In this raw and transformative episode of Mental Metals, host Asekho sits down with mindset coach and author of Manifest Your Canvas to unpack the gritty journey from childhood trauma to unshakable self-love. Drawing parallels to Maya Angelou’s defiant resilience, they explore how to dismantle toxic narratives, rewrite self-worth, and harness adversity as fuel for growth. Learn why treating yourself how you want others to treat you isn’t just a mantra—it’s a survival tactic, and discover practical tools like meditation, emotional detachment, and "fact-based living" to combat overwhelm. From confronting generational stigmas around mental health in Black communities to balancing motherhood and purpose, this conversation is a masterclass in turning pain into power. Whether you’re battling self-doubt or seeking clarity in chaos, this episode delivers the unflinching honesty of Chris Williamson and the strategic wisdom of Steven Bartlett—proving that healing isn’t about faking it, but awakening to your ultimate self. Rate, review, and share if it sparks a shift in your journey.

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