Being a godly dad is hard work. Challenges abound, and sometimes, we just need some ideas, encouragement, and a little laughter along the way. So, we created the Father On Purpose Podcast to have real, fun, and practical conversations about being dads. We've been honored with guests such as Chip Ingram, Stephen Kendrick, Gary Chapman, Clarence Shuler, and many more. Fatherhood is awesome, sacred, and hard all at the same time. We don't have all the answers, but together as dads, we'll try to figure it out. Find out how you're doing as a godly dad: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz
S1 E198 · Fri, April 11, 2025
Wisdom is one of the most talked about and heavily emphasized topics in Scripture. But what is it? While there are many aspects to a good definition of wisdom, we believe one of simplest and most concise ways to think about it is this: wisdom equals alignment with God's will. As you search for wisdom, the only place to start is with a firm foundation on God's Word. In today's episode, we look at the ways Scripture personifies Wisdom, what it means to build your life on the Rock, and how all of this applies to being a godly dad. Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E197 · Fri, April 04, 2025
Today, we have a very special guest. Cameron Arnett is an accomplished actor, author, speaker, director, and producer. Most importantly, he is a Christ follower. Our conversation with Cameron goes deep. We talk about how to be a godly dad when you never had one of your own, what it's like being a Christian in what can be a very dark industry, how God rescued Cameron from the evil he was a part of in Haiti, what it means to put Christ over career, and much more. Cameron's biggest piece of advice: we are all actors, the Bible is our script, and the part we're playing is that of Christ. How well do you play your part? Let's talk about that in today's episode. Learn more about Cameron and his work: https://www.cameronarnett.com/about Learn more about The Forge: https://kendrickbrothers.com/the-forge-movie/ Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E196 · Fri, March 28, 2025
Do you ever feel like you're your own worst enemy? Like the biggest fights you have are happening inside your own heart? In today's episode, we wrap up our Lessons In Lyrics series, and we attack those very struggles, using the song "The War Inside" by Switchfoot as our template. We know as Christians that "our battle is not against flesh and blood" (Ephesians 6:12), but sometimes, our own flesh can be our biggest hurdle to following Christ closely (Romans 7:15). We hope this song encourages you and challenges you, as it did for us, and helps you become even more of a Father On Purpose. "The War Inside" on Spotify: here "The War Inside" on Apple Music: here Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E196 · Fri, March 28, 2025
Do you ever feel like you're your own worst enemy? Like the biggest fights you have are happening inside your own heart? In today's episode, we wrap up our Lessons In Lyrics series, and we attack those very struggles, using the song "The War Inside" by Switchfoot as our template. We know as Christians that "our battle is not against flesh and blood" (Ephesians 6:12), but sometimes, our own flesh can be our biggest hurdle to following Christ closely (Romans 7:15). We hope this song encourages you and challenges you, as it did for us, and helps you become even more of a Father On Purpose. "The War Inside" on Spotify: here "The War Inside" on Apple Music: here Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E195 · Fri, March 21, 2025
Welcome back to our "Lessons In Lyrics" series. Today, we take a look at a song by one of Kent's all-time favorite bands, NEEDTOBREATHE. "The Heat," title track from the band's Sophomore effort, is a powerful song about finding peace in the chaos, being present, forgiving yourself, and much more. We hope you get as much out of it as we did, and that you'll continue to let great music be an asset to you as a husband, father, and Christ follower. "The Heat" on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/7JjVN8JcRJXRhcOnHh5v5a?si=27a0a68fbb1e41c0 "The Heat" on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-heat/262075351?i=262075649 Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E195 · Fri, March 21, 2025
Welcome back to our "Lessons In Lyrics" series. Today, we take a look at a song by one of Kent's all-time favorite bands, NEEDTOBREATHE. "The Heat," title track from the band's Sophomore effort, is a powerful song about finding peace in the chaos, being present, forgiving yourself, and much more. We hope you get as much out of it as we did, and that you'll continue to let great music be an asset to you as a husband, father, and Christ follower. "The Heat" on Spotify: here "The Heat" on Apple Music: here Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E194 · Fri, March 14, 2025
For the next few weeks, we're going to be exploring some fatherhood and discipleship principles found within the lyrics of some of our favorite songs. We're calling this series "Lessons In Lyrics." In today's episode, we kick that off with a song by Mac Powell, called "River Of Life." This song crams so many worthwhile topics into it, we couldn't wait to unpack some of them. While we do have a few more ideas up our sleeve, let us know if you have any songs you'd like us to tackle! Send us your song ideas here: info@manhoodjourney.org. "River Of Life" on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/0B1GuT4svftHFzZ8wXcBau?si=4db591d56dc64e4f "River Of Life" on Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/album/river-of-life/1578012319?i=1578012320 Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E194 · Fri, March 14, 2025
For the next few weeks, we're going to be exploring some fatherhood and discipleship principles found within the lyrics of some of our favorite songs. We're calling this series "Lessons In Lyrics." In today's episode, we kick that off with a song by Mac Powell, called "River Of Life." This song crams so many worthwhile topics into it, we couldn't wait to unpack some of them. While we do have a few more ideas up our sleeve, let us know if you have any songs you'd like us to tackle! Send us your song ideas here: info@manhoodjourney.org. "River Of Life" on Spotify: here "River Of Life" on Apple Music: here Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E193 · Fri, March 07, 2025
God Of Wonders, Soul On Fire, I Need A Miracle...do any of those phrases sound familiar to you? If they don't, let us give you a hint: they're all song titles. Third Day is one of those bands in the Christian world that defined the sound of a generation, and in today's episode, we have the pleasure of chatting with Third Day co-founder and lead singer, Mac Powell. He's also a husband and a father to five kids, and when we asked him for his biggest piece of parenting advice, he said, "Realize that you were made for this." We walk through topics like how to be present with your kids when life and business get in the way, what it's like to love your teenage kids even (especially?) when they think you're lame, and many more mines of wisdom Mac has to share. Just like Mac said, as parents, we're never gonna completely figure it out, but we can't let that stop us from trying to figure it out. Go see Mac on tour! Visit macpowell.com for tickets and more info. Check out Mac's daughter's band, Scout And The Saints: Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/scout-and-the-saints/1578418987 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6Xila5oS5dlhSgQh3vXpKl?si=OtNItVT7S-mUKXsCmXPn_g
S1 E192 · Fri, February 28, 2025
Please welcome to the show special guest, Josh Kubler. Josh is a husband and father, and serves as the Director of Church Engagement at Manhood Journey. In today's episode, we get into things like what it means to view parenting as evangelism, how adoption portrays the love of God, ways to create an environment for growth, and much more fatherhood gold that Josh drops on us. -Connect with Josh: josh.kubler@manhoodjourney.org -Josh's home church: https://redeemerolivebranch.com/leadership -Learn more about Josh's role and let us help equip the dads at your church: manhoodjourney.org/churches -Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon -Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E191 · Fri, February 21, 2025
This week, we have a special episode for you...and we really mean it this time! Wait until the end of today's show for a treat you won't forget. Before we get there though, we're diving in to some guidelines on how to teach our kids important life skills. Ever had those moments where you feel like you just can't get through to your kids, or you want to save them from making the same mistakes you did? Let's talk about those. We hope today's episode helps you teach your kids in an even more Christlike way and gives you some tools to set them up for spiritual and relational success. Listen to "Stay Off The Highway" by Cargo Shorts Collective anywhere you listen to music. https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/cargoshortscollective/stay-off-the-highway "Stay Off The Highway" on Spotify "Stay Off The Highway" on YouTube Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
Bonus · Tue, February 18, 2025
We interrupt your normal programming to bring you this special interview with guest Kevin Downes, co-founder of Kingdom Story Company. In this timely and insightful conversation, Kevin gives us the inside scoop on the upcoming movie, “The Unbreakable Boy." It’s releasing in theaters February 21, 2025, and is jam-packed with countless family and fatherhood lessons. We hope you’ll consider rolling out to the theater and supporting this excellent film! Learn more about the film here: https://theunbreakableboy.movie/
S1 E190 · Fri, February 14, 2025
Metaphors are one of the most common ways Jesus chose to teach his followers. Likewise, metaphors can be one of the most effective ways to instill truths into our kids. In today's episode, we're going to look at some of the metaphors Jesus used, as well as some examples of metaphors we have used with our children over the years. Send us your own metaphor ideas! Email them here: info@manhoodjourney.org Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E189 · Fri, February 07, 2025
Since we're all imperfect creatures, our relationships with one another are bound to be imperfect as well. Sometimes, we're just going to drop the ball. We're going to hurt the ones we love. In today's episode, we'll examine how to go about healing the connections we've damaged in our lives—and how to avoid creating that kind of relational chaos in the future. Buy Kent's latest book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E188 · Fri, January 31, 2025
English poet John Donne once wrote, "no man is an island." His point? None of us go through this life alone. No matter where we turn in life, we bump into other people. As husbands and fathers, our most important relationships involve the people under our own roof. Those are the connections we need to strengthen as we continue to move into this year. In today's episode, we'll explore ways we can rely on God's strength to be the relational leaders we are called to be. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E187 · Fri, January 24, 2025
As members of the human race, we have a problem. We will never be perfect, no matter how hard we try. Yet, so many men derail themselves as husbands and fathers by trying to keep up the facade of perfection. Like the old saying goes, it can be too easy for us to let perfect become the enemy of progress. In today's episode, we'll examine the benefits of ditching our drive for perfection in favor of a commitment to intentionality. It can be a tough transition, but it can make an eternal difference. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
Bonus · Wed, January 22, 2025
Hear ye, hear ye! Special announcement incoming! We want to let you, our devoted podcast listener, be the first to hear about a brand new opportunity from the team at Manhood Journey and Father On Purpose. Introducing: Fatherhood Cohorts. These are online, fatherhood small group experiences designed to help you accelerate your growth as a father. Listen to the short announcement above or click here to learn more. Craig Bowler's Episode on Spotify: FOP Episode 152
S1 E186 · Fri, January 17, 2025
Like looking into a mirror, God's Word shows us what we are as husbands and fathers...and it's always an accurate reflection. Thankfully, it also gives us a glimpse of what we can become with God's help. In this episode, we'll continue the deep dive into Psalm 112 and learn more about how this Scripture passage can transform you into a spouse and dad who blesses his family and fits perfectly into God's plans and purposes. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E185 · Fri, January 10, 2025
The new year is a traditional time to think about forward motion. Nobody wants to stand still. We all want to make progress toward becoming the husband, dad, and man God created each of us to be. In this episode and next week's, we'll take a look at some solid goals for the next 12 months based on the wisdom of Psalm 112. The psalmist's principles and practical applications have the power to transform you and your family for a lifetime. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E184 · Fri, January 03, 2025
A new year is upon us, and this often gives us a chance to feel like we have a fresh start. Scripture tells us that even Jesus grew intellectually, physically, spiritually and socially. If He had room to grow in those areas, we certainly have room to grow as fathers, husbands, friends, and Christ followers. In this episode, we'll be talking about healthy ways to turn the page in the new year and considering some helpful actions that will help us become more godly dads in the coming months. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E183 · Fri, December 27, 2024
While the wrapped presents on birthdays and around the tree at Christmas are nice, the consistent presence you provide your family the entire year is a gift of infinite value. What's more, by actively engaging with your family each day, you are are modeling the incredible love and purposes of our engaging God. In this episode, we'll examine the gift of presence and how you can become the hands and feet of Jesus as a father and husband by plugging into your relationships this year—and every year. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E182 · Fri, December 20, 2024
Christmas is a great time for giving and receiving gifts. But there are plenty of gifts you can give and receive all year long. For example, this episode digs into what it looks like to give the gift of listening. We'll look at what the Bible has to say about listening and why that matters for our lives each day. If your goal is to become a better listener in the weeks and months ahead, we've got some tips for how you can make the most of this gift that keeps on giving. Merry Christmas! Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E181 · Fri, December 13, 2024
The Bible tells us that God works out every situation for the good of those who love Him and follow Him. If that's true, then nothing we experience is a waste or without purpose. Everything has the potential to draw us closer to God and make us more like Jesus. This episode wraps up our "Don't Bench Yourself" series with one of the most important manhood lessons of all: Learning how God uses our inevitable mistakes and failures to transform us into men who fulfill His plans for His glory. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E180 · Fri, December 06, 2024
Memories. They can be a blessing or a curse. When they lead you toward gratitude and appreciation, there's nothing better. But if they keep you focused on guilt, pain, and "what could have been," you need to find a way to put them in your rearview mirror . . . and fast. Letting your past dominate and define you as a man is a dangerous and unhealthy way to live. It lands you on the bench when you should be making major contributions in the lives of your family and friends. As we round third base in our "Don't Bench Yourself" series, in this week's episode, you’ll learn how to take control of your past by keeping it in proper perspective, and make sure your mistakes aren't keeping you on the bench. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E179 · Fri, November 29, 2024
