Break the Silence, Build a Future
"Break The Silence and Build a Future" is a podcast dedicated to amplifying the voices of survivors and advocates while shedding light on the pervasive issue of gender-based violence. Join us on a journey where survivors find strength in sharing their stories, and experts offer profound insights into this critical societal issue.We delve into personal narratives, exploring the lived experiences of individuals who've confronted gender-based violence head-on. Moreover, our conversations with experts uncover actionable solutions and strategies, illuminating the path toward lasting change.
S2 Enull · Wed, March 12, 2025
The Weight of Unspoken Grief
Not all grief is acknowledged, and not all losses are visible. Some grief is carried in silence—unspoken, unresolved, and often overlooked. In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , we explore the quiet pain of grief that isn't tied to death but to loss that goes unrecognized: lost relationships, dreams that never came true, and versions of ourselves that no longer exist. I share my personal experiences, including the grief of the future I imagined after my marriage ended, becoming a single mother in a new country, and the unspoken sorrow of watching my daughter suffer in an abusive relationship. Together, we uncover why we suppress grief? How it manifests in our lives, and ways to honor and carry our losses without letting them consume us. As this season comes to an end, I invite you to subscribe to the podcast so you do not miss Season Three: Justice System from the Victim’s Perspective , launching May 7, 2025. Subscribers will also get a chance to join live recordings, ask questions in real time, and share their own stories on the podcast. 💛 Your grief matters. Your voice matters. You are not alone. #GriefHealing #UnspokenGrief #HealingThroughLoss #BreakTheSilencePodcast #LifeAfterLoss #CopingWithGrief #HealingJourney #RebuildingAfterTrauma #SurvivorStories #EmotionalHealing
S2 E15 · Wed, March 05, 2025
We don’t grieve because they’re gone—we grieve because love still remains
Grief is not just about loss—it is love that still lingers, love that refuses to fade. In this episode, I explore how grief is a continuation of love, a connection that remains even when the person we love is gone. How do we carry grief as a reflection of love rather than as pain? How do we keep their presence alive in our lives? Join me as we explore grief as love remembered. 💛 Listen now and honor the love that never leaves. #GriefIsLove #HealingThroughGrief #RememberingLovedOnes #LifeAfterLoss #GriefJourney #HonoringMemory #BreakTheSilencePodcast #GriefHealing #LoveBeyondLoss #GriefSupport
Wed, February 26, 2025
Holding On Without Holding Back: The Fear of Forgetting
Holding onto love, memories, and identity after loss—navigating the fear of forgetting while embracing healing. Grief isn’t just about loss—it’s about the fear of losing the memories, the voice, the presence of the person we love. In this deeply personal episode, I explore my struggle with the fear of forgetting my daughter and how trauma can overshadow the memories we desperately want to hold onto. How do we preserve the essence of a loved one beyond their tragic passing? Why do some of us struggle to visualize or dream about them? And how can we honor their memory in a way that brings healing, rather than pain? Join me as I navigate these difficult emotions and reflect on ways to keep their presence alive, even when the grief feels overwhelming. ✨ Tune in now for this powerful and emotional discussion.
S2 E14 · Wed, February 19, 2025
Healing Together: The Role of Community in Grief
Joining Fartumo Kusow are Rabbi Adam Chalom and Rabbi Jodi Kornfeld , leading voices in Humanistic Judaism , who bring a unique perspective on grief, healing, and the power of collective action . They share insights from their book, Contemporary Humanistic Judaism: Beliefs, Values, Practices , offering practical ways communities can provide tangible support beyond thoughts and prayers . In this episode, we discuss: 🔹 How grief can feel like an identity shift and why community matters. 🔹 The humanist approach to grief—focusing on action, not just words. 🔹 Practical ways individuals and communities can support those in mourning . 🔹 Breaking the silence around grief and creating safe spaces for healing . About Our Guests: Rabbi Adam Chalom serves as the North American Dean of the International Institute for Secular Humanistic Judaism (IISHJ) and leads Kol Hadash Humanistic Congregation in Chicago . With degrees from Yale University and the University of Michigan , he was ordained by IISHJ in 2001. Rabbi Jodi Kornfeld is the leader of Beth Chaverim Humanistic Jewish Community . She holds a Master’s and Doctor of Science in Jewish Studies from Spertus College and was ordained by IISHJ in 2009. Together, they co-edited Contemporary Humanistic Judaism: Beliefs, Values, Practices , a groundbreaking exploration of modern Jewish identity and community support. Their work has been featured on various platforms, including the New Books Network Podcast . Resources: 📖 Book: Contemporary Humanistic Judaism 📘 Study Guide 🎧 Podcast Interview on New Books Network 🔊 Tune in now for an insightful discussion on how we can build stronger, more compassionate communities for those experiencing grief.
S2 E13 · Wed, February 12, 2025
Episode 13: Rebuilding After Loss: Who Am I Without This?
