A Contagious Smile Podcast
A Contagious Smile is a powerful platform dedicated to uplifting and empowering special needs families and survivors of domestic violence. Through heartfelt stories, we shine a light on the journeys of extraordinary individuals who have overcome unimaginable challenges. Their triumphs serve as a testament to resilience and strength, inspiring others to rediscover their own inner light. Each episode features candid interviews with survivors, advocates, and experts who provide valuable resources and insights to support those on their own paths to healing and empowerment. Join us as we celebrate the power of resilience, the beauty of shared stories, and the unstoppable...
S2 E9 · Sat, April 26, 2025
The Narcissist's Immunity: Why They Never Seem to Suffer TRIGGER WARNING
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S2 Enull · Mon, April 21, 2025
Beyond Limits: The Remarkable Journey of America's First Amputee Motorcycle Cop
Send us a text Mark Wright's story redefines what's possible after traumatic injury. As the first amputee motorcycle officer in United States history, Mark demonstrates that our physical limitations are often far less restrictive than our mental ones. When Mark crashed his motorcycle after a late-night shift, hitting a disabled vehicle with no lights, his world changed forever. Multiple compound fractures left his left foot "like it went through a meat grinder." Despite doctors' attempts at limb salvage, Mark knew from his Marine Corps experience that amputation was inevitable. What happened next stunned everyone—from amputation in March to full police duty by December, and eventually qualifying for the elite motorcycle officer position, a feat many thought impossible. "Our minds are our only limit," Mark explains, crediting his extraordinary recovery to mindset and exceptional support from his department. Unlike organizations that might sideline an amputee, Mark's colleagues embraced his return, even modifying equipment to accommodate his prosthetic leg. This partnership between personal determination and institutional support created the perfect environment for success. Mark approaches life's challenges with remarkable humor and perspective. His license plates read "I'm on my last leg" and "It only cost me a leg." When people stare or ask questions, he uses these moments as teaching opportunities rather than sources of frustration. His philosophy is refreshingly simple: "My foot ain't going to grow back, so why waste emotional energy stressing about it?" Whether you're facing your own physical challenges or simply need inspiration to overcome life's obstacles, Mark's journey reminds us that our perceived limitations often have little to do with our actual capabilities. Connect with Mark through his social media if you're struggling with similar challenges—he's made it his mission to help others realize they too are unstoppable. Support the show
S2 Enull · Mon, April 14, 2025
The Narcissist's Playbook: How They Hurt Those Who Only Want to Love TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text The pollen count is high and so are the emotions in this raw, unfiltered conversation between Victoria and Michael. Between sneezes and watery eyes, they dive into the grueling realities of advocacy work—the sleepless nights, endless paperwork, and emotional toll that comes with fighting for those who cannot fight for themselves. Victoria opens up about a new family she's working with, revealing the complex dynamics involved in cases with multiple children and parents. Michael courageously shares his personal experience as a male survivor of domestic abuse, shedding light on the silent suffering many men endure when society tells them to "take it like a man." His powerful testimony offers hope to other men trapped in abusive relationships, affirming that escape and healing are possible. The conversation shifts to frustrations with healthcare systems that make patients wait months for necessary surgeries while jumping through bureaucratic hoops. But the most passionate moments come when Victoria fiercely defends her daughter against narcissistic family members who show love only when it benefits them. Her maternal protectiveness ignites as she recounts how these individuals have repeatedly disappointed her daughter despite her unwavering love and desire for genuine connection. A beautiful highlight emerges when Victoria shares a touching poem written by her daughter—a testament to resilience despite experiencing neglect and pain. This heart-to-heart reminds us that while we cannot choose our biological family, we can create supportive environments with people who truly value us. Listeners struggling with toxic relationships will find validation and encouragement in this authentically human episode about standing up for what's right, even when it's difficult. Support the show
S2 E7 · Wed, April 09, 2025
From Gasping to Breathing: How Leaving Narcissists Transforms Your Health and Happiness TRIGGER
Send us a text Take a deep breath with us as we explore the transformation that awaits beyond toxic relationships. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we step away from the heaviness of narcissistic abuse to focus on something equally important. This beautiful life exists on the other side of healing. One host shares her harrowing health journey, describing how narcissistic abuse physically manifested as a life-threatening lung condition requiring constant oxygen support, with levels dropping to a dangerous 83%. Yet, within years of leaving that relationship, her body healed dramatically, a powerful metaphor for the emotional recovery possible for all survivors. We explore those exhilarating moments of freedom when you finally ask yourself, "What do I want?" after years of living by someone else's rules. Whether it's enjoying butter pecan ice cream for dinner or getting your nails done for the first time in years, these small acts of self-determination mark the beginning of reclaiming your authentic self. The conversation delves into how childhood conditioning shapes adult behaviors, surprisingly, from protective postures around food to unhealthy relationship patterns. We discuss how narcissistic abuse affects not just the direct victim but ripples outward to impact children, family members, and entire communities. For those still trapped in toxic relationships and wondering if escape is possible, yes, freedom awaits you. The landscape beyond abuse isn't just livable; it's breathtaking. You've survived every dark day so far, and healing, joy, and peace aren't just possibilities; they're your birthright. Join us as we celebrate the view from the other side and remind you that you're worth fighting for. Support the show
S2 Enull · Wed, April 09, 2025
Pass the Skittles and Hide Your Shoes: Adventures with ALL of Us Including Abby
Send us a text Ever wondered what happens when you throw together a redhead, a redneck, and a family dynamic that thrives on elaborate pranks? This raw, unfiltered episode takes you straight into the chaotic heart of family relationships where shoes get thrown in restaurant parking lots and trucks become canvases for bird droppings and marshmallows. But beneath the laughter lies something deeper. When our conversation shifts to children caught in divorce crossfire, we don't hold back. From personal experiences to heartbreaking stories of kids shuttled weekly between homes, we explore the real cost of parental battles. "It's not fair," becomes the recurring theme as we advocate for children who never asked to be pawns in adult conflicts. The contrast between our lighthearted family antics and these profound reflections mirrors real family life – where profound conversations about childhood trauma might be immediately followed by a heated debate about whether all Skittles actually taste the same. Our impromptu blindfolded taste test brings welcome comic relief before we dive back into family dynamics. You'll hear unvarnished truths about blended families, co-parenting challenges, and the lasting impact of childhood experiences. We don't claim to have all the answers, but we offer authentic perspectives from people who've lived through the complexities of modern family relationships. Whether you're navigating co-parenting challenges, curious about blended family dynamics, or simply enjoy unscripted family banter, this episode delivers raw honesty wrapped in humor that can only come from people who genuinely care about each other – even when they're plotting their next outrageous prank. Join our conversation, and perhaps find some comfort knowing that families everywhere are finding their way through similar challenges with whatever combination of love, humor and occasional chaos they can muster. Support the show
S2 E6 · Wed, April 02, 2025
The Road to Healing is Paved with Self-Love and Setting Boundaries
Send us a text Taking a deep breath becomes an act of revolution after escaping narcissistic abuse. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Faith and Dana step away from their usual format to share profound insights about life after abuse—and why that journey is worth every difficult step. Faith arrives emotionally drained from six days of intense advocacy work, including a harrowing six-hour standoff, prompting a candid discussion about the toll of supporting those still trapped in toxic dynamics. Rather than dwelling in darkness, they pivot to the transformative healing possible once survivors cross to the other side of trauma. Dana vulnerably shares how her 25-year marriage to a narcissist nearly killed her—literally. Her body deteriorated to 93 pounds, requiring constant oxygen supplementation as her organs began shutting down, with oxygen levels dangerously low at 83%. Yet within five years of freedom, her health dramatically improved, demonstrating the profound physical healing possible when removed from toxic environments. The conversation weaves through practical strategies for reclaiming joy after abuse. From Faith's simple act of getting her nails done—a rare moment of self-care—to Dana's liberating realization that she could eat ice cream for dinner without following her ex's rigid rules, these small victories represent monumental steps in the healing journey. Their shared wisdom crystallizes into a powerful question survivors can ask themselves: "What do I want?" A question that feels revolutionary after years of putting everyone else first. They tackle complex issues with compassion and occasional humor—discussing how childhood conditioning shapes adult behaviors, the physical manifestations of emotional abuse, and why leaving abusive situations is rarely simple. The conversation acknowledges the reality that narcissistic abuse affects entire families, with children's core beliefs about themselves largely formed by age seven. Join Faith and Dana for this life-affirming reminder that peace, joy, and renewed health await on the other side of narcissistic relationships. If you're struggling, remember their parting message: "You are worth fighting for and you can get past all of this. You are not alone." Support the show
Mon, March 31, 2025
When Men Are Survivors: Redefining Domestic Abuse Beyond Gender Stereotypes
Send us a text Every survivor deserves a voice—regardless of gender. When Michael witnessed his wife Victoria's domestic violence advocacy work up close for the first time, it sparked a raw, necessary conversation about who abuse affects and how cycles can be broken. Victoria pulls back the curtain on her nearly two decades as an advocate, showing how she bridges the gap between survivors, law enforcement, and the court system. She explains the crucial first steps an advocate takes when approaching authorities: "I am not a threat to you, I am a domestic violence advocate." This inside look demystifies a process that many fear, potentially giving survivors the courage to seek the help they deserve. The conversation takes a powerful turn when Michael shares his own journey as a male survivor of emotional and financial abuse. "I would tell people, 'Oh, that's just the way she is' for years," he reveals, describing how he would "smile and laugh it off" while going home miserable. His vulnerability challenges the harmful stereotype that men can't be victims, showing fellow male survivors they aren't alone in their experiences. Both hosts emphasize that breaking generational cycles is possible—and essential. "It is not fair to make our children spend their adulthood recovering from their childhood," Victoria states, as they discuss how conscious parenting choices can create homes free from the trauma they experienced. Their message is clear: whether you're seeking help or supporting someone who is, speaking up against abuse changes lives. Ready to join the conversation about breaking cycles of abuse? Subscribe now and share your thoughts. If you're experiencing domestic violence or know someone who is, resources are available through our website—because everyone deserves a life free from abuse. Support the show
S2 Enull · Tue, March 25, 2025
Put Down Your Phone and Pick Up the Conversation
Send us a text Heartfelt celebrations and serious conversations collide in this candid episode where we start by toasting Michael's first colonoscopy (yes, really!) and the clean bill of health that followed. It's a perfect reminder that sometimes the most uncomfortable moments become our greatest gifts to those we love - as Michael puts it, "I want to live longer for my family." The energy shifts as we unveil our passion project: the Stucco Squad. This initiative for special needs children has consumed our hearts completely, with carefully crafted items from superhero bracelets that can be worn through medical procedures to "pocket hugs" for comfort during difficult moments. Drawing from Victoria's personal journey as both a special needs person and parent, every detail has been considered with extraordinary care. "Normal, ordinary - that's who wants it? Nobody does," Victoria shares, capturing the spirit behind this movement to celebrate what makes these children exceptional. Our conversation takes a more serious turn as we discuss California legislation allowing minors to pursue gender reassignment surgery without parental consent - even permitting legal action against objecting parents. We wrestle with difficult questions about children's capacity for life-altering decisions, sharing perspectives that challenge conventional thinking while maintaining respect for everyone's journey. Throughout it all runs a thread about genuine human connection in our increasingly digital world. We share how our family dinners remain sacred spaces without phones, where eye contact and conversation remind us what truly matters. "It's the happiness that I crave, it's the longing, it's the belonging," Michael reflects about these precious moments. We'd love to hear your thoughts on any of these topics. Have you created tech-free family traditions? What do you think about the balance between protecting children and respecting their autonomy? Join our conversation and discover the power of unstoppable, unfiltered authenticity. Support the show
Mon, March 24, 2025
A Contagious Smile: Ken Kunkin's Journey of Resilience After Spinal Cord Injury
Send us a text https://www.amazon.com/Dream-Things-Never-Kunken-Story/dp/1946074411/ref=sr_1_1?crid=I0A7ECUBICVQ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vAMrAnYnj9uBVExYnQAqxQ.TbIaGSb-nuHCxGomqQSS7iGt-mmIv_mqDBOLqKob1oM&dib_tag=se&keywords=ken+kunken+story&qid=1742781695&sprefix=ken+ku%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-1 The moment Ken Kunkin made that fateful tackle during a Cornell University football game in 1970, his life's trajectory was forever altered. Left a quadriplegic with minimal movement in just his left arm, Ken faced a medical establishment that offered little hope—suggesting his future might consist of selling magazine subscriptions by telephone. But this podcast conversation reveals how profoundly they underestimated his determination. Ken's journey unfolds like a masterclass in resilience. With unwavering family support who promised to serve as his "arms and legs," he became the first quadriplegic to graduate from Cornell University—navigating a campus without a single ramp or curb cut. Against all odds, he earned three Ivy League degrees, only to face another crushing reality: despite sending over 200 resumes, no one would hire him. The employment discrimination he encountered eventually gave way to opportunity when Dr. Henry Viscardi Jr. recognized his potential, launching Ken into a remarkable 40-year career as an Assistant District Attorney. What makes this conversation particularly captivating is how Ken’s personal and professional journeys intertwine. His love story with Anna, who began as his personal care attendant and eventually proposed to him, reminds us of life’s unexpected beautiful turns. Together, they defied medical improbabilities by becoming parents to triplet sons through in vitro fertilization, creating the family that continues to inspire Ken’s advocacy work. Throughout our discussion, Ken articulates the transformative impact of the Americans with Disabilities Act while highlighting how much work remains in creating genuinely inclusive spaces. His passionate defense of diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts comes from lived experience—from being unable to fit through courtroom doors as a newly minted prosecutor to having the Nassau County DA's office create an annual award in his name. Listen to this remarkable story of a man who, when told something was impossible, simply reframed it as "I'm possible." Ken's memoir, "I Dreamt of Things That Never Were," and his continued advocacy remind us that limitations are often more about perception than reality. His message will leave you questioning what seemingly impossi
S2 E4 · Wed, March 19, 2025
When Leaving Is the Only Option: A Survival Guide TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text Financial abuse remains one of the most powerful yet least understood tactics used by abusers to maintain control. In this raw, emotional conversation, two survivors share their hard-earned strategies for financially preparing to escape dangerous relationships. The hosts reveal detailed methods that helped them break free—from getting cash back at checkout and removing that portion of receipts, to building reserves through reward programs, gift cards, and couponing. Their advice extends beyond merely saving money to creating comprehensive safety plans, including teaching children emergency protocols and maintaining "grab-and-go" safes with essential documents. What makes this episode particularly powerful is the authentic vulnerability shared through personal stories. One host reveals the horrifying moment her ex-partner deliberately endangered her infant daughter's life by obstructing her tracheostomy, while another describes preparing end-of-life instructions for her teenage son when she discovered her ex was planning to kill her. These aren't theoretical scenarios but lived experiences that underscore why financial preparation can be life-saving. The conversation also addresses the judgment survivors often face from those who've never experienced abuse, with a poignant story about confronting a mother who blamed her daughter for staying in an abusive relationship. The comparison between seeking specialized medical care for cancer versus appropriate support for domestic violence survivors resonates deeply. Whether you're currently planning your exit, supporting someone who is, or simply seeking to understand the complex dynamics of abuse, this episode offers practical wisdom, emotional support, and above all, the reassurance that you are not alone on this journey. Support the show
S2 Enull · Wed, March 19, 2025
Captain Jack, Socks, and Service Dogs: Life's Unexpected Heroes
Send us a text When Malcolm Goodwin reached out to thank Victoria for saving his friend's life, it reinforced exactly why the Contagious Smile podcast exists. "I'm not looking for praise or notoriety," Victoria shares with raw honesty. "When I went through this and was laying on the floor bleeding, not wanting to get up, I wished someone could say 'I've got you. You're not alone.'" That connection – knowing someone understands your darkest moments – can transform a tiny remaining spark into a wildfire of healing. This episode unveils exciting new developments, including Victoria joining Cameo as talent (at just $10 per video) and the creation of the Stucco Squad community, named after Victoria's beloved service dog. The Squad will offer special merchandise including hospital-friendly bracelets for children and families navigating medical challenges. Michael and Victoria's natural, sometimes hilarious banter reveals why their authenticity resonates with millions of listeners worldwide, propelling their podcast into the top 2% globally. The heart of their mission shines through stories of impact – how Victoria's memoir "Who Kicked First" took a decade to write due to fear but ultimately saved lives, and how her domestic violence advocacy creates practical safety plans for those in danger. Their work extends beyond trauma to celebrate relationships that heal, like Michael's special father-daughter bond with Faith, showcased through weekly movie nights and playful pranks that balance the heavier topics with genuine joy. Whether you're a survivor seeking connection, a parent navigating challenges, or someone wanting to understand trauma's impact, the Contagious Smile podcast offers a rare blend of unflinching honesty and hopeful perspective. Join the Stucco Squad community on Facebook to participate in upcoming events, contests, and receive updates on their initiatives that turn pain into purpose and isolation into belonging. Support the show
Tue, March 18, 2025
The Gift of Giving: Celebrating Life, Love, and New Beginnings
Send us a text In this heartfelt episode, It's a colorful tapestry woven from laughter, memories, and the anticipation of what lies ahead. We discuss the nuances of gifting experiences over material items and reflect on what it means to prioritize relationships and shared moments. We also introduce an upcoming Podcast-a-thon aimed at supporting the Make-A-Wish Foundation, an organization dedicated to bringing joy to children facing life-threatening illnesses, and provide insights into the transformative Give Kids the World charity. Unpacking the significance of faith in our lives, we celebrate her inspiring journey, remarkable achievements, and how her resilience stirs hope within our community. Join our discussion as we focus on embracing life, encouraging each other to pursue our dreams, and the profound impact of giving back to those in need. Tune in for a rich conversation that will uplift your heart and inspire action. We encourage you to find joy in the little things while making a difference for loved ones and families in need. Embrace the journey with us, subscribe, share, and become part of our mission to make dreams come true! Support the show
Sat, March 15, 2025
The Giving Journey: From Personal Healing to Global Impact
Send us a text What does it mean to transform personal trauma into a mission that uplifts others? Join Victoria and Michael as they unveil several groundbreaking initiatives designed to create safe spaces for those who need them most. The excitement is palpable as Victoria announces their podcast-a-thon benefiting Give Kids the World, an extraordinary organization providing magical experiences for children with critical illnesses. This partnership with Make-A-Wish represents their commitment to creating meaningful moments for families facing unimaginable challenges. Meet the Stucco Squad – named after Victoria's beloved service dog – a community where extraordinary superheroes can form lifelong friendships and be validated for exactly who they are. Michael shares a touching story about inviting a young woman with special needs to appear on their show, and how her tears of joy illustrated exactly why representation matters. Drawing from her nearly 20 years of advocacy experience, Victoria introduces the Safe Haven Phoenix Center for survivors of abuse. With courses priced at just $4.99, she explains, "I've been exactly where you've been, but I went there alone, and I don't want anybody to have to go through that alone." This philosophy of paying forward hard-won wisdom permeates everything they create. The conversation takes a powerful turn when Victoria demonstrates what resilience truly means. As an amputee who hangs pictures with a hammer and nail one-handed, she embodies her philosophy that "impossible" should be reframed as "I'm possible." Through stories of nearly losing their daughter and spending months in ICU, they remind us that life's petty annoyances pale in comparison to what truly matters. Subscribe to extend your smile with Victoria and Michael as they continue creating platforms that validate voices, heal wounds, and celebrate the extraordinary in all of us. Your voice matters here – whether you're speaking, signing, or simply seeking connection in a world that sometimes forgets to listen. Support the show
Fri, March 14, 2025
