 · Tue, December 19, 2023
Happy Chanooka!
This week we give 2023 the yes ma'am/no ma'am treatment. Special shout out to those who sent letters and offered their own YM & NMP for the show. Thank you for listening and we see at the top of 2024. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us your thoughts to BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E76 · Tue, December 12, 2023
Damn Adulting, You Scary!
This week we talk about community, adulting and how so much has changed for Black, fat, femmes since gas was a $1. Yes girl, you read that right. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to know your Yes Ma'ams and your No Ma'am Pams for 2023. Send them here: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E74 · Tue, December 05, 2023
Bring Back Trans Fat (Featuring Ashlee Marie Preston)
We're excited to sit down this week with icon, legend, and activist Ashlee Marie Preston, as we talk about change, engaging in our political cycle for our rights, and the snacks that need comebacks. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to know your Yes Ma'ams and your No Ma'am Pams for 2023. Send them here: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E73 · Tue, November 28, 2023
Sorry To That Ham...
This week we discuss how we navigate our emotions (and wallet) during the holiday season and what we like (and hate) about holiday foods. The article Jon mentions about navigating family during the holidays Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to know your Yes Ma'ams and your No Ma'am Pams for 2023. Send them here: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E72 · Tue, November 21, 2023
Free the Bitties (Featuring Dr. Sami Schalk)
This week we chat with Dr. Sami Schalk about the impacts that the pandemic has had on our hearts and bodies while also diving in deeper into the hatred the world has for our favorite chains - yes you guessed it: The Cheesecake Factory and Olive Garden. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to know your Yes Ma'ams and your No Ma'am Pams for 2023. Send them here: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Sami: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E71 · Tue, November 14, 2023
Haus of Allyship (Featuring Olayemi Olurin)
To celebrate National Trans Awareness week, we (intentionally) chat with Movement Lawyer + Political Commentator Olayemi Olurin about the importance of cisgender people using their platform to uplift the voices of Black trans women - and why Black trans women shouldn't always have to be the ones to speak up for their rights. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to know your Yes Ma'ams and your No Ma'am Pams for 2023. Send them here: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Olayemi: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E70 · Tue, November 07, 2023
The BFF Experience (Live)
This week we celebrate the inaugural "BFF Experience" live show with our friends Shar Jossell , Xavier D'Leau & Tre'vell Anderson . We also celebrate the gift that is fried chicken. Thank you to everyone who attended and thank you to the Elysian Theater for making us feel so at home. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E69 · Tue, October 31, 2023
You Can't Compete When You Don't Compare (Featuring YawnyBlew)
This week we are joined by the ultra-talented YawnyBlew to discuss how revolutionary it is to create in spaces you often don't see yourself in, the art we love and why we are SICK and TIRED of scammers. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow YawnyBlew: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E68 · Tue, October 24, 2023
Do You Know Tyrone Jenkins? (Featuring Franchesca Ramsey)
This week we chat with the wonderful accidental activist Franchesca Ramsey about her the highs and lows of speaking truth to power on social media, what she would fix about the 2000's and the karma Jon got for laughing at Android users. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Franchesca Ramsey: Twitter | Instagram | Website Check out Franschesca's new show, "Lemme Fit It!" See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E68 · Tue, October 17, 2023
The DI-ASS-PORA (Featuring Dexter Mayfield)
This week we chat body with the iconic Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you who made it out to our live show! THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS FOR ALL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Dexter Mayfield: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E66 · Tue, October 10, 2023
Invest in Shattering Expectations (Featuring Raquel Willis)
This week we chat with Raquel about self affirmations, the risk we all navigate when becoming our authentic selves and how we are sick and tired of getting robbed by Beyoncé. Come and see us live, loud and in color on tomorrow for the "The BFF Experience" at the Elysian Theater in Los Angeles. Get your tickets here! Pre-Order "The Risk It Takes to Bloom: On Life and Liberation" written by Raquel Willis here . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Raquel Willis: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E65 · Tue, October 03, 2023
Kokomo City Limits (Featuring D. Smith)
This week we chat affirmations, why "Kokomo City" should be at the top of your list to watch and why we all should have beef with Delta's new frequent flyer program rules. Come and see us live, loud and in color on Wednesday, October 11th for "The BFF Experience" at the Elysian Theater in Los Angeles. Get your tickets here! Watch "Kokomo City" here . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow D. Smith: Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E64 · Tue, September 26, 2023
Like..Why Are You So Obsessed With Me?