Send us a text In Episode 13, Rebuilding After Loss: Who Am I Without This? , we dive into the identity shifts that grief demands. Losing someone, a relationship, or a dream often leaves us questioning who we are and how to move forward. This episode explores how to navigate these changes, embrace life again, and find purpose after loss. Together, we’ll discuss the fears, challenges, and small steps that lead to rebuilding a meaningful life—one that honors both our past and our future. #GriefJourney #HealingAfterLoss #RebuildingAfterLoss #GriefSupport #LifeAfterLoss #MovingForward #FindingYourself #RediscoveringPurpose #IdentityAfterLoss #PersonalGrowth #BreakTheSilencePodcast #PodcastEpisodes #ListenAndLearn #YouAreNotAlone #HealingTogether #BuildingCommunity #ShareYourStory #TellYourTruth #GriefAwareness
Wed, January 29, 2025
Episode 12: Finding Strength in the Mess with Molly Booker
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , I sit down with Molly Booker, a passionate advocate for authenticity, mental well-being, and embracing life's imperfections. We dive into the raw realities of grief, resilience, and how to navigate the messy, unpredictable nature of healing. Molly shares her personal journey of loss, growth, and finding purpose through the chaos. If you've ever felt stuck in your pain or struggled to embrace your own story, this conversation will inspire you to find strength in the mess. To reach Molly Booker: https://www.mollybooker.com/ To reach Fartumo Kusow: https://linktr.ee/fkusow 🎧 Tune in now and join the conversation! #GriefHealing #Resilience #Authenticity #BreakTheSilencePodcast #MollyBooker #HealingJourney
S2 E11 · Wed, January 22, 2025
Episode 11: Healing in Community: The Power of Shared Experiences
Send us a text Healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in connection. In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future, host Fartumo Kusow explores the transformative power of healing in community. Discover why shared experiences foster resilience, how they help break down isolation, and the practical steps to create spaces of connection and support. Whether you’re navigating your own healing journey or supporting others, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement to build stronger, more connected futures. #HealingInCommunity #SharedExperiences #BreakTheSilencePodcast #EmotionalResilience #StrengthInConnection #CollectiveHealing #SupportiveSpaces #GriefAndHealing #EmpowermentThroughConnection #MentalHealthAwarenes
S2 E9 · Wed, January 15, 2025
Episode 10: Resilience After Loss: Rebuilding and Finding Strength
Send us a text Loss reshapes our lives, challenging our sense of identity and purpose. In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future, host Fartumo Kusow explores the true meaning of resilience after loss—not as bouncing back, but as growing and rebuilding in the face of pain. Join Fartumo as she shares insights on embracing vulnerability, finding strength in adversity, and redefining purpose after grief. Whether you’re navigating your own loss or supporting someone on their journey, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and practical steps to move forward. Keywords: Resilience after loss Rebuilding after grief Emotional healing Finding purpose in pain Strength in vulnerability #ResilienceAfterLoss #GriefAndHealing #StrengthInAdversity #EmotionalResilience #HealingJourney #RebuildingAfterLoss #VulnerabilityIsStrength #TurnPainIntoPurpose #BreakTheSilencePodcast #HopeAndHealing
S2 E7 · Wed, January 08, 2025
Episode 9: The Ripple Effect: How Sharing Your Story Inspires Change
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , host Fartumo Kusow explores the transformative power of storytelling. Sharing your story not only helps you heal, but it also creates a ripple effect—connecting with others, inspiring courage, and fostering a movement for change. Fartumo reflects on the challenges and rewards of vulnerability, shares how her own story has impacted others, and offers tips on starting your own ripple effect. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about the power of owning your story and creating meaningful connections through your voice. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Storytelling 09:27 Vulnerability and Connection 16:19 Challenges and Rewards of Sharing 20:29 Starting Your Own Ripple Effect 24:17 The Ripple Effect of Storytelling #RippleEffect #OwnYourStory #HealingJourney #VulnerabilityIsStrength #StorytellingMatters #EmpowermentThroughStories #BreakTheSilencePodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GriefSupport
S2 E6 · Wed, January 01, 2025
Episode 6: Confronting Grief: A Journey of Healing
Send us a text In this episode of 'Break the Silence, Build the Future', Fartumo Kusow delves into the emotional and psychological costs of avoiding grief, sharing her personal journey following the tragic loss of her daughter. She emphasizes the importance of confronting grief rather than suppressing it, discussing the profound impacts of avoidance on mental health and relationships. The episode serves as a guide for listeners to navigate their own grief, encouraging them to embrace their emotions and honor their losses as part of their healing journey. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Grief and Loss 01:15 Personal Journey of Grief 05:00 The Cost of Avoiding Grief 11:54 Facing Grief: Steps to Healing 15:36 Honoring Love and Loss #GriefAwareness #EmotionalHealing #HealingJourney #BreakTheSilencePodcast #AvoidedGrief #MentalHealthMatters #FacingGrief #TurningPainIntoPurpose #GriefSupport #ResilienceInGrief #OwnYourStory #GriefAndGrowth
S2 E5 · Wed, December 25, 2024
Episode 5: Living with Grief: Finding Strength in the New Normal
Send us a text Grief doesn’t have an endpoint; it becomes a part of who we are, shaping how we see the world and live our lives. In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , host Fartumo Kusow explores what it means to live with grief and make it a part of your story. Fartumo reflects on how grief becomes woven into our daily lives and shares personal insights on finding purpose and meaning in the midst of pain. She discusses how to embrace a "new normal" where grief coexists with hope, joy, and resilience. If you’ve ever felt the weight of grief and wondered how to move forward, this episode offers a compassionate and empowering perspective on carrying grief with strength and grace. #LivingWithGrief #HealingJourney #GriefSupport #ResilienceInGrief #BreakTheSilencePodcast #NewNormal #PurposeInPain #EmotionalHealing #StrengthThroughLoss #GriefAndHope