A Family's Unconventional Journey: From Trauma to Triumph TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text Victoria and Michael open the doors to their new passion project, the "Stucco Squad" – a vibrant, supportive community designed specifically for children with special needs. Named after their service dog (who was in turn named after Victoria's law enforcement nickname), this initiative creates a space where extraordinary kids can connect, celebrate their uniqueness, and participate in engaging activities like coloring contests, themed worksheets, and creative challenges. Drawing from their personal experiences – Victoria's own special needs journey and raising their daughter with special needs – they understand the profound impact of building self-worth in children who often feel different. "We know what it's like to think of ourselves as not equal," Victoria shares with raw honesty, "and that's not true, because we are way more than equal. We get to travel a journey where every milestone is exciting and celebrated." What truly sets the Stucco Squad apart is its accessibility. Recognizing the financial constraints many special needs families face, membership costs less than $5 monthly. Children receive official ID cards with badges, and there are plans for a magazine featuring these amazing kids. The Stucco Squad Facebook group serves as the community hub where families can connect and children can showcase their creativity. Alongside this initiative, they're launching their Podcast Academy with classes on podcasting, social media management, and building a digital footprint – all priced affordably between $24.99 and $49, a stark contrast to similar programs charging thousands. "We want everybody to reach their goals and their dreams," Victoria explains, acknowledging today's economic challenges. The couple also reveals their upcoming podcast-a-thon partnership with Give Kids the World, an organization working with Make-A-Wish to provide accommodations for families in Florida. Their passion for advocacy extends to domestic violence survivors, with Victoria emphasizing the importance of private communication channels to protect those who've escaped dangerous situations. Throughout their conversation, Victoria and Michael's genuine connection shines through their playful banter, while their shared commitment to breaking cycles of abuse and creating safe spaces for vulnerable communities forms the foundation of everything they do. Join the Stucco Squad today and become part of this extraordinary journey of celebration, support, and empowerment. Support the show
Mon, March 03, 2025
Unpacking Podcasting Success: A Journey of Growth
Send us a text Ready to take your podcasting journey to the next level? Join us as we unveil the strategies that have launched our show into the top 1% globally! This episode is packed with invaluable insights into niche selection, content creation, and behind-the-scenes looks at what it takes to grow an audience. Discover the tools that can streamline your production process, plus tips on how to connect with fellow podcasters and build a supportive community. We’re addressing common pitfalls and sharing how our very own Podcast Academy is designed to empower creators at every level. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, you’ll be inspired to elevate your podcasting game and create engaging content that resonates with listeners. Excited for your podcast’s future? Let’s dive in! Subscribe now and transform your journey today. Support the show
S2 E3 · Sun, March 02, 2025
Finding Your People: The Gift of Connection TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text Discover the true value of community, love, and support in our latest episode that focuses on how we navigate family dynamics and overcome personal struggles. Co-host Dana bravely shares her recent experiences with illness, showcasing the incredible support found in close friendships. As we discuss the complexities of familial relationships, we delve deep into the dynamics of narcissism and how it can negatively impact our connections with loved ones. Throughout the conversation, we highlight the importance of building strong bonds and how they can provide resilience against life's hardships. Hear authentic stories from listeners grappling with the challenges of parenting and the emotional toll of unhealthy family relationships. Our discussions empower you to embrace your self-worth and establish healthy boundaries, ultimately promoting personal growth. Join us as we tackle listener questions, emphasizing the significance of positive communication with children and the need for validation in challenging situations. We encourage everyone to take steps towards nurturing their well-being while seeking loving connections within their communities. Don’t forget to share your thoughts and stories with us! Dive into this engaging episode for heartfelt conversations and practical insights that may inspire you to make meaningful changes in your relationships and life. Support the show
Mon, February 24, 2025
Unplugged and Unfiltered: Embracing Family Fun, Exploring Justice, and Creating Cherished Moments
Send us a text Imagine a day where your phone takes a backseat, and family fun becomes the main event. We decided to unplug for a while and embrace the simple joys of technology-free bonding. Alongside the initial grumbles, we found laughter, productivity, and a surprising sense of fulfillment. Plus, you'll get a kick out of the prank that almost had Michael believing a beauty mishap — his quick thinking saved the day! Join us as we share heartwarming stories, including our unforgettable experience at Give Kids the World during Faith's Make-A-Wish trip. This magical place taught us about the power of community support and the importance of creating moments that matter. Beyond the laughter and pranks, we dive into meaningful discussions about the value of family connections over material possessions. It's the little things — like putting our phones away at dinner — that help us appreciate life’s treasured moments. We'll recount personal stories that have reshaped our perspectives, including those involving loss and unexpected changes, reminding us to cherish every moment. We also touch on humor-laden tales about caring for each other, while sneaking in a lighthearted reminder of how important deodorant is in public spaces! But it's not all lighthearted banter. We tackle serious topics head-on, such as the controversial debate on the death penalty. With passion and a touch of personal conviction, we explore justice, fairness, and the stark realities victims face. Our discussion also touches on personal experiences with cyberstalking and the absurdity of it all, challenging our listeners to rethink their views on justice and accountability. Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions, insights, and laughter, as we aim to inspire and entertain in equal measure. Support the show
Wed, February 19, 2025
Laughter and Lessons: Navigating Family Fun, Confronting Toxic Dynamics, and Embracing Creative Growth
Send us a text Ever announce your bathroom breaks at home? It might sound strange, but it's all part of the fun and laughter we share in our family. This episode, we introduce my wife Victoria's impactful book on dealing with life's real challenges, like navigating narcissists and setting boundaries with toxic family members. We also touch on the serious issue of cyberstalking, offering practical tips to keep your online presence secure. You'll hear personal stories about the importance of meaningful apologies and supporting those who've always had your back. Prepare for a rollercoaster of humor and heart as we recount some unforgettable family pranks. Ever tried simulating labor pains with a TENS unit, only to find out it's a muscle relaxer? Well, that was quite the mishap! Plus, the hilarious moment when a father's protective instincts go into overdrive after discovering his daughter's new sports bras in the laundry. And as we wrap things up, discover how our new Podcasting Academy can empower your creative journey with its treasure trove of resources and a vibrant community, all designed to elevate your podcasting endeavors. Support the show
Tue, February 18, 2025
Love and Laughter: Embracing Adoption Joy, Overcoming Cyber Challenges, and Celebrating Family Dynamics
Send us a text Imagine standing in a courtroom, tears of joy streaming down your face as your daughter reads a poem so touching that even the judge is moved. That's exactly the kind of emotional whirlwind we experienced when my husband officially adopted our daughter, Faith. This episode is all about that pivotal moment, the laughter, the tears, and the symbolic fresh start that came with replacing her birth certificate's past with a future filled with love and safety. We'll talk about how this adoption signifies a new beginning, freeing Faith from the shackles of a painful history while touching on the persistent shadow of challenges like cyber stalking. But it’s not all seriousness here—we shift gears and dive into the quirky, laughter-filled dynamics of our family life post-adoption. Faith joins us, showcasing her quick wit as we engage in playful debates about who in the family is the true chatterbox and why her dad's nickname is "Burrito." We also invite you to be part of our family fun by sharing your prank ideas for future episodes. Plus, get excited for an extended episode this weekend where we promise more engaging and light-hearted antics. Stick around, because this journey is filled with unbreakable love, resilience, and a hearty dose of humor. Support the show
S2 E1 · Tue, February 18, 2025
Estrangement and Empowerment: Navigating Narcissistic Family Drama, Embracing Healing, and Breaking Cycles for Future Generations TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text What do you do when your estranged father becomes your cyberstalker? Victoria and I kick off our return after a rocky January by unraveling this unsettling tale. We share candid reflections and humor as Victoria opens up about her "sperm donor" father, who, despite his obsession, showed zero concern during her daughter Faith's health crises. Through this bizarre saga, we discuss the perplexing behavior of older individuals and the art of resilience and empowerment when facing narcissistic family dynamics. Look out for Victoria's upcoming book, which promises to dig deeper into these familial challenges. Growing up as the scapegoat in a narcissistic family is a relentless battle of proving innocence. We tackle the ongoing struggle against unjust blame and how past trauma leads to oversharing in adulthood. The narcissist’s aversion to the success of those they seek to control is a key theme, as we recount anecdotes of manipulation and coercion. It’s all about reclaiming personal power and embracing authenticity amidst these toxic dynamics. Listen in to uncover how embracing your truth can be your greatest weapon in overcoming familial deceit and greed. We're on a mission to break the cycle of trauma for future generations, sharing stories of loyalty, familial conflict, and the sacrifices we make for those we love. From tales of narcissistic behavior and materialism to the journey of choosing motherhood with a vow to change, we explore the importance of healing from past traumas. Our candid conversations underscore the responsibility of being a cycle breaker and preparing for future generations with love and nurturing relationships. Join us as we gear up for our second season, inviting listeners to engage, share, and spread the love. Support the show
Tue, February 11, 2025
From Courts to Courses: Empowering Transformations and Podcasting
Send us a text What does it take to start anew and shed the past? Let's explore the courageous journey of our daughter Faith, who took the brave step of changing her first name and removing her biological father’s name from her birth certificate, reaching a poignant climax in a courtroom with her heartfelt poem that even brought the judge to tears. Meanwhile, we laugh about Faith's newfound penchant for colorful language, which has added an unexpected layer of humor to our family tapestry. Amidst tales of personal growth and resilience, we also share our excitement and challenges in launching the Podcast Growth Academy, an initiative born out of our experiences growing a podcast business without relying on an outsourced marketing team. Discovering the secrets to podcast startup success without professional marketing help has not been easy. But our journey has taught us valuable lessons, and now we're eager to share our knowledge through new courses on podcasting skills, social media, and content creation strategies. In candid conversations, we also tackle the real-life frustrations of cyber-stalking and how we’ve developed resilience to overcome negativity. Through humor and intimate storytelling, we aim to inspire other couples to embrace podcasting and confidently navigate the social media world, underlining the importance of enjoying quality time with loved ones in the process. Amidst all these adventures, we celebrate Stucco's third birthday with stories of his lovable antics as a service dog, and share heartwarming exchanges about family life, societal perceptions of pit bulls, and Valentine's Day plans. A surprise message from Lou Diamond Phillips adds a delightful twist, leading to a playful discussion about dream celebrity messages. We don't shy away from advocating for special needs children, highlighting systemic challenges and calling for a more empathetic healthcare system. Join us for a tapestry of love, laughter, and insights, crafted to leave you with warmth and inspiration. Support the show
S1 E2 · Fri, February 07, 2025
Don't Judge Me, mini-series, Love and Transformation: Navigating Relationship Dynamics, Embracing Self-Worth, and Spreading Kindness
Send us a text Have you ever wondered how differences can actually strengthen a relationship? Join us on our heartfelt journey in "Don't Judge Me," where my amazing co-host Brandi and I explore love, relationships, and self-esteem. In this episode, Brandi opens up about meeting her husband, David, online — a choice that was unconventional at the time. Their contrasting personalities, with Brandi's free spirit and David's stability, create a harmonious partnership that defies societal stereotypes and thrives on balance and growth. Together, we unpack the societal pressures that challenge self-worth and the vital role of self-acceptance in living authentically. Brandi isn't the only one sharing a love story — I recount my own unexpected journey with Michael, a police officer who re-entered my life after overcoming personal adversities. Despite our past challenges, including a painful breakup and navigating my own hardships, we've built a resilient friendship and family. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how body confidence intersects with relationship dynamics, emphasizing that true connection isn't defined by physical appearance but by mutual support and acceptance. Our stories highlight the transformative power of love, encouraging you to cherish your unique journey. But the conversation doesn't stop there. We address the complexities young people face today, from sexuality to self-worth, and the importance of surrounding oneself with positivity. By reflecting on our own experiences, we emphasize self-love, resilience, and the impact of nurturing uplifting relationships. Wrapping up with a call to spread joy and kindness, we remind everyone about the power of small gestures in fostering a more compassionate community. Join us as we express gratitude for your support and share exciting plans for future episodes dedicated to self-improvement and personal growth. Your journey to self-love starts here. Support the show
Thu, February 06, 2025
Resilience and Renewal: Overcoming Addiction, Embracing Healing, and Creating Ripple Retreats
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S1 E1 · Tue, January 28, 2025
Resilience and Authenticity: Navigating Adversity, Embracing Self-Growth, and Unveiling "Country Tough Times" Magazine
Send us a text Brandy Van Holt's life is a testament to the power of resilience and authenticity. From overcoming the challenges of weight loss with the unconventional carnivore diet to embracing the chilling practice of ice water baths, Brandy shares her unique journey of self-improvement. Her mantra, "If I'm too much, go find less," not only encapsulates her defiance in the face of criticism but also serves as a rallying cry for those who feel marginalized. This episode takes you behind the scenes of her transformative journey, offering a profound look at how she molds adversity into strength and inspires those around her to do the same. For those who have ever faced negativity or adversity, Brandy opens up about turning scars into stories of survival. Drawing from her own experiences with facial trauma and homelessness, she talks about how these events shaped her perspective and fueled her personal growth. As we navigate through her candid reflections on dealing with online negativity and the importance of perspective, Brandy reminds us that the journey to self-acceptance is continuous. Her ability to connect with a wide audience is both heartening and motivational, as she stands as a defender for those facing similar trials. Beyond personal stories, Brandy introduces her latest project, "Country Tough Times" magazine, which aims to deliver authentic content for trail riders and patriots thriving through tough periods. With contributions from a diverse group of writers, the magazine promises to be a beacon of genuine, reliable information. As we wrap up, Brandy's excitement about upcoming challenges and ventures is contagious, leaving you inspired to face your own hurdles with grace and tenacity. Her journey is a powerful reminder of the strength found in authenticity and the relentless pursuit of one's truth. Support the show
S1 E15 · Sun, January 26, 2025
Resilience and Reclamation: Navigating Narcissistic Family Trauma, Embracing Healing, and Inspiring New Legacies TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text What if the very people meant to nurture and guide you in childhood became the source of your deepest wounds? Join us as we unravel the complexities of growing up with narcissistic parents, especially fathers and father figures, who often leave an indelible mark on one's emotional landscape. Through raw and heartfelt stories, we shine a light on the journey of healing from a troubled upbringing and emphasize the importance of acknowledging past traumas to find solace and peace. We invite you to listen to these candid conversations as a reminder that you're not alone in this struggle and that healing is possible. Our special guest Dana, the inspiring author of "Gasping for Air" and "Who Kicked First," joins us to share her incredible journey of resilience. Through her narrative, we explore themes of family betrayal, deception, and the courage it takes to break free from the cycle of narcissism. Dana's storytelling acts as a beacon of hope, encouraging those entangled in toxic family dynamics to reclaim their narratives and forge a new path. Hear her powerful insights and celebrate her warrior spirit, which inspires us all to rise above the pain and choose a different legacy. Throughout this episode, we unravel the long-lasting effects of emotional neglect, abusive family dynamics, and the silent treatment that can pervade familial relationships. Personal stories highlight the struggles of facing manipulation, exclusion, and the battle to maintain self-worth amid toxic interactions. We delve into the emotional turmoil of experiencing betrayal over significant family events and the strength it requires to navigate life with integrity despite false narratives and unjust blame. This episode is a compelling exploration of the human spirit's capacity to endure and transform, offering listeners a chance to reflect on their own journeys and the power to break free from the chains of their past. Support the show
S1 Enull · Mon, January 20, 2025
Exploring Mischief and Morality: A Journey Through Politics and Personal Stories TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text Did you know that fake fingernails and glitter body wash can lead to household chaos? Faith's mischievous escapades take center stage as we recount the hilarious pranks that had our family in fits of laughter. Amidst the giggles, we also engage in a spirited discussion about politics, sharing our thoughts on leaders like former President Trump and current President Biden. It's a candid exploration of the human side of decision-making in the political realm, filled with anecdotes and unexpected insights that bridge the gap between humor and reflection. What happens when the complexities of justice collide with the emotional weight of personal experiences? Our conversation takes a serious turn as we debate the efficacy of the judicial system in handling grave crimes, particularly those against children. The discussion becomes deeply personal as we share our impassioned views on capital punishment and the societal attitudes that shape these tough decisions. We also touch on controversial topics like chemical castration and gender identity, questioning the balance between justice and leniency. Balancing the weighty with the whimsical, we round out our episode by shifting gears to lighter fare. There’s a lively chat about the bizarre world of selling foot pictures online, coupled with the pride of supporting family ventures. We even venture into the creative process, imagining our personal stories as potential film adaptations, complete with casting choices. This eclectic mix of humor, heart, and hard-hitting issues makes for a compelling listen that promises to entertain and provoke thought. Support the show
Sat, January 11, 2025
Laughter and Celebration: Navigating Parenthood Pride, Celebrity Inspiration, and Marriage Mastery TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text Can a jump scare change the course of a conversation? It certainly did for Victoria and me as we kicked off our latest episode with a hilarious anecdote that left us both in stitches. From there, we plunged into the world of current events, giving a nod to Michael J. Fox's incredible honor of receiving the Medal of Honor and touching on the dynamic roles of public figures like Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris. Our conversation took an intriguing twist as we considered the evolution of video games, comparing the nostalgic allure of classics to today's ever-changing trends and how they subtly impact our society. Celebrating unexpected moments of joy, we shared the heartwarming pride of a parent when their daughter's artwork went viral, capturing the admiration of thousands. Her upcoming poetry book, already sparking excitement with pre-orders, is something we can't wait to see. Our admiration extended to Johnny Depp, whose resilience and compassion, especially towards children and abuse survivors, left us inspired and hopeful for a potential interview. We delved into personal stories that echoed the beauty of humility and the power of simple gestures, celebrating creativity and genuine human connections. Relationships can be a maze, and we unraveled some of their complexities by exploring love, sacrifice, and commitment. We didn't shy away from tough topics, such as the emotional turbulence when one partner unintentionally causes harm and the essential role of personal growth and therapy. Offering practical advice, we talked about the importance of open communication, trust-building, and quality time sans electronics to nurture a healthy marriage. Drawing from personal experiences, we emphasized adapting to each other's needs and keeping humor alive to manage disagreements, ensuring a partnership full of mutual appreciation and understanding. Support the show
S1 E15 · Sat, January 11, 2025
F-Bombs and Family Feuds: Navigating Narcissistic Parent Dynamics, Embracing Resilience, and Finding Support TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text What if the F-word was your secret weapon against a narcissistic parent? Join me and my sister, Dr. Victoria, as we share a raw and humorous exploration of our journey surviving a toxic family environment. Together, we unpack the unique language of resilience, where colorful expressions became our shield and solace against the harsh realities of growing up with a narcissistic mother. We also introduce the quirky community of Daughters of Toxic Mothers, offering a glimpse into the healing humor that binds us, with "ding dong" humorously signaling the end of a toxic chapter. Through poignant stories, we reflect on the painful parallels between abandoned kittens and the unmet expectations of familial love. Our discussion highlights the heartache of living in the shadow of parental favoritism and the identity crises it spawns. We delve into the complex emotions around being born as a "savior child," challenging listeners to reconsider the compassion and empathy needed to navigate these intricate dynamics. The episode offers a compassionate exploration of how familial roles, like the golden child and scapegoat, shape sibling relationships and self-worth. In the final chapters, we focus on finding strength and support from unexpected places. Personal stories of emancipation and the pursuit of self-identity reveal the resilience required to overcome the scars of narcissistic abuse. We celebrate the hidden networks of allies ready to support us, highlighting the significance of setting boundaries and recognizing one's worth beyond external validation. The episode closes with a hopeful message: within the chaos of family dynamics, there is always room for empathy, understanding, and the potential for healing and reconciliation. Support the show