Teams that thrive are built around teammates who work well together. But that's not possible if players refuse to take ownership of their failures or, even worse, blame others for their mistakes. The same principle is true as a man. You can't prosper and grow if you turn a blind eye to your shortcomings or point the finger at your wife, kids, and friends. Instead of deflecting the blame, you've got to seek forgiveness and repair the damage. If you want to get off the bench–and become the best teammate possible–it's crucial to make it right. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15 (Hint: last week to get free shipping in the US with code "CHEER")
S1 E178 · Fri, November 22, 2024
Any athlete worth his salt knows that once you get off the bench, you never want to go back. Your goal is to stay in the game. Our God-given purpose as men of faith is to stay off the sidelines and to serve our wives, kids, co-workers, and friends with integrity and intentionality. But we can't do that if we refuse to be honest about our mistakes. We have to be able to call it out. As we start the second half of our Don't Bench Yourself series, we're going to look at four ways we can choose to stay off the bench. This week, the first one we'll focus on is the ability to "Call It Out." We're all going to miss the mark at times, but as we'll learn in this episode, the key to staying in the game is coming clean about our miscues and taking responsibility for making them right. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E177 · Fri, November 15, 2024
"Hurry up!" How many times have you said this as a dad, maybe to your kids, your wife, or even to God? Patience is something that every single one of us struggles with as a father. It's so easy to give up when we don't see the results we're wanting, when we want them. "I'm still angry." "My kids still feel lonely." On and on the list can go. The bench can look really comforting when we're feeling like no matter what we do, we're not getting anywhere. However, we can't always rely on key performance indicators to determine our spiritual growth. Sometimes, all we can do is trust God's plan and keep pushing forward. In today's episode, we look at some encouragement from God's Word to keep running the race and completing the good work he has for you. Don't let impatience keep you on the bench. Let's get back in the game today. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E176 · Fri, November 08, 2024
We've all heard that words can never harm us. We also know that nothing could be further from the truth. While sticks and stones can do a lot of damage, nothing is more devastating to the nurturing of manhood than a steady barrage of painful criticism. In a world built on a foundation of negativity, it's vital for guys to learn how to embrace the constructive criticism that makes us better—and to reject the harmful judgments that tend to keep us on the bench. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E175 · Fri, November 01, 2024
This week, we tackle one of the biggest hurdles dads face: shame. Mistakes can bring us down, and it's easy to succumb to shame in these moments. However, these are some of the best opportunities for us to grow as dads. We miss out on these opportunities when we let shame keep us on the bench. Shame is one of Satan's trickiest and most clever tools that he has to use against us, but in today's episode, we cover what shame really is, where it comes from, and some of the ways to fight it. Christ's sacrificial love provides us with the strength we need to get off the bench and put shame back in it's place. The battle against shame in our families starts with us dads, so let's get back in the game today. Check out the Robert Lewis Sermons podcast! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/robert-lewis-sermons/id1566647559 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rTy59TVREzsyH663pAtnF?si=04f93de701714f07 Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E174 · Fri, October 25, 2024
As guys, we often pride ourselves in being fearless. We never want to appear weak or unsure of ourselves. But the truth is, we all wrestle with fear to some degree. It's a universal affliction that's impossible to escape, especially on our own. That's where God comes in. Through His Word, he commands us to “fear not” and reminds us that we can face the things we dread in a godly, biblical way. Then, once we get a handle on those fears, we can teach our kids how to overcome their anxieties. But, as we'll learn in this episode based on Kent's book "Don't Bench Yourself," it all starts with us. Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E173 · Fri, October 18, 2024
Have you ever felt the pull to check out and warm the bench while you let the rest your family step up and take care of business? Do you struggle with the insecurities of feeling like you're not good enough, letting fear and shame hold you back from being the husband and father God has called you to be? Well good news, we're going to tackle all those issues and more in the coming weeks. Join us as we embark on a new series we're calling "Don't Bench Yourself." For the next nine weeks, we'll address the struggles of letting criticism and impatience steal your joy and effectiveness as a dad, how to make things right with your kids, and much more. We want you to get off the bench, as a dad, a husband, and a Christ follower. Get back in the game today! Check out the Robert Lewis Sermons podcast: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/robert-lewis-sermons/id1566647559 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rTy59TVREzsyH663pAtnF?si=04f93de701714f07 Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E172 · Fri, October 11, 2024
As husbands and fathers, we all want to leave an enduring legacy for our families. One of the greatest gifts we can provide is wisdom in dealing with money. Our personal finances have the power to build us up or tear us down, so it's impossible to overstate the value of embracing biblical stewardship. Author and speaker Matt Bell spends his days helping people understand God's words and God's ways in relation to money. His practical approach to managing what God places in our hands might be just the nudge you need to address your own financial issues and to start building a legacy for the ones you love. Learn more about Matt and his ministry at https://mattaboutmoney.com . Check out Matt's latest book, Trusted: Preparing Your Kids for a Lifetime of God-Honoring Money Management here: Buy "Trusted" on Amazon Free downloadable discussion guide for Trusted. Free Discussion Guide Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E171 · Fri, October 04, 2024
The challenges and struggles of being a godly husband are real. That's why it's important to seek help and encouragement every step of the way. Since its publication in 2011, The Meaning of Marriage by the late pastor and author Tim Keller has provided insight and guidance for men seeking to make their marriage all God wants it to be. Today, we discuss three key quotes from The Meaning of Marriage and some related Scripture verses that point us in the right direction as husbands and fathers. Unity, sacrifice, and love are three defining features of a godly marriage, and Keller's book gives us a good idea of what it looks like to become a husband that embodies those attributes. Whether you've read it before and need a refresher, or you're hearing about it for the first time, The Meaning of Marriage and Keller's key principles found within can make a difference in your life and your marriage. Buy The Meaning of Marriage here: Meaning of Marriage on Amazon Buy Kent's new book Don't Bench Yourself here: Don't Bench Yourself on Amazon Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E170 · Fri, September 27, 2024
Life’s challenges can push us to confront our fears and reassess our beliefs. We’ve all faced moments when fear feels insurmountable, leading us to question our paths and choices. We often find the keys to our liberation in these struggles. Orv Kimbrough shares his journey of overcoming fear and the transformative power of faith in Christ. He discusses how shifting our perspective can guide us toward forgiveness and optimism, revealing that our fears don’t have to define us. Discover how to face the obstacles that hold you back and turn them into stepping stones for growth. This episode will empower you to embrace your story and become the father and man you aspire to be. You can learn more about Orv and his book, Twice Over a Man , at www.orvinkimbrough.com .
S1 E169 · Fri, September 20, 2024
Sometimes, the Bible doesn’t just comfort us—it challenges us to rethink our attitudes, actions, and beliefs. We’ve all encountered challenging Bible verses that are hard to accept, passages that seem too difficult to follow or that make us uncomfortable. These verses often stir up resistance, leading us to wrestle with God’s commands. In this episode, we dive deep into what happens when we come face-to-face with these challenging Bible verses. We’ll explore the common reactions we have when God’s Word feels tough. It’s precisely through engaging with these difficult passages that God molds us into stronger, more faithful fathers. Learn how to stop avoiding tough scriptures and start letting them guide your life, transforming you into the dad God has called you to be. This episode will challenge and encourage you to embrace even the hardest parts of God’s Word, knowing they are meant to build you up, not tear you down. Dad, remember, quitting is not an option. Get Kent's book, Don't Bench Yourself, and stay in the fatherhood game . Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15.
S1 E168 · Fri, September 13, 2024
Our culture seems to have plenty of males running around, but it suffers from a lack of genuine men—guys who will lead with courage and stand in the gap when things get tough. Podcaster and author Jim Ramos has recognized that problem and addressed it in his new book, Dialed In . As a man longing to experience your full God-given potential, Jim's lessons from Paul's letters to Timothy and Titus could be just what you need to up your manhood game and dial into His plan for your life. Pick up Jim's new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" here! Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15.
S1 E167 · Fri, September 06, 2024
On the outside, it looked like Jeff Zaugg had it all together as a family minister and a dad. But a deeper dive convinced him that he needed to do more—for himself and for other dads who were struggling to make meaningful connections with their kids. As the founder of DadAwesome, Jeff now gets to see God at work among fathers and gets to share his story of encouragement with others. You can learn more about Jeff and his ministry at https://www.dadawesome.org . Want to live a life filled with more peace and less anger? Check out the Anger Free Dad course! Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15.
S1 E166 · Fri, August 30, 2024
While culture typically paints abortion as a women's health issue, the influence of strong men also can play a role in turning the tide in our nation toward life. Through the Human Coalition, Jeff Bradford is challenging men to step forward and be counted—and protect a generation of unborn children along the way. You can learn more about Jeff and the Human Coalition at https://www.humancoalition.org. Find Jeff's book, "Beauty From Ashes" here . Support the show, check out Range Leather and get 15% off when you use code MJ15 at checkout.
S1 E165 · Fri, August 23, 2024
The truth is, none of us gets through this life without some scars. Whether our struggles are physical, emotional, or spiritual, we will experience adversity, and we will have to choose how to respond to these dark moments of life. Pastor Darren Walter understands the reality of adversity. He's been there and done that. Most important, he has come through on the other side. And his insights will encourage you to stand strong during your own storms of life. Get Bring Your Hammer : 28 Tools Dads Can Grab From the Book of Nehemiah Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15.
S1 E164 · Fri, August 16, 2024
For many years, the names of Alex and Stephen Kendrick have been synonymous with powerful faith-based movies that challenge men to live out their faith as husbands and fathers. Their newest offering, The Forge , places the focus squarely on our roles as mentors. With generations of young men seeking direction and affirmation, the need for godly men to stand in the gap has never been more important. This introduction to The Forge can put you on the path to becoming the mentor some young man in your life needs most. ref: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szH5_y-0aqg
S1 E163 · Fri, August 09, 2024
When it comes to the Trinity, most of us can understand the Father, and we're pretty plugged into the Son. But the Holy Spirit can be more of a mystery to us. In reality, we need to dig into the role and work of the Holy Spirit because He is the One who empowers us and gives us the wisdom to meet the challenges we face each day as husbands and fathers. So, grab a pen and your journal as we take a quick look at what the Bible says about the Holy Spirit—and the difference He can make in our lives as men. Get Bring Your Hammer : 28 Tools Dads Can Grab From the Book of Nehemiah. Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E162 · Fri, August 02, 2024
In the Great Commission, Jesus told His followers to make disciples (Matthew 28:18-20). That imperative, along with many others in Scripture, highlights our responsibility to point others to Jesus and to pour into their lives as men of God. All of your wins, losses, triumphs, and failures are useful tools you can add to your spiritual survival kit. And they just might qualify you to be the perfect guide for another man who's now walking where you've already been. Take the Godly Father Assessment Get the Survival Gear for Dads ebook Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E161 · Fri, July 26, 2024
Stewardship isn't a word we throw around a lot today. But the truth is, as men of God, He has given us so many gifts to use for His glory. Whether it's our time, talents, treasures, or something else, we are called to make good use of the blessings He provides. In a very real sense, we are God's asset managers; and it's a tremendous privilege to embrace. Even more, it’s a valuable tool to have in our spiritual survival kit as men. Take the Godly Father Assessment Get the Survival Gear for Dads ebook Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E160 · Fri, July 19, 2024
When you go into a restaurant, you probably give bigger tips for better service. That's because we all appreciate it when we're served well. As men of God, we need to remember that Jesus ultimately came to serve—and that He expects us to follow His example. Serving others is the key to living with generosity and to avoiding the trap of self-centeredness. It also sets a powerful example for the next generation. If you're looking for practical ways to add servanthood to your manhood survival gear, we have some ideas that can help. Get the Survival Gear for Dads ebook Take the Godly Father Assessment Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E159 · Fri, July 12, 2024
The stereotypical man is the lone wolf. He's the rugged individualist, the guy who pulls himself up by his own bootstraps. He doesn't need anyone's help for anything. But that stereotype falls short of what most men see in the mirror each day. The truth is, God created us for relationships, and we're missing something important if we're trying to do life on our own. He made us to need one another. Wise men make life a team sport! They make mentors and mentoring a vital part of their survival toolbox. Get the Survival Gear for Dads ebook Take the Godly Father Assessment Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E158 · Fri, July 05, 2024
A lot of times, we make prayer much more complicated than it needs to be. Jesus Himself taught that it's not about fancy words or lofty attitudes. And it’s certainly not about impressing anyone here on earth. It's really just our way as God’s children to call out to our heavenly Father. It’s a vital connection to the One who knows us best and loves us most. Find out more about the true power of prayer and how it can transform your mission as a husband and father. YouVersion Reading Plan: Become a Praying Father Support the show by shopping at Range Leather . Use code MJ15 for 15% off.