This week we chat about the ways in which the world is obsessed with Black (and queer) culture without actually being connected to Black (and queer) people. Also, why we need to uplift those who are out here speaking truth to power. Here’s some information about Black queer people's mental health. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E63 · Tue, September 19, 2023
White Briefs & Angel Wings (Featuring Elijah McKinnon)
This week we discuss things we appreciate more now that we are older, how to remain a good person in what can often feel like a very, very, very, VERY terrible world and why we are tired of being nickeled and dimed to death by corporations. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow our guest - Elijah Mckinnon : Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E62 · Tue, September 12, 2023
Move Out the Way! (Featuring Imara Jones)
This week we talk about getting to (and staying) in your happy place, moving up the corporate ladder and why Beyonce's "Renaissance" tour is for Black queer people and Black queer people ONLY. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow our guest - Imara Jones: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E61 · Tue, September 05, 2023
A Kaleidoscope of Authentic Complications
This week we talk respectability politics, the authentic complications we wish we got to see around Black queer characters in television and film and why we all need to be putting our mask back on! Got a question or comment on the show? Shoot us an email BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E60 · Tue, August 29, 2023
In the Name of Hip-Hop Feminism! (Featuring Kay Coghill)
This week we get learned some Hip-Hop feminism, discuss some of our favorite Black rappers, and the best hood snacks. Got a question or comment on the show? Shoot us an email BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E59 · Tue, August 22, 2023
The BIG Gay Agenda
This week we dabble with what revelations we have had this year (so far), what our big gay agenda is and why we are SO EXCITED for pumpkin spice season. Got a question or comment on the show? Shoot us an email BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E58 · Tue, August 15, 2023
Accountability is Healing
This week we dabble with why we LOVE being Black and queer, the right way to handle accountability and why we need to forgive ourselves in the process of forgiving others. Got a question or comment on the show? Shoot us an email BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E57 · Tue, August 08, 2023
A Plus Sized Travel Bag
This week we talk about why we love being Black, the struggles that come with being Black + fat while flying, why we need to keep saying O'Shea Sibley's name and why aliens are our friends. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E56 · Tue, August 01, 2023
Kim People Are Dying. (Featuring Shar Jossell)
This week we talk about the best in media, why folks (i.e. comedians) needs to be more careful with their platforms and how BFF's can navigate a world that is often always so very disappointing. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow our guest - Shar Jossell : Twitter | Instagram | Pin Game See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E55 · Tue, July 25, 2023
Black Drag Magic
This week, we FINALLY give y'all the Drag Race episode you've been asking for, specifically naming our favorite Black drag queens of yesterday and today (rest well Chi-Chi!), talk Tik-Tok snacks and pride conspiracy theories. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Continue to make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E55 · Tue, July 18, 2023
Rewind: Hip Hop Hooray - Celebrating 50 years of (Queer) Hip Hop
This week we celebrate 50 years of hip-hop (again) by talking about the good, the bad AND the queer, discuss rejection (edges SNATCHED) and why we deserve at least one more album from Rihanna. We will be back next week with another all new episode Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E54 · Tue, July 11, 2023
Don't Ride the White Pony! (Featuring Micheal Rice)
This week we sit down with creator Michael Rice to discuss the exploitation of Black queer bodies, when we feel most authentic and why America's got a true problem. Trigger Warning - Discussion of drug usage - for those who might want to skip this weeks "Category Is" section because of the discussion of chem sex, you can fast forward to 51:19. Keep in mind that this is not an episode shaming those who use drugs - but a conversation about how Black queer bodies are exploited through drug usage. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Thank you to EVERYONE who came to our defense against the trolls and got us back up to an amazing rating score. We appreciate you! Continue to make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest: Micheal Rice Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E53 · Tue, July 04, 2023
My Silence is a Gift to You (Featuring Rasheed Newson)
This week we sit down with TV Producer and writer of the amazing book, " My Government Means to Kill Me " to discuss why it is so important for BFF's to use their voice intentionally - specifically in times like now where the government is actively using any means to take it away. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest: Rasheed Newson Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E52 · Tue, June 27, 2023
You Deserve to Just Exist