S1 Enull · Tue, January 07, 2025
Jump Scares and Joyful Bonds: Navigating Public Figures, Viral Success, and Marriage Communication Challenges
Send us a text Nearly getting kicked in the face is not how most conversations begin, but when Victoria and I recount a hilarious jump scare incident, things take a playful spin. Our chat playfully careened into the realm of politics as we pondered Michael J. Fox's rumored Medal of Honor award, sparking dialogue about public figures like Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris. With laughter as our backdrop, we tackled serious societal issues, from terror threats to the impact of video games on violence, all while reminiscing about the innocence of classics like My Little Pony and The Smurfs. Pivoting from public musings to personal triumphs, we celebrated a profound moment as our daughter's artwork soared to 50,000 views. Her humility in the face of this viral success warmed our hearts, much like our admiration for Johnny Depp's resilient spirit and charitable deeds. Amidst this whirlwind, I shared a sweet anecdote about my wife's humble Christmas wish for silver hoops, exemplifying the simplicity and contentment we strive for. If anyone can connect us with Johnny Depp, we'd welcome the chance to discuss his inspiring journey and philanthropy. Love and communication in marriage are no walk in the park, but we've tackled this head-on with candid discussions about navigating emotional challenges. Through personal stories, we highlighted the power of open communication and trust in resolving conflicts and maintaining a strong bond. From debating corporal punishment in schools to emphasizing the importance of quality time without digital distractions, our insights aim to guide couples through tough times. We hope to share practical advice to help partners understand each other's needs and reinforce their connection. Support the show
S1 E14 · Mon, January 06, 2025
Resilience and Recovery: Unraveling Narcissistic Family Dynamics, Embracing Self-Identity, and Healing from Toxic Relationships TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text This episode explores the experiences of individuals raised by narcissistic parents and the impact on self-worth and identity. The hosts discuss stories from listeners about the pain of exclusion, battling the approval of family, and the differences in treatment between siblings, while emphasizing the importance of community and self-acceptance in the healing journey. • Examining the pain of neglect and conditional love • Personal stories of missing out on significant moments • The role of the golden child and feelings of isolation • Seeking validation within oneself, rather than from toxic relationships • The importance of community in healing and understanding • Celebrating identity beyond the shadows of one's upbringing Support the show
S1 Enull · Thu, January 02, 2025
Resilience and Advocacy: Navigating Domestic Violence, Customer Service Challenges, and Questioning Societal Norms TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text Can your sense of security be restored after witnessing a threat firsthand? Join us as we reflect on our holiday season spent amongst family and our three golden retrievers, all while navigating the alarming incidents of domestic violence and terrorist attacks that have shaken our nation. As a former police officer, I recount a personal story of stepping in during a dire domestic violence situation, underscoring the need for proactive advocacy. We also touch on a frustrating encounter with Xfinity over a promotional offer, revealing the challenges faced by those with unique needs, such as being an amputee, in a world that often lacks understanding. Our holiday season wouldn't be complete without some customer service chaos. From a FedEx delivery debacle to a puzzling interaction with Xfinity, we recount our challenges in dealing with customer service representatives who fail to accommodate specific needs. Despite the setbacks, we find humor and determination in these experiences, advocating against discriminatory practices and pushing for better accommodations for those facing disabilities. My husband adds his comic touch and admiration for my independence, emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy and resilience in overcoming life's obstacles. Are video games really a gateway to violence, or are we overreacting to their impact? We explore this controversial topic, comparing classic games to modern, graphic content and questioning the societal shifts they've inspired. Our conversation extends to societal censorship, examining the logic behind banning classic Christmas songs while allowing more contentious modern music. Wrapping up, we share insights from my memoir "Who Kicked First," an empowering journey through trauma and survival. With unwavering support from my husband, we invite you to explore these narratives and find strength in standing up for others within our community. Support the show
S1 E12 · Tue, December 31, 2024
Resilience and Revelations: Navigating Family Drama, Justice System Flaws, and the Power of Community Support TRIGGER WARNING
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S1 E11 · Thu, December 26, 2024
Laughter and Healing: Navigating Narcissistic Family Challenges, Embracing Self-Worth, and Building a Supportive Community TRIGGER WARNING
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S1 E10 · Mon, December 23, 2024
Empowering Futures: UGC Mastery, Tackling Child Abuse, and Navigating Family Crises TRIGGER WARNING
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S1 E10 · Tue, December 17, 2024
Speaking Up: Overcoming Adversity, Addressing Domestic Abuse, and Celebrating Family Achievements TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text What would you do if you could impact someone's life by simply speaking up? Join us for a heartfelt exploration of resilience and advocacy as I share my personal journey through multiple surgeries on my amputated arm, with unwavering support from my husband, Michael. We emphasize the critical importance of addressing domestic abuse, encouraging action and awareness to help those in need. Together, we reflect on the strength it takes to overcome personal challenges while appreciating the love and support of family, even in the face of adversity. Our conversation doesn't shy away from difficult topics, like the rare and tragic school shooting involving a young female perpetrator, which prompts reflection on unexpected family dynamics. Yet, there's room for lighter moments, like sharing Christmas wishes and a nod to our daughter, Hazel Fate Curie Solomon, who has already published five books at just 18. Our family's humorous exchanges, from joking about writing careers to dieting escapades, bring warmth to the episode. Tune in to celebrate achievements and embrace the complexities of family life with us. Support the show
S1 E10 · Wed, December 11, 2024
NARC NARC WHO'S THERE, HELP, I'M GASPING FOR AIR TRIGGER WARNING Resilience and Authority: Unpacking Narcissistic Family Dynamics, Healing from Trauma, and Embracing Self-Care
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING Can a brush with authority leave lasting impressions on our perceptions? Join us as we kick off with an update on Victoria's impressive recovery from surgery, showcasing her strength and humor amidst the post-surgery hurdles. Our conversation flows into a deep dive into the influence of narcissistic family dynamics on how we view authority figures, shaped by personal interactions with law enforcement and military roles. We reflect on the importance of acknowledging individual actions and experiences rather than generalizing entire groups, emphasizing the nuanced perspectives upbringing can impart. Unpack the systemic challenges within military and law enforcement communities, particularly around domestic violence. With a personal recount, we challenge the oversimplified narratives about why victims remain in abusive relationships and highlight the calculated planning required for a safe escape. Self-expression and healing take center stage as we share experiences of reclaiming emotional freedom, self-love, and the journey through narcissistic family trauma. Indulgence in small pleasures becomes a revolutionary act of self-care, underscoring the importance of mental and emotional well-being. Family dynamics and the legacies we choose to build are touched upon with heartfelt anecdotes about feeling overlooked and the role of grandparents. We explore the bittersweet reality of complex familial relationships, contrasting cherished moments with more challenging interactions. Wrapping up with a playful exchange on iconic TV characters and imagining our lives on the big screen, our unique chemistry brings a light-hearted end to a deeply resonant episode. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of resilience, authenticity, and the pursuit of healing. Support the show
S1 E9 · Mon, December 09, 2024
Surgical Surprises: Hospital Mix-Ups, Family Resilience, and the Healing Power of Humor
Send us a text Ever experienced the chaos of a last-minute surgery mix-up and the unexpected presence of a plastic surgeon? That's exactly what happened to us, Victoria and Michael, as we embarked on a whirlwind hospital adventure. From the frantic journey to the operating room to sharing light-hearted moments with a nurse who recognized us, this episode is a rollercoaster of emotions. Victoria, in her 18th surgery, remains a beacon of resilience, humorously refusing pain meds despite the complex nerve and muscle procedure on her arm. Navigating the post-surgery landscape turned out to be as unpredictable as the surgery itself. We recount the trials of recovering without proper guidance, facing an allergic reaction to surgical tape, and managing the painstaking wound care at home. Through it all, the unwavering support from our family, especially our daughter Faith, becomes a powerful reminder of the strength and laughter that bind us together. Sharing these moments, we underscore the significance of empathy and effective communication in healthcare, highlighting needs that are as important as the medical procedures themselves. As we wrap up, we share the behind-the-scenes challenges of improving our podcast, including our quest for better audio quality with upgraded microphones. It's all part of our commitment to delivering a better experience for our listeners, while balancing the humor and heart that define our show. We invite you to join our journey, engage with us on social media, and even participate as a guest. With playful banter and heartfelt exchanges, we offer a genuine glimpse into our lives, showing how humor and love can heal even the deepest scars. Support the show
S1 E9 · Mon, December 09, 2024
Narc Narc, Who's There, Help, I'm Gasping For Air. Trigger Warning Reclaiming Joy: Navigating Toxic Family Dynamics, Honoring Mental Health, and Embracing Chosen Family
Send us a text Trigger Warning. Picture this: it's the holiday season, but instead of joy, you're bracing yourself for another round of toxic family gatherings. Do you stand your ground and prioritize your mental health? Today, we share stories of those who courageously chose self-respect over harmful traditions, setting boundaries with family members who drained their energy. These empowering narratives remind us that family isn't just about blood relations, but about meaningful choices. We shine a light on the bravery it takes to reclaim one's voice and the profound personal growth that follows. Our episode peels back the layers of complex family dynamics and the emotional toll of feeling unappreciated. We explore how generational trauma often manifests in families, where personal pain is dismissed or trivialized, and how narcissistic systems perpetuate cycles of blame. Through candid discussions about mental health, including the distinctions between circumstantial and clinical depression, we address the importance of honoring individual struggles without comparison. Personal stories bring clarity on how controlling relationships can be challenged, offering hope to those who feel overshadowed by narcissistic family members. Lastly, we delve into the transformative power of chosen family and community support. There's an undeniable strength in surrounding oneself with those who uplift and understand, especially when facing the heartache of being the family 'black sheep.' We discuss the relief found in unveiling personal truths and standing firm against external pressures. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, emphasizing the importance of finding solidarity and empowerment through supportive relationships, proving that you're never alone on this journey of healing and self-discovery. Support the show
Tue, December 03, 2024
Forgiveness and Family: Navigating Political Pardons, Gender Debates, and Heartwarming Holiday Chaos
Send us a text Can political figures truly be forgiven for their actions, or should they face perpetual scrutiny? Our latest episode takes you on an emotional rollercoaster as we explore the nuances of forgiveness in the realms of family and politics. We dive headfirst into the controversy surrounding Hunter Biden's pardon and wrestle with the complexities of forgiving loved ones for grave misdeeds. As we navigate these turbulent waters, we also discuss the challenges of letting go in the face of disturbing news stories. But fear not—after the storm, we find solace in the simple joys of a drama-free Thanksgiving and the satisfaction of decluttering our homes. Ever wondered who has it tougher when it comes to medical issues—men or women? Our family takes a light-hearted approach to this age-old debate, weaving in biblical references and playful jabs at gender roles. With our daughter Faith joining the fun, we share laughs and insights about the unique challenges each gender faces, from childbirth to societal expectations. Through all the teasing and banter, we find an underlying appreciation for the diverse perspectives that make family life truly enriching. Join us as we wrap up with some good-natured family banter that will leave you smiling. We engage in amusing debates about which Disney dwarf best represents each of us, and muse over the difficulties of choosing personal theme songs. With tales of movie selection rights and heartwarming promises to cherish our conversations, we highlight the joy and warmth that familial relationships bring. It's an episode filled with laughter, love, and the delightful chaos that only family can provide. Support the show
Mon, November 25, 2024
TRIGGER WARNING Unbreakable Bonds: Embracing Adoption, Obtaining Prosthetics, and Celebrating Familial Resilience
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING What would you do for love? Imagine adopting a child and transforming your life through the power of unconditional love. Join us as we share the moving story of Victoria's adoption journey, from overcoming past hardships to embracing newfound happiness. An old voicemail serves as a poignant reminder of this incredible transformation, inspiring listeners with the message that a happily ever after is indeed within reach. Next, we tackle the challenges of obtaining a functional prosthetic arm for Victoria, specifically the Hero Arm by Open Bionics. We humorously explore family dynamics during Abby's summer visit, filled with laughter and playful pranks that light up our lives. Yet, behind the humor lies a significant purpose: raising awareness about the financial and practical hurdles in acquiring a suitable prosthetic. Through this discussion, we invite our listeners to support Victoria's journey, underscoring the strength of family support in overcoming life's obstacles. As we embrace the spirit of Thanksgiving, we share heartwarming anecdotes filled with laughter, love, and gratitude. From amusing mishaps like receiving red roses after a clumsy error to the playful camaraderie reminiscent of "Grumpy Old Men," our stories celebrate the resilience and joy found within familial bonds. We highlight the incredible spirit of a young girl who remains a beacon of positivity despite numerous surgeries. As we express our gratitude for family and the hope of more time together, we encourage our listeners to share their own tales of love and resilience. Support the show
S1 E8 · Sun, November 24, 2024
Narc Narc Who's There, Help, I'm Gasping For Air Escaping the Shadows: Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse, Healing Family Ties, and Embracing Self-Worth TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING Escaping the shadow of narcissistic abuse is a journey fraught with challenges, but it's a journey worth taking. Our dear friend Dana and I share our personal tales of navigating toxic family dynamics, shedding light on the insidious nature of narcissists who twist reality to appear as victims. By examining the roles of the black sheep and scapegoat, we reveal how these individuals manipulate perceptions to maintain control. Join us as we courageously recount our experiences, aiming to empower you to recognize and protect yourself from similar manipulations. Drawing strength from real-life accounts like David Pelzer's "A Child Called It," we confront the emotional scars left by childhood abuse and the resilience needed to break free from generational trauma. Our stories highlight the determination to forge a new path, creating loving environments for our children despite toxic upbringings. We reflect on the struggle for validation and the importance of rejecting harmful behaviors learned from those who were supposed to nurture us, while also cherishing the values instilled by positive role models. Our discussion touches on the complexities of healing family dynamics, addressing emotional challenges such as codependency and anxious attachment. The relentless quest for self-worth amid societal negativity and parental criticism underscores the necessity of self-acceptance and personal growth. We explore the power of truth and connection, encouraging you to find love and support beyond traditional sources. Whether you're seeking to understand narcissistic behaviors or searching for solace in shared experiences, our conversation offers invaluable insights into the strength required to overcome and thrive. Support the show
Sun, November 24, 2024
Resilience and Rebirth: Overcoming Bullying, Celebrating Literary Triumphs, and Championing LGBTQ+ Inclusivity
Send us a text What if the challenges we faced in our youth were actually stepping stones to our most meaningful accomplishments? Join us as we recount our transformative journey from the throes of bullying to the triumphant stage of guest speaking and winning a book award in Miami. We share the exhilarating conclusion of our beloved Never Dying book series and our excitement for exploring new creative territories in poetry and science fiction. As we navigate these personal and professional milestones, we also reflect on the contrasts between past adversities and the nurturing environment of our current school, pondering the broader societal shifts that a new presidency might bring. This episode also unpacks the roots of prejudice against LGBTQ+ individuals, emphasizing the need for understanding and respect. We celebrate the strides made in embracing diverse identities and the empowering of youth to voice their perspectives on crucial issues like education and LGBTQ+ rights. By fostering open dialogues and creating inclusive environments, we're dedicated to valuing the voices of the younger generation. As we conclude, we reiterate our commitment to maintaining privacy and safety for our guests, ensuring that their stories contribute to meaningful conversations aimed at positive change. Join us as we explore endless possibilities for collaboration and inspiration in future episodes. Support the show
S1 E7 · Wed, November 20, 2024
Justice or Just Us? The Battle for Rehabilitation vs. Punishment TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING: What if the key to navigating personal relationships lies in the balance between grace and boundaries? Join us as Dana, our lively co-host, shares her experiences juggling life with two spirited kittens, drawing parallels to the challenges of marriage. We also confront a harrowing story from Atlanta, discussing how such events fuel our advocacy for the voiceless and emphasize the need to break cycles of abuse. This episode isn't just about recounting stories—it's a call to action for using our voices to spearhead positive change. Our conversation takes a critical turn as we explore the controversial landscape of punishment versus rehabilitation for violent offenders. Do these individuals deserve a second chance, or should society focus on harsher penalties? As we question the resources allocated to prisoner comforts over veterans and the homeless, you'll hear from a professional working in the field of sex offender rehabilitation. Their insights prompt skepticism and moral debates about the effectiveness of these efforts, urging listeners to rethink societal priorities. But the journey doesn't end there; we also tackle the complexities of healing from toxic relationships and past traumas. Through personal anecdotes, we delve into the significance of self-acceptance and self-talk in overcoming body image issues and emotional scars. Whether it's about finding the right therapist, embracing authenticity, or confronting painful family dynamics, this episode offers a compassionate guide to resilience and personal growth. Listen in for heartfelt encouragement to remain true to yourself and overcome the negative influences that seek to undermine your self-worth. Support the show
S1 Enull · Tue, November 19, 2024
Shattered Innocence: The Dark Reality of Maternal Filicide TRIGGER WARNING
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING A chipped tooth and an unexpected laugh kick off a conversation that takes an intense turn as we explore the haunting case of maternal filicide in Atlanta. How should society respond to those convicted of harming children, and what are the implications for justice and rehabilitation? Through our discussions, we grapple with the emotions surrounding these tragic events and consider whether our legal system truly protects the most vulnerable among us. From laughter, we transition into the poignant theme of family, examining the complexities of neglect and support in times of health crises. Personal stories highlight the loneliness that can accompany medical emergencies and the responsibilities that persist even when family bonds are strained. Yet, amidst tales of indifference, we find hope in compassionate families and communities that open their hearts and homes to those in need, cultivating a spirit of kindness and resilience that inspires. Moreover, we offer a window into the intense world of domestic violence and law enforcement, where survival and vigilance intertwine. The harrowing experiences of overcoming abuse and supporting loved ones through trauma are shared, emphasizing the importance of empathy and unwavering support. As we navigate these narratives, we celebrate the strength found in connecting with others and the transformative power of storytelling in overcoming adversity and inspiring positive change. Support the show
Mon, November 11, 2024
A Contagious Smile's Teen Talk Inspiration and Inclusion: Floppy's Literary Achievements, Overcoming Bullying, and Advocating for LGBTQ Acceptance
Send us a text Floppy's journey as a young writer is nothing short of inspiring. Picture this: a bright-eyed author stepping into a school for her first guest speaking gig, sharing her love for children's books with curious students. In this episode of CleanPool, we explore Floppy's exhilarating personal milestones, including an invitation to Miami to receive a prestigious book award and the release of the fourth installment in her Never Dying series. Our conversation takes a heartfelt turn as we discuss the supportive atmosphere of school life, the scars of past bullying, and the exciting completion of a new poetry project alongside a thought-provoking science fiction book in progress. The episode isn’t just about personal achievements; it's a rallying cry for change. We shine a light on the voices of young people advocating for understanding and acceptance, particularly within the LGBTQ community. By sharing their stories, we aim to inspire a shift towards a more inclusive and welcoming world. Our discussions highlight the progress made and the work still undone, urging listeners to engage with our show and contribute their thoughts on important social issues. We wrap up with a promise of more insightful discussions, inviting listeners to join us as we continue empowering young voices to foster change. Support the show
Fri, November 08, 2024
Resilience and Radiance: Scott Hamilton's Journey Through Adversity, Olympic Glory, and Healing Laughter