S1 E157 · Fri, June 28, 2024
One of the psalmists wrote that God's Word is a lamp for our feet and a light to our paths (Psalm 119:105). As husbands and dads, we all could use some more light in our lives; and, thankfully, the Bible has a way of making us seem brighter than we really are. If you're wondering how to make more sense of your God-given role within your family, we've got some practical guidance. Discover how leaning into the wisdom and direction of God's Word can make a huge difference in your life. Get Survival Gear for Dads Take the Godly Father Assessment Support the show and upgrade your swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% OFF with code MJ15
S1 E156 · Fri, June 21, 2024
Trust is hard to earn because it's so easy to lose. We've all experienced the pain of putting our complete trust in someone only to end up feeling betrayed or abandoned. Thankfully, as Christ followers, we serve a God who can be trusted in every season of life, even when those closest to us miss the mark. Trusting God is a non-negotiable for living the Christian life well—and for becoming the godly man your kids and wife need. Support the show and upgrade your fatherhood swag. Shop Range Leather and get 15% off with code MJ15 Get the Survival Gear for Dads eBook Take the Godly Father Assessment
S1 E155 · Fri, June 14, 2024
Some men are natural fixers. They just know how to connect the right wires or make "Tab A" and "Slot B" fit to perfection. Others struggle--and usually call in a professional for help. Thankfully, whether you're a "do it yourself" man or a "pick up the phone" kind of guy around the house, God has equipped you to make a difference as a dad. He's given you all the tools you need to get the job done right, the fatherhood job He’s assigned specifically to you. You just need to recognize what's in your toolbox and lean into His wisdom to use His gifts well. Father’s Day is a great time to start! It's your biblical fatherhood journey, see how you're doing. Take the Godly Father Assessment . Get Survival Gear for Dads . The ebook with the tools you need to disciple your kids. Ready to dive into Scripture? Start the Survival Gear for Dads YouVersion reading plan.
S1 E154 · Fri, June 07, 2024
Time is humanity's most precious resource, and the time that a dad has to invest in and encourage his family is even more priceless. In a culture that demands a piece of you at every turn, it can be tough to know how to make the most of the moments we're given as fathers. Thankfully, God has given us His thoughts through His Word, and men who want to know how to "be there" in good times and bad can learn from His wisdom. Don't hog your dad wisdom . Send us a message!
S1 E153 · Fri, May 31, 2024
Years ago, God challenged Don Manning to go deep with Him and to go deep with his family. While it wasn’t the answer that Don was seeking at the time, it was a call that changed his life and his family legacy forever. The result has been a ministry that’s focused on helping dads find meaning and purpose—not to mention a whole lot of fun—in doing family God’s way. Listen to hear the wisdom Don’s gained over more than three decades of building and nurturing his own crazy, cool family. Check out Crazy Cool Family: https://www.crazycoolfamily.com/special-offer
S1 E152 · Fri, May 24, 2024
In a world where guys are supposed to have it all together, admitting any kind of need or weakness seems like a dangerous proposition. But, as pastor Craig Bowler reminds us, Jesus often comes to us with a simple question: "What do you want?" Becoming the man God created you to be involves letting Jesus show you the "wants" you may not even realize you have—and letting Him be the One who meets those deepest needs. Handcrafted Leather for Dads on the Move: Shop Range Leather . Get 15% off your order with code MJ15
S1 E151 · Fri, May 17, 2024
While money comes in handy for this life, time has always been humanity's most precious resource. After all, we can always make more money, but time disappears forever with each tick of the clock. Since time is so valuable, we need to make sure we're not wasting a single moment of this gift that God has given us. Wise and generous men recognize a great investment when they see one—and nothing can be more profitable to us and our families than learning how to spend our time well. Get Biblical Fatherhood encouragement each week. Subscribe to Mountain Monday .
S1 E150 · Fri, May 10, 2024
The anonymous writer of Psalm 118 wrote that every day is a gift from God's hand, so we should celebrate each one. That sounds great until the pressures of the world start putting the squeeze on our lives. It's hard to maintain genuine joy and excitement about life when we're bombarded by the stresses and struggles of daily existence. As men of God, it's important for us—and our families—to stay connected to the only One who provides true meaning, purpose, and joy with every sunrise. In celebration of our 150th episode, you can get The Connected Father Course from Manhood Journey for free. Just use code FOP150 at checkout. Get it now .
S1 E149 · Fri, May 03, 2024
Words mean things. That's why we need to be incredibly careful about the words we use—and the words we believe. Our cultural vocabulary is filled with phrases that might sound motivational on the outside, but they miss the mark of what Jesus wants His followers to know about who they are and who He created them to be. He needs to be the filter for everything we say or hear about ourselves and others. Take these common phrases and compare them to the truth of God's Word: 1) Take it like a man 2) Every cloud has a silver lining 3) Don't put all your eggs in one basket 4) Good things come to those who wait 5) Ignorance is bliss 6) Look before you leap 7) Play devil's advocate 8) There are other fish in the sea 9) There's no such thing as a free lunch 10) You can't have your cake and eat it too Handcrafted Leather Goods: Shop Range Leather .
S1 E148 · Fri, April 26, 2024
We may never be more like Jesus than when we practice generosity. We serve a God who gives without limits, and He gives us the chance to be His hands and feet in this world every day. Even when we're living from paycheck to paycheck, we can still find ways to be generous. We just need to be open to the possibilities. Handcrafted Leather Goods: Shop Range Leather .
S1 E147 · Fri, April 19, 2024
In a world obsessed with collecting more stuff, it's easy to forget that our most priceless commodity is time. We can always make more money; but once a moment passes, we can never get it back. That's why the Bible puts so much emphasis on taking advantage of every second of every day. Whether it's as a husband, dad, friend, or Christ follower, wasted time is a wasted opportunity. We need to invest in those opportunities God provides before they’re gone for good. Take the hill each week and lead your family without regrets. Subscribe to Mountain Monday .
S1 E146 · Fri, April 12, 2024
Men tend to be "doers." We measure our success—and even our worth—by what we're able to accomplish. On a scale of 1 to 10, we strive to be an 11. Of course, the chase for perfection is a race we'll never win. As men of God, we need to realize that the Bible actually puts the focus on being faithful, not being perfect. God knows we'll drop the ball on occasion. That's why He honors faithfulness above flawlessness. A big thank you to Range Leather for making this show possible! Use code MJ15 at checkout to get 15% off.
S1 E145 · Fri, April 05, 2024
As guys, nothing raises the hair on the back of our necks quite like being told we "have to" do something. It’s just human nature. No one likes to be told what to do—and that includes our kids. Trouble is, it's hard for dads to make the move from a "have to" mentality to a "letting go" mentality with their kids. It’s tough to shift from telling them what to avoid to teaching them how to make wise choices on their own. If you can master that transition from power to influence, though, it's a game changer—for you and your child. Thank you Range Leather for making this show possible! Use code MJ15 at checkout and get 15% off your order!
S1 E144 · Fri, March 29, 2024
Sometimes in life, storms can strike with little or no warning. Hard times knock us down and keep us off balance like waves in the ocean. The best we can do is fight to keep our heads above water. That's when we need to remember that there's always more to the story. In the middle of our pain and frustration, we can rest assured that God is at work, crafting a bigger narrative for our good and His glory. It may be hard to see in the moment, but it's going to be a beautiful sight on the other side of the stress. Big thanks to Range Leather for making this show possible. Use code MJ15 at checkout and get 15% off your order!
S1 E143 · Fri, March 22, 2024
In a world that challenges us to "look out for No. 1," humility can be hard to come by. Especially for guys, putting the needs of others above our own plans and desires can feel unnatural. We’re tempted to write it off as a quaint concept held over from a simpler time. Truth is, genuine humility never goes out of style. It's an eternal virtue that draws people to Jesus because it reflects His character. And, as we'll see in Proverbs 12, it's a character quality God expects men who follow Him to nurture in their lives. Help make this show possible and support our ministry .
S1 E142 · Fri, March 15, 2024
The old cliche says that we're born with two ears and only one mouth for a really good reason. Unfortunately, that doesn't keep most of us from letting our words wreak havoc in our lives more times than we'd like to admit. Whether we’re dishing it out or standing in the crosshairs, we’ve all seen the destruction caused by insults, lies, gossip, and dozens of other word-based sins. Thankfully, God understands that so many of us struggle with our words. That's why He gave us passages like Proverbs 12 to remind us that a war of words produces no winners, only casualties. And He’s shown us a better way! Help make this podcast possible. Donate now .
S1 E141 · Fri, March 08, 2024
Aside from your walk with God, no relationship you'll ever establish is more important than the one you share with your wife. But here's something a lot of guys forget: You play a huge role in your wife's spiritual and emotional development. You are partners, so her growth as a woman and as a wife is tied to the love, honor, and support that you provide. As we dig into the message of Proverbs 12, look for ways to leave selfishness on the shelf and focus on being a true servant-leader in your marriage. Get encouraged to lead your wife and kids biblically with Mountain Monday. Each Monday, you'll get equipped to tackle top challenges as a biblically grounded father and husband. Sign up now .
S1 E140 · Fri, March 01, 2024
Whether it's what we're having for breakfast or how we're going to deal with an annoying co-worker, life is filled with choices. Admittedly, a lot of them aren't deal breakers (like bacon over sausage). But others (like giving in to a particular sin) literally can make or break you as a man, a husband, and a father. The key is equipping yourself to make the best choices possible so you can avoid the heartache and frustration. In Proverbs 12, you'll find some solid, time-tested advice for making the kind of decisions that make life go a little smoother. Subscribe to the Biblical Fatherhood Newsletter, Mountain Monday .
S1 E139 · Fri, February 23, 2024
In Proverbs 12, King Solomon had a lot to say on the subject of diligence—and all of it was positive. From God's perspective, it's a good thing for a man to make his mark in the world by developing a reputation for working hard to support himself and his family. But a solid work ethic is not reserved for the marketplace. It also involves the effort we put into being a husband and father. It has its own set of rewards for the home. So, as men of God, our pursuit of His plan—inside and outside the home—is a pursuit that requires diligence. Want to know where you're headed as a godly dad? Take the Godly Father Assessment to find out now!
S1 E138 · Fri, February 16, 2024
While the release of the film, "Ordinary Angels" might bring some extra notoriety to his life, there has always been more to Dave Stone than meets the eye. A pastor at Louisville's Southeast Christian Church for three decades, Dave is first and foremost a man of God, a husband, and a dad. So, he understands the challenges men and fathers are facing today. And he still has a passion for helping men experience all that God has for them. Watch Ordinary Angels
S1 E137 · Fri, February 16, 2024
In the movies and on television, the good guys always seem to win in the end. That's fine for a Hollywood script; but, in real life, men quickly discover that the tension between right and wrong never wraps up neatly in an hour or two. Instead, we fight a daily battle to reject evil and embrace a righteous life. Even back in King Solomon's day, the struggle was real. That's why the advice he provided in Proverbs 12 about rejecting wickedness and pursuing righteousness still resonates with our hearts today. If you enjoyed the show, leave us a 5-star review! If not, that's ok too :)
S1 E136 · Fri, February 09, 2024
None of us like to be called out. As guys, it goes against our grain to hear and receive negative feedback, even if it's meant for our own good. We tend to see "constructive criticism" as an oxymoron. But, if we're honest, we also wrestle with the nagging truth that nobody's perfect. We've all got room for improvement. We all fall short of God's standards. We all need a little accountability in our lives. Proverbs 12 reminds us that accepting loving discipline can protect us from dangerous and destructive choices in life. It's a sign of godly wisdom. More importantly, it's a gift from the God who loves us more than we can imagine. Ordinary Angels tells the story of a dad (Alan Ritchson from Reacher) who will do anything to protect his family. See how faith can make anything possible. Watch the trailer and get your tickets to see Ordinary Angels.