This week we get into a (closing Pride) conversation about growth, why we need to change our outlooks on activism and why this Pride season is giving Great Value over Up & Up overall. IYKYK. IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST! OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here. “Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme , Apple Podcasts' Spotlight pick for June 2023 . “Our show does that.” Paul is joined on the mic by co-host and friend Jordan Daniels. Both are experienced storytellers, creatives, and social justice educators. They launched the podcast one year ago and since then, BFF has become a beacon of light for folks who feel their voices don’t matter. “I want them to laugh fully, feel part of our conversations, and nourished,” says Daniels. BFF tackles heavy topics but Paul says, “90% of the time we’re cracking jokes and celebrating our intersections.” “I love making this show because we get to express all pieces of ourselves, share it with the world, and create a space for our BFFs to exist alongside us,” says Daniels. “This show is for them as much as it is for us. I hope listeners take away a whole list of fascinating and incredible people that they can follow, connect with, and learn from!” says Daniels. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See <a href="https://omny
S1 E51 · Tue, June 20, 2023
The Fatphobia Leapt Out
This week we get into a conversation about why we love being Black, accountability around fat-phobia and if oatmeal can be savory. IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST! OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here. “Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme , Apple Podcasts' Spotlight pick for June 2023 . “Our show does that.” Paul is joined on the mic by co-host and friend Jordan Daniels. Both are experienced storytellers, creatives, and social justice educators. They launched the podcast one year ago and since then, BFF has become a beacon of light for folks who feel their voices don’t matter. “I want them to laugh fully, feel part of our conversations, and nourished,” says Daniels. BFF tackles heavy topics but Paul says, “90% of the time we’re cracking jokes and celebrating our intersections.” “I love making this show because we get to express all pieces of ourselves, share it with the world, and create a space for our BFFs to exist alongside us,” says Daniels. “This show is for them as much as it is for us. I hope listeners take away a whole list of fascinating and incredible people that they can follow, connect with, and learn from!” says Daniels. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privac
S1 E50 · Tue, June 13, 2023
If You Like It, I Love It!
This week discuss the idea of what it means to be a "mean queen" and projection. IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST! OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here. “Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme , Apple Podcasts' Spotlight pick for June 2023 . “Our show does that.” Paul is joined on the mic by co-host and friend Jordan Daniels. Both are experienced storytellers, creatives, and social justice educators. They launched the podcast one year ago and since then, BFF has become a beacon of light for folks who feel their voices don’t matter. “I want them to laugh fully, feel part of our conversations, and nourished,” says Daniels. BFF tackles heavy topics but Paul says, “90% of the time we’re cracking jokes and celebrating our intersections.” “I love making this show because we get to express all pieces of ourselves, share it with the world, and create a space for our BFFs to exist alongside us,” says Daniels. “This show is for them as much as it is for us. I hope listeners take away a whole list of fascinating and incredible people that they can follow, connect with, and learn from!” says Daniels. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E49 · Tue, June 06, 2023
Illuminating Abundance (Featuring Amber Abundance)
This week we chop it up with the incomparable Amber Abundance about how Black Fat Femmes can make "abundance" a mindset, navigating intergenerational healing and why Target shouldn't be the standard for pride merch. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Amber Abundance: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E48 · Tue, May 30, 2023
Pride, But with Intention!
This week we get into a deeper dive around Pride Month, how to celebrate it without being problematic and how to support the movement - now more than ever. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E48 · Tue, May 23, 2023
What's Poppin'? (A Minisode)
This week Jon & Joho are traveling, but they didn't want to leave you without a beat to step to! Enjoy a quick kiki as they talk about all the mess that is pop culture. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E47 · Tue, May 16, 2023
Doing My African American Best (Featuring Cheyenne M. Davis)
This week we welcome one of the baddest, Cheyenne M. Davis, to the show to talk about pleasure in all its forms, media representation both on screen and behind the scenes, and the oppression still caused today by that bag Carrie gave Louise in the SATC movie. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Cheyenne M. Davis: Twitter | Instagram | Twitch See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E46 · Tue, May 09, 2023
They Don't Have The Range
This week we talk about what truly defines legendary status, the range of anti-blackness in our community, and how it's ALREADY MAY. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E45 · Tue, May 02, 2023
But I'm Delta One! (Featuring Laci Mosley)
This week we welcome the one and only Laci Mosley to talk about being a recovering people pleaser, why sometimes you gotta let your nail tech go and how you can return things from Amazon at Kohl's. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Laci Mosley (AKA Scam Goddess) : Twitter | Instagram | Podcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E44 · Tue, April 25, 2023
I'm Searching For a Queer Love (Featuring Dirty Lola)
This week we welcome the one and only Dirty Lola to discuss the ways we are relearning love from a queer lens and how we can continue to love ourselves, even when love doesn't seem to love us the way we want to be loved. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Dirty Lola: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E43 · Tue, April 18, 2023
You Won't Ban Our Soul!