Send us a text https://gofund.me/3e75d9ad Scott Hamilton, the iconic figure skater and cancer survivor, graces our milestone 300th episode with his presence and incredible story. From a challenging start in his skating career to becoming a four-time world champion and Olympic gold medalist, Scott's journey is one of resilience, driven by the cherished memory of his late mother. In an intimate conversation with Faith, Scott shares the emotional experience of standing on the Olympic podium and the invaluable support of those who carried him through adversity, reminding us of the power and impact of a supportive community. Laughter and joy as healing forces take center stage as we explore how humor can transform difficult experiences like chemotherapy into empowering journeys. Inspired by personal anecdotes of positivity during such trying times, Scott reflects on his evolution from athlete to entertainer, with the encouragement of choreographer Sarah Kawahara. These stories emphasize the creative ways to overcome challenges, and how embracing a playful spirit can lead to discovering new paths and identities, even in the face of adversity. The episode also highlights acts of kindness and advocacy that define Scott's post-competition efforts. From initiatives like chemocare.com to personal stories of resilience and survival, we discuss the roller coaster of life and how its ups and downs contribute to growth and strength. Coupled with touching stories of young people making a difference despite their own challenges, this episode is a celebration of hope, inspiration, and the enduring spirit of remarkable individuals who continue to shine light for others. Support the show
S1 Enull · Tue, November 05, 2024
TONIGHT'S ELECTION FOR PRESIDENT Identity and Insight: Unmasking Political Personas, Educational Challenges, and Law Enforcement Realities
Send us a text Ever wondered how Kamala Harris's political history aligns with her public persona? Law enforcement officer Alex Payne joins us for a no-holds-barred conversation about the Vice President's career. With a focus on her controversial policies, such as the incarceration of people for marijuana offenses and the employment of incarcerated individuals for low wages, Alex provides a law enforcement officer's perspective on her track record. We also explore the complexities of Harris's identity shifts and question the authenticity of political figures, contrasting her with non-traditional politicians like Donald Trump. Education and societal issues take center stage as we share personal stories, including homeschooling experiences, to highlight the current challenges within public education. From the over-reliance on technology to the overshadowing of educational values by identity politics, there's much to discuss. We tackle the changing face of pop culture, censorship, and taxation policies, drawing parallels with historical events and questioning the impact of societal shifts on the next generation. Parenting comes into focus as we discuss the importance of teaching children about consequences and the roles parents play in shaping responsible adults. We wrap up with a deep dive into the world of law enforcement, exploring the high-stress nature of the job and the critical need for better mental health resources for officers. Alex shares his experiences as a peer support counselor, emphasizing the importance of adequate training and funding for police departments. By examining the hidden struggles faced by officers and their challenging relationship with communities, we call for a balanced perspective on law enforcement and personal responsibility in leadership. Tune in to gain a multifaceted understanding of these pressing issues shaping our world today. Support the show
S1 Enull · Tue, November 05, 2024
Laughter and Love: Navigating Bathroom Blunders, Charitable Cheers, and Political Perspectives
Send us a text Ever found a mysterious mess in the bathroom and assumed the worst? That's exactly what happened to my husband in our latest household comedy of errors. This episode kicks off with a hilarious recount of a mix-up involving a leftover hair mask and some overzealous cleaning, proving that sometimes the best stories come from everyday mishaps. Join us as we relive this unforgettable moment and remind ourselves why humor is the glue that holds relationships together, even during the most awkward situations. As the laughter subsides, we shift gears to share our excitement about a charity auction on November 8th, where you can bid on some amazing items from your favorite personalities. The auction is all for a good cause, supporting special needs families and survivors of abuse. Alongside these plans, we uncover a heartwarming tale of a young birdhouse enthusiast and share quirky insights from our recent garage sale adventures. Our playful banter and practical jokes offer listeners a peek into our dynamic and fun-loving partnership. Politics takes center stage in our spirited discussion on how it intersects with daily life, affecting everything from grocery prices to Hollywood opinions. Not to be missed is the celebration of our collaboration with Dana—our series has captivated millions! As we chat about book releases and audience engagement, including feedback on "Narc, Narc, Who's There?" and "Gasping for Air," the episode brims with humor, personal growth, and the importance of having a supportive circle. Tune in for whimsical conversations, inside jokes, and a reminder that love and laughter can truly change the world. Support the show
S1 E6 · Mon, November 04, 2024
Narc Narc, Who's There, Help, Gasping for Air: Resilience and Realizations: Embracing Non-Traditional Families, Overcoming Judgement, and Cultivating Authentic Connections
Send us a text What if growing up in a non-traditional family wasn't a disadvantage but a unique strength? Join us as we celebrate a milestone of reaching over 10 million listeners by diving deep into your pressing questions about mental health, self-acceptance, and individuality. Together, we'll explore how overcoming judgment and handling criticism can lead to embracing self-worth, even in the face of narcissistic abuse and familial discord. Through personal stories, we reveal the transformative power of setting boundaries and finding genuine connections that foster love and acceptance beyond societal expectations. Family dynamics can be a tricky terrain to navigate, especially when they don't fit the idealized images portrayed in popular culture. We contrast these societal expectations with the reality many face, using candid reflections and examples like Bill Cosby's public persona to highlight the importance of authenticity. This episode emphasizes the value of forming meaningful relationships with those who truly appreciate and support us, recognizing that not all familial bonds are inherently nurturing. We also address the complex nature of trust and friendship, offering insights into maintaining authenticity amidst mental health struggles and navigating friendship boundaries. Our conversation extends into the nuanced discussion of self-preservation versus narcissism, touching on the subjective nature of these judgments and the journey toward gender identity acceptance. We share heartfelt responses to a young listener's question on worthlessness, highlighting the courage it takes to seek help and the critical role of unconditional love and support. As we wrap up, we remind every listener of their resilience and encourage you to reach out to us across social media platforms, reinforcing the message that you are never alone on this journey toward healing and self-discovery. Support the show
Mon, October 28, 2024
Kindness and Courage: Inspiring Acts, Addressing Domestic Violence, and Celebrating Community Resilience
Send us a text Have you ever wondered how small acts of kindness can ripple into transformative community support? Faith, our incredible daughter, has been a beacon of generosity from a young age, collecting toys for children in need and families rebuilding after domestic violence. As we navigate the complexities of setting up our first GoFundMe for the "Holiday for Heroes" initiative, we also celebrate our 300th episode milestone with an inspiring interview featuring the resilient Scott Hamilton. His story parallels our mission of kindness and community, echoing the strength we see in those around us. Our conversation takes a serious turn as we address the poignant issues surrounding domestic violence. Faith's powerful acronym, BRAVE—Be Resilient, Acknowledge Victories, and Embrace Your Challenges—resonates deeply with the stories we share. We recount a harrowing tale of domestic abuse and systemic failures, urging reform and empathy. As we highlight works like Victoria Curie's "Who Kicked First," we call on our listeners to join us in advocating for survivors and supporting change. Every listener has a role to play in creating a supportive community for those facing these battles. While the episode handles serious topics, we balance the narrative with moments of humor and personal reflection on family dynamics. From discussing the complexities of co-parenting to sharing light-hearted stories about regional dialects and humorous family banter, we remind ourselves of the joy and responsibility in nurturing relationships. The chapter on book promotion and editing reveals the playful rapport between author and editor, exemplifying the supportive partnerships that drive our passion. Join us as we celebrate storytelling, resilience, and the joy of coming together for a greater cause. Support the show
Sun, October 27, 2024
A CONTAGIOUS SMILE WELCOME MARGE SENIOR FROM REAL HOUSEWIVES OF NEW JERSEY: Laughter and Legacy: Reality TV Royalty, Family Dynamics, and Classic Hollywood Celebrations
Send us a text What happens when reality TV royalty crashes your birthday party? Join us for an unforgettable episode where we celebrate a surprise visit from Marge Senior of the Real Housewives of New Jersey, all orchestrated by my incredibly thoughtful daughter, Faith. Marge Senior opens up about her journey through the drama of reality television with grace and authenticity, recounting a recent health scare where her daughter and a skilled pulmonologist became her heroes. We share laughter over the antics of her son-in-law, Joe, and the unique camaraderie among the men of the show, making this a heartwarming and humorous celebration of life and family. Ever wondered about the inspiring journeys behind the scenes? Our conversation takes a profound turn as we speak to a woman with a rich life story, sharing her reflections on work, family, and resilience. From navigating public criticism with poise to transitioning from her daughter’s brand to a new career, her insights are nothing short of inspiring. We explore her resilience through past hardships, her love for animals, and cherished memories of her childhood on a Hungarian farm. And yes, there’s a delightful confession about her guilty pleasure—Haagen-Dazs coffee bean ice cream! Family drama takes center stage as we explore complex dynamics and emotional turmoil within strained relationships. Teresa's bond with Louie and its impact on her family, especially her brother Joe and his wife Melissa, raises questions about loyalty and support. We highlight the importance of cherishing family memories and standing by loved ones during tough times. As a cherry on top, we wrap up with a shared love for classic Hollywood films, celebrating the timeless elegance of stars like Bette Davis and Joan Crawford while teasing an upcoming show season that promises even more captivating stories. Support the show
Sun, October 27, 2024
A Contagious Smile's Teen Talk: Creativity and Camaraderie: Teen Authors Navigate Bullying, Break Genre Barriers, and Celebrate Literary Milestones
Send us a text Teen author Shanti Hershenson joins us as our new co-host and takes us through her remarkable journey of becoming an author during the pandemic. We explore how her novel, "You Won't Know Her Name," based on personal experiences with bullying, carved a significant path in her writing career, attracting nearly 40,000 readers. Shanti and I share the highs and lows of navigating the world of young adult authorship and reflect on how these shared experiences have deepened our friendship. As we celebrate her incredible milestone, we also discuss unexpected ways to mark such achievements—cue the escape room adventure! Our conversation shifts to the pressures young women face, particularly in male-dominated genres like science fiction. The episode offers advice on staying authentic amidst societal judgments, especially concerning personal style and family values. We talk about overcoming bullying by seeking supportive communities and emphasize the importance of finding trusted allies in school settings. Shanti and I also dive into the creative process of self-publishing, balancing quality with quantity, and our aspirations for expanding into traditional publishing. As we look ahead, there's excitement for future projects, fashion inspirations, and birthday celebrations, making this episode a rich tapestry of creativity and camaraderie. Support the show
Sat, October 26, 2024
A Contagious Smile's Teen Talk: Resilience and Reflection: Balancing Technology, Confronting Cyberbullying, and Embracing Personal Growth
Send us a text Balancing the demands of schoolwork and personal projects is no easy feat, but what if embracing technology could be both your biggest ally and adversary? Join us as Shanti Hershenson and Faith navigate the intricate landscape of modern life, exploring not only the enhancements technology brings to communication and opportunity but also the darker challenges such as cyberbullying. We'll share personal stories and insights on how platforms like TikTok and Instagram are reshaping our interactions and creativity, for better or worse. Have you ever wondered how pivotal life decisions, like publishing a book or switching schools, shape who we become? This episode invites you into our world, where we confront self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and the ever-present fear of failure. Strategies for resilience, from leaning on friendships to celebrating small victories, are highlighted as we dissect the growth that stems from overcoming obstacles. We're all on a journey to change perceptions, tackle bullying, and manage time effectively, and we're sharing our secrets with you. Are you more focused on being liked or respected? Your answer might just redefine your personal identity. We'll dive into electrifying conversations about music's influence on our lives, recounting unforgettable moments with legends like Elton John. As we discuss the pressures of gender roles and self-acceptance, we'll emphasize the importance of confidence and inner beauty. We bring our conversation full circle with messages of hope and resilience, recommending inspiring reads like "The Book Thief" by Markus Zusak. And don't miss our heartwarming moment with Raj, our service puppy, who reminds us to never give up on what we love. Support the show
Sat, October 26, 2024
Laughter and Lessons: Pet Peculiarities, Parenting Challenges, and Playful Movie Night Debates
Send us a text Ever wondered how the sexual orientation of pets or the pronunciation of "aluminum" could spark endless laughter? Join us for a rollercoaster of hilarity with the mischievous Abby Cadabby Cadou, the delightful Faith, and our own Michael as they turn a simple movie night into a riotous debate about pranks and peculiar films. Prepare to laugh out loud while we share some outrageous tales, like a child's unexpected vocabulary outburst in public, and explore the quirks of domestic life, including our cooking mishaps and the comedic challenges of parenting. The laughter doesn't stop as we navigate through personal quirks and lively family banter, sharing stories that anyone with a family can relate to. Picture our attempts to balance life's demands while keeping our sense of humor intact, whether it’s slipping in unexpected places or pondering the meaning behind memorable movie titles like "Brave" and "Legally Blonde." Our episode gets real as we tackle essential topics like gender identity and child protection, questioning the effectiveness of legal responses to heinous crimes against children and advocating for non-violent parenting. As we close, we express heartfelt gratitude to our wonderful guests, Abby and Faith, and tease with exciting news about upcoming books like "Who Kicked First?" and "Dark, Dark, Who's There?" There's no shortage of fun or substance in this episode, as we encourage you to grab a copy of Faith's impressive literary collection under the pen name Baby Curie Solomon. Join us for a heartfelt thank you and remember, keep smiling and enjoy every moment, just like our Canadian pals would. Support the show
S1 E5 · Sat, October 26, 2024
Narc Narc Who's There, Help, I'm Gasping for Air: Unseen Battles to Unwavering Belief in Oneself
Send us a text What if the scars of a toxic relationship never truly fade, but instead shape the person you become? This episode of "Narc. Narc, who's there?" sheds light on the harrowing reality of narcissistic abuse and its profound impact on victims. With heartfelt gratitude, we acknowledge the millions who have found solace in our series, as we explore the emotional and physical scars left by such abuse. From personal stories of manipulation and intimidation to the resilient act of setting boundaries, we aim to offer validation and strength to those who feel alone in their journey. The struggle to break free from the grip of toxic relationships is a testament to one's resilience. We share anecdotes of facing threats and emotional manipulation, even when ties are supposedly cut. Our discussions highlight the courage to maintain distance from those who continuously seek to exert control. The silent battles fought within one's own home, where love and safety are absent, are explored with raw honesty. Through these narratives, we emphasize the power of self-awareness and the journey towards healing and self-worth. As we look towards healing, the episode concludes with reflections on embracing one's true place in the world. We discuss the importance of finding self-acceptance and the realization that not everyone will appreciate our worth, even family. By exploring personal experiences and symbolic turning points, such as the return of a childhood item, we underscore the importance of creating a life filled with love and pride. To further engage with our listeners, we announce an upcoming interactive Q&A session, inviting questions about narcissism, abuse, and personal stories. Join us in this open dialogue to gain insights and support on this challenging journey. Support the show
S1 E4 · Sat, October 19, 2024
Resilience and Recovery: Exploring Domestic Violence, Reclaiming Identity, and Empowering Healing Journeys
Send us a text Can a single story of a compassionate pediatrician change the course of a young life? Join us as we explore this and many other profound experiences in our latest episode. Dana and I take you on a journey through the emotional landscapes of those touched by domestic violence, offering a poignant look into the lives of victims who are often judged rather than supported. We tackle the harsh realities of living in high-anxiety environments and the devastating impact it can have on one's identity, sparking crucial conversations about societal perceptions and the importance of taking action for those we love. Throughout the episode, we confront the soul-crushing isolation imposed by narcissistic abusers, who sever ties and manipulate their victims into feeling utterly alone. Yet, amidst the darkness, there's a message of hope and resilience—highlighting the significance of building supportive communities to help reclaim one's identity. Personal stories of loss, judgment, and the journey of rebuilding self-esteem offer listeners a profound understanding of the strength required to overcome trauma and rebuild a life that celebrates individuality and confidence. As we close, the emphasis on healing and reclaiming one's identity resonates, echoing the importance of small personal victories in the journey toward self-recovery. From the cathartic act of decluttering and donating clothes to the empowering process of rediscovering personal interests, each step is a testament to the human spirit's resilience. Through heartfelt stories and hard-earned insights, we aim to provide a supportive space for those affected by abuse, offering inspiration and practical steps toward healing and self-love. Support the show
Wed, October 16, 2024
Resilience and Recognition: Young Authors Confront Bullying, Overcome Barriers, and Inspire Through Writing
Send us a text Join us on an inspiring journey as we welcome Shanti Hershenson, a remarkable teen author who transformed her pandemic-induced solitude into a flourishing writing career. With her transition from guest to co-host alongside Faith, Shanti lends her fresh perspective to our conversations. This episode uncovers the unique challenges young authors like Shanti encounter and how her poignant novel in poetry, "You Won't Know Her Name," addresses the sensitive issue of bullying. Together, Shanti and Faith share their insights and experiences in the writing world, providing a heartfelt look at the camaraderie and growth that flourish in the face of adversity. We also tackle the societal pressures young women face, particularly in male-dominated fields like science fiction writing. Shanti shares her personal experiences and valuable advice on navigating these challenges, emphasizing the importance of a strong support system. As Shanti gears up for her 17th birthday, she reflects on her evolution from writing in isolation to planning book tours and signings. Whether it's dealing with bullying, overcoming prejudice, or celebrating milestones, this episode showcases the resilience and determination that define young authors today. Tune in for insights, encouragement, and a glimpse into the vibrant world of young authors as they forge their paths to success. Support the show
S1 E3 · Mon, October 14, 2024
Resilience and Release: Confronting Narcissistic Family Ties, Healing Scapegoat Wounds, and Celebrating Personal Victories
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING!!!! Ever felt the weight of family expectations dragging you into a vortex of emotional chaos? In this eye-opening episode, we unravel the complexities of life with narcissistic family dynamics, particularly the role of fathers or paternal figures. Together, we share deeply personal stories and the ongoing process of healing from the toxic ties that biology sometimes binds us with. We also give you a sneak peek into our upcoming book, "Choking on Shame: The Scapegoat Child in a Narcissistic Family," exploring our emotional journey and the cathartic process of writing about difficult parental relationships. Through heartfelt and candid discussions, we tackle the loneliness of being the family "black sheep" and the societal blind spots surrounding narcissistic parental abuse. From the pain of exclusion at family gatherings to the ridiculousness of coercive contracts with loved ones, we lay bare the absurdities and heartbreak of navigating such environments. We also reflect on how these patterns echo into adulthood, shaping our relationships and self-worth, while challenging us to stand firm in our truth and find peace in genuine connections. Amidst the tales of manipulation and deceit, the episode offers a beacon of hope. We highlight the power of resilience and choice, celebrating personal victories and the joy of surrounding ourselves with people who truly care. Laughter and the indomitable human spirit shine through as we share inspirational reads that offer solace and strength to those on similar paths. Join us as we speak our truths, break the silence, and remind you that healing and joy are possible, even in the shadow of family trauma. Support the show
Mon, October 07, 2024
Laughter and Lessons: Family Antics, Parenting Perspectives, and Humorous Housekeeping Insights
Send us a text https://acontagioussmile.sellfy.store/ Ever tripped straight into a family comedy show? That's how I felt during my recent garage escapade, courtesy of my husband's cluttered stash. This episode promises a whirlwind of laughter and family antics, as we explore the art of multitasking—or failing at it—while humorously balancing garage cleaning, video gaming, and quality time with our quick-witted daughter, Faith. Brace yourself for some endearing family chaos that reveals the humorous glue binding us together, complete with Faith's clever digs at her dad’s multitasking prowess. Ever received a gift you never saw coming? Picture this: an adult coloring book as the unexpected star of a mother-daughter prank. Our dinner table becomes an arena of wit over chicken Florentine, where teasing knows no bounds. From sneaky laundry tactics to foot massage schemes, our family's dynamics shine through in every laugh and jest. We even tackle the age-old gripe of broken promises, and how such letdowns can rattle family ties—yet through it all, the love remains unwavering and the humor, ever present. Journey with us as we navigate the evolving landscape of parenting and discipline, contrasting old-school methods with today's more supportive approaches. My own experiences paint a picture of raising a child free from physical discipline, and the positive ripple effects it creates. We also raise a critical eyebrow at the traditional roles of authority figures in schools, emphasizing the importance of advocacy against bullying. And for a playful wrap-up, join me and our guest Pema in a spirited discussion about my latest cleaning book, where humor meets housekeeping in a delightful array of cleaning hacks and laughter-inducing anecdotes. Support the show
Tue, October 01, 2024
Shattered Silence: Exposing Domestic Abuse and Systemic Injustices TRIGGERS!!!