S1 E135 · Fri, February 02, 2024
In prison, some of the most troubled inmates are placed in isolation as punishment. Unfortunately, many men living outside the walls of physical prisons still struggle with their own personal form of solitary confinement. But God never designed us to go it alone. Thankfully, the grace of God and the power of relationships can make a huge difference for guys who are feeling alone in a crowd. If that’s you, we’ve got some good news: Your isolation is not a life sentence. You can break free. See the true story: watch Ordinary Angels
S1 E134 · Fri, January 26, 2024
God never intended for us to go it alone. To the contrary, He designed life to be a team sport, a shared adventure where iron sharpens iron. Yet, as guys, we often fall into the trap of isolation. We convince ourselves that we don't need anyone's help. We keep others at arm's length, and we end up paying the price for our withdrawal. Thankfully, you can break free from the lies, the pride, and the shame that leave you isolated. With God's help, you can recognize the warning signs and move toward a life marked by healthy relationships. Get connected with Mountain Monday. The Biblical Fatherhood Newsletter.
S1 E133 · Fri, January 19, 2024
Nothing in life feels worse than a sense of instability. As guys, we're not big fans of uncertainty. We long for the secure peace that comes from knowing that we're on solid ground. We prefer standing tall like a tree, even as the world around us is blown in every direction imaginable. As believers, we understand that this kind of certainty and stability has only one Source. That's why it makes sense to ground ourselves in the power and authority of His Word. God has promised that His Word will last forever. Wise men let it take root in their lives. Get rooted in God's Word with a Manhood Journey Bible Study. Start with your son 1 on 1 or lead a group. Or try our YouVersion reading plans .
S1 E132 · Fri, January 12, 2024
The Bible says that we can learn a lot about God and His expectations for us if we just look at nature around us. One great illustration of that truth comes from the way the roots of some trees intertwine. Because those roots are deeply connected, the trees can stand firm and secure for decades—or even centuries. For our lives, that powerful connection comes from being rooted in God's Word. If you're wanting to grow into the man God has designed you to be, you've got to be grounded in the truths of the Scriptures and embrace the benefits that the Bible can produce in your life. Dive into Bible Study with your son or lead a group. Explore 1 on 1 and Group Bible Studies .
S1 E131 · Fri, January 05, 2024
For years, entrepreneur and author Scott MacLellan based success on the results he could measure each and every day. As a driven, self-reliant leader, he naturally carried that works-based mentality into his life as a husband, father, and Christian. But God showed him a better way through the biblical model of King Solomon, which Scott recounts in his book The Ancient Ladder . If you’re a husband and father who struggles to let go and let God, Scott’s wisdom and insight might be just what you need for the next season of your life. His transparency and experiences offer a great reminder and challenge to guys who feel the pressure to fix things in their own strength. Check out Scott's book, The Ancient Ladder: A Journey to the Fullness of Life with God Start your week with practical and biblical fatherhood tips. Sign up for the Mountain Monday Newsletter .
S1 E130 · Fri, December 29, 2023
Most guys are wired to be doers. Too often, we think we aren't achieving anything of purpose unless we're running full-throttle into every fire and fighting every battle. For many of us, action equals success. But Jesus had a different take on what really matters in life. In John 15, He emphasized that our work for God is not nearly as important as the work God accomplishes through us. Resting and abiding might not be our default position; but, as men of God, waiting on Him is our only hope for enjoying the fruit He alone can provide. Help other dads discover this podcast. Donate to Manhood Journey .
S1 E129 · Fri, December 22, 2023
You may know nothing about the construction business, but you're still a builder. When it comes to your wife and kids—the people closest to you—God has made you the general contractor of the most important project imaginable. He's also provided you with the most powerful foundation on which to build: His wisdom. While it might be tempting to go with the cheap imitations offered by the world, don't settle for second best. Instead, discover how you can lean into all your heavenly Father provides. Learn how to build a family legacy that will outlive you and resonate across eternity. Lead your family without regrets: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E128 · Fri, December 15, 2023
It’s always better to be a giver than a receiver, and the greatest gift guys can give their wives, their kids, their friends, and their co-workers is the gift of time. But truly investing time requires more than our physical presence. We've got to give the people closest to us our undivided attention. We’ve got to put the distractions on the shelf and really plug into the words and hearts of those around us. In such a noisy and chaotic culture, that can be easier said than done; but it's the only way to make and maintain strong connections in the relationships that matter most. Help make this podcast possible. Give a gift to Manhood Journey.
S1 E127 · Fri, December 08, 2023
Flip on the television, listen to the radio, or search the internet. It won't take long to discover just how badly our world needs some good news—a breath of fresh air in a culture that so often chokes out the positive. And since good news is so hard to come by outside the walls of our homes, dads need to make sure they’re breathing life and hope into the people closest to them. You hold the key to ensuring good news takes root and grows in your house. Proverbs 25 offers some great insight into giving your family a safe space and the impact of sharing a cold cup of water with the thirsty souls living under your roof. Help make this podcast possible. Donate to Manhood Journey.
S1 E126 · Fri, December 01, 2023
As dads, we have the power to lift our kids to unbelievable heights or tear them down with devastating results. The key is what we say and how we say it. Words mean things, so we have to be intentional about guarding what comes out of our mouths. We'll dig into what Proverbs 25 has to say about the force our words carry in the lives of our kids and look for practical ideas that will help us speak life as fathers. Help make this podcast possible. Donate to our ministry , Manhood Journey.
S1 E125 · Fri, November 24, 2023
We see it all around us as guys. From entertainers to professional athletes to business leaders, the temptation to become the center of attention is hard to ignore. Even among men who follow Christ, the desire to be noticed and appreciated can get warped and morph into an ugly case of self-serving arrogance. In this next installment of our Proverbs 25 study, we're going to look at humility, the polar opposite of our "me first" culture. This biblical foundation will give you a step up on taking a step out of the spotlight. Help dads become disciple-makers: https://bit.ly/donatetoMJ
S1 E124 · Fri, November 17, 2023
It's been said that the difference between you today and you a decade from now will be defined by the books you read and the people you meet. While it's important to read good books, this episode is going to focus primarily on the people who invest in your life. Proverbs 25 makes it clear that you are a product of the people who influence you. As we dig into this passage, we'll see how to make sure your influences are pure so you can be golden in every area of your manhood journey. Help us build godly fathers! Donate Now .
S1 E123 · Fri, November 10, 2023
As Christians, we believe that God has created every person with value and has wired them with unique gifts and talents. As a dad, you have the privilege of helping your kids discover and develop their God-given skill sets in a way that will bring glory to Him—all while strengthening the bond you share with them. In this episode, we'll look at how you can connect with your kids by identifying and nurturing their abilities, all so they can become God’s very best version of themselves. Get weekly encouragement in your walk as a father. Subscribe to Mountain Monday . Listen to Skyscrapers by Alex Evans.
S1 E122 · Fri, November 03, 2023
While most of the world shut down during the 2020 pandemic, writer and speaker Jeff Kemp took on the most important project of his life. A former NFL quarterback, Jeff turned to God's Word to find out exactly what it means to be a child of God, a son of the heavenly Father. His study turned into his new book, Receive . In this episode, Jeff will share the gameplan God taught him about receiving sonship, escaping from the rat race of our performance culture, and reshaping our relationships with God and one another. Receive my identity as a man and son of Father God.
S1 E121 · Fri, October 27, 2023
Fatherhood is a journey. The amount of baggage you take on the trip, though, depends on you. If you've been carrying more emotional and spiritual weight than you should be, this episode will help you identify the lies you've been believing and release them to the God who loves you more than you could ever imagine. You may never be able to completely resolve every issue in life, but you can learn to travel lighter by embracing the rest that only Jesus can offer. Leave us a 5-star review :)
S1 E120 · Fri, October 20, 2023
Whether you're a do-it-yourself, shade tree mechanic or rely on the professionals for help, you understand the importance of basic car maintenance. Simple things like oil changes, tire rotations, battery checks, and tune ups can keep things running smoothly and prevent headaches down the road. The same is true with our lives. God has given us the tools to regularly fix a few small things that will keep us on the road as husbands, dads, friends, and men. This podcast will examine some of those tools and see how you can start your preventive maintenance plan today. Tell us how you're maintainin' https://manhoodjourney.org/podcast
S1 E119 · Fri, October 13, 2023
Author and speaker Steve Farrar dedicated his life to uplifting men, and his voice and influence have continued to resonate well beyond his death in 2022. In this podcast, you'll get to hear some incredible and inspirational snippets from Steve's teaching. They are still as relevant and applicable today as they were when he delivered them years ago. To learn more about Farrar Ministries and its resources, you can check out stevefarrar.com
S1 E118 · Fri, October 06, 2023
Guys often have a well-earned reputation of always seeking a bigger, better deal. We reach for one shiny ribbon after another in our search for something that will move us ahead or fill some aching void in our lives. We're convinced that just a little “more” will provide purpose. In truth, what we what we really need is contentment! In this episode, we’ll look at how a lack of contentment adds fuel to the fire of many challenges we face as men—and how we can finally get off the hamster wheel and find peace with the people and possessions God has placed in our lives. Become an Anger Free Dad: https://bit.ly/ExploreAFD
S1 E117 · Fri, September 29, 2023
As Christian men, we know there's a distinction between what's important and what's urgent. In our heads, we understand the dangers of letting the things that scream the loudest steal our attention from the things that matter most. Unfortunately, our lives don't always reflect a proper balance between the two. In this episode, we'll examine one key for bringing some order to the chaos that creeps into our lives: setting priorities. If you're struggling to keep the main thing the main thing in your life, we'll give you some practical tools for finding purpose by establishing solid priorities. See where you're headed as a godly father: https://bit.ly/GodlyFatherAssessment
S1 E116 · Fri, September 22, 2023
Men have a natural desire to be the smartest guy in the room. Deep down, we love being the one who solves every problem and ends every debate. Even with our children, we often tell them what’s right instead of letting them discover God’s truth on their own. If your kids are going to reach their God-given potential, though, they’ll need to struggle some and find their own answers to the biggest questions in their lives. That’s healthy, but that also involves taking a step back. You’ll need to embrace the role of pointing them in the right direction instead of being the guy with all the answers. Get the Mountain Monday Newsletter https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E115 · Fri, September 15, 2023
Life is full of decisions. As guys, we make a lot of them without a second thought, while others keep us up at night. Whether the choices are major or minor, life is also full of counselors who are ready to help you sort through your options. As men of God, we have to be careful because the advice we get is only as good as its source. The book of Proverbs gives us insight as to why God's Word is the most reliable source of wisdom out there. As guys, we've got to be intentional about seeking godly wisdom from the Word and godly counsel from those around us. Get Kent's book about finding godly counsel, Wise Guys: https://amzn.to/45RlvJf Dive into the Connected Father digital course: https://bit.ly/3EGIMBB
S1 E114 · Fri, September 08, 2023
If you're a married man, you remember the day that you watched your beautiful bride walk down the aisle. If you’re honest, you probably also assumed that everything was going to great from that point on. Before long, though, you realized that even when the wedding is amazing, building a marriage takes a lot of hard work! In this episode, author and speaker Jackie Bledsoe shares some simple tips for making a marriage work from a biblical perspective. Getting a handle of his seven "rings" can put you on the path to becoming the man and the husband God created you to be.