This week we discuss the wave of anti-trans and anti-queer legislation (we reference VOX in this episode) and what you can do to help the community. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E42 · Tue, April 11, 2023
Normalizing Conversations on Ideation (Featuring Dr. Van Bailey)
This week we are talking about what it means to be seen, ideation & suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Dr. Van Bailey: Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E41 · Tue, April 04, 2023
The Kids Are Alright! (Featuring Dr. Torie Weiston-Serdan)
This week we chat with Dr. Torie Weiston-Serdan about the power of mentoring, why more Black queer youth need mentors and what we can learn from them in the fight against systematic oppression. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Dr. Weiston-Serdan: www.Yman.org | Buy her book here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E40 · Tue, March 28, 2023
Loud, Live, and in Color!
This week, we come to you LIVE and in living color for this special episode recorded in February at Irvine Valley College where we talked with the Office of Student Equity about the show, our BFF experiences, and how to twirl on them haters! Special shoutout to our friends Heather and Taliah who sat us down for a great conversation at IVC! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, March 21, 2023
Dare To Be Outspoken
This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S1 E38 · Tue, March 14, 2023
The Template For Freedom (Featuring Ricky Tucker)
This week we get into the history (and appropriation) of ball culture, the need for chosen family and why we hate the people who love us but never want to help us. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow our guest: Ricky Tucker - Website | Instagram | Buy the Book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, March 07, 2023
Let Me Hear That Body Talk!
This week we talk about the body, what products we love and hate and why people (yes those people) need to stop sexualizing the trans experience. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, February 28, 2023
You Can't Save The World If You Ain't Here (Featuring Aurielle Marie)
This week, we talk with the one and only Aurielle Marie about manifestation, how we continue to be our ancestors' wildest dreams, why we all need a little more support these days and why Florida AND the NYT's can go straight to hell with gasoline drawers. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow our Guest - Aurielle Marie: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, February 21, 2023
Hip-Hop Hooray!
This week we celebrate 50 years of hip-hop by talking about the good, the bad AND the queer, discuss rejection (edges SNATCHED) and why we deserve at least one more album from Rihanna. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, February 14, 2023
Self Love Is The Best Love (Featuring Jimanekia Eborn)
This week, we talk with the one and only Jimanekia Eborn about the journey to self love, the struggles that can come with loving yourself radically and why Girl Scout cookies should come in a multi-pack. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow our Guest - Jimanekia Eborn: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, February 07, 2023
Be FAT In Public!
This week we talk about the ups and downs of being fat in public, our love for brown bread and why the Grammys are a scam. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, January 31, 2023
Love Has No Preference
This week we get into a very nuanced conversation around the multitudes of layers that is interracial dating, how tired we are of Black pain and why Jon is ready to turn Wendy's upside down. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Additional Notes: Congrats to our sisters Tre'vell Anderson and Jarrett Hill on their Queerties Award nomination. Go support them - Vote for Fanti here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, January 24, 2023
Is This B*tch Recording? (Featuring T.S. Madison)
This week we kiki with the one, the only - living legend T.S. Madison about her life, her career (and how she's used it to further her activism) and why you sometimes have to just scream, F*** UM! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the T.S. Madison: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, January 17, 2023
Some Call It Magic (Featuring Chris Rodgers)
This week, we take a peek behind the curtain to talk with our show's editor about how they got started in the biz and what they have learned as a creator up to this point. We also talk about what's on our plate for the year and how we hope to feel! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the Chris Rodgers: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, January 10, 2023
Redefining Resolutions (Featuring Joelle Monique)
This week, Jon & Joho talk with super producer Joelle Monique about the traps of new year's resolutions, how to set yourself for success in the new year, why Krispy Kreme is a scam and how sick and tired they are of NOT being verified on Instagram. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the Joelle Monique: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, January 03, 2023
Your Health is Wealth (Featuring Dr. James Simmons)
This week, we talk with our good Judy Dr. James Simmons about our health, how to navigate all the challenges COVID has offered us and why it is so important for each of us to give ourself grace as we enter the new year. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow the Dr. James Simmons: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sat, December 31, 2022
Bonus Episode: A Year of Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam!
