There’s one question that has stumped our universe for centuries: Why do men? Emma Willmann is on a quest to find out the answer in this podcast from Betches Media. Each week, Emma is inviting some of the funniest and most interesting men she knows into the studio and pulling from the Ask Men Anything inbox to ask your biggest, weirdest, and most pressing questions of earth’s most mysterious beings. What makes a man ready to settle down and choose a partner? Why don’t men ask their friends follow-up questions? And men know golf is boring, right?
Tue, September 10, 2024
This week, Emma brings the podcast to a close with some reflections on the past year of episodes, a story about her recent real life action hero moment, and a look ahead to what's next! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, September 03, 2024
This week, Emma is joined by guest co-host Rachel Coster (comedian and host of the web series Boy Room) to talk about what the aesthetic of a boy's room says about them, the importance of clean hands, and why mood lighting makes sex better. Next, they're joined by comedian Dan St. Germain to talk about testosterone levels, whether or not Espresso is actually a good song, and Rachel's crush on the SpongeBob guy that's dating Ariana Grande. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Dan and Rachel help a listener get to the bottom of the dynamics of farting and dating. Then, Emma and Rachel ask Dan anything, from getting pegged (and why he'll never do it again), to enlisting his dog to propose to his wife, and the fashion statements of Kanye's wife Bianca Censori. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about the hottest pro wrestler, how his parent's divorce changed his perspective on dating, and the fake confidence of getting wasted. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @danst.germain, @rachelcoster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, August 27, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian and actor Matthew Broussard to talk about therapy, dads, and botox. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Matthew answers a listener who wants to understand what's going on in the minds of men who leave unsolicited comments about women's bodies on instagram. Then, Emma asks Matthew anything, from boat shoe stereotypes, to the appeal of "I can fix him" guys, and the story of how he got proposed to. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about flexing at the gym, acid trips, and dressing to impress. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @mondaypunday Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, August 20, 2024
Emma is joined by Ben Mandelker, co-host of the podcast Watch What Crappens, to talk about feuding with a national gym chain, why Skeletor is a gay icon, and embracing loose wrists. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Ben answers a listener who wonders why her boyfriend's guy friends open up more to her than to him. Then, Emma asks Ben anything, from the shamelessness of the early days of RHONY, why it's more fun when the house husbands get involved in the drama, the true crime cornucopia of RHOSLC, and what happens when your real life friend gets the villain edit on reality TV. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about obsession, pettiness, and adult friendships. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @benmandelker @watchwhatcrappens Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, August 13, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian and actor Adam Pally to talk about the joy of rooting for a home team, the layers of gay panic, and what it's like to have perfect eyelashes. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Adam answers a listener who wonders how men talk about women when they're not around. Then, Emma asks Adam anything, from having kids, to how to spot a shy guy, and what makes Steph Curry so great. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about self-improvement, nostalgia, and asking the right questions. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @adam.pally Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, August 06, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Gianmarco Soresi to talk about airport travel, early 2000s metrosexuality, and why politicians should publicize their porn search terms. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Gianmarco answers a listener who worries that the way men act on Love Island is the way men in real life actually think. Then, Emma asks Gianmarco anything, from how to spot toxic men posing as allies, to men who choose Man Camp over therapy, and depressed dads. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about cybertrucks, game night, and scaring other men. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @gianmarcosoresi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, July 30, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Justin Silver, to talk about the lie of fitness trackers, friendship tattoos, and why men aren't being honest about what they're really thinking. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Justin answers a listener whose boyfriend always answers his mom's phone calls no matter what they're doing. Then, Emma asks Justin anything, from dating app fatigue, to getting emotional with your guy friends, and suddenly understanding the phrase "youth is wasted on the young". And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about cheating, courting, and being wanted. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @iamjustinsilver Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, July 23, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Anthony DeVito, to talk about romanticizing retirement communities, Italian matriarchs, and the terror of a wooden spoon. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Anthony answers a listener question about divorced parents finding love again. Then, Emma asks Anthony anything, from age gap relationships, to finding out his dad was in the mob, and why some of the loudest feminist guys turn out to be the worst offenders. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about fleshlights, pointless lies, and fight videos. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @comediananthonydevito Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, July 16, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Tommy Brennan, to talk about growing up with 6 sisters, being a musical theater kid, and not becoming a doctor. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Tommy answers a listener who wonders why her ex situationship is hitting her up even though they're both in relationships. Then, Emma asks Tommy anything, from Catholic guilt, to getting heckled by your dad, and interventions for friends with terrible girlfriends. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about nightstands, breastfeeding, and fear of death. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @somekidtommy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, July 09, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian, actor, and former basketball player Rafi Bastos, to talk about bonding with his son, his first kiss at Carnival, and eating sushi off of models. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Rafi shares his perspective on whether single parents need to disclose that they have kids on the first date. Then, Emma asks Rafi anything, from the pros and cons of wearing Speedos, to the benefits and burdens of being 6'7", and why men love guns so much. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about icks, dating profiles, and gossip. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @raficomedy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, July 02, 2024
Emma is joined by actor, musician, and children’s book author Nico Tortorella, to talk about alternate lives they could be living, why his mom still holds a grudge against his middle school bullies, and a foolproof hack for making yourself cry on command. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Nico answers a listener whose boyfriend wont admit how much he likes Bridgerton. Then, Emma asks Nico anything, from the impact of fatherhood, to becoming a Floridian, and becoming cyborgs. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about women, the prostate, and showing up. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @nicotortorella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, June 25, 2024
Emma is joined by Paul Scheer, comedian, actor, host of podcasts How Did This Get Made? and Unspooled, and author of new memoir Joyful Recollections of Trauma. They talk about why Jerry Seinfeld wishes more men were like Hugh Grant, the masculinity of baldness, and what the movies don't tell you about childbirth. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Paul answers a listener who wonders why her boyfriend trusts his friends' recommendations more than hers. Then, Emma asks Paul anything, from collaborating with your significant other, to apologizing to your kids, and why everyone needs to get into Elaine May's filmography. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about roadtrips, telling your friends you love them, and truly letting loose. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @paulscheer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, June 18, 2024
Emma is joined by Zach Zimmerman, comedian and author of Is It Hot In Here (Or Am I Suffering for the Sins I Committed On Earth)? , to talk about waiting until your 30s to really party, growing up religious, and making new memories with family. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Zach answers a listener email about dating outside of your hotness bracket. Then, Emma asks Zach anything, from faking confidence in corporate America, to deprograming your brain after leaving home, and monk vs. slut phases. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about excuses, Olive Garden, and when it's better to not get closure. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @zzdoublezz Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, June 11, 2024
Emma is joined by singer-songwriter GASHI to talk about his new single Cold, getting rid of toxic masculinity at his shows, and getting dressed up for the airport. In the Why Do Men? Segment, GASHI answers a listener who's husband acts too cool for Taylor Swift but secretly sings along to all her songs. Then, Emma asks GASHI anything, from what's in his bag, to Albanian representation, and learning how to be comfortable with himself. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about shower thoughts, feeling shy, and being treated like a king. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @gashi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, June 04, 2024
Emma is joined by Zach Noe Towers, comedian and host of After Hours on Siris XM’s Netlflix is a Joke Radio, to talk about getting starstruck, finding the silliness in masculinity, and blurring the lines of gender roles. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Zach answers a listener wondering why straight men are fine with open relationships as long as their girlfriend only hooks up with other women. Then, Emma asks Zach anything, from being in his side era, to spontaneous make-outs in the street, and how to take a truly perfect dick pic. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about Taylor Swift, bad sex, and why Zach should be dictator of the world. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @zachnoetowers Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, May 28, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Nick Callas to talk about roughhousing with his brothers, giving up sports for art, and feeling free on stage. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Nick answers a listener who doesn't know if she can date a Marvel super fan. Then, Emma asks Nick anything, from roommates, to insecurities, and Nicki Minaj. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about embarrassment, leadership, and why "nice" isn't a good compliment. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @mrnickcallas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, May 21, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Modi Rosenfeld and his husband Leo Veiga to talk about meeting the love of your life on the 6 train, the importance of hydration, and why its ok to be a little dirty sometimes. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Modi and Leo share their opposing perspectives on a listener's question about whether or not to circumcise her son. Then, Emma asks Modi and Leo anything, from finance bros, to relationship dynamics, and Anderson Cooper. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about body image, extraversion, and confidence. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @modi_live, @leo_veiga_ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, May 14, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Nathan Macintosh to talk about why tech is ruining our lives, VR sex, and meeting his dad without realizing it. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Nathan answers a listener whose husband struggles with erectile dysfunction. Then, Emma asks Nathan anything, from Canadian manners, to growing up with red hair, and why you should watch out for men who self-identify as "silly". And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about stay at home dads, uncomfortable poetry, and being helpful. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @nathanmacintosh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, May 07, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian and podcaster Gus Constantellis to talk about solo travel, sibling favoritism, and coming out to Greek parents. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Gus answers a listener with mother-in-law struggles. Then, Emma asks Gus anything, from cliff jumping, to Taylor Swift, and impulsive tattoos. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about steroids, hair plugs, and sexually empowered grandmas. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @constantlygus Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, April 30, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Joey Avery, to talk about long term relationships, suppositories, and dancing like no one's watching. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Joey answers a listener who wants to know why men want to hook up with plus sized women but not date them. Then, Emma asks Joey anything, from weird meet cutes, people you like getting cancelled, and couples with uneven hotness levels. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about taking credit, testicles, and best friends. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @joeyavery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, April 23, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Martin Amini, to talk about the shocking Diddy allegations, JLo haters, and communicating with immigrant parents. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Martin and Emma help a listener figure out how to dirty talk. Then, Emma asks Martin anything, from sex playlists, to when you know she's "the one," and the joy of Warcraft. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about pheromones, self-improvement, and getting traumatized by early 2000s internet. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @martinamini Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, April 16, 2024
Emma is joined by life and dating coach, and author of Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What) , Matthew Hussey, to talk about making the first move, the perils of social media, and not being the youngest person in the room anymore. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Mathew answers a listener who wonders why men seem to be attracted to chaos. Then, Emma asks Matthew anything, from alpha males and incels, to forming real connections when dating, and when - if ever - it's ok to ghost. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about physical attraction, thoughtful dates, and proposing. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @thematthewhussey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, April 09, 2024
Emma is joined by singer-songwriter Jesse McCartney, to talk about his new EP All's Well, navigating teen stardom, and the scariest forms of self expression. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Jesse answers a listener email about going no contact with an ex. Then, Emma asks Jesse anything, from starting a family, to writing songs about exes, and why not all press is good press. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about dads, pizza, and asking for directions. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @jessemccartney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, April 02, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Shapel Lacey, to talk about cheerleading, empathy, and unrequited crushes. Then, Emma asks Shapel anything, from punk, to parents, to compliments. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about knowing your limits, reading, and defending yourself. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @shapellacey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, March 26, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Gibran Saleem, to talk about teenage social anxiety, skincare for men, and how to catch men up on their emotional intelligence. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Gibran answers a listener who wonders why men don't ask how their girlfriends are feeling - or maybe it's just her boyfriend. Then, Emma asks Gibran anything, from taking a pickup artistry seminar, to navigating your way out of the friend zone, and why soup is a bad first date meal. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about moms, ball trimmers, and how to not creep women out. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @gibransaleem Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, March 19, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian and host of the Are You Garbage? podcast, H. Foley, to talk about destination weddings, brain boosting pills, and BB guns. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Foley answers a listener who wonders why men don't believe her when she says she wants to keep things casual. Then, Emma asks Foley anything, from friendship loyalty, to body image, and catastrophic dates. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about stress, flirting, and self-perception. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @hfoleycomedy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, March 12, 2024
Emma is joined by writer and comedian Moss Perricone to talk about canceling dates, moving in together quickly, and toxic men who wear pearls. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Moss answers a listener asking about men's weird texting habits. Then, Emma asks Moss anything, from avoiding conflict, to rom-coms, to friendship breakups. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about post-sex thoughts, fashion missteps, and splitting the check. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @mossperricone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, March 05, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Brian Park to talk about sibling double standards, boarding school, and crying. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Brian answers a listener who wants to know if her boyfriend is loading the dishwasher wrong on purpose. Then, Emma asks Brian anything, from the most annoying type of guy, to warning your partner before they meet your parents, to what dating apps are actually missing. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about Sydney Sweeney, cleanliness, and aging. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @itsbrianpark Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, February 27, 2024