S1 E113 · Fri, September 01, 2023
As guys, we know that trust doesn't always come easily. We like being in control, so relying on anyone for anything is a big ask. Unfortunately, that even includes God more times than we’d like to admit. While trusting Him gets a lot of lip service inside Christian circles, living out complete dependence on our Creator still comes with its own unique set of challenges. That's why identifying some of the roadblocks to trusting God makes a huge difference in our lives—and our families. Support Manhood Journey: https://bit.ly/donatetoMJ
S1 E112 · Fri, August 25, 2023
For centuries, believers have taken comfort in biblical words and images found in passages like Psalm 23. We love the idea of walking beside still waters. That's probably because we know life doesn't usually work that way. The waters might be calm for a while; but, without warning, we find ourselves caught in the whitewater. We experience the fear of those moments when we're doing all we can to avoid the rocks and keep our heads above water. Thankfully, we never navigate the rapids alone. God is always there to throw us a line and provide peace in the middle of our chaos. Subscribe to Mountain Monday: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E111 · Fri, August 18, 2023
Businessman Jay Strickland doesn't claim to be an expert on family relationships. In fact, he’ll be the first to tell you that he's just a guy who treasures his family, works hard and loves Jesus. Between growing up in a trailer park to sharing the family farm with his children and grandchildren, Jay’s gained his wisdom through practical experience, navigating the highs and lows of his “blessed” life. Truth be told, he's like a lot of guys out there who are simply trusting God to help them become the best husband and father possible. That’s why his common sense insights and honest advice—delivered with a winsome sense of humor—will hit home with you. Sign up for the Mountain Monday Newsletter: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E110 · Fri, August 11, 2023
You know the drill... up early, car packed, and on the road for the next great family adventure. If that’s your story, then you’ll probably also admit that the incredible memories you create sometimes come with a dark side. Crowded attractions, high prices, and short fuses can leave a bitter taste that no cotton candy can sweeten. But it doesn’t have to be that way. With a little reimagination, your family trips can be so much more. They can be opportunities to teach (and practice) godly qualities like patience, stewardship, and servant leadership. Seeing your family outings through God’s eyes can be a real game-changer, regardless of your destination. Take the Godly Father Assessment: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz
S1 E109 · Fri, August 04, 2023
The key to any great recipe is using the proper ingredients. Mixing the right stuff in the right amounts can lead to a masterpiece. Put in the wrong stuff, and there's no telling what you’ll end up with. Genuine manhood works the same way. God's given you everything you need in His Word. Stick with His plan, and you’ll be just fine. But the world works overtime to tease you with things you just don't need. If you’re looking for a biblical manhood recipe, you’re in the right place. We're digging into what the Bible says about being a man—and how to steer clear of the junk that will water down (or even ruin) what really matters in your life. Fatherhood Resources Mentioned on the Show: Trail Life USA Living On The Edge DadCamp Men In The Arena Jeff Kemp Team
S1 E108 · Fri, July 28, 2023
When the ancient Hebrews talked about the heart, they focused on every nook and cranny of a person's being. Everything was rooted in the heart, which also made it a prime spiritual battlefield. That’s why Solomon said that guarding your heart was one of the most important things you could do in life. Truth is, not much has changed since Solomon's day. As a man, you still need to guard your heart because it still connects every dot in your life. If you’re wondering how to get started, this deep dive into Proverbs 4 might be just what you need to kickstart your own battle plan for protecting your heart. Leave a 5 Star Review if you enjoyed this episode! It will help other fathers find this podcast.
S1 E107 · Fri, July 21, 2023
The apostle Paul knew that the Christian life revolved around two important principles: prayer and praise. So, early on in his letter to the Colossians, he urged his friends to continue their conversations with Jesus and to never forget why He is worthy of all honor. Things haven’t changed much. As guys living for God in the 21st century, Paul's insights are still words we can live by. If we want to grow into the husbands and fathers God created us to be, we've got to make the truths of Colossians 1 a huge part of who we are. Even after more than 2,000 years, prayer and praise are still the keys to a strong faith and a strong family. Sign up for Mountain Monday: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E106 · Fri, July 14, 2023
When the apostle Paul prayed for his Colossian friends, he wasn't just wishing them the best. He was challenging them to live lives worthy of the call Christ had placed on their lives. As a father and husband, you face the same challenge. God wants you to walk worthy of His call and to become all that He has created you to be as a man. Find out more about what it means to live a life worthy of God as a husband and a dad as we dig deeper into the power of Paul's prayer life in Colossians 1. Become a Praying Father: https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/3080-becoming-a-praying-father
S1 E105 · Fri, July 07, 2023
Some 2,000 years ago, the apostle Paul assured his friends in Colossae that he would never stop praying for them. Specifically, he had been praying that they would know God's will and plug into God's wisdom. When you stop and think about it, that's also a great prayer for men to be praying for their families. If you want to become a more effective prayer warrior for your wife and kids, start with Paul’s ancient prayer from the first part of Colossians 1. Discover how praying this Scripture (and others like it) can make a difference in your life as a husband and a dad. Become a Praying Father: https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/3080-becoming-a-praying-father
S1 E104 · Fri, June 30, 2023
In the game of baseball, even the most successful batters fail almost 70 percent of the time. But the good ones never let that get them down. They just keep swinging, working to make the most of the other 30 percent. Sometimes as a dad, we just have to keep swinging even though we might be striking out. But the truth is, the perfect father is a fantasy. The perfect husband is a myth. You're going to make mistakes as a man. You're going to swing and strike out more times than you'd like. Thankfully, genuine manhood isn't about perfection. It's about doing your best every time you step to the plate—and learning from the times you fail. Donate to our mission of helping fathers disciple their children: https://bit.ly/donatetoMJ Manhood Journey helps dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E103 · Fri, June 23, 2023
Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is not always a bad thing. It really depends on your "why." If you're giving up because you feel defeated or frustrated, you're probably heading in the wrong direction. But if you're letting go because you feel God pulling you toward a new adventure, you're right on target. Chris Harper, speaker and CEO of BetterMan , discusses this tension between living in defeat and experiencing the victory of completely surrendering to God's "holy discontent." His wisdom and insight will help you navigate the challenges you're facing and put you on solid footing. Learn more about Chris Harper and BetterMan: https://bit.ly/mj-better-man Become an Anger Free Dad: https://bit.ly/ExploreAFD
S1 E102 · Fri, June 16, 2023
As guys, we've all crossed lines that we never should have crossed and made mistakes that we wish we could go back and change. But while time machines aren't an option, we can rest in the knowledge that God provides fresh starts. Even solid believers who have walked with the Lord for years can get a much-needed second chance in Him. Author and speaker Jeff Kemp has discovered that truth firsthand, as He has learned more about what it means to be a son of the Father. His message to men is that we really can begin again if we’re willing to receive what Christ has for us and embrace the unique identity He offers.
S1 E101 · Fri, June 09, 2023
Whether you're a "big man on campus" or the guy quietly working behind the scenes, you want to know how to measure success as a man—how many points you're scoring in any given area in life. And you're not alone in that. To use sports analogies, we all want to know that we're putting the ball in the basket or moving closer to our goal. Learning to score points as a dad and husband is often hard. In this show, we'll discuss some ways you can "score points." But know this upfront; It's not about comparison. It's about commitment, and it can be a game-changer! Take the Godly Dad Quiz to see where you're headed as a dad: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz Manhood Journey helps dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E100 · Fri, June 02, 2023
Some guys have a reputation for tossing out the written instructions and trying to build things out on their own. While that might work when you’re putting a bike together at Christmas, it's never a great way to walk through life. In His grace, our heavenly Father has given us an instruction manual for living His way. The Bible is our field guide for a successful and satisfying life. We'll talk about what makes this ancient book so relevant in today's culture—and why you really can't be the father you were designed to be without digging deep into its message and doing what it says. Thanks for 100 episodes! We wouldn't have the chance to share this message if it wasn't for you. Want to get equipped as a godly dad? Get the Mouintain Monday Newsletter: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E99 · Fri, May 26, 2023
From the day our kids are born, men are programmed to protect. It's our default position to hang on for all we're worth and to shield our kids from the hurts this life dishes out. It feels natural, but it might not be the best plan for us or our kids. In this episode, Pastor Craig Bowler stops by to share what he's learned from his own lifelong struggle to release his daughters into the care of their heavenly Father, as well as offering his insights on marriage and manhood. Become an Anger Free Dad: https://bit.ly/ExploreAFD
S1 E98 · Fri, May 19, 2023
We live in a culture where chronic anxiety and other mental health concerns are almost commonplace. What's worse, they've become rites of passage for our children, as well. Jon Seidl understands the paralyzing toll mental health issues can have on individuals and families. He's lived it firsthand and shared his experiences in his book, "Finding Rest: Navigating the Valleys of Anxiety, Faith, and Life." In this podcast, Jon shares his personal struggles and encourages guys to get the help they—and their families—need. You can learn more about Jon, his book, and its accompanying study guide at https://www.jonseidl.com . Subscribe to Mountain Monday: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday
S1 E97 · Fri, May 12, 2023
Dr. Dub Oliver is more than just one of the most respected voices in Christian education today. Along with serving as the president of Union University in Jackson, Tennessee, he's also a voice for families and has a passion for helping men identify and live out their true, God-given calling in life. Dr. Oliver shares what God has taught him about what it means to be a godly father. Learn more about Union University . Support the ministry: Donate to Manhood Journey.
S1 E96 · Fri, May 05, 2023
Poet Robert Frost once wrote about choosing the road less traveled and how that decision “made all the difference.” Of course, life is full of choices. As fathers, we make dozens every day. Many are mundane and pass without a second thought, but others can represent transformational shifts for both us and our families. Today’s episode digs deeper into these “critical intersections.” You’ll pick up some practical tips for choosing the path God wants for you—and for making sure your decision-making process teaches your kids how to make wise choices when they face their own forks in the road. See where you're headed as a godly father: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz
S1 E95 · Fri, April 28, 2023
We live in a culture where authentic manhood is under attack. Around every corner, guys are being challenged to justify—or even apologize for—their masculinity. Josh Hatcher has spent more than a decade encouraging men to run toward the storm and to embrace their God-given responsibilities of Christ-like discipleship and intentional manhood. His insights on what it means to be a man and father in contemporary society will inspire and equip you to lead through the storms. Learn more about Josh and his Manlihood ministry at Manlihood.com .
S1 E94 · Fri, April 21, 2023
For more than a decade, Pastor Joby Martin has served as the founding pastor of the congregation of Church of Eleven22 in Jacksonville, Florida. He's also a popular author and speaker at conferences around the country. But in this podcast, Pastor Joby brings his wisdom and experience to the Manhood Journey's podcast, sharing what God has taught him over the years about biblical fatherhood and manhood. You can learn more about Pastor Joby's ministry, including his newest book, If the Tomb Is Empty , at https://www.jobymartin.com .
S1 E94 · Fri, April 21, 2023
For more than a decade, Pastor Joby Martin has served as the founding pastor of the congregation of Church of Eleven22 in Jacksonville, Florida. He's also a popular author and speaker at conferences around the country. Pastor Joby brings his wisdom and experience to the Father On Purpose podcast, sharing what God has taught him over the years about biblical fatherhood and manhood. You can learn more about Pastor Joby's ministry, including his newest book, If the Tomb Is Empty , at https://www.jobymartin.com .
S1 E93 · Fri, April 14, 2023
Romans 12 has served as a refreshing fountain of wisdom and insight to help us navigate several manhood "hotspots." In this episode, we’re excited to be joined by pastor and author Chip Ingram as we put a bow on our Romans 12 series. With more than 40 years of experience as a discipleship leader, Chip offers some great closing takeaways about how to be a Romans 12 father. You can learn more about Chip's work with Living on the Edge and his book, Portrait of a Father, by visiting https://livingontheedge.org .