Send us a text https://acontagioussmile.sellfy.store/ TRIGGER WARNING! How does one find hope and strength amidst the storm of domestic abuse? In this powerful episode, we reflect on the courage of Victoria, whose personal journey through the darkness of domestic violence sheds light on the resilience and faith required to survive. Highlighting the critical importance of empathy and support, we underscore that abuse is not a competition but a call for solidarity and understanding. We celebrate the extraordinary milestone of Dana Diaz's series on narcissism, which has touched over 3 million hearts on TikTok. Victoria's story vividly exposes the psychological and emotional toll of living with an abuser, stressing the need for strategic planning to escape such dire circumstances. Hear harrowing anecdotes of manipulation and brutality, from coercive marriage proposals to horrifying threats and violence, emphasizing the complex dynamics and internal battles faced by survivors. As we delve deeper, we examine the systemic failures within institutions like the military in protecting victims, calling for urgent reforms. Victoria's narrative showcases not only her indomitable spirit but also the remarkable strength found in community and support systems. We encourage you to stay engaged with our series for continued insights and inspiration, and to explore Victoria's detailed journey through her books, "Who Kicked First" and "Nart Nart." Thank you for being a part of our Contagious Smile community, where every story shared brings us one step closer to justice and healing. Support the show
S1 E2 · Sat, September 28, 2024
Dysfunction and Discovery: Navigating Narcissistic Parenting, Sibling Rivalries, and the Road to Self-Worth
Send us a text Have you ever wondered how praise or neglect from a parent can shape a child's entire life? Join us as we unravel the complexities of narcissistic parenting and the "golden child" phenomenon. In this emotionally charged episode, Dana and I, Victoria, open up about our personal journeys through the minefield of dysfunctional family dynamics. We reveal how narcissistic parents manipulate their children, fostering division and lifelong psychological scars. Through our candid stories, we aim to shed light on these toxic patterns and offer a beacon of hope for those navigating similar challenges. The episode takes a deeper look into the effects of favoritism on sibling relationships, digging into the tangible impact on self-esteem and mental health. We discuss how a mother's preferential treatment towards the golden child can create a ripple effect, influencing both the favored and overlooked siblings in profound ways. With heartfelt anecdotes, we highlight the enduring love and loyalty we feel towards our siblings, even when caught in the web of a dysfunctional family system. This conversation is a poignant reminder that one's worth is not defined by parental approval but must be found within. Finally, we tackle the difficult topics of setting boundaries and the courage it takes to prioritize one's well-being amidst manipulative family demands. From the emotional toll of being perpetually blamed and marginalized to the struggle of finding validation in oneself, our episode is a testament to resilience and self-love. We reflect on the long journey to self-acceptance and the importance of nurturing genuine, loving relationships. This episode is more than just a discussion—it's a call to action for anyone grappling with family dynamics to seek healing and empowerment. Support the show
Mon, September 23, 2024
Heartbreak and Hope: Addressing School Shootings, Parenting Challenges, and a Paw-sitive Ending
Send us a text https://acontagioussmile.sellfy.store/ Why are our schools still plagued by gun violence despite increased security measures and funding? We reflect on how school shootings have become a distressing norm compared to our own school days, and analyze the data from the K-12 violence project to understand the fear gripping our students. Listen as we highlight a heartwarming initiative where fathers step up to patrol school hallways, and consider the potential rise of homeschooling as a coping mechanism for anxious parents. We emphasize our commitment to the Second Amendment while calling for innovative strategies to protect our children. Child abuse, criminal justice, and the responsibilities of parenting are at the forefront of this emotionally charged discussion. Frustration boils over as we scrutinize the lenient treatment of perpetrators who commit unspeakable acts against children, sparking a debate on justice and its impact on victims. Our conversation spans broader societal issues such as the struggles of single parents, unwanted pregnancies, and the misuse of government assistance. Additionally, we question the influence of violent video games on youth behavior and the critical role of parental guidance. Finally, we confront the harsh realities of domestic violence and the systemic failures that allow abusers to evade consequences. Heartbreaking personal stories highlight the additional trauma faced by victims, such as the unauthorized use of assault photos for training purposes. We explore the controversial actions of a sheriff who took extreme measures to protect his daughter, and the moral dilemmas that arise from such situations. To light up the end of our intense episode, we share the affectionate bond with my service dog and highlight our latest literary accomplishments, hoping to bring a smile to your face. Thank you for joining us on this profound journey. Support the show
S1 E1 · Fri, September 20, 2024
Pain and Perseverance: Navigating Narcissistic Family Dynamics, Generational Trauma, and the Path to Self-Acceptance
Send us a text What if your closest confidants could be the very people who undermine your sense of self-worth? Join us as we unravel the dark and twisted dynamics of narcissistic families with my incredible friend Dana. We'll confront the roles of the black sheep and scapegoat, revealing the consistent and sinister tactics narcissists employ to manipulate and blame. Through our personal experiences, we highlight the struggles faced by those who see through the narcissist's facade and the relentless efforts made to discredit them. Our goal is to shine a light on these destructive patterns and arm you with the awareness needed to avoid falling into their traps. Have you ever felt like you're carrying the weight of generational trauma on your shoulders? With reflections akin to David Pelzer's "A Child Called 'It'," we share the grueling journey of growing up in an abusive environment and the Herculean courage it takes to break the cycle. Drawing from our own lives, we explore the emotional and psychological toll of such experiences and emphasize the importance of resilience to heal and nurture future generations. It's a powerful narrative about the choices we make to reject a legacy of pain and build a foundation of love and self-worth. Imagine living with the constant need to prove your honesty because your past keeps betraying you. We dive into the lingering effects of childhood trauma, the struggles for validation, and the exhausting patterns of oversharing that follow us into adulthood. Our discussion brings to light the universal need for unconditional love and the arduous journey towards self-acceptance. Through candid stories and raw emotions, we normalize the process of healing and emphasize that being affected by our past doesn't make us broken—it makes us human. Join us for an honest conversation that offers hope, resilience, and the powerful connection of shared stories. Support the show
Mon, September 16, 2024
Tragedy and Triumph: School Shooting Reflections, Protective Parenthood, and Inspiring Guest Story
Send us a text https://acontagioussmile.sellfy.store/ Have you ever wondered what drives the relentless surge in school shootings, and why effective measures still seem out of reach? Join us as we share our raw emotions and personal experiences with gun safety, reflecting on the tragic case of an 18-year-old Waffle House employee and the baffling assassination attempts on former President Trump. We confront these pressing issues head-on, blending serious discourse with personal reflections to shed light on a world that often feels incomprehensible. In a more lighthearted segment, we dive into the joys and challenges of parenthood. From the quirky nickname "my little squiggly" to humorous family debates over video games like Fallout, we explore the protective instincts of a father towards his daughter, Faith. You'll laugh along with us as we recount awkward Austin Powers-inspired family moments, and the mother's comical struggle against her daughter's obsession with horror movies. This chapter showcases the warmth and complexity of our family life, where love and laughter often prevail over chaos. Finally, we bring you the heartwarming story of Debbie, our upcoming guest, whose journey from personal tragedy to helping others is nothing short of inspiring. Plus, don’t miss our exciting Freebie Friday initiative, where you can snag some awesome downloadable gifts! We also share our plans for a couple's tattoo that symbolizes our bond, and highlight touching encounters with celebrities like Jeff Oxford and Malcolm Goodwin. Their support underscores the power of storytelling and the impact it has on all of us. Tune in for a compelling mix of serious discussion, heartfelt stories, and a sprinkle of humor. Support the show
Mon, September 09, 2024
Communication and Growth: Alex's Global Influence, School Shooting Reflections, and Branding Breakthroughs
Send us a text https://www.speakeralexdumas.com/ Can the power of communication truly expand your global influence? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Alex, a dynamic entrepreneur and recent contributor to "A Journey of Riches." Alex delves into his chapter, "Everybody Wins, Including Me: Expanding Global Influence Through Communication," sharing his transformative journey from working with special needs individuals to becoming a sought-after speaker and coach. With a rich background in psychology and a passion for self-discovery, Alex’s insights will inspire you to harness the power of effective communication in your own life. We turn our focus to the heart-wrenching tragedy of a school shooting in Georgia, discussing the societal issues that permeate such incidents. Emphasizing empathy, vulnerability, and connection, we explore how these values are crucial in preventing future tragedies. Through heartfelt discussions, we underline the importance of early intervention and the critical role that families and communities play in fostering mental well-being and safety. Lastly, we spotlight the significance of personal growth and the power of structured coaching programs. Hear a compelling success story of achieving remarkable feats within tight deadlines and dive into the unique challenges faced by Black executives and women of color in corporate environments. We also introduce the Brand Amplifier Experience, a four-month program designed to elevate personal branding and storytelling skills, featuring the strategic brilliance of my wife, Sarah. This episode is packed with powerful insights, practical advice, and a celebration of personal and professional growth. Support the show
Mon, September 09, 2024
Resilience and Reflection: Family Milestones, Security Concerns, and Nostalgic Joys
Send us a text https://acontagioussmile.sellfy.store/p/breaking-anxiety-the-liberation-lexicon-empowerment-guidebook/ What if your most challenging moments could strengthen your family's bond? Join us on an emotional and heartwarming journey as we share an unforgettable evening that includes a special daddy-daughter movie night and the celebration of a unique family milestone. Reflecting on two years since becoming an amputee, we focus on resilience, positivity, and the power of family unity. Listen in as Faith takes charge during our family tattoo session, showcasing her remarkable courage and symbolizing the deep bond we share, especially with my husband planning to adopt her. Shifting gears, we tackle the urgent issue of school violence and the pressing need for improved security measures to protect our children. Our discussion spans potential solutions, from increased physical security to the presence of more counselors. We also explore the complex role of involving veterans in school security and address societal priorities, critiquing the irony of spending on luxuries while neglecting basic safety measures. With a touch of political commentary, we compare the perceived competence of current political figures with past leaders, offering a thought-provoking perspective on the state of our nation. Finally, embark on a nostalgic trip back to the 80s with us as we discuss fun activity books and share laughs over regional dialects and accents. We emphasize the importance of supporting special needs families and survivors of domestic violence, highlighting the value of community and resources. Wrapping up on a light note, we enjoy a cheerful conversation about life in a cul-de-sac, promote Victoria and Michael's books, and encourage our listeners to smile and savor the little moments in life. Support the show
Wed, September 04, 2024
From Trauma to Triumph: A Journey Through Medical Missteps and Family Struggles
Send us a text https://acontagioussmile.sellfy.store/ Ever wondered how you’d navigate life after a traumatic medical experience? Join us as we share an emotional journey, from the harrowing loss of an arm due to medical malpractice to the inspiring resilience needed to adapt and thrive. Our candid discussion reveals the raw, personal battles and the triumphs that come from learning to perform complex medical procedures with one hand. Along the way, we also touch on the determination it takes to overcome systemic failures in healthcare, and the indomitable spirit that drives us forward. But that's not all—family dynamics add another layer of complexity to our story. We openly discuss the pain and struggle of feeling like the black sheep, the heartbreak of witnessing neglect within our closest circles, and the internal conflict that arises when a strained relationship faces a medical crisis. Despite the heavy topics, we sprinkle in our signature humor and light-hearted moments, like our playful banter and a quirky endorsement of "Herb Poopwalk." Don't miss this blend of heartfelt reflection and laughter that makes "A Contagious Smell Unstoppable" a unique listening experience. Support the show
Mon, August 26, 2024
Courage and Strain: Honoring Officers and Tackling Family Issues
Send us a text Have you ever wondered how much media portrayal shapes our perception of political figures? Join us on this impactful episode of Unstoppable as we dissect the razor-tight race between Harris and Trump, alongside my incredible soulmate, Bradneck Husband. We’re raising critical issues about media insensitivity, particularly towards Waltz's son with special needs, and the mounting financial pressures from school supplies to everyday essentials. Our heartfelt tribute to the brave officers who’ve made the ultimate sacrifice underscores the emotional and physical toll of law enforcement. Bradneck Husband shares his invaluable perspective from over 13 years in the field, shedding light on the camaraderie and unseen challenges officers face daily. What happens when law enforcement officers encounter individuals with mental challenges or special needs? We examine the urgent necessity for more specialized training and professional aid to prevent unnecessary escalation. This conversation extends to the dire need for better in-service training, particularly in handling domestic violence cases. We challenge the status quo by debating whether senior staff should periodically patrol the streets to stay grounded with real-time challenges. Through continuous, hands-on training, we advocate for a system that better equips officers to handle the complexities of their job. Ever felt like the “black sheep” in your family? Our discussion takes a personal turn as we explore the impacts of family dynamics on mental health, inspired by my journey and my books "Who Keep First" and the forthcoming "Knock Knock Who's There." Celebrating the budding talent of young poet Faith, we also introduce our exciting collaboration with Dana on "Nard Nard. Who's There? Help Me, I'm Gasping for Air," tackling the nuanced world of narcissistic family dynamics. Don’t miss our announcement about an intimate Zoom event designed for survivors and thrivers of narcissistic abuse. Join us for an episode that promises to enlighten, challenge, and inspire. Support the show
Sat, August 24, 2024
Boundaries and Breakthroughs: Dr. Catherine Cleveland on Navigating Narcissistic Family Dynamics, Empowering Self-Worth, and Healing Through Breathwork
Send us a text https://clevelandemotionalhealth.com/catherines-books/ Unlock the secrets of setting healthy boundaries and breaking away from negative cycles with insights from our special guest, Dr. Catherine Cleveland. In this episode of A Contagious Smile, Dr. Cleveland takes us on her extraordinary journey from the life of a dairy farmer’s wife to becoming a distinguished mental health counselor and author. We explore her acclaimed books, "The Four Essential Pillars of Boundary Setting" and "Cultivating Gratitude, Gratefulness, and Graciousness," and get a sneak peek into her upcoming release, "Kinder to Myself," which is all about fostering self-compassion. Our discussion is especially poignant as we tackle the difficult topic of dealing with narcissistic family members, including parents and grandparents. Dr. Cleveland offers valuable advice on recognizing emotional abuse and the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries to protect personal well-being. We delve into real-life challenges faced by those who grew up under narcissistic influence and underscore the significance of mutual understanding and community support in the healing process. This is crucial listening for anyone who has struggled with the shadow of narcissism in their family. Furthermore, we explore the science behind narcissism, examining the biological and environmental factors that shape these complex behaviors. Dr. Cleveland shares practical strategies for using body language to empower oneself and avoid manipulation, along with techniques like breathwork to manage anxiety and promote healing. Through a blend of personal anecdotes and expert insights, this episode is a treasure trove of actionable advice aimed at helping listeners reclaim their self-worth and navigate their journey to emotional freedom. Tune in for an enlightening and empowering conversation that promises to transform the way you approach relationships and self-care. Support the show
Mon, August 19, 2024
Heartache and Healing: Navigating Narcissistic Family Dynamics, Special Needs Challenges, and Golden Retriever Joy
Send us a text What happens when the people who are supposed to love and support you the most turn out to be the ones who hurt you the deepest? Join us in this heartfelt episode as we unravel the complex dynamics of family relationships marred by narcissism. We begin with a warm introduction to our eagerly awaited prequel "Narc Narcos Air," and Michael’s candid reflections on the book. Through personal stories, we juxtapose the nurturing love Victoria received from her grandparents against the emotional damage inflicted by her narcissistic parents, drawing poignant parallels to our own family experiences. Navigating the trials of raising a special needs child, we offer a raw and honest account of our journey with Faith amidst the indifference of narcissistic family members. From countless hospital visits to the emotional toll of being labeled the “black sheep,” our stories aim to foster empathy and understanding for those grappling with similar family dysfunction. We also delve into the manipulative tactics used by narcissistic parents, exploring the emotional confusion and turmoil they create, and share insights on therapeutic support systems that can aid in healing. Amid the serious discussions, we lighten the mood with heartwarming and humorous tales about our three golden retrievers, whose unwavering loyalty and antics bring joy into our lives. We also have a thoughtful conversation about the importance of accepting and loving our pets just as they are, including the playful consideration of a dog's unique identity. By sharing these experiences, we underline the importance of resilience, empathy, and the support of loved ones in overcoming familial adversity and embracing the joyful moments that life offers. Support the show
Mon, August 12, 2024
Humor and Heart: Family Pranks, Pet Peeves, Political Insights, and Overcoming Domestic Abuse
Send us a text Ever wonder why some people make a big fuss out of nothing? We kick off this episode with a series of uproarious family pranks and a delightful recount of our daughter's birthday scavenger hunt. Then we shift gears to vent about those infuriating behaviors that turn minor issues into major annoyances, like cutting toenails in public places and sagging pants. It's a rollercoaster of emotions and laughs as we navigate the origins of these pet peeves. We then dive headfirst into the political arena, comparing Kamala Harris' media-shy approach to Donald Trump's accessible, albeit controversial, public persona. What does this mean for political transparency? And how do these contrasting styles affect public opinion? The conversation takes an unexpected twist as we tackle the complex dynamics of father-daughter relationships, offering advice on everything from managing an 18-year-old's dating life to embracing same-sex relationships within traditional families, and strategizing to protect our loved ones from past dangers. In a more somber segment, we confront the harsh realities of domestic abuse, providing a platform for survivors to share their harrowing stories. We discuss the legal and emotional battles they face, and the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries for safety. We also offer supportive strategies for those seeking to escape abusive situations, emphasizing the importance of community and resourcefulness. The episode wraps up on a lighter note with the anticipation of a new book launch by Lord Mark, a special contribution from a beloved husband, and heartfelt goodbyes. Join us for an episode that's as heartfelt and humorous as it is thought-provoking and serious. Support the show
Mon, August 05, 2024
Family Fun and Serious Discussions: Abby's Dog Mystery, Movie Preferences, and Tackling Gender Identity Issues
Send us a text Ever wondered why a simple Sprite could spark a hilarious debate? Join us in this lively episode of Unstoppable as Abby Cadabby Cadou returns to ignite some playful banter with Michael and Faith. From the mystery behind Abby's dog to the spirited discussions over movie night preferences, we promise you'll be laughing out loud. We even touch on those quirky regional pronunciations that can turn any conversation into a comedy show. But it's not all fun and games. We dive into heartfelt family moments, sharing the joys and struggles of cooking and family meals, and even the comedic disasters of colonoscopy prep. You'll hear us recounting funny stories about kids using adult language in public and trying to decipher handwritten notes. It's all about the warmth and camaraderie that make family life so special, and how these shared experiences strengthen our bonds. Of course, we couldn't close the episode without tackling some serious issues. We passionately discuss the challenges of gender identity and public restroom access, highlighting the need for better protections for children. We don't shy away from the flaws in the justice system either, calling for stricter laws to safeguard our kids. And as a special treat, we celebrate Abby and Faith's entertaining presence and spotlight some exciting new book releases. Tune in for a rollercoaster of emotions, from laughter to thoughtful debates, all wrapped up in one unforgettable episode. Support the show
Sat, August 03, 2024
Mindset Mastery and Miraculous Recoveries: Shane's Business Insights, Family Adventures, and Martial Arts Triumphs
Send us a text https://theshaneboyd.com/ What if your mindset could be the key to unlocking unparalleled business success? Join us as we welcome back our inspirational friend Shane, who masterfully combines marketing, business acumen, and personal development to transform the way entrepreneurs think and operate. Shane’s boundless passion for reading and sharing knowledge is a testament to the power of positivity and perseverance. Our heartfelt conversation reveals how his uplifting posts have become pillars of strength during challenging times and highlights the mutual support that has deepened our friendship. Ever wondered how a life-threatening accident could redefine your entire perspective? Tune in to hear the remarkable story of my miraculous recovery from a harrowing accident in 1999, and how it set me on a path of gratitude, faith, and resilience. We'll also dive into the joys and trials of family life, from the generational dynamics of living with my daughter and granddaughter to the pride I hold for my son in the Marine Corps. Listen as we share light-hearted family anecdotes and discuss how martial arts training has amplified my ability to overcome past injuries, offering a comprehensive look at life's many challenges and triumphs. Support the show
Mon, July 29, 2024
Medical Mishaps and Advocacy: Victoria and Michael's Battle with Hospital Incompetence, Faith's Emergency Ordeal, and The Power of Patient Advocacy