S2 E8 · Wed, December 18, 2024
Episode 8: From Betrayal to Empowerment: Owning Your Story and Reclaiming Your Life
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future, host Fartumo Kusow sits down with Victoria Ellen, author of Painting in the Rain: A True Story of Trickery and Triumph. Victoria Ellen is a survivor, the mother of two adult children, a wife, and an executive in corporate America. In 2023, she published her first book titled “Painting in the Rain: A True Story of Trickery and Triumph. Victoria speaks at corporate events, is featured as a guest on podcasts, and does book signing events for local organizations in the Cincinnati area. She is passionate about sharing her inspirational story with the world. In her spare time, she enjoys traveling, singing, and gardening. She divides her time between her homes in Ohio and in the Caribbean. Victoria shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming the grief of a lost marriage to someone she thought was a loving husband and father, only to discover a devastating betrayal. The Episode explores the complex emotions of grief, anger, and self-discovery that followed, and how Victoria found the courage to own her story and share it with the world through her book and media appearances. Her story is one of resilience, vulnerability, and transformation, offering hope and inspiration for anyone navigating their own pain and loss. https://www.victoriaellen.co/ Join us as we discuss: The grief of losing not just a partner, but the life you thought you had. The power of vulnerability in owning your story. How sharing her truth became a tool for healing and empowerment. Advice for others hesitant to share their own painful Chapters 00:00Introduction to Resilience and Healing 02:28Victoria's Journey Through Abuse 05:08The Pain of Realization 06:55The Process of Leaving 09:14The Impact on Children 11:28Owning Your Story 13:38The Decision to Share 16:31Writing the Memoir 18:56The Role of Support Systems 23:39The Journey of Writing Together 25:05Legal Considerations in Storytelling 26:56The Meaning Behind 'Painting in the Rain' 28:06The Impact of Sharing Your Story 29:40Healing Through Storytelling 32:52Discovering Strength Through Vulnerability 34:40The Upcoming Docu-Series 36:03Inspiring Others to Leave Toxic Relationships 37:36Understanding Grief and Its Manifestations 44:27Reclaiming Power Through Storytelling 46:45Advice for Sharing Painful Stories 49:45Where to Find the Book #OwnYourStory #HealingJourney #Resilience #BreakTheSilencePodcast #Empowerment #Gr
S2 E7 · Thu, December 12, 2024
Episode 7: Owning Your Story: Finding Strength in Vulnerability
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , host Fartumo Kusow delves into the transformative power of owning your story. Sharing deeply personal reflections, Fartumo discusses the courage it takes to confront grief and speak your truth, even when it challenges societal expectations. Whether shared publicly or privately, embracing your story is a vital step in the healing process. Join us as we explore the value of vulnerability, the strength in storytelling, and how reclaiming your narrative can lead to profound growth and resilience. #OwnYourStory #HealingJourney #GriefSupport #VulnerabilityIsStrength #BreakTheSilencePodcast #StorytellingMatters #ResilienceThroughGrief #Empowerment #PodcastLife #BreakTheSilenceBuildAFuture
S2 E4 · Sat, November 02, 2024
Episode 4: Delayed Grief
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , we explore the concept of delayed grief—the grief that we push aside when life’s demands leave us no room to process our loss. I’ll share my own experiences with delayed grief, from losing loved ones while adjusting to a new life in Canada to navigating the end of a long marriage while raising young children. Together, we’ll uncover the impact of unprocessed grief and discuss ways to finally make space for the healing we’ve been postponing. #DelayedGrief #HealingFromLoss #UnprocessedGrief #GriefJourney #MentalHealthMatters #EmotionalHealing #GriefAwareness#BreakTheSilencePodcast #GriefAndHealing #CopingWithLoss #HealingTogether #LifeAfterLoss #GrievingProcess #ResilienceJourney #GriefEducation #FindingClosure #PodcastForHealing #TraumaRecovery #NavigatingGrief
S2 E2 · Thu, October 17, 2024
Episode Two: The Weight of Expectations: Grief Doesn’t Look the Way We Thought
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , I explore the tension between what we expect grief to look like and the reality of how it actually shows up. After the loss of my daughter, I found myself struggling with the disconnect between society’s expectations of grief—especially for mothers—and my own experience of quiet numbness. I’ll share my personal story of feeling guilt and confusion for not grieving the “right way” and offer insight into how I came to accept that there is no perfect script for grief. Healing begins when we stop comparing and start accepting our grief for what it is—unique and valid. #GriefJourney #HealingTogether #GriefAndHealing #PodcastEpisode #BreakTheSilencePodcast #MentalHealthSupport #GrievingProcess #PodcastCommunity #EmotionalHealing #SelfAcceptance
S2 E3 · Thu, October 17, 2024
Episode 3: Learning to Breathe Through the Weigh of Grief
Send us a text In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , I reflect on the overwhelming nature of grief—how it doesn’t come in waves but floods every part of life, making even the simplest tasks feel impossible. After losing my daughter, grief became a constant presence, filling every moment and relationship, leaving little room for anything else. I’ll share how I managed to live through those moments, what it took to keep going, and how I’ve learned to carry grief without letting it consume me. If you’ve ever felt trapped under the weight of grief, this episode will help you understand that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed—and that even in those moments, understanding is still possible.