S1 E92 · Fri, April 07, 2023
Sometimes, life as a Christ follower can feel like a snow globe. God takes the world's perspective, turns it upside down, and gives it a shake. That's the only way we see the real beauty He creates. Nowhere is that more evident than in the way He calls us to treat our enemies. As we near the end of our study of Romans 12, we'll see God's unique plan for getting under the skin of those who would do us harm: Simply do what's right. Lead a bible study with your son or a group. Try the Embarking 1 on 1 guide free: https://manhoodjourney.org/embarking-1-on-1-free-sample
S1 E91 · Fri, March 31, 2023
Ever feel like the world is spinning out of control? As guys, we recognize the problem, but we're often at a loss for creating a solution. We’re not sure how to calm the confusion and get all the pieces of the puzzle back into place. Thankfully, God provides a plan where we fall short. In Romans 12, the apostle Paul wrote about the secret sauce that brings harmony out of our chaos. And, as we'll see in today's episode, he put the responsibility of making it happen squarely on our shoulders. Help fund the show and support our ministry work: https://bit.ly/donatetoMJ Not sure where you're headed as a godly dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz to see how you're doing now and where you're headed: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz
S1 E90 · Fri, March 24, 2023
Every guy is passionate about something. It might be a hobby or a career, or a goal in life. Those are fine, but every Christian man needs to be incredibly passionate about one thing: serving God. If your spiritual zeal has cooled lately, our latest podcast rooted in Romans 12 might be just the ticket. We're looking at what it means to stoke your spiritual fervor--and how that fits into our God-given command to serve others well. Did you enjoy the show? Please give it a 5-star review wherever you listen! Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz
S1 E89 · Fri, March 17, 2023
More than 50 years ago, the Beatles said all we needed was love. But 20 centuries before that, the apostle Paul challenged Christ followers to love one another with sincerity and honor. While the romantic notions of love are great, genuine, unselfish love is what sets godly men apart from the crowd and gives us the chance to be a part of something bigger than ourselves. Get Mountain Monday, the Godly Fatherhood Newsletter: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E88 · Fri, March 10, 2023
What’s the greatest gift you’ve ever received? It’s probably not what you think. That’s because the spiritual gifts God provides through the Holy Spirit provide meaning for our lives and open doors for ministry to the world. No tangible gift could ever compare. In today’s episode, we’ll talk about how you can figure out how God has gifted you—and how you can help your family members lock into their gifts, as well. Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 Enull · Mon, March 06, 2023
Join us as we learn from God's Word and strive to apply lessons learned to our lives as fathers and family leaders. We'll either be laughing too hard, diving into the Bible, or talking to some fantastic guests. But no matter what, the objective is the same: encourage fathers to become disciple-makers. Hope to see you there, The FOP crew
S1 E87 · Fri, March 03, 2023
As men, we don't have a lot of time or patience for square pegs in round holes. We're looking for perfect fits and the results they produce. But God calls us to take a step back and consider our own "perfect fit." Understanding and using the gifts He provides can spell the difference between effective ministry and frustrating routines. As we continue our study of Romans 12, we're going to dive into the world of spiritual gifts and learn how we can make the body of Christ stronger. Gain the confidence to become the man you were called to be with BetterMan: https://bit.ly/mj-better-man Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E86 · Fri, February 24, 2023
There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance; and, even as Christian men, we fight the temptation to cross it. Truth is, God never created us to go it alone or live on an island. We're made to do life together with other believers within the body of Christ. In our ongoing study of Romans 12, we'll reflect on what it means to keep a humble view of ourselves and the importance of fulfilling our role within the body. Subscribe to Mountain Monday to get your week started off right: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E85 · Fri, February 17, 2023
If you’ve ever used a cookie cutter, then you know what the world wants to do to you. The broken and sinful spirit of today's culture wants to shape us into its image. But as believers, we are called to a higher standard. Instead of being conformed to a failing system, we are challenged to be transformed into the likeness—the shape—of Christ. As we continue our study of Romans 12, we’ll zero in on verse 2 and learn how being transformed can help us become the men God created us to be. What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools Support the show: https://bit.ly/donatetoMJ
S1 E84 · Fri, February 10, 2023
Sacrifices were a vital part of worship in Old Testament Israel because they foreshadowed the ultimate sacrifice Jesus made on the cross. What we forget sometimes is that God still challenges us to offer sacrifices to Him. These days, the offerings aren’t sheep, bulls, and goats. Instead, God expects us to surrender our very lives to Him. This week’s podcast marks the beginning of a series on Romans 12. As we dig into the incredible passage of Scripture, we’ll see what it means to be a living sacrifice—and the practical impact that can have on our lives as men, husbands, and fathers. Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E83 · Fri, February 03, 2023
When a basketball player steps to the line for a free throw, he has to be relaxed. He also has to trust the countless hours of repetition he has invested in the process. In some ways, overcoming worry works the same way. We serve a mighty God who is absolutely trustworthy. So, we can relax and rest in Him. On top of that, the more we put that trust into practice, the easier it becomes to replace our anxieties with faith in Him. In today's episode, we'll continue our conversation about kicking worry to the curb by sharing some practical ideas for growing in our faith. Gain the confidence to become the man you were called to be. Check out our ministry partner, BetterMan: https://bit.ly/mj-better-man Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E82 · Fri, January 27, 2023
Let’s be honest . . . none of us have to look very far to find something to worry about. As guys, we’ve got our hands full trying to keep any number of plates spinning: marriage, fatherhood, career, faith, and so much more. And all of them provide fertile ground for anxiety to take root and grow. But God calls us to let go of our fears and to put our trust fully in Him. In this podcast, we’ll see what the Bible says about dumping worry in favor of steadfast faith in the One who loves us and longs for us to live in His peace. Subscribe to Mountain Monday to get your week started off right: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E81 · Fri, January 20, 2023
Genetics ensure that your kids will inherit some of your physical characteristics. But it’s modeling that guarantees that they will pick up on the things that matter most in life. When it comes to being a dad, more is caught than taught, so you need to make sure the example you set reflects the spiritual and relational integrity you want your kids to imitate—because they will imitate you. In this podcast, we’ll dig into the topic of modeling and the impact it can have on your family, both now and into eternity. Subscribe to Mountain Monday to get your week started off right: https://bit.ly/SubtoMountainMonday Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://bit.ly/GodlyDadQuiz What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://bit.ly/FreeDadTools
S1 E80 · Fri, January 13, 2023
As a husband and dad, you’ve likely hit some rough patches over the years. Yet, so many guys feel completely overwhelmed by the struggles they face and the pain they experience. Thankfully, even our biggest challenges are never too big for God. In fact, He longs to use even our worst moments to make us more like Him. In today's episode, we'll hear from a listener who's walking through some struggles as a dad. Then we'll examine some important Scriptures about standing strong and finding hope in Him, especially during those seasons when we'd much rather throw in the towel. Want to be an encouragement to other dads? Share your story with the Father On Purpose community: manhoodjourney.org/podcast Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: manhoodjourney.org/assessment What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: manhoodjourney.org/free-tools
S1 E79 · Fri, January 06, 2023
As dads, we often feel the tension of being in the world without being of the world. We struggle with keeping our own standards high while helping our kids see life as it really is. Fathers who master this art of processing life with their sons and daughters take huge steps toward preparing them for the spiritual challenges and battles that lie ahead. In today's episode, we'll talk about how you can walk that fine line and set your kids up to win moving forward. Special thanks to our ministry partner, BetterMan. Gain the confidence to become the man you were called to be: https://bit.ly/mj-better-man Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://manhoodjourney.org/assessment What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://manhoodjourney.org/free-tools
S1 E78 · Fri, December 30, 2022
Every father wants the best for his children. But before they can help their kids become the best version of themselves, many fathers need to discover their own true identity. Author Clarence Shuler longs to help men escape the darkness of depression, anxiety, and insecurity so they can walk in the light of their true relationship with their heavenly Father. In this episode, we'll talk about Clarence's new book, Finding Hope in a Dark Place, and discuss some practical ways fathers can become all that God created them to be. Check out Clarence's new book, Finding Hope in a Dark Place: https://amzn.to/3v4uaXT Not sure where you're headed as a dad? Take the Godly Dad Quiz: https://manhoodjourney.org/assessment What is Manhood Journey? We help dads become more intentional and biblical fathers. Get equipped to lead without regrets: https://manhoodjourney.org/free-tools
S1 E77 · Fri, December 23, 2022
The Hulk is the only person in history who’s ever benefitted from being angry all the time. And, of course, he's make-believe, which means anger only creates pain and damages relationships in the real world. Yet, men tell us time and again that anger is one of their primary struggles. In this episode, we'll look at the problems anger can cause, but we'll also take it a step further. We'll share some basic tips for finding a calmer and more peaceful you!
S1 E76 · Fri, December 16, 2022
For many guys, patience is not so much a virtue as an elusive unicorn. Sure, we’d all like to be more patient, but most of us just can’t stomach the idea of waiting around for it. In a world where we can download an app in mere seconds, allowing God to walk us down the long road toward patience doesn’t feel practical—or even desirable. In today’s episode, we’ll hear from guys like you who struggle to cultivate patience in their lives. We’ll also dig into some practical ideas for creating space to let it grow from the inside out.
S1 E75 · Fri, December 09, 2022
Fatherhood is an ongoing battle, and no one understands that better than author and speaker Jim Ramos. For more than a decade, Jim and his organization, Men in the Arena, have been challenging and encouraging men to become the best versions of themselves for God's glory. In today’s episode, Jim will share some of what he’s learned over the years, including practical tips for passing wisdom along to your kids. To learn more about Jim and his ministry, check out meninthearena.org.
S1 E74 · Fri, December 02, 2022
Every father longs to live on the mountaintop. We make it our deepest desire to breathe the fresh air and bask in the glow of powerful and meaningful relationships with our kids. Truth is, though, many of us struggle through long stretches where we feel disconnected from our children and inadequate for the job at hand. In this week's episode, we'll dive into some messages we've received from dads walking through relational valleys, and we'll identify some practical ideas for navigating the rough patches and rising above our current situations.
S1 E73 · Fri, November 25, 2022
Brant Hansen is a speaker, author, radio show host at WAY-FM, and co-host of his podcast, the Brant & Sherri Oddcast. In his new book, "The Men We Need," Brant explores the essence of masculinity in a meaningful and refreshing way. As an avid supporter of godly fatherhood, Brant believes a father's role is a cultivator and protector. When dads lead biblically and provide a loving home for their families, they can thrive and flourish. Check out Brant's new book "The Men We Need": https://amzn.to/3OQ01Vv
S1 E72 · Fri, November 18, 2022
In today's culture, the role of a father is often presented as a joke. When in reality, a father's role is infinitely more than that. God chose to use the primary descriptor "Father" for Himself. Why? well, like He is our perfect provider and an example for us to follow here on earth, we should strive to be that for our children. "Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). Scott Nickell is the Lead Teaching Pastor at Southland Christian Church and a father of 4 himself. Scott hosts the Locker Room podcast and is passionate about serving men, fathers, and husbands. Listen to the Locker Room Podcast w/ Scott Nickell: https://lockerroomscc.libsyn.com
S1 E71 · Fri, November 11, 2022
When our kids were younger, connecting with them was so much easier. We were the knights in shining armor, the ones who could do no wrong. But, as our kids get older, they drift. Sure, it’s natural, and it may even be healthy. But for most dads, all the adolescent psychology in the world doesn’t make it any easier. Well, take heart because there is hope! In this week’s episode, we’ll look at some practical ways to nurture and protect that special bond that dads share with their sons and daughters.
S1 E70 · Fri, November 04, 2022
One thing is guaranteed for every day: It only has 24 hours. That translates to 2,460 minutes or 86,400 seconds. No matter how you slice it, though, you never have enough time! As a man, a husband, and a father, you probably feel the tension of keeping all your plates spinning each day. We know because we asked our listeners about their biggest struggles, and "priorities" ranked near the top of the list. So, in this episode, we're taking a look at what the Bible says about time and time management.
S1 E69 · Fri, October 28, 2022
If you've ever felt worn out as a dad, you're not alone. Every man who’s ever taken on the role of dad has wondered if he has what it takes to make it work. Jerrad Lopes is a dad who understands those feelings, which is why his experiences led him to start the Dad Tired Podcast. In today's episode, Jerrad shares from the heart about the ups and downs of Dad life and how God has used those times to shape him as a father and as a believer. You can learn more about Jerrad’s ministry and the Dad Tired Podcast at www.dadtired.com
S1 E68 · Fri, October 21, 2022
Young boys face a wide array of challenges in our culture. They need godly mentors to come alongside them and pour into their lives. After finding success in both the secular and church worlds, Mark Hancock decided to use his love of nature to become one of those mentors—and to help other men who shared his passion for raising godly men. Learn more about Mark’s organization, Trail Life, at www.traillifeusa.com/RaisingGodlyBoys
S1 E67 · Fri, October 14, 2022
One little patch of ice can send a car spinning into a guardrail. One small spark can ignite an enormous wildfire. And one snippet of gossip can damage a relationship forever. You may not think of yourself as “the gossiping kind,” but all of us wrestle with rumors and innuendos more than we’d like to admit. As we wrap up our study of Proverbs 16, we’ll dig deeper into what gossip really means—and why godly men need to ruthlessly remove it from their conversations.
S1 E66 · Fri, October 07, 2022
One of the biggest lies we hear in life is that words can never harm us. Truth is, words can wound us deeply. Even worse, our words can do infinitely more damage to our family and friends than sticks or stones ever could. While men do so many things well, speaking life into those we love can be a particular challenge; yet our influence as husbands, fathers, and friends depends on keeping a leash on our lips. As we continue our study of Proverbs 16, we’ll learn some important lessons about making sure our words don’t get in the way of what God wants us to be and do for His glory.
S1 E65 · Fri, September 30, 2022
Nowhere is the clash of worldviews more apparent than in the struggle between gaining wisdom and collecting wealth. For centuries, the world has pushed us toward more stuff, while the Bible has challenged us to look up to discover what's most important in life. Wealth isn't evil, of course, but men of God are called to pursue something higher. As we continue our study of Proverbs 16, we'll examine what wisdom is really all about—and how we dads can seek wisdom for ourselves.
S1 E64 · Fri, September 23, 2022
Despite what the culture might suggest, integrity is not something you can simply turn on and off like a light switch. As a man of God, if you’re going to have integrity in any part of your life, you’ve got to live with integrity in every part of your life. What’s more, the example you set as a husband and father becomes the legacy you leave for future generations. As we continue our study of Proverbs 16, we’ll talk about how to embrace a lifestyle defined by integrity—and the impact it can have on the world around us.