Send us a text What happens when hospital incompetence turns a family emergency into a nightmare? In this emotionally charged episode of Unstoppable, Victoria and Michael recount their traumatic experience with their daughter Faith's emergency visit. You'll hear about the distressing chain of errors that led to a series of unnecessary panics and suffering, from being placed in an inappropriate room to mishandling critical lab work. Their story highlights the stark reality that when medical professionals fail to read patient charts and understand medical history, the consequences can be devastating. Ever had to confront a medical professional about your loved one's care? Victoria and Michael did just that, facing off against an unprofessional nurse who failed to recognize their daughter's specific medical needs. This intense encounter culminated in the nurse's removal, underscoring the importance of patient advocacy in ensuring proper treatment. Through their harrowing journey, they shine a light on the systemic issues in healthcare and the emotional toll it takes on families, especially when dealing with special needs and medical PTSD. We wrap up this powerful episode with a call to action, inviting listeners to connect with us at Contagious Smile. Share your own experiences, join our show, and help raise awareness about the critical need for vigilance and advocacy in medical settings. Thank you for your continued support—your stories and voices are what make this community strong. Join Victoria, Michael, and their two lazy dogs (with the third probably in the hallway) as we sign off with gratitude and a renewed commitment to patient advocacy. Support the show
Mon, July 22, 2024
Laughter and Healing: Victoria's Surgery Stories, Trust in Relationships, and Celebrity Dream Encounters
Send us a text Ever had trouble pronouncing simple words like "ginger" or "gender"? You're not alone! This episode of "Unstoppable" is packed with laughter and heart as Michael and Dr. Victoria Curie share their humorous misadventures, including a playful exchange about such tongue-twisters. We dive into a heartfelt update on Victoria's recent major surgery, walking you through her pain, recovery process, and even some hilarious hospital pranks that lightened the mood, especially a memorable run-in with an anesthesiologist. We also take a moment to appreciate our community and discuss our ongoing work with special needs and domestic violence issues, thanking our supporters for their unwavering love and encouragement. Ever wondered what it would be like to have a dream encounter with Jennifer Aniston or James Spader? We explore these amusing hypothetical situations and more, comparing perceptions of beauty between stars like Catherine Zeta-Jones, Angelina Jolie, and Jennifer Aniston. Conversations about family dynamics and the influence of children bring both humor and insight, alongside a brief yet informative look at professional services that support children's educational needs. Dr. Victoria Curie shares her wealth of knowledge and accomplishments, emphasizing the crucial role of legal documents in these contexts. Imagine having a memory so sharp it feels like a curse. That's the reality for one wife as we delve into the complexities of trust and memory in relationships. A recurring nightmare about her husband’s past infidelity, rooted in a hidden previous marriage, sparks a candid discussion on rebuilding trust. The couple reveals their journey towards transparency, including sharing passwords and phones, showing how they navigate lingering insecurities with honesty and humor. We wrap things up with light-hearted pet stories and upcoming medical procedure anxieties, ending on a note of gratitude and a call for your continued support. Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions, from laughter to heartfelt moments, as we share our lives with you. Support the show
Mon, July 15, 2024
The Cosmic Journey: Dean's Path to Enlightenment, Healing Trauma, and Navigating the Evolution of the Soul
Send us a text Unlock the secrets to true happiness and spiritual enlightenment with our incredible guest, Dean Graves—a seasoned teacher, mental health counselor, and spiritual guide. In this episode, Dean recounts his transformative journey from a conventional life to a profound awakening in his 50s. Learn about the nature of stress and discover how bridging the gap between expectations and reality can lead you to a state of bliss. Dean also sheds light on enlightenment, viewing it as an ongoing journey rather than a final destination, and emphasizes the crucial role of self-exploration in achieving genuine happiness. Embark on a cosmic voyage as we explore the evolution of the soul, tracing its path from primordial darkness through various incarnations. Dean discusses the importance of diverse life experiences and their impact on shaping our identity, ego, and beliefs. We delve into the healing process, highlighting the key choice between service to self and service to others, which determines our readiness for higher consciousness and unity. Prepare to understand how these experiences shape our journey towards wisdom and becoming creator beings. Navigate the complexities of consciousness with practical insights into self-healing and mental health. Dean shares his expertise on free will, the Earth's current transitional phase, and the vibrational changes affecting our collective consciousness. Learn the transformative power of meditation and gain practical tips for starting your own practice. Whether you are seeking to heal trauma or find direction in life, this episode offers valuable information and guidance. Don't miss this enlightening conversation with Dean Graves that promises to illuminate your path to inner peace and spiritual growth. Support the show
Mon, July 15, 2024
Life, Laughter, and Resilience: Navigating Business Launches, Family Antics, and Dramatic Surgeries Amid Political Chaos
Send us a text Ever wondered what it's really like to juggle multiple roles in a bustling household while managing a business? Join us on Contagious Smile as we pull back the curtain on our daily lives, from the thrilling launch of "Narc Narc Who's There," our new series on narcissism, to the praise-worthy impact of Dana's book, "Gasping for Air." We also share personal stories about our upcoming surgeries and how we support each other through every twist and turn, all while laughing through the chaos and balancing professional commitments. The episode takes a dramatic turn as we unpack the intense aftermath of an assassination attempt on former President Donald Trump. Drawing parallels to historical events like JFK's funeral procession, we discuss Trump's resilience and the broader implications for safety and self-defense laws in America. But don't worry, we lighten the mood with some hilarious "redneck banter" about regional dialects, providing the perfect comedic relief amid the serious topics. To wrap things up, we dive into the hilarious and heartwarming dynamics within our family. Picture a husband who's recovering dramatically from a colonoscopy, asking for foot massages, while the wife remains a beacon of hard work even post-surgery. We also share our excitement about a golden retriever calendar for 2025 and recount a quirky father-daughter movie night featuring "Elf Girl." Tune in for a blend of humor, candid moments, and heartfelt stories as we navigate our busy lives and look forward to future endeavors. Support the show
Tue, July 09, 2024
Laughter and Legacy: Faith's Epic Pranks, Michael's Colonoscopy Fiasco, and the Essence of Family Connection in a Digital World
Send us a text Have you ever sent someone a "for rectal use only" label just to see their reaction? That's just the beginning of the hilarity in this episode as we share side-splitting stories of Faith's mischievous pranks leading up to Michael's colonoscopy. We also explore Michael's amusing struggle to pronounce "digestion," which adds another layer of humor to his pre-procedure jitters. Amidst the laughter, we pause to send heartfelt condolences to Dave Campbell on the loss of his beloved pet, Dookie Dook, and recount the adorable antics of our protective pet, Stucco, who never fails to steal the spotlight. In a more reflective segment, we discuss eye-opening social experiments that reveal how absorbed people have become with their phones, often missing critical moments around them. We contrast modern parenting with that of past generations, emphasizing the importance of family engagement and genuine connections. Personal anecdotes about screen-free dinners and board game nights underscore the value of these interactions, with a particularly touching story of our daughter's simple birthday wish to spend time with her family, highlighting the essence of true connection in a digital age. Our conversation takes a turn towards the political with lighthearted debates about the attractiveness and honesty of past U.S. presidents and first ladies. Personal preferences and humorous opinions make this segment both engaging and entertaining. We also touch on personal achievements like writing a book, adding depth to our discussion. Wrapping up, we talk about enhancing your social media presence with valuable tips and resources, extend condolences to Faith's previous godmother's family, and end on a fun note about heading to the craft room. Tune in for a delightful mix of humor, heart, and thoughtful reflection. Support the show
Mon, July 08, 2024
Adventures and Advocacy: Faith, Abby, and Shanti’s Summer Tales, College Dreams, and LGBTQ+ Representation in Schools
Send us a text Get ready for an episode packed with heartfelt narratives, exciting adventures, and invaluable advice! We kick things off with Faith, Sandy, and Abby, sharing their vibrant summer plans and unforgettable experiences. Faith is buzzing with excitement about her summer program in New York City, juggling book marketing, and celebrating the release of her fifth book. Abby's tales of fun-filled pranks during her recent Georgia vacation will leave you in stitches, while Shanti's inspiring story of overcoming bullying and channeling her experiences into a successful writing career will undoubtedly tug at your heartstrings. Join us as we tackle the crucial topic of LGBTQ+ representation in schools, highlighted by an intriguing story called "The Experiment." Our guests share a wide range of perspectives, from Shadi's emphasis on creating a nurturing learning environment to Ab's positive experiences in an accepting school. Logan weighs in with concerns about non-binary identification, prompting a thoughtful discussion on inclusivity and respect. Faith adds her voice to the conversation, recognizing the community's struggles while advocating for support and understanding. As we transition to discussing junior year excitement and college aspirations, the energy is palpable. We explore potential majors, dream schools, and the anticipation of selecting unique classes. Faith, Victoria, and Shanti share their wisdom on writing and self-publishing, offering practical tips for young authors. The episode wraps up with powerful advice from teen influencers on resilience, kindness, and honesty, ensuring you walk away with not just insights, but also a heart full of inspiration. Don't miss this engaging, insightful, and heartwarming episode! Support the show
Mon, July 01, 2024
Laughter and Resilience: Michael and Victoria's Narrative on Narcissism, Family Antics, and Overcoming Adversity
Send us a text Ever wondered how a playful joke about a colonoscopy could lead to a profound discussion on narcissism? Join us as we kick off with Michael's upcoming procedure and veer into Victoria's literary adventures, including her quirky prequel "Nart Nart: Who’s There?" We break down narcissism—its roots, the role of upbringing, and why it’s crucial to break negative cycles. Through our own stories, we stress the power of nurturing a loving environment over bowing to societal pressures and insecurities. Get ready to laugh as we share the joy of everyday family moments. From funny antics with my wife to the stress and humor of parenting a child who’s faced medical challenges, we show how laughter can strengthen relationships. Whether it's joking around in the aisles of Walmart or finding humor in the chaos of family life, we spotlight the importance of a positive outlook and cherishing the little things. Finally, we tackle resilience and humor in the face of adversity. Hear my personal journey through amputation and countless surgeries, and discover how a lighthearted approach made all the difference. Through interactions with people who have gloomy perspectives and uplifting stories like empowering a young girl with leg braces, we highlight the transformative power of empathy and kindness. With playful banter and reflections on family dynamics, we wrap up by celebrating the vital role of laughter and mutual support in maintaining strong, loving relationships. Support the show
Wed, June 26, 2024
Healing from the Heart: Emily's Journey Through Childhood Trauma, Breaking Generational Cycles, and Empowering Resilience
Send us a text https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/home What does it take to transform childhood trauma into a beacon of hope and resilience? Join us as we sit down with Emily Cleghorn, a remarkable advocate for trauma-informed care, who shares her journey of overcoming emotional neglect and untreated mental health issues. Emily's story is a testament to the power of early intervention and the conscious decision to break the cycle of trauma. From her early days of writing down feelings to the evolution of her "trigger toolbox," Emily provides invaluable strategies for managing emotional triggers and maintaining balance. In this heartfelt episode, Emily opens up about her harrowing experiences, including emotional neglect and the impact of untreated anxiety and depression. Despite such adversity, Emily's determination to change her fate began in eighth grade, making her journey one of resilience and hope. We discuss the complex realities of parental trauma and the importance of addressing generational pain. Emily's insights, complemented by reflections from my book, "Rising from the Ashes: Reclaiming Your Life After Traumatic Childhood," offer a roadmap for healing and transformation. Discover various ways to connect with Emily, from her Instagram (@emilycleghorncoach) to her podcast "Mama Hood After Trauma." We also highlight her upcoming book collaboration and the resources she offers. Emily's resilience and accomplishments are truly inspiring, making her a beacon of hope for others on similar paths. Tune in for an episode filled with empathy, genuine understanding, and practical tools for overcoming the shadows of the past. Support the show
Mon, June 24, 2024
From Memory Mastery to Emotional Resilience: John's Battle with Anxiety, Healing Childhood Wounds, and Building a Supportive Community
Send us a text https://releasepanic.com/free What if you could transform your memory from ordinary to extraordinary? Join us for an inspiring discussion with John Graham, a three-time USA Memory Champion and world record holder. John shares his riveting journey into the competitive world of memory sports, dispelling the myth of innate photographic memory and demonstrating how visualization and creativity can elevate anyone's memory skills. He opens up about the immense pressure, self-doubt, and daily panic attacks he endured and the supportive community that helped him conquer his mental blocks and achieve remarkable feats. Have you ever wondered about the emotional roots of anxiety and panic attacks? In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the complexities of mental health, emphasizing the importance of processing suppressed emotions. From mild brain fog to severe physical reactions, we explore personal stories and highlight the damaging effects of control and manipulation on anxiety. Listeners will learn about the power of releasing control and fully feeling discomfort as a path to healing, promoting a self-empowering approach to emotional well-being without over-reliance on therapists or medication. We also tackle the deep and often hidden emotional scars from childhood that can lead to a relentless pursuit of external validation. John Graham reflects on his own experiences with shame and the pressures faced by today's youth in a changing educational landscape. He sheds light on his impactful program designed to address severe mental health issues like anxiety and depression, and emphasizes the significance of unconditional love and support. Join us for a transformative discussion that promises to leave you inspired and empowered to embark on your own journey of emotional healing and fulfillment. Support the show
Sat, June 22, 2024
Teen Talk, Laughter and Laurels: Faith and Abbies’s Summer Adventures, Academic Triumphs, and Family Insights
Send us a text Ever wondered how a published teen author and a national honor society inductee spend their summer? Buckle up for a laugh-filled journey as we welcome Faith and our special guest, Abacus, who have some unbelievable stories to share. From Faith celebrating her fifth book to Abacus's prestigious academic honor, this episode is packed with achievements and hilarity. Listen to their tales of baby powder pranks, Oreo Blizzard escapades, and an unforgettable wedding where they both shone brightly. Plus, join them on spontaneous bookstore runs and a fun nail salon visit. And let's not forget the comic relief from Michael's outrageous antics, including bag-tossing out windows and epic water-spraying contests. This episode is a delightful blend of laughter, success, and memorable summer moments. Switching gears, we dive into a unique perspective on education with our second chapter, exploring what it's like to have your mom as a teacher at your school. Faith and Abacus discuss the potential for favoritism, the challenges of higher expectations, and the invaluable lessons learned from "Take Your Child to Work Day." They reminisce about their favorite subjects, particularly English and writing, and share cherished memories from their art classes. The conversation wraps up on a heartfelt note as they reflect on the joy of family vacations and the importance of quality time together. Tune in for an episode that combines humor, heart, and a fresh look at family and education! Support the show
Mon, June 17, 2024
Deception Unveiled: Shannon's Insights on Recognizing Narcissism, Navigating Toxic Relationships, and Healing from Emotional Devastation
Send us a text Can you recognize the subtle signs of narcissism before it's too late? Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Shannon, a renowned therapist and bestselling author, as she unpacks the often hidden traits of narcissism and their devastating effects on relationships. Shannon brings to light the behaviors associated with narcissism—self-centeredness, lack of empathy, and manipulative tactics—and emphasizes the crucial need to prioritize our own well-being in toxic relationships. We venture into the realm of narcissistic parenting, shedding light on the damaging dynamics it creates within families. Shannon discusses the psychological impact on children caught in a web of silent treatments and favoritism, exploring how siblings can be distinctly affected as the "golden child" or the "black sheep." These roles come with their own burdens, leading to issues like perfectionism, anxiety, and depression. This segment provides a profound understanding of how empathy, shaped by genetics and upbringing, plays a role in these dynamics. In our discussion on the troubling behaviors of narcissists, we uncover their cold-hearted approach to relationships and vindictive tendencies. Shannon explains how narcissists seek revenge and easily discard relationships, causing emotional havoc on those involved. The conversation then shifts to healing, focusing on the trauma-informed, strength-based approach needed for recovery after such toxic ties. We stress the importance of support and deprogramming to reclaim one's life. Shannon's insights, paired with highlights from her new book, promise a transformative journey for anyone seeking to escape and heal from the clutches of narcissism. Support the show
Mon, June 17, 2024
Resilience in Full Bloom: Faith’s Journey from Developmental Delays to Literary Achievements, Fashion Dreams, and Family Triumphs Amid Financial Challenges
Send us a text What if your child, despite facing significant developmental delays, could achieve something truly extraordinary? Join us as we celebrate our daughter Faith’s incredible journey. From the release of her book, "Phoenix Whispered Legacy Reigns," to her budding passion for fashion design, we unveil the multifaceted talents and resilience of our daughter. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to Faith’s determination and a testament to the boundless love and support that fuels her dreams. Ever wondered how families navigate the financial pressures and challenges of raising children with special needs? We share our personal experiences, highlighting the systemic inequities that families like ours face daily. From managing healthcare costs to grappling with inadequate government support, we provide a candid look into the struggles and triumphs of our modest lifestyle. We invite you into our world, filled with dedication, selflessness, and a community that thrives despite financial strain. Your stories and insights matter, and we encourage you to share them with us. Amidst these serious discussions, we also bring you laughter and light-hearted moments from our family life. From humorous misunderstandings during medical appointments to our playful vow renewals, we explore the dynamics of trust, communication, and joy in relationships. Hear about our amusing hospital pranks and the fun-filled traditions that keep our family bonded. This episode is a blend of advocacy, personal triumphs, and the timeless importance of laughter and love in building strong connections. Join us, share your stories, and continue to support our journey. Stay safe and keep smiling! Support the show
Tue, June 11, 2024
From Love's Pinnacle to Heartbreak's Abyss: Denise's Journey of Resilience, Healing, and Empowerment
Send us a text https://www.flowgriefacademy.com/talk What does true resilience look like in the face of unimaginable loss? We had the honor of speaking with Denise, whose life journey from youthful romance to profound grief unfolds in a story that is as inspiring as it is heartbreaking. Meeting her husband at the tender age of 16, their spontaneous decision to marry set the stage for a life filled with love, partnership, and unexpected trials. Denise takes us through the heartwarming highs and the devastating lows, including her husband's sudden paralysis and eventual passing, sharing candid reflections on their enduring bond. Denise's honesty about her struggle with grief offers a raw and real look at the emotional chaos that ensues after losing a loved one. Balancing the need to remain strong for her children with her own internal battles, she faced a journey complicated by memory loss and overwhelming sorrow. It was through her psychologist Teresa that Denise found the tools to begin understanding and managing her grief. Her story underscores the critical role of seeking professional help and the powerful steps she took to ensure that grief would not define her life indefinitely. From her own healing process emerged a mission to help others transform their grief into a celebration of life. Through an eight-week personalized coaching program, Denise empowers individuals to navigate their own journeys of loss with introspection and guided support. The episode also highlights the inspiring story of Deb, who turned her personal tragedy into a mission to support grieving parents. Denise's dedication to her calling and her husband's enduring pride in her achievements exemplify the extraordinary impact of shared human experiences. Join us for an emotional and uplifting conversation that speaks to the resilience of the human spirit. Support the show
Mon, June 03, 2024
The Path of Self-Mastery: Rick's Martial Arts Odyssey, Overcoming Adversity, and the Quest for Resilience and Purpose
Send us a text https://www.youtube.com/@StrengthSertified What can a lifetime of martial arts teach you about self-discipline and personal growth? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Rick, a seasoned martial artist and personal trainer whose journey from a troubled child to a master of self-discipline is nothing short of remarkable. From traditional Korean karate to Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Rick shares his evolution through various martial arts forms, his intense commitment to every endeavor, and the profound impact of staying true to one's path. Rick’s story is not just about martial arts but also about navigating life's tougher moments. We take a raw look into the emotional and psychological toll of prison and solitary confinement, illustrating how these experiences have shaped his resilient mindset. Additionally, Rick opens up about the devastating disappearance of his friend Dave, the painful search for answers, and the relentless hope that drives those left behind. These stories aren't just about overcoming adversity—they are about finding strength and purpose in the most challenging situations. Finally, we touch on lighter, yet equally meaningful subjects, such as the unique challenges of parenting and the importance of maintaining traditional values in modern times. Hear about the resilience of a woman producing content from the ICU, the comprehensive self-mastery program that Rick advocates, and the fun banter about regional accents that keeps the conversation lively. With a blend of intensity, heartfelt moments, and humor, this episode promises to leave you with valuable lessons on self-mastery and personal growth. https://www.facebook.com/rick.koenig.7 https://www.instagram.com/rick.koenig https://www.youtube.com/@StrengthSertified Support the show
Mon, May 27, 2024
Reflections and Revelations: Navigating Memorial Day Memories, Societal Challenges, and Family Fortitude with Humor and Honesty