If you didn't get a chance to hear them all in 2022 - don't worry, we've got you covered. Catch all new episodes of the BFF show in 2023! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, December 27, 2022
Can I Get An Amen? (Featuring Dominique Morgan)
This week we chat with the incomparable Dominique Morgan about equity, justice and why Black queer people deserve so much more than what we are given. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Dominique | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, December 20, 2022
Take Space, Make Space (Featuring Kelsey Daniels)
This week we chat with poet, performer, advocate and activist Kelsey Daniel about the importance of reclaiming the space that you so rightfully deserve as a Black fat femme! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Kelsey : Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, December 13, 2022
Give Us the Cake! (Featuring Sis Thee Doll)
This week we chat with the one and only Sis (Oklahoma, American Horror Story) about her journey and why Black fat femmes deserve the whole cake and nothing but the cake ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Sis : Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, December 06, 2022
We're All Born Relentless...And The Rest Is Drag! (Featuring Mayhem Miller)
This week we hang out with the life of the party, Ms. Mayhem Miller - and get into a discussion about how we are not just resilient, but relentless! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Mayhem Miller: Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, November 29, 2022
Non-Binary While Black (Featuring Ryan Ken)
This week the amazing, talented & EMMY WINNING writer (did we forget to say icon? ) Ryan Ken drops by the show to talk about the joys of being non-binary while Black, safety and why folks need to stop appropriating AAVE. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Ryan Ken: Instagram | Twitter | Tik Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, November 22, 2022
Cut that B*tch Like Culinary! (Featuring Michael W. Twitty)
This week we talk with Jewish writer, educator, culinary historian - and let's not forget to mention TIME100 Next 2022 baddy - about why cooking is so close to the heart of Black, fat and queer people. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest - Michael Twitty: Instagram | Twitter | Website | Buy the Book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, November 15, 2022
Family Affair
This week Jon & Joho get into the hateration and holleration that is navigating family dynamics, how to disengage from toxicity, and why it's best to leave certain chapters closed. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sun, November 06, 2022
The Personal IS Political (Featuring Odessa Kelly)
In a super early and TIMELY episode of BFF we talk to Odessa Kelly about her run for congress, the power of our vote and why it's so important for marginalized people to get to polls this Tuesday - quick, fast and in a hurry ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest: Odessa Kelly Support the campaign by watching the live table read of "Something Unholy". See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, November 01, 2022
Find Me On The INNANET! (Featuring Major)
This we talk candidly about what it's like to be a Black Fat Femme content creator, why we don't go up for people who put down those who love Olive Garden or Cheesecake Factory and why we think some stans are fatphobic. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest: MajorNMortion See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, October 25, 2022
Ghosts of Friendships Past
This week we dive into a deep convo about friendship (the good, bad and the ugly) and why you can't make a safe space in an unsafe place. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, October 18, 2022
One Time For The Big Girl!
This week we get into a conversation about fat icons and why you too should be paying them homage. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, October 11, 2022
Preface Manifestation (Featuring Tracy T. Rowe & Cara Pressley)
This week we get into a conversation about the work that goes into manifesting & what makes us worthy with our new BFF's Tracy & Cara - the OFFICIAL hosts of the @RedTableTalk podcast - Let's Red Table That. Trust us when we say that this is the episode that you didn't know you needed. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Our Guest: Tracy | Cara See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mon, October 03, 2022
Say It Witcha CHEST!
This week, we get into the nuances of words, specifically the fear that people have around saying words like "Black" and "Fat". Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, September 27, 2022
My Life Ain't Been No Crystal Stairs! (Featuring Steven Canals)
This week, we talk candidly about rejection, redirection and how to keep going in a world that wasn't built for us. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow our guest - Steven Canals: Twitter | Instagram Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, September 20, 2022
A B*tch Named Maria (Featuring Jade & X.D.)