S1 E63 · Fri, September 16, 2022
We live in a world defined by conflict. Whether it’s war among nations, arguments over politics, or even strife within the body of Christ, tensions run high and patience runs low. Between the external battles people fight with one another and the internal turmoil that steals our serenity, peace feels like a rare and precious commodity. Yet, as we learn from Proverbs 16, God has given us a recipe for genuine peace. Living our lives in a way that pleases Him is the only guaranteed path to peace in our lives and in our world.
S1 E62 · Fri, September 09, 2022
Nobody’s perfect. Intellectually, we know that to be true, but that rings hollow when we come up short and fall into the quicksand of sin. While our sin might create problems with our relationships here on earth, it ultimately offends the God who created us and sent His Son to die for us. Thankfully, He has proven time and again that He is faithful to forgive when we come to Him in humility. As we continue our study of Proverbs 16, we’ll see that God’s trustworthy love and grace can help us course correct so we can become the men He created us to be.
S1 E61 · Fri, September 02, 2022
As guys, we like to act like we have it all together. But more times than we'd like to admit, our greatest enemy is the guy staring back at us from the mirror. Whether we're dealing with a spirit of bitterness or trying to make ourselves look better, our own arrogance and judgmental attitudes toward others often keep us from being the men God created us to be. Solomon understood that character flaw as well as anyone. In today's episode, we'll see how he addressed it in our ongoing study of Proverbs 16.
S1 E60 · Fri, August 26, 2022
The old cliché tells us that failing to plan means we’re planning to fail. But, as guys, we’ve all experienced those moments when our best-laid plans come crashing to the ground. As we’re streaking toward the finish line, we twist an ankle or stumble on a rock. Truth is, planning for the future is an important part of life—as long as we do it the right way. That’s because our plans only work as they line up with God’s plans. More than anything else, we need His wisdom to navigate the twists and turns of this life. As dads and husbands, we’d do well to remember that often. And leaning into the wisdom of Proverbs 16 is a great place to start!
S1 E59 · Fri, August 19, 2022
We all know that Bible study is supposed to be an important part of our lives as men and as believers. The sheer amount of wisdom to be had from a single verse can change your life. Yet, so many of us struggle to find the bandwidth to dig into God’s Word the way we should. The desire may be there, but we just don’t know where to start. As we set the table for our series in Proverbs 16, it's important to examine what the book is all about and how we dads can squeeze wisdom from each principle. If you're just getting started in the Bible or want some tips to up your study game, we highly recommend "How to Study Your Bible" by Kay Arthur: https://amzn.to/3PvdEIh
S1 E58 · Fri, August 12, 2022
Sports can be a blessing and a curse for parents. On one hand, the lessons on the field can instill important character qualities like teamwork, self-discipline, and hard work. On the other hand, sports can become an obsession that sucks both time and money from your family and their values. The trick, though, is maintaining balance and making sure your child develops a solid grasp on life beyond the scoreboard. In this episode, former major leaguer and Olympian Pat Combs offers some valuable advice for navigating your kids through the landmines of travel teams and trophies, while also setting their feet firmly on a course that nurture’s godly character above all else.
S1 E57 · Fri, August 05, 2022
Some corners of our culture will try to convince you that "diversity" is a dirty word. In reality, diversity is God's idea. He celebrates our differences—and He expects us to celebrate them as well. In this episode, Gary Chapman and Clarence Shuler reflect on how their unlikely friendship has taken root and thrived for more than five decades. They'll also share how Dads like you can nurture cross-cultural friendships in a way that shapes your children's lives moving forward. Discover Gary and Clarence's new book, Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: https://amzn.to/3bAart0
S1 E56 · Fri, July 29, 2022
As men, fathers, and husbands, gratitude is one of our most significant tools. Unfortunately, the selfishness that betrays us all can be the ultimate gratitude killer. Selfishness thrives in a life that’s not aligned with God, so the end result is always the same: pain and destruction. The key for us dads is to root selfishness out of our lives so the Father’s character can shine through.
S1 E55 · Fri, July 22, 2022
One problem with the rat race is that it turns us all into rats more than we care to admit. As guys, it’s easy to let feelings of entitlement seep in and poison the well of our lives. We get so worked up chasing the next big thing that we miss what God has put right in front of us. We let our first-world problems blind us to blessings many can only dream of. As Christ followers, though, we’re called to a different standard. Instead of wallowing in entitlement, God has wired our hearts for gratitude and generosity. He’s changed the rules—and we’re actually at our best when we’re putting ourselves on the back burner.
S1 E54 · Fri, July 15, 2022
In a world where social media makes everyone else’s at-bats seem like a home run, it’s easy to feel like you’re striking out every time you step up to the plate. The weight of comparison can quickly pull you down to some dark places both emotionally and spiritually. What’s more, the patterns you set in your life can have a tremendous impact on the lives of your wife and kids. Thankfully, the Bible gives each of us a game plan for guarding our hearts and minds against unhealthy comparisons—and for embracing the joy that’s found in being content with God’s plans and purposes.
S1 E53 · Fri, July 08, 2022
Chasing riches is an enemy of gratitude and a catalyst for discontentment: A lot of things can steal our contentment as dads; especially something like money that will have us staring at our bank account, obsessed with the numbers inside. Only serving money will usher destruction into our lives. However, If we trust God with our money, we'll soon discover genuine gratitude and learn how little we actually NEED. If we give (money, time, energy, expertise) out of pure generosity and desire to serve others, God's grace can flow through us and into them.
S1 E52 · Fri, July 01, 2022
Who says Thanksgiving only happens in November? As we celebrate the anniversary of this podcast, we're reminded of God's many blessings on our work and our lives. So, we're spending this episode focusing on gratitude and reflecting on all the reasons we have to be thankful.
S1 E51 · Fri, June 24, 2022
With so many choices screaming for our kids’ attention, even the best of parents struggle to effectively navigate the media maze. That’s where Minno TV and its co-founder Erick Gross come in. Through Minno, Erick offers parents a little peace of mind by providing curated, kid-friendly, Christian content on an affordable platform. Whether it’s a 5-minute family devotion or another option from Minno’s trustworthy catalog of content, parents can now guide their children toward a deeper relationship with Jesus—without sacrificing the fun, interactive experiences kids love. Learn more about Minno TV: https://www.gominno.com.
S1 E50 · Fri, June 17, 2022
Last week and this week, we're discussing four fatherhood traps that each of us can accidentally step into. We dads are powerful, for better or for worse. We can do a lot of damage, but we can also do a lot of uplifting. Let's be our kids' biggest fans and support them in everything they do while not letting our insecurities get in the way. No matter where our kids are on their journey, our job is to remain faithful to them and trust the Lord's plan for their lives.
S1 E49 · Wed, June 15, 2022
Culture tells us that Father's Day is the one day each year when it's OUR day. A day for us to receive gifts - socks, a tie maybe, who knows - a belt? Even Father's Day cards are great. But the underlying message from culture is you deserve to receive. So, let's flip the script this year, go against the grain and use Father's Day as a day to MODEL service to others - especially those in our own family. Let's be counter-culture and celebrate who we are as Fathers On Purpose!
S1 E48 · Fri, June 10, 2022
As dads, we are the steward of our children, but it's God who owns them at the end of the day. We must serve our kids and give them every chance to know God and love Him; after that, it's up to them. We just have to let God direct their adult life and not connect our success as fathers to "their success." Whatever they get into, whether music, cars, or something we know nothing about, all we gotta do is be there when they need us the most. The rest can be left up to the Lord.
S1 E47 · Fri, June 03, 2022
With over 60 published books and more than 20 million copies sold, Dr. Ken Blanchard needs no introduction. Coming off the release of "The Mulligan," a movie based on his book "The Mulligan," Dr. Blanchard talks about how important it is for dads to lead like Jesus and rely on Him for a mulligan in life when they need it. Dads need to know they always have another chance with the Lord on their side. So, why should we dads go through life trying to figure everything out by ourselves when we've got the ultimate partner in the Lord? All we have to do is ask God for help and let Him show us the way. Check out The Mulligan movie: https://themulliganmovie.com/
S1 E46 · Fri, May 27, 2022
Husbands have a unique role in ensuring their kids treat mom with the utmost respect and dignity. When they give her lip, we're there to reinforce her authority. And being a cultivator not only applies to bad behavior, but we can also promote good behavior and encourage acts of compassion. Team up with your kids and try buying her flowers and surprise her with her favorite snack. Those moments will not only instill godly principles in our kids, but they will also be a catalyst for a greater mother-child connection. Tell us a current dad challenge you're having: manhoodjourney.org/podcast.
S1 E45 · Fri, May 20, 2022
How should we deal with symptoms of imbalance that take valuable time away from our family? As loving husbands and fathers, our relationship with our wives and kids requires a much larger time commitment than anything else (if you want them to love you, that is!). So, let's ask ourselves: For the 16 hours we're awake each day, what can we do to carve up that time in a way that honors God, honors our family, and honors our professional duties? It's definitely not an easy task, nor one size fits all. But simply having awareness and intentionality are all we need to prioritize the most important parts of our lives. Tell us a current dad challenge you're having: manhoodjourney.org/podcast.
S1 E44 · Fri, May 13, 2022
"The best thing a father can do for his kids is to love their mother." When kids see dad embrace their mom and treat her with dignity, it provides an unparalleled sense of security and stability in their lives. As the leader of our homes, we dads must be that godly example for our children every day. If we show them that the Lord matters more than sports, a career, or any political figure—they'll walk throughout life with His Word as their compass. Learn more about Bob Russell Ministries: https://www.bobrussell.org
S1 E43 · Fri, May 06, 2022
The last episode in the Nehemiah series calls on us dads to let our kids know when they're just not doing it right. When we rebuke our children, it's crucial to be wise in how we go about it. One idea is to keep the conversation private, mainly because kids can quickly become embarrassed when their actions are challenged in a public setting. The real power of rebuking comes when done in a private, loving manner. When we take our time and measure our response to an emerging issue, our kids are more likely to trust us to get them back on track. Tell us a current struggle you're having: manhoodjourney.org/podcast.
S1 E42 · Fri, April 29, 2022
Two leading factors in whether or not our kids will pursue a spiritual connection with God as adults include the kind of music they listen to and if they participate in Bible study. We dads can't control everything our kids become exposed to, good or bad. And these life patterns and experiences can significantly impact their spiritual relationship with the Lord in adulthood. So that begs the question: What can we do now to lead our children spiritually and give them the best shot at walking with the Lord when they leave home?
S1 E41 · Fri, April 22, 2022
An essential part of our mission as dads is to anchor our families in the Word of God. Whether it's a routine devotional or chat at the dinner table, every moment in God's Word matters. Even weaving Biblical perspective into age-appropriate current events - sports, news, politics, entertainment, etc. can work wonders. Take something from the cultural moment, and tie it back to Scripture. "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." - Ephesians 6:4. Tell us a current struggle you're having: manhoodjourney.org/podcast.