Emma is joined by social psychologist, Kinsey Institute Research Fellow, and host of the Sex and Psychology podcast, Dr. Justin Lehmiller. They get into it about sex, kinks, monogamy vs non monogamy, and what "normal" even means. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Justin answers an email from a listener whose sex drive isn't as high as her partner's. Then, Emma asks Justin anything, from foreplay, to online dating, and relationship dynamics where one partner is queer and the other is straight. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about fantasy vs reality, negging, incels, and Viagra. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @justinjlehmiller Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, February 20, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Daniel Sloss to talk about crying, female besties, and perfecting your sexual prowess before settling down. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Daniel answers a listener email about men who avoid therapy. Then, Emma asks Daniel anything, from proposals, to thoughtful gift giving, and running with the bulls in Pamplona. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about getting over breakups, roasting your friends, and how to give men constructive criticism in a way that will actually get through to them. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @danielsloss Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, February 13, 2024
Emma is joined by actor and activist Chiké Okonkwo , to talk about falling in love with theater, growing up in a Nigerian household in London, and what it means to use your privilege for good. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Chiké helps a listener who wants to know what men expect from their partners in the bedroom. Then, Emma asks Chiké anything, from what it was like having an older dad, working with female directors, and first date mishaps. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about moms, Prospect Park runners, and getting deep with friends. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @chike_okonkwo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, February 06, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian, YouTuber, and host of the UNCENSORED podcast, Mario Adrion, to talk about growing up in small town Germany, his experiences in the modeling industry, and Euphoria vs. Sex Education. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Mario helps a listener who keeps receiving unsolicited dick pics on dating apps. Then, Emma asks Mario anything, from the beauty of a bromance, to unrealistic beauty standards, and doing anything for social media clout. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about why The Rock could be president, splitting the bill on a date, and what it means to be the master of your domain. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA and Why Do Men? questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @marioadrion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, January 30, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Dusty Slay to talk about childhood attention grabs, Waffle House, and subverting some of TikTok's more specific gender stereotypes. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Dusty helps unpack why men choose the restaurant downstairs from their own apartment as a first date location. Then, Emma asks Dusty anything, from Southern politeness, to crying, and realizations about parenting. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about Jason Statham, being petty, and PDA. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @dustyslay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, January 23, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian, podcaster, and Bang Cookies co-owner Corey B, to talk about divorced parents, couples therapy, and the joys of a foot massage. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Corey helps a listener understand men's logic behind door holding etiquette. Then, Emma asks Corey anything, from childbirth, to setting ground rules about messiness, and ghosting friends. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about Joe Rogen, letting go of toxic thinking, and creative ways to deliver bad news. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @iamcoreyb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, January 16, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Jeff Arcuri to talk about relationships, growing up with sisters, being an uncle, and bad sales jobs. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Jeff helps a listener analyze the psychology of "Where's my hug?" guys. Then, Emma asks Jeff anything, from dating fans, to changing tires, and dating profile dealbreakers. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about deep conversations, nudes, and being pursued. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @jarcuri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, January 09, 2024
Emma is joined by her friend, personal trainer and competitive body builder Ian Michaud. Emma and Ian talk about emotional eating, female breadwinners, who muscles are really for, and steroids. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Ian answers a listener's burning question about erectile dysfunction and what it really means in terms of attraction. Then, Emma asks Ian anything, from body building photo shoots, to gym dating etiquette, and setting physical boundaries. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about nerdy heroes, childhood, and compliments. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @michaudmethod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, January 02, 2024
Emma is joined by comedian Eric D'Alessandro to talk about stunted rap careers, Staten Island, and Catholic school. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Eric helps a listener whose boyfriend unexpectedly spiced things up in the bedroom. Then, Emma asks Eric anything, from sweet sixteens, to doubles dates, and what women don't get enough credit for. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about moms vs wives, Peaky Blinders outfit inspo, and fist fights. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @ericdalessandro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, December 26, 2023