Send us a text As we kick off our latest podcast episode, Michael and I take you on a heartfelt journey, blending humor and sobering reality from our Memorial Day reflections. We swap tales of our cherished downtime and quirky traditions, like our laugh-fest over the addictive fries at Zaxby's and the playful quips that sprinkle our conversations. But it's not all fun and games; we also open up about the serious issue of school shootings and gun safety, sharing our personal insights on the challenges and frustrations that come with confronting such complex societal problems. Prepare to be enveloped in the warmth of family as we explore the support systems that get us through life's toughest moments. From the raw emotions of dealing with medical adversities to the laughter that emerges in the face of hardship, our stories are a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. We're candid about everything from confronting pain without medication, to the powerful act of forgiveness within family dynamics, revealing what it truly means to stand by each other through thick and thin. Wrapping up, we venture into the often-reluctant world of medical procedures, finding humor in the unease of colonoscopies, and examining the long-term effects of physical trauma with an honesty that's both refreshing and enlightening. In a lighter vein, we compare our voices, reflecting on the charming quirks and unique dynamics that make our relationship truly one of a kind, ensuring that whether we're delving into deep discussions or sharing a hearty laugh, you're right there with us, savoring every moment. Join us for this episode – an eclectic blend of love, real talk, and a dash of humor. Support the show
Fri, May 24, 2024
Emerging from the Shadows: Jessie's Triumph Over Childhood Trauma and the Quest for Healing and Hope
Send us a text Jessie's journey, a staggering narrative of survival against all odds, unfolds in our latest episode, where her voice resonates with the power of resilience. She bravely narrates a childhood under the shadow of a narcissistic mother and a predatory stepfather, experiences so intense they could belong in a harrowing film. Her story takes us from the discovery of an extraordinary intelligence to a life burdened prematurely with adult responsibilities. As a child who cared for siblings and faced the turmoil of a pet neglected amidst chaos, Jessie paints a vivid picture of a young life where trauma lurks at every turn. Our conversation with Jessie moves through a labyrinth of family trauma and the fight to escape the clutches of abuse. It's a tale that speaks volumes about the strength of the human spirit, as she recounts the confusion and lasting scars of witnessing her mother's attempted abortion, and the upheaval of moving that heralded a life of constant change and challenge. Jessie's account doesn't just share her struggles; it serves as a beacon of hope, shining a light on the transformative effects of therapy, medication, and the pursuit of positive choices. As Jessie corrects a name at the end of her chapter, a single act symbolizes the vital process of confronting and reconciling past pains to forge a path forward. This episode unveils Jessie's legal battles over custody, the disturbing dynamics of family linked to a cult, and the profound resilience required to break free from a cycle of abuse. Her testament, chronicled in her book "Girl Hidden," reveals the indomitable human spirit's ability to heal and love, proving that even from the darkest beginnings, it's possible to emerge into the light. Support the show
Mon, May 20, 2024
Unveiling Authenticity: Confronting Body Dysphoria, Celebrating Self-Worth, and the Influence of Role Models
Send us a text Have you ever stood in front of the mirror, wrestling with feelings that your reflection doesn't match who you truly are? Victoria and I get to the heart of body dysphoria and self-esteem in our no-holds-barred discussion, where we reveal our personal battles and the transformative power of embracing our authentic selves. From the societal pressures to conform to a certain look, to the poignant journey of Victoria's decision to love her natural hair, we unfold the layers of what it means to find beauty and confidence in being unapologetically you. But it's not all about appearances; it's about the essence of what makes us truly attractive. Weaving through tales of laughter, love, and the pursuit of happiness, we uncover the emotional foundations that form the bedrock of genuine connections. We discuss the importance of investing in ourselves, growing from our past, and the often overlooked emotional allure that outshines any physical attribute. Through candid confessions, including our own missteps and moments of vulnerability, Victoria and I navigate the murky waters of self-worth in the face of relentless cultural and media influences. Switching gears, we grapple with the weight of responsibility that befalls our public figures, like Taylor Swift, and the messages they send to impressionable minds. How should role models navigate their influence on young fans? We discuss this alongside the importance of parental guidance and educational policies in sculpting the attitudes of our youth towards appearance and behavior. And as we touch on the complex issues teens face today, we share a personal family ordeal that tested our strength and resolve, teasing a glimpse into our hopes and dreams for the future – including a shared aspiration to pen a book. So, grab that glass of chocolate milk and join us for a journey of heart, humor, and a touch of redneck wisdom. Support the show
Wed, May 15, 2024
Gratitude Amidst Life's Echoes: Navigating Loss, Family Dynamics, and the Warmth of Renewed Love
Send us a text When the warmth of gratitude meets the realities of life, we find ourselves sharing a space where laughter mingles with tears, and strength is drawn from the most poignant stories. Victoria and I are overwhelmed with appreciation, standing proud in the top 1% of podcasts, and it's all thanks to you—our unwavering support system. Our journey takes a touching turn when we recount an interaction with a fellow amputee, laying bare the harsh truths of living with loss and the power of community care. We then tackle the emotional whirlpool of family dynamics, from honoring cherished ones within the constraints of health and finance to discussions about the effects of toxic relationships that can overshadow the innocence of childhood. The heart of our discourse beats to the rhythm of personal and professional growth, as we navigate the delicate dance of emotional boundaries with our children, especially those with special needs. Victoria shares an intimate moment of parental support prior to a medical procedure, while I open up about our evolving working relationship, peppered with playful debates over titles and shared responsibilities. We also delve into the dark allure of narcissism's impact on families, serving up personal stories that paint a vivid picture of the cold indifference narcissists can exhibit. Despite the heaviness of these topics, gratitude remains our steadfast companion, as we remember past assistance that shone like a beacon during our darkest times. Closing on an uplifting note, we reminisce about the annual tradition of renewing marriage vows and the sparks of creativity that keep love's flame alight. We're not shy about sharing our quirks, from pronunciation disputes to the charming idiosyncrasies that make our relationship unique. As we look ahead to new ventures like a podcasting camp for teens and literary achievements that touch hearts across generations, we invite you to join us in celebrating the milestones, musings, and unexpected delights that life throws our way. So tune in, and let's continue this wonderful ride together, with stories that resonate and connections that endure. Support the show
Mon, May 13, 2024
Harnessing Laughter and Resilience: Laura's Triumph Over Cancer, Heartache, and Crafting a Joyful Life Post-Adversity
Send us a text http:// iCope2Hope.com Sometimes life throws us a curveball—or two—that tests our very essence, but the human spirit is a formidable opponent to adversity. Joining us on A Contagious Smile, Laura, a resilience coach and author, shares her incredible journey of hope, healing, and laughter. She opens up about her battle with breast cancer, the heart-rending loss of her adopted son to suicide, and how these overwhelming experiences set her on a path to help others navigate through their own storms. The episodes of life’s soap opera can sometimes be too intense to bear alone, and our latest podcast is a testament to that. Amidst her health battles and personal betrayals, including a heart transplant and a marriage dissolution during the isolating times of COVID-19, Laura’s unwavering strength is nothing short of inspirational. Her resilience shines through as she discusses how she turned pain into purpose, mentoring young souls and finding solace in rebuilding her life with newfound passions and joys. Concluding our heartfelt exchange, Laura enlightens us on how the simple act of laughter can be transformative. Her book "Flourishing After Adversity" and her mission to spread joy is a gentle reminder of the difference a smile can make. Engage with us as we celebrate Laura's spirited commitment to foster resilience and happiness in the face of life’s trials—a conversation sure to leave you moved and motivated to find the silver lining on your own cloudy days. Support the show
Mon, May 13, 2024
The Symphony of Strength: Laura's Dance with Adversity, Unyielding Joy, and the Laughter That Heals
Send us a text https://icope2hope.com/ When life handed Laura the most heart-wrenching of challenges, she crafted a tapestry of resilience that not only held her family together but also inspired those around her. This episode brings you the soul-stirring narrative of a mother who danced with cancer's shadow, bore the insurmountable pain of her adopted son's suicide, and yet emerged with her spirit unbroken. We navigate the depths of Laura's despair and the peaks of her unwavering strength, as she candidly shares the intimate details of her emotional journey, the dissolution of a long marriage, and the life-affirming connection with her twin sister that propelled her forward. Amidst the turbulence of her health battles and personal trials, Laura discovered a wellspring of joy in mentoring foster youth, crafting a legacy of hope from the fragments of loss. Our conversation with Laura is a symphony of life's complexities, as she recounts her transformative experiences with humor and grace, revealing how she reclaimed the rhythm of life through music, art, and community service. Her book "Flourishing After Adversity" serves as a beacon to others, outlining a pathway to resilience that she now passionately shares through her website, coaching services, and upcoming resources. The laughter that punctuates our discussion with Laura is a testament to the healing power of joy and the importance of spreading it generously. She reminds us that a smile, a shared joke, or a playful exchange can light up the darkest corners of our lives and the lives of others. As Laura looks forward to returning for another enriching dialogue, we are left with her infectious energy, a reminder that even amidst life's most ferocious storms, one can still emerge, not just surviving, but thriving with a heart full of laughter. Support the show
Mon, May 06, 2024
The Lattice of Love: Paul Zome's Transformation, Cultivating Kindness, and Sparking a Kindness Revolution through the Love Language Dice
Send us a text https://roleoflove.com/ https://www.instagram.com/roleoflovedice/ https://www.instagram.com/paul_zolman/ https://www.facebook.com/roleoflovedice https://www.facebook.com/paul.zolman.7/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulzolman/ As we navigate the intricate tapestry of human connection, Paul Zome, a beacon of resilience and hope, joins us to share his story of transformation from a strife-filled childhood to becoming an international bestselling author. His book, "The Role of Love," isn't merely a collection of pages—it's a lifeline, offering innovative tools such as the love language dice to strengthen our bonds. This episode spotlights the undeniable impact that understanding and embracing the five love languages can have on our relationships, highlighted through Paul's anecdotal wisdom as he emerged from the shadows of being the tenth child in a family where love and respect were scarce. Diving into the heart of our societal fabric, we explore the transformative power of personal accountability, not just in our lives but extending to our youth through journaling and the influence of social media. Paul's insights on nurturing kindness and responsibility inspire a vision of a more empathetic and connected community. Like the beauty of clouds parting at sunrise, we discuss embracing life's trials and finding the stunning beauty that lies beyond, illuminating the path toward personal growth and community betterment. Our journey with Paul culminates in a call to revolution—a kindness revolution—where the simplicity of a dice game can set the stage for a wave of positivity within schools. The 'Roll of Love' isn't just a game; it's a catalyst for change in how teens understand themselves and interact with the world. We travel with Paul through the complexities of modern identity, relationships, and the importance of creating a supportive forum for teens to express themselves. For those yearning to be part of a conversation that's reshaping our approach to love and self-growth, Paul Zome's wisdom is a guiding light, offering practical resources to foster positivity in every facet of our lives. Support the show
Mon, May 06, 2024
Restoring Trust After Betrayal: Unveiling the Struggles with Fidelity, Building Strong Homes, and Honoring Domestic Violence Survivors
Send us a text Can the fidelity of a chronic cheater truly be restored, or is it a Sisyphean task? Our latest episode delves into the gritty realities of sex addiction, the possibility of redemption, and the complex journey from betrayal to helping others. Michael and I share insights into the impact of willpower and core values like family and loyalty, as we navigate personal boundaries and various forms of infidelity. We're not just waxing philosophical; we're getting real about what cheating looks like, from the physical to the emotional, and the often-undiscussed use of pornography. Home is where the heart is, but it's also where the hard work of maintaining a happy marriage happens. We open up about our own brushes with infidelity's pitfalls and how the simplest acts of kindness can fortify a relationship. The significance of traditions and quality time cannot be overstressed, and neither can the role each partner plays in creating a blissful domestic life. We're passionate about breaking negative family patterns, believing in the power of respect and appreciation, and the conscious decisions we make to ensure our children have a bright future. Finally, we broach the harrowing topic of domestic violence, honoring the steadfast courage of survivors. With a painfully honest account from a guest who's lived through such trauma, we shine a light on the systemic failures that victims face and the importance of believing their stories. It's a solemn reminder of the societal overhaul needed to lift the veil on abuse and a call to action for everyone to play a part in supporting those who have fought their way out of darkness. This isn't just another episode; it's a heartfelt plea for change and a testament to the human spirit's resilience. Support the show
Mon, April 29, 2024
Confronting Violent Echoes and Embracing Encouragement: A Journey of School Safety, Celebrity Compassion, and Bonding Over Bond
Send us a text The gut-wrenching reality of school violence hits home in our latest discussion, where we tackle the alarming incident involving an 18-year-old student's assault on a teacher aide. Our society's response, or lack thereof, to such incidents begs the question: What are we teaching our youth about consequences and compassion? It's not just about the unnerving statistics; it's the personal stories behind them that truly resonate. As we sift through the details of this case and its implications for school safety, we're reminded of the vital role of empathy and action in our communities. When Abby Lee Miller reached out with words of admiration for our daughter Faith, it underscored the disparate worlds of entertainment and personal struggle with health adversities. Abby's interest in joining us on the podcast promises to bring her unique perspective on resilience and fortitude, something our family knows intimately as we navigate Faith's healing journey. In a warm blend of personal reflection and encouragement, this episode promises both the light-hearted family anecdotes you love and the inspiring stories that fuel our collective hope. Finishing off with a dash of humor and nostalgia, we engage in a hearty debate over James Bond actors and our quirky attempts to remember all the faces behind the iconic 007. From taco nights to TikTok ventures and the endearing quirks of a 25-year marriage, we serve up a conversation that's as varied as it is vibrant. So pull up a chair, maybe grab a taco, and let's share in this tapestry of sobering reflections, family life, and the lighter side of things. Abby Lee Miller's anticipated presence only heightens the promise of an engaging listen. Support the show
Sat, April 27, 2024
Celebrating Milestones and Navigating Parenting: Victoria's Advocacy Achievements, Pet Quirks, and Disciplining with Compassion
Send us a text As Victoria celebrates her recent guardian ad litem state certification, we prance into a conversation that swerves from the humor in our dogs' odd licking habits to the gravity of advocating for children in the legal system. I'm not far behind with my own announcement as a new counselor for the amputee coalition, proving that personal triumphs come in many forms, including the four-legged variety that enjoys a good slobber. Our camaraderie crackles through the airwaves, as we not only toast to each other's achievements but also tackle the quirky side of pet ownership that often leaves us both baffled and belly-laughing. The laughter gives way to a more earnest debate on the evolution of discipline and respect from our own childhoods in the 70s and 80s to today's family dynamics. We don't shy away from the thorny aspects of parenting as we share tales of teenage rebellion and the search for a middle ground between authority and understanding. Reflecting on the controversial use of corporal punishment, we dissect societal norms and share how our experiences have shaped our stance on non-violent behavior correction. Join us for a journey that's as enlightening as it is entertaining, packed with personal insights and a refreshing take on guiding the next generation. Support the show
Fri, April 26, 2024
Embracing Resilience: Faith's Tale of Courage, Confronting Infidelity, and the Fight Against Domestic Violence
Send us a text Navigating life's challenges with grace and a sense of humor isn't always easy, but it's the heart of our latest episode on Unstoppable. As I, Victoria, take you through the emotional narrative of "Faith's Courageous Journey," we learn more than just the story of a brave young girl in a hospital; we discover how to empower children to manage anxiety and find strength. Alongside this, my own fulfilling journey towards becoming a guardian ad litem with CASA is sure to inspire anyone looking to make a difference in the world. And let's not forget the excitement of venturing into TikTok's dynamic marketplace with my memoir, "Who Kicked First," where your insights are warmly welcomed. Baring our souls, we transition into a candid discussion about the fragile threads of trust and the reasons that lead to infidelity. Sharing my personal encounters with cheating, we shed light on the often misunderstood motivations and the potential for healing and understanding. And in the midst of such weighty topics, we find time to laugh at a quirky hospital direction mishap, a gentle reminder of the unexpected joys even during the darkest times. The conversation turns serious as we prepare to tackle the pressing issue of domestic violence, providing crucial resources and inviting you to join us in supporting those in need through your stories and solidarity. Support the show
Fri, April 26, 2024
The Tapestry of Tenacity: Celebrating 200 Episodes of Podcast Wisdom, Motherly Courage, and the Unseen Bonds That Tie Us Together
Send us a text When my mentor Dave Camber, the 'Yoda' to my fledgling podcast journey, decided to honor us with his presence on our 200th episode, we knew it was going to be an event of celebration and retrospection. Dave's guiding wisdom not only shaped the character of our show but also inspired the evolution of a heartfelt book that chronicles the trials and triumphs of a little girl named Faith. We're also lifting the curtain on Guardian Mitleidem, my latest heartfelt venture focused on supporting children in dire need, and spotlighting a delightful cooking show that brings the essence of father-son bonding to your ears. The strength and tenacity of a mother's love never cease to amaze, and in this episode, we are sharing a story that will leave your heart both wrenched and warmed. This journey through a mother's unwavering determination in the face of her daughter's fight for life in the NICU, the occasional apathy from onlookers, and the small miracles that define our existence, will remind you of the power of resilience. The podcasting path is riddled with challenges and victories alike, and today, we're also sharing a treasure trove of tips and real-life experiences that illuminate the importance of community support and the joy of connecting with listeners. Wrapping up, we get into the nuts and bolts of beginning a podcast with nothing but a smartphone and a dream. I'll walk you through the surprising simplicity of sharing your voice with the world and the unexpected friendships and support that can blossom from such ventures. Through a mix of lighthearted anecdotes and profound gratitude, we emphasize the beauty of community and the strength found in the genuine connections we make along the way. So come along and join Michael and myself as we share laughter, stories and the kind of gratitude that only comes from 200 episodes of shared experiences and the people who make it all worth it. Support the show
Fri, April 26, 2024
The Echoes of Empathy: Unraveling the Impact of Mindful Communication, Navigating Narcissism, and Embracing Healing Connections
Send us a text Have you ever been struck by the power of a single word, or the ripple effect of an action? Sitting down with my dear friend Dee, we traverse the landscape of mindful communication and its incredible impact on the world around us. We uncover the ways in which words can heal or hurt, bring us together or tear us apart, especially when facing the sharp edges of narcissistic tendencies. Through our candid mom-talk, we share our personal experiences and lessons learned, from the profound isolation I witnessed in the ICU with my daughter Faith, to the surprising clarity of who shows up for us in our darkest moments. Navigating the complexities of personal relationships, particularly in the shadow of narcissism, can feel like steering through a storm. We peel back the layers of this struggle, examining the implications of maintaining connections with family members whose toxicity challenges the fabric of our bonds. As we recount tales of shifting allegiances and the tough decisions to go no-contact with biological parents, we also spare a moment to consider the challenges that families face in the digital age, where screen time often supersedes face-to-face moments, and the way our children's social habits are shaped by this new norm. Closing on a note of healing, Dee and I delve into the transformative energies of muscle testing, the Emotion Code, and the aromatic embrace of essential oils. We share insights on the role of intuition in our healing journeys and fascinating discussions about frequency apps that cater to chakra and meridian balancing. Bringing it home, we talk about the indispensable presence of empathy in healthcare, drawn from my own advocacy for Faith. Together, we affirm the power of human connection and touch, and the irreplaceable support that comes from just being there for each other. Join us for a conversation that promises to move you and might just change the way you engage with the world. Support the show
Fri, April 26, 2024
Redemption's Echo: Martin's Journey from DUI Tragedy to Mental Health Mentorship and the Power of Second Chances
Send us a text Have you ever stood on the brink of despair and wondered if there was a way back to hope? Martin's story is a testament to the human spirit's capacity for redemption and transformation. Join Whitney Lee and me as we sit down with him, the powerhouse behind cultural engagement at Lines for Life in Oregon, and navigate his incredible journey from a tragic DUI incident to becoming a beacon of change in the realm of mental health and substance use resources. We're peeling back the layers of his experience, serving a 17.5-year sentence, to reveal how personal accountability and a desire to make a positive impact can reshape a life. A former inmate's perspective can open our eyes to worlds we never knew existed. Inside the walls of the prison system, we uncover the emotional resonance of DUI victim impact panels, where the paths of remorse and the search for redemption intersect. We're going beyond the headlines to discuss the power of storytelling in digital spaces and the critical role of community support through AA. Martin offers a window into the adversity faced while navigating the complex social hierarchies of prison life and how maintaining dignity through language can be a form of quiet rebellion against the system's dehumanization. Through sharing powerful narratives from behind the bars, we realize that struggle shapes us all, regardless of where we find ourselves. Martin's mentorship of young inmates and conversations around childhood trauma show us that purpose can arise from the most challenging circumstances. This week, Victoria from A Contagious Smile Podcast and I from Impostrix are committed to bringing you candid discussions that celebrate resilience and the pursuit of purpose despite life's adversities. Join us on this enlightening journey, as we explore these profound stories of transformation that remind us all of the enduring human capacity for growth and change. Support the show
Thu, April 25, 2024
The Dance of Light and Shadow: Dana's Quest for Liberation from Narcissistic Abuse and the Healing Embrace of Family