S2 E1 · Thu, October 17, 2024
Episode 1: Shades of Grief
Send us a text Are you struggling with grief that doesn’t look the way others expect? In this episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , we dive into the unspoken social pressures surrounding grief. Learn how societal expectations shape the way we mourn, the harmful impact of these expectations on healing, and why it’s important to embrace your unique journey. Host [Your Name] shares personal reflections on losing a loved one, the guilt of not grieving 'correctly,' and offers insights into grieving without judgment or comparison. Listen now to reclaim your right to grieve on your own terms. #GriefJourney #HealingFromLoss #BreakTheSilence #BuildAFuture #GriefAwareness #EmbraceYourGrief #MentalHealthMatters #EndTheStigma #GriefSupport #AuthenticHealing #LifeAfterLoss #EmotionalWellbeing #GrievingOnYourTerms #GriefIsPersonal #ItsOKToGrieve #HealingTakesTime #GriefWithoutJudgment #SurvivingLoss
S1 E20 · Thu, August 15, 2024
Episode 20: Expectations vs. Reality: A Mother's Journey in Grief Unfiltered
Send us a text In this poignant and deeply introspective season finale of Break the Silence, Build a Future , I delve into the contrast between societal expectations of how one should grieve and the reality of my own experience. When I first learned on June 5, 2023, that my daughter's husband had been arrested for her murder after she had been missing for twelve days, I felt an overwhelming coldness that drove me to wrap myself in heavy blankets, even in the heat of summer. Yet, I did not cry. It wasn't until the judge's decision at the preliminary hearing—despite it being the best outcome I could have hoped for—that the tears finally came. In this episode, I explore the complex emotions surrounding grief and loss, particularly the notion that tears are a measure of love. I ask, as honestly as possible, how a mother should react when faced with the unimaginable loss of a child. Through my story, I hope to offer comfort and understanding to others who may feel guilty for not grieving in the "expected" way. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on the ways we cope, the pressures we face, and the importance of allowing ourselves to grieve in our own way. #GriefJourney #Motherhood #UnexpectedGrief #GriefAndLoss #CopingWithLoss #MothersGrief #SurvivorsStory #GriefSupport #HealingProcess #BreakTheSilence #EndDomesticViolence #TraumaRecovery #PodcastSeasonFinale #TrueCrimePodcast #GriefAwareness #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing
S1 E19 · Thu, August 08, 2024
Episode 19: Waiting For Justice
Send us a text In this poignant episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future , we delve into the harrowing journey of seeking justice after the unimaginable loss of a loved one to intimate partner violence. One year after the tragic murder of my daughter by her husband of 18 years, my family and I are still navigating the complex and often overwhelming court process. This episode sheds light on how the legal system can leave families feeling isolated, powerless, and in the dark as they wait for justice to be served. Join us as we share our personal story and reflect on the emotional toll this journey has taken, while advocating for better support and understanding for those who face similar battles. Hashtags: #WaitingForJustice #BreakTheSilence #EndIPV #SurvivorStories #VictimsRights #JusticeForAll #CourtProcess #GriefJourney #AdvocacyMatters #DomesticViolenceAwareness
Wed, June 19, 2024
Episode 18: Navigating Grief and Justice: The Challenges of Family Support After My Daughter's Tragic Loss
Send us a text In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, I open up about the tragic loss of my daughter, who was murdered by her husband last year. As we navigate the complex and often overwhelming legal process, my family and I have faced significant challenges, not only in seeking justice but also in finding the support we desperately need. I’ll share our emotional journey through the court system, highlighting the profound lack of resources available for families of victims. We’ll discuss the gaps in support, the emotional toll, and the urgent need for systemic changes to better assist those who are grieving while fighting for justice. Join me as I share our story, raise awareness, and advocate for better support systems for families enduring such unimaginable pain. #GriefJourney #SeekingJustice #VictimSupport #FamilyAdvocacy #TragicLoss #CourtProcess #LegalChallenges #SupportSystems #RaisingAwareness #PodcastEpisode #PersonalStory #SystemicChange
S1 E17 · Wed, May 29, 2024
Episode 17: Shades of Grief: Navigating the First Anniversary of Loss
Send us a text In this deeply personal episode, I confront the complex and often overwhelming emotions that accompany the first anniversary of my daughter's murder. Through candid reflections and raw honesty, I explore the many shades of grief, from haunting flashbacks to feelings of helplessness. Join me as I navigate this painful milestone, seeking to find meaning, healing, and a path forward amidst the darkness. Whether you are grieving a loss or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a compassionate space for understanding and connection. #GriefJourney #HealingAfterLoss #FirstAnniversary #GriefSupport #CopingWithLoss #MentalHealth #Podcast #GriefAndLoss #Bereavement #FindingHope #HealingProcess #RememberingLovedOnes #TraumaRecovery #EmotionalWellbeing #LifeAfterLoss
S1 E16 · Wed, May 22, 2024
Episode 16: Turning Pain into Purpose: Lessons from Losing My Daughter to Intimate Partner Violence