Emma is joined by her friend, comedian, and co-host of the podcast On The Gate, Derek Drescher. Emma and Derek talk about gender roles in prison, memorable teachers, and sobriety. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Derek answers a listener's question about men telling women what they want to hear instead of being honest. Then, Emma asks Derek anything, from dating someone with your same job, to understanding vaginas, to the worst person he's friends with. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about parties, calling out friends on their shit, and couple therapy. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @derekdrescher Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, December 19, 2023
Emma is joined by comedian Nico Carney to talk growing up in the south, the Timothée Chalamet-ification of modern young men, and why testosterone gets in the way of having a good cry. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Nico answers a listener's question about guys lowering their voices around each other. Then, Emma asks Nico anything, from the rise of the incel, to short kings, to locker room talk. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about coolness, suit shopping, and showing affection. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @nicocarney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, December 12, 2023
Emma is joined by her friend and former podcast co-host, comedian, singer, and artist Matteo Lane. Emma and Matteo talk about facial filler, family, and introducing his husband to the Princess Switch universe. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Matteo answers a listener's question about men who ghost but keep watching your IG stories. Emma shares her dilemma about being in a fight with her mother. Then, Emma asks Matteo anything, from getting hit on at the gym, to hair transplants, getting kicked off of tinder for catfishing as himself, and how he knew it was time to settle down. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about miscommunication between straight couples, video games, and insults as compliments. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @matteolane Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, December 05, 2023
Emma is joined by comedian Nimesh Patel to talk about life pre and post testicular cancer, the importance of smelling good, and learning to move beyond anger. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Nimesh helps a listener who fears her boyfriend simultaneously fetishizes her bisexuality and uses it to undermine her fidelity. Then, Emma asks Nimesh anything from parental approval, to social media etiquette, and merging interior decor taste with a partner. Emma shares her dilemma about receiving compliments, and finally, they wrap with a lightning round about female vs male therapists, pimple popping, and surprises. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @findingnimesh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, November 28, 2023
Emma is joined by comedian and actor Vir Das to talk about the differences between Indian and American conceptions of masculinity, boarding school corporal punishment, volatile relationships, and dancing at Indian weddings. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Vir helps a listener who is worried that men don't relate to feelings of anxiety the same way that women do. Then, Emma asks Vir anything from embarrassing memories, to winning arguments, and hacking minimalist travel. Emma shares her dilemma about feeling anger after getting bodychecked. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about being real, treating yourself, and settling down. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @virdas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, November 21, 2023
Emma is joined by the hosts of The Basement Yard Podcast, Joe Santagato and Frank Alvarez. They talk about being friends since pre-school, gender reveals, awkward trips to the vet, and normalizing crying. In the Why Do Men? Segment, the guys help a listener whose husband is giving her some mixed signals regarding his preferences for women in makeup versus au natural. Then, Emma asks Joe and Frank anything, from feeling pressure to impress other men, to dating dealbreakers, the most embarrassing thing they've gotten caught doing, and holding hands with your dad. The guys help Emma out with her dilemma about wallowing in the negative. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about getting your SO's parents' approval, how men bond, and unsolicited nudes. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @thebasementyard, @joesantagato, @thefrankalvarez Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, November 14, 2023
Emma is joined this week by comedian, retired teacher, and co-host of the Social Studies podcast Joe Dombrowski. They talk about getting hit on in inappropriate places, connecting with masculinity through fishing, gendered dynamics in same-sex relationships, and Emma explains the logistics of lesbian sex to Joe. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Joe helps a listener who feels frustrated that she always needs to remind her husband about the things that are important to her. Then, Emma asks Joe anything, from his worst date, to learning from his parents' relationship, how to raise the next generation better than the last, what it was like being in a college fraternity, and learning what it takes to give a truly sincere apology. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about men complaining, insecurity, and penis size. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @joe_dombrowski Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, November 07, 2023
Emma is joined by comedian Oscar Aydin to talk about navigating newfound singledom, learning gender through being a child model, and why guys always get thrown on the grill. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Oscar helps a listener whose fiancé doesn't seem to care at all about his appearance. Then, Emma asks Oscar anything from straight men acting different around gay men, love languages, manifestation, and detaching shame from sex. In the Apology Surrogate segment, Oscar gives a listener closure after her boss embarrassed her at work. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about jock jams, oral sex, and being perceived. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @itsoscaraydin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, October 31, 2023