Send us a text When Dana and I reconnected for another raw and enlightening discussion on our podcast, we never anticipated the depth of emotion and revelation that would unfold. We traversed the shadowy realm of narcissistic abuse, a topic Dana bravely confronts in her memoir "Gasping for Air," her 25-year journey through an abusive marriage and her subsequent liberation. Together, we shared not just our own narratives but also the universal cry for awareness and escape from these toxic relationships that too many silently endure. The fabric of family and the legacies we inherit and leave behind became a poignant thread throughout our dialogue. From the agony of parental neglect to the warmth of a supportive spouse, our candid conversation mirrored the bittersweet tapestry of human connection. We laid bare the heartache and the hope that comes with breaking cycles of abuse. By choosing nurturing over neglect, we pave a brighter path for our children, as we reflected on the transformative power of love and the conscious effort it takes to foster healing after years of dysfunction. Capping off our emotional journey, Dana and I touched on the turbulent seas of mental health, and the resilience that comes from understanding and acceptance. With humor and camaraderie, we celebrated the unconditional support from friends and chosen family that sustains us. This episode is a tribute to every listener out there who's faced darkness, offering a reminder that love and light are often closer than they appear, ready to guide us to brighter days. Support the show
Thu, April 25, 2024
Furry Friends as Catalysts for Change in Child Recovery
Send us a text Ever find yourself wondering how we can better support the next generation in a world that's constantly changing? Join me, Sarah Troy, as we unravel the intricate tapestry of nurturing our children into the enriched, creative, and wonderful adults they're destined to be. With the help of passionate voices like Victoria Curry and Michael, who raise comfort dogs for those overcoming trauma, this episode delves into the transformative stories and actions that light the way for a brighter future for our youth. We're exploring and challenging the outdated patterns that have failed our children, and how every contribution to "Our Forgotten Children Series" is a step toward healing and growth. Today's conversation is more than just talk; it's about concrete actions and ongoing support. By sharing the awe-inspiring journey of Victoria, a woman who transformed her own trials into a catalyst for change, and delving into the power of furry companions in the healing process, we underscore the profound impact of love and support. Discover how purchasing the upcoming anthology not only enlightens but also gives back to organizations ardently working to improve children's lives. Your support isn't just a drop in the ocean; it's a ripple that can grow into a wave of positive transformation for our forgotten children. Support the show
Thu, April 25, 2024
Paws, Punishment, and Purpose: Victoria's Guardian Journey, Michael's Counselor Calling, and the Quest for Compassionate Discipline
Send us a text Ever find yourself in a heated debate over whether a slobbery smooch from your pup is cleaner than a peck from a wayward lover? Victoria and I, Michael, certainly did, and it’s all on air in our latest episode, where we unpack life’s oddities with humor before venturing into the heart of community advocacy. As we celebrate Victoria's triumph in becoming a guardian ad litem and my own journey to becoming an amputee counselor, we open up about our personal missions to empower the vulnerable in our society. Expect a few laughs, some furry friends' antics, and a whole lot of passion for change as we intertwine the silly with the serious. Transitioning from the lighthearted, we delve right into a critical dialogue on modern discipline tactics, reflecting on a tale of a stepdad, a baseball, and a teenager’s sharp tongue. This episode brings to the forefront the tough questions surrounding corporal punishment, both in domestic settings and educational institutions. Through anecdotes and personal insights, we explore the delicate balance between showing love and setting limits, while challenging the traditional norms that often confuse discipline with dominance. Join us as we navigate these complex waters, sharing stories that reveal how we've evolved as partners, parents, and people while scrutinizing the ethics of authority in both familial and societal contexts. Support the show
Wed, April 24, 2024
Navigating Heartache and Healing: Debbie Gale Zane's Path to Peace after Personal Loss and the Power of Enduring Connections
Send us a text Every journey through pain and loss is deeply personal, and yet there's a universal thread of hope that binds us together. Join us as Debbie Gale Zane, acclaimed author and compassionate TV host, shares her poignant path from the depths of despair to a place of healing and purpose. Our heartfelt discussion reveals the story of Debbie's son, Alex, and the indomitable love that continues to guide her mission to support parents facing the bewildering world of mental illness, addiction, and the profound sorrow of losing a child. Debbie's memoir "Finding Peace and Purpose Amidst the Tears" and her program "Finding Peace Beyond the Pain," offer a sanctuary for those in search of solace and solidarity. When the unimaginable happens, where do you turn? This episode not only dives into the shared authorship of Debbie's emotional narrative but also spotlights the vital role of support networks and individual coaching in the grieving process. Listeners will find an empathetic space as we discuss the importance of self-compassion, the courage to lean into grief, and the transformative influence of connecting with others who truly understand the wrenching pain of loss. Our candid conversation sheds light on the power of respecting each moment with our loved ones and the strength found in a community that empathizes with your journey. We close the chapter on this episode by reflecting on the unbreakable bond between Debbie and her son, Alex. The respect and love that endures beyond Alex's passing serve as a testament to the connections that transcend life and death. For anyone seeking guidance or simply a hand to hold in the dark, Debbie offers a plethora of resources—from her TV show on Bold Brave TV to her supportive Facebook group, designed to uplift and unite parents navigating these heartrending experiences. Listen in for an enriching experience that acknowledges the pain, celebrates the love, and fortifies the bonds that keep us moving forward. Support the show
Mon, April 22, 2024
Chasing Dreams Among the Stars: A Pilot's Tale of Aerial Aspirations, Lifelong Mentorship, and the Power of Resilience
Send us a text As I took my seat for the first time as a permanent co-host on Contagious Smiles Teen Talk, the excitement was palpable—not just for me, but for everyone tuning in. We soared into the fascinating life of Slice, a fighter pilot whose aerial adventures began with a childhood model jet. Our conversation navigated through his first solo flight at 16, to his crucial decision-making moments high above the clouds. Joined by the delightful Isla and Victoria, we carved out a flight path that was as informative as it was inspiring, leaving our listeners with a fresh perspective on what it means to chase a dream and catch it among the stars. Transitioning from the thrill of fighter jets to the responsibility of commercial aviation, I shared the cockpit of insight with our listeners, discussing the bumps and learnings that come with being a pilot. It's not just about the skies; it's about the journey—honoring the missteps as much as the milestones. From my own brush with a retired A-10 Warthog fighter pilot instructor to the everyday diligence required in flight training, we celebrated the mentors who guide us and the relentless pursuit of excellence, whether we're born with wings or we craft them with hard work and persistence. The episode's heartbeat was found in the personal stories of ambition and overcoming adversity. Logan Xavier Becker, our youngest co-host, shared a personal narrative as deep and vast as the skies I've flown—his battle with heart disease, dreams of major league glory, and the power of art to uplift and heal. We delved into the resilience needed to stand tall in the face of life's curveballs, and the collective strength of our community. Art, storytelling, and the spark of creativity became the wind beneath our wings, as we wrapped up another episode intended to keep the smiles spreading long after the show ends. Support the show
Mon, April 22, 2024
From Military Service to Spiritual Awakening: Carlos's Journey to Mediumship and the Messages of Hope Beyond
Send us a text When life throws curveballs, some find solace in hidden talents that shine through during the darkest times; this is the story of Carlos, a medium whose journey from military service to spiritual guidance is nothing short of miraculous. Battling with debilitating chronic headaches, Carlos faced years of undiagnosed pain until an unconventional doctor opened a door to a world beyond his understanding. As you listen, you'll be moved by his resilience and the hope that carried him through to his profound awakening as a medium. The path to mastering one's innate abilities can be as arduous as it is enlightening. Carlos's transition from skepticism to a trusted spiritual medium is a testament to the human spirit's capacity for change. Discover how he learned to tap into the high vibrational energy of the spirit world, and consider for a moment the possibility that we all might possess the potential to connect with energies beyond our perception. It's a compelling exploration of self-discovery and the laying bare of a universal truth: we may all be antennas for the unseen. Our conversations with Carlos are peppered with touching anecdotes and stirring validations from the spirit realm. Each message from beyond is a delicate thread weaving together the tapestry of life, love, and legacy. From lighthearted encounters with pop culture icons to profound moments of emotional healing, this episode offers a unique perspective on how mediums serve as bridges between worlds. Join us, and you might just find a reflection of your own experiences in the stories of hope and connection that Carlos brings to light. Support the show
Mon, April 22, 2024
Modesty in the Spotlight: Victoria's Viral Stand, Parenting Paradigms, and the Fabric of Family Connections
Send us a text When my wife, Victoria, took a stand on modesty, little did we know it would spark such a fiery debate online. It's a tale I unfold with passion, defending her views and highlighting the crucial topic of self-worth, particularly through the lens of our clothing choices. We wade through the murky waters of attire and perception, challenging you to think about whether you're commanding respect or courting attention. Emphasizing the value of inner beauty, this episode is a call to action for the youth to embrace their true selves, much like we cherish and protect our most precious gadgets. As we navigate the ever-changing currents of modern parenting, we reflect on the recent unsettling events outside a courthouse and our longing for the serenity of a family-centered life. There's no shying away from the tough discussions, as we tackle the contentious issues of open marriages and infidelity, sharing our own evolution and commitment. But fear not, it's not all serious business; the episode takes a lighter turn with some good-humored father-daughter banter, leading up to a birthday roast that promises to leave us all in stitches. Join us for this heartfelt mix of laughter, candid conversation, and a reaffirmation of the ties that bind us. Support the show
Mon, April 22, 2024
Balancing Act: Navigating Modesty, Transformation, and Family Ties in a Digital World
Send us a text When Victoria and I faced criticism for our perspective on modesty, we knew it was time to set the record straight. Our latest episode takes an intimate look into the delicate balance between self-expression and self-respect in the way we dress, highlighting the importance of instilling these values in our children. We draw parallels to the care we take in protecting our prized possessions and discuss how that same level of attention should be given to our personal image. As parents, we share a candid moment from our family life, reflecting on our daughter's clothing choices and the broader implications of seeking respect through one's attire. Navigating the murky waters of contemporary values, especially in the digital age, poses unique challenges. This episode doesn't shy away from the tough conversations as we explore the societal shifts in relationships, fidelity, and the cultural acceptance of open relationships. We get personal, sharing a journey from my 'player' days to becoming a committed family man, probing what catalyzes such a dramatic transformation. And there's a lighter side to this episode, too—we're planning a birthday roast for 'dad,' and you won't want to miss the playful family dynamics or the affectionate teasing that's in store. Join us in this heartfelt exploration of personal growth, family values, and the laughter that binds us together. Support the show
Wed, April 17, 2024
Unveiling Courage: The Unspoken Truths of Domestic Abuse Survival, Reconstructive Journeys, and the Quest for New Beginnings
Send us a text As Victoria and I sat down for this episode, the weight of the stories we're about to share is palpable. We're peeling back the curtain on the visceral struggle of domestic abuse survivors, with Victoria opening up about her own catharsis in penning "Who Kicked First: A Memoir." Our hearts are heavy as we discuss the balance between exposing the raw truths within its pages and shielding our daughter from its darkest corners. The memoir's ripple effect on readers, from shock to solace, embodies the power of shared experiences and the solace found in knowing one is not alone. Turning the spotlight on the physical remnants of abuse, we hear a survivor's account of reconstructive surgery and hearing loss, a somber reminder of the long road to healing. The chapter weaves through the complex web of abusive relationships, self-worth, and the indomitable spirit required to sever the chains of violence. It's a narrative of personal rebellion and the strategic maneuvers necessary to break free. As we recount anecdotes of resistance and triumph, we hope to embolden others with the courage to rewrite their stories. Ending on a note of resurgence, we muse over who could capture our essence on the silver screen and reflect on the authenticity that fueled our social media success. We update listeners on Faith's recovery and her budding endeavor to co-host a summer camp with the prodigious Logan. Our final thoughts center on the criticality of health, particularly for men, promising to continue bringing expert voices into the fold. Join us for an episode that's not only a testament to survival but a beacon of hope and a call to action. Support the show
Wed, April 10, 2024
A Beacon of Hope Faith's Resilient Spirit and Lessons for Overcoming Life's Hurdles
Send us a text Facing down adversity with a smile, Faith's story isn't just remarkable, it's a masterclass in positivity. Imagine staring into the face of daunting surgeries and hospital stays, yet emerging not only unscathed but with a shining spirit that becomes an emblem of hope. As our guest on the show, Faith shares the tapestry of her trials and triumphs, weaving a narrative that will undoubtedly embolden and inspire. Her ethos, a blend of unwavering determination and an infectious zest for life, permeates through her conversation with us, leaving an indelible mark on anyone lucky enough to listen. This episode isn't just a peek into Faith's recovery journey; it's a treasure trove of life lessons on maintaining joy in the bleakest of times. Her story unravels how the simplest acts—breathing exercises, the love for a pet, or the support of family—become her arsenal against life's curveballs. As you tune in, be prepared to encounter a soulful discussion that speaks to the heart of resilience. Faith's gifts, particularly her newfound talent and perspective, shine as beacons for anyone navigating their own challenges. Join us in celebrating her courage, learning from her wisdom, and perhaps even adopting a few of her strategies into your own life's blueprint for happiness. Support the show
Mon, April 08, 2024
TRIGGER WARNING: Overcoming the Shadows: Victoria Cuore's Bravery in "Who Kicked First," the Plight of Surviving Domestic Violence, and the Call to Transform Justice
Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING: When Victoria Curie decided to lay her soul bare in "Who Kicked First," she didn't just write a memoir; she penned a lifeline for anyone who's felt the cold touch of domestic violence. As hosts of this episode, we sit with Victoria, absorbing the weight of her words as she entrusts me, Michael, to voice her experiences. The chilling tales of survival and resilience against an abusive partner are not just stories—they're battle cries, reaching out to listeners with a message that life's brutal chapters can lead to growth and healing. Diving into the realities of domestic abuse, we navigate the painful complexities of seeking justice and the systemic inadequacies that leave many victims feeling voiceless. Victoria's account is a sobering portrait of her attempts to protect her pet, her unborn child, and herself from an abuser's grip while grappling with a legal system that too often turns a blind eye. This episode offers more than just a conversation; it's a call for change, challenging every listener to recognize the emotional toll these battles take and the urgency for a societal shift in addressing this pervasive crisis. As we emerge from the darkness of these experiences, there's also light to be found in Victoria's remarkable achievements and her commitment to advocate for change. We celebrate her literary contributions and her forthcoming courses aimed at tackling domestic violence head-on. This isn't just an episode of a podcast; it's a moment of reflection, education, and advocacy, woven together with hope and the undying human spirit. Join us as we stand alongside Victoria, honoring her journey and amplifying her voice to inspire action and support for those who have walked a similar path. Support the show
Thu, April 04, 2024
Strength in Vulnerability Faith's Raw Interview From her ICU bed with her hero, Blue Bloods, bigail Hawk
Send us a text As the soft hum of medical equipment fills the room, there's a palpable sense of both fragility and resilience. Faith lies in her ICU bed, her spirit unyielding despite the toll her body has endured. She refused to reschedule her long-awaited interview, not even after undergoing a grueling fourteen-hour surgery followed by a harrowing code blue the very next day, marking her 53rd surgery. In this poignant moment, Faith's unwavering determination shines through, a testament to her unbreakable spirit. With each breath, she clings to the promise of tomorrow, finding solace in the strength of the characters portrayed by her hero, Abigail Hawk, known for her role as Detective Abigail Baker on Blue Bloods. As the conversation unfolds, listeners are drawn into Faith's world, feeling both heartache for the trials she faces and admiration for her unwavering resolve. In this podcast, amidst the beeping monitors and sterile surroundings, Faith's journey becomes a beacon of hope, reminding us all of the extraordinary strength found within the human spirit. Abigail shares captivating stories from the set, offering insights into her co-stars, including Tom Selleck, Gregory Jabara, and Robert Clohessy. As they delve into the intricate dynamics of the show, they explore the off-camera camaraderie and even playfully speculate about the characters' relationships. The conversation takes a poignant turn when Faith expresses how Abigail's portrayal of Detective Baker has been a source of strength during her own challenges, highlighting the profound impact of storytelling and the bonds formed through shared experiences. In a bittersweet moment tinged with laughter and nostalgia, they prepare to bid farewell to the beloved series, acknowledging the lasting legacy it continues to build in the hearts of its devoted fans as its end draws near. Support the show
Wed, April 03, 2024
Embracing the Storm: Faith's Valiant Fight for Health, Family Unity in Adversity, and the Saving Grace of Humor
Send us a text Our hearts have been on a tumultuous journey, and we're finally ready to share the saga of our daughter Faith's harrowing medical battle. Picture the gripping emotions of a family huddled together, clinging to hope through a 14-hour surgery, and the aftermath that tested our resilience like never before. We lay bare the challenges, from the complexities of managing a child's pain in the hospital to the sacrifices made, including pausing our cherished family business. This episode isn't just our story—it's a testament to the strength woven into the fabric of families everywhere and a thank you to the medical angels who became our lifeline. As we peel back the layers of our lived experience, you'll witness firsthand the sheer determination of our brave daughter, Faith. Despite the tubes and the beeps of ICU machines, she managed to interview her favorite actress, Abigail Hawk, in a moment that crystalized her fighting spirit. Parenthood often requires shifting gears, and we explore how our family's trajectory has been altered, driving home the reality that the will to thrive can outshine the darkest of times. It's a journey interspersed with laughter and deep reflection on the bonds that hold us together when the world seems to be falling apart. Wrapping up with a festive touch, we send out a holiday message, sprinkled with gratitude for the unwavering support of our listeners. We ponder the subtle yet profound ways personal tribulations can ripple through our professional and social spheres and how humor has been our unexpected companion through the tears. This is more than just an episode; it's an invitation to join us in a collective embrace of life's fragility and the beauty found in the simple acts of love that we too often take for granted. So, tune in and share in the laughter, tears, and the power of human connection that this chapter of our lives has underscored. Support the show
Wed, March 20, 2024
Heartstrings and Hope: Faith's 51st Surgery, the Courage to Downsize, and the Laughter That Keeps Us Whole
Send us a text As our hearts spill over with the raw emotions of anticipation and longing, we gather around the mic, holding close the story of our daughter Faith's arduous medical odyssey. Navigating her 51st surgery, we're candid about the toll it's taken on us all, while still finding solace in the support of her incredible medical team and the strength of our family bond. Your prayers and thoughts mean the world to us, and as we share this chapter of our lives, we invite you to draw near and become part of our extended family through the power of empathy and connection. Transitioning from the hospital corridors to the familiar trails of our kennel, the conversation shifts to the heartache and resilience found in the difficult decision to scale down operations. As we reflect on Faith's cherished interactions with the dogs and the complexities of parenting under such extraordinary circumstances, our story becomes a mosaic of loss, love, and the kind of bravery that only a shared struggle can reveal. We open the floor to you, our listeners, to intertwine your stories with ours, celebrating the collective spirit that uplifts us all in the face of adversity. Ending on a lighter note, we navigate the playful chaos of our household's hierarchy, teasing out the humor in our daily dance of family roles and responsibilities. With each quip and jest about who holds the title of CEO at home, we weave a tapestry of laughter that holds us together amidst the toughest of times. There's a warmth in the banter, a reminder that life, even when it throws curveballs, is a shared journey best walked with humor and heart. Support the show
Sun, March 17, 2024
Kitchen Chronicles: Uniting Generations Through Cooking, Gaming, and Growing Up
Send us a text Join the kitchen party! Special guest Troy and his dad Terrance, with a dash of nostalgia and a pinch of wisdom, share his earliest culinary adventures that trace back to his father's kitchen. We start by stirring up childhood memories, from Logan's unique spicy instant ramen creation to Troy's ambitious attempts at baking a Neapolitan cake. Along the way, we serve up laughs in a 'hot seat' segment that sees Troy flipping the script on his dad, extracting savory stories from his time as a Navy chef to his current chapter as a culinary arts mentor. As the aroma of reminiscence fills the air, we shift gears and chat about the video games that pepper our downtime. Halo and Mario Kart aren't just games for us—they're a slice of escapism. We reveal close shaves from our reckless teenage years, like the BB gun incident that thankfully never escalated, and share how such experiences seasoned our personal growth. Troy tickles the ivories with his piano skills, hitting all the right notes with the Mario theme, while we acknowledge the importance of embracing our mistakes in the kitchen and in life. The final course of our conversation uncovers the pranks and pivotal moments that shaped our journey to adulthood. Troy opens up about sneaking out and the impactful decision to join the military at 17, highlighting the seasoning these experiences added to his life's recipe. We look ahead, too, teasing the potential of new cookbooks and the expansion of our culinary explorations. Listen in for a heartwarming slice of family connection, shared passions for drawing and Roblox gaming, and a reminder that life, like our favorite recipes, is best enjoyed with a generous helping of laughter and love. Instagram: @KookinKidTroy TikTok: @KookinKidTroy YouTube: Kookin with Kid Troy Amazon: Gourmet Meals with Grade School Skills by Kid Troy Amazon: Oh Taste & See; A Culinary Memoir by Chef TD Robinson Support the show
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