Send us a text In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I open up about my personal journey through the unimaginable grief of losing my daughter to intimate partner violence. Sharing my story is not only a way to honor her memory, but also a means to reach out to others who might be facing similar heartache. Join me as I navigate the emotional challenges and the healing process, discussing how I managed to transform my pain into a purpose-driven life. I delve into the raw emotions of grief, the steps, and the ongoing journey of finding strength and hope in the face of tragedy. This episode aims to provide comfort, support, and practical advice to those affected by intimate partner violence. Whether you're personally grieving a loss, supporting a loved one, or seeking to understand the impact of domestic violence, my story offers valuable insights and resources. Listen to discover how to move forward from unimaginable loss, find a sense of purpose, and build a life filled with resilience and hope. #IntimatePartnerViolence #GriefJourney #HealingFromLoss #FindingStrength #CopingWithGrief #TurningPainIntoPurpose #SupportAndHealing #OvercomingTragedy #PurposeDrivenLife #DomesticViolenceAwareness
S1 E15 · Wed, May 15, 2024
Episode 15: May 8th: The Weight of Joy and Sorrow
Send us a text Join me on this deeply personal episode as I reflect on the weight of May 8th, a day that holds both profound joy and unimaginable pain in my life. It's a date marked by the containers of my birth, a celebration of life and growth, juxtaposed against the harrowing realities of domestic violence and loss. As I share my journey, I'll take you through the highs and lows of this significant day. It's the day my daughter, amidst the chaos and anguish of an abusive relationship, found the strength to check into a battered women's shelter, a decision born out of necessity, but also of resilience and courage. But May 8th also carries the heavy burden of legal proceedings, as we face the hearing for her husband, charged with the first-degree murder of my beloved daughter. It's a day etched in sorrow, a reminder of the profound injustice and heartache that can coexist alongside the beauty and blessings of life. Through my narrative, I'll explore the complexities of navigating such contrasting emotions, the bittersweet symphony of grief and gratitude that accompanies this date each year. Join me as I honor the memory of my daughter, celebrate her indomitable spirit, and find solace in the moments of joy that still manage to shine through the darkness. #Reflections #LifeJourney #DomesticViolenceAwareness #LossAndResilience #FamilyStrength #FindingHope"
S1 E14 · Sat, May 04, 2024
Episode 14: Legislating Change: Bill 173 and Surviving Intimate Partner Violence
Send us a text Join host Fartumo Kusow in a compelling episode of "Break the Silence, Build a Future" as we explore the legislative landscape surrounding Intimate Partner Violence (IPV). In this episode, we shine a spotlight on Bill 173, a pivotal piece of legislation aimed at deeming IPV as an epidemic in the Ontario Legislature. Joined by Cait Alexander, a survivor of IPV who courageously shares her harrowing journey, we delve into the stark realities of IPV and the profound impact it has on survivors and their communities. Cait's firsthand account of surviving an attempt on her life by her partner offers a poignant testament to the urgency of legislative action and the critical need for support systems for survivors. Through insightful discussions, we navigate the importance of Bill 173 and its potential implications for combating IPV and fostering a culture of safety and empowerment. From legal advocacy to survivor-centered policies, each conversation underscores the collective effort to enact meaningful change and create a future free from violence. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as we confront the challenges, celebrate the victories, and amplify the voices driving progress in the fight against Intimate Partner Violence. #IntimatePartnerViolence #IPV #SurvivorStories #Bill173 #LegislativeChange #OntarioLegislature #BreakTheSilence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SurvivorSupport #EndViolence #EmpowerSurvivors #LegalAdvocacy #CommunitySupport #BuildingAFuture #PodcastEpisode #Podcasting #SocialJustice
S1 E13 · Wed, April 24, 2024
Episode 13: Living With Loss: A Parent's Journey Through The Justice System
Send us a text In "Living With Loss: A Parent's Journey Through The Justice System," I intimately share the poignant story of me grappling with the unimaginable—the loss of my daughter to senseless violence. Through this emotional narrative, I peel back the layers of grief, resilience, and determination as I navigate the labyrinth of the justice system. Join me as I journey along witnessing the highs and lows, the moments of despair and glimmers of hope, and ultimately, the profound transformation that comes from seeking justice while carrying the weight of profound loss. This episode offers a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring power of parental love in the face of tragedy. #LivingWithLoss #JusticeJourney #ParentalStrength #GriefAndJustice #SeekingClosure #PodcastEpisode #EmotionalNarrative #ResilienceInGrief #LoveBeyondLoss
S1 E13 · Wed, April 17, 2024
Episode 12: Shining a Light: The Urgent Case for Declaring Intimate Partner Violence an Epidemic
Send us a text In this episode, we delve into the urgent call to declare Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) an epidemic, highlighting its pervasive, predictable, and preventable nature and the crucial role of awareness in breaking the cycle of shame and secrecy. Intimate Partner Violence is not merely a private matter; it's a public health crisis lurking in the shadows of shame and secrecy. Join us as we make the case for declaring IPV an epidemic, shedding light on why this label is not only warranted but imperative for driving meaningful change. From behind closed doors to the front lines of emergency rooms, IPV leaves a trail of devastation that knows no bounds. Yet, despite its widespread prevalence, society's reluctance to confront this reality perpetuates a culture of silence, enabling abusers to operate with impunity. In this episode, we unpack the pervasive nature of IPV, illustrating how it thrives in the shadows, preying on the vulnerable and perpetuating