S1 E40 · Fri, April 15, 2022
Jesus said, "in this world you will have trouble" (John 16:33). So, let's make a list of potential trouble our kids may get into - it's not an infinite list - dating, porn, money, drugs, school fights, bad grades, disrespectful behavior, they may become Kentucky basketball fans, etc. Having our awareness level on high alert makes it much easier to anticipate trouble when it appears over the horizon. Now, when this trouble does arrive, don't be shocked beyond belief when "your little angel" gets in a fight or has a pack of smokes in their backpack. That's our job - to help our kids know what kind of trouble they're headed for and steer them in the right direction. Tell us what's challenging you: https://manhoodjourney.org/podcast
S1 E39 · Fri, April 08, 2022
What does it mean to "not live in constant fear?" How do we manage fear and ignorance when parenting our kids? There's often a balancing act between letting our kids experience the world for themselves and being overprotective. Remember that God puts up guardrails (danger), but He also puts up the promise. If we're going to protect our loved ones from danger, we must make them aware of what threatens them physically, spiritually, and emotionally. As dads, the ability to arm those we love with truth is one of our most powerful tools. Want to learn more about Nehemiah? Read the first two chapters of Bring Your Hammer totally free: manhoodjourney.org/HAMMER
S1 E38 · Fri, April 01, 2022
Dad, would you become closer to your kids if you asked better questions? Amid the constant challenges dads face (financial, relational, time management), it can be difficult to discern the TRUE needs around us. As we observe new challenges in our family, the ability to ask good questions can bring about great solutions. One where the situation is grounded in clarity and the problem is resolved. Want to learn more about Nehemiah? Read the first 2 chapters of Bring Your Hammer: manhoodjourney.org/HAMMER
S1 E37 · Fri, March 25, 2022
What makes you uncomfortable? For the vast majority of us dads, we face daily challenges that we must have the courage to overcome. We are asked on a daily basis to step into a spiritual battle with our children or to engage in conversations with our families about complex topics. And, of course, we're asked to be honest and loving fathers, both of which require a big deal of courage in the face of life's chaos. It's important to tackle the tough conversations and challenges that arise each day. It's even more important to have peace in the discomfort that comes from these situations. Want to learn more about Nehemiah? Read the first 2 chapters of Bring Your Hammer: manhoodjourney.org/HAMMER
S1 E36 · Fri, March 18, 2022
Glory can be one of our biggest downfalls when we direct it away from God. It often brings out the opposite of an "attitude of gratitude." We can't let our successes (financial, career, life accomplishments) convince us that we did it all on our own. Resisting the temptation to lay claim to personal triumphs helps bring glory to God's grace, not ourselves. "But remember the Lord your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth.” (Deuteronomy 8:18). Download 2 chapters of Bring Your Hammer for free: manhoodjourney.org/HAMMER
S1 E35 · Fri, March 11, 2022
As we prepare our kids for the road ahead, are we identifying the areas in life where they are struggling? Asking ourselves and them how can we help? As the strategic leaders in our families, it's important to have a solid plan to serve our kids. What are the deepest needs they have? Start with questions and let those guide you in helping their situation and spiritual growth. Your game plan will help your families discern the problem and build towards the solution. Download 2 chapters of Bring Your Hammer totally FREE: manhoodjourney.org/HAMMER
S1 E34 · Fri, March 04, 2022
The life of Nehemiah can be tied to fatherhood in several ways. One is the opportunities we take to show love to our families. Nehemiah was always concerned with how others were progressing through life. Are we having intentional conversations and making sure everything is ok with our kids (even if they're out of the home)? Do we ask them for ways we can pray for them? As dads, we need to be present and diligent with our kids. It is time we will long for when it's gone but can never get back. Download 2 chapters of Bring Your Hammer totally FREE: manhoodjourney.org/HAMMER
S1 E33 · Fri, February 25, 2022
We dads often think that being a leader in the typical sense is good enough: food is on the table, the kids have clothes, and we take Sunday trips to the church where we learn about God. However, as Nehemiah teaches us, the idea of simply being a "leader" at home isn't enough. We must be the spiritual leaders that guide and guard our children. When we take that step to lead and be involved in our family's spiritual development, we're literally filling the role that God called us to serve (Ephesians 6:4).
S1 E32 · Fri, February 18, 2022
In today's world, technology and pop culture can often have a greater influence on our kids than we do. So, why do our kids become depressed after watching other people's highlight reels on social media, and what can we do about it? Father and Christian film producer Stephen Kendrick shares some practical steps dads can take to help their kids find inner peace as they navigate the modern social arena. Having a peaceful home is every dad's goal; we just need to trust God and cherish our families to help get us there.
S1 E31 · Fri, February 11, 2022
Have you ever wanted more fruit of the Spirit in your life? When talking about patience specifically, It's important we dads realize that our kids have a genetic desire to connect with us. Therefore, they'll bug us even when our work obligations or the game have our attention. It's our job to call on God's Spirit for the patience and gentleness to respond appropriately. They need us when they need us, not when our schedules allow.
S1 E30 · Fri, February 04, 2022
If you have young kids, you are probably thinking about who that "special someone" may be for your son or daughter. There may be a few characteristics you want that person to have. You probably want them to follow Jesus, be honest and kind. And, clearly, if they're to earn your child's affection, they must know which chicken restaurant is the best (do I have to say it out loud?). Pray for your kids to have a "godly filter" for their future spouse, and to have the wisdom to "know one when they see one." Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E29 · Fri, January 28, 2022
It's time to talk! As dads, our goal is to raise our kids to honor God in their sexuality. Therefore, it's essential to have M.A.N.Y. talks with our kids related to sexual purity. And more importantly, these aren't one-way lectures. Over time, invite your kids to ask questions and spark real conversations at various stages of their understanding. Try not to baby them, tell it to them straight. They will engage if you lead with openness and sincerity. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E28 · Fri, January 21, 2022
How we grew up can indeed affect our own fathering. Yet, we are not slaves to our past. Jesus taught us how to forgive, and He commanded us to do it. This is not so the offender gets "off scot free," but so that we are not burdened by our past. How we address our own past can set the stage for how our children relate to God. God Himself has equipped us with all the tools we need to successfully lead our kids closer to Him, regardless of how we got to where we are now. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E27 · Fri, January 14, 2022
It's easy to blame challenges with our kids on every other factor but our own actions. Many of our issues at home boil down to a lack of communication. As dads, we make things worse by constantly telling and rarely asking. You tell your little kids everything. Go to bed. Put that down. Stop it. "Kenny, don't paint your sister." But, especially for teens, this approach backfires. Let's admit we are telling when we should be asking, and grow together in this area.
S1 E26 · Fri, January 07, 2022
Dad, understanding the power of our words is crucial. Would you define what comes out of your mouth as a "fountain of life"? Have your words been encouraging? Do you reflect God's righteous example in what you say? These are very powerful and undoubtedly tough questions. Nobody's perfect at this. Yet, our goal as encouraging fathers is to become a verbal reminder of God's love and joy in the lives of our family. Let's explore how to do that. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E25 · Fri, December 31, 2021
The desire for fresh starts is built into our DNA. God wants us to use these fresh starts as a way to get reground ourselves in His will. We may often have times where we see a needed change in our lives or the lives of members of our family. Let's explore what we need to keep, improve, stop, and start to achieve a richer connection to God's will. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E24 · Fri, December 24, 2021
Our kids don't need to receive physical gifts from us to feel loved and appreciated. The reality is, our time and focused attention means the world to them (way more than any new gaming console or pair of shoes). And the best part is our kids already have all the fun activities lined up. All we need to do is lean in and dress up for the tea party or gear up for the covert operation to take down Darth Vader. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E23 · Fri, December 17, 2021
When it comes to our children, natural interruptions can be incredibly valuable. Some of our most opportune moments as fathers will be unplanned, unscripted, and maybe even inconvenient. So, as we get hit with interruptions, let's take advantage and connect with our kids on a deeper level. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E22 · Fri, December 10, 2021
An important part of having patience is realizing we're not in total control of developing our kids. God is. When we trust God and make disciples, the long and trying journey of raising children will be less pressure-packed. We eventually realize that our kids are just as much of a spiritual work-in-progress as we are! Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E21 · Fri, December 03, 2021
The modern challenges dads face can often seem impossible to overcome. So, what does the Bible tell us about fatherhood? Chip Ingram explains why dads often feel like they're failing and shares practical steps every dad can take to remove that internal doubt. The truth is a lot of us parent out of fear instead of letting God's Word help us become the fathers we really want to be. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E20 · Fri, November 26, 2021
When dads are thankful, our families are blessed. Yet, amidst all the pressures of our lives, it can be hard to find gratitude. However, we read the clear command in the Bible, "Give thanks in all circumstances..." (1 Thess 5:18). How can we do that as dads when challenges abound, work is hard, money is tight and our favorite team is on a losing streak? Let's figure it out together. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E19 · Fri, November 19, 2021
Our goal as godly dads is to guide our children in their walk with Jesus Christ. It's easy to get lost in making sure they can nail a job interview or throw a tight spiral. In reality, the majority of our time should be focused on helping our kids grow in the fear and admonition of the Lord. Even though they may not follow as we hope, our intentionality in how we disciple our kids will help give them every opportunity to find life and peace on their spiritual journey. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E18 · Fri, November 12, 2021
Everything we own is on LOAN from God. Often we think of stewarding resources in terms of financial responsibility. That's important stuff. Yet, being a good steward is about much more than just managing our money well. It's about serving others with everything God has temporarily placed in our possession. All of it belongs to God and He's watching how we use it. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E17 · Fri, November 05, 2021
As a dad, you may often ask: how do I serve others? You may see your "service" to others as a duty. The truth is, serving others can be much more meaningful than just something we're required to do. Let's talk about how we can make serving others a key piece of our relational puzzle, from our wives and children to a friend in need. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org
S1 E16 · Fri, October 29, 2021
Building relationships is a crucial tool in your fatherhood arsenal. Finding men with whom you can have transparent conversations opens the door to hidden wisdom, accountability, and encouragement. Not to mention, your kids will learn the importance of leaning into and seeking authenticity from their relationships too! Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E15 · Fri, October 22, 2021
A lot of dads have wondered if prayer actually works? Maybe you've asked the same thing. Which leads us to ask: What do we mean by "work"? One guarantee we have from the Bible is that when we pray, the peace of God will always guard our hearts and minds. We don't need to be anxious. We just need to go to the Father in prayer. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E14 · Fri, October 15, 2021
Diving into scripture can be intimidating. But don't let that keep you from investing valuable time in God's Word. As dads, we need to effectively handle the Bible so our kids can learn and grow in their knowledge as well. We can help them develop a love for the Bible and see how God's Word lights their path forward (Psalm 119). Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E13 · Fri, October 08, 2021
It's easy to get lost on our fatherhood journey, especially if we don't know how to find our compass. How can we know which direction is the right one? This is crucial, since we're entrusted to lead our families. God has the magnetic pull to get us on the right path. We can trust the Lord with all our heart and he will guide our steps. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E12 · Fri, October 01, 2021
Whoa, that's a scary question, right? But, worse than knowing the answer is having no clue at all. It can be hard to know how we're doing as dads and whether we're making progress. We probably don't want weekly surveys from our wives or kids (yikes!). So, let's ask ourselves some questions: Where are we now? Where are we going? Do we have the right equipment for the journey? Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E11 · Fri, September 24, 2021
We're surrounded by knowledge and expertise. We often don't see it because we don't ask for it. Tons of guys have been through (something like) what you're going through. Let's see how one dad sought input from another one. You're only on this journey alone if you choose to be. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E10 · Fri, September 17, 2021
We can only see life through our own eyes. Yet, God sees the whole story. Sometimes, we think something "small" happened, but we left a great impact. It may be positive or negative. Let's explore together how we can see life beyond the moment and lead our families to do the same. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E9 · Fri, September 10, 2021
Our diligence through seasons of difficulty sends a message. And, not just about our priorities but about God's character. We can never give up on our kids. We can be a support system for our families even when life appears grim and dark. Be persistent and let your kids see God in you as you support and love your family. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E8 · Fri, September 03, 2021
I was with a pastor friend who lamented how "unintentional" he was with his kids. He explained, "I'm not doing enough Bible studies with them." In one sense, he should be commended (more Bible = better). But, in another, he was overlooking the daily intentional moments he was excelling at. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E7 · Fri, August 27, 2021
Your fatherhood journey will be full of obstacles, hard times, and things trying to tear you down. The Bible clearly tells us that trials will come. Don't be discouraged! Put one foot in front of the other and keep moving forward as a godly leader in your marriage and with your kids. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E6 · Fri, August 20, 2021
Our kids will encounter the enemy, and we can help them be aware of and ready for those engagements. In this episode, we give you a practical metaphor for having this discussion with your sons and daughters. We can help them recognize when satan and the evils of the world are trying to get in. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E5 · Fri, August 13, 2021
Fatherhood is not a vending machine. We can't control exactly where our kids end up. But dads, we certainly can aim them in the right direction. It's tempting to focus on just helping our kids get good grades, become sports stars, and land high-paying jobs. But, we need to set a course for them to chase godliness and a fruitful spiritual life. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E4 · Fri, August 06, 2021
Comparison is a no-win game for dads. We can often focus on how much money we make (compared to…) or whether we have sent our kids to the right school (compared to…). However, comparison can get us way off track. Instead, let’s ask ourselves: am I being faithful to the tasks God has set before me? Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E3 · Fri, July 30, 2021
One key reason celebrities have influence is because fathers have left their homes. This influence vacuum gets filled by whoever screams the loudest, but engaged dads have a powerful weapon. We can own our influence if we stay in the game and are intentional as our kids mature. Through things like intentional conversations and great questions, we can fully leverage our God-given influence. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E2 · Fri, July 23, 2021
Stop dwelling over time and start prioritizing it. When you start making an intentional effort to find more time with your kids and family, you'll realize that quality time doesn't necessarily mean a big family vacation or event. But even a simple trip to the store can turn into a timeless memory. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
S1 E1 · Wed, July 07, 2021
Fatherhood is awesome, sacred, and hard all at the same time. We don't have all the answers, but together as dads, we'll have real conversations that shine a light on fatherhood and how we can all grow to lead our families better each day. Want to join a community of dads like you? Visit: https://fatheronpurpose.org/
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