Emma is joined by Mark Normand, comedian and co-host of podcasts Tuesdays with Stories and We Might Be Drunk, to talk about life pre vs post marriage, expressing your feelings, and growing up with a constant fear of being punched in the face. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Mark helps a listener understand why men use the bathroom faster in public than in private. Then, Emma asks Mark anything from accepting rejection, to crying at movies, and balancing self-care with self-pity. In the Apology Surrogate segment, a listener writes in with a complaint about an inconsiderate bartender. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about how dads show they care, being scared of everything, and checking in on your friends. Email us at ama@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @marknormand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, October 24, 2023
Emma is joined by Johnny Bananas, star of The Challenge and the new series House of Villains . Johnny shares his theories on male vs female villainy, how mental health awareness has changed for men since his career started, being platonic friends with women, and where to draw the line with brutal honesty. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Johnny helps a listener who's 5'10" date lied about being 6'1". Finally, they wrap with an Apology Surrogate letter from a listener whose expensive food item was eaten by an inconsiderate house guest. Email us at ama@betches.com with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @johnnybananas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, October 17, 2023
Emma is joined by Che Durena, comedian, streamer, and TikTok sensation, to talk about all things sex, psychedelics, and the pure joy of getting together with your bros and dancing around to pop music. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Che helps a listener understand why her boyfriend sits around with his hand down his pants. Then, Emma asks Che anything, from his worst date, to learning about porn, to dysfunctional families. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about fear, nighttime routines, and getting hit on in public. Email us at ama@betches.com with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @chedurena Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, October 10, 2023
Comedian and actor Usama Siddiquee brings his charisma (and dimples) to the studio to talk to Emma about growing up Muslim in Texas, unlearning homophobia, and why men need to get over their insecurity about women being funny. Usama answers a listener's Why Do Men? email about men's handshakes, and teaches Emma how to dap like a dude. Emma puts Usama in the AMA hot seat with questions about ghosting, interracial dating, and his most embarrassing memory. Then, Usama helps Emma solve a personal dilemma about her questionable vitamins, and gives a listener an apology after her date failed to disclose his weird sleeping arrangements. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about sex cleanup etiquitte, toothbrushes, and the incomparable safety of a woman's bosom. Email us at ama@betches.com with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @usamastandsup Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, October 03, 2023
Emma is joined by comedian and writer Francis Ellis, who speaks on behalf of modern men to answer questions like: What's it like showering with a bunch of other men after a lacrosse game? Why don't men share their feelings with each other? Are certain emojis a red flag? What do men think of as self-care? Then, Emma shares a recent dilemma involving an unexpected crush on her therapist. In the Why Do Men segment, Francis helps a listener understand why her boyfriend refuses to carry a bag. Finally, they wrap up with a lightning round about chicken, sex, and the military. Email us at ama@betches.com with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @francisellis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, September 26, 2023
Emma is joined by Jared Freid in her quest for man-related answers, and he helps shed some light on questions such as: Are deep conversations an inherently feminine thing? Do we become aware of gender through our parents’ hangups? How often do men really wash their sheets? Is it a problem if your celebrity crush looks nothing like your partner? In the Why Do Men segment, Jared explains to a listener why her boyfriend leaves stray pee on the toilet, and how men feel about bathroom etiquette in general. Then, Jared takes up the mantle of Apology Surrogate, and apologize to a listener on behalf of an inconsiderate airplane seatmate. In Emma’s Dilemma, Jared gives Emma some helpful tips on navigating dirty talk with her long term girlfriend. Finally, they wrap up with a lightning round about everything from hibachi to insecurity. Email us at ama@betches.com with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @jaredfreid Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Tue, September 26, 2023
Welcome to Ask Men Anything, with Emma Willmann! In our premiere episode, Emma invites comedian Lucas Zelnick to help her get to the bottom of what modern masculinity is really all about, by answering some of her - and your - burning questions. Is a man’s relationship with his mother an indicator of how he treats women in general? Do men use the Bro Code to enable their friends’ bad behavior? Which first date food choices give men the ick? Are straight men ever concerned with how other men see them? In the Why Do Men segment, they answer a listener email that asks why men DM over and over with no reply. Later in the episode, Lucas helps Emma solve a personal dilemma about stolen laundry, and steps in as the Apology Surrogate to give a listener some closure after her LTR comes to an abrupt end. Email us at ama@betches.com with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @lucaszelnick Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Wed, September 20, 2023
There’s one question that has stumped our universe for centuries: Why do men? Emma Willmann is on a quest to find out the answer in this podcast from Betches Media. Each week, Emma is inviting some of the funniest and most interesting men she knows into the studio and pulling from the Ask Men Anything inbox to ask your biggest, weirdest, and most pressing questions of earth’s most mysterious beings. Tune in every Tuesday, starting September 26th, 2023 and subscribe now so you don't miss an episode! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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