cycles of trauma for generations. Recognizing the predictable patterns and warning signs empowers listeners to intervene early, offering hope amidst the darkness. But to truly combat this epidemic, we must first strip away the stigma and shame that shrouds it. Declaring Intimate Partner Violence as an epidemic is not just a symbolic gesture; it's a rallying cry for action. It compels governments, communities, and individuals to prioritize prevention, support survivors, and hold perpetrators accountable. Join us as we confront uncomfortable truths, challenge societal norms, and ignite a movement to end the silence surrounding Intimate Partner Violence. Together, let's break the chains of shame and secrecy and create a world where every individual can live free from fear and abuse. Episode Highlights: The case for declaring Intimate Partner Violence an epidemic. Understanding the pervasive nature of IPV and its impact on society Breaking the cycle of shame and secrecy Strategies for prevention and support EndIPV #BreakTheSilenc #DeclareIPVEpidemi #PreventIPV #AwarenessIsKey #ShatterTheStigma #SupportSurvivors #StopAbuse #HealthyRelationships #SpeakOut
S1 E11 · Wed, March 27, 2024
Episode 11:Illuminating Realities: Reflections from 68 Commission on the Status of Women
Send us a text In this episode, we delve into the profound experience of attending the 68th annual Commission on the Status of Women (CSW68), the United Nations' largest gathering dedicated to gender equality and women's empowerment. Our host shares their firsthand account of being amidst hundreds of women from diverse backgrounds, passionately striving towards the goal outlined in this year's theme: "Accelerating the achievement of gender equality and the empowerment of all women and girls." Through poignant reflections, we navigate the overwhelming reality of the challenges women face worldwide in their pursuit of equality. Despite the tireless efforts of individuals and non-governmental agencies spanning decades, it often feels like we have only just scratched the surface. The enormity of the task at hand becomes evident, leaving us feeling like we're merely skimming the surface of a vast iceberg of global gender disparities. The episode explores the emotional impact of hearing United Nations Secretary-General Antonio Guterres acknowledge that women are bearing the brunt of problems created by men. This acknowledgment strikes a chord, starkly reminding us of the systemic issues ingrained in our society. As the host share my struggles, including the tragic loss of loved ones to gender-based violence, they confront the harsh reality of government inaction and the dire consequences it entails. Despite the overwhelming despair, the episode concludes with a sobering realization: the fight for gender equality is far from over, but it's worth undertaking. Tune in to gain insight into the challenges, frustrations, and unwavering determination witnessed at CSW68. Join us in advocating for a world where gender equality isn't just a distant dream but a tangible reality. #Unionwomen #CSW68 #GenderEquality #EmpowerWomen #UN #WomenEmpowerment #GlobalEquality
S1 E10 · Fri, March 15, 2024
Episode 10: Shattered Foundations: Unveiling the Link Between Natural Disasters and Intimate Partner Violence
Send us a text In this compelling episode of “Break the Silence, Build a Future," we delve into the profound connection between natural disasters and intimate partner violence, focusing on the harrowing aftermath of Hurricane Maria in Puerto Rico. Joined by esteemed guest Dr. Teresa Rodrigues-Lebron, we explore how the devastation wrought by Hurricane Maria exposed the stark reality of violence against women and girls in Puerto Rico. Dr. Rodrigues-Lebron, a leading expert in gender-based violence, shares her insights in Spanish. Margaret Villamizar, a dedicated social justice advocate, adeptly interprets her words into English, ensuring a seamless exchange of information and understanding. Through our conversation, listeners gain a deep understanding of the complex interplay between environmental disasters and the worsening of gender-based violence. Dr. Rodrigues-Lebron illuminates how Hurricane Maria's aftermath heightened vulnerabilities, shattered social support systems, and intensified existing power dynamics within intimate relationships. Drawing from firsthand accounts and extensive research, this episode sheds light on the urgent need for holistic approaches to disaster response that prioritize the safety and well-being of women and girls. It underscores the critical importance of addressing systemic inequalities and providing robust support systems to mitigate the risk of intimate partner violence in the wake of natural disasters. Join us as we unravel the intricate web of challenges faced by communities impacted by natural disasters and explore tangible strategies for fostering resilience, empowerment, and healing in the face of adversity. #IntimatePartnerViolence #Natural Disaster #GenderBasedViolence #HurricaneMaria #PuertoRicon #DisasterResponse #CommunityResilience #GenderEquality #SupportSurvivors #AwarenessCampaign #Empowerment #Intersectionality #SocialJustice #DisasterRecovery #WomenEmpowerment #GlobalHealth #HumanRights #PodcastEpisode #ResearchInsights #CriticalIssues
S1 E9 · Wed, March 06, 2024
Episode 9:Transforming Tragedy into Triumph: A Mother's Journey to End Intimate Partner Violence in Honor of Her Daughter's Legacy
Send us a text In this powerful episode, join Fartumo Kusow as she courageously opens up about the unimaginable pain of losing her daughter to intimate partner violence (IPV). Despite the heart-wrenching tragedy, Fartumo shares her inspiring journey of transforming grief into a powerful force for change. Tune in to hear how she channels her pain into a relentless commitment to end IPV, creating a lasting legacy for her daughter. Join us for a raw and emotional conversation as Fartumo advocates for awareness, prevention, and healing in the face of unspeakable loss. #LegacyAgainstViolence #TransformingTragedy #EndIPV #PowerfulJourney #LegacyforChange #DomesticViolenceAwareness #InMemoryOf #BreakTheSilence #HealingThroughAction #LegacyofLove #EmpowerSurvivors #CourageousConversation #PodcastJourney #InspirationOverGrief #ChangeMakers #HonoringHerLegacy #AdvocateForChange #StrengthInLoss #RaiseYourVoice #SpeakOutAgainstAbuse #BreakTheCycle #LoveNotViolence