This week, we get into a conversation about what it's like to be the "other" in the workplace with our guest, Jade & X.D. - and why sometimes you have to throw a hamburger at somebody to maintain a boundary. Send us an email at BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Listen to Jade & X.D . You can also follow them on social media: Twitter /I nstagram . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, September 13, 2022
Honk for Jewish Jesus!
This week, we dive head first into a conversation on religion and how the film, "Honk for Jesus" challenges the complexities of spirituality. (There are some spoilers - skip 43:55 to not hear them Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, September 06, 2022
IT'S ABOUT THE WORK! (ft. Jarrett Hill & Tre'vell Anderson)
This week is a 2 for 1 special! Our sister's from "Fanti" drop by to talk about why we are all tired of the word "allyship" and why change requires action. ***MAILBAG EPISODE COMING SOON SO PLEASE SEND US YOUR THOUGHTS, QUESTIONS OR COMMENTS!*** Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Guest Info socials: Jarrett Hill - Twitter / Instagram Tre'vell Anderson - Twitter / Instagram Listen to Fanti! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, August 30, 2022
Rebel Manifesto (Ft. Clarkisha Kent)
This week we talk being a rebel, what it means to be a disruptor and why everyone should be over the status quo with the one and only, Clarkisha Kent! Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Guest Info socials - Clarkisha Kent - Twitter / Instagram Learn more about the Kent Test here ! Pre-Order, "Fat Off, Fat On: A Big Bitch Manifesto" here . Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, August 23, 2022
I Know You Hear Me Calling You, Ms. Bussey! (Ft. Armand Fields)
This week we talk about being a work in progress with Armand Fields from the hit shows, "Work in Progress" & "Queer As Folk"! Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Guest Info socials - Armand Fields - Instagram Watch "Queer As Folk" here ! Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, August 16, 2022
Every Body is a Good Body (with Tarik Carroll)
This week we discuss why every body is a good body, body positivity vs. body (fat) liberation and why candy corn is good. Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Guest Info socials - Tarik Carroll - Twitter/ Instagram / website Learn more about the EveryMan project here ! Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, August 09, 2022
A Chaotically Good Episode (with Benjamin O'Keefe)
This week we dive into the topic of digital activism and the ways it helps Black Fat Femmes attain the equity they deserve! Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Guest Info socials - Benjamin O'Keefe - Twitter/ Instagram Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, August 02, 2022
Why Stand In, When You Can Stand Out! (w/JazzmyneJay)
This week we dive into the topic of creating the content you want you see, what we would say to our teenage self and most importantly: Beyoncé's "Renaissance". Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social - Twitter / Instagram / website Joho socials - Twitter / Instagram / website Guest Info socials - Jazzmynne Robbins - Twitter / Instagram Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, July 26, 2022
Make It FAT Fashion (w/TheSlayGawd)
This week we talk being fat in fashion with the one and only Ryan Mitchell (TheSlayGawd). Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social: Twitter/Instagram: @DoctorJonPaul www.DoctorJonPaul.com Joho social: Twitter/Instagram: @JohoDaniels Guest Info: Ryan Mitchell Twitter/Instagram: @TheSlayGawd Check out these fat positive clothing brands: The Plus Bus ASOS Eloquii Shein Big Bud Press Nor Black Nor White Fashion Brand See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, July 19, 2022
The Lies of Masculinity
In this week's episode, we get real about the lies we have been fed about masculinity. Send us an email to let us know your thoughts on this week's episode. Follow the show on social media! DoctorJonPaul social: Twitter/Instagram: @DoctorJonPaul www.DoctorJonPaul.com Joho social: Twitter/Instagram: @JohoDaniels Check out more on The Okra Project here . See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tue, July 12, 2022
Yes Black. Yes Fat. Yes Femme.
On what is our FIRST episode, we get real about living at the intersections of Black, Fat and Femme and what it means to not just survive, but thrive. Tell us your thoughts about our episode by emailing BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Follow the show on social media: https://bio.site/BFFPodcast DoctorJonPaul social: @DoctorJonPaul Joho social: @JohoDaniels See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Trailer · Tue, June 21, 2022
The Category is: Black, Fat, Femme!
“The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black change makers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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