On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Nick Kyrgios ON: How to Deal with Being Misunderstood & Stop Trying to Live Up to People's Expectations

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December 11, 2023 2:00am

1h 40m

Tired of being misunderstood all the time?

Are you looking for ways to stop living up to other people's expectations?

Then this podcast is for you. 

Today, Jay Shetty welcomes world-ranking professional tennis player Nick Kyrgios. Nick burst onto the pro tennis scene in 2012 after a prolific junior tennis career. Since his start he has captivated fans with a larger than life personality, passion for the game, and unpredictability. Kyrgios has won 7 singles titles and 4 doubles titles in his career, but 2022 marked the first time Kyrgios displayed his dominance making it to his first Grand Slam Final, winning 3 singles titles, and 3 doubles titles. He also reached the Quarter Finals of the 2022 US Open beating then-ranked No. 1 Daniil Medvedev and is one of the few players on Tour who have beaten the Big Three (Novak Djokovic, Roger Federer, Rafael Nadal) at least once. 

In this conversation, Nick opens up about how his strong personality online has sparked hate and negativity - how misunderstood his persona is and how different he is with friends and family.

Nick also briefly talks about dark times, dealing with depression and addiction and turning the most difficult phase of his life into a pivotal moment to have the best year of his life when he reached the Wimbledon final. He also talks about looking at life beyond tennis and what awaits him in the future.

In this episode, you will learn:

How to accept your flaws

How to overcome fear and anger

How to turn your life around

How to deal with negativity

How to become your best self

A truly inspiring story begins with a challenge and ends with a triumph, and Nick has just proven to us that success isn't elusive when you dream big and work hard for it. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

Intro

Enjoying Some Time Off

Nick Used to Hate Playing Tennis

Misbranded by the Media

The Effects of Promoting Negative Content

Dealing with Mental Health in Silence

Getting Out of the Darkest Moments

How Hard Work Led to Wimbledon

People Only See the Anger

People Will Always Have Something to Say

Being Okay with Leaving the Game Behind

Nick Talks About His Injury

Would You Spend Time with Your Haters?

Playing the Character of a Villain

The Best Crowd to Play For

Who is the Nice Guy Nick?

Tennis Is A White Privileged Sport!

How Media Can Negatively Affect Your Mental Health

How Strong Boundaries Make Relationshi