S1 E7 · Thu, February 29, 2024
Episode 8: Beyond Statistics: Understanding the Depth of Gender-Based Violence MMIW2+
Send us a text In this powerful episode, we go beyond the numbers to delve into the heartbreaking reality of gender-based violence against MMIW2+. While statistics provide a glimpse into the issue, the stories, and experiences behind them reveal a much deeper, more nuanced narrative. Join us in a heartfelt conversation with Mr. David Pitawanakwat. Together, we explore the multifaceted layers of gender-based violence against MMIW2+, examining the root causes, cultural considerations, and the impact on individuals and families. From historical legacies to systemic challenges, we uncover the barriers perpetuating this crisis and discuss the urgent need for comprehensive solutions. David Pitawankwat offers invaluable insights into the unique struggles faced by MMIW2+, shedding light on the importance of cultural preservation and community-led initiatives in breaking the cycle of violence. This episode aims to amplify the voices often silenced by the shadows of statistics and challenge listeners to move beyond awareness to active advocacy. Through empathy and understanding, we hope to inspire change and contribute to a future where MMIW2+ can live free from the pervasive threat of gender-based violence. Tune in as we navigate this sensitive topic with compassion, respect, and a commitment to fostering meaningful dialogue. Let's strive for a world where every voice is heard, and life is valued.
S1 E7 · Wed, February 21, 2024
Episode 7: Families Forgotten: Navigating Justice in Intimate Partner Violence Trials
Send us a text In "Families Forgotten: Navigating Justice in Intimate Partner Violence Trials," we explore the often-overlooked journey of families caught in the midst of legal proceedings. While trials unfold, these families grapple with isolation and a lack of support, magnifying the emotional toll of their already devastating circumstances. We share personal accounts, expert insights, and stories from the front lines to unravel the complexities surrounding the support deficit within the criminal justice system. Join us in this eye-opening episode as we call for increased awareness and empathy, urging for reforms that prioritize the holistic well-being of those affected by intimate partner violence trials.
S1 E6 · Wed, February 14, 2024
Episode 6: Beyond Badge, Trust and law Enforcement
Send us a text Welcome to a compelling episode of Break the Silence, Build a Future, where we embark on a profound exploration, going "Beyond the Badge." In this episode, we unravel the intricate layers that shape the relationship between women, violence, and law enforcement. As we navigate this complex terrain, we engage in candid conversations with a survivor of a no-knock search warrant. We delve into the nuanced impact of past encounters with law enforcement, exposing the often-overlooked factors that influence a survivor's decision to seek help or remain silent. Join us in examining the emotional toll of mistrust, fear, and hesitation and how these elements shape the narrative surrounding domestic violence. Our guest shares personal stories, providing a raw and unfiltered perspective on the obstacles that hinder women from reaching out for support. But it's not just about identifying the problems. We explore innovative solutions and initiatives that aim to redefine the relationship between law enforcement and survivors. How can empathy, understanding, and proactive measures replace the barriers that have historically deterred women from seeking assistance? Throughout the episode, we highlight the need for a community-wide commitment to fostering an environment where survivors feel heard, validated, and supported. Our expert guests offer insights into the changes required within law enforcement practices and policies to bridge the trust gap and provide a haven for those in need. "Beyond the Badge" is a powerful journey into the heart of a critical societal issue, challenging preconceptions and sparking conversations that can pave the way for a more compassionate and practical approach to supporting survivors of domestic violence. Tune in as we navigate the complexities, share stories of resilience, and work towards building a future where every woman feels empowered to break free from the shadows of violence and find solace beyond the badge.
S1 E5 · Wed, February 07, 2024
Episode 5: Beyond the Headlines, Seeing the Person
Send us a text In this deeply poignant episode of "Break the Silence, Build a Future," I take a heartfelt dive into the critical importance of recognizing the individual behind the tragedy in cases of violence against women. Drawing on a personal narrative, I share the poignant story of my daughter, Sahra Bulle, reminding us all that behind each statistic and attention-grabbing headline, there is a person with a unique and irreplaceable story. Through this episode, I aim to emphasize the significance of acknowledging the human side of the issue, urging listeners to see beyond the numbers and sensationalism. The narrative serves as a powerful reminder that every victim has a name, a face, and a story that deserves to be heard. Join us in this compassionate exploration of the impact of intimate partner violence, as we advocate for a shift in perspective - one that prioritizes empathy and understanding. By sharing personal experiences, we hope to inspire a greater connection to the cause, fostering a collective commitment to breaking the silence and building a future where every individual is seen, heard, and protected.
Wed, January 31, 2024
Unveiling Shadows: The Silent Struggle and the Road to Resilience
Send us a text In this poignant episode of "Break the Silence and Build a Future," we open the pages of a heart-wrenching chapter as our host bravely shares the profound impact of silence and the absence of advocacy on the life of a beloved daughter. Tragically, her story takes a devastating turn when she becomes a victim of domestic violence, losing her life at the hands of her husband. As our host reflects on the aftermath, she delves into the profound consequences of societal silence, exploring how it affected not only her daughter but also the resilience and healing process of the entire family. Join us as we navigate through the shadows of a painful past, shedding light on the urgent need for advocacy, empathy, and societal change to build a future free from silence and violence.
Wed, January 24, 2024
Silent Courage: Survivor's Journey Through Violence
Send us a text In this deeply moving episode of 'Break the Silence Build aFuture,' we delve into the gripping and poignant account of a survivor ofviolence against women and girls. Choosing to remain anonymous out of fear ofrepercussions, this brave individual shares their harrowing yet inspiringjourney through unimaginable challenges. Listen as they navigate the haunting terrain of theirexperience, revealing the unspoken struggles faced by survivors who choose tomaintain their anonymity. With silent courage, this survivor offers a raw andpowerful narrative, shedding light on the shadows of fear and the profoundimpact of violence. Join us as we explore their resilience, the dauntingbarriers encountered in seeking justice and healing, and the complexities ofnavigating life after trauma. Through their story, we unravel the layers ofstrength, vulnerability, and the unwavering spirit that propels them forward. This episode serves as a testament to the unyielding braveryof survivors and aims to ignite a conversation that breaks the silencesurrounding violence against women and girls. It's a call to action, urging usall to stand in solidarity, amplify unheard voices, and forge a future wheresafety, support, and empowerment are a reality for every survivor."
Wed, January 17, 2024
Episode Two: Unveiling Shadows: The Ripple Effects of Violence Against Women
Send us a text In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the profound and far-reaching consequences of violence against women, transcending individual pain to impact entire communities. Join us as we navigate the intricate web of repercussions on personal, social, and economic levels, shedding light on the shadows that linger long after the initial trauma. Explore firsthand stories of resilience and recovery, uncovering the resilience of survivors and the strength of communities uniting against the pervasive issue of violence against women. Our expert guests dissect the socio-economic consequences, illustrating how the trauma resonates beyond the individual, affecting families, neighborhoods, and workplaces. Through powerful narratives, statistics, and expert insights, we aim to inspire collective action and foster a deeper understanding of the urgent need to address and eradicate violence against women. Tune in to "Unveiling Shadows" as we embark on a journey to amplify voices, dismantle stereotypes, and advocate for a world where every woman can live free from fear and violence.
Wed, January 17, 2024
Episode One Part B: Expert Insight: Understanding Gender Based Violence
Send us a text In this eye-opening episode, we delve deep into the crucial and often misunderstood issue of Gender-Based Violence (GBV) with expert insights that illuminate the complexities surrounding this pervasive problem. Our guest, a seasoned professional in the field, brings a wealth of knowledge to the conversation, unraveling the various forms of GBV and shedding light on the root causes that perpetuate such violence. From intimate partner violence to systemic inequalities, we explore the multifaceted aspects of GBV and discuss the impact it has on individuals and society as a whole. Through thought-provoking discussions and real-world examples, this episode aims to increase awareness and foster a better understanding of the dynamics at play. Our expert not only provides a comprehensive overview of the challenges faced by survivors but also offers valuable perspectives on prevention, intervention, and the ongoing efforts to create a safer, more equitable world for everyone. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the complexities surrounding Gender-Based Violence, as we strive to empower our listeners with knowledge that can contribute to positive change. Together, let's break the silence and work towards a future free from gender-based violence
Wed, January 17, 2024
Episode One: Expert Insight: Understanding Gender-Based Violence
Send us a text In this eye-opening episode, we delve deep into the crucial and often misunderstood issue of Gender-Based Violence (GBV) with expert insights that illuminate the complexities surrounding this pervasive problem. Our guest, a seasoned professional in the field, brings a wealth of knowledge to the conversation, unraveling the various forms of GBV and shedding light on the root causes that perpetuate such violence. From intimate partner violence to systemic inequalities, we explore the multifaceted aspects of GBV and discuss the impact it has on individuals and society as a whole. Through thought-provoking discussions and real-world examples, this episode aims to increase awareness and foster a better understanding of the dynamics at play. Our expert not only provides a comprehensive overview of the challenges faced by survivors but also offers valuable perspectives on prevention, intervention, and the ongoing efforts to create a safer, more equitable world for everyone. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the complexities surrounding Gender-Based Violence, as we strive to empower our listeners with knowledge that can contribute to positive change. Together, let's break the silence and work towards a future free from gender-